Just As Well, The Women's Health Podcast - Built Differently: Three Rugby World Champions on Power, Periods & Pushing the Limits
Episode Date: December 13, 2025Live from the AO Arena, before England’s netball test against New Zealand, we sat down with three World Cup-winning Red Roses: Amy Cokayne, Holly Aitchison and Mo Hunt for one of our most powerful e...pisodes yet. We talk pressure, periods, and playing through pain. The ridiculous abuse they get online. Why looking different makes them stronger on the pitch. How they see their bodies not as objects but as tools. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Hi, I'm Gemma Atkinson and I'm Claire Sanderson
And we've just recorded a different type of episode for just as well
We did a live episode, didn't we?
We did at the Manchester Arena, no less, the AO Arena in your stomping ground
Yeah, love that arena
And it was before England Netball took on New Zealand in a test series
So women's self has partnered with England Netball
I'm a huge, huge advocate for women's sports
It's a partnership I'm very proud of
But we actually interviewed three other
types of professional sports women
before the netballers took
to the court. The rugby players,
none other, the England Roses,
which you're obsessed with rugby,
so it was like a dream come tree
for you, wasn't it? Well, yeah, I'm obsessed with Wales rugby,
but, you know, I can
I can push my allegiance to Wales
to once, I did tell them that. I made sure
they were aware that I'm a Wales
rugby fan. Nevertheless, these
women won the Rugby World Cup
this year, and the players that we interviewed were
Amy Cochane, Holly Aitchinson,
a Moena Tallinn. They all play for sale sharks, which is your local team up in Manchester.
And they all played in that final when England beat Canada in the summer of Twickenham.
And I was there to see them win the trophy. And it was lovely speaking to them and hearing about
their journey and also hearing their thoughts about women's sport and the journey it's been on
in recent years and where they think the future will go. It was brilliant as well.
What I loved, they were all different shapes and sizes. And they all were all different shapes and sizes.
and they all spoke individually how their body shape
determines how they play on the field,
determines how they train.
So despite all looking incredibly different,
they all had unique capabilities because of their body shape.
Yeah, they describe their bodies as their tools.
Yeah, which is amazing.
It's great for young girls, it really is.
Because Amy Cocaine and Moena Tallinn are bigger, stronger, powerful players
dictated by where they play on the pitch where is Holly is number 10.
need to be fast they need to be more athletic so it was really fascinating to see these women who
were elite the best rugby players in the world yet they were all so wonderfully diverse so enjoy this
live chat with just as well and the england red roses but the word live comes into play because
we were interviewing the ladies actually on the court not court side we were sat on the netball
court and midway through the uh the netball teams came out to practice their
shooting so there's a few ball bounces in the background but it's not us it's not us it's
england netball so we'll let it be and you do get used to it yeah just used to just just just
tune it out hello i'm jemma arkinson and i'm claire sanderson the editor-in-chief of woman's health
and welcome to another episode of just as well uh the number one health and wellness podcast
uh tonight it's a very special episode because we're doing it here from the arena in man
But we are joined by rugby royalty in the house.
We have three World Cup champions who've dominated
at both club and international level.
We have Holly Aitchison, a fly half maestro.
She's an Olympian.
She's a six nations grand slam winner
and she's one of the most creative playmakers
in the women's game.
She returned up north this summer to sign with Sailsham
with sail sharks after playing
for the Bristol Bears for two years.
We also have Moena
Talling on the end here. She is
the powerhouse of the second row
and the back row who made her
England debut at just 18
and she now has a growing reputation as one
of the fiercest forwards in world rugby.
And we're also joined by
Amy Cochane who's the hooker
with serious silverware.
So she's a World Cup winner,
multiple Six Nations titles
and she's a key figure in
sales sharks is rise to prominence
in the premiership.
Three sales sharks, three
World Cup winners, one incredible
conversation. For all
those ladies out here, let's dive straight
in.
So thank you so much for joining us
tonight. We're at the AO Arena in
Manchester. It's our first ever live
podcast of Jess as well.
So you're our first ever live guest.
No pressure. Thank you so much.
No, no pressure at all.
And we are going to watch England take on the
Mighty New Zealand later in their test series.
It's a decider, but you guys will be no stranger to the rivalry between England and New Zealand
because it's huge in rugby as well, isn't it?
So you know what it takes to represent your country against an amazing team like New Zealand.
But how does it feel to represent England in rugby?
Yeah, it's amazing.
I think when I was a kid, I always wanted to represent my country in anything.
I didn't really think that was going to be rugby,
but I think when you have the opportunity to stand there for the anthem
and you sing it, you kind of get that sense of pride.
And I always look to my parents, you know,
they're the ones that have got me here that have helped me through my whole rugby journey.
So it's kind of that moment to kind of look at them and say thank you
and kind of like we've done it as a collective, not just a personal one.
I mean, Claire was actually at the World Cup final.
Claire loves rugby.
I watched it on telly.
The atmosphere looked incredible just from watching it on telly.
But it seemed to be a really beautiful, supportive atmosphere.
It didn't seem like the men's rugby, which was a bit kind of lairy and aggressive.
What was it like to actually play there in the final?
Yeah, no, it's really different to what we see, I guess, in the men's demographic.
We're definitely attracting more of like a family environment in the women's game,
which is cool.
So like when we were walking in at Tickenham for the final,
it was honestly like the most incredible atmosphere.
I think we've all ever experienced
you're walking in and you can see the pavilion
full, you know, there's families, there's young
girls, looking at your young boys as well
and yeah, it's just like
insane as you walk through and like there's
fields of people landing the street
so yeah, it was honestly like the most incredible
experience. So I remember
being there and seeing the sheer number of people
who were stood at every level at Twickenham
and your bus coming
through and it was a really
a breathtaking moment for
women's sports, a seminal moment for
women's spot. I've been at Twickenham for countless men's rugby games to have to have that
sheer number of people who were all waiting for you guys to arrive is it was just amazing.
Yeah, it's mental. Like we were obviously like watching the ticket sales and stuff as we were
going through the competition and we'd sold out like quite a few. But you're kind of wondering,
you know, will we sell 82,000? Like you're thinking that's a big number. I think it was the two weeks
before or one week before we'd sold out the whole thing. We'd done 60 before so we were like, oh,
like it's going to feel special, like 60 was ridiculously loud.
We couldn't hear each other across the pitch.
But when you think of like 82 and you can't even like see the bus coming in,
like, because there's so many people across the streets and that,
it was just, yeah, it was insane.
Like a real, like, pinch me moment that I feel like we just want to like bottle
and have that again every time we play.
So Moena, there must have been some party in the changing room afterwards
and in the following days because I saw plenty of content online
of you guys maybe looking a bit.
worse for wear feeling a bit worse for wear the following day maybe not being to bed there was
there was some footage of players walking across a lawn carrying bottles of of beer and champagne so
who was the worst behaved i think that was you walking across the lawn wasn't amy but yeah it was like a
once-in-a-lifetime kind of thing to win a world cup at home in your home country so yeah it was
really special to just have that moment in the changing rooms afterwards where we could just
come together like beers and drinks were had pretty much straight away but it was also really
special kind of after everyone had left the stadium we went back out onto the pitch and kind of had
this really nice moment with everyone in the squad all the staff and like everyone behind the scenes
as well and that just made it like amazing and it kind of just it kind of sunk in then that this was
our home and this is what we'd just done.
And then, yeah, like the night
after was obviously great,
and it carried on for a few nights,
I think, for a few people.
But yeah, it was very fun
and something that we probably hope
all we'd do again.
How do you all individually deal with, like,
the pressure? And, I mean, there was an
expectation, I think, from the nation.
You know, it was straight off the back of the
lionesses winning that their World Cup
and everyone was like, oh my gosh, the women have done it.
then it was your turn
and like you say your family were there
82,000 tickets you couldn't see the pitch
because of all the fans and everything
did you feel a lot of
outside pressure and if so
how did you deal with it?
Yeah definitely I think you
like you said the lioness has kind of set the bar
for us and we kind of knew
what winning a home tournament meant
for the football and how that kind of kick started it
and really jumped on so we knew that it was
kind of the moment for us that we needed to
take it. I think in
internally though we knew how good we were and how prepared we were and if we could just do
what we needed to do we would get the win like we were number one for a reason we've won so
many games for a reason because we are actually really good so I think it was more just trusting
that we were good we were good at rugby you know what I mean so we didn't need to do anything
super special we didn't need any individual player to go out and be a hero we just the strength
within the team would get the job done and thankfully we did well you guys had to deal
with a bit of negative scrutiny
on social media. I read
some pathetic, misogynistic
comments about your ability, not
yours in particular.
Yes, you. Just you.
And there was also
about the appearance of
some of you. I know there was a Welsh player
George Evans who was criticised for wearing bows
in our hair. And you've
come under some flack for wearing makeup
when you play. Yeah, I think
it's just like something that you kind of learn
to take in your stride. Like there's a lot of
online trolls and people that are not going to necessarily agree with everything that you do.
I think for me, I always kind of read those comments and think, well, obviously, you must be
quite a sad person to be leaving something like that, so it's kind of a reflection of them.
But I think what's been really good is when George Evans in the World Cup had her, she wears
a bow and her hair for people that don't know, she wears like a pink bow and her hair, and people
were kind of giving her a bit of abuse for taking away from her rugby.
I think in women's sport in general, you're kind of always accused of not being on your game
or, you know, listening to outside noise of you've got sponsorships going on or whatever.
You kind of get used to that.
So I don't think it was anything new that we experienced during the World Cup.
But yeah, I've definitely had some comments about wearing makeup, and it's just like, why does it matter, like, what I'm doing?
You know, it's a part of you.
It's how I express who I am.
Like, I'm from near Liverpool, like, a big part of being, like, near, like, as a scout.
or is that people like to look after themselves.
Take care of their appearance.
You care about what you look like.
So, like, yeah, it's just something that, like, I've always done.
So I kind of, yeah, don't really listen to it too much.
It's just how I express myself.
And it's almost like when they can't give you any grief for your performance on the game, can this?
It's like, well, what can we pick on them for?
She's got a bow in her air.
Let's go for that.
Because they're not exactly going to say they can't play rugby, can they?
Do you know what I mean?
What I love about rugby, when myself and Claire,
we've had rugby players on our podcast previously,
is that it's a sport for all shapes and sizes.
And there's girls on there who were short, who were tall, who were broad, who were slim build.
And that for me, I think, is brilliant.
And there was a stat that we read that the dropout rate of teenage girls in sport from age 14, it drops massively.
And the number one reason for it dropping is because of their body image, not wanting to wear shorts,
not wanting to wear the skirt or whatever in netball.
Do you guys experience the very normal emotions that females go through
of feeling, you know what, I don't feel my best today,
but pick myself up, I carry on with it.
What message would you give to any young girl listening
who wants to carry on, but he's nervous because of how they look?
Yeah, we talk quite a bit about women's health within the rugby team.
We have a lot of, we've had guest speakers come in
and talk to us all about menstrual cycle and the different phases and stuff,
and I think it's quite funny if we're in training
we drop a ball or something like I'm in my clumsy phase
like we talk about it quite openly
or quite a lot of us do like keep yuppies and stuff
or training because we got told to do like
little hand-eye skills before in certain phases
can help you so I think we're all quite open within the team
especially when we spend so much time together
you know when everyone's on or if you're in sync
and it's quite an open conversation
but I think we have got a much better understanding
now on the different phases and what that can mean for your training and stuff like that.
I think football have kind of led the way in tailoring training for the individual athlete
throughout the different cycle.
But yeah, I think if I was just saying to a young girl, like exercise can actually help
when you're on your period as well.
Like it can make you feel better.
So you should never shy away from doing exercise or playing sport just because of something
like your period.
I was also going to say like body image-wise, like I think it's important to like know that
we all go through it as well.
Like, it's definitely something that, like, I've had, like,
going out before a game, like, oh, this shirt's too tight or something like that.
But I think what I keep in my head is, like, we love playing the sport,
and our bodies are made for doing and playing rugby,
and that's how we go to the gym to be stronger, to be, like, faster on the field.
So I think just keeping that in mind that it's not all about the image,
It's about what you then perform on the pitch and how that helps you.
Yeah, it's like your tool, isn't it?
And you're so capable because of your functioning body.
I mean, female bodies are incredible.
But like the stat says, so many young girls drop out of something they love because of it.
It's really sad, isn't it?
There's a lot about what girls are forced to wear in school, I think, to do sports.
I remember having to wear big red knickers and tiny skirts.
here. I was taller than my friends,
curvy than my friends. I had boobs and bum
before them. And I was made to feel terribly
self-conscious. And that self-consciousness
has followed me through life, to be honest,
because those formative years are really
important, aren't they? You know, it's
I'd love to get to a place where
girls in school can wear
leggings to do any sport
if they want, whether it's hockey, netball,
if rugby plays in school. I think
there needs to be a bit of work there.
So more girls grow up to be
like you guys and really,
realise how powerful their bodies can be and the good it can achieve.
It's just about having choice, isn't it?
Like, you don't have to do the same as everyone.
And I think that's where we're getting to in rugby.
And kind of like what Moz says, like everyone's body is really different.
And you're, like, me and Moz would be built completely different.
We have our own roles in rugby because we are really different.
And I think it's the same with, like, what you wear.
Like, you might want to wear a legging.
I might want to wear a short.
It's about having the choice to wear something.
that helps your performance rather than detracts from it and makes you feel insecure.
I'm going to ask you all individually.
We'll start with you, Amy.
But how did your background?
How did you start playing rugby?
What age was you and what made you choose rugby?
I started quite young.
I was about five years old.
I've got an older brother and he played rugby.
My mum used to drag me down to watch him train.
And I think I just got in the way and got a bit annoying for his age group.
So they went, why don't you go over there and annoy your own age group?
So, yeah, I started quite young at five, being involved ever since loved it.
Wow, that's really young.
Five years old playing rugby, that's brilliant.
What about yourself?
No, I was like five as well.
My dad was actually a director of rugby, so he was like a manager basically of a rugby team.
So I was quite similar.
Like, I just used to get dragged down on like a Saturday or like whatever days they were training.
I would be sat like alongside like the pitch watching the men like train.
and I had a younger brother as well
so it was quite like normal
and I guess that's probably where we're different
a lot of girls tend to get
like into it a bit later in women's rugby
but yeah I was really fortunate
that it was kind of just down at my local club
with my dad and my brother
and it was all very normal for me
well I was a bit later
I wasn't until like 13
so I started
I swam for a long time
and then went into football
but kind of nothing really stuck
kind of played netball hockey rounders in school
and then again
so I've got an older brother, a younger brother
and my older brother was playing down at a local rugby club
and yeah just thought they'd go along
and then this one eventually stuck
that's mad then so you
from starting to getting Cat for England
was five years
13 to 18? Yeah
that's mad
that's quick
was that your dream did all of you want to
one day play for England
rugby? Did you ever, was it on the cards or did you just like the sport?
I think like, especially me and Holland more similar age, Moz was a bit younger, but like
women's rugby wasn't something accessible. Like I could never watch on the TV. I'd never
watched a woman's rugby game before. When I was at my rugby club, there was two girls
at the whole club that played rugby. So for me, like women's rugby wasn't, wasn't even a
thing. So I never really dreamt or grew up dreaming of playing for England. It was only
more when I kind of stumbled across international rugby where I was like, oh, I can probably give
it a crap. So I never really dreamt.
but yeah definitely not a childhood dream I was um different I was talking by dad about this
the other day because obviously you could watch men's rugby so when I like first got into it
I obviously saw the men and I thought I was obviously like a bit different I was like oh
well I've seen the man I'm going to be the first woman to like play the men's name what's wrong
with me I don't know but like I thought that I was going to be because we couldn't see anything
I didn't really know same as you like women's rugby existed I was like well I'm just
probably going to be the first woman that does that then
honestly he's tapped love that you have to play with the boys up until no I have to but you can play
with boys up until 11 yeah is that when it splits and it was it hard to find a team good enough
to challenge yourselves and to advance to become the elite level because I don't imagine
there was a huge plethora of girls rugby teams even even 10 years ago when you guys were doing
it my story's a bit different so because I grew up in New Zealand I was actually a
I had to play women's rugby from the age of 13.
So, yeah, I've played women's rugby.
You would not be able to do that over here.
Sorry, that is a safe.
It's not safe at all.
So, yeah, my club actually used to, a woman on one of our rival team,
she actually played for the Blackburn.
She was a New Zealand international player.
So I was a little hooker, and she was a prop.
So, yeah, I grew up pretty quick and learned I needed to get a bit bigger.
But, yeah, that's not normal, and it wouldn't happen over here.
You're playing against Ladd, your own age, in New Zealand?
So, yeah, I played boys' rugby for probably four or five years, and then, yeah, women's rugby.
But I also played school rugby on Sunday, and then my club rugby for the women's team on the Saturday,
so it was rugby mad as a kid, but that is very different and not something that would happen over here.
No, that is not.
I didn't know that about you either.
That's crazy.
I was different.
We had to basically, like, cluster teams because there wasn't enough girls around the country to play.
so I was quite lucky
like I drove like an hour maybe
which is still quite good
obviously people might be like that's quite far
but they would group like three or four clubs
to try and get a game
I don't know
yeah I
so I played for my local club
for I think one or two years
but pretty soon after that
it became like the matches were few and far between
because there wasn't really many other teams
around that could get the amount of girls
to play games
So then I had to travel to Leeds, which was about an hour as well, to then play matches.
And you play, I'm saying this like I'm a rugby pro.
It's Claire who's told me this about, are you all?
Because she loves rugby.
You're in the second row, which I believe is one of the most physically demanding.
We've had a debate on.
We've had a debate already.
I think it is.
Factious.
I think it is.
What does it look like, you know, in terms of training?
what's an average training day for you
because you're like bashing into people
you're taking a lot of hits as well
from other really strong women
what do you do training wise
training wise
it kind of follows the same kind of every week
so we've played on a Saturday
we'll have Sunday off
and then Mondays are more of a
low key kind of detailed day
going and looking ahead to the next game
so if we want to introduce
any new plays or anything like that so that's like just gym a few meetings and then quite
a low-key training session and then the next day Tuesday is probably we call it say a dark day
so it has everything in it so it's contact it's the contact it's like just everything that
it's a hard train session basically yes so do you all train differently depending on your position
Yeah, so I'll have to, because I'm, I play hooker, which is like, I throw the ball in at the line out, and I'm in the middle of the scrum.
So you get lifted?
No, I throw the ball in.
I get lifted.
You get lifted.
Oh, okay.
Yeah, so I have to practice my throwing and my hook in.
You have to practice, like, kick in, kicking, passing.
These guys have been running into each other one and doing that.
Yeah.
But, Amy, you're at the front of the scrum, so you need to be really strong because you've got pressure coming both ways, like your neck strength in particular.
needs to be really strong.
So what specific training
do you do to get the strength to allow you
to drive that more, etc?
Yeah, we do a lot of neck strength.
I think most people have to
do neck strength now because it's actually
been shown to reduce concussion
and stuff like that, so the stronger your neck
that's less like you're going to get a concussion, which is important.
But yeah, as a hooker, you're kind of
that stupid one in the middle, we've got no arms,
going head first into a massive collision.
So, yeah, I think it's a lot of
core and stuff as well.
But nothing really beats just doing scrums and getting used to it, really.
It must be a dark place in those scrums, I just can't.
Do you like to say things to each other?
Like, if you're really nice one in a scrummer, you like saying,
I'm going to get you, your little bit.
Do you like team talk them down?
Pynching under the ones.
No, never.
No, no.
I've only got my own teammates to be here.
But we normally have a bit of chat with the French,
but they're normally saying it in French.
I can't understand it anyway.
But one thing about the red roses is you all,
you've obviously each got your individual roles,
but when you see you all out there as a team,
the team spirit is just, it's just there.
It's like you've all kind of got each other's backs.
If someone's not doing so good, you're all there.
And was that something that was organic and just came naturally?
Or have you all had to work hard at that team camaraderie and team spirit?
I think it's definitely been there.
but I think Mitch, who's our head coach,
has definitely driven that a lot more since he's coming.
When does he come in, like, three years ago, I think, four years ago,
just for the start of the last cycle.
And he's just, like, big into cultural wins.
So, like, we have our three, like, values.
Yeah, values, which is, like, courage, bond leads.
So, like, one of them is Bond.
So, like, he really wants us to invest in each other.
So, like, we'll go out for team meals.
There's always, like, games and, like, things that we're doing
as a squad so that you get to know each other a lot.
like better and spend a lot more time together which definitely there wasn't an emphasis on that before
and so I'd say that's probably the real like major switch I would say as to why we're like invested each other
you see us like socialised and off the pitch together and you see like we enjoy each other's company
because well at the beginning it was probably forced but now it's like yeah now it's like we're actually
all into it yeah and invested yeah you guys are all fully professional players aren't you which
must allow you the luxury of
properly bonding
because you can 100%
dedicate yourself to your sport
but it's not the case
for all rugby players is it? You guys were telling me
Moena at your club
there's only a certain number of people who have
professional contracts and there are other players
who were trying to be nurses, doctors
teachers and hold down careers
yet still train at the level that you guys are expected
to? Yeah it is a lot
I think I've been fortunate
enough that I've kind of come in to the sport, I'm still quite young, so I've had that
professional sense to start, but I know quite a few of the Red Roads have had to have jobs
beforehand, and then, yeah, at sale, there is a large kind of amount of people that are still
having to work, and kind of our train doesn't start till, like, 4pm, so that people who
have jobs, like 9 to 5, can still get to training and still do that, and yeah, I'm, I'm,
like hats off to them because they've had a long day and then they've got to come and do
like those sessions on a Tuesday which I don't know whether I could do it but yeah it's it's
great for kind of them to be able to do it but I think how the game is growing it's hopefully
heading towards that that doesn't have to happen anymore because recovery is one of the core pillars
of fitness we cover this on woman's health all the time but you have to recover as well as you train
and some of those girls or women who are having to do full-time jobs
can be very hard for them to recover efficiently
to then train at their max capacity the next day.
Yeah, no, definitely.
I think also in the league we sometimes have Sunday games
and so some of, like, we do get a Monday off,
but then obviously people who work would have to then go to work on Monday,
which is obviously very hard to do,
and then they don't get a recovery in.
So it is a big problem at the moment.
but hopefully it's kind of dwinded and out a little bit.
And how do you guys feel on?
Because we know obviously one thing your mum said about you
is that she's so proud that you're a young role model
and a kind role model for so many girls.
Like young women genuinely look up to you girls
and like, well, women and are like,
I want to be like that when I'm older, I want to play rugby.
How does that feel?
It surely must be a nice feeling
to know that you're such a good role model for young women.
Yeah, definitely.
I think, kind of, I've always had role models growing up
and to kind of know that I am one now.
It's just a special feeling that it's nice to know that young girls and boys
look to me to kind of be an inspiration to hopefully stay in the sport.
But yeah, it makes me proud to kind of pull on the shirt and stuff like that.
Because Holly, you're a number 10, which is arguably one of the most high-profile positions
on the pitch so
you will be a role model
to many
do you have young girls coming after you
at the end of games
yeah yeah no we do
I think we're lucky at the moment as well
because the fans are so invested obviously off the back
at the World Cup but yeah you do
it's weird when you get oh sorry
it's weird when you get like
young girls it still feels a bit alien
to like have them hold you kind of on that
pedestal but I guess
yeah it's nice because obviously now
we are professional and we have these opportunities
for them to kind of look at us, see us like
maybe me and AIM didn't, when we were younger
growing up and we're on TV and stuff like
that now, and they can actually see us and see
that's a career path.
Come and be a strong, powerful
woman like this is an opportunity
for you. One thing I love
about women's sport is
how much you hold each other up and
it goes across the cross
different sports as well. So
this summer, you guys are all over social
media supporting the lionesses
all over the main red road
Instagram account
and then when they won
you had all the lionesses
supporting you and I know Lucy
Bronze we've had on the podcast
she's a friend of women's health
she went to your winners parade
that
cross sport support
doesn't exist in the men's game
I can't imagine the men's football team
really shouting out the Six Nations
or the men's team for the World Cup
and I think that's a great example
to the younger generations as well
women holding other women up
yeah I think it's
we're not competing against them
if they're doing well and we're doing well
each time one of us raises the standard
or pushes the boundaries on what it is in one sport
we're helping each other so
yeah I think that supports huge
and this summer was huge obviously we had
the football us the cricket had their World Cup
I think hockey have got something as well
so the more connections we can get
and the more we can build
our profile their profile
and push our game on their game on
like we're all winning
yeah I think regardless of the sport
you're all athletes
so lionesses will know the graft and stuff you have to do
same way you'll know how they have to work
one of the things that England Netball is doing
is the what I wish I knew campaign
is brilliantness it's basically aiming to address
the knowledge gaps women and girls have
about their health and about the impact it has
on sports participation so we're going to ask
to each of you what do you wish you knew
about female health as you were growing up
and dedicating yourself to playing sport.
We'll start with you, Amy.
What was it you wish you knew?
What I wish I knew was that it was okay to be heavy.
Like, I think my weight was always vastly different to my friends at school.
And I remember we used to get weighed, and some of my friends were like 40 kilos,
and then I was like 60-odd kilos.
And I was like, how is that even possible?
Like, what's wrong with me?
Why am I so heavy?
But I think for me, it was now realizing my body was different,
but I've gone on and done something different.
like those girls haven't now become a world champion at rugby
and my body and my weight has been the thing that's allowed me to do that
what about you huh I don't know if this is right
but I think what I wish I knew which is kind of wrong on the same lines
is that it's not manned me to kind of like do sport when I was younger
and to like embrace my femininity be strong and powerful
like that's not the detriment anymore like that's something
that we want to push to the forefront and like that's okay
I think what I wish I knew
is that kind of periods in our menstrual cycle
can actually kind of help improve performance
I think it's a big kind of
taboo subject and people kind of at school
you say I'm on my period I can't do PE
but actually like in different stages you are
it is your super strength sometimes
and to be able to use that
that's true the week after I'm superwoman
the week before I want to kill everyone
honestly. I want to hear your answer, Gemma. What do you wish you knew when you were growing up about
female health? I wish I knew that you're similar to what you said. Your body shape and size
doesn't define you. I was always one of the tallest in my class. I hated running but we were
made to do cross country and I could never do it. I couldn't keep up. I hated it and I used to
think oh my gosh I can't run. When we got a bit older and I did track and field I was the fourth leg
the relay and the 100 metre sprint
and I used to win that all the time
so I could run just in short distances
cross country wasn't for me
short sprints are and I wish
I knew that just because you can't
do one thing very very good
doesn't mean you can't excel in
something else
what about you
why it's to do with my boobs
I wish I knew that sports
bras existed they may well
not have to be honest because I was
in comprehensive school in the early
90s, but I just remember being
uncomfortable. I've been black eyes.
Yeah, I just had big boobs.
And yeah,
and I do, even
today, young girls, like I wish that
adequate kit is available
to make you feel comfortable when you
are doing exercise, whether that is leggings
and a good sports bra or
whatever. That's what I wish I knew
that good sports bras existed.
And well, we're here
tonight to watch England take
on New Zealand. I mean, it's going to be a good game.
This is the first actual, first professional live netball game that I'm going to be watching.
So I'm very, very excited.
I feel like women are kind of dominating in sports at the minute.
We're doing so, so well.
What does the future for women's rugby look like?
What are you just going to keep hold of that corpian?
What are you going to do with it?
It's not going back anywhere, is it, I hope.
And they've got their medals on.
Well, two of them have, because Holly forgot her.
Holly forgot a medal.
You were instructed to bring it.
I know, I'm really sorry.
But you just didn't.
No, I'm too sorry.
She was in a clumsy phase.
Go to start at Amy and Moena for a member of yours.
Sorry, I'm embarrassed.
Yeah, I think the whole way through the World Cup,
our kind of slogan was for the girls.
And we knew that the World Cup was going to be more than just the group of people on that pitch.
It was for the women that had gone before and laid the foundation
and hopefully for the women that come afterwards.
So, yeah, we want to just keep pushing the ceiling and pushing the boundaries
and seeing how far we can go.
we sold out the final at Twickenham.
We want to see if we can obviously sell it out more regularly
and really push the game on.
And these two are probably playing at the next one.
I'm not sure my body will be holding up by then,
but yeah, they'll probably get it again next time.
You've got the Six Nations coming up in March, is it, for the women,
March, April, for the men's?
Yeah, so you need to, although England,
you do sell a lot tickets for the Six Nations, England,
the Red Roses, don't you?
Yeah, I think they've still like 40,000, is it so far?
Yeah.
Yeah.
playing Ireland first, is it?
I think it's island first at Jocanum, yeah.
I will come to watch you, but not support England
because I'm Welsh.
Sell the tickets, fine.
Yeah, it's what you get for a prize.
I consider you friends now.
I haven't watched my friends.
I will be supporting Wales when you play Wales.
Holly, what do you hope for the future of women's rugby,
also women's sport?
Because it is having a moment and it is growing,
and the profile is increasing day by day.
But what do you, maybe in 10 years' time, what do you predict?
I think for women's rugby specifically,
I think kind of what we just touched on with MOS,
like for everyone to be professional
and to have the same opportunity in the league,
that would be my wish.
For women's sport as a whole,
that's quite hard question, isn't it?
I think just for this not to be like a flash of the pan,
like for this to be consistent,
for the coverage to be consistent,
for us to gain momentum
and for us to kind of not be pitted against the men,
for us to be seen as our own identity and for our own sports.
Yeah, I think kind of both, like, with it a lot,
but also for the grassroots game to grow.
I think, like Amy said, for the girls is for us and past players,
but also for future players.
They kind of come through and, like, when I was younger,
like not having to move club
like for that not to have to happen
and kind of players
to be able to come through their clubs
and stay at that club
until they kind of hopefully go professional
and stuff like that
and yeah like as a whole
kind of women's sport
just piggybacking off each other
I think
kind of we did it off the lineesses
but like next sport doing the same
and kind of just
all to grow together
because then we have kind of that unity in that.
Talking about rugby in particular,
is the investment evenly spread across England
or is there a north-south divide?
Because rugby union in particular, to me,
feel like a southern England thing.
I'm Welsh as a very working class sport in Wales,
but we're in Manchester at the moment.
What's the reality of rugby union up here?
Yeah, I think there is still a massive divide.
Like, I see like Sail Sharks as the only kind of premiership team above Loughborough, which is kind of Midlands.
And a couple years ago, potentially wasn't even going to be Sail Sharks.
So, so happy that we've still got this team.
And, like, that was one of the main reasons for me coming back, because I'm from Yorkshire originally.
so kind of coming back up north
and helping to grow the game up here
because obviously like you said
rugby union is considered a southern
sport and rugby league
is probably more prominent up here
but yeah just to grow
the rugby union game up here is massive
and I think it is getting better
but yeah that funding
still needs to kind of even out I think
is it the union that's the posh one
it's a posh down south
it's not posh in Wales
no posh down south
coming up here. It is, yeah, that's the perception of it, isn't it? Yeah, it's posh Southern
boys. Yeah. Because Holly, you've just come back up from Bristol then, because you wanted to
come back to your roots up here. Yeah, I'm the exact same as Moz. Like, when I heard this was
probably three years ago when we were tendering to be part of the league again, that sale wasn't
going to be a thing. I just thought there needs to be kind of role models in these spaces where
girls are seeing that it's possible to play for England, be at the top of your game and play.
at a Northern Club. I'm from the
North West originally, so that was, yeah, super
important to me and why, part of the reason that I signed
back up here. Yeah, Michelle's
doing like an amazing job at sale, Michelle Orange.
She's the owner of a club, one of the
only women's owners, and she sits on a cross
all over the boards at
the RFU, so she's making ways in her
own right, but yeah, we need to be
supported. There could be two clubs
up here with Newcastle as well, but
anything that we can do to kind of support
the North, I think, is really important right now.
definitely but we've just had a little 10 minute warning but before we go we have quick fire questions
we do this every we do this with it if anyone who listens to the pod you'll know we do these
quick fire questions at the end just for a bit of fun so yeah we'll fire away right so we'll come
to you first amy i think i think you all should answer all of them we've got time so
amy jama and i are coming to your house for dinner we're stacking up on invitations you've got quite a few now
so what are you going to cook for us
a roast dinner for sure
lovely yeah
you can't beat it
picks and blankets
nice yorkshire pudding
yeah
cauliflower cheese
yeah lovely
yeah let's make it happen
are we happy with that
happy with that one
that would have been my answer as well
we can have two roast in a week
I think you need to come up for something
different
I'll try and impress you
I'll try and impress you
I'll give you something easier
a steak maybe I'll do steak and chips
nice
happy with that
Um, onion rings.
Okay.
Sorry, I wasn't expecting that.
She's picky with food.
You can't just tell me what you want.
Um, I was thinking more, well, a steak, but a state pasta.
Nice.
Oh, okay.
Marcello and stuff on top.
Lovely.
You're going to have to start eating meat again.
I know.
You're very selective about eating meat.
Oh, you're a veggie.
I know.
Everyone suggests meat's fishes to us.
Vegeter.
I mean, I can't give up eggs and cheese.
I wish, I mean, I love animals, but I love cheese.
You go into a desert island for a year
and you only get to take one object
What's it going to be?
I think I'd take a...
Is it a flint that you can start a fire?
Okay, practical.
Practical.
I feel like I need to cook stuff and be warm.
You could just rub sticks together to start a fire.
Have you ever tried it?
No.
Did you see Jack do that in the jungle last weekend?
Jack Osborne was trying to start a fire on I'm at a celebrity.
But he managed?
He did, yeah.
Yeah, I think that would be mine.
Practical, sorry.
Guys, I don't have an answer.
I'm really sorry.
What if other people said?
A mirror or something?
A mirror.
Karen Katz, one of the line essays,
she said she'd take a ball, didn't she?
Yeah.
She was like, I'd take a football
because she said it's my sport.
It'll keep me entertained.
Yeah.
I feel like you could make that, though.
What, you'd make a book?
Well, you could put leaves or something.
It's not kicking coconuts around.
Oh.
It's not.
Borks, haven't we?
You're not allowed to take your children.
I know you haven't got any, but you're not allowed to take pets.
It's like that's used to me.
Quite a few people suggest their children.
They are the last people I would take to a desert island.
Yeah.
I'm going for a break.
I'm going for a ball.
A ball.
A ball.
Yeah, I take a rugby ball.
Yep.
Potentially like a music player or something just to have a different sound.
Yeah.
That's going on.
This is a quick one, coffee or wine.
Wine.
Red or white?
Straight in.
Red.
Any, oh, you don't really care.
You don't know anything.
Got booze in it, okay.
Just meck a bottle and hope for the best.
That's it. Coffee.
Coffee, yes.
Neither.
I don't like either.
I'm still young.
You're still young?
To drink coffee?
I don't.
No, I don't drink either.
So what, tea?
No.
You don't even drink tea?
No, I'm a hot chocolate.
Oh, my.
Oh, my.
I'm 12 years.
I'm sorry about that.
No, no.
Yeah, sorry, I'm really young.
What chocolate is.
what was the last thing that made you properly belly laugh
can we say it yeah we're talking about this backstage
Mitch our head coach he's just got a new Instagram page
and it's hilarious
we just found it in the green room
and it is so funny so probably that but we're probably all going to say the same thing
but why is it so funny you can't just leave it hanging
he's just the strangest man but like in the best way
but he really gets that across on his Instagram page
Oh, we don't have to check it out now.
What is it called Mitch Factor Coaching?
Yeah, have a look.
It's so funny.
You get loads of followers now.
He's got 400.
Oh, bless him.
He's completely unaware.
He's being rinsed on it.
He won't even care.
He won't even care.
Yeah, he's the funniest man.
Go on, Holly, what's the last thing that made you laugh?
Apart from Mitch's Instagram.
That video of Georgie, actually, before we came out.
Sorry, Georgie.
Georgie, what was it?
Like a convenience store?
something.
Who's Georgie?
Your club captain. Yeah.
Yeah. Georgie Perez Redden
so she bays sale and USA
went to decathlon
with her earlier and
we were just messing about and she got on one of
the kids' scooters and put
a helmet on. I'll show you after.
She's going to get loads of followers as well after
this, right? Anything non-social
media related makes you laugh.
Okay, so we had a
line out leader's meeting
yesterday and
Angi, our forwards coach
knocked over
one of our Eva's Red Bull
and it was on the table
and Iona
just walked in the door and he goes
guys I'll just wipe this off the table
he gets his hand and he wipes it just as
Iona comes around the corner it goes all over her
it was so funny
it was hilarious
it was very funny
And finally, to all of you,
but I'm going to go with you first, Marano,
because I feel like you're getting it easy.
I'm good, aren't I?
You're just getting the opportunity.
People are the best answers, Ayd.
So we're going to go the other way.
What's one thing people listening today can do
to make themselves be that little bit better?
Right, don't steal mine from the other.
No.
I'm going to have to go first.
No, no.
She can't go first.
To make it feel better.
I'm going to go.
Mine was, stroke a dog, like have a puppy or something,
like go to a little puppy cafe.
We saw a dog up there.
It was working, but we were still stroking it anyway.
Yeah, definitely dogs.
We go back to her, she got a hand at.
I love going for a walk, kind of like just out in nature.
So yeah, that's probably what I would do.
Finally, Holly.
Call a friend and reconnect.
Nice.
Dancers.
Well, that's us.
and we've thoroughly enjoyed that, haven't we?
Thank you for joining us
here in Manchester at the AO Arena.
It's brilliant.
And well done, everything you've achieved so far
and in your future careers
and go win more World Caps.
Maybe not you, Amy, but you said it.
I am old, yeah.
And yeah, and let's watch England
beat New Zealand tonight.
Come on, England.
Come on the roses.
Thank you.
