Good Life Project - What if Sleep Isn’t the Problem, but How You THINK About It is? | Spotlight Convo
Episode Date: May 26, 2025Unlock the hidden power of your body's internal clocks with three world-renowned experts in chronobiology.Learn how understanding and aligning with your natural biorhythms can transform your sleep, en...ergy, focus, and overall wellbeing from leading sleep scientist Dr. Chris Winter, science journalist Lynne Peeples, and integrative neurologist Dr. Romie Mushtaq. Discover cutting-edge insights that elite athletes, executives, and high performers use to optimize their daily rhythms for peak mental and physical performance.Episode TranscriptYou can find Chris at: Website | Instagram | Sleep Unplugged podcast | Listen to Our Full-Length Convo with ChrisYou can find Lynne at: Website | Instagram | Listen to Our Full-Length Convo with LynneYou can find Dr. Romie at: Website | Instagram | Listen to Our Full-Length Convo with RomieCheck out our offerings & partners: Join My New Writing Project: Awake at the WheelVisit Our Sponsor Page For Great Resources & Discount Codes Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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So what if I told you that so much of how you feel, your state of mind, health, ability to focus, create, be present and kind, or disconnected and cranky, and feel energized or alert, it's connected to a set of internal clocks that could completely transform how you move through your days.
And what if understanding these clocks and rhythms,
the ones that keep us alert and awake
and asleep and conscious and less than conscious,
what if understanding them could give you back
so much more agency and control and wellbeing?
Today, we're joined by three trailblazing experts
setting brilliant light into the mysteries of chronobiology,
the study of our circadian
clocks and internal timekeepers.
First up is Dr. Chris Winter of leading sleep scientists and neurologists, who has helped
elite athletes, military, and corporate titans master the rhythm of rest and rejuvenation.
My next guest is Lynn Peoples, an award-winning science journalist who has spent years meticulously
unraveling the profound impact of our circadian
rhythms and how they affect our health, performance, and longevity.
And rounding out this powerhouse trio is Dr. Romi Mushtak, a pioneer in integrative neurology.
She has cracked the code on rewiring our brains to operate from a state of calm, focused presence
by syncing with our natural biorhythms.
And together, these world-class experts will really upend much of what you thought you
knew about sleep, energy, management, and crafting the ideal daily routine.
So get ready for a bit of a masterclass on how to decode your body's unique time codes
to achieve not just peak productivity, but creativity and total mind-body alignment
and just straight-up better living.
So whether you're an elite athlete chasing performance
gains, an entrepreneurial visionary demanding resilience, or simply someone yearning to feel
and live more vibrantly, this conversation will provide you with a new lens for understanding
yourself better. So excited to share this spotlight Good Life Project.
First up is Dr. Chris Winter, a leading sleep medicine expert who has worked with nearly everyone from every walk of life including professional athletes to
optimize sleep for peak performance. In his book The Sleep Solution, he explores
the disconnect between our perceptions of sleep and reality. And he reveals many struggle with sleep state misperception, thinking they've slept poorly
when the data actually shows otherwise.
And he delves into the complex links between anxiety, stress, and our ability to sleep
well.
Imagine approaching bedtime calmly, free from worry.
Chris really offers strategies to break the cycle of poor sleep
and cultivate healthy rest. So whether you're an athlete or someone simply seeking better
slumber, this conversation provides actionable insights into the mysteries of sleep that
affect us all. Here's Chris. Take me deeper into this difference between the perception
of how we're actually sleeping there because it sounds like what you're probably describing is people reporting the perception
that they're really not sleeping well.
But then is what you're also arguing that if you put them into a lab and then you actually
track their sleep, that oftentimes they are sleeping better than they think they are and
it's-
Oh, absolutely.
And that goes both ways too.
There are definitely people out there who feel like
there are two hours of sleep they get between the hours of, you know, 2 a.m. and 4 a.m. when they wake up and start looking at the stock markets or the trauma surgeon who thinks that
she's doing okay with two hours of sleep, that that's enough and that's good. I mean,
the range goes in both directions. But, you know, when it comes to anxiety and sleep,
absolutely. In fact, the first question I usually ask after somebody's had a sleep study,
and these are very objective,
this is not a situation of,
sure, there's always gonna be error
in any kind of medical tests,
but this is one of those things where,
how did you sleep or how many hours did you sleep last night?
And the patient might say,
I think I slept about 30 minutes.
It took me until about 5.30 to go to sleep
and I woke up at six when the tech came in.
That's not at all what neither the tracings
and the electrical activities we monitor,
but here I'll show you the video if you'd like to see.
So does this video I'm showing you match up
with what you thought happened?
And it's really interesting to talk to people
about these types of things.
We even have a name for that.
We've had many names for it over the years,
Twilight Sleep, Sleep State Misperception,
Paradoxical Insomnia.
So that's kind of one piece of that puzzle.
And a lot of times showing somebody,
you know, here you actually slept almost six hours
last night, it wasn't 30 minutes as you reported to me when I asked
you what happened. And as they watch the video, there's this little light bulb that goes on
with somebody that, wow, you know, maybe my partner was right. You know, they've been
telling me for years when I wake up and say I don't sleep, that's not really what they're
observing. And as an irrational human being, pretty functional and
successful given the fact that I don't think I've gotten any great sleep since the second Bush
administration. When you just rationally think, do you think you'd be as successful and look as
good as you are and healthy as you are if you were only getting one hour of sleep? Does that make
sense to you? Does it make sense to you're actually starving to death but gaining weight? Does that make sense to you? Does it make sense to you're actually starving to death
but gaining weight? Does that logically make sense to you? So yeah, I mean, we see this on a very
frequent basis and the concept of good sleep, bad sleep is really fascinating that people have
actually done research about how people feel about their sleep, just their perception of it. Are you
a good sleeper? I've been a bad sleeper all of my life. And that the way you feel about your sleep
tends to influence your function during the day
more than the way you actually sleep.
So if you take that trauma surgeon example,
she only got two hours of sleep last night,
she was literally in the emergency room
or the trauma suite until four a.m.,
she went to the call room, she lay down,
and at six a.m. a nurse called her,
and she had to get up and deal with something
that was going on in the ICU.
So she got two hours of sleep, if not fewer hours.
Yet if you talk to her, she'll say, I feel great.
I'm a great sleeper.
And what's really ironic is she might be considering herself
a great sleeper because anywhere she goes,
whether it's regardless of the circumstances,
if she closes her eyes and leans back, she can fall asleep in today's world that's a great sleeper the person who can sleep very quickly
in any situation because God forbid we're in bed and 20 minutes after we've turned the
lights out we're still awake like that's a problem in fact I was just talking to a reporter
recently she said what are some tips for people who don't fall asleep right away I said why
are you making this into a problem that we need tips to solve?
I don't think that's a problem anymore than you've eaten four pieces of pizza and you
don't want to eat a fifth.
What are some tips and tricks for eating that fifth pizza pizza?
Do we need those tips or tricks?
To me, it sounds like you're full and you shouldn't eat anymore.
Like your body's telling you, I don't want to eat more pizza.
Now we'll listen to that message. This man wakes up at three o'clock in the morning
and doesn't feel like going back to sleep.
We tend to ignore that and think our body is wrong.
We need to go back to sleep.
What can we do to get one more extra hour of sleep
because we absolutely have to have it
to be our healthiest self.
And if we don't have it, we'll be dysfunctional the next day,
whatever story you're telling yourself.
So it's a very interesting situation when it comes into the perceptions and realities
of sleep need and how much people need to function and what we tell ourselves to believe
to be true.
So it's not that we shouldn't pay attention to insomnia.
Insomnia is a problem in its own right.
It's just like you said, it gets such a big part of the pie when it comes to the landscape of media attention, that we do create a narrative
that to some degree is false,
that if you don't fall asleep fast,
if you wake up in the night and can't go back to sleep,
then you are in danger of some terrible things
happening to you.
You're not in any kind of danger
when we compare you to John.
What I'm wondering here is,
is there then this compound effect
where it's almost like
a meta anxiety that starts to kick in that says, okay, so maybe there's stuff going on
during my day or during my life that's causing me a lot of stress and it's somehow seeping
into my sleep.
But then I wake up at 2 a.m. and I can't get back to sleep.
And then there's this spin cycle that starts to happen in my head that says, this is awful,
this is terrible, I'm never going to sleep for the rest of the night and then I'm not going to sleep again and then it's going
to have this trickle-on effect and cause X, Y, and Z, all sorts of awful stuff in my life.
That anxiety about your inability to sleep then makes it even harder to sleep. Do you
see that in a meaningful way?
100%. Generally, by the time somebody gets to see me because of their insomnia, that's
exactly what's happening.
I even did a podcast episode about just that, and I called it the Trauma of Insomnia. Some
people have described what you've just outlined as being a mini form of PTSD. That level of
meta anxiety to borrow is necessary for the whole thing to work.
You have to care for it to work.
So it's just like you said, every night you're now going to bed with the weight of the world.
I've got to sleep or else terrible things will happen.
Or I'm dreading going to sleep because for the past 20 nights it's taking me hours and hours to hours to fall asleep I have no reason to think
tonight will be any different. Somebody asked me one time in a sentence what's
the secret to great sleep and I said it's being equally happy in bed awake as
you are asleep. If you can truly get to that place, it doesn't have any hold on you anymore.
Yeah, that makes a lot of sense to me. I think on the other side of the spectrum,
part of my curiosity is you described that ER surgeon who goes to the call room,
closes her eyes, and within seconds she's out and she got two hours and she opens up and she
feels really good. Maybe you have folks who take the mantra, I'll sleep when I'm dead. You know, like I'm just going
to go, go, go. I don't need it. It's fine. And basically the importance of sleep in their lives.
And I think a lot of folks may feel this when they're younger also and they're sort of like
new in their career and they're trying to prove themselves and putting a lot or maybe
you know in their lives when their young parents and they their working full-time job or two full-time jobs and have little kids or toddlers or babies at home
and they just kind of say like, I'll deal with this later.
But when we get to that opposite side of the spectrum, when the pendulum swings all the
way in that direction, when this is very real, talk to me about how this true lack of sleep
that accumulates over time,
where the deficit actually doesn't go away,
how does this start to show up in our psychology
and our physiology and the way that we live our lives?
Yeah, I mean, I think it's slowly devastating, it's rust.
I always think of it as rust.
I mean, you could stay up all night tonight,
or ice-polding all night,er at some point in their life and life went
on. You were pretty grumpy the next day. You may have fallen asleep watching Jeopardy or
something, but it wasn't that big of a deal. In fact, maybe you were somebody who pulled
the all-nighter and the next day really wasn't that tough for you. I mean, for some people,
it's a bear. Other people, it's like they pull an all-nighter and they're, I remember
in medical school, there were some people that could's a bear. Other people, it's like they pull an all-nighter. And I remember in medical school,
there were some people that could just,
you were up all night with them on call
and you knew they were awake
because they were staying right there next to you,
filling orders and doing procedures all night long.
And the next day, they're fresh as a daisy.
The professor keeps calling on you,
Chris, what are the three signs of an aortic?
You're like, ah, what is an aorta? And like the next person, I got it, you know, Jennifer next to you knows all three of them and
she's did she had found time to shower and she actually looks okay. Like, you know, how did you
do that? And to some extent that's genetic. And it's a very interesting sword, double edged sword
in terms of our abilities to function with inadequate sleep. We can do it. Some people do
it much better than others.
There's some genetic factors that allow some people
to thrive and others to not.
And it is interesting that we tend
to reward those people accidentally.
It's funny, you mentioned people who don't value sleep.
There is a weird middle ground of people who value it.
They want to do the right thing, but like you said,
their job doesn't allow it.
The law clerk, the intern, I valued sleep,
but sometimes you're like, the idea of,
hey, it's 11 o'clock and I know the ER is full,
but I can't stay up all night.
That's terrible for my health.
I'm gonna pay the consequence for this in my 60s.
Like nobody cares about that.
Like everybody just kind of looks the other way in a weird way.
So the number of ways it's hurting us are just, they're not able to be counted.
It really is.
I don't want to sound alarmist, but if you're somebody who's like, look, I get five, I got to bed at midnight,
get up at 5 a.m. and work out,
and then go to the office,
I don't sleep any time outside of that,
I really don't sleep in on much of the weekends.
If I feel sleepy when I'm reading financial reports
during the day, I just stand up in my office
and walk around and drink a ton of coffee.
Like, I can do it, I can do it.
Like, sure you can.
But at what cost when you're in your mid-50s?
Now that makes sense.
So if you, I mean, we've talked about this,
you know, the perception gap.
How getting really honest and actually maybe even getting
some data that sort of like show you like actually,
you know, things are maybe better than you think you are,
maybe starts a process of re-imagining
and shifting your identity and maybe letting go
of the anxiety.
What is some of the more granular things?
Like the more basic things when you're talking
to somebody and says, okay, so have you tried this?
Have you tried this?
Have you tried this?
Or like here are the three, five, six, seven things that you want to get into the habit
of doing either every day, every night, that maybe no one of these is going to be a miracle
cure.
But if we start to do them on a repeated basis, they'll have a cumulative effect.
What are some of the core things that we should be thinking about along those lines?
Yeah, that's a great question.
I like things that are actionable.
I think starting your day at the same time is really helpful.
Our bodies just like that.
We like nothing's accidentally happening in our body.
I didn't just accidentally secrete a massive amount of testosterone in my bloodstream.
It's going to happen on some sort of, and what's so fascinating about the body
is that the timing of everything
is just absolutely exquisite.
And we can help our bodies do that
by timing external things.
And we call those external things
sight givers or time cues.
So if we look at a clock and we see,
oh, it's six o'clock,
that doesn't really do much for our brain.
But if we always eat our breakfast the first thing in the morning, that stimulus
of food going into our gut every day at the same time becomes a marker in time that we
start to look at. And if you don't believe me, eat your lunch and dinner and breakfast
every day at the same time and look and see when you start to feel hungry. I remember
working at a summer camp one year and we would always take the kids to the dining
hall at this college at the same time every day and I would find myself getting hungry
on the walk over.
In fact, it became a joke with the kids.
Like, are you hungry yet, Chris?
I'm like, no, not yet.
It hasn't hit me yet.
But there it went.
I just got hungry, you know, because your brain's like, okay, every day at this exact time,
versus when I was a college student,
I never ate at the same time every day.
And you talk to military people, they'll tell you things
like I go to the bathroom at the same time every day
because everything is so regimented.
And you don't have to be militaristic about it,
but starting your day off at the same time every day
is really helpful, especially if you're somebody
who struggles with your sleep.
Because a lot of those people go through the thought process of,
at a bad night, it took me three hours to fall asleep, I woke up at two in the morning,
and it took me hours and hours to go back to sleep. Therefore, on Saturday, I get to sleep in until
noon. That way, I'm ensuring myself you're getting the right amount of sleep. When in fact, that
might be hurting you a little bit because now your brain's not getting any sort of penalty for doing what it did in the
night. So getting up at the same time every day and moving forward is a great
way to kind of help to ensure your brain understands when sleep is supposed to
happen because if you're sleeping in until noon on Saturdays and Sundays your
brain's kind of like when do we get up? Sometimes we're up at 6, other times
we're up six hours later. What is the wake-up time? If you're messing with the
wake-up time, you're almost inevitably messing with the breakfast time.
Sometimes we eat breakfast at noon when the sun's directly above our head.
Other times we're eating it at six in the morning when the sun hasn't come up
yet. Like that's very disruptive to our brain. I think the other thing that we
can do is exercise. You know, listen, I think exercise
should be like brushing your teeth. I don't know that I've ever met somebody who says, look, I try
to brush my teeth, but I'm pretty busy, pretty busy guy here. Got a lot going on. So I get to brushing
my teeth once every other week or so if I'm lucky. No, I mean, everybody brushes their teeth probably
twice a day. You might forget from time to time, but you didn't choose to not brush your teeth
because you were pushed for time.
That doesn't happen.
And if you can brush your teeth for two minutes,
you can walk on a treadmill for 10.
Somebody says, look, every time the commercials come on
on my favorite show, I walk on a treadmill,
then you're exercising.
And I think we've got to get away from the idea,
for most people that exercising is optional.
It should be right up there with brushing your teeth.
Especially if you're struggling with your sleep,
because it's the exercise and that energy exertion
that's creating the drive to exercise.
And the pro athletes that I work with,
they can have really radically different sleep schedules
in and out of season.
Because when they're in season as a soccer player
running up and down the field, it creates a drive to sleep.
So if you're somebody who's struggling to fall asleep
or stay asleep, exercise more.
Chris already exercised 20 minutes every day, exercise 40.
It will help if you care.
I think the other thing that we have to be careful of
is we talk a lot about eight hours of sleep.
That's really a bell curve average
of a distribution of a population.
And a lot of people would say,
the average really isn't eight, it's seven.
Seven is the number when you look at research
seems to be linked to the best health outcomes.
As you go higher than seven,
get into eight or nine or fewer than seven,
six, five, that's where you start to see
all the terrible things you talked about,
cognitive decline, heart disease, all that stuff
to start to go up.
So, you know, I meet a lot of people who go to bed
at nine o'clock and they're alarm set for six.
I've got no problem with that,
but you're seeking nine hours and you're here
because it takes you an hour or two to fall asleep.
Well, if it takes you two hours to fall asleep,
you're still getting seven hours of sleep,
that might be what you need.
And this idea what you need.
And this idea that you need nine or can get nine is actually the problem.
Where do you fall on screen time in its proximity to whatever it is that you're doing to get
into bed or fall asleep?
Because it seems like that's become religion these days.
You need to be off of computers, off of TVs, off of this, or put
blue blockers on them and all this stuff one hour, two hours before you do this or else
it's going to just profoundly disrupt your melatonin production or whatever. What's your
take on that?
Yeah, I mean, to me it's Usain Bolt shoes. He's getting ready to run a race and you're
like, well, I've got some better shoes and those that you're wearing, they'll radically change the way you're going
to run.
No, they're not.
I mean, you might shave a quarter of a second off here or there.
And then the flip side is if I wear his shoes in the race, it doesn't change anything about
if I'm trying to get my running to the level of his, the shoes are the last thing.
So to me, do these things make a difference?
Yes.
Are they making a big difference for the people who come to see me?
Absolutely not.
Oh, you know, Chris, I couldn't, it took me six hours to fall asleep.
I've struggled ever since I was a teenager to sleep.
I got these blue blocker glasses and it's all fine now.
Said nobody ever.
So that's not to diminish their importance. It's just that what are you looking to achieve?
Chris, I'm a pretty good sleeper.
Sometimes I do struggle a little bit to fall asleep, it's not that big of a deal, but I
have a job where I have to be on a screen pretty much late into the night every night
to get the game film ready for the coach the next day.
Oh, okay, well here, try these blue blockers.
That might help you initiate sleep a little bit faster.
Great.
So I think that's where we have to kind of be
with these things.
I always find this advice to some degree laughable.
Like, okay, well two hours before you go to bed,
screens need to be off.
Great, check, screens off.
What am I doing now for the next two hours
between eight and 10 o'clock when I go to bed?
Just gonna sit here in the dark
Look at my hands like what what do you so the idea that we can't sit down and watch a little TV before we go
To bed. I think it's absurd like just dim the room
Maybe not have a cup of coffee with it
But if you want to watch an episode of Yellowstone
See what ripping the guys and the barnhouse are up to before you go to bed, go right ahead.
And if you're doing that every night,
it starts to become a marker of good sleep.
To me, I'm just waiting for the person who said,
I've had disastrous sleep all my life,
but I stopped watching television in the hour
before I went to bed and now that's all gone.
Like I think these are details.
These are like little fine tunings that we do.
Like, hey, I'm Usain Bolt's track coach.
I've noticed that on your start,
you're hitching your left elbow.
I want you to bring that a little closer to your body
because I think that's going to give you
a little bit more thrust in your start
and maybe shave an eighth of a second.
That instruction is not for the person
who shows up at the track and says,
I've never run before, teach me.
Okay, well, okay, you're wearing work boots,
let's start there and let's stretch
and we'll do a very light workout
and tomorrow we'll build upon that
and we'll get you up to a place
where that thing I just told Mr. Bolt will apply to you,
but it doesn't apply to you right now.
It's irrelevant to you because it's just a,
it's a, we spend so much time talking about these things
in the media.
Blue blocker glasses and dropping your temperature
from 67 to 65, meaningful, yes.
But for the vast majority of people
who are buying that magazine in the checkout line
because they're really struggling with their sleep, you're not there yet.
We need to unwind a lot more things before we start working on which blue blocker glasses
are going to work best for you.
These are not really solutions to problems.
These are adjustments we make to people who are already sleeping pretty well,
but want that score on their ORA ring to go from a 93 to a 95. That's what those people
are, that's what that stuff's for, I think.
Yeah. I mean, it's interesting to hear you say that because what goes along with that
is a certain amount of just forgiving your humanity.
Yeah, absolutely.
I want to live in the real world.
I want to grab this TV show with my partner lying on the couch with dim lights in the
room.
Of course.
That's going to be okay.
That rather than focusing on these tiny little things that might be tweaks or optimizers,
why don't we start out with the bigger things?
100%.
Simultaneously, forgive those little things and the fact that we're not doing them because
if we obsess on them, they're actually going to become another stressor, which then piles
onto the problem.
Of course.
Absolutely.
And there's nothing wrong with trying.
I mean, if somebody out there is listening, they're like, no, I bought some blue blocker
glasses from Swanwick and changed my life, then great.
I'm really happy for you.
I just don't think
when I look at the population, that's something that most people could bank on. Not to pick on
them. I love Swanwick's glasses. I think they're great. I have no financial relationship with them.
But I don't want to be disingenuous of like, oh my God, your years and years of sleep problems
will be solved by this noise machine that you're going to sit next to your pillow. Unless your years and years of problems because of a dog by this noise machine that you're gonna set next to your pillow.
Unless your years and years of problems
because of a dog that sleeps next to you
makes a lot of noise,
I don't think it's gonna do anything for you.
Pink noise, purple noise, green noise, brown,
doesn't matter.
These are just little, tiny little adjustments here
that we're talking about.
They're not, oh, it was because I was using
a brown noise machine.
I needed a pink noise machine.
That was the reason why my sleep has been miserable
for the last decade.
Yeah, no, that's not the way that works.
Save your money.
No, no, that makes a lot of sense.
I love the fact that it was sort of like, you know,
the end of the day, it's like,
let's get back to the basics.
Let's focus on the fundamental, like your basic lifestyle.
100%.
This feels like a good place for us
to come full circle as well.
And I always wrap these conversations with the same question, which is in this container
of a good life project.
If I offer up the phrase to live a good life, what comes up?
To live a good life, find time to rest.
And if rest turns to sleep, good for you.
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Our next guest is Lynn Peoples, an award-winning author exploring the mysteries of our circadian
rhythms. In her book, The Inner Clock, Peoples takes us on a journey into chronobiology,
the study of our innate timekeepers. So imagine aligning your routines with your biological cycles,
optimizing energy,
focus, and well-being. Drawing from research and personal insights, Lin reveals how simple
adjustments like light exposure can profoundly impact your circadian rhythms, influencing sleep,
metabolism, immunity, cognitive function, and more. So whether you're an early bird or a night owl,
this conversation promises practical strategies for living in harmony with your body's natural rhythms
and unlocking your full potential.
Here's Lin.
I've been fascinated with the notion of how we function,
how our body regulates itself,
how we get into dysregulation,
and the whole idea of us having one
or a collection of sort of internal body clocks.
And I would imagine a lot of people have heard the phrase,
they're not a body clock or a circadian rhythm,
but really don't know what it is or what it means
or how it functions in the body.
So I feel like maybe that's a good starting point for us.
When we talk about a body clock or a circadian rhythm,
what are we actually talking about?
Yeah, we're actually talking about a lot of clocks.
So our bodies are filled with trillions of tiny timekeepers.
Nearly every cell in your body has a clock
and these clocks are designed,
evolution created these clocks to work
in coordination with each other
so that like all your body systems
are doing the right things at the right times.
That's metabolize your food, digest, metabolize your food.
When you sleep, it's when your body should be most put up its defenses highest for invading
pathogens, ultraviolet radiation, when you're strongest and fastest.
So all these physiological ebbs and flows throughout the day are part of your circadian
rhythm.
And you have one, you have a master clock in the brain.
Master in quotes, because there's some new evidence
suggesting that our other clocks can work on their own.
But in general, that clock is coordinating
this whole symphony.
So it's sort of the conductor of the symphony of clocks
throughout the body.
If we could go maybe one layer deeper,
how does this actually work?
I mean, it seems wildly complex.
You know, each cell has its own little mini clock.
And then you've got this one thing sitting on top which says, okay, like I am the ultimate
time setter for everything.
But like my mind just goes, how?
How does this all actually get coordinated inside?
Right.
I mean, the scientists are still unraveling all these mysteries.
But we've got a pretty good picture. And it's only within the last two, three decades that we're really piecing this together.
But those clocks, of course, it's metaphorical, but it's really these genes creating these
proteins and these feedback loops that loop around 24, take about 24 hours a day to do
their loop. And that circa in circadian actually references the fact, well, circa means about or around.
So these clocks do not tick at precisely 24 hours a day.
We all tick differently and our bodies fill with these clocks that may not tick exactly
the same either. So that's why it is so critical for us to
regularly calibrate those clocks to the 24-hour Earth Day
by getting cues from nature,
so primarily light and dark.
That is why it's one of the many reasons why we have
thrown heart rhythms out of whack in
modern society by beating doors and such. But yeah, so we have the molecular details are still being fully elaborated on, but we
have the basics. We know what main genes are involved here that create these feedback loops.
And then we know in general that clock in the brain, which receives input from the eyes
from a photoreceptor that we've only recently discovered.
So we learned about rods and cones in school, right? But now we know there's this third
photoreceptor that doesn't have anything to do with what you see or the picture created by your
rods and cones, but actually just takes input from the wavelengths and the intensity of light and
sends that to this master clock in the brain, which then
decipher that information to figure out the time of day and passes that memo along to
the clocks throughout the body.
And we're going to get into how light affects all these systems also a lot, but you mentioned
genes, which makes me wonder is sort of like the way that your clock is wound, heritable.
So like if my mom is a night owl or if my grandfather or
grandma was somebody who really came alive at 3 AM and
then would work until 6 AM and that was just completely
natural for them.
Is this something that maybe can get passed down through
genetics, can be inherited?
Yes, it can. Absolutely.
This is a genetic predetermined biological feature that we are born with.
However, it's somewhat malleable.
So it's genes, I mean, you know, gene and environment are at play in a lot of aspects
of our health, but the genes are there.
So yeah, if you have mother, father, grandparent with a certain predilection to be up late
or wake up early, you're more likely to have that.
And then that can be influenced by your behavior and your exposures.
So you can kind of exacerbate your night-owl-ness based on how you interact with light and dark.
Are you aware of research that looks at sort of like how much is genetic versus how much
is changeable.
I'm thinking immediately of the research on happiness over time where I think it's often
commonly agreed now in the research that a certain amount like there's a kind of like
a happiness set point that most people have that we tend to revert to no matter what we
do.
And about 50, 40, 50% of that from the research I've seen is sort of like says there's a genetic
element to this set point.
It kind of like this is where your genes say you revert to.
But on the one hand, that's a little bit fatalistic.
It's like, oh, it's my genes.
But there's the other 50%.
Right.
That says there's a lot I can do in my life that actually can raise it.
But it also means that maybe you need to keep doing it.
Oh, absolutely.
I think, I mean, I don't know what the exact percentage is.
I don't know that anybody does.
But I do know that there's ample research now talking about how if you,
so chronotype refers to how your clocks are ticking,
kind of the period or how long they tick, and how they orient themselves with the sun.
So kind of your sort of tether to the sun is that, you know, are you oriented earlier
or late compared to when the light's out?
And that chronotype curve, so where you land on that, if you're at the early bird and
night owl end, that's been kind of spread out in modern society.
So your genetic predisposition, you know, might be within a relatively narrow range,
but the way, you know, we've disrupted our rhythms, we've really spread that out.
So don't know the exact percentage, but we, there's definitely a large component that
we are influencing with our behavior and kind of the way society is pressuring our lives,
our day-to-day lives too. Right. On the one hand, if our genes can affect that prototype, the internal clock, you also write
that the clock also exerts a certain amount of control over, I think you said something
like 50% of our genes?
Yeah, it's getting at the idea of our physiology is very rhythmic.
And I mean, this gets to why when we throw our
circadian system out of whack so many potential health repercussions can come and
Scientists are linking more and more to circadian disruption. So yeah
metabolism digestion our immune system our
Ability to be alert all these things are tied to our circadian clocks.
And I would imagine also, I mean, I've heard things like the, you know, your body's like
certain elements of nutrition. So like, like blood glucose insulin, that it's, you know,
we tend to think about that. Well, okay, so there may be a genetic element if you're actually
sort of like heading towards type one diabetes, but there's a huge behavioral and lifestyle element to it. You know, it's about I have
to really understand what goes into me. But you know, like it sounds like also, when you
think about, you know, how your body responds from a blood glucose from an insulin level
from things like this, there may be like a clock element to this as well.
Absolutely. So that gets into now it's not only like what you put into your body, but when.
So as far as food goes and medicine goes,
your insulin levels, they're regulated
to be primed to handle sugar at certain times a day.
And that is not at night.
We research shows that your insulin is
ready more middle of the day.
So that points to that's when we should be consuming the most carbohydrates, calories
that the insulin can take care of.
So absolutely there's a rhythm to the day.
I actually wore a glucose monitor myself as part of one of my experiments so I could kind
of see how those responses actually work inside.
And it's definitely depending on the time of day,
your organs, your body systems, your hormone levels,
these various physiological adaptations
to what is to be expected
at different times of day in the body.
One of the things you also sort of tied to the body clock,
and you talk about the notion of us having certain windows
under the umbrella of sort of power hours, right?
And both in terms of cognitive performance
and physical performance,
and how the body clock actually affects both of those.
So take me into this a bit.
Yeah, this is fascinating.
Your body, again, you have all these systems
peaking at different hours of the day.
And so research shows that your awareness
is gonna follow a circadian rhythm.
There are certain hours of the day that your brain is just primed to work faster.
And similarly for your muscles and the other elements that, you know, affect your speed
and your strength and your endurance.
And this depends on your personal body clocks.
So again, that coronal type curve I was talking about, depending on where you fall on that,
those hours of the day might be different.
But on average, research shows that, for example, athletic performance peaks in the late afternoon
or early evening for most people, on average.
And that's when world records are most likely to be broken and may give an edge to certain
teams based on maybe their time zone if they've traveled across country for a game.
So interesting implications there. And similarly for our productivity, maybe our work performance.
I kind of did a little experiment trying to pay attention on days when I didn't get up with an
alarm clock. Let myself just kind of go through my day and see when I felt more productive, again,
kind of over time. And I found my sweet spot is, you
know, late morning is when I'm most on and most productive. So I started doing most of
my writing, for example, during those hours. And then, you know, I would slump in the mid-afternoon,
which is pretty common among a lot of us. We think about that post-lunch dip, which
is not only a consequence of that meal settling in. That's part of it, but it's also our circadian
rhythm. So maybe there are certain times of day that, yeah, you do a lot to less rigorous
activities, you know, like emailing or doing the dishes, for example.
Yeah, it's so interesting. I'll write from two to five or two to six in the afternoon
and I'm just, I can drop into a zone and have really good work come out of me.
But if I try and write sort of like early in the morning,
it's just like I'm banging my head against the wall.
It's just not really working.
And I think it just speaks to what you were saying also,
like the importance of start with the generalities,
but you've really got to run your own experiments.
Absolutely, yeah.
And it's hard to do our own experiments
for a lot of people, right?
Because society, families, schedules,
really regiment when you do what.
And it's hard to know what your body really wants to do.
When we wake up with an alarm clock
and we gotta get the kids to school, crazy early hours,
all these things kinda get in the way
of really understanding where we fall.
So yeah, yeah, absolutely.
It's different for all.
And this is something that's research I've seen before and it's something that you write
about also.
It's this notion of even sort of like understanding, I'm fortunate, I control my day to a large
extent, but a lot of folks work in organizations where they don't.
You're like there's a 95 or an 86 or whatever, whatever it is these days. And if you're somebody where you kind of don't click on
like at full steam until a little bit later,
but the work day for you starts at 8 a.m.
or if you're a student and a lot of students
are getting to class and like it's like seven something
in the morning now and your brains don't work that way,
that can be a brutal experience.
Absolutely, yeah.
The student, that middle and high school students that still widely,
like you said, are forced to get to school before 7.30 or 8. I mean, at that point in your life,
as an adolescent, your circadian rhythms are actually drifting later, like two, three hours.
So even if you're maybe genes are programmed to be somewhat night owl-ish,
it's probably still way too early. So very, very few of those students in class are at all ready to be learning or having
gotten enough rest.
And yeah, for the rest of us, you know, older in the working world, absolutely.
I feel like it's, well, the science suggests, not just how I feel, that we are both the
employee and the employer are losing out.
So your employer is losing out on those productive hours that they could be getting from their
employee both because maybe they're sleep deprived, but also they're not working at
their prime hours or maybe during their prime hours, they're forced to be in a meeting.
So there are workplaces in most of the ones that I discovered writing my book are in Europe
that have adopted more of a circadian rhythm, I
guess, respect for the employers and their chronotypes and trying to take that into account
to maximize productivity for everyone.
Yeah. Do you have a sense for, you know, the last four years, I've seen, first there was
a really big pendulum swing to remote work and now it's kind of swinging back to return
to office and then people are kind of finding their middle, depending on who you are and where you're working.
But are you seeing that, like sort of like
whether you're working in an office under fixed hours
or working at home, kind of like affecting,
being affected by this as well?
Well, I know that, I mean, COVID seems to have opened up
more possibility, right?
It helped a lot of employers see that,
I mean, maybe this isn't across the board,
but a lot saw that they could still get good productivity from their workers and perhaps even more and
perhaps less, you know, fewer sick days because employees finally had a chance to really feel
out their rhythms and kind of go with what their body actually wanted to do.
And I think, yeah, we are seeing a bit more of that shift back to the office, but I think on the list, it seems to be more awareness for that.
And I don't know, I mean, this is like as part of why I get this message out.
I mean, we have sort of a sweet spot here, a nice window of opportunity to try to take
advantage of that societal trend and hopefully doesn't swing completely back.
Or maybe, you know, there's everybody goes to the office, but it's go during the window, that's for you.
I mean, that's another thing that some workplaces
have taken into account is just, yeah, some people swing
into the office at 11 a.m., some are coming in at 6 a.m.,
have those important meetings in the middle of the day
when people overlap.
That's really interesting.
I hadn't really heard that, but it would actually make sense
to say, hey, listen, we're gonna have a return to office. Like, maybe there's really interesting. I hadn't really heard that, but it would actually make sense to say, hey, listen, we're
going to have a return to office.
Maybe there's a mandate.
You've got to be here three days a week.
But if you do your best work or your life schedule
makes it so that you function where you're here at 6 AM
until 2 PM or something like that,
and somebody else gets there at 10 30 and works until 7,
that's OK.
That's really
interesting if we start to see that happen, sort of like letting people accommodate both
their lifestyles but also their internal clocks and their ability to really be most engaged
and have their brains working optimally.
Exactly. And the results is, again, this is relatively small sample size so far, but they're
finding workplace satisfaction jumped much higher, productivity. I mean, everybody seems pretty happy with the scheduling
and flexibility.
Yeah. It feels like a good place for us to come full circle as well. So in this conversation,
Good Life Project, if I offer out the phrase, to live a good life, what comes up?
To live a good life, I would say, I mean, I'm, you know, biased thinking about this right now, but try to reclaim your lost connection with nature. I mean, nature gave us this 24
hour day and a light in the dark. So trying to re infuse those kind of lost cues back
into our lives has profound potential to improve your health and your happiness and your productivity.
Thank you.
Thank you.
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and transform for peak performance and better living.
You've used the phrase busy brain a number of times now.
What do you mean when you use that phrase?
Yeah, Jonathan, it was a term that I coined, an unofficial medical term, but something
that I noticed about myself first before I hit the physical symptoms of burnout and ended
up in life-saving surgery. I literally felt, Jonathan, that some days someone else had
a remote control to my brain. Why was it that some days I was focused and executed my days, and other
days my schedule was in control of me? Well, it turns out as I started to research in the pandemic
and post-pandemic world, the impact of chronic stress and burnout in working high-achieving
professionals, that a few things stood true. There's a particular pattern of neuroinflammation
that a few things stood true. There's a particular pattern of neuroinflammation
that happens when we're under chronic stress
that affects the hypothalamus to be exact,
the SCN nucleus, and disrupts our circadian rhythm.
Now this pattern of neuroinflammation
is not something new and groundbreaking.
I entered neurology in the 1990s.
We knew different patterns of neuroinflammation
in different parts of the brain cause diseases
like MS or Alzheimer's or Parkinson's. But in the last seven years, cutting edge science
with advanced neuroimaging showing us that this area in the hypothalamus involved, to
the lay person I call it our airport traffic control tower. Well, when we are on a path
to burnout, three symptoms occur. And I'm here so boldly to tell you, Jonathan, that we in the neurology, psychiatry,
neuropsychology field got it wrong. Anxiety, adult onset ADHD, and insomnia in the traditional
world of medicine are treated as three separate diseases. And treating one can often make the
others worse. It actually turns out this pattern of neuroinflammation that you and I will unpack in a second
leads to all three simultaneously happening.
So it is something like regardless of the 24 hour news cycle
or how many emails are waiting in your inbox,
you wake up and you're low energy.
Don't get me started, my personality is not here
without a stimulant like caffeine or Ritalin.
And you need that to energize
and then you're feeling low-key anxious or panicked
all day. Multiple digital devices open in front of you and in your brain. This adult onset ADHD,
or just maybe inability to focus, you try to go and unwind. And the skills that we all are taught
to have some semblance of a pause in our workday and focus on a personal life, and you can't turn
it off. You need a sedative, like alcohol, to take the edge off.
And when you put your head down on the pillow,
because we know how important sleep is,
you've done so many podcasts on it,
there's 72 boring conversations going on in your brain.
And the negative, most inconsequential thought
is the loudest.
And after that, you wake up somewhere between two
and four in the morning, you're wide awake, you fooled yourself to think, I don't need to sleep,
let me wake up at 2 57 a.m., knock out a few emails, and ding at 3 0 1 a.m., you've
woken up everybody else on your team because you hit reply all. That is a
busy brain. It's interesting as you're describing this, I'm thinking, has this
been me on and off? Like, and in the not too distant past, it's funny how as you're describing this, I'm thinking, has this been me on and off?
And in the not too distant past,
it's funny how you can hear so many of these things,
how you can nod along and say,
well yes, this makes so much sense, right?
And then you can tell yourself, I'm gonna do this,
I'm gonna do that, I'm going to change,
I'm going to say yes to these practices, skills,
behaviors, tools, and then life happens.
It does.
And then you just start to say,
oh, I'm back there again.
You have some really interesting strategies and tools
and a whole process to sort of like say,
like let's get underneath this
and see if we can do some rewiring.
But fundamentally the big building blocks
that you talk about are summarized in this acronym,
brain shift, with the word shift being the first initial
of the letters of these five different qualities.
Let's walk through each of these
and unpack them a little bit.
We start out with that S representing sleep,
and you started talking about that,
but I think we've all become more attuned
to how important sleep really is,
just in terms of general health and well-being.
The context that we're talking about,
take me into its role.
Yeah, I really wanna unpack that.
Thank you so much for asking.
You know, how we came up with this is
we took a validated neuropsychology test
that has been in existence since the 1970s
that measures the direct impact of stress on cognition,
mood and physical health.
And we relabeled it, the busy brain test,
so I could take it into corporate America.
17,000 people took that in our 24 month research period.
And that gave me an incredible insight into,
well, what is stress in this modern day world
and burnout doing to us?
But also let's heal the root cause of burnout
because these superficial tips to your point,
eat berries and breathe, they're no longer serving us. And a lot of outdated paradigms that talk about acute stress management.
So as I was looking at the root cause, we broke it down into five key areas. S is sleep or your
circadian rhythm. So as we alluded to it earlier here in the podcast is when that neuroinflammation
happens, it actually surprisingly in the chronic stress targets
this hypothalamus in our circadian rhythm.
We see increased inflammatory markers like IL-1 elevated.
And with that, a disruption of our circadian rhythm.
So one of the most important or obvious functions
of our circadian rhythm and an easy way to treat that
is moderating our sleep-wake cycle.
Well, it's a chicken-and-the-egg
phenomenon in the busy brain, Jonathan, isn't it? Because we may be addicted on the stimulant
sedative cycle. Both of them are going to disrupt our circadian rhythm and our sleep patterns,
so that's an external behavior. But internally inflammatory, think of it as the airport traffic
control tower is malfunctioning. The typical things of sleep when the lights
and the sunlight go down and wake up as the sun is rising, our brains are no longer in
harmony with that, and we actually need to reset that. There are serious other ramifications
of that S or the circadian rhythm being off that affect other key areas that kind of build
into the rest of the protocol.
But they account for symptoms. To break it down into simple terms for the listeners is,
you could easily be listening to Jonathan and I and saying, look,
Romy and Jonathan are easily admitting that they've had periods of busy brain or stress.
So am I. You're stressed. I'm stressed. Who isn't? But then all of a sudden, you go to the
primary care doctor's office and they tell you, you've got pretty severe hypertension. You've got type 2 diabetes.
Your autoimmune disease is now in relapse. All of a sudden, your menstrual cycles became irregular
and you're wondering, is it infertility, early menopause, or PCOS disease? It has serious
ramifications under that S or the circadian rhythm. And so that is kind of the core starting point of everything else we'll discuss.
Yeah.
You know, it's interesting we start with sleep also, because in my mind, it feels like
the one to a lot of people, and maybe I'm just raising my hand here, that often feels
least susceptible to really genuine change.
And we've all heard sort of like the general guidelines
about what to do in court,
you know, your basic sleep hygiene tools.
And maybe some people have tried it,
maybe some people haven't.
But at the end of the day, it feels to me,
like this is one of those things
where we feel like we actually
have the least amount of control.
Thank you for that honesty.
I feel like it gets into this chicken and egg thing also.
You described like that person, you know person where you lay your head down,
it's 1130 at night and you feel tired,
but your brain is saying, nope, not yet.
Yep, nope, tired and wired.
Right, and then it becomes this thing where
when you're still there an hour later and you're still up,
then you're starting to tell the story.
You're adding to the spin cycle, will this ever stop? Will I ever fall asleep?
What's this doing to me?
I'm causing all this harm, which then makes it even worse
and almost ensures it will never happen.
So it's, I feel like there are these layers
when we talk about sleep in particular,
where people feel really frustrated
trying to actually wrap their head around it.
We do.
And yet when I was practicing and still seeing patients in the integrative medicine clinic,
that was my specialty. People that were coming and eating clean, doing iron mans,
doing all the things right, and they were suffering from this. And I will backtrack
to step one in the entire protocol, which is please get your busy brain test score.
It's this moment. It's here in the United States,
I know you have a global audience,
we have something known as our credit score,
our credit worthiness.
If you're in any phase of your life,
wanting a new business, credit card,
opening a new business, getting a new car,
another mortgage, whatever it may be,
you need to know your credit score, most people do.
Yet we don't know our brain score, we don't pay attention.
So sometimes I wanna backtrack to this, Jonathan,
which is this idea that if I now know my brain score. We don't pay attention. So sometimes I want to backtrack to this, Jonathan, which is
this idea that if I now know my brain score and I have a self-realization that some of the symptoms
that are hindering me from living a good life, a life on purpose, is related to my brain performance,
all of a sudden I have hope to fix the sleep.
And so it's dispelled this woe is me and this negative wiring of nothing is going to help
now.
So step one is actually self-awareness and healing that self-judgment.
Step two is let's get practical.
And that's why in week seven of the protocol, but we actually send people right away, Jonathan,
I actually check labs. I want to look for markers of
inflammation. We recommend scientifically studied
supplements that can actually, number one, help bring some calm
to the neuroinflammation or the hyperactivity of the neuronal
state that's keeping us wired despite us feeling physically
tired and also really helped to reset
the circadian rhythm. And so between checking the labs and looking for imbalances that may be
feeding into it and number two, some supplements, when we ran over 1,000 executives through this
eight-week protocol in our test period, people that said, I'll never fall asleep, there's too
much going on at work, we run global teams, with the exception of new parents
who had young children that wake up for feeding
in the middle of the night, or if you're a caregiver
to elderly loved ones who have, you know,
middle of the night arousal, things you can't control.
People actually were falling asleep.
When we looked at our research data,
sleep was the one area that had the most improvement in performance, like a 40% improvement over baseline.
Now that makes so much sense. Take me into the protocol a little bit more. You've dropped seeds about a little bit, but give me the download on this protocol.
I wanted to say I created this protocol because when I was in integrative medicine and we would do these 90 minute intakes and I would have this comprehensive plan and I'm working with a high achieving professional,
I remember overwhelming them with everything to your point that you needed to do. And then
it creates this inertia of where to start or confusion and this. So that was one thing.
The second thing was, we're busy, a busy, a term I don't like, productive, full schedules.
I didn't want this to disrupt your personal or professional life.
I wanted it to feel so easy that you almost felt like, am I really doing anything that's
going to make impact?
And the third thing we learned the hard way was, read the book great, but get someone
to do it.
Cohort-based learning, community, doing it in context with a loved one
or teams where there's competition was fascinating to watch the change of dynamics so that was it so
we wanted to make it easy and do these micro habits that we call brain shift so we've all read the
best-selling books and you've had them on your show talking about tiny habits bj fog or atomic
habits james clear but i said i want to take it a step further i'm going to pick the habits and you've had them on your show talking about tiny habits, BJ Fogg or atomic habits, James Clear.
But I said, I'm gonna take it a step further.
I'm gonna pick the habits for you
and we're gonna research them for you
before we go to manuscripts.
So I've given you the menu to do,
there's no other questions asked
and there's nothing else you need to add.
So we're not going to disrupt your life.
So that was it.
Step one, week one was, I want you to get your busy brain test score.
This replacing self judgment with self awareness.
What's my brain score?
And I go back to that place of,
what is my intention, Jonathan?
What is it that I hope for, for my brain and my body?
Because if it is back to that original thing,
how we open in alignment with agency and goals,
and I'm saying, here's the steps to get
you to that goal so you have less back pain when you're stressed or your blood sugar is under
control for your diabetes, rekindle romance with your partner at home, then you're more likely to
be emotionally involved. That's step one. That's the hardest step, by the way. You get past that,
everything else is cake, literally comfort food.
Yeah, I love it.
What I really enjoyed about the protocol also
is that you're taking people as they are.
You're not saying, you need to actually change
before you even start this.
You're saying, okay, let's acknowledge
the state of your life.
There's a lot going on, and maybe there's a lot going on
that you don't necessarily want to say no to
because maybe you're working towards something
that you really do want to make happen or it's enjoyable, but at the same time,
there is harm that is probably being caused
as a part of the way that you're sort of functioning now.
So let's find ways that are accessible, that are doable,
that you can bring into your day,
that don't feel like a burden,
don't feel like another thing that you quote,
have to add to your schedule to make it that much more
brittle, but you can kind of just nod along and say,
well sure, and I love what you said,
which is that it feels like such a small lift
that you're almost asking,
could this really make a difference?
Like how could this actually be effective?
It is the one thing we heard over and it does.
It does, hair was the best part.
So week two we start the seven day sleep challenge
and we loved doing it with teams.
Every company and organization we went to
was highly competitive.
We gamified it, we gave them points
for various cognitive behavioral therapy.
We will tell you most of the people who found success,
they partook in the supplement recommendations we gave, right?
It was fascinating because while people were coming back
week three to the call, like who won?
Who had the most points?
And I didn't need alcohol or I gave up my sleeping pill.
The phone call I was getting was from the CEO and the CHROs.
What's going on in that brain shift protocol?
People are happier, Dr. Romy.
You know, these two executives or this team that was infighting and we were going to have
to bring in a mediator, they're all getting along all of a sudden. The person that was ready to quit is fine now. It was that simple. And that's how
transformational it was. And so by the time you get to week three, that's the time we add in step
three, digital detox, 30 to 60 minutes and backtrack. And many people were like, give me
the next step. They were kind of bored already. But we did it because that was one of the harder weeks,
Jonathan as well, because the first two, three days,
there literally is like a drug withdrawal from your phone
or your iPad or whatever you have.
And so we really had to work with people
and our coaches had to work with them one-on-one.
Like, let's make an actual list
of what are different things you can see, touch,
smell, hear, taste, do that are processing through your senses that will keep you busy.
So I wash my dirty dishes and I take my senior dog out for a last walk at night so it'll keep
me away from my digital devices. So that was the example we used. And then week four or step four,
I had to find an addition to traditional meditation. Look, I've been
meditating and I talk about it in my TED Talk. It's made all the difference in my life,
but people with a busy brain will say, my anxiety or focus is worse when I sit down to meditate.
And so step four, we introduced sound healing as a modality and really went into the data of music
therapy and the binaural
beats. If you could put this on before you sleep or if you need to focus on a task during
the day for just 20 minutes, the difference it could make. That's the first four weeks.
Most people had honestly, it sounds unscientific, but I just feel so thankful for the over a
thousand of executives that went through this for our research period.
Like I and my team were moved for the stories that they were coming back and telling us.
And I give thanks to the nine executives that gave us their actual names for the book.
They're like, Dr. Romy, please put my story with this brain shift so that if someone else
is a doubter, they will do it.
And I just sit here and pause.
I too have been in this go, go, go mode
with this book launch and my new role,
and kind of having a pinch me moment of like the impact,
and it was so joyful.
Like it really worked.
Yeah, it's amazing.
As we start to wrap our conversation,
you shared this notion of the stress-access cycle,
how oftentimes we have this thing called the busy brain.
What it does to us, even though we sometimes think
that it's actually doing something for us,
deconstructing all the different elements
that go into what's going on inside of us
and how we start to, what are the critical building blocks
of how we do some using, as you describe,
in lay persons terms, rewiring.
And then the protocol will certainly,
for those who are really curious about the detail
of the protocol by all means, take a look at the book.
I think it's laid out beautifully and it's doable,
which is what I so appreciate.
This is not something that says you need to make
big disruptions in your life all at once.
It says let's take it step by step.
And the scaffold, it's like you lay down the scaffolding
in a way where behaviorally, the thing that you needed
to be in place for the thing that comes next,
you've just done so that it makes it so that you're not
fighting against yourself and your own sense of willpower
and self-regulation the whole time, which is unusual
because you tend to just rush past all that stuff
and say, yeah, yeah, yeah, of course that matters,
but let me just get the real stuff
that will make a difference.
And then if else, it pretty much always comes crashing down.
And so the intelligence, the thoughtfulness
behind the progressiveness of the protocol,
I just find really compelling.
An honor coming from you.
Thank you so much.
It is received.
I want to take a moment and receive that
because this is years and years of research
and thoughtfulness and thank you for that.
It feels like a good place for us to come full circle
in our conversation as well.
So as I always ask at the end of every conversation here
in this container of good life project,
if I offer up the phrase to live a good life,
what comes up?
Two weeks before the day we recorded this podcast,
I turned 50.
And when I was in my early 30s,
sitting in the surgeon's office and they were telling me,
do you have disability insurance? Jonathan, I didn't know what even that meant. The rug had
been lifted out from underneath my entire life and hope departed my soul. And today,
by living through this suffering and understanding what worked for me and researching a protocol and
service to others who don't
feel hope in their lives at this moment because of a busy brain and burnout, I'm cognitively
sharper today than I was at 25 when I graduated from medical school.
And so when you ask me what is a good life, it is humbly to have been in that dark place
devoid of hope and knowing that there were people
that held hope for me when I didn't have it, and so now coming and being that hope-holder for others.
And me particularly having hope for all the other busy brains that are out there to say,
I will hold hope for you and your healing and your best version
of dreams of success for yourself as you brain shift. That is what's living a good life,
is to be that hopeholders for others.
Hmm. Thank you.
So what a mind expanding exploration into the profound power of our inner rhythms from
Lynn's vivid insights into how our circadian cycles
influence every aspect of our lives, to Dr. Romy's practical strategies for rewiring our
brains through chronobiology, and Chris's wisdom on optimizing sleep for pee performance. This
conversation was a true eye-opener for me. I hope it's inspired you to tune into the natural cadences
pulsing through your cells and start crafting a life in exquisite harmony with your body's innate biorhythms. And before you leave, if you love
this episode, be sure to catch the full conversation with today's guests. You can find a link to those
episodes in the show notes. This episode of Good Life Project was produced by executive producers
Lindsay Fox and me, Jonathan Fields, editing help by Alej Alejandro Ramirez, Christopher Carter crafted our theme music.
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