Goes Without Saying - DRINK WITH US: a bonanza extravaganza #2

Episode Date: November 9, 2023

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Acast helps creators launch, grow and monetize their podcasts everywhere. Acast.com And then we start again here. Welcome back to the episode where we're done. We're having so much fun. That's if we go on for two hours, we've done that just in case. Oh, hang on sorry going back yeah this is not going to make much sense if we do split the episode no but you you have to listen to part one part two it's like ridiculous like tiny quite meaningless question and it's like but you have to listen to two parts to figure out the answer to it yeah you need to understand the context i feel so drunk yeah no i don't know about you i'm really drunk god oops but we haven't done

this in ages no exactly cheers cheers cheers cheers can't wait for marionette first sight tonight congratulations i do congrats how many three oh god i was just gonna do one what i don't like is when it starts to taste like nail polish remover oh that's really bad okay that's really not um what was i gonna say i don't know you said oh my sorry my boyfriend's ringing me one sec hello hey i'm just recording your friend and your boyfriend oh it's jack i can hear his voice happy Halloween happy Halloween bye what would you like to learn more about Peter Meadows and she said would you like to learn more about Peter Meadows okay love you bye bye really so weird he said that the other day as well when i said drop it i don't want to hear that name because the other day when he brought you in that baguette a delicious baguette

he said um you're a weirdo with respect he said you're a weirdo and he said respectfully and i put my hands up to be the weird i don't mean to the lady i don't mean to bring you into my dreams about peter to be honest and it's weird that i'm having them going back what was it gonna i don't know um are there episodes you wish hadn't gone out i don't wish it hadn't gone out yeah why though because i hear you and i feel you but but for what i don't wish it didn't go out but i think i have a an awareness god i feel actually drunk keep going okay do it um i have an awareness of shit yeah it feels like mum's gone out on the night she's been giggly this is killing me because it's such a fringe don't even talk to me about hair

right now I've got spray painted brown hair in weird little plasters I'm loving it but you know it's all up here also my dog is like kicking off yeah go on um that oh here also my dog is like kicking off yeah go on um

that oh the crowd goes wild goes wild how are you don't you just want to eat him up yeah well i get scared with ozzy because he's obviously such a biter he's a nipper that's his whole personality yeah he bites yeah um and he's a tiny little rat thing it would never hurt because he gums you almost he gums but people get people are so confident i think what the issue for me personally is people literally multiple times in the past have come up to me and ozzy on the street and picked him up just out of nowhere insane not asked not said anything they scoop him up and just hold him and

i'm like you please god he's going to steal him second of all yeah luckily he hasn't but it's like maybe don't pick up a stranger's wild beast because that's saying i'm almost thinking this is a bit of a study on young women getting drunk oh study this and you they'll be studying this long after our time so when we've been and gone they'll be studying this don't you start grizzling at me boy don't you grizzle at me i'm gonna have to pick i was gonna say something interesting but i can't remember what yeah about the episodes but give me a minute no it wasn't about the episodes it's about my dog

okay excuse me ozzy let me check my lipstick again it's my seat my seat sit why is my lipstick holding up so well i might need to reapply though i know this isn't funny but it's really wait let me just let me just reapply quickly let me just go get it get it where have you left it holy hell oh how's everyone enjoying this episode? I've lost my lipstick. This is like the cheap one. My lipstick is a really cute one that's called Mrs. Mia Wallace. No! And this is a cheap fucking rental one. It's all I can find. Everyone's Mac is like not much more expensive, but you know, I more like the name.

It's iconic. I remember you talking about it multiple times. You don't shop about it. I've had it for like 10 years. Yeah, I do too. All had it for like 10 years. Yeah, I think you should. All good MAC products last 20 years. Mrs. Mia Wallace. Is that you kidding me?

Yeah, it's iconic. If I start doing makeup like this every day, what do you reckon? I would be a fan. You'd have one fan. Except for you will always be famous. Thanks so much. I don't know what that means,

but thank you so much. You know the little thing. You'll always be famous. I've got no idea what what that means but thank you so much you know the little thing you'll always be famous i've got no idea what that is okay worst period story lol someone said bleeding all over my white toga that i was wearing on stage in a pantomime oh god that's a great story i've never heard that doing a pantomime oh jesus yeah i heard i'm falling over i'm falling over when i'll sit whilst i'm sitting on a chair how is that possible oh we didn't do something that i really wanted to do what did we not do we wanted to be dan and phil why can't we still do that and play a scary game yeah let's do that next week in november november naughty november scary game where we pretend to be down in the field and play a game

i'm this is the last bit i'm having just because i want to have a nice civilized dinner so i want to watch married at first sight and be cognitive whilst i judge these people two really what are you having for dinner i don't know what are you having um i think it's the third one that gets me do you want to see a picture of some pancakes i made the other day yeah they're really good here i think hell yeah um quick question should we or should we not oh oh my god perfect ensemble of fruit with like flaked almonds on. So it's raspberry, strawberries, banana, maple syrup, loads of pancakes with a wet, do you know what's in the middle of them? A square of chocolate, dark chocolate between each pancake so it's melted.

Very good. With flaked almonds. Oh my goodness. I love pancakes. If you're listening to this, go to our Instagram, you'll see the pancakes. Okay. Eventually hold up that promise um no as in um this video i'm not expecting you to post a photo of course of course of them that's not food worthy saying well just on the story i thought okay you better remember that you're putting that on the story i'm not putting that on the story just watch this whole video who needs a wee i do do you is this listenable or no uh i fucking hope so because i can't do

another one no not do another one but just in life i really someone actually said most embarrassing thing you've pretended to like for a guy my dog is growling but i'm just going on what's the most interesting that's really good question fuck i remember distinctly and this actually wasn't me it was one of my closest friends but i would have been doing the same thing but it's just i remember the example from her there was i need to do something with this oh god i'm gonna pick him up i'm gonna going to pick him up. Okay. What was it? I do really love him so much. But he's so cute.

Okay, so. What was I saying? Ah, yes. Back in the day. Most embarrassing thing, a guy. Something about a guy. Yeah, go on. Yeah.

Most embarrassing thing you've, like, pretended to like for a guy. Oh, yeah, yeah. And I know mine. Back in the day, I remember me and my friend, and I remember, this is her example, so I'm literally, like, subbing myself out. I'm throwing her under the bus just to answer it. Yeah. back in the day i remember me and my friend and i remember this is her example so i'm literally like subbing myself out i'm throwing her under the bus just to answer it yeah but i know i did the same thing i i often think about it because i just think it's such a good example of like i would hope this doesn't happen i'm sure it doesn't happen in the same way now just because i think

the culture has changed but back in the day the way that we used to ozzy's ball of death is yawning he's like snooze he's like patriarchy snooze um back in the day this was the way it was done you would identify the music that the boy liked and then you would walk next to them in school, playing out loud, as loud as possible, through your headphones, the same music that he liked. Women are clever. They're clever. They're clever. They're clever.

Fuck. We're geniuses. That's why I told you I'm a mastermind. I'm going to say, something about a mastermind. That song. I'm a mastermind. Genius. I saw you.

I thought, look, you're going to be mine. Now I'm a mastermind. You're a mastermind women are mastermind so what you play the song you play the song you like i mean this is i'm really making myself old here but you might put it as your msn status or you would walk through school playing it through your headphones like yeah i like this kind of music wait you like this kind of music you're not like other girls i guess i guess we're soulmates i guess we have the same taste in music that's so oh my god your other

girl's like boring shit like taylor swift and you like oh my god i can't believe we're like the same music that is so fucking cool of you wait you know this song i know this song never heard this song before in my life and it's shit and it's shit that's the other thing that is it's scary it's like misogynist it's like fuck you bitch fuck you fucking ugly bitch literally i love that song what was your answer yeah i love that song it's my favorite song i always play at school i'm 15 years old you're ugly fucking bitch i sexually assaulted that bitch and if that fucking bitch and i'm playing it she has to talk to me this song i love how do you know this i love that song oh my god i love

that song so much wait what's yours what's your thing my embarrassing thing this actually so embarrassing i was in bed with a guy so it was like the sort of okay the like evening of a night out with the with a guy who's the guy i wonder i can't give you any hints right now does it begin with a j no i don't know j oh no who the fuck is it then begins with a g can i know begins with a g g i always thought that name the m of the j wait yeah g i know i know the letter g no one else can read yeah oh yeah stop stop i get it i get it i get it you made me blur this i put like a little yes i'm hearing you of those letters i met him i met him

it's kind of like the evening of a night out with the guy went to his house for the first time so basically i've been on a date with this guy i think i went back to his house like i was dating this guy but it was like you were it was kind of fifth date six she's cool she's casual she's you know whatever but she's in love she's also about 21 at this point yeah she's living her life young young girl he has dark curly hair who you know he has dark curly hair oh god and i just 21 year old me just could not cope and i went back to his house and in his room instead of a lampshade so there's like the light hanging down from the ceiling there's like the light bulb exposed and instead of a lampshade on it he'd put an aldi shopping bag and i said i love aldi i said

that's really cool no no no when you're pretending that that is cool you know that you're not what color was it making the room blue kind of like yellowy blue so it was like a shopping bag of like a quite cheap supermarket not that it would have made it better if it was fucking like waitrose shopping bag but it was like i mean no i'm glad i would rather a million times oh no i would i'm going to our but it's like it's like a student oh i don't know it's like a it's like a known as like a cheap supermarket which again is better than it being an expensive supermarket totally but it's like this this like sort of plastic shopping bag over your light bulb definitely a fire hazard and me being like that's really cool i love that that's cool it's not cool

it's really really i've been thinking this is why i've been thinking about this recently like the links we would go to of you know making sure you're seen listening to the same music as you know that they like my dog is literally biting me so much so oh god my literally my old boobs out sit down ozzy be chilled rsgca you've got to go around he's a health risk i've got them and the fucking tv license people it's not good news this is what makes me laugh though. Sorry. This is why I've been thinking about listening to music that they like and it's all planned out and blah, blah, blah.

I would love to know everyone else's responses to that because I feel like looking back now, I'm like, that was such a thing that we did like back then. And it almost doesn't feel like that would fit in our lives now. I would like to think but i'm sure it does or like equivalent things still happen in other people's lives and i would love to know what everyone else has done to be liked by somebody oh my god i'm sure it's so much it's actually insane when you think about like when you were saying like girls are so smart i was kind of thinking like i guess girls well i mean i guess girls are smart but like for real i really

if i believe anything i believe women are smart yeah i do wonder if the boys in that kind of sample group back then were doing equivalent things to win over girls they weren't they just weren't i can't think of a way in which to do yeah i don't know i also think like men's interests even like down to their music taste for example is celebrated and i think at least in like our era of like being super young like early teens era celebrating the music that you were listening to as a young woman i feel like wasn't a thing as much absolutely not unless it was like alternative i think unless it was yeah unless it was like you're making a statement yeah exactly i don't know it's an interesting one it's a fucked one it's actually a fucked one properly drunk same um when's the last time you cried oh i cried probably yesterday did you what was it about well i've just i've come on my period so i'm assuming i've cried within the past like few

days yeah definitely if you've come on that is a tumultuous time and i need to fill everyone in on like the recommendations that i got about pmdd 100 so fucking like i feel like so many people will find that so useful i hope everyone's okay yeah yeah that's just my biggest thing with the podcast is like it's actually really frustrating not being able to sit everyone down and just be like we do appreciate you i hope you know yeah i hope you do know i really i think people do know it would be hard not to know at this point we say it in every we say too much maybe how appreciative we are no i just think we we really do appreciate it and we also really do it oh it just means so much to us and i feel like we say it so much i feel like we say it's so much boring okay good good i want you to be bored i want people to at

least know that we're grateful yeah harry don't be bored har i want you to be bored i want to be bored at least know that we're grateful yeah harry don't be bored harry please don't be bored with us come on um this is emotions class yeah i'm sure i cried recently yeah what did you cry just periodness probably but there's not one crying i think i've been crying a bit over just like the age old stuff. Like sometimes I just get a bit like, this is sad. Like life is good, but that little bit is sad, right? You feel? Life is sad, I agree.

You're picking up what I'm putting down. I'm picking it up, right. Yeah. I'm picking it up. You're getting good. It's sad. The whole thing's sad. Yeah.

I don't know when the last time I cried was. How often would you say you cry um i go through big waves with it like it wouldn't be unlike me to cry every day for a week a while and then it wouldn't also it would also be kind of like me to not cry for three weeks a month but i think if i haven't cried for a month fucking hell what's happened you're suppressing suppressing suppressing like that's not good if i haven't cried for a month but i think if i haven't cried for a month fucking hell what's happened you're suppressing suppressing suppressing like that's not good if i haven't cried for a month i don't think i i definitely feel like since i've like really i've taken the antidepressants to a new level and i feel like since then i'm thinking i don't cry as easy you know what actually made me think that the era's tour film yeah but you were next to a weirdo in that so like it was kind of

giving you a weird representation of like no one else was crying i don't think but i would have been crying because i cry at silly little adverts and stuff so i just almost think that antidepressants have really made me like so much more stable like it would take a lot to push me down or bring me up sort of thing like i'm just constantly which is exactly what they're supposed to do and oh it's amazing it's exactly they're working miracles yeah truly miracles truly yeah no what would you say you cry the most about in life or is that too much do you know what i've realized i cry about for example i'm in therapy at the moment and the things that make me cry are the things that suggest like freedom to me which isn't expected like i don't necessarily cry at sad things i cry

at the potential of feeling good yeah like almost a relief yeah yeah it is completely a relief you're right like it really shocks me like i cry it very like at the like how do i even put this the potential of like so how would your life look if you didn't have these issues and i cry that almost like if i did like oh wait that is reachable that's what makes me cry or like um when it's ever it's like feel inside your body like what emotions are you feeling that's what makes me cry like the kind of the connection that i feel when basically i cry happy things yeah and kind of also like the uh the moment of someone putting into perspective what it is you're going through yeah which is almost i feel like i feel like we go through a lot of our lives taking

for granted what it is we're going through because we're just used to it and it's just it becomes the mundane and it's just the part and parcel of like this experience that we're living but it's like when you sit back and maybe have a moment of clarity of like oh that's actually quite difficult to deal with and maybe i am finding it difficult to deal with that can almost be quite overwhelming even though it's something you deal with every day it's something often i feel like we push to the back of our mind so then i feel like when you actually confront it it's really confronting yeah it's so fucked cheers to that cheers to that finishing just one more for the one million we need to get more that to hit four million it's all 800 000 in there oh goodness i feel terrible

yeah i don't feel nice i'm gonna have a shower straight away what about you that's a nice idea yeah that's are you gonna sit in your costume for a while no of course not are you gonna have a shower like what's happening yeah i'll have a shower are you gonna have a shower um i'm gonna have a shower straight away i think just almost should we do one more question to round us yeah let's do it can you do anything new i don't think there is i really need a way aussie boy always knew how to push my buttons he gave me everything and nothing this map my love makes you stand back wasted i wish you would i wish you would i i i i wish i wish i hey hey good week that was that was quite a um drunk in the bathroom moment quite a test agreed i almost

went back into the real world and i was like oh god like i'm in my house the journey from here to like four meters across across the the journey from the journey from the journey quads the journey from here to like four meters across the place to get to the toilet was was a challenge intense yeah it was a moment for me that was a pinnacle it was more the mirror moment that was a moment for me of washing my hands you're a little bit hazy right now yeah oh no i'm fully i'm all the way out the door. Yeah. All the way out the door. Wendy's Small Frosty is the ultimate summer refreshment and not because it's cool and creamy and made with fresh Canadian dairy. It's also refreshingly cheap. Just ninety nine cents until July 14th.

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um i don't know what the last half an hour of this has been i really dread to think what this has been i almost in my mind it's been good but it's almost like oh with different ears am i going to be like with sober ears basically am i gonna be like hey that wasn't great no i mean i've had fun i've had a great time i've had a blast actually i'm always like is this a bit dangerous should we do it every day i was thinking that kind of during like hmm maybe this could be a thing we do maybe this is a fun hobby who needs um going out i could just stay in i could just do this all day yeah um okay really fun okay so do we go to the now we're just doing the outro it's like why couldn't we i guess why couldn't we just do it before i don't know or should we stay uh it's quite long now we're

splitting it in two aren't we are we splitting it in two i think we should okay well let's do a tiny bit more because otherwise the second episode is yeah go on all right go on then the only thing i will say is my dog is like he's doing that kind of playful thing where he goes like yeah he wants to be like he wants to be cuddled in a specific way so there might be some background noise but this dog is my priority in life oh i'm sorry 100 percent um would you rather be i think i know the answer to this would you rather be queen of genovia or regional manager of dundamiflin queen of genovia 100 if you said manager regional manager of dundamiflin i would be so shocked so what i'm the replacement of dundamiflin of michael scott i'm managing these people okay well part two maybe wasn't very good i don't know what's going to be in part two

i'm sorry guys if you clicked on part two was a letdown we can't deny but maybe it's part two wasn't very good was it part one was a hit part two part one i had a really good time and i was feeling a good level of consciousness exactly like like mockingjay part two you know what it's exactly like high school musical now that's a controversial take that's just wrong high school musical i didn't like it because i'm like get back to school are you saying high school musical two isn't good it's not that it's not good but it's just like i wouldn't mind going back to school but they're on summer vacation i know i just it never hit right for me i think it was the haircut from gabriella which brings going back to school. But they're on summer vacation. I know, I just, it never hit right for me. I think it was the haircut from Gabriella, which brings us back to the beginning.

But let's just, honestly, I can't even bother to explain. Cheers to that. Who are you? Yay, short hair hater, fucking tangled. I love short hair in IRL. Oh boy, do I. I'm guzzling. Can we just finish our drinks?

I can't even see you anymore. I'm justzzling. Can we just finish our drinks? I can't even see you anymore. I'm just talking to your voice. Should I ring you back? Why don't you ring me back? Okay I'll ring you back. I'll ring you back. Has Liam stopped? Okay right. Okay I'm recording again. I just hung up. Yeah I just hung up for you for some reason. I can't see you paused. I don't know why I did that.

What the hell? It says paused for me. For you. Wait let me just stop recording and then it just says me baby that's the fun of me i hate that song um you're the only one of you i hate it baby that's the funny you and i promise that nobody's gonna love you like me hey kids that sounds good i hate that man's voice and i hate the costumes and that song with the palette of that song that the color palette that music video makes me feel

sick i love in mr it makes me feel sick i've got a weird thing about shirts and it's slow and she's like what were we saying we were saying we're ending this and we were like have you enjoyed we were saying thanks so much for listening this is a bad episode this is gonna be a nightmare now it's been it's an hour and 16 minutes for me now which is uh boys like girls boys like a nightmare um this could be funny worst celebrity encounter you go got guan i've heard this tell me tell me more went to his book signing in like when i was like seven or year eight like me and all my friends went let me see if i can find a photo that would be amazing if you could find a photo i think my friend might have sent me it um but i went and you know when it's like god i thought i had such a good outfit on i just thought god you've got the look right now you've got to impress got kwan and now

when you look back on it it's like why didn't you wash your hair why didn't you wash your hair i you greasy greasy girl like that couldn't be more of a stressful environment getting ready to see got kwan it's like he's judging you and it's not only is you know he's human and he's judging you but it's also his job to judge you he's a fashionista it's a fashion icon yeah and he'd written a book and that's what we're going to the book signing of and it was like in oxford and it was like we're queuing we're queuing to see gokwan so weird that we even did that and honestly the photo is like that was your best outfit at the time and like you should have washed your hair to be honest i met nick jonas i mean that's insane yeah and i and it was so amazing diabetes king he's an icon diabetes king yeah a little bit

longer that's i don't know what that is my anthem it's his diabetes anthem but good for him i met him because me and my friend waited backstage outside of the jonas brothers concert worse outside of les mis les mis yeah when he was in les mis i think i think this is taking me way back guys it's taking me back a long old time but we waited there and there were girls smacking me over the head with cds jonas brothers cds it was an aggressive testing moment and he shook my hand he gave it a little second guess a little smooch on my hand did he he did indeed yep nick jonas nick j somebody say rare dress nick yep yeah yeah you're kidding me oh i'm not but that's not my worst celeb encounter i don't know what my worst no i mean i know from sephine wing

we've had some funny ones have we we had the funny one with paddy mckinnon oh yeah that wasn't an encounter though he didn't say it wasn't an encounter he just looked great he looked so well he looked so well so well we saw a lot of celebrities that day it was like a meeting and we just saw like quite a lot of celebrities that day it was like a meeting and we just saw like quite a lot of celebrities we thought oh my god we made it sorry that's another crystal going flying i think let's go now yeah this is like this is enough this is the drugs this is the drugs garbage if you've stayed for this thank you so much i've enjoyed thank you so much last second this has been so fun and um we should keep the drunk episodes

going i think in a healthy way i have liked dressing up quite a lot well look good news for you we're going to address ups again soon cheers oh yeah we're doing um finish let's finish what we've got we like to drink with stephanie and wayne yeah go on just last bit may as well what you can do pour that back in the bottle what did you say you're having for dinner i can't remember oh i didn't answer but i don't know what are you having what are you having i don't know you're having noodles well did i say noodles yeah because i am having noodles that's funny that an hour ago myself knew that i was having noodles because i am gonna have noodles i forgot that i told you i didn't even know that I'd made that decision but yeah

I was just thinking I might have noodles it's just like the first time noodles is what I might have cheers also right now my siblings are at the sauna so I've got free raid of the cupboards cheers two

go on we can do it do we have to finish it all I think so look there's only a little bit there's quite a lot left for me yeah you can do it. Do we have to finish it all? I think so. Look, there's only a little bit. There's quite a lot left for me. Yeah, you can do it. In the goblet of fire. Three.

Did you put your name in the goblet of fire? Harry Potter? Did you put your name in the goblet of fire? Harry Potter? Did you put your name in the goblet of fire? And back the fuck up, old man. It wasn't me. It was probably fucking car

car off looking like a dodgy freak oh i've got my money mouse in front of my face right shall we go yeah what a bonanza that's been i mean i feel i've been on another plane of existence i think i've drunk half a bottle of wine i daren't i don't know if that's a lot or a little for someone but that's a lot for me shall we yes we shall my airport's a guide so let's definitely go all right see you around if you've listened to this or watched this thank you so much we love you we love you we love you i got a blank space baby i'll write your name are you usually after um usually after every episode we give ourselves a round of applause Are you coming to the tree? Usually after every episode we give ourselves a round of applause. We do. Thank you so much.

Well done. Congrats. That's a little private, intimate moment. We're giving that to you now. Yeah, go on. You guys can get the round of applause as well. It's a bit weird that we do that actually. Yeah, we do.

We give ourselves a round of applause. We can't help ourselves. It's just the natural thing to do. I just think this girl needs a round of applause. It's just like, what a performance of your career. Performance of a lifetime. She left it all out there on the stage you left it all on the stage right let's go thanks yeah thank you so much this is the this is the culmination of podtober oh thanks for listening to all of these weird episodes especially this really weird long one yeah this has been really

fun i've loved it i'm thinking same time again next week yeah or is that too much i don't want to like i've got to try and wash this brown out of my hair it looks really good it literally i'm debating going brown again i love it so much but so iconic i just think don't let go of the blonde too soon that's all i'll say this brown though it's really like god it just makes it just shows me it's like this is what you're supposed to be brown well i think brown is always there no it is it's always under the surface but it's like you know what it is my favorite look for me brown well that says something i love the blonde as well but you know who knows what i'm gonna do all right let's go let's go let's go yeah who knows what she's up to okay she's got something up her sleeve see you later

see you later guys bye assume the worst love you so much bye