Good Hang with Amy Poehler - Natasha Lyonne

Episode Date: June 24, 2025

Natasha Lyonne is the oldest girl in the world. Amy hangs with the 'Poker Face' star and talks about being a child character actor, making 'Russian Doll' together, and the double slit experiment. Host: Amy PoehlerGuests: Ronan Farrow, Jeremy O. Harris, and Natasha LyonneExecutive Producers: Bill Simmons, Amy Poehler, and Jenna Weiss-BermanFor Paper Kite Productions: Executive producer Jenna Weiss-Berman, coordinator Sam Green, and supervising producer Joel LovellFor The Ringer: Supervising producers Juliet Litman, Sean Fennessey, and Mallory Rubin; video producers Jack Wilson, Chris Wohlers, and Aleya Zenieris; audio producer Kaya McMullen; video editor Drew van Steenbergen; and booker Kat SpillaneOriginal Music: Amy Miles Athleta.com Designed for the Power of SheOne-time use. Not combinable. Subject to change Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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Conditions apply. Hello, everyone. Welcome to another episode of Good Hang. I'm so excited about our episode today. It is with the sweet, dreamy, and brilliantly smart Natasha Leone. We talk about so many things today. It is a symphony of conversation. We talk about what it was like to live in New York City as a young kid. We talk about Nora Ephron and how important she was to Natasha. We talk about making hits together. and what it felt like to be part of a show that meant so much to us and to so many people. And so it is a really interesting, funny and deep conversation like it always is with Natasha. And to be guided as to what I should ask, I always like to check in with people who know Natasha well, who have worked with her, who count her as family. And so I asked two of Natasha's closest friends to join me and give me some questions to ask. And so joining me right now, via Zoom, is Ronan Farrow, journalist, podcast host of the new podcast, Not a Very Good Murderer, and playwright, actor, screenwriter, and creative director of the Williamstown Theater Festival, the great Jeremy O'Harris.

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Where are you, Jeremy, in the world? Oh, my God. I don't want to embarrass myself. So I'm trying to get a very popular actress to do a movie I'm producing. So I'm still with her at Jack's Wives, Frida, with the director. And I am in the bathroom of Jackson Wives, Frida, on University. Oh, my, so you're in the bathroom of a restaurant trying to secure an actress for a project. Yes, I'm a girl boss like you, and I'm just trying to make sure all my side hustles like

Flores. Very, very good. I love it. Always hustling, always moving forward, never looking back. Perfect. And then, Ronan, where are you? I'm in my home office on the Lower East side, not trying to convince a glamorous actress of anything right now. But, you know, the day is young. I could find an actress to try to persuade in some way. I'm going to try to keep up here. Jeremy's a lot to keep up with. I mean, I have so many questions, and I hope, by the way, that both of you come on so I can get in depth about what you're both. I mean, you're both such interesting, brilliant people. And I guess my question is, what, you know, when you think about Natasha and you think about her in the world, a person in the world, like how would you, how would you describe who Natasha is as a person and a friend?

Jeremy, you want to start? I would say she has more intellect in her left pinky than most departments of major universities have. She is cruelly, and yet she has this great ability of making you feel like the biggest star ever, even at your lowest. So there's like wild intelligence and wild generosity combined into this sort of atomic bomb of like the ideal friend. That's so well said, Ronan.

My sense as kind of a broken person from a broken home in some ways myself is that that runs very deep. And you know, you know her deeply. And so I think you could ask her about that on a profound level where she is searching for a sense of family and successfully creating it. I mean, that's the main thing that I would add to this conversation. Natasha, for all the ways she's like riotously fun and. eclectic in the things she does and the people she surrounds herself with and it's a wild ride being around her. She also, she is family to those dear to her. And like I really became more deeply close with her in a period of my life where I was at a low point and she didn't even really have a way of knowing that, but I was like profoundly broken and lonely. And all of a sudden we went from being acquaintances to her being like every night, you know, come dinner time. Jeremy's very familiar with this. So you'll get a text from her being like, what are we doing? Who are we screwing?

You know? And then it's like Natasha's wild circus, you know, is off to the races. And through that persistence and that kind of like lack of traditional boundaries, she's not indiscriminately that way, but when she decides like, hmm, no, this is a real one

and I want to give them my emotional space and time, it's such a gift because she really like pulled me out of a moment of isolation and gave me a meaningful sense of family. And all of a sudden we went from like zero to 11, 11 being like spending the holidays together. You know, and I was like bringing your to be my family. We were going on vacation, sometimes Jeremy. It's, it is a real gift. And it's something that I've learned from. Like if you, in our busy lives with all these different distractions and things going on that prevent reflection and prevent deeper community sometimes, if you can do what Natasha Leone does to the people

you love around you and just like keep at them and make it happen I think that is actually the most meaningful way we can form community in a time when we really need it. We really need it individually, we really need it as a country. So Natasha's the answer to everything in conclusion. Wait, Ronan, see, this is why

it's so annoying that you went second because you're so like, I would have been my better had I known that you were going to give literally a mini- Yeah, you know, screw Jeremy's superficial bullshit answer. The community building Okay, what you guys seem to be to her, tell me if I'm wrong, is there's a very fraternal energy with you and Natasha. Like, do you feel like her brother, her wife, her lover, her mother?

Like, if this is a family, who are you to her? In the many group chats, I'll give like, I'll send that clip of Oprah talking about Gail King where she's like, she is the mother I never had. She is the sister. everybody wants. She is the friend none of us deserve. Like, she is all of those things. And that's why I think she's been

the ideal, like, you know, sort of like an egg donor for my future sperm, which is something Ronan and I have fought over, like who gets to take the Natasha eggs. I think that like, you know, in a society where eugenics are coming back in fashion, Natasha

and I would make super babies as with she and Ronan. Oh, that is so true. That is that's a future. A Jeremy Natasha baby would be gorgeous. It's a beautiful future world. We can all envision right now in our heads. Amazing.

Amazing. Also, I want to change this podcast to just Jeremy walking through the streets of New York and us falling. Wait, what's happening with your actress while you're strolling? I'm so sorry. She's outside having a cigarette with the director. Just pan to her just so we can see him. Yeah.

Spilled a tea, Jeremy. Who is? I can't let you know. You've got to put a post-production coda on this episode. Yeah, I will. Okay. If we, yes, if we get her involved, please, but for right now, we're just going to change her face into a cat and we'll reveal it if she says yes. Thank you both so, so much. You know, I have to say that one of the nicest things about this is the feedback I get from guests who feel very seen and loved when we ask people who love them to join. So I have no doubt that Natasha is going to be so thrilled that we talked because, like you said, she's a connector. And I think she's just going to just, so I thank you.

And on behalf of Natasha, I thank you for jumping on today. I know you're both so busy. Thank you so much. I really love her. I hope it was helpful, did her justice in whatever small way I can because she's important to me. She's been a real lifeline to me. Yeah, I love her too.

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That's right. You know, brief history of time. It's like Stephen Hawking says, the universe expands and contracts. And that's what you need to know about women in cinema. And nobody can get from vagina to Stephen Hawking faster than Natasha Leone. That's right. You're here. We have known each other for quite a while now.

I would say coming up on maybe 20 years in some way. I would say maybe coming up on 30, which is an exercise I'm not proud to have recently done with our friend Clea Deval. You know, Clea directs this season. Last season she played my sister. She's my best friend. I have a big crush on Polar.

And forever. And rightfully so. Put me in a sandwich. Everyone's married. There's not how it works. guys. Fantasy. So, but, so Clea is directs this season. There's a great job. No spoilers, but she does direct Method Man, who's my favorite, no offense. Fantastic. I mean, we have the same sense of humor. The guest list on that show is incredible. I have an image of you, a memory of

you coming by UCB, and of course I knew who you were. And I had this image of you being, like, at the time, feeling like you were seeming and presenting quite sure. shy. Like, gentle and shy. Like, we didn't really... I was stoned. Oh, yeah. I don't smoke pot anymore. Um, and I was probably drunk. And I also, I haven't had a drink in 20 years. Yeah. But I'm thinking about it. Yeah. Today. So we met, do you remember when we first met? Um, so our friend, so Jake Fogel Ness. Yes. So I was like 16. You were 16 then? I was 16 and Jake Fogel Ness was 16. Wow. When I was 15, he's a very, very...

popular now. Have you heard of Woody Allen? Okay, so I did this film called Everyone Says I Love You. Woody Allen was my dad. Goldie Hawn was my mother. I finally felt seen. Thanks to that onset tutor, I discovered the surrealist movement, Apocalypse Now, heart darkness. I mean, so many things changed through that tutor. Anyway, I was 15, left behind with a guardian because my mom was well. And so I lived underneath or on the, you know, ground. floor, so I guess, adjacent to Curry in a Hurry, which is on 28th in Lexington. And this woman, she was a criminal attorney. Her name was Ruth.

She worked at an office with Jake Follinestad, and I guess as criminal attorneys at law, I'm guessing it was called. And for some reason, it was like, oh, both these kids are like 15, 16, and Jake had that show on, was that MTV? Yeah, he had like an MTV show where he was like a young fan. interviewing like the Beastie Boys. Yeah. Bjork.

Yep. He had really good guess. And Jake is a really sweet, tender, learned guy who like, liked a lot of things and liked showing that he was enthusiastic about a lot of things and was a writer and creator at a young age. And so sort of the basis for Wayne's World, if you've ever seen. So Wayne's World is about these two guys. And, but he was kind of the basis of that, like, you know, a sort of public broad,

what I just like how? Yeah. Public access show in his mom's bedroom as a kid. So he's sort of like this, you know, young prodigy. I was doing this movie. We were introduced. And the point is that Jake was a comedy, like, I was never a comedy nerd. I would say I'm still not, frankly.

I just, but he was sort of my gateway drug. Yeah. And so he was the one that knew about UCB. He was the one that was bringing me to SNL. And I think that I was about 16. Wow, so you were 16. Yeah, because I do remember a sweet and, you know, like a, yeah, a younger, quieter version of you then. And it was, I remember you coming around with these big eyes and like observing a lot of stuff that was happening there and being very sharp and funny and everyone loving your work already and you, but you being, like just even back then where when you, when you. in the room, people want to head towards you, like moth to flame. You have a electricity about you. And you did then. And I remember that. And you're really taking me back. Like,

I'm pausing and taking us to McManus. I want to take a minute because I remember that. It also was like, it takes me back to a much younger time too. We were, like, I, we were only a few years apart, but it felt like a long, we were, we were, I don't know, I felt like an older sibling. Well, because to me, you felt like just this rock star. Just because, first of all, I've never been a stage person. So figure I've been, you know, acting since I'm four. I just turned 21, 46. And so at that point, I had been a child actor.

I'd been on Peeply House. Yeah. Very famously. I was Dennis the Menace's babysitter and Dennis the Menace. Okay, not that famous. Christopher Lloyd and Walter Matho were there. Didn't know who I was. A small part.

And, you know, so I'm just saying, I always say this to like Christina Ricci or McCulley-Colone. I'm like, yeah, but you guys were child stars. I was a child character actor. I see. Yeah, that is different. You're right. That is different.

Yeah. So I wasn't really, like, exposed at that level, but emotionally, the kind of tether that we all have, or Haley Joel Isman, this season in Pocafe's Peacock. So he is also a child star. There's like this unspoken way that we look at each other in the eyes and we're just like, I know that you have been alert and awake since you were four years old. And so have I. Mm-hmm. It's so specific. It's eerie.

Mm. Because it's like, that means I was doing the family taxes at 12 years old. Mm-hmm. I was like, you know, there's a lot that goes along with that. Yeah. Of paying the bills, being alert, knowing how to, like, present to adults. Yeah. There's a big price to pay for that. And also access that you get at an age that you may or may not be ready for.

It's a long way of saying by the time I'd seen you on stage doing like ask at, I was in shock just because my life had been like, I'd done 60 commercials and I had been for three seconds on screen and as the world turns, you know, some episodes of some weird movies, I made, you know, but like you just bounded up there, even your show recently with Tina. It's sort of this thing that I was just like, what is this activity? Because I was not a theater person. I've never taken an acting lesson. You know what I mean? And so it was like, what is this weird, like, athletic sport of confidence where it's just... So much running.

Well, it's just that it's inside of you. Like, I think I learned so much from you and from Fred about that, this, like, abundance idea of an endless supply. Probably, I think, that you guys get from dress rehearsal at S&L where you throw out genius ideas and just move on to the next day instead of lingering on something, like a diary entry. Oh, my God, I wrote a sentence. Yes, it's funny you say that. I do feel that one of the things about that training is you can't believe that your good idea is your last good idea. And in fact, throwing it away is like a power move to remind you that the next good idea is right behind it. You cannot get too precious about anything. And you get athletic in terms of like practicing coming up with an idea. Because I'm at a point now, I don't know about you, but I feel like sometimes we make the idea king. and I'm much more into people in process. I think an idea is what it is. It can be shined to be this beautiful idea.

It can be totally dull in the wrong hands. But an idea is not as important. A concept is not as important as people in process for me. I hear you. And it's so much so that in that whole exercise they do in pitch meetings of why now or something. Or like, what's it about? It's kind of like, hey, babe, just so you know,

Amy and I could make a show right now about this pair of sunglasses, it doesn't fucking matter. And the reason why now is because whatever where you and I are at in this moment emotionally that we're, it is, you know, saucy for us, to use your word juicy, right? We'll make this pair of sunglasses go live on that story. And, you know, it's but it's but a prop for our kind of inner now and this or something of what we find interesting and it'll be filmed in either black and white or color or, you know, on 16 or the AI generate, who gives a fuck? Like it's really going to be about where we're at emotionally. It's not actually, it's all in the execution and the human beings that you're doing it with.

Yes, to humans. That's right. When you talk about young Tosh, can you give me a little like a snapshot of young Natasha in New York City walking around? Like what did it look like when you were 7, 8, 9, walking around. What did your New York look like? Where were you? She's thinking of herself, and this is where I get mixed up, okay? Because I couldn't tell you if I've seen too many movies dusted, not on PCP, on dust. Have you guys ever just tried raw dust?

You go to the film forum, you just put your fingers along the side of the seat and you just wave it gently in your periphery. Just dust. New York does. Oh, man, that's just New York pure. Dust. It's not even, it's not even a truck. Have you guys ever snorted ether? It's crazy. So anyway, I couldn't tell you. Okay. If it was De Niro and taxi driver, or it was me in Times Square as a seven-year-old, is what I'm trying to say, Amy Bullock. I want it, but I remember being left behind at various castings, in my mind, there's this alcoholic figure. Let's call him dad. And I'm there, I'm at an audition, or like, you know, I was a child model.

That's probably why I posed so well. Oh, there we get to it. I was a Ford model. There we go. Okay, that's it. Okay. Later I moved to close-ups. I remember him casting rooms in Midtown. Also my mother, Paul Rubens, so lovingly said to me,

when he took me to a steak dinner in the valley after rehab, he said to me, Oh, Natasha, don't worry about it. I was never shocked. When things went south, you're going to be okay. But it was inevitable. You got to remember, I met your mother. So it was a real comfort for me. There was a witness to that time in my life.

The only only one I really have is I guess I have Gabby Hoffman and Natalie Portman and Lucas Husk because they were also in that Woody Allen movie where already I had a guardian. Right. And by the way, my mom is awesome and so is my dad. Like, they're really, like, brainy, wonderful people. I would just say that the big discovery of modern times is we have treated versus untreated, mental health, addiction, whatever. Like, now that's the revelation.

It's like there's no shame in whatever your mental health or, you know, addiction and whatever else. It's about, you know, are you treated or untreated? Like, are you experiencing a cycle of shame where you refuse to get help for it? Or are you doing your best, you know, in the day? are in one day at a time to kind of address it. I just think they didn't know. Like, honestly, I think it was the 80s. There was a lot of cocaine around. And I just think that was the best they could do. You know, I forgive them for it. Cut to the end of the story. I do recall a lot of me in Midtown, sort of like I'd go into the audition or the modeling, casting, commercial,

or print. And when I came out, sort of like, where are they? You know what I mean? And sort of like, and sort of like walking around Midtown, and this is where I can't remember if it's me or De Niro and taxi driver. I, because now it's such a cleaned-up hood with Disney. Back then there was a lot of... It was a lot of stuff.

So I remember being kind of like street-wise. Yeah. Because like if you just sort of, you had to, you know, kids, we didn't have cell phones. Right. We didn't even necessarily know how to use a yellow pages. You just had to sort of like know how to kind of sit still and have a sense of where they were.

It might reappear. Right. And be big and small at the same time. Yeah. Yeah. And know how to like, there's this De Niro quote that I read about getting recognized in New York. He's like, I'm a professional. If I want to get recognized and I need a seat at a restaurant, I just, you know, put on my De Niro face, throw my shoulders back.

And I'm a famous guy. And if I want to walk through Manhattan and have some peace of mind, I just disappear into myself and I become part of the wall. You know? Yeah. So for some reason that really resonated with me. And I think even as a kid, I sort of. learned how to do that of sort of like, I need help versus I'm in midtown Manhattan. So I need to disappear into myself. Yeah. So, you know, there's no human trafficking. Yes. Yes. Essentially.

You know, so we do this thing on the show where we talk to people before our guest comes who may know them or like be fans of theirs or have some, you know, experience being in their lives to kind of like talk well behind their back. And they also give me questions. Um, they think I should ask you. So, um, we spoke to Ronan, and Jeremy, just about an hour ago. Okay. About you. Uh-oh. Did they tell you that I tried to get shaman from both of them because I had a fantasy about having 13 children? They're fighting over your eggs currently. They both said. Yes, I know. Good luck of them. Congrats, by the way. By the way. But wait, so Ronan and Jeremy, of course, they dearly, dearly love you, as do I. And we talked a lot about how you have this way in which you

bring people together, right? You really want to create a group, a family in the way you bring people together. And, you know, Ronan wanted me to ask you, which is, like, do you feel that way like you're collecting family when you bring people into your life. So just to say, like, yeah, because I have this wacky family of origin story where, like, I mean, yeah, just, you know, the facts are they just simply don't exist. You know what I mean? Like I, they exist in my mind's eye, harrowing degrees. You and I made a whole show about it.

Jeremy and I recently finished a script, Jeremy O'Harris, and I recently, he did very, the most Tony-nominated playwright. Incredible. Yeah. And anyway, we just finished something, and I was like, holy shit, fiction. You know, and I was, because you and I have spent so much time sort of, I've spent so much time doing self-referential bits. What do that feel like to write some story?

a fictional story. It was incredible. Like when I sent it out to, you know, when I sent the email out, I was like sitting at home and I was texting Chloe and it was like four in the morning. So she was up with Vanya, you know, in New York at 7 a.m. for her. Me, I was in the middle of the night. My hands were cramped. I was, had like full carpal tunnel.

And I, you know, of course it's a, there's a few of you guys that really changed my life. It's like you and Nora Ephron and Jenji Cohen and Cindy Holland. and like these kind of like powerhouse women that just sort of like appeared and, you know, the top of Act 2 of my life and said, listen, bitch, you're a writer. You know, you're a world builder. Let's go. And I was like, no, no, no. So Nora and I were very close.

You know, I did her play poker together and stuff like that. But my hands and I looked and I texting Chloe and I was like, I think maybe I just sort of morphed into a type of Nora because I kicked out this, you know, know, fiction pilot that Jeremy and I wrote together, but it was like, I was in Los Angeles, alone with a dog in bed at like 4 a.m. just kind of as a showrunner person, kind of correcting typos and synthesizing and, you know, making sure it was ready to get PDF'd. Yeah. And I could feel my hands. And I was like, the spirit of Nora was sort of in me in that moment. I was, because remember how she was like this little New York lady? I never met Nora. You never met him? No. What was she like, would have loved, I know, would have loved. She was a real Amy Polar.

Oh, what a nice thing to say, Tosh. I mean, Nora was, like, revolutionary. Yeah. Um, you know, she, I remember, uh, so my first gig, heartburn, I'm just a, you know, an extra, asleep on a lap. Maybe Jaggles and a Merrill Street were getting married or something. That means Mike Nichols picked me from a picture. It was a big deal in my house. Uh, the lines. And then about maybe when I was like 30, so that was probably was four, when I was 30, Delia Ephron and Nora wrote this show called Love Loss and What I War. And I said to them in Midtown in one of these offices, I was like, hi Delia, hi Nora, I'm not really sure what the players. I'm not a big theater guy, although I've seen Amy and Ashcat on stage. But really,

I'm having some relationship prompts. And I feel like you guys might be able to help. hope if that's okay. They did. I broke up with that guy and Nora said to me, Natasha, I know you're in heartburn, but have you ever read it? And she handed me a copy. And I was like, holy Toledo, who is this human being? Because beyond this sort of image of sort of clean, you know, comprehensible images and jokes and a giant, like the heart and blood and guts on the page of the heartbreak and the genius. I just read Hartburn recently a few years ago. And Exactly that, Tosh, like being reminded of how much Nora put herself in that story, like, really let us in, really let us into her at a time when those kind of characters felt paper thin. Like, she was like a blood and guts character in that piece. It was so amazing to read it again.

It was just so, so it totally like was like a tectonic plate shifting moment. And also what, like, I'm somebody who's always had this weird chip on my shoulder that I need to shake. It's no longer serving. around like being a tough guy or being bad or cursing. That's really me being, you know, I'm just nervous. I'm just, you know, an introvert, extrovert kind of weirdo who's like making it up as I go, lifelong improviser with no training, winging it, you know what I mean? And kind of like relying on the people that I'm like, you know, are like a drowning man sees as a life preserver like, who the funk is Amy Polar? Like I think that's safe.

You know what I mean? And so for me, like, you know, Nora was. God, I just, she's a giant. And she was safe. She was safe for you? It was also that it changed my worldview around, so like I'm a scholarship kid on the Upper East Side. Like so the family had some money, then they lost it.

Then by the time it's me and my mom, like a loan, you know, she's divorced now on the Upper East Side and I'm 10. I'm going to this private school on the Upper East Side, but we're in like the wrong side of the track. Sort of, I'm not sure if you're familiar with the film called Slums of Beverly Hills, I might be in it. But in Manhattan, it takes place in Los Angeles. In Manhattan, you also have, like, on the Upper East Side, the good apartments are the ones on, like, Park Avenue. And, like, within this space that's really rarefied air. In the fringes of it, though, you have other people there. So I had this beef with Nora, because I imagined her as, like, real Upper East Side. She retrained my mind to understand. that no kid she would be uh she would say to me like just stay in the house and call the housekeeper smoke outside she would remind me that her parents were screenwriters oscar levant who's extraordinary google uh you know he was the neighbor like that the the history of um complex humanity is so embedded into the DNA and the fabric of like every single individual

on this earth you know let alone every person that present well on camera or something. It really healed something, I think, to have her take me under, you know, Rosio Donno would say to me back then, like, you're not, you're not the irregular sheets in the discount bin at bed bath and beyond. Do you know what I mean? Like, not to be married to that. Tyne Daly would say to me on that production, don't be a part of the walking wounded,

you know, be a foot soldier. Like, let go of this story. that there's some sort of inner brokenness that you must heal that you must be constantly apologizing for by being chaotic or taking up space or being confused, you know, you're not running on time. All this kind of stress and anxiety that manifests in these ways that people don't understand. Like you, Nora, you know what I mean? Like with these kind of like tethers for me of it's also okay to be sane and successful and well. Yes. And boy, were we saying, successful and well when we did Rush and all. Right? I mean, ish, you know? And I would say that

we were insane in all the right waves. Yeah. I think that's a good way to say it. I mean, we did a show called Old Soul, which was kind of like a straightforward sitcom based on, loosely based on the idea that kind of what you were talking about is that at the time, you were feeling like you were surrounded by older people who were, who you were learning something from, who were kind of like surrounding you and taking care of you and you felt like an old soul. And that was an idea that we made a show that didn't go. But what a cast in that show. If we can just talk about it.

You tell it. Okay. If I can remember, it was Ellen Burstyn, Richard Benjamin, Fred Willard, Rita Moreno. Marla Gibbs. Marla Gibbs. And Greta Lee. The Great Greta Lee. Nikki Cat Crowell with a little cameo.

Yes. And Nick Thune. And it was. so, and I remember that experience, it was kind of like, you know, one of the many times when you're doing this job, you have a heartbreak of like, is it going to go? Is it going the way it's supposed to go? Are we feeling the way we're supposed to feel? But I remember working with you on that was the beginning of me realizing a couple of things first that you can do almost anything. You are able to produce and write and direct. You also are, you have this thing that the camera,

the camera just loves you, Natasha. Like it, I guess when I talk about electricity that you have, the camera is like, mommy. The camera's like, there's my mommy, there's my mommy. So watching you perform was an act, a lesson in acting. And then just that I wanted to do more. I wanted to work with you more again.

And then we kind of cannibalized that idea a little bit but just kept talking about the bigger ideas of what it's like to kind of feel like you live your life over and over again or if you get the kind of reset, what would you do with it and what does that feel like? And yeah, tell people what you remember about those beginning days of Russian Dahl. To synthesize, I guess, somewhat,

it's interesting that the way I remember old soul into Roshandah is, okay, we knew each other for, we met each other around this askat time, right? I sort of saw you. You were like this tiny little giant, the funniest, sexiest, like, hot little blonde number who was just a freak.

Like, so fucking funny, Amy Poehler. Jesus Christ, you know? So quick and nimble. And like a real, like an Olympian, like an acrobat, you know? Because it was just, the way you throw yourself around that stage and come up with new ideas all at once

and then of course S&L all those years backstage but just kind of not that tight we saw each other at some premiere at MoMA we kind of had a laugh next day you call me I'm in bed watching NYPD Blue falling in love with Dennis Franz no the phone's never ringing and you say as long as I've known

you've always been the oldest girl in the world should we make a show about it? Sure. Old soul and then the way I remember it is when that didn't go, we were crushed. Yeah. And we got into a car. And I remember, I think I was driving, the windows were rolled up, I was chain smoking, and you didn't like that.

And you said... I still don't. Natasha, I know the show didn't go. It's really hard. But picture, if you will, my body. No, picture for a moment. Imagine there was no network. There were no rules.

There was no anything. what is the show that we would really want to make? What's the story we would really want to tell if we left all that aside, assuming we could do anything anywhere? And that's how we started getting to this idea of you could go to the same party over and over again. You could take everybody home

thinking that something outside of self would heal you, would change you, would fix you. But no matter which iteration of this sort of exterminating angel, Benuel referenced journey, you would take, or the Doug Hofstetter version would be I'm a strange loop or whatever, parallel path, you would still find yourself at home with you and your unresolved stuff if you didn't really face it head on. And the real goal of rationale is you had always described it

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Then we do Russian doll, big hit. What a hit. What a hit. How fun. You remember the Emmys Day? Oh, my gosh. All those nominations after all that work. So fun. I mean, I got to tell you something. I haven't been on a, I've never been on a show that was a hit in real time. I've been in a show that was a slow, like, oh, that's people love that. It was a slow climb. And I've been on a lot of things that didn't pop. And I've been in films that I felt like I added. contributed to, but didn't really feel like was truly something that felt like I was a major part of. And to be on a show that is a hit is, I recommend. Yeah, strong recommend. She's great.

It's wild. And the idea that that was the thing that people responded to was shocking. Like, you know, yeah, American Pie was in a one movie in the world or something. It didn't feel like it was that close to the bone. It wasn't like, I'm telling you about, you know, trauma and mommy issues and fucking, I don't know, being self-destructive and wanting to take yourself out in this life and the need to move from a nihilistic lens that's placed on you through an epigenetic footprint that is the roadmap of each human being that one must forgive themselves for that may lead to sort of nihilistic, self-obsessed behavior that's self-destructive, transitioning into connection with another human being who's probably a stranger through like a small act of

kindness, you know, in a big city, and that that's the solution to your sort of metaphorical dying over and over again, insanity defined, you know, making the same mistakes thinking you're going to have a different outcome. Shocking that that's what connected. And it was funny. Hard fun. I mean, that feeling, too, I just have to like contextualize. that was a time pre-COVID, when Netflix was taking, I think, big chances and real chances on full season orders and artists and being like, yeah, I like your, I like the package that you got.

I like, I like, I trust you, Amy. I trust you, Natasha. I trust you, Leslie Headlin. I, you're coming in with an idea here. Like, make it and go and run. I think it's more than that. I think it was algorithmically. It was like, Leslie Headlin, was it sleeping with other people? There was something, also, like her movies combined with Parks and Rec, combined with, I guess, orange is the new black. When you put it through that at the time sauce, yielded, this is the budget for this many episodes. It's going to be a low budget thing, whatever you want to make. And it just so happened that what we wanted to make was, you know, quantum physics comedy.

And so we did. Now, you, when you, when you, you just brought up quantum physics, you're probably the only person I know who reads quantum physics, but only actor I know anyway, who reads quantum physics quite regularly. I'm assuming that I can't be true, but I do, I am a, yeah, I do find it very relaxing. It's sort of how I quiet the mind. I love things I don't understand. And over time, I've even begun to, understand, you know, some, you know, like small concepts or something. Like a double slit experiment is very much the kind of concept behind why Charlie and Nadia, you know, die at the same time all the time. Like, these are sort of... For the one or two people listening who don't know what the double slit experiment is,

what is it? Yeah, I think it's just, it's essentially the concept about what is the fabric of the universe, right? Like, are we here? You've done. I said you're Amy Fuller. Yeah. You're the listeners at home. You've all done LSD or microdosing.

I know what young people are into today with their mushrooms and chocolates and candy bars and gummies and whatnot. But with that little feeling that you have. Are we here? Yeah. Or even like what is, you know, deep sleep, REM state? What's going on, right? Like, what the hell is going on? Or when you close your eyes real tight and you open them and there's all little deep particles and stuff and it's a little bit trippy or weird?

Or is a real pedantic version of that? that is like deja vu. Sure. What is basic? Right. So a lot of people are basically after the same question, which is what is this fabric of the universe or this sort of unseen thing that we don't, can't comprehend? Like, are we in multiple timelines?

Is it, you know, AI so advanced now that it's scraped all of our data against our will that it's actually running tests and simulations on that to actually. figure out in this sort of paperclip sort of experiment type of thing of, you know, endless iterations to discover which world we should be in for a positive outcome. Like, is any of it real? The bottom line is in a day-to-day basis, it just doesn't fucking matter if any of this stuff exists or not, because it's basically you still got to pay your bills, you still have responsibilities, you got to show up, you got to fucking take a shower, you know, and you've got to

like be a person. So you can't get so lost in space, but emotionally for the purposes of Russian doll, it was really about, you know, this dual timeline kind of thing, right, that Nadia and Alan were fractured in or in season two. It's kind of about this sort of a quantum leaping, right? And it's, Carlo Revelli poses the question, why can I remember my past, but I can't remember my future? So, you know, we used it in a storytelling device as, would I be able to forgive the experience that was grandfathered into me traumatically if I had a day to walk in their shoes and understand that, you know, my parent came by it honestly. It wasn't on purpose, that damage done.

But all these ideas about sort of like healing and science and sort of connection and the idea that two different individuals could exist in two different timelines, but be having a similar experience because they're tethered by something unknown that's connecting them and binding them is still also part of this idea of what we're talking about of like creating family and all this kind of stuff of even when you and I are not together because we're busy, I know you exist. and it feels like, you know, thank God, you know, something like that. You know, listening to you is like watching a symphony. Like the way you talk is like a bunch of instruments playing together.

You have the highest aptitude for talking of almost anyone I've ever met. You're very good at talking. Thanks, Amy. It's not my real tongue. You got a tongue transplant? Do you, would you ever own a robot in your house? And if you did, what would you hope it did for you? Let me think.

So, it depends. I guess, like, you know, the first thing that comes to mine, actually, the only thing I've been thinking about since you asked, is root beer, my dog. So I'm like, how is it helping root beer? Is it soft? Does Roop beer love it? How old is root beer now 15, which is weird. Wow. I'm somebody that always thinks I'm going to be.

and be like, you know, dying any second. And even Rupier is 15. And for people who don't know, root beer is what kind of dog? A Maltipoo. Yeah. A Rottweiler. Yeah.

Bratweiler at heart. I tell people. Yeah. And Rupier is 15. Wow. It's wild. Yeah. Because I'm like she's even old for people years, let alone dog years.

Yeah. Yeah. Do you have a sense of when you, You, like, a lot of your work deals with death. You're very open about thinking about it. You meditate on it a lot more than people I know. Do you have a sense of when you'll die? Later today.

Oh, good. Well, then let's get, let's finish up. I can't tell if it's going to be, you know, I mean, like, that's what's so weird about the existential threat of AI. A lot of this stuff really is just from, you know, all the Russian doll deep dive research that I was doing along the way. And, you know, I'd be sending you articles in all hours of the night. You've got to see this one, you know.

Is it a simulation, Amy? I mean, and I'm always like, I think so. I think so. There's a joke in here, right? You're a professional. Where's the joke? Yeah, I mean, to your point, like it's like you have to like get into the heaviness of it and then life is a dream and nothing matters.

You have to constantly flip back and forth between those two things to get through the day. I think so. So what do you do to get through the day that isn't like where you're using a ton of brain? Like, so I've been asking people like, what is the thing right now in these times with everything is quite heavy? What do you do to check out, to zone out to, like, what do you watch or listen to? What do you do? So, you know, I have a swimming pool and I'm a swimmer. You've seen the swimmer with Bert Lancaster.

I, I swim. And also like, you know, I do. some kind of like meditate like when I wake up I kind of do you meditate yeah a little bit you know like I've done the TM course and but I'll just sort of sit there and I'll kind of like zone out look at the trees watch root beer run around you know what I mean and then do some laps and then if it's a more sporty day you know there might be some you know reggae you know Brian Eno involved like you know I'm catching a vibe that way when you're swimming can I ask you more questions It's about swimming.

When you're swimming, what's going through your head? I think a lot lately about, I'm just a big science, I guess. So I think a lot about how weird it is that we're animals. So I think a lot about how weird it is. I'm like, this is so amphibian. Like, those are my thoughts. I'm like, what's going on right here? What is this move?

And they call it a breaststroke. And then I'll go over here and I'm thinking about Busby Berkeley or, you know, how back in the 90s, I used to stay at the Chateau Marmont. and Anne Mira of Mira and Stiller. You know, she'd be there, and she and I would do jokes where we would swim and be like, isn't L.A. funny? Look at us swimming like two Busby Berkeley number, you know, girls, and we were trying to do synchronized swimming.

But it was me and Ann Mira. We didn't succeed. Yeah. That's not captured anywhere. Like, and so I'll think about that while I'm, and I swear they caught a breaststroke. And so what if some people do? So what do you do to...

I do storytelling. So, but your mind is still going there. Your mind, even when you're swimming, your mind is going. What, when does your mind, I would say that it's, uh, oh, probably, you know, sport fucking, uh, show sex. Uh, so I would say that's why I'm such, you know, saying, right? Like, hey guys. Like, because I think, you know, sex is a very, uh, people like to really, um, you know, consider it and give all this meaning to it. I'm a little bit more German than all that. It turns out not German at all. Uh, but, I think it's like there's a physical, we are animals, it's important sort of like medicinally to quiet the mind through a third activity that reminds us, you know, sport essentially is what I mean, you know, athletics.

The double slit theory. The double slot theory. And so, you know, I would just say that swimming and, you know, sexing. Mm-hmm. Sexing. And so body stuff. Body stuff. Body stuff is what gets you, what pulls you in.

I relate, like, the idea of, like, feeling grounded in your own body. Yeah, when do you, but do you have it in other way? Yeah, I, I relate to this feeling, like, sometimes when I'm living in my head, like, I need a, like, pressure, like, physical pressure, whether it's, like, work, swimming or, like, physical touch, something that, like, reminds me to get back into my body. Yeah, like, and it's also, like, oh, the big one, obviously, like, the reason that, you know, I'm so in love with. you and Fred, Maya, whatever. It's really always been about laughing. Yeah. That hard is an outer...

I'm trying... You're talking to somebody who's done every drug in the history of the world, including dust at the film forum. I just had New York side of the seat, dust. And it's shocking. Yeah. That literally, like, hard laughing

where you will forget where you are and go to a third space. Like, I'm trying to. where you're just like, is this even fucking the fabric of reality? I don't even remember. I can't remember what I was pissed off about. Yes, yes, yes, I hear you. It is major.

It's major. It's major medicine. Major. Yeah. Sometimes I'm like, I'll laugh hard. And I'm like, oh my gosh, I thought I was depressed. I just haven't been doubled over laughing and like, you know, a week. What happened?

When's the last time you've laughed really hard? What have you laughed at hard lately? What are you laughing at right now? What's making you laugh? I had this hang recently. Charles Lennon's a musician and an old friend of mine. He said, come meet this polymath. And then, you know, I went home and, well, he was with this gentleman.

And he was there. And then we kind of dissected the polymaths, the quote unquote, math theories about the universe. And we sort of were able to break them down to like a moment in time where he developed a resentment against a science program. And that's what his sort of theory of everything was actually based on. We were doubled over laughing so hard. You observed something about someone in real time that you were like. Yeah. And we were just laughing so hard because the idea that it was sort of couched and, you know, out here, we meet a lot of people that are, you, I love your, when you say, enough with the geniuses, too many geniuses.

Talk about that, please. The word genius is thrown around a lot. Yeah. And it is, it's oppressive. The word genius is oppressive. I mean, and it's kind of. And also, it's used primarily for men, you know. I would say, like, maybe double up on calling women geniuses and maybe dial it back a

little bit. But I think you also say that, like, enough with the geniuses, sometimes people just need to get to work. Because geniuses have, like, self-exemptive. kind of like, you know, obsessed concepts or whatever. And, you know, like, well, concept, yeah, concepts don't pay, you know, concepts don't pay the bills. They don't get pent-to-paper.

No. You got to kick out of a draft, babe. That's right. And, I mean, like, you can't, you can sit in your think tank forever, but, you know, like, chop, chop, you got to make something and you got to fail. Yes. You got to, you got to get out there and try. Okay.

Yes, ma'am. I got one more question for you. Okay, doctor. Love you so much. I can talk to you forever. But I got one more question. We should talk about poker face. What a gift that you're doing this because it means that we get to hang out.

I mean, really, that's like... That is my favorite thing about today as I get to see you. Yeah, I mean, like, that's what's so funny about growing up and, you know, being these show people. I think that over time we learn, unless you're making something with your friends, you really don't get to see him. No, that's why I work is so that I can see my friends. Also, I get a real boner in a non-weird way. I know you're a take and you're spoken for, ma'am. But, you know, I get the platonic boner when I see you on set with, like, your truck and what are these called, your buds are some shit?

I call them Cairns. Oh, Cairns. There's a real term for them. And, you know, directing, production. Like, I love seeing, you know, and I love directing. I love being at the peak of those powers and watching my friends do it. I'm like, oh, this is who you are, Janixen Bravo. You know what I mean?

But you directed poker face. Yeah. Tell me about that experience because it's so great. You're such, you're incredible in it. And what was your experience directing on that show? And in general, what's your experience? How much do you like it? Yeah, I mean, I love directing.

I know you do too. Yeah. What do you love about it? It just feels like, I'm in my right place. Like, my feet are where they're supposed to be. And if you're asking me about, like, what quiets my mind? It is, I don't know if it's the same for you, but it is like, that's when I hear the click.

So much is happening that is so in the present moment. Yeah. That finally I'm like in my body and hear the click. And they're also, when you're an actor, they're kind of like, do you need to pee pee? And when you're a direct and you're always just like, I'm in my 40s. Like I think if I had to pee, oh, now that you mention it, I'm in my 40s, I totally got to pee. Sure. Thanks for reminding me.

But when you're a direct and nobody says, you have to pee-pee. And when you go pee-pee, they don't say, are you going to come back? They know you're coming back. You're making the movie. And when you're at the monitor, you know, when you're an actor, you're kind of sitting there and you're like, why is everyone so stressed? I'm a codependent. I can feel it. I'm like an empathy guy. I can read a room. But when you're behind the monitor, you're like, I know why we're stressed. It's because we're looking at the one-liner for tomorrow with the first AD and so-and-so missed their connecting flight, you know, out of Austin. So it's not about that. Is it as simple as control?

Because what you're talking about is, like, feeling like you've got to hand over your control to other people or be able to be in control of, like, how you shape your day, your project, your own experience, the time you get to go to the bathroom. I think that that's this weird ancillary bonus. I think that for me, what it's really about is, like, being this, like, 360, like, filmmaking machine that is actually getting involved with, like, lenses and camera positions and angles and what. what's in the frame and what's not in the frame and what is the actor doing and how we need to, on the fly, change that line of dialogue to reflect that or because we're running out of light. So therefore, we're going to reposition this whole thing. And it's like, I just feel so... In control?

No, like, I feel like 360 activated at, like, what I was, like, made to do as a kind of... Yes, it is in control as, like, a conductor, but it's a conductor of, like, a frame. And it's also that, like, you know, I think what I hate being... I don't like being famous. I think it's whack. Like I'm just saying I've been a character actor for a New York character actor for like, you know, 40 years and then like famous for six. It's super fucking weird. Like people treat you all like, you're some.

I'm like, I'm a person. I'm just winging it too. But when you're a director, you're with, what's amazing about poker face especially is like I am with the crew. Like I always like, you know, me and Rob Harlow, the Dolly Grip. We're making the show together. Like, I fucking love that, dude, because the cast is all rotating. So the cast is rotating. Directors are rotating.

Writers are rotating. So it just feels like I'm one with the camera as I should be, and really discover that directing in Rush and all, a real piece comes over my body where I'm, like, inside of the material as an artist. instead of sort of sitting outside of it, waiting for somebody to tell me, you know, this child, you did a good job or not. It's kind of like, it's very alive. Like I start walking like Charlie Chaplin because it's so many things are happening at once and it's very funny. How do you feel when you do it?

That's exactly, you said it beautifully, which is the idea of like, the idea of being in community in creativity. Creativity in community is what directing feels like. It feels like your people are looking to you to have answers, but the answers lie within all the people making the piece. That's it. And it's really fun. The thing is that acting is so lonely. Like, Clea and I used to do this funny thing.

She was dating a drummer. She was living at Topanga. She had like six Wiener dogs, wiener dogs. But, you know, her girlfriend at the time would be in there drumming, practicing for the band. And Cleant, I would sit out there with those weaned dogs in the pangoon. We'd be like, so fuck, we're actors? Well, how can we don't get to do band practice? Should we jam?

Should we act? That's what's so weird about acting and writing, you know, at least in draft, not in the room. They're very lonely sports. That's right. But directing is a team sport. I cannot wait for poker face. I cannot wait for that new season. I love watching you act.

I love watching, I love listening to your brain. I love seeing you in person. I love being around you, Tosh. I love being, I miss you too, bud. And I love being part of the weather system that is you. I love being able to get close to you any chance I can. I'm always so ashamed as if it's a series of weather reports. And like the big event in life is to just be like, eh, you know, no waves at all.

No waves. And also I want you to know I kept this necklace safe the entire time because I was nervous about it going with. But here it is for you. That's so crazy because you're a non-cleptamine rack, ma'am. I didn't replace it with, like, fake diamonds while we were talking or anything. I would never do that. That's a weird move. I love you, Tashi.

I love you, Amy. Thanks for doing this. Thanks for coming. Thanks for having me. Oh, man, Natasha, thank you for coming. And you're just the best. And, you know, Natasha talked about so many things, but she mentioned something that I wanted to just remind listeners about. as we plunge into our polar plunge at the end of the show.

And that is the book Heartburn by Nora Ephron. It's an incredible deep dive character study into the breakup of a marriage. And it also was made into a film with Meryl Streep and Jack Nicholson. I would advise reading the book and then watching the movie, but you can do it either way. But both are just these beautiful pieces of art and really honest storytelling. And heartburn so good, still so good. Nora, so good. Thank you for everything that you gave us. All right. Well, thanks so much for

listening to Good Hang and we'll see you soon. Bye. You've been listening to Good Hang. The executive producers for this show are Bill Simmons, Jenna Weiss-Berman, and me, Amy Poehler. The show is produced by The Ringer and Paper Kite. For The Ringer, production by Jack Wilson, Katz-Belaine, Kaya McMallin, and Alea Zanaris. For Paper Kite, production by Sam Green, Joel Lovell, and Jenna Weiss Berman. Original music by Amy Miles.