Life Kit - Watch out for these holiday scams

Episode Date: December 11, 2025

Don't get swindled while buying gifts this holiday season. This episode, Amy Nofziger of AARP's Fraud Watch Network explains how to safeguard yourself from common shopping scams like fake shipping alerts and online stores — and offers advice on what to do if you fall for one.Follow us on Instagram: @nprlifekitSign up for our newsletter here.Have an episode idea or feedback you want to share? Email us at [e-mail] the show and listen to it sponsor-free by signing up for Life Kit+ at plus.npr.org/lifekitLearn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoicesNPR Privacy Policy

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It's like, of course I have to buy president. for all of these people, and, oh, it's Black Friday, big sale. Might as well get all this stuff. And now is the time of year to give to charity. Obviously nothing wrong with that. But this is a season when we tend to open up our wallets. It's also a busy time when we're a little distracted. And all of this can make us more vulnerable to scams.

There's a lot of hustle and bustle during the holiday season, so there's a lot more opportunities for scammers to steal from us. This is Amy Knopfsiger, senior. director of fraud victim support at AARP's Fraud Watch Network. You might know AARP as a membership organization focused on people 50 plus, but when it comes to fraud, they serve anyone of any age. And fraud does happen to everyone. I've gotten scammed, buying something online. And I've had some near misses, too. It's nothing to be ashamed of, but we do want you to know how to protect yourself. On this episode of Life Kit, holiday season scams. We'll talk about the most.

most common ways people get scammed this time of year and what we can do to stay safe. Let's talk about online shopping during the holidays. What are the big red flags people should be aware of? I like to talk about the hot ticket item. And I honestly don't know what is this year. My children are older, right? But I remember there were race cars that I was looking for or the perfect tennis shoe, right? If you're looking for that item and it's sold out at all the major retailers and you go online and you do a search for it and you find it at a store and not only do they have it, but they have it less than what you've seen other places, honestly, that's a red flag. Because more often than not, what's going to happen is you're going to purchase from this

vendor who maybe just set up shop a couple of days ago. And all it is is a way to steal your personal information and your credit card. And we recently did a survey and we actually found out that 39% of people that we talked to had experienced fraud when seeking to buy a product through an online ad. So my best recommendation is if you are looking for the hot ticket item or any ticket item for that matter and you're using a vendor that you haven't normally used, take the name of the vendor, put it in a new search bar, and type the word scam, fraud, complaint after it and use other shopper's experiences with that company to guide your own. I even did this for myself yesterday when I was trying to purchase something for my older son. What did you find out?

It was an ad that I saw on social media, the product looked great, and I took the name of the company, put it in with the word scam, frog, complain after it, and it had like a 1.9 rating and said, buyer beware, do not use this store. Yeah, I think in general, it seems like it's a bad idea to shop through an Instagram ad or a social media ad, like to just click through. I do not recommend it unless you absolutely know that that is the vendor and maybe you follow that vendor. People don't really understand that a lot of these ads that are on social media are not vetted. We have this level of comfort when we go to this platform thinking that the platform vets these ads for us, but they don't. Yeah, I've seen this happen. Someone in my family ordered something. It was supposed to be a book.

But instead, they eventually got a piece of paper with a picture of a book on it, which is so upsetting. It is upsetting. And what we hear from consumers is then oftentimes they try to, you know, make a claim. But because the company shipped something, it's really hard to verify that what they shipped wasn't what they advertised. And so oftentimes the consumer is left paying for that product. Well, I know you can report fraud or do a chargeback on your credit card, and I guess it must depend on the credit card company and how good they are about giving those chargebacks. But to your point, that's what's really important is when you're shopping online.

Always use a credit card. Don't use a debit card. Don't use Venmo cash up or Zelle. Certainly don't pay by going to a crypto ATM machine because you just have greater consumer protections with a credit card. All right, takeaway one. When you're shopping online, learn as much as you can about a company before you click buy. If you see a product on Amazon from a third-party seller, or if you're served up an ad on social media, don't just buy the product on the spot.

Open a separate browser tab and search for the name of the company. See what their website looks like, what reviews say, where the company is located, anything that helps you ground this in reality. You can also search for the company name alongside the words scam, fraud, complaint, and see what that brings up. If a company claims to sell a product that meets a certain standard or has a certificate of approval, double check that they're telling the truth. One time I bought a water filter from my bathroom sink, and the company had a really glossy looking website and social media presence, and it had a certificate on its website from NSF, a public health and safety group that tests and certifies products like this. But later, after I'd been using the water filter for a while, I looked on the NSF website to see if I could find this company in its database, and I couldn't. The certificate was a fake. NSF later confirmed that when I emailed them.

So be careful. And also, always use your credit card when you're shopping online. Credit cards have stronger protections if you do get scammed. Let's talk about gift cards. People buy these a lot around the holidays for things like, you know, your office. office white elephant or your family member who you don't know what to get. How can you get scammed when you're buying a gift card? So this has been going on for quite some time, but we know there's probably going to be more instances of it during the holiday. What happens is groups of

organized crime rings, criminals, go to stores, and they actually remove stacks of gift cards off of those big carousels that we see at the stores. They then go and lock. And, every gift card number and pin number into their system, then load those gift cards back on to the carousel. But they have all the pertinent information. So when the unsuspecting victim goes to buy the gift card for a teacher's gift or for the white elephant, like you said, and load money on that card, the criminals get notified that there's now money on that card and they instantly drain it. So you could not even have left the store yet and that money could be drained off of the card. My best advice with this kind of fraud, if you are buying a hard copy, a tangible gift card,

buy the ones up close to the front of the store where maybe more eyes have been on it, like close to the point of sale by customer service or by the cashier. Consider getting an e-gift card. You can even write in the card that says, hey, check your email to Mark. there'll be an e-gift card for you also always save that receipt that receipt that comes with it is proof that you loaded money on the card and kind of important the time you loaded so if you loaded the gift card with $100 at 12.01 p.m. and it's cashed at 1202 in a different state well then that's a pretty good indication that someone has drained that gift card. Takeaway two if you're buying a gift card for someone in store. Try to get one at the register, ideally with a card that hasn't been on display

at all. Or you could buy the card from the retailer's website and always keep your receipt. Something else, Amy has told us in previous episodes, if you get a text or an email asking you to buy a gift card for someone, don't do it. This happened to a friend of mine. He got a text from someone claiming to be his boss's boss and asking if he could buy gift cards for his department at work as a thank you for everything they're doing. The text said, don't worry, you'll get reimbursed, just send me a picture of the gift cards and the receipts. My friend did not take the bait, and it was, of course, a scam. Let's talk about donations to charity. How can people get scammed when they're donating? Criminals will set up fake charities. When we did our research

recently, we asked this question, and 35% of the people said that they believed that they had gotten a donation request that seemed fake or fraudulent. the last 12 months. I mean, that's a pretty high number. I recommend that people only donate to who you have vetted and who you know. And we want people to give. We just want them to give wisely. So if there is a charity that's come across your phone, your mail, whatever it is, take the name of the charity and do your own research and then give money directly to the charity via the way that they want you to give on their website. I do not recommend giving over the phone or at the front door, you don't have the time to do your research.

What about when you're walking down the street and people are like, hey, do you have a minute? You have such a beautiful smile. Oh, well, thank you. I do have a beautiful smile. Actually, I don't have a minute right now, but if you have a business card or a flyer about your charity, I'll go home and do some research and I'll decide if I want to give some money to you then. Wow, that's good. That's practice. That's what we need to do. We need to practice these kind of refusal scripts. Takeaway 3. It's a beautiful thing that you want to donate to charity.

But again, do your research. Only donate to organizations that you have vetted. And if someone is soliciting donations on the street, take down the information and look it up online when you get home. After the break, we'll have more about holiday season scams. Let's talk about toll road scams. What are these? So I think everybody probably got one of these over the summer. It was a text message that came unsolicited that said, you went on a toll road and you did not pay your toll. And the charge of $6, click this link to pay your toll or you'll be fined even greater.

We actually found out that 58% of the people we surveyed actually got this text. I know I certainly did. And I travel on a lot of tolls. I travel through many states. And oftentimes you go in and out on the road and you're not sure if you hit that toll or whatever it is. And the issue with this scam is that because they weren't asking for a lot of money, they were saying it's $6. It's $750. It's $750. People thought, okay, well, I'll just pay the $750. Maybe I crossed that toll. I think I did. I can't remember. So the criminals weren't after that $7. What they were after was your credit card number. So the minute you, quote, paid that toll via the link that they sent you, then they had your credit card information and all the pertinent information to go on a shopping spree. What's interesting about this scam in particular is they then followed up with kind of another scam saying, well, since you didn't pay that $7 toll, now the DMV is going to suspend your license. Oh, no.

We call them kind of like a reload scam. It's like, so they didn't scam. you the first time, and now they're threatening you because you refuse the first scam, but they're threatening you with another scam, saying now they're the DMV. The reason we're talking about this during the holidays is because people are going to be traveling a lot to see family and friends, and they're going to most likely be on a toll road. So what are the best practices here? I mean, how does one pay tolls? Usually one pays tolls by getting a letter from the toll road in the mail. Or even if you're in a rental car, like a couple of weeks ago, I was in a rental car,

and they have my credit card on file. So when I hit the toll, which I did, they just automatically charged my credit card. I recommend to never pay anything, but especially one of these tolls that comes in through an unsolicited text message with a link. If you think you maybe went on a toll road, find who manages that toll road, go directly to their website. You can use it. You can use use your information, whether it's your license plate number, however, and to find out if you legitimately need to pay the toll that way. All right. What about fake delivery texts?

Like, you have a package that's from UPS or from the U.S. Postal Service. Click this link. Yeah, these are popular all year rounds. But we, again, know with the holiday season, we are going to be expecting packages, shipping packages, Again, the criminals will use this to their advantage, and they'll send out these fake notifications saying that they're from a shipping company and that there's a problem with your accounts, there is a missing piece of your address, and they're going to suspend or, you know, take over your package if you don't respond. I tell people, if you're sending out packages, you know, keep a list. Like, okay, mom is getting this from this vendor, dad's getting this from this vendor. You can sometimes even see who the shipping company is, and just write that down just to try to keep track.

But most of the time, if there is ever a problem with a package that you are sending, you're going to hear from the vendor, not the shipping company. Because vendors oftentimes use different shipping companies. It's not like they're always exclusive to one. If you get one of these and you think, oh my gosh, someone is sending me something and U.S. right is sending me this text. You can reach out to USPS. You can reach out to FedEx and verify your address. Or the gift giver would give me a heads up and say, hey, I'm sending you something. I got an email from the vendor. There's a problem. It's going to be three days late. But again, this is nothing but a fishing scam. All right. Takeaway 4. If you get a message telling you that you went

through a toll and you owe money, don't click the link. Don't respond by text or email. Think about how you normally pay tolls. Maybe you have an easy pass or you have a toll account or you get a letter from the state in the mail. Or if you're using a rental car, the toll charge appears on your credit card later. Go through the official channels. Same thing goes for text messages saying you got a package. You just need to click here and pay the extra fee or click here and enter your information. These are scams. Any other scams that people should be aware of over the holidays? The other thing is travel scams. Last minute, okay, I am going to go surprise mom and dad for Christmas, but the ticket prices are so expensive. I'm going to try to do a search to see if I can find a great deal.

Criminals are putting up fake websites, thinking you're at a legitimate travel site, an airline, a car rental. We have a lot of car rental scams. We have a lot of car rental scams. they think they're getting a great deal, but they have to prepay with a prepaid gift card. They get to their location. There is no car. Try to stay to the vendors that you have a relationship with that you know. And this also goes one step further. If you are traveling this time of year, and you have to get in touch with customer service of your car rental or your hotel or your airline, go directly to their website. We have a lot of people who have been victimized by trying to do like a search for their airline

and coming up with a fake website. Go directly to the vendor. Use their mode of customer service, whether it's text, chat, phone, but don't try to circumvent customer service this time of years because scammers are there waiting for you. What should you do if you fall for a scam? Yeah, if you find yourself a victim of a scam, you've lost money, personal information, I mean, first and foremost, stop the communication with the criminal. You're not going to shame them into giving your money back.

And then report it. I mean, you can report it to local law enforcement. You can report it to, you know, IC3.gov. That's the FBI's Internet Crime Complaint Center. You can report it to us on the Fraudwatch Network helpline. We're a free service for anyone of any age. You really just need to report it and report it quickly. if they, by chance, have your credit card number, your bank account number,

you know, call those financial institutions immediately so they can't have any more access. Amy, thank you so much. Oh my gosh, you're so welcome. Thank you. All right, time for a recap. Take away one. When you're shopping online, learn as much as you can about a company before you buy. Open a separate browser tab and search for the name of the company. See what their website looks like.

what independent reviews say, where the company is located, anything that helps you ground this in reality. And always use your credit card when you're shopping online. Those come with stronger protections. Takeaway two, if you're buying a gift card in store, try to get one at the register, ideally with a card that hasn't been on display. You can also buy the card from the retailer's website

and always keep your receipt. If someone texts you asking you to buy some gift cards and send them the info, that is almost always a scam. Takeaway three. Only donate to charities that you have vetted. And if someone solicits donations from you on the street and you do want to give, take down the information and look it up online when you get home. Takeaway four. If you get a message telling you that you went through a toll and you owe money now, don't click the link, don't respond by text or email. Think about how you normally pay tolls and go through those channels. Same thing for text messages saying you got a package. You can always reach out to USPS. UPS, FedEx, or a retailer directly. And if you do fall for a scam, report it as quickly as possible.

There may be a way to get your money back. And also, this helps establish you as a victim of crime in case your credit card company or your bank needs a police report for their internal investigation. And also, Amy says, reporting a crime and talking about it is the first step in healing from the experience. And that's our show. Hey, you're a fan of Life Kit, right? Well, don't keep us a secret.

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