Habits and Hustle - Episode 152: Ebenezer Samuel – Fitness Director of Men’s Health, Head of Training Innovation at FlexIt Fitness

Episode Date: January 25, 2022

Ebenezer Samuel is Fitness Director of Men’s Health, Head of Training Innovation at FlexIt Fitness. How could you not pick his brain on everything diet and fitness!? Ebenezer approaches every aspect... of his own training, diet, and lifestyle and is open about every “secret” and technique he uses to achieve his success. He’s critical of “fads” and “hacks” and Jen gets him to nail down some true core, concrete pieces of advice. Interested in flexibility? Building chest? Working abs? The myths of “toning” and “getting shredded?” The concept of “calories in; calories out” and what it gets right and wrong? You’re not going to find a better wealth of knowledge or a better host to bring it out of him than in this episode. Check it out! Taped on location at Carillon Wellness Resort – https://www.carillonhotel.com/ Youtube Link to This Episode Ebenezer’s Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/ebenezersamuel23/ Ebenezer’s Articles – https://www.menshealth.com/author/217286/ebenezer-samuel/ ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Did you learn something from tuning in today? Please pay it forward and write us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts. 📧If you have feedback for the show, please email habitsandhustlepod@gmail.com  📙Get yourself a copy of Jennifer Cohen’s newest book from Habit Nest, Badass Body Goals Journal. ℹ️Habits & Hustle Website 📚Habit Nest Website 📱Follow Jennifer – Instagram – Facebook – Twitter – Jennifer’s Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Starting point is 00:00:58 San Antonio, Texas. Hi guys, it's Tony Robbins. You're listening to Habitson Hussle, fresh it. Today on the podcast, we have my friend Ebenezer Samuel, who is also the fitness director for Men's Health, the largest men's media brand in the world, and he's a personal trainer to a wide range of clients, including NFL players to working moms. He's a head of training innovation for a fitness platform called Flexit. And what I love about Ebenezer, his approach really blends everything
Starting point is 00:01:34 from body building, speed training, calisthenics, helping your body move better and building muscle, while also avoiding boredom and long-term injuries. He is literally certified in almost every fitness modality and building muscle while also avoiding boredom and long-term injuries. He is literally certified in almost every fitness modality. And so when I say this guy is knowledgeable in fitness, I mean this guy is knowledgeable in fitness. He's also started numerous shows including men's health new rules of muscle and the next
Starting point is 00:02:01 top trainer. In this episode you guys, because it's still January, we really wanted to uncover some of your biggest questions and answer them. Really to help maybe elevate your wherever you are fitness or kind of talk about some of the myths out there so you can kind of go out there and reach your goals better. We go over how to really build muscle, how to really lose fat, is the workout plan you're doing even working for you because it's so different for everybody. We go over some of the most overrated exercises and some of the most underrated exercises.
Starting point is 00:02:41 And so much more, we talk about like the main things that, the main question, I guess, the main questions and queries that people are usually asking for. So I hope this episode really does help answer some of those questions for you and much more. Enjoy. All right. So today on the podcast, we have the one and only Ebenezer Samuel, otherwise known as Eb. Ebeneyer, actually quite good friend, so I'm super happy to have them on the podcast.
Starting point is 00:03:10 We're happy to have you here on the podcast. Yeah, I'm excited. And we are on location. We are at the Carolon Wellness Resort in Miami. Both of us are doing some work here, and so we figured one that take advantage of this beautiful location and do this podcast just in time for 2022 the new year. We thought I thought we thought it would be a really good chance to talk about goal setting and all those fitness and the health questions or things that people are constantly like revolution, like revolutions, fitness resolutions that they have usually they put on
Starting point is 00:03:55 for like 2022 and there's no one better to do it with than Ebenezer because otherwise known as Ed, because he is the fitness director for men's health. And probably one of the most, not just educated, but really in the space, but someone who practices what he preaches and truly constantly just ups his knowledge in this space. And there's no one more dedicated than you. So this is a really good person to be doing this with. So thank you for coming on. I'm very, very excited. And a little bit nervous to be on there.
Starting point is 00:04:33 What do you be nervous for? I'm not really sure, because you're an intimidating podcast. I'm not kidding. Oh my God, I think he's kind of kidding. But this is what I love about you. That you're so humbled and and so like kind of like soft-spoken, but you're like a beast when it comes to it. Like anything in the health of fitness space. And I know you're probably really not.
Starting point is 00:04:55 If you're nervous, it's more because we have like three cameras staring at you and you usually behind the scenes. Kind of so speak, doing a lot of the editorial, putting together all the workouts. But like, at the same time, and you're not doing like, you're not doing a push-up or a lot of use. Because that's what you're most comfortable with, we know. Yeah, push-ups. Push-ups, push-ups. Yeah. But anything that's movement or action-oriented.
Starting point is 00:05:20 So, why don't we just go, like, I'm going to jump in because I think that like let's go through one of the biggies right which is goal setting. Yeah right everybody for tooth for 2022 or any year and they make these like New Year's resolutions they always want to you know say oh this year I'm gonna lose 10 pounds or I'm gonna work out more I'm eat better. And then by like month three, those all dissipate and then you go right back to what you normally do. So why don't we start with that? Like how do, and this is something I'm sure you guys cover a lot with max health, but
Starting point is 00:05:57 how do, what's the best approach when and for people for goal setting? I think, I think there are two kind of prevailing approaches now that both work. I think one is you kind of let somebody else set the goal which I think we're seeing more people do now and that's you do that because um because you decide that you're going to do like a tough mother race or you're going to you're going to do like a high rots competition. You're going gonna do something where you suddenly have to perform for it, right? And because you have this deadline
Starting point is 00:06:29 and you have this concrete event happening, that sets the goal for you and then you have to pursue it. Right. And I think that's one way to do it. And what works about that is it's concrete, right? There's, okay, I have to compete in this tough motor. I know it's gonna be three miles
Starting point is 00:06:46 in Incorporated Seas event, so I have to train for them, so that's gonna help get me where I need to get, right? And it also helps with accountability too, right? Because you're putting it out there that you're gonna be doing this 5K or this Tough Mudder, or whatever the Spartan, whatever it is. And then not only are you working towards that goal, but it's out there that you kind of want to do well by it, right?
Starting point is 00:07:09 So that's a good idea. So then a really good way to goal set for people is put something on the calendar that you're working towards. So like what if someone can't do something like a tough mother? Give other options. Like, through all your career, I'm sure you've had to like create or like you probably know of lots of different things that people could put on their calendar or work towards as something. So give us a bunch of different examples.
Starting point is 00:07:38 Yeah, I mean, it can be pretty simple, right? Like again, tough mother is great, it's quite racist and great. But it can be something a lot on the local level, you know, a lot of cities, a lot of towns have like five Ks, you know, sign up for kind of a local five K. A lot of people like to try to prep for marathons. That's insane to me and that's something I would ever...
Starting point is 00:07:57 What's your take on marathons? It's interesting. I have a very complicated take on there. I think anytime you're doing anything physical for yourself and you're putting that challenge in for yourself, it's never a bad thing, right? I don't know that a marathon is a great way to kind of long-term goal set for your fitness
Starting point is 00:08:19 because one, I think, I just think the repetitive, the way people tend to train for a marathon is a lot of running. And it's a lot of that same pattern over and over and over. And our body kind of moves in three planes, not just one. Like we're meant to move forward in front of us, we're meant to rotate. And we're also meant to kind of move laterally. And you tend to abandon those other pieces when you train for a marathon.
Starting point is 00:08:43 And that's, it's great that you change for the marathon you burn a ton of calories you wind up really improving your aerobic fitness but I just think you miss too many other things so I'm like is that really like the long-term goal you want and it's gonna pound you knees too so. I also feel like that's where I get I gain all my injuries from right is from running and I'm not I never I'm a I don't mean myself I don't believe in marathons myself because of the same reason that actually that you said also because I feel like you're breaking down so much like muscle muscle by doing something so much like that that pounding and you age, it's really hard for your joints and for your knees and for your ankles.
Starting point is 00:09:28 So I'm a, I love running. Don't get me wrong. And because I love it that much, I choose not to do the marathon. It's because I want to be running for many, many years to come, not just short term for something like a marathon and then have all these crazy injuries.
Starting point is 00:09:44 And like I said, I know from just like, I have ankle issues, I have knee issues already. And that's from just running four times a week for 45 minutes. So like compound that with so much more, I'm going to be like a total disaster, right? I think to it's how it's how some people train for the marathon too, right? Because the way most people train for a marathon is they gradually pile on miles, you just run, right? Elite marathons are able to stay healthier because they're running a couple of days a week, but they're also kind of hitting the weight room to kind of work on stability at their hip, at their ankle, at their knee, and kind of through their core.
Starting point is 00:10:25 That way, they're stride and proves, right? If you go out there with the bad stride and you have to repeat that for how many thousand steps over the course of your marathon and your marathon training, you're just, you're compounding whatever injuries you have. But if you were to kind of,
Starting point is 00:10:39 I think if, I think what I'd love to see just on kind of a national level, is the conversation around marathon running and kind of long distance running season change for average people who just go out and compete and run it for fun, right? That the conversation change and it start to shift to more of, hey, let's run to three days a week, let's not pile up and stay in mileage, but let's not make that just the only thing we're doing fitness-wise, but let's also support that with, you know, some sessions in the
Starting point is 00:11:10 waiting room, because those waiting room sessions are what instantly elite runners from getting hurt when they go out to run. Like you were saying, like, if you did, if people were training properly, like they would be incorporating the stability because that's a big one. And also to the gain or how you're moving. If you're moving badly or incorrectly, and you're doing it over and over and over again, that's also much more about, that's how you get injured and injured quicker. And yeah, I know, I think that's a really good point.
Starting point is 00:11:40 The other thing I find that's gonna ask you just about the marathon's cut we're on there. I heard a myth, this could be a myth that some people's body types are much more Inclined for running or for doing this because I do have friends. I've got a few two or three friends Who are really lean, lanky tall Who are ultra marathoners? Yeah,? And they never get injured. But that's like the anomaly, right? Is there something to be said for body type
Starting point is 00:12:10 and the way you work out? Yeah, so it's interesting. One of the more fun stories we did in Men's Outlast and this is a project that me and the other and Chief were super excited about was actually about all about Levere Length, right? Which is basically the length of my arms, the length of my legs, particularly like my thighs
Starting point is 00:12:30 compared to my calves. And the relationship, when you have different lengths of limbs, it instantly lends to certain exercises, to certain sports more, right? Because if you are that long-limb person, if you think about it, so I'm five, nine and a half. And you know, I try to tell people that. But how tall are you? Five, six. So if you and me both go out to around a mile, right? Just because my legs are longer than yours, right? I need fewer
Starting point is 00:13:02 strides to cover that. So all your, so all your, you're very long-legged friends, right? I need fewer strides to cover that. So all your, so all your, you're very long-legged friends, right? When they go out to run their alchers, they can cover that distance in much fewer strisers, which means the last chance of injury and more. But it goes the same if you, if we go into the weight room, which is where we'll wind up at some point during this trip. Yes. Today, actually. Yeah. Like, if you ever look at like the bench press champions, like the very best bench presser in the world, nine times out of ten, they have very, very short arms, right? And the reason is because the shorter your arms,
Starting point is 00:13:36 the easier it is to press off, right? That makes such a, that's so true. I never thought of that. Yeah. I'm not good at the deadlift, right? And the reason I'm not a great deadlifter is because my legs are very long relative to my torso. So I have to work harder at the deadlift. So when we did the story last year, one of the things we really explored was, you know, do, like, there, one of the myths of the gym is this idea that you have to do the conventional deadlift.
Starting point is 00:14:07 You have to be able to do a pull-up. You have to do certain exercises with the barbell, right? That's what they claim. What we kind of tried to show within the story is, that's not true because for me, the conventional deadlift isn't a great lift, so I do a lot more trap bar deadlift and I still get what I need out of them. That's such a good piece of information because you know why there's a couple different exercises for me that just biomechanically are just terrible for me. The exercise where I just see not to be, my body doesn't really do well with it's when you do the squat with the bar in front of me.
Starting point is 00:14:45 Yeah. And my body becomes very awkward and I beat myself up. I'm like, how can I not do this? This is like 101 for people who are, you know, vary into the fitness world. So there is something, biomechanically, there is something about that. But I'm 56 and why would that front bar be bad for me? So the front one, the front squad is is an incredibly challenging lift anyway.
Starting point is 00:15:12 Like for a lot of people most of the time it's not that's not a lever issue. That's almost a lot. Yeah exactly. It's lat tightness. It's also not for nothing but I have like big biceps right? I like to think I do. But so I can't necessarily turn my arms, so I have trouble with the lift too, right? So it's kind of a wrist mobility elbow thing and it's a lat thing, right? But then the thing, again, you kind of look at, well, why is, I've been asking myself a lot the question, probably over the last like year and a half, about why is this so important, right? And what's the goal of the lift, right?
Starting point is 00:15:51 And if the goal of the next... if there's an easier way, and this is what the guys who train like pro athletes do so well, right? And that's what I think about when I'm working with like, like, Terrell Owens or like, an Antony O'Brown, it's kind of like, what's the name's Robert? No, I'm joking. What's the, what's the, you know, yes, I can, you know, and I learned this a lot too, because I covered the NFL before I was,
Starting point is 00:16:15 I was at Men's Health, and I would go into NFL Lackrooms, and NFL players very rarely do power things, okay? The power things are really good exercise that helps you get more explosive, but it's a really hard exercise to teach. So the NFL trainer just wants his players, nine times that attend to get more explosive. He doesn't care how you do it. Yeah, so this is actually a tip I got from Patrick Mahomes's trainer, right?
Starting point is 00:16:42 All he has is guys do is take a medicine ball and throw it really high up in the air. That's it. And if you, it wasn't Patrick Holtz, James Harding's trainer, right? All he had, all you do is you take a medicine ball and you should do this every day and everybody can do this. And you just throw it up really high in the air as high as you possibly can, five times, okay? And it times. And it's actually hitting the exact same muscles as a power thing, right? At the exact same speed, except it's a lot easier, right? So I started doing that
Starting point is 00:17:15 and I have a lot of the people I work with do that, right? And that's an explosive movement. And you get the same benefits of doing a power clean. Exactly, from an ad-like standpoint of doing a power clean. Exactly. From an ad-lake standpoint. Exactly. Yeah. Exactly.
Starting point is 00:17:29 You don't, but it's a lot easier to teach. Throw a ball up really high as hard as you got to weekend. It's a lot easier to teach than a power plane. Okay. That's a really good piece of information. Just tell everyone, though, what's the benefit of doing explosive movements? So like, take it to the 101, you know, like fitness 101 for people who are not like, expert experts like you are.
Starting point is 00:17:49 Yeah, so it's interesting, explosive movements are really, I feel like we've gotten to a point in society where we realize we need to build muscle one, right? And we've kind of heard that. And still there are times where we don't do that. But we build muscle and we do it with kind of these slow reps, right? But one of the things we don't do that, but we build muscle and we do it with these slow reps, right? But one of the things we kind of lose is, like, your body is kind of meant to be explosive
Starting point is 00:18:11 and that explosiveness that is the speed to kind of do things really quick, right? That's really what it is. This ability for me to like, I can punch my hands out slowly, right? I can punch them out really fast, okay? And I can do the same thing in my legs. I can just put my foot on the ground, or I can stop it as a ground, right? It's really important, especially as we age,
Starting point is 00:18:36 we lose that ability to be explosive. So we wanna preserve as much of it as we can, because that ability for me, if I'm standing up right now, if I'm going for a walk and you push me, right? And I need to all of a sudden catch my balance, right? It's that ability to move explosively, right? They're freaking out.
Starting point is 00:18:55 They're freaking out, right? Exactly. That's what allows me to decelerate it so that I'm not going to fall and hurt myself. Wow. So at a base level, at a base level, that's really important. There's a lot of research now that says we can get stronger into our 50s and 60s, right? We can continue to build just strength, like the ability to lift more weight, right? But that ability to lift that weight fast, and for me to reach out and grab this super quickly, that's what diminishes earlier as we age and that's why it's
Starting point is 00:19:27 so important for us to try to preserve that as much as we can. That's a really good point. So, you know, as we age, a lot of times people say or think, you know, all, you know, what we just is like, if I keep my body moving, I'll go for long walks, brisk walks, do some cardio. And yes, now you're right, people are knowing that they have to do some resistance training for their bones and for to building muscle mass. But I think the explosive movement are not very well known because people do, I think the belief is that for explosive moves, that's for someone who's young. When I was young, I can do that.
Starting point is 00:20:02 But you're actually saying that it's super important as we age because that kind of helps you with the ability to move quickly so you don't get injured, right? You can like, it's good for your reflexes, too, basically. Exactly, yeah. How do you feel reflexes? Yeah, exactly. Reflexive stuff has to happen very quickly. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:20:20 And you're kind of training that response when you take the time to train explosive ideas. The other thing is kind of like, we talk about in fitness a lot, this idea of having a movement library. Like the things you do every day, you get really comfortable doing it. And the things you don't, especially as we age, I notice it even like, for myself, the exercise I have done in six months, right? It's like start to get hard when I go out to do them. It's like, wow, this takes work or this doesn't feel as comfortable as I wanted to feel. And some of that is because suddenly I'm not explosive in that direction
Starting point is 00:21:05 right because I haven't done this I don't have that comfort level so I'm suddenly tentative so when you kind of train when you I think when you train that explosiveness it help when you when you try to train that in as many directions as possible it helps to just preserve your your ability to like play with your kids and do things again that you don't you you're not doing as frequently as you want to but you still want and do things again that you're not doing as frequently as you want to but you still want to kind of preserve that. That's a great point.
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Starting point is 00:22:27 and over again, which we all become victim of, like, I mean, I do that all, you and I talk this all the time, because you know when you get super busy, you go on autopilot mode or just like, all right, I'll go on the treadmill for this amount of time, I'll do the same exercises, I know, you know, that are just kind of part of my daily regimen. What happens when that happens? Do you actually have, you get, obviously you get, you get decreased effects. But why is that bad? If you're still doing it over and over again, you're still burning the calories, you're still
Starting point is 00:23:02 moving every day. Let's, can you talk about the whole plateau? Like why would plateau? How do we stop plateauing so we can actually see results and get, you know, get to the place we want to be? And how do we trick our brains out of like constantly going back into that auto pilot? Yeah, it's hard because yeah, you get into, you get into a fitness conference zone and I kind of do it. I kind of, I think everybody does it because you, especially the longer the because you get into a fitness conference on it, and I kind of do it. I think everybody does it, because you, especially the longer the older you get and the longer you're in the gym, the more you get comfortable with certain exercises.
Starting point is 00:23:34 That's great. I think plateaus are interesting, because it's like, it's interesting because you go back to what we talked about about goals, right? And I think you also play you also play tough you don't have like a strong goal, right? Because then because then you don't really know it's like when you hop on the roller or the treadmill or anything Right, you don't really know like why like why are you doing it? You know, and so it's like really easy for it to doing it, you know? And so it's like really easy for it to freely kind of... Well, I know, no, I know why we're doing it because we're trying to work out, but it becomes very second nature where then you're not getting the results and your body, I feel, becomes so
Starting point is 00:24:18 proficient. So it's not even like working anymore. Yeah, I think it helps to, I think especially on the cardio equipment, right? It helps to, and this kind of goes back to what we were saying about explosiveness. And this is actually a debate I've been having with a friend of mine, Michael Easter, wrote the comfort crisis. I don't know if you're afraid of that.
Starting point is 00:24:38 No, but I should read it. It's an interesting book, but him and me, he and I have this debate. It's a long-running debate that we had conduct order text messages. And he's probably texting me about it right now. About he's very much a proponent of longer distances and kind of like slow like steady state running and stuff like that. I'm very much a proponent of like a little bit more interval training.
Starting point is 00:25:00 Yeah. Well, isn't it, hasn't I been proving that proven that hit training is the best way to kind of constantly for fat loss and for seeing any kind of real result? Yeah, and it's because it checks, it's because it checks multiple boxes, right? Because hit training works because, and it's funny because I'm not, I'm definitely not like a crossfit person, right? I have a lot of issues with, with that style, but at the same time, like it checks a lot like like when you're hit training, your heart rate never really comes, your heart rate never fully comes down, even though it's kind of an interval, right? And because of that, there's
Starting point is 00:25:35 there's a really strong like cardiovascular aerobic benefit to it, right? But at the same time, especially if you're if you're playing with kind of intervals. I think one of the issues with hit as conceiving your fitness classes is they tend to have people not rest enough. But if you're resting, if you're doing, say, 30 seconds on, 30 off of something, or even 40 seconds on, 20 off, that's probably why I would top out in hit. You still, your body gets a chance to be explosive. Like you can push hard on those 40 seconds, on those 40 seconds bursts, right? So you get to capture that explosive component,
Starting point is 00:26:14 you get the aerobic component and any kind of explosive motion you're doing and that's the really, really underrated thing about that thing I mentioned earlier, where we're literally just going to medicine ball up, doing it really fast, right? All of that, like without getting too physics-y, force is mass times acceleration, right? So I can do two things.
Starting point is 00:26:35 I can get down in the ground for a push-up, right? And I can do it slowly. I'm creating like a certain amount of force, right? Or I can explode out of it, right? And I can explode with a lighter weight and still build muscle and be getting explosive and still build strength and I'm still getting that explosive component and that's what we can do with HIIT when you get on the roller and you go really, really hard for 20 seconds and then you rest for 40 seconds. And so that's the best way for fat loss. Yeah, I think I think, I think,
Starting point is 00:27:07 I think if you put a gun to my head, I would tell you that was the best way for fat loss. But can you plateau with it? Like if I'm doing hit five days a week, is that too much hit? Yeah, so that's the thing. Yeah, so that's the thing. The recovery from,
Starting point is 00:27:23 the recovery from hit workouts, if done correctly, is, and that's where people mess up, because they'll think, okay, I can make my hit workout better by trying to do more work and rest less. But if you do more work, if you go for like 50 seconds on, and you take like 10 seconds off every minute, right? You're doing, you're, it's not hitting anymore basically. Yeah, then it's literally just like aerobics or something like that. Or at a very high rate. Yeah. As in your body can
Starting point is 00:27:54 probably produce too much cortisol or. Yeah, it's a common date. Well, it's basically your body's, your body's ATP stores can't recover fast enough for you to utilize them. So you just start slowing down, right? And you lose the explosive component and you also lose the ability. Your heart rate just, the graph of hit should look something like up and then kind of down, up and then kind of down,
Starting point is 00:28:20 because you have a little bit of recovery in that. When you start to get into the hit, again, in your fitness, or when people try to do more, the graph starts to just flatline, right? And then I have a one really good friend, and she would do it. I was trying to help her with this.
Starting point is 00:28:40 And so she would send me like her graph off of whoop, right? And I would look at it, and it was like one 10 the entire way across right and we want we want you can get that heart rate up higher you want those those peaks and valleys yeah but you're saying about your for okay so for you're saying if a gun was to work at your head hit training is the best way to not plateau and to get the most gains from fat loss. But there's a big butt if you do it properly. And you can't do it every day. You need that time to recover. Yeah. If you're training your head hard and correctly, I would max it out at two days a week, maybe three. Really, too. That's okay.
Starting point is 00:29:29 And then you were saying something about your friend that you're constantly in a text, you know, fast with. Yeah, sorry. The comfort, no, the comfort, but... So what is his, does he believe that you should be doing steady state as the best way for fat loss or for not plateauing or what did he say? He thinks, he's nuts. But he thinks his take is that you should be doing steady state is just kind of, I guess
Starting point is 00:29:55 we our discussion is what's the best fitness you should do not necessarily for fat loss. And his take is his take is the steady state is kind of like the forgotten piece of fitness And he's like guys like guys like I don't want to do it because they because they have too much muscle and it's too much work You know, really? So what is his what what is he think and when you say steady state like what else does he think study Say for how long what's the duration how often yeah, that's that's where he and I go back and forth a little bit because So so in the grand scheme Just just to kind of backtrack real quick. I think in the grand scheme what I what I want more people to do and what we really need to do is Kind of blend the two approaches, right? I'm I think like
Starting point is 00:30:36 Like if you're if you're if you're if you're working for a specific goal, even if it's like a marathon, right? It's still better to have a blend of approaches in there, right? So in the grand scheme. I would love to see people do hit twice a marathon, right? It's still a better type of blend of approaches in there, right? So in the grand scheme, I would love to see people do hit twice a week, right? And then maybe you have like those longer cardio pieces that are a little bit slower, where it's just like say a 20-minute run or three mile run or something like that. You can put those in on the days when you're not training hit, right? And take it a little bit easier and go out there. You know what's interesting about you?
Starting point is 00:31:08 I find, so what's your take on cardio? So I would think if I didn't know you, which I know you, of course, that you would be all about strength training, resistance training, because most people who are at level and doing what you're doing, is they think cardio is just like a total waste of time who are at your level and doing what you're doing, they think cardio is just like a total waste of time and you're storing a bunch of fat because of it,
Starting point is 00:31:32 it's putting your body into all these different modes that shouldn't be in what's your take? Sounds like you don't mind cardio. Yeah, it's interesting because I think all, I'm very big on kind of every piece of fitness has a purpose. And again, when we look at our lives now, the reality is nine times I attend aside from going to the gym, it's like, I can order Uber Eats and I can, you know, they're going to bring us room service and all this stuff.
Starting point is 00:32:03 So I can order everything it just shows up to my house and they install, they never have to get up from my couch, right? But so I feel like there's a lot less necessity for things like cardio, but if we look at just being well-rounded and kind of living long and enjoying, I'm very big on fitness for the average person as the more well-rounded you can be, the more you're
Starting point is 00:32:26 going to enjoy your life for longer, right? And that means like, yes, the muscle building, if you, again, gone to my head, I hate making choices because I think like everybody needs a little bit of everything in their fitness, right? And so I hate making choices, but I've gone to my head, I would tell you to strengthen before you did cardio. But at the same time, there's a lot of value in just going out for like a 10 minute run. It's good for mental health.
Starting point is 00:32:55 It's good for mental health. And it's also good for just kind of, it's just good. If I can build that aerobic system, right? If my lungs are stronger and my heart is stronger from going out on those runs, too, it's going to make me better when I go into the gym and I want to do as many push-ups as I can or do as many squats as I can. So I think all of the different pieces complement each other. So we should have a little bit of cardio on that.
Starting point is 00:33:23 Okay, but do you think that makes sense for all the other other reasons? I for the for mental, for cognitive, to help you with your endurance. How about for fat loss? What do you think about cardio for fat loss? See, that's where I think that's where I think we go wrong, right? Because I think what happens, I think I think the thinking is, again, it's based on the idea of do more work, right? So I'm just gonna run on the treadmill for like three hours. Right, right, right.
Starting point is 00:33:55 And that's, wow, that's a long time. No, you know, yeah, I do know you don't even know, but. Yeah, and I think it's based on the idea of do more work. But it's not, I mean But it falls apart in two areas. One is like, yes, maybe you cut your calories a whole ton, and then you go, I don't exaggerate a little bit, but you focus on cutting calories, and you focus on doing cardio so that you can burn calories.
Starting point is 00:34:22 And then you lose the weight, right? But along the way, you've also, because you haven't taken the time to strength training, you've also lost necessary muscle, which, you know, muscle that helps you kind of get through your day, muscle that helps you, muscle that helps you again with all those little deceleration factors, and you've lost like an ability to be explosive. And that in the long run, well, both in the short term and the long term is going to cost you a little bit. And it's going to hurt you in the long run because we need to be one of the things we're
Starting point is 00:34:57 fighting as we get older in addition to that loss of explosiveness is that loss of muscle, right? So we have to work hard to maintain that. So that's where I think some kind of interval training is a better, some kind of interval training, like strength interval training is a better approach to fat loss because you can build a much...
Starting point is 00:35:19 That strength interval not being hit. Yeah, it doesn't have to be hit. Because again, hit, we can do properly twice a week. Right, so doesn't have to be hit. Because again, hit we can do properly twice a week. Right. So what kind of strength interval would you talk with? Like give us an example. So I think, um, and I'm kind of calling it strength interval training because it differs from like the way I string train where I'm going to lift heavy and take, you know, time between my sets because I'm almost going to have it, right? I think you, I think if if somebody has a pair of 25 pound dumbbells at home, right, we can basically work
Starting point is 00:35:49 to say 40 seconds on 20 off, right? Or even 30 seconds on 30 off of make critical motions, like we would do, I'm gonna tell you to choose three exercises, choose like a reverse lunge, a dumbbell row, and maybe a pushup. And alternating those exercises is 30 on, 30 off for five or six sets. It's only 15 to 20 minutes that way. So it's a workout that's pretty sustainable and you can do. But you're going to get to build muscle. You get to move through more movement patterns than you're going to get, you get to build muscle, you get to move through more movement patterns than you're going to if you just do cardio.
Starting point is 00:36:28 And again, I want you to, in the ideal world, I want your body to move in more ways than one. Right. All planes of motion. Exactly. So then, what are some other fat loss myths that are myths? It's interesting. I think one, especially for guys,
Starting point is 00:36:49 I think is just the general idea of focusing on losing fat, right? Because again, we're talking about, we want to talk about building muscle too. And that muscle is gonna have more longevity for you. And help you burn fat. Exactly, it's gonna to help you burn fat. And it's going to preserve your body. So I think that's one big issue I see. And another thing, and this is especially for guys, is that guys think like that fat loss is the key, you know. And what's interesting, what's
Starting point is 00:37:19 interesting is that guys usually feel not to interrupt you, but that guys kind of feel like they need to always think when a builder chest and like build muscle. Not so, I mean, I'm made sure I'm sure it's about losing fat, but I feel like guys just want to get bigger, bigger, perfect example. Well, I hope not. I mean, you can barely sit on this couch, but I mean, people want big muscles, guys. Yeah, that's true. It's probably more women, I feel like. Yeah, that's true. It's probably more women
Starting point is 00:37:45 And I feel like yeah women want to lose that yeah for sure and they're scared of bulking Which I know is a to that's a myth right there women are not gonna bulk at all yeah, but Man more one of them just yeah, yeah, it's interesting. I was having a conversation with somebody a couple weeks ago. You have a lot of conversations. I talk a lot Yeah, I mean more than I when I asked sometimes. Yeah, um, yeah, I was having I was having a conversation with a really big YouTube guy and that's what we were talking about. It's like you're athletely Athletic Atheninex Yeah, yeah, I like him. Yeah, um, but that that's what we were talking about. It's interesting actually, because the discussion
Starting point is 00:38:29 we were having is the industry tends to, the industry to guys does push the idea. And I think that's why I got caught up on it. But the industry to guys pushes the idea of fat loss. It's like, here's a 30-day program to lose weight, right? And both I and Athlene think, yeah, more guys want to build muscle and more guys and kind of understand the importance of that right now. But at the same time, I know why the industry, the health and fitness industry to men push us the idea of fat loss, partly because it's the only
Starting point is 00:39:07 promise they can adequately deliver on, right? Because you have all these, the industry tends to push like 30-day program and stuff like that, and you're not going to build appreciable muscle in 30 days. Right, you cannot. But if, building muscle is hard, it takes work, you know, especially as you age, which I want to get into soon. That's a, that's a topic we're going to talk about. But, you know, how hard it is to build muscle as you get older, because you lose so much as
Starting point is 00:39:35 you get older. Yeah, exactly. And, and, and, and, and, but it's possible, you know, it just, um, it definitely takes like, I feel like the older like the order you get It takes like a more Coordinate and careful approach like when you 25 you can do anything. Oh god. Yeah, yeah I built muscles so easily now I'm working 10 times as hard and I'm like You know, I'm not getting any of the results that I used to get it would take it takes me like literally 20 times as much So yeah the aging and building muscle for sure is a topic I want to get to, but just finish what you're going to say. I can't remember what it was.
Starting point is 00:40:12 Oh, yeah, but the industry pushes, the industry basically pushes like these, yeah fat loss is the key, right? So I think people have moved past the idea, people kind of understand the importance of muscle, but you have this industry that's constantly bombarding you with like lose weight, lose weight, lose weight because it's an easier sell. For like you being at mental health, right? Yeah. Is that the question, is that the kind of question or the people want to like, does the most wanted or asked question or the your readership? What's what, what's the, what are they asking for the most? Is it because they want to lose that? Is it because they want to build strength? I think I think so it's interesting and it's interesting because we have so much more data on them now and we see kind of what what people
Starting point is 00:40:55 read and what we have a lot it's interesting because what's really cool about the mental leadership is that it definitely the more I've kind of studied the dad and the more it's like they're actually paying attention right and they're learning because the stories that we get kind of the most traffic on are like the best 14 back exercises right which is strength though isn't that yeah strength so I feel like guys guys are guys now want to focus on building strength or they understand that. But for the back exercises to be up there too, they also understand that on a pretty nuanced level.
Starting point is 00:41:33 Because I feel like when you send somebody into it, it's like international bench press Monday is kind of like a, that's like a very big gym show. It is. Well, you know what I like to hear? That I think the back is super important. I talked about that in like all of my books because I think it's all like an illusion, right? If you have a really sculpted back
Starting point is 00:41:55 with like wide shoulders and like a V-taper, it makes everything look so much better, right? And you look so much more fit. It used to be that six pack abs, like how do I get a six pack? How do I get a flat tummy? Are you seeing less of the questions about abs and now more on the back?
Starting point is 00:42:15 Where they put, it's basically, it's back abs and arms, right? Um, okay, so abs are still high up out there. Yeah, I feel like they're always because I feel like it's interesting what you said about back to because back is like the back is your key to all the other things right? Absolutely. One of the things like one of the things I get asked a lot is how to get like a really big chest right and, I think.
Starting point is 00:42:46 They're gonna mine. But I mean, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm. I mean, anyone can see you. Go on to Ed, by the way, everyone, go to Ed, what's your Instagram? Ed and these are, yeah, Ebenezer Samuel. 23. 23. 23. Go check them out on Instagram because you'll see like he works out his chest a lot. He also has great exercises, but you'll see what I'm talking
Starting point is 00:43:21 about. If you're listening to this podcast and not watching it, that's how you can see how I'm jabbing him by just checking that amount on Instagram. Okay, go ahead, sorry. But anyway, that's one of the questions that I get the most over DMs and when I put that Q&As. And one of the secrets to building a big chest
Starting point is 00:43:43 actually starts with your back, right? Because if all I do is chest exercises, it's just going to pull me forward and forward and forward and the fibers here you get tight, right? And then you just have more of that hunched overlooked and it's bad for your shoulders, right? Host your back for your posture, yeah. Yeah, but your back is like, if you, I'm very big into into any kind of row, like a dumbbell row or a machine row, and I think everybody should have, should do at least, at least twice a week should be doing like three sets of rows.
Starting point is 00:44:17 And it doesn't matter what it could be with dumbbells, it could be with like a gallon of water, or it can be in a gym and moving massive weights, right? But doing that kind of hits your mid back muscles and the muscles between your shoulder blades, and that actually lets your chest, like if I walk around like this. It opens up your chest. Yeah, exactly.
Starting point is 00:44:34 So it's like I think whenever anybody tells me or asks me what do I have to do to get a big chest, they're like, you know, what should I do on the bench press and this and that and the other thing. I'm like, you should start every week by not bench pressing and your first day of every week should be training back. Cause it's the secret to everything.
Starting point is 00:44:53 And it's the secret to, cause if I train my abs, right, all they're gonna do, again, is like, kind of drive me forward and into this position. And so I need all this good back muscle to kind of like have good posture and also to let my six packs show where else is not going to work. That's such a great, that's a great secret or such a great tip. I love that. You know what, you have a lot of great fitness tips. This is just one, two, you've given us so far. I want you to tell us more, but I want you to finish and you can bullet point them.
Starting point is 00:45:26 Like what are some other myths with fat loss for people to listen to and they can know for 2022, but also I want for their resolutions, and then I want to get into aging and maintaining muscle, and then we can go into more fitness tips. And you can be pepper those fitness tips and as we go Okay, I'm working here. Yeah, you are working. I told you you're not gonna sit there Loaf around and just do a bench press or push up. I'm gonna ask you good question. This is like a mind workout. Yeah Yeah, so I mean, I think I mean, I think one of them one I feel like we've covered a pretty good amount for fat loss I want one more. Yeah, I mean, I think one of them, I feel like we've covered a pretty good amount for fat loss.
Starting point is 00:46:05 I want one more. Yeah, I mean, I think one of the biggest uses is just so you can cut calorie. Yeah, okay, how about that one? I like that one. What's your take on a calorie deficit? There's a big, there's two schools of thought. Calories in versus calories out will help you with that loss. That's one, you know, like having a calorie deficit. The other group says, I don't know, that's bullshit.
Starting point is 00:46:32 There's no such thing. It's all about like the quality of calories. What's your, what do you think about that? It's weird because, um, because I feel like I feel kind of like I don't want to take a side on certain things or I feel like soft because sometimes I feel like I'm coming down the mill But I think it's a combination of it. It's calorie deficit. It is about getting into a calorie deficit But and that like I don't like the calories and calories out conversation because how you get there does matter because because how you get there does matter. Because calories and calories out winds up getting reduced to, okay, so I can eat like, I said that I know this,
Starting point is 00:47:10 but so I can eat like, I can eat like 12 white chocolate Oreos today because they're 100 calories up. And that's my 1200 calories, right? And that's like not, so I feel like what we have to do, and it's one of the things that really gets me about Fat losses we have to we have to we have to find a way to kind of fuse the two schools, right?
Starting point is 00:47:33 Well one is for health reasons and one is for you know purely Fat loss or weight loss. So are you are you kind of like in the middle because you're at loss or weight loss. So are you kind of like in the middle because you're concerned you don't wanna say something because then it's gonna, people are gonna eat 12 Oreos or because, does it work? I don't, like just getting into a calorie deficit isn't gonna work anyway.
Starting point is 00:47:58 Because there's also- The habit of some way guy lose all that weight or when people are like, you know, I'm gonna eat McDonald's but I'm gonna only eat X amount of calories and they lose weight. Yeah, I mean, I'm just playing devil's advocate. I'm not saying yes or no. Yeah, I think and the other backend or one of the one of the issues with fat loss too is that people go on these on these diets but then it's like can you keep can you keep their weight off and can you keep it? Right, like long javelin reason. I mean, it's sort of like long term. Yeah, and I definitely try to take a holistic
Starting point is 00:48:28 and kind of like well-rounded view to things. Like I don't, one of the issues with kind of the fat loss conversation is I always feel like it's, it winds up being, okay, I got there and I'm done, right? But it's like, how you get there matters in your ability to sustain, you know? And that's kind of, I think, my, that's my concern with just calorie, with, with, with or is simplifying to a calorie deficit, because, because how you get there, yes, you, you may, you may lose the weight and it worked. But what have you done for yourself
Starting point is 00:49:07 when you turn 50? What have you done because you put a lot of saturated fat into your system? Right. So it's not like, it's probably the worst way of doing it and it's not sustainable long-term. But so that's the problem, right? Because the second you start, it's you're becoming very unhealthy and then you have a lot of what you have a lot of visceral fat. Like what does they? Yeah, well, yeah, you just haven't really you haven't really solved the problem long term. You have a lot of visceral fat. You have a lot of potential for heart issues, because you haven't. And also, your insulin levels are potentially all messed up too. And that's kind of a really, really underrated player in energy levels.
Starting point is 00:50:01 And your ability to build muscle, like being able to kind of, I feel like the underrated part in the fat loss conversation is insulin, right? Because if we can, like insulin is, insulin has a lot of performance enhancing capabilities. That's why I believe there are Olympic athletes who have been banned for using synthetic insulin. Because it has a lot of ability to help us build muscle, it has a lot of good qualities when you can manipulate it.
Starting point is 00:50:37 And when you have this conversation of calories and calories out and you don't recognize that there's a difference between simple sugars and complex carbs and you don't recognize that there's a difference between simple sugar is in complex carbs and you don't recognize kind of the difference between taking it fat and taking it in carbs. Like you lose the ability to potentially lose the ability to kind of control your insulin and to remain insulin like sensitive to insulin. We want to be able to spike our insulin when we want to with sugar and then see that fall off. And we as a society tend to live with our insulin here because we so much sugar because calories and calories happen.
Starting point is 00:51:17 So then the myth is, so you kind of believe that it is a calorie deficit. But it's how you get there. But it's how you get the right. So it's how that you get there. So it is a myth that it's calories and calories out, simplified if you're not, because over time it doesn't work. Yeah. It's also a myth. I think you're going to hear more about this in 2022, to be honest, the idea of metabolic
Starting point is 00:51:42 flexibility. Yeah. I was going to ask you about metabolic flexibility. Yeah, I was just going to ask you about metabolic flexibility. Yeah. I think you're going to hear a lot more. It's also a lot. Yeah, it's also a myth that cars are the enemy or fad-es-e enemy, right? We should be able to, we want our bodies to be able to use either as an energy source.
Starting point is 00:52:02 So all these keto-palea, you know, keto, paleo, you know, where it's like, it's like, oh, you're going to, you're essentially going no car or no fat, you know, neither of those is, is effective. Because again, we want to be able to, you want to be able to use both carbs and fat. Right. When needed. Yeah. Which is a great point. So you're winding down with the podcast. Sounds like you have no plans to leave the couch tonight. Nope, you just want to unzip your jeans, slip on a pair of fuzzy slippers, and rip open a bag of skinny pop popcorn. Because the only place you're going tonight is the bottom of this bag of popcorn. the bottom of this bag of popcorn. So, you know, you know what I find actually very interesting. The people I know who have like a really beautiful physique, they do old school shit.
Starting point is 00:52:59 You're one of them, you know, like they eat small meals all throughout the day, you know, like five meals, remember that whole like five meals a day They eat it. They eat a nice like some protein some carbs like they're veggie and Like they look great and they feel great and then all the sudden like over time all these other The keto diet the intermittent fasting diet all these other things come into play and the keto diet, the intermittent fasting diet, all these other things come into play. And people are so overwhelmed and so confused like what to do.
Starting point is 00:53:28 And now like people are not eating fights, little small meals, they're just eating in a four hour window or a six hour window. Is that a myth? Like you have to be eating a certain diet to see the results or let's talk about that. It's interesting because I mean, to see the results or let's talk about that. It's interesting because I mean, the, it doesn't even matter what I say
Starting point is 00:53:50 about it being a myth that you have to eat a certain diet because like people have succeeded in losing weight by intermittent fasting, by paleo, by keto. But is it all, is it because of A, how much they're eating and what they're eating? Does it matter the time they're eating, does it matter spacing it out? Does it matter of like having a fasting for 12 hours
Starting point is 00:54:09 in your opinion? And what you see with men's health, what is your take? So I think, yeah, I think all those diets work because they're also diets, right? They've kind of given exactly But they'll work for a finite period of time. Yeah, exactly. Well, yeah They'll work for as long as you can stay in the frame like what I think the reason the reason a lot of these diets work It work, quite unquote is because they create a framework for people, right? They create structure. We're kind of
Starting point is 00:54:44 a lot of times where we don't tend to, you know, it's like you go into a restaurant and it's like if you don't have a plan, you order like everything, or you know. All right, if you go grocery shopping and you don't know what you're buying, you're gonna buy like brand and everything. So you're saying like you need to have like,
Starting point is 00:55:02 it's always good to work within a structure, so you keep some decorum, so to speak. Yeah, exactly. And what it's interesting is all the people you brought up before, like bodybuilders, athletes, yeah, string coaches, they all eat within a structure. I eat everything. I try to not restrict. I need carbs you need carbs,
Starting point is 00:55:25 like carbs kind of make your muscles look full because at some point they're kind of repackaged into glycogen, which creates that depth for your muscles. And you need healthy fats, right? Obviously protein is the backbone for everything. So I don't, I don't personally restrict anything for myself, right? But I'm also eating within a relatively rigid framework. Like I
Starting point is 00:55:45 know I want to eat every two and a half hours. Each meal is driven by like a natural protein. You know, that's not like a shake. Like I try to have you know eggs or chicken or fish. I want to have something green on the plate by it. And I want to have three to four ounces of carbs, right? And so that's kind of my restrictive formula. And everything is portioned perfectly. I try to accept every so often. Every so often is lit. Yeah, but mostly, and then your portions are like on point. So again, it's about, it's not about what quote unquote, diet you're following. It's about, again, what I said,
Starting point is 00:56:28 and that's why I was sitting where you were and you were interviewing me, I would say, that it does make a difference about the amount you eat. Yeah. And what you eat is what I would say. Not, not necessarily the time you're reading it and all that other stuff that goes with it. Yeah, like all of the time you're reading it has like, bodybuilders do multiple meals.
Starting point is 00:56:55 Right, what I'm saying the time like, if you don't eat until noon or whatever I'm saying, I think the more that those are also based on your body can't break down food. Exactly. We overeats and therefore we're stuck with all this food and us because we're not digesting it because we're eating so much of it. So like having enough time to digest your food is really good for your system. Yeah, it's interesting because to bring the conversation full circle that's like intermittent fasting is part of where you get the whole calories and calories that idea because it's like Oh, I'm gonna take my calorie. I'm gonna take all my calories in like two in like two meals Spaced and whatever it is four hours, right? Yeah, four I think eight to be getting I think eight for beginners
Starting point is 00:57:38 Yeah, yeah, but yeah, I think I believe it. I believe it's a year. But, but, but that, and so that gets reduced to calories and I think I think calories and calories out was in very meat. It's like a well-meaning idea. And it was basically the way people are telling you to eat is so complicated. So it's like, let's just reduce it to this. Yes. But then we get so reductive with it that it kind of, it becomes counterproductive in this own way. How about like, what's the best way to eat if we want to
Starting point is 00:58:13 build muscle and lose fat and just, you know, feel better and look better. What would be in your opinion? and look better. What would be in your opinion? Um, I would say you want to have like four meals a day, right? And each meal you want to aim for 20 grams of protein, which is, and try to get this from a natural source, make sure to get something green on your plate, right? And then get, you know, three to four ounces of a cart. And if you do that, right, and then you wanna have,
Starting point is 00:58:48 you wanna ideally have some kind of water on the side. And if you do that, not some kind of water, I have this water. Be okay water. Be okay water, but be okay, and be okay water is actually perfect, right? So I think you want to, I think if you do that, it checks a lot of boxes. And then again, there's a variety in there, right?
Starting point is 00:59:11 Because you're telling guys a protein can be eggs or chicken or fish, right? And your green vegetable can be something different every time. You're checking a lot of boxes in terms of getting fiber in your system, which is really good. You're checking a lot of boxes with the protein, which your body needs. We're not eating in a fiber, though, as a society, as a... So, how do we... We should up that, for sure.
Starting point is 00:59:34 Yeah, I think it's interesting, because I think we've come a long way in the fiber conversation, just... It's funny, because I love white rice, which is... I can't I know if you've had like five times since we've been here I mean to be fair I don't know if they have brown rice they probably have brown rice I probably could ask for I've kind of enjoyed just getting away from brown rice but I think my way white rice supposed to be better than brown rice did you know that
Starting point is 00:59:58 I haven't heard this oh it's a it's a it's a it attempt. You should Google it. You should do a story on it. I encourage that. Bratta, there's a whole myth about brown rice versus white rice. I don't remember what the myth exactly is. If I can Google it right now in my view. But I had someone on here recently who told me about this. And it's pretty amazing. Actually, I'm gonna Google it, white rice versus brown rice. I was a brown rice person too. I've heard the thing that brown rice is overrated
Starting point is 01:00:37 compared to white rice, like it's not markedly better. It's not markedably better, it's not. Yeah, white rice tastes so much better too. I'm also Asian, so I'm kind of like... I know, well, I was gonna say, I mean, you're naturally gonna probably live to 177 because of just all the rice you're eating, but hold on. Brown rice versus white rice. Okay, if you look at the... If you look at the breakdown, it's actually the fiber content and bright brown rice is like minusculely higher. But yeah, it's basically a little bit higher,
Starting point is 01:01:16 between one gram and two grams more fiber. And then, I'm not finding it properly right now. I'm gonna look it up and then get back to you on that, but from what I heard, it's not that much different. White rice is, see again, there's another, I think what happens is something gets traction and then everyone just follows that. And this can be happy right now
Starting point is 01:01:42 with the broad, I heard something about white rice and now I'm following that whole thing So don't take my word for it. I think I could have sworn I heard someone mentioned that to me and I and they were like adopt They were a leading nutritionist so I'll try to find an information. So that but that's like that again Why I'm big into like it's like if it's like if you if you kind loosely follow, if everybody loosely followed what I'm saying, right? They're covered, but choose your own card. Don't let the internet choose it for you, right?
Starting point is 01:02:12 Yeah. Choose your own mix vegetable. Like a sweet potato versus a white potato. It's like, it's like, yeah. I don't rush it potato. Yeah, it's like at a high level, if you're like planning to try out for like you know, like a competition or something. Yeah, but this doesn't matter Right, so for the average person who wants to like look a little bit more lean and
Starting point is 01:02:35 Healthy and fit have white rice or brown rice. It's not gonna make it so nominally different It doesn't make make a difference. Okay, let's talk about aging and It doesn't make a difference. Okay, let's talk about aging and muscle. How do we do this and do it well? Because we do break down more muscle as we age. So how do we... So that's interesting, because the older we get, the more precise we have to get with all the stuff, like the healthier we have to eat.
Starting point is 01:03:03 Yeah, I mean, so it isn't a building muscle when we're older, like I believe after 40, especially for men, Sarcophony has become like a major issue. And I think the two things we wanna do, or the three things we wanna do, first off, and this is kind of one of those things we're told, and it we're told by kind of modern fitness, right? Is you've got to do the, um,
Starting point is 01:03:27 the kind of big exercises, right? You have to lift heavy, okay? And older people should definitely try to lift heavy. I think every human on the planet should work up to being able to dead lift like their body weight, plus at least 50 pounds. Um, and that's not unattainable, right? And you have to take your time to work up there. plus at least 50 pounds. And that's not unattainable, right? And you have to take your time to work up there.
Starting point is 01:03:46 So I think older people shouldn't be afraid to live tabby. They should do that at least twice a week. Well, you say heavy though, right? Like the other fear is that, especially as you get older, like you're gonna put your back out or you're gonna hurt, you're gonna injure yourself for like injury prevention. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:04:08 So you're saying that shouldn't be something that we focus on? Yeah, I think two things. One, I think for a lot of... Or do challenging stuff, to go home. Yeah, yeah, exactly. It's mainly like challenge yourself. Like getting working up to that heavy part, working up to say you're your body weight plus 50 pounds in a deadlift, you might want to train you for that, right?
Starting point is 01:04:30 You want somebody around who can kind of help you master your form, or you want to like watch a clinic I'll give on the deadlift online, or do it like do it, right? But I just think don't be afraid of heavier weights, right? And the key is the reps scheme, right? Is it's like you learn with lighter weights, how to kind of get your form down. But then you've got, like at some point,
Starting point is 01:04:56 you want to challenge yourself, right? And you're gonna keep the reps low, you're gonna do like one or two reps. And that's fine. I think a lot of people get caught up in again more work, right? So it's like oh, I'm gonna these sets of like 12 and 15 reps. I'm gonna tone, you know Except toning really doesn't is kind of toning doesn't really exist, right? And it's like again Don't talk about that. I think people don't really you and I may think that but most people don't realize that
Starting point is 01:05:23 So why don't you talk about that? I told Toning Myth. That's a myth. Yeah, I honestly don't even barely even know what the word means, right? It's not, it's not, and it's funny because when you read women's magazines, do women's magazines say it?
Starting point is 01:05:38 I don't read them. That's all they say is like, you know, tone your, you know, upper body, toning your arms. The word tone or toning is like synonymous with, you know, abs, you know what I mean? Like it's a very common word. It's interesting because we literally,
Starting point is 01:05:58 I'm actually trying to think back to the last time I used it in Men's Health. I mean, in Men's Health for four and a half years now, and the answer is never. Like, yeah. Because women use the word Tony. I don't think men use the word Tony. Yeah, I think it, it's almost like,
Starting point is 01:06:14 I feel like it got caught up in societal kind of, you know, because of, because of that whole, oh well, well, we can't say, we can't say build muscle to women, right? And bulking, it's about, right? So here, we're gonna get them lifting weights because it's gonna tone them, whatever. I don't, I honestly don't know what the word means. It means like, not, like, kind of like, it's like, again, the opposite of flabby would be toned, I guess. I don't know, I guess. These are all like, this is exactly my point,
Starting point is 01:06:44 and that's why I wanted to talk to you and have you on is because I think so much of everything is all marketing and branding. And it's not necessarily accurate or true. It's just what we've been conditioned to think because we see it and hear about it all the time. And especially with social media, and every ding dong now on social media like the condition to think because we see it and hear about it all the time and especially with social media and every ding dong now on social media is a fitness expert which is
Starting point is 01:07:11 a problem because most people are getting paid for everything that they're doing or they have no clue what they're doing. So either option is terrible. So having someone who's a trusted resource like you, who actually takes us super seriously and learns about this constantly is, I think, a really important thing to talk about, because you get analysis paralysis and overwhelmed at all the different information that's out there. Yeah. I think that is what it is.
Starting point is 01:07:46 Yeah, you're right. It is so much kind of like marketing and spin and it gets confusing for people. That's why I'm confused. And this is what I do for a living practically. You know what I mean? I don't even know anymore. I'm like, I'm like, I don't know maybe that. Maybe I'm like the brown rice white rice thing. I'm even confused because I'm like, okay, well, I mean, this trusted resource told me and then I look and now I can't find it. But then I'm sure if I don't have the time,
Starting point is 01:08:10 right, this second, but if you dig around long enough for anything, you can back up that that resource, right? Yeah, exactly. Yeah, because the internet is a treasure trove of confirmation bias, which is really bias. Exactly. Exactly. Yeah. It's a toning. Toning is, but I think toning is like, toning is like the woman way and don't take that the wrong way. But it's kind of weird.
Starting point is 01:08:32 It's not by podcast. It's not. I mean, it sounds like it's in all the women's magazines. So it's basically like, because I feel like we, I feel like guys try to cut rip shred. It's basically the equivalent to that. It is cut ripped case of for guys. It's cut. Rick Shred-Build. It is cut, ripped case of for guys. It's cut, ripped, shred, built.
Starting point is 01:08:46 Yeah. Women, it's tone. What else? Chisel, maybe. It's mostly just tone, isn't it? Tone. Yeah. Tone or burn.
Starting point is 01:09:00 Yeah, burn, burn to big one. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah. Like burn fat, tone your midsection. Yeah, so they're like let, one. Yeah, yeah, we like burn fat Tone your midsection. Yeah, so they're like let it's like yeah, and are yeah the guy terms if you will are just edgy Your regions yes, yeah, but the men's magazines do have way better workouts that are more Effective I will say that that's why you know I have you here today because the truth of matter is I do know enough to know that lift women are kind of
Starting point is 01:09:32 like kind of shown and taught to be lifting lightweight, very lightweight and they actually or no way and they believe that's actually going to get them to their goal. When the truth of matter is you do need to liftvy and heavier and challenge yourself because that's how you, well you can talk about this more. It's like that that's how you get results and you know cause, what do you call it in your body? You cause like, what do you call it adaptation? I was just saying, stress in your body, which then builds and helps with firming. Firms another word. Really?
Starting point is 01:10:08 Oh yeah, that's like firm like back your arm. I can't see that one. Firms a big one too. Yeah, no and that's the interesting. So I do not, I mean like suddenly because goals are different, right? That's the only difference. I, or that's the only, because of different goals, that sometimes I see workouts for men and women, but I think everybody from what
Starting point is 01:10:30 are male or female needs to live heavy, um, and get strong. How do you live, heavy and build muscle with a, because this is one thing I, I do, I'm curious what you, what you say. I think I know what you're going to say. Because a lot of time, if you have too much excess fat on your body, then the muscle is not showing, so then you have like fat over your muscles. And then you can look a little bit more zoptic or bulky. How do we, is it at all, how do we take care of that problem? It's interesting. So one, it's really, really hard to build muscle. I love it when people are like, oh, I build muscle really quickly, so I don't want to, you know, I'm worried about
Starting point is 01:11:11 what's going to happen to my, it's like, if you can put on, if you can put on more than five pounds of muscle in a year, like, you need to start selling your game plans over. Yeah. But yeah, it's interesting, because I think the key thing is remembering that one, it's really, really hard to put down muscle.
Starting point is 01:11:35 So what you want to do, because the goal is to, you worry that there's too much fat that people see, so they can't see your muscle. Well, no, like, OK, I'm going to give you an example. What I'm saying is like, if you are doing a thousand crunches, which is a whole other thing, like that's another myth that you can actually build a six pack by doing a thousand crunches. I'm here to tell you, I don't even need to tell me this. That's a myth because abs are built in the kitchen.
Starting point is 01:12:04 Most of this is done in the kitchen. Working out can get you so far, but if you're not eating properly and in terms of like clean, then you're never gonna build a six pack ever. But my point is if you're eating a bunch of junk and then you're doing a ton of ab workouts, you'll have like, you may build a strong core,
Starting point is 01:12:24 so you'll have like fat layer over it. Yeah, and that's what you should be, what you're better off spending your time doing in the gym is hitting your major muscle groups, right? Because when you do that too, you're going to attack your, you're going to want, if you're doing them with proper form, and as you master more execution, you're gonna want to be attacking your abs anyway, without having to do direct-up exercises. So you don't even believe in doing anything beyond major muscle groups,
Starting point is 01:12:55 and then that will just activate your abs or core. What are you doing correctly yet? And again, I love training abs, but I also spend like two hours to sometimes more in the gym, right? Well, most people don't have that time. That's what I'm saying. Yeah. So if you don't have time and you're kind of working off,
Starting point is 01:13:13 if you're like for for people who can't spend two hours in the gym, it's like, I think you want to, you want to like, lifting heavy is going to lift heavy heavy I think in the 8 to 10 rep range at max, right? But don't I would think of if you're gonna do four exercises, right? Your first one go ahead and pick up something heavy and challenge yourself, right? And do like three sets of say three to five, which is low. But if you're going to a gym like like challenge yourself, if you're not comfortable picking up free weights and you're afraid to get injured like like challenge yourself if you're not comfortable
Starting point is 01:13:48 Picking up freeways and you're afraid to get injured do it on the machine, right? Because most of most of the gyms we're going to have you know like what if let's talk about outside the gym People don't have a gym members to play now with COVID and people can't tell their memberships. Yeah, some the best movements to do I think yeah, I think you break it down into into four there are four boxes you want to hit every bit. You want a squat okay either squat or lunge right? No both. I think you can shoot they're both kind of similar. Some some people don't squat really well and that's some people don't squat really well and that's why I say the lunge for those people. Some people aren't really comfortable kind of stepping back and they lose their balance on the lunge and that's why I say the lunch for those people. Some people aren't really comfortable kind of stepping back and they lose their balance on the lunch and that's why the squat is better for them. Okay. You want to do an exercise called the Romanian deadlift and
Starting point is 01:14:33 that's an exercise you can do. You can go like you can go pretty heavy on once you learn it and it's super personal because you're only going down as low as you can. Right? And that... This is a fundamental one, do you think? Romania Deadlift? Yes. Okay, so you're saying squat or lunge, both, whatever. Yeah. The Romania Deadlift, because you can go as low as you can.
Starting point is 01:14:57 Yeah, and it teaches... The Romanian Deadlift is the most fundamental motion in human life. Because it's basically teaching you how to properly bend over, which sounds really bad when I say like that. But we know what you mean. Yeah, but it's teaching you how to, and that's something we forget over time, and then we start to use our back for it,
Starting point is 01:15:20 but what we're supposed to do is use our hamstrings and our butt for it. Right. So there's that, and then you need to do is use our hamstrings and our butt form. So there's that, and then you need to do some kind of row, just anything where you, whether it's a cable or resistance fan, or you're back, we talked about that. Anything where you pull back here, and then you just want the other complement to pulling back this way is you want to push, so you just want to have some kind of push up in your game too. And push up, okay. So you said we can iksnay on the planks and the sit-ups.
Starting point is 01:15:51 Yeah, those are, again, if you're doing these other things and you're doing them properly, like if you take the time to learn a push-up or to master a push-up, the push-up happens from a plank anyway. So it's like, you're covered. Right. Yeah. And then would you say, what's the difference between split? Like some people say the best thing to do is do a workout that you do one body part a day
Starting point is 01:16:16 or do upper or lower or do full body. What's the most effective? It depends on how much time you have. If you're planning to work out three days a week, then it's better to do full body workouts, because you're going to be taking a day or two in between. If you're doing four days a week. If you're doing four days a week, upper lower, upper lower is a better way to do it. And then five days a week, you do body part? No, I probably wouldn't, I don't think,
Starting point is 01:16:45 even bodybuilders don't, even bodybuilders don't really just do a single body part in a day. I think the profession has moved away from that because we can hit, we can hit, your muscles can cover more, or your muscles can be trained body parts more than once a week. They don't need six days to recover.
Starting point is 01:17:08 Okay, but when you say like, oh, Jen, we're going to go workout. We're doing bison tries, biceps and triceps. So that's two body parts, right? Yeah. So are you training, like when do you, when do people train two body parts a day? Like bison tries one day, legs another day, back and tries one day legs another day Back and chest or whatever back Just we go. Yeah, I mean it I guess you some people think some people think of it that way But yeah, and a lot of people are thinking of it
Starting point is 01:17:36 So so like when when I say um chest and tries right essentially what I'm doing is I'm training all the muscles that push You know when I when we say back and I'm training all the muscles that push, you know, when we say back and buys we're training all the muscles that pull. So, um, and especially if you're, it's, it's more important, again, for the long, for your longevity, it's more important, like, you don't need big biceps, right? But you need the ability to pull, you know? So it's a lot easier, um, like functional training. Exactly. Yeah, which I try to avoid that buzzword, but that's basically really this. You don't like that word. I just generally, I try to avoid as many buzzwords as possible because I feel like I feel like they don't really, you know, I try, I try to, I want to like help people understand what those buzzwords are. What does it mean? Functional training is literally training functions. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:18:28 Or for everyday life, right? Yeah, it's basically kind of training. Yeah, in theory, it's training for everyday life, and then CrossFit took that and made that another term in its own way. So that's why I try to avoid it, because I try to, you know, but. Yeah, I understand that.
Starting point is 01:18:44 That makes sense. I don't like that word either. But people know what now I think is very common and how important is recovery and how much should we recover? Um, so it's interesting recovery is huge, right? Because recovery is when you're growing under cover recovery is when when I hit the sack at the end of the night, um, that's when that's one of my body, assuming I get properly. That's when my body, assuming I get properly sleep, that's when my body can grow, that's when it's repairing most of, that's when it's repairing most of the muscle damage I created in the gym. So that's when it's most critical. We're both taking like a water break at the
Starting point is 01:19:21 same time. But water is interesting because nutrition, to me, I've your recovery has anything that's happening when I'm not in the gym, right? And that includes, that includes like my nutrition, right? Which is kind of the water I'm taking in. I make sure to take in a lot of water. How do you like this, Ed? I love it. I mean, it's interesting because the color throws those you off you don't think it's water.
Starting point is 01:19:48 He's drinking the BLK water that I sense with it. I think it's great because it has, I like it because of the fallvic in it. And the fallvic, well, fallvic is naturally occurring antioxidant. So it's good for recovery. That's why it's good for fitness, people who do fitness stuff because it's good for them to talk to face the recovery and the detoxification. But sorry, go ahead. Yeah, but I mean, yeah, I think of recovery. So we're only gonna, if you think about it, you're only like, I train two hours on my day, right? And that's a long time, right? That means there are 22 hours when I'm not training, right? And you know, somebody else,
Starting point is 01:20:27 a normal person might train what like a half hour, 45 minutes a day, that means there's 23 hours where they're not training. So all of that is time that they need, that they can recover from their workouts, right? And if we go into our next workout and we're not, if you go through a hard 45 minute workout or a hard to our workout, or you know a 30 minute Peloton ride and then the next day and
Starting point is 01:20:49 you haven't kind of taken the time to recover your body and then the next day you go back to that Peloton ride or like your 30 minute workout or you two hour workout and you're kind of dealing and you haven't let your ligaments and tendons and muscles just get like recover and heal and rebuild. One, you're not going to grow, so you're not going to get the gains you want out of it. But two, you go into that next workout and diminish, right? And then each day of kind of poor recovery, you start, you're starting to stack days of poor recovery, then you start to end up, that's when people get injured. So that's why recovery is, is, is, is your critical way of, of, of avoiding injury. But then it's also key because it's your critical way
Starting point is 01:21:38 of, of kind of undoing life, right? Because life puts us, so right now, even me are sitting, I'm realizing this, I don't know how long we've been talking for, but our hip flexors are like in this awful position right now, like we really should stand up and stretch. But, well normally I would be doing this on a treadmill in my house, my studio, however, we're of course in Miami today. Okay. And with COVID, I haven't been able to do that. But I mean, I agree with you.
Starting point is 01:22:10 I do not like to sit for this long. It's said in there, being sedentary is not a natural thing for me. And I hope that most people, I think it's habitual now. Like once you start moving a lot, it's like an object emotion stays in motion, which is really good for you. Yeah. Right?
Starting point is 01:22:29 Because both of us are not used to it, and we're uncomfortable by sitting here. Yeah, especially now that I thought about it. Right. But I mean, for the average person, it's like you spend so much time in this sea to position, so your hip flexors get tight, and then you spend so much time hunched over something,
Starting point is 01:22:44 whether it's like a laptop Right phone or your steering wheel or whatever and so recovery and economy Corporate recovery tactics into into our lives, right? Undo's that because we wind up in this in this awful position that like can easily like He's closing down all this joint space on my shoulder, tightening my chest doesn't look good posh really either. And the fix for that is kind of smart. I mean, one, it's training, but two, it's kind of smart
Starting point is 01:23:16 implementation of kind of recovery tactics, right? And so I think recovery is because again, it's not just recovery from your work, it's recovery from life. You're in a gym an hour, maybe two, but life is wrecking you for the other 10 hours. So what do you do? I think to me it's an active recovery? Yeah, I'm very big on, I think kind of the massage guns, I mean there are a lot of tools out there.
Starting point is 01:23:45 Oh like the hyperbolt, like hyperbases. Yeah, I love hyperbases of genius. I'm very big on the like the Normatec group. I love that Normatec. It's expensive though for most people. That's what I was gonna say. Yeah. But you buy the way Normatec is like these like, like they're like boots.
Starting point is 01:24:02 These big boots for people who don't know and it's for like lactic acid build up, you wear them for like 40 minutes and it's really great. But like any kind of like, any kind of you can even take a role or even and just roll out just to help with. Yeah, well I think I think even like think like formulaing is tricky, right? Because there's like, there are certain ways to do it. And I feel like sometimes people don't always, like, people don't always want to form or have the interest in someone.
Starting point is 01:24:35 Yeah, I hate it. But I mean, I just say I hate it. I just don't love doing it. Because I'm just always forget or whatever else, but I mean, you're the expert though. I mean, you don't think it's a good way to loosen up your muscles for mobility purposes and everything else like that. I think it's fine. It just wouldn't be my first choice, right? Okay, so what's your first choice for mobility? My first choice is just kind of like is active recovery. Like I think there is.
Starting point is 01:25:05 Do it by doing what? Like give me an example. There's a, so my faith, I think it's literally you can, and I think you can do this like anytime throughout your day, and it doesn't even have to be like a workout, right? It can easily just be like like two minutes, right? When you just stand up and I would do something called the Spider-Man Lunge to the Ratchet rotation, which I think I've made you do a bunch of times. Probably, yeah. The Spider-Man, what's it called? The Spider-Man Lunge?
Starting point is 01:25:30 Yeah, the Spider-Man Lunge, right? Oh, I know exactly what you're talking. You have all these names, we all have different names for stuff, but that's a great one. Yeah. But tell people how to do it, which is... Yeah, so basically you get into all you do is you get into, you get into a push-up position. Can you do it right now? I can see I can do it on a table that we know I mean you could do real Um if we move the table I do I Mean I don't mind moving the table should we move the table? Yeah, do you mind helping me move the table?
Starting point is 01:25:58 So I can just and you're saying this is when the best movement for active This is if there's if there's one thing you do, like every day, that checks a lot of boxes and helps to loosen all the stuff that gets tight. Yeah, okay. This is it. This is it. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:26:19 Where do we think this is? Just put it right there for now. Can we put it right there for now. Can you put it on the floor? Yeah. This isn't in jeans, so I want to ask them. It's okay. You go. Do it.
Starting point is 01:26:37 Okay. Do it. Okay, so all you do is get into push-ups position without without not even the camera. Okay. And my abs are nice and tight, loose and nice and tight. And all we do is move our right foot as close to our right hand as possible and try to keep our chin perpendicular to your ground as we can and then live in this position and take like 2D breaths, and try to like sink
Starting point is 01:27:06 into the tip, because this opens up this entire hip hip here, and then also this back is getting really, really nice stretch. And then from this position, all we do is reach our hands to the sky, and then I get back good shoulder blade squeeze on the back at the same time I'm opening up my chest which has got tight from all that. Tighten it. And then come back and do the other side. And how many should we do of these?
Starting point is 01:27:38 I would literally do. I would just alternate sides for like two minutes. I would. two minutes. Two minutes, okay. How are you so we do that every day? Yeah, yeah. Maybe we should like wake up and wake up and do that. Or is it before we go to bed?
Starting point is 01:27:54 It's interesting. You could definitely wake up and do it before you wake up or when you wake up. And you do it before you wake up. In most sleeping? Yes. You could definitely do it before you wake up. In most sleeping? Yes. You could definitely do it when you wake up. I also think it's great too, like if you're in an office or if you have a lunch break
Starting point is 01:28:12 or something like that, it's great to do it at those times too because that's when our hips are like, you know, you've been sitting for four hours. Yeah, exactly, they're tight. Yeah, exactly. And there's a lot of research now. Just on what's happening more tight here, isn't just like our fascia that is setting in to this pattern, right? And constantly reinforcing to your fascia,
Starting point is 01:28:38 which is kind of this whole living, breathing, like wrapper on our muscles. Constantly reinforcing that, hey, we're not in a set position is beneficial, right? So it's like, I would do it. I do it like whenever I'm in the office, which happens a lot less these days, whenever I'm in the office,
Starting point is 01:28:58 and I need like, kind of just like, you know, I'll just do it in the office. It's interesting too, because I feel like now, now the way the world is, is like, people are a little bit more accepting of me doing weird it in the office. It's interesting too, because I feel like now, now the way the world is, is like, people are a little bit more accepting of me doing weird stuff at the office. Now? Why now? They should have always been accepting of you, since it's what you do for a living.
Starting point is 01:29:15 That's true. Yeah. I'll talk to the boss. Yeah, be more accepting of that. Yeah, now they like me now. But yeah, I think if you do that one, And be more accepting event. Yeah, now they like me now. But yeah, I think if you do that one, um, and again, it's super simple. It just hits a lot of boxes. It loosens up a lot of it loosens up kind of a lot of the areas there.
Starting point is 01:29:34 It's tight. Um, and it's easy. It's easy to remember all you're thinking is get your foot by your hand and reach for a soon. I love that. Um, let's just write a couple. I want to go back to the goal setting because we were talking about that and then we kind of went into fat loss myths. But we started off really well telling people a great way to kind of goal set is to have something that they're working towards, like a race or done a race or like a Spartan
Starting point is 01:30:02 or a local thing. I had more on that too. I know, that's why I want to kind of circle it back and finish with this because coming into a new year or in a new year, I really want people and anybody like myself even to have like really good practical things that they can actually put down where they can stick to whatever goals that they have and reach them. Because it's no point of setting something, the whole point of setting something is that you can actually reach those goals, not to set them and then just kind of like
Starting point is 01:30:37 not even have a plan. So what are some really other good ways to do that? Okay. Yeah, so it was interesting because where I had been, so that we went down like very long ago. But it was a good travel, I feel like. Yeah. A bunch of other rules.
Starting point is 01:30:51 Yes. But, yeah. Welcome to the podcast. Yeah. I think, yeah, it's interesting because like, yeah, so what works about the Spartan races and tough motor and stuff like that, is they create this tangible concrete goal.
Starting point is 01:31:04 But not everybody wants to have, wants to like put themselves out there and go do a race or whatever. races and tough motor and stuff like that, is they create this tangible concrete goal. But not everybody wants to have, wants to like put themselves out there and go do a race or whatever. But I think the key is what you want to do is create like, and this is where people fall when they're coming up with their goals for the start of the year. They're like, I want to lose weight, right? Well, I want to, I want to get stronger. I want to build muscle.
Starting point is 01:31:23 I want to, you know, I think what you have to do is you take that general goal, right? Because that general goal is kind of really what you want. But you've got to put something tangible to it, right? So the thing people have to do. And I think to, if you go back, like you've, everybody's heard the phrase like invest in yourself, right? And it's kind of like you've got it, the more investment you put into creating your goal, right? Which sounds simple, but the more that,
Starting point is 01:31:51 and this is actually how you stick to it though too, the more investment you put into kind of creating your goal, the more you're gonna, the more time you put into it. Like if you're just like, I wanna lose weight, that's my thing for 2021, if 2022, so I'm gonna go get a gym membership and that's gonna keep for 2021. If it's 22, so I'm going to go get a gym membership, and that's going to keep me accountable. That's not enough, right?
Starting point is 01:32:08 But I think what you want to do is say, OK, I want to lose weight. I want to figure out how many pounds. The more concrete you can make it the better. So I think what people have to do is take two steps on top of that initial goal. Come up with that initial kind of more less form thing. Like let's say, I want to, I want to,
Starting point is 01:32:31 I have a lot of clients come to me and they're like, I want to build muscle. And so I actually flip around and I'm like, I'm like, what, like, who do you, and it sounds superficial, right? But it's not, it's helping to kind of shape what we're gonna do, right? And this is actually the season
Starting point is 01:32:47 when I do it with a lot of time. It's, okay, so you wanna build, you wanna build more muscle. Who do you wanna look like, right? Or how do you wanna perform, okay? So I think it's, like we have all these kind of, so I really, yeah. So these more specific.
Starting point is 01:33:02 Yeah, there's a third step to that too, right? So, like, it's like for me, like, I want to look like Captain America. I had a guy, I actually had a guy earlier this year who wanted to look like Captain America. And so, it was like, okay, so now you've chosen, you've made it initially tangible, right? You've chosen somebody to look like. It doesn't have to be look like either. It could also be like perform like like I want to duck a basketball. I want to look like Jazeal. Now what do I do? So then let's like outline that more. And it sounds again it sounds silly and
Starting point is 01:33:36 it sounds like I know what you mean. You're not trying to sound vain or superficial but what you're trying to do is really kind of be as specific as possible. And then on top of that, have somebody that you can use as a bench marker or an example so that you pull to or you can like refer to. Yeah, exactly. And then you take it one more level and it's okay. So my guy who wanted to look like Captain America, right, it's like, okay, so we need to work on your chest.
Starting point is 01:34:04 We need to work on your chest and we need to work on your chest, we need to work on your chest, and we need to work on your abs, and we need to work on, you know, your legs, right? And so off of that, then we chose the certain amount of exercise, we chose certain exercises, like we're gonna get your bench press here, right? We're gonna get your ability to do hanging leg lists to this and that. But what if it's not physically about how you look?
Starting point is 01:34:30 What if it's like, I really want to have more energy. So who do you, you can't have, you don't have that type of specificity. So how do you do that? So what you do. Like, because like, let's say, like, yeah, I mean, in general, yes, you want more energy. But I think, I think part of the responsibility of having that goal of more energy, if you want it to go anywhere, is to put something, is to put something tangible to it, right? So that, like, and-
Starting point is 01:34:57 Okay, we're going to put my chat word, detangibility, be with that. Yeah, so that's what I'm thinking through a little bit bit because yeah, for, you know, I want more energy. It might be, that might be okay, so I want to be able to, you know, run like, you know, half a mile in the morning and half a mile at night and feel good, right? I just, but I think you want to have the, like, the responsibility if you have that goal is the responsibility of it's your responsibility to make it tangible and that's what's going to that's what's going to allow you to stick to it, right? And that's also what's going to allow you to feel like you're winning throughout the year because you know if we took that more energy and let's say maybe that more energy, maybe I want more energy translates to, I wanna be able to do 20 burpees at the end of the day, which probably doesn't sound like much fun. How about for accountability?
Starting point is 01:35:54 Well, so that keeps you, I mean, for accountability, I think once you go through the trouble, so I just literally spun that 20 burpees at the end of the day thing and it's kind of silly, right? So I'm probably not going to take it very seriously, right? But that's what I think it's like you've kind of invested in yourself and taken the time to do something, right? Taking the time to like really flesh out the goal, whether that's with a trainer or with yourself or whatever, and because of that, you'll stick to it because you owe it to yourself because you took the time to not just like come up with something that was like
Starting point is 01:36:26 20 minutes on on December 31st, but you took the time to kind of research and work something work on something. Oh, I like that. Okay And the account of like how I think accountability is super important. So yeah, what's the way some great ways to work out? Is it do you do you think working out friends are good? Like what's other ways to keep your goals? Yeah, it's interesting because I think I think, yeah, like if you kind of create, so I'm big on two things. One, I think, yeah, if you can work out with a group, that's really awesome, because they're gonna help you stick to it.
Starting point is 01:36:58 We're finally like, finally a training partner. One of the hard parts of finding a training partner is you need somebody who's going to push you and not drag you down. I trained for like a couple of years, probably like six years ago I was training with like a guy and he would always show up late to the gym and they have to like call him. So it's like you have to find like the right person. If you can find the right person, I think that's good. If you can afford a trainer, and they keep you accountable when they do the work for you, one of the cool projects I've been part of over the last nine months is I work with a team called Flexit on the head of training
Starting point is 01:37:37 innovation there. And that's an app and a platform that allows for virtual training, which is a really accept a super easy way that anybody can get. Yeah, I just flex it with you. I love that because you can like train with really top quality people and you could like at your house basically and it's actually really good also for proper form and technique and to make sure you're doing things right. Yeah. That's what I like about those types of things too. I don't think a trainer anymore is just for people who are super wealthy. I think people who want to get better in anything have coaches and you don't have to be doing it all the time. Right?
Starting point is 01:38:17 It could just be like once in a while to make sure that you're on point. Exactly. Yeah. I think you and me did once a week or something like that for a little bit. We did. And then I got busy my bad. But I did really love the platform. Yeah. Yeah. And I think that's like a really easy, and you're right. There are so many ways that you can work with, that you can work with a trainer. I think Flexed is a great option. But then there are other ways. I think when I think now to, even if I draw up a program,
Starting point is 01:38:49 I have a couple of clients where I do as I draw up a program, I give it to them, they send me a couple of videos a week. Right. And it's like check ins, right? But I think when you've kind of spent, it's like anything.
Starting point is 01:39:00 It's like, if you spend $600 on a new PlayStation 5, or you can leave it, sit there, you can use it, right? So if you spend $600 on the new PlayStation 5, or you can leave it sit there, you can use it, right? So if you can, if you can, right? If you can spend $500 on a workout program, you're probably going to stick to it a little bit more. So I think the accountability is like literally, I think there are ways you can, like working with a partner is great, working with a partner is great working with a trainer is great
Starting point is 01:39:25 I think people too. I think when you when you set that tangible goal I do believe like when you make it very very tangible. I want to bench press 225. I want to yeah It's more tangible the better. Yeah, I think that's I think that's what we'll get people to stick to I also think setting very, very small goals, right? Like, if you don't buy it off more than you can chew. I call it stacking days, right? I think it's literally, so I do this with one client in Virginia. It was actually fun because I saw it, like suddenly she got into it, right? So I'm like, if you have no interest in fitness at all, my thing is seven minutes, right?
Starting point is 01:40:08 If you can start with seven minutes once a day. And I did this with another guy too, in the Bronx, and we started with like one seven minute workout like once a day, and then it was like, and then it was like two of them, because it's seven minutes, so it's not very long. Right, two a day, or just, okay, two, seven minutes. Yeah, so it's a 14-wapping minutes at 24 hours, you know?
Starting point is 01:40:31 But over time, and then over time, like he was able to, it was like, oh, I could fit in more seven-minute workouts because I'm not long. Totally. And he wound up losing, I think he lost like 60 pounds. Amazing. Yeah, and it was.
Starting point is 01:40:42 What's it called, stacking? Yeah. How's that stack? Oh, you stack stack seven minutes. Well, the goal, the goal is to like it habits and hustle. I thought about this. Yeah, yeah, but the goal is to like form a habit, right? Because so that's like it's like seven minutes once a day. Okay, but seven, it's like the first day you do it, right? And then you check in with me, right? And it's like, okay, you did your workout. now we have to get two days right it's now you do the workout again now we have to get three days so then you do and then um one it's like
Starting point is 01:41:11 this seven minute thing started because it was like okay I can show these people that um they'll be more they'll be more active and like have more fun you know and then all of a sudden they like like the energy so they want the um the lady in Virginia um one is like more where she all of a sudden she was doing like like hour long rolling workouts And I was like I didn't tell you to do that, but sure You know exactly just get the hardest parts of the start. So we're saying seven minutes day one day two two Seven minutes keep day three three seven minutes. Is that what you're saying? No, keep going so seven minutes day one Seven minutes day two seven minutes day three. There's gonna come a point what you're saying? No, keep going. So seven minutes day one, seven minutes day two, seven minutes day three, there's going to come a point where you're going to want to do that.
Starting point is 01:41:47 Oh, okay. So you're not saying devil and then triple it. You're saying constantly just do the seven minutes a day. There's an app by the way for seven minute workouts. I don't know if you know that. It's a very big thing. I had an app by the way for five minute workouts. And then the seven minute, you know, a long time ago. And so you're saying, this is like, I totally believe in this, that's why I did the five minute, hot five, was because once someone starts, that's the hardest part. And once they get started, then their goodness will more or less. And the more you do it, the more you get comfortable with it. So you're saying you did the seven minutes and then second day seven until they get on a
Starting point is 01:42:25 role. Yeah, exactly. And all you're doing is you're kind of like you're mandating for yourself that you're going to have activity in every single day, right? That's where it starts, right? But then and then because you're you're creating this mindset, right, of having a mandate for activity and working out every single day. And then you just stack that because it's like one day, two day. Oh, wow, I've done seven days of seven minutes. I can do more of this. And then I've done 14 days.
Starting point is 01:42:54 And then I've done 30 days. It's a confidence building too that you can do it. Yeah. Now, I love this. This is great. So I don't know how long that was, but thank you for coming on the podcast. We can do another one like this. I don't know how long that was, but thank you for coming on the podcast. We can do another one like this. I don't know how long that was, but it's mostly your fault. It is always my fault.
Starting point is 01:43:10 Everyone, you should, by the way, besides, you know, checking out men's health and Ed has obviously workouts in there and articles and he writes for them, he runs it. But Ed, check out Ed's, like I said earlier, his IG, he does a great work out. Tell him again what your IG is. It's my full name, so Ebb and Ebb and Ebb is Samuel 23. Joanne Spell, Ebenezer for people, just in case, Ebb. Ebb and Ebb is Ebb. Ebb and Ebb is Ebb.
Starting point is 01:43:37 Ebb and Ebb is Ebb is Ebb. Ebb and Ebb is Ebb is Ebb. Ebb and Ebb is Ebb is Ebb. Ebb and Ebb is Ebb. Ebb and Ebb is Ebb is Ebb. Ebb is Ebb is Ebb. Ebb is Ebb is Ebb. Ebb is Ebb is Ebb. Ebb is Ebb is Ebb. Ebb is Ebb. Ebb is Ebb. Ebb is Ebb. E-R-S-A-M-U-E-L-2-3. That's really long.
Starting point is 01:43:45 No kidding. That's why I call you Ebb. No, awesome. Thank you. This is a great beginning. Well, I mean, you'll come out again, I'm sure. And this is a great beginning for people to start their 2022 off on the right foot, so to speak.
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