Mind Pump: Raw Fitness Truth - 2458: The 3 Best Foods for Muscle & Strength (Listener Coaching)
Episode Date: November 1, 2024In this episode of Quah (Q & A), Sal, Adam & Justin answer four Pump Head questions drawn from last Sunday’s Quah post on the @mindpumpmedia Instagram page. Mind Pump Fit Tip: The 3 BEST foods f...or muscle and strength, ranked in order. (2:05) The impact of heavily processed foods. (16:45) The power of the law of thermodynamics. (22:45) Buying toys for your kids because you like them. (25:56) How PRx has completely revolutionized home gyms. (29:40) Challenging masculinity. (33:35) The rise of fitness trainers. (39:34) Adam updates our audience on his muscle-building transformation. (41:52) Using Brain.fm on longer flights. (53:57) Shout out: ‘Watch the guys build a program on IG LIVE 11/13 Livestream 6 PM (PST)’ @mindpumpmedia (59:17) #Quah question #1 – I travel a lot for work, what kind of isometric exercises can I do while sitting in the car? (1:00:14) #Quah question #2 – What are your thoughts on posing after a workout? I am hoping to gain a better connection and control over different muscles. Is it something I should incorporate into my training or is it something just for competitors? (1:05:05) #Quah question #3 – I get dizzy after performing every set of deadlifts. I warm up to my PR of 195 lbs. I fuel up before my workouts and I drink LMNT with 5mg of creatine during my workouts. Am I not getting enough o2? Is this due to ineffective breathing? (1:10:04) #Quah question #4 – Before meeting your wives, what quality traits were most important to you when looking for a partner, especially for someone aspiring to be a future husband and father? (1:13:03) Related Links/Products Mentioned Visit PRx Performance for an exclusive offer for Mind Pump listeners! ** No Code for a 5% discount that gets automatically applied at checkout!!! ** Visit Brain.fm for an exclusive offer for Mind Pump listeners. ** Get 30 days of free access to science-backed music. ** October Promotion: MAPS Muscle Mommy 50% off! ** Code OCTOBER50 at checkout ** Mind Pump #1860: Fourteen of the Best Foods for an Amazing Physique Building Muscle with Adam Schafer – Mind Pump TV Harvard Med Student Eats 720 Eggs in 30 Days, Highlighting a New Trend: N=1 Science Manliness concerns impede forgiveness of coworkers Watch Love Is Blind | Netflix Official Site Tuesday Nov. 12 @ 4PM (PST) – TRAIN THE TRAINER WEBINAR SERIES : The Key for Personal Trainers to Retain Clients During the Holiday Season Watch Mr. McMahon | Netflix Official Site Visit Butcher Box for this month’s exclusive Mind Pump offer! ** Choose which high-quality, lean protein you’ll get for free in every order for a year—wild-caught salmon, organic chicken breasts, or grass-fed ground beef. Plus, get $20 off your first order with our code. That’s up to $404 in savings for the year! ** Do You Have Back Or Shoulder Pain? YOU NEED TO TRY THIS! | Mind Pump Mind Pump #1670: When Lifting Light Builds More Muscle Get your free Sample Pack with any “drink mix” purchase! Also try the new LMNT Sparkling — a bold, 16-ounce can of sparkling electrolyte water: Visit DrinkLMNT.com/MindPump Mind Pump Podcast – YouTube Mind Pump Free Resources People Mentioned Layne Norton, Ph.D. (@biolayne) Instagram Mind Pump Fitness Coaching (@mindpumptrainers) Instagram
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You're trying to build muscle and strength.
Look, I'm here to tell you it's gonna be really hard
if you don't eat these next three foods.
We ranked them in order.
The best foods to build muscle and strength.
You guys wanna guess?
Doritos?
That's top of mind for me.
That's full-controder.
We'll get to that, bro, because that's crazy.
No, so we get recommendations for great ways mind from that. That's full of confusion. We'll get to that. We'll get to that, bro, because that's crazy.
So we get recommendations for great ways
to get people's attention.
And one of them was like, what are the three best foods
for muscle and strength?
And of course, there's so much individual variance,
so much nuance with this.
But there are foods that are definitely
better for this than others.
And so I picked the three.
And the first two
are protein containing, obviously protein is essential.
Steak has got to be one of the first.
It has to be one of the first, yeah.
It is, the last one by the way is not a protein,
but we'll get there.
Okay, so yes, beef.
Beef is one of the most anabolic foods for two reasons.
Obviously it's high in protein, so that's great,
but it's one of the highest in natural creatine, and it's also super high in nutrients.
In fact, it's one of the only foods
you could get away with eating on its own
and probably never get a nutrient deficiency
if you just ate red meat.
You could survive, for sure.
Not saying that's what you should do, it's not ideal.
In fact, I was with some friends this weekend,
and one of my buddies, he's a new friend of mine,
he's a CrossFit guy, and he had his wife next to him.
You have friends with the CrossFit guy, huh?
Well, he's actually a pastor at the trip,
but he also does CrossFit.
Great guy, right?
Sal's really branching out on us.
Yeah.
I like this.
In fact, I told him, I told him like,
hey, when you're ready to stop over trading, let me know.
But he goes, super great guy, loves dude, and he's like into working out, right, when you're ready to stop over trading, let me know. But he's a super great guy, I love his dude.
And he's like, into working out, right?
And he loves me, and so his wife was there,
his wife's a doctor.
And he's like, hey, you know,
I thought he wanted me to be on,
I could tell he thought I was gonna be on his side.
He's like, hey, Sal, so, you know, real loud with his wife,
so carnivore diet, right?
What do you think of that?
I'm like, ugh, it's not an idea at all.
How long do you have?
His wife's like, oh, wait, carnivore?
Carnivore and he's a CrossFitter?
He doesn't do carnivore, but he loves meat so much.
I was like, damn, that's really all bad.
I'm like, dude, it'll kill you.
Yeah, definitely not.
Okay, so obviously you need to have balance,
but on its own, you can get away with just eating beef
because it's so nutrient dense.
You can't do that with any other food.
If you just picked one food and just ate that one food,
the odds that you'll have a nutrient deficiency
are something like 100%.
Pretty high, yeah.
Beef is so nutrient dense,
you could probably get away with it, and some people do,
and then it's so high in creatine.
And before creatine supplements existed,
bodybuilders would speculate on this all the time.
They would go, they would switch different protein sources,
eat the same amount of protein, same amount of calories,
and they would all come back and say,
I don't know what it is, but when I put a lot of red meat
in my diet, I'm just stronger and I just build more muscle,
and it's gotta be the creatine.
It's the highest in creatine, and creatine isn't just
a muscle building nutrient, it's also a longevity nutrient.
We now know this, the data now shows creatine is good
for health, longevity, brain function. It's been proven longevity nutrient. We now know this. The data now shows creatine is good for health, longevity, brain function.
It's been proven through all these studies.
All these things.
And beef is just nutrients, protein,
it's got the creatine in there.
It's like, and it has been,
it has been the muscle building food of choice now
for a very, very long time.
It's too bad that it, I mean, what would you say?
Was it the 80s, 90s? When did the bad rap for red meat happen was around that time? Yeah
that's when you had all those was where's the beef right and then it kind
of moved from there. You have all the skewed data on saturated fat now there
are I'll be clear there are polymorphisms there are some individuals
when they eat a diet that's high in saturated fat the blood lipids don't do
so well and those individuals need to be a little bit more careful. But other people, it's not that,
it's actually perfectly fine and especially if you eat what we would say is high quality red meat,
grass-fed, better fatty acid profile, higher in omega-3s, better ratio of omega-3 to omega-6s,
higher in omega-3s, better ratio of omega-3 to omega-6s, higher in CLA, which is another healthy fat.
It's just good for you, and again,
people will point to studies about meat,
and they don't tend to do in those studies
is parse out processed meat products.
So it's like people eating a lot of meat,
they're like, well, there's hot dogs in there,
and stuff like baloney.
But no, real red meat, just good old fashioned red meat,
for most people is an incredible,
it's a health food and for strength training,
it's one of the best things you can eat.
I wish game meat was more accessible.
You know, there's gotta be something to that
of the health of the actual animal
and how that translates back over
to when you're consuming it.
I always thought that there was a connection there for sure.
But now that we have resources out there,
we have things like ButcherBox that make it easy to get.
Yeah.
You know, that's been game changer.
I mean, wouldn't you say that?
I mean, I guess there would be a little bit of a difference,
with game meat versus grass-fed beef.
Grass-fed and finished beef, I would say, is pretty similar.
It's similar to similar gamey
Yeah, I would be a little more like fatty acid like it might be a little higher
I mean, there's a there's a big argument maybe for the the game being lower stress
Maybe because it's not in is they're not confined areas and stuff like that
Like I don't know how happy are the cows that are in the you know that are in you know, it's funny
I had on the farm, right? I had a vegan once try to make that argument with me,
a little off topic, but he said, you know,
how healthy do you think meat is when that animal,
like, the animal's under stress when it's being, you know,
killed or whatever, so that's how all animals are.
All of them.
All of them.
Die.
It's kind of a stressful process.
No, I would think the part that would be most stressful
for the ones, like you have the chickens that they confine
all smash them in an area.
What you tend to see in the meat
is not a good fatty acid profile.
You tend to see more omega-6s, just more fat in general.
So if you look at grass-fed meat versus grain-fed meat,
10 ounces versus 10 ounces, it's just leaner.
It's just leaner, and it tastes a little different.
It's just better for you.
But again, generally speaking, beef is,
this is muscle building food.
And I used to find this especially impactful
for my female clients.
And I think it's because they were more likely
to take red meat out of their diet.
So when I would kind of have them track
and I'd look at their diet and I could see,
okay, well, let's have you eat some more red meat
and they would all come back with better energy,
better strength.
I think that all comes from the adage
of like less calories, right?
Because fish and chicken breasts
were like a part of their diet.
And it's like, which is not, those aren't bad.
It's just that they're not as nutrient dense
as the beef is.
Next up is eggs.
Now eggs, the protein in eggs is so bioavailable
and so high quality, by some measurements,
it's the best protein.
By other measurements, you could put way up higher,
but eggs are just, and then these are nutrient powerhouses.
Some people refer to eggs as nature's multivitamin.
They're high in a nutrient noticed choline,
which some people argue is an essential micronutrient,
and there's a lot of people who are actually deficient
in choline, a lot of people who have issues with
what's called methylation, and deficiencies in choline
result in muscle weakness and poor cognitive function.
So if you ever buy like a brain supplement,
nine out of 10 times choline will be in there.
Yeah, it's the main brain vitamin.
Yeah, in fact, I brought this up a long time ago,
studies on children.
Children, like babies and toddlers at EAegs
have higher IQs, and they think it's the choline
that's in the egg yolk.
So okay, we're definitely gonna circle back to Doritos.
Second thing to circle back to, Doug, I sent over a link to a Harvard med student that did an
experiment with eggs. Oh yeah. He ate 720 eggs, I think. And his cholesterol was fine. Yeah, yeah,
so we could talk about, you know, circle back and do that too. Another example of something that
got a bad rap in the 80s and 90s. I mean, can you think of a better food that got like a terrible rap?
Like, I mean, it was like, it's on, it's off, you know, it's horrible, it's good.
It's like, it was like ping ponged all throughout my childhood of being like,
good for you, not good for you.
I actually hate to taste eggs, but I eat them almost daily just because of the value of them.
Just because they're such a great balanced way to get good protein and good healthy cholesterol.
But I never like the taste of them.
Speaking of that, dietary cholesterol,
I've said this in older podcast episodes,
dietary cholesterol in studies,
not your blood cholesterol, but dietary cholesterol
has been connected to strength gains.
I've personally experimented with this.
I've had other people experiment with this.
This is an old bodybuilding hack
where you radically increase your dietary cholesterol
and you see strength gains, and it works.
It works.
If I average, let's say, three eggs a day,
and then I move up to, let's say, 10 or 12 eggs a day,
and I control my calories, everything else is is the same within three or four days I'm adding five to ten
pounds on most lifts I'm just stronger and there's some evidence to suggest
that this has to do with your central nervous system it has to do with muscle
repair and recovery when you strength train and create damage your muscles
suck up cholesterol and use it as a building block. So dietary cholesterol might contribute to faster repair.
Yeah, back in the day, I mean,
a lot of the strength and power lifters,
they would seek out egg yolks
and then also heavy cream.
Yeah.
And they would add that in their diet.
All of a sudden, that was just kind of a lost pursuit.
So when we were first having this conversation
way back when, when you were talking about
with your experiment with this,
and I don't know if you remember this or not,
but I shared with you that over the course
of those three years of me, you know,
tracking so diligently for shows and stuff like that,
I nailed down like what was the like most anabolic
breakfast meal set up for my workouts was,
and it was, it
was steak and four eggs, about an hour and a half before I went and lifted.
And so that nothing gave me a better workout than eating that.
And that became like my ritual.
I had this coffee shop that I would go down to every single morning, have my cup of coffee
and load up on that breakfast and then let it sit for about an hour and a half, two hours
and then hit my workout
and I had the best workouts after eating that.
Vince Garanda, who was probably one of the first
kind of bodybuilding quote unquote scientists, right,
somebody kind of looked at the science of things,
he would advocate for like a 12 whole egg a day diet
for his bodybuilders.
People got tremendous success.
Until this day, people experiment with stuff like that.
Well, they'll find some of his old articles and do it,
and then they'll comment in forums.
And usually, people will come back and be like,
there's something to this.
And I think it's the dietary cholesterol.
In fact, when they do studies on egg whites versus whole eggs,
control for protein, control for calories,
whole eggs double, I think, the... calories. Whole eggs double, I think the,
they double the protein synthesis signal.
That's a lot.
Yeah, and they're like, well, what's causing this?
And the speculation is the dietary cholesterol.
So eggs are for sure, and they've been considered
muscle building foods, a muscle building food forever.
Now lastly, I wanted to include something
that wasn't a protein based food, and I wanted to include a starch because you know if every all things
being equal you know your proteins adequate fat is adequate your you know
your workouts are good carbohydrates contribute to strength they just do.
The studies are plenty on this where you see low carb diets compared to higher
carb diets you know all things being controlled.
And you need that glycogen for explosive power,
for strength, and one of the best sources
for starchy carbohydrates is white rice.
And the reason why is it's so easy to digest.
You know, there's a lot of sources of carbohydrates
that you can eat, but oftentimes they cause,
many times they cause
gastric distress for people.
White rice almost always is easy to digest.
This is probably why white rice is the choice
for bodybuilders.
This is like the number one choice for bodybuilders.
So great that you put that on this list
because I wouldn't have guessed this on this list.
And I was, before we got on the podcast today,
I was just answering a DM from a lady that was like,
what's with the white rice?
I feel like you and every other fitness person I know
that shows their food is always eating with white rice.
I'm like, I guess I never thought of it
from somebody else's perspective who doesn't pay attention
to that stuff.
And it's like-
Yeah, why not pasta?
Why not-
Yeah, exactly.
There's all these other choices.
Why do I always eat white rice, white rice?
And it's like, and this is what I was explaining to her.
And there's also another part that I explained to her that's not exactly aligning with
you're talking about, but it's also one of the easiest things to make and
measure. So like when you're, yeah, I mean, it's just so easy to scoop one.
And it's precise, right? There's no like, Oh, I wonder if that's off or not.
Like there's so many ways, like food can be off really easy.
Just a very accurate, quick way to get
an easy digesting carbohydrate.
I think that has a lot to do with it too.
Now this isn't communicated so much these days,
but it used to be communicated that brown rice was better.
It's actually not.
First off, they both affect your blood sugar levels
right around the same, so it's not that big of a difference
because that's the argument people make. In brown brown rice the fiber or the hole in brown rice
Is actually has what are called antinutrients actually prevents the absorption of certain nutrients
And in some cases if you go to like third world countries
They don't do brown rice because you start to see nutrient deficiencies white rice far easier to digest
It absorbs very well doesn't have anti-nutrients,
and it's a great source of starchy carbohydrates
that then fuel you through your workouts.
I'm always reminded of Mitch Hedberg's joke with us,
is like, anytime you want 2,000 of something, rice.
What?
What's that from?
That's Mitch Hedberg.
Who's that?
I don't know who that is.
Who is that?
No, who is that? Doug, do you get it? you get it? They go over your head? I don't
Don't know
Whenever you want 2,000 of something you know anyways
Junk is a rice Anyways, come on. I'm so junk is that you eat rice whenever you want 2000 of something.
Is that because it's, it's so easy to track and it's even because you get so
many kernels of it, dude. It's, it's,
please help me comment. These guys, it's a classic Mitch Hedberg joke.
Hey, anyway, so go back toberg joke. Oh my God. I never heard that one. Yeah, it's all right. I never heard that.
Hey, anyway, so go back to Doritos.
OK.
Yeah, yeah.
OK.
Let me tell you, since it was the first time.
Please.
So Katrina and I run an errands this weekend.
And I actually saw that she sent the text
before she even asked me.
So I didn't see it.
And I was driving.
And she's like, oh, I just sent the guys,
if they wanted to do a Doritos advertisement. I said, Doritos what? She goes, like, oh, I just sent the guys if they wanted to do
a Doritos advertisement.
I said, what?
She goes, yeah, no, Doritos, which is Lay's, I believe.
I think Lay's is own, does Lay's own Doritos, is that correct?
Yeah, I think it was, I think that's the actual company.
Anyways, they reached out to Mind Pump
wanting to do advertising on the show
and so that was a big joke through the weekend
is if could we do Doritos. How would that even work? Yeah there's no, Sal probably hit it the best way we possibly do it is
we just had to come out and just be like Doritos paid us so much goddamn money. It's not good for you.
We like money. You know it's what's funny about some of these companies that will
try and ask us for sponsorship it's's like, did you do your homework?
Do you even know?
No, they don't.
They just look at our reach, I think.
Yeah, that's what you just pop up as influential
in a space that you're trying to get into,
and many times they have no idea
that we've probably openly talked about the brand
not being good.
I mean, speaking of the, that's gotta be one of the most,
it's like quintessential processed food.
Yeah, when you talk about, when you,
because you like to talk a lot about the science
that goes into creating something.
It's a master class.
It is.
Even what they've done with that.
The color, the texture, the sound, the feel,
they're probably the shining example
of who's probably done the most research
on all those things to make something addictive, right?
So it's like, it would be literally...
They hit you with everything.
I mean, literally, it arguably... I mean, Justin made a point, Justin's like,
I think we could sell cigarettes better.
Yeah, at least they have nicotine.
At least nicotine has some cognitive benefits that we can pitch.
Like, where are we going with Doritos? There's no way we can go anywhere with Doritos.
So I think that's so true.
Like it literally stands for everything
that we try and inform the audience on
when it comes to hyper palatable foods
and how much they are engineered to get you to eat more.
I just had this conversation this weekend.
We went over some new friend's house
and there was a couple there.
I told them what I did and so we were talking about food and we were talking and they were familiar they actually
heard a podcast where this was explained you know where the tobacco industry when
it was under fire by regulations a lot of those scientists moved over the food
industry and they used their talent to figure out how to engineer food to be
addictive that was literally what they were doing. How do we make food, like what makes food so pleasurable? Let's see if we can hack
this. Let's break it down. Let's invest millions and now of course now we're into
the billions of dollars and can we make food irresistible the way that cigarettes
are? That was the goal and that's what they accomplished. That's literally what
they accomplished with some of these foods that we have out there and you are
You're not gonna win like if you eat these foods and you think oh I can do this and still maintain a lean body fat percentage like
No, you're not gonna win. It's just this is why I think the conversation around calories versus calories in versus calories out
It's just not enough. enough. It's not complete.
No, it's just, it's not, it doesn't tell the whole story.
Yes, obviously it doesn't change the law of thermodynamics
that will still apply, that'll always still apply,
it's a law, but it really is misleading
for the average person because then they assume like,
okay, well then so long as I stay in this range,
I can pretty much have what I want.
And that approach, in my experience,
is just not successful for people.
In fact, I'm far better off actually not even worrying
about the conversation around calories in, calories out,
if I could teach them to make better choices
like around whole foods.
Because what I've learned is if I can get them to do that,
it's amazing what the body does.
Naturally.
Yes.
I mean, I feel like this whole process of documenting me coming back to the early part of the journey, a lot of the questions, well, what's your calorie intake? What do you do? I'm
like, you know, what I'm doing is actually, I'm not really worried about the calories. Protein is the
only thing that I'm really concerned about. And I'm actually allowing my body to tell me when it's hungry and
If and if I feel hungry, it's 10 o'clock at night and I get that appetite where I oh man
I need to I can feel it feed it. I'm gonna feed it. I'm just gonna make a good choice
I'm gonna go get a protein centric meaning it needs to have 30 40 or more grams of protein in it
So a protein heavy meal and I'm gonna eat till I satisfied, and I'm not gonna worry about where it lands.
And ironically, it's pretty wild how the calories
just kinda landed like in this very,
it almost looks like it was methodical,
but it really wasn't, it was just listening to the body.
There's this terrible misunderstanding that humans
are just eating machines, if you just put food in front of
us, we'll just eat ourselves into oblivion.
That's not true, that's only true when just put food in front of us, we'll just eat ourselves into oblivion. That's not true.
That's only true when we put food in front of us
that's been engineered to make us overeat.
If you put whole natural foods in front of us,
we have natural systems that kick in.
Now you're not gonna be 5% body fat doing this.
At some point, Adam's gonna have to track, right?
But for most people, if you just kind of listen
to your body and you don't have this crazy dysfunctional relationship to track, right? But for most people, if you just kind of listen to your body and you don't have this crazy dysfunctional
relationship with food, right?
And you just eat when you're hungry and eat, you know,
like you said, protein-centric, whole natural foods,
you tend to fall into this nice healthy body fat percentage.
The reason why a majority of people are not there
is because we're surrounded by foods
that have been designed, they've been designed
to hijack all that stuff and overcome all that stuff
and you're just not going to win. You're just you're literally trying to beat something that
has been engineered to beat you and these people are a lot smarter than you think. There's been a
lot of money invested in this. It's just not going to happen. That's why avoiding these things
is probably the single step, the single most powerful step you could do to helping yourself
be fit, you know, fit healthy. Agree, agree. Doug, did you pull up to helping yourself be fit and healthy.
Agreed, agreed.
Doug, did you pull up that Harvard?
Yeah, I did.
I actually had to subscribe to the article.
Oh, you did?
Oh, sorry.
But I did pull it up, and I will just put it here.
And it was a Harvard med student,
and he went on a mission,
I think it was 720 eggs in 30 days, something like that?
That's correct, yeah.
So 30 eggs a day?
Or no, what's that?
It ended up being 24 eggs per day.
24 eggs per day.
So now here's, so this was sent to me over,
what's Chris, remember the Chris Pugnito,
or Pugnito starts with a P, he's the financial guy.
I forgot his name.
No, Chris is his name, but I'm thinking of this podcast.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Anyways, he sent this over to me,
like, oh, this is a big deal, and I was like,
well, it isn't really, and here's the part that I,
why, to me, it's cool.
So what happened?
The guy's blood lipids were fine after.
Yeah, everything got, he got healthier.
Yeah, yeah.
Like, he ate 24 eggs a day, literally.
That's like, he lived off of eggs for 30 days.
Now, here's the part that it doesn't disclose that I wanted to explain to him is like
I said I could have done the same experiment with mint chip ice cream and
shown the same thing so what you need to do the math do that math on 24 eggs
that's all he ate yeah that's all he ate yeah it's all he ate I'm pretty sure if
that's all he ate if that's all he ate those calories were low yes so do the math
what's 24 times 70 calories?
60, whatever the eggs are.
It's not much.
It's literally like a 1,400 calorie diet or 1,500 calorie.
And he'll lose weight on that.
Right, and so that was the point I was trying to make to him
is that, I mean, obviously what the guy was doing,
and to his point, Chris's point was sending over to me,
oh, this is kind of cool.
This is getting out the bad name that eggs have.
I said, yeah, it kind of does, but then it kind of doesn't because if you eat,
and this is what I try and explain to people all the time that here's where the
law of thermodynamics does definitely apply. If your calorie maintenance,
let's say is 2000 calories,
that's what your body needs to sustain and you go for 30 days and you eat
mentorship ice cream only 1500 calories of it. I'll show improved blood markers,
which is kind of crazy to think that.
But that shows the power of the law of thermodynamics
if you just stay underneath that.
But that was the-
There are people that have done that, by the way.
They'll be like, I'm just gonna eat McDonald's
for 30 days on this week.
I've seen somebody do that with cookies, yeah.
Yeah, but then again, he's gonna feel like crap.
You're gonna feel terrible.
Yeah, yeah, you're not gonna-
On 30 days of ice cream.
No, no, no, you're not gonna feel,
where he probably felt pretty good.
He felt okay.
He's not lacking any nutrients with the eggs. He he probably felt pretty good. He felt okay. Yeah, I was.
He's not lacking any nutrients with the eggs.
He's got proteins and fats.
He's got the essentials.
He's probably okay.
I wanted to do the math though on the macros.
1440, oh, you mean total macros?
Oh, do you see 1440?
I did the math right here.
Oh, okay, so 1440.
If that's all he ate though,
he might have not just only eaten that.
He did eat some other things it looks like.
Oh, he did? Yes. He did, I other things it looks like. Oh, he did?
Yes.
He did, I thought it really was only.
So he added 60 grams of net carbs a day.
Fruits like bananas, berries, things like that.
Oh, okay.
So he's just trying to show that you're not gonna get crazy.
Okay, well that's good then.
See, cause I thought it was only,
he was eating that low calorie.
I'm like, well, it's not the best experiment
because if you eat in a caloric deficit,
you're gonna see it improve.
I mean, this is the argument that Lane always makes
to people with all the fear mongering around.
Yeah, yeah, it's like, well, if you eat really low calories
of one of those foods, you're gonna see an improvement
in all that.
I thought it was interesting.
Hey, have you guys, do you guys get in this trap
with your kids?
Well, it's not a trap, it's a good time,
where you buy toys because you like the toys.
You guys do that too?
Every dad does that.
Oh yeah, that's so great.
Every dad is guilty of that.
That's a hack.
I'm so lucky because my, he's almost four now, my son,
he likes stuff that I like, you know, which is cool.
So like we go to the toy store and he wants
the crystal growing kit.
I'm like, okay, let's get that, you know?
He likes carnivorous plants, I'm like, that's fun.
He likes airplanes, so I'm buying airplanes off Amazon
that fly around, and we're doing this.
We're doing all this cool stuff.
Now my wife, she sat me down, she's like,
you can't get him a toy every day.
So I'm like, I know, you're right.
It's so fun to do this kind of stuff.
I do think that's probably the biggest challenge.
I mean, so Saturday, Katrina had a girls' day, took off.
By the way, there's this really cool thing
over in Morgan Hill.
They've only been doing it for a few months.
It's like a trolley.
It looks like one of those San Francisco trolleys.
And they take you around all the small mom pop wineries
in Morgan Hill.
They work with 30 of them, and they had a blast.
Oh, what a great idea.
Yeah, you could do it two ways.
You could either pay for an individual seat
for like 100-something bucks, I think is what it was.
It does all day long.
Or you can rent the whole trolley for a couple grand
and you can have it all to yourself
with your family and friends.
So I think we're going to do it with a company for the staff.
Of course.
Yeah, I think it would be a blast.
They had live music at some of the winers
they went to and everything.
So they had an absolute best.
Anyways, the point of me telling you that was that I
had a day, just Max and I,
and you would know, it's funny,
and it's just a reflection of,
this is something I have to work on, right?
I do not like when everybody is buying my son so much stuff.
And selfishly, part of it is
because I feel like I get robbed of that.
It's like, I feel like he's already getting so much stuff,
and then I have these moments where it's like,
oh, we never have a boys day,
and I wanna go take him to go buy something or do something.
And I'm just like, I want to so bad
because I don't ever get to do that for him
because he's constantly get it.
But then I'm like, it goes against what I'm trying to do,
which is not get the kid toys all the time
or buy stuff for him.
So it's definitely a struggle.
And of course I gave in and still went over and.
What'd you do?
Oh, you see in the mall, your kids would love this.
So at Oak Ridge, they have, you can make your own slime. It's like a whole thing
Oh, you go there you pick the color out
You can make it smell a certain way you put these toys and things into it you play with it
You build it then you put it on then they label it and everything. It's uh, it's cool
It's like a whole process
They have it's the store is little tables of the kids sit and they's a section, there's steps and they get to watch them mix it
all together. It's just a cool... Right, right. So I went and took him to do that and he gets a
kick out of it but I mean again to your point. Well my little one, my
little little one, she's almost two. First off she's like getting into...
It's so funny when they make that transition. I remember when my four-year-old
did this. He was just like, you know, kind of, you know,
cool little kid, did everything we wanted,
not a big deal.
All of a sudden he became a toddler
and he's like, no, I'm doing what I want.
I'm not listening.
My daughter just hit that.
She's hilarious too.
She'll get angry and then she'll walk away
and she'll just start knocking things off the table.
And I'll just, you'll hear something fall.
I'll look over and it's like,
oh, Dolly is throwing things again. I did that I'll just, here's something fall, I'll look over and it's like, oh, Dahlia's throwing things.
I did that.
Yeah, cause she's pissed off.
But anyway, Jessica bought these stickers that are jewels.
So they're little tiny jewels,
but they're like little stickers.
So now I go home and my daughter's bedazzled.
I mean, everything.
Her shoes have jewels on them.
If I'm cooking and I feel like she's hugging me,
I don't realize that she's sticking jewels on me. So I go out and I feel like she's hugging me, I don't realize that she's sticking jewels on me.
So I go out and people are like,
oh, I like your pants.
I'm like, I got like six jewels stuck on the back.
All over the house, dude.
She's sticking little jewels everywhere.
It's hilarious.
But she's becoming this little independent,
little sassy little kid.
It's cracking up.
Justin, what are you doing this?
I saw you before we left, before the weekend,
you were shooting a commercial.
What were you doing?
I was, yeah.
I spent some time when I was here
and the guys were kind of putting the racks together.
We were able to kind of shoot the process.
And then I actually did a commercial for PRX shooting
with one of the folding profile racks.
It's the full cage folding one.
Is that where the both sides fold in?
Yeah, both sides fold in and it has like four posts instead of just two.
And what's cool about it is so it has those safety connectors.
The straps.
The straps are like canvas. So I got those for it so I could kind of also do like, you know, some of those
where we're doing some rack pulls or we're getting underneath it and we're kind of starting from a
dead stop. And so I could do some cool like squats like that. But I just like having a full cage.
It's a different feel than having like just the two posts for that reason with the safeties.
So I preferred it. And so it's been rad so far.
TRX completely revolutionized home gyms by themselves
because before if you got a rack for your house,
first of all the ones they sold for your home
were they weren't that great, they were kind of janky.
They take up a lot of space.
If you wanted like a real cage for your house,
you'd have to go buy a commercial one,
and they took up a lot of space.
Theirs fold into the wall,
I think they come off the wall like eight inches.
Four for the regular one, eight is the big one.
Eight's for this one.
Like literally eight inches off the wall.
It's four posts, and they fold in together.
So you have in your garage, you fold it,
you can park your car, everything.
When you unfold it, it's more, I'm not making this up,
it is more stable than a cage at the gym.
Because it's attached to the wall,
because of the way it's set up, it is super, super stable.
I'm so passionate about their equipment
that when I'm walking in my neighborhood
and I have someone that has their garage open
and I see stuff like that, I'm so,
I feel so inclined to go tell the owner.
Especially if they're doing exercise
these days and they're working out.
I see it all the time.
I've definitely, there's a few people in my neighborhood
that have got the rogue setups and everything like that.
And it's just like, it takes up half their garage.
And I'm like, dude, you know that you could literally
have a better system that actually folds when you can
actually park your cars in the garage.
Well, I get like, I used to get that sort of pushback.
I want a full cage.
And I want like, you know, everything
like because I lift heavy and I want all this set up.
And so the way they have it all set up too, I still have a pull-up bar on there because
that was part of why the full cage wasn't able to fold. And so they figured out how
to like, you can, you can basically like unhinge it. Yeah. And then the pull-up bar kind of
swings down. And so that way it's still full over each other. So yeah, they're just, I mean, the engineering
is definitely like they've figured things out,
like some cool equipment.
Were we one of the first to have that rack like that?
Is that why they had it?
Or was that just part of our contract?
It just kind of came out at the same time
that we were remodeling the gym and I was like,
yeah, this is an option, I wanna do this one.
So it was kind of new.
It was new.
Okay, I was wondering how, if Katrina set that up
as part of the deal or we did them a solid
because it was like one of the new ones.
Like I didn't know that.
Yeah, and they're sending me something else too.
I'll talk about another time, but like,
I'm excited about those.
They're like these arms that we can use for,
you know, push press.
What are those called?
What?
You know, like for football players.
Oh, really? Those are super popular. What are those called? I? You know, like for football players. Oh, really?
Those are super popular.
What are those called?
I'm trying to think of what they're called,
but they're like, they have like a hinge at the top
and their arms and then you can do push press,
you can do like overhead, you can do rows,
like explosive.
I saw a trainer doing like these,
like a snatch move on it.
Yes, yeah, exactly.
Which is really cool.
So you can do power moves with it, yeah.
What a fun company that would be to work for.
I would love to design exercises.
Do you guys remember that they were a shark tank company?
Yep.
Yeah, yeah.
I mean, that's how they originally blew up.
So cool.
So I wanna bring up a study
that we can make some speculation on.
I wanna hear what you guys think based off of it.
So the title of it.
It's bullshit. Yeah, I know. the title of it. It's bullshit.
Yeah, I know.
The title of it, so this is at University of California
did the study, the title said,
Manliness Concerns Impede Forgiveness of Co-workers.
Okay, so here we go.
Here's the summary, okay.
The more men are concerned about appearing masculine,
the less likely they will forgive a coworker
for transgressions such as missing an appointment meeting,
an important meeting, a study has found.
What's more, such men are also more likely to seek revenge
or avoid the transgressor, which contributes to an unhealthy
and less effective work environment.
What a weird study to do in the first place.
Okay, so now here's how people are gonna take this
and run with it in the wrong way.
People are gonna be like, oh, masculinity, toxic.
No, no, no, no.
The more men are concerned about appearing masculine,
that's the key of this study.
Because the false understanding of masculinity
is what leads to this kind of crap, not actual masculinity.
And we make this argument all the time.
Yes, when you look at the data on what people would label
as toxic masculinity, like aggression and violence
and et cetera, et cetera, the vast majority of men
that exhibit those things didn't have a father.
They didn't have a masculine role model.
So their masculine role model was media.
From Hollywood, yeah.
Yeah, and what media portrays as masculinity is terrible.
It's not good, it is toxic.
So now they're hyper fake masculine.
And so people who want to, men who want to appear masculine,
that's insecurity, probably because they didn't have a dad
or didn't have a father, whatever.
And so that insecurity comes out as this fake masculinity, not real masculinity.
I find these studies so interesting.
I think it's so weird to do as a study like that.
I think these studies are funded partially,
or get air time partially because it's trying to promote
some kind of narrative somewhere.
Yeah, correct.
And you're like, oh, okay,
because why would you put money in that?
That's a stupid study. I know you watch it like, oh, okay. Because why would you put money in that?
That's the stupid stuff.
I know you watch it.
I mean, it's definitely Katrina and I's guilty pleasure.
The, what's it called, blind?
Love is blind?
Love is blind.
Oh, they got a new season.
Yes, the new season's out.
And so the reason why I'm bringing it up,
so it'll be interesting now that you know it's out
and you'll get caught up to where I'm at.
So we were watching Trash TV this last week, right?
That was the choice.
This was actually one of the comments,
talking Katrina was like,
God, these guys are so feminine.
All the dudes, and even the dudes that kinda look masculine
are like just feminine as shit.
And it's interesting because in this experiment,
these girls really fall in love with that.
And then they get out into the real world with them
and live with them, and you just see that change.
It's real sexy for conversation reasons behind a wall
when you're first getting to know them.
Like, oh, he's so sensitive.
It's like they see all the right things.
He's so open-minded, and he's all these great qualities.
He's really interested in the same things as me.
Yes, yes.
It's like, oh, he's like, we're like best friends.
Is that a good thing?
Yeah, and then they start living together
and you realize like, oh, maybe you didn't want somebody.
But I feel like that's, that this is kind of what's happened
in the last, I don't know, 15, 20 years is, you know,
I think there's been such a-
We fight over our shoes.
We've been, we've been challenging masculinity so much
in the last decade and a half or whatever
that you have a whole cohort of young women growing up
that think they want that and then they pursue it
and then they quickly realize, and some don't even realize,
I think they just think that one guy was a bad choice.
It's like, no, I think that the guy that you think
that you want to attract because of those feminine traits
that you like is not necessarily what you want
in a life partner and someone that you go build
a life together and maybe all those kind of masculine traits
that the media has been bashing for the last decade,
maybe some of them you like more than you realize it
and I feel like you're watching that kind of unfold
in this episode.
I think it's just interesting that we've now had
a few decades of lack of fathers,
and we blame that on, and we blame all these problems
on too much masculinity?
That's not enough.
We need more dads, that's what you need,
because these are kids, boys in particular,
being raised by moms and teachers. And they need to have...
You need to learn how to control a lot of these violent tendencies and get a healthy outlet for that.
Like how to treat people with kindness and respect and honor them.
And all this stuff comes from good father role models. Well, I mean, if you, a group of men,
when you have a group of men together,
the man that tends to get the most respect
is the one that's most disciplined.
It's not the one that's undisciplined.
So the guy that's loud mouthed,
can beat everybody up and actually does,
they lose respect.
But the guy that can, I remember one time
going out with a pro MMA fighter and I'll
never forget we went out to a restaurant they had a bar there we're hanging out
guy recognized them and started trying to mess with them and my buddy who
could have just he could have beat him up while eating a sandwich at the same
time ends up buying him a drink defuse the whole situation and the amount of
respect it had for this guy. I know that's the ultimate. I'm like man he could have
killed him but he totally was chill about it.
Knowing, yeah, that he could have destroyed him
and he chose that path.
So much respect.
And that's what you learn with a good father,
is you learn that discipline,
and that there's something underneath it if they need it,
but they don't use it.
And unfortunately, young men without dads,
they either fall into one or two categories.
One is, oh, the world wants me to be feminine,
or two, I need to be like what the music and media
says I should be, which is this gross depiction
of masculinity.
It's all distorted.
Yeah, not the real thing.
I read an article yesterday on the rise of fitness trainers.
They predict it's supposed to climb another 4%
in this year.
Awesome.
I think it's just important to bring up,
because we talked about, and this is to our coaches
and trainers that follow, listen, or are part of our program,
this fear around things like GLP-1s
is going to just destroy the market.
It's going to bring more people to trainer.
I think so too.
It's going to.
And I think that's what the data is showing,
is that you're going to see a continued rise in that,
because it's just going to be, I mean,
I don't think it'll ever not be nuanced.
And so having a professional, a coach, someone
who's educated, experienced in the field,
helping people navigate these waters,
I think are going to become even more important.
Because I think with the rise of these GLP ones,
it's going to bring more people
that were probably not even going to be
in the fitness arena to the arena,
and now you have the opportunity to help them.
There's two reasons for that.
One is you get your GLP-1 like Ozempic
or Wegovia or whatever, and doctors are at least informed
enough to know that, to tell you,
you need to strength train while you're doing this.
It's a good idea. So people are more aware of the value of strength
training, people who might not have considered before. And then number two, it
motivates you. This is just human behavior. Oh my god I'm losing weight now.
I think now I'm gonna start working out. And so you're gonna get a bunch of
people who, like you said Adam, who normally wouldn't really consider
exercising, now consider it.
And also, these are people that are paying for
a lot of them out of their own pocket,
so they have expendable income,
and they're more likely to hire a trainer.
You're gonna see a greater demand for trainers
because of this, and I think we're already
starting to see it anyway, just from the coaches
and trainers I'm talking to.
They're like, oh yeah, I'm getting more people.
It seems like an influx of momentum that people are getting that wouldn't normally I would think I don't know you get to that point where you're like really obese
And it's just like it starts to kind of get less and less likely that you're gonna make steps towards you know improving yourself
You know speed a trainer Doug when is our webinar once the trainer webinar we got coming up
Yeah, November 12th at 4 p.m. Pacific.
That's right around the corner, right?
So we do, yeah, and these are free.
We're just teaching trainers on.
I hope, I really do hope we grow those to be pretty crazy.
Are you guys, I know you guys aren't even really
paying attention to my journey, but we dropped today,
the, which I.
I knew nobody was gonna believe that you.
Yeah, yeah, your results in the picks of transformation, yeah., I mean I told Dylan as we were creating this whole processes and you know, it's been kind of like a slow
Growth as far as the people that are engaging and watching and I said don't worry. Don't worry
Come time when we drop the transformation it'll cause enough
hoopla that will get more traction on I said
I think that's when people will start to wake up
and kind of pay more attention.
And with that comes all the naysayers, haters,
is that I just find it really interesting
that the amount of effort I put into documenting everything
and then disclosing what would happen
and why it would happen and that you still get this.
This is like, I don't think I could have explained
any more detail, I don't think I could have laid out
any more of what I'm consuming, what I'm doing,
what I'm using.
That's too hard to go through all your information.
Just show up, make a comment.
Look, to be fair, it's remarkable.
I mean, to be fair, you gained, what was it,
18 pounds of lean body mass.
By the way, lean body mass is anything that's not body fat.
So this is also including intramuscular fluid,
which went up considerably,
mainly because his diet changed,
he started taking creatine.
So you could probably take out of that 18 pounds,
seven of it being hydration,
but still that leaves 11 to 12 pounds
of lean body mass in 30 days,
that's remarkable.
But when you understand muscle memory,
I keep saying this, people need to understand this,
muscle memory is crazy.
It literally is crazy.
And Adam isn't even close to the lean body mass
that he carried for decades.
So he still has muscle memory in the tank, okay?
So it's not like he, you're not even close
to where you were always at,
even before he competed as a bodybuilder.
So we're not even talking about later muscle memory,
we're talking about muscle memory that would put you
where you carried your body for a long time.
And that's, it's extreme.
It sets a completely different precedent.
It's super powerful, guys. If you lose, if you carry a lot of muscle
and then you lose it all, and by the way,
Adam lost it in a pretty aggressive fashion.
He ate very little, didn't work out,
was under tremendous family stress,
his wife almost died, so he didn't just lose some muscle.
He lost a lot more muscle than he'd lost probably ever.
Yeah, no, I definitely would say,
I would attribute half of it
in just the last six to eight months.
Yeah.
So a good portion of that happened over,
good 25 pounds of it, I would say, happened over years
from peat competing to basically where we've been.
Which is understandable.
Right, like I've reduced volume
I'm not dieting and training like I was before just on TRT. Yes
It's just it's been a slow kind of drop for the other 25 pounds over the course of say five years or whatever or more
But then I'd say the the the other half happened dramatic. That's why too
I think the point you're making I do think the first 20 to 20 by the way
That's the reason why I told Dylan to put 25 pounds.
He was asking like, hey, are we gonna put,
watch a bodybuilder build back 50 pounds?
Like, no, don't put that pressure on me.
I said, I don't wanna, I mean, I don't know.
That would be hard.
Yeah, that would be hard.
And to get all it back to peak shape,
that took a long time to get to that level.
I don't even want to do that, to be honest.
I said, but I'm pretty confident 25 pounds of that,
I'm gonna get back relatively quick because I know
that at least half of it was due to the last six
to eight months.
And the thing is, what you're trying to show,
because what you could have done is made it happen slower
by training more than was necessary.
This was the big point of the documentation,
is that when people tap into this,
what they tend to do is overdo it,
but then they don't realize they're overdoing it
because they still gained 10 pounds of muscle
or five pounds of muscle, so like, oh, I'm progressing.
You actually did more than was necessary,
which slows down your progress.
If you do things the right way, you'll progress,
and if you have muscle memory behind you,
you progress very quickly. And you have muscle memory behind you, you progress
very quickly.
And again, talk to any doctor, talk to anybody who's ever had surgery or a limb that was
in a cast.
You don't even have to work out.
You just take your leg out of the cast, start walking around, and boom, the muscle just
magically appears from when you were super skinny.
We've all experienced that.
That's called muscle memory.
That's epigenetic craziness that just happens.
So when you're looking at those kind of gains,
it was a combination of muscle memory
plus experience and know-how.
And the know-how was don't overdo it.
Just train appropriately.
Staying out in the goldilocks zone the whole time.
That was the main thing I think I wanted to get across
to the audience was not trying to sell it to somebody
that you could do this too.
It's like, that wasn't at all.
It was more so like how many people,
how many people do you think have been in shape before,
fallen off, gotten back in,
fallen off, gotten back in enough times,
and when they come back to getting back in shape,
they overdo it in that process.
And how minimal they need to actually do to get back to where they were
because the body will remember that. And I think that was the main takeaway. It was designed to be
an inspiring positive thing. I think also wanted to highlight the beauty of being 40 something years
old and having years of training. Because I think that's a message too that I wish would die, which is this like, oh when you get older it's so hard, it's so much more difficult
to build muscle. It's like, well I mean I guess if you waited till 45 and you just started lifting
first time, it's harder than if you would have started at 20. But for those that are young and
they have the opportunity to be consistent, and consistent doesn't mean like you never take a day
off for 20 years, it means that over the course of 20 years, you've spent more time of it lifting weights
than you didn't and boy will that pay off when you get into your 40s because you will
be surprised how little you have to do to maintain that muscle mass.
I think it's a very awesome thing to communicate to people and by no means was trying to pull one over on
people or at all.
Even the learning lesson for me, the little bit surprising was there was multiple times
in this when we were documenting this where I wanted to do more.
You got the camera on you.
I knew what I was trying to prove. So I'm like, no, I got it. I'm better off
not doing enough and then knowing there's still more room for me than for me to overreach and
then shoot myself in the foot. And so-
It's just a great example of what we talk about all the time on the podcast. It's like,
it's the visual of literally how we try our best to prescribe to your average person.
This is the methods that have been proven,
but it's like they need to see that.
And so you're going through that.
It shows the potential for it.
Speaking of bodybuilding, I've been watching
that short series on Netflix on Vince McMahon.
I forgot that he started the WBF,
the World Bodybuilding Federation.
Did you know that?
I didn't know that.
For a second, he tried to compete with the IFBB,
but it was so cringy, it was so bad.
He had bodybuilders and his spin was
that they were gonna be characters,
so they'd come dressed as like a soldier or whatever,
and then they'd dance.
Yeah bro, it was bad.
And it failed, it totally failed, completely.
I mean it's not much different than
what he tried to do with XFL.
Yeah.
I was gonna say, I knew he was part of that.
Yeah, that's his baby too.
What a great document, what a great series though.
It's really, I remember the growth.
I've been meaning to watch that.
Like we were kids when Hulkamania really took hold.
I remember that, I remember how big of a deal that was
when we were kids.
And they eat your vitamins.
They eat your vitamins.
They eat your vitamins.
Hey, it was, what was it?
Was it WrestleMania 3 or 4 where they had Hulk
versus Andre the Giant?
I remember that.
I remember how big of a deal that was
and how they promoted that.
I also remember, which one of the most interesting
part of the documentary for me was,
I remember being a kid, I was into it at this time,
when WCW came out of nowhere.
And I never met, as a kid I was like,
what is this federation?
And it's on, you know, I had a,
what was it, Monday also night?
And it was, and they were, I'm like,
all of a sudden this company comes out of nowhere
that I hadn't even heard of and then rivaled.
And so hearing the backstory of how they did that
financially basically was backed by
What's his name the TV guy the guy who owns the channel? I can't think of his name right now the big billionaire
Yeah, he was the one who backed it
And so he threw all this money at it in order to compete with WWF and so now that that was like oh, okay
That makes sense. That's how that happened and then how they started to pull all the wrestlers over
It's also it's interesting to it brings us back to a more naive time
because there was that whole period where there was this doctor that got
that got in trouble because he was prescribing them steroids.
And everybody's like, what? They take steroids? Remember what they look like?
They were showing pictures of these videos like the Ultimate Warrior,
balloon animals, ravishing Rick Rude, all these guys. They were like, they look like
bodybuilders on stage.
Yes.
And I remember everybody being like, what?
They're not natural?
And then Hulk Hogan was on Arsenio Hall.
Yeah.
And Arsenio asked him, do you take steroids?
He denied it, yeah.
And he's like, no, I've never used them.
I'm like, come on, bro, you should have told the truth.
Oh, I know.
I know.
You should have told the truth.
I don't think, yeah, we weren't ready for it back then.
No.
That's what it was.
The Balco stuff and all that.
I mean, now they don't even pretend.
They're just like, whatever. I know. There's a part of me was. Balco stuff and all that. Now they don't even pretend.
They're just like, whatever.
I know.
There's a part of me that I mean, I never, I guess I don't,
I shouldn't say I felt bad because anybody, I think,
I mean, if you lie, you get what's coming to you.
But there was, and this happened in our space.
We have people that we know that have been in the space
as longer than we have.
And you know, it was, I mean, shit,
even when I was talking about it, it wasn't quite in vogue yet.
Like it wasn't like something that people were talking.
You just, you couldn't admit it.
Yeah, like yeah, people, we said,
so there was a lot of, if you think about the big magazine
names and people in fitness, even before we came up,
you know, it was very popular to lie
about being on steroids.
And then once you've lied for your first 10 years
or 15 years,
yeah, it's really tough to go back.
It's a scary thing.
And so a lot of these guys have doubled and tripled down
on their all-natural.
And it's like, why?
But back then, it was way more taboo to talk about those things.
So that's, I mean, guy, when I'm reading these comments,
too, I think that's one of the funniest things about them.
I think it's like, I have never not disclosed everything that I've taken.
Like, I've been talking about steroids openly since the very first day I turned on Instagram and shared the entire journey.
It's such an easy way for people to make themselves feel good, too, to just shit on somebody and be like, oh, steroids.
I'm going to tell you something right now, okay? If you took an average guy and you put him on a just a
boatload of anabolic steroids and he went and he didn't have any muscle
memory. Head to head I kick his ass. You would have beat him. Muscle memory is so much
more powerful. Way more. Way more powerful. That's the huge advantage in that
situation. That is there's more it's the craziest thing you'll ever experience if
you've ever experienced this and again if you've ever broken limb you know.
I think when you communicate that,
I think the thing that people get,
well, the knee-jerk reaction is like,
you're not saying that taking steroids or testosterone
doesn't help big time.
It does help big time.
But imagine, if you think that helps big time,
muscle memory is even more powerful.
Just wrap that around your simple little brain.
It's like, it's not that we're saying
that testosterone does not help big time.
It's a huge advantage to be on synthetic testosterone,
for sure, okay?
But that's how powerful muscle memory is.
Is muscle memory is even more powerful,
that it's like you could take all the drugs in the world
to try and get big, and you're not gonna be a
somebody who was once a master.
A Casey Beider or me at building muscle in one month's time
after we've lost 50 to 100 pounds of muscle.
Just not gonna happen.
By the way, this exists, this evolutionary thing exists
to protect us from illness, after injury.
It's a very powerful signal.
Anyway, so we're gonna be heading out to Florida
at the end of the week.
You guys make sure you got your brain and fam all set up.
Oh my God, yes.
My goal, I still have yet, all the times that we've done
the trip across to Florida, I have yet to have
a very successful, like, not feel like dog shit.
I feel like that's, I just, I can't sleep on the plane
like you do.
You have this ability.
It's a long-winded one.
Put, so put, you don't do the BrainFM on the plane?
No, I haven't done it, not on a Florida flight.
That'll put you to sleep, dude.
Yeah.
That's all I listen to.
Now what happens with our time on this one?
Like when we fly over there, we leave early in the morning.
So is that mean?
Well, we gotta leave here early
because we fly to San Francisco.
Right.
So we fly to San Francisco, I think 9.30 a.m.
I don't know if we have a stop.
And then we get.
Because what I'm always working.
Now it's a direct flight. It's direct, and then the next day is when we're doing
the talk.
I know, but when do we, like, so, Florida time...
It's three hours behind us, right?
No, ahead of us.
So, we get there at six, six o'clock at night.
So that's the problem with sleeping on the way there.
I know.
So if you sleep on the way there, you're taking a nap
in the middle of the day, you're gonna sleep on the way.
God, I hate sitting awake on a plane, though. I don't know how you guys do it. Well, you never do it, you only know it's live. But just you just sitting there,, you're taking a nap in the middle of the day. You're going to sleep. I hate sitting awake on a plane, though.
I don't know how you guys do it.
You never do it.
You only know it's live.
But just you're just sitting there,
and you're like, you can't do anything.
I want to shoot myself.
I mean, you guys know how I am in here.
So sitting as long as I can put the focus on,
and you can do that thing.
I will use BrainFM.
I'm more like that.
I will use Focus, BrainFM, on the flight over to do work.
And then tonight, when when we land that night
I will need it to help me assist me to go to sleep because I sleep the whole time because I'm three hours before
Let's say we go to bed at like what a ten o'clock at night
Then it's like really like 7 p.m. Our time that's where it's gonna come in handy for me the flight over it would ruin me
To do that. It's the Mozart brain of him. I'm like dialing focus. Now. What are you working on?
Mozart brain FM. I'm like dialing in. Now what are you working on?
Just whatever I can do to think about like the next program,
the next business iteration, the next anything.
Like I just like to feel like I have some kind of like
productivity.
I want to see your notes.
Cause I feel like your notes are 50% like fitness stuff.
And then 50% conspiracy.
Pictures of dicks. That's what I picked. That was my next diet was all the valid diet. We're going through justice though. fitness stuff and then 50% conspiracy pictures of dick
That's what I picked. How's my next diet result? I think we're going through justice those like oh this is really to the dicks You know I draw a lot
It's a very recognizable image
Justin was no Jimmy over here trouble for doing that. What movie is that? That's from a movie, too
There's like there's a yeah, what movie is that with a kid?
He does that he was at the end it's in a movie. Yeah
What's it called? It was it was it was the McLovin movie. Oh, is it that one? No, was it super bad?
Yeah, it was super bad the end he was
On his trapper keeper. Yes. all these flying. Is that the helicopter?
That was so me.
Yeah.
Why, dude?
Because it's funny.
It's funny, and it's outrageous.
And you hand it to your friend.
I think Freud would like a word with you, Justin.
I should draw it.
I would make a paper airplane.
I'd throw it at somebody.
They'd go, oh my god.
Oh no, what is this?
I love the reaction.
He's working on something right now.
He told me, did you tell him or no? Did you not tell him? I didn't tell him. Oh, OK. I am working on is this? I love the reaction. He's working on something right now. He told me, did you tell him or no?
Did you not tell him?
I didn't tell him.
Oh, okay.
Well, I am working on something.
He's got some undercover project right now.
But you tell him, not me, huh?
Well, he didn't tell me either.
He just told, what he told me was,
hey, watching the whole docu-series you did
inspired me to do something.
It inspired me, yeah.
Justin's gonna do the opposite?
Yeah.
Watch how fat I get.
Watch this, guys.
Watch this. You think it's impressive what Adam did? Very little Yeah. Watch how fat I get. Watch this, guys. Watch this.
You think it's impressive what I did?
Very little effort.
You could look like this.
No.
I tell you what, that was one of the...
And then just play the video backwards.
Hey, that was one of the most eye-opening things I ever learned in the fitness space
was learning about how before and afters were taken.
Oh, that's so disgusting.
That...
It's so disgusting.
I mean, after it.
Well, there's two things that they do.
One is they do what you did.
Well, they'll find somebody, have them lose hella muscle,
and then have them gain it back.
Whoa, 30 days, our supplement, look what it did.
Or they'll just have someone get in bad shape
and then pretend that's the before.
Yeah, in reality, see after.
I mean, so from a marketing standpoint,
and the company who's like has no integrity brilliant
Idea I'm gonna add this real quick for mark for people who are like, oh Adams, you know, whatever listen
People do you know how do you guys have any idea? I'm talking to the audience here
Do you have any idea how many pictures of before and afters we have of people who followed our programs?
We have thousands and thousands of before and afters.
We've never ever, ever once used the before and after
to sell a program.
Why?
Because it goes against everything that we talk about.
It emphasizes the body obsession.
It highlights one person's results
and it makes you think that that's what you can accomplish.
We don't sell fitness that way.
And let me tell you, every marketing team
we ever work with thinks we're stupid
because it would sell so much.
So this whole like Adams journey thing,
that's not the reason why we're doing it.
Oh, you know, it's so funny you say that.
We have a ton of both.
We've got YouTube comments about that too.
Oh, these guys are such sellouts.
They say they don't do anything for transfer.
I'm like, Jesus, I can't win, bro.
People want me to show them everything and document it.
We're like, tell them about it too.
Then I do. This is the content we want. Then they're like oh all they're trying to do is push something and they're lying.
I'm like fuck everybody dude.
No wonder why we want to disappear from all this. It's like people are just so much dude. Too much man. It's alright.
It's alright. We have a shout out. We could do the live stream. Oh, there you go. Yeah.
Let's talk about the live stream. Is this airing before the livestream, Doug? Let's make sure we do that this time.
Yeah, it is.
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First question is from Matthew Reiner.
I travel a lot for work.
What kind of isometric exercises
can I do while sitting in the car?
Oh, that's a good question.
So just for people who aren't familiar,
isometric exercise, isometric contraction
is simply when you flex a muscle and you don't move, right?
So you have what's known as a concentric contraction.
I'm doing it right now.
Yeah, yes.
You can do a concentric contraction.
That would be like me curling my arm.
That's my bicep concentrically contracting.
Eccentric would be opening my arm. arm that's my bicep concentrically contracting eccentric will be opening my arm isometrics just holding right and
isometric contractions are great when you're driving because you can't move
you're holding the steering wheel you're in one place and the best exercise is
the ones in my opinion that kind of counter some of the negative negative
effects of sitting for a long period of time. So I really
like bringing my shoulder blades back and down, pressing the back of my head
into my seat, but not just the back of my head, the kind of bottom part of
my skull. They call this a nodule here underneath the skull there, so I'll push
that in there while pulling my shoulder blades back. And I also like pushing my
knees apart and activating the abducting muscles of my hips.
Those two movements can help me feel better.
Otherwise I tend to start to feel pain in my back
and my hips don't turn too long.
Yeah, I do something similar.
I like, especially with the shoulders and the arms,
like trying to extend my arms and then, you know.
Push them down and back.
Pull back, yeah, and so I'm in this like position
where I'm getting a bit more contraction there
with the arms and then the shoulder blades together.
But yeah, there's times too, I externally rotate a lot
and I notice that when I'm pressing on the gas.
So I try to do the opposite and actually turn,
get that internal rotation and hold that
and add tension to that.
So depending on some of your pain points,
those are good ones.
I recently talked about in the series,
it was one of the first videos, I did the zone one test.
And in the zone one test, which is from our prime program,
I take the viewers over to the wall,
I have Dylan shoot me doing all the things
you guys are talking about right now. And the point I make in the video is literally what I just, doing all the things you guys are talking about right now.
And the point I make in the video is literally
what I just said is, or what you guys are talking about,
which is once you learn what muscles to activate
to bring you back into a more advantageous posture
or position, then you can do it anywhere.
You don't need to be with a wall or in the gym,
you can do it on a plane, you can do it in your car.
And so I highly recommend, especially to any of our viewers with a wall or in the gym, you could do it on a plane, you could do it in your car. Standing, sitting, laying down, yeah.
And so I highly recommend, especially to any of our viewers
or listeners that have that program,
because I think zone one is arguably the most difficult
for most people to do and the one that will help
and support your upper posture
and the rounded shoulders and forward head that most people have,
especially when you're sitting in your driving.
And so once you kind of understand what that feels like,
you could do that sitting right in your car.
You could, and I actually will do the same thing.
I even add the pelvic tilt.
So I'll activate my abs, I'm doing it right now, right?
So I just activated my hips, squeezing my glutes, my core is activated,
and I'm doing that right now. That relieves my low back a lot, especially when I'm sitting
on a plane or in a car. But all of that comes from the practicing zone one test. Once you've
practiced that test enough and you understand how to flex all those muscles, then you could
virtually do it anywhere at any time. And in fact, this is what I tell clients, is like, do this all the time.
The more you're aware of this and the better you get at it,
doing it throughout the day, the better off you're going to be.
I like the pelvic tilts a lot.
Clients they used to train who had low back problems,
I would have them go in a posterior pelvic tilt,
so that's tucking your tailbone,
I'd have them hold that for 30 seconds, then I'd have them arch
or do what's known as an anterior pelvic tilt. Hold that. Then I'd have them find neutral, hold that.
I'd also have them do something called wag the tail where all you're doing there is you're taking the pelvis and you're
shrinking one side of your body and the other side of your body. And this just kind of loosens up the spine because
when you're sitting in one position for too long
Muscles can start to get tight you can start to feel and you know this like you're going along
You know drive you get out of the car
And it feels like you got to stretch or move and you could do this while you're driving you can activate muscles while you're driving
Yeah to make the drive
More comfortable to prevent some of the pain that comes from sitting for so long. And those of you that don't drive long distances, you can do this at your desk. If you
have a desk job, these are things you could do with having to stand up that
can prevent a lot of the kind of the pain that comes from just being inactive.
Oh yeah and opening up that full lateral line once I'm out of the car is
everything for me to really get that extension with the hip flexors. So that's, that's my go to.
Next question is from JT 70374.
Okay.
What are your thoughts on posing after a workout? I'm hoping to gain a better connection and control over different muscles. Is it something I should
incorporate into my training or is it something just for competitors?
So they're referring to bodybuilding poses.
And I think that one of the compulsory poses
is like a...
Bruce Lee did this, right?
Bruce Lee did lots of isometric contractions and flexing.
He did.
In fact, the first time I ever saw a lat spread,
which is a bodybuilding pose, it was Bruce Lee.
It was on Enter the Dragon.
And he does that big kind of lat, you know,
V-move or whatever.
So the poses are like what, front double bicep,
back double bicep, front lat spread, back lat spread,
you have the hands overhead, ab and quad pose,
and I think those are all the side tricep, okay.
Now, I like posing, I like flexing in between sets
or at the end because it helps you connect
to the different muscle groups and then that translates, it tends to translate
into better connection while you work out.
Now I don't think all the poses are equal.
I think some are more important than others.
One that I used to love teaching clients for two reasons.
One, because people have difficulty doing this one.
But two, because the muscle group or area
that people tend to have the most difficult to connect into
had to do with their back muscles
and in particular, their scapula.
Their scapula, people have a tough time
retracting their scapula, they have a tough time
rotating them out, bringing them out, bringing them in.
Most people can shrug, no problem, depressing.
Vacuum pose too.
Vacuum poses would be the second one
that I would like doing because it helps activate
the TVA, right?
But going back to the lat spread,
most people, and by the way,
there's athletes who are very fit, who work out,
who can't do a lat spread.
They don't possess the control to take their scapula
and spread them out and do what's called a lat spread.
Now if they practice and get this,
and my wife was like this.
My wife, she could perform on the silks.
She traveled with Cirque du Soleil for a while,
very strong, very fit.
She couldn't do a lat spread.
And I remember teaching her how to do it.
Once she was able to do it, she had better connection
to her back muscles doing back exercises.
So that's the one that I used to teach most of my clients.
So I just covered this in the series also.
And somebody was asking if I would pose afterwards.
And what I said to the audience was that
the most valuable thing about posing, in my opinion,
is being able to flex every individual muscle.
Because all resistance training is,
is flexion of the muscle with some sort of a resistance.
Meaning bands, body weight, dumbbells, barbells, cables,
all, that's all it is, is flexion of a muscle.
And so if you can connect and flex a muscle
with no resistance, then your ability to perform
every exercise with relatively
good form is going to be very easy. That means you can, if you can do what Sal is
saying, where you can flare the lats, you can control and flex the lats with no
resistance, just an isometric position, then you can go into an exercise
where you're upside down, you're pulling from down to up, up to down, from the
side, and all you think about is, Oh, this is for my lats.
So I'll flex my lats and do the movement and you'll perform the movement really
well. So learning to do that, um, has incredible value. Uh,
I think the science that supports the muscle gain you get from posing or
flexing is weak. And I think it w it's mostly connected to the fact that
you do the exercise. about exactly and so for me
I was telling them like I I'm not I'm not competing anymore. So I have no there's no reason for me to be doing it anymore
But I do think it's very valuable for people to learn how to do that
I think too like in something else you cover in the series was
About how to make the weights feel heavier. And so this sort of technique of being able to understand
how to activate the muscle and intensify your contraction
without weight would feed right into that
using a lighter weight.
That's a great point, Justin,
because that is another added value to,
if you can connect and flex with no weight,
then you can take really lightweight
and make
it super intense. That's a really good point.
Yeah, but I like, I mean the scapular stuff, I'm gonna just stand by this. I think it's
important for most people. You need to learn how to take your scapula, spread them out,
retract them. You need to be able to elevate them, depress them, and then you should also
be able to wing your scapula all without adding resistance.
And when you can do that, you can control one of the most complex joints
in the body, which is your shoulder.
And you'll be able to connect better to shoulder, chest, um, and
back exercises, uh, as a result.
So for, if you're watching this and listening to this, like practice
those back flexing, you know, movements.
It'll make your workouts much more effective.
Next question is from exploring this life I get dizzy after performing every set of
deadlifts I warm up to my PR of 195 pounds I fuel up before my workouts I
drink element with 5 milligrams creatine during my workout am I not getting
enough oxygen is this due to ineffective breathing? am I not getting enough oxygen? Is this due to ineffective breathing?
You are not getting enough oxygen,
but this is probably due to the drop in blood pressure
that some people get after exerting themselves
under a lot of force.
So the deadlift is a full body,
I've had clients like this.
So the deadlift, and I'll give you the remedy right now.
So it's a full body exercise, it's a lot of tension,
you're driving up, and when you're flexing and tensing
the muscles and exerting yourself,
your blood pressure goes up.
Then you put the weight down on the floor,
you let go of it, you no longer have a weight,
you get this subsequent blood pressure drop.
And for some people the drop happens
lower than where the person is at baseline
and they get dizzy.
And this is just something that happens to some people.
There's a term for it, I can't, off the top of my head,
can't remember what it is.
But I had clients like this.
Bagel?
I believe so.
He has bageling.
And I used to, this is more common with women than men.
It was rare for a male client to have this,
but I'd have female clients like this,
especially female clients who typically
would have low blood pressure. And what I would do with them is after they would put the weight down but I'd have female clients like this, especially female clients who typically would have low blood pressure. Um,
and what I would do with them is after they would put the weight down,
I'd have them continue to squeeze their lower, their legs.
So keep tensing your legs, stand up slowly, keep your legs flexed,
and then slowly relax them. So you don't get this, this, this,
this up and blood pressure. And then this drop it's up and then it kind of comes
down when you're flexing your legs really hard,
that helps maintain the blood pressure
So you don't get that big drop and then suddenly I said the calf raises
Just a little yeah, just do a little standing calf raises right afterwards like that to just mitigate the huge crowd by the way This is like this. This is like what they taught me when I was gonna get up in the f-16 exactly
Yeah, exactly. This is what they keep to keep you from blacking out. Yeah, it keeps you from passing out
Oh, what do they tell you to do? How do they tell you to do that?
We have to fly like push like everything so hard into the to the ground and like contract your quads and you know calves
And everything is hard as you can. Oh, wow, you're squeezing all the blood
I mean it makes sense. I just didn't know that that was actually part of the protocol. They actually tell you to do that
Yeah, I mean they asked you from pants that even, you know, kind of emphasize that and squeeze for you,
but you still have to do it.
Yeah, but I remember one woman I trained,
this was an issue for her, and we got really good
at being able to deadlift without getting dizzy,
but she had to like master maintaining tension in her legs
as she stood up, and what she would do,
she'd put the weight down, I'd remind her,
it's okay, flex your leg, keep your legs flexed,
and then she'd let go of the bar,
she'd stand up real slow keeping your legs flex and then slowly
release her legs boom. I found a correlation too with people that were
dieting low calorie always yes if you have someone who is dieting especially
low carb yes especially low carb because you lose so much fluid out of that and
you see this and it also dilates the blood vessels ketones can do that and
so you see just low blood pressure. There you go. Next question is from James Ayers, 95. Before meeting your wives, what quality traits were
most important to you when looking for a partner, especially for someone aspiring
to be a future husband and father?
Oh, that's a good question.
That's a good question.
Well, if you want to be a dad, that means you want to have kids.
I think you want to find a woman that is caring, that is caring, that means you wanna have kids, I think you wanna find a woman that is caring,
that is caring, that also wants to have children.
I think that's very important.
And then, you know, do they have similar values to you?
Are they somewhat disciplined?
Because you have to be disciplined throughout life.
And then, are they the kind of person that's gonna be supportive to you, because you're to be disciplined throughout life. And then are they the kind of person
that's gonna be supportive to you
because you're gonna go through times
and you're not gonna be great and vice versa.
And then a lot of the other stuff is individual,
like things that you're into, in my opinion.
Yeah, two of the things that were,
I think were so important to me about Katrina
that I fell in love with is her confidence and security
and who she was and the fact that she was growth-minded.
Those two things were massive for me.
At this point in my life, I had realized
that I had a dating pattern of dating women
that were insecure, although they looked like
they were confident because they were beautiful
or all these things, but they were very insecure.
So her security and confidence in who she was
was so important, and then the fact
that she was so growth-minded.
Those two traits, I think, were so powerful
in our relationship working and then continuing
to grow together and get even stronger 13 plus years later.
So those are probably the most important.
Aside from what you said, I think that it's nice
to have things in common.
She likes sports, I like sports.
We have similar tastes in music and movies.
Those are all kind of pluses that I think that
if we didn't have it in common, I still think
that we could have worked it out fine.
If the other two, the two that were so important
at that point in my life was finding a confident,
secure woman who was growth-minded.
Justin. Killer body and blonde.
That's it.
I got real low standards.
Yeah, no, it's similar to what you guys are saying.
But it's like, for me, it was really just like the morals
in terms of what they stand for.
Also too, just seeing, I'm very much of an observer
So I watch sort of how people interact with each other and I want to see you know
Are you kind are you thoughtful are you going out of your way to help people you're very much, you know
Like I'm just attracted to that people that are look out for other people
and
Like
Just the growth minded parts huge for me too and the growth-minded part's huge for me, too,
and the self-sufficiency.
So I was like, if she's already has a good head on her shoulder,
is going to be successful, regardless of anybody kind
of stepping in, that's attractive to me.
I have a bit of that observer trait, too, Justin,
that I didn't realize that I had.
Katrina obviously made me very aware of that with her.
Like, I guess looking back, I go, oh, that's true.
That is something like I love when I can take her to a place
that she's not familiar with anybody.
I could bail on her, leave her, and know
that when I come back and find her 30 minutes later that
she's not hiding in a corner or trying to find me because she's so freaked out that
she's holding the conversation and engaging with five, ten people that are strangers that
all of a sudden now within five minutes already like that is such an attractive quality for
me to have, which I think feeds into the confidence and security. Like I think that is a big part of what made her like that,
but I found myself observing her
and putting her in positions like that
to see how she would handle herself.
Yeah, and I felt like that was so, so attractive
to see a woman that could do that.
You guys both mentioned growth-minded.
I think that's a big one.
I know that really attracts me to my wife.
I think growth mind is important because
they're going to grow.
So if you plan on being married to this person,
the goal is right to stay married forever for the rest of your life.
You want someone who's growth minded because
that's going to get you through a lot of
challenging things.
You hope they're not going to be the same
person in 10 years.
I hope you're not the same person.
And so people who are growth-minded
tend to search for ways of becoming better.
And so you know, okay, we're more likely
to get through things because this person,
this individual, Jessica was very growth-minded.
She was reading a lot.
She was always very interested in self-help.
She was very interested in helping others.
I said very caring.
You know, red flags, this might be a good caring. You know red flags, this
might be a good question, like what were red flags for you guys? For me a big red
flag is if a woman that doesn't want kids or doesn't like kids. That's like
one of the biggest red flags. Part of it was I had kids already but the other
part of it is it's very strange to me when anybody doesn't want to have kids
let alone a woman and it's such a strong thing, a driver,
to not wanna have kids, like, okay, you're really hurt
or something's going on there, you know?
I know I'm offending some people,
but that's just a red flag for me.
To hammer home the growth-minded thing,
I believe that the, I mean, obviously, marriage is lasting
is already almost a 50-50 shot.
I think marriages before the age of 25,
the number's even worse, more grim than that.
The percentage that actually stick with it
that got married really young,
I believe the main reason is because they were growth-minded.
Because when you're a teen in your early 20s,
you're so, as much as you think you are mature
and think you know who you are, a good
part of your 20s and 30s is really figuring out who you are. And so if you lock in and get married
at 20 something else, you better hope that you married a partner who is as growth minded as you
are because you're probably going to be very different humans, 15 years. And so long as you're
both open to growing, you most likely can grow together and learn to be able to compromise
and do those things. If you have somebody who is set in their ways or growth is not important to
them and you marry early, it is a talk about a roll of the dice if it's going to work.
Part of why I've always been an advocate for waiting until later, a big part of that is because
it gives you that opportunity
to grow and learn first before you even choose a partner.
Because I tell you, the traits I was looking for
when I found Katrina was very different
than what I was looking for when I was 20, 25 years old.
You know what's interesting on that data, by the way?
I've been going through a lot of this,
and I'll bring this up on another episode
because I have some other interesting stuff
to say about this, but I looked at that data
on getting married young and the odds of divorce. If the couple
has strong religious roots, the odds go way down of divorce. It's when you have two secular
people who are young who get married.
And that feeds my point, right? Like if you have two people that are spiritually minded
people, then they're growth minded.
They're growth minded.
Yeah, yeah. That's part of like,
regardless of what religion you're talking about, it's on the pursuit of being a better version of yourself. Pursuit of improvement. Yeah.
Yeah. And so if you have two that have, are equally yoked in that, then the likelihood that they're
going to be able to make it through is much higher than...
Yeah. And again, so the observer thing, I peer into family dynamics too a lot
in how the parents and that relationship is,
and then grandma, and that was one big quality
that attracted me to Courtney too
is just her caringness for her grandma.
And she just was going out of her way
to do things and make sure that happened
before we'd even go on a date. And I'm just like, oh wow, that's
That's a lot. That's an important one Justin that I think a lot of people overlook too is just
understanding
your partner's
childhood comparison to yours, right like
Especially if yours is very different like if there was anything that was probably challenging for Katrina and I when we first got together
That's one of the top challenges is we were,
we were raised very different as far as our family values and things like that.
And so being able to understand where each of each,
each of them are coming from and know that that will cause a lot of controversy
if you don't think about that or talk about it beforehand, you just, you know, sometimes it's really easy to just fall in love with that
person and not realize like you're also marrying a family and someone with,
with certain family values and traditions and things like that.
If you don't understand that, um, that can cause a lot of rift too, in a relationship.
A lot to consider.
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