I am Charles Schwartz Show - The Culture Delusion Everyone Regrets - Jessica Kriegel

Episode Date: December 18, 2025

In this insightful episode, Charles sits down with Jessica Kriegel, culture strategist, author, and former Chief Scientist of Workplace Culture at Culture Amp, to explore how values, leadership, and i...ntentional culture drive sustainable performance in modern organizations. Jessica unpacks what workplace culture really is, challenging the idea that it's about perks or slogans, and revealing how shared behaviors and belief systems shape everything from engagement to execution. From helping companies navigate rapid growth and change to decoding why culture breaks down during moments of pressure, Jessica shares what it takes to build environments where people actually thrive. She explains how leaders can translate values into daily actions, create trust at scale, and align teams around a clear sense of purpose, without sacrificing accountability or results. Together, they dive into the future of work, why culture must evolve alongside technology, how transparency and feedback fuel high-performing teams, and why leadership today is less about control and more about connection. This conversation reframes culture as a strategic advantage, not a "soft" concept, and shows how the strongest organizations are built from the inside out. This isn't just a conversation about company culture. It's a blueprint for building workplaces people believe in, contribute to, and choose to stay part of. KEY TAKEAWAYS: -How Jessica Kriegel became a leading culture strategist by turning data, behavior, and psychology into actionable workplace insights -Why company culture isn't about perks or slogans—but about consistent behaviors and shared beliefs -How leaders unintentionally break culture during periods of growth, pressure, or change -Why values only matter when they show up in daily decisions and actions Head over to provenpodcast.com to download your exclusive companion guide, designed to guide you step-by-step in implementing the strategies revealed in this episode. KEY POINTS: 01:10 – What culture really means: Jessica challenges the idea that culture is about perks and slogans, while Charles reframes culture as the invisible system driving behavior, trust, and results. 04:55 – How leaders unintentionally break culture: Jessica explains how growth, pressure, and misaligned incentives erode culture, while Charles reflects on why leadership behavior sets the tone more than any mission statement. 09:42 – Values vs. behaviors: Jessica breaks down why values only matter when they show up in daily actions, while Charles emphasizes the gap between what companies say and what they actually reward. 14:28 – Culture as a strategic advantage: Jessica reveals how strong culture directly impacts performance and retention, while Charles explores why culture should be treated like any other core business system. 19:36 – Trust, transparency, and feedback: Jessica explains how open communication fuels engagement, while Charles highlights why feedback loops are essential for high-performing teams. 24:51 – Leadership in the modern workplace: Jessica discusses the shift from control to connection, while Charles ties this evolution to empathy, accountability, and clarity. 30:14 – Navigating change without losing alignment: Jessica shares how organizations can scale without cultural breakdown, while Charles reflects on the importance of consistency during uncertainty.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Welcome to the Proven Podcast, where we don't care what you think, only what you can prove. On this episode, Jessica and I attack culture. Culture by itself is a polarizing conversation, and that's exactly what this was. This was a conversation. There were agreements. There were disagreements. There were things we aligned on and things we completely viewed differently. But at the end of it, it changed how I view culture and it gave me more insights to be a better leader and to help scale everything that I've done in my life. With that said, the show starts now.
Starting point is 00:00:30 everybody, welcome back to the show. I'm excited for today's guest. Thank you so much for being on the show. Thanks for having me. So for the four or five people who in the world who don't know who you are, we tell a little bit about who you are, what you do, and all of that. You're giving me a lot more credit for being renowned than I actually am. Well, you've got a TEDx talk coming up, so, I mean, it's got much. It'll be my second. So, yes, if you've seen my first one,
Starting point is 00:00:53 which is called How to Get People to Give a Shit, then maybe you'll be interested in the second one. Or not give a shit at all. Yeah, well, I mean, I think a lot of employees today don't give a shit, which is a scratcher for leaders. Okay, so I am the chief strategy officer at a culture consulting firm called Culture Partners, and I'm also an author of an upcoming book called Surrender to Lead. Mausel top. And so some of the stuff you've done, you've done TEDx talks, what was your experience prior to what you're doing now? One of the things that got you here, how did you get to that journey?
Starting point is 00:01:23 Just to give the audience an idea of like, why are we listening to her? What's happening? That's kind of what we're going to go on the way. So I spent 10 years at Oracle. And at Oracle, I was the head of strategy for the head of cloud. So it was one person away from our CEO helping lead transformation efforts. So expert in change and culture. I, at the same time that I was at Oracle, I went and got my doctoral degree in educational leadership and management and wrote my doctoral dissertation.
Starting point is 00:01:49 It was quantitative research on generational dynamics at work, talking about millennials. Gen Zers weren't even on the map back when I wrote this dissertation. And I went into that research thinking I was going to figure out what millennials want and how to engage and attract and retain them, which was what everyone wanted to know at that time. And what I came out with was the realization that that's a bunch of stereotyping BS and that ultimately we got to get away from talking about each other in those labels because they're actually limiting our ability to understand the underlying issues that are going on in the workplace. I wrote a book about that and that blew up. And so I started a keynote career, which was really a side hustle at first until it started making more money than my actual job at Oracle. And then I left and did that on my own, briefly enjoyed a job as a chief HR officer at a different technology company, and then ultimately sold my business to culture partners. And that's where I am now.
Starting point is 00:02:48 So when we talk about this, I love that the idea of instead of being a broadsword using a scalpel when it comes to people. It's kind of like, oh, this person is a Boston Red Sox fan, therefore they're this. And it just never works that way. And having that, what are some of the things you found out with millennials and with all of that that are just blatantly wrong? Like, listen, if you're applying this in your environment, in your workspace and you're using this brush for millennials or Gen Z or Gen X or which I'm a fan of Gen X because I am one, so we just, we are the best outside of the greatest generation.
Starting point is 00:03:18 Clearly, clearly, clearly. it's not like the boomers or the greatest generation who actually might be the greatest generation. What are the things that you found about millennials that people are completely wrong about? The brush is the word millennial. So anything that you associate with a generation, and it could be millennials or the greatest generation, even you saying maybe they are the greatest generation, you've already started brushing, right? So what I'm saying is that as a classifier is completely fabricated. I mean, first of all, the word millennial did not exist in until 1990 when the grandfathers of this entire research, and I'm saying that with air quotes,
Starting point is 00:03:56 research industry, invented the word. And the years that define the millennials have changed, the stereotypes around them, the most common for millennials, which is my generation, so it's the one that hurts the most, is, you know, we're entitled, we're tech savvy, we're lazy, we want to save the planet. Gen Z is just millennials on steroids. They're ADHD. They have no interpersonal skills. They're completely addicted to technology. So all of that is inaccurate, right? What makes up a person's values and character and behaviors, it is the experiences that've had that lead to the beliefs that they hold
Starting point is 00:04:32 that are going to motivate the actions that they take day to day. And that is going to be based on thousands of factors and hundreds of thousands of experiences. And not the arbitrary age bracket that you happen to have been born within, that for some it's a 20-year-wide age bracket. For others, it's 14 years. And we understand that intellectually when we use other labels. Like you can't say, well, blacks are entitled and whites are tech savvy. But it's been drilled into us that race, for example, is an inappropriate stereotype.
Starting point is 00:05:05 And gender is an inappropriate stereotype. But for generation, it's just so socially acceptable that we don't even realize that's what we're doing. It's really ageism hiding in a generational label. And it's oversimplifying the complexity of human behavior. So it takes you down the wrong path. It's just stop. If we never said the word millennial again, I think that would be better. We'd be better off for it.
Starting point is 00:05:28 Yeah, I think it goes to the human behavior wanting to have a shortcut. It's just at the end of the day, we want to shortcut things. We want to say, oh, you believe in this, you belong to this party. Therefore, it's this. It's post hoc air go proctor. Therefore, therefore, because of it. It's like, we believe in this. Therefore, this is what it is.
Starting point is 00:05:41 And it just, it doesn't work in any way, shape, or form. Yeah. Hedman Hedgefeld called it in-group, out-group dynamics. I want to be part of an in-group. it makes me feel better. It gives me more self-esteem. In order to be in the group, there needs to be an out-group, and that's to other people. No one, let me just give you this test. No one has ever said, oh, I wish I was a part of that generation. It doesn't matter what generation you are or which one we're talking about. No one wishes they were a baby boomer or wishes they were Gen Z. Everyone always thinks their generation is the best generation, which makes you feel better about yourself that you're in the end group and everyone else therefore must be in the out-group. And it's actually dysfunctional and destructive in the workplace. In Hebrew, we say Goyem or Gentiles, which is the nicest term is
Starting point is 00:06:24 then. That's the nicest way we can say. When you say Gentile, it's the general. General, it's them. So it's that differentiation between it is what it is. It's not a good sign.
Starting point is 00:06:34 It's not a good luck. The next thing we're talking about is cultures and talking about not a good look. It's 2025. We're wrapping up towards the end of it here. And as we walk into this, we've lost over a million jobs.
Starting point is 00:06:45 And there's a lot of people in our space in entrepreneurs and running big businesses, the people that come to people like you and I that say, hey, yeah, culture is important, but we don't know what culture is. And therefore, is culture more important than profit? How do they play off each other? Because I think at different levels, there's different answers to that. And I'm really excited to get into that with you. Which is the most favorite part of it's my, we're going to rip apart this from an entrepreneurial side versus academia side versus a corporate side because they are very different views towards culture. So for the people playing at home, what is culture? It's the way that people think and act to get results. Okay, that's simple. How important is culture now life things are on fire when things are, when we're hemorrhaging jobs?
Starting point is 00:07:29 Well, how important is it to you as an entrepreneur, how your employees think and act to get results? I mean, it is the most important thing. And I sympathize with the leaders who think that people in profitability or culture and profitability are these two opposing forces that we need to balance and find the right equilibrium so that our profitability can soar and our people will thrive. That's the narrative out there because we think in extremes and people often advocate and evangelize in extremes. So there's a whole bunch of culture experts out there, quote unquote, that are really
Starting point is 00:08:04 just, you know, bleeding, heart, touchy, feely, do the right thing, folks that want you to make the world a better place. And so they're advocating for things like bring your authentic self to work. My opinion, that's a terrible idea. Do not bring your authentic self to work. Bring your professional self to work. And your authentic self can talk to your husband about that, right? There's the people who are saying, we need to, you know, even the DEI thing, for example. Let's talk about DEI. The idea that we need to make people feel included is pretty no-brainer, right? The idea that we want diversity of thought in business is a no-brainer. But people have taken that, slapped a label on it, made it a program, hired a DEI head,
Starting point is 00:08:51 given it a budget or not a lot of the time, and then run a bunch of metrics. And that doesn't change the way people think and act, you know? And so if you want, if you care about DEI, it's about how do you get people to believe that that is important? And then you can move the needle on that, but these programs don't work. So culture people are out there saying be your best self, do the right thing. The consequences may be a little bit of profitability, but that's the right thing at the end of the day. And business leaders are looking at those folks and saying, you guys have no idea what it's like to run a business. It's just not how it works.
Starting point is 00:09:25 It's not how I want to run a business because if I run a business that way, I'll be asked to leave eventually, right? I mean, as an entrepreneur, maybe you can hold on with gritted teeth until the bitter end, but it's not going to help your business. So let me show you how the two can live in harmony and actually both can be better off together. So we know that results are what we're looking for in business. That's like the be-all-end-all. You could be the nicest, most humble leader on the planet,
Starting point is 00:09:54 but if you're not getting results, no one's writing a Harvard Business Review case study about you, and no one's writing home about anything that you did, no matter how wonderful you acted, right? So results are the be-all-end-all of leadership success. we know the results come from the actions of people at your organization. So that's where most leaders stop. They actually just focus on what do I need people to do in order to get the result.
Starting point is 00:10:19 And that's what leads to burnout and exhaustion and micromanaging and this illusion that you can just mandate people to take action at work and that that will get you a result. That is a, that's just bad leadership. You got to ask yourself the question, what motivates people to take proactive action? What moves people to offer that discretionary effort that you so much wish that they would give you at work? And the answer is they're deeply held beliefs. If they believe in the company and they believe in you as a leader and they believe in the product and they believe in their ability to impact the bottom line and that makes them feel good, well, then they're going to offer you all of the discretionary effort because they feel fulfilled by working here.
Starting point is 00:11:03 And that's the level that you have to operate at. tapping into people's beliefs, going back to my TEDx talk, it's how to get people to give a shit. You have to get them to believe that they care about what your company is doing. And if they don't care, then they're just phoning it in and they've quiet quit and your profitability suffers. So as a leader, how you tap into that belief layer is all of our beliefs come from the experiences that we've had. Right. The experiences we had with our teachers, with our family, at school, with our past employers, with you. those experiences shape the beliefs I hold and that's what gets them to take action and that's
Starting point is 00:11:40 what gets you a result. So you have to align all of those elements. You as a leader cannot really control your people, but you can control the experiences that you create for them. And when you create intentional experiences that will shape the right beliefs so that they take the right action that you want them to take so that you can get a result, you unlock, we studied this with Stanford 4x profitability. I mean, the companies that were stuck in like that action track, of just what do I got to do? They grew on average in a study we did over three years, 10%. Companies that operated at the belief layer, they at the same three-year period grew by 42%. So it's 4x growth when you operate at that belief level. And oh, by the way, your people will actually be super
Starting point is 00:12:26 fulfilled and interested in the work they're doing because it's what they believe. So here's where profitability in people or culture can both thrive instead of, let's put a bunch of money into a Napa retreat where we're going to fly everyone in a hot air balloon and give them a pizza party and get wasted together so that they're, quote, happy. And then we go back to work and nothing has changed in how we actually impact results and actually it cost you a bunch of money. So there's a lot to unpack there. And so you go into the idea of beliefs versus, hey, I'm going to throw you a party. My question is, where does ethos come into? Where does hiring come into. And also when we talked about DEI and all of that, when you get into a situation and you're a
Starting point is 00:13:06 smaller business, when, you know, we've got a couple of people that there are nine, ten people shops and they're doing $100 million a year versus these behemoths of companies that are just so inundated with ineffectiveness, right? Because at the end of the day, it's the people who execute on, in my world, it's the people who execute. We'll figure out the plan later. We execute. We're not going to sit there and say, are you pretty? Are you nice? You feel fulfilled. We execute. and we hire on that level. So it's a completely different ecosystem and there's a completely different ethos
Starting point is 00:13:33 because either we execute or I can't feed someone else in the organization. It's very simple as we do this. So if you're fulfilled, that's great. That's adorable. I love that. I'm going to try my best to meet your needs even though there's a hierarchy of needs
Starting point is 00:13:45 that you might be driven by significance, why this one might be driven by certainty or wherever they are on that scope. As someone who runs organizations, I've got to be balancing that. But at the end of the day, if someone isn't fulfilled, it's more important for me to make sure that we're hitting numbers so I can feed that other person's kids.
Starting point is 00:14:03 That's my job. I have to make sure that these people are, we hit our goals so I can make sure I'd pay for their things. When it comes into this. Yeah, but if you have someone who's not fulfilled working on your team, are they giving you 100%? So I don't ever expect anyone to give me 100%. I think that's the difference. So people in, I don't think anybody ever would give 100%. Because if I walked in and please correct, remember, I'm wrong. If an employee is absolutely 1,000% giving me 100%, they probably are wearing a green hat
Starting point is 00:14:32 and are about a foot and a half tall because they're a leprechaun. They don't exist. Most people are going in and they're executing, regrettably, enough to keep their jobs or to meet that next pain hit that they want to get rid of. So, hey, I want that next goal. I want that next thing.
Starting point is 00:14:45 That's what they're trying to do because I will not be their first job and I probably won't be their last job. That's just the end of the day, right? This is the language thing. call it that. They're executing enough to keep their jobs, right? Now, there's more that they could give that would be that discretionary effort, the extra proactive nature of idea generating or process improvement, the thing that goes beyond the scope of what they need to do to keep their
Starting point is 00:15:12 jobs, which makes the A player, right? That's the top talent person that you want all of them to be like that, that are sometimes a little bit more difficult to manage because they expect more, because they produce more, right? So the people who are doing that are fulfilled in the work that they're doing, the people who are checked out are doing the bare minimum or not. So I'm not talking about fulfilled as in I love you, you love me. I'm talking about I want to fulfill the goals here. That's what moves me. And therefore, I'm going to do more than just the bare minimum. And that happens at their inner belief layer. You can't just control freak people into doing that. They're going to skee, you know, they're going to do the bare minimum until you call them out on it, right?
Starting point is 00:15:56 So we're actually talking about the same thing. I think we agree. Yeah, yeah. My question is when do we do it at the hiring level? At the hiring level, yeah. Right. So we talk about this in when you talk about operators or in the seal communities or special forces operators or even small businesses, we hire very quickly and we fire faster.
Starting point is 00:16:15 It happens very, very, very. So in my world, I will incentivize people. If I hire you and you don't like it, I will pay you 90 days to go away because it will cost me more money than to deal with you. So we move through it very, very quickly. We hold people to certain expectations. We walk through saying, what do you think you're going to do? This is what you like to do. Boom, let's go.
Starting point is 00:16:37 There's this whole concept that is a guy, there's a book. It's a great book by a guy named Jack Willick. It's called Extreme Ownership. And it's pushing down decentralized command. And what I have found is in high-end corporate environments, it doesn't execute well because it's just such a big moving chip versus a smaller vessel.
Starting point is 00:16:58 So I'm curious with the studies and the stuff that you've been given back because on my world, we don't worry about DEI's. We're not big enough. We're moving too quickly. We're going to hire the best person for the job at the time. And if they continue to execute,
Starting point is 00:17:10 they get to stay. If they don't, I wish them the best on their journey. So we move very quickly. I'm curious with your research in what you've done our house stuff. You've done stuff at Oracle. These are big bohemets that you're moving around with a lot of different personalities, a lot of different moving pieces versus most small businesses that are less than 100 employees.
Starting point is 00:17:28 Have you seen a difference between the two and how do you execute in that environment? Yeah. So there's obviously a difference because at scale, there are different problems that you need to solve for. And so it's more of a numbers game. And you can be more, you can use a scalpel in a smaller organization. What I do, we're a small organization, right? we have 40 employees and then let's call it 40 employees. So when I'm hiring someone, what we've done is, first of all, we've completely abandoned
Starting point is 00:17:57 the idea of culture fit because culture fit is what a lot of entrepreneurs think of when they think of, you know, they're thinking, who would I want to get a beer with? That's what they really mean when they're talking about. And that's a complete place to your time. And also it's probably going to have you end up hiring people that are just like you, which can be useful, but you already have you. Wouldn't you like to get someone not like you and you might learn something? Right.
Starting point is 00:18:25 So we focus on purpose fit. So when I do an interview, the first question I ask is, what's your why? And then they usually will give me some kind of canned, you know, what sounds good based on what the job role is. You know, like, I'm really moved by product marketing or whatever. And it's so BS, right? So then I say, no, no, really, what is your why? like, why do you wake up in the morning? What do you think the meaning of your life is? And I get them to open up at a deeper level about what their why is. Then I tell them our why at the company level.
Starting point is 00:18:59 So our company's purpose is to drive results by activating your change. If you were to join us at this company and help us try and achieve that purpose, do you see how it would tie to your why? Does that, do you feel like you're fulfilling your personal mission by helping us with this organization's mission? And now we're talking about what really fulfills someone, what moves someone, where they're going to actually give a shit, rather than just, okay, I'm going to be an execution junkie. And then eventually you get to burn out if you don't actually care about what you're working on, right? So it's how do you create, when we're trying to drive accountability within organizations, the first two questions I ask a leader is, number one, how are you doing on results? because that's what matters more than anything. And then number two, and how's your energy level?
Starting point is 00:19:49 Because for a lot of people, to drive the results that they want to hit, it's incredibly draining. And it's draining for you as an entrepreneur. Imagine how draining it is for the people who don't own the company. And so you have to find a way to take accountability that doesn't eventually run out. And that's really what we're about doing, is creating that purpose is fuel. The purpose is what gets people to wake up at the morning and be like, I'm all in again. So do you have a filter that you use when you're hiring people?
Starting point is 00:20:19 Because the wise stuff, boy, we could get Nevada on that way. I'm sorry, I don't need to give the confrontation on this one. I wrote a book about it. I did. I had a four-star general background on this one. I will give you that if you want. But we can go into that. The question I have is, is there a filter that you have?
Starting point is 00:20:35 When you're like, okay, I've gone through the hiring. I understand culture. I understand that culture fit doesn't make sense in any way, shape, or form. I don't want to hire someone like me because they're probably. going to give me a similar answer to a problem. I need a different answer to the same problem. I need this have more aspects. I need someone to get in my face and say, hey, no, here's this other thing you haven't seen. I'm like, perfect. Thank you. That's what we're hiring for. But do you have an overall filter before you hire someone? So it's like, this is our thing.
Starting point is 00:20:59 If they hit this, that the people are listening to this could use. Skills. I mean, what we don't do is, for example, degree requirements and all of these old school ways of measuring whether someone is, quote, qualified, you know, we do skills aptitude. And once we have that basic skills confirmed, then it's purpose fit. That is the filter. I mean, if they care about the kind of work that we're doing, I feel like I'm going to get a lot more out of them than if they're just, you know, just like me and seem nice and could be part of the crew here. Right. The filter we use is if you're hiring this person, if you're the hiring manager, and you got sick, God forbid, and this person was needed to perform their job to make
Starting point is 00:21:43 sure your children could eat, would you hire that individual? And we have found that adding that filter into our ecosystem has made our hiring process more effective. We keep people normally on an 80 to 87% rate when we started adding that filter versus our churn and burn that we used to do, is making people look through that accountability. How do you check for that? So it's for less of a less scientific way. As you've gone through it, you've asked about performance. Like, hey, this is a problem. How would you do it? Okay. this happens, how would you fix that? So instead of going out there, why, we go into what their effective resources are. What would you do in this situation? We do mocks, then we give them tests. So, hey, here's the thing. We have this going on. We'll pay you to do the test.
Starting point is 00:22:27 Go run this. Get back to me on whatever that result you would think would be. That result, no matter what you do, no matter who you are, if you're the interviewer, if you're the owner, if you're ever going to think the other person's result is 100%. It just is what it is. That's Okay. Even if they get to 80%, that's a win. That's a grand slam. Because as you said before, you know, we label ourselves as, hey, I'm Gen X. I am the best or I'm a boomer. I want to do that because I would love to be in the greatest generation. I was like, that to me is they win all day long. The problem is they didn't have air conditioning and the internet. So I'm like, okay, time wise, is a little bit different on that. But for me, as you go into it, it's going to say, okay,
Starting point is 00:23:05 I'm always going to feel I can do better. Then I find someone who just completely kicks my butt And I'm like, okay, now how do I get this person as part of the team? And this stuff's when they become partners in the org or some of that nature. We run them through tests because if we're sitting about and we're talking about platitudes, about how do you feel and what is why and those type of things, we haven't tested their execution. So we've gone through and we've changed the hiring process saying, okay, if this is a real problem we have right now, how would you have fixed it? What would you have done?
Starting point is 00:23:34 So you think that people's why doesn't matter in hiring? So I wish it was just me. but the youngest for the first and highest decorated four star general that was a female there's only even 234 of them uh we just did a talk we're on stage and i asked her i said you know i wrote a book about that who is more important than why can you help me out with this you you directed people in situations where if i mess up we lose a couple hundred million dollars it's okay it's not the end of the world if she messes up we all die right so it's just at the end of the ballgame i asked her i said what i go how important is why because i've i've had this battle multiple times and
Starting point is 00:24:08 She goes, who influences the why? The why by itself is irrelevant. So, for example, I was on stage and I will not say said person's name, but this individual believed that the wife was the most important thing. And I was hot miced at the time. And I was walking off stage and I was God. And I was hot mic. And he said, what was that? I was like, oh, I'm so sorry. I apologize. I'm going to say, no, no, you just crushed it. I'd love to hear your insight. And I said, no, dude, it's really disrespectful when I do this. This is your life's work. Please let me go step over here and shut. up and just be viewed as a complete a hole. And he's like, no, no, I'd really love your insight. My uncle, well, I spent eight years in a hospice watching people die. Let's show all of raids of hands a hands of hands. How many, how many people want to, how many people want to have, better shit? All their hands went up. I said, cool. How many people want to have, know why they want to have a better relationship, better sex life? All the hands went. So cool. And then how many people in this room know why they want to make two to five million dollars more than they're making right now? All their hands went up. It's a cool.
Starting point is 00:25:02 How many people have actually done it? And the hands went, this is what it is. And I'm like, Knowing your why doesn't change. You have to change who you are. So if you know why you want to quit smoking, you're not going to quit smoking. We have the data on this. If you change the identity to I am a non-smoker, things change. And you have a drive towards that. The why by itself gets influenced by the who. So who, regardless, is more important than why. To put in her words exactly, of course, our general, who influences the why. The why by itself is wasted. So you're talking about a state of being rather than a state of doing. No, I'm talking about an identity. So for example, yeah, I'm talking about an identity. So you're one version of you when you're executing in your job, right? You're another version of you when you're having naughty naked time, whatever it is. If you switch those up, work is going to be really, really interesting or inappropriate.
Starting point is 00:25:56 Or naughty naked time is going to be really, really boring, right? So that's the high-level idea of it. To get more into it, there's a version of you that is an unstoppable force. there's a version of you that if your challenge will come out. Those are two different version. There's another version of all of us that don't think we're enough. Not tall enough, not short enough, not blonde enough, not perin enough, not curvy enough, whatever it is. Each one of those have different wives, and they're both fed.
Starting point is 00:26:18 Being able to tap into those on command is what creates the movement. Take Michael Jordan. Michael Jordan is an individual who operates a very specific way in very specific environments. You could turn it on and off and on and off. He doesn't need that version of him when he's eating or hanging out with his friend. It's a different version. Being able to turn it on and off on command will influence results more than what we have found a why. Because why is we found or the platitudes. They don't work. Who you are as an identity has more power. Yeah. So that's interesting. So we did in our research at Stanford Graduate Business School, we wanted to measure the type of culture that wins the most. Is it an execution focused culture? Is it an accountable culture? Is it a people first culture? Is it, you know, there's eight kind of big categories. of culture that we tested. And there was only one that was significantly correlated with increased
Starting point is 00:27:11 revenue growth, and it was an adaptive culture. So if you zoom out, you realize it's not actually execution focused or people first or accountable culture. It is the one that is able to switch from one to the other and then back again. To be adaptive is to be able to pivot according to the context, the needs of the organization, you know, whatever's going on with your competitive landscape, your funding circumstances, and so on. So when you can adapt, that is actually what wins. In the same research, though, we looked at 243 companies and their revenue growth over the course of three years to see, okay, we looked at their purpose, we looked at their strategy, which is the execution piece, and then we looked at their culture. And the ones that won the most
Starting point is 00:27:58 were the ones that were aligned across those things. So when you have, maybe it's yes and, right? Maybe it's not, why doesn't matter, execution matters. Right, I just think it's an order. I think it's a yes and, 100%. It's a yes and, right? It's when you have a purpose that aligns with your execution plan and aligns with the culture, which I define as the way people think and act to get results, you're unstoppable.
Starting point is 00:28:23 Sometimes, though, what happens is you need to execute shifts, right? technological advancement suddenly, now we've got AI, we've got to change our execution style and plan and approach because we're in a brand new world. Well, if your culture doesn't shift or your purpose doesn't shift, well, now you're out of alignment. And that's what the research showed. There was three times stronger results growth over the course of three years when you had alignment versus non-alignment. So let's agree that perhaps they could both be important. You probably lean more heavily towards the execution. I am someone who, while at a personal level, right, if I spend the next 10 years trying to make the world a better place with better workplace cultures
Starting point is 00:29:06 and I'm, you know, moderately successful, but I was able to fulfill my why, I would be more satisfied with those 10 years at a personal level than if I was able to create a bunch of money creating electric cars and, you know, doing something that I don't really care about, right? But that's just my personal preference. Whereas you're probably more focused on driving results. I'm a little bit more focused on surrender and the state of being and, you know, my spiritual connection. I don't know, but that's, it feels different to me.
Starting point is 00:29:42 What you're saying doesn't really appeal to me. Absolutely. To adapt is probably the key, right? Close. I mean, there's a couple leaves that we did, a couple brushes that we did there. So for me, I focused on the identity of the individual and what they want. Some people want to make the world a better place. I love that.
Starting point is 00:30:00 Some people want to buy ridiculous cars and make a bunch of money. Okay. Whatever feeds your cup, that's your thing, whatever makes you happy. What drives me on a core when I work with stuff is I want to make it so that people who will never meet me, that I'm going to help a guy who helps a guy, who helps a guy, who maybe holds the door open for the guy that changes the world. I don't need the significance to fill my cup. That's just not what it drives me. I fill my cup up in a very different way. Knowing each one of the identities of the people that I'm working with and what drives them,
Starting point is 00:30:30 and if they are willing to bleed for each other, that becomes important for me. That's where I'm like, okay, you might want to go and make the world a better place and awesome. Or you might want to go make more money than you ever can possibly spend and then put a man on the moon. I don't care. I really don't care. As long as you're nice to people and you help them out and you're, I really don't. I'll send to care how you get there. Just try and be nice to each other.
Starting point is 00:30:55 But in a business, my job is to make sure that the people that have trusted me to give them a job, to get is to make sure that I can feed them. At the end of the day, I want to make sure they can eat. I spent, again, I spent eight years in a hospice with 350 single moms. My job is to make sure that their kids could eat. So if someone is ineffective, I'm like, I'm sorry, you don't get to stay. I've got to make sure that's a mixture that's so it's very driven by protecting the people underneath me. That's who I am at my identity.
Starting point is 00:31:22 That's how I run. That is what drives me. So because I have that identity, that influences the why. The rest of it, the making a bunch of money, I guess it's impossible. I've done it. Okay, it's next. What's the next thing with that? So I think this goes into the question I was going to ask you before this, which is when you talk about purpose, you talk about what is the org's purpose and you do that.
Starting point is 00:31:43 How do you identify the difference between an org's purpose versus an individual's purpose? Well, the org is the collective. It's the why the business exists and the individual's purpose of what they find their personal. It's their prime mover, you know, that concept of prime mover. It's what is the thing inside you that's moving you, the origination of movement within you that, that, and mine has changed significantly. It used to be money and power. Like, I used to just want to be super rich and famous. I mean, for more than a decade, okay?
Starting point is 00:32:17 Now, then I had a spiritual experience. I'm also a volunteer at a, well, I, you don't volunteer, right? You work there. Do you volunteer at the hospice or you were you there? So I, I worked there and then I volunteered after and then I volunteer at other organizations. A lot of it with nature and a lot of it with women who have been battered. So a lot of my volunteer works from it too. Okay. So I'm an end of life doula and I volunteer at a homeless hospice. And so we had that in common. But that was something that old me never would have considered. wasting my time at. Why would I? It was like, ew, homeless people know. Like dying, ew, right? Right. I had a spiritual experience that created a wildly new identity.
Starting point is 00:32:59 I mean, I had a completely new personhood evolve and get created, right? And so then now, and I didn't really have anything to do with it, I think it was a spiritual experience that was like something happened to me, really. Now, my purpose is to serve God and others. And the making money and the being rich and powerful is like not the goal at all. And in fact, I think is probably going to take me down the wrong path, you know. That I rely on. I have seriously considered giving up my entire career in this world because it feels like not spiritually aligned, you know.
Starting point is 00:33:38 I love that. I'm going and working in a hospice environment. then I think about, well, how can I best serve God and others? And I do have a platform and I do have the ability to influence. And maybe I'm here not by coincidence and I'm supposed to do something, you know, but maybe not. I'm getting a master's in divinity right now when I graduate. Like, maybe I will give it all up. We'll see.
Starting point is 00:34:00 And I might have another radical transformation of my identity in the future. No, I don't. Yeah, absolutely. Who shows up? So I agree. And there's this great moment where Matt Damon and he had just won the Oscar. And he's sitting back in his hotel room. And his date was passed out.
Starting point is 00:34:13 This is his story, not mine. It was passed out on the bed. And he's sitting there looking at the Oscar and this pizza that was left over. And he had this moment where he fast forward, you know, 70 years in his life. And he was an old man. And he goes, if I had spent my whole life trying to get this, how empty I would have felt. Because no matter how big the hole is inside me, this isn't going to fill it. And I have found that people who have been successful, who have made an enormous amount of money, they get to that moment.
Starting point is 00:34:37 They're like, okay, that didn't fill me up. That's not what it was. and whatever it is. Some people want to see Mother Teresa and volunteer at hospice, which please volunteer at hospice for those of you're listening. Go do it.
Starting point is 00:34:48 Just even for a week, it will fundamentally change who you are as a person. It will help you face something that we all are going to have to do. It is what it is. I may never go into an Indian food restaurant because I don't like Indian food,
Starting point is 00:34:59 but I'm going to die. So we all get to do that. Please do that at one point in their lives. It will fundamentally shift who you are and some people want to get back. Some people just want to lift alone. Like, it just is what it is. I just want to live a life of peace and quiet.
Starting point is 00:35:13 Other people want to become potous and do weird things to the White House. So we have these different things, but I think the journey, you said, you know, a new identity showed up. I'm finding that in life. My identity changes pretty routinely now at this point. Every like five to eight years, I'm like, oh, there's a new version of me. And each time as I get older, I think I tell people, when I was 30, 35, I thought I knew everything. At 39, I knew I knew I knew everything. At 40, I knew I was the biggest idiot on the planet.
Starting point is 00:35:44 I had no concept even at a time. My shoe and I was absolutely useless. And the more I've experienced with life, I'm like, well, I don't know. I'm like, which is the main reason I do these, which is like, hey, I've had these conversations. Let's, this is what I think it is. This is what you think it is. Awesome. Where's the truth?
Starting point is 00:35:58 Because there's three sides of every story. Your side, my side of the truth. And having the vulnerability and authenticity to say, hey, listen, I found this. This is what this study said. This is what I found. They don't match. cool, let's put some holes in it. Let's figure out how to do that and see how that comes from. Well, exactly. And I think that's one of the greatest pitfalls for leaders today is they think they know everything.
Starting point is 00:36:20 And they like direct people according to what they think is best. So they have a, you know. And it's totally. So the new book I have coming out, Surrender to Lead is all about that. Surrender in this context is not to give up and to let go or wave the white flag. surrender is to let go of the illusion that you had control in the first place. Yes. You didn't. Right? And so when you understand that and you don't know best perhaps and you can surrender to
Starting point is 00:36:51 the collective higher knowledge of the people on your team or if you are spiritual, surrender to a higher power that will guide you down the path that you need to go down, even if it's completely different than you thought, or whatever it is that you are, you know, whatever your belief system is, that's actually the unlock that, you know, interestingly, when I finally stopped trying to be rich and famous is when I started making more money and becoming more famous than every time. Every time, right? Every time. I don't know why, but every time. It's something, it's karma, who knows?
Starting point is 00:37:24 It's also off-putting. You can tell when someone is trying to get something from you or get something from the universe. And it's like, I'm not interested. And when they're not trying to get something from you, you lean in a little bit. You want to learn more. And so it does make sense. It feels counterintuitive. But it is actually how you unlock that potential that you're currently not getting.
Starting point is 00:37:47 It's surrendering the ego without getting too touchy-feely on this. It is. It's just letting go and saying, you know what? I thought that we had to do ABC. I've hired this individual. I hired them well. Let's find out what they did. And they did X, Y, Z.
Starting point is 00:38:01 And I'm like, okay. It worked. I never thought of it that way. Awesome. And letting go of that ego of saying, all right, life's going to happen for me, not to me, and I'm going to go through this process. That is a very scary thing to do is have that unbelievable vulnerability. And that on the other side is absolute strength.
Starting point is 00:38:18 And that ego mindset, it's a scarcity mindset. It's a fear-based mindset. And that's the mindset that has taken hold in corporate America today. It's why we've had over a million layoffs since the beginning of the year because people are scared. And they're trying to get ahead. of and control a situation that is not controllable. And the solution is, now we will get touchy-feely, is the opposite of fear is love, is to come from your heart, is to be of service, to be giving rather than taking.
Starting point is 00:38:47 And that's actually how you make a ton of money. Not to say you can't make a ton of money when you're running a fear-based organization. I work for those organizations, right? Yes, we all have. What could be possible if you didn't, and even if you didn't succeed, like at the end of the day, will you have lived a better life? that's just for you. You know, it's a nice to have, but yeah.
Starting point is 00:39:06 And it's the idea that I know what to do more than anything else and or I know the answer. Once I got rid of that, because I have a minor in theology and you're getting your masters, and we talked about this a little bit before we got on the call the first time, the idea that I don't know is a good answer. That's okay. If your God is the, if it's God, Buddha Allah, the magic chicken, a dancing monkey, or a floating donkey, whatever makes you happy, awesome. I don't know also works.
Starting point is 00:39:35 If you're like, I don't know. I think there could be something there. I also don't have any evidence of it. Are you being a good human being? Are you trying to help out other people? Are you trying to deliver a service? Are you trying not to be a dick? I don't care what you believe in.
Starting point is 00:39:49 I don't care if you believe in a bowl of spaghetti. As long as you're kind of the people you meet and show up honestly and connecting to them, hugely important. So for the people, as we've gone down a track, I'll try to bring it back a little bit more for corporate America. and for entrepreneurs out there who want things that are proven.
Starting point is 00:40:05 What are things that if they realize their culture is a little wonky, if their ego has built it a little bit, if there is that resistance and that challenge, what are some of the things that they can implement immediately, some steps that go, hey, you know what, I screwed up on this. I know I got to let go. I got to release my ego a little bit. I don't necessarily love my employees.
Starting point is 00:40:24 I definitely don't love what I do. I love the result. I love the fact that I can feed my kids or I can fly first class if we can fly anytime soon. But I got to let go of this. What are some of the things that we know that no matter what organization you are, no matter what size you're at,
Starting point is 00:40:39 these are proven you can do these things. Yeah. So the number one driver of results is clarity of those results. So number one, you may not have a team that is as clear as you think they are on what the number one, two, and three goals are for the organization.
Starting point is 00:40:55 And I say this because I can tell you stories of being in an executive meeting with the C-suite of Fortune 500 companies. And I'm looking around the room at these very well-paid executives who are long-tenured, theoretically the best leaders in America. This is a true story. We're in a room. It was like a drugstore retailer, right? They had just come off of a struggle. They were having some struggles, let's just say financially. And so we get into the room and we said, okay, what's the number one goal here? What are you trying to achieve by the end of this year? And they were like, profit margin. Great.
Starting point is 00:41:29 What profit margin goal do you have? The CMO rates his hand and he's like 3%. Great. And then the CFO says, actually, no, it's 5%. We're like, oh, okay, the CFO goes, no, actually it's 7%. So we look over at the CEO and it's awkward, obviously, and we say, so what is the profit margin goal? And he says, well, it's somewhere between 3 and 7%. Oh, God. Oh, my God.
Starting point is 00:41:52 So you start laughing. Those were all true numbers, right? One number is the number they told the board. one number is the number that they had set for employee bonuses and one was what they actually put in their projections. I mean, so if your people don't know what you're trying to achieve, how can you hold them accountable to achieving those things and how can they put their discretionary effort into that thing? You've got to get clear on results number one. Once you do that, the tendency is to then go into this action trap. What do we got to do?
Starting point is 00:42:22 Right. Okay, 5% profit margin. We're super clear on that. What do we got to do? And that's the wrong approach. Ask yourself, if culture's how people think and act, ask yourself, okay, what do we need people trying to get that profit margin at this company to believe in order for them to collectively use their intelligence and their discretionary effort to help us achieve that?
Starting point is 00:42:46 What do they need to believe in order for us to get 5% profit margin? So if you're trying to move people to AI, for example, what do you need them to believe? well, you probably need them to believe that AI isn't going to kill them their families and take their jobs, right? A lot of companies are having trouble implementing AI because everyone is resistant to AI because of fear. So there's a belief that needs to shift if you actually want things to change. Once you figure out the beliefs, name them, identify what those beliefs are, label them, talk about them at the organization level so that we can get on the same page about, here's the shared beliefs that we need to hold. We own the outcome. You know, we standardize to scale.
Starting point is 00:43:26 We, whatever the belief is that's critical for your success. And then you have to surrender your need to control people and create experiences, because the only thing you can control is yourself, create experiences that will drive those beliefs so that you can get people to take the action. And the kind of experiences you can start with recognition, storytelling, feedback, right? So if someone is not owning the outcome, you have to give them the feedback about this, right? Let them know that they're not owning the outcome. If they are owning the outcome, recognize them for that. Then tell the story about it. Hey, Charles owned this outcome by doing the following thing.
Starting point is 00:44:06 Let me tell everyone the story about it and explain to them how it will tie to the result we're trying to achieve. The lore or the narrative of organizations is a powerful motivator of behavior as well. So telling stories, recognizing people, giving feedback when they fall out of line or in line with demonstrating the actions you need them to demonstrate that align with the beliefs you want to nurture is how you ultimately get the results. So as a leader, as a manager, so that come in and people listening to this, how do you get them to let go? How do you get them if they haven't had the spiritual awakening or had the experience or done the time in hospice? Please volunteer at hospice. if they haven't done those things, how do you get someone to have the confidence to let go with the rope?
Starting point is 00:44:51 It's kind of like when someone does bungee jumping, they're going to test that line multiple times before they go. What is that testing of the line that they can do? So first of all, we help them understand that there is, it's, there is a reality in which we operate, right? And that reality is not something that you can change or influence. There's stuff that's within your control and stuff that's not in your control. We actually call it you're either above the line or below the line, right?
Starting point is 00:45:20 So below the line is playing the blame game. It's victimhood. It's pointing fingers at someone. It's waiting and seeing. It's like, that's not my job. Someone will tell me what to do, you know. And that's where a lot of people operate when it comes to accountability. We don't want to be held accountable in the corporate workspace because we usually are only held accountable when something goes wrong.
Starting point is 00:45:40 And we're in competition with one another. so I don't want to be associated with something that went wrong because I'm hoping to get that promotion, right? So we operate in that place, but there's a better place to operate. So first, it's revisiting how we think about accountability. So if you go above the line and instead of being a victim, you ask yourself the question, like, what about this can I control? Right? What is within the scope of my influence? And you focus there. Then you can take action there and you have, without even realizing it surrendered all the things that you're usually pointing the finger out. Well, the Trump administration, will the executive team set the wrong budgets? Well, the marketing team didn't get me what I need.
Starting point is 00:46:19 Well, that's the blame game, which is focusing on all the uncontrollables, right? So if you just ask, here's four questions. When someone comes into your office with the problem, first question is what's going on. So then they tell you the problem. Second question, what about that can you control? Get them to tell you what is within their sphere of influence. Then, okay, well, what else could you try? and then get them to brainstorm and then say, great, what are you going to do by when? Now they have just surrendered all of the things outside of their control, and you didn't have to use any touchy-feeling language. You know, you're actually focused on what can you execute upon. And it's like magic, you know, when you think about accountability that way and you make that personal choice to focus on what you can control to drive results, well, now you've unlocked something at an organizational level.
Starting point is 00:47:07 And I think the magic of what you just said also is you didn't tell them your plan. and then make them go educate her because they're not going to. Right. As they go through it, they came up with a plan. Therefore, when there has issues with it, they're like, oh, crap, this was my plan. This wasn't Susie's plan. I have to change this. They're going to be more fluid with that because they're taking that ownership of that plan.
Starting point is 00:47:25 Because, again, you could have told them do A, B, and C, but as they're doing A, B, and C, which worked for the last five years, it's not going to work now because things have changed because that's just Murphy's Law. That's the, in the military, it's called the Green Weeney. It's going to happen. However, if it's their plan, they're going to adapt. with it because they understand the result. And I love that you brought up the C-suite, how they didn't understand the same goals. I love how, as I've run in organizations and seeing this,
Starting point is 00:47:50 that gets exponentially worse, the farther you get away from the C-suite. You walk into one org and you're like, hey, what is the goal? And 15 different people give 15 different answers. And you have that moment. Like, come on, guys. And that's where I think it's important, the leader of the person who's running that unit takes that ownership and says, okay, I have failed to articulate this. And I think communication, I'd love to ask you about this. I have found that people don't communicate and speak the same language. For example, you and I both speak English, but we don't speak the same way. Because if you and I were in the car and we're driving and you go, hey, do you have to go to the bathroom? You didn't ask me if I had to go to the bathroom. You just said,
Starting point is 00:48:30 hey, I really didn't go to the bathroom. Could you pull over to the bathroom? If that's how you speak versus if I'm in the car, I'm like, I got to pee, let's pull over. It's everything. We communicate differently. It happens in couples all the time. If Susie's dating Jane, Jane doesn't speak Susie. Susie definitely doesn't speak Jane, even though they speak the same language. So in the org, how do you get past that? How do you build a culture that respects the fact that everyone speaks the same mother tongue,
Starting point is 00:48:54 but not the same language in any way, shape, or form? Simplicity. You have to really simplify what is usually a complex set of documents and roadmaps, project strategy process maps, right? I mean, there's, you've got the purpose of the organization, which I do think is important, you've got the strategy, you've got the goals, right? And then you have the cultural beliefs that you think people need to hold in order to achieve all those things. What usually ends up happening is you get this like mission vision values thing and then you've got 10 confidence and then you have eight different slide decks with the,
Starting point is 00:49:36 quote strategy, right? I mean, and they're changing all the time because oftentimes the strategy will change before the end of the year and you send out an email and you call it understood. So the first thing we do is to get clarity of results. We simplify what the results are. We make it meaningful, measurable and memorable. And we actually put all of that on one slide. And we're like, this is the core narrative of who you are as an organization. We'll join the company. They'll see the slide. When you're doing your town hall, they'll see the slide. We call the executives of the organization, the chief repetition officer, every single meeting that you have, start with that. Say the why we exist, what we're trying to achieve are strategic drivers and the cultural beliefs.
Starting point is 00:50:17 Say it every single time and you will feel like a fool and do it anyway because it's not about you. It's about making sure that everyone else is clear, right? And so without fail, if you start every meeting with that, people start to get that clarity that is usually lacking because it's posted on the intranet and you're hoping that they check. Right, because they're never going to chat. I think I think you said something really important there. If you feel like a fool and that's stopping you from doing something, you shouldn't be in a manager position. Right. You're operating out of ego. You shouldn't be there. Get out of the way. You're going to be, that's okay. Anything that goes wrong in the organization is 1,000% your fault. Anything that
Starting point is 00:50:53 goes right in the organization is 1,000% their fault. So you always push that out and you take it. It is what it is. I'm curious because you've used result and results. Right. So you've used the plural of that. When an org goes in this and you define purpose and you define results, have you found a difference between having a single result or results? How have you found that flux? Yeah, the best practice that we use with our clients is you have one result that is the longer term three to five year result that gives you the finish line for if you have executed on your purpose, then that's where you've ended up, right? Then we also identify three, key results, which are this year, that will show you if you are on your way towards
Starting point is 00:51:40 achieving that broader vision. So there's the, there's both. One big result and then three incremental results, which we call key results that will show you if you're on track. Gotcha. Yeah, we, um. Love threes, the three-legged stool. I mean, people remember threes. And this is an, and this was as simple as, you know, you have to figure out how to grow revenue and cut costs and make the customer happy. And those are competing initiatives. So you have to have more than just one because it will honor the reality, which is that there are competing goals within different parts of the organization.
Starting point is 00:52:18 Interesting. I've always, I'd love to have more information on this because we've always said you have one master. It comes from Walton who did with Walmart. You have one master. We serve that master. It's not me. It is not anyone in the organization is one master.
Starting point is 00:52:31 We have whatever that one goal, what the one result is, we serve that at all costs. How do we get there? So what's an example of a company's one master? So Walmart. Walmart's was their master of the customers. They write the rules. We have to do whatever it takes to make sure that they are getting what they want at the best price. And everything else falls in line towards that.
Starting point is 00:52:51 Just that's what we do. So that's the, it's the, that was their design for it. That's not a goal. That's like an idea, right? What's the, how will I know if I've achieved that? So in Walmart's situation was he had better prices, better availability, and better customer service through that one experience. So they wrapped up that master. Prices, availability and customer service are three competing goals.
Starting point is 00:53:16 Not when you serve the one master, which is a customer for wool. Okay, but if I wanted to do great customer service, I'll like knock on your door, all white glove treatment it, but that's not Walmart's business model because they also have to be low prices, right? Right. So their goal was their highest thing was how do we serve them and give the best price possible? Because the only person that matters in that organization was a customer because they could fire us. Nobody else matter. And since the customer could fire us, how do we serve them to make sure that they don't fire us? And Walton built out and built his empire using. Okay. I think that's like we're kind of, we're saying the same thing again. Yeah. We're saying the same thing. Yeah. There's one big goal and then you can measure the three separate goals that feed up to. that one master, right? Right. And it's interesting how different orgs,
Starting point is 00:54:04 once you give them this flarity to your point of chief repetition officer, is, okay, I love that you guys want to do this in marketing. Awesome. I love that HR. Okay, never love HR. I love that.
Starting point is 00:54:14 You know, finance, that's this. Sorry, HR people. We never get along. You have these things. Okay, I love that you want to do that. What's our one master? And that all of a sudden, the plans change.
Starting point is 00:54:24 Does it say, okay, yeah, all right. Now we have to bargain now. And it just becomes that filter that we give everybody through. Yeah. So if someone's culture is completely fried or they're worried about DEI or they're worried about if they're woke or if they're MAGA or all the other labels that are just inundated right now, which are just getting in the way. Yeah. How do you get someone to walk in and say, listen, jobs are hemorrhaging.
Starting point is 00:54:51 Economies collapsing. Harris are making things interesting. It is going to get a lot bumpier than it's going to be in that it's ever been. the AI innovation is nothing different than the Industrial Revolution, which was nothing different than the dot-com boom, this is changed. This is just the next evolution of that change. You're going to have to embrace it.
Starting point is 00:55:10 There are people who didn't embrace the Internet. They went bankrupt. There are people going to embrace AI, and it is what it is. The job I had in college did not exist three years earlier, because that's just, it was a dot-com boom. It is what it is. How do you help those people through it? How does your organization sit down and say, okay, this is what we do.
Starting point is 00:55:28 Here's how we build your culture. So you do serve that goal, those three goals, that master, whatever it is for you. Yeah. It's through clarity, alignment, and accountability. So a lot of culture consultants will come into a company, and what they want to do is dig up old drama. So they'll do some kind of assessment or survey or focus group or interviews, right? And they're like, what's wrong here?
Starting point is 00:55:52 What's not working? How would you do it differently? And then they come up with this master list of all of the problems and present it to the executive team and say, like, don't worry, we can fix you, right? Which is all backwards looking and a waste of time, right? Yes. So we start by saying your culture is perfect.
Starting point is 00:56:11 It is perfectly aligned to the results that you're getting right now. You are getting the results right now because of the actions your people are taking, which is because of the beliefs that they hold, which is because of the experiences they've had here. So if you want to get bigger, bad, or better results, let's start there. What is the goal? Clarity of results, right? Number one. Then let's figure out what do we need people to do and what beliefs do they need to hold in order to get there and what experiences can we create in order to drive those beliefs to get those actions to get that result. That's the alignment part. So you drive, you get clarity of results and then you drive alignment by getting people bought in. You get them to believe in what the goals are and how you're going to go about doing that through the experiences you create. And then finally it's accountability because that is the unlock when people take accountability.
Starting point is 00:57:02 And they do it by focusing on what they can control to drive results rather than figuring out who's to blame for what went wrong, which is the bad approach to accountability and why it doesn't work in organizations and why managers don't even want to hold folks accountable because it feels mean, you know, then you start to see that that ownership that is where the alignment of towards those. results really begins to snowball into success. There's a lot of moving pieces there. And I'm sure there's a lot of listeners right now that are like, okay, I need more access to this. I need access to a book or insights or I just need to pick your brain. How do people find you? How do they track you down?
Starting point is 00:57:43 Because this, for a lot of people, this is overwhelming because they thought prior to this conversation, culture meant one thing. No. And results meant right. No. They need someone to hold their hand. If they were wanting to track you down, if they wanted to get a hold of you, other than giving at your home address. Please don't do that. How do people get a hold of you? How do they connect
Starting point is 00:58:00 with you? Because they need more of this insight. So the entire process of driving clarity, alignment and accountability is written in the book, which is coming out in January. It's available for pre-order now, and you can go to Surrendertolead.com to get that. For your listeners, I'll give you guys a workbook that we created, which is step one, that clarity piece and creating that one core narrative of your organization. If you go to build a book, Builder. Surrendertolead.com. And that has, it's a workbook that will walk you through what you need to get clarity on, what the best practices around that, how you can help spread that message to your organization,
Starting point is 00:58:39 and then eventually create alignment and accountability around it. But that would be step one that you should download. Builder.org.com. Gotcha. And if people want to connect you on social media, do you do that? Do you just prefer them to go there? Yeah, yeah. I'm on all of the socials.
Starting point is 00:58:55 I've got LinkedIn. I've got a newsletter called This Week in Culture that comes out every Wednesday if you're interested in hearing what's going on these days. And you can find me on Instagram or TikTok where just look up Jessica Kregel. Perfect. Thank you so much for coming on. I appreciate it. Thank you for pushing back on everything. I really appreciate it. Yeah, no, I appreciate the conversation. It was great. It's much more interesting than just being interviewed. We got into it. Absolutely. While many leaders are still debating generational labels or micromanaging actions, the culture leaders demonstrated that intentionally shaping employee beliefs and aligning individual purpose is the true engine for results.
Starting point is 00:59:32 Stop implementing short-term programs and start designing the experiences that drive discretionary effort and unlock four times profitability.

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