Mick Unplugged - Financial Freedom in 30 Days with Adrian Brambila and Dr. Brad Klontz!
Episode Date: January 13, 2025Dr. Brad Klontz is a Financial Psychologist, Certified Financial Planner, and Managing Principal at YMW Advisors. With 15+ years of experience, he helps clients overcome subconscious financial beliefs.... He teaches financial psychology at Creighton University and has authored eight books and over 100 articles, featured in The New York Times and CNBC. His mission is to help individuals and organizations achieve their financial goals. Adrian Brambila is a serial entrepreneur, ex-pro dancer & influencer who went viral on TikTok for living in a van while transparently showing how he makes over $100K per month online with just 1 day a week of wifi. Adrian's mission is to inspire others to start side hustles while creating intelligent money habits to achieve financial freedom. Both guests share personal stories and insights from their collaborative work, including their book "Start Thinking Rich," which aims to help people develop a healthier relationship with money. Takeaways: Mindset matters Automate to avoid emotional pitfalls Bridge backgrounds and build relationships. Sound Bites: “Saving challenges our natural instincts to consume immediately.” “Leveraging the Internet offers scalable income opportunities.” Connect & Discover LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drbradklontz Instagram: drbradklontz brambilabong Facebook: DrBradKlontz Adrian.anthony.brambila Website: Adrianbrambila.com BradKlontz.com yourmentalwealth.com Podcast: Youtube: youtube.com/c/drbradklontz Book: Start Thinking Rich 𝗙𝗢𝗟𝗟𝗢𝗪 𝗠𝗘 𝗢𝗡: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mickunplugged/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mickunplugged/ Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mick-unplugged YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIPaMel-Fb4zQmCSZDPHu4A LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mickhunt/ Website: https://www.mickhuntofficial.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Welcome to Mick Unplugged, where we ignite potential and fuel purpose.
Get ready for raw insights, bold moves, and game-changing conversations.
Buckle up, here's Mick.
Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to another exciting episode of Mick Unplugged, and today's exceptional
guests are pioneers in their respective fields, each bringing a unique blend of expertise and experience that has transformed the lives of countless individuals.
One is a groundbreaking financial expert and specifically in financial psychology.
The other is an entrepreneur in digital marketing powerhouse.
Together they represent the powerful intersection of psychology and entrepreneurial spirit.
Please join me in welcoming the transformative, the visionary, and the amazing Dr. Brad Klontz
and Adrian Brumbilla.
Fellas, how are you doing today?
Hey, thanks so much for having us.
I am honored to have both of you here.
And you know, just talking a little bit offline and knowing a little bit about your stories from from what me and my team have done.
Honored to have you both here and it's about to get real on Mick Unplugged man like financial
psychology something that we definitely need to go into and digital marketing I mean it's 2024
going into 2025 if you don't have that plan you're being seen. So I'd love for each of you to just take a moment,
tell the audience and viewers a little bit
about your background and how you got here.
And I'll start with Dr. Brad.
Yeah, so first of all, you know,
Adrian and I are here together
because we have a recent national bestselling book,
Start Thinking Rich.
And that's really what we've been focused on lately.
And the passion there has been essentially,
what can we teach people who want to level up their finances,
their relationship with money?
And so for me, I grew up in a lower income, broken family.
There was drama, there was trauma,
and we didn't have any money.
And I looked around and I saw a lot of hardworking,
God-fearing, good people.
And Adrian has a very different story,
but some parts of my family have been around
since the Mayflower.
And as a young kid, I'm like,
why are both sets of grandparents,
why are we in trailer parks?
Like, what's going on here?
Like, it doesn't make sense.
The American dream has not worked for us along the way.
As a kid, I just got really curious about that. I remember going to one of my friend's houses
and having dinner with his family, and I just thought they were so rich. I was so intrigued
by this. In retrospect, it was like a middle-class home and it had two bathrooms. For me, I was like,
that's incredible, two bathrooms. To me, that's what I decided Rich was.
But I remember asking, sort of interviewing this guy.
So I'm in sixth grade and I'm interviewing this guy,
my friend's dad, like, what do you do for work?
And I was just fascinated about how do I get into this world?
And then fast forward, I became a clinical psychologist,
essentially to try to help people grow and heal,
childhood trauma and wounds, which I had a lot of, I mean, I had to get over myself. clinical psychologist, essentially to try to help people grow and heal childhood
trauma and wounds, which I had a lot of, I mean, I had to get over myself.
And then I got out of school, I owed a hundred thousand dollars in student loan
debt and I had no idea how to get out of debt.
And I saw a friend of mine make a hundred thousand dollars in a year trading stocks.
And this is just before the tech bubble.
And I got really excited.
I sold everything I had of value.
I started to trade stocks and then the tech bubble broke and I watched all my money melt
away.
And that's when I became a financial psychologist because I'm like, why would a reasonably
intelligent person be his own worst enemy?
You know, obviously I didn't know what, what was happening.
I didn't know how to do it, but I got sucked into sort of a get rich quick scheme and then
my friend was sucked into.
And that, that really set me on the search
to research the psychology of money, the psychology of wealth.
So what are the psychological differences
between ultra wealthy, middle class, low income?
And then secondly, how can we use psychology
to help people improve their relationship with money?
Wow, that's amazing.
I want to unplug a couple of things
before I come to you, Adrian, there.
So, you know, Dr. Brad, we were talking offline
and you told me for all the hip hop folks out there,
you were the original B-Rabbit, right?
Like you grew up outside of Detroit in Eight Mile.
No, I'm just, I'm talking about-
I used to go to the club, you know,
they were playing house music back when I went,
but I used to go to the same club that they filmed.
Yeah, but what's amazing for you,
and I know it's something that all the viewers
and listeners can connect with,
as a kid for you, seeing two bathrooms was like,
holy crap, like that's amazing, right?
And I know that there are a lot of us
that had that same sense
when you saw something and maybe it wasn't two bathrooms, right?
For some people, it was like,
whoa, like your dad lives here, right?
Like to see something as a kid that just makes you say,
life is different and there's a thing that I can get to.
Would you say that sixth grade year old Brad
is what kind of started that connection of,
okay, if I strive, if I set goals, if I create standards,
I can have two bathrooms too.
Like, was that kind of the genesis of who you are now?
Yeah, and I think it's like,
I think one of the biggest psychological barriers
for people around success is the belief that
if they can do it, I can do it.
Yeah. And that is the thing that, if can do it, I can do it. Yeah.
And that is the thing that if I could sell anything to your audience, it would be the belief that if they can do it, I can do it.
And so, um, I think what you have to have to quite frankly, is a role
model that you can connect with.
And so Adrian has a whole story.
He has a different background than I do.
You do too.
And I think it's like, whatever it takes
to get over the hurdle, like, well, if they can do it,
I can do it.
And so that's really what we're trying to do.
And so that's why I actually like to talk about my journey
of growing up lower income and coming from a pretty
tumultuous history with some trauma in it and all that,
because I think a lot of people can relate to that.
And it's like, whoa, if he could do it,
maybe I could do it.
And I think to me, that's the biggest barrier.
No, wholeheartedly, wholeheartedly, which is a great segue to our digital marketing
and entrepreneur guru over here, Adrian.
So Adrian, a little bit about your background and how you got here today, brother.
Well, I think the first thing I like to talk about is in college, my parents, they actually,
I grew up in a Mexican household,
they to a deficit saved so much money
to make me the very first Brambila
to graduate college debt-free.
So always will be indebted and grateful for them.
And then my first semester in college,
what did I do with that amazing gift?
I started partying and drinking
and like doing what everyone else was doing.
And then when I came back after first semester to my dad, he asked, are you working hard and studying?
And I lied to him. I said, oh yeah, of course I am. Like, yeah, of course. And then on my flight back
to Dubuque, Iowa, I went to a really private small school. I felt really guilty. So actually cold
turkey quit drinking and partying and in Dubuque, Iowa, there's not much to
do besides that, especially in the winters. So I went to YouTube and I started looking up like
hobbies. I learned guitar. And then one of the things I picked up from YouTube was learning how
to dance the robot. And after a couple years of learning how to dance on the internet, T-Pain had an open call audition to submit
a YouTube video.
I did not thinking anything would happen and I actually made it to the audition.
Already I felt like my life was changed.
This was my sophomore year in college now.
Then I made it to basically be a professional full-time dancer backing up for T-Pain. So I feel like my life changed a lot in that experience, but dancing was always a hobby. I never
wanted to be a pro dancer. I just felt really like it was a God's
miracle. And the most defining moment in that whole experience, which I think has
really changed the way I look at success and redefining wealth is
T-Pain launched a song in front of the dancers. I remember the first time we did this. He did this a couple times, but the first time was crazy because he's like,
hey, you guys want to hear the new songs, see the new music video before it rolls out?
We're like, yeah, of course. So he plays it for us. It's called Reverse Cowgirl, by the way.
It's not a very good song. Also not about a Western.
Right.
When he launched it, he played the music video, he launched it. And this is like, I would say not
in the prime of T-Pain, but just a little bit after. So he's still on the radio and stuff like
that. And back then, this is 2010 era. There's no Spotify, so every song is iTunes.
You pay 99 cents to download.
And he launched it within a couple minutes.
We're looking at the dashboard as he looks over his manage.
He's like, hey, yeah, launch it, launch it.
And then you could see like 100,000, 500,000 million downloads.
And after like 10 minutes, it was like over 5 million downloads.
And I was trying to comprehend like, I think, wait wait Yeah, he just made millions of dollars in a minute
And he and it was just so hard to comprehend because like I think this is a good
Thing for when you're scrappy when you have nothing this mindset that like I need to work hard to make a lot of money
I need to sacrifice a lot to in order to become wealthy. These are all things I used to consider true
But what I was watching was a total opposite.
Obviously, not to discredit where T-Pain came from
because he has a really harsh background as well.
But just in this moment, I'm meeting T-Pain.
He's only five years older than I am.
He just looks over his manager.
They launched a song,
something he loves to do for fun.
Then it's around 10 AM.
After that, he just gets obliterated,
like super drunk. And this is a regular thing. And so I'm watching like, wait a second, where's
the sacrifice? Where's the working hard? I'm watching someone party like a rock star, make
music for a living and have an abundance of wealth. So it really shattered a lot of the
traditional beliefs I had of like what it means to make a lot of money. Because although T-Pain definitely didn't have to sacrifice and work hard as any successful person
did, that's I think one window of wealth and success is like there's actually other factors
in the equation that I think a lot more healthier because one thing I had to work through when I
started creating YouTube content after dancing on teaching people how to dance the robot, which was my first business, I actually started feeling guilty when I started making
money because it didn't fit this script that I inherited that money had to be painful and
I had to work hard for it.
I had to change it to actually, if I create value, the more value I create, the more money
I make, which is the same script that I had to evolve.
And I still have that today, which is which is pretty healthy
So from from dancing I basically grew the number one website online
teaching people how to dance the robot and that led to a whole different world of like learning how to market yourself as a
Dancer and then I started experimenting with all the different ways you can make money online and
I've done them all except for anything like NSFW or selling feet pics, but man, I've tried everything.
So he's got ugly feet.
Otherwise, I was literally gonna ask as a follow-up question,
how did you guys meet?
But now I know you were teaching Dr. Brad
how to do the robot.
Awesome story, man.
So that does leave me, how did you guys,
where this intersection come to, how'd you guys meet?
You know, TikTok is such an incredible place
and this is why I encourage everyone,
even if you don't consider yourself
or identify as an influencer or content creator,
I think everyone should be creating content
just for the sake of you never know
who's gonna come across your message,
who's gonna see it.
Like Brad and I are completely opposite on paper, he's really edumacated. This is our book together. It's
his ninth book. And our past would never come, we would never come across each
other, ever. We're just totally different circles. There's a, an obvious age gap.
Sorry, just, that's just so good. What? Dang, bro. Sorry. We actually, no joke, we started becoming friends on TikTok
because we kept roasting each other.
I lived in a van, and that's how I got really popular online
during the pandemic.
I would talk about how I have a super high income.
And I was really transparent back then.
I would say, hey, I made $100,000 last month,
and I live in this van, and I only work one day a week
with Wi-Fi because I literally am in the mountains
the rest of the time. And then Brad would make fun of me living in a van and then I would make fun of Brad pretending
I was really smart and so like we just started roasting each other and a friendship
Formed and it's just so crazy. It goes to show like you should post content just for the sake of like relationships
so you have no idea how they might impact you because
It was such a privilege and honor to get to work with Brad
and collaborate with him on a book.
Because I think if it wasn't for TikTok,
I wouldn't have this amazing lifelong relationship.
That's awesome.
So Dr. Brad, like what was it about Adrian
that you were just like, I gotta get to know that guy.
What was that?
Yeah, so as I mentioned,
I've done a lot of research
on rich mindsets.
Yep.
And quite frankly, when I got on TikTok,
I did it out of anger because my nephews were showing me
TikTok videos.
And they're great, and they're so funny,
and you get sucked in.
And then all of a sudden, I saw videos
pop up about day trading.
Hmm.
You know?
And people telling you what stocks to buy.
And I made this much yesterday. And I got so upset because I remember, pop up about day trading, you know? And people telling you what stocks to buy.
And I made this much yesterday.
And I got so upset because I,
remember I lost all my money day trading
in early 2000s.
And I was like, oh my gosh, it's back.
And I got really worried because my nephews
and kids his age are seeing this misinformation
around money.
And so I started to create like anger content essentially
going against sort of these get rich quick schemes
and trying to educate people
on how people actually get rich.
Cause I've done the research
and went along that path myself.
And then I saw videos of Adrian popping up
and he was giving really solid good information
on entrepreneurship and on money and managing money.
And so I could tell that this guy had a rich mindset.
And so I started commenting on his videos
and then we became friends and then we started roasting
each other after we were friends.
But it really did develop a relationship there.
And so I had to develop a rich mindset the hard way.
His parents actually instilled much of that in him.
And his incredible story,
I've met his parents and we often talk about, or at least I've noticed that it's really
tough to compete with an immigrant mindset. Like if you're ever in a competition with
somebody who's an immigrant, it's like, good luck. Okay, so there's a good chance they're
going to work way harder than you and they're just hungry for it. But yeah, I saw that manifest
in him and it was the course, we were friends
for several years. And then we both had, I think, an inspiration to try to help out our
audience. And so that's where this book came is sort of the manual that I wish I had growing
up around, you know, the psychology of wealth and how do they think and what is their mindsets
and what does the research say about how we get wealthy, and then weaving in Adrian's incredible inspirational stories
from his childhood and his family stories, family history,
as well as how to make more money too.
That's part of it.
Part of it is investing, and how do you invest,
and what's the mindset, and how do you save more?
And then another component is how do you make more money?
Because that's actually more fun than budgeting
and cutting out all the things you love in your life
to try to
reach your financial goal.
The combo I think is first of all, you only get one life and I want to spend that life
with people I love and my friends and Adrian is one of my dear friends and so it just made
this project so much more fun and so much more valuable collaborating with him.
That's amazing and we talked about how I'll make
an upload we talk about your because,
that thing that's deeper than your why.
I think for both of you,
that's truly resonating with the power of the book.
Adrian, from your perspective,
what are two things that you
know people are going to get from this book?
What are two tips or two pointers
that this book is gonna help solve
for the listeners and viewers?
I think the, working with Dr. Baclant,
I learned so much about the psychology of wealth.
I have an assumption that there's, you know,
there's thousands and thousands of books on money.
And I have an assumption that actually everyone knows
what to do to get rich.
They know, correct me if I'm wrong,
if you have a different opinion,
but I believe people know that they should save
more than they should spend.
I also assume that people know they should invest
in things like their 401k or anything
that's for their future self,
and not just hoard it all in a bank account. Now, if that's the general assumption, I would call this
common sense. Why is it that the average American has not even $10,000 saved for retirement and has
racked up credit card debt and is living a lifestyle. Why is it that 50% of people that make six figures
live paycheck to paycheck?
Why is it if we know the tactics?
So I truly believe, and this is just learning
from someone that's like Dr. Brad Klontz
who studies millionaires, is that's the psychology
of how we think about money that really affects
if we execute on the tactics.
So the first thing is really just understanding that your beliefs about money keep you poor.
Also your beliefs about money are the same beliefs that can get you rich.
So your beliefs about how the world works, how money works, do you associate a negative
connotation with it or positive?
Is money just a medium?
Is it a tool?
Like thinking about how it's affected and then, you know,
think about how we were raised around money,
which affects a lot of our life.
Yay, more things we can blame our parents for.
But we have to work through, work through things.
I actually just, in my opening story, I shared, like,
my parents, I thought I was learning a really good habit.
Work hard, sacrifice.
But when you think in terms of like living in,
having a mindset of having an abundance,
then those things actually aren't in the formula
because today I don't know if I can say I'm working hard,
yet I'm making more money in a month
than I did used to working a whole year.
And I feel like I was working harder back then.
So I think really, uh, that
first step is like the psychology of like understanding what your beliefs are. And then
realizing that most of us don't get good beliefs from our parents. We have to work through
those. Um, and then also like the, uh, internal locus of control versus external locus of
control. These are fancy words of saying like, how much of your life do you feel like is
in your control and how much do you feel like is in your control?
And how much do you feel like does life happen to you or does life happen because of you?
Now understanding that life 100% can't be in our control, but this is really just more of a mindset of how you look at things.
Because if you feel like there's always external things happening to you that like you you can't make more money because your boss is jerk.
You know, we're about to change presidents here because of the new president,
you feel like they're going to oppress you or the current president that was.
You feel like you couldn't be successful because of who was in office last four
years. Like all these, like there's infinite amount of excuses.
You can blame the external circumstance.
And so this is typically a thing that we define.
This is how poor people think.
And again, poor people, I'm just talking
about a way of thinking.
It actually has nothing to do with money.
It's just a thought process.
And same thing with thinking.
When I say a rich person, I'm actually
not talking about their money.
I'm talking about the way they think.
So the way you think affects everything.
What your beliefs are affects everything.
Because I believe once you lock in,
have awareness of what your beliefs are, and
you work on trying to change your habits and beliefs, the tactics become really easy.
Right. Right. That's awesome.
So for my psychologist now, Dr.
Brad, I want to take some things that Adrian said and get your take on it or have you
explain it to us. So the latter part of what you just said, Adrian,
so it's thinking like a rich person
thinking like a poor person.
Dr. Bratt, can you give us some examples of that?
Like this is how a poor person is thinking
whether it's a scenario or example or whatever.
And then this is how a rich person thinks
through that same thought process or scenario.
Yeah, so I've done research
on thousands of multimillionaires
and looking for these patterns.
So giving them tests on locus of control,
giving them tests on their belief,
their specific beliefs around money.
And so we have found very, very clear patterns here.
And the first one that Adrian spoke about,
which I think is so, so important is that locus of control.
So taking personal responsibility
for as much as you possibly can,
turns out to be the most effective mindset across the board
when it comes to well income, net worth,
success in school, success in relationships
across the board.
That is the mindset you want to embody.
So always be looking to take more responsibility
in your life.
Like if you walk in the door, your wife's grouchy at you, it's real easy to blame her, you know, because I'm great.
I'm out here hustling. I love her. I take care of whatever. You know, why is she so irritated at me?
Okay, that's great. You can blame her the rest of your life and be unhappy the rest of your life.
Or you can say, well, okay, so what is it that I can do?
You know, like think about it. Have I been really expressing to her how much I appreciate her?
Can I take some of that action?
So by the way, that is the hack
to so much happiness and joy and success in life.
The other one we found are specific beliefs around money.
And these are things like, and we found categories.
So Adrian talked about this a little bit.
He said, if you have a negative association with money,
well, I grew up in a family where we did.
Like, we looked at rich people as being greedy, selfish.
The only way to get rich is you got
to take advantage of other people.
Like, and we call that money avoidance in the research.
And by the way, that belief set is subconscious for many of us.
We inherit it.
You know?
And by the way, you can then find examples
of greedy, rich people who are horrible human beings. It's not like there's you can then find examples of greedy rich people who are
horrible human beings. It's not like there's not a lack of examples of that. There absolutely
are plenty, but it's only part of the story. There are also rich people, and I hope everyone
listening to this becomes rich and does great things in the world, who cure diseases, who
donate their fortunes to making the world a better place, who are actually really, really
good people
These are most of the people I've met by the way
I've most poor people I meet are really good people and most rich people tend to be really good people at least in my
experience
That mindset if you're not aware of it, it will knock you down. It will keep you down
You'll have a confirmation bias where you're screening out all
Information like if I tell you, for example, that some billionaire
is donating 97% of their wealth,
that money avoidance mindset will say,
yeah, yeah, but they're doing it for these nefarious reasons.
And it's like, whoa, whoa, whoa, I just told you
they're giving away 97% of their wealth.
And so you gotta be aware of that.
You gotta be aware.
And so the other thing I'll say,
and to wrap this up, is an open-mindedness.
So one of the things that's really associated with success,
a growth mindset, a rich mindset,
is being open to new experiences
and open to new information.
And so always being curious.
So, you know, Adrian likes to joke that I'm educated.
I grew up lower incomes.
I always feel like I'm sort of faking in that environment,
the educated environment.
But one of the things I've learned along the way
is the more that I have studied in psychology,
so the more I realize how much I don't know.
It's like, I feel like I don't,
I was way more confident about what I knew
before I got a doctorate.
And I think that's sort of the mindset you need to have
is don't be so cocky, don't be so self-assured
that you got it all figured out.
Because even for us, even for me,
when it comes to psychology and money,
I feel like I know about this much, you know?
I know a little bit, I know a quarter's worth
when the world is just so expansive
and there's so much more to learn.
So always be curious because what you're getting,
what you're getting in life right now
because of what you know and probably what you're getting in life right now because of what you know
and probably what you don't know.
And so that curiosity is so incredibly important
if you wanna level up.
Totally agree, totally agree.
One of my pillars is decision-making, right?
And I say our days are built of decisions
and people talk about, well, what about choices?
Well, choices are external, right?
Like I've got a choice to talk to Adrian or Brad, right?
I can't control that.
Those are the choices that I have.
The decision is who am I gonna talk to, right?
So I'd love to talk to you about the importance
of decisions and I'll start with Dr. Brad.
Like more importantly, from a financial perspective
How important or not important are?
Emotions in making financial decisions. I know your answer because I follow you and I know where you're gonna say But I think it's important for the listeners and viewers to understand
Emotions when we talk about financial decisions
Yeah, so I my conclusion is that we are absolutely wired to be totally self-destructive when
it comes to money.
And I've traced it all the way back to our prehistoric days of living in small little
tribes of people.
And if you want to understand why you've messed up around money, ask yourself what a cave person would do
because that's how we've spent most of our time on earth.
And so for example, crypto is hot, baby.
It's back, okay?
Now I've been alive long enough to see people lose
all their money like several times in crypto,
but it's back and it's hot, okay?
And what's gonna happen if it hasn't happened already,
there's gonna be something in the back of your mind,
because you're seeing all these people
making money on crypto,
and I'm not sure how many actually are,
but they're all over social media, right?
And so what that does to your brain,
the tribal brain, it says,
oh no, the tribe's running in this direction.
I need to go with them.
And it's that sense of fear.
It's fear that I'm missing out.
It's fear that I'm gonna get destroyed,
whether it's people selling in the market
or buying when it comes to investing.
And so if you feel like everyone around you
is getting richer faster than you,
if you see people running for a certain shiny new object,
it is gonna be so difficult for you to not go with the herd
because this is baked into your DNA.
Your ancestors, if everyone, imagine a tribe
of 150 people back in cave mandate,
they all get up and they all run north.
You're sitting there, guess what happened
to the people who just sat there?
They got picked off by the saber-tooth tiger
because there's a reason everyone's running over there
and it's life or death.
That wiring is inside of us.
And so when we see something, even though it's not life
or death, it feels that way.
We have an animal brain.
And so it's really difficult for people
to stick with a financial plan, for example.
They have actually done studies, and dead investors
outperform living investors.
So wrap your head around that.
Talk about lack of emotion.
Well, if you're dead, you're not feeling any emotion,
and you're not making any trades in your account.
You do better than people who are alive
because people who are alive get sucked into,
I need to get rich fast or social media, for example,
seeing people with outward displays of wealth.
So this is one of the things that we've actually found
is that statistically speaking,
most self-made billionaires describe themselves as frugal. You know, they're not the ones that we've actually found is that, statistically speaking, most self-made billionaires describe themselves as frugal.
They're not the ones that are flashing the brand new cars.
They're not the ones in the middle class home
with two brand new cars out front.
Those people are always going to be middle class, by the way.
Studies show that the people who become wealthy
are money vigilant.
So we talked about those beliefs.
They believe it's important to save for a rainy day. They're sort of nervous about the future. They're taking chips off the table.
They have a vision of the future that they want to invest in. They're not doing what we're wired
to do, which is consume everything right now. The whole concept of saving goes against our wiring,
let alone not sharing it all with the tribe. This is another huge thing from my socioeconomic background.
If anyone got any money, you better share it.
Like what's wrong with you?
You know?
And so it kind of goes against that lower income tribe too
for you to even be setting money aside.
It's like, you're saving 20% of your income.
Don't you know your sister's about to lose her house?
It's like, what are you doing?
And it's like, whoa, whoa, whoa, I love my sister.
But by the way, it's just an example, my sister's doing okay.
But it's like, I got plenty of cousins who aren't
and it's like, there's tons of pressure there.
So the question you gotta ask yourself is,
how can I save and invest for my future?
Which by the way, is gonna put you in a better position
to help out the people you love, frankly,
and not fall into that.
So for me, so much of our struggles with money
can directly be related to our emotional brain
and that tribal sort of instinct that we have.
Yeah, that's amazing.
And I feel that a hundred percent the same way that you do,
which is why I purposely asked you that question
because I knew where you were gonna go.
So now Adrian, for you, same thing for the entrepreneur,
the solopreneur, the person that, you know, they're building a brand digitally and socially.
How important is decision making for that person?
Decision making, I think, because we're emotional creatures when it comes to investing and money.
I don't believe that anyone has the stomach to consciously invest and win.
So the decision is almost one of the most difficult to say,
because we can't see into the future 30 years,
trying to wrap our minds around time
is always so tough to do.
When we're having a great time,
moments are fleeting, when we're bored,
time seems long, and now we're trying to look, what moments are fleeting, when we're bored, time seems long.
And now we're trying to look, what does my life look like when I'm 65 or whatever age?
And so to think, I need to put money in right now, money that is tangible that I could go
spend, make that decision every day or every month consciously to then say, and I'm not
going to touch this money and it's going to be there in 30 years.
I think that that is so hard of a decision to make.
And I think that's why you need to make the decision to invest one time versus consciously
every day or every single month.
And what I mean by one time, this is one decision you have to make and really not think about
is you set up a decision to say, I'm going to invest a percentage or a dollar amount
every single month.
And that's what we call in finance, dollar cost averaging
into the stock market, for example,
into like a target date fund.
And then that is automatic, it's passive.
And then you don't think about the decision.
Because I think the problem is when you think
about the decision and you're looking at the stock market and it's high or low, our emotions come into play.
Well, if it's high, you might say, you know what?
It's a little too expensive.
I'm going to wait till it dips down.
And then if it's crashing, you're like, you know what?
How low is this thing going to go?
I'm just going to hold back.
And so you don't get into the game.
So you just got to make that decision actually one time.
If anything, I'm oversimplifying, but how easy, if you want to be a millionaire
and have money work for you, you just got to make the decision once.
You set up the account, you pick your number of how much you want to dollar cost average
and you set it and forget it.
And that one decision could literally make you a millionaire depending on that value
and how long you're going to be investing for.
If you try to make it an active decision, I think you lose.
Totally agree.
And I love the fact that you said that too, because, you know,
as I was talking with, with my kids and we were talking about
a million dollars, right?
And so, you know, Brad, Adrian already called you and I old,
right? But for you and I, when we were younger, a million dollars
was a lot of money, right?
I would argue today, a million dollars isn't that much.
It's still a good amount of money,
but I don't think it's a significant amount anymore.
So much so that I truly believe that with the right plan
and more importantly, the right strategy
and the right financial acumen and awareness that you have,
you should be able to make a million dollars a year, right? Because there are people that make a
million dollars a month. There are businesses that make a million dollars a day, right? And I'm
talking new money, not not rolled over revenue. I'm talking new revenue. And so I'd love both of your
new revenue. And so I'd love both of your feedback or opinion on that. Like one, what does a million dollars mean today? And then what are things people can do
to further Adrian's point to set that parameter to make that a realization, not
just a dream? Well I'll share, this is my fifth year of making over a million
dollars in a year. And I think that the things that changed from when I was making my first job
paid $27,000 a year and I worked on like my stuff, most of my money comes from
the internet, all of my money comes from the internet and I needed something
that could scale without my time.
And I really think a normal job usually doesn't offer that.
You have to have some equity into something or you have to be in sales and you have to be crushing
it. But the internet is just a great avenue. There's so many opportunities where you can
work on something once and it can scale. You can build leverage. So social media can leverage.
And having an email newsletter, like I have
50,000 people on my email newsletter and with the click of a button, I can, 50,000
people can see my offer and then that, you know, percentage of them buy and
thousands of dollars can appear. I think that it's like understanding either
leverage or things at scale that you can really make over seven figures. I never thought I'd be in this position, especially when I was making minimal wage after graduating.
I think that no matter what you're doing, momentum I think carries forward. And so like it
compounds in a way that's hard to fathom, but this is where I feel like working hard and sacrifice
were things I did at the beginning and now I just have this momentum that keeps carrying.
things I did at the beginning and now I just had this momentum that keeps carrying.
Um, but I think the Avenue platform, one of our chapters in our book is, um, about
how, how we make money and analyzing it. If, if you're in the right game, we use a metaphor that how you make money is a
game, how, and it's kind of like, are you playing the right game?
Do you know the rules?
Uh, and do you know, do you know like how, how, how long you need to play
this game in order to get rich?
And so when I was making 27,000 dollars a year, there was only one person in the entire
call center that I was working at that made six figures.
It was a manager, and the manager had been there for 14 years.
So that to me is like the rules of the game.
If I want to make six figures at this call center, I probably need to work 10 years here
and be on time and slowly start increasing my income.
So, some people are in scenarios like this, but they never really map it out.
When I learned the answers of how the rules of the game of this call center is to make six figures,
I was like, wow, I'm in the wrong game. I need to find a different game to play.
Some people have resistance to changing the game they're in, aka changing jaws, because they have like, it's like lost opportunity cost of like,
well, I went to college for this major, or I've already been with this company for six,
seven years. Like, what happens to all this time I put in? When reality is,
if you are unemotional, you just take a look at the rules. Like, you know what? If my goal is to,
you know, have financial freedom or make more money, then I really need to
change the game.
And I think if your emotions are wrapped up in your identity of your job, this is what
makes it really tough.
I feel like when I was a full-time minimalist, I got to really practice this idea of detaching
my identity to consumerism or even my job and my income.
And I think that's a great practice of like,
that's really challenging for Americans
because we're constantly marketed that the more stuff we have,
the better it is.
We need the fanciest upgrade.
Like our identity is marketed that it's wrapped up into what we own,
the car we drive and our house.
And I think it's just like,
I'm not telling everyone you need to live in a van like I did,
but I do encourage you to explore what your identity could look like if it,
if it wasn't defined by your job or any of the stuff you own.
Cause I think that's a great position that will allow you to make decisions for
yourself that are, that could be better for your life. Um,
because you're not attaching it to,
to something that really has nothing to be part of you.
Amen.
Brad, your thoughts on a million dollars.
Yeah, so I would say that a million dollars goes fast
if you're spending it.
And if you look at a million dollars,
though, as an asset that's going to spin off cash for you,
that's when it starts to look really good.
And so we talk about in our book, the 4% rule,
which is essentially how much money do I need to set aside
to have freedom.
And so one of the things that we define in the book is,
what is rich?
It is owning your time.
Owning your time.
And by the way, so as a psychologist,
I've read all the studies on owning stuff.
And it turns out that the stuff
doesn't really make you happier.
I mean, I think we're all here to like have a good experience in life,
you know, to be around the ones we love, to have happiness, have joy, help other
people have that experience and stuff just doesn't do it. And so if you're
addicted to stuff, I worry about you because what I have found is that when
young people come to me and say, hey Dr Dr. Brad, I want to become rich.
And I say, well, why?
And it's like, well, I want to get a Lamborghini.
I'm giving sort of the extreme example here.
I want a Rolex, I want a Lamborghini,
I want a mansion with a pool.
I start to get a little bit concerned about that,
to be honest.
And I understand why we're attracted to that stuff,
but unless that young guy, young woman
sort of shifts their mindset a little bit,
I know what's gonna happen
because I see it happen all the time.
They're gonna get a six figure job, incredible.
And then they're gonna go lease a Mercedes
and then they're gonna go get
the most expensive apartment they can get.
They're gonna get the best stuff they can get.
They're gonna get a new wardrobe.
And people can stay stuck in that cycle
of not creating any wealth for a very long time
because they got the wrong focus.
And so we're trying to reorient people to owning your time.
And so that's where a million dollars
spinning off 40,000 a year for you.
It's like, well, how much more of your time
can you own by doing that?
And I'll also say this,
I believe that everyone can become a millionaire.
And by the way, without any fancy hacks, quite frankly,
like I'm in it for the hacks too, right?
I want to increase my income, et cetera.
I'm a multimillionaire now because,
I'm a multimillionaire now because of what
I'm about to tell you.
And I became a millionaire working in a public school,
as a psychologist in Hawaii.
And I became a millionaire by doing this one thing.
When a dollar comes into your life,
you save and invest a percentage of that
for your financial freedom.
And so I've run the numbers on this too.
$5 a day invested at average market returns.
So you don't even have to do anything crazy with investing
is a million dollars in just 42 years.
And I say just 42 years,
and I know you're saying 42 years, that's forever.
And so I always say, well, then invest $6 a day, get there faster.
And obviously you wanna level up,
but I truly believe that everyone
could absolutely be a millionaire.
Just by doing that, that's how the math works.
But to your other point,
let's say that you're making 100,000
and you really wanna make a million a year, right?
And so how do you do that?
Well, as Adrian said, are you playing the right game?
Because you might not be playing the right game
and you might say, well, how do I play that new game?
Well, this is where you have to look
at almost going to another tribe.
Okay, so now I'm back to my tribal metaphor here.
So I grew up in a lower income tribe
and we all did things a certain way.
Nobody had a 401k, nobody was doing that.
And you know, money comes into your life, you spend it.
Not on lavish things.
Whatever, it's gone.
That was my tribe.
When I wanted to become a millionaire,
I had to learn it was almost like going to a new country.
It's like, these people trust the stock market?
Are you kidding me?
Isn't that a bunch of greedy bankers taking all our money,
keeping us poor people suppressed
for my entire family?
I have to put my trust into them?
Well, guess what? That's what rich people do. Rich people have financial family. I have to put my trust into them. Well, guess what?
That's what rich people do.
Rich people have financial advisors, they have CPAs,
and you have to overcome all these mental blocks
because it's like this tribe is doing things
very, very differently.
And so that's what I think you need to do
is keep looking for, well, what is that tribe
that's making a million a year?
What are they doing?
Or making a million a month, what are they doing?
And then you have to, what you got to do is study them.
Study their mindsets, their habits, what are they doing?
How are they looking at the world?
What sort of businesses are they in?
Because what I have discovered is if you decide
what it is you want, and you can find some models
on people who've gotten it, it's a very simple path.
You just replicate it.
It's like nobody's out here doing magic.
Maybe there's a couple people who are. But most of it, you can replicate it. When I decided to be a psychologist, it's like, oh, how do people do it? Oh, well, they do this
and this and this. Okay. And the first time I tried to get into graduate school, I wasn't accepted.
And I'm like, okay, well, what do I got to do the next time to get accepted? It's like,
if you decide you want it and you're willing to put in the effort, you
can absolutely have it, but understand this other people have achieved these
things, you just need to figure out the formula and replicate it.
Love it.
Absolutely love it.
Adrian, Dr.
Brad, you both have been so amazing with your time today.
And this was a straight financial master class.
And so I applaud you both
for for the work that you're doing in the communities that you're a part of
and more importantly and selfishly for the community here at Mick Unplugged so
definitely appreciate the work that you're doing so where can people find
and follow you and I will make sure in the show notes and descriptions we have
links to the book and everything as well too.
Awesome.
Yeah, our book, Start Thinking Rich,
is available everywhere you get books.
But as a way we can say thank you for having us
enter your audience, we do have a place
that can get extra bonuses, resources, tools,
and worksheets.
Also a really amazing community.
We just did a, we have a monthly mastermind
that we just did where we kind of go over
the same financial process my wife and I do that kind of help us keep our finances in touch, a pulse.
We just do it once a month and that's how we manage all of our wealth.
The funny thing is I remember when I asked Brad this, I was like, do rich people budget?
And he's like, the truth is rich people don't budget, but we do plan.
So it's kind of one of the things that we bake into our community. So that resources and more is at startthinkingrich.com
slash unplugged.
And that's a special link just for your audience here
to get it.
Otherwise you can get the book everywhere.
And I'm on social media.
You can look me up at Adrian Brambila
and then that Dr. Bad Clowns as well.
We're on all the platforms.
Good stuff.
When is the next robot competition?
Next time you're in Austin, let's break it down.
Hey, I'm there. You know, I'm close to Austin with my oldest son, so I will definitely be out there.
Epic.
Awesome. Dr. Brad, any final words of wisdom for the group?
You know, I feel like the biggest thing is to just realize that you can have everything you want to have
And if they can do it you can do it. And so if you can just flip that switch
Can have anything you want in life. I'm convinced and I believe it totally agree totally agree again
Thank you both for taking time for the listeners and viewers
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