Mind Pump: Raw Fitness Truth - 2596: Five Ways to Build Muscle Without Adding Weight to the Bar & More (Listener Live Coaching)
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Progressive overload is crucial when it comes to gaining muscle and strength that's what all the studies show but is there a way to progressively overload
your muscles without adding weight there are there's five ways that's we're gonna
talk about today progressively overload your body without adding weight it's
such a good conversation because I think that there's so many people that assume
that progressive overload just means adding weight to the bar. And yes, there's a case to be made for that and I think we're, I think we all utilize that. But in my training career, I can think of many other ways that I would progressively overload the bar or overload the body without adding weight to the bar. And I can think of many cases where that was the more appropriate way to overload the body than to just add weight.
It's eliminating a lot of the risk involved because you get to a certain point where it's
like you're looking at a substantial amount of weight that's, you know, you're only gonna
get so much benefit and the risks are really high.
Listen, this is super important to understand because if you do this right, you do a good job and
you're consistent and this becomes a lifestyle, you're going to be hitting the face with this
at some point because you can't keep adding weight to the bar.
At some point the risk versus reward becomes, well, too risky, right?
You're squatting a lot of weight, adding 20 pounds to the bar now dramatically increases
your risk of injury and the gains you get from that extra 20 pounds aren't really gonna be that substantial.
Where do you go?
So this is a problem, or should I say this is an avenue
you wanna go down right out the gates.
Now for trainers and coaches, this is crucial
because if you're the trainer that just adds weight
to the bar, you're not gonna be a very good trainer.
You have to figure out how to overload the muscles
or how to tap into this without adding weight to the bar.
And like you said, Adam, I think the ways
that we're gonna cover in many cases is more appropriate,
is better, more effective.
100%.
I'm trying, I was trying to think when you first wrote this,
like, you know, if I actually had to like,
do like a pie chart of all my clients
and I said like all these different ways and
And obviously weight adding weight to the bar as one of these ways to overload the body. I don't even know if it takes up
The majority I think I think more than half the time if not more
I utilize other tools just because we the average person that we we dealt with was middle-aged
overweight
Pretty new to weightlifting.
Pretty inexperienced. Yeah, pretty inexperienced. Not like I was training a bunch of you.
Like if I was training you guys, then of course we would be probably mostly
adding weight to the bar for a big portion of grip. But even us, and this was
the point I wanted to make to you Sal, is that I think we're guilty of
progressively overloading with
weight to the bar when we
probably should go the other
direction because the return
we've already reached all of us
in here have reached a level of
strength. We're we're really
not squeezing that much more
out by adding more weight to
the bar and in fact it would
behoove us to do that even if
it's not just purely the point
you're making about injury like
yeah, I when you put 400 or 500 pounds on your back to
squat, and a little bit goes off, that puts you at risk for injury. But even not just that, just,
it's just stressful on your body and your joints. And even if you don't get hurt, like a serious
injury, that that extra wear and tear everywhere else on your body for the return that you're
getting from it, does it, is it, is it really that much better than if you would have just used another method of overload?
I wanna be very clear,
because someone may be getting confused.
Progressively overloading your muscles
means they get stronger, that's true.
Every one that we're gonna cover today
means you're getting stronger,
but that doesn't mean there's more weight on the bar.
So I'll explain, let me go with the first one, right?
Here's an easy way to progressively overload your muscles without adding weight to the bar. So I'll explain. Let me go with the first one, right? Here's an easy way to progressively overload your muscles
without adding weight to the bar.
Let's just say you do curls with a 50 pound barbell, okay?
And that's hard for you.
50 pound barbell's hard to do 10 reps.
And you get stronger.
You're like, you know what?
Should I add weight to the bar?
I could.
I could add five pounds to the bar,
which means I'm stronger.
Or I could make the reps go slower. Or I could slow'm stronger, or I could make the reps go slower,
or I could slow down the reps.
I can make the reps take an extra second or two
on the way up and on the way down,
so that now I'm doing the same amount of reps
with the same weight, but it's much harder.
Now, the way I'll pose this is this.
Slower reps with the same weight,
does that require more strength?
It does.
Somebody who could squat 300 pounds
and take five seconds on the way down,
five seconds on the way up,
is stronger than somebody who squats the same weight,
two seconds up, two seconds down.
So you're still getting stronger,
you're just not adding weight.
You're eliminating a lot of the momentum involved with that.
And yeah, and it's also,
it's a more focused kind of discipline type of an approach, which
again, it bodes well for a beginner, but also too, if you're trying to challenge, you know,
the normal way that you're approaching weightlifting and even us, you know, seasoned vets in the gym
could change up just the tempo of it and really receive a totally different experience.
I also think that if your overall goal is like real world training, you're not, could change up just the tempo of it and really receive a totally different experience.
I also think that if your overall goal is like real world training, you're not, this
is, we're not talking about the person who's chasing a PR for their powerlifting meets,
right? Everybody else who wants to look good, feel good, be strong in real life, challenging
with like slowing it down and the other things you're going to talk about. Like that, you
don't, we don't live in a world
where when I go to pick up the couch,
I stop my buddy before grabbing,
hold on, let me get my four seconds down
and then two seconds at the bottom,
then we grab it and make sure we come up in two seconds.
Like you don't do that.
Like sometimes you have to get down
and you're working your hands
and you're holding that position for a little while.
Sometimes you do it slow, sometimes you do it fast.
Like there's lots of ways that you want to be strong
that in this perfect four-2-2 cadence
or whatever you move the barbell in.
And so moving it slower, moving it faster,
all these way pausing,
all these things that you're gonna talk about,
I think are so important for protecting the body
out into the real world.
Right, and the muscles aren't perceiving the weight
on the bar, or should I say they're not perceiving
its objective weight, it's the tension. And slowingiving the weight on the bar, or should I say they're not perceiving objective weight,
it's the tension.
And slowing the rep down increases the tension.
Here's how I used to use this with clients.
When I would have a client that I'm training,
and my target rep for them ranged,
what's this say, 10 reps,
and I'm watching them and they're on rep eight,
and I'm like, uh oh, they could do probably
four or five more.
The next few reps I slow them down.
Isn't that, I mean they've shown that
that's like the biggest movers in mechanical tension in terms of muscle building.
So you could definitely meddle with that
without a lot of weight.
Yeah, oh yeah, I'll tell people right now,
do four second negatives on all your lifts
and you're gonna have to go lighter, period.
Well, I used to do the same thing with my client
that you just described and I think this is a good skill
for everybody to learn to do, because I don't't know if you go to enough gyms with different machines
and weights and have days where you have good rest not so good rest and training you're
going to find that many times in your life you're going to choose a weight that ends
up feeling lighter than what you probably could have done and like having that skill
to be able to slow down, to just slow down.
So that's how I train today.
Like I don't even really, like I don't find myself, yesterday was the first time I trained
in a while, like almost 30 days.
So I know I'm weak.
So I know I'm much weaker than what I was when I was riding the swing of things.
And I'm getting ready to do lap pull down and I'm not going like, God, am I at 180
right now or am I at 120?
Just pick a weight.
And then make it hard.
And then I make it hard. It doesn't even matter what I pick. And so I just, in fact, I don't even
remember what it was. I just slid it in. Now I knew better than I slid it in my PR, you
know what I'm saying? But I just picked a lightweight that I know that isn't going to
hurt me. And then as I was doing, I was like, oh, that was really easy. And so the last
like five reps, I just, I squeezed, I paused. Grip it harder. Yeah. You can set yourself up, you know,
really work on the mechanics of the whole thing
and intensify that process.
There's all kinds you can do.
That's right, the weight on the bar only matters
because of the tension it provides.
And you can increase the tension
by simply slowing the reps down.
And so now you've progressively overloaded your body
or the target muscle without having to add weight to the bar.
The next one is to increase the range of motion.
This one's a big one,
especially for certain exercises like squats.
Like a lot of people have challenges
doing a really deep squat.
So if you always squat down to parallel
and you find yourself like ready to add 10 pounds to the bar,
try squatting one or two inches lower, that's all.
Just an inch or two, don't go crazy with the depth
because maybe you can't control that much.
Go a little lower and watch what happens.
I remember as a kid when this really was evident to me,
as a kid we learned as early trainers
that the safe way to bench press,
and I can't believe they taught this,
it's such a, they don't teach this anymore.
I taught this for a long time.
I don't think they teach this anymore but this was something, they don't teach this anymore. I taught this for a long time. I don't think they teach this anymore,
but this was something that, you know, in the late 90s,
I learned my certifications.
They said the safe way to bench press
was to come down to where the back of your arm is.
90 degrees. 90 degrees, right?
So your arms are bent in 90 degrees,
arms parallel to the floor.
So when I would stop my bench press,
I mean it was like a good, I don't know how many inches,
that 12 inches off my chest.
And we were taught to bench press that way.
And so I bench pressed that way for a while,
and I got my bench press up to, I don't remember what it was,
but it was high, it's 300 pounds, something like that.
And my buddy's like, you're not going all the way down.
I'm like, what's the difference?
He's like, try going all the way down.
And I brought it down and that was it, man.
Yeah, I'm like, I need help.
Lift this bar off my chest.
I couldn't believe how much weaker I was
with just a little bit more of a range of motion.
So longer range, by the way, what they taught was dumb,
fuller ranges of motion so long as you control them
are also better for building more muscle, by the way.
But longer ranges of motion
challenges your body differently.
It adds more tension in areas where you're not as strong.
And if you could do a squat to parallel with 200 pounds,
going down two more inches,
it's like adding 10 pounds to the bar. That's what it feels like. I would add to the movement
so I think this matters in all movements but I think the squat is number one. A close number
two Justin will probably appreciate this with what he's been doing right now is a full range
of motion overhead press. Oh yeah. Those two right there which people call that the squat of the upper body right is the over is the overhead press
those two I
Neglected range of motion for so long and I had to do what you said
I had to lighten the load in
order to increase the depth on the squat in order for me to bring the bar all the way down and all the way above my
head and the those were some of the greatest gains I ever saw in my legs and in my shoulders was starting to practice.
Aren't those like two, the most visible,
when you see it, some average person that comes into the gym,
whether or not they've continuously lifted overhead
or they've squatted to depth.
You can immediately see it's a stark limitation that they have and then they
try and compensate with it immediately. But those are those two, it's just glaring to
me always.
Me too. And I'll add to that, for the people that don't care about the aesthetics, like
maybe I do, because I know I speak from that perspective a lot of times, it's also the
two things that bulletproofed my low back and hips and my shoulders more than anything
else. When I started to full range of motion shoulder press and full range motion squat, a lot of
the aches and pains and tightness that I had going on in my shoulders, necks and my hips
and my low back, gone.
And now all I have to do, it took a lot of corrective work, took a lot of working on
that range of motion.
Now all I do is have to show full range motion shoulder press, full range motion squat, and it keeps all that stuff at bay.
Yeah, so your body, your muscles will get really strong in pretty specific ways, meaning if you
train your particular range of motion, most of the strength you gain is in the range of motion that
you train. So when you go outside of that range of motion, it's a brand new range of motion. You'll
tap in newbie gains. In fact, of all of the ones we're gonna talk about today,
this one right here in particular is connected
to more muscle growth and gains.
In other words, two exercises done identically,
except one has a greater range of motion,
the greater range of motion is gonna produce
more muscle growth.
So this is a great way to add resistance, right,
to progressively overload, but it's also a better way
to build muscle, period, end of story.
So, number two, this was my second,
this was my favorite one.
Next up is to pause the reps.
Pause the reps.
I love this one, especially for exercises where,
like for me, barbell squats, if I train them regularly
and I'm careful, I can get pretty strong.
But my squats are always an issue for me.
And with my squats, when I get past a certain
Weight for myself. I know I start playing in the territory of injury or aches and pains
And it's just because mobility for me is not not always it's typically not like this big focus
I'd have to do lots of mobility work to really get to this point
But I don't and so I get stronger and I start to notice issues
So one way I've gotten around that is,
rather than adding weight,
is I pause at the bottom of the squat.
So I'm feeling really strong today,
rather than going up to 375 on my squat,
I'll keep it at 315,
and I'll hold the bottom for five seconds.
And it's as if I added weight to the bar.
The hardest part of the movement.
And that's where we're summoning the troops.
We're staying there to try and get more effective
and efficient at actually recruiting muscle fibers.
And so just even back to your bench pressing visual,
it's like getting that depth and then holding that
at the bottom part of the lift and really squeezing
and owning, recruiting, so that way you have the strength.
Now you can build upon that so much more effectively. What's it?
So does that does this also?
overlap with the research in regards to like
Isometrics and the gaining the extra 20 to 30 30 percent in both directions
Yeah, so you take someone like you for example who may not be able to get asterisk squat
But you can get a little deeper than parallel and then you also pause down there
Are you getting some of the benefits north and south 30% more so than you would just,
just come right back up.
So that's a huge value in the south right there.
So let's say you're somebody like you and that squad applies
but apply this to any movement.
You can't fully get that in range.
So you pause at those in ranges and you're at least getting
some of the benefits north and south of that.
Now for muscle building, well, two things. First off, you could pause the rep anywhere and south of that or whatever you wanna look at. For muscle building, well two things.
First off, you could pause the rep anywhere.
You could pause it at the top, squeeze.
You could pause it at the bottom, hold.
It has to be under tension, so don't pause the rep.
At the end ranges, it would probably be
the most beneficial though, right?
The stretch for muscle, right?
So for muscle gains, it's the stretch.
But that doesn't mean avoid the end range of motion,
fully contracted position,
because that's beneficial as well.
Nonetheless, always have tension is what I'm trying to say
because what you don't want to do, for example,
with the bench press is bring the bar down to your chest
and let it sit on your chest.
That's what we're talking about.
You want to pause it but hold and support the weight
while you're doing it.
This one's one of my favorite ones.
This is one of the ones I do on a regular basis.
When I'm in a set and I feel stronger than the rep range that I thought I was
going to hit, I just start pausing and I'll pause in the stretch typically.
And it's, it's, it's amazing.
It's really amazing.
I mean, again, it's like you are, you're incorporating the value and we've
taught nauseam on the show about isometrics.
And so you're including that just a much safer way to intensify
something and gain that extra access.
And you're just signaling you're strong, you're safe, secure in the joints. So that
way too now it actually like allows your body to produce more force.
Right. Next up is to go faster, actually lift faster. This is the riskiest of all
the ways to progressively overload. But what you do is you take a weight that you
can move relatively quickly and then try to see if you
Can move it faster. This is like Olympic weightlifters do this. So an Olympic weightlifter who move let's say they can lift
135 pounds let's say they could throw up 135 pounds
It takes them one second to do it if they can do it half a second. They've exerted more force
They've they've actually progressively overload even though it's the same weight
They've moved it faster.
This one's especially important for athletes.
You get good at this, it makes you dangerous on the field
because fast strength is what translates.
Everything happens in a split second.
That's right, that's right.
And so to be able to recruit and maximize
that recruitment process, the really high level,
and have that explosive strength on command
is such an advantage, and you can train that way
by working on your velocity and working on that kind
of speed in your training.
Speed, power is the pinnacle, right?
But I've just thinking about as you were discussing,
because I'm envisioning like you making this decision,
right, yourself personally, and knowing where
your level of strength is at right now.
And I don't know where your current heavy squad is at, but
I know you're north of 400. So let's say, you know, it's a day and you're feeling, you're
feeling good and you're like contemplating 400 and something pounds or more on the barbell.
Or do I put it down to 135 and do something explosive? Even though typically we're in,
we were taught as trainers as speed power is the pinnacle.
This is the top.
You would actually teach regular grinding strength before you would teach speed power,
speed power is the pinnacle.
You have to own all the other stuff before you do this.
Right.
But at what point does it actually, does that kind of change a little bit?
Because I would think at your level of expertise
and experience that the decision for you to drop down
to 135 today and work on some speed power with 135
versus slapping on 450 is lower risk than the 450.
Yes, yes, but I would only do this
if you really own the lift really well because then it could just become dangerous
You can throw lightweight real fast and hurt. Yeah, but do you get what I'm asking right now?
I like what point exactly what because obviously when I take another example
So the audience can understand where I'm getting at with this question
I'm just posing a question to create a conversation that I was just thinking right like you're a
beginner you've only been lifting for six months and to create a conversation that I was just thinking, right? Like you're a beginner,
you've only been lifting for six months.
And-
It's because of the maturity of his skills.
Exactly, like you're only been lifting for six months,
I'm not gonna go speed power with that person.
No.
They're-
This is probably more valuable for the experienced lifter.
This is probably more valuable
for somebody who's been doing it for a while.
Right, and I guess to your other point with that,
it's valuable for him to create novelty with that,
but is it like necessarily a big shift in his training
to be able to now just focus exclusively on that
and go like aggressive with speed training?
Of all of these, this would be the one I would say,
save this for the people who are advanced, for sure.
For sure.
Next up is, and this is like bodybuilders
or experts at this, is just intrinsic tension.
This is just, and this I can do really well.
I know Adam can do this really, really well.
Justin can do this really well.
This comes with experience, but you could give me
a weight that is 90% lighter than what I would normally do,
and I could make that weight, through tension, feel heavy.
You could give me, I mean, I could overhead press for reps,
let's say 135 pounds.
Could I make 50 pounds feel just as hard for 10 reps?
I could.
I could with tension and the speed of the rep
and squeezing the bar and feeling where I need to feel it.
Bodybuilders are experts at this.
You could watch a pro bodybuilder who's got more muscle
on their body than anybody you've ever seen,
who's obviously could lift a lot of weight.
And for the inexperienced lifter,
if you've ever seen a pro bodybuilder lift,
I guarantee you this has happened to you,
because this happens to me.
The first time I saw a pro bodybuilder workout,
I was a teenage boy, and I remember being like,
he's not as strong as, well he's not strong at all.
He's barely lifting any weight.
Not understanding that what they were doing
was making those reps count so much
because they know how to create tension.
So that right there,
you know, an increased effort.
And not that other athletes don't have the same thing
either, but I know like for a bodybuilder,
because it is all based off of the way you look,
you cannot risk getting injured.
And so I think that's what really drove them.
And that's not to say there's not examples
of bodybuilders that break this rule, right?
You have bodybuilders that were doing-
Ronnie Coleman was there.
Yeah, yeah, and what was the other?
Dorian Yates.
Was the white boy with the bald head
that was always doing crazy intense lifts.
Branch Warren.
Yes, Branch Warren, thank you.
Yeah, there's definitely examples-
Still works out like that. Yeah, I know, there's definitely examples. It still works out like this.
Yeah, I know, there's definitely examples
of guys that are like totally,
but for the most part, most bodybuilders are just like,
why put more weight?
Dexter Jackson.
Their attitude is why put more weight on the bar
if I can get more out of this.
Get the same with lighter weight.
If I can build as much muscle with less weight.
And they're great examples of utilizing all the other ways of progressive overloading besides just adding weight to the
bar. Yes they add weight to the bar too but like you said I this was something I prided myself on
like my early years in training like I used to love to go find the guy who I thought looked at
a shape and that was lifting really heavy weight. I go do the exercise with a quarter the weight he
was doing and be looking all shredded
and knowing that he's looking next to me,
knowing that he wants to look like that,
but I'm doing it with half the weight
and going like, wait a second,
am I doing it to start up a conversation
because you don't have to move this crazy amount of weight
to build a ton of muscle on the bottom.
And I think too, this is something
that falls in this category,
but it's a little bit more I
guess on the old school or like athletic side of the fence where you're adding a
little more stress testing in terms of balance so for instance like I'm
adding a lightweight but I'm adding a little bit more of a chaotic influence
of forces so there's a lot more so say I'm doing a little bit more of a chaotic influence of forces. So there's a lot more. So
say I'm doing a bottoms up kettlebell press. And now I'm fighting two lateral forces, rotational
forces and, you know, normal gravitational forces while I'm also doing it. And so I have to stay
completely tense while I'm doing the same thing with adding a longer lever to something and so for like a
Single arm press but with it with with the barbell barbell, right? That's a lot more challenging a lot harder
But it's it's not necessarily like a ton more weight. It's just you have to be more focused and concentrated attention Yeah, no, you're you're talking about where you're now you're so I saw when Sal put the five up
We did an episode that it was the nine ways to
progressively overlay and there's things like instability is another way to do it. Instability is
right so if you you you create uh you know instability in a movement and just the and now
you're having to deal with these outside forces to make the unstable that you now have to intrinsically
fire that's another way intrinsically yeah intrinsically, yeah, enhancing your tension. Yeah, so you could subcategorize some of these
into other categories to stretch it beyond just five ways.
There's more than five ways to press it over the body.
It's funny you brought up the long lever.
I remember seeing bodybuilders do laterals with a barbell.
And I remember thinking how dumb they were,
now realizing just how smart they were.
Yeah, yeah.
Because with the barbell, you gotta keep your hand level
and be steady.
I was doing side bands with that too.
I used to do those, bro.
We used to do the lateral raises with the straight bar.
Yeah, with the barbell curl bone or whatever.
Yeah, dude.
Oh my God, that's so funny.
Anyway, I gotta bring up something very interesting
that I've observed, and I didn't realize
that I've observed this until we just had Dr. Ben,
what was the last name, Doug?
Big Men.
Big Men on the show.
So that'll air later, but he was talking about
how they're gonna do this study,
and he reminded me of something.
So we partner with Element.
This is electrolyte powder, high in sodium,
thousand milligrams per can or per dose.
And I noticed that, and I noticed this with clients
back in the day too and myself,
high salt or sodium, no calorie, either foods or beverages
are great ways to curb hunger.
Great ways.
Bodybuilders know this.
Bodybuilders would love to snack.
What's one of your favorite snacks?
We would salt the hell out of stuff.
Yeah, and what was your favorite?
Beef jerky for sure.
What about a pickle?
Oh yeah, pickle, oh yeah, for sure.
Oh, like five calories. But it's salty. so that was part of also much so I would sodium load
In prep and I would eat two large dill pickles on top of my already high sodium diet to push it even further
I remember doing this that the few times I really really really try to get super super shredded. I would have salty
Low calorie foods or I would have salty, low calorie foods,
or I would add salt, what I used to do,
I used to get sparkling water,
and I would add salt to it, and I'd drink it,
and it would really, it would handle my appetite.
The dill pickle thing is actually a really good hack
that we've never really talked about on this podcast,
because you're also getting, I mean,
you're also crunching on something.
Yeah, you're crunching on something,
it's pretty good size, and it's super low calorie Like it's not hardly any calories high in high in sodium
You so it keeps your mouth busy. There's it's got a lot of surface. So it's not like so yeah
I think that's such a hack for somebody who were a diet food back in the day like a real popular one
It should be it's just it's a smart. It's a smart and you add in the fact if someone's low calorie
They're probably low sodium too. And so probably good for them
Yeah, staying hydrated like that too. So it's interesting that we don't
Hear or see more it talked about more often because in the community that was like a well-known thing that you you ate dill pickles
I'm like we should look to body blows more for some of these hacks
I feel like I'm like full circle. Yeah, it is full circle, you know what I'm saying?
I feel like we're getting, it's the comeback man for us.
Anyway, I gotta bring up a topic.
We were talking about progressive overload.
It reminded me about a fallacy.
I didn't know there was a name to it.
It's called the arrival fallacy.
So this is the fallacy that when you arrive
at your destination, you arrive at your goal,
that you're gonna be so happy and satisfied.
Like, I remember when we had Mark Manson on the podcast.
Here's a joke.
He had depressed after that.
Depressed because he hit the best seller.
Yeah, he's the author of Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck.
That's an old podcast episode.
We interviewed him.
I remember him saying the most depressed he ever was
was after accomplishing this massive goal of him.
It was shortly after too.
Yes.
And so I was reading about this
and really we're wired this way.
We are wired to progress.
We're not wired to arrive.
We're never, so one of the examples I heard
being explained was like diet.
Like I'm trying to lose 30 pounds
and my goal is to lose 30 pounds,
therefore I'm gonna avoid these foods
and do this workout and then when I'm there,
what's my reward?
I never get to eat those foods again.
Like that sucks.
And so people fail all the time.
This is why we talk about the journey so much.
This is why we talk about all the ways
that we train the behavior,
why it's about discipline and not motivation.
But I do find this fascinating.
I heard Jordan Peterson talk about this
and he said that you have this framework,
this motivational framework
that is geared towards progressing.
But once you arrive,
the motivational framework breaks down
at a biological level.
Like we are wired to desire things.
We are not wired to get them or have them.
It's a trip when you think about that.
How crazy is that?
So when I'm thinking about some of the tricks,
for lack of a better term, that I've used for fitness,
like how do you work out forever?
Like how do you stay consistent for the rest of your life?
One of the things that I do,
and I know you talk about this and Justin,
you talk about this,
one of the things that we do is and I know you talk about this and Justin, you talk about this, one of the things that we do is we just,
we change the goal.
So there's, because there's always
something that I can progress at.
So it's like mobility, so much there.
Yeah, dude.
So it's like mobility, strength, fat loss, muscle gain.
And if you keep doing that, I think that helps
that motivational framework.
I think that's a massive hack because,
and the longer you've been
doing this the better you get at certain things you always move away from another one so if you
get super strong guy I guarantee you're losing some mobility you get super performance guy and
I bet you don't get as much grinding so there's always something that you can be getting better
at that's why it's a journey and that's why too it's embrace the almost like you're starting over
feeling you know this is also why and you I know you guys have heard this, people have listened
to the show for a long time, probably tired of me telling the story, but the, one of the
most powerful moments that I've shared in business was the phone call to Katrina, bitching
about my day, you know, and her stopping and waiting till I was done and then saying, would
you have it any other way? I just think that was such a powerful moment for myself because
at after her saying that I went, you're so right. Like if it was all it was easy. And
every time I tried something, it worked and I won, then it would be lame. What makes it
so great is that it is hard that I do fail that it does. I get frustrated.
Like I think that us as humans understanding that in all aspects, not just fitness,
but obviously fitness too, is so powerful.
It's so powerful just to, cause then when you're in those moments, cause they're
inevitable in anything that you do, you embrace it more, you allow it to happen
and you go, this sucks right now.
Or challenge. Yeah. No, you go, this sucks right now.
Or challenge.
Yeah, no, this is shitty, I don't like it.
But the fact is, if it didn't have this part of it either,
then the good side of it wouldn't be as good.
So I was thinking about this
and its relation to finding purpose
and why religion in particular is so good.
It's actually the ultimate way that we found in the data,
this is secular data, at finding purpose.
It's because your aim is at this infinite good.
You can't ever catch it.
You'll never be as good as him.
However, it comes with, especially in the most popular
faith in Western societies, which is Christianity,
it comes with ultimate grace at the same time.
Because you'll always fail.
You're always gonna fail.
And nobody likes to fail, but you're getting grace along the way and you're aiming for something that you'll always fail. You're always gonna fail. And nobody likes to fail, but you're getting grace
along the way and you're aiming for something
that you'll never accomplish.
So it gives you this ultimate sense of purpose.
Really interesting.
It's a system that we have that is geared towards progress
and that system breaks down and dissolves when you arrive.
So there was a quote I heard.
It was, woe to the man who accomplishes his dreams
only to realize he dreamed the wrong thing.
Oh boy, oh boy, that's a terrible place to be.
You know what I mean?
No, no, such a good point.
I'm gonna bring it back to the salt
because you brought salt up and it just triggered something
that I wanted to talk to you guys about.
So I'm changing my pool to salt water right now.
Oh, your swimming pool.
Yeah, I'm about to.
So you were saying off air, easy conversion for you.
Yeah, yeah, luckily it is.
Sometimes it is, sometimes it isn't.
My pool guy said that we have the setup
to make it pretty easy and it was very inexpensive for me.
So why, is it just because chlorine's
messing with your skin?
Yeah, I'm already ultra sensitive to it.
So it was something I should do
no matter how expensive it was gonna be.
I should make the investment considering
I have a pool now. But what really tipped me over was, and I saw this, I saw
a clip and they were touting some study and I was like, no fucking way, it can't be that
crazy. And so then I went down the rabbit hole, Googling and looking it up and I found
a little bit conflicting with what it said, but most all of it was 60 to 80 percent and this this podcast thing I don't
remember when I first saw it but they were saying that they did a study where
they basically chlorinated a pool with the amount of whatever amount I don't
remember what the measurement was and then everybody swam in it for like an
hour then they tested the pool again all the chlorine was. Meaning that it got all absorbed into their skin.
And then I was like, that's crazy.
That much gets, we are-
Really?
So within 15 minutes of being in a pool,
your body eats up, and this is where there's a little bit
of 60 to 80% of the chlorine.
Your body absorbs it all?
Yes.
I've never heard of that.
Yes.
I heard some weird facts. That's weird.
The smell of chlorine is really like the main smell of it is really just urine.
That's an old trick to get your mom to your mom told you to so you don't piss in the pool dog.
That's what that is. That's like the old blue dye. You know what I'm saying? When your mom used to tell
you that like sure don't piss in the pool or else it's like if you blue dye. You know what I'm saying? When your mom used to tell you that. I'm sure. Don't piss in the pool, or else it'd be like,
if you smell chlorine, son, that means someone's pissing
in the pool.
You're like, if you smell that, and it's really pungent,
there's probably a lot of piss in the pool.
Yes, the body absorbs chlorine when swimming
in a chlorinated pool.
See, that one says 64%.
I've read everywhere between 60% and 82% was it.
Your body absorbs approximately 64% of the chlorine
it comes in contact with.
Yes.
So within 15 minutes,
it was sucking up 60.
Hold on a second, what would that do to the body?
Bro, and it doesn't just expel it.
That's the worst. In your skin?
Yes, yes.
Does it go into your bloodstream?
Does that kill your microbiome?
Well, it definitely kills the microbiome.
Yeah, I went on the rabbit hole
all the long term.
It's not good, let's put it that way.
It is not good.
I didn't realize that at all.
And, okay, so shout out to whoever it was who DM'd me.
I actually had a couple people DM me the same thing
about the spraying the, what was it on my skin?
The vitamin C.
Oh yeah, vitamin C.
So I'm ordering that so I can get that.
I know you can make it at home, but I'll just,
I just bought, found something to buy it.
And then on top of that, I'm also gonna go to salt water.
After I read that, I was just like, that can't, bro, your skin taking up that much chlorine in 15
minutes and my little son swimming in it all time like that. Doug, what does chlorine
do in the body when you absorb it? I know. Yeah, I mean there's all kinds of symptoms
here. I mean those are the ones I'm, you know, I understand like your skin gets
irritated, you're a little messed up. But that's weird, I didn't know that.
You're absorbing it?
I know, I didn't either.
Well that makes me not wanna go on a boy.
That's a creepy fact, that sucks.
I mean again, this is the cool part about salt water, right?
So even salt water uses a little bit of chlorine.
They don't use, it's very minimal.
They still have to use some.
Yeah, they still have to use some, it's very minimal.
Like our jacuzzi in Tahoe and Barsetti are both salt water, but they still use a couple tablespoons of
chlorine versus the ones that are like the other ones they use like jugs of
that shit. So a lot. And then the thing that yours like your skin is like a
sponge to it. It just like sucks it all up. Will that make it easier to swim in your
pool too right? Because it's more buoyant? Because of the salt? Yeah. Yeah, salt does that.
I should. I mean it does when I do a salt bath, I can feel it.
Oh no, it always does that.
For example, one of my bucket list things
is to go to the Dead Sea and float on it.
What a stupid thing.
That's so cool.
Well, no it's not, it's cool.
I wanna go all the way to the Dead Sea
just so I can float on top of the water.
Yeah, dude.
No, hey listen.
It's so random.
Salt lake.
I don't think it's got as much salt in it.
You don't think so?
No, dude.
Look up Salt Lake.
I mean, yeah, Dead Sea is ridiculous.
Yeah, because my aunt and uncle,
first of all, I'd go to Israel for many other reasons,
but I wanna go.
Yeah, but it just sounds funny,
you say it like, I'm gonna fly all the way over,
there's like a float in some water.
Don't you think that's cool?
I'm like, bro, I'll just throw some salt in a bath,
I'll just do the same thing.
Dude, my aunt said she went in there,
and she's like, if you're not careful,
you can't get your feet back down to the sand to walk back
She's like you'll float and then you'll be stuck. Yeah, dude. That's float so high on the water
Well, I know how it is those deprivation tanks right like that you go
That's a weird that's a good example of what it feels like. Oh look at the difference 34% in the Dead Sea
Great Salt Lake is 5 to 27 percent depending on the season, so you're not even getting close.
Yeah, that's good, that's gonna be fair enough.
What Justin said is, yeah, would probably trump all that.
If you go in a float tank,
I bet you that's more powerful than any of them.
We've all done that.
You guys do that with us?
Yeah, and you're like super boring on that.
I thought that was so fun.
You can't even, you couldn't sink to the bottom
if you tried, so that's how boring you are on that.
I had a friend, I changed subject,
I had a friend I was talking to yesterday
who had a little concern because their friend
is gonna put their younger kid on ADHD medication.
And I'm diagnosed with ADHD, so we were talking about this.
And they're like, what do you think about kids
being on these?
And I'm not a doctor, so this is just my personal opinion,
but I think we're being a little bit,
I don't think we're being honest if we don't think
it's going to impact the modeling of the brain,
the growing brain, because you have medications
that alter the chemistry of the brain,
either through dopamine or through other ways,
dopamine the most common one, right, like Ritalin.
And it's got to change the way the brain develops
because of this higher exposure to dopamine.
I find it interesting.
It's really interesting.
Well, I mean, Ritalin and Adderall
is like crystal meth, isn't it?
They're related, yeah, they're methamphetamines.
Yeah, it's just a controlled dose of it.
I mean, it's the same thing
of what OxyContin is to heroin, right? I mean, it's just it's just a controlled dose of it. I mean, it's the same thing of what oxycontin is to heroin, right?
I mean, it's very similar to this
So the idea of giving a kid a drug like that and by the way
I'll never forget the first time I tried that I was in my 30s. Yeah, so I never I've never had anything like that
Although I thought that I've had ADD of the you and I both have talked about that
I remember the first time I think it took a five milligram
I don't know what the low the low low dose is
Holy shit was that and to think that we give that to children. Well, what kills me is it's like a lot of times
It's I mean, okay, of course, there's gonna be severe cases and we're you know, we do need medications
So I'm not like dismissing that but but just to get a kid to sit still,
that's the entire goal, is just to have them do nothing
and sit there, adjust your education,
adjust your entire plan, make it interactive,
push back on the teachers to do a better job.
What's the percentage of boys versus girls
on ADHD medication?
Oh, guys, you have to be way higher. the other thing that, so I was actually looking at this also, Sal, and the other thing
that I was curious about was just how much the amount of iPad and video gaming and YouTube
exacerbates this in kids.
And what I found, which was very alarming to me, was how little research we have to show that and in fact
If you just google search it it tries to dispel that really quick
Like if I was a norm just a normal dad or mom who heard that and you want anyone went does give video games
Good for my kid who's got ADHD with that like they don't
Every with everything that pops up does not say anything
bad whatsoever and I just think that that's crazy to me. I think the thought that these things
that that get that program your kid to want to keep doing it want to do it want to do it in loops
has no change in their brain chemistry or their potential behavior. You mean it you really think
that like I don't need a fucking study to show me that I can I've seen it firsthand in my own son brain chemistry or their potential behavior. You mean it? You really think that? Like,
I don't need a fucking study to show me that I can. I've seen it firsthand in my own son,
what it looks like when that's in his life and when it's not his life. And it's obvious.
I can observe things. Yeah. So if you Google it right now, Google, Google video games and
ADHD and what they, what they do say is that kids that have ADHD are more likely to potentially
get addicted to video games, but not that video game playing and screen time has any
sort of correlation to.
I know people, I know kids who grew up with some trauma, much higher rates of ADD, ADHD.
Some people would say it's like a learned trauma response
in some cases, I've read that before.
I think it's interesting because,
now there's always extreme cases,
like there are for lots of different things,
but school is not designed at all for the kid
who needs to move while they learn.
And there's adults like this.
Which is most boys, like come on.
Yeah, so that's a lot of the fuel behind it,
is my kid needs to sit still.
That's it.
Okay, so imagine that, and then, okay,
anybody who has seen Cocoa Melon,
or watched any sort of, name the Mario Brothers video game,
whatever, any of those things,
and the amount of lights and movement and screen cutting and it's,
it is, it's sucking, it sucks the brain in. And so you,
you have a classroom that sits the little boy down all day long to where he's
not moving,
but twice a day for 15 minutes or 30 minutes for recess or what that,
and he's having to keep his attention. Then he gets home and he's in front of these YouTube channels
that are screen cutting like crazy.
So his brain's firing a million times mile faster
while his body is sitting still all day long.
And you don't think that changes shit up?
What?
I also think this, how able are you guys?
I'll just ask you guys, alright?
Obviously successful men, built businesses,
you guys have families.
Let me ask you this, how hard is it for you
to pay attention when you're sitting down
and learning stuff you don't wanna learn?
Can you pay attention when you're learning boring shit?
Or stuff you're not into?
What, like, I feel like that's normal.
So if my kid is sitting in class,
if my kid's sitting in class and they're being,
you gotta learn this, you gotta learn this.
And then my kid's like, I'm not interested in that.
When I'm not interested in something, good luck.
Well, and Sal, back to my point.
And then I think that's exacerbated
when the tech they're getting is feeding that dopamine hit
so fast, so hard all the time.
So it's like, when I'm not at school,
I get these constant dopamine hits like crazy in my
video game, in my YouTube channel that I watch all day long. Then my mom and dad want me to sit in a
classroom that I got to learn about boring history or boring whatever. Like no wonder they can't sit
still for that hour because they're just thinking of where else they can get it next. Yes. Where
can I get that? And so maybe there's not a direct correlation between the diagnosis of ADHD and video games but you cannot tell me that
allowing kids to be on YouTube and allowing kids to be watching things like
Coco melon to be doing things like that like that and then and non-stop screen
time and then put them in a school setting and then not think that that's not making it worse is crazy wasn't
So I know we had the creator for brain FM on the show a long time ago
And he was talking about this big initiative to create
Like FDA get approval for them to be be a viable option instead of taking
80 ADHD Medication I don't know the way the way I look at it is viable option instead of taking ADHD medication.
I don't know, the way I look at it is,
first of all, if I'm doing something,
if I'm being told to do something
that I'm not interested in,
it's very hard for me to pay attention.
I think it's true for everybody.
I think that's true for anybody.
For me, definitely very true.
Good luck.
You're sitting in a class all day long. Classrooms are not designed
in particular for boys. I wanted you to look up, Doug, like boys versus girls on ADHD.
I know it's much higher.
Not only that, too.
And also, you're going to put them on medicine, which is altering their brain chemistry. That's
the point. That's what it does. Their brain is still modeling. It's still building. And
there are certain permanent things that happen
that you're building as a kid and adolescent
until you hit the age of like 25, right?
And those, you can't change much afterwards.
That's why you can learn languages as a kid
and not have an accent.
And so what you're gonna do is you're gonna flood the brain
with certain chemicals.
That's gonna affect the long-term development
of that brain, it has to.
And why do we have to look at this like it's a deficiency? This could be a superpower.
You know how many entrepreneurs that I know are very aware they have ADHD?
Find what their interest is and watch what happens to them.
That's right. And they attribute their success to their ADHD.
And a lot of them will say that. They'll say like, I'm very aware that I have this,
and I've learned to focus it on the things that I'm into,
and now I have a superpower.
It's like, instead of, but no, let's take a drug
that's gonna like, just kill that.
Three times as many boys as girls.
Let's look this up.
What percentage of entrepreneurs have ADHD
versus the regular population?
I believe it's 80.
It's crazy. It's much higher.
I believe it's 80, it's real high.
It's a much higher percentage.
It's a superpower.
We're teaching these kids the things that they have a problem. We all have varied degrees, it's real high. It's a much higher percentage. It's a superpower. We're teaching these kids the things
that they have a problem.
You don't have varied degrees.
They're bad, but it's like, no,
they're doing shit they don't like doing.
And then again, I'm adding the video game thing
because I just think that exacerbates all this.
It makes that kid really difficult to sit still.
What is it?
It's 20, 30%.
And then Doug, look up the average population.
What percentage do you have?
It's much higher for entrepreneurs, I know that. Yeah, I percentage you have, it's much higher for entrepreneurs.
I know that.
Yeah, I don't know, it's an interesting conversation to me.
And I know that there's varying degrees, I get that,
but I know that, I know diet affects it,
I know it does for me, I know for people around me.
Yeah, look, 4% versus 20% or 30%.
So, okay.
Diet, exercise makes a big difference.
You take these boys that are having trouble sitting down and have them do things that are active. I didn't even add that and that's
another talking point too. It's like if you allow your kid to eat highly
processed foods and sugars and stuff. Have you seen food dyes in connection? Yes. You talked
about noticing a difference in your kids behavior by having the red
dye. So okay, so think of that as a good kid, right? He's got, he's
got school that is boring as shit. He's got to sit down on his own. He's got parents that
are super busy. And so he's on screen a lot. The stuff he's watching on screen is explosions,
fast move, Cocoa Melon type shit and video games jumping all over the place. And so he's
getting hours of that a day. And then on top of that, he's feeding himself processed foods and food dyes and things like
that.
And then like we're mad at him because he can't sit through fucking biology or whatever
the kid is learning at that age, history or whatever that is like boring as hell for an
hour.
Like, no kidding.
It's boring for me.
It's boring for me.
You know what's crazy to me is we don't think about this
with animals.
If you have a dog that you keep inside all day long
and then you bring him to the vet and you're like,
this dog's crazy.
He's jumping on the furniture.
Chewed up my shit.
He's chewing on things.
What'd they say to you?
And the dog's like.
Did you excise him?
Are you taking him outside?
No.
Oh, he's got ADD.
No, it's gonna be like, dude, get him outside.
Medicated.
Sedate him.
I know, dude.
So many things, so many problems that we're medicating
are really just symptoms of a lifestyle that just.
Okay, so as parents, okay,
list off the things that at all costs
you're trying to avoid.
I understand Justin made the point,
he covered our bases for there's exceptions to the rule
or there's gonna be somebody who I understand, right for the most part as a dad right well like antibiotics
the Adderall like one of the things that we've we're giving to kids that we just are you know
laws a fair by yeah handing them out like candy that you think about as parents like at all cost
like by the way if my kid needed a life or death thing
to take an antibiotic, my kid's getting an antibiotic,
I'm gonna give it to him.
But then at the same time too,
if I can do it the natural way, any way possible,
I'm not gonna give him an antibiotic.
That's one.
Or even like pain medication.
I mean, I've seen it with other parents
and there's like just a skin knee
and they're given, immediately given them pain medication.
Like what are you doing?
We're setting them up for long-term codependence to this.
Yeah, I don't know, man.
I think it's really interesting.
I think we're in a society where we see symptoms
of poor health and the solution is to medicate it,
not to address the poor.
It's the first thought.
Not to address the poor health.
And I mean, and kids are not doing great.
Although I will say this this they are trying now to reduce the amount of
prescriptions for
These methamphetamines for kids because people are calling it out. Like this is a lot you guys
We're gonna put that many kids on these drugs these addictive drugs that really affect
dopamine system
I definitely think that any parent before you put your kid on that,
you should fucking take a couple of those pills.
And by the way, you should take double
whatever you give your kid,
because your kid is a quarter the size you are.
Take it and then actually think about
if you want to give your kid that.
To me, that's a good challenge.
Like you want to give your kid this prescription.
You know that they weigh about, whatever,
40 to 80 pounds, whatever their range is,
you weigh double or triple that,
so whatever your weight is, you take two to three times
the dose that they want your kid to take,
and then just fucking think about that.
Like just, that's how powerful that stuff is.
I would love to see what percentage of kids
who are homeschooled are on medication
versus those in school.
Because I wonder how many parents who homeschool their kids
just change the way that they teach their kids
based off of the fact that, you know,
my son has a tough time when I try to do it this way,
so I'm gonna do it this other way.
Well, and also it's more intentional
because they're working with them constantly, right?
So they have that allotted time spent with them
versus like, I think this probably happens a lot more
with the parents that are both working or both,
you know what I mean?
What's the stat on that? That'd be an interesting status. How many of the kids on that are both working, or both. You know what I mean? What's the stat on that?
That'd be an interesting status.
How many of the kids on ADHD have both working parents
that are busy like that?
I wonder.
You know, you were talking earlier about
the entertainment that is geared towards children,
like Cocoa Melon stuff.
My kids, my wife's really, really strict
about TV and entertainment,
but the one thing my kids can watch
in limited amounts of is Mr. Rogers. Yeah, you said that. And Mr. But the one thing my kids can watch in limited amounts of
is Mr. Rogers.
Yeah, you said that.
And Mr. Rogers, if you watch it now,
it is painfully slow in comparison to TV for kids now.
It is painfully slow.
And my kids can't handle more than 30 minutes max,
and then they wanna turn it off,
because they're like, let's go do something else.
But if I put a YouTube children's show on there,
they'll watch that for hours.
I shared this with you guys with the original Nintendo.
I noticed that with regular Nintendo with Max.
So Max can't play any new video games.
Well it ends too.
It ends.
Oh yeah, you die.
It's just boring as shit.
Yeah, there's not an endless loop.
You get three lives.
If you ruin those three lives in a short amount of time,
it's like, you gotta start over. It's not an endless loop. You get three lives. If you ruin those three lives in a short amount of time, it's like, yeah, start over.
It's not visually stimulating.
It's like they barely had figured the graphics out.
So the science that has gone into video gaming
wasn't there yet.
So if he wants to play video games,
yeah, let's go upstairs and play.
And I swear to God, every time we stop playing,
I'm not done playing.
I'm ready, I wanna keep playing.
He's like, I'm over it, dad.
Like, he's not interested.
But you let him sit with his friend who's playing like the new games that these kids play
I'll sit there for he'll sit there for as long as you let him sit there
It's the sandbox versus a real, you know
The old school physics is what was highlighted in that right and he had to figure out like
You know what the best combo was and it was a really frustrating
But what it taught you was like overcoming challenges,
which I don't think that's stressed at all
in these new video games.
It's just literally how long can we keep them all there
so we can capitalize on this.
Such a great point, Justin.
The old games stress the physics, the challenge,
the not giving up, keep doing it over and over again,
because if Mario, you couldn't figure out how to do that,
you had to do it a thousand times over.
The other game is it's designed to give you rewards
and keep you coming back in the open loop thing.
By the way, it's not because old game designers
were like these altruistic.
No, they just didn't know yet.
They just didn't figure out how to make it.
They didn't know.
This is what we knew, yeah.
No, no, yeah, they didn't know any better.
It's just no different than when we first
created Process Foods.
It wasn't like, let's get everyone addicted to this.
It was literally like.
Oh, more people are eating this.
Yeah, yeah, it was probably, it was actually rooted in probably something very good. And then we realized like, oh wow,
people were becoming a little addicted to this. How can we manipulate that? And how can we make
more money? That's why I prefer old games too. I'm the same way. It's just like, I feel like
they'll walk away from it because it's like, it's frustrating. You suck at it and then you get
better and then you get excited. Cause it's like, oh my God, actually you like accomplish something. You never feel you accomplish something. These new games. No, it just then you get better and then you get excited because it's like oh my god actually like accomplish something
You never feel you accomplish something these new games
No, no, I just pull it just pulls you in like, you know
I want to I'm gonna change directions and bring up our our new
Group training that we're doing coming up. That's right. We got we got another we got two groups
We're gonna open up. So we did an experiment with this and it turned out so well
I think we're gonna continue doing this
So well, we did we did we did the original GLP one had great
feedback from that then the the boys ran another group which is almost almost
done transform which we've had incredible groups of 50 people essentially
it's around 50 people you get in there and you get coached by mind pump
trainers and they meet with you weekly and they coach you
through your fitness journey.
And the two groups we're gonna do,
one is for muscle gain and the other one's for fat loss.
We have two groups this time, running at the same time.
So if you're interested in fat loss, we have one,
and if you're interested in just building muscle,
we have another one.
And we keep the groups small on purpose
because we want good service,
but we doubled that we could do two groups now
because we have more trainers now.
We're slowly adding trainers to our roster.
So we now have two groups that we're gonna be running.
So fat loss and muscle gain.
We have to bring up that stat though.
Was it like the average was like two inches
around the waist?
Yeah, the average person in our last group,
which was a combination,
they went through a reverse diet, then a cut,
and they're not done yet.
So that was like,
to me the average person lost two and a half inches
around their waist.
Pretty awesome.
And that's mostly through the reverse diet.
No, no, it's been exciting.
So this is mindpumpgroupcoaching.com
is where you can go sign up.
But it's only 50 people for each.
After that, we're done.
But we'll run another group later on
for maybe another goal. I thought I saw Doug did you scroll down oh yeah do we have
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Our first caller is James from California.
What's up, James?
What's happening?
Hey, how's it going, guys?
We're doing good, how are you?
Oh, excellent.
I really just wanna say I've been really inspired
by your podcast and the
pumps anabolic and it's been very informative. Listen to your podcast on the commute every
day and inspirational. Thank you. Thank you. Thanks for taking my call. You got it. What
you got for us James. Oh, so you got my in my in my email I sent pretty much a 52 old man, um, athletic, I
would consider and pretty out there as far as doing cycling and surfing etc.
And since I turned 50, um, so my belly's getting bigger.
And so I've been working for the past couple months on dumping almost like 200 grams of protein into
my into my body. I weigh 235. And I just came up with that
number randomly because I want to get a bit lighter on my feet
on my surfboard and get rid of the belly fat. I also want to of
course, be looking better but function and faction as far as
being stronger upper
body having more of a chest and so I've been lifting three nights a week going
very low reps very low weight and then also doing a bunch of pick classes or
aerobic classes and I know it's a marathon not a sprint but I've been
going at this for about two months and specific
questions are, you know, going from 235 to 200, but yet wanting to get a bigger chest
and shoulders and more of an upper body for function and fashion. You know, is that number
makes sense at all or?
The 200 grams makes sense, but let's back up on the programming right now. So let me
make sure I get everything clear.
You're you're lifting weights three times a week plus you're
doing hit classes.
And then are you also doing the running and swimming and surfing
and all the other stuff in addition to that?
Yeah on the weekends.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Okay.
We're not gonna build a chest like that James.
Are you are you are you following any of our programs?
I was I had the maps out of ballot
cause I never lifted weights before
and my awesome roommate, she got me this,
she got me this, the program
and I didn't know how to lift weights.
So I've been following it, but not to the T.
I've been going in and doing everything to do
with chest, biceps and shoulders, low reps,
like eight to 12, three sets, not going to fail.
I'm talking like just the Olympic bar, like really slow,
just getting the most out of it.
Yeah, no, that's not gonna work.
So, okay, so follow MAPS Anabolic as it's laid out.
The intensity does need to be a little higher, okay?
So it does need to be a struggle as you're working out.
In other words, if it says eight reps, the eighth rep is a struggle.
Now you might be able to squeeze one or two more out, but the eighth one is a struggle.
If you don't have sufficient intensity, it's not going to do much for you.
And then we would want you to eliminate the HIIT cardio classes.
Now your weekends, keep that up.
You love doing that.
But stay away from all the HIIT cardio type. Now your weekends, keep that up. You love doing that.
But stay away from all the HIIT cardio type of stuff
and just focus on the strength training.
And then let's get to the diet part.
You're eating 200 grams of protein a day.
What does that look like?
Okay, so in the morning, one glass of Metamucil,
no protein, but one to two cups of Greek yogurt
with no sugar, with some blueberries, and one like Aussie bite, yogurt with no sugar with some blueberries and one
like Aussie bite, like a little cereal crunchy thing. It's got eight grams of sugar. Um,
so I haven't measuring it. I know I need to, but that's almost like 20 grams of protein,
maybe 30 with the, with the nonfat Greek yogurt. And then, um, a cup of coffee with plain cream
or milk, but I've been looking at, cause I'm a surfer. I'm a big fan of Laird Hamilton, but I know you I just discovered you guys have the paleo valley, but
some sort of protein coffee supplement. Okay.
And then liquids. I'm starting the day off. I have a three quart jug of water that put tea bags in.
So I'm drinking that by the end of the day as far as liquids, one or two sparkling waters,
one or two cups of hot tea, and I throw in one of those Fair Life chocolate protein drinks,
you know, this is all Costco materials, that's 30 grams of protein, so like I'm at 50.
Then at lunch, I learned this by watching Bobby Fisher shopping at Costco, but it's two cans of tuna with a couple cottage cheese, or it's two cans of
sardines with a small hunk of cheese, or it's one can of
chicken with 30 grams of protein. So the two cans of
tuna is 60. The two cans of sardines is 44. The one can of
chicken is 30. And then I'll add two hard boiled eggs to any one
of those for 12 grams.
Okay. And then dinner, let's just get kind of boring and not sustainable,
it's two frozen salmon burgers or one large burger, right? Those two salmon burgers are 40
grams of protein, the large burgers about 20 grams and with either of those, another two hard-boiled eggs at 12 grams.
And then you guys, one of your podcasts, the proteins, you know, the five, whatever the podcast
was, it was great. But, um, uh, eat the proteins first, then, then the veggies, et cetera, then
the starch. So I'll have a salad with cheese and occasionally those burgers may end up between two slices of
homemade sourdough bread and a handful of chips so yeah that's my protein intake
for the day. Do you know what your total calories are averaging? I have not totaled the
calories. So what I what I want you to do is stick to whole natural foods for
this to work which means also avoiding
shakes.
The reason why we tell people hit high protein, well there's a few reasons, but one of them,
especially when you're trying to lose weight, is it produces satiety.
But when you take it in supplement form like shakes and powders, you lose a lot of that
effect.
Powders and shakes are good for people who struggle with hitting their calories.
But for people who want to cut or lose weight, whole natural foods is going to do that much more effectively.
That also means no bread, no chips. You're going to eat things like potato, rice, meat, fruit, vegetables.
Yeah, sweet potatoes.
Sweet potato, yam, that kind of stuff. If you stick to just whole foods,
so foods that are one ingredient, so salmon burger, I don't know if you're making it yourself,
no you're buying them, they're frozen, so it's a bit more processed, right? So like salmon,
just salmon would be more whole. Now the other option, if you don't want to go that route,
would be to have to track your calories so we can see what you're consuming on a regular basis
And then go from there because with without whole natural foods, it's it's people tend to overeat and
Then the workout part stick to maps anabolic don't do the hit cardio and then on the weekends go into your activities
That's where I'd start. That's where I'd start with you
James how different is the the current diet than kind of how you were eating just say a month or two ago
All right, you said you've been doing this for two months
So take me back three four months ago, like how radically different is this this this food intake compared to what you used to eat?
Thanks great question. Yeah my whole life. I've just eaten whatever I wanted
pretty much and it's usually been yogurt and some you know, like
Pretty much and usually been yogurt and some you know like
Cereal with the yogurt. It's been Trader Joe's salad salads Caesar salads, etc And then dinner is just kind of in random whatever you know, yeah, whatever
A lot of pastas really late night, which I know is bad, but I've never put thought to it up until like
January. Yeah, that helps.
I mean, that helps me a lot.
The reason why I asked that,
we just recorded an episode that we're gonna,
I think release in a couple of weeks here
that we're talking about, there was two trainers
and how we take a client, say like yourself
and the step, step one, what do we do?
Step two, step three.
And one of the mistakes as a young early trainer
we would make is, you know, sit down with
a guy like you and go like, all right, here's your calories, here's your macros, eat these
foods and radically shift you from what you've done your whole life to all of a sudden something
totally different.
And the reason why this doesn't work, now it may work temporarily, but why it doesn't
work long term is it's so unrealistic from how you ate.
And so what I'd do instead is
I'd find out kind of how you ate and then I would make one or two tweaks. I'd go, okay
James that's okay right there but let's just add this to that and that's better or let's
eliminate this and trade that for that. But keeping things similar but slowly modifying
in the direction of eating the way I need you to eat in order to hit these goals because
if I don't do it that way, you do this like, oh I could do this, I switch
over and then you're eating all these foods you're not used to eating and
you're not seeing the results fast enough and eventually what happens is the
client throws their arms up and say well F this, I don't look any better or feel
any better than when I did three months ago eating whatever the hell I wanted
and that was way less stress and less work and then they go back the other direction.
The other thing to consider is if we're eating in a calorie surplus and hitting our grams
of protein and hoping to build our chest but then we're doing activity like hit cardio
and moving and trying to burn all the time, they're like conflicting goals.
One of them is trying to burn and lose and lose and the other ones to you know build muscle
and the body doesn't do that at the same time. It's either in it's either anabolic meaning it's
already it's trying to build muscle or it's catabolic it's trying to break down and burn
body fat and so we want to make sure the way we're eating and training kind of aligns so that you get
the most out of your results. So one of the things I would like to do if you're open to it is I'd love to
put you in the private forum so that as we're going through this process the guys and I can kind of
step you through it on kind of how we would do this. Are you on Facebook? Can I do that?
Yeah that'd be great. I appreciate that. I guess you know walking not crazy like afterwards eating
after you eat you know been doing that
but I guess I guess I'm not knowledgeable although I'm learning you
know yeah I want to I want to I want to build for looks and also for surf
training and being stronger you know but but I also enjoy the cardio so I love to
do cycling and cross-country skiing and in the in the in the classes I enjoy the cardio. So I love to do cycling and cross country skiing and the classes. I enjoy the classes, kickboxing, etc.
It's been good to get me. I don't want to but you're saying
that those two make, make things not work out as far as building
muscle and that they conflict each other.
They do. And so it's not that we have to eliminate it forever.
It's that okay, hey, let's let's focus on a goal
So let's say you again, let's say I you hired me and we just got started and we agreed
Okay, you can you give me the vision and I can see what you want
You're like you want to lean down that waist
But we want broad shoulders and a chest and be strong and you want to be athletic and be able to do these sports
Look and feel good all the above but when we go about it just like building a house
look and feel good, all the above. But when we go about it, just like building a house, you know, you tell me you want this the big beautiful vaulted ceilings and
the French doors and all stuff that, and I'm like, hey we got to lay the foundation
first. Let's go build the foundation and then I'm gonna get, I'm gonna build you
that house but we're not, we're not focusing on the French doors and the
vaulted ceilings when we haven't even laid the foundation yet. And so
that's kind of what we would want to do first
is like, okay, let's build some muscle and let's build your metabolism. Let's do that first because
that's what's going to benefit this look and this athleticism that you want. And so the way we're
going to go about that is hitting that protein intake, doing it through whole natural foods,
and getting strong in the gym. And that means we're not going to waste a lot of time doing
HIIT cardio and all this extra activity. Now Sal made a point to say hey
if you love you know your stuff on the weekends we never want to take that from
a client so even though it's not really serving us on the building muscle part
it's something you love to do and you've been doing it forever there's no reason
for us to eliminate that because it's a part of your lifestyle but anything
you're doing outside of your normal lifestyle in order to get these goals right now
should be primarily focused just on building muscle
and building your metabolism first.
And so that's hitting the grams of protein,
doing it through whole foods,
lifting two to three times a week, getting strong,
pushing the weights to get strong.
That's gonna lay the best foundation for you
and then we start to structure the rest of the house.
Just gonna prioritize it so it's a block
where this is our focus right now of building muscle and then we start to structure the rest of the house. Just got to prioritize it. So it's a block where this is our focus right now of building muscle.
And then we can build upon that, the endurance and, you know, get back to,
you know, a little bit more of those other styles of training that you'd
probably prefer, but to get you stronger and really maximize your muscle
potential, you have to prioritize that first.
Build the muscle first, then cardio next.
Yes.
Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes.
James, have you ever, I know this, you're just now getting into weight training. Have you ever considered maybe hiring a trainer to actually take you through all
this stuff? Yeah, I, I, I have, I have,
and my gym's up at college of San Mateo and those,
that staff up there is incredible.
And so I gotta give a shout out to them and I may hire one one of their trainers because they're they've been very inspirational and awesome. But I don't
teach your salary. Yeah, I get it. You don't even buy here. God do it on my own with with
your program and stuff. But the nutrition I think is really, you know, it's going to
be the hard part. What's sustainable the next year, the next five years, you know, what
and getting this 200 grams of protein into my mouth
each day has been sort of like, wow,
I almost feel like I'm overeating.
It's like work.
It's gonna feel like that even more
if you stick to whole natural foods.
With the trainer, you wouldn't, you know,
for someone like you, if it is a large investment,
work with them with the intention of learning
the exercises, the technique, and feeling comfortable with them is how I would do
it. Yeah it's not not hiring them like get me all the way to my goal it's more
like let's learn as much. Here's this program you know I'm following it I
really want to be able to do am I doing this right and if they say no okay well
what do I need to do to be able to do this right what is it supposed to feel
like like get comfortable with the movements and the intensity so that you can move forward.
James, do you know about our askmindpump.com or AI?
I don't.
Okay, you'll love that, man.
So every time you have a question related to anything,
nutrition, exercise, whatever,
if you go to askmindpump.com,
it's an AI tool that we built years ago,
and it will actually respond as if you're talking
to one of us.
And then it'll also recommend episodes and YouTube clips where we go deep into that conversation.
So as you're going through this and you have questions about anything, we've probably got
the content up there.
You just go to askmindpump.com.
And so if we're talking about doing this as inexpensive as we can but getting the best bang for
your buck and the most knowledge, the forum I'm gonna put you in there for
free so we can we can be close to you and then the second thing I'd say is go
to askmindpump.com and use that resource with our program and then follow the
programs as they're laid out, trust that process and then when you have questions
either post them in the forum for us to respond to you
or use askminepub.com and then we're gonna do our best
to help you through this process.
I greatly appreciate it.
Thanks guys, thanks for the inspiration.
Yeah, thank you.
Keep it up, James.
He's never strange to him before.
Yeah.
He's part of the challenge.
Totally.
Yeah, as he was explaining it, just figuring,
just learning what it should feel like alone.
It's a big hurdle to him.
Huge difference, yeah.
And then, you know, this is good,
this is good for us to hear when somebody listens
to our show for not a long period of time,
who has no experience, to hear what they think
we're communicating.
So he heard the get protein, which is true, but a lot of the ways he was doing it was
with shakes and stuff and he's trying to lose weight.
And he also was really trying to structure and figure out, like, this is what I'm eating
every day.
In fact, he made that comment.
He was going for convenience, which is understandable.
And he also made the comment, like, oh, this is getting kind of boring.
You're like, all right.
That's what I heard.
So right away, that's why I jumped on that because I was like, man, this is getting kind of boring. You're like, all right. That's what I heard. So right away, that's why I jumped on that because I was like, man, this is,
and we talk about this.
This is why we don't put somebody,
take somebody who's never really tried to follow
a meal plan to putting them on a meal plan.
It's just unsustainable.
Instead, I would peer into his breakfast,
let's say for example, and go-
Beef it up.
Yeah, and what he's been doing consistently.
Instead of radically changing it,
I'm just gonna tweak it.
I'm gonna add something to it or maybe trade something out, but try and keep it close to what he's been doing consistently. Instead of radically changing it, I'm just gonna tweak it. I'm gonna add something to it or maybe trade something out
but try and keep it close to what he's done his whole life
because that's more realistic with someone like this.
All of a sudden you tell this guy,
deep cans of tuna and frozen salmon,
I mean that's only gonna last so long.
I mean even if he gets good results from that,
he ain't doing that shit for the rest of his life.
Yeah, tuna and cottage cheese.
I wouldn't say,'t keep that up.
So, I mean, hopefully, and to the audience that's listening, I got to get back to, I
mean, I know when we launched it, we talked about it a lot, but we haven't really talked
about it, and we're obviously getting thousands and thousands of new people every day practically
coming in here.
So ask mindpump.com.
And let me tell you, it's been so wild to watch it. I don't know how often you guys get on there or not,
but it's evolved over the last four years.
Like it just keeps getting better.
It was great from the jump, but now it's like really,
really good.
Well, we keep adding content, so it helps to beef it up.
Yeah, no, so if you're not sure, use that.
And then this is also an example.
I know he's a teacher, but man,
if this is something you're really serious about,
you wanna make a change for the rest of your life, probably one of the best
investments you could ever make. Period. Yeah, period. Yeah. I
mean, just you work with a trainer for three, four months
to navigate forward. You know, to start with the right foot,
it'll save him years of struggle. Yeah. Our next caller
is Kyle from Texas. What's up Kyle. Welcome back.
Not a whole lot.
Yeah.
Um, yeah. So I had originally asked the question about getting more, um, Cardiovascular
endurance, being able to run more, uh, while still gaining muscle.
Uh, this is about three or four months ago.
You guys had suggested, um,
just running maybe two or three times a week, two times a week.
And you know, while I'm weight training so that I don't take away from the weight training, uh, but can still increase that.
And that's basically what I've done.
I've really just done one longer run once a week and my time has continually
gotten less and I've continued to gain muscle.
So all right. Yeah. Good job, man. How's it? So tell us a little more. Yeah. Uh, is weight
maintaining or are you like, have you checked body fat at all? Like, what do you, what do
you, what are you seeing? What do you notice? Uh, according to, according to the scale,
if it can, you know, the, it has the sensors that sense the bottom of your feet, if it
can sense through my leathery soles, the body fat stayed about the same, right around 26%
or so, which I know is high.
I'm going to work on getting that down here eventually.
I started my story.
I don't know, I started working out regularly in August of last year and I always waffled
between 190 and 200 pounds and felt overweight at 26% body.
I felt like I get sore.
I have a sit down job after everything up until two years ago. I always
was in an active job. And so I was between 190 and 200. And once I started exercising
regularly I gained about 40 pounds. So I went up to, I'm about 230 pounds right now, between 225 and 230, and I feel a whole lot better,
and I still fit in the same clothes,
except some shirts, my back won't fit in.
But it's not my stomach anymore, it's my back.
Yeah, okay.
Big old lats.
All right, good, and you were following Maths 15, right?
Yes.
I was following Maths 15, yes.
I started off trying to do my own thing, and I gained a little bit, but then once I started Math mass 15. Yes. I started off trying to do my own thing and I gained a little bit but then once I started maps of teen actually I think back when I got to the I got through the
That
15
One I had to cut back on sex because I wasn't sleeping well
That's right. I remember
One I had to cut back on sets because I wasn't sleeping well. That's right. I remember
Yeah, I mean I'm the kind of person that I'm kind of low-key most time But if I get to you know, once I start picking up weights, I'm like, you know, I got to do
I got to do one more, you know got to go gotta go hard and so yeah, I
overdid it with with it sometimes but
So yeah, I overdid it with it sometimes, but.
And now this, since last time we talked to you, you've gotten faster at your running
and you've seen some strength gains?
Yeah, still seeing strength gains.
I'm kind of a nerd, so I made my stretch
so I can keep track of what weight I did with each thing.
Oh, give us some numbers.
Yeah, give us some numbers. Yeah. Give us some data.
Um, well, so I have a limited, limited gym.
I have dumbbells up to 50 pounds. And then, um,
I have like this old fashioned, uh, it's called a solo flex. It was like before the boat flex was.
And yeah, yeah. So, um, It was like before the both legs was
Yeah, yeah so
That actually has come in handy for heavier things like bench presses and that sort of thing
Obviously the weight is just rubber bands. So I don't know what the weight is on those but
Rose I'm exceeding my 50 pound dumbbells. I'm attaching a band now
Doing a 50 pound dumbbell for Rose
with bands and I mean curls I can I could do eight reps of strict curls with 45s so what did you
start at I haven't is what I started probably 30s that's great. 25. No, it would
be 20. The strict would be 25 that I started at. I could
throw the thirties around. Well, let's let's say let's set
you up with maps 15 performance next so you can continue on
this path.
Okay. Yeah. Well, that sounds great. Yeah, let's send we'll
send that. Is there something that
can I ask one more question? Yeah.
Yeah. Is there something that you would suggest for,
because I have limited weights. Um, so I've started just,
just this last week for like deadlift. I mean,
I have a 50 pound dumbbell so I can do a hundred pounds,
but is there something that you would suggest other than switching?
Cause what I did this week is I started switching
to one legged, doing one legged dead lifts for squats.
I'm doing Bulgarians.
Just because I'm exceeding the weight
that I have at my fingertips.
That's a great option because I'll tell you what,
getting up to 50 pound dumbbell single leg
is a nice workout.
And you'll get pretty damn strong getting up
to that so fact of you and I look back to someone okay the best I ever felt was
when I was really getting strong in my single leg deadlifts like that so you
can get pretty far with just you for a way okay okay sounds good all right well
thanks for all you do I mostly wrote in just to thank you guys for for that.
You know, I have eight kids, a ninth on the way.
I'm a full time pastor and a work full time insurance agent.
So that's right. That's right.
Life is busy, but it's it's easier when you feel better.
That's awesome. Congratulations.
Yeah, I'm glad it's working out for you.
Yeah, it's awesome. I really remember you now. Yeah.
Yeah, I remember remember you now. Yeah
Everybody remembers the kids not me
For you man, thanks Cal good job, I know my kids
Surviving is winning. Reminds me of Total Recall. Forget getting stronger, can you survive?
You don't need weights, just grab your kids.
Each time you have a kid, it's progressive resistance.
Just throw them.
Yeah, he's doing good.
I think at this point, he's progressing in performance, which is good.
That's always a good measure.
The next phase for him would be to be able to add some exercise equipment.
That and probably tightening the diet up. Of course. So he's at a place now where if
he really wants to drop the body fat percentage. He has to. Yeah, it'll be the diet. Yeah,
it'll be the diet. Our next caller is Tracy from Wyoming. Hey Tracy. Hello Tracy. Hey,
how are you guys? Good, how are you? How can we help you? Hey, thanks for having me on
the show. I'm a big fan. Awesome. Thank you. So I'm a group fitness instructor and a newish personal trainer.
I have recently, besides training women of all ages, I recently started training a lot more
youth athletes, specifically middle school girls, like little wrestlers and track stars and swimmers.
Um, and so I've been experimenting with different formats, playing lots of games
and then squishing like circuits of good lifts in the middle of games.
But I'm curious what your experiences are with youth athletes.
What works, what types of programs you've used in the past.
Oh God. You thought so young athletes, 12, you said, right? 12 years you've used in the past. Oh, God.
So young athletes.
12, you said, right?
12 years old.
So you said 12?
They're anywhere from nine to 14.
And what's the average level of interest in them
in exercise?
Because that makes a big difference, right?
If I work out with a kid who's 11,
because the parents hired me
and they don't really want to be there, there's a completely different strategy from the 11-year- a kid who's 11, because the parents hired me and they don't really want to be there,
there's a completely different strategy
from the 11 year old kid that's like,
I want to do this because I like my sport.
Totally.
Yeah, my swimmers, for example,
they're all on the USA swimmer team,
so they're very motivated.
I have them in a group, they're all friends,
they compete with each other,
that seems to work really well.
And then with my one-on-one athletes,
it's more of if they get that positive reinforcement
from their coach or their parents,
and they're like, oh my gosh, you have so much more power
on your double whatever axle in figure skating, you know?
Yeah, a lot of this is gonna be focusing on basic exercises
and a lot of teaching and instruction and perfection,
or perfecting I should say.
So it's like.
Simplify the hell out of everything.
Yeah, so you have like a deadlift let's say,
and you're gonna break it up into three separate
parts of the movement, and you're really gonna,
it's like practicing a technique.
Like we're gonna practice it over and over
and get really good at it.
So it's not like you're doing
10 different exercises with you. It's like you're doing two.
Maybe two exercises, and most of the session
is really perfecting the exercise.
I like the games and you're doing that kind of in between,
but yeah, I would probably reduce the amount of volume
of what your focus is with the exercises
and really kind of sharpen a few,
like real foundational movements to teach them,
so that way they can kind of build upon that as they go.
But yeah, I mean, like suspension trainers, I don't know if you use them or not. That's a real helpful tool, you know, with kids to kind of get sled. Yeah, just to direct their body a little
more. I know that's a big issue is really they're just, you know, have to get that body awareness
established first and control. And so that's why it's slow reps and sometimes
isometric holds and some of these things. To start with that is usually what I would steer
towards initially and then start building their way towards loaded type of exercises. But really,
suspension training is great about increasing intensity while being able to kind of manage that appropriately.
And the thing to consider is like,
if you're training a kid who needs to improve
their activity level or increase their activity level,
it's different than when you're training an athlete
who's already doing a lot of practice and training.
So the consideration is like,
how do I get them to prevent injury?
How do I help stabilize their body?
Versus the kid that's like, you know,
my son plays lots of video games,
I need him to work out, he needs to be active.
It's a totally different approach, completely different.
Would you guys take-
Right, I don't really have many of those kids.
Yeah.
Would you take, say, in a session
where she's got a handful of these kids
that are all these ex-athletes,
would you guys take like, just say the squat,
and then break it up in three parts
and do like an isometric hold in them?
So it's like, they'd come,
I'd have them all in a group and go down halfway
in the squat, hold, and they do like an isometric hold
for five to 10 seconds, and then we come out.
And then we do a hold at the bottom for five to 10 seconds,
and then they do full squats.
And so maybe take complex movements like squats, lunges, pushups, all these different movements and break
them up in like different parts with isometric holds in there.
And then that's when they're in the isometric hold, that's
where as the coach or teacher, I'm walking around and I'm kind
of moving their bodies. Oh, chest up a little bit more, you
know, pull your shoulder blades back and I'm going to critique
where they're at in the isometric hold and how they're
holding their posture.
And really dive into, like really break down the squat
into all the, and you could do that lots of different ways
where they start at the bottom, then come up,
but take a movement and kind of nerd out on one movement
and use isometric holds for your ability to walk around
and critique all of them.
That's kind of a secret hack.
Yeah. And another thing I guess that I would kind of like pile onto that,
which I think that's a great advice, um,
would be to further educate the kids in terms of like having,
having them buddy off, like group them off. If you have enough kids,
you can have them kind of in pairs where one is watching their form and you're
kind of teaching them what to look for with the next kid and they can kind of in pairs where one is watching their form and you're kind of teaching them what to look for with the next kid and they can kind of help shape
and guide them as well so you're not like kind of running you know from one
to the next to the next and also it empowers them to learn it more
effectively. Cool way to do that especially when you're teaching like
hinge patterns, squatting, stuff like that is cheap PVC pipes. Yeah, we do a ton of those. Okay.
With them at the beginning.
Yeah, that's awesome. So yeah, using those is like, like Justin's tip of contact or like having one
coach the other, you teach them how to hold the contact points. So one's watching it for the other,
for the other kid. So I mean, that's kind of what I would really focus on just one or two things.
Tempo training and yeah, have them all really go by that,
you know, the count.
So you might even have like a beeping kind of timer
for them to hit those positions and hold.
I hate the tempo, I just know it.
Well, think of it this way, Trace.
It's like, if you're taking a kid
and you're teaching them how to do a layup
or how to play basketball,
what you're doing is you're breaking it up
into different movements to learn the full
technique.
So first we're going to practice dribbling.
And we're going to get really good at dribbling.
Then we're going to get good at walking while dribbling.
Then we're going to get good at running while dribbling.
Then here, stand under the net.
Let's practice getting it in off the backboard.
So you're breaking it up into pieces to learn the technique.
So that's what you're doing with these athletes, which again is different than the kid who's inactive
who just needs a workout.
These kids don't really need a workout.
What they need is to really learn the skill
of the bench press and the deadlift and the overhead press
and the squat and a row.
They need to learn the skill of them.
So your job is to get them to learn the skill
of these lifts and that's going to pay them
back in dividends for their entire life versus what a lot of trainers do with athletes, they
think it's another workout.
I'm just going to work them out, which I don't think they get tons of value out of.
I really don't.
They don't need that.
They're not the...
No, they can go play.
They can go to do more practice and go play.
Right.
The overweight kid who doesn't do any exercise whatsoever.
They got to move.
They got to move in circuits.
They got to keep them moving, keep them active. That's the best thing you could do for them.. They gotta move they gotta move in circuits. They gotta keep them moving keep them active
That's the best thing you could do for him the athlete who's trying to improve in their sport moving along. Yeah. Yeah, it's you sharpen their skill
I appreciate the isometric and the tempo
Thank you. Yeah, do you have by the way as, as a trainer, do you have Maps Prime or Prime Pro?
Yeah, or Performance 15 actually would be a good skeleton
to go off of.
Ah, that's a great one.
Yeah, do you have any of those that we just mentioned?
No.
Let's send you Maps 15 Performance.
I think that there's some good movements in there
that'll help.
I think it's most appropriate.
Yeah, you could really pluck from that
and kind of arrange your schedule with it. What? Oh, thank you so much
I appreciate it. You guys are good. All right, Tracy. Thank you. All right
Thanks
Yeah, that's it. That's a
Like one of the biggest mistakes
I think that trainers make with high level any kind of athlete or even a client
Who like this would happen with me with clients forget kids
I'd have these clients that were like these high, like they were just very dedicated to,
like I had a triathlete who was an Ironman competitor.
And he worked out a lot, he worked out a ton,
cause he's an Ironman competitor.
And then he hired me to train him,
and the big mistake I made initially was,
I gotta work him out.
No, no, no, he's working out a ton.
I gotta help solve some of the issues
that are coming from his training.
And so the workouts with me looked very different
than they would with someone who never exercises
and they need to get a good workout.
For him it was like stabilizing and strengthening
and watching the volume.
And with these kids, you're teaching them a new sport
is what you're doing.
You're teaching them the sport of strength training
so that they'll learn the technique and the skill.
They're getting plenty of workouts.
I mean they could do a whole 15 minutes
or 30 minutes of just taking off
or this jump, like right, the explosiveness of a sprint.
Like you can really pull apart a movement
and make the entire workout about that, you know?
Our next caller is Lisa from Ohio.
Hi Lisa.
Hey, how are you guys doing?
Good, how can we help you?
Great.
So about three years ago, I started struggling with sleep
and I had some traumatic events happen in my life.
My sister had passed away, my younger sister,
and then I was studying for school
and then I think it was like maybe a couple months later I took the COVID shot
and I'm a hypochondriac so as soon as I did it I was like oh my gosh I think that I have
a blood clot.
I think all these things that you hear about taking the shot and long story short none
of that happened but it caused me to just be so fearful and with all those things happening
I wasn't able to sleep. caused me to just be so fearful. And with all those things happening,
I wasn't able to sleep.
Like I struggled with falling asleep.
And then I think for like probably months,
I would wake up all through the night
and then I couldn't fall asleep.
But like the last year I can now fall asleep,
but I wake up all night long.
And I've been to the doctor, got my hormones checked and they put me on the restroom.
I did a little bit of testosterone
but none of that has helped
and I've been working out consistently,
probably for a year and a half,
a lot of strength training.
I don't do a whole lot of cardio but walking
but I just feel like nothing I do helps with it. With the sleep? Yeah. And are
you doing the normal checklist offenders, caffeine, alcohol, cannabis? Yes, I don't do any of that.
When I do drink it's even worse so I try to eliminate that as much as possible but I try to eliminate that as much as possible. But I try to go to bed same time every night.
Just anything I've done, I've Googled
and nothing has helped with that.
So my question to you guys is,
should I continue to strength train four or five days a week?
The only thing I haven't done is a sleep study,
but I've
probably spent 1000s of dollars on supplements, magnesium of all kinds. And still nothing helps. And I feel like I have
not been able to get any weight off. Like over the last two
years, I've probably gained 15 pounds and I'm not great at
tracking my food, but I don't feel like I eat terrible.
So I'm sure that a lot of it is the fact that I don't sleep.
Yeah, that's all of it.
I would cut the strength training down
to like three days a week.
And then I would look into therapy that could help,
like EMDR therapy might be helpful.
It's really, really effective for dealing with trauma.
I think that's probably, just based off what you're saying,
the most likely culprit for your sleep issues.
Have you ever looked into EMDR?
I have not.
Okay, so it's very well established,
lots of data supporting it,
especially for dealing
with trauma.
It really helps with what it does essentially is allows the mind to feel safe enough to
deal with some of the issues that might be plaguing you.
What happens with certain traumatic events or issues is they stay with you because it's
too painful to fully
process and I'm not an expert in it but that's my understanding but I would look
into therapy and EMDR in particular at this point because it sounds based off
what you're saying sounds like you did ever you've done a lot you've got all
the sleep hygiene no caffeine not the alcohol you're exercising you're not
doing tons of cardio.
Yeah, so that's what I would look into therapy to really deal with that first.
Okay, and as far as working out,
I've always just done videos online,
but I feel like it's been a one size fits all.
So I have my own home gym, and then I kinda quit that
about two weeks ago, and I've just been doing my own strength training routines.
But do you have any suggestions for that?
Yeah, let's do MAPS 15.
I think MAPS 15 will be appropriate
with your lack of sleep.
I like that.
Yeah, let's do that program for now
and let's see how that feels.
Okay, and as far as nutrition,
do you think I should just stick with counting protein,
whole foods?
Yep, yep.
I mean, you look healthy.
You do look healthy.
Thank you.
Yeah, I think you're doing-
Especially considering someone
who's having trouble with sleep.
Yeah, I think you're doing very well in spite of,
I mean, poor sleep, chronic poor sleep is-
Killer.
Is absolute devastating for people's fitness progress.
And honestly, that's how,
if I'm coaching you around nutrition and exercise, it's all,
so I know that, of course, you might want to lean out
or that might be part of the goal,
but the main goal is to get good sleep.
And so the food decisions, all those things,
like I'm starting to really unpack, like, okay,
when you eat these dinners, is your sleep better or worse?
And like versus how many calories or protein is it?
Like it's more about that.
It's like, let's really start to peer into
what types of meals you have at what time.
And you know, if you notice positive or negative effects
and that's how we kind of decide.
And then same thing with the workouts.
Like my workouts now become, okay, when we train this way
and we do this much volume and intensity
does it make your sleep better or worse?
And trying to, instead of like going,
oh, I wanna lean out, does this macros
or is this workout program gonna, no, it's more like,
let's solve the sleep thing
because all those other things will follow
if we get that unlocked.
And so that's kind of what we're peering into
when we're making the decisions
around nutrition and exercise.
Okay, that makes sense.
Cause I've just been so frustrated because I'm like,
okay, I'm finally working out on a consistent basis. And you know,
I keep reading and hearing you need to work out in order to sleep better.
But I don't think that mine started with hormones.
I think it was more the trauma of the stress of finishing school and then
um, you know,
losing my sister and then taking the COVID shot.
It was just all at once.
Yeah, do you mind if I ask how long ago
your sister passed away?
Three years ago.
So it was three years ago in March
and then I was studying for some exams
after I finished college and then like a month later
I took the COVID shot and like I, like I said, I thought,
oh, I think I'm dying of everything.
Yeah, you're in a vulnerable place.
Your sister is younger than you, so she was young.
That'll place a ton of obviously challenge
and maybe fear and anxiety.
I lost somebody who was young in my life
and it actually caused some PTSD in me because for me, this was my experience,
when they died, it felt like it came out of nowhere.
They got sick and died.
And then I became very hypochondriac.
I thought I had everything I felt was something because how could this happen to this healthy
person?
I had this long period of time with this kind of anxiety.
And that hypervigilance, it's not going to let you sleep because your body's in this
kind of like, I got to be ready.
I got to be ready.
And so relaxing is almost impossible. So, yeah. So I, um, so I got to the point where I could fall asleep,
but I'm telling you what, I haven't slept through the night in three years.
Like I will wake up anywhere between five to 20 times. Um,
and then I just feel like it affects everything. Like,
I'll be concerned about my nutrition working out. And then, you know,
I have a 15 year old daughter that is watching me,
so I'm trying to be the best, you know,
influence on her when it comes to working out nutrition,
but, you know, I think, okay, I gotta get the sleep
taken care of first.
Yeah.
Because nothing else is working.
Yeah, with trauma, the best, from my experience,
my research, I'm not an expert, again, but this is just from my research,
the most effective secular treatments include EMDR,
and then if you have any kind of spiritual practice,
the data shows that to be very powerful.
So people who have a very strong faith
and working with their community and through prayer
and just that also in the data shows to help a lot.
So, if that's you, I would combine the two, maybe even find a practitioner who follows
the same faith as you who does EMDR, which they're out there, and then you can combine
the two and it can be, so.
If you go to a church, you can even ask them.
They might even have a list of therapists.
And EMDR is not like this weird, like there's quite a few people now that practice it.
Okay, yeah, because I've never heard of that.
I'm a Christian.
My pastor has prayed with me.
He at first was like, let's check your hormones.
They seem to come back fine, So it's just not fine.
Yeah, ask them if they have a list of therapists
who they like.
Okay.
Because it's really strengthening, right?
To work with somebody who's a therapist
who also follows your faith.
I think that combination makes a big difference.
So there you go.
Yeah, do that.
And then EMDR, and you can read up on it.
It's literally the acronym is EMDR, look it up.
Okay, all right, I'll do that.
Thank you guys so much.
And then you said to do the MAPS program then,
starting out?
Yep, we're gonna send it to you.
Okay, thank you guys so much.
It was a pleasure meeting all of you.
Let's put you in our forum too, Lisa.
I'd like to follow along, okay?
Okay, thank you so much.
You got it, thank you.
All right, take care.
Yeah, trauma affects sleep.
That's like one of the first things that affects.
Yeah, and the main point that I wanna draw home
is that when I have a client that's like this,
and let's say she wants to lose weight,
or she's- Yeah, everything's geared
towards the sleep. Yeah, everything's
geared towards the sleep.
So- If you don't fix that, forget it.
Which does sound like different, right?
Cause it's like, we're always talking about grams
of protein and eating that it's like, no,
like I'm going to really start to unpack like, okay,
you ate this. How did you feel?
And what time did you eat? How did you feel?
I'm like, everything's more, how is the,
how is that improving or not improving our sleep?
And then we can build the macros and all the stuff later.
Let's first solve that.
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