Mick Unplugged - Ricky Sapp | Dream Big, Live Big: A Journey from NFL Star to Motivational Powerhouse

Episode Date: August 24, 2024

In this inspiring episode, Mick Hunt sits down with Ricky Sapp to explore his journey from a small town in South Carolina to the NFL and, ultimately, to his current role as a motivational speaker and philanthropist. Ricky discusses the importance of hard work, mentorship, and healthy competition, drawing from his experiences on and off the field. He shares how his passion for helping others led to the creation of the Ricky Sapp Foundation and how his motto, "Dream Big, Live Big," influences his life and work. Ricky also emphasizes the need for love and compassion in today's world, especially in teaching the next generation.Ricky Sapp's Background:Grew up in Bamberg, South Carolina, with a passion for football ignited by early experiences and community support.He became a high school All-American, Clemson University star and 5th-round NFL draft pick.Transitioned from a successful football career to becoming a motivational speaker and philanthropist.Defining Moments:Ricky shares how his work ethic, instilled by watching his parents, shaped his approach to life and sports.He discusses the critical role of healthy competition and how it can be a force for positive growth.His transition to motivational speaking was influenced by a chance invitation to speak at a high school, which led to his current passion for inspiring others.Discussion Topics:The influence of his upbringing on his work ethic and dreams, including the pivotal moment of seeing South Carolina State Bulldog Stadium.His relationship with Gaines Adams exemplifies the importance of mentorship during his time at Clemson.The role of competition and how it drives personal and professional growth.His journey into motivational speaking began unexpectedly after his NFL career.The Ricky Sapp Foundation's creation and goals focus on giving back to the community, especially children.His motto, "Dream Big, Live Big," guides his daily life and how others can adopt this mindset.Key Quotes:"If I got air in my lungs and breathing, I can do something big.""Whatever you are passionate about, you have to chase it. Your passion will lead you to your purpose.""We need love. Love would heal this world. I truly believe that."Next Steps:Explore: Learn more about Ricky Sapp and his work by visiting the Ricky Sapp Foundation and following him on social media.Reflect: Consider how you can apply the principles of hard work, mentorship, and competition in your own life.Engage: Support Ricky's foundation and contribute to the community initiatives he leads.Connect & Discover:LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/rickynsappInstagram: instagram.com/rsappfoundation/?hl=enWebsite: www.therickysappfoundation.comYoutube: @TheDancingMotivationalSpeaker ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Are you ready to change your habits, sculpt your destiny, and light up your path to greatness? Welcome to the epicenter of transformation. This is Mic Unplugged. We'll help you identify your because, so you can create a routine that's not just productive, but powerful. You'll embrace the art of evolution, adapt strategies to stay ahead of the game, and take a step toward the extraordinary. So let's unleash your potential. Now, here's Mick. Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to another exciting episode. And today, we are honored to have a true legend. We're talking about former NFL player,

Clemson University icon, dynamic motivational speaker, and elite sports performance trainer. His foundation transformed lives by supporting kids and family, and his powerful motto, Dream Big, Live Big, ignites inspiration across the world. His dedication, passion, and relentless drive make him a source of hope and motivation please join me in welcoming bamberg's finest the unstoppable and inspirational mr ricky sap ricky how you doing today brother hey man i gotta get you to be my hype man when i go speak man hey man i appreciate you man and and thank you for man. And thank you for having me, man. Thank you for having me.

You know, I left out there that you wanted to be a Tar Heel. So we'll skip through that. Oh, please don't say that, man. I'm orange. I got orange blood in these games now. That's it. So, Rick, man, one of the things I love, and I've been a huge fan of yours forever. I mean, you know, I was telling you offline. I'm from Easley.

Just moved back to Easley, which is five minutes down 123 from where you're at. Bro, I started following you on LinkedIn probably three, four years, no, before COVID. And your Monday motivation and Ricky Sapp dancing.

Like I'm telling everybody, number one, follow Ricky on all social platforms because if you just need happiness in your life, forget everything else. Ricky's a huge source of happiness, man. So I just wanted to applaud you for that. Man, I appreciate that, man. Thank you, man. Thank you so much. Yeah, man. So let's talk about Ricky Sapp's journey from Bamberg to Clemson to fifth round

drafted. Like it doesn't happen, right? Like that's, that's not a path that everybody can say, oh, I want to go do. And I know it took work, right? So growing up in Bamberg, like, where did you see yourself and what drove you to get to where you are today, brother? My mom and dad worked at the same place in Orangeburg, South Carolina, at Husker Barna. Well, you know, South Carolina State Bulldog Stadium is in Orangeburg. One day my mom was driving to go pick up my dad. And I was a young kid, man. I was going with her, and she drove by South Carolina State Bulldog Stadium. I've never seen anything

like that. The only stadium I've ever seen was, you know, my high school stadium, Bamber Air High School. When I saw the stadium, man, when I tell you it lit something in me, that's where I started to dream big. I was like, mom, what the heck is that? You know, like, what is that? And she told me what it was, and when she saw that excitement, she would take me by it every time I rode with her. So that was kind of started me to like open up to big things and dream big. Then I saw, you know, my uncle and cousin playing football. And then being in Bamber, Bamber is an amazing sports town. It's a small town, prideful, all about working hard.

So that kind of started me, man, into believing that I can go do something big, man. And when I got into playing football, I told my mom and dad, I said, look, you know, I'm going to go play in the NFL. And my mom and dad didn't say nothing. They said, they just smiled and said, okay. You know, so that's what kind of started me on this journey. I love it, man. So high school, all American, you know, we can talk NIL now because it's real. So why Clemson, man? Like, how much more money did they give you than North Carolina?

That's what I'm asking. So, you know, Clemson had a big tradition on defense. So I'm sure that that was a lot, right? Daquan Bowers was there. Oh, yeah. What got Ricky to Clemson? Man, I grew up a Florida State fan. But during my recruiting process, I came to Clemson.

The guy before me at Bamberg, he was getting recruited, so he brought me to a game in Clemson. But then when I saw I was getting recruited, of course, I was like, all right, I'm going to go to Clemson, go to Carolina. And then, well, that's school in Columbia. We can't call it Carolina. But I came to Clemson, man, and every time I came back, I kept telling my coaches and parents.

I was like, man, I feel something when I go there. I don't know what it is, but it's something. So every time I would come, I would say, hey, man, I want to go back. I want to go back. Something special there. So eventually, man, I just fell in love with the place. It came down to here, Florida State, Georgia, and I said, man, I'm going to go to Clemson.

If I had to do it again, I'd pick Clemson again, man. I really would. I'm telling you, especially now with that Ipte NIL, you probably would. Well, it's something in the hills over here in Clemson, man. It's something. You should have stayed right here. It's something in the hills, man. Yes, sir.

UNC, the real Carolina is where I went. Oh, man. That's a shame they can't beat this team over here in South Carolina, man. We'll talk later. We'll talk later so then freshman year at Clemson I'm sure right for most people that don't understand being the big dog I mean and you were the big big dog right like high school all-american right yeah then getting the Clemson your freshman year and you realize these are almost like grown men like what was that like for you your freshman year, you realize these are almost like grown men. Like, what was that like for you, your freshman year? Like, those first three to four weeks of, wow, I'm here.

Man, seeing Gaines Adams, God bless his soul, and Anthony Waters, and Tremaine Billy, and man, all those guys, man. I was like, I did not expect these guys to be, you know, like you said, grown men. And I heard of Gaines and heard how good he was. But to come in and see that, man, it was wild. But they put me under their wings, man, of Gaines and heard how good he was but to come in and see that man it was it was wild but they put me under their wings man especially Gaines and it was an amazing first year to to play behind him and watch him play and to see how he did things man it was it was truly amazing yes sir yes sir I tell people in life mentorship is truly important right like because you know Les Brown always taught me this. People will tell

you experience is the best teacher. Well, if you're experienced losing, then you're just a loser, right? To me, it's wisdom that's the best teacher. And so I know someone like Gaines had to give you so much wisdom so that when it was your time, you were like steps ahead of everyone because you had wisdom. Like, what would you say to people as far as mentorship and the importance of mentorship oh man i'll tell you this it's so important to find people that have just like you said that have been through things and that has done things that you want to do or doing things now you want to do so that's that's so important i tell you this i always tell kids this winners win losers lose if you want to i think if you want to win you gotta got to be around winners.

So having a mentor is so powerful, man. And I didn't learn that until I got to Clemson and even got older that it was important to have one. Gaines didn't have to mentor me, man. He didn't. He was on his way out. He literally brought me in and, you know, he literally coached me along the way and was telling me what to do, not to do. How to go about doing things daily with football and off of the football field. So mentorship is important, man.

Yeah. You know, in South Carolina, we're hard workers, right? Like, that's what we believe in. Like, that's anyone that's from this state, I promise you, probably outworks everybody, right? Oh, yeah. Shout out to everybody in South Carolina, right? Facts. 100%.

Right. Talk about that. Right. Your work ethic is so impeccable. So for you going from freshman to now you're starting and then ultimately getting drafted in the NFL, it doesn't happen without a solid work ethic. So I'd love to hear your story on that, because it's something you're a kid, you don't know, man. You're like, man, we don't got enough. We need more. But my mom and dad, and I had way more than I needed. But when you're a kid, you just don't know. My mom and dad went to work, rain, sleep, or snow. They didn't complain. They didn't tell them where to work. They went to work, man.

And, you know, kids don't listen to nothing. But everything we see, everything we see, we go do it without even thinking about it so that's where my hard work kind of came from and then of course you know getting around my cousin and uncle and then getting around guys you know at bamberg in high school and starting to understand that man i gotta work man i gotta work and then you know sports teaches you how to compete how to work hard and how to be disciplined so along my journey man i've just learned that man i gotta i gotta work i gotta I got to work one day at a time. That's it. You brought up something else, too, that I think is relevant, not only in sports, but in business and in life, and that's competing. And, you know, I get a little disappointed,

right? Like, my family will tell you I'm the biggest competitor that they know. Like, my whole family is competitive. Again, it's a South Carolina thing, right? But I feel like kids today, and not even kids, but just people today don't like competing. Like, they're okay being average, and they're okay being a part of the group. And as long as the group is doing the thing, they're okay doing the thing.

But, man, like, that competing and striving to be the best, I think is something that's truly needed in this world. And I've heard you speak about that, too. Well, I just said, yeah, I just spoke with him a couple days ago, man. You know, I truly think that God intended for us to, you know, be competitive and compete, but to compete in the right

way. And this is what I mean. All of us got gifts. All of us know what we're good at. When I played football, I know one of my gifts was I had a fast get-off. So I knew if I was confident in that and worked on that, that I was going, I know one of my gifts was I had a fast get off. I knew if I was confident in that and worked on that, that I was going to beat Joe behind eventually. Knowing what I was good at.

Healthy competition, man. Oftentimes today, people don't want to compete. If they do compete, they're going to do it the wrong way. They're going to try and harm you. They're going to try and cut corners. Instead of just saying, all right, I know what I'm good at. Let's go to war. Let's go to war. Let's go to war.

I'm going to use my gift and I'm going to sharpen it. I'm going to work it and eventually I'm going to get you. So competition is amazing and it brings the best out of us when we do it the right way.

I totally love that, man. Like one of, one of my really good friends and mentor, Carl Esther Crumpler, he was on the podcast and we were talking about how iron sharpens iron, right?

It's not iron polishes iron. It's really about sharpening iron, right? Like what does Ricky feel about that? Right. Because to really compete, to really get better, there's gotta be some friction. There's gotta be some heat. There's gotta be some sparks, but it's all about getting better. Yes. So getting around, like I said earlier, getting around people that kind of does the same thing you do. Most people are run from competition. So I'll give you an example, man. I'm a huge fan of Les Brown and Eric Thomas and all those guys. And when I watch them, I'm thinking to myself, all right, man, what can I take from this? How can I get better? And I just say this, man. And I never knew what I was going to say this. Man, when I got into the motivational speaking world,

Eric Thomas was like one of the first guys. And he's my number one guy. I love him. I love him. As of now, as I'm watching him and thinking about this whole motivational speaking thing, I'm thinking, how can I go take his spot the right way? How can I take his spot?

Oh, you're getting me excited. How can I take his spot the right way? Let's go. But understanding and respecting him, like, man, he's a guy. But that don't mean I can't get around him. That don't mean I can't learn from him. Right. But if he was standing here today, I would say, hey, man, you my guy.

I love you. But I'm coming for your spot, and I'm coming for your spot the right way. Dude, like, literally, I'm going to get you on a call with me and Les because we have that type of conversation and drive and push with each other all the time. He's like, hey, I didn't order an Uber. Right. Because he knows I'm coming from like, don't worry, I am the Uber. Right. Like I'll be there in a minute. I'll be there in a minute. So totally get that, man. So speaking of your motivational speaking, how did your journey from high school, college, NFL? How did that influence your approach to motivational speaking? Man, I took speech classes growing up. My mom used to have to tell me to take a deep

breath and then talk. I talked really fast when I was young. Still do it sometimes. And I was studying. I hated public speaking at Clemson. I never thought about being a motivational speaker. Never, ever. When I transitioned out of the NFL, I went to this high school called North Mary Beach High School where a guy asked me to come speak. Never spoke in my life. He asked me and the Quam Bowers to come speak.

And I was like, man, I don't know, what do I do? So I took stuff from Ray Lewis and Brian Dawkins and some other guys. Took a quote from J.J. Watt. Went and spoke. And they loved it.

It was like, man, we love it. It's awesome. You should be a motivational speaker. I didn't think nothing of it. Long story short, after that, I started speaking, you know, randomly. And then people, this lady came up to me one day and said, hey, we lost our speaker. Would you speak? After that, man, I just, I started speaking.

And then that's when God was like, hey, you're supposed to be a motivational speaker. I'm like, what? So I asked God, I said, well, what's the message? What do I tell people? So that's kind of how I got into motivational speaking, man. Never thought, what's the message? What do I tell people? So that's kind of how I got into motivation speaking, man. Never thought I'd be doing it. Never thought I'd be doing it. Hey, but you're making a tremendous impact. I mean, like I said, your Monday motivations, whether you were dancing in the house or dancing on the beach, dancing in front of

freaking Smoothie King. You got the young ones dancing with you. I love it, man. Like, truly, everybody should be following Ricky. And one of the things I want to highlight, and it's something that's dear to me as well, is your foundation, man. Like, what inspired you to create the Ricky Sapp Foundation? Out of my friends, man, and just my whole group of friends and family,

I was always one of the ones that just loved to give, man. You know, out of your circle, everybody's different. Me, I'm going to tell you the good and bad about me as a friend. I'm not going to show up a lot because I'm an introvert, extrovert. You know, I want to, you know, I'd rather be alone and chilling. Right.

But if they need to show off my back, I give it to them. And I was always a giver, man. So when I got drafted in 2010, you know, my financial advisor, he said, look, man, you know, let's start a foundation, man. That makes sense for you. And I said, let's do it. So we started the Ricky Sapp Foundation, of course, with the model Dream Big Live Big. We started in 2010 and, you know, had one thought in mind. That was just give back to my community.

At the time, I didn't know that I was supposed to be doing motivational speaking and working with kids. I didn't know. I just wanted to play football. So it all kind of makes sense that I was supposed to have that foundation and supposed to be giving back and working with kids. I love it, man. What are some of the big goals or big initiatives

that you guys have coming up this year and into next year at the foundation? Yeah. So we just had the annual football cheerleading camp. Everything's free. We do book bags as well. So I kill, you know, two things in one stone. We do book bags and give out awards and all that good stuff.

So we just had that. The next thing that we have is we'll do a Thanksgiving event where we give out turkey boxes to families. And I'm not like, you know, my foundation, I don't do a hundred thousand. I go into the schools and find all the families that need it. So that's what we typically do. And then for Christmas, I should have sent you a photo for this, but I wear the Buddy the Elf costume.

And oh yeah, man, we find families that need, you know, that need gifts. And I go around and give out gifts. So that's the next two big events that we got coming up for the year okay yeah all right so i'm personally going to contribute to that and then i'm also going to challenge some listeners and viewers as well too so i'm going to have links to to ricky's foundation but i'm genuinely going to contribute because what you're doing in the foundation speaks to my heart and it's something that if i can be a part of i'm going to be be a part of. So you got me on your side, brother. That means a lot, man. Thank you. Thank you. You got it. You got it. So dream big, live big, man. How do you incorporate that into your daily life and how can others do that as well too? Getting up every day and knowing that

if I got air in my lungs and I'm breathing, then man, I can do something big, man. I can do something big because there's a reason why we are still here every day that we're here. And my motto is, with the dream big, live big, is that, man, why not dream big? You know, why not? Because if we are here, and I'm a strong believer that, you know, God gave all of us gifts. So, man, I believe that every day I wake up that I should try and strive to do something big. If that's just encouraging the kid to dream big, then hey, I did it. You know, I did it. Absolutely. Yeah, absolutely. So a lot of folks

that listen to the podcast, right? Like we really believe in going deeper than your why and getting fueled by your because because life is going to challenge. Right. Like if life were easy, if everybody could be billionaires and everybody would be billionaires. Right. But there's different obstacles and challenges that we have. So what are some tips and advice that that Ricky has for people to really be fueled by that deeper purpose or for that deeper purpose? Whatever you are passionate about, you have to chase it. You have to chase it because your passion will lead you to your purpose. I truly believe that. So I always tell people, man, if you don't know what your purpose is, then what are you passionate about? If you don't know what you're passionate about, what do you like doing?

If you don't know what you like doing, then you need to figure out, you need to try things. I told some kids here at Clemson, I said, try things, man. Go visit places. Man, try coloring. Try drawing. Try doing something. But your passion is going to guide you to your purpose. And as a 37-year-old man, man, I look back.

Before I got into this motivational speaking thing and encouraging kids, I always had passion and so much drive to encourage people, but didn't even pay attention to it. Football was all I was thinking about. So my advice to people was like, man, what are you passionate about? Chase that because that's going to lead you right into your purpose.

And then that's going to ultimately make you happy. The desires of your heart, whatever you desire in your heart, man. Chase it, chase it. That is it. That's it. So we talked about the foundation. We talked about your journey. What's new and upcoming for Ricky Sapp?

Man, you know, so I dropped my book in April and my book is called Dream Big and it's for kids first to fifth grade. I did that, man. And next for me is a second book that I will try and drop by the end of the year. And then, of course, of course, that school is getting started, man. Just ramping up and traveling around the world, man, speaking. I love it. We'll make sure that we have links to the book, obviously the foundation, all your social as well. Where do you want people to find you, follow you and wrapping this up? What's one thing you want people to just start doing right now? Love, man.

We need love. We need to love each other. You know, we've talked about competition, healthy competition, man. It's okay to compete with each other. We have to understand that even though we go disagree, we can still love each other, man. Man, Mike, I can still say, man, listen, man, even though you're a Tar Heel fan, I love you,

and you invited to my cookout. I don't care about you. You know what I'm saying? Hey, you're invited to mine, but we have a no orange policy in my house. See, I was going to say, man, you can wear some of that blue, man. That's all right. You're a better man than me.

I'm trying to get there, Rick. I'm trying to get there. One day I'll let orange be okay, but it's not right. Well, yeah, man, we need love, man. We need to love. And right now, more than ever, as adults adults we can stand up and show out and show these kids what it looks like to be adult as far as loving each other you know showing how to love not bullying each other showing how we can have conversation when we disagree on things man the

right way so more than ever man we need love this world needs love and love covers everything i really do i think love will heal this world. I truly believe that. Yeah. I couldn't have said it any better. Any better. Ladies and gentlemen, my friend Bamberg's finest, the amazing Ricky Sapp. Ricky, thank you for joining us on Mick Unplugged, brother. This means

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