Mind Pump: Raw Fitness Truth - 2327: How Prioritizing Your Fitness Makes You a Better Mom

Episode Date: May 2, 2024

The importance of making time for yourself. (1:30) The MASSIVE misconception that you must sacrifice something. (6:38) Four Ways Prioritizing Your Fitness Makes You a Better Mom #1 - Fitness i...mproves your ability to deal with stress. (8:02) #2 - Exercise is a proven anxiolytic/antidepressant. (13:35) #3 - Take some time away for sanity. (19:06) #4 - It’s pro-self-care. (22:09) The key is to train PROPERLY. Consider these metrics. (24:02) Related Links/Products Mentioned Visit Vuori Clothing for an exclusive offer for Mind Pump listeners! ** Receive 20% off your first order ** Mother’s Day Special (Fit Mom Bundle, Bikini Bundle, Fabulous 40’s Bundle, or Build Your Butt Bundle) 60% off! Code MOM60 at checkout Don't miss our Mother's Day Sale on now through May 1st! BOGO 50% off select items.  Shop Now! May Promotion: MAPS Strong | MAPS Powerlift 50% off! ** Code MAY50 at checkout ** Mind Pump # 1802: Seven Surprising Benefits Of Exercise The Key to Fitness Success is Self-Love – Mind Pump Blog Workout Because You Love Yourself Not Because You Hate Yourself – Mind Pump Blog Mind Pump # 1807: Why All Moms Deserve Time For Self-Care Mind Pump # 2072: The Best Workout For Busy Moms Mind Pump #1220: The 4 Best Sources Of Protein Mind Pump Podcast – YouTube Mind Pump Free Resources  

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Starting point is 00:01:18 of your life by becoming more fit and healthy. In other words the fit healthy version of you is the better version of you. In today's episode, we're gonna talk about how prioritizing your fitness can make you a better mom. These type of conversations sometimes make me feel old. Feel old. Well, we're all dads. Yeah, well, the truth is, I think this way a lot now.
Starting point is 00:01:42 I know we're talking about moms specifically, but I think this is parallel to being a dad. I think a lot of the same stuff we're gonna cover today about moms, I think it aligns with being a good dad and stuff like that. And literally when I think about the biggest shift in my personal journey in fitness, this has probably been it like to this type of way of thinking about health and fitness and working out.
Starting point is 00:02:08 And when I approach my workouts today, like these are the things like that we're going to talk about today. These are the things that are kind of like marinating. And to be fair, um, you know, when I train clients, and I'd love for you guys' opinion on this, I'm sure you guys saw the same thing. I would more often than not have to convince the moms to make time for themselves. Not necessarily, the dads, it wasn't typically conversation, but I had a lot of clients that
Starting point is 00:02:32 were moms where I had to have this conversation with them and it was like, because they sacrificed so much for the kids and their kids and they'd never made time for themselves. And so this was a conversation that we often had where it was like, no, no, you got to make time for yourself because this will actually, I know the most important thing in your life is your children, which is not a bad thing at all,
Starting point is 00:02:51 but prioritizing some time for your fitness will improve upon that. The time you take away from your kids, that hour, will actually give them back three hours worth of quality time because of all the benefits of fitness. Yeah, you got to fill your cup in you know, in order to be able to keep like pouring that into each one of your kids and being, you know, effective, uh, you know, you have to really take care of yourself. That's really hard. It's an easy thing to say.
Starting point is 00:03:14 It's really hard to implement because it's, you know, um, it's a noble, it's a noble thing when you think outside of yourself and you're really trying to help pour yourself into your family and, you know, build and develop, uh, the kids and, and put a lot of tension there but it's just you notice it once you really build yourself back up what kind of energy that brings life that brings back into the dynamic. This was part of my sales pitch to my female clients, particularly my mom's. I would communicate exactly this because I knew that I would need to point this out in order to get them to realize the change
Starting point is 00:03:49 in behavior they needed to make in order to achieve these goals that they were telling me. And in part of that presentation, I would tell them, it's like, you know, I bet the last 10, 20, 30 years of life, it's looked like this, you know, your, your husband, your kids, your family, work, the house, and then you, and then you. So there's a reason why you're not happy with where you're currently at. That's because you've been serving all these other people and making their lives better for so long. And that is noble, that is incredible. It's what's made you an incredible wife, mother, partner, all these things.
Starting point is 00:04:26 But you're now reached a place in your life where it's affecting your health or you know you need to make change and you do this. And what I'm gonna tell you is that you need to put yourself here. But what's great about that is all those things in your entire life that you've prioritized for so long are not gonna suffer.
Starting point is 00:04:43 You're actually gonna be a better wife. You're gonna be a to suffer. You're actually going to be a better wife. You're going to be a better mother. You're going to be better around the house. But you have to first prioritize yourself and your health. And then those things are actually going to fall right in the suit. And you're actually going to elevate all of them. But you need to first start with prioritizing yourself.
Starting point is 00:04:59 This reminds me of the best analogy I ever heard was from one of my first mentors. And he was having a conversation like this with a member and he said, you know, when you do the, you know, when you get an airplane and they tell you, here's the exits, do this, do that. And they say, when the oxygen masks come down, put one on yourself first and then put one on
Starting point is 00:05:20 your child. Now the reason why they say that is because if you pass out, you're both dead. Yeah. You're ineffective. So you got to take care of you first so that you can take care of your child. Now the reason why they say that is because if you pass out, you're both dead. You're ineffective. So you got to take care of you first so that you can take care of your kid. I thought what a great example of what we're talking about is taking care of yourself. Because think about this one, I said this in the intro, but if you compare a different
Starting point is 00:05:38 version of yourself, a fit, mobile, healthy version of you versus one that's not as fit, not as healthy, not as mobile, which one is most likely to do a better job at all the things that are important to you? Obviously the fit and healthy one. So this makes everything else better. By the way, this is not this is not like a second-class way of looking at exercise. I know a lot of people look at exercise as a way to just make them look awesome or give me abs or whatever.
Starting point is 00:06:06 The truth is what I'm saying right now, using exercise as a way to improve the quality of your life is actually the way you're supposed to look at exercise. And that is the sustainable way to look at exercise. That's the way, that's how you develop a relationship. That's how you develop a relationship with it where it's something you do for the rest of your life. It's to realize like if I do this right and I modify it based on how my life is, because we'll talk about this as well, if I do this right and apply it right, don't train too hard,
Starting point is 00:06:32 train appropriately, do the right exercises, it's going to make everything else much better. That's what exercise is. It's a tool to improve the quality of your life. Part of this challenge is that there's this massive misconception that my clients would all have that they would, that they had to sacrifice something from one of those categories because they will, I'm not gonna give up time with my kid, I'm not gonna give up time with my husband,
Starting point is 00:06:54 I can't let things fall apart at the house, I gotta make sure all our bills aren't like, and it's like, no, you don't understand. First of all, you're gonna be better in those things. Second of all, it's not nearly as time demanding as everybody makes it sound like, or it's not like this huge trade-off. You literally could be in here,
Starting point is 00:07:12 you could really dedicate two to three hours total in the whole week to your fitness and radically change your health. Especially if we pair that with good balance and nutrition and diet and sleep and all these other things Like we could radically change your health with minimal amount of time and effort Inside the gym or away from those things that you love so much and a lot of the things when it comes to nutrition stuff We incorporate with them And so it's not like this big either or or oh as something's got to give and so I got to give up something
Starting point is 00:07:43 So over here in order to make myself fit and healthy. It's like, no, those things are all gonna get enhanced. It's actually gonna take a lot less commitment and effort than you think it's gonna be, and it's only gonna make all that stuff better when you actually get to be the healthier version of you. Right, so two hours of invested time doing this will get you back four or five hours of quality time,
Starting point is 00:08:01 better productivity, et cetera. So the first thing to consider is that a fitness, when applied properly, improves your body's ability to deal with stress. Now I think stress is one way to define, I don't think it's the only way, but it's one way to kind of describe what it's like to be a parent. It's very challenging, whether you have babies who are very demanding or toddlers or teenagers, for God's sakes, we know teenagers are stressful.
Starting point is 00:08:27 When you are fit and healthy, your body is more resilient to stress, which means you're going to react differently, you're going to be able to handle more problems as they hit you, inevitably as they hit you. So you're essentially toughening yourself up. I hate to use that word because that tends to invoke an image of the wrong kind of image but it does make you more resistant, resilient, makes you stronger both literally and figuratively to handle more stress and parents who have the the best ability to handle stress tend to do the best job because raising kids is tough. What are the
Starting point is 00:09:04 physiological properties Sal that are, that, that are causing that? Is it because of the, the fact that exercise is a physical stress of the body and your ability to deal with that and overcome that and adapt that? Yeah. Like what is, what is happening? Physiological list that, that, that, like the science behind, why is it that me going in and lifting weights in a gym then makes me better
Starting point is 00:09:27 to handle getting yelled at at work or dealing with a scary thing with home? Like what is it? There's a lot of factors. Physical and psychological. There's a lot of factors. There's a psychological part which is when you feel stronger, you also feel,
Starting point is 00:09:39 when you feel physically stronger, you also tend to feel mentally stronger. The data on this is- More capable. More capable. The data on this is pretty clear, right? When you feel physically incapable, mentally you start to feel that way as well. You start to feel more vulnerable to stresses. Your body also reacts to blood sugar or insulin differently. So stress will cause blood sugar to rise. As you get stressed out, your liver will dump sugar
Starting point is 00:10:07 and you'll see a spike in it. Well, muscle's very insulin sensitive and so your body reacts. When you get a big spike in blood sugar and then a drop, that makes you feel not so good, either anxious or wired or like you're gonna fall asleep. Well, more muscle improves your body's ability to deal with it.
Starting point is 00:10:24 You also get more androgen receptors because muscles have a lot of androgen receptors. That's what testosterone attached to. Yes, women have testosterone. It's lower than men, but it's also very important. It's a key hormone in women as well. Testosterone is what they call a dopamine hormone. It makes you feel good, motivated, up, makes you feel like, okay, I can, I can kind of handle things. Um, this is why signs of low testosterone in both men and women is like low drive, low motivation, you know, I can't handle things, maybe low confidence. So it just overall makes you feel more resilient, both physiologically and psychologically.
Starting point is 00:10:59 So those stressful situations happen and energy, energy is another one. Like, you know, uh, think of a stressful situation, your kid drops their cereal all over the floor. Now imagine yourself exhausted and fatigued in that situation or energized and, you know, feeling good. Like, how are you going to react in either situation? You're more likely to react with, you know, overwhelm in the fatigued state versus the strong and-
Starting point is 00:11:24 Yeah, and I think too, I mean, people discount like what your body's giving you as feedback and what creates this sort of feedback in your, in your own thought process of so anxiety or like hyper responsive, uh, like, so, so if I'm in an anxious state, like something seems a lot more jolting to, for instance, versus if I'm like constantly training myself in physically demanding situations, you know, something like that, like something that drops or breaks, like I'm not going to be quite as, you know, aggressive in my response of like an alarming kind of a response. And I think too, like there's a lot of psychological
Starting point is 00:12:05 benefits in terms of like just doing hard things. Like if I want to reduce it down to that, you know. By the way, there's a big difference between doing hard things because you have to, or you feel like you have to. Yes. And doing hard things voluntarily. So when you go and exercise, and I know this as a trainer, if a client got sent to me because their doctor told them
Starting point is 00:12:25 they have to work out or their spouse said you better go work out, it was a very different experience than somebody who voluntarily hired me. It was always more challenging and they were far less likely to get positive long-term success. So exercising is voluntarily doing something hard and you're doing it appropriately, but you're voluntarily doing it. That strengthens you. There's also, I think, a very obvious physiological difference of just building
Starting point is 00:12:48 pure stamina right? Like a lot of times something that causes a fatiguing stressful day is as a mother or a father being at home bending over picking up toys and cleaning the house. You need the stamina to keep you going. Yeah and then you're just like oh I wore out today. I had to pick up the kid and put them in the car and get them out of the car. And I had to chase them around here. And then I had to clean this and clean it like, and that can just be exhausting and fatiguing and just simply training the body to be more resilient to stress, physical stress like that.
Starting point is 00:13:20 I would imagine that carryover into those daily activities lessens that blow. Like instead of it being something that's like, I have to put my feet up, I'm exhausted, and I'm probably short tempered now because I'm exhausted, you have that ability to extend beyond that. Totally. And you guys are talking about mood. Look, the data on this is far reaching and clear. One of the most effective, if not the most effective, if you stretch this out over time, it becomes, it clearly becomes the most effective treatment for the common forms of anxiety and common forms of depression is exercise. Exercise is exceptional at treating both those things.
Starting point is 00:13:58 They compare them, when they compare exercise against Enzyl Lytics or SSRIs or other types of medications, it does just as well in short studies. But over long studies, it actually starts to trend a little bit better. Why? Because there's no down receptor, you know, down regulation receptors. There's no side effects that are negative like you might get with some of these medications or you build tolerances or you build maybe addictions or whatever potential addictions. When you exercise, it makes your mood better. There's a lot of different explanations for this. We know the production of endorphins and catecholamines in the actual workout itself that make you feel better, but that doesn't explain the whole thing. Over time, you train,
Starting point is 00:14:41 it's almost like you're training and priming the brain to view things and to receive things in a more positive way. And again this is consistent across the board to the point where if we could bottle this and put it in a pill it would take the market by storm. Nothing would come close. Yeah like I totally understand. I was gonna ask you like how you would communicate the long-lasting. Like I'm very familiar with what's happening from a hormonal standpoint of the actual stress of the workout and how that has its positive, right?
Starting point is 00:15:11 I get that, you get that dump, that endorphin rush and like that just in itself is positive, feel good. What is it about it that 24 hours, I still feel better or good about it? What is it that's happening? Is it just because I overcame something? Yes. And that's that cycle? That's part of it. Yeah, that's part of it. And the other part of it is a healthier brain. So a healthier body. Oh, that makes sense. Yeah. So the brain is part of the body and sometimes we separate the two. So we think, oh, you know,
Starting point is 00:15:37 brain, body, two separate things. No, no, no. Your brain is part of your body. And when we're talking about the hardware, right? So we're not talking about the mind in the consciousness, we're not going to go there, but we're talking about the actual physical brain. When your body's healthy, your brain is healthy. When your body's unhealthy, the brain is also not as healthy. A healthy brain is less inflamed, has better insulin sensitivity, utilizes glucose and energy better, thinks faster, is sharper, and is less likely, far less likely to be
Starting point is 00:16:05 anxious and depressed. So, now why am I saying this? Man, let me tell you, raising kids, when you go from no kids to kids, and then you go from one kid to two kids, first off, a woman's body, a lot of people don't know this, there's a difference between men and women with this, but a mother's body becomes primed for danger. First off, women in general are far more alert to danger than men are. And that's for obvious reasons, right? They're far more vulnerable than men and they become very aware of that as they
Starting point is 00:16:34 grow up and through adolescence and teen years. So they become far more aware when women walk down the street, when they go to the store, when they do anything, they're just more aware of potential danger whereas men in particular, you know, maybe not so much. So there's that. But then when they have a child, this is well documented, they become far more vigilant because they're caring for a baby.
Starting point is 00:16:54 So sounds alert them. They don't sleep as well. In fact, you know, what are they called? Thoughts that sometimes mothers will have these thoughts in their head, intrusive thoughts. That becomes common among mothers or they'll think about all the different ways their baby could get hurt and they'll be distraught over it. This is because you're primed to look out for danger and this can cause tremendous anxiety. One of the best ways to deal with this literally, the data shows this with any types of anxiety,
Starting point is 00:17:22 but especially the common forms is exercise. And then depression. Depression, you start to see a spike in depression when people have kids, especially mothers. Why? You become isolated. It's very isolating to be up at night, you know, throughout the night with the baby or to deal with your kids, especially if you're stay at home or even if you do both and you tend to take on more of the responsibilities at home, even though you work, that can be very difficult and challenging. So, uh, and you want to be a good mom or being anxious and depressed can get in the way exercise. And I'm talking about appropriate exercise. I'm not talking about, you know, and we're in no way, shape or form, by the way,
Starting point is 00:17:56 we're talking about working out like crazy. It's appropriately applied exercise profound effects. I think that's the biggest misconception that you're gonna probably hear us continue to say this entire time is that there is this idea that you gotta really hammer the body. And I can only imagine, okay, because I don't know what it's like to have a child and to be that exhausted and to have someone depend on me 24-7 like that and potentially also take care of all the other things you alluded to. And then to think, oh man, I need to go to the gym and run on the treadmill and crush it. That does not sound like something I want to do. Just not right now when I'm already taking this abuse
Starting point is 00:18:36 in all these different angles. That does not sound appealing to me whatsoever. But if someone was to communicate to me that, listen, the idea that it's supposed to complement, enhance your life, and it's like the training does not need to look like a punishment or look like you have to crush yourself or you shouldn't leave the gym. In fact, it shouldn't look like that. Yeah, you shouldn't leave the gym feeling more exhausted. You should leave the gym feeling energized from it and feeling good afterwards and that's the appropriate dose of exercise. Totally. The next thing about this is that you know you're taking time away for yourself for some sanity. You know it's nice when you make that schedule with your spouse or partner and you go hey Mondays and Thursdays I'd like to get away for an hour and go just work out. Like
Starting point is 00:19:23 it's nice to be a little away from everything and just exercise. There's a lot of benefit to that by the way. There's a lot of benefits to doing that period without even adding the exercise. Oh yeah, just checking in with yourself. Right, right, but just going off and exercising, take that time away, you know, that's like a formula for to improve your sanity. Well I think of this as, and again this is when it's programmed properly it should be like a form of meditation and a form of like becoming unbelievably present. I mean that's one of the most rewarding parts about going to a gym and exercise or going in your in your garage if you
Starting point is 00:20:00 have that space to yourself and being alone with just your headphones or even no music if you don't like listening to music. And being alone with your body and the weights and feeling the movement and feeling the weight, feeling your muscles get tighter and it contract. Listening to good music. Being super present. And everything else melts away for that moment in time.
Starting point is 00:20:23 All the things you gotta to handle and do. And I actually think there's something to be said about because let me tell you, the first time you do that, that stuff might not melt away. You might be sitting on the bench, and you're going like, oh, I need to do this, and I need to do that. And really part of this process is training yourself
Starting point is 00:20:38 to be present, is to let that kind of melt away. This 30 minutes to an hour right now is dedicated to myself, me, my workout. And I'm- You're just stepping away for a second. Yeah, and I'm gonna train myself to be here and not there. And that exercise in itself has gotta be super powerful
Starting point is 00:20:56 and rewarding and empowering for that mom who's got so much on her plate to be able to train her body and train her mind to be like super present when she knows she's got a million things on her plate to be able to train her body and train her mind to be ultra like super present when she knows she's got a million things on her. Well, this is also been like a big sort of mission of ours to, um, you know, educate people on the fact that like lifting weights, this, this is so moldable. This is such like a, uh, like I don't think a lot of people think of lifting weights as being therapeutic or meditative.
Starting point is 00:21:25 And it's for sure, you can have that experience if you know how to adjust all of that and how to get in that kind of mindset and mind frame and to be able to listen to your bodies or going through these movements and kind of tailor the intensity so it's beneficial. And again, this is all based upon whatever current environment and status you're in. Like this is mainly like the stress that we have to account for. Like if it's very high stress or it's very lack of sleep or it's very like all the factors that you're
Starting point is 00:21:55 accounting for and take an inventory on, this is where now we're taking that information and we're applying the appropriate dose now into our workouts to benefit us so that way it strengthens us and helps us become resilient. That's right. It's pro self-care. You are going away and doing something for you. And by the way, the reason why I'm saying pro self-care, because I do want to make a point here, because here's where things can go wrong. If you get away to work out because you hate your body, because you feel like you're not attractive because you need to lose weight and I got to go beat myself up, this won't work.
Starting point is 00:22:29 This is not going to work. All you're doing is punishing yourself. That's not going to feel good. In fact, you're going to quit at some point or you'll punish yourself enough to the point where you make your health worse and you decrease your quality of life. You have to go to the gym or go in your garage or go exercise and say to yourself, this is pro Self-care why am I caring for myself because I deserve to be cared for because I care about these other people That I have to care for and so caring for me is important So it's pro self-care approach it with that and your approach is more likely to be appropriate and less likely to be I don't Think you can stress that enough that this dictates the outcome from this.
Starting point is 00:23:10 This is the difference of this being something that enhances all those things I said earlier, right? If you go into it because you're disgusted in yourself or you don't, I don't like the way I look or I need to lose all this weight or I miss what my body, if that's the way you're talking to yourself, then the workout many times will reflect that and the results from that workout will not give you the things that I'm promising that it will give you. You'll become worse.
Starting point is 00:23:36 But if you go into it that I deserve to take care of myself, I love myself, therefore I'm doing these things because I deserve to be taken care of like that and my workout should make me a better version of myself, should complement my lifestyle and all the other things I care about. That attitude, the framing of that will dictate how beneficial it is for all these things we're talking about and going into it with that wrong attitude can completely destroy all the benefits that you can get from it. That's right. Now the key and we keep saying this is to train properly and appropriately. Okay.
Starting point is 00:24:07 So first off, you probably have limited time anyway. So following a good program, something that's pre-written or created, is very important, but there are things to consider when you're training properly. Properly doesn't just mean I do the right exercises and I do them right, and I do the right amount of weight, you know, weight and reps and all that stuff. That's part of it. But the other part of it is you have to consider a few things in order to make this work. And one of them is, this is a big one for parents, is lack of sleep. The less sleep you get the more, the less exercise you could do and get benefit from. In other words, if you're getting absolutely terrible sleep,
Starting point is 00:24:42 you do very little exercise to gain benefit anymore and you'll overcome your body's ability to handle the stress from the exercise. So consider that. If right now you're getting zero sleep, you're a new mom, then you're probably not going to go to the gym and workout. Let's get that down a little bit first. Then as it starts to get better, then you can start to apply exercise in appropriate small doses and you'll start to see a benefit. If you throw a bunch of exercise at yourself all at once, if you're not working out and you all of a sudden go into this crazy workout and you're getting bad sleep on top of it, then things are going to go bad. Even though we have programs that scale people up like a starter type of program or something that eases somebody like a mom into this stuff, if I have a mom that I'm training and
Starting point is 00:25:23 she's basically telling me that like, Adam,'m just I have no I'm getting no sleep Typically what I do is like while we're what we're figuring that piece out and because it's it's normally a period of time Right where that can happen like it it does it does happen. It's very common with especially with a new mother and so Walking and getting outside and the Sun and stuff like that tends to be the only prescription that I would say. And so it's like, okay, here, I normally would have like programming laid out, like this is what we're going to be doing, but I'm going to be checking in with you. If you're telling me that you're not getting any sleep is how you're feeling, then your
Starting point is 00:25:57 prescription for me, exercise wise is go for a walk outside. Like that's right. That's what I want you to do. I want you to go outside. Cause you have to think about the stress accumulation. And so exercise is a stress on the body. And the reason why you get stronger and more fit is your body adapts to that stress.
Starting point is 00:26:14 But if the total stress is too much for you to handle, then adding more stress or too much stress on the body is not gonna not only not help you, it's actually gonna make things go backwards. So like the example Adam said, if you're like, okay, he said to go walk, but you know what I'm going to do, I'm going to go do that Zumba class or I'm going to go do orange theory, I'm going to go beat myself up type of deal. Besides them being bad workouts, it's a lot of stress and it's going to make you less healthy. It's going to take away from your ability to be a great mom, not add to that
Starting point is 00:26:45 ability. One of the last things I want to say is this helps with stress, what I'm about to say, it helps with stress, helps your body handle stress, also has, in some studies, shows anti-anxiety effects because of how it manages blood sugar. There seems to be some antidepressant effects to what I'm about to say in some populations. And it also makes the workout more effective. And that is to eat a high protein diet. High protein diet seems to be beneficial in most cases,
Starting point is 00:27:13 but especially in a case like this where maybe your stress is high, or you're trying to work out some anxieties there. High protein breakfast, for example, has been shown to have benefits for people with anxiety. High protein diet seems to have some positive effects for depression, especially compared to other types of diets. So eat protein and aim for about a gram of protein per pound of target body weight.
Starting point is 00:27:36 This is the number one thing that I'm communicating nutritionally to this client. This is the only thing I tend to communicate to this client and this is one of those. This is the only thing I've had to communicate with this client. This is what is going to really make or break the results that we get from the work that we're putting in inside the gym or at your working out at home, whatever it is that we're doing because it could quickly determine whether your results are slow or not happy at all or accelerated and coming on fast. If I'm struggling to get my client to hit daily requirements in protein and we're putting the work in the gym, many times their progress is stalled and we're not seeing the benefits as much
Starting point is 00:28:13 for them. Maybe they're getting some of the psychological benefits from the working out and maybe a little bit of the self, you know, the being present and things like that. So they're getting some of those benefits, but then they're not feeling like they're getting the physiological. I'm not feeling that much stronger. I'm not seeing change in my body and a lot of that is tied to whether my client is hitting those protein intake, the protein intake consistently day in and day out
Starting point is 00:28:36 paired with our strength training because you've got to remember that that part of it is the exercise part is just the stress. You're just stressing the body. You're just setting the signal to build. If you don't give it the building blocks nutritionally and recover sleep, do those things, then you're not going to get the max benefits from that exercise. This is also why I think we get in trouble with doing lots of exercise and not hitting protein take and people think it's so difficult. Well, it's so difficult because you're stressing the body so crazy, you're not feeding it properly, you're spinning your wheels. But if you are doing just enough, like which is two days, a week of training or maybe three in the gym, stimulating it just enough, not overstressing, not training to fail, you're not crushing yourself in Zumba or
Starting point is 00:29:19 Orange Theory type of class, you're just doing the proper dose of training paired with hitting your protein intake, the results will come on and then you'll see a huge difference. Especially you're not getting sleeved, there's all this stress. I mean, this is a crucial element for recovery and to provide you with that building block to really help prepare the body and keep you going and give you results. Right. And some points with that is try to make it from whole natural food. So we said one gram of protein per pound of target body weight. So whatever your target body weight is,
Starting point is 00:29:48 eat that in grams of protein. Eat whole foods, try to get it from whole foods, not protein shakes, and eat it first in your meals. And watch what happens. This is like a huge diet hack across the board, but it contributes positively to almost any goal, whether it's to build muscle, burn body fat, improve blood sugar, whatever. Just what I said right there makes a huge difference.
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