Mind Pump: Raw Fitness Truth - 411: Triggering Muscle Growth, Aha Moments & More Effortless Success Inside & Outside of the Gym
Episode Date: December 1, 2016It is a beautiful thing when you have an "aha" moment. Sal, Adam & Justin share some of the realizations that have shifted the way they regard, exercise, diet and life that have also led to more effor...tless success inside and outside of the gym. Have Sal, Adam & Justin personally train you with a new video every day on our new YouTube channel, Mind Pump TV. Be sure to Subscribe for updates. Get MAPS Anabolic, MAPS Performance, MAPS Aesthetic and the Butt Builder Blueprint (The RGB Super Bundle) packaged together at a substantial DISCOUNT at www.mindpumpmedia.com. Please subscribe, rate and review this show! Each week our favorite reviewers are announced on the show and sent Mind Pump T-shirts! Have questions for Mind Pump? Each Monday on Instagram (@mindpumpradio) look for the QUAH post and input your question there. (Sal, Adam & Justin will answer as many questions as they can)
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We do for music.
We do, definitely.
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I'm not trying to say that.
Doug, Doug helps me and not you.
I'm not saying that.
That's exactly what I'm trying to say.
It just looks like a seam towel.
It's effortless.
Of course, the favorite son gets the best microphone, right?
Actually, the most expensive one is Adams.
Yeah, so there you go.
Oh, okay.
Well, yeah, you suck the most.
I'm just kidding.
Am I the favorite son?
I think you are the favorite son.
So what is that?
I'm the other.
It's like you're doing that left and came back.
Well, let's put this way,
because I'm sure if we asked Doug,
Doug would say he doesn't play favorites like that.
I know.
That's a good dad.
But I love you all equally.
You're his oldest son in this situation
because you and him go back to for this.
So Justin and I are kind of like the middle child and the I kind of it kind of changed his life
You know this trainer. So because you can't blame him your first your his first born first impact that first actually
So no matter no matter what right as parents. What's that like his parents? So what it's like tell me tell me now
How do you do that? How do you?
How do you how do you be a this great father?
Because I know that if I were to my first born boy that comes out How do you do that? How do you be this great father?
Because I know that if I were to my first born boy
that comes out, man, that would just be,
that'd be, it's hard to compare that to anything else.
So, two then the second one, and then you're like, okay.
So two things, first, I think this relationship is different.
I think, I'm like Doug's son, and you're like my sons.
So I think that's a different thing.
It's a different thing that's that I'm talking about. Yeah, so you're like my sons. So I think that's a different thing.
It's that dynamic.
Yeah, so you're like his grandchildren.
I go like that.
I refuse to call you daddy.
I refuse to call you daddy.
That's dad.
Yeah.
You did the other day.
So really as a parent, what is that like for you?
When you have your first child, first of all,
okay, you get to understand something.
As a man, we have a very different experience when it comes to the first child, first of all, okay, get understand something as a man, we have a very
different experience when it comes to the first
child than it then compared to the mother, very,
very different. The mother, for the first child,
feels a connection much sooner because the babies
inside her, she can feel it moving. It's not this
abstract concept for a father.
We don't really become relevant to like years later.
We just don't know because like I see the belly growing.
I know there's a baby in there.
It's but it's very abstract.
I don't feel anything. I could just see it.
So I don't have this like, I don't know what to expect.
So I don't have this necessary, this,
this necessarily is connection like she does.
Like she's been building for the last nine months, right?
Now when the baby's born, it's like boom man, in my experience, was it just
fucking hit me? She's immediate. All at once and everything changed and you're just like,
and then you fall so hard in love with this little creature that you can't.
Because that's what they look like right there. You just look a little alien.
Like just aliens. You're you're you you've fallen in love with them so hard
that then you think to yourself like,
well, that's gonna suck for the next one that comes along
because how can I possibly, like,
I'm not gonna be able to love them like this,
like they're just gonna be the second child.
But then you have the second one and it doesn't matter.
And what you need to under what you end up realizing
is you don't have a finite capacity for love.
Your capacity for love grows.
Just changes the definition.
It grows, the whole thing grows.
So it's not like, oh my god, I love this so much.
You worry about that though.
You do.
You worry about that after, you know, when going through the
second time around, it's like, oh, am I going to love this one?
There's much, you know, and it's like, but yeah, then it
happens and you're like, pff, yeah.
And with the second one, because you know what to expect
and what you've gone through with the first one,
I don't know about you, Jess,
but I got connected to the second one,
while the mother was still,
while my ex-wife was still pregnant.
I got a connection sooner because I knew what to expect.
Yeah, for sure.
Yeah, but the first one's like an epic.
Yeah, I think you knew how you could kind of be more involved.
Like you knew where your place was,
oh, I can help with this or,
oh, I can grab him and go, you know,
take him down for a nap, whatever.
So based off of that, Doug would love me
just as much as he would.
I mean, he would.
That makes me feel better.
He would, but,
but because we're not his actual children,
no, I'm definitely the one that's loved most.
Yeah.
This is the stuff.
This is the stuff that's right out the window.
Yeah.
All those barriers of change.
I have a very large capacity to love though.
Oh, it's very nice.
How long were you guys?
How many times has he kissed you on the floor?
No, no.
How long were you guys training together?
So how long were you training him for?
Like how many days per week? How long was he a client before you guys training together? So how long were you training him for? Like how many days per week?
How long was he a client before you guys did business?
I know you've kind of slightly touched on this
but I can't remember what it was.
Doug was my client probably for a year, right?
About a year before we started talking about certain things.
Now the thing is, the way I was training Doug
in the beginning was very, it was Maps-esque.
It was there were elements of maps that we were already doing.
And you've shared this before with me.
You've told me that that's-
That's to the name of our new program.
Maps-esque.
I actually remember, because you and I were actually so serious.
On Facebook that far back, I remember you telling me and sharing me that, like, dude,
I remember that you were going through this like
Hola Piffini like you were you were you were a Facebooking me back and forth and talking about pro
You have to do this just trust me just you get you're trying to get me to do something the last piece that really kicked in was the trigger session and I know
It's funny and so Doug was like the first guy to really do it along with me, but what was what's funny is?
or a guy to really do it along with me. But what's funny is, you know, being in fitness
as long as I have, there's certain things that I'll do,
and I will know almost right away
that this is a game changer.
But that's happened to be very, very few times.
Well, that's exactly why it is.
I feel like that's for all of us, right?
Because when you've been doing this for 15 plus years,
the gains and the change is very, it's few and far between.
Like, we just, you've gone through the big game, the game changes.
Like, somebody brought up just recently about the fact that thinking that we had more gains
back when we first started and everything like that, because we trained so crazy and
tens of them like, oh, God, no, you know, like, those, that was like a slow gradual over
course of 10 plus years.
Exactly.
So, yeah, to see anything at all change?
And it's not even, it's not even, oh my god, this is a huge.
But I don't even have to see it.
It's like as soon as I do it, I know like,
holy shit, this is a game changer.
And that's happened a couple times, a few times.
Like the first time I fasted, I knew right away,
like the first day I was like, okay,
this is gonna be a game changer for me.
Yeah.
The first time, the very, very, very first workout
where I didn't go to failure and everything.
I knew right away I was like, I feel different.
Like this is a game changer.
That happened with trigger sessions
and that also happened when I switched from a split
to a full body.
And that also happened when I started
phasing my workouts.
Those were three big things that happened
that helped me develop the original maps.
And what's funny is I forget about some of those things
when I stopped doing them
and I start focusing on other things.
Recently, I just started incorporating
on a consistent basis trigger sessions.
And trigger sessions are different from focus sessions
which are different from mobility sessions.
Those are all the different techniques
that we involve in the different maps programs
and each of them have their benefit.
And I forget how effective each one of them is when I stop doing them for too long.
Like, I forgot what trigger sessions do.
I started doing consistently again and within a week, I'll tell you what, I had pain in
my rotator, what is that called?
Prointerterus.
Yeah.
It's been sore for a while.
I've been trying to rehab it.
I started doing just trigger sessions.
And it's almost gone already. It's like three days of doing it. My sore for a while. I've been trying to rehab it started doing just trigger sessions and it's almost gone already
It's that for like three days of doing it
My muscles feel fuller. I'm remembering what it felt like the first time I did trigger sessions
I'm getting that kind of full-body pump, you know, I feel like my body's looking a little starting to look different already
It kind of it blows me away, but yeah
You'll know right away when you do certain things especially if you've been working out for a long time If they're gonna benefit you so Doug was so Doug was a part of that like he was when you first started to incorporate it with clients
He was one of the first clients that you started really doing that. Doug was one of the first
It was me Doug a client of mine
Jim who's at the time he was 68
Fitness fanatic I had a couple
time he was 68, fitness fanatic, I had a couple friends of mine that were women who were very much into fitness, and then I started incorporating elements of it into training
clients for other things.
So people who weren't so hardcore into building muscle or whatever, but I would incorporate
elements of it into their rehab or into their correctional exercise or whatever, because
I knew if the principal worked for one thing that I could take it and apply it to other
facets.
And every single person that incorporated these things was coming back to me and blown
away.
Well, what you just said too is important because this is how maps green and maps black
evolve too, is because the concept still applied like the whole principle of...
We just built off of that.
Yeah, the whole frequency concept over intensity.
And you mentioned that it was a quick thing for you.
That was probably the only one I would say
that took a longer time for me to sink in,
but once it did, it was a very aha moment for me,
which was the intensity.
I trained so intense for so long that it became a habit.
And I really noticed it,
like when I run into somebody else at the gym
or I see a buddy's working out and they always want,
hey, you want a spot?
I'm like, God, it's crazy.
I used to train that way where I needed a spot.
I needed a spot all the time.
And if I didn't need a spot,
I wasn't pushing myself.
That was the mentality.
So it took me a while to break that and change that mentality and no one to interject it,
right?
Like, I think that's important because I think we send this message so much like, you
know, and I notice it as we grow, like, you know, now I feel like we've gotten more pushback
than we've ever gotten recently.
And I feel like it's just, it's part of growth right now in the business, right?
We go through these, these little growth spurts I've noticed over the last couple years, and
it's like a new wave of people that are coming through that haven't listened to mind pumps
since the beginning.
And they're still like, they get like maybe a guide or they get a program and they're
like confused on like, I don't get it, where's like all these elaborate weird things that
are supposed to be added into this.
And, you know, so I think it's important that we talk and address that because there's so
many people that just think that, okay, I'm going to try this thing out and see what it does for me.
And they have that approach to everything that they do. And like, this is different, you know,
it's not you have created habits,
and I know this because I have.
I've created these habits of training this way
that I have to constantly remind myself
that like get out of that mentality.
I know what's best for my body,
and I know when I listen to my body,
and I train it like I'm supposed to,
and I cut those reps short of failure,
you know, and then I intermittently introduce
that type of
training that at that intensity, small places within my programming that I see huge benefits
but not allowing myself to get caught up in that recovery trap where I'm just handing
it out.
Well, I think too, like to pick you back on your intensity talk, like as far as like making
gains and seeing that initially, like, yeah, that was something that I did see.
I trained really hard and I took that into athletics
and I thought that I was at my optimal performance output.
But really why we've, I've learned over the years
and much like Sal and then even going through
the trigger sessions and doing it,
like initially I was doing it with too much intensity
and I had to train my mentality. I had to really check myself. been going through the trigger sessions and doing it. Like initially, I was doing it with too much intensity
and I had to train my mentality.
I had to really check myself.
And once you actually completely give into the process
of it, you do see those benefits to it.
You see the recovery elements.
You see how your body responds.
And then how you don't feel like,
I always used to get to this point
when I would train really hard where I knew.
I knew my shoulder was gonna sort of give way
when I was bench pressing or when I was overhead pressing
or my knee would start to hurt
because of an old injury from sports.
It's because, and I would just sort of plan it out.
Well, I'm gonna get as far as I can, you know, this run at it,
and then I would sort of recover,
come back and then ramp myself back up,
whereas now it's totally different.
It's, you avoid it.
It's, you avoid it, and then you keep,
it just keeps slowly compiling to where
you're doing even better than you've ever done.
Well, the mentality,
somewhere along the line,
it became common knowledge,
although inaccurate, that in order to get the body to change,
you have to force it.
Like that's the mentality.
Like your body doesn't wanna do these things.
And the reason why that mentality comes from,
you know, exist is because, yes,
if you just sit there and do nothing,
of course your body's not gonna wanna burn body fat,
build muscle, get strong or whatever,
but that doesn't mean your body doesn't want to.
It just means your body's just adapting
to what you're currently doing.
So it's not that you need to force your body
because your body doesn't need to be forced.
In fact, you can't force your body to do anything.
If your body doesn't wanna do something,
you can force all the fucking all day long
and you're just going to end up either hurting yourself or getting sick or whatever.
So don't think of what you're doing as forcing your body because when you go in with that
mentality then it requires lots of intensity, it requires pain, it requires this horrible
struggle.
Think of your, of you nudging your body.
All you're doing is you're nudging your body into the direction you wanna move.
You're giving it these little nudges
and kind of guiding it to where you wanna go.
And it makes me think of,
I watched a movie the other day,
and I don't know why I'm thinking about this,
but it just reminds me of this,
where they were in a spacecraft in space,
and you know, when NASA's trying to adjust
the position of something in space,
it only requires little nudges of,
you know, like they're shooting out, little nudges of gas,
because if they go too fast,
the thing spins out of control, right?
And you see it like,
in a just small incremental changes getting it where it wants to go.
That's what exercises with your body.
And now, the nudges will look different
based on your fitness level,
your experience, and your genetics,
but they're always nudges nonetheless.
So what may be a nudge for me
is going to be too hard of a fricking shove
for a complete beginner.
So intensity is super relative.
You know, that's so, stop right there too,
because I think it's important,
people understand this.
That's something that is so hard for us
that what we're doing, right?
Because trying to create programs
and create things for people that is as individualized as possible
and explain to them that, listen,
you know, anybody that's telling you like,
this is the way to do it,
or this is what's best for you, is wrong.
I mean, that was the biggest challenge
of creating these programs.
And that's why it was so important too
that we created the forum with it
and that we encourage people to be able to modify and change.
And there's still so much more to come with what we're building.
It's far from over and hopefully most people are watching the YouTube channel too and getting
all the exercises.
Everything's going to pool together and it's coming together and I feel like next year
is going to be a really cool year for us with all the maps programs being out
and then we start to really refine everything.
Like it's gonna get so much better
than what it already is.
So those that are going through the process with us right now,
like, you know, it's gonna get simpler,
it's gonna get more modifiable.
Is that, can I say that like with as far as what you're trying
to do?
You have more options.
It'll be very user friendly like it's just be clean.
Concides, you know, I remember when Sal was when he was going through this
and he would be sending me over like a lot of the philosophies that he was
implementing into maps or creating when he was creating it.
And I was like, God, this is so right on with how I feel.
And I remember thinking like, I needed somebody else
that I trusted in the industry
that was gonna be saying this to me
because everywhere else that you I was here
and all the other bullshit that I knew that I knew
in my head I was like, even though I was doing it, right?
Even though I'm doing it, I'm caught up in it.
I know better, like it's like,
and I don't know how long that was for you guys
where you felt like you were you knew better
But you were still doing shit like that that's before that before the aha moment. I had to get out of
I had to get out of the gym. Yeah in order for me to get to where I got because I got there
quickly as soon when I left
The typical gym environment. I wasn't surrounded by other, quote unquote,
meat heads, right?
When I had my wellness studio,
and I was working with physical therapists,
massage therapists, acupuncturists,
functional medicine people, people who were experts
at yoga and movement and flexibility,
because I was surrounded by them just through,
just because I was around them all the time,
I was exposed to all these different things and it got me questioning things.
But if I was stuck in the gym like I was before with all these other meat heads and stuff,
it would have been very difficult.
It would have been very, very difficult.
Taking a lot longer to get there.
Yeah, same thing happened with me when I went to North Carolina.
I finally got to a place where, you know, I had gone to other independent gyms and everything,
but this was the first place where I actually, like, came across other really bright minds
in the industry and, you know, what they were doing with their clients.
And it was all just reiterating stuff that I had learned and read and, you know, went
to school and all that stuff.
It's just, they were applying it very specifically and I was watching it all unfold with their
clients.
And I'm like, why am I not doing it that way?
I was doing it the bro way before that.
And it just sort of re-shifted my way of thinking and then I just started pursuing my own interests
as far as like learning more to get more insight on the list.
And there's a lot of fear, you know, you have to consider most of us or many of us who get into exercise on a consistent basis
who are very consistent, very serious about it.
Many of us have some kind of insecurity tied to it
or the motivation tends to be, we don't like something about ourselves.
And so that tends to make it more of an obsession than a passion.
And let me explain what I mean.
When you take someone who's been a guy who wants to build muscle, who feels like he's skinny,
for example, I'll use that example because that's me.
And he lifts weights consistently all the time, body parts split.
There's a major fear with changing anything because the fear becomes, will I lose some
of my days? Well, I go back to where I was before.
Right, but as illogical as that sounds,
that is literally what is going through the person's mind.
It's like panic.
The same thing can be true for the girl
who lost lots of weight and doesn't want to gain
a single pound back and she's going to think to herself,
my goodness, if I change anything,
am I just gonna get real fat?
Now, here's what you need to understand.
Number one, you're not gonna lose gains
or gain tons of weight overnight.
So you'll see it happening before,
you know, what things get crazy.
If that were to happen, the high likelihood is,
it's not gonna happen though.
The high likelihood is you're going to notice some changes
by changing what you're doing.
And the likelihood is you're gonna get some benefit
just because it's different.
It doesn't even have to be great shit.
The simple fact that you change things,
if it's stuck doing the same thing for so long,
is going to show you some favorable results.
But even if it didn't, you are going to notice something different.
You are going to learn things about your body, and if you understand that this is long-term,
which it is, if you're that much of a fanatic, then it's okay.
So you've got to be okay with losing a little bit of gains, but you're trying something different.
And from my experience, here's what's going to happen.
That's so hard for people, though.
It's hard.
This to me is the hardest part of the job is breaking through the mental piece with people.
That's to me, all the other stuff, losing weight, gaining weight, building muscle, losing
body fat.
This is just exes and o's, I feel like for us.
It's very simple to help somebody do that. What's what's tough is
breaking through all the mental stuff. That's all that's where all the coaching comes from by the way
that's like very little of the training is the actual what to do a lot of the training is yeah I
think doing with that part. And I think that's where the this is where the experience part kicks in
is just once you've done that with so many people, you've dealt with all kinds
of different issues. Everybody has, we all are unique with our insecurities. We all have
different desires, different wants as far as different health issues already. A lot of
people are already predisposed to things. There's so many different elements that you,
that somebody, when you get somebody training them for the first time, like it's crazy to me,
like when you see all this stuff out there
that we continue to see flooded in the industry
of just marketing to like one type of person
and it's targeting the 30 day quick
or the 60 day turn your, you know,
switch everything around and it's like,
God, dude, that's not how it works.
Like it's so crazy to me.
And, well, it's, you know, when you, it's like when you get a client and you tell them, okay, here's what we're going to do.
We're going to, I don't know, you pick your manipulation, but maybe you say, I'm going to raise your
fat intake a little bit. And it's like, so scary. It's so scary to them because they can't
do it. Because they can't, they think, oh my god, I'm going to gain weight, or even if I say,
raise your carbs, or if I say we're gonna reduce your cardio
or we're gonna change your resistance training routine.
But I've always done that.
What's gonna happen on my body?
Am I gonna gain weight?
I'm terrified I have this anxiety
because I'm changing things
and it's wonderful to see at the end of that
when that person sees the benefit from it.
Or maybe they see, didn't see benefit, but they're now not afraid
to change things because it wasn't this catastrophic thing that happened.
Well, it just basically defines fixed mindset versus a growth mindset.
One is much harder, and that's to always be willing to grow and go through the trials
and the fire of it.
But sometimes you will fail.
Maybe it's a concept that isn't gonna stick,
but you're willing to put yourself out there
and be in that mindset that,
hey, I'm gonna try this for X amount of time
and give it the real amount of effort that it needs.
Go ahead.
Can you think of a game changer tip
that you or think that you've implemented with a client?
Like, for example, I think of when I started making clients
actually track their water for me,
I made this huge, huge leaps and bounds
with my clients as far as getting them to connect,
you know, the pounds on the scale up and down
and learning to not allow that to mentally mess with them.
I think that's a big one.
Like, people get on the scale day to day
and they see the scale go up or down
and they allow it to dictate how they feel
going forward in that day
and how they end up probably eating
and exercising later on that day.
And most times more they're off.
They're significantly off on what they think is going on.
So enlightening people on what they think is going on. So enlightening
people on what that looks like. And I used to make them, you know, or I do make them track
their sodium and their water for me, especially at the very beginning. And it seems crazy.
And I would never expect somebody to do this for a long term, because I think it's ridiculous
to measure every ounce of water you drink every day for the rest of your life.
But I do think it serves a major purpose for teaching something and teaching all of us.
It was an eye opener for me when I had to do it for competing.
It was like holy cow.
And that's why it was so powerful because I saw, you know, you talk about aha moments.
There's only been a handful of those.
This was an aha moment for me because I have done, I have been a victim of this of, you know,
can overconsuming calories and whatever
and then getting up the next day,
seeing the scale way up more than what you wanted
and then that day hammering the shit out of your body
and cutting your calories way back
like and punishing yourself for that because of what you saw.
You know, and I've also been on the other boat
where I've been the skinny guy trying to gain weight and I missed a meal and my scale went down four pounds and I freaked out, you know, and like,
oh my god, I lost all this muscle. So the next day I'm like overconsuming by 2000 calories. So
I've been that guy on both sides, so I understand this. Well, when I started showing clients, like,
they could literally fluctuate three up to some of them up to nine pounds in a night of like literally just water from
Retaining water and I could show them the connection of look when we increased our sodium
You also drank 20 more ounces of water because you're thirstier and then on top of that you're consuming more carbohydrate
So your body's pairing with that. So of course we're gonna go up a good half a pound to pound
So when they get on the scale the next day
They realize then I say now, don't change anything.
We're eating perfectly fine right now.
We're exercising perfectly fine.
Watch what happens within the next two to three days.
Two to three days, it comes right out.
And they go like, oh my God, it's like, yeah,
you never got fat from that.
Your body was just holding retaining extra water
because you've consumed more sodium and water.
That connection, I think, for think, for most of my clients,
it's just been like a game change.
It's been big.
Yeah, I think for me, too, we've definitely talked,
I think, more than any other fitness personality
about the central nervous system and how involved
that is in the process of training.
And I feel like my big aha was really just learning
how to utilize that and utilize muscular tension
and how to increase that within my major lifts
to really give me a performance edge.
And it's kind of silly because it's these little things
that that seem like such common sense,
but until you actually
use it and train your body to improve it, it's not going to be a thing with what you're
doing. You're just going to go do your ritual, go do your workout without the intention of
what needs to be accomplished and also the focus of it. And for me, just kind of going down that rabbit hole now of like,
well, this also improves my flexibility
and the quality of my joints
and allowing more range of motion,
but now I'm strong in that range of motion.
And there's just so much benefit to it
if you do it properly and you incorporate
it into your normal routine.
You know, a big one for me that just came to me.
And this, I really haven't talked about on the show at all.
And shame on me because this is a big, this is a big one that I should bring up.
And it doesn't have very much to do with gains directly or weight loss directly, but indirectly
it has quite a profound impact.
And that's the connection between your emotional state and your pain in your body.
And I remember, you know, I train a lot and they're very closely connected by the way.
And the impetus for that particular thought came from one of my clients who was a doctor
and we were talking about pain and I was talking about correctional exercise and what I can do.
And up until that point, if somebody came to me with any kind of pain,
I would immediately assess their function, immediately assess them also recruitment patterns,
correct those recruitment patterns, get them into better position, get them to move better, and nine at a ten times, it would work.
But there was that one at a ten times where it was just like, you know, we would maybe
get a little better, but then it just wouldn't go away.
And it was quite rare, but it would happen.
You know, I've been training long enough to have those clients where you just, God, you
can't figure it out.
And this client, we were talking, and he was saying how the off-label prescription
drugs prescribed for off-label uses, and one of the things that sometimes they'll prescribe
for pain when they can't find a problem is they'll prescribe an antidepressant. And that
kind of blew me away. So I thought, wait, an antidepressant for, and we were talking about back pain in particular.
And he said, yeah, you know, somebody,
you give them an MRI and X-ray,
they go to physical therapists,
like everything looks fine, back pain no matter what,
we give them an antidepressant, back pain goes away.
So that perked my interest.
And so I did some research at the time.
And, you know, what I kept coming up with was how depression
and other mental issues were connected
to physical feelings of pain.
Like it's human-antifested.
Actual physical pain, right?
And that kind of blew my mind a little bit.
And so at that time, I was working with a physical therapist
and a massage therapist who were both very much into that and I had completely
ignored them.
Every time they brought that up, I'd roll my eyes.
Like, let's just look at their muscle function.
But I should have been more opal-minded, especially considering one of them was a physical therapist
and one of them, you know, the physical therapist is more of an expert on, you know, correctional
movement than I was.
In fact, I learned a lot from her.
So I should have listened, but I never did.
But at that, something's in Athens that God,
this is, there may be something to this.
And so I had this one client who was always in pain.
She just would hurt in certain parts of her body.
And we would do exercise for and correct it.
And it would go away a little bit,
but it would still be there.
And I couldn't identify any other problems
with her movement-wise.
I just, just like, why the fuck is she hurting constantly?
You know, this has to be a nerve issue, I thought,
or whatever.
So she came in for a workout one day
and she was complaining a lot to pain,
and I watched her move, and she is moving funny,
but I thought to myself, it's,
I wonder if it's the pain that's causing her to move funny
and not the other way around.
So I had her lay on her stomach on her back.
We went into a quiet room, turned the lights off and there so it was relatively dark, had
her lay on her back and I taught her how to belly breathe.
And for those of you who don't know what belly breathing is, many of us because of our daily
low levels of stress, we shallow breathe.
We don't take a full diaphragmatic breath when
we breathe because we're in this kind of minor fight or flight response. And you can tell
because your chest moves with your breath, but your stomach doesn't. So you're breathing
in through your chest. And in the short term, it gives you more energy, more oxygen. And
the long term, actually, deprives you of oxygen. And it puts you in this kind of hyper-stress
state.
So a strong piece of yoga
and why people notice it different?
Yes, right here.
So I later on her back, this is a true story.
I had her place one hand on her belly,
one hand on her chest and I told her to breathe in deeply
but to move her belly first
and only when that would only move fully,
which was she permitted to then breathe in to her chest.
So I said, okay, you got to fill your belly first.
When that can't get any more full, then you can breathe in through your chest and then
breathe out and I had her close rise.
So she did this for about one minute and I had her breathe in, move the belly first, then
the chest, breathe out, you know, in that order and she stopped and she started crying.
This is no joke.
She literally started, she had, we didn't say shit. She just sat there and bellybreath and started crying. This is no joke. She literally started, we didn't say shit.
She just sat there on bellybeat and started crying.
She had an emotional release
because she had stopped and given herself some time
to be with herself, to focus on her breath,
to breathe in fully.
So she was able to, whatever she was feeling
which she was jamming in the back of her mind,
which was keeping her on this kind of tense state,
surface, and it wasn't that she was necessarily thinking about anything. in the back of her mind, which was keeping her on this kind of 10th state surface.
Surface.
And it wasn't that she was necessarily thinking about anything.
It just came out in emotion and she started crying.
And she's got real embarrassed.
And I said, hey, listen, it's totally fine.
You're having an emotional release.
I said, is there anything in particular you're thinking about?
I told her, you don't have to tell me.
But if there is, then maybe that's something you should think about.
And she goes, nothing really in particular
She's like I just got this like
release and she stood up and guess what the pain was gone. Yeah, crazy. Her hip pain was gone
so that for me was a huge
huge breakthrough
And in fact, I believe Eckhart totally talks about this and I'm not a huge
I'm not very proficient in his writings, but my girlfriend is and she tells me abouthart totally talks about this and I'm not a huge, I'm not very proficient in his writings
But my girlfriend is and she tells me about how he talks about having a pain body
And this is a person that they'll feel sick or the body will hurt or the feel whatever and it's from an emotional
standpoint
There's nothing really physically wrong with them and I couldn't believe just how
powerful that was until I had experienced it myself years later
when I had these issues of,
you know, I was going through a very stressful period
in my life and I was noticing the kind of mild dizziness
and I thought I was having those problems.
I got MRI and I'm like, oh my God,
I got brain cancer, what's going on?
No, it was all completely stress-related
but that was a big one for me.
That was a huge one.
I can't stress enough.
The psychological part is everything.
Everything, man.
It really is.
And I think, and I know Doug doesn't like
when I share stuff like this on the show,
but it's very rare.
It's very rare.
Well, he doesn't like us to talk about any of this stuff,
but I feel like I should share it
because it goes in line with what you're talking about.
It's very, very rare that we actually get somebody
that takes advantage of the 30-day money back guarantee
So all of our programs are guaranteed that go through for 30 days literally try it out if it does not if you do not notice and feel a difference
You get your money, well every once in a while we do but it's always the person who opens it up
Didn't try it didn't do anything and look at it reads it and then goes like oh, this isn't for me
Mm-hmm, And it always drives me
crazy because I almost wish we had, I wish we had this like, you have to please have listened to
10 or 15 episodes before you get a program because I feel like otherwise there's so much more
that goes into this, you know, what we're trying to teach through the programs. Like,
the idea of all the maps is not like,
oh, this is-
We're not making it sexy for you.
Yeah, it's not, that's exactly-
We're making you sexy.
Making you sexy.
It's a, I feel like we've done a really good job
breaking down really, really, really major science
into the most simplest way possible and trying to
teach all the things that we've learned over all the years of personal training and wrap
it into these programs that take you three months to go through.
And the idea is that you go through it, not that you stick to it and you do it forever
and you just keep repeating it.
That's what's wrong with, I think, all the other programs that are out there is everybody's, it's all centered around like a kicking your ass for
this workout and here's the next one that kicks your ass and they all have these crazy...
You can even fail off the wagon if you're not still doing it.
Yeah, right. And then it's all on or off the wagon. No, we're trying to teach you something about
your body and this. So when somebody does that, it really, it drives me crazy because they have so much,
I already know, I don't even know who the person is.
And I know they've got so much more work to do
on the psychological part before they're even ready
to do a program like this because you have to be open-minded
enough to be, we're asking you to challenge
so much of the shit that you've heard about.
It's hard, we know it's hard because we constantly
fall victim to it ourselves.
Do you know how long I've known, for example,
do you know how long I've known that meditation
would benefit me greatly?
Like I've known this logically,
like I need to fucking make time to meditate
for 15 minutes a day, 15 minutes, that's nothing, right?
But do you know how long I haven't meditated?
Forever, why?
Because I know it's good, but it's out of my routine
and whatever, and I need more time to do a trigger session
or I'm gonna do this instead.
And then I, now I force myself.
We had the brain FM guys come on, right?
So they had that meditated, that meditation beat or whatever.
And so that's giving me an excuse to kind of like,
okay, I'm gonna start doing this.
Low and behold, ideas are popping up. Creativity's of like okay, I'm gonna start doing this low and behold
Ideas are popping up creativity starting to peak. I'm starting to sleep better. It's like I fucking know it But I don't do it. I didn't try it. You know, I'm saying it sounds so simple, right?
And so I think that's what happens. I think people you know, especially if they listen to one or two episodes by a program
Then they open it look at and go. Oh, there's no magic in here. It sounds too simple, sounds too common, say. Either, either, there's no magic in it,
but the magic in it's simplicity,
and it's in the way it's applied,
but they look at it and say,
a, it's either not magical,
there's nothing just exploded in my face,
or b, it's too different from what I'm currently doing
and I don't wanna try it.
Well, and here's the thing too,
at the end of the day, that's really, it's about that.
And I feel like this goes into,
we talked about supplements the other day.
People think that just because we say one thing about them,
all of a sudden it's all about it.
If the meditation isn't helping you
with the markers that you're paying attention to,
then it's not for you or you don't need to do it.
Sure, there's all kinds of benefits from it.
But the one thing I feel like we've always stayed consistent is when we teach things or we share things
with people, we're not trying to say, oh, everybody needs to be doing this or this is specifically
for you. It's like, listen, this is what it does for you. This may be an issue that you're
currently having and this may be a great answer for you. But people, I feel like every time
we say something on the show, they go run out and they try something and then they instantly want to give their review
like, oh, it's awesome. Oh, it's not awesome. Oh, yeah. Oh, it hated that. Yeah, yeah,
exactly. It's like, it's not, well, it's not really about that. It's about, I just looked
at it. It's about really learning your body and the things that you need in finding out
if that's for you. And I think we're always trying to share those type of things. I think
meditation is something I'm currently working on myself.
How are you doing it, too?
Yeah, and I've been pretty good.
I was especially when we went on vacation.
I mean, that was obviously a lot easier.
Now, what have you noticed from doing it?
I've noticed my sleep big time.
So I'm getting much more rested.
So it's weird.
I have sometimes, and that's what really surprised me,
because there was some days where I didn't get a lot of hours.
But I felt like I was in a deeper sleep.
So that was something I noticed.
I noticed just like you, it sparked a lot of creativity
for me.
And it was weird because a couple of times I did it.
I felt like I put the headphones on and everything
and I was meditating and I was in a room
where people were talking and things. and I was meditating and I was in there's room in a room where people were at talking and things and
I was actually able to get into a really really deep relaxed
meditative state and not even realizing that I was so I
Definitely have enjoyed it, but it's making the time. That's you know, it's the prior
So you know, it's so I had this conversation. I've had this conversation several times with with different people and
it was
I've now come to the conclusion that I am much more of an artist and much less of a businessman
Then I would like that I'd like to admit and let me let me explain what I mean
And I'll tell you why the meditation meditative part is important. I always thought I was a businessman first and I created
things secondary. But the reality is I'm much better at creating things that I am at,
you know, I can lead people, I can do all that stuff, but starting and owning and running
and selling businesses, that's not what really drives me. It's really just creating things,
coming up with ideas, implementing new things,
seeing things from different angles.
And when I finally started to really understand that
about myself, I started nurturing the things that nurtured that,
that nurtured that, that are part of me.
And part of that is making space.
That's what meditation does.
Is making space for that to come through
because if I'm stressed or anxious or busy doing
a million different things all the time,
there's no space for me to be creative.
And if you look at artists in the very, very true sense
or the ones that we use as stereotypical sense
like musicians and people who paint and shit like that,
or writers, what do they usually have to do
to come up with their great ideas?
They go off into the woods, they go on the beach, get a new stimulus
or just break away from like too much stimulus.
They turn everything off and just shut everything out.
I know the story of Sylvester Stallone when he wrote Rocky.
He had an apartment, he newspapered the window,
shut it, locked himself in there and wrote the whole script.
Oh, God, no wonder you love the story.
And so, the plot thickens.
Well, no, so when it comes to meditation, it's like, you know what?
It's just sitting there like, it makes space for me.
And now I'm making it much more of a priority.
It's definitely part of my routine.
Yeah, and to me, I'm trying to.
But it took me so long, so so hard headed.
And I think the message I'm trying to say with this too
is that I now already see the benefits, how it it helps me and so I will pay attention to,
you know, like things that are coming up.
Like recently, you know, this time of the year
is a very busy time can be stressful with the holidays
and you know, all the family traveling, things like that.
And so when I find myself getting all caught up in that,
like I make sure that I make the time to do that.
So I think that's to me that like, I feel like some people, they see the benefits of that
and then also then become, they go off the deep end and it's like they're meditating every
day for hours in and hours out.
To each their own, I'm not saying there's anything wrong with someone who wants to be that.
But I don't like to push it like that.
I like to share with people the benefits that I've noticed from it.
And then now I try and be aware of the times in my life where I would have added stress or if I catch myself wow
It's been two or three weeks since I've taken time for myself
I've been so caught up in work and family and gifts and yada yada all this shit that hey
This would probably smart and if I'm being really good. I'm being proactive to that right
I know that I'm heading into, you know, like this week, for example, it's going to be a
crazy, busy week with us.
We have meetings and guests and all kinds of big stuff going on and finishing up with the
maps yellow.
So all this stuff is coming right now.
So I know that I need to make time for myself to do that.
Otherwise, I know it'll affect my mood, which then in turn can affect those around me.
And I know it's something that I can control by.
It's understanding that balance.
You know, it's like, you can compile as many disciplines as you want that you know are
beneficial for you.
But really having a solid understanding of, you know, how that's going to affect you.
And then what your body's telling you through all these different like disciplines you
immerse yourself into, that's really what
matters.
It's about still being in tune with your body, even though you're providing it with all
these good tools, maybe the combination of all these things at once isn't really benefiting
you to that level.
So you just have to always bring it back in.
I think meditation is good because it also allows you
to listen even further to what your body is communicating.
And I think that there's a good thing to delineate time
where you spend time understanding what it is
that is affecting you.
It does.
And I think, if you're ultimate goal,
if you have a specific ultimate goal, I think there's, like I said, you know, if you're, if you're ultimate goal, if you have a specific
ultimate goal, I think there's like I said, we said earlier, there's a big fear with
moving away from that specific goal, because we think I'll never get to that goal anymore,
because now I'm focused on flexibility or I'm focused on mobility or I'm focused on,
you know, stamina or whatever. But the reality is that they all contribute to each other.
And there's a lot you'll learn about yourself and how your body needs to move and what movements
work best for you with your body by exposing yourself to these different things.
And you need to, you really got to change your mentality and look at the entire picture.
Don't just measure your progress with one metric. Don't just measure progress with strength or muscle size or just
definition or just mobility or just anything because that will take you away
from, believe it or not, lots of other things.
And ultimately, you'll remove the longevity from whatever goal you're reaching
towards.
If all I ever do is focus on strength all the time and I don't focus on anything else,
I'll get pretty strong, but I'm cutting short the longevity that I'm going to have with
that strength by far.
But if I look at everything, if I look at the whole picture and I lose a little bit of strength
because I'm focusing on flexibility, but my flexibility's getting better. I'm not feeling so bad.
I'm saying to myself, yeah, I know I'm not deadlifting
as much as I was before, but man, I can do a movement,
I couldn't do before, and that's good.
So you have to look at the whole picture
that way you feel better about where you're moving,
then when you move back to your strength metric,
you'll surpass what you did before.
This is a lot of...
That's the catch 22 here, right?
This is a lot of what I try,
at least I try my best to convey this on Instagram,
is, you know, those that were connected to me
over two years ago, you know,
plus I have had a chance to watch me go from fat to fit
and then to get into competing
and then to work through mobility.
Like, so, you know, I try and share my journey,
and it's really not this,
I know there couldn't be anything more
narcissistic than Instagram,
but it's really not about that for me.
For me, it is, it's about sharing with people
what I'm going through and how I choose to focus.
Like, I just brought it up the other day
about the picture I posted on there
of doing a really deep squat with 275 on on my back and that's not really impressive.
You know, like for somebody like a guy in my size, like 275 pounds is a very weak squat.
But for me, that's not what I was focused on.
You know, I already, I already did that game already where I was chasing Sal and you with
how heavy you were squatting and was training to build purely strength. And when I was doing it, that's what I was chasing. I wasn't worried about how deep my
squat was or exactly how perfect my mechanics were at the time. It was just like, I'm on a
strength phase and I'm going to catch both of them as close or get as close as I possibly
can to each of them in their two power moves. So for me, it's been about like sharing those,
how I shift my mentality.
And like I can't, you know, you don't wanna get,
always cut up on the scale that you get up on.
You don't wanna get, you don't always wanna get cut up
on the weight, the amount you're moving
and how many times you're moving it.
You know, it's sometimes it's how you're moving
like there's, and learning to let that be the focus
when you're going through that process.
That's, you know, going right back to how we started this conversation is so much of this
game is mental, you know, and I think the sooner you realize that and the sooner you get
work and improving all those little things, you know, it's a journey.
You can't expect yourself to hop right into something and then it's going to come now.
It's taken, I mean, we're still.
I feel like every, everything.
There's new things we get exposed to, we get excited about, and then it's like, oh,
wow, what if I incorporate this and then, you know, experiment with that and then it
becomes relevant.
And now this is part of this long chain of things that are out in front of me that I'm
going to keep kind of rotating in the mix because it improves me overall and it's going to keep compiling to make me better and better.
Yeah, I mean while you're working out, you're working your mind and really like Adam's saying,
look at the focus, examine it, what your motivations are, are your motivations healthy?
Are they long term?
If they're not, just change those motivations,
you'll actually get better results as a result of it.
I mean, at the end of the day,
if you get your mind right, your body follows.
If you get your body looking a certain way,
it doesn't necessarily mean the mind will follow.
And many times they'll come out of it if you don't.
So I think that would be the lesson right there.
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