Good Hang with Amy Poehler - Sandra Bullock

Episode Date: September 8, 2026

Sandra Bullock spoke the perfect amount on this podcast. Amy hangs with the actress and star of 'Practical Magic 2' and talks about her favorite German word, working with Señor Cloones, and how she t...akes her protein.Host: Amy PoehlerGuests: Maisie Williams, Joey King, and Sandra BullockExecutive producers: Bill Simmons, Amy Poehler, and Jenna Weiss-BermanFor Paper Kite Productions: Executive producer Jenna Weiss-Berman, coordinator Sam Green, and supervising producer Joel LovellFor The Ringer: Supervising producers Juliet Litman, Sean Fennessey, and Mallory Rubin; video producers Jack Wilson, Aleya Zenieris, and Chris Wholers; audio producer Kaya McMullen; social producer Bridget Geerlings; video editor Drew van Steenbergen; and bookers Kat Spillane and Paige GarbariniOriginal music: Amy Miles Visit uber.com/safety to learn more. Switch today at https://www.Visible.com for just 25/mo. Or get premium Visible+ pro plan and save $10 on your first month with code HANG.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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Starting point is 00:00:00 This episode is brought to you by Marshalls. Fall fashion is well and truly on the way, and Marshalls buyers are hunting down the must-have items you deserve for the right price. That means every trip to Marshalls is a chance to find an everyday staple, a show-stopping hidden gem, or your next obsession with new items arriving every day. Stop by Marshalls today to find more quality, more style, and more value than you ever expected. Visit marshals.com.ca. to find a store near you. Hello everyone. Welcome to another episode of Good Hang. Boy, we are excited about our guest today. She's a gigantic movie star and an incredible talent and it's the one, the only, Sandra Bullock. Sandy Bullock is here today and we talk about so many things. We're going to get into it. We're going to talk about her love of physical comedy. We're going to find out her favorite German word and I'm going to try to guess what it means. We're going to talk about what a nightmare it is to stand next to Nicole Kim in on a red carpet. And we are going to talk about her new movie, Practical Magic 2, out there.
Starting point is 00:01:04 this week. It is great. Check it out. She is incredible. We are lucky to have her. And we always do this at the beginning of our episodes. We talk well behind our guests back and we find somebody who knows our guests and wants to give me a question to ask them. So we are joined today by two of her co-stars from Practical Magic who play her daughters in the film and create incredibly talented actresses in their own right, Joey King and Maisie Williams. Hello, ladies. This episode is brought to you by Uber. You know those little choices you make that give you more comfort throughout the day, like planning your outfit the night before, sharing your location with a friend when heading home late, taking the actual lunch break away from your desk?
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Starting point is 00:02:37 Oh my gosh. What did you get him? Tell us we won't tell anyone. I got, because it's our three-year wedding anniversary. He's right over there. You're going to hear what I got. It's fine. Just go in the other room. I got him. Three years of leather, so I got him a really nice, like, leather carry-on. And someone's delivering it to the house? That's, that's fancy. Well, I got it shipped because... Okay, okay, so it's just someone who's shifted. Okay, got it. I thought it was like a white glove service where, like, a butler is delivering a leather case. I want my bag to have a butler.
Starting point is 00:03:14 Okay, I'm sorry. I'm sorry if we ruin. the surprise, but that was excited. We get excited when somebody rings the doorbell. I mean, who... I'm sorry, someone rang the doorbell? But who rings a doorbell anymore? Like, there's no... Like, we had this happen on the show when we were with Rachel Dratch. Yes. Amy, we know. You've seen it.
Starting point is 00:03:35 Oh, my God, the best. I... That clip comes up on my feet all the time and I watch it. Just, I watch it full through every time I see it. Joey King, Maisie Williams. I just want to say, I love and... have watched everything you guys have done. When I saw that you were in this, in Practical Magic, too, when I saw that you were the daughters in the film, I was like, okay, okay,
Starting point is 00:03:56 we're going heavy hitter here. We've got a four top, a real heavy four top with Nicole and Sandy and you too. I'm like, incredible. Oh, my God. Also, you're crushing it on TikTok. We love making TikToks.
Starting point is 00:04:11 We really do. TikToks are so good. Oh my God, It makes me so, like, I feel I'm like blushing that you watch them. Now, Joe, you've been, you've been on TikTok for a minute. Me? Yeah, I've been there from the beginning. Been there a while.
Starting point is 00:04:28 You were there before COVID, I believe, which is. The birth. My sister got me on TikTok. I remember to promote one of the Kissing Booth movies. She was like, you've got to get on TikTok and start dancing. And I was like, you're all right, soldier. Whatever you say. Yep, and now here we are.
Starting point is 00:04:45 I feel like I've been watching you guys depressed for this movie. And it's been very cool to watch not only, like I've said, very talented women get to do something very special together. But it does feel like you have all really enjoyed working together. Yeah. It was so much fun. It was kind of crazy. It was a year ago to the date that we finished, I think.
Starting point is 00:05:08 Right, Joey, you're right. Yeah. It was so, we spent the whole summer together. It was beautiful. And then doing all this. Press together has just been like such a dream. Just a lot of giggling, actually. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:05:20 So much, so much giggling. Maisie's like my favorite woman ever. So this has just been like the greatest joy to make such a close friend through this film that's all about sisterhood. Every time, you know, they always are like, what spell would you cast in press if you had to cast one spell? And my answer every time was like, I just want Macy to live closer to me. That would be so nice, living in an age. We were literally in the waiting room to come on here and we're just like texting. Like we just can't stop.
Starting point is 00:05:50 We can't stop communicating. Maisie, play your cards right. And a leather briefcase will be hand delivered to your door in just a few years. Okay. So we're talking. I am talking to Sandra Bullock today. Whom I really don't think I have met. Okay.
Starting point is 00:06:09 Yeah. I mean, I am of the age where we may have met. and and I forget, but I don't think so. We've never really properly met. What was your first experience meeting, Sandy, and what do you love about working with her and should I call her Sandy right away? I feel like, yes.
Starting point is 00:06:27 Okay. You should just rock straight in with Sandy. Okay. I feel like she'd love it. And she always had to do yourself that way. I met her. She immediately offered me some Harry Bow, I think, which just like broke the ice,
Starting point is 00:06:38 which was lovely. And it was at the read-through. Just to be clear, that's a gummy bear. Yes. A gummy bear. Got it. Right. Important to make that distinction.
Starting point is 00:06:50 Yes. Yep. And she texts us immediately. It's your mother here. Like how she gives that. Mother. Mother. Take mother.
Starting point is 00:07:02 It's your mother. It's your mother. And she just like ever since it's just been like a mother to us on size. It's been so special. We went for a little sleep. over at her house. It was cool. Wait, tell, say more about that. What do you mean? Before you started shooting, you did?
Starting point is 00:07:19 No. It was like, after a night shoot, after a night shoot, we went there and we had little cocktails at like six o'clock at the morning and then stayed over in her little cottage. And then the next day we got to go in the hot tub. We raided her fridge and ate all of her food. She had to go to work. She left us in the house. And then we just like ate and sat on the sofa, watched like YouTube.
Starting point is 00:07:42 It was nice. It was so nice. I mean, she's just the best. She's such a nurturing spirit. She's like, she's one of those people who, you know, she says that she'll always be there for you
Starting point is 00:07:54 and she's like really means it. Like she'll answer the call anytime, any day. I've texted her in distress before me like, I need your advice on something. And she's like calling now. And so, and that's just such a, she's such a,
Starting point is 00:08:10 like a girl's girl and also just, just like, I don't know. She's just, I'm so amazed by her and her and everything she's been through and she handles herself with so much grace and elegance. And I just, and she's, she's just so hot too. I know. She's so hot. She's so hot. It's a lot, like, it's a lot. It's hard to ask somebody like, why are you so hot? I think you have to. That'll be my first question. Why are you so hot? Why are you so hot? No, but she has this thing. I mean, we've been like, you know, we, get ready for our guests and we're like reviewing their body of work. And her body of work is so diverse. It's incredible. She has been in a space movie that has made a gazillion dollars. She has done like
Starting point is 00:08:53 really deep, intense drama. She's done horror. She's done incredible physical comedy. She's been done hugely successful romantic comedies. She's done, she can do it all. How does she like to work? And what was it like working with her in this film? I mean, like I love watching her. She, she's almost like tinker like especially if it's like a physical comedy scene like she's really building it she'll get to set early like she rehearsed on her own
Starting point is 00:09:22 she'll like block with supporting artists and like she'll build it and build it and build it and each tach she like adds something more but it's like she's constantly finessing one idea and it's like so amazing to watch and it's like really nice to watch someone doing something
Starting point is 00:09:40 that seems so off the cuff and so now but they're like, and they've thought about it a lot, and they know what props they want to have. And like, I just, I liked to see that on set. Like, it was a peek behind the curtain because everything she does is so funny, and it seems so natural and seems just so in the moment. But, like, it takes a lot of work for her to do something
Starting point is 00:10:00 that she's, like, really happy with. And we got to watch that time and time and time again on this movie. She's also just a really great, generous actor, too. Like, there was just some stuff where we had where it was like really emotional for either me or Nicole. And like the way that she would support us when it was like our turn to have like a like a really tough moment or a big moment was so just beautiful. And it's like inspiring and and so special because she she takes her job so seriously. And she also takes making sure others experience a good job too so seriously.
Starting point is 00:10:37 I ask the people that I get, they have the pleasure to Zoom with, if they have a question for my guest. And I was curious if you think there's anything I should ask her today on your behalf. I think she's got such, like, there's such a lack of vanity to the way that she approaches physical comedy. And I think it's really, like I get very self-conscious on that. And I know that there are times in her life where she feels self-conscious. but it's never in front of the camera. So it seems like it's never in front of the camera. And I just, like, has that always been just instinctive?
Starting point is 00:11:16 Or is that something that she's, like, crafted? Like, if she's feeling self-conscious, how does she get out of it? Like, I just, like, really, I really want to know how she back with that. I love that question, Maisie. I think that's such a good question. Okay, and what's yours, Joey? My question for Sandra is, I want to know when the last time she's, just quietly thought to herself, does it get any better than this?
Starting point is 00:11:42 Like, what's the last moment she had that was so, does it get any better than this? Oh, that's such a beautiful question. And it's going to also help her get back to that moment. That's a really generous question. I'm excited to watch the episode because I'm excited to, like, see where she goes mentally with where she arrives. I think that'll be special. Oh, that's a great question.
Starting point is 00:12:06 You guys are so smart and talented. And the future. You're the future. So we're in really good hands. And I've always said that. And we all know that the future looks incredible and there's nothing to worry about. Yeah, literally it's perfect. These are perfect in our hands.
Starting point is 00:12:26 Come on. Well, thank you so much for your time. I know she'll be thrilled that I talk to you both. And I bet she's got the warmest things to say right back to you. So thank you guys so much for doing this. Oh, we love you, Amy. Thank you for having us. Thank you so much for having us.
Starting point is 00:12:42 Thank you so much. Such a pleasure to meet you both. Hope to get you in the stewed. Yes. We with love. Great. Me too. Okay.
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Starting point is 00:13:50 We looked at the fake food. Yes, we did. I'm very, very excited. Thank you for buy it. I know you're in the middle of a lot of talking. I am super excited because I'm excited to be in the company of your brain. Truly. Same.
Starting point is 00:14:03 And your sweater says shenanigans. It's from the film. It's something Aunt Jett says. And let's start there. Okay. Because when I was thinking about how to start this interview, which I've been very excited for, we were just talking about the fact that you really can do so many things well and how tiring it must be to be good at so many things. You know what it is?
Starting point is 00:14:29 You're a physical comedian. You're an incredibly successful producer. You can do really deep, meaningful. things big and small. You've been in huge hits. You've been in small. In stinkers. You've been huge hits and some that have failed. You've been in things people don't choose to see. Yeah. Yeah. And you've withstood that. Yes. Did I? But you are, to me, you have what Lucille Ball has. You have what Carol Burnett has. You have like a physicality. You have timing. What did you guys laugh at in your family when you were little because you have you have really interesting creative parents.
Starting point is 00:15:08 A really interesting parents had. They're dead. Yes. So they're up here. My mother was German. Right. So right there. What is she laughing at?
Starting point is 00:15:16 Not funny. Really did not have a sense of humor. Which actually makes you want to challenge that on a daily basis. Yeah. My father was from Birmingham, Alabama, English, Irish, French, you know, like, storyteller from the South. So he had a rhythm of his own. But I really think I got it from trying to break my mother.
Starting point is 00:15:45 Because she was trying to break me. Yeah, by making a laugh. And it was always when I hurt myself when I fell. So which kind of goes to hand in the German. She would laugh hard when you felt. She would laugh so hard. And I went, my mother didn't laugh a lot. So to get joy out of her was everything.
Starting point is 00:16:02 My dad, I had in the pocket. But my mother really was someone that I knew wanted to laugh and needed it. But when I finally found it, it was like, it was my little ace in the pocket. She was a tough audience. Was there any American stuff that she laughed at that she liked when you were younger? Do you remember her laughing at anything or any, liking any pop culture American TV? We didn't really have a lot of TV in the house. Like we didn't have magazines when I lived overseas.
Starting point is 00:16:33 We watched. foreign films, and, you know, I would always gravitate to the ones that had a physicality, so you could understand it. But no, my mother was an artist. She was an opera singer, and it was very serious. I'm incredibly intrigued by this. She was extraordinary. And I noticed that now more than ever being a mom and seeing her practice, her craft, which was incredibly annoying to me. Yeah. Of course. It was annoying. It was loud. And it was in the basement of our house. And it would permeate the whole neighborhood as we're playing like kickball outside you hear her vocalizing and you're just like you have very good posture i'm trying did she did she have really good posture yes yeah she was
Starting point is 00:17:14 breath control and all that stuff all of it from the diaphragm she was she was so she was she was she practiced a high art so did my father yeah but he just had that southern thing that was more relaxed but also to control the room and put the remedies she had no desire to put the remedies incredible none whatsoever i'm always fascinated by the people that can stay quiet and that don't feel the need to change the temperature in the room. It's fascinating to me. It's like such a power move. It is funny that you bring that up because today I had that very conversation with my sister. I was like, I am so tired of hearing myself talk. Oh, babe. She goes, I can, I'm like, and it's also the press junket. I feel like I'm here to just share and do whatever. But she says, you know, it's also your undiagnosed ADHD and your trauma
Starting point is 00:18:06 response. I went, okay. You're like, wow, you've read for Phil. Thank you so much. But is this ever happened to you where you're on a conference call and you're accidentally on mute and you're talking, but you're on mute and then you get off mute and you realize like, I've actually just been the most powerful I've ever been by not talking. Yes. By pausing for more than 10 seconds. But I never do that. I have to work at it. Okay, we were talking about, we were talking about your German mom, but we're talking about opera. I, your relationship to music is really interesting to me. I've learned that about knowing you. Not only like, you know, as a producer, you're picking music for the projects you make. There's really good needle drops that are in films that you make
Starting point is 00:18:47 because of you, but you sang opera. No, I did not. Oh, you did it? Are you a singer? Not even close. Okay. Are you, no, I'm not one of the, you. No, I'm not one of those who says, oh, I can't sing, and then I'll be in, like, at the car and I'll belt something out. And they're like, you've got a great voice. Okay, you know you don't have a good voice. I should not be singing. But what I have is great rhythm. Yeah, I see that. Timing. Timing. So, but you sang with your parents. Were you not in operas? Yes, I was in the back. I was in, I was in the background. There's always like some filthy child stealing money and coins off the floor. That was me. And so do you feel, did your mom want you to be a singer? Does she ever want you?
Starting point is 00:19:28 No, she knew. Look, there could only be, she knew. There was only one her. And she was of the highest order of talent. She just, she was the one. I was the jokester. I found my way to sort of level the vibe anywhere was through that. So she knew, of course, at some point I would be that.
Starting point is 00:19:50 I was in theater and I did things like that. I didn't even attempt to sing. I am going to my first opera very soon. I've never been. Which one are you going to? George Saunders, they're doing an opera based on his book, Lincoln and the Bardo at the Met. Really? And I'm thrilled.
Starting point is 00:20:04 But my question for you is, what, like, what should I prepare for? Because I'm assuming you've been to many. Yes. And it's amazing how, no matter what the language, when it's good, you understand it all. And it's, it's the profundity of the performances and the set deck and the, it's grand. It's always grand. And I remember as a kid, I would be in the back of the car. My mother would always test me like she would play something.
Starting point is 00:20:33 She goes, what does that make you feel? And I would lean in. I would say, this feels like someone's losing someone or they're looking for someone who's dead. You could feel it when it's good. When it's bad, it's bad. I think at the Met, you're probably going to be just fine. And it's going to be amazing. I think you're going to be okay.
Starting point is 00:20:52 What a cool thing for your mom to do to test you on what are you feeling when you hear this. I mean, we would go to Italy for the operas, just sit on the stone steps and with our little ice cream and just watch the animals come on stage. And it was, it was just beautiful. It was really beautiful. And speaking of German, can you tell me your favorite German word and I'm going to try to guess what it means?
Starting point is 00:21:14 It's a schizkopf. Say again, please. Scheyskopf. Sheiskov. I'm going to say that is the feeling that you get. when you win an argument. You're very close because the word would probably be used in the argument is you, right before the mic drop moment. Oh my God, chills.
Starting point is 00:21:41 I speak German now. Do you want to know what it means? Oh, yeah. What does it mean? Sorry. It means shithead. It's what my mother would teach. All the boyfriends are like, would you like me to teach you some German?
Starting point is 00:21:53 And they were like, yes, Ms. Bullock, I really would. and then she'd give them, you know, shithead. So maybe she did have a tiny sense of humor. That sounds pretty funny. It does sound funny. It sounds pretty funny. She sounds like a trickster. You know what?
Starting point is 00:22:05 She is. She just didn't know it at the time of her life. It came to her later on. Well, I mean, everybody needs a straight man, and it feels like your mom provided that. Yeah. The, you know, there's a million journeys to get to being on screen and, like, you know, you're performing, you're acting, you're acting.
Starting point is 00:22:24 moved to New York, you study at Meisner. I studied in college, the teacher that came to the... What college were you at then? East Carolina University, only because my best friend in high school had an application. My dad really wanted me to go to a school of the arts, the top ten. I was not getting into any of them. I auditioned for one. It was very unfortunate.
Starting point is 00:22:45 Do you remember what you audition with? I don't recall. It's that traumatic. I remember the smell of the room, the smell of fear. I remember the flop sweat. Oh, it was this austere white, I was like, I'm not supposed to be here. I'm not, I wasn't, I was pretty oddly shy as a kid
Starting point is 00:23:03 because we traveled back and forth. And I had a Lisp. And my list still kind of comes out when I'm, like on this press tour, my Lisp has come out. When you're tired or talking to your family or something. And I didn't really notice I had one until a few years ago. I was working my coaster. I was like, you have a list.
Starting point is 00:23:18 And I was like, fucker. You were like, stop paying attention. Stop. Why are you looking at my mouth? Yeah, good. Worry about yourself. But I didn't have, I wasn't baked. I wasn't mature enough.
Starting point is 00:23:29 I was very sheltered. So I could never have made it in any of those environments. I did not have the confidence. Did you like studying all, like that miser, vizener technique? Very much. So for people who don't know what miser technique is, it's kind of cool. How would you explain it? Premises being truthful in imaginary circumstances going.
Starting point is 00:23:46 So I wasn't comfortable when they would say, lay on the floor and you're going to fry like bacon. And I was like, I'll never be cast as that. this will never, it felt artificial to me. It didn't. But Meisner, they give you a piece, started off with, you know, these soliloquies in a book. You had to go and do an emotional preparation as if going, okay, this never happened to you. But prepare as closely as you can to the emotion and the feeling of getting to this. What would make you feel like this? And it gave you a tool outside of yourself that made sense, at least for me, made sense to hang on
Starting point is 00:24:21 and also listening. Yeah. Which we're probably not very good at. I did. We like to, you know. You know what? I'm good at it. You are?
Starting point is 00:24:31 And so are you. I've seen it. Active listening, you're very good at it. And I am to... It's learned. It's not always, not always. But can't you tell very quickly when you're with someone who's not listening? And there's like, there's no lonelier feeling.
Starting point is 00:24:46 Yeah. When you can tell when you're talking and you can tell that someone's dead behind the eyes. It kind of makes me sad. It makes me sad to you. Makes me really sad. And I, maybe it's a little codependency. Maybe it's like a little bit of making sure I'm staying connected. But I think I think you can still be a good listener while you're talking.
Starting point is 00:25:04 Yes. If you consider yourself a talker. Yes. And if you've done enough therapy too, you've learned that, you know, it requires you to just stop. Yeah. And that, all of that. It's all of that together in a pile. And I got very lucky that this teacher came in.
Starting point is 00:25:21 teach the Meisner technique. Yeah. It was always the girls in class who could cry on the spot. And I'm like, oh, they're such brilliant actors. She can cry. Totally. Never could get there. No.
Starting point is 00:25:31 Tears. No, I can't. Unless I feel it. What? You don't like the tears? I have a whole thing about tears. Just explain. Well, I think that tears, to your point, are very effective.
Starting point is 00:25:44 But people, just like being flexible, people can sometimes are just good at tears. Like they were just, born being good at tears. And keeping them like perched right there. And then it just, when I cry, it's the square mouth. It's like things tilt. It implodes. And there's nothing cinematic about it.
Starting point is 00:26:02 I heard that Elizabeth Moss, I don't know if this is true. Elizabeth Wright in, call in, that she can pick what I she's going to cry out of. Stop. That's what I heard. Isn't that an incredible rumor? We need to know how this is done. Lizzie call us because she's so good at crying. The people that are able to go, blink, blink.
Starting point is 00:26:21 and drop a tear? I'm sort of like I'm having a little FOMO like right now. I wish I had... But I think it's like being able to touch your toes or something like you either have it or you don't. I mean, I can do that. Well, not all of us can. Not all of us can't, Sandy. Well, have you been practicing? It requires. I know. I tried to touch my toes with
Starting point is 00:26:38 John Sina when he was in here and he was... Did you know? That's not a euphemism. How dare you? And he touched his toes so well. He touched his toes? to the floor. I can see that.
Starting point is 00:26:53 Are you that flexible? Can you do that? Damn it. But I practice. I practice. I practice. Okay. Speed.
Starting point is 00:27:03 Okay. So then you audition. Then do addition for speed. No. Where I had to be flexible. Yeah. You probably did have to be flexible and speed. You've talked about this before, but I'm really, those early days of like walking in
Starting point is 00:27:15 rooms, trying things like you were saying, not being fully cooked, but feeling excited about stuff knowing that you had the passion but maybe not the experience yet, but going for it, those swings. Feels like really paid off with speed. You were able to like meet the moment of that movie with the enthusiasm that that character needed. And that audition process, I've read about it and read about you talking about it, but it sounds really funny and fun.
Starting point is 00:27:40 It's in, in retrospect. Right. But what was it like? Again, again, like the audition for the school I didn't get into. Yeah. There's lots of schitzing. and just you're outside of your body. And I think from New York, I was a waitress.
Starting point is 00:27:54 Every Thursday I got the backstage magazine. I pounded the pavement. You went to your little auditions with your headshot. And you just had to do it. So I was comfortable just doing it. Yeah. Did you have to pretend you were on a bus when you were auditioning? I was on a folding chair and they gave me a paper plate.
Starting point is 00:28:13 I think I have to say, you know, we talk about acting a lot on this because I talked to a lot of actors. I think everybody should have to do that once to feel like, you know, you think in life, like, I've felt what it's like to be humiliated. And you're like, no, you're not quite yet. And then they bring in Keanu Reeves, like when they end the call back in your psych, am I still on the chair with a paper plate? Yes? Still the plate?
Starting point is 00:28:34 Okay. Okay. Dissociate and driving. Did you do little old-fashioned roll down? And then I rolled down the window. And then back there because it's. The bus has all these levers here. Yeah, you're just the mirror.
Starting point is 00:28:52 The hydraulics. There's all kinds of stuff going on that I was like, you know. Check in the glove compartment. There's no glove compartment in a bus. I mean, I don't know. Is there? Maybe there's an air freshener. There's a million bits you can do.
Starting point is 00:29:05 Not in this bus. No, there's an air fresher. That movie is so huge. It's huge for you. You and Keanu, lifelong friends. You create this incredible chemistry together. We didn't create it. It just shows up.
Starting point is 00:29:17 It shows up. You're right. And you have. Chemistry with so... You are really, really good. I'm like a skunk. I kind of just spray it. You're like, spray.
Starting point is 00:29:27 And whoever's in the line of fire. Whatever dogs are in the neighborhood. Start coming in. That's what people don't realize. You have to, like... I agree. You got to turn the channel. You got to...
Starting point is 00:29:39 But talk about chemistry for a second, because people love to talk about it. But what was it about you and Keanu that, like, immediately you just felt? I think with us were so different. We're so, he is very reserved in Zen. And as we were saying earlier, give us a silent room and you can watch a spin out. So anytime he's silent, I'm like the whirling dervish around his silence.
Starting point is 00:30:04 And he's just waiting for me to wear myself out. He's just patiently waiting. And then he often doesn't respond to what I say, you know, until like maybe a day later when he's thought about it. So it's someone to learn from in terms of what you and I need to work on. Yeah, the tortoise and the hair kind of thing. Yeah. But you've worked with really, really different leading men. And they all have, they are good at playing.
Starting point is 00:30:33 Yeah. They're just like they're there to volley back. And I think because I am not the femme fatale. I am the tomb boy. I am the one that you'll get in there with the guys. And, you know, I think that's why it works for me because I love being poked. I love being, you know, just be the needle and just trying to get at me because that's a spark for me rather than the real sweet stuff, which I just goes uninteresting to me. It goes back to timing and women who have that and I'm just, I can watch you all day long, but your respect and support of your opponent.
Starting point is 00:31:08 Because it is like a match. It is. And it's a little bit, a tiny bit competitive in a fun way. In a fun way. In a fun way. But it's also, I see you have so much respect for the. person opposite you. I feel it. I feel it and you wait. Like even in the bloopers and the outtakes, I see you giving the person grace enough. And you're like, am I going to step in on this one?
Starting point is 00:31:28 I'm going to step in on this one. I see it. And it's a rhythm that just it, you feel it here. I feel it here. And don't you feel? I feel like people have music. Like they just have a rhythm. And to figure out how to make it work is you have to just kind of get into their song. Totally. Yeah. Yeah. And then I think the reason why people like actors or performers or writers or whatever is they like their music. They like their song. Yeah. It's like when someone says you have good taste, that means you have the taste that I have. You know what I mean? I was like, you have a nice taste. This is what I would do. Yeah, that's so true. Gravity. I want to ask you questions about gravity. I mean, well, you love talking about gravity. Oh my God. I have so many questions. Ask away because I don't
Starting point is 00:32:08 think it, yeah, go ahead. Well, you were, before we get to gravity, you know, you won for the blind side, Oscar, you've been nominated many times. How many names are you? No, I've been nominated twice. And won once. Okay, well, that's more than once. It's like a 50, 50. I have 50%. Right? 50%. Okay. Several. You've been nominated several times. And you won an Oscar and a Razzie in the same weekend.
Starting point is 00:32:34 Incredible. That one. And I came and took the Razzie back because I went home with it. And they were like, you can't have this. I was like, yes again. They were like, we only have one. We only have one. We had Dakota Johnson on here. Dakota Johnson told a really nice story about a voicemail that she got from you.
Starting point is 00:32:50 She's one of the, she's one of us. What did you, what did you do when she won her Razzie? Called her and welcomed her to the club. What did you win your Razzie for? All about Steve, a film I did with Bradley Cooper. And we never heard from him again. Exactly. He just, he just, yeah. This episode is brought to you by Door Dash.
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Starting point is 00:36:04 But a movie like Gravity, I'm just going to put out there, is a really big, deep, lots of, it is you-by-yourself camera, on your face movie. So what was it like to shoot mostly and often by yourself? What did it feel like? There was so much
Starting point is 00:36:24 technology and within the box that I was literally within the box if I wasn't on the wires and if I wasn't with George. It was music. It was the only relationship I had was to our sound mixer
Starting point is 00:36:39 and Alfonso because the whole stage was black. And so I had earwigs in. And so I said to the sound guy, I said, look, there are these, because it was all rhythmic. My body had to be very slow like Martha Graham, and I kept looking at a dance teacher that I had at ECU, who came from Alvinalee. And taught me how to not throw my body around. He goes, you got to stop throwing your body around as he'd throw me up against the wall.
Starting point is 00:37:04 And I'd be like, me, I'm coming back. But I learned how to disconnect the head from the body because a head could speak at normal speed. And the body had to move like that. You know, everything had to be what it would be in gravity as I was looking at a dot. That's George. That's a Soyuz. That's. And the sound mixer had, we chose selections of sounds and music and songs and vibes that, like you said, you start vibing with a project.
Starting point is 00:37:34 I was like, this song reminds me of this right here. This makes me feel this moment. You know, what makes me feel an absolute silence. What, you know, what. So I would say I'm not getting there. I play two, seven, and five, and then I'll get to. And he just was my life mixer. He would mix it.
Starting point is 00:37:50 Wow. And just get me to. Is there any music that you'd be willing to share that you listen to that you remember? I don't even remember. But I just remember at the end, he gave me this tiny little, you know, what's it called? Zip drive or something? It's a tiny little thing with like a whole where he'd plug in, you know, and he just handed it to me. And I was like, that's my performance.
Starting point is 00:38:10 Wow. That's so cool. So it tapped into my body because my body had to do these strange zero-g things. So you were just faking the whole time. Everything was faking. Like everything. George and I were in the pod and Alfonso was giving us notes. And they said, does anyone want to water?
Starting point is 00:38:25 And I said, I do. And they handed it to me. And I grabbed it. And George goes, you know what you just did, didn't you? I said, no, I have an idea. He goes, you were like this. Everything was very slow. And I kept talking to Alfonso and I grabbed the water.
Starting point is 00:38:36 But my body was so used to having. Wow. That must have somatically been really cool. It must have been peaceful. It was very peaceful. Yeah. Yeah. Well, it was a humongous hit.
Starting point is 00:38:46 Congrats. Didn't do that. Yeah. And you had just adopted your son, right? I did Loubert. Yes, Loubert. We called him Lubertie Jones. That was his name on the, because he was just, I had dressed him in these cute little English vests and he had these little hats.
Starting point is 00:38:57 He was so cute. He was still cute, but that was super cute. Yeah. It was just, it was an amazing experience because for Alfonso and his son, and they wrote it together, it was about his sort of feeling lost and having an existence. moment in life of despair. And how do you show that in space? You go to space. It's such an incredible movie.
Starting point is 00:39:20 Yeah. Beautiful movie. And your performance is incredible. Thank you. And George, too. I mean, it's all just exactly where it needs to be. Yeah. And it, like, space, films about space, I kind, I'll kind of watch any time.
Starting point is 00:39:37 But the feeling of, like, I don't want to go to space, I guess is what I'm saying. Nor do I. good. Let's not go. Yeah. And what was it like working with clunes? You know what? I've known clunes since before he got... Is that how he likes to be called? Senor Clunes. He prefers. Amal calls him that now. He insists. When did you guys first work? We'd only worked together then, but it's, we first met when he was, you know, on back porches of all their friends, drunk doing Buddy Hackett imitations. And I like, this was before, what was that, the show he did where he's a doctor, you know, E.R.
Starting point is 00:40:11 That thing. Yeah. The other ER. The other ER. It's where he was doing all the pie. He was like George of the pilots before he became super George. Wait, did you just say what is the show where he was the doctor? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:40:21 You know, the doctor show. Oh, my God. ER. I know. I said ER. You have it on there. I've watched ER three times. You know, I've watched the entirety of ER three times.
Starting point is 00:40:30 Like recently? The last time was during COVID. Well, it's worth it. It's so good. Yeah. They're just. I mean. Okay.
Starting point is 00:40:39 So George is. a player. He will play and he will bat things back and forth and he is he's fun. Yeah. George is fun. You guys were great together. Yeah. Really great together. I mean, we're good in space together. I don't know how we'll do on land, but on space we're amazing. In space. In space we're great. There's no way out there that can compete with us. You're like, I'll only work with him in space and this one I'll only work with underwater. Exactly. But now we're talking about practical magic, which you're doing tons of press for, First of all, and I just love, I mean, I know it's weird to talk about the press people are doing, but just watching you and Nicole talk is so nice and relaxing. You guys are such opposites in the best way.
Starting point is 00:41:20 Nicole is just kind of on a different channel and in her, and like in a really. She's regal. She is. She's regal. And she's also very playful. And so are you, but you play totally differently. And to see her play. is really nice because you don't get to see that a lot.
Starting point is 00:41:40 You know, she's right. On this one, because what I had to carry wasn't really sexy for a comedian because I was like, I'm grieving. Yeah. I'm having issues with my daughter. Right. I'm battling with fear and all that stuff. And then she got the fun role.
Starting point is 00:41:56 And I was like, where can I find moments that are appropriate within these dire situations? Yeah. And we kept with a writer writing these fun lines for Nicole. And she didn't want to do. Like, she was like, I don't want to be the comedic sidekick. I'm like, yes, you do. Yes, you do. That's what you want.
Starting point is 00:42:12 Promise. And she just took to it. Like, she found her, she found her rhythm. Yeah. And she's really good at it. Yeah. I mean, the friendship you guys have is really cool to watch. I mean, it's very authentic.
Starting point is 00:42:25 I'm, I know the female friendships are very, very important to you. I would imagine. I mean, as they are to you. Absolutely. What have the women in your life done and the friendships in your life done for you? Everything. It's like, it's like, it's, I don't think I can quantify it because it changes with the seasons.
Starting point is 00:42:41 It changes with our changes. It changes with where we are and where we're not. And you know what? They give me a tremendous amount of grace. They judge, like my sister will be like, she's doing that thing again. But my sister will sit there and allow that thing to pass because she knows my history. She knows where it's coming from. Even though she wants to kill me, she's going to wait it out.
Starting point is 00:43:06 Yeah, that's what I always say about friends. is they know you really well and they like you anyway. Oh, yes. You know, it's like they really, really know you and yet they still take your call. Yeah, and hopefully, I mean, it's really important for me to be a good friend. What's your conflict style? Do you, are you a retreater? I'm a mix, I'm a little sprinkle of, but it also depends on who I'm opposite, what their style is.
Starting point is 00:43:30 You know, I know, I mean, that's sort of the vernacular right now is like, I'm an avoidant, you know, whatever. I am probably a little bit of everything. depending on who I'm opposite and how safe I feel. Yeah. Because in what we do, unless it's very close relationships, you don't know who's coming to you with safety and giving you a safe place. So it just depends. But I can read people really well.
Starting point is 00:43:55 I bet. And I don't always heed my own warning until like three beats later. I'm like, I know, I'm like, I want to give them a shot. I want to, you know, like whatever they're coming at me. and maybe it's this, maybe they're having a hard day. Yes. And then three beats later, I'm like, it's what I thought it was. Yes.
Starting point is 00:44:12 Yeah. Yeah. That instinct of feeling something and listening to it and responding to it, like that to me is like a lifetime of work. It's like our entire life is to figure out like how to shorten the distance between what we sense and what we act on or something. Don't you think that's also being a woman? Yes. We have a more sensitive meter, I feel.
Starting point is 00:44:35 of course. But we're also conditioned in this, you know, social universe that we are not to trust that. Well, we become experts on other people and we become really, really aware of how people are acting and changing. And to your point, we're like, we're conditioned to give a lot of grace. Like that's why, like, someone like your mom who's like, I'm going to be an island and you're going to have to come to meet is still really fascinating to find in a woman. because it's still just like, whoa, she's not saying anything and she's not pleasing anybody. And she really does not care that people are projecting all this stuff on her. It's fascinating. I mean, the way you're saying that, I'm getting to know my mom.
Starting point is 00:45:20 You know, like I feel like I am getting to know my mom as I become more of a mom. You know, even each day. I'm like, oh, I see why she said that. I see why. I mean, Practical Magic has a lot of those themes, like beautiful themes about, like you talked about history. trauma, pain, the idea of protecting the people that you love, the idea of like what is a mother's burden and blessing, what does she get to do, what does she have to do? It's so great. And you're playing a witch 30 years later almost from when you played it before. And I'm so interested in this
Starting point is 00:45:53 idea in general that as women get older, like there's something that gets very witchy about us. We've always had it. It is, it's the lag time, those three beats become one beat. Right. You're no longer, you know, like you're no longer waiting or second-guessing yourself. You go, it just is. Yeah. Because you've had enough instances in life to prove you correct when you had that feeling. It's called Mother's Intuition for a really good reason, women's intuition. Like it's, we are extra sensitive to things.
Starting point is 00:46:23 And it's both a blessing and a curse. But I think as you get older, you just don't want to waste time anymore. You know, at least I don't. The way you speak about the losses that you've had in your life makes people feel very seen and you're very generous about it. And it in many ways reminds me of this idea of like the witchiness that happens to us when we get older. That we're coming in with some pain and some hopefully some lessons or knowledge from it or whatever. And I really appreciate it as a person listening to you share because I. I don't know. I can't explain it other than I feel safe in the way that you share
Starting point is 00:47:05 because I feel like you're taking care of yourself, which is a big relief for me. Yes. That makes any sense. It does. And I want to take care of you. I want to take care of you making me teary. Guys, stop. I really want to take care of people's souls, like, or whatever, whoever the person is. I never want to be known as someone who violated someone's confidence that someone gave me a piece of themselves and I was I was careless with it. Yeah. And I think, sure, younger age, I was a dingbat, but because of the things that I've been able to see and feel and experience and get behind the curtain on, I feel like it's a secret that
Starting point is 00:47:48 I don't want to share from those who deserve to benefit from my experience. Well, you've spoken beautifully about being a caretaker to Brian. and there's a lot of caretakers listening? The caretaker world is absolutely underserved. I've been very private since I was a little kid because my mother always thought I was up to something that I wasn't. You know, I really am like, why am I getting blamed for things I didn't do? I just, I'm a guilty, I just look guilty, you know.
Starting point is 00:48:14 But I don't want to ever, ever, ever not be, oh, God, how do I describe this? I don't. I did what I had to do in the situation I was in. I didn't want to say anything out of turn on what anyone, else experienced within that situation because everyone is experiencing something, their own journey with that. There's so much to the story that would be of service. But my story, my slice of pie and me and the kids, you know, that's all we can speak about.
Starting point is 00:48:47 Yeah. You know what I mean? I'd love to say, but, you know, it serves no purpose other than I have the information. I've met so many people whose family members have been diagnosed with. ALS or a neurological disorder. I'm like, this is what I know. What did you learn about yourself when you became a caretaker? What was a new thing that you learned about yourself? I am always a caretaker. Yeah. Always. And I learned that I didn't take care of the person that was taking care of everybody else. And that was a big wake-up call for me. Yeah. And I'm not good at asking for help,
Starting point is 00:49:22 but I needed help and I needed to ask it in a way that was safe. Thankfully, I had a few angels that stepped forward and was like, this is where the nurses are, this is where the, you know, what did I learn about myself that I have an incredible sister? And she, she, in her worry for me, gave me like an alarm of going, if you do not start taking care of you, something's going to happen to you
Starting point is 00:49:53 and what's going to happen to Lou and Lye and I was like you know and that to me that's you know I learned about myself I have an extraordinary sister you know
Starting point is 00:50:01 that's the only thing that I know I'm still developing I mean coming into a press tour I was looking at the photos of the London premiere and I'm like I'm not a red carpet gal are you out of your mind okay I'm just gonna
Starting point is 00:50:15 let me just sorry can I'm okay I'm gonna let everyone absolutely that's our first fight You look better than ever. Let me know when you're done. Your red carpet is slaying.
Starting point is 00:50:27 Let me know when you're done. Okay, I'm done. I agree with you, the outfits slayed. It's not just the outfits. It was incredible stylists that worked on this that made me feel comfortable in my body. From the neck down, I was so taken care of. The person on the inside, like I said to every, I would start panicking as we would get ready to leave. And I said, you guys are working on the outside.
Starting point is 00:50:50 in. I'm sitting in my body. I have no idea what you guys are doing. Yeah. And I was just like and then I got on the red carpet and I was like okay I've got this. I'm gonna pretend I'm which hand should I put here? I'm working. Like I'm not someone who's like, what's up. Totally. I mean, it's. I'm not one of those.
Starting point is 00:51:06 It's like I just had this. Yes, Sandy. I just had this experience. I just did a photo shoot and I was like did you do this? I gave myself a pep talk. I'm like Amy, you get in there and you be the person that sticks the finger in their mouth. Did you really say that? I was like, just be into it.
Starting point is 00:51:22 Yeah. I can't. It's so hard for me. I can't just be like, be like, I'm very, very sexy right now. And you just have to be a lot of like, who, me? More? You'd be like, I'm just in the middle of something.
Starting point is 00:51:37 And then there's two fingers. Like when someone shoves two fingers in their mouth in a photo shoot, badass. I'm like, girl, I wish I would have the whole fist in there if I could. Okay, I understand. I hear what you mean. Yes, I hear what you're saying. So the Warner Brothers, because we need you to, like, approve some of these shots so we can get them on social. I'm like, great, because by the end I was like, I did it. I did a really good job.
Starting point is 00:51:58 You know, I loved everything from here to. And then I went, what's your face doing? Is it just your eyes just like? I was like, why do I have stink face? Because you were like, I'm like, no. Worse, I'm like this. Oh, you look. Look, look.
Starting point is 00:52:19 resting bitch face? Is that what you had? Like I smelled something. I'm like, what happened? That's not what I was feeling. Because it was because you're here, you know why? Because you're funny. Yeah, yeah. That's why you have. And then when you're funny on a red carpet, you get this. Nightmare. You get someone going, can you raise a camera? It's like, it's a nightmare. It's a nightmare. We don't belong on a red carpet. No, we don't. No. But you do. There should be a comedy red car. No, we're not the same. I think we should advocate for a comedy red carpet. Unfortunately, that's every red carpet I've ever done. It is a comedy red carpet. But where the cameras help us out a little bit.
Starting point is 00:52:54 I've said this before. I'm really relating because I feel like I try my best. I mean, I try so hard. And I get full hair and makeup for hours. And I look at myself in the mirror and I'm like, I'm right, okay, all right. And I get in the car and I get out there and I'm and I feel like I'm posing like this. This is how I feel like I'm posing. And I see the picture.
Starting point is 00:53:16 And it's like. Yeah. I so know what you're talking about. It's like, when did I do that? Yeah, when you were authentic. But you're not, that's not the place to be authentic. No, exactly. You're right.
Starting point is 00:53:31 You can't be authentic. And we have to stop. We have to just. I agree. Stop doing what? Talking, moving. I agree. We can't talk.
Starting point is 00:53:40 You know, there's sort of those who. Nicole is incredible. Well, Nicole is a goddess. And she's every single. I just remove her from anything that we're in. So, like, I'm like, you do you. I would never want to do the red carpet with Nicole. First of all, I would look.
Starting point is 00:53:56 Do you have empathy for me now? I mean, at least you're 5-7, 5-8. Yes, 5-7-3-3. Can you imagine, I mean, I'm, can you imagine me standing next to Nicole? I would look. I honestly, it honestly makes me sick to my stomach. I would just be doing some weird. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:54:14 Some weird. Yeah. With your hands? That's true. So it's not for the It's not even like this. You're like, falling out of my pocket
Starting point is 00:54:22 and I'd be talking to her like this. Yes. We all do it. We all do it. And she is, she is a goddess. She is a goddess. Okay.
Starting point is 00:54:31 This leads me to my... Stink face leads me to. And I bet by the way, we all have body dysmorphia, so I bet you look incredible. We all do. I bet you look incredible. And I not bet.
Starting point is 00:54:42 I saw it. You did. Okay. We talk, we always on this podcast, talk to people who know our guest and give us, like, we talk well behind their back. And we talk to Maisie Williams. Are we already done?
Starting point is 00:54:59 No. No, we're not done. No, we're, we have so many more things on the, on the paper. But we usually do like about an hour, an hour 10. Okay. And we're live. I'm just kidding. We've been live the whole time.
Starting point is 00:55:13 Great. So they're going to see. These are all stuff. It's like the chint. It's just not working Wait, wait, yeah, we just put a little... You know what I like to do in the red car? We just put a little black and white cookie right under my neck.
Starting point is 00:55:31 We just, we just think about... And then it just sits right here. Just work it. And you just looks gorgeous. Would it be great if there's like a really great collar that you sort of had and it made your jaw snatched and then you had this taking care of the... And right on the way out, your publicist is like, do you have your cookie? Don't forget your cookie.
Starting point is 00:55:47 Oh, shit. My cookie for my neck. My cookies are. Okay. You look incredible. We all look incredible. We are beautiful. We are beautiful. Every woman is beautiful. Oh my God. I'm Schuitzie. Oh, my God. Me too.
Starting point is 00:55:59 But, okay, here is, say, we talk to Maisie and we talk to Joey. Oh, how extraordinary are those two? They are the coolest. They're so cool and talented. They are everything. Tell me about working with them what it was. You know, it's a combination of awe and intimidation because they are so free. I'm glad I had to play someone that was.
Starting point is 00:56:20 was tightly wound and had to be very maternal and dark and stiff, you know, like, because their freedom is intimidating and educational. Yeah. Like we were having about just being a woman and flying the flag and stuff like that. And I said something about fear. I said, yeah, but, you know, you've got this is amazing. He goes, oh, no. And then she went off.
Starting point is 00:56:39 She goes, being a woman, she went off on, oh, it was not liking the word witch. I said, I don't like the word witch because it always came with negative connotation. Of course it was. And Maisie had full ownership of it. Yes. I mean, and it was like... Yeah, it's the divine feminine and it's real power. They are both.
Starting point is 00:56:55 They both epitomize that. And it's so peaceful to see because I'm like, if that's where that generation is, my daughter's definitely in that generation. It makes you calm for the future. Like, maybe our job was well done, you know, Gloria Steinem. Yeah. Rest in peace, Gloria. I see how genuine Masey and Joey are about other women. their want for other women to succeed fearlessly
Starting point is 00:57:23 they're in support of these women. They don't feel like anything is being taken from them in their support of other women. And I'm like, I just find them, I learned. I learned a lot from them. They, of course, adore you. They loved working with you. And their questions were so tender.
Starting point is 00:57:40 I loved their questions. And it makes sense that they're those kind of people. Maisie's was, she was kind of talking about your physicality. And she also said something I found really interesting and, you know, not to make the comparison, but it was very, it's very Lucy is very Lucille Ball, is that she talked about the way you like to really rehearse your physical stuff. That rehearsing is the way in which you kind of get into it. For the physical stuff.
Starting point is 00:58:04 For the physical stuff. For the physical stuff. Not for verbal comedic stuff. Right, but that's what Lucy used to do. Lucy used to come in and walk through her physical stuff, which you imagine, like, her physical stuff felt like it was spontaneous, not at all. all. And she got more and more comfortable with the physical by doing it. I didn't know that. Yeah, she was really inter-rehearsing. And anyway, she talked about how for her, that physical stuff
Starting point is 00:58:26 is kind of like, Maisie can probably cry like the best of them. Kill it. Yeah. I mean, Arias Stark, the most incredible character. But she was like the physicality and comedy and those two things. And she was like, how does, she was like, how do you not get self-conscious when you're doing it, which I thought was such a tender question? And, um, and, um, and, um, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, I feel we talked about it a little bit, but I guess, how do you not? You do. You do. You use it.
Starting point is 00:58:51 Yeah. To be uncomfortable is the greatest feeling for me within doing the physical things like that. As uncomfortable as I can get, because then I can react off of it. So I try to set things up to even bump myself. We had this great gentleman who's, Gary, who did props. Gary, love me. It's like, so he's my set boyfriend, Gary, in the props, because it became a game of, I.
Starting point is 00:59:14 I would set things a certain way. And he figured out why I was setting them a certain way so I could surprise myself and then get caught on something. And he would slightly move it aside. And it would just give me something else. And like when it didn't move, I was like, why didn't you move it? Why didn't care he moved it for me? But to be uncomfortable is the best position to be in, I feel, for the comedy that I like to do. I mean, you too, right?
Starting point is 00:59:40 Absolutely. Like a little bit of tension. Yeah. That and that feeling like a little bit of danger and, you know, a tiny bit of, I don't know, I guess it's what an athlete must feel is the closest thing to feel. I'll never be an athlete. But the idea that there's something on the line. There's something on the line that you can create that that's not scary, but a little bit of stress. Yes.
Starting point is 01:00:07 And that's what I do for my lines. I learn them three quarters. I'll never drop a line for another actor, but I want to always be able to pivot, drop it if I need to, be in danger, like, let it surprise me as well. Because you can become very rote. Yeah. Well, that's if you learn your lines, which I choose not to do. You don't, okay. I don't believe in it.
Starting point is 01:00:29 That line thing. And then Joey had the sweetest question, which is, when is the last time you asked yourself, wow, does it get any better than this? Oh, my God. I know. I see a question. Isn't that so nice? Look at us crying. We're so good at it.
Starting point is 01:00:58 Do you see it? Get a close up. We're good. We can do it. But that's when I cry. I cry with kindness. In the big moments, when you expect everyone to cry, I have to hold it together because I have to take care of big things. The feels hit me when there's kindness that I didn't expect.
Starting point is 01:01:15 And that question. What a great question. I don't. And I think that's what she's meaning. She knows I don't stop enough and go, but it's not true. This whole past year from London when we started filming, I see things just like so differently. I really do. It's like I'm allowing myself to be a kid in how I see things again. But play is the indication that you're a little out of crisis. Out of crisis. Yeah. Really? It's hard to play when you're in crisis. It's like, like the reason why for a lot of people was hard to create during COVID, it was hard to like
Starting point is 01:01:52 organize thing, you know, because when you're really feeling in crisis, it plays is the first to go. Yeah. When you feel that back again, that's like some little bit of like feeling that things are getting just a little bit more safe or regulated. Well, I mean, for Joey then, her, for both of them, like, just, you know, because we're passing the torch or we're, as Gloria said, I light others' torches. So how are this. Enlighting their torch, it was a bonfire, you know, and to be opposite them, when there was, like, a lot on the, we have the nostalgia part.
Starting point is 01:02:25 And to see them just bring it, that's when it doesn't get any better. Yeah. When the choices we made to bring those two very specific talents on. Yeah. And watch them kill it. You're such a good producer. You know, it's like, you're such, can we just talk, take a minute? I love it.
Starting point is 01:02:41 Can we take it? You're just really, really deeply. empathetic, compassionate, but very successful. And you're just a baller of a producer. You know, that's really nice of you to say. I mean, I don't. You have produced, well, like 15 films or something, and you produce a lot of stuff.
Starting point is 01:03:03 And I think a lot of people can feel your presence when you're working on something because they know that you're producing it, frankly. You do a lot of good sucking up in your interviews. Well, you know what, right back at you. You're always trying to throw it back at me. Okay, and Practical Magic really, good music. Right? Right. I mean, did you have to get, was it, did you have to write personal
Starting point is 01:03:22 letters to people to get their music? But you did some calling. Yeah. Olivia, Rodriguez, Flewool-Witton. She doesn't, and she doesn't license to anyone. No, I know it. She's a fellow witchy-pooh. She's a, you know. She's a, she's a, talk about like, the, talk about, future is, no kidding. She's, she's, she's, she's. Olivia, please come on. We love you. She will. All right. Let's do a speed round, a speed, speed round. Hold on. Let me get it. Let me wet my whistle. You love real estate and design. Do we want to do it like this? Yeah, let's do it like this. Well, then the perves will get into it.
Starting point is 01:03:51 Oh, but don't you want? PURVs or an audience? Well, you know, it's a great question. I welcome Perbs. You know what I love? It's a laughing that's coming. Are they sitting in the bathroom? They're sitting in the back? Because there's the echo. Is there tile in that room? There is, right? Speaking of real estate, there's no better laugh than a laugh from the toilet. Oh my God, that's such a good call. Tile, a tile of laugh. Yes, yes. You're right, because it's like usually lady. these in the bathroom.
Starting point is 01:04:16 I also enjoy a laugh that comes from like when you're a little kid and you're sitting on the stairs and there's like a party downstairs. Yeah, yeah. I love the laugh that travels up a stair. Okay. But yes. She said that as though it's happened recently. Yeah. Also, yes.
Starting point is 01:04:31 Sorry, but to get back to your question. Purves are welcome. Okay. But creeps are not. Okay. Yeah. Big difference. Got it.
Starting point is 01:04:38 Yes. We've talked about this on here with like Barronholz. There's a difference between a perv and a creep. You know who you are. Yes. Yeah. But you love real estate and design. I do.
Starting point is 01:04:49 I do. How would you describe your design sense in a word or two? Depends on the structure. So you go with the place. I listen to the place. I walk in and I go, who are the craftsmen? What does this place want to be? Because I love the restoration process.
Starting point is 01:05:05 So I feel like that word would be like organic history. Wabi, sobby. Wabi. Here we go. Okay. Sleep. What time do you go to bed? Love it.
Starting point is 01:05:16 I'm a great sleeper. Of course you are. I'm a great sleeper. I know you would be. I mean, I try to stay awake until, you know, Lila's in bed because she's a terrorist at night. So I just, if she's out, then I can go to bed. But it's like 10 o'clock up at 5.30. That's what a professional does.
Starting point is 01:05:30 It is. Pets. How many do you have? I have four right now. What flavors? I have flavors. I have vanilla. Peach.
Starting point is 01:05:41 Two chocolate. Do you have chickens and dogs? I don't have all my chickens pass. away. I have a somewhat blind poodle. I have a little rescue poodle who has a collapsed trachea because they shoved spoons down her throat to quiet her. She was part of an illegal puppy mill. Oh, bless her heart. At least they have legs. We had dogs without legs and the kids were like, enough. We have Mama who is a black, feral, somewhat feral cat that was on my property, who then brought two baby. Like, I'm highly allergic to cats. And I was like, I am not bringing a cat
Starting point is 01:06:12 in this house. The cats around the house. The cats around the house. house. So there's two, there's mama and her baby. Yeah, so two gorgeous black cats. My sister calls them the house panthers. I go, that's brilliant. So they're the house panthers. Horses. Do you like them? Love them, but highly allergic. Well, because I have a theory that the thicker your hair, the more you like horses. Love them, but I'm highly allergic. My daughter, is a great writer. She knows how to tame the beast. What's a musical artist that your kids got you into? Jay Cole. I mean, it's good. Protein, how do you take yours?
Starting point is 01:06:48 How do you get it? Thick. I mean, you set me up. You said, protein, how do you take it? I wasn't even thinking that. What a dirty milk. I wasn't thinking that either. I was talking about chicken.
Starting point is 01:07:05 I'm talking about yogurt. Salmon, beefy yogurt. Greek yogurt. Thick Greek. Sandy Bowling. Zero percent Greek yogurt. Very good. That's what I was talking about.
Starting point is 01:07:14 Like a good pulled chicken salad. and then, you know, the little peptide proteins in the coffee in the morning. I'm always trying to figure out how to get it. I'm just like, but are we going to find out like 10 years from now that we've overdone it? Yes. We've grown some like internal like eyes. Yes. And also I always appreciate when it's like, what's another thing I'm supposed to get right?
Starting point is 01:07:32 Like what is another thing I have to do? Good Lord. Okay. And then, wait, is this all of our speed around questions? That's a lot. That's a lot of stuff. Yeah, we're almost done. Here we got to wrap this.
Starting point is 01:07:42 I'm not brushing you. I have nowhere to go. We have places to be. And you have talked so much. I'm doing a good way. I apologize. I mean, when this press turns over, I'm going away for another four years. I'm gone.
Starting point is 01:07:55 Promise. No, please. We love the hearing of you. Unless I come here. Unless I come. I'll just stop here once a year. I got something going on or not. I just stop.
Starting point is 01:08:02 That came out the wrong way. I mean, that you've had to talk so much. It's not that you've talked so much here. I love you talking here and have loved it. And so my last question for you is that I ask everybody is, what's making you laugh. Like what? But I mean, when you're like at home,
Starting point is 01:08:22 you know, what's the thing that you are, you know, it, like, where do you go when you need to change the chemistry a little bit? It's hot in my head. You wrote it? That makes sense because you're so funny. It's like, it's like nothing makes me laugh harder than Louis and my son man a few words. Like, it's like, da-da-da-da-da, I don't know.
Starting point is 01:08:44 I don't know, no, no. And he's like, mom, yeah, it mumbles everything. And I can't, I can't understand a word. I'm like, English. He's 16 and a half. I'm like, English. But then when he's standing there and he's, you know, no smile and he's like, you know, can I'm going to have a milkshake?
Starting point is 01:08:59 I was like, yeah, sure. And then I get up there and I go, my milkshake brings you. And I'll just start twerking. And he's just watching it. And then if he smiles, I'm laughing so hard, whether he smiles or not. But like, humiliation. Yes. Makes me laugh.
Starting point is 01:09:13 Me too. If I can humiliate my children in the privacy of our home, not in public, but in the privacy of our own home with a little rump shaking, it's the greatest joy. But that's play. Like you're just playing. I play. Yeah. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:09:26 And also it is, I mean, I can say this, but you can't, but like he, like, it's so funny to know that the entire world loves you, Sandy. They feel so connected to you. They've grown up with you. You are their favorite. And yet you cannot get your child to laugh. I cannot. I cannot.
Starting point is 01:09:45 It's so funny. And also a great healthy relationship. Yes. It's very healthy. Yes. That's how you want to be. I am just annoying right now. To both children, I'm just annoying.
Starting point is 01:09:56 That's perfect. That's the perfect way you should be for any teen. Exactly. But I just love talking to you. I knew I would. I didn't want to put too much expectation on us being friends, but I do feel like we've. But you know how nice this is for me? feel like we're best friends. No, I mean, but I think us not really, I mean, little ships passing
Starting point is 01:10:15 in the night, little, you know, but having the opportunity to meet you now at the stage of our life is pretty amazing because everything is all over the place and we're all striving for different things and relationships of kids and dreams and things like that. But to be able to sit here and acknowledge like where we are and where we've been and that where I'm looking at you just going, I'm so glad you are, that you just are. And I'm so glad that you have this, this world that you've created. So we get to come in and experience you in a way that we wouldn't be able to. And you're like, you are, you are one of those that those of us who love comedy do the like the bend. Oh, come on. But you, you have to know that. To a lot of people, to a great many of us.
Starting point is 01:11:06 Thank you very much for saying. So, because it is, it is. It is. is, it is, it's unmatched. The feeling is mutual. But just shut up and take the compliment for a second. No, I'm bad. I know. I'm hitting it right back to you, babe. Shut your face.
Starting point is 01:11:18 So just, just you invite. One of us is giving the present and one of us is receiving, and I'm giving, and you're receiving, and you are not giving me a present in this conversation. Thank you so much for saying that. It means a lot to me. And I feel really grateful. And this is, I was very, I was a little nervous. You were?
Starting point is 01:11:35 I was a little bit. Shit. I'm sorry to hear that. No, no, no. In a good, a good. way because I was so looking forward to it. Same. I wanted to kind of temper my expectation because I was like, don't come on too strong. It's okay if she doesn't become your friend. She doesn't like you. It's okay if she doesn't like you. Most people don't. Just relax. I mean, just walking in and seeing
Starting point is 01:11:53 you, you know, was like, did I just cross the boundary for like throwing my arms around her face? You know, but I felt very safe here. And you make people feel very, very, to me, that is everything. Sandy, thank you. Thank you. Thank you so much for doing it. And I adore you. So thanks so much. I now adore you. Yay, we did it. Oh, my God.
Starting point is 01:12:13 It was so good. Oh, Sandy Bullock. You are just the best. Thank you so much for coming on. That was such a delight to talk to you. And like everything you do, it was moving and deep and funny and real and authentic. I just love talking to you. And for this polar plunge, I think, you know, Sandy talked a lot about the,
Starting point is 01:12:40 the care that she took of her partner, Brian Randall, who died of ALS. And I think we spoke a little bit about caretaking in general. And I guess I just wanted to take the second to reach out to anybody who is listening today who are in thick of it, who are caretaking currently as we speak or know someone who is stretched thin. We're just sending our love to you. I know Sandy would feel the same. And she said some really amazing things here about making sure to take care of yourself
Starting point is 01:13:09 along the way. So reminding you of that message and saying thanks if no one said thanks to you today. Thank you. Thank you for listening. Sandy, thank you for all that you've done and the joy you've given us and continue to give us. And thanks for listening to Good Hang. Bye. You've been listening to Good Hang. The executive producers for this show are Bill Simmons, Jenna Weiss-Berman, and me, Amy Polar. The show is produced by The Ringer and Paper Kite. For The Ringer, production by Jack Wilson, Kat Spalane, Kaya McNullin, Alea Zanaris, Bridget Geerlings, Paige Garberini, Bell Roman, and Drew Van Steenbergin. For Paper Kite, production by Sam Green, Joel Lovell, and Jenna Weiss Berman. Original music by Amy Miles.

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