Learn Powerful Meditation Techniques - The Top 10 Questions Most People Ask About Meditation

Episode Date: October 27, 2025

How busy are you? If you took the time to answer, you probably got even further behind on your to-do list than you already were. That's the case with many people these days.Listen & Subscribe... to the Meditation Life Skills Podcast on Spotify or Apple Podcasts   📺 Watch & Subscribe on YouTubeYou have to bolt out of your bed in the morning and be up and running at a sprinter's pace immediately. You have so much going on. There are so many distractions. You don't know when you last had a moment to yourself when you could calm your racing mind and enjoy some peace and quiet.The age-old practice of meditation is needed more by the average person today than when it was developed more than 7,000 years ago. That common situation is a tiny slice of human history. People didn't become this busy, unfocused, distracted, and stressed until the end of the twentieth century. There are many excellent reasons to add meditation to your life. We wish you less stress, more happiness, and a better overall sense of well-being through meditation. Let's start with the top 10 questions most people want to understand about meditation.1. What Does Meditation Really Mean?2. Are Mindfulness and Meditation The Same Thing?3. Can Children Benefit from Meditation?4. How Can I Get Started with Meditation?5. Meditation Doesn't Have To Be a Spiritual or Religious Practice?6. How Long Should a Beginner Meditate For?7. What to Do If You Don't Have Enough Time to Meditate?8. Is it Okay to Meditate with Your Eyes Open?9. What Does It Mean If My Mind Wanders While Meditating?10. When Is the Best Time to Meditate?You are now prepared to enjoy the many benefits of this ancient spiritual and healing practice. It can benefit your body and mind and help you better understand yourself. You've learned that you really don't need anything other than your body and mind to meditate. Some people find props helpful, but they're not essential. You have a preparatory process to get your mind and body ready for a meditation session, and we shared some simple meditation techniques with you. Keep learning about meditation. And take time to nurture your heart and mind."Be the person your soul wishes you to be." - Don WeyantOffering step-by-step instructions for beginners. Try binaural beats, solfeggio frequencies, guided meditations, and healing meditation music. Our top-rated podcast, with 34 million downloads and 100,000 Spotify followers, explores the profound benefits of meditation. Visit Our Main Website: https://www.MeditationLifeSkillsPodcast.comPodcast Disclaimers: This podcast is not medical advice or a substitute for professional diagnosis or treatment. This podcast needs expert advice and independent verification to reach conclusions. Content-related losses are not our responsibility. AI language models were used to create podcast content for information and enjoyment alone.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 We appreciate your interest in today's meditation life skills podcast. We sincerely grateful for your support. What does meditation really mean? What do you think of when you hear the word meditation? You might envision rhythmic flute music and someone sitting in a cross-legged lotus position on a mat or rug. A romantic visions of ancient enchanting India leaping into your mind? Meditation did originate in India, as far as we can tell, thousands of years ago. And while sitting in the lotus position is common for some,
Starting point is 00:00:36 who meditate, it's definitely not required. You can like candles if that helps create a calming, peaceful atmosphere, but that's not an essential part of the practice. You may have visions of incense and a wise-looking yogi chanting mantras. At least this is sometimes the idea for people who have never practiced meditation. While you can make any or all of those experiences a part of your meditation practice, there is no right or wrong way to go about it. Meditation simply means this. All you really need to know is that meditation helps calm your mind. You train your brain for better self-awareness. You can improve concentration and focus. Different forms of meditation help you quiet your racing mind, balance your emotions, and enjoy calm and peacefulness. Because of those effects, many physical
Starting point is 00:01:21 and mental health benefits are also yours. Some meditation practices have you focus on a physical object with your eyes open. Others will have you close your eyes. You may be seated or lying on your back. Special breathing exercises can be used as a meditation practice on their own or to help you enter and exit a session. Meditation is nothing more than blocking out the outside world and looking inward. You remove yourself from the busy, hectic daily routine you follow. There is a sense of getting to know yourself better and rejuvenating with peace, quiet, and inner reflection. We mentioned shutting out the outside world. That's not what happens with certain forms of meditation. For example, mindfulness has your eyes open, and you're being absolutely mindful and aware of everything that's going on around
Starting point is 00:02:05 you. That said, most meditation practices aim to calm your mind and improve your concentration and self-awareness. You can also reach another level of consciousness and knowledge of who you are. Because of the frantic, fast-paced lives many of us lead, many people enjoy the stress-relieving benefit of meditation. Just remember, there is no wrong or right way to meditate. Do what works to enjoy improved overall wellness from head to toe. Are mindfulness and meditation the same thing? Mindfulness is one of the many forms of meditation. It can deliver stress relief like most meditation practices. However, its goal is not to relieve stress or reach a higher level of spirituality, which is the point of some meditation techniques. Comparing mindfulness to meditation is like
Starting point is 00:02:52 comparing an orange to another fruit. Oranges are a type of fruit, but all fruits are not oranges. meditation should be considered a single word that covers a vast field of practice. The word generally refers to a mental process that's used to train the brain. Different techniques are used to enhance or strengthen certain mental qualities. Meditation can help you focus better. If you have an issue with concentrating on keeping your mind on a single train of thought or subject, meditating can help. Some people meditate simply for the amazing stress-relieving properties that it delivers.
Starting point is 00:03:24 This isn't so much a guaranteed benefit of mindfulness. Mindfulness simply means being aware. A mindfulness practice has you opening your eyes to your world. A lot of meditation is done with your eyes closed. You look inward. You shut out the busy, hectic, crazy world that's often your reality. You clear your thoughts and focus on some results you're trying to create. When you practice mindfulness, you're basically paying attention. The idea is to recognize your world and yourself with purpose. You only have to exist in the present moment while acting as an observer. You don't judge yourself, your surroundings, or anything you encounter with your five senses. You recognize what's happening.
Starting point is 00:04:03 It's a way of relating to whatever's occurring in your current reality. When you think about it, your right now moment is all you will ever experience in your life. Certainly you have a past, and hopefully you have a very long and happy future. But our perception of our lives as humans only exists in the millisecond that is now. Mindfulness makes you more aware of your current now moment in time. Both mindfulness and other forms of meditation can deliver stress relief and a slew of other important health benefits. They are simultaneously similar and different. One is not better or worse than the other.
Starting point is 00:04:37 Practice the form of meditation that makes the most sense for you and takes you to the reality you're trying to create. Can children benefit from meditation? Meditation is a wonderful stress reliever. You may have heard that it also delivers many other physical and mental health benefits. It honestly can be a life-changer, especially in these hectic times we live in. It seems we're constantly receiving some terrible news.
Starting point is 00:05:02 Our television sets, mobile phones, and radios constantly tell us about unfortunate events. Commercials and marketing messages want us to buy products and spend our hard-earned money on many things. We're told we're too short or skinny, fat or tall. Of course, following those messages are always miracle methods that the marketer promises will have us fixing those perceived problems, fitting into society, and being the best we can be. If you think this constant barrage of distracting and sometimes troubling information is hard on your adult mind, imagine what children go through. Kids these days never existed without a computer. They happily stare at a television or computer screen for several hours daily. At school, some teaching lessons are delivered
Starting point is 00:05:42 on monitors and displays. You may have seen children as young as five or six years old with their own cell phones. If you're enjoying a day with your child out shopping, that small impressionable mind is inundated with so many electronically generated messages, visuals, and noises. In other words, meditation is absolutely okay for children. You might even call it necessary in our noisy and fast-paced world. How old does a child have to be to meditate? First, you have to understand what meditation is. It's basically taking a little time to enter yourself. You shut off distractions and calm your racing thoughts. You give yourself time to exist in the present moment and be yourself. If you're an adult who's meditated before, you may have some step-by-step process you go through. That can be difficult for
Starting point is 00:06:28 children to follow. So if you want your child to enjoy the many benefits of meditation, like less stress and better focus and attention, have them do some basic breathing techniques and get them in a calm, quiet, distraction-free area. You can seek a meditation coach or teacher that specializes in helping children meditate. Whatever you do, get your children involved. There is no official age minimum that you must adhere to. Children of all ages can benefit greatly from more peace and quiet and less exposure to a loud, always-on, always-connected world. How can I get started with meditation? If you're thinking about taking up meditation, you might want to know what you have to do to get started. That's a reasonable thought. You want to get the most out of the practice because you've heard
Starting point is 00:07:13 it's a great stress reliever. You may have also been told that regular meditation practice can help improve your mental and physical health in several ways. This is all true. Most forms of meditation deliver some pretty incredible benefits. You understand this. You also want to get started the right way to enjoy the proven rewards of this age-old practice. The best tip we can give beginners to meditation is to not overthink the process. Just get started. Think back to when you were a child.
Starting point is 00:07:41 You didn't waste much time when you wanted to do something. You just did it. You jumped into any activity if it looked like it might be fun. You saw your friends playing baseball, so you asked them if you could play. You didn't know what you were doing. You failed a lot, but you kept trying, and eventually you are a pretty good baseball player. Maybe you weren't a baseball player as a child, but you get what we're saying here. Kids don't usually worry about failure. They just get started if they want to do something. There might be some bumps and bruises, but they don't care. It's all about not overthinking the process.
Starting point is 00:08:13 Be a child again. Just get started meditating. There are plenty of meditation manuals and courses out there. There's no lack of information that can help you get started. Look at it the same way you would if you wanted to swim in chilly seawater. The best thing to do is back up, get a running start, and dive into the ocean. If you timidly dip a toe into the water to see what the temperature is like, you're not committing. It might take too long to build up the courage to immerse yourself entirely. It's the same thing with meditation and so many other endeavors. You just need to get started.
Starting point is 00:08:45 How do I start? You start by starting. Just close your eyes and take a few. deep breaths. Clear your mind. Be present in your body. Breathe deeply in and out, and if your thoughts distract you, move them away and calm your mind again. Do this for a couple of minutes, and guess what? You've just been meditating. You can also take guided courses where an instructor moves you through the process. Any way you decide to benefit from this calming stress reliever, start. Don't judge yourself. Remember, there is no right or wrong way to meditate. Whether you choose guided meditation or
Starting point is 00:09:19 start off on your own, you'll enjoy better overall health and wellness. Meditation doesn't have to be a spiritual or religious practice. Define spirituality. People often have their own personal views as to what that means. One's spiritual nature is certainly something that can be defined in any way the individual wants. The same is true with religion. Did you know there are thousands of different types of religions worldwide? That proves that what qualifies as a religious practice or belief for one person might not for another. Some people don't follow any particular religion. Some of these folks don't consider themselves very spiritual either. There are countless ways to view spirituality and religion.
Starting point is 00:10:01 Your view is right for you, and what someone else believes is right for them. Now let's look at how meditation applies to spirituality and religion. People in the Western world often relate meditating with Indian spirituality. This is because that's where meditation began thousands of years ago. It slowly worked its way west and is now found all over the globe. What began as a spiritual practice, a way to connect with something bigger than the individual, is used today for non-spiritual and non-religious purposes. You'll still find religions that practice meditation as an important part of their belief system. You're just not required
Starting point is 00:10:35 to practice a certain religion or embrace a particular spiritual discipline to benefit from meditation. Do what works best for you. In Western societies, meditation is sometimes thought to be a way to develop a closer relationship with God. Many Asian practices are about exploring a person's individual spirituality. Catholic prayers are intended to send messages to God or to the saints. They are a form of meditation. Mindfulness is a practice that doesn't ask for or require any belief in spirituality or religion. You become mindful of yourself in your surroundings to improve focus and attention and relieve stress. We mentioned there are thousands of different types of religions. There are dozens of different forms of meditation. Most of them don't require that you have a particular
Starting point is 00:11:19 religious outlook or spiritual belief system. Taking a few minutes to calm your thoughts and reflect inward is a form of meditation. You mentally remove yourself from a busy, hectic world and enjoy peace and quiet. Whatever method of meditation you practice, you aren't required to join a religion or become spiritual if you aren't. Additionally, your religious preference probably won't view meditation as something that's off limits. It's proven to offer so many mind and body benefits. religious and non-religious people can simultaneously improve their health and wellness with this ancient practice. How long should a beginner meditate for? Imagine that you're just beginning to meditate.
Starting point is 00:11:59 You have a friend who told you she feels like she's more complete because of her meditation practice. She speaks of the many benefits to the mind and body that she's received, and you want to enjoy the same experience. You ask her what a typical meditation session is like. She tells you she plans twice a day sessions ranging from 30 to 40 minutes' That sounds like an awfully long time to you. It begs the question, how long should I meditate as a beginner? While there isn't really a hard answer for everyone, a specific number, you want to start with short sessions at first. Beginners to meditation often find it a difficult
Starting point is 00:12:31 or unfamiliar process. They have preconceived notions about meditating that may or may not be correct. As a novel practice, you're just beginning, you'll need to develop some experience. Following a particular step-by-step meditating technique might be tough since you're just starting out. For all these reasons, shoot for five to ten minutes. It doesn't really take a long time to benefit from meditation. You can feel stress relief almost immediately in many cases, even as a beginner. If you can meditate outdoors with nature in a grassy field, for example, you'll find stress relief coming rapidly. Wherever you meditate, start out with a five-minute session as a beginner. You can spend 30 seconds calming your mind and going through breathing routines. Then spend four minutes
Starting point is 00:13:15 meditating. Give yourself another 30 seconds to come out of the meditative state and re-enter your environment. There's no right or wrong number here, but five minutes is a good starting point. You'll eventually want to build up to 10 and then 20 minutes for a session. Everyone's different. You may not be able to meditate with focus and without distractions for more than 10 minutes. That's okay. You'll find a session length that works best for you eventually. The key is to get started. Most people find that meditation is very transformative in many ways. It can truly improve both your physical and mental states of being. You'll become more self-aware and enjoy positive thoughts and fewer negative emotions.
Starting point is 00:13:54 So get started, beginning with a five-minute session and only increasing that time when you don't feel you're forcing yourself. What to do if you don't have enough time to meditate? I'd love to meditate more, but I just don't have the time. Is that really true? It may be. We're certainly not questioning you. You could be ridiculously busy most of the time. Sometimes, though, a misconception about meditation keeps people from enjoying its many benefits.
Starting point is 00:14:21 Speaking of benefits, could you use less stress in your life? Who couldn't? Stress negatively affect your mental and physical states. Chronic stress can lead to debilitating health problems. So you're probably agreeing that you would love more stress relief. Relief from stress is one of the cornerstone wellness benefits that meditation delivers. While you'd like to stress less and chill out more, you don't see where you have time for meditation. you might be incorrectly perceiving how long you have to meditate for some serious benefits.
Starting point is 00:14:51 Five minutes is all you need. Honestly, why not clear your mind and take a few deep breaths if you only have a minute or two. Push away all your thoughts and worries for the day. Breathe in, breathe out. Notice the process. Experience your breathing. Just be fully present in your body and mind. Guess what? That's meditating. Do that a few times a day and you'll enjoy more focus and better concentration. Your emotions won't be all over the road as often. You can form a sense of balance in your life, which is sometimes difficult in this busy, modern world. If you can, start finding five-minute blocks of time where you can meditate during your day. Oddly, you can stretch that to five minutes if you have a free minute or two. This gives you enough time to prepare, meditate, and re-enter your normal daily
Starting point is 00:15:38 routine. Do this three times a day, and at the end of the week, you've been meditating for 105 minutes. That's closing in on two hours. The benefits of meditation are cumulative. In other words, while it's nice to enjoy a 20 or 30-minute session when you can, smaller five-minute sessions will build up and deliver real rewards. If you don't have enough time to meditate, be honest with yourself. Most people have more free time than they really think they do. Keep a journal. Write down everything you do in the times when you do them. You'll find more than enough five-minute sessions during even the craziest of days to benefit from some micro-meditation sessions. It's okay to meditate with your eyes open.
Starting point is 00:16:20 Many meditative practices will have you closing your eyes. The principal reason for this is that it's a very easy way to shut off distractions. Your vision is the way you encounter most of the world initially. You may smell or hear something from time to time before you see it. Usually, though, your vision delivers the first dose of your environment. This is why closing your eyes is suggested in many forms of meditation. We live in a very distracting and noisy world. Some video, audio, or otherwise electrically delivered stimulus is begging your attention at all times.
Starting point is 00:16:51 With eyes open, it can be hard for the most focused and devoted meditation practitioners to shut out what's happening around them. Regular practice of meditation with your eyes closed programs your mind over time. The next time you close your eyes and begin a particular breathing routine, your mind understands it's time for you to meditate. So closing your eyes acts as a reminder of sorts. That's not necessary for all forms of meditation. What are you trying to achieve? One misconception about meditation is that all forms are the same. This isn't true.
Starting point is 00:17:22 You can practice different styles of meditation if you want to achieve different things. Focused meditation sessions have you paying attention to a singular object. This can be an object or color in your mind. It's often a physical object you have to view with your eyes open. This focused attention can take place if you're walking, sitting, and whether you're focusing on a single object or group of objects. Sometimes you're not in an environment where you can sit or lie still and meditate. If you only have a few spare minutes when you're on the move physically,
Starting point is 00:17:50 it's probably smarter to keep your eyes open. You can still meditate in this physical state. Close your eyes, open your eyes, do what you like. A small minority of individuals may experience unfamiliar body sensations when they meditate with closed eyes. In this situation, open your eyes instead. Some forms of meditation will tell you to close your eyes. If that doesn't work for you, if you don't get the benefits you're looking for, try that same style of meditation with your eyes open. Meditation is a very personal thing. Don't feel like you have to
Starting point is 00:18:22 follow some set of rules to the letter. Make your meditation work for you. Experiment with different types of meditation, eyes open or eyes closed, to find the form that gives you the most health and wellness benefits. What does it mean if my mind wanders while meditating? There are many misconceptions about meditation. One is that your mind shouldn't wander. Some people believe you should be able to automatically and perfectly silence that non-stop chattering, mostly negative inner voice that's always talking to you. People who've been practicing meditation their whole lives will tell you it's impossible to do that all the time. Even the most experienced disciple of meditation will have their mind wander.
Starting point is 00:19:02 It's just normal and natural. There's no judgment to be made here. If your mind wanders while meditating, take notice of your thoughts and emotions. Don't judge them. recognize them. Imagine that you are an objective viewer. You don't have an opinion. Let your thoughts be present. If your mind wanders from a clear state to the fact that you have to pay a big bill tomorrow and you're a little short financially, just look at that thought. Don't take an opinion. Imagine it's not your experience but that of someone else. It's like watching a movie where you have no input.
Starting point is 00:19:33 Tell yourself that this is just a thought and let it be. Allow it to be present. You recognize your wandering mind objectively. This allows you to quickly return to a carefree mental state. That's not the case if you judge yourself harshly for your mind wandering. You may want to try meditation with a mantra. A mantra is a word or phrase repeated during meditation. This gives your mind something to do. Beginners will speak a mantra out loud.
Starting point is 00:19:59 Over time, you develop the ability to use this anchoring point silently in your mind. It can help you reduce the number of times your mind wanders away. Transcendental meditation is one of the practices where mantras are are used. The phrase or word you repeat is intended to help keep your attention on your meditative state of mind. Focusing on your breathing can also direct your attention away from outside thoughts. You breathe deeply, pause, and then slowly let out your breath. How does it feel? What's the breathing process like? Again, don't be judgmental. Just recognize what you feel and what you hear as you breathe. Breathing exercises and mantras might help you control a wandering mind. Remember that
Starting point is 00:20:38 it is normal for your mind to drift off while meditating. It doesn't mean you're doing anything wrong. Observe your thoughts objectively and then re-enter your meditative state. When is the best time to meditate? This is a common question for beginners. When should you meditate? Is it better in the morning or at night? Some people like to meditate before a big business presentation or sporting event. The process in many meditation practices helps clear your mind. Your focus improves and your level of attention will as well. This makes it perfect for the period just before you need to be attentive and focused. What's your schedule like? Many of us are in this crazy, fast-paced world seemingly having little free time. Have you ever complained about that? We all do now and again.
Starting point is 00:21:24 When you think about it, you might have more spare time than you previously thought. Sure, there might not be a full hour of uninterrupted time at your disposal. On the other hand, you might have several times during the day when you have a few minutes of free time. That's all you need. Meditation doesn't have to be an hour-long process. You don't need a specific environment or setting. There are so many different forms of meditation that you can find one that matches your daily routine perfectly. Just remember this. Any time is the right time for meditating. We're really not trying to dodge the question. There truly is no good or bad time for calming your mind and choosing peace and quiet over what's usually allowed and distracting world. Find a method that works well for you.
Starting point is 00:22:06 There are dozens of different styles of meditation. Some people take one of the traditional forms and customize it, so it makes sense to them. That's a smart thing to do. You make your meditation practice your own. What works for you may not work for someone else. So you build a meditation practice that lets you quickly enter a calm and peaceful state of mind. This means the next time you have only four or five minutes available, you can enjoy a MIDI meditation session. Try starting your day off with a few minutes of meditation.
Starting point is 00:22:35 If you've never meditated before, enjoy a few minutes as soon as you get up in the morning. You'll find this is like drinking a cup of coffee. It awakens and energizes you. You feel focused and calm to start your morning. That's a great way to begin a loud, noisy, non-stop day. Then sprinkle in short meditation sessions throughout the day to improve your mood and enjoy less stress.

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