Mind Pump: Raw Fitness Truth - 539: How to Learn Better

Episode Date: June 29, 2017

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If you want to pump your body and expand your mind, there's only one place to go. MIND, MIND, MIND, MIND, MIND, MIND, with your hosts. Salda Stefano, Adam Schaefer, and Justin Andrews. This was an interesting episode of Mind Pump. We actually went into it. We went left. We went into it. Then we went right. Expecting to do a... And we went up and down. A Q&A episode and the conversation got really good and so we just stayed on that topic

and so this episode... You said... Fuck you, bird, go away. Yeah, so I mean we start off bullshitting like we normally do. We talk about the movie Grease, which is an excellent cinematopassion of mine. We talk about the best and worst actors according to our opinion, which is of course accurate. Yeah. How we listen to our song on My Plum,

staying true to yourself. And then we get into education. We talk about the education system, how it is with our kids, what we think the future of education looks like. And we talk about our role in educating people in the fitness world. So this entire episode kind of focuses on that particular topic.

It was totally unplanned. We have a good time when we do episodes like this. Very interesting. Love to hear your feedback on this episode and what your opinions are on it. I think education is a heated topic. It always is. It's dealing with our kids.

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Let me explain to you my connection degrees. Mm. As a young man, as a young man growing up in San Jose, the product of Sicilian immigrants, it was hard for me to fit in with any crowd because I wasn't really white. Like, my skin tone is like tan. And I'm not really, I'm not Hispanics,

and there's a lot of Hispanics in San Jose. And so I didn't really fit in, I didn't really know what my identity was, and then I discovered John Travolta. In all, John Travolta. In Greece and in Saturday night fever. And I'm like, that's me right there Yeah, that's who I want to be I connected more to him in face off

Yeah, it's more that's my that's more my travel isn't that what's his name in that? Nicholas cage great classic. You know Nicholas cage is such a great actor just one of the best actors all time him and he can't he can't are even just amazing Can you reach? Brad's a character dude Nicholas Cage is better than than Yes, here's why I want to move you with that pit and I was like wow that is the worst acting ever seen no No, Brad Pitt no, no, no, no, no He like if you watching like, he does not know how to show any emotion.

I haven't seen the movie seven. Yeah. Oh, you're not a Brad Pitt fan? No. I was. I got this degree with you. Or a fight club. He was brilliant.

Here is what, here is the latest movie he did. Okay, I'm going to argue this all day. Okay. It was with, we're basically his wife was a spy, a German spy. Oh, I saw that movie. Yeah. What did you think of his acting performance? Okay, that was super flat and horrible. Well, yeah, but I also think that I also thought that was kind of his character in that here's here's to me The only reason Like they're not have any emotion canna Reeves is the same guy is the surfer guy from point break every movie

Every movie no, no, no, you got it wrong or Bill or bill and 10x that you whichever one you want to refer to but he's the same he is the same guy me oh you live in the name of the liable yeah he's a surfer he just learns more ninja dude in every now that being said John wick to is amazing that being said he is could anybody have played me Neo in the Matrix better? No. No, it fit that role perfect. So I don't think necessarily he's a good actor. I just think they finally found a role for him where his same character was out.

And that's how that, I think that's how it works. So I went that, but Brad Pitt broke, Brad Pitt's all over the spectrum. Yeah, I liked him before that. Brad Pitt, are you fight clone? And like, are you kidding me with a snatch? Yeah, I liked fight clone. Like, snatch was like one of the fuck. And Norton carried that movie though, you know what I mean?

Yeah, you could argue that. He was good in Troy. He played a good movie. He played a good movie. Yeah, I don't know. I guess maybe it's performance by performance, you know? Okay, how about this? Here's the better one.

Who do you guys think is like a fucking great actor? Like just for pure acting chop. Kevin Spacey. Kevin Spacey. Ooh, look at you. We both could, we just love, Kevin Spacey. I think he's good, but I don't think Ed Norton too. I don't think Ed Norton has got to be one of the best,

but I think Daniel Day Lewis, fucking shits on everybody. Oh yeah, because he's like crazy. He could play anything and be very convincing. Johnny Damm is making a better two. Who? Johnny Damm. As a great actor. Yes

Oh, oh my god. I think he's good I don't think he's great. You got to think of the roles that some of these characters always because let's type cast Though, you know, he's always doing the same kind of guy. He's also crazy. He does weird He does weird like people that go all over like if you play a good guy a bad guy a scary guy a crazy guy Oh, here's one we can't for say fucking what's this face from Batman? Yeah, oh yeah Christian bail Christian bail He's amazing talk about like and look at like what they do their body what they do with their their their their whole the Machines. Yes, they're there. I mean Yeah, when you see when you see actors go on all ends of the spectrum that to me is what is your gauge of how taled there.

Like a movie like, like you said Matrix, one of the greatest movies ever and counter-reves is the main actor, but that movie was epic and that role fit his character already where you take someone like Christian Bell and you look at all the different types from superheroes to crazy killers. It has to be a factor.

Right, you like what are the diversity? Yeah, and that's why I was defending Brad Pitt because if you look at all the different movies that he's played in, he's done a different role many times. He can do the role man, he can do the action, he can be the tough guy, he can be the crazy guy. He's kind of played all.

Yeah, I just haven't seen him like really with any emotion. Like so other movie that really pissed me off that he was in. He was in this cartoon. Oh, it was so bad, dude. He cannot like, who? How can you not act well in a cartoon that you're a voice-over?

Oh, his voice is terrible. That it was horrible. Mega mind. Mega mind. Oh, I never saw that. Watch a mega mind and tell me like his character is a dog. Yeah, right. You know who else is good?

That's just underrated, but I think is an excellent actor. Leonardo DiCaprio. Excellent actor. Yeah, he saw it. You know what, I only did it. I didn't like him because he was fucking the Titanic guy, right? So I did lie the warm up. It did.

He had to play some other roles for me before I became a fan, but remember the beach? Yeah, you got all crazy So and that's a good example right he's an idiot Gilbert Grape yeah, right all over the spectrum right so I think that I think that's a good another good example for sure But yeah, I think I like to think of the worst idea. I think he on a reason is up there with like I have a saucepot for Kenya. For who? For Kenya. Oh, I thought you were talking about the senior Kenya. I was like, what? That's what his close friends call him, Kenya.

Yeah. K-dog. Dude, I can't look at you straight, dude, with the freaking duct tape headphones. I'm going to tell you right now. Who likes the juggernaut? I can hear you guys on another level So I feel I swore to God this is weird for me like I feel like at some point it's gonna happen right at some point

I'm gonna be wrong and you guys gonna be right. It hasn't happened yet Wow, but like it keeps happening where you guys make fun of me for something and then I end up It's almost like the universe is either on my side or it's just trying to fuck with you guys and make you guys stronger You know I'm saying yeah, yeah, cuz you guys and make you guys stronger. You know what I'm saying? Yeah. Yeah. Cause you guys keep doing that. I feel like we're on point all the time.

I don't know dude. I don't know. I don't think we need an animal or something. I don't know. There's a lot of interesting stuff. I think you only listen and play the episodes where you are right. No, it's not like you ever talk to mission buyers.

I think whatever Justin and I talk, you just fast forward. You just listen to each other. For sure. Oh, that was right there. Let me get to my point now, quick guy, mate. It's for sure what I do. I have a big disguise.

Yeah, I just listen to the parts where I talk. So an hour episode ends up becoming like, how are you on your mind pump game right now? I'm actually, what do you mean? I'm not your mind pump game. Like I haven't listened to our own episodes for a very long time. This is the longest I've gone without like listening to our own.

Here's what I'm guilty of. I'm guilty of listening to the beginning of our episodes where we don't talk about fitness. Yes. And then when we get into fitness, I don't listen. I don't listen. Well, that makes a lot of sense when you think about it because that's for ourselves, it's probably the most

entertaining part. If I'm gonna listen to anything, it's gonna be Justin and you making jokes or jabbing and all of us at each other, right? Versus, I already know all of your theories. And that's the thing. I already know exactly what's in your head, as far as your philosophy and what you're gonna say

and what studies are gonna recite. You know, it's like on all pilots in my head. It's the off the wall stuff for the you sharing a story about your kids or going in a topic like that that interests me more. Well, here's something I'll tell you something that I've noticed about myself because I'm very critical right when I hear,

when I listen to myself on the show. And I have a tendency to do this where you guys are gonna be like, no shit. Like I get passionate about something and I get so fucking passionate that I, the way I speak and come across is like, like this is the truth, like nothing else and aw, and I hear myself sometimes like,

oh, I come across a little too. Well, that's why we make a great balance, because I feel like that. And sometimes I have to take the bullet and be wrong just so I can challenge your certainties. So because somebody has to keep you in check with your fucking, I'm so sure about all this Advocate I get too I get too passionate maybe yeah, maybe that's what it is. What would you guys say your weaknesses are?

Making up words. Yeah, you have a weakness in making up words. Well, that's a strength of mine It's a strength that I make come up on into a string. Yeah, I turned to I turned a weakness into a strength I turn the weakness into a straight. No, for real. I don't have any. No, of course I do. Well, lately I feel like I have been ruffling a lot of feathers. And I don't know what that is. I don't know if I'm extra rum bunches.

Is that a word? Rambunctious. I like rum bunches. That's when you drink rum, and you get a little sponsor by Captain Morgan. It's rum munchies time. No, lately, some of the stuff that we've been talking about, we've been touching the third rail a lot lately.

We've been fucking it. I got on top of it. I've been sliding on top of it. Well, at the end of the day, I think, there's certain people that feel like that we have to speak a certain way. And I'm like, no, fuck that. Like, this is my show or our show.

I'm going to fucking say whatever I want to say. And I'm sure it's going to offend some people. But I care more about being true to myself than I care about what people think. To me, that's a better representation of integrity. And I believe that there's not enough of that in the world. And I feel like even myself, I feel we all are influenced by others so much

that everybody struggles. And I don't want just because I'm on a platform where tens of thousands or hundreds of thousands of people are listening to us that it's gonna sway how I think or how I talk, like I'm sorry, but I'm gonna share my opinion on things and I'm sure there's gonna be a lot of people that disagree and are offended by it,

but hey, it's me and I care more about being me than I care about appeasing everybody and giving you what you wanna hear. You know, it's going to change a lot of things is when people's internet searches become public because they will. Some point people's internet searches and what they look at will be accessible somehow to everyone else. And then when everybody sees how fucked up everybody is, then everyone's going to be cool.

You know what I'm saying? Yeah. Like, when you can look at that preacher over there and you look at his internet porn searches and you're like, yeah, right, dude. I see what you look at on the internet or what people, then you'll start to see people, start to chill out. You know what I'm saying?

Oh, dude, come on, bro. I mean, it's, you know, I'll tell you what right now. I think you identify a lot with that because you are, that's a lot of you what right now. I think you identify a lot with that because you are, that's a lot of you, right? Like you definitely, if you go through, if you, this is true too. Like if you literally, I would not be afraid,

I don't delete my history on my computer. You could go through and see my searches. Yeah, no, I don't think you would find anything weird. Well, what I mean is like, if everybody listening right now, I guarantee you can relate to this. At some point, you have conversations with people or a text thread with friends or something that if it went public, you would be judged very, very harshly.

Everybody, everybody does that, you know what I'm saying? So when we walk around and pretend like, it's all your dirt is out there. Everyone's dirt is gonna be out there than everyone's gonna be like, well, I guess we just saw. Well, I guess that feeds into my opinion, right, on that I feel like I care more about being true to myself,

because I feel like I can sleep at night, I'm comfortable, right? Like, no one's gonna find something out about me, be like, oh, I can't, Adam's totally like this guy, but he's so much better to be that. Right, like, okay, you may think I'm an asshole, but when you meet me, you know, you might actually find out that I'm a lot nicer of a guy, you're like better to be that one. Right, like, okay, you may think I'm an asshole, but when you meet me, you might actually find out that I'm a lot nicer of a guy, you're like,

at least that he, well, you also do the strategy where you, it's very effective, I've actually witnessed it firsthand, where people are like, oh man, I'm gonna meet that asshole, Adam, and then you're not that much of an asshole, and so because they expected you to be one, they're like, he's really nice. I'm not an asshole.

It's a very... Yeah, it's a very smart thing. What I am is I'm very blunt and candid. I think that I speak my mind and a lot of times it's not what somebody wants to hear. You know why I'm laughing right now? Because it's genetic. After meeting your uncle and hearing,

I'm like, God, that's good, after meeting your uncle, I'm like, wow, it's totally genetic. It's in the genes. It's in the genes. Great guy, he's a great guy, but it's super like the filter. And the irony is, you guys are just exactly the same.

Well, the irony in that is, and this is the whole nature versus nurture argument, right? Is, I mean, I had no real connection to him as a child. Like, we didn't get connected until I was older. Like, my mom and him don't really speak. And so I started to seek out my family as I got into my 20s because I got older. And, you know, there's a certain point,

I think every young man or young woman go where they realize, at least someone that's grew up like me where it was very disconnected from his family where you're used to that. And that's comfortable and normal for you. It's not a big deal family, where you're used to that, and that's comfortable and normal for you, it's not a big deal. But then you start to wonder like, oh, what would that been like?

Had I been connected to all my family members? And how much are we alike each other? And what can I learn from them? And so I started to seek out all of my family members. And it's one of the things that I do really enjoy about social media platforms like Facebook and Instagram, the ability to connect to people like that.

It allowed me to connect to a side of my family that I was disconnected. And my uncle and I, we really didn't get connected together. You know, they had a little bit of connection with me as a child, but not in real memories. He cracks me up, dude. Your uncle, and he doesn't give a shit. And I love that. I love that about him. It's hilarious.

And he's a good guy, too, he's a good guy. So it's not bad. It's a good, I constantly, constantly always, as long as I can remember, as the minute I was talking, I was getting in trouble for having a big mouth. Always, always, always, always. See, for me it was different. It was more of, you know, when I would joke around

and I would like disrupt the class, like I was constantly like class clowning, like trying to like get people's attention from that You know from that way and obviously you kind of see a little bit of that on the show But like that was something that always got me in trouble I would like get sent out of class one time like me and my friend both like as we just had this thing where we would just I mean we get bored like my problem is I get bored like I I Check myself on this all the time, because if we're talking about the same stuff

that I know is helping people, I'm gonna get really bored, because we've talked about it to death. And you know, I mean, you're not getting inappropriate joke. Yeah, and so I just kind of interrupt it and be like, you know, make it somewhat entertaining for myself, but yeah, I used to get sent out of class

all the time and I would have to sit out on this bench and, you know, and I, that all the time and I would have to sit out on this bench and You know, that was the only way I got in trouble. I was the kid that and my son's the same way I do and it cracks me up. I'll get these report cards and oral go meet with the teacher The teacher will say something like Okay, so I met I met up with the teacher a little while ago and that was like for open house or whatever and she goes Yeah, she goes so You know obviously I'm human.

And sometimes I'll make a mistake on the board or something. She goes, but can you please have a talk with your son because then he corrects me in a very condescending way in front of the classroom. And I'm just like, ooh. Because that was me, dude. I was that. I would raise my hand and I would debate the teacher

all the time, all the time. And I'd piss everybody off all the time. And sometimes I won. Not often because usually I was wrong because I was a kid, but sometimes I'd make a really good point. And then you'd see them get really frustrated and angry and I'd get in trouble for it. Did your parents, did your guys' parents keep a lot of your schoolwork and papers and things you wrote from when you were a child?

Yeah. Have you been through it in a long time? Yep, I looked through it in a long time? Yep. I looked through it not that long ago and in elementary school it all said it was all similar. It was all very bright, very intelligent. Daydreams a lot. Talks too much.

Could put more effort. So it was like, and it's, I mean, it's 100%. I was aware of it. Like I'd show up to class. I'd be super bored. Not stimulated. And I used to, literally, the teacher would be, especially in junior high, right? Junior high was just, I went to a shit junior high,

and most of my teachers were garbage, and they were, they were fucking garbage. Like, history class, what was his name? Mr. Stuff, what was his name? Mr. Sweeney. You're gonna railroad it, do you? Yeah, you sucked, Mr. Sweeney. You fucking idiot. He would right? Yeah, you suck, Mr. Sweeney. You're fucking idiot.

He would literally, he had a projector and he would put like the slides on the projector and it was the pages from the textbook. So all he would do is read the textbook, talk like, read verbatim. Yeah, like, here's the test in, this part, take it, turn it in. Now, it was it every day.

So I would sit in class and I didn't mind reading it. I had his 10 year. And I loved history. Anyway, so all I would do is sit in class and read the history book. So I'd be, I'd finish the history book, two months in the school and we're still on, the first part of it or whatever, and so I'd ask him for more books.

And then he'd get mad at me and he'd be like, you didn't read it and he'd try and quiz me and I'd get it right and then you get even more angry And he was just and I remember telling him I literally told my teacher that he was Wasting our time I said this in the class. Oh my god. How old are you this time? I was in seventh grade Wow, so I rose my I raised my no, I don't raise my hand I was reading the book because I was reading ahead so super bored and This is when I discovered that I really liked history was in seventh grade. So I'm just reading ahead and I'm reading about ancient history

and then American history I'm having a great time. And he called on me in class. And so caught me off guard. So I said, I didn't hear the question. And he's like, you're not paying attention. Blah blah blah blah. And he's getting on my case. And I'm like, just ask me the question again because I didn't hear the question. He's like, you're not paying attention, blah, blah, blah, and he's getting on my case. And I'm like, just ask me the question again

because I didn't hear it all the way. And so he asked me the question and I knew the right answer. And the class kind of laughed because I knew the answer. So he turns around and go back to his work and I said, excuse me, can I say something? And he turns around and he says, what? What would you like to waste our time

or something like that? It was like real snarky. And so I said, all you do is you sit up there and you read the textbook, and I can, Oh my God, you called him out like that. I said that we can, I said we can do on our own, I said, and I said, if this was a school that my parents were paying for, it'd be very, you know, where I could leave,

you wouldn't be a teacher, you're wasting everybody's time. I said, why are you wasting your time? Why are you doing this? And I got ripped, I got hammered for that, I got big trouble. But it was true, it was so fucking true. And that's my story, that's my life story. I've always had a big mouth and gotten a trouble

for calling people out for it. It's funny that my mom just moved, right? So she literally just moved into a new place. And so she was sending me pictures of old essays and stuff that I had wrote. And I got, it's crazy how much I forgot. Like I just don't remember. She sent me over some paper that I wrote on the future

on what I saw on my own futures. No way, what I said. No, it's pretty crazy. I'll send it over to you guys. Is it accurate? Yeah, it's pretty accurate. It's accurate as far as my values, right? Like the things that I value, I valued that even young.

Like even when I was a young child, you could see in my writing, you could see my ambition well before any sort of real job. I mean, it was, I think it was 13 or 14 of this essay that I read. And the exact same way too, like all the grammar is fucked up, but if you could get the point across to me. It's not this change.

Not much is changed, but it was well written as far as the point that I was making, right? But for sure, grammatically. Did you guys daydream a lot? Oh, so we're all a lie. I didn't never challenge my teachers to that point, which you just, that's why I was fascinated to hear that story. But like, I was always a class clown, so I was always goofing off.

I skated through school with a 3.0 plus GPA, but never applying myself. I, in fact, I remember in high school, it became what I actually used to get off on was how much I could not pay attention, fuck around in school, and still pass all the tests and do good enough. Right. So, right.

So, you know what's funny about that trait? That's actually the trait, that's a common trait amongst entrepreneurs, is figuring out you hack the system. Well, what you're doing is you're actually prioritizing your time. And you're like, well, if I can dedicate this little time and get the desired outcome, which is at this grade, then I can spend time doing these other things. Like playing basketball. It's my whole game. Yeah, my whole game in my head was to figure the teacher out in their patterns. So I would just like pay attention to like what kind of homework they would give, like what kind of

questions they would ask. And then like when it came to test time, like, like you literally knew like, oh, she's trying to trick me here. And then I would pick, you know, accordingly. And I would every time we'd get it right. And once I figured out their pattern, sometimes it would take me like to the end of the semester to figure them out. I had a teacher figure me out really well. And she was very effective with this one thing that she did.

And so it was my, I think it was my journalism class. I was actually in journalism. I wrote some really good articles, by the way. Not good. I shouldn't say good, but really hilarious articles. One of them was like, what's the most effective martial art? Like, I wrote this opinion piece, obviously. So, and it was great.

But she, I would piss her off all the time because I would talk back or I would debate or I would piss her off all the time because I would talk back or I would debate or I would question things. And she figured me out about halfway through the school year. She took me outside. She actually stopped the class. And I forgot what it was. I must have said something that pissed her off.

So she stopped the whole class. And she said, Sal, come with me outside. I need to have a talk with you somewhere. And the class was like, ooh. So I go outside with her. I can't remember her name. I'll remember her name later. But anyway, she takes me outside and she goes, and she was very, this was very clever. She said, Sal, she goes, the entire classroom follows what you do. And they listen to what you say. And I need your help because a lot

of these kids need help in this class. And she put it on me like that. And from from from from that day knowing when she said that, first like that. And from, from that, from that day of knowing, when she said that, first of all, she said, she empowered you, right? She empowered me and she made me believe. Smart leader. And whether this was true or not, that these kids, they follow me and I need,

it's not just me that I'm fucking with, it's them. So from the rest of the school year, man, I was like, quiet, I did what she said. I was very obedient. And I remember that. That was a very smart strategy. Well, talk about a very powerful moment in your life, too. Would you say that was, because you got to,

even though we all probably have a bad taste in our mouth for public schools or schools in general, what do you have a teacher that impact you positively, that you say like, okay, that was a solid teacher or that is something that is shaped and formed my character? So I had, yeah, I can remember, there was a few of them and that's why I remember them so well, but I had a psychology class that I took

and the instructor encouraged debate and discussion. You guys got psychology in high school? I think it was an elective. Oh, for our test psychology, we didn't get college. We didn't get that till college. And he encouraged debate discourse. He would come up with a subject and have us debate them. And then he would, first he would ask us our opinion

on the subject, and then he asked us to debate the opposite, which was brilliant for him to do. Like, I have to debate the opposite side of what I believe. I found myself just fascinating by this particular class and really enjoying the discussions that we had and the open environment. He was pretty impactful. There was a teacher in elementary school that I really enjoyed because she also figured me out and would, you know, say these, you know, like the teacher I just talked about, she would say certain things

to me like that, that would really empower me. And so that had a big impact on me. But for the most part, it was so unmemorable that I couldn't, I couldn't tell you, you know, five teachers' names. I'm the same way. I literally can, I can, I can only actually think of one teacher that really impacted me like that. And it was my sophomore year. She was my English teacher, ironically, right? And they actually, it came up to me

and almost identical conversation. So it's really crazy. It's so funny how many parallels you and I have, it trips me out when I hear stories that you talk about. And I like, God damn that we couldn't be more like on some things. This teacher, so it was my English class. Again, I think I was only getting like a B in the class. But I goofed off. I was the class clown. Like definitely was the leader of the group, but in I could make everybody distracted, I could get everybody into the whatever the subject was that we were learning about. And she recognized that and she had conversations with me afterwards of making me feel like everybody looked up to me. And I remember feeling that way. And then she also went on to say that I think that

you should take advanced English. I remember being like, fight kidding me, like I have a hard time putting two sentences together, right? Like, grammatically, I knew I wasn't good. Like, my papers always, my papers always came back, like, chalked up, like, fucking red marks all over the place, right? So, I didn't think that I was really good, but she,

because you equated grammar with writing. Exactly, not the actual content. And she is the one that built my confidence in the ability to write still and to not allow the grammatical part to hold me back, to she thought my ability to speak my mind and express myself was very unique and she made me feel unique about that and she empowered that in me. And then from then on in school, so those last two years of high school, I was in advanced English. And it was her who made me, who built that confidence and to not allow those, those minor details to, you know, those are, she's like, these are things that you can work on, putting a comma here, capitalizing that, run on sentences, basic shit like that. She's like,

but your ability to put your thoughts in your mind on a piece of paper was very, very unique. And so she made me feel that way and empowered. And a subject that I was not drawn to or didn't like was something that I later on fell in love with. And I still do. I enjoy all the way up into adulthood and working for companies I used to. I used to write people's emails to their superiors and then I would have somebody go over and grammatically come back and clear. Still very similar stuff that I do this day. Like if there's something that,

what I, if I have a thought or I have something, I can express it really well as far as how I organize it is not a very, very good at all. But that was probably the only real teacher that, like I miss Goble, I remember her name, I can't remember probably any other teacher's name going through high school. And then the only two subjects that really appealed to me

in college was psychology, was that was my first experience in psychology, was freshman year of college, and man, I love that. My love, that became, that, that became very passionate about that. And then later on, went on to read on my own. And then, what other subject did I really like? You know, I didn't have anything else that I remember. I remember a lot of stuff I did not like,

like a cated history, so I was not into history at all. Math, I loved, I liked math too. So math, probably like statistics, and getting into like analytics stuff like that stuff that you Is obvious that's the part of the business that I enjoy with what we currently do now And psychology like those were subjects. Oh an art history. I should take that. That was a subject I would have never thought I liked in college and took an art history class and fell in love with that Yeah, I think if we empowered kids a little bit more It would be so effective. I mean can you think of I can't think of and fell in love with that. Yeah, I think if we empowered kids a little bit more,

it would be so effective. I mean, can you think of, I can't think of, in terms of potential influence on our children, I can't think of anyone, aside from their parents, teachers, I can't think of anyone more. Teachers and coaches. Yeah, I mean, there's a lot of potential for influence there, and it's incredible how little value we place on those two positions

Because they're they're they can really shape and mold You know the direction of shot. I know I know people who Went to school. I had a client who Very advanced degree super intelligent guy. He actually Runs a very large tech company. So I can't say his name or the company because people know who he is right away. But let's just say he's a big mover and a big player. And he thought that he was, first of all, he hated school growing up and thought he was

not smart until he met a teacher that, like you said, with the English teacher kind of explained to him that he just thought differently and to look at things differently ended up Going to college and this guy graduated MIT Got into MIT and graduated and was just top of his class. Yeah, that's what it takes I mean like like unfortunately Most I most teachers like they they just want to kind of show up and then want to be there and then run to the curriculum. But if they really took the time to connect with these students, it took a long time for me to connect with the teachers. So you guys are mentioning specific people.

I really can't attribute any kind of influence any of these teachers had on me, as far as like going up through high school and like, you know, elementary and all that. Even in college for you? It took till college. And I didn't really, really find my passion. Like, I was good at like the sciences. Like that was like a little bit of my passion was the sciences I hated math. And I was good at English.

And I had some, some teachers try and steer me in English just like you to some degree. But it took so college where I finally like connected with this teacher who let me run a lab, a biomechanics lab. And I went through, I think it was Urgogenic AIDS was the course. But I was actually able to take all the students on campus and I ran them through all these different tests. And then I got really fascinated with all the variances between everybody and then started charting all this stuff for them and then giving them all the feedback.

And he was like, wow, you went to such great detail with this and he really pumped me up about it and was like, you know, you're, I could tell you're passionate about this. And that didn't even resonate with me until later on, I was like, wow, I've been doing all these, like I work out. And this is part of like, I got a scholarship to play football and half of my time was split. That was a job in itself. And then trying to cram while the studying at the same time. And, you know, I was really driven by anatomy and like the human body and like just how

sophisticated and how intricate all these things are. And so that's, it really took a while, man. It took a while for me to connect and find my own way with it. So, yeah. Yeah. I mean, two things come to mind when we talk about this particular subject. You know, we're talking a lot about teachers.

Are you gonna touch the third rail right now? No, I'm not. I'm not. I'm done doing it. I'm done doing it. We're on a roll right now. Are you gonna go where I think going? I don't think this is a third rail, but, you know,

a lot of, I, because more than half my family are teachers. My mom's a teacher, my sister's a teacher, my late ex-mother-in-law, she was a teacher, my aunt's teachers. And teachers are really hamstrung by the system. Teaching children, if you have kids, or you've ever been in education,

or you've ever taught kids, or any that stuff, you know how individual education is. Like, all kids learn differently, different areas are different. There's different circumstances. Like, when I'm coaching clients or when I'm teaching a class myself, I know that I have to follow the students that I have in front of me. I know that. I can't teach everybody the same because it's just not effective.

And this is true for parenting as well. If you have three kids, each one of them, you may have to be a little bit different for each one of them in certain respects because one may be motivated one way and one may be motivated another way. And you know, it's just, you know, one kid may put a lot of pressure on themselves

so putting more pressure on them just makes them, you know, crack, whereas another kid maybe needs a little bit of pressure on themselves, so putting more pressure on them just makes them, you know, crack, whereas another kid, maybe needs a little bit of pressure. So I think teachers are hamstrung because they're, they're, they have to follow certain criteria, they can't do certain things, they don't have flexibility to do certain things,

and that hurts their ability to do their job, because teachers, the ones that I know at least, and go into it because they really have a passion for working with kids. And I just think staying in the system for years kills it and a lot of people because you're so you're so stuck like no you've got to teach to this test you have to do this particular standard this is the system and that's it where where I trust the teacher way more than I trust some centralized you know program that goes out from right you know Washington or something I trust some centralized program that goes out from Washington or something.

I trust the teacher, because the teacher's in the classroom. So that's really the first thing. Second thing is, and there's been this now for a generation at least, this mischaracterization of what self-esteem really means. We've been taught to pump up our kids with self-esteem by telling them they're awesome all the time, but that's not how you build self-esteem really means. We've been taught to pump up our kids with self-esteem by telling them they're awesome all the time, but that's not how you build self-esteem.

Real self-esteem is built from encountering a challenge, a difficult challenge, and then figuring out a way to overcome it. And then you build it and overcoming it. Then you build self-esteem. Like, if I was, you know, if I, and just super wealthy all the time, and everybody gives everything to me all the time, I might have this false self of sense of self-esteem,

but when I encounter in real life of my first real problem and my entire life I've never really encountered a challenge and I failed that, that's not gonna, I'm not gonna succeed. Whereas if my life has been a string of challenges and overcoming them and challenges overcoming them. Now when I encounter a challenge, I am confident that I am going to come out of this either succeeding or learning. And I think that's a big problem. I think children need to be a lot, like we need to let them fail sometimes and then sit down with them and work through that

and show them how they can work through it or how they can learn from it. And that's, I think, a big problem in our current education system. We're afraid to let kids have these challenges. Like, you can't even, you know, certain games aren't allowed in school because there's winners and losers. Or, you know, we have to kind of be careful

with how we, like, it's okay to tell a kid, like, look, man, this project, you just, you lost, bro, you suck. You didn't do well, and it's because you didn't put any effort, or you did put a kid, like, look man, this project, you just, you didn't, you lost, bro, you suck. You didn't do well and it's because you didn't put any effort or you did put a lot of effort, but I think maybe this is something that's a little more challenging for you. So what are you gonna do?

You're gonna work harder? Or are you gonna give up? Or look at this other subject that you seem to enjoy. You know, even when you praise kids, it's even when you, when you give kids praise, one of the worst things you can do, like if your kid comes home with a good grade, like I got an A plus on my math test,

don't tell you kid how smart they are, and I know that sounds crazy, but when you tell your kid like, oh, you got an A plus, you're such a smart kid, you are going to reinforce this identity in them that they're the smart kid that they'll never do bad at anything, so when they do encounter something where they're not,

it doesn't come easy to them. They're afraid to even try it. They don't want to shatter this image of them being the smart kid. Instead, what you should do is, oh, you got an A on this test. It looks like you worked really hard. I was gonna say, I would even go further

instead of telling them anything. I'd be asking, like, how do you think you got that? Like, why do you think you got it right? That's right. Yeah. You know, and get them thinking to help them connect the dots on, and then to reconfirm them connect the dots on and then to Reconfirm that after they tell you right like oh, you know, I studied really hard data I did this or I you know made sure I got all my homework assignments in or you know, I did this I went extra mile and helping them

Connect those dots and then going back and saying yes, I see what happens when you do those little things and this is This is how you you know what what happens when you do those little things. And this is how you, you know, what happens when you do that. Yeah, my kid did a report on, it was a country report and had to pick a country, he picked Japan. And there were two parts to it. There was a written part, and then there was a oral part. And he scored like the top grade that you could get for the oral part.

And for the written part, he got like a B, a passing B and the comments where you could have put more effort into this part. And so when I saw this I asked him, he goes, oh, I got an A here and I got a B here and he said, which one did you like more? It goes, well, I love the oral part. And I said, well, do you think that reflects in your grade? And he goes, yeah, and he said, why? He goes, well, I liked it, so I spent a lot of time on it. And I said, well, that's exactly what you spend more time at is what you're going to do better at. And so I was really trying to reinforce that with them instead of saying, you know, you're

so smart or whatever. Just kind of helping him connect the dots that you enjoyed it. That's why you worked harder at it. And that's why you got a better result. And if you want better results, then you're gonna have to apply yourself a little bit more. And if you don't apply yourself then don't be upset or shocked that when you get a bad result.

Cause that's just a reflection of the effort. Well, at the end of the day too, it's setting them up for reality, right? Like this whole, and I don't know when it started. Like it feels like it's been the last like 10 years or whatever we went on this, like everybody gets a ribbon, everybody gets a trophy, like tell everybody how great they are no matter what. It's's like well? Why would we do that to them as kids when real life ain't like that?

Like I didn't get you don't go out you get evaluated at your job This is a reality that we all face. I mean it's if you do shit work like it's not gonna fly Like you're gonna get fired and more often not, you do a lot of hard work, you do a lot of good stuff, and it doesn't get recognized. And you don't get praised. Exactly, you don't get praised. And you don't get praised, and you don't get the raise, and you don't win, and sometimes you even still get fired.

Like how does that kid handle that situation when he's been doing told his whole life, how fucking great he is, and how good it everything is, the first time that he does all the things he thinks about how extreme that is for entrepreneurs. Right. You're out there by yourself. You fail, it's all on you. There's nobody you can even blame it on but yourself.

And what a hard decision to make. I'm going to put myself all the way out there. When I fail, it's very like, like obvious. Why? Absolutely. I think, I think teaching kids that it's a game of odds and numbers, you're going to try a lot, work hard many, many times you're going to fail, but your odds of succeeding are much higher when you apply yourself. It's not a guarantee, but it definitely increases your odds, and that you control a lot more than you think, but there are things you can't control, and things you can't control.

Don't worry about. I just thought of a... You were talking about your kid applying himself and really enjoying it and being the oral part of it. So I just remembered another class that I actually did enjoy in college, which was speech. And I don't know if I shared this story on Mind Pump before, but I remember writing a speech.

At that time, I was working at the dairy, right? So I was a bovine mammary extraction technician. And such a great title. Right, I love to throw that around. Like it was really important. I made a whole $5 an hour or whatever. Gweezing the mutters, baby. So we had had these you know, you put the machine on the cows right to milk them and the inside of the machine are these rubber inserts and

They look Spot on to like it like a dildo. I mean they they're all the rubbery. They're ribbed They're shaped kind of weird like they totally look like this, this sexual toy, right? And I know that like, most people are probably not, we grew up in somewhat of a farm town area, but I'm in the college, which is another hour outside of there, so it's not, we're in the city.

So I know a lot of people have probably never even seen this tool before, and I have to give a speech, and I believe it was a descriptive speech. And most people, what they would do is like someone like brought like a painting of, you know, that was passed down their family and they described the whole painting or someone brought like some trophy and described it,

like the story behind all of it. And so I decided to bring this up and I set the big rubber dildo looking thing up on the front. And right away, everybody's like, oh shit. right away, the class is like, you know, chattering back and forth. And instead of telling everybody what the thing was, I chose to describe what it's used for and how you get ready to use it with lubricant and everything before you put it on the cow. And like, so I did this whole descriptive speech on this tool and I told the speech in reverse

by describing everything it's used for, can be used for, and then at the very end I told the whole class was just like, roaring the whole time. Oh yeah, I had to stop so many times to like, and you could see like the look on the teacher's face, the whole time was like, of course I hit it out the park once they finally figured out what it was

because it was so creative. But I did really enjoy it. I kinda reminds me of this. This is an art class though. I did actually really well in art. And it's nothing that I really like, I only took maybe two classes and I fucking loved it, but I never took more,

but this teacher had an assignment that she sent out to everybody. You had to incorporate like three different things and you had to do it in a way where it was, it all flowed together. And so, you know, everybody's kind of creating like a background is part of like the one idea. You know, there's something in that background and they're just trying to tie all these different things together.

Well, I'm trying to remember specifically, I had like an owl and I had like some kind of a girl and then outer space. And so I incorporated all these different concepts together. Sounds like a sci-fi dream. Yeah, so I drew this, okay, I'm trying to remember this, but it was like a moon. And on top of the moon, I had this owl.

And the owl had eyes, but the eyes were like breasts. And then, no, it was a VW bug. That was the other one. So there's a VW bug, so I had the VW things in its eyes. Anyways, I pulled it all together. And it was so obvious. You know, the teacher loved it. She was like, whoa, this is so creative.

What about a class that you guys fucking did terrible in or a class and that you just, you hated it and had it right away, math. You know why I hated math? College algebra. Because math required, math required me to do homework every day. And I was the king of getting by and passing all my classes without ever doing homework. So now my grade is heavily dependent

on me actually doing homework. And I was just, I was fucking, I just, I shut it off. Yeah, math was a subject that I, you know what I fucking failed at and did really, I didn't really fail. I think I got a C minus in the class, which was one of the lowest grades I got.

And I believe I even had a D at one point in this class was chemistry. Hmm. Chemistry, which is funny, because we're in science. You would think that I would enjoy it. And I like math, and it's like science meets math is what chemistry really is. But I could not- I would not chemistry. And I was looking back now as an adult, and I'm trying to like, like, what was it about

that class that I just could not, you know, why a subject that I feel like I'm more interested in now and as an adult, like I feel like I would, I would be intrigued. I remember like, like, there are a lot of growing marijuana, which I've got. It's chemistry. Yeah, it's chemistry. And I just loved it as an adult when I dove into it. And I had to learn all that. I was maybe because when they were teaching though, like the whole, like, had a, had a combined element. It's your man.

Well, I had a teacher that would let us blow shit up and we would fill these balloons with gas and then line them on fire. And we'd create all these crazy reactions with water. And it was just exciting because you just started to see how you could combine all these elements together and things would happen And so I just got really sucked into it. So it's funny you say that because I'm thinking back right out of that teacher

And I actually do remember this teacher Mr. Salazar Salza or something like that he Super feminine guy and you know as a as a young boy I didn't have a father figure in in life. I was basically raised by my mother. And when I look at the men that I was drawn to, I tend to be drawn to men that were very masculine, because I had two sisters, I had a mother. So I had a lot of those feminine traits in the home I grew up in.

You know, as a... And so I felt like when I met a real dominant masculine type of man, like already you would probably have my attention. And this guy was like super, super feminine the way he delivered his class, I think I was already turned off by it. And I just could never connect. I couldn't connect. And I look back now thinking like that should have been a subject.

I should have loved, but I struggled the whole year to get through that and it was, and when I think about classes that I absolutely hated, that one in history, in history I, again, this teacher was reminds me of the teacher you talked about, about just putting stuff on the, I had a history teacher who literally like, the way he did it, instead of putting on it,, we did every day was like round robin reading and it was, and so you

open up chapter one and that's lazy teacher. Each, each kid would go around and read a page or two. That's lazy teacher. Read, read out loud and he sat big old fat old guy, sat behind the desk and he just sat there while each one of us went around and read. That's so lazy. Oh, it was painful. That's so lazy. It was so painful and I could not get into anything to do with the subject whatsoever. And forever from that point on, went on not enjoying history.

And he taught history and guv, right? What was it in high school? It was a government. Yeah, government history. Your government was a good guy. History and government together. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Terrible.

Those were probably the ones I didn't like. I think what's fascinating to me, I should say, is how humans, especially children, are really learning machines. And what I mean by that is they're driven to learn. Humans in general, this is what we're, this is like our number one driver is to learn new things, novelty, to become obsessed with particular subjects and to learn everything about it.

And if you don't believe me, I mean, you can see any kid, the worst student that you can find in the classroom, you'll find something that they're into that may be outside of school that they know everything about. Whether it's Pokemon cards or Minecraft or when we were kids, comic books and baseball cards and shit like that, like we're learning machines

and really are failure to educate because really our school system is in many ways, not in all ways to make it relatable. And in many ways it's doing very, very poorly. And it's because they're not that they're not teaching well necessarily. It's that they're stopping the learning process. That naturally happens. Kids and even adults, we have this desire to constantly learn things.

And I didn't really, you know, I looking back at myself, I recognize it all. But as when I was a kid, I didn't even know I had that. I just thought that I was just, I didn't like school and I liked learning about these other things over here. So I'd go home and I'd read about those things. I mean, when I was 13 and I got into resistance training, I mean, I read books and books on exercise, the human body.

I learned chemistry because I wanted to know the pharmacology of supplements. I wanted to learn hormones and how they worked the human body. I learned chemistry because I wanted to know the pharmacology of supplements. I wanted to learn hormones and how they worked in the body. This was all of my own. And we don't tap into that. Instead, we block it with our current systems and parts. Not only do we block it, but the thing that I like I trip out on is,

how many of friends do you have like this that went to college to get their bachelor's or their master's or maybe even their PhD that once they got out of college, they were fucking done. They literally are like, I read enough books in the last eight years plus that they don't continue to put, then they go into some job that's nine to five that pays them good enough to get by, and they really stop growing because they're over continuing learning. They don't want to, they're so turned off by it.

I've had a ton of friends that are like that. I like that for a while myself. Yeah, and you understand, I get it, like I understand, like you, because- You felt like you were forced. Well, yeah, well, and for the most part, education for me, from all the different types of teachers I've had was like it was all based off of like how much you could memorize and regurgitate and

Like I just I hate that kind of learning like I feel like that that is like I Just don't feel like I'm absorbing and applying like I feel like I'm just giving them what they want to hear. And I could easily just take all these bullet points and memorize it and then present it back on their test in whatever format they're giving me, whether it's like, A, B, or C, multiple choice. I want to understand why. They never could explain to me like, okay, this is a theory, but like I know what you're trying to say, but why? Why? And like, how am I going to apply this in my life? Yeah, it's, it's such an old model. It's an old model. It's a Puritan model of putting

kids, treating them like robots, putting them in chairs, all the same age. Here's memorize this, recurgitate this, forget it as soon as we take a test. And then, that's what I would do. I would forget it. It's a very old model and it's just more and more the modern world is showing that that is a dated model. Well, I would love to hear some apical things that you guys give to your children to combat that, right?

They, I mean, because are there certain things that you got? I mean, you talked a little bit about how you tell how to teach your kid a basically to unpack an A, right? You got an A. It's not great jobs on your smart. It's, let's unpack that and let's figure out how you got to that and connecting that dot. I think that's incredible.

Yeah, so first I explained to my kids that the way life works currently, modern societies, is people want to see those things before they even pay attention to what you have to say or before you get certain jobs. So sometimes you have to play the game and that's just life, right? You got to play the game sometimes, even if, because I know, I know, like my son's already asked me, he's 11, right? He's already asked me or pointed out certain things like, why am I learning this way when

it's not, I'm not remembering it afterwards or why are they making us do it this way? And I'm trying to explain to him like, you're right, it's ineffective and efficient. However, this is the game that you have to play sometimes and that's just life. Sometimes you have to do certain things because that's the way things are run. You get a job and you got to pay bills like reality sets and you got to play by the rules. And if you want to change it, the best way you can change it is you get in the system. And then you influence it. And influence it from the inside.

That's really the most effective way. But the other thing is we just discuss. We have lots of discussions. So if they're learning a particular subject, then we'll sit down and I'll ask them about it. And then we'll talk about it and ask them why, and what do you think here, and have you ever seen this in real life, or you know what, does a really fucking good job?

Way better than I've seen the school systems do, is YouTube has got some crazy resources for kids. Like my kids watch, and we watch them together, Ted has these Ted Ed videos that are for kids and Swear as the future I'll watch some of these and they're compelling. Yeah, they're entertaining and they're super informative and we'll watch a few of them together and then I'll leave the room or whatever to do something else and my kids will go through You know 15 videos on videos on whatever subject, you know, interest them, it's cool.

Yeah, like why, you know, how does the climate work or why does water do this? Or, and they'll be like, oh, this is cool. Or, you know, the riddle that had never been answered. Like, these are the titles that they use. And so my kids will click on them and watch them and just learn this particular information. And when you do that, you know, I mean, we're all,

I don't know why you even have to argue this. I mean, think about all the things that you know like the back of your hand. These are all things that are interested in. I don't remember shit that I'm not interested in, just doesn't work. But things that I'm really into. Well, and that can change based off of the teacher, right?

If the teacher influences you like and can speak in a way that like exudes this passion towards the subject like that's contagious and I feel like that's why Ted like those talks are so compelling and because they have this this great amount of passion that they're bringing in and then they present it in a way where it excites the entire audience about whatever the fuck it is. where it excites the entire audience about whatever the fuck it is. It's so like, it's such an effective way to get that learning to happen. I think we're going to see in the next decades to come, the next few decades to come. We're going to see the most radical change in education than we've ever,

than we've seen since the beginning of our current model, which was probably established, I would say, in the 1800s. What do you guys say, what do you see right now in the difference between, because you both have two kids, what do you see in their ability to learn or how they learn? Are they different? Are they both similar, as far as how they learn? Well, so my kids are younger than Sals, but one's in pre-school, and then Ethan's approaching second grade. But for the most part, you could see their strengths already. Ethan's very, very good at math. He's so easy and natural for him. That's just such a subject that resonates with him. I don't have

to really help him to understand and relate. He just starts to think about that on his own. He'll just put all these things together. When I'm exchanging money, he starts adding it up in his head and you just see his little wheels turning without already. And so I'm just trying to help him kind of with other things as far as English and grammar and all these kinds of stuff. But yeah, my youngest is very, very much a kinesthetic learner. And I mean, he's just, he's hands on, hands on, and it's very much like me. Like I had to be in the trenches and he's just like, I don't know, you could see just kind of what drives him. Like it loves to build things.

And I just, I remember that. Like that was like, one of those things I always wanted to have my hands on something and figure out why, like how it works and like, you know, what had to happen to make this building, you know, stand up the way it did and like all that kind of stuff. So, my, so my daughter is a pleaser.

So as far as grades are concerned, I think she's always gonna get good grades because she's always trying to please the teacher, please her parents, she wants to show that she does well. So she, I'll practice on her own, we have a dry erase board that I bought for her and she'll do math on it, she'll practice spelling words on her own

because she's she's really started to identify with being a hard worker and with you know giving good grades and so I'm trying to you know also talk to her about why the why we learn these things and do you enjoy it or is it just that you enjoy doing well like the difference between the two. My son is very he will do what is necessary to get by. And then he won't do any extra. Because he can do very well. He can get away with doing a plot. When he's passionate about something,

I mean, the kid will absorb things and learn things to depth, that are just shocking. He'll talk about a subject that he's just into. And it's great getting corrected by your own kid. You know, my son did that the other day. I don't remember what we were talking about. I was talking about stars or something. He goes, no, actually it works like this. And, you know, and all this is that's me. And you know, it's cool. I try actually my, I forgot who pointed this out to me, but something that

we do as parents that may not be a good thing is that when your kid tries to correct you, it's to immediately say no, I'm the parent, I know. What's better is to give them the respect to be like, oh, is that how it is? Let's look it up and see if that's true. To let them know that you respect their opinion and they may be wrong and they may be right.

And so I'll do that now. My son will say something. I was like, oh really, where did you read that? Is that really how it works? Oh cool. And then we'll look it up and be like, they may be right. And so I'll do that now. My son will say something, I was like, oh really where did you read that? Is that really how it works? Oh cool. And then we'll look it up and be like, oh my God. Yeah, that's the confidence that they're bringing in with that. But yeah, let's fact check.

Well, also to show them that, you know, I respect his opinion. But I think, you know, it's interesting. I think we're going to see some huge shifts for a couple of different reasons. The first reason being that school, especially higher education, the cost of it has exploded so much faster than inflation that it's scary how expensive it's getting.

And it's getting to the point where certain positions, there's certain jobs that people will get that require school, that people are starting to do the math and we're already seeing a reduction in people applying for these particular degrees. For example, if you go to medical school and let's say you get a loan for all of it and you want to be a general practitioner, you're going to graduate with around $100,000 in debt, sometimes more to pay on the school, it could be up to $200,000 in debt and a general practitioner Coming right out of school will make barely over six figures and you're talking about someone who's now probably maybe 30 after they do

Internship or whatever or late 20s if they really cram with $100 something thousand with the debt making maybe a hundred grand year, and these people are looking at the math and going, it's not worth it. It's not like if I leave school or study this other thing that takes the same amount of time, I'll make much more while spending the same amount. So we're going to get these shortages of particular positions because the money is starting to become so expensive that it doesn't make any sense. I mean, if it gets to the point where it will, if the trajectory continues this way, if it continues this way, imagine if it costs you $300,000

and eight to 10 years after high school, to graduate to make a hundred grand a year, is it worth it at that point? When you could get a job out of school, working in management and business, working for a big chain something, making that same amount eight years later, but having no debt. You said I'm saying, or investing your money.

What if you invested it and you were smart? So people are starting to add these things up. So that's one of the reasons why I think there's going to be a huge change in education. The second reason is the accessibility of information is so easy and so cheap that it makes no sense to go to college, take a class, and then that class required you to buy this book that costs $300 fucking dollars. Tell me where in the market, anywhere in the market that a book costs $300.

Besides one that's signed and rare by some, right? It's crazy, It's a monopoly. It makes no sense. It's superinflated. I think the school system is going to have to change because I can download that book for almost free. You see what I'm saying? It's insane to me that they're going to charge you $300 for a book.

It just doesn't make market sense. You can be really thrifty these days if you're trying to get a really solid education. And I feel like... That's what I'm saying. I think it's going to change the reason the reason why I mean a lot of people they just want the status. They want to feed the the ego of it and they want they want to kind of come in like well I graduated from you know this prestigious you know academic institution

and really all it is is like it's it's this paper on the wall that they want to make sure that everybody knows about whereas you could like you could seriously go through and you could get all that same information now so easily. You know how many people get job? Matt Damon and Goodwill Hunting said it best right? Right. Or anybody talks about that. It's it's about a map.

Now what about what do you think though about the fear, what I think like, because I definitely agree and I say that, I believe it's changing, I believe that, you know, your TED Talks, TED Education, those type of things are the future of education because how fast and free we can get so much of this great information.

Now the next question or the challenge to that that I would think is how do we do this and avoid confirmation bias? Because if you pay attention to how you to Google any search engines work, your next recommended article or video is just reconfirming whatever it is you search for. So for example, like we were joking earlier on before we turned on the podcast about how many people are actually believed that the earth is flat still and that there's actually a large population of people that still is.

So I got on there and said, prove I Google or YouTube searched proof that the earth is flat and got a ton of great videos, you know, recommended. And I started watching them and they're good. They're like, they bring a compelling argument, and then the next one recommended to me is another one that gives a compelling argument.

And so what ends up happening is you could easily go down this rabbit hole of information that is biased because of the how the search engine works on Google and YouTube. Do you have, do you guys, you can make a certain, so it's kids searching? Well, so two things, that's always happened, right?

People have always kind of gone in that direction of confirming what they know. Yeah, but now it's being fed to you versus we're before, like of course, like, okay, if you have a certain belief in a religion, like you go to your one religious book for all the answers versus maybe actually... Well, so the question, searching yourself the opposite.

No, I get what you're saying. So the question really becomes this, because that's true, that can become a problem. But the question becomes, who then do we trust to deliver this information to everybody? Right, that's the defining, yeah. Because then you have to put someone in poor. You teach your kids to always, okay, son or daughter,

when you search this, this is how you search the opposite. That's what you think about. And you should watch and listen and read both. That's it, because I always put more trust in people as individuals than I do into some central power that says, here's what we have to learn, here's what we have to know, everybody's gonna learn this particular way.

Look, our school system to a certain point has been public now for a while. Okay, so a lot of our education has been public for a long time. Look at what they've taught us in public education. Some of the stuff is good and some of it is obviously very, very biased. Like, we don't learn really much about,

certain cultures and their influences on American culture. We don't learn about other takes on certain things. I'll give you an example, okay. Vietnam War. What you'll learn in school about the Vietnam War is how we went in there to fight communism and how there was an incident called the Gulf of Tonkin incident where one of a ship got sunk and then that propelled us into war and we did it because we got attacked first. Well, the re and by the way, this is confirmed the reality is that never happened. It never happened. The Gulf of Tonka incident was never an incident. It was something that we used to motivate the population to wanting to go to war. And this has happened many, many times.

And the public school system being owned and controlled by the government is going to push a lot of these narratives. And you're going to come out of them being like, oh, this is what had so who do you put in control of all this information? And I don't trust anybody to do that. I trust individuals way more. Now does this mean that individuals aren't gonna make stupid decisions and some of them are gonna believe that the earth is flat and stuff like that?

No, but I think that that's gonna happen no matter what. And I'd rather, what you gotta understand is when you have someone who centrally controls things, the power to really fuck shit up is much higher on that level than it is on the individual basis. And so I always say, you know, it's kind of a lesser to evils or which one is better. It's tough, man, because like what's the current state where we're at, it's like who really is doing field research?

You know, who actually has their hands in the subject? Who's got, who's got decades behind this information that have done the hard labor intensive research to hone in on becoming an expert in that field. Versus just getting some sensationalized YouTube video that adds a bunch of shitty graphics that will capture your attention and that will sway you in that direction. This is going to be a battle.

This is the battle of over information. And now, how do we feed, how do we slice through this? And where do we even find, I'm getting kind of frustrated because I know some people that have been swayed by just sensationalized videos and I just can't believe it, man. You know, that fear that you're explaining has always existed throughout all of human history. Every single time information has been more accessible,

there's always been a fear that, what if the wrong information, what if everybody learns the wrong always been a fear that, what if the wrong information, what if everybody learns the wrong things? We need to control what people learn. Like when the printing press came, you know, was invented, the first biggest seller was the Bible. The second one was Marco Polo's World Travel. Like there's a book where Marco Polo talks about going to all these exotic countries and seeing all these different things. That was the second most popular book. It must have blown people's minds at a time when people didn't even leave their own village.

It must have blown people's minds. The church was very opposed to the printing press. It was very because they were the teachers of information. They were the centralized authority. And they literally would say things like, the wrong information is going to come out. People are going to sin. People are going to be bad. Like, they're going things like the wrong information is gonna come out. People are gonna sin, people are gonna be bad, like they're gonna learn the wrong things. It's just always been kind of the rally cry of those people who control information. And right now, we're hearing the school system education system say this.

They're the ones that are coming out saying, no, we need to control information. We need to control people learn because there's so much bullshit out there. And there is a lot of bullshit. And a lot of it's being promoted by the fucking educators and by the schools as well. So I never has more information been a net negative. It's always propelled mankind forward and gotten us where we are. Does that mean it's perfect? I completely don't, absolutely not.

I don't think it's perfect at all, but so far it's been freaking awesome. So far it's brought us the Renaissance and it's brought us in for the industrial agent. I think you're gonna see more, more businesses like ours that will become filters for different subjects and topics and industries, right? So, I mean, I really, like when people try to have an opportunity for that for sure. Right, when people try and ask me to

describe exactly because we have a very unique business what we do right now. It's there's not a lot of people that have paved the way for us to look at and go like, oh, an example of this is exactly how you go about doing what we're doing. And so kind of like the short explanation that I give people is, you know, we've become a filter for the fitness industry. And, you know, I feel like that's really what we try our best to do. Of course, we're going to say things that people don't agree with. And we have our own opinions that sometimes ruffle feathers.

But the end of the day, the main message is that we're trying to help people disseminate all this information that's that we're like, like Justin said, we're in an era or a time right now of over information. There's so much at our fingertips, how do you know what's good and what's bad information? And that's what the teachers of the future, the near future, are really going to be disseminating. They're facilitators.

Yeah. They are facilitators of information. They're the ones that help guide you in certain directions help teach you how to learn and how to be objective so that you can learn for yourself. Hopefully, you know, wouldn't you think that's exactly what we do? I hope so. I mean, that's really the goal of MindPump is not to say this way is right, this way is wrong, we're right, you're wrong, it's that, you know, let us take you through one. Our is our thought process. Here's the way we process

this information, and then we evaluate it at the end. This is what we end up with. And really, humans are, and we operate really, really well when we specialize, and that's what we do better than any animals. We specialize in particular things. And this idea that you need to learn this huge breadth of different subjects is just,

it's just, it's not true. It's not true that you need to learn all these fucking subjects when you're passionate about this one thing and that's what you're gonna end up doing. There's definitely gotta be a framework and it's really gonna, I think it's gonna be a lot of facilitated. I really think education's gonna look like this. I think if you're gonna learn math, you're gonna get it from this person over here,

because that's the way they teach it. I learned the best that way, and I wanna get history. I'm the same way that your TV is starting to change, where you're not gonna go to a channel and have to watch everything. You're gonna watch individual shows and learn what you want and take it from there. I think people are gonna be much more specialized

and much less, you know, where everybody took all these other classes that we all forgot. Like, you know, you took trigonometry, do you really remember how to do it? No, you took all these other classes that we all forgot. You know, you took trigonometry, do you really remember how to do it? No, you took all these art history classes, you remember them, no, you were forced to take them. I think there's gonna be less to that,

there's gonna be more focus on particular things. I think it's gonna be less important that we remember facts and information because that's what computers do for us now. These are skills that you don't really need as well. Are there other countries that are doing that better than us right now? What do you mean?

That are actually facilitating the education and information system, might that. You know, the way we rank education is, you know, test scores. So we'll say, like, China's kicking our ass in these test scores, and this country's kicking our ass. Are we taking the same test? Well, we are, but I'd say, let's look at innovation. Who's innovating the most?

We still kill everybody at that. America is still the world's leading innovator. And I think part of that has to do with the culture of freedom of expression in America. America still is one of the top countries in the world where you can be very free to express yourself and through that freedom of expression comes innovation. And so America just does a very, very good job. I'm gonna miss the newer country that's the melting pot of like a collection of like, you know, all around the world's ideas.

So people always like to forget about that part. It's like we're all like, this is coming from all kinds of different directions. It is like again, look at China. China is a big producer, second biggest economy in the world, the big world's largest population, but their culture and their government doesn't allow for the same amount of freedom of expression.

And so they don't innovate near, not even close to how much we innovate, or even other Western nations innovate who have much smaller economies. They do a really good job of copying. China will take innovation from America to the countries. They'll copy the fuck out of it and sell it for real cheap because they're really good at producing cheap. But when it comes to thinking outside of the box and that kind of stuff, did you do such a great job. Did you see Craig, this is a little off topic, but it reminded me time about China.

Did you see Craig's answer story of him inside the gym and he did look, okay, this is why China needs me. And they actually have one of those machine still from the 50s where you wrap the belt around you to shake the hell out of you. Inside one of their gyms. That's great. Yeah, he did a video of him.

You know what's funny? I thought that was hilarious. I bet you guys, at some point, they're going to find that there is some benefit to doing something like that. It's not fat loss, but I bet you they're going to find that some movement shaking or whatever. Is going to do something good for you. And it's when that happens, I'm a laugh. Well, I bet you could you could make some similar connections to the power plate. I mean, maybe. Yeah, right. As far as what, you know, I remember the first time that I saw the power plate. I thought it was a gimmick in a joke. And when you actually learn the science behind it

and how it works and what it's doing with your central nervous system, that makes a little more sense. So you're probably right. I mean, I think it'll be funny though. You could definitely put a spin on you. And so much of that has happened. Right.

You know what I mean? Where there's this old thing that everybody made fun of and then it came out and the like, actually, Saunas do are good for them. Oh, I love the one that's going around right now. Our form is the, what's the name of it? What's the shake weight looking thing version for them? Oh, one where you sit on the butt plug version of the shake weight. Oh my God. What's it called? I don't remember. It looks like a hydraulic, it looks like you're, yeah, you're writing a spring or something. Smart marketing, right? Looks like you're having sex and they know that that shit

will get shared a little bit. Yeah, no, it's just like the shake weight, no. No, no, brilliant, absolutely, really. 100% why those things get like makes so much money is just because they're silly. Like, you know, the snuggie, like they sold millions of those stupid things. Damn, what are they doing wrong?

Well, I mean, we just, I recently was talking to the company that we're hiring, right, for our marketing stuff and heading that direction. And one of the ideas that he has to just capture leads in the funnel, and it's absolutely brilliant, is, you know, a thing where you can, like, and they've done this on Facebook already, where you can take a picture of yourself,

and it shows like who you would look like as a celebrity, like a celebrity person. Like everybody's in just cause you're curious. Like I'd be curious, like who would he gonna make me? It could be so far off the whole thing. Yeah, right, but it's, and so he wants to do something similar with, you know, what would you look like super ripped? You know, like, oh my God.

Right, take a picture of yourself. What would you look like? And then the thing morphs and transforms into a super ripped version of that's a viral viral freaking right. I told him I said, God, that's so fucking brilliant to just just to capture the leads right? All the body shaming army. I'll come in after you. Why would you have to look like that? No, it's very, very clever though. Very, very clever, that was great. Yeah, well, there you go. Check this out. Go to YouTube, mind pump TV. We post a new video every single day. It's a fantastic resource. We're talking about education. We post new video every day on exercise, on fitness debates, on, you know, mobility,

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