Mind Pump: Raw Fitness Truth - 2581: The 4 Stupid Reasons You’re NOT Getting Results & More (Listener Live Coaching)
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There are many reasons why you might not be getting results,
but there's four reasons that are really stupid.
They're dumb because they're annoying,
but they're common and most people overlook them.
That's what we're gonna talk about,
the four most common stupid reasons
why you're not getting results.
Stupid reasons.
Yeah, and I'll start with the first one,
then we'll swing back and talk a little bit about
kind of what we're talking about.
But the first one is eating too little.
Eating too little.
I mean, this one's controversial because, I mean,
we just had a great conversation with Dr. Mike Isretel,
and one of his claims is that the majority of people
just underreport and it's not eating too little.
Sure.
I definitely think there's a large portion of that,
for sure, but I also think there's a lot of clients
that I train that, you know,
we're just starving their bodies of nutrients
and overdoing it and so,
and just simply scaling back on the volume intensity,
increasing food a little bit,
especially going after whole foods and protein,
all of a sudden we saw change.
Well, the reason why this one's one of the stupid reasons is because it's not intuitive.
Like you're trying to lose weight and so you're eating less and that is definitely part of the
formula of losing weight is to eat less than you're eating before, but you could be eating
so little that you're compromising your body's ability to function,
you're compromising your ability to recover and adapt to exercise, and you're putting your body
in a position to where it kind of wants to hold on to things. And so what it'll do is it'll
pair muscle down. That's what happens here. It's surviving at that point, right? And then it too
is affecting your performance in your workouts, which you're not maximizing
your true potential as you're actually even going
through the exercises.
So, you know, it's a lot of different factors
that happen when you're really low in calories.
Yeah, and there's a couple, there's a few components
in here, one is you could be just generally eating
too little, so your calories are so low
that your body is paring muscle down,
it's changing your hormone profile
to try to get you, essentially, for lack of a better term,
slow your metabolism down, okay?
And so things will halt,
and you'll be stuck at this real low calorie place,
and you're not progressing anymore,
you have another 15 pounds to lose.
It's really frustrating, and you can't figure it out,
because you're eating so little,
I should be losing lots of weight.
The other part of this is if you're eating
too little of an essential macronutrient.
So this could be I'm not eating enough fats
because fats are essential.
Proteins are essential.
That's another one, I'm not eating enough proteins.
But the not enough fats one, I mean,
being a trainer who started training clients
in the late 90s and all the way up to the 30s.
This was common because.
Especially my female clients.
Yes, in the 80s and 90s, what was hammered into us
for fat loss was low fat.
So I get female clients, I'm not exaggerating, okay.
These were people that were like really counting everything
who would come to me and they just couldn't figure out
why they felt like absolute garbage.
They would have weird symptoms like hair thinning,
skin issues, their energy was terrible,
libido was gone, and I'd go through their diet
and they'd be having like 15 grams of fat a day.
20 grams, I'm not making this up.
Like they were literally boiling chicken breasts,
eating it with, you know. The leanest cuts of meat possible. Oh, they wouldn't literally boiling chicken breasts. Yeah eating it with you know
Leanest cuts of meat possible. Oh, they wouldn't even touch no nothing with fat. No, it was like boiled chicken breast
It was white fish
vegetables white rice or plain potato and they would eat like this in salads and
They couldn't figure out what the hell was going on
And when I'd look at it like you're like, you're not even eating essential fats.
Your body's not absorbing fat soluble vitamins
and you need some fats to do well.
So I would literally, it was so funny,
some of these clients, I'd have them add
like a tablespoon of peanut butter
or I'd have them add like an avocado.
Yeah, change.
Immediate change in energy
and their body would start kicking in gear.
Now too little protein is also terrible and can cause a lot of those issues as well.
But low calories in general, too low of calories in general, your body will figure out how
to operate on those low calories because that's what it does.
Crazy deficiencies.
And it causes your, it just makes you lose muscle like crazy.
And so then you end up in this position, which how many times has this happened you guys?
You'd have somebody who would just not you know in
the gym who would just under eat and they would lose weight and their body fat
percentage would go up yeah and couldn't figure out what do you mean I lost worst
case scenario I lost 12 pounds how did my body fat percentage go up it's like
you lost 10 pounds of muscle maybe a couple pounds I think this is why it
falls into the category of four stupid things yeah it's like how frustrated are
you when you're like okay I understand law of thermodynamics I'm gonna move I think this is why it falls into the category of four stupid things, right? Because it's like how frustrated are you
when you're like, okay, I understand law of thermodynamics,
I'm gonna move more, eat less,
and that's the main rule I'm going to follow,
and then I do, and then the result on the scale
says I did a good job, but then I go take my body fat,
and what, you mean to tell me I got fatter?
How is that possible?
And it's like, yeah, no, it's very possible.
Your story of your trainers is my favorite,
where you had everybody compete.
Yeah. These were trainers. Yeah. But a lot your trainers is my favorite, where you had everybody compete. Yeah.
These were trainers.
Yeah.
But a lot of them overdid it.
That's part of that.
Yeah, and a lot of them overdid it,
and they came back lighter with a higher body fat percentage.
Because here's what happens.
If you're sitting at, let's say, 15% body fat,
let's say you're a man, 200 pounds, 15% body fat.
So you got a nice athletic build, 15% is good.
And then you lose 20 pounds, but it's muscle.
It's all muscle.
Your current body fat now is a higher percentage
of your body weight.
So in other words, you're actually fatter as a percentage.
Even if it was half, you still would go up, I believe.
If I'm amassing that correctly.
It could, yeah.
It could if it was half muscle, half fat.
Yeah, which is not horrible totally horrible but that's
what example of how that's doable I don't know if it's exactly half but it'd
be close you could easily lose you know definitely if you lost more muscle in
fact oh yeah definitely then you go up in body fat percentage but I think
there's a forget where the number is because I've done that done the math
before it's like wow that's crazy that even if you did a good job of losing say 10 or 20 pounds is if just half of it was uh you could
you could stay in the same place. Yeah, stay the same or go up and let me tell you the worst
muscle the work to lose 20 pounds regardless of what the 20 pounds is is a lot of work. I mean
that's a lot of uh depriving yourself of calories and a lot of activity to result in, I mean, how frustrating is that
to do all that?
I mean, that was my trainers.
I mean, they were just, this thing's broken.
It doesn't work.
And I'll be honest, when that happened,
I questioned it too.
I was just like, can all my guys and girls be off?
Are we all that off?
Dude, I was just thinking about that the the amount of competition where we get like Ronnie and Nick in
the sauna
Yeah, dude burpees and like sweating and like everything was like so high intensity and like cardiovascular based and like we were just so
Oblivious and I'm like, oh these guys are crazy and I was just you know, I was still in that mentality
I have to like lose weight by adding more cardio
on top of the training I'm already doing.
And then you find yourself in that place
where you get tested and you're like,
this can't be true, this can't be true.
It's crazy.
All right, the next one, this one's relatively common.
Just exercising too much or too hard.
Which goes right to the point
what Justin was just saying right now.
Yes, this one is, so remember exercise. See, I'm right in line. Exercise is essentially a hormetic stress, okay, so it's a stress on the body that tells the body it needs to
become stronger, more fit, build muscle to adapt to the stress that it provides.
But if the stress overcomes or surpasses your body's ability to adapt and recover
It's just stress just lots of stress and your body adapts if it doesn't adapt to the stress if you can't adapt to the stress
All it's gonna happen is you break things down. You're gonna cause hormone issues
That's a very common one by over exercising too much or too hard is a fantastic way to crash your testosterone if you're man
It's an amazing way to destroy your hormone profile if you're a woman if
This is an extremely stupid reason or frustrating reason because you're working your butt off
Yeah, and nothing's happening. This is common in the high intensity group exercise world
This is what you see
More often than not and the boot camp classes, the F45s, the Orange Theories, these middle-aged people
coming in who are going crazy and initially
they lose 10 pounds, so like super excited,
but then they plateau and they're like,
okay, I'm coming here four days a week
and I'm barely crawling out of here
because I'm pushing it so hard and that's it,
I'm not progressing anymore.
But I have another 15 pounds to lose.
Do I go one more day a week?
That's a lot.
Do I go six days a week?
What's that gonna do?
It's very frustrating.
The truth is, exercise needs to be appropriate.
If it's appropriate, your body will respond.
If it's too little, it won't respond very fast.
If it's too much, you're gonna freeze.
You're gonna freeze your progress and you're gonna plateau.
And if you push it too, too hard for too much, you're gonna freeze. You're gonna freeze your progress and you're gonna plateau. And if you push it too, too hard for too long,
you'll go backwards.
You know, that's the part that makes this so stupid
or frustrating is that, you know, what is that?
And there's such a wide variance, right?
And it's so nuanced and context matters.
Because I know what happens is a lot of people are just like,
I'm not even pushing that hard,
I'm only training this many days. But you're also working 10 hours a day at
work. You've also got a newborn kid at home.
You also are just gotten a fight with your wife. You know, you have all these
other things. And then on top of that, you chose the, the mode of exercise you
chose is high intensity circuit training or CrossFit. And it's like in the, in
that context, uh, even only doing it,
say three or four days a week,
and then the rest of the time you're not doing any other,
it still can be too much stress.
And that's enough for these people not to see the results.
And again, really difficult,
because then they're comparing themselves
to somebody else who's in the same class going,
well, why is it working so well for them?
Well, that context matters.
We don't know what that person is,
how they're dieting, what their stress levels are like,
and all that stuff matters.
You gotta know where you're at and where to start.
It's all signal and it's no recovery.
Yeah.
You know, it's this weird illusion that I could just,
I think some people are still under the impression
that the workout itself is where they're building the muscle.
And so then to keep doing that and then keep increasing that intensity and keep
you know throttling down on that is going to pay off. But really the building process it requires
you know that's the signal that then now we have to go back we have to recover we have to
feed ourselves we have to have the materials all that has to happen to now actually
like provide the muscle. these kind of clients were
simultaneously some of the most challenging but also my favorites because
If I could get it if I could do a good job
Where I could convince them to trust me that was the hard part, right?
So you take somebody who's doing five days a week of high intensity group exercise classes
They've plateaued and it's typically I'm gonna paint, let me paint the picture for you, okay?
It says a 38-year-old mom of two,
and she's getting back into fitness
because her baby just turned three years old,
and she initially lost 12 pounds,
but she's been doing this four days a week now,
and has seen no movement on the scale for a while.
And you see her working her butt off and sweating,
and then you start talking
with her, I have to convince her that doing less
and training less hard and doing a little bit more
traditional strength training, which seems like a cakewalk
compared to what she was doing before,
is gonna get her better results.
Now if I can do a good job and convince her
and then convince her to stick around,
because it takes a second for this to work,
then it's a lifer.
This was a lifelong client.
But the hard part was convincing them
because it was always like,
wait, you want me to do less?
You want me to do, you just took me through a workout
and I felt like nothing compared to what I've been doing.
And you're telling me this is gonna burn body fat?
I was like, trust me.
And later in my career I got good at this
because usually a friend recommended them.
So they trusted me because they saw the evidence there.
But once they followed through, it was like,
and what would they always say?
I feel like I'm barely doing anything,
and my body's progressing.
I'm eating more, I'm working out less,
I have more energy, it doesn't make sense.
Yep, yep.
It's bringing me anxiety.
That's right.
The next one is a nutrient deficiency.
This one sucks because a lot of people don't even realize that the reasons why they don't feel great,
the reasons why they're not recovering, the reasons why maybe they're showing signs of hormone imbalances
is because they're not getting a key nutrient that's so easy to fix.
For example, magnesium deficiency, not getting enough magnesium, by some estimates probably
affects between 20 to 30 percent of everybody.
Some people say even more.
There's some health experts that think...
That was 60.
Yeah.
That will say it's higher.
I've read 60.
It depends on what you believe is optimal, but it's a sizable percentage of people.
Now what does magnesium deficiency look like?
Well, it looks like anxiety.
It looks like poor sleep.
It looks like feeling uneasy,
not recovering like I used to,
just kind of like not feeling,
maybe some headaches here and there.
Now those are easy to overlook, right?
Because you're just like,
I don't know, I'm kind of getting bad sleep
and I feel a little anxious and I don't know.
So you go to your doctor and your doctor's like,
well, try this, that, you do that, it doesn't to your doctor and your doctor's like, well, try this, that,
you do that, it doesn't work,
and then the doctor's like, here's an SSRI
or here's an Enzyolytic or whatever.
Not realizing this is an easy fix.
Vitamin D deficiency is even more common.
Vitamin D deficiency will kill a man's testosterone.
It can cause infertility, it can cause aches and pains.
This happened to my dad.
My dad, who often is outside, now we have dark skin,
so he needs more sun than the average person,
but he's often outside working, he's active,
and he was having all these aches and pains.
Now he thought it's because he's older,
or thrice he's worked blue collar work his entire life,
couldn't figure it out, and it was,
I mean, this was going on, guys, for probably a year, and he was taking pain medication, just couldn't figure it out. This was going on guys for probably a year and he was taking pain medication, just couldn't
figure it out.
Did a regular blood test, like your vitamin D is in the floor.
They gave him vitamin D you could buy for so cheap anywhere.
Started taking it, pain was gone.
Pain was totally gone.
How common do you think it is that people, maybe with some of these deficiencies and
symptoms, will just chalk it up
and attribute it to they're older now.
And this is part of the aging process.
And they don't ever get it checked.
Or even that this is part of the process of filling this way.
Because this goes hand in hand with the first one.
Almost always when someone, and I remember,
I wish I remember, I'm the worst when
it comes to citing the studies or whatever it was.
But I remember reading a study or an article
that talked about the average male and female at this weight,
so like very general numbers,
how many calories macros would they need
to have to hit their RDA for all their macros?
Which, by the way, some people argue isn't even optimal
for nutrients, for sure. Right, exactly.
And it's like the amount you were supposed to eat,
it was like for a guy it was like a 3,500
plus a serving of liver.
It was like this like, just ridiculous.
Nobody's eating that.
I'm like, so almost everybody's gonna have
some sort of deficiency somewhere.
And then put that in the context of somebody
who is dieting and eating like you said,
boiled chicken breast, this and that.
It's like dude, you are certainly
probably deficient somewhere, and so yeah,
I think they go hand in hand.
If you're eating too little, you're also probably
gonna have some of these nutrient deficiencies.
Have you guys ever seen, they put together
some dieticians and they said, create a 2,000 calorie diet
that hits the RDA of every single micronutrient.
They can't, right?
They took some crazy planning.
And it was not a diet the average person would eat.
No, it's like I told you,
it's like you have to have so many ounces of liver,
like you need these unbelievably nutrient-dense foods
in order to fit the calories.
So I remember it was like-
You had to match the calories.
To match the calories to not gain weight
on the average person, but yet hit your nutrients like you. It's crazy. And that just,
it's a testament to how much we, I think our nutrients lacking are like,
there's part of that thing was connected to showing like what a,
like a vegetable had nutrient wise today versus like 50 years.
Yeah. So food is a lot lower. Our,
our maintenance calories is much lower. And you and because of that like what we is required to get what our body needs is much higher yet
If we eat much higher we put on body fat
So we're in this conundrum of okay, I need to eat less in order to lose weight
But then I'm almost certainly gonna be deficient somewhere because I'm getting nutrient deprived
So and I just think it's overlooked. Yeah, I think we talk so much about
the aesthetic, right? How I look, oh, I don't like this gut and this is what it takes to lose it,
but we don't talk about health and what's optimal nutrient wise. No,
it's relatively common when you when you look at all and then there's also this like
the greater the deficiency the louder the signs and symptoms are. So you could be borderline deficient,
and you just kind of don't feel as good as you could.
You know, and you don't have these crazy glaring symptoms,
but you're just not getting, you're in the low-
It's real low level, yeah.
Yeah, so this was dumb, because I've had clients like this.
I've had clients like this.
Actually, I had one-
I was like this with magnesium.
Yeah.
Vitamin D too. Yes, if you would have asked me, I would be like, I'm fine. I don had clients like this. Actually I had one. I was like this with magnesium. Vitamin D too. Yes if you would have asked me I would be like I'm
fine. I don't think I have bad sleep. But then all of a sudden I take it and it felt
life-changing like that's wild but it was because I was deficient. Yep I had a
client once that for a while we could not figure out why she was having strange
neuropathy in her fingertips. It was like it was happening
forever and her doctor couldn't figure it out
Nobody could figure it out and I did some Google searching. It's a trick nerd
I'm like you have a vitamin B deficiency
She got tested sure enough took some cheap of a beast. It's a B supplements and she felt great. All right last is not
Priming or doing a proper warm-up. All right, so why is this a stupid reason,
why is this a frustrating reason?
First off, we call a good warmup
or one that's individualized priming.
We use that word to differentiate it
because when I say warmup,
people just think warming up the body.
Like a warm-
Calisthenics running on the treadmill.
Blood flow and that's about it.
And now the bar is really low with warmups.
The idea behind a warmup is to reduce the risk of injury.
That's the idea. And that's the minimum it should do.
And just moving before you exercise does reduce the risk of injury through
some different some mechanisms, primarily the main one being
your body is just firing better because you've
just done a couple of these things.
For example, if you practice one thing the second time around, you'll do it better.
It's not as abrupt.
Your body recognizes it better.
Yes.
Now, priming is different.
Priming takes your individual body and how it moves, and you warm your body up individually
so that it works best during your workout based off
of what you need.
So to give you an example, I may be someone who when I squat, my ankle mobility is a limiting
factor.
So what ends up happening when I squat, this is a common one, is I'll squat and my feet
will flatten and slightly turn out.
So I'll get a little bit of rotation in my knee.
Now I might not notice it, but I start to notice that my knees bother me a little bit.
I get a little achy in my knees when I squat, okay?
If I identify that in myself properly,
I can do ankle priming,
and then when I get into my squat, that doesn't happen,
because I move better.
You can do this for your hips,
you can do this for your shoulders,
you may have forward shoulder,
you might have forward head, you might do this for your shoulders. You may have forward shoulder, you might have forward head.
You might have issues engaging your core.
If you prime properly, then when you get into your workout,
right away set one is effective.
Right away it's effective.
And the risk of injury goes way down.
So to put it differently, a well done set of squats
where you are moving very, very well versus one that's okay, right?
It's not so bad you're gonna hurt yourself right away,
but it's just not great.
The difference in results over the next six months
is actually significant.
It's quite significant.
And a lot of people don't understand how to prime.
Now a good coach or trainer will know how to prime you
properly, but really look at your individual
movement pattern issues
and warm yourself up specifically, not generally.
That's one of the best ways I could put it.
If you had to put a percentage to the return
on your investment on that per exercise you do
in the workout, would you say it makes the exercise
five percent better, one percent, 10, 15?
I'd say 10 at least.
10 percent?
I mean,, we,
so for the audience they understand, we're very aware of this and we always see, we see great
examples of this at the professional level of sports. So if you go to a football game, hockey
game, basketball game, any professional sport and unfortunately the television doesn't show much of
this because you don't, they cut right from commercial right to playing but what it's happening before the game for about 30 minutes is very individualized priming for all these athletes almost every athlete has a assigned coach so if you watch It's like your warm-up looks like this. So Steph Curry's band work and drills looks different than Draymond Green's drills.
And they have figured that out.
Now, you're talking about some of the most fit athletes
out there.
So it's not like they need this exercise.
But what they are doing is they are priming their body
to go get the most out of every movement
that they do in that game for the next field.
It's the same thing when you're trying
to pocket the quickest possible.
Yes.
And that's the thing. On that level, too when you're trying to pocket the quickest possible. Yes, and that's the thing is here
And on that level too, you're talking about velocity and acceleration
Which you know has even more
Need for priming in order to I was just going through this getting coached for just a jerk press
And so this is something that's like a bit foreign to me right now in terms of like an Olympic lift
But the demands for it are crazy in terms of my feet positioning and to be responsive with that
And so to be responsive with that
Doing it without the priming sequence
you see me flailing all over the place because it my body's just trying to react and catch and figure it out and like over
Over doing it in terms of my energy output just to try to stabilize
and control.
So you know but then I as I did it again with priming and I've you know patterned that that
that movement it was like sinked in immediate sinking in and again if you kind of scale
that down to your workout and any kind of exercise you're doing you're just going to
squeeze and maximize that performance potential to that degree.
If you add, if you include the gains you'll get,
or the performance you'll get for the exercise
through the sets with proper priming,
and you combine that with the reduction in injury or pain,
I believe the payoff is more than 10%.
I know, I just, I would say over the course of a year,
it's probably more like 15% or 20%.
I mean, the reason why I brought up
the professional athlete thing is because
these guys are working out.
They're doing nutrition.
They're checking the boxes already.
And yet they still.
And they're still doing it.
And they're still doing it, and they're still remiss.
So for the average gym goer,
who's not checking all the boxes,
I think the return's even higher.
I think the impact of them getting ready to go, the return that they're going to see on it is even greater because they're not
optimizing every other place. So at least optimize getting your body ready for that workout.
I think the, I wish we had some good studies to give, to nail down a percentage so I could
sell it better. But it's like an area that I mean, to me of all the ones you listed,
this one is like, I mean, this is
again, I've said this before on the podcast, if you listen for a long time, I was so proud
of, you know, we're proud of everything we've done program wise, but Maps Prime was so was
so special as far as like, I knew the value and it took me years before I got to this
place where I really recognize the value of the assessment and really teaching a client
how to prepare their body for a workout,
to get the most out of it.
So they move more optimally,
they reap the most amount of benefits,
and it was mind-boggling how many people skipped that process
or how many people bastardized it
by just doing ridiculous like jumping jacks
or just go run on a treadmill for 10 minutes
and then let's go right into our workout.
It's like, man, if we could hone in
on what this person's body needs
and spend a quick five to eight minutes
just getting them ready, man, the rewards,
aside from injury prevention and posture and moving better,
it just, the rewards on the muscle building side
and fat loss are tremendous.
And so the fact that we created something that not only trainers and coaches could go
use for their clients, but that the person who doesn't even have a trainer and coach
could assess themselves and learn that themselves, I think it's the best thing that we ever did.
Because this is more individualized, let's do, so if you want something like that, you
go to mapsprime.com, then prime 50 will give you 50% off.
That way you can figure that out for yourself.
A good trainer knows how to do this, by the way.
This is one of the technical things that separates a great trainer from your typical trainer.
If your trainer doesn't-
It's a big part of their value.
Run! If your trainer doesn't do this on their first- if your trainer on the first session doesn't do a deep thorough assessment on you, run.
Yeah. Big red flag.
Yeah, there's far better coaches and trainers out there that take this part
And the ones that are that have been doing this for a long time
Understand how valuable how important this is and they're not at that phase of their career where they allow the client to dictate what the training
Session looks like they know how to convince or explain to this person how valuable this assessment that we're doing is even when the clients
Saying I just want to work out. Let's just show me some exercise. Let's just get a sweat on.
And you're like, no, no, no.
I'm going to break down to you why we want to do this.
Here's how valuable priming can be when you do it right.
This is a trainer trick, but it's not really a trick.
It's just you know what you're doing.
You would get a client, I would get a client, a potential client who would say to me, I
have low back pain or I have shoulder pain.
Or really show me when your shoulder hurts.
Oh, it's when I do this. I would prime them for 10 minutes properly then I'd say do that a movement again. No shoulder pain
Oh my god, it's gone. They would hire me
That's literally that was like a hundred percent you talk to any trainers been a trainer for a long time
Who knows this if I had somebody that I wanted to get hire me
This was the fastest easiest way to show my value is when they had a little bit of pain
I'd make it go away in 10 minutes with proper priming.
And it would.
It would either go away or it would be 70% reduction.
I mean, let's break that one down because it was so common and I think it is so powerful.
Because the joint, the humerus is like floating, and what happens, a lot of people feel this
pain in their shoulder when they do bench press or overhead pressing
Because it's not in an optimal position and the muscles that are supposed to stabilize that shoulder and put it in the optimal spot
Aren't aren't firing properly. And so what you know to do is go. Okay. I know what this person needs to do
They need to fire all those muscles get them warmed up and then they'll pull that humerus into the optimal position to where that
Shoulder is floating where in that socket perfectly. So then to the, it looks like you just miraculously cured them.
But you just understand as a trainer like, oh, I know why this person feels that way.
Let me go warm that up real quick.
You just gotta get him aligned and stacked properly.
And now that person who was skipping bench press or overhead pressing because it always
Can now do it.
Can now do it.
And like talk about the return on that.
And I had clients like that.
I had clients who were like, oh yeah, I don't I don't do bench press because every time I do it I feel this
clicking and it just nagging pain or oh I'm gonna do shoulder press I feel this and so you know I
can do this I can do that but I avoid that it's like oh my god well we could we could fix that
right now you want to fix that like huh you'd fix that right now yeah blow their mind I love that
hey I wanted to ask you haven't talked to to you since you went and trained with Jordan. Yeah, with Jordan. Yeah. Yeah, it was amazing. And it's funny
because it's just like, it's one of those things that you're always the student and
like, you know, like it's thrown out there a lot. And it's, I knew a brief amount about
Olympic lifting from my past working with it for football, but it was, I had
some good coaches that have kind of set a little bit of a foundation, but like just the amount of
cues and direction and the high level that he is in terms of, you know, that specific lift itself,
it was like, I was, I was sitting there just like mind blown just because it was like,
I felt stupid because I had waited this long to go get somebody
To actually do a proper assessment of what I'm actually trying to accomplish
So he was walking through a jerk press. Yeah, right and that's a technical lift
Okay, explain a jerk press to me versus a push press. I know push presses push press. Yeah bilateral
So it's I'm basically so you're jumping to a split stance see I'm jumping to split stance
Yeah to split stance position and what that provides
so if I'm trying to do an excess amount of weight which I'm
Trying to really push the the envelope of what I've never where I've never been before
I'm trying to clear a certain distance greater
I'm trying to clear a certain distance greater. Because you know, the amount of load you're pushing up,
right, I'm limited to, let's say like 275,
I got full lockout.
So now I try to put 315, I can get about here.
Right?
So now if I get under and I drop,
I just went from this potential to this potential.
But that requires a lot more skill
in what I'm doing with my legs and my feet especially
because I'm not, my body isn't as,
doesn't recognize that kind of stabilization
at that kind of velocity.
So it was like a lot of work we were doing
was really like, you know
The step out and then the the pushing of the front of my foot in the back foot to create that vertical stability
And then also my hand position. I had to really widen my grip
As I'm as I'm pushing out because the technique it's it's too. It's also a little different because I'm used to like a real explosive snapping push.
So with a push press, I could kind of hinge my hips
and I could almost like vertical jump it up.
Right, right, right.
This is a little bit different.
So I'm setting up, so I'm basically dropping in
and pressing down, I guess, pressing my knee down as opposed to pressing my arms up.
Oh, interesting. So it's a different... Different cue.
Shift, different mindset with that because I'm just trying to clear that distance by
lowering and then extending as I'm lowering. So it's less of my upper body really trying
to muscle this up as much as a technique and the flow of me.
It's like getting under while you extend your arm.
Yes.
And then holding it.
And then holding it into the log out.
So, um...
How far did you...
It's a whole new thing.
How far did you have to regress?
Oh, oh, real far.
Did you go all the way down to the bar?
It's really humbling.
I mean, no, I mean, yeah, I did the bar.
I did an empty bar and then we worked up and I kind of went up to like 185 and then I was like
It's funny cuz you know, we're in a CrossFit gym and you know, I love Jordan
He's like a really good coach at the same time. I'm like they do a lot of volume here
I guarantee it cuz like even when I'm trying to rest in between is like just staring at me, you know
I'm just like and I'm trying to like small talk just by myself
You know, I don't even remember how many reps I did but I just kept he's like, okay, let's try this again
Oh, you want to add some more weight?
Crushed me for three days like that. I only got up to like 185 and I was like fuck
It's almost like I'm learning a whole new thing where you are
Yeah, it's a huge skill, but but it's so not that much difference
It's like, you know,
because I'm still pressing, but at the same time, I'm doing a whole lot more. Well, bro, you gotta
stabilize with the split stance. Your grip is wider, and then from the split stance, you have to come
up and step together. So that's like a whole, that's all different. Well, that part's, yeah, that part's
not as bad. It's, yeah, it really, it's the synchronicity
of the whole thing.
Like it's just really.
Have you walked out?
Over, like my brain was like on overload.
Have you walked out yet with just the locked 315
and just held it?
Just held it.
You have.
But that's just, that's without any effort.
That was like just holding it.
Right, right, right.
Yeah, yeah.
And you've done that. It's heavy as fuck. Hell yeah, dude, I can't tell the echo to do that. I was like, holding it right right yeah yeah right you've done it's heavy as fuck hell yeah dude I don't know do you crush my spine
but but that was the thing so so it's like I made this massive leap where I
finally got like 275 and then it was like oh yeah okay so so now what I'm
looking at is this and then it was like I really have to step like quite a bit back
to get further in that and that was
Your crazy boom
Typical just 75 I've been impressed bro
Hyped you to I would have hella hyped you about 275
We already would have had the whole thing and like I had the chalk and you know the smelling salts and it would've been done
I mean to compare it to compare it in in my world of what I was doing
It would have been like me coming out and being like I'm gonna get all 50 pounds back right away
You know more he never did through if well, yeah
Well, it's you know, you gave me 50 pounds and 50 pounds of muscle in three months
It's pretty ridiculous no matter where you've been before, you know I'm saying so? So that's how like extreme... And that's why no one will remember your name.
That's so Justin right there. That resonates. Look how happy he is right now.
I feel that. That's so awesome. Dude, the other day, Adam, you were asking me about detoxing.
Oh yeah, yeah, yeah. So that led me down a little bit of a rabbit hole
into looking at chelating compounds.
So these are compounds that bind to heavy metals.
So is chelating just another term for detoxing?
Well, it'll help with the detoxing process.
So chelating compounds, what they'll do
is they'll attach to heavy metals
and then you can excrete them.
Okay, so, because otherwise they kind of stay in the body.
So if you have, like let's say you're high in aluminum
or you know, lead, God forbid, or whatever,
then typically what a functional medicine practitioner
will do is have you use chelating compounds plus
use things like a sauna and stuff like that
to help move that process along, right? Yeah. Chlorophyll is an excellent chelating compounds plus use things like a sauna and stuff like that to help move that process along.
Chlorophyll is an excellent chelating component.
Chlorophyll is what makes plants green.
It's what makes plants green.
Isn't that the primary thing that's in like green juice?
Isn't that what that is?
Well that's why it's green.
So the reason why it's green,
the Organified Green Juice is green
is because of the chlorophyll.
Which by the way, Doug confirmed this. I think I've had you look this up before
chlorophyll if I'm not mistaken is is very similar hemoglobin hemoglobin in
blood yeah didn't they in the world one of the world wars use it to for people
who needed hemoglobin as a cheap alternative maybe you could look that up
but anyway so chlorophylls got all these benefits, right?
So like chlorella, spirulina, green algae,
very high in chlorophyll.
Is this one of those, like, you know how people
eat a ton of carrots, they turn orange?
No, that's different.
I don't think it'll turn green.
You don't think it'll turn green?
No.
You think anybody's ever tried?
No, I don't think you'd turn green.
I'd be curious, dude.
It can turn orange, have you seen that before? Is that real if you can bro?
I went to school the kids why it's not that crazy. I would say that Trump just eats a lot of
Oranges they say did you see that somebody somebody called out one of the news networks for like tinting more orange
No, oh, that's hilarious. Well, they do that to Joe Rogan when they try to make
him look sick. Yeah and ivermectin. They had all these weird filters on them it was hilarious. To make
them look all pale. Whoa the levels people go to. It's so messed up. Pretty deceptive. Did you find anything on chlorophyll there Doug?
Well it is very similar to hemoglobin. I don't see anything about it being used. Look at chlorophyll
for blood transfusion and then see if doctors have tried that before. I might be just
making this up. You might be. But anyway, so the green juice is probably because we get, there are
lots of things that we're exposed to in the environment that our body has a tough time
getting rid of. By the way, chlorophyll also boosts your liver's ability to detox. It does through
this mechanism that I don't fully understand, but it's been shown in studies that if you take chlorophyll
or you supplement with things higher in chlorophyll,
your liver will do a better job of kind of detoxing,
which is good, especially if you do things like
drink alcohol or expose to pollutants and stuff
like most of us are.
So is this a...
Good product.
Is this what you are doing with all your free time now that you
Have to tell they have to tell the audience
About your other come to Jesus moment. Yeah, I mean, I feel like an update. I haven't heard you story
So what happens when you you know find anything Doug?
No, I made it up them
It is a key lady compound. Oh, that's legit. No, so you know,
I'm going through this process of, you know, this is like a process of prayer, trying to break down
this idol of mine around exercise. And so I broke it, I brought it down to two days a week. I was
doing maps anabolic, two days a week, and then three days a week or so, or two days a week I'm
doing like mobility and stuff. And the idea is to eventually go back to Brazilian Jiu Jitsu
because it's just better, it's a healthier mindset
for me to do that versus bodybuilding.
Bodybuilding is just, my relationship with it
moves in the wrong direction.
So anyway, I'm doing this two days a week, right?
And I'm getting strong, right?
I'm getting real strong.
Adam was commenting on my list.
And that kind of perked a little bit,
he shouldn't have said anything.
A little gasoline there.
Well, I'm not counting the weight. I purposely wasn't counting how much weight was on the bar
And I wasn't saying it like to right I know you'd be going it was more like hey
Okay, guy you dropped out of two days week, but now you're pressing some serious ass way
So anyway, I was working out and I came in here and I'm deadlifting and I'm just, you
know, I'm feeling it and you know, I'm lying to myself because I, of course, hindsight,
right?
My ego was picking up or whatever, the idol was speaking up.
So I started to slap and wait on and I'm just getting, having a good time, the staff's in
here and I put 530 on the bar and I go to rip it real fast and I feel pop my hamstring. Just like I did in Hawaii now.
It wasn't a tear, but it was a pull.
Definitely not a tear.
Same leg?
Just like me, dude.
Same hamstring, different head of the hamstring though.
Wasn't the semitendinosis, it was more inner.
Different attachment.
Yeah, so I'm like, cool, I got the other side, I guess.
Yeah, good, even it out.
So I sit down and I'm like angry.
I'm angry, like gosh, I did this to myself.
So I'm like all right, let me just bring this down
a little bit and just let me just sit here
and be by myself and pray a little bit
and okay, okay, I hear you.
I'm doing it again.
So I sat there for like 10 minutes on the bench,
just kind of like, so I'm like,
it's like the beginning of my workout.
So I'm like, I'll just finish the workout, I'll go light.
That's what I'm gonna do. I'm just gonna go easy just finish the workout, I'll go light. That's what I'm gonna do.
I'm just gonna go easy and finish the workout.
Now the obvious answer should have been go home.
Go home, buddy.
But I'm like, I'm just gonna go light.
So I go to do my overhead press and I lighten the load
and I'm pressing and I, you know,
then I hurt my back.
So.
Oh, yeah.
Double whammy.
Now the audience, people need to know this. Somebody needs to make an AI
image of us like a wheelchair. You're so giddy. Screw you. I was messed up with Mystery Less
Company dude. I feel you know I feel you because it got me. You know what I'm saying?
It's annoying, man. Well, it's also because we know better, right? I know better. And just like you do,
and obviously we're on this platform, we're teaching and helping and telling people,
so to do dumb shit to yourself is just like, God, it's just, it's a double whammy. It's different
if it's in the dark and I don't got nobody's gotta know about it, you know what I'm saying?
But it's like the whole world finds out when I do it.
What's weird about, what's interesting is that I don't,
you guys, I've been working out forever, you guys,
I don't get hurt.
I never get hurt, I'm pretty smart, I stick to what I do,
my body's pretty resilient to injury, even heavy lifting.
So it's just, you know, it's like,
someone's telling me something,
so I just totally backed off and, you know,
get back into it, but this time with a different,
hopefully, attitude.
I hope I don't hurt myself.
So are you, did you have to lay off legs
completely for a week or two?
Yeah, no legs, and I'm just moving this week.
I'm just, you know, because I need to exercise.
I have to move, we're so sedentary.
But I'm not doing anything crazy with the lifting.
And I'm gonna try, as soon as it gets healed,
I'm gonna get into Jiu Jitsu AS And I'm gonna try, as soon as it gets healed, I'm gonna get into jujitsu ASAP.
Because that's what's gonna do it.
I need that community, and it's a different mindset.
Totally different mindset.
You know, this has been two and a half, almost three years,
since I moved last time.
And so I'm in the middle of a move right now.
We're finishing up.
And granted, I didn't do all of it at all.
But I did some of it.
And I'm reminded,
uh, like when you do things that are like so out of like, cause we, when we lift, even
though I create, you know, some rotation exercises and I do some things I'm supposed to, but
grabbing furniture and twisting and we're raised and reaching. It's not balanced like
a bar. It is. Yeah. It's so, it's still so different. Like the, I feel sore in a different
way and just like reminded like, man, just how how how taxing that can be on my body and going like god, dude
I just don't I'm not the same as I was before how easily stuff like that can affect
Have you guys seen those videos?
It's so funny. You say that there was these videos on social media where they had
Bodybuilders versus farmers. Oh god I seen the I seen the who
is that viral guy it's a viral guy it's like his whole thing is that. Well you're
talking about are you talking about the dude that dresses like a custodian? No no
no there's a there's a guy's page it's like dedicated to all these I've just
watched an interview. They had there's some that were like construction
workers versus bodybuilders another one that was a farmer. I sent it to you guys. And they
were arm wrestling and there were some where they were like deadlifting and lifting things. And the farmer's construction
was blowing these guys away. They were just, they didn't even work at all. They just worked.
Yeah dude. I think some of them were still, they trained too, but they were mainly contractor guys.
I think they still lifted too. I saw that video. I think I sent it to you guys. I love that. I mean
there's something to be said about that man and to be doing it for years. I think I sent it to you guys. I love that. I love that. I mean, there's something to be said about that, man, and to be doing it for years.
Listen, I have all the respect. I have a family that does blue collar. I know what that does to you.
Yeah.
It makes you strong in a completely different real world way. So anyway, I brought some interesting data came out on
snacking trends that I wanted to bring up. I think,
well, I've already speculated this. We've said this on the show, that the GLP1,
the intervention of GLP1s is going to be culture shifting.
Well, they're meeting and there's already snacks coming out to counter it.
Yeah, to lessen the effects of the GLP1, it's like built, baked into these snacks.
Listen to this, dude're they are seeing in 2024
area science wars in
2024
Greek yogurt has gone up 12% sales cottage cheese 11% which is these are big numbers
Okay, big percentage of jumps for people who understand the food industry. It's a big deal
Nutrition shakes have gone up 8% meat snacks 5%
Then you go to cookies down 1.22%, potato chips down 1.2%,
pretzels down, crackers down, non-chocolate candy down.
I mean, you know.
That's awesome.
Yeah, it's going way down.
In fact.
We should be celebrating.
It's awesome, but they're freaking out.
Yeah, they're freaking out.
That's millions, billions of dollars.
For the first time since 2008,
North American snack empire reported an annual sales decline.
Revenue slipped from 24.7 billion to,
yeah, from 24 to 24.7 billion,
down from 24.9.
But the crazy thing is, it's been growing.
It's been growing, growing, growing, growing,
and for the first time ever, going down.
They're panicking.
They are completely freaking out.
Now, this article's stupid,
because they're like, lower income,
people who are lower income
are trying to spend less or whatever.
No, no.
It's been going up for a long time.
I think it has to do it.
You know why, by the way,
because people are like,
well, how many people are actually using GLP ones? That ones a significant percentage, but when you look at snack food consumption
There are heavy users and then there are the average person
Yeah, so like they've done this with fast food when you look at fast food them whales. There's there's a percentage
That's money right? Yeah, you want them whales go away
When you look at like
That like he's well in the money
The big spender well
It's gonna get received very different than what he's been.
That's what you call a big spender.
Yes, I know.
That's what I'm saying, guys.
I know, bro.
But anyway, anyway, when you look at the data on this,
there are a significant percentage of snack food sales
go to a smaller percentage of people
that are just considered heavy users.
I'm not trying to make a joke like you.
These are heavy consumers.
And so those are the people most likely to be on a GLP-1.
And when they reduce their intake, you see it.
Because the average person will consume snacks.
I think it's kind of a perfect storm
for the snack food industry because I think when
we were kids, we were pitched and sold and actually thought it was healthy.
I mean, you know what I'm saying?
Like literally, like when we were kids, our parents like, this is a good idea.
You know, cereal was marketed to us as like a healthy choice and-
As part of a healthy breakfast.
Of our balance.
Yeah.
So I think gone are those times.
I mean, granted, there might be a small percentage of people that are still that gullible
But I think most people are pretty aware that you know, Froot Loops is not a balanced breakfast
I think most people know that Chips Ahoy just because it's fortified and vitamins is not ideal for your kids
Not the vitamins they need right?
So I think I think you we get to the place where and then of course obesity is at all-time high
So you got an obesity
in children old times highs we get to that point and everyone's kind of waking up simultaneously
we have this intervention of glp1 coming in and it's like so i mean i predict yep a rapid drop
which is why i also think they're they're panicking is like because when you say would you say two
point or two twenty four point seven to two from twenty four point nine to yeah it's marginal right Because when you say, would you say 24.7 to... From 24.9 to 24.7.
Yeah, it's marginal, right?
But I mean...
But it's a reversal.
It's a reversal and it's all signs on where it's going.
And I think that's going to accelerate the other way.
Agreed. 100%.
And you're also seeing the obesity epidemic seems to be flattening out for the first time ever.
Which all predictions were like, oh, it's gonna keep going until this number right here.
But it's flattened out, so it's interesting.
It's interesting.
I find it comical that the two industries
that people like to label as evil,
like processed food industry and the pharmaceutical industry
are fighting.
You know what I mean?
This is gonna be great.
It's like a desert tug of war.
Cannibalize each other.
Yeah, dude.
Let's see what happens.
I mean, it's great.
And then you see companies like our other partner
on the rise and crushing it like ButcherBox
where people are opting in for grass-fed meat
and delivered to your house.
They continue to grow.
Whole foods.
And so, yeah, what a great time to be a company like that.
Like it's a scary time to be Chips Ahoy,
but it's a great time to be, you know,
a market, a
butcher box, a brand like that 20 years ago doesn't thrive.
No.
No way.
No.
So people aren't aware enough, people don't care enough, doesn't make sense where it's,
they time that at a great time and I think it's only going to get better for them over
the next decade.
I tell you guys right now, it's our sponsor, right?
And so I'm always talking about our partners to family members
because obviously we like their products and
I've been telling people about butcher box for a while in my family and some people are like yeah I'll try to be like well wait whatever I don't care. No big deal. You know what's selling them like crazy
I'll have them come over so I had a bunch of people come over our house and they brought their kids all the kids were
Over so I made their nuggets
over our house and they brought their kids, all the kids were over, so I made their nuggets.
I brought it up so many times.
I made their chicken nuggets and I made a huge plate
of them and all the adults were eating them
and the adults were like, what are these?
Are these healthy, Sal?
I'm like, listen, they're pretty good, they're gluten free.
So everybody got subscriptions because of the chicken nuggets.
Aren't you guys doing cook-off, by the way?
You and Doug?
We got, when Brink and, so we have our trainer CEUs, which by the way we didn't announce
on the podcast.
There might be space available, but it's coming up.
So it's a free course.
It's the only time it'll be free.
So Justin did this, he launched it with Kyle, where we're going to, just so the trainers
that listen to this are aware, we're going to start hosting, because we got this all
accredited through NASM,
hosting CEU classes.
All trainers need CEUs to renew their national certifications.
We will start hosting those here for trainers.
The first one to kick it off, we wanted to do free.
Give back.
So long as there's space.
You go to mindpumplive.com
and you get to come to Mindpump Studio headquarters.
We're gonna teach some of it.
We've got other people teaching some of it.
Yeah, we've got Brink, who's coming down to teach. We have Jordan Syatt coming down to teach.
Kyle, Eli, us. It's gonna be incredibly valuable. And you'll get free CU's. If there's space available,
once it's filled up, it's filled up. It's free so it's gonna go fast. So it's
probably the one and only time you hear it on the podcast. Yes, on the 26th of this month.
26th of this month, which is what? Only a few days away, right? Just a few days away, yes.
But anyways, they're coming into town and-
If you're in the San Jose area,
so you'll be dumb not to do this, it's free here.
I invited Syed and Brink over to the house and said,
hey Doug, why don't you and I, instead of us going out,
let's, why don't we do a little cook-off?
And so I'll bring my baby back ribs from Butchelup.
So you guys each make your own
thing? Yeah yeah. And then it's just fun. And then we're gonna vote? No we don't have to
do it for you. I mean you guys can. I mean it's for bragging rights. We'll reveal it on the
podcast. What I want to do right now because I know it's all you guys are
ah it's fun or whatever but I'm gonna I'm gonna continue to push to see who
wins because you're both extremely competitive. Doug is low-key extremely
competitive. Yeah because then we all benefit. So we're going to announce the winner.
I'm openly competitive.
Doug's like this, oh what we're doing is taking notes.
Yeah, my wheels have been spinning the whole time.
He's researching.
He's getting special spices
shifted from Japan.
He's like, oh what was it? We were going to do a thing?
I forgot all about it.
He comes in with his fucking box.
Trust me, my wheels are spinning.
I'm doing something a little unique.
It's been marinating for a week already.
Oh, this whole thing?
I'll throw it on there.
I totally know that's what he's going to do.
I took a treat on that last night.
You see, Doug Herbie said that. I guarantee he's going to bring something.
I'm going to keep it simple.
I crush butcher box ribs.
The ribs are, yeah. I've done those enough times I can't mess
them up. I'm going for the easy win and let him sabotage himself.
You won't even tell us what you're gonna do. I'll tell's just say it has a Japanese. It's meat.
I'll give you that.
It has a Japanese twist to it.
It's Japanese meat.
Japanese wings.
That's my guess.
It's edible.
Ordinarily I do the ribs because the ribs, yeah, they're a winner for sure.
So it's going to be a tall order because I know Adam does a great job with ribs.
So I have to come with my A game.
I got to come up with something a little bit.
With your chicken related dish.
Let him tell us.
Let's just say it's a bird, okay? It something a little bit. With your chicken related dish. You know what I'm telling you?
Let's just say it's a bird, okay?
It's a bird.
It doesn't really fly much.
What?
Ostrich or?
Quail.
I can't wait, dude.
I know how ridiculous you guys are about grilling,
so I can't wait.
I just figured we always do the going out to dinner
stuff like that, and I'm like,
having everybody over at the place,
Doug and I cook.
You guys don't want me growing up.
I'm just, yeah.
I gotta say though, I'm a little nervous because what I'm thinking of doing I haven't really practiced or done see that's where I didn't
Want to go there like I have to take a risk though. I'm going up against your ribs, right?
So I have to take a risk there. Are you guys bringing your smokers? Oh, I have my smoker at my house for sure
I was smoker at my grill. I'll probably bring my own grill. Yeah
Already call I'll probably bring my own grill. Yeah. I can't wait to see your talk. Doug's gonna see it.
I already called it.
I told him two hours ago.
He's driving a whole chef.
I guarantee he's already Googling shit right now.
Dude, getting all ready and stuff for it.
Sue Chef with him.
Yeah, weird.
I can't wait.
I can't wait.
We'll see who wins.
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Our first caller is Steven from Illinois.
What's up, Steven? What's up, Steven?
Hey, how's it going?
Good.
How are you?
Oh, if I was any better, I wouldn't be able to stand it.
Great.
What's going on, man?
How do we help you?
So I guess my question comes to, I've been overweight my entire life.
Battled it, battled it, battled it, yo-yoed, yo-yo'd, keto'd this, blah, blah, blah, that.
I found you guys through a coworker about a year ago, and he pointed me in the right
direction.
Started off as anabolic and prime, worked fantastic, and during that time I wasn't dieting correctly this and that. I lost about 50 pounds in probably four or five months
and turns out it was just a bunch of muscle because I wasn't dieting correctly. I wasn't
dialed in. So here in the past couple months I ran through anabolic again hitting my
protein, hitting my calories and I gained about 20 pounds back in the last couple
months and I'm still fitting into the clothes I was. I of course I'm a college
student so I don't I try not to track my calories that much because it just it's
a stress that I don't really need.
But you know, I hit my 200 grams of protein a day
and it comes out to about 2,800 calories a day
if I eat when I'm hungry until I'm satisfied.
So I guess,
I guess I just need help going from here,
if that makes sense. Just so you know, Steven, I think you're going from here, if that makes sense.
Just so you know, Steven, I think you're doing really good, buddy.
I think that's a good place to be at calorie-wise and grams of protein and strength training.
Just what you have to mentally prepare yourself for is it's not going to give you the same
50 pounds on the scale as the other way of dieting.
And so I think, and this is what I'm hearing from you, it's probably more of that going on in your
head is like, okay, I'm doing the right things now, but then I'm not seeing the
scale move as much, but it's, it's happening. You're, what's happening is
this beautiful exchange of a little bit of fat going down, a little bit of muscle
being built, which doesn't result in the scale moving very much, but your body
composition is probably changing really nice at a really good pace and you're in a very good like calorie.
What I'm always worried is so I get on the call with someone like this and they're like,
oh I'm only 1300 calories and it's like, oh shit, where do we go from there?
But I think you're actually at a really good place to just kind of cruise like that.
to just kind of cruise like that.
What might be of value is like being in a community, like in our forum, I'd love to put you in there with us.
So that-
So as you're going through this process
and you have moments of doubt
or you're not sure about something,
you can just message us on there
and then we can take a look at what you're doing
and keep encouraging you in that direction
because where you're at sounds pretty damn good.
So are you still pursuing being a firefighter
based off the question you wrote us a while ago?
Well, we moved back home,
so we're not necessarily in St. Louis anymore.
So yes, I am,
but I'm kinda just,
I plan on being a volunteer somewhere
and I just want to be able to serve my community wherever I end up in that way.
Okay good, and then have you, you said you've been
struggling with weight for a long time.
What do you mean a long time, how long?
I can't remember the last time I was in an extra large
shirt, let's put it that way.
Okay, okay. Is working with a coach something you'd be open to? Because someone like you
who's been struggling with this for a while, a coach is going to be able to walk you through
the pitfalls that you're going to run into. So as you do this, what probably has happened
in the past is you've done a few things
right, you've seen some results, you hit a pitfall, backtrack. And it's this back and forth backtrack.
Exactly. And it's going to happen again without having someone there that can walk you through
that kid. Anticipate it. Anticipate it, that can tell you this is what it's going to feel like,
this is what's going to happen, and that's okay,
here's how we're gonna work around that.
Your best odds, by far, are gonna be working with a coach
on a semi-regular basis, once a week or something like that.
And that doesn't, and it doesn't mean,
so here's the challenge sometimes people have with that,
is like, oh my God, if I screw up, I gotta tell my coach.
Yeah, but they're not the, it's not a drill sergeant.
They're just gonna be able to coach you
through this process.
Just troubleshooting you.
Yeah, and we're gonna break this,
we're gonna break the chains of this challenge
is what it'll do.
But if you're open to that, at the very least,
I can have a coach call you and get into more depth
and talk about what that might look like
for someone like you.
The workout part, I don't think it's gonna be hard
if you follow our programs.
That's the programming right there.
The hard part's gonna be, and it always is with everybody,
is the relationship with nutrition.
It's the relationship with food.
That's the tough part, and that's why the coaching
is so valuable.
That and when the doubt creeps in, it's inevitable.
The doubt will creep in, am I doing the right thing,
whatever, and then the biggest mistake people make
is over-corrected when they're actually
doing pretty damn good.
And the shame that comes from a pitfall,
which is gonna happen, okay, that happens to everybody.
But then there's shame that follows along with that,
which only fuels maybe past behaviors.
So what we gotta do is we gotta break that,
the chains of that so it doesn't have such a grip on you,
and it's a bit of a process,
but when you have someone there coaching you,
it's so much more effective.
So much more effective.
For sure.
Okay.
So I'm gonna have Doug put you in the private forum
for sure.
And then you can tag us in there any time.
That's right. And then I'll also have Doug set up where one of our trainers can call you and get a little more in depth
and then potentially help you that direction too.
But as far as what you're doing right now, the program, I'm cool with that.
I love where you're in. You're in a good place.
And you don't need to like overthink the calorie counting thing.
Just keep doing what you're doing or you're tracking the protein.
Hit protein first, whole natural foods.
That's like it's going to take you a long way just that alone. And this is what your coach would say to you're tracking the protein. Hit protein first, whole natural foods, that's like it's gonna take you a long way, just that alone.
And this is what your coach would say to you
to start you off, that's probably the advice you'd get.
And then stay the course dude, you're doing good.
For sure.
Yep.
I appreciate it, you guys are awesome.
Thanks for calling in man.
Thanks Stephen.
Thank you.
Thanks.
Yeah, I wanted to go the coach route
because we could give them all the, and this is for anybody listening, you could get all the right advice.
The problem typically isn't not having the right answers.
It's how do I apply these?
How do I overcome this challenge?
I feel this way.
I feel that way.
I don't want to do this.
I want to do that. a good coach is a guide.
And they're gonna guide you through that process,
and they're also gonna teach you how to have grace
for yourself when you screw up, because you will.
You absolutely will.
You better have another set of eyes
to really see those obstacles and challenges
on the horizon before you even know they're there.
So I think to have them point that out and to adjust
based on program nutrition, it's just gonna be game changer for you. they're there. So I think, you know, to have them point that out into to adjust, you know,
based on program nutrition, like it's just going to be game changer.
Our next caller is Chris from New Hampshire. What's up, Chris? What's happening?
What's up, fellas? How you guys doing? Good, man. How you doing? Pretty good, man. Hey,
well, first of all, I want to give thanks to you guys. It's weird seeing you guys from this angle.
It's like I'm like on the, I'm like watching the podcast right now. It's weird seeing you guys from this angle. It's like I'm like on the I'm like watching the podcast right now.
It's weird. But I appreciate you guys taking the question.
I pretty much modeled my whole like fitness kind of like business off of you guys.
I don't do a podcast or anything like that, but I actually own a personal training
studio down in Massachusetts.
And do I mean, my question is really just had a balance my business life with my love life man, and I'd love to
Just kind of like get your guys thoughts on like the grind
While balancing like love life with your partner. Hmm Wow
Well, there's a lot there. I'll tell you
I'll tell you I'll tell you what Katrina and I do
so we have a rule that anytime that she feels like, because I'm sure you're probably this person in the relationship, that you're the one who is
working the crazy hours grinding and focused on growing his business. And she's the one that
probably is asking for more time or whatever.
And so in our relationship,
I Katrina has the ability because she runs my calendar
to book us a day or two days, whatever getaway.
And I have no real say in it.
And she because she sees my calendar, all my appointments, she'll do it.
She thinks that we're not connecting or we haven't seen enough of each other the last month because my head's been down. She'll look in my calendar the next 30 days and find that day or three days and handle the kid being watched,
handle wherever we need to be, put it in the calendar and I have to submit to it. I tell you,
I just got back from Mexico. This was one of these examples. I looked at her and I said,
we can't do this. We can't, we're just not right now, we're in the middle of
a move right now, we got all this, we're bringing on a new marketing company at the business,
like I'm all over the board, we just can't go right now.
She's like, yeah, you know, you know the rules, we're booked, we're good to go, we'll figure
it out.
And so we've just, and every time I go, and it takes me about 24 hours before I can completely disconnect.
But then once I do, I tend to look over and go, I'm glad we did that.
So we just kind of have that rule in our relationship.
And I empower her to be able to do that.
And when I push back and say no, that she is allowed to do that.
And I know that it's for the better of our relationship.
So that's one.
The other thing that has been incredible in our relationship
for staying connected is we save time in the night
during the week for an audio book together to listen to.
And what I have found in that is it's been incredibly connecting for us.
It's not just what we're reading.
In fact, many times it doesn't even matter what we're listening to.
It's the fact that the two of us are sitting in silence listening to something
that is obviously growth related because we're learning something.
And so we're growing together.
And even if it's only 20 minutes, it's very powerful
and leads to many intimate nights
and us being incredibly bonded and some great conversations.
A lot of times we'll listen to something
and we only listen for 20 minutes
because something is said that we wanna discuss.
Then it gets paused and then we have this great dialogue.
And so we just commit to a book a month
we're gonna knock out.
And so we do the math
on how many, it's like an hour to a week total, so we can bring that up in 20 million increments.
And if we get behind four days in a row, we're busy, or maybe we're watching our favorite
show, well, that means on Thursday, we're going to listen for an hour.
But we commit to that to each other, and between that, the trips,
and then the date nights every now and then, I mean, I think it keeps us incredibly connected,
yet able to grind like we both love to do.
I have a few questions, Chris,
before I could maybe add to anything to that.
It says in your question that you just opened the studio
about a few months ago, So it's a new business?
Yeah, it was in November.
Okay, and you used to live really close to home
and have more time and now you have way less time
because it's a new business.
And it's your girlfriend, right, not your wife?
Correct.
How long have you guys been together?
Six years, bro.
Six, how old are you?
Okay.
Yeah, I'm 28.
Okay, are you gonna marry her?
Yes, guy, yeah, yeah, yeah. I believe I've been hounded by her family now for quite some time. Yeah, I'm 28. Okay, are you gonna marry her? Yes, guy. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I believe I've been hounded by her family now
for quite some time.
Yeah, yeah, but have you actually proposed and set the date?
No.
Okay, she's gonna lose patience with you
until you do that, because here's the deal,
because I'm also reading your question
that she does everything at home,
she waits for you, and you're,
because here's the problem, here's the deal.
You just started this studio three months ago.
And you're gonna have to grind for a while.
There's just nothing, there's nothing I can tell you
that's gonna have you work 40 hours a week
and succeed in a brand, in a studio
that you just opened three months ago.
You're gonna have to grind for a while,
which means she's gonna have to be patient,
which means she needs to see that there's a plan here.
And if the plan is, hey honey, hang out with me, just stick around,
that's not gonna work. But if it's like, I want to marry you, propose, here's the
date, and then she's like, okay, I see the goal here, and then you say, honey,
I need a year. I need a year of sacrifice from you because I just opened the
studio. Because it's gonna take you a while
to make this thing really work.
I know what it takes to own a studio.
I think I'm a pretty good, I had a pretty successful one,
and it took me a year to really make that thing happen.
You just opened it three months ago.
You're not gonna work 40 hours a week,
have all kinds of quality time with your girlfriend now.
It's not gonna happen.
You're gonna lose your studio.
If you're okay with that, that's okay.
So this is much more complex than finding
the quality time type of deal.
Adam gave great advice.
So the little time that you do have,
I would make it quality, but you've been with her
for six years, you live together.
You just went from working so many hours
to working tons of hours, and you're asking her
to be patient with you,
she needs to see the end goal.
And when she does, then you can paint the picture
and tell her, here's the deal.
Whatever that is, you gotta forecast that vision for her,
so you guys have an actual plan
that she knows that this is the plan,
and I'm on board with this plan,
we're both working together towards this,
so it's a team effort, right?
So it's not just like, I'm doing this thing,
it's gonna benefit us down the road, but you're just going to have to sit over here and wait. But just to
have that, to share that is the vision that you guys are creating together. You're creating this
together. You would be surprised at just how supportive your partner could be if they see
the plan and you give them a date. Like, hey, look take a year it's gonna be a year of hard grinding but here's
why I'm doing it and here's what's gonna happen at the end of it yeah but we
need this is gonna set us up and here's why and here's what I'm gonna do versus
I got this business and we'll try and make it work and just kind of hang out
that's how that's how relationships fall apart.
Chris, have you guys listened to the Adam Lane Smith
interviews that we did?
No.
Oh, bro.
Good call.
Oh, yeah.
Especially with this conversation right now
and understanding what she needs and what you need.
It's one you guys should listen to together
if she'll listen to it with you.
But for sure, go back and listen to the two interviews
that we did with Adam Lane Smith.
Incredible value for where you're at in your relationship
right now is one of the only episodes I've ever sat down
with Katrina and actually listened to it together
because it was so powerful for us.
And she'll tell you that it was very impactful
for her understanding from the male perspective
and gave me more insight to hers.
And so you definitely listen to those.
And look, I'll just, I'll add something to this.
Imagine your girlfriend saying to you tomorrow morning
when you're coming to work to work for 13 hours,
because it looks like you're working 13 hours a day,
which is, by the way, anybody watching,
you open a brand new business, especially Brick and Mortar,
you can expect to live there for a little while.
Imagine if she looked at you and she said,
you know what, honey?
You go kick ass for us.
You go kick ass for us, you work your ass off,
I'm gonna be over here holding it down for you
and when you get home tonight, tired and exhausted,
I'm gonna have some food ready for you
and you're gonna do it again tomorrow
because we got a year of this together.
Imagine if she said that to you,
how much more likely you were to crush
at what you were doing.
Yeah dude, that's the thing too, Sal.
Like that's the type of girl that she is, man.
Like I don't like, I didn't ask her to like clean the house, you know,
make me stuff when I'm coming up, when I'm coming home from work,
anything like that.
She just took it upon herself to do that because we do have those conversations,
man. But like,
I want her to know that like I'm there for the long run and honestly too, dude,
like I didn't even think about like the question of marriage right now because like it's just like you know how it is
I'm so locked in dude and it's just like this all I can think about and it is
like bro it's it's just all I think about dude the business-wise and then I
don't know man the relationship stuff just takes second yeah but you know if
she's that kind of woman I'm gonna tell you right now you're not gonna find that
kind of woman very often that's it you right now, you're not gonna find that kind of woman very often. That is, okay?
So think very carefully and think about this seriously.
You gotta show her the plan, make it happen,
and then she's gonna sit by you so,
because here's what's gonna happen with no plan.
It's gonna wear on her, dude, and I would expect it to.
So give her the, a year.
It's gonna be a year, honey, a year of grinding, but here's what's gonna happen at the end, a year, it's gonna be a year honey,
a year of grinding, but here's what's gonna happen
at the end of the year, we're gonna do this, that,
and the other and you got me, you know type of deal.
It's very different.
Katrina waited 10 years bro,
but she did because I did that.
I did a real good job of letting her know
that we were gonna do this, then this is gonna happen,
and then I wanna be here financially,
and then we get married, then we have kids. That was like it was communicated really early on and now don't get me wrong,
year six, seven, we're starting to get, she was starting to get impatient but she knew from day
one this is where I needed to be. I want to be here before I settle down, get married and have a
kid. There's a place I need to be for me personally in order to do that. If you're down to ride with me
and build that with me, let's do it. If you got to leave because you don't want to stick around
that long, I understand. So that was communicated really early on and so you know she did. She
waited a long time before she officially got that ring and it was because we talked about it. We
talked about it and it wasn't unexpected. It wasn't like she was looking at me year seven going like,
what's going on?
I don't understand why we're not.
No, she knew why.
She knew there was a place that we needed to be
and she was down to help me get there.
Yeah.
Yeah, dude.
But trying to-
Communication's so key, man.
I love that, bro.
But you know, trying to get work-life balance
when you're three months into a brand new business,
it's just, it's not gonna happen.
It's not gonna happen, dude.
The hacks I gave you though are gold, trust me.
You implement, and it doesn't take a lot of time to do that.
15, 20 minutes a night, listening to an audio book,
giving her, because it sounds like she is helping you,
like Katrina helped me, Katrina ran our household,
she ran our calendar, and so I gave her that ability.
Hey, you tell us, you're running this relationship,
you're the one who's head of this,
I'm gonna go make the money, be the business guy.
You run our household, you keep me in line
on what we need to do, and you can tell me,
hey, Friday, you're not doing anything.
We're going here, we're doing that,
and it worked really well for us.
Dude, after, I mean, you guys all did this,
after working like 12, 13 hours, man,
how do you like disconnect?
Yeah, it takes a minute, man.
It's tough.
That's one of the hardest, so Jordan Peterson talks about, he did this on Joe Rogan,
where he, and I actually put this into practice.
After you do this enough, you get better at it,
but I'd pull in my driveway and shut the car off.
And I wouldn't just walk in the house.
I'd actually stop and literally like have this conversation
with myself of like, okay,
even though I got all this stuff going on with work, I haven't completed that one thing, it's like I gotta pause it right here.
I come in after I've kind of had that moment of like sitting in the driveway for a couple minutes,
like decompressing, saying, okay, I'm switching now to, you know, husband and father. And then I
walk in, kiss my wife, kiss my son, go straight upstairs, and I put sweats on.
Just like, it's like, I'm changing.
I'm changing from fitness.
Your uniform.
Yeah, and my uniform at home, as dad and as husband,
is my sweats and my t-shirt.
And so it's like clockwork.
I walk in, make sure I, and I had to train myself to do this
because I'm not very good at making sure I kiss her
and do those things on a regular basis.
So I had to train myself to do that so that's what that conversation
the driveway is come in forget about the shit that you were just putting a fire
out five minutes ago on the phone go kiss your wife go say hi to your son go
upstairs put your sweats and t-shirt on and your dad now and so it just I had I
had to put those practice in to get better at that otherwise if you let me
I'll think about work all day all night till I fall asleep and have a hard time even doing that
and then back at it again. And like, it's a superpower. It's also what is our greatest
weakness. And so understanding that it's your greatest strength when you need it, but then
also could be your greatest weakness when you care about other things in your life.
So I had to put those practices into place.
And now it's second nature to me, but it took a few years of really putting those
things into practice.
Yeah.
What do you think that, Justin, huh?
I mean-
I'm a lunch from you guys.
This is all great advice.
I had to do the same thing for me.
And even sometimes I'd have to add an hour after I was done working.
And that was just to complete all those thoughts and to figure out the appointments, to figure
out like my game plan for the next day, like everything I possibly needed to squeeze out
in terms of like what I needed to do with the business. I wanted to get that done before
now I step into the house. And that's, that is such a discipline that takes a lot of practice, man. And especially because you're in,
you're in the heat of it right now. You're literally building something from scratch.
And so it's taking everything from you right now. So my thought is after I shut that off,
like what, what's my wife's needs? You know, what do I need to come in? What kind of energy do I need
for them? What do I need to immediately do sometimes I just walk straight to the sink
because I know there's gonna be dishes there there's no I know there's gonna be something
and I just get too busy like I just start doing things and and uh that's just because it's it
just shows that like now I'm concerned her. I'm concerned about my family.
And I was terrible at that in the very beginning.
So this was lessons that slapped me in the face
multiple times, realized my deficits.
But if you're already thinking about this ahead of time
and you can start implementing these practices, bro,
you're going to do great.
Have you heard that conversation
that Jordan Peterson had with Joe Rogan
that I'm talking about? No, I have no idea. Oh, bro, you're gonna do great. Have you heard that conversation that Jordan Peterson had with Joe Rogan that I'm talking about?
No, I have no idea. Oh, bro. You have to Google
It's one of the most powerful things that he has said that has impacted my life
Like he what he explains is he's talking about how we go on a week vacation, right?
So you let me say you maybe you guys have one this year and in summer or Thanksgiving time or whatever
It's a week vacation. You'll spend the whole fucking year
or Thanksgiving time or whatever. It's a week vacation.
You'll spend the whole fucking year
planning where you're going, the flights, the hotel,
like you'll spend weeks planning this one week
and all this energy effort.
Yet when you do the math over your lifetime,
how many weeks of vacations you'll actually take
and the amount of time you spend doing that
compared to the first 15 minutes
that you see your wife every day,
you're talking about yet how often do you prepare for that?
How often do you get your mind ready for that?
Yet, you're gonna do an infinite amount more of that
than you ever will on vacation.
Yet, we put all this energy and effort
into planning the most awesome vacation,
and yet, you don't put any effort into the 15 minutes
that you see your wife every single day,
and that fucking hit me like a ton of bricks, dude.
That was like all I needed to hear to go, oh my God,
I need to treat it that way.
I need to care about it because I'm
going to spend most of my life greeting her or saying goodbye
to her.
And yet I dismiss that as of anything of importance
in comparison to my trip to Cabo for a week.
You know what I'm saying?
That we planned all year long.
And that was such a powerful moment for me to go, you know what, I need to put it in
a practice to at least be mindful of that first 10 minutes. Yeah. Yeah, dude. You know, it reminds
me of that story that Sal told a little bit ago when, when he backs out of his driveway,
his kids wave at him and he goes, I gotta be gracious for this man. Yeah. Cause they're not
going to be there waving at me. That's right. Yeah, 100%. That's right.
So yeah, listen to Adam Lane Smith.
Find that Joe Rogan clip.
I think that's powerful.
And then I then go on walks.
When you met your girlfriend, what were you doing for work?
Oh, we were in college, man.
So I was distributing beer as a salesman kind of.
And she's been with you this whole time, from beer
distributor to now business owner.
Yeah, bro.
And she sounds like she's ride or die.
All right.
Dude, she is, she's the best.
I hope she listens to this episode.
She's almost of a mind pump gal, unfortunately.
But she loves the road,
I gotta put her on a mind pump, dude.
Chris, Chris.
We're in her over.
Make, make, make, marry her, Chris.
Make, make that, make that, do it.
Tell her.
100%.
Tell her and then, and then give her the dream
and set the schedule and the goal
so she can see the game plan.
And then it'll give you another gear.
It's gonna give you another gear is what it's gonna do.
At least tell her the plan, bro.
She'll invite us to a wedding.
At least tell her the plan.
Yeah, let me, hey, can I give one shout out real quick?
Yeah.
Shout out to Justin's calves.
They're looking nice, guys, those are crazy.
You guys know I was talking about his calves. Hey, it does zero to the bathroom. I'm gonna go to the bathroom. I'm gonna go to the bathroom. I'm gonna go to the bathroom.
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I'm gonna go to the bathroom. I'm gonna go to the bathroom. I'm gonna go to the bathroom. I'm gonna Appreciate it, dude. I'll see you guys. All right, Rob.
Good luck, brother.
Yeah, you know, the concept of work-life balance
is beautiful and amazing,
but you can throw it out the window
when you first start a business.
There is no, when you first start a business,
you have to dedicate a lot of time to just the way it is.
It's a bit of a myth.
I mean, you're not, no great athlete, no great musician, nobody great at anything has balance.
You build a business that allows you to have
work-life balance.
You work your way there.
But those initial stages, he just,
I read his question, like three months in,
work-life balance, what are you talking about?
I do think though, I do think there are small hacks though
that you can do that, I mean, stopping in your driveway for five minutes
before you walk in and say your wife is a very-
Right, to be set.
You allowing her to book a day away is not crazy.
Like you listening to an audio book in bed-
I used to ask my wife three questions
before I said anything about my day.
Right.
And that stuff like that, yeah.
Those are good.
And that can apply no matter what phase you are in your life
of being grinding
And so yeah, good luck man. Our next caller is James from Alaska. What's up James?
Man, can we help you? Hey guys, how you doing? Good, man
So I was on a couple years ago. Um, I don't you guys remember we talked I asked you guys about
programming for wildland firefighters
And so I figured I'd give you kind of an intro what I've been up to since then and then go into my question I'll read
from it it's kind of long so I'll read from it so I'm just so I make sure I
forget anything um so since then I think I was back in 2023 and I've been
listening to you guys for a few years probably since 2020 so about five years
and since then I've been a nutrition coach full-time and I also back up to
Alaska so I was kind of bouncing between full-time and I also back up to Alaska.
So I was kind of bouncing between Arizona and Alaska.
So I'm back up in Alaska right now.
I got married and now we have 34 dogs.
I'm a musher up here.
And that's a nutrition coach, a musher up here.
And so that's kind of what I've been up to
for the last couple of years.
And I graduated this semester with my degree in dietetics.
So right now I'm working with wildland firefighters and military personnel and back country athletes
and people like kind of like similar to me.
So my question isn't so much about fitness.
It's more so about like having passion for what you guys do.
So over the years I've had a couple different careers.
I was an infantryman in the Marine Corps.
I was a wildland firefighter.
After that I worked in security for a
bit too. Now I'm a dog muster up in Alaska, and I'm also my
nutrition business. My long term goal is to be an astronaut, but
I think I might love where I'm at right now too, as a muster
and nutrition coach. And I'm only 27. So obviously, I don't
have to have everything, you know, figured out right now. Like
I got plenty of time. But But but we do want kids soon
So I just wanted to show like I want to be able to show my kids that
Like what it's like to love what you do. So like I said, my question for you guys isn't so much about fitness
I'm finding right now that I might not love every moment of my life
But overall I really enjoy what I do and I think I love what I do
So I might that was kind of my question for you guys.
How did you determine that fitness is what you love to do and what you
wanted to do for the rest of your lives?
How much of it did you actually love and how much of it did you not enjoy?
That's a great question.
Oh, how do you, how do you, uh, what, how do you, what kind of a business is a
musher, are you delivering products and stuff to different people or people
hiring you just to have the experience? What is that? It's more so that like the tours and stuff.
So when we that's how we make our money. So people come up and they do tours with us. So we take them
out with the dogs on like a tour and tell them all about it and stuff like that. When we're in
Fairbanks, we do it here at a couple different places. And then in the summertime, my wife and
I go down to Juneau and then we which we're leaving at a couple different places. And then in the summertime, my wife and I go down to Juneau,
which we're leaving in a couple weeks here.
We fly all our dogs up onto the glacier,
and then people fly onto the glacier,
and we take them around on a tour there.
Wow, that's awesome.
Okay, so for me, it was really easy because I loved it.
I loved it.
Now, what I loved the most was the people,
and I think this is the most important thing
for coaches and trainers to understand.
Like, loving fitness is important,
but loving people is even more important.
Because you can like fitness,
but you're dealing with different personalities
on a regular basis.
And if you don't truly just enjoy people
and different people and different opinions
and different types of energy, and you don't go home enjoy people and different people and different opinions and different types of energy
And you don't go home with the energy, you know on top of you
I mean because you're gonna deal with people who are anxious and sad and happy and they do what you want
They don't do what you want. They're gonna complain to you and you know, I went home every day feeling
Fulfilled just because I like being around people and I like
Working with people so that that is one of the most important things
I try to communicate with coaches and trainers.
Like fitness is a no-brainer.
I think everybody that wants to be a coach and a trainer
knows that they like fitness,
but really it's about enjoying working with people
is the most important thing.
I think we get this all wrong.
I think what we were,
the same way that I think Disney fooled a whole generation of people
of thinking what love is in a relationship is the same thing that we were doing in the last
decade or two of fooling all these kids into thinking that they're going to find a job they're
so passionate about. And just like the Disney thing, like love is a choice, bro. You choose to
love your wife. It's and you've made that choice actively. Now you've probably done a good job of filtering out ones that aren't good and found someone that matches that,
but every day of your life with her going forward, you will make the choice to love her and put that effort forth.
Now hopefully you did a good job of picking someone that aligns with you and grows with you and all these other things,
and so that'll make that journey very enjoyable.
But it doesn't mean it's going to be not have hard days,
not days where you wish you didn't get married and some of that, that's going to happen.
Same thing goes with work, is I think you choose to love it. Now, hopefully you've got
enough practice and try different things to hone in on the stuff that gives you enjoyment
while you do it. And so then you can therefore then be passionate for this thing you do.
But you choose that, you choose to be that way. I was a cow milker and loved doing it. I realized I didn't want to do that for the
rest of my life. But while I was doing it, I was passionate about it. I wanted to be
the best one. I wanted to produce the best milk when the guy came and picked it up and
graded it. I wanted to get it done faster than any of my peers that were doing it. And
when I'd get there, I'd find ways to love what I was doing. But, but over the years I realized, well, there's not a big career in this.
I'm probably not going to make a lot of money.
Those are things that are important to me.
Let's keep moving on.
And I just kept moving on until I started to hone in and the personal training
thing I really loved and I realized, well, I can make the kind of money I was
wanting to make doing something that came natural to me, talking to people
and being around them.
But it doesn't mean I hadn't had many, many days where
I'm just like, fuck, this is a grind.
Fuck, I don't want to do this or see this part.
There's a lot of that.
But I chose to love that path.
I chose to love that career and pour myself into it.
So I do think there's a lot of messaging around millennials
around searching for this job that's just going to jump out's going to jump out, you know, on a white horse
and be like, this is it, bro.
And you're like, and so you have this generation
of young guys and girls that are waiting for that.
And it's like, man, no, you choose, you choose to do that.
And I hope you choose wisely
that the thing that you do, you seem to enjoy it.
And to me, that's a great sign.
It's like, this is awesome.
You found something that makes money for you
and you actually love getting up to do it,
lean into that.
But does it mean there's not gonna be days
where you're like, ah, man, I don't wanna do this today.
That's gonna happen, bro.
Very well said.
I totally was gonna go in that same direction.
But it's really just, it's a compilation of I tried this,
I'm maxing this out, I'm putting my best foot forward
every single day and I'm seeing
you know where I can grow and every opportunity I've had it's like where can I grow? How can I
stretch this out and maximize my potential whatever this is in front of me and what's great
about that is then something else just presents itself naturally to you and in either it's you
just keep flourishing and you keep going in
that direction that you found yourself in, or now it's a new opportunity that now you decide like,
am I going to pursue this now? Have I capped out my potential in this job? And now I'm going to
try a new career and figure this out. And for me, it was just that, um, now I'm, I'm doing personal
training. And now if I do this in
this setting, how can I maximize my potential for growth here?
And then that just naturally kind of progressed to a different opportunity.
And what's weird about it is like all these other passions that you have and you're probably
thinking about right now.
When you do that, they somehow find their way back to you.
And it's like weird, it's like, oh wow, now I can do this within the setting of
the job that I'm doing and I never thought I'd be doing this in combination
with this opportunity. So I do think that it's very much of a mindset more
than anything. You know, it's a rewarding, it is a rewarding career because you are
actually helping people. You know some jobs you're doing something and at the
end of the day you're like am I really helping anybody? Am I really making a
difference? But I think with coaching and training you are because you're helping
people become more healthy which is gonna drive, which is for me was very
rewarding. It was always very rewarding knowing that I was
doing something good or something that I felt
was good, helping people too, it's awesome.
Yeah, that makes total sense and there's a couple things
you said that definitely made me think a little bit,
but the helping people, I think as a Marine,
I started out at 18, kind of on a high note,
where it's like you have this purpose and stuff
and you really know what it is and you drive into that and it makes a lot of sense. And
then you leave that and then it's like, Oh, there's no way like that was the high point.
And so you spend a lot of time like exploring other things to try and find that. And then
I finally, you know, I say finally, like it was like super long, you know, I like someone
27 so it wasn't a really long time, but I finally found this thing that I really enjoy
and it kind of gives me that same, you know of you know, like you talked about purpose and stuff and it's funny
Justin you mentioned like things just kind of find a place when I asked this
I don't know. I think it was a month or two ago. It might have been a couple months when I emailed in
Um, I was really trying to figure out because I wasn't like enjoying
What I was doing as a mushroom, but I was trying to figure out like, am I, am I just not enjoying right now? Or is it like, do I love 75% and like not enjoy 25% of it? Which I've come to figure out
that that seems to be obviously like pretty normal. Like if you love what you do, maybe you just love
75, 80% of it and there is going to be 20% of it. And then you just said something about, like you
said that things kind of just present themselves. Yesterday.
Um, someone emailed me about, I said, I kind of want to be an astronaut and I have this degree in nutrition and NASA works with Cornell, um, researching
sled dogs to work with astronauts and nutrition, email me the other day.
Oh my God.
That's so cool.
That, that fuel that feeds astronauts and stuff.
And we're talking after this, but, um, I thought it was pretty interesting that you you brought that up so as a kind of this opportunity but I have one more
kind of how would you communicate this to your kids so like how would you tell your kids like
you know this is you're not always gonna love it um like your kids right now at the ages they are
like you're not always gonna love it you're not gonna love every part of it um but this is how
you know what you love to do. Like how would you communicate
that to your kids? I want my son to be great and passionate about anything that he does. And the
thing that he's meant to do to Justin's point will reveal itself. So if you commit son to do this,
I want you to be the best at it and work at it as hard as you possibly, not the best person,
the best version of you. So I want you to give everything you got towards that thing.
And this is how your dad has been rewarded
in his career path is when I was a cow milker,
I wanted to be the best one I could possibly be
at 16 years old.
Guess what happened is I met a guy who saw that trait in me,
asked me what I saw myself doing down the road.
I said, you know, I wanna get into personal training one day,
allowed me to train a son before I was even certified. That then allowed me to get a
membership at a 24 hour fitness that then found out that I was, it's like being passionate and
working hard towards whatever thing you're currently doing will open the doors for something that maybe
you will do for the rest of your life. But you don't approach today knowing that you approach
today saying, am I giving my best? Am I doing the best at this thing that I'm doing? Even if I don't approach today knowing that. You approach today saying, am I giving my best? Am I
doing the best at this thing that I'm doing even if I don't think it's going to be the thing I'm
going to do for the rest of my life? Because it's representing my character. Others are going to
watch the way I work. Others are going to watch the way I approach life. And I want to present
myself in this way that is like you're getting all of me. And I think that that way of approaching
life and other aspects, not just business,
will always reward you.
I think if you love the process,
you love hard work, you love the discipline,
you love that you can apply yourself,
you love that you're doing things
that you feel there's value in,
or at least you find value in the things that you do,
you're gonna do well no matter what.
I mean, Adam said character.
Like, good character is good character.
Doesn't matter if you're flipping burgers,
or you're building computers or whatever.
It's really about that.
And then the job you do is you're gonna do well at it,
because you got good character.
That's the most important thing.
They find this in the data, by the way,
that when children have good character,
it really doesn't matter what they do.
They'll do okay.
How you do anything is how you do everything.
So I love that quote.
That's so true.
If you half-ass making your bed,
you're probably gonna half-ass the job you do.
If you half-ass the job you're gonna do,
you're probably gonna half-ass your marriage.
You got a whole ass at it.
That's right.
You gotta do all of it.
You got a whole ass at it all day.
And so, and that's how I would teach my son,
is like, we don't half ass anything.
Like you do, whatever you do, you do the best to your ability.
Doesn't matter if that's makes you great at it or not.
It's like, that's how you approach life.
Otherwise that's how it's going to bleed
into every other aspect of your life.
So how you do anything is how you do everything.
Mm-hmm.
No, I appreciate that.
And I did also want to say that the reason I asked this
is when I had first started listening, I didn't want to to be a dad like I had no desire to be a dad
But over the years listening to you guys talk about being dads and raising your kids and stuff like now
I'm really excited to be a dad and I've thought more and more about that over the recent years and like I want to make
Sure, you know
I'm at least living the way that I want my kid to live and see up to you
So I appreciate you guys always talking about that
Even if I don't think anyone really ever tells you that,
but it's super impactful
and it usually has nothing to do with fitness.
But just the way you guys talk about being dads
and how exciting it is to be dads,
like now I'm really excited about it.
We're trying to do it, right?
Which is one of the reasons that we decided to stay up here
and we just moved into a house.
We're like, we think raising kids in Alaska
with the life that we do is really beneficial to them,
but everything that I've been doing has kind of been geared toward making sure that
I raise a kid the right way. So I appreciate that.
That's awesome, James. That's awesome.
Thank you for saying that.
Just so you know, even if you'll never find the perfect or the best words to give them for this
type of stuff we're talking about, the most powerful thing you can do is to model it, is to do it. He'll see or she will see the way you live your
life, the way you approach everything that you do. And if he sees that in his dad, that,
oh shit, my dad, when he does it, he does it. You know, like that'll bleed into them
more than the best lecture with the best words set a certain way. So lean into that more
than anything else.
Awesome. Well, thank you guys. I appreciate it. You guys have a good one. words said a certain way, so lean into that more than anything else.
Awesome, well thank you guys, I appreciate it. You guys have a good one.
All right, James, you got it.
You got it.
Well, that's nice.
Yeah.
It's good to hear.
I like these questions today.
Well, it's good to hear because there's a,
for a long time there was a generation of people
that didn't want kids.
Yeah.
Like it was this terrible thing.
Right.
And it's just horrible, it's horrible
that people believe that. It's hard, but it's not terrible Like it was this terrible thing. And it's just horrible. It's horrible that people believe that.
It's hard, but it's not terrible.
It's amazing.
So it's really, really good to hear that.
By the way, he wrote in his question
that his wife and him, like they're not just mushers.
They're badasses.
They do the itinerad.
Both of them.
Yeah, dude.
And how crazy is that he got contacted by NASA.
How many people do nutrition
who also are good enough
mushers? I firmly believe the skills you acquire and what you work on like it
later on it's it's gonna matter in some weird way. What you said is so
great that's exactly how you go about this is like you you choose to be
passionate about the thing you do so be passionate about it and be great and
don't worry the thing will find you. It you. Every step, every thing I've done came to me,
but it came to me because the way I approached
the thing that I was doing.
It didn't come to you because you were just sitting there.
That's right.
I didn't get, and I could go through every single job
or thing I did, it was an opportunity that came to me,
but it came to me because the way I was doing the thing,
the way I was doing the current thing that I probably hated
or didn't like doing that much, maybe 80% of it I current thing that I probably hated or didn't like doing that much.
Maybe 80% of it I didn't like,
but yet I didn't approach it that way.
I approached it passionately and wanted to be great at it.
And then that attracted, and then to Justin's point,
those skills, when I look back now today,
all those skills, doing all those different things
has now served me in this thing, 100%.
Yep, yep, cow milking too.
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