Good Hang with Amy Poehler - Hayley Williams
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Hello, everyone, and welcome to another episode of Good Hang.
This is such a good one.
You know, this is a guest who I wanted on since I started this podcast, and I am such a fan.
It is Haley Williams, a beautiful artist, an incredible singer, songwriter.
You might know her from the band Paramour, but she's out with her third solo album, Ego Death at the Bachelorette Party.
And she's just so special, and we had such a good time.
And we're going to talk about a lot of stuff today.
We're going to talk about working with David Byrne.
We're going to talk about, you know, Wayne's World and how important of a movie it is.
We're going to talk about being short, pros and cons.
And we're going to warm up and warm down because that's what a person does when they take care of their voice.
But most importantly, we're going to start this podcast like we always do.
going to talk to someone who knows Haley Williams and knows her well. And today we have
Doug Peck. Now, Doug Peck is a musical director, a teacher, voice teacher, if you will. He's also
a trained musician and pianist, and he works with Haley to get her voice just right. And I know him
in a very special way, too. So let's find out what that is. And let's get Doug on the line. Hi, Doug.
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Oh, what do you say?
All I ever wanted was a really good hey.
Hi, friend.
Hi, my queen.
It's so good to see you.
Oh, my gosh.
I'm so excited to talk to you.
Thank you so much for doing this.
I mean, Doug, we could do it an entire episode on your life, your talent.
How did we meet?
We met through our buddies, Catherine Hahn and Rashida Jones.
Both of their episodes were so good.
Where two years ago at the Christmas season,
we thought it would be fun to do some Christmas music together at Rashida's house.
And you walked in.
And you're like, hi.
And we instantly fell into a beautiful rapport.
You so beautifully sang all the alto parts of all the Christmas carols we sang.
And I'll never forget you sing.
It feels like the song is on some distant shore and we're the boat that's pulling away from it.
Altoes. Give it up for Altoes. Pour one out for Altoes. Well, I realized we, you know, we were like, we want to put together a choir because we were feeling like we wanted to do something communal and for the community. And then Catherine said, I'm working with this incredible person named Doug. And then I realized much later, it was like saying, I know this woman named Julia Child, she's going to come and teach us how to make a chicken. Like we had the best of the best.
We're so lucky.
Well, thanks, Catherine, for introducing us.
Speaking of Julia Child, Amy, let's get your head voice one.
Okay, Julia Child.
Okay, so Doug, what should I do?
Thank you.
Can you give us a good old acting class?
And then show us a little siren from low in your range to high in your range back to low in your range.
good really good can you roll your shoulders while you do that and keep yourself nicely cozy
comfy oh my god i forget i have shoulders i'm rubbing them over the room so they can relax
Doug is a good shoulder rubber and not in a creepy way no no no with a creepy way
never never try and roll your shoulders out
oh really good
why people are laughing.
She's using her voice.
I know.
Let's do actually one of Haley's folk favorite warmups.
Can you do, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, Doug has a piano right under.
I can't believe you have a piano.
Doug has a piano right there.
Amazing.
This is the first on Good Hang.
Someone has a piano right below frame.
Okay, so, and this is one of Haley's.
Okay, go ahead.
Can you give it to me again, Doug?
Oh, honey.
Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey.
Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey.
Great job, Amy. How does that feel?
That is Haley's favorite warm-up?
It's one of them. We have a whole list of things.
I've seen photos of you guys together and the way that you use breath.
I mean, I want to talk to her a lot about that today.
Her voice is one of my favorites.
I think when we met, when I found out you guys worked together, I kind of freaked out.
Imagine how I felt working with her for the first time.
It was like, you're going to go do a session.
with Haley Williams. I was like, great. I bet I'm going to learn as much as she is.
What was that first session like?
It was total love at first sight. Haley is, you know, especially when someone's as incredible
as she is, when they're such an open student and a student of life and just everything I've
ever said to her, I feel like she just sponges it in and she remembers something I said
three years ago and we'll make a great sound and she'll be like, oh, that reminds me of
warming up for the Eros tour. And I like how that one sounded. Let's work on that again.
and she's always willing to work on what she's great at,
as well as what doesn't come as easily to her.
And she's such a Capricorn.
She's always ready to climb that next mountain.
And this new album of hers is so incredible.
It's so good.
I know.
I have so many.
Did you hear any of it when it was being, like,
did she come in and say, I'm working on the song?
I want to practice this song with you?
Yes.
And then she dropped down on the couch.
She was like, yeah, I got eight two new songs.
You want to hear them?
It's like, yeah, I do.
And then she's like, some of these are really low.
We should probably work on that.
I was like, I cannot wait, Haley, let's go.
Oh, wow.
So that's interesting to me.
Like a singer knows, okay, I'm going to have to perform these.
And I'm going to have to work on figuring out how to get my voice to sing these all the time.
That's right.
And sometimes when they record, they've never done it live all the way through.
And our sessions are the first amazing time.
I'm so lucky where you're like, okay, start at the beginning and sing it through and pick which backgrounds you want to do and which ad libs you want to do.
And sometimes even great people like Haley are like, whoa, this is.
doesn't feel at all like it felt on the record. Let's find a way to do it live. And that's just such
a joy. I always think about that and I want to ask her. And I think she was very, has spoke about it in a
really funny way, which is, you know, you write a song in your 20s that you then have to sing
10 years later. And it's a note that's like, you know, all I wanted was whatever. And it's like,
damn, you got to hit that. I bet she regrets it.
we've worked hard about and I'm really proud of her because that was one that wasn't always in
the paramour performances and she was determined to get it back in the set and we worked
totally 360 on it with both the vocals and her confidence how do you work on that how do you work
and what is that note by the way Doug let's hear that on the piano what's that note
she's singing C's B flats and an E in that piece top of her in a really chesty belt
and chesty belt oh there's so much
chest voice in it and it's from the soul and she gets her whole body behind it and we worked on
having her look up to her friends in the first balcony and have her whole throat be open while
she makes those sounds knowing in her eyes that she's going to crush it when she takes the breath
to do it and then watching the reward and watching the audience reaction it's just so soul
satisfying she also does a lot of vocal cool downs so after the show we warm her voice back down and
help it relax which helps her with the next night and helps her take a second.
to say, oh, yeah, I did do that really well tonight. And I did use the proper technique to sing that.
And also, we've had fun days where she's like, yeah, I just wanted to scream. So I screamed
that one. And help me help me like get my voice back. Yeah. She is after all a rock star.
Yeah. Yeah. Well, I mean, it's, it's, I want to ask her about it. Just the idea that you have to
keep your voice. I mean, I just, you know, when you lose your voice, you lose the show. The show's over
is really an intense stress. What do you do? How do you help people?
not lose their voice.
We have straws.
We have straws in water.
We do gentle. Wait, what does straws do?
You take a straw, which gets proper closure and back pressure at your vocal folds.
You have one.
Somebody get me a straw.
Somebody get me a straw.
Watch this.
I need a straw.
There's no straw in here.
I mean, they're never going to find a straw.
Okay, so you get a straw.
We'll get a straw.
Okay, we're going to do a little proper, right?
Oh, my God, there's a straw flying in.
Jenna has a straw.
Incredible.
Thank you, Jenna.
Is it a metal straw?
Is it a metal straw okay?
It could be fine.
It doesn't matter what it's made.
Because all you young people want the straws to be metal now, so can't find a paper one.
And do you have a little liquid in that mug you got there?
I do.
Are you going to spill it if you blow bubbles into it or is it like a half?
No, blow bubbles into it.
Stick the straw in there and just blow bubbles.
Now do the same thing with the tones while you blow it.
Bowles.
Oh, my God, Amy Poller is doing strong bubbles.
That's the big thing we do in Cool Down to help the voice reset.
It's like a little massage for the vocal cords after heavy use.
You know, it's so amazing.
Now, honestly, having a podcast, I've realized I see.
Like, I see what it does, even just talking what it does to your vocal cords and they need a lot of love.
Well, we can help you come up with a warm up and a cool down before.
for taping days, I'd love to do that with you.
Doug, listen, I'd love that.
And I'd also love to make every guest watch me do it
and make them very uncomfortable
while I take my time doing it, you know?
Okay, so Haley is coming in today
and I hope I don't, as the kids say, glaze her too hard,
but I just, I love her.
You probably will.
I know, I will. I love her.
What do you think is a question
that I should ask Haley today
that she doesn't get asked or that you'd want to hear or you think it would be a good thing
for us to talk about.
Okay, I thought of two.
So you could decide if you want to do one or both.
One, you know how like Batman has the bat symbol in the sky?
If there was going to be a symbol in the sky to summon Haley Williams, what would it be?
What an incredible question.
So creative.
And then the other one is, you know how everybody has like, what's your last meal?
I want to know what is the last song she wants to.
to hear before she dies.
I mean, so emotional.
Yeah, welcome.
What is the last song you want to hear before you die?
Whoa.
That's a heavy...
I bet she'll have the answer, too.
I bet she'll know the answer to that.
That's so cool.
I mean, I want to think about that for myself, too.
I know the ones I don't want to hear, like, I don't want to hear, like, elevator music or, like, the sound of a carousel.
I try to think of what I don't want to hear.
You don't want to be bored.
You don't want to feel like a clown.
I love that.
As I finish, you have worked with a lot of great women.
Yes.
Who have you had the privilege to work with?
You know, some days, Amy, I'm like, ooh, it's an all-girl schedule.
And I'm so happy.
So it could be a Catherine Hahn, Patty Lupone, Billy Eilish, Haley Williams.
I've worked with Phoebe Bridgers a lot lately.
Oh, you're working with her today, not to brag, but you're
told me that. That is true. Thank you for making the scheduling work. We'll work around
Phoebe. That's a good thing. Incredible. I'm working with Rico Nasty these days and Lauren
Mayberry from churches and lots of up-and-coming people, including, by the way, Haley is the biggest
music fan in the world and she's always scouting. And every once in a while, she'll discover
somebody and she'll tell me or she'll tell her manager to tell me, like, make sure Doug does a lesson
with that person because we want that person to start getting ready to tour and sing all the time.
So some of the great people you haven't quite heard of yet, but you will.
I had a student record her Tiny Desk concert today, Annie DeRousseau.
Oh, my gosh.
Wow, that's exciting.
Well, I love you.
I love seeing you.
I miss you very much.
I hope we get, you know, we should let everybody know that our choir was called the
something something singers.
And we did two shows.
We did it for the Motion Picture Academy, the retirement home in L.A.,
and we did it for L.A. Children's Hospital.
Can I show you my Haley Williams tattoo?
Yes
Oh, that is
That is
That is Haley Williams
On stage at the Ares Tour
Spitting in the air
In her trans rights top
I was like I fucking love this one so much
So Doug, you know
We don't ever get any talented pianist here
So could you finish our time
By just playing us out?
I'm going to give you a little bit of True Believer, which is my favorite on this.
True believer.
Here we go.
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Haley Williams is here.
So happy that you're here.
Oh, my God.
I feel like I've waited for this, my whole career, my whole life.
I've been making music for 20 years so that I could finally get to you.
Wow. You know what? This is, I'm blushing because you are, when we made this podcast, we were like talking about dream guests and you were one of them.
Oh my God. I don't even, I really don't know what to say to that.
Okay. Well, you better figure it out because we're rolling. I'm going to think about it.
We're rolling. No, we were talking about having you on today. And okay, I don't, I'm, I'm kind of nervous.
I'm such a fan. I'm such a fan.
Yes.
Thank you so much.
And as a kid say, I'm going to, I'm just going to glaze you.
Glaze me, baby.
Glazing.
Glaze me.
It's going to be a glaze fest because, are you on some kind of tour right now?
Like you're on a.
Well, like, basically a promo.
I mean, this has been really nice.
I feel like I've only had, I've only had to do the stuff that's been like I've really felt excited to do.
But, you know, it's like being on can.
It's just, I just feel like I'm on the internet all the time.
And I, so I won't be on tour until next year.
And by that time, I hope.
I have a dumb phone and I just don't see the internet or cameras.
Yeah. How do you feel? I mean, your Jen has an interesting relationship with the internet.
Yeah. It is like a love-hate relationship, basically. It is a love-hate. I'm really addicted to it.
Me too. It sucks. I feel like I thought maybe my generation was more addicted than you guys.
Really? But you guys are the most?
We, well, I mean, how old was I when my mom was a teacher? So, like, a public school teacher.
Public school teacher.
Like you grew up, did you grow up going to her classrooms and stuff?
Yes.
It was the best.
Okay, what kind of teacher was your mom?
Back then she was teaching elementary school like second and third grade.
And I never, she was never my teacher, but I went to that school.
Same.
Isn't it funny to have your mom as a teacher in the school?
Did you hang out at the school afterwards?
Yeah, we often got there early if we were going in with her or we'd stay after.
And you kind of like see the other teachers.
Yeah.
after school, which is a trip.
It's such, it's like, it's like mean girls when they see Tina at the mall.
Yeah, when they peek in and see Tina in the mall.
Yeah.
It really is like that.
I really, that resonated with me deeply.
I know, it does feel like you're like peeking behind the curtain.
Yeah.
Very, um, like, don't look at the wizards.
Right.
Yeah.
Okay, when you came in, you asked about a mutual friend that we have.
Yes.
So we do have a mutual friend and he's the most loveliest guy ever.
His name is, what is his name?
Doug Peck.
So we have a thing on this show where we, at the beginning of each episode, we kind of talk well behind our guests back.
And we talk to somebody who knows them and get a question from them to ask you.
And we talked to Doug Peck today.
You did?
Yes.
I love him.
And he gave me a vocal warm up for us to do.
Shut your mouth.
This is the best day of my life.
Okay.
And I kind of forget what he said.
Okay.
Maybe I can pick up on it.
I also amazingly had a piano right under frame that he started to play.
And I was like, where is that coming from?
But because I was like, Doug, I'm excited to talk to Haley.
And he's like, okay, and he gave us.
He said one of your favorite warm offices is that like, well, I think it's like, afraid to do it.
But it was like, ha, ha, ha.
Oh, yeah.
It's like with your belly.
Because I really have trouble connecting to my diaphragm sometimes.
He asked me, how is your body feeling?
And I was like, I don't know what you're talking about.
Okay, so let's do it.
Okay, so yeah, so feel your belly kind of bounce when you
Okay, and then you can add notes to it.
So, like, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha.
Yeah, it's it really wakes up this whole like everything.
It does.
Yeah, it really helps.
We were just talking today about you and I mean, there's just, it's hard to not start with your voice because your voice to me, and here comes the glaze.
Your voice to me.
is
it is it is its own country.
It's like it has such an incredible history.
Like I feel like I've been a fan of it and you and your work for so long
and I've watched it change.
And what I love about this new record, which I love,
ego death at a bachelorette party,
is the way you kind of play around with your voice.
in a confident way as someone who feels like they're ready to just kind of like see where their
voice goes and play around with it. So I guess my first question to you is when did you form a
relationship with your voice? Whoa, that's a cool question to think about. I think young.
I was I was remembering this not too long ago and I think this must be.
yet I would go to church with my mom, I met with my family as a kid.
And I was a very anxious, stressed out little kid.
And my mom and I kind of, you know, she was in a not great marriage.
She was my mom's second marriage.
And I think I just had anxiety a lot.
So we'd go to church and everyone would sing out of the hymnal.
And they're not fun songs to sing, right?
Sure.
You know, it's boring when you're a kid, especially.
Right.
And but I noticed that my stomach ache would go away.
And I couldn't explain it, but I just, I started singing, I started singing more to the hymns along with the hymns at church.
And it just soothed me, you know, like, I think it grounded me and it slowed me down.
And then obviously, you know, all these many, many years later and everything that I love to learn about the body.
And especially what body keeps the score type stuff.
I'm really interested in that.
And reading about how the voice can tone the vagus nerve, which controls so much of this,
this anxiety stuff and how we regulate, it makes perfect sense.
But I intuited that as a, I must have been, I mean, God, I must have been like eight or nine years old.
That's really young.
It's so interesting.
Even just doing that thing we just did, right?
Like even the exhalation of breath, even that is.
it is major. When you actually do it, you realize, oh, I've been holding my breath. Oh, my God. Yes.
I mean, and I do a lot of sighing around the house, and I used to just think that was my personality, like,
you know, as if I was over it. But I realized it was just an exhalation of anxiety. That was just basically it. I was just trying to get some breath out.
And you were soothing yourself, like your system by doing it. Yeah, it's, I love that science. I
I just, that's endlessly fascinating.
And Doug, because he's a somatic voice coach, we do so many things that I think,
if you've never done that kind of work from the outside, would look really weird.
And I get up and I move around a lot during our lessons.
You're making me think of two things.
One, which is I often say, and have said on this podcast, like, when I get to a party and I'm anxious, I like to dance.
And I realize, like, of course, I like to just do exactly that kind of thing, like shake it out.
That's good.
But the other thing is, and I want to talk to you about performing, you have written a lot of songs where you have to just, like, get to this note that maybe you wrote 20 years ago.
Yeah.
I mean, you know, some version is like, okay, I could, you know, like, I've got to get to it.
And I was saying to, like, it's really hard to, it's like a high dive where everyone's, you know, and I'm thinking specifically of a couple moments, like, all I wanted.
All I wanted, yeah.
Oh, my, the anxiety.
Okay, but you nailed it.
That's Doug.
But talk to us about, like, for example, the journey of, and for people who don't know,
and there is an amazing song, a Paramore song, and it hits a note that is, like, so satisfying
for you to get, what is the note of that?
Is it a?
I actually don't know.
Doug knew, and I forget.
Doug knows.
A, E?
Usually my sweet spot of like not too high and I can keep doing.
this throughout a show is around a C, a C, an E above Middle C, which is like, so if middle C's in the center
of the piano, you're like right here.
So could you, could you, could you, could you, could you, could you, could you, so is it like?
Like from the song?
No, but it's like, yeah.
I'm, I don't have perfect pitch, so I don't think I could like, what?
I don't think I can pick it out out of the, out of thin air, but let's just guess and then
Doug can be at home and he can tell us I was wrong later.
I have a laptop too.
I can.
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Okay. So what's the note we want?
We want C above middle C.
Because I didn't even know that exists.
I think E is kind of where I end up belting a lot of paramour songs, but I think all I wanted might be higher than that.
And that's why it's always scared me because it's just my muscle memory.
One, two, three, four, one, two, three, four, one, two, three, four.
So it's got to be higher than that.
C above middle C
But I think that E is the one
Move I want to try E above middle C
Yes, E above middle C
Let's go higher
Let's go higher
The laptop's going to catch on fire
Okay, here we go
E above middle C
I think this is it
Okay
No
That's a lower one
That's a lower and that's mid piano note
I'm so sorry
Why do I think all I want...
I think all I wanted is higher than this.
I want it, was you.
Yeah.
You did it too.
Come to a voice lesson.
Let's get this down.
Okay, so you, the journey of, and I, thank you for letting me digress into this before I talk about a record.
But talk about, like, so you've got this note, for example, a note like that.
And you're driving to it and you want to sing it on tour.
And you're deciding like, okay, I want to make sure.
I want to bring this back in.
And how do you then train for that moment?
Oh, I mean, a lot of warming up and warming down after shows.
I've already heard about warming down.
Warming down.
Do you ever do it?
No, I'm learning.
It really helps.
Can you read music?
No, I did maybe for a few years in my life when I took piano.
but I got so bored with the theory part.
I just wanted to play shit that I wanted to sing along to.
Yeah.
So it's really, I really regret it when I listen to someone like Doug talk about theory
and spout off these, you know, this stuff that's so inherent to him as an artist and as a teacher.
It's like, dang, I really should have stayed in piano lessons.
It feels like everybody who quit feels that way.
Like it would have been cool if I just kept chatting along with the flute.
I would have been such a badass.
Can you play any instruments?
No.
I can play a few chords on guitar and like a song or two in the piano,
and I used to play flute when I was a kid.
You did.
Yes, and imagine if I could really.
Flute is chic.
I mean, maybe.
But you know what I liked about the flute?
The most embarrassing part.
Cleaning it.
Cleaning it.
I'm so sorry.
But for those people that had a flute,
At the end, you were like, I played it, and look, I didn't learn anything, but then you take it apart, I took it and unscrew it. And you went to clean all the parts and your special brushes and you put it back in the flute case and you were like, no, it's clean.
Does this translate to like other parts of your life? Do you like to clean and organize? Oh, yeah, very much so. Very much so.
What's that like? It's like a way to like quiet and like the tiki tacky in my brain is just like, well, the flit's clean. And it's in the box. You don't have that.
that up. Okay, so little Haley's singing in church, then your, but you know how to play guitar and
piano? How do you learn that? Now I know how to play guitar, but back then, I think I probably
only knew how to play piano and I was learning to play the drums. You know, I saw one video of
Zach Hanson on the television when I was a kid and I was like, now I got to play drums.
And I, yeah, I started playing eventually and I would play at church, you know, like, I think
My experience of music when I was living in Mississippi was just so much at church.
Because no friends, I didn't know anyone at school that wanted to play music.
But, you know, there was access to instruments and things at the church.
And you moved to Tennessee when you were a teen?
Yeah.
And that kind of changed everything.
That kind of blew my world open.
I mean, I met Zach, who's our drummer, the first day of this homeschool program that my mom put me in.
I tried to go to public school.
I was such a nerd.
I really got bullied, so I didn't make it very long there.
It's okay.
When I think about it now, I'm like, it was, my mom and I were on such an adventure.
We had run away from Mississippi.
This was like, you know, the great wide world.
And I didn't really, again, I got to this public school and I was like, well, none of these,
there's like one got off kid at the school that, like, will talk to me about music.
And that was it.
And then I met Zach the first day of this other program.
And he was like, you got to come here.
hear me in my brother's band and he's younger than me and I'm going like oh there there are people
my age that that like to make stuff and they they see the world a little differently and I'm not
crazy I think it's always tender when bands come together that first part because it's like what do
you like what do you like and you guys were especially young we were so little who were you who did you
you know how you kind of trade bands with each other to just test taste who did you guys both like say
that you liked, you know, in those early years.
I think Zach already have this,
he already knew of a different world of music
that I was not exposed to yet,
and he kind of showed me that.
And it was bands like failure.
It was bands like,
and you will know us by the Trail of Dead.
Yes.
You know, like it was HOM who were playing shows next year.
I just found out.
I probably won't get to see them
because I'll probably be on tour.
But I know when you're on tour, you can't do anything.
Even like you bring out a band that you love that you want to hang out and watch
and you're just like warming up while they're on stage, you know.
But Zach just love.
I mean, Zach is the reason that I knew Elliot Smith's music as a really young kid.
And, you know, I remember him making me mixed CDs.
So I got such a cool education really fast.
He had two older brothers that also liked cool music.
A lot of people learn.
music from their older siblings.
Yes.
And I didn't have any older siblings.
Same.
I'm the oldest.
Oh, your eldest daughter.
Yeah, I knew it.
Oh, my God.
Capricorn, too, I heard.
Are you Capricorn?
No, I'm a Virgo by Earth sign.
Earths.
And I'm a Virgo moon.
Ooh.
I have a Leo moon.
Oh.
Oh, my God.
It makes so much sense.
I must.
I must get some attention.
So for people who don't know, like you,
you met the people that.
would become members or founders of Paramour when you were a teeny tiny baby in high school.
And you've been with this band for 20 plus years, touring all the time, making records all the time.
And this record is your third solo record.
And what is so interesting to me and getting back to a question about your voice is what is the difference between being the lead singer in a band.
out on stage performing and being
yourself performing without the band behind you.
Is that not the million dollar question?
I do not know.
Right?
Because it's a completely different set of skills almost.
I'm very, I'm finding myself,
because we're planning shows for next year,
I'm finding myself really nervous
because I think I, for my own good,
really need to understand who I am outside of the band.
Like it's time.
I'm like, I'm looking at 40.
it's not that many years away.
And I'm just like, I should probably know who I am outside of this entity.
And I'm really, I'm very excited for shows.
And I do think that it might possibly subvert some people's expectations of, you know,
what they think they're going to get when they see me on a stage.
What do you think people think they're going to get?
I think that with Paramore, I feel, and especially in the later years, like more recently,
there's been some kind of thing I've noticed, this feeling I've noticed that I very much feel
like a ringleader. And that's not always a positive thing. I feel that like it's a huge
responsibility to be a mouthpiece for a group of people. That's right. We're all very different
individuals and like I want to speak for myself. Yeah. That's what I'm noticing. I love that. And it's
also I have a version of a similar experience in that when I was in a sketch group coming up.
I read about this.
And I was the only girl.
Not that that matters, but it's something.
I think it totally matters.
It's something.
So I really get it that you want to then decide, okay, that's something I've practiced and done and I want to try something new.
Yes, yeah.
I feel like I'm really enjoying this part of my career because I actually feel like for the first time in my career I'm talking to women.
Growing up, there was just no women around.
There wasn't a lot of women when you were on Warp Tour.
No.
You didn't have a real like a great, great gang backstage.
It wasn't so many that you could chill with and talk about it.
Like there were some really amazing ladies.
in the production office. Of course. But then I was also like, you know, I mean, I was like
pushing gear with the guys on a skateboard down a hill across to Maryweather Post Pavilion,
you know, like I wasn't hanging out in the production office. I really think I, it is something
to be the only girl. It is. And a gang. It is. And it's also like you want to feel, you know,
we could talk about this part forever and you would be the person to be able to talk about it
with, but it's like, how does your, the gender that you identify as, how do you sublimate it
through your work?
How do you like kind of push it aside?
How do you play around with it?
Like, I feel like you have really cool ways in which you kind of play around with the mask
and femme side of you.
Oh, thank you.
But it's, but it sometimes you're just, you need like the space to be able to do that, basically,
and the safety to be able to do that.
The safety.
That, that's the, that one hits me more.
I think I, the era that we grew up in, and I know I've already referenced me in
girls one time, but you think about like that time.
Technically contractually you have to.
Yeah, yeah, every episode.
Yeah, okay.
Have we done, we've done two now, so you're good.
Okay, cool.
I owe Tina law.
You're not going to get a phone call.
I'm a million.
I like, that was a time in culture that I do, I think more conversations were starting to happen,
But to be whatever age I was, 14, I think.
Oh, baby.
Yeah, I was a baby.
And I was in that age range, you know, of all these people.
And, like, watching these social, like this construct that happens.
I feel that once I entered the band world and the music, the climate, you know,
especially for like indie and more like punk subgenres,
because it didn't feel safe to be a young girl.
Maybe if I was an older woman, I would have felt differently,
but I really shirked any aspect of me that was remotely feminine.
And I didn't know this, but it really hurt me.
Like, I did it to myself.
No one asked me to do that.
We all did it.
A lot of us did it to ourselves.
Because you're scanning, right?
You're always scanning for the dangers.
And unfortunately, in the industries that were both in,
there's a lot of them.
Yeah.
And I think it took me until probably, I remember writing very neutrally, like, in terms of my
point of view.
Like, I never want to give away lyrically that, you know, this is a young girl's point
of view, you know, trying to be smart enough to make that happen.
But it was probably like our fourth album, which I would have been in my early 20s by that
point, where I started to play around with my femininity more, and I wasn't so ashamed of it.
And, you know, if I ever felt sexy, I didn't, like, push that feeling away.
And I, you know, because of that experience, I'm now I'm 36 and I'm still noticing places where there's a lot of rigidity around my femininity.
And I talk to my friends about this a lot.
I don't, I mean, it's just kind of unfolding day by day.
I, you know, you go through rough things in your life.
And I think each time I come around to an obstacle, I'm like,
Okay, how do I do this better than the last time I did, I went through something like this.
And somehow femininity is always at the core of the issue.
I so feel you.
I feel like it's like a lot of deprogramming, a lot of like being just what you said, a little bit curious and not so judgmental.
And just if you're 10% more aware of anything you're doing, you're hanging in there.
Because it's, you know, you can't like judge yourself for what you didn't know.
when you were on tour, is there any women that come to mind that were kind of guiding lights or, you know, people that you met along the way that kind of felt like, oh, I'm going to take a, I'm going to notice them and I'm going to kind of pay attention to what they're doing and I'm going to learn from it.
Yeah. The second year we were on Warp Tour, Joan Jett and the Black Hearts played on the main stage at like the whole summer, which is a brutal summer. It's a long tour.
And I would catch them anytime I could
And we ended up in a photo shoot together for
I think it was for Billboard
And I kissed her on the cheat
I'm very shy
Like I don't
If I, like if we weren't doing this
I don't know when I would have ever met you
Like I don't because I'm so
I just don't I never want to bother people
And I am quite shy when I'm not on stage
And I don't know
We were standing next to other
And I just kissed her on the cheek
And I remember being like
I love her
And I didn't know anything about her
Other than she was in the runaways
and I had a runaways poster on my wall as a teenager.
But I thought she was, I thought she was just, I liked her masculinity.
Yeah.
I liked that she wasn't embarrassed to have that side of her as a woman.
And she was also very sexy.
So that was probably the first woman that I really, like, performer, that I was really around
for like an extended period of time in my young, in my early career.
And then, you know, I just this year, I met Kathleen Hannah, and I told her, I was like, I just, I haven't had many of these conversations.
And it's so validating to, it's so validating, by the way, to read books like your book and Kathleen's book and read about women.
I, you know, I have amazing, my mom and my granny are like these incredible women in my life that I've learned so much from.
my mom and I are like really close in age and all that but I I learned there's we have so much
grace for each other and I'm very thankful for those relationships but I didn't have anything
outside of my family yeah to really like soak up yeah wisdom from other women yeah so I'm enjoying
that proximity of them yes you must have you must have felt that on the heiress tour like you got
to be around all these incredible women and an incredible woman at the helm and you just got to feel
what it feels like to be in that matriarchal simulation.
Totally.
It is a different, it's a different feeling altogether.
I mean, there was just, there was a time too where we would go a whole year and I wouldn't
see another girl on stage.
And now when we, now that we have the power to choose to make those choices, it's so nice
to get to be intentional about that and to think about the conversations you might get to
have backstage and what I might learn or what I might be able to.
offer another artist that you know that's maybe like the linda lindas i love those girls oh i love the
linda linders like i love them and i just think that they're they're so smart and they're so
aware like politically like aware and and not not afraid i think that it's very nice a healing for me
to see young like teenage people be so be so bold about what they believe in and and and really
confident in their playing and how they perform and that their friendships it's it's really healing to
see that well you probably i mean i have a couple questions about the eras tour and they're practical
questions they're like what is it like to perform early in the day i love it it sounds amazing if i never
i've already told the team like if we get festival offers please don't make me play after the sun
starts to go down i completely agree nothing good is happening out there first of all you can be done
by what eight thirty nine i want to have a normal dinner a normal dinner a normal
little dinner. This is what Tina and I go on tour, and we do like four o'clock and six o'clock shows.
What?
Babe, you can do a four o'clock show. I mean, you're the boss, so you can. And guess what?
People are going to show up. And you can say to them, I'm going to show up. You can say,
good night, enjoy your dinner. And they're like, I'm in bed by 7.30. Oh, my God. That is
incredible. I mean, we did do that on the Airst Store.
You did. So what at the, like, you had a long stretch when you were with them in a bunch of different cities with Taylor Swift on the Air Store.
what did you do after the show?
Well, when we were in the UK, I loved this because, you know, BBC, no, not BBC E4.
I can't remember what channeled is, but they play Gogglebox.
Have you watched Gogglebox?
Yes, I've heard of a goggle box.
Oh, my God, Amy, this is my favorite show of all time.
I just love to get.
Explain to people what it is for people who don't know.
So imagine Amy and I are like, we're watching television together and all these cameras are still here, which honestly sounds terrifying.
But, like, it's just families and friends watching TV, like, commenting on what they're seeing.
And some of it is, like, you know, soap opera type shit.
And other times it's like Boris Johnson.
Yeah.
And I love that.
I often see some clips of, like, heavy, beautiful scenes where, like, a young teen is coming out to his parents.
Yeah.
And then they'll show all the different reactions.
And you think, like, oh, this very blue-collar family is going to have a tough.
time with it and they never do. Oh my God. England is just full of angels.
Well, according to goggle box. Yeah, according to goggle box. It's very, it's very
wholesome and I love to just pop a net or two and just sink into a, you know, have some room
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Okay, so you would like watch
TV after, you would chill out,
you would not go out. We went out
some. We had a lot of days.
off too and we would like my favorite days were Portugal we were in Portugal for like four days before
the shows started and we did one day on like this little boat the guys and I all went out our
crew everybody I think that was like 40 of us maybe 30 of us total and um we went out and we're not
talking about like a yacht situation but it was very cute and we went out and we swam well the guys
swam and then we found out later it's like a really not a good idea to swim in that water but um and you
had the instinct to not go in i did yeah i don't want to be cold i'm not i'm not a cold person you don't
you don't you never do like a cold plunge or any of that you love a cold plunge i know this about
you and look how you're radiant thank you it's it's and it's not about the skin although that's a
nice byproduct the skin is all i care about the insides can be rotting out let my skin glow please okay
it's good for inflammation.
Oh, shit.
I know.
I don't want you to tell me that.
And you know, you don't have to do it.
You never ever have to do it.
Maybe soon.
I think it has, and honestly, it's really helped with anxiety and depression.
Really?
Yes, because it, talk about somatic.
It flips on your, like, fight or flight.
Oh.
It flips on some kind of, oh, no, I'm going to die.
I'm so cold.
But how does that help?
Because the high when you're still alive is.
Have you ever, like, thrown up on stage?
I've never thrown up on stage.
I actually don't think I've thrown up from a show.
That's amazing.
I blacked out on stage at ACL, like, the last album cycle, but I didn't pass.
I, like, blacked out.
Pink Pantherist was on stage singing Misery Business with us.
And I had this moment where I was like, I just went out for two seconds.
And I came back.
It turns out I was sick.
So I found that out later.
But other than that, I've only had a few instances where, like, there was one time Mexico, a festival in Mexico City, I almost shit my pants through up and blacked out at the same time.
I was going to ask.
I didn't want to be rude, but, I mean, how, after so many shows, have you not?
How have I not shit my pants?
I really do.
I mean, I assume pretty much every singer I see, I assume that they've shot their fans.
Not on stage.
Plenty of times off the States.
I mean, there's nothing you can do about it.
I think it's like when you're on your period and you go in the water, apparently it just like sucks up.
It just goes, mm-mm.
I think that's what happens on stage with me.
It's just like, we're not doing this.
Yeah.
Wait until after bitch.
Women are incredible.
Women are so strong.
Women most of the time don't shit their pants.
Like, most of the time that's, that's like a guy thing, actually.
Sorry.
A hundred percent is true.
I don't know any women today that have.
poop their pants once.
I need no one here in the studio today.
Today, no once.
We should just all try it together once.
But it is.
It's super physical.
And then the other, I have so many like, because I feel like there's a version where
one must like disassociate and just kind of be in your world and sing and other times
where you want to feed off of the eye contact from people.
And is that just, you're just always adjusting with that or?
Yeah.
I don't know if I'm, I don't know if I'm, I don't know if I'm,
fully present to, like, that awareness when I'm in it.
Yeah, but I get such a rush.
I mean, especially at a paramour show, I usually recognize a lot of the people in the front.
So we're all, we'll have like a relationship then throughout that show where I'm like, I know you,
I've seen you a million times and like you're with me.
But then I'll spot other people and I can, I can really feel, it's almost like I intuit
what the song means to them.
I'm not thinking about what it means to me anymore.
It's so healing.
It's very liberating, actually, because I love to write about stuff that'll just make you so depressed, you know?
Like, I need to get that out.
So to have an experience with other people that takes it away from me is really, I really need that, I think.
What's a song or a lyric or a moment that has been given back to you by a fan, like by someone in the audience singing it back to you that's changed the meaning of what you wrote?
Oh, wow.
Because that's a very cool thing you just brought up.
I didn't even think about it.
I mean, to me, my question was going to be, what does it feel like to pass around
all these, like, feelings to people so that they can all, you know, they can all have their
feelings about it and become detectives about it?
But I realize there must be a gift also in the way people sing the song back to you,
tell you what they feel about the song, then it must change the meaning of the song.
It really does.
Does anything come to mind?
Well, the first one that comes to mind is this song called Last Hope from our fourth album,
We had a self-titled record that came out when Zach left the band.
He left the band with his brother who started the band with us when we were teenagers.
And it was really, Taylor and I were writing.
And we were both really sad.
And I just kind of also felt like, I mean, what does a band matter?
You know, I really was feeling so existential about the whole thing.
And I can't remember.
It's the lyric in the bridge.
It's like the, the, um...
the salt in my wounds isn't burning, doesn't burn quite as much as it used to.
I can't remember exactly the words right now, but I just remember writing it and being like,
this is so sad. And it unfortunately is how I feel. And I've really struggled with my mental health.
And kind of like, you know, I've wanted to not be here plenty of times. And that song kind of
express that in the moment for me having that at a paramour show that moment and feeling like
everyone in the room has survived so many different things and we're all here half of us will never
see each other again um it really does something to those types of songs where i wrote them in such
isolation and now here i am having to like not only be witnessed but bear witness to all these
other experiences that have coalesced.
And people are just physically joyously singing that back to you, smiling and being like,
thank you for writing that thing.
Dude, joy is really, joy is a tough emotion for me because I don't trust it.
I always think it's going to, the piano's going to fall from the sky is what I say to my,
like it's just going to hit me when I least expect it.
And I think that's why Paramour shows, at least for me, that they feel so joyous because I'm relying on a lot of other things.
I'm not thinking so much about my own experience.
And when we can transcend our own experience, it's like for me, joy becomes more tangible.
It's like, I'm not controlling what's happening anyway.
Yeah.
And this thing is being offered up.
We're all kind of creating this energy together,
and we just get to reach up into and pull it down into our hearts.
And it's like, it's very wholesome.
It is.
I mean, it's very primal.
Yeah.
It's very primal.
Singing with other people, like, just the frequency of that in a room is powerful.
Yeah.
Can we talk about being short?
Can we please fucking talk about being short?
So we're both five, two, according to.
Wikipedia, are you a natural 5-2?
Yeah, I am.
In fact, one time I did the whole insurance thing, they come, they take your blood and all
that stuff, and they were like, you're 5-3, and I never let it go.
It's on my driver's license.
5-3 is on my driver's license, too?
Because they measure me at 5-3, which I'm not, I'm 5-2.
But I was like, and they were like 5-3, and I was like, okay.
Thank you.
I got super pumped.
Oh, my God.
I was so relieved, actually.
What is a good thing about being 5-2 and what's a bummer?
Well, so my friend Daniel that I made the record with is probably like six, three.
Isn't it funny that you don't know?
Because anyone over a certain height, I'm like, just tall.
Just a building.
I don't like, I don't know.
I'm just walking through New York every day of my life.
But we were standing on like a porch of a house that was kind of like on a hill.
And then there were chairs.
And I was like, you're way up there, man.
Like, you're, like, we're already standing atop this little hill.
And I, so I got on the chair and I stood next to, I stood on the chair next to him where I was even with him.
And I felt so vulnerable to the elements.
I was like, closer to the sun.
This is not where I want to be.
No, too windy up there.
It's too windy.
Yeah.
I don't like to be cold.
Yeah.
And I hate wind, if I'm being honest.
Yeah, get down under and get down back into your turtles.
I just, I just, I really felt scared for like a few minutes, so I can tip over.
I don't know how tall people don't constantly tip over.
And it's like not our business what's happening up there.
It's not our business what's up.
I don't want to know.
It's like, if something's important, shout it down.
But we don't need to go up there.
Yeah, I mean, really, though, I, I do, though, when I'm shopping, I hate being short.
It sucks.
It's so embarrassing.
It's so embarrassing.
Every pair of pants you look like a little kid, like, swishing around in a long pair.
Just Danny DeVitoing around, you know?
Totally.
Nothing fits.
Nothing is made for short, shorties.
It's really not.
And now that I'm getting a little bit older, I'm, like, learning about, like, if my torso is the right length and if this part of my body, I'm just like, I don't want to know this shit.
Do you have anything on your body that's long?
My dick.
But it's also really wife, which is like, what do I do with this?
Ladies love it.
I just always told me.
Hold it and roll it.
And then prepare for one more glaze.
Okay.
I'm ready.
Well, actually, I don't know if this is the last glaze, but prepare for another glaze.
But you are an artist that, um, you are an artist that, um,
Other artists, male and female, feel like you are a lot of people's favorite artists,
favorite artists.
Oh, my God.
They love working with you.
They have huge tender feelings about being in your orbit.
They on stage feel very, like they're kind of loving you in real time on stage.
And you've worked with a ton of people who love working with you and would, you know, we'd be able to get 20 people.
to talk about how much they love you.
Who right now, like, who do you,
who are your people right now that when you get to see them,
perform with them, be with them,
they feel like they're part of a peer group
that, like, lift you up and support you,
or people that are up on,
that you're hoping to support
and bring along for the next ride.
Man, well, I got to perform with the Linda Linda's in London,
and I felt really proud of them.
I get to do more stuff with David Byrne this year,
and I know that's going to feel,
like it's weird it's interesting because linda lindas are younger than me yeah david's older than me well that's what
i feel like being in your mid 30s feels like as you're really feeling a little in the middle in the
middle yeah and um you know if you know if your 20s are figuring out what you want to do then your 30s
are kind of figuring out what you don't want to do and so you're kind of letting go of things that
aren't working for you anymore but that vacuum gets filled with cool stuff like and you're looking ahead
and back.
I mean, what do you think your 30s feel like, or have felt like?
Honestly, enjoying you talking about it because I, 30s are weird.
Like, it's, especially the middle of my 30s.
I still felt very young in my early 30s.
Like, I still felt very, what's the difference between 28 and 32?
I felt like it was all the same.
Something happened at 35.
I started seeing myself, like seeing pictures and being like, oh, that's different.
But I also still feel sprightly and have energy and almost like a renewed passion that makes me want to, like, live it all up.
Yeah.
It's just a – I didn't expect 30s to be like this.
Yeah.
Well, I mean, did – I guess I want to know.
What did you expect 30s to be like?
Isn't it funny when we're young and, like, when I'm like, what feels old?
Because I'm here to tell him 54, I don't feel any – I don't feel any – I don't feel – I don't feel –
old but when I was a young person if someone was like she's 50 it would be like oh my
that's the oldest number I can think of and but it's so funny here to tell you from like
I sending you a dispatch from 54 I don't feel that different it really excites me yeah it
excites me because I see like because being 36 when you say 54 maybe this is the age where
like that doesn't sound old to me that doesn't
That doesn't scare me.
I think it sounds better than 36 in a lot of ways.
I think it sometimes is harder to be in the middle.
Yeah, the middle.
It's a little hard.
The middle is hard.
Hell is the hallway.
Life is a highway, but hell is the hallway.
We just wrote a whole song.
No one's ever in any of those words.
Okay.
And then the last thing I'll say is that I see in the music world what happens a lot in the more like actor comedy world,
which is women who are very, very different
are kind of asked to be a member of the same group
and they're all really different with different styles
and different ways of approaching things.
But you have an incredible,
you're in an incredible time right now
for just women in music.
They're just dominating.
Oh, my God.
All different styles.
Exactly.
Yeah, I'm really enjoying watching women on stages right now
because of what you said.
It's so many different personalities.
I am, I love, um,
Manic and Pussy, I think.
Yeah, they're amazing.
They're amazing.
And singer, talk about a voice.
Yeah, yeah.
And we just connected over, like, just over DMs.
And Missy was talking about losing her voice.
And we were kind of like kiki in about that a little bit.
And talking about this initiative that she was, she told me about.
It's no music for genocide initiative.
And it's just so nice, again, to talk to other women and music that
like we don't have to be doing the same thing we don't have to like the same music like we can be
on completely different sides of the musical landscape but it I feel so much less alone by
engaging in it more and I just it's so exciting also like I was just telling my friends this
morning I normally listen to like you know I like bands and I like heavy music and I like
weird you know I like all the stuff that's happening in Copenhagen right now
What's happening in Copenhagen?
Oh, there's such a great music scene in Copenhagen.
What?
Yes, I'll send you a playlist.
Oh my God, I would love it.
It's like heavy?
Heavy Copenhagen's up?
No, it's not heavy.
It's just a vibe.
It's a vibe.
And I've always liked music from that, from like Scandinavian artists, you know.
But also, I just like was listening to, I put on this Olivia Dean song called Man I Need.
And I was like, oh, I know it because I've seen the clips all over the internet.
and I started sing along to it and I started crying to it.
And I think it's because it's so, it feels joyful, it feels very feminine.
It's not, my mouth doesn't make those shapes very often.
And my body, like, really responded to it.
So I just, yeah, there's so many different types of music happening right now that I'm so inspired by.
That's awesome.
Yeah, it's fun.
And what are you listening to watching, reading, what do you do to laugh?
What do you do when you want to get up, you know, get on the elevator and get up out of the, like, what makes you laugh?
Wayne's World.
It's my favorite movie of all time.
Let's talk about how great Wayne's World plays.
Can we please talk about it?
I mean, Dana Carvey was instrumental for me when I was, he was in, you know, like you always kind of fall in love with the S&L cast that you saw when you were like 13, 14.
And he, him and Jan Hooks and like that cast, Phil Hartman.
And Mike Myers was an improviser who came out of the theater that I studied at.
So Mike was kind of an example of like, one of us can make it.
Wow.
He kind of came up through that system, that Chicago system and got an S&L.
So those two were.
But what do you like about Wayne's World?
Why does Wayne's World make you laugh?
Well, so my parents were really young.
And I think that's why I got to grow up on stuff like that from the early, early 90s or the late 80s.
And I thought that's how we would dress when we were.
we became adults. I was like, this is how adults dress. We wear fishnets under
denim ripped up shorts. We wear flannels over Aerosmith T-shirts. And I literally
dress like that. I mean, I just, that movie has, it's like the godfather to me. Like,
I quote that movie all the time. What's your, one of your favorite scenes in Wayne's World?
Oh, this is good. Well, it's probably the Dream Weaver scene. It's probably when they first see Cassandra.
And that gorgeous woman played by Tia Carrera.
Tia Carrera, my queen.
Incredible.
And Chris Traeger's Rob Lowe is in Wainsworld, Rolo, as we like to call him.
You know, I did not like Rob Lowe until much later in his career.
Because he was bad in Wainsworth.
Like he was the villain in Wain's World.
Yes.
I believe Parks and Rec was the redemption tour.
Okay. So we'll finish with Doug's two questions because they were great questions. Of course. Okay. So good. So Doug had two questions for you. And by the way, make sure you check out Wayne's World. If you haven't seen Wayne's World, what the fuck, honestly. Do you have to bleep curse words? No. You don't? We don't have to bleep on this. Oh my God, fight the power. Yes. Incredible. It's so incredible. Freedom. Freedom. Freedom. Okay. He had two great questions. One was,
You know how Batman has a symbol in the sky that calls Batman?
What would Haley Williams symbol be?
And it can be anything.
Yes.
Do you know in Wayne's World when they're driving in the Gremlin?
And it's the middle of Bohemian Rhapsody when the guitar, it kind of breaks down.
and the camera pans up and there's like a car on top of a pole.
I think it's a car.
It's like a sign for something.
And it would be like that, but it would just be the Gremlin.
It would be a way and it would have a glow behind it.
Oh, yeah.
You would see it in the sky and be like, got to go.
Gotta go.
It's time.
You know what I mean?
Yeah, got to get in there.
Got to get in that world.
It would be like that.
And, and.
Very faintly from a distance, Bohemian Rhapsody might even be playing.
What's your favorite part of Bohemian Rhapsody?
It's, uh, so you think you can't get a, that's my favorite part.
Of course.
And then the, um, the next question, which is wild, is what is what is the last song?
that you want to hear before you die.
Okay.
Oh, no.
I know.
And do you feel like you would know it?
Staying alive.
That was always my funeral song, but I suppose it would be kind of cool to go out to it as well.
And you don't want to add an extra layer to it.
That is supposedly the beat that you're supposed to do CPR to.
Stop.
Mm-hmm.
stay in a lot. That's when we learned CPR. It was like, ha, ha, ha, ha, stay it alive, stay in a lot.
And then then breathe into their mouth. Whoa.
So that might be what you want to hear. Doug, you got your answer.
Well, I hope this isn't too embarrassing, but we're going to do a cool down with our straws.
Oh, with our straws. Yeah. Here's your straw.
Damn, Doug has really taught you. He gave us a cool down. And now I only want to do it with straw.
Okay.
Can you talk us through it?
Yeah, we do a few different versions, and it honestly has been a moment since I've done it,
which is hence why I was saying I need to start doing it at night.
But I think the whole idea is normally you're going from here, building up, kind of up your range.
Now we're going to shut it down.
Okay, great.
Let's start, like, not too high, but just.
That's a little too low
Hailey Williams, thank you so much for being with us.
Thank you. That was lovely.
That felt really good.
It did.
And I love you and I love your voice and I love spending time with you.
I love you so much.
I don't know what I felt like I knew you.
I'm going to really unpack on my way home.
And I'll send you a playlist.
Yes, please.
Because we need to know what's going on in Copenhagen.
You're right.
Because I'm embarrassed about how little I know what's going on over there.
We need to get over there.
And don't think that for the rest of the week, I'm not going to dine out on the fact that
Haley Williams told me there's a lot of music going on in Copenhagen.
I'm going to say it at least 10 times.
Tell everyone. Tell everyone you know.
People I meet at the gas station.
It's hot. The block is hot in Copenhagen.
You got to tell them.
I'm going to drop that like it's nothing.
I'm just going to say it so casually.
I'm going to make like hundreds.
Hands in your pockets.
Cigarette appears.
Okay, friends for life.
Yeah.
Okay, bye.
Bye, guys.
We're going to stay here, but you're going to go.
Thank you so much for coming, Haley.
well, you're my new best friend, whether you know it or not, and we'll be friends forever.
It was so fun to see you.
And I just want to say, Haley talked about a lot of amazing musicians and people that she loves to work with.
But for this polar plunge, I'm just reminding everybody about two things.
The great Kathleen Hannah, who, you know, started Bikini Kill and La Tigra and is an incredible activist and musician and instrumental for so many women's.
careers such an inspiration i know for me and many other people um and the linda lindas a band that
kathleen has supported as well as haley forever they are just this really super fun great musicians
great vibe i got the chance to work with them in a movie i directed called moxie where they were
playing at the dance and um they're just they're just so fun so check out music from the linda
Linda's and always bow down to the great Kathleen Hannah.
And thank you, Haley Williams, always, for all that you do.
Can't wait to see what's next.
Okay, thanks.
Bye.
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The executive producers for this show are Bill Simmons, Jenna Weiss-Berman, and me, Amy Poehler.
The show is produced by The Ringer and Paper Kite.
For The Ringer, production by Jack Wilson, Katz-Belaine, Kaya McMullen, and Alea Zanaris.
For Paper Kite, production by Sam Green, Joel Lovell, and Jenna White.
Berman. Original music by Amy Miles.
