Mind Pump: Raw Fitness Truth - 2680: The Fitness Obstacles Women Face and How to Solve Them
Episode Date: September 8, 2025Losing weight, while hard, is not NEARLY as challenging as maintaining it. (1:14) Activity is not common. (3:59) Has to be a process that you ENJOY. (4:41) It’s not about perfect. It’s how to do ...this FOREVER. (6:58) The Fitness Obstacles Women Face and How to Solve Them #1 - Low energy from long layoff. (11:05) #2 – RESULTS-orientated. (20:04) #3 - Lacking confidence with weights as a newbie. (22:44) #4 - Very busy. (26:27) Simple advice on your nutrition. (29:14) Supplements. (33:19) Muscle Mommy Movement Quiz: What avatar do you fit under? (34:03) Related Links/Products Mentioned Muscle Mommy Movement Quiz Visit MASSZYMES by biOptimizers for an exclusive offer for Mind Pump listeners! **Code MINDPUMP10 at checkout for 10% off any order. ** Building Muscle with Adam Schafer – Mind Pump TV How to Get Back on the Fitness Wagon After a Hiatus – Mind Pump Blog Getting Back in Shape After Having a Baby – Don’t be Hard on Yourself – Mind Pump Blog Mind Pump #2072: The Best Workout for Busy Moms Mind Pump #2530: Why All Women Should Take Creatine Mind Pump Podcast – YouTube Mind Pump Free Resources People Mentioned Dr. Gabrielle Lyon (@drgabriellelyon) Instagram
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a show. When it comes to fitness, especially when you're trying to do this for life, when you're
trying to build a lifestyle around becoming fit and healthy, there are a lot of obstacles. It's
difficult. That's why most people don't do this. That's why most people have trouble making it
a consistent thing.
When it comes to women,
there are common obstacles.
We're going to talk about those common obstacles
and how you can solve them
with the right workouts.
And by the way, at the end,
we're going to point you to a free quiz.
It's going to help you out even more.
So let's talk about these obstacles,
especially the ones that women face.
Let's go.
I was listening to Dr. Gabriel Lyon in an interview,
and I heard her say a stat that said that
nine out of 10 people that lose the weight.
So people actually do go lose the weight
will not be able to get.
Only one out of 10
will keep the weight off
or keep themselves in shape.
That's a bismal number.
Yeah.
Losing weight or getting into shape
as hard as it is, right?
Because it is challenging.
You have a fitness goal.
It's real challenging
to try to accomplish it.
It's not nearly as challenging
as maintaining it.
So the first challenge
or obstacle is getting there.
But that's actually a small,
it's a small bump in the road
in comparison to the maintaining it.
How do I keep it?
How do I keep this going?
Now, a big reason for that, though, Sal, though, isn't it because of the method they got there?
That's a big part of it.
Yeah, a lot of the setup that led the direction.
A big part of it is the setup, the mentality around it, like the root of why they're doing it.
You know, am I hating myself through this process?
Is it really based in shame or is it self-care?
Of course, am I doing this in a way that's so ineffective that after, you know, five months,
I'm asking myself why I'm doing this in the first place.
I got some results, but you've got to enjoy it.
I mean, you're not going to stick with something that long of term.
I mean, we're all capable of like enduring something for a certain amount of time.
And I think people have proven that that they could, you know, literally stick to the plan and just stick to the plan.
But then when you have to do this indefinitely, that's a whole other conversation.
Yeah, that was, I was going to say, I feel like we're very resilient creatures by nature.
but when you when so you can white knuckle your way to losing 30 pounds or getting in shape but when you do it through that method of just restriction and you know sheer hard work to get there it just rarely ever last because you get there and you're just like okay I did it and it's like okay but this this seven days a week hour longs cardio sessions eating 13 to 1,500 calories is just not sustainable long term and so it's the approach that
I feel like really needs to be addressed on getting there that is so important.
You also have to consider that the odds are stacked against you because modern life is one
where activity is not common.
It's actually far more common or easy to be sedentary.
Our lives tend to be organized in a sedentary way.
We've done this now over the last, you know, food decades.
And food has been engineered and designed.
to be so palatable and accessible and, or should I say convenient, that you're battling all these
different things. So your approach has to improve the quality of your life so much that you then can
live differently. And also, this is the other part of it is, it has to be a process that you actually
value and enjoy to an extent. If you plan on, if this is something you're going to do for 10, 20, 30, 40 years
the rest of your life. It has to be those things. Otherwise, it's just not going to happen.
You're not going to be able to maintain this. And again, the data is very clear on this.
The odds are that you won't unless you approach this properly. Now, just to give people some hope,
because you might at this point want to just turn this off. Like, okay, well, why should I even try?
Right. The odds that you're going to be able to maintain this if you do things right are
astronomically higher. Yeah. Okay. So when, you know, we all train clients,
for a long time. We were all trainers for two decades. And when we got really good at this process,
the majority of my clients were able to do this forever afterwards. So it was not a, you know,
10% can maintain it. It was more like 10% dropped off. And it was more like 90% were able to
maintain it. Now, the truth is, this is a, it is a journey of, you know, fumbling and stumbling and
setbacks. And that's just the way it is, because it is difficult. So a big part of this is giving
yourself grace as you go through this process. But the odds are so much better when you do this
right. We've experienced it time and time again with people. We've built an entire business and
podcast around helping people do this. So don't be discouraged, even though the data shows that
you should be. It's because most people approach this the wrong way. And the fitness industry
doesn't do people any, doesn't help them in any good way because it's geared around selling
or the information that's being communicated is coming from people who have figured this out for
themselves in a way that doesn't apply to most people. In other words, they're fitness fanatics or their
body obsessed. And that's dysfunction in and of itself. And they're communicating to you
somebody who's like, I don't want to be a fitness fanatic. I don't have a desire to live in the gym.
It's not my favorite thing in the world to do. I want this to improve the quality of my life that
I do enjoy. And they just don't know how to connect and communicate that properly. Whereas
experience, really experienced trainers, know this because this is what you work with.
These are the kind of people you end up training.
Do you think a large part of the success that you had or we had with training clients
is your ability to hear somebody out, understand their past history and what they're telling
you their goals are, their availability, and then to really customize a plan for them
individually versus like, oh, you want to lose weight.
Well, this is what's best for you.
Or, oh, you're a woman, therefore this is what's, but it's like taking into consideration all the variables of lifestyle, their current habits, their past history, like all those things.
And then going like, okay, like, I know you're willing to do all these things right now, but based off of what you're telling me, I think this is a better approach.
It increases your odds substantially.
And there's also how to navigate the roadblocks that are popping up, right, because that's what's going to happen.
You're going to stumble.
You are going to have setbacks.
You are going to have challenges.
is how do you navigate those?
That's very different from person to person.
This is very complex.
It's not as easy as it sounds easy, right?
Eat right and move.
Well, a lot of times you have to literally build new associations.
That's right.
Reframe a lot of things that you may have, you know, a different perspective on coming in.
Like, oh, this is work.
This is grueling.
Or you start to learn to enjoy it based on shaping that association and what it's doing for you.
And you have to communicate that a lot.
And this is where a coach, like, really helps with that process.
Well, I really feel like my early years, you know, a failure as far as a coach was just looking at everybody so similar as far as they're, you know, oh, I've seen that goal before.
You want to lose 30 pounds.
This is what we do.
Here's a formula.
Yeah, here's the macros.
Here's the diet.
Here's the plan.
Let's go.
You know, and then it was just purely motivation.
It wasn't until way later did I get better at asking a lot of the right questions and really listening to the client and go like, okay, this client's, you know, probably going to struggle with this.
and I know they're not going to like this and okay.
And then being able to hear them out and then go like,
I think this is the proper plan,
even when they're in the most motivated state maybe at that time.
Because a lot of times when clients are ready to make change,
they say things like,
I'll do whatever, seven days a week, I'll do this.
But then when you start asking questions,
like, well, have you ever gone five days a week consistently?
Like, okay, well, why would we start at seven right now?
That makes no sense, right?
For most people, what a good fitness routine
and a good kind of diet should look like,
is it should improve the quality of your life dramatically.
It should not become your life.
Again, this is the mistake many people in the fitness industry will communicate,
is that they're communicating to themselves.
And so what you hear is this becomes your life.
This is your life.
It's about hardcore discipline and structure.
And this is what you should do and never do this kind of stuff.
And it's beast mode and all that stuff, which is great if this is your life.
Look, if you want to work in the fitness industry, you want to be a trainer,
this is what you want to do, then that might be your approach.
But this is not your life.
Your life is not working out and thinking about what to eat and what not to eat all the time.
That's not going to work.
This is a way to improve the quality of your life.
That's how it works.
And so it's actually more simple than a lot of people make it sound, although the individual
variances can vary quite dramatically.
We're going to talk about some of those common ones that we ran into with our
clients and kind of how to work around them.
And again, this is a journey.
That's one thing I want people to consider here.
You may have a goal.
You may have a time frame, but the timeframe that you really want to work with is the
rest of your life.
Okay, because think about this way, if you exercise consistently and you didn't hurt
yourself, right, it was an appropriate workout, and you were able to maintain this forever,
do you think you get good results?
Like, do you think you get an improvement in quality of life?
Yes.
if your diet got somewhat better, but stayed that way for the rest of your life,
do you think over time you would get great return on that?
Yes, yes.
So it's not about perfect.
It's about how do I do this forever.
So we're going to talk about some of the common challenges.
I'll start with the first one.
And you would hear this, especially from women who were coming back after a layoff.
And the layoff typically looked like either I took a break because of whatever.
I just lost motivation.
It wasn't working for me.
I was overdoing it, I think, or whatever.
Or I just had a baby.
That's a common one, right?
You have a baby.
And that first, by the way, the fitness industry,
who have you believe that three months postpartum,
you're ready to go and it's going to all happen.
That is, that was never the case with clients I worked with.
You'll see that.
You'll see people posting that,
but that's never the case.
In my experience, it was typically one to two years postpartum
when women were feeling like,
they could get back into a rhythm.
That's right.
I would say especially if you've had more than one.
That's right.
Because it's not just about how long it takes your body to heal, which there's time.
Your body dramatically changes.
It's also you have a child.
You have a young child, which is very demanding.
And sleep is off.
And there's a lot of things to juggle.
Recovery is not what it used to be.
That's right.
And it's usually around, you know, a year or two after when things get back into a rhythm,
we're like, okay, I can devote some consistent time to exercise.
I'm getting sleep again.
It's not super broken up.
like it has been for the last year or whatever.
My body's starting to feel like it's back to normal.
Now I think I can get back into a routine.
But when you come from that place, typically energy is low.
This is the big challenge.
You would hear this from moms.
It's like, or again, people after layoff, it's like, I don't have a ton of energy.
I just feel like I'm already spent doing all this stuff at home and at work and managing
all these different things.
I don't have a ton of energy to devote to this.
like what do my workouts look like so the thing i want to you know focus on with this is that
exercise itself is not where you get the progress and results what exercise is is a stimulus
it's a stressor on the body that causes the body to adapt and change so the body doesn't
actually change in the workout it changes after the workout in the days off in between where
your body senses the stress if it's appropriate it's important right if you overwhelm your body
with too much stress from the workout
and this is determined by
lifestyle genetics diet,
you know, your current fitness level
so, and it doesn't take much
to overwhelm some people.
Sometimes people are like,
I used to work out like crazy.
It's like you haven't worked out in two years.
This is, it doesn't take much.
You send the right stimulus
and it's appropriate
and your body will start to change.
So it's an important thing to consider
and what this typically looks like
is two short
workouts a week,
strength training, strength training.
The best, with this,
with all these,
people we're going to talk about, there are many different forms of exercise, but the one that's
going to give you the most ROI. In other words, the most results for the time spent doing it,
it's going to be strength training. It sends a muscle building signal. It tends to organize hormones
in a positive way. It tends to speed up the metabolism. It shapes and sculpts the body, makes you
stronger, generates energy. It's not energy expensive. So you're not out there burning tons of calories
and sweating a lot, which you may think is a good idea, but it's actually more effective to teach
your body to burn more calories, which is what strength training does. So it's too short strength
training workouts a week, and you're going slow. You're doing a set of 10 reps, and then you're
sitting on the bench or a chair and you're resting for two minutes and doing it again.
Yeah, and I think everybody kind of inherently knows, like when you take time off and your body
starts to adapt and it starts to just get used to that path of least resistance. So it's like
just even getting up and providing extra movement, it becomes more of a struggle.
And so to introduce a new environment and new stimulus, like we don't want to overwhelm it.
We want to invite it and be able to kind of start that ball to slowly start to roll for you.
Well, we've all now done three series on the YouTube channel, and they're very different series.
And I really feel like this was a lot of the message that I was trying to send with mine because I had just came off of a layoff.
I hadn't been inconsistently.
and really what I was trying to show people was how little I had to do.
The, the, how moderate the workout was, how minimal time that I spent in there was a couple exercises, less than 30 minutes.
And, you know, even for the first couple months, it wasn't like I went like, it wasn't like, oh, I did that for a week.
And then I was right back to training like hardcore.
It was like, and the point was to show people that when you have been laid off like that and you haven't been sending any sort of a stimulus like this, it doesn't take much for the.
the body to start to adapt and make change.
And any more than that is less optimal.
And it's hard for people to grasp that.
And so that was the point of me showing that is like, listen,
even with my experience of lifting for many, many years,
I don't need to do that much.
This is such a new stimulus.
And watch, the body will progress and it'll change.
I remember I had one woman that I trained who hired me.
I think her child was a year and a half.
Now, she used to be an athlete, but this was years before, right?
So this was like maybe six or seven years before she had her child.
So she didn't work out for six or seven years, got pregnant, had the baby, ended up finding me, hiring me.
This was about a year and a half after.
So the baby was about a year and a half old years old.
And I had this conversation with her.
And we did our first workout.
And remember, our first workout was something like, it was real minimal, right?
It was like two or three sets of squats, a couple sets of bench press and like a couple sets of
rows, okay? And in between the sets, we were resting a lot, a little bit of mobility,
where we were talking about fitness and stuff. So it was a very minimal workout. And I remember
her looking at me and she's like, am I going to get any results? Because she remember
she was an athlete years, years, years, years before. So she remembered how she used to train.
And so I was trying to explain this to her. And then finally I said, Doris said, well,
let me ask you a question. When was the last time you did bench press? She's like, oh,
eight years ago. You just said something you haven't done in eight years. You just did something
you haven't done in eight years, that's going to send a signal.
Yeah.
You know, when was the last time you did rows?
When was the last time you did squats?
So, and she was like, I can't believe.
And by the way, I started training her once a week.
I can't believe that I'm going to get results with once a week.
And I told her, I said, here's how you'll know.
Next time you see me, next Monday, a week later, we just did whatever, eight reps with the
squat.
If you do more than eight reps, you just progressed.
And I wrote it down.
And sure enough, she came in and she progressed.
And she progressed consistently.
And eventually, we moved up to two days a week.
but and her body responded the whole time
and she was shocked because she goes
I thought I had to beat the crap out of myself
to get my body to respond
I said no you just have to do a little more
than what you're used to essentially
so if you have low energy from a long layoff
it's not much like two short lifts a week
you go real slow
you do exercises you haven't done in a while
your body will respond
you will get stronger my favorite part
of taking a client through this process
also from a layoff and introducing it back
like this too is the the lesson
they learn from it too of like, oh, wow, I can actually just do that and see some positive results
and change. And so I find that after I would take a client through this process, that that would
then become their new floor. In other words, you know, them being off after we've gone through
the whole progression of just one time a week and then, you know, months down the road, we've progressed
to two or maybe even three and then they're at where they want to be. And they realize like, wow,
even when I, when Sal first started me or Adam first started me, I was only doing one day a week,
I was seeing positive change.
Like, I guess even when I have a rough week or tell me that,
if I can just get one workout out of it.
So I felt like that it would teach the clients that.
Like,
because you have a lot of people that are,
and I was definitely one of these people,
guilty of all or nothing.
Either I got to be all in training every day or going super hard and doing this like this,
or I don't do any of it all because I thought that I'm not going to see hardly any results
or what's the point?
I'm not going to see anything from it where you start to realize like,
oh my God, this one day a week and two day a week
and what it ends up doing, it does way more
than I expected. Now I start, then I have
a different conversation because it's
inevitable, life will happen again, you'll get busy
something will happen, have another kid, who knows.
But this time you go, but man,
I got great results just one time a week. Maybe I
just at least do that now or sneak
one day in and then now that
becomes their new floor. Just to add to that,
like I'll use the same example. You know,
she did, let's say, eight squats
today. Next Monday she comes in, she did 10
and then she would ask me, well, don't
need to do more? I said, you did. You just did more. This is a new stimulus, which is going to
continue your body moving forward. Now, this doesn't mean you're not active every day, by the way.
I want to be clear, you know, movement daily is good, but that could be the form of walking.
What we're talking about is structured exercise, and strength training is so powerful because
it really organizes your body in a way to have more muscle and less body fat. It's a very
powerful, powerful way of getting your body to change. It doesn't require nearly as much effort
as people think.
Now, the next one is this is a person,
and we get these clients, right,
where they're like, I need to see results.
If I don't see results,
then I'm going to have a,
this is going to be very challenging for me.
And now, results in the mirror take time.
Real fat loss, muscle building,
takes some time.
So the results that I would focus on
with clients were really performance results
because you can see those really,
you can see those pretty quickly.
Week over week,
you can see strength gains
or you can see improve stability
or improve mobility
or improve performance.
By the way,
performance increases
lead to physical changes,
lead to the changes on the mirror,
lead to body composition changes.
If I chase the performance,
and I track that as my results,
rather than looking in the mirror,
if I'm looking at the bar,
how much weights on,
or how many reps I'm doing,
or how I feel,
and if that's improving,
everything else will follow.
This client,
I love to focus on one or two,
two major lifts, you know, that we will pick.
That's it.
You know, I'll pick one or two and be like, this is what we're going to focus on.
Showing them, because there's so, you can move the needle so much in a deadlift or a
squat or a bench press, these big compounds, because there's more than just you getting
stronger.
There's also the skill part of it and helping a client really focus on just one or two lifts
like that.
And it has, and those one or two major lifts have so many added benefits when it comes to sculpting
the body, burning body fat, building muscle.
And so having them hyper focus on one.
or two major lifts during the week, and we're practicing multiple times a week.
It's a great way to show that, like, results oriented.
It gives you wins, and I think that's, I mean, we need to be able to provide that as
coaches to, you know, really show the client that, like, all of this work, it's definitely
contributing to, and again, you want to point this to how if you have any kind of improvement
in your sleep, if you have any other kind of improvements in energy or cognitive focus,
and anything else you can attribute along the way.
We've got to start kind of pinning those.
And what this would look like, like an example,
we would do like three 30-minute workouts a week.
Each workout would focus on a major lift.
So today we're going to focus on the deadlift.
Next time I see you, it may be the hip thrust or the squat
or the row or the overhead press.
And if there's time, we may throw in an extra lift at the end,
an easier lift, maybe a core exercise.
or an isolation exercise.
And again, but with this, what we're looking at is, like,
are we going to improve in these major lifts through technique,
through improving neuromuscular efficiency,
which then, of course, results in more muscle,
which then results in the fat loss.
Next up is the just the lacking confidence with lifting weights
because you're new.
You've never done this before.
Yeah.
This is a big one.
This is a big one for both men and women.
But when you've never done strength training before,
it can be intimidating because strength,
training can seem and you know rightly so complex like what exercises do I do and then how do I know
I'm doing them properly how do I know I'm feeling this properly is it soreness what about this
pain and am I doing the right exercise order like what should I do with this person right here you
keep it super basic yep very very basic you're doing three workouts a week and you're doing the same
three or four exercise get those lifts you're doing the same ones each time I
I always, when I think of this person, this is also, if I could go back and start my own journey all over again, this is what it would look like.
I would have focused on three or five of the main lifts.
And you tell the story all time about when the guy pulled you aside and you thought he was lying to you.
He's like, eat like this, follow these, these lifts, just do those.
And it's like, liar, I can do more.
Best advice.
But it was the best advice.
And it seems like such boring advice.
but those lifts
it takes a lot of skill
to get really good at those lifts
and they provide so much results
and so instead of doing like I did
which was always seeking out novelty
and the newest movement I didn't know
how to do or complex positions
or different machines
or creative workouts
that the is like man I should have just
ran a five by five of the main lifts
and just practiced the shit of that
for like the first three years
and I think that would have completely changed
the trajectory of my whole fitness journey.
Yes.
So the reason why you want to do the same lifts each time when you're new is because
you want to get good at them.
Exercises, strength training exercises are skills.
The better you get at performing the exercise, the better results you'll get from that
exercise.
So if you're going to the gym, you may be like, all right, here's the three exercises I'm
going to do for the next eight weeks.
It's going to be a squat.
It's going to be a bench press.
It's going to be a row, let's just say.
Okay.
And so you practice those exact same exercises each.
And notice I use the word practice.
I'm not going in there thinking I'm going to make this muscle sore or beat myself up.
It's like, can I get better at this exercise?
Can I get better at performing it?
Can I make it feel more natural?
Can I make it feel more stable and more solid?
Can I practice these exercises and practice the same exercises?
Because if I change up the exercises all the time, it'll take longer to get good at those exercise.
Now, once you become advanced, you can switch up exercises.
exercises because you could jump right in.
You've got the technique.
With that efficiency you've built by taking this time right now to get really good
and like really hone in on the mechanics and what your body's controlling throughout
this entire movement.
Like that makes a huge difference in terms of like time that you even need to spend
in the gym or even on workouts.
And the psychology behind this, you know, the confidence it builds in this person.
That's right.
You're doing the same ones.
You're practicing.
You're a new person.
You're not overworked.
with a bunch of things you're worried about.
You've got a handful at most of lifts
that you're focusing on
and you're just working on.
And because you're only focusing on those major lifts,
you see progress in them relatively quick
and they have such high return on it.
It's such a confidence booster of like,
wow, okay, this isn't, it doesn't have to be that complex.
If I just get good at these movements,
look at the return I've already seen
within weeks of doing this.
Again, if I could go back all over again,
this is how I trained myself.
This is how I trained all my beginner clients.
Yes, 100%.
Totally.
And next, you have just the woman that is just super busy.
Her, the demands on her schedule are the kind that tend to, I mean, it makes it hard to be consistent with driving to the gym, spending time there, taking time aside for yourself.
And I know you've probably been told, take time for yourself, make it happen, schedule it.
And I get that.
But look, the reality of life is, especially if you're a working mom in particular, or even if you just have a kids.
It's busy, and it's unpredictable.
It's not like my wife and I talk about this all the time.
And by the way, most of the clients we trained were women.
That's just the way that it trends with personal training.
A good 60, 70% of clients tend to be women.
So I have a lot of experience training situations like this.
And it's like, yeah, it'd be great if I had a schedule and I knew that I could do this or whatever.
But, you know, I got to go pick up so-and-so from school today a little early or this happened over here.
Last night we got terrible sleep.
Like, how do I stay consistent?
and the best thing that ever worked for this individual
was to do one exercise a day
and to figure out a way to do it at home
with minimal equipment
because then you can do it any time.
You can do it any time
and it's one exercise and you do one a day.
By the way, you add that up.
You're doing seven exercises a week.
Do it for three sets.
That's 21 sets a week that you're doing
but you're only doing one exercise a day.
And I don't want to alienate my non-moms in here
because the person who actually comes to mind
right away to me
my niece, who's in her mid-30s and is a high performer.
She's got a killer job.
She travels a lot, all the and stuff like that.
And she's not busy because of mom.
She's busy because she works a lot.
She travels a lot and making time to get, and she always has these spurts or she's in a
rhythm and she's training like consistent that she's off.
And this is a direction I would love to push her into of like, listen, instead of always
being on or off or overwhelming yourself with this high commitment of an hour.
we're in the gym, it's like just hit a lift a day. And I feel like that way of focusing for her
opens up still the ability for her to be a high performer at work, still be able to get her
traveling like that. And it's less commitment to be inside the gym. And then she's going to have
far better results that way. So even the non-moms, I know we're speaking a lot to that person, but
I feel like this avatar fits just as well into this. Yeah, 100%. And now, you want to be able to use
minimal equipment with this. So a suspension trainer or resistance bands are great.
That's all strength training, by the way. A suspension trainer, you can hang in your doorway
or use bands and they take up almost no space. That's still strength training. It's still strength training.
You can get an intense workout. Effective workout. I've trained clients like that for years.
There's some clients that that's all we used was a suspension trainer. Now, this wouldn't be
complete with some diet and nutrition advice. And this part right here always is challenging because, again,
our space would make it seem that diet is so crazy and complex.
And what I found over the years was very basic, you know, kind of goals that give you
the most return are the ones that people are able to do and have the most success with.
So here's some advice with your nutrition, okay?
For most women, if you target about 30 grams of protein with each meal, you're good.
For most women, most women, 30 grams of protein with breakfast, lunch, and dinner will get you
the protein amount that is going to give you great results.
Now, why protein?
Protein encourages muscle building.
It produces satiety, so it helps with cravings.
It has a fat burning effect when you compare it to the other macronutrients, fats,
and carbohydrates.
It helps with recovery.
Hit 30 grams of protein, breakfast, lunch, and dinner.
Eat it first.
That's the other part that's really important.
Eat that first because that's a very important.
By the way, protein tends to come with fat.
We don't have to worry about fat because your protein is probably going to have some fat
attached to it if it's a whole natural source.
My thing I would add to that, I would just say 30 plus, and the reason why is because
whenever I give people any sort of a number goal, they miss a little bit, they miss a little
bit. And I would say 30 is on the lower end of at least what I want to get with that client.
And so I'm, I'm going to encourage 30 plus. And because what happens a lot of times is one
of those meals is 26. And you go, oh, it's almost 30. And then another one's 28. And it's almost
30. And it's like, well, now we're looking at, we're only at 70, 80 grams of protein. And if you're
120, 130 pound female, you easily need more than that. And so I'm saying 30 plus every meal.
Every meal. And or this is where I, like, I think shake out of convenience makes a lot of sense where it's like, hey, try and hit 30 every meal.
If you have a meal that's on the lighter side, then this is where you add a shake at a shake at the end of the day.
So keep it, again, trying to keep it simple. Like simple, whole foods, hit 30 grams, eat the protein first.
Like that advice is going to take 90% of people a majority away to the role. Next up, you add your, uh, your, your
cooked greens. Now, why cooked greens, they're easy to digest. You can, you can get more of them.
Raw vegetables. I know there's like a trend for a while, but eating raw vegetables is a great way
to cause bloat gas issues and digestive issues. You've probably experienced this if you tried this
yourself. Try well-cooked greens. Eat that next in your meal. And then last, eat your starches
if you still want to eat them. And so when people tend to follow this order of 30 grams of
protein, a nice serving of cooked greens, then they use.
finish with their starches, the calories
tend to fall right where they need to.
Right where they need to.
Enough calories to build muscle and strength,
not too many calories to where you can gain body fat.
In fact, this tends to result in fat loss.
Yep.
And finally, water, water, a half to a gallon of water a day.
Track it, track it throughout the day.
What does this do for you?
Well, it hydrates you, makes you feel good,
flushes things out, all that stuff.
It also is great for satiety.
It also prevents you from drinking other
brain flog, yeah, all kinds of things.
Yes.
Yes. Now, I know most, everybody watching this probably isn't dehydrated, but there is what's essential and there is also what is optimal. And for most people, about a half a gallon to a gallon a day is optimal. And you'd be surprised at what drinking that much water will do for your body.
And I'm going to stress the tracking part because I can't tell you how many times I give this advice and so, oh yeah, yeah, yeah. I hit that. And then I make them track it.
It's like 60 hours. And we're way under that. And so do yourself a favor.
carry the half-gallon thing around
or something that you can easily measure.
Don't do, people do cups, water bottles,
things like that that are in odd shape or size
that are only eight to 12 ounces,
trying to mathematically figure out at the end of the day
how many of those you had.
Terrible strategy.
Much better strategy is to carry a big one.
Yes, a big jug,
as ridiculous as it may be,
carry that around,
at least at the beginning phases
of figuring that out
because I have found that even my clients
that claim they drink a lot of water
when we actually start tracking,
they are significantly under what they think.
Now, supplement-wise, aside from a multivitamin, cratine,
creatine is a remarkable supplement.
It's good for health.
It's good for longevity.
It's good for your brain.
It's antidepressive.
And it's great for muscle gain and fat loss.
Indirectly will help a fat loss through the muscle building process.
All things you want.
And women actually need creatine more than men do.
They produce less of it, and they require a good amount of it.
So about four to five grams of creatine.
a day, you could do it and divide a doses if you get any, you know, gastro distress from it.
Most people are fine with about four or five grams at one serving.
But if you're like, oh, it makes my tummy feel a little.
Do half a dose earlier in the day, half a dose later in the day.
And that'll really help with your fitness goals.
Now, we have a quiz that we've created so that people can figure out kind of what avatar they fit under.
And so what we did is we organized about four avatars that a majority of the people listening
to this will fall under.
The first avatar, we named the comeback queen.
This is someone who's returning after a time off, low energy, might have some aches and pains.
The other avatar is efficient powerhouse, a busy person, but wants results now, wants to experience and feel those results now.
We have the strength novice.
This is the beginner, somebody who's new to strength training.
And then we have a lifestyle integrator.
This person just juggles everything.
They need maximum flexibility with the routine.
So what you can do is you can go to muscle mommy movement.
com forward slash quiz, see what you fall under.
You'll get some tailored advice based off of your avatar.
And then also later on, we are offering group coaching, which helps people with their
consistency.
But this quiz is totally free and figure out which avatar you are is also totally free.
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