Motivation Daily by Motiversity - ALPHA BEAST MENTALITY - Best Motivational Speeches Compilation

Episode Date: August 28, 2023

ALPHA BEAST MENTALITY! Dig deep push all the negativity aside and become a beast! Special thanks to:Tom Bilyeu: https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeuLewis Howes: https://www.youtube.com/c/lewishowesSpeak...ers:Eric Thomas: http://etinspires.com/David Goggins: http://www.davidgoggins.com/Denzel WashingtonDwayne "The Rock" JohnsonCoach Pain: http://bit.ly/2YTgWvqMarcus "Elevation" Taylor: http://bit.ly/38FUFoSStephen A SmithWilliam "King" Hollis: http://bit.ly/WillHollisYouTubeMusic:Really Slow Motion: http://bit.ly/1r3lPvNSecession Studios: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCwd8uu2mtJUgHYRffUl2yPQ▶Subscribe for New Motivational Videos Every Week:http://bit.ly/MotivationVids▶DOWNLOAD our Top 100 Quotes of All Time:https://bit.ly/topquotesfreepdf▶JOIN our Newsletter for Exclusive Updates, Discounts, and Deals: https://bit.ly/Motiversitynewsletter▶READ our Weekly Blog -https://bit.ly/motiversityblog▶SHOP Official Motivational Canvases and Apparel -https://bit.ly/motiversityshop▶BECOME A MEMBER of our loyal community!https://bit.ly/motiversitymembers Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Starting point is 00:00:36 The link is in the description. Everybody wants to be a beast until it's time to do what bees do. I never looked at things as problems. I look at them as opportunities. Who teaches you to be a man? Greatness is not something that you meet once. It's something that you meet thousands of times in your life. and you don't reach it if you're not constantly in constant pursuit of greatest.
Starting point is 00:01:11 The most powerful thing that we can be is ourselves. Dreams without goals are just dreams and ultimately they fuel disappointment. Those times when you don't feel like working but you do it anyway, that's the dream. It's not the destination, it's the journey. Without commitment, you'll never start. But more importantly, without consistency, you'll never finish. You can't just say you want it. You can't watch the video and say, I want it as bad as I want to breathe.
Starting point is 00:01:47 It's cute to say it. But when it's showtime, when the sun comes up, now it's time to hunt. And what separates you from everybody else is that when it's time to hunt, you're ready to hunt. It's a lifestyle. You don't hit this news button. You don't want to go run. You go run. You don't want to go swim, you go swim.
Starting point is 00:02:08 You don't want to make your bed, you make your bed. You don't want to clean your house and clean your house. You don't want to study, you study. That's how you start to callous your mind. That became my life. When you can't control what's happening until you control how you respond to it, that's where your power is. If you stay in your comfort zone, that's why you will fail.
Starting point is 00:02:27 Success is not a comfortable procedure. If you think the price of winning is too high, wait till you get the bill from regret. the bill from regret. Not only do I want to be a beast, if you follow my 24 hours, I do it beast dude. I know the feeling. No, this not that fake lion tigers and bears motivation. This that growing up in the slums, watching your mom nod on the couch as you go to school.
Starting point is 00:03:02 We want more. We want more out of his life. And if you're not willing to give that to us, mentality, like everybody's already counting you out, like everybody's already told you, you don't have what it takes, you don't measure up, that what you started, you will not finish. Claw your way into your future. Fight for your goal. Give it everything you have because you have nothing to lose.
Starting point is 00:03:37 Life's going to hit you in your mouth and you gotta do me a huge favor. Your why has to be greater than that knocked out. And I love it. Buster Douglas got knocked out. Nobody ever got knocked out by Mike Tyson and everything. and ever got back up. It was almost a 10 count. He was stumbling. They were four, three, two,
Starting point is 00:03:58 one, and ding, ding, ding. Saved by the bell. He goes to his corner. The whole world is like, up, that's it. Once he comes back out, that's it. Mike's going to just hammering. And exactly that,
Starting point is 00:04:10 Mike Tyson came out like I got him. I got this kid up against the rope. Listen to me, many of you right now, life's got you up against the rope. You can't give up. You can't give it. Listen to me, if it was easy, everybody would do it. And if life's got you backed up, I need you to do what Buster Douglas did.
Starting point is 00:04:26 Buster Douglas starts fighting back. What an uppercut by Douglas. Hades down goes Tyson. The world was shocked. Goliath has been knocked down. What happened? And they went to Buster Douglas, and they asked Buster Duggles simply like, what happened? And Buster Duggins said, listen to me, it's real simple.
Starting point is 00:04:41 Before my mother died, she told the whole world that I was going to be like Tyson. And two days before the fight, my mother died. Buster Douglas had, he had a decision to make. When his mother died, he could die with his mother or he made a decision, I can wake up and I can live for mom. And he knocked Mike Tyson out simply because his Y was greater than that punch. His Y was greater than the defeat. His Y was greater than his child and his tribulation. And I'm telling you, if you don't know what your Y is and your Y isn't strong,
Starting point is 00:05:13 you're going to get knocked out every single day. A man is not a man. not a man by his age. A man is a man by his experiences. What he goes through, what he fights through. That's what makes a war with you. That's what makes the greatest of all time. I won't end my life in a bottomless pit. I'm going to rise and I'm going to show a world that greatness is obtained by a man that never stopped pushing. I believe and I stand on it to this day as long as the sun is shining on my face and not on my grave I got an opportunity of a lifetime.
Starting point is 00:06:07 Sometimes I got to look myself in the mirror and ask myself, is that all you got? Come on, you're prepared, your condition, you've been beaten, you've been better, you've been broken, you've been left for dead, but there's more because you're breathing and you feel it. So if you can feel it, you can push it, so push past. The truth of the matter is that's not all you have. There's more left in you. I know you're tired. I know you're weary. I know you've been brought to tears all the blood all the sweat all the sacrifice all of the suffering I know you want to quit right now, but this is not the time to let go. This is not the time to doubt. This is not the time to quit. Keep going. Use it to your advantage. see the pain as a stage see the pain as a plane see the pain as an opportunity you gave me an opportunity to reinvent myself you gave me an opportunity to come out of my grave that you put me in you let me
Starting point is 00:07:17 for dead I'm coming out alive I'm coming out kicking I'm coming out swinging you left me and thought I wouldn't overcome you forgot about me you let go and thought I couldn't survive, but I'm here. It's not always about people. Sometimes life, oftentimes, most of the times, life will blood in your nose. Life will leave you in a cardiac arrest. Life will leave you in an accident.
Starting point is 00:07:44 Life will knock you upside your head and there you to get back up. You're the pain, because it's more or less. Talking to that person in the hospital bed, I'm talking to that person that lost their mother. I'm talking to that person that lost their father. I'm talking to that person who didn't get picked all the team. I'm talking to that stay-at-home mom.
Starting point is 00:08:09 I'm talking to the future engineer. I'm talking to that future entrepreneur, that hustler. I'm talking to that person who's been called to do something. Nobody's done in their family. I know you're going through an unprecedented amount of pain, but you can press through it, you can feel it, you can lift it. The time is now to do this.
Starting point is 00:08:29 Now to do what's never been done. Use the pain! Use the pain! Use the pain! Use the pain! So I hear the crowd's calling and even if they're silent, I will call myself. Why do we go through life and we feel like we can live without pain, that we can avoid pain, that we can go under it, or go around it? Pain is like pressure. And without pressure, there is no diamond. And I'm just wondering if this. anybody out there that's listening to me that is sick and tired of complaining about the pain.
Starting point is 00:09:21 I don't make enough. They didn't believe in me. They weren't there. They didn't see it. They didn't pick me. I didn't get the raise. I didn't get the promotion. She walked out of me.
Starting point is 00:09:34 He abused me. My kids are ignoring me. My teenagers are driving me crazy. I'm wondering if there's anybody that want to stop complaining about it. And it's going to use it to your advantage. Imagine if you could use pain as a fuel. Imagine if you can use the pain as a passport. Imagine if you could use the pain to push you,
Starting point is 00:10:00 to condition you, to prepare you for the stages, and the rooms you've got to walk into, and the tables you've got to sit at, and the stages you have to stand on, what if the pain can make you better? What if the pain could build muscle? What if the pain could cause you to reach higher to leap farther, to run faster?
Starting point is 00:10:17 What if the pain? could help you. What if all pain isn't hurt but it's helped? Because you wouldn't have prayed like you pray had you not been hurt. You wouldn't love like you love had you not been hurt because you know what it's like to hate somebody. So you refuse to go down that path. Pain. A musician plays his instrument play pain. Play it. When pain shows up at your door, when people try to inject it, inflict it, use it to your advantage. All Oftentimes, it feels like it is impossible and insurmountable feet to get past the beating. But as long as I can feel it, I'm not in the state of paralysis.
Starting point is 00:11:05 If you can feel it, you can move it. I can feel this. I can move this. I'm not paralyzed. I can feel this. It's heavy, but it's got to get out of my way. When life throws you a weight, lifted. Ah!
Starting point is 00:11:22 I'm not complaining because life got heavier. I'm celebrating because I'm getting stronger. Let's go! Your perspective is everything. You've got to see this thing differently. You've got to find a mirror and see this thing differently. And I've got to speak these affirmations. And I have to believe, I have to believe, even if I'm bleeding, even if I'm broken,
Starting point is 00:11:47 I have to believe that this came to help me not hurt me. It made me better. I'm not bitter. I'm wiser. I'm conditioned now. I see this thing differently now. I'm able to move and navigate and breathe different and talk different. and walk different and build differently.
Starting point is 00:12:03 I'm not building out of anger and revenge. I'm building from a place of abundance. It's inevitable and it is unavoidable. You cannot live without pain. Now, how you navigate that pain will determine how you propel into your purpose. Use the pain, use the pain to push you into a place of abundance. Use the pain to push you into a place
Starting point is 00:12:33 where your very existence is life-giving. Use the pain, not for revenge, but for fulfillment. I don't want you to die because you wanted me to die. I don't hate you because you hate me. I don't want you to lose everything, even though you took everything from me. I want everybody to win. If you can hear my voice, I want you to win.
Starting point is 00:12:53 I'm talking to people that have lied on me. I'm talking to the people that have given up on me. I'm talking to the people that have walked out on me after I gave you everything. I'm talking to you, I want you to win. I want everybody to win. That's how you know you've used the pain, not to inflict pain, but you've converted that pain into fuel.
Starting point is 00:13:15 So there needs to be a conversation on the inside of you about conversion, convert the pain into fuel, not payback. Payback is for pumps. I don't need you to hurt like you hurt me. I want you to win because I want to be better. I got to be bigger. I got to be the better human being. human being. I gotta be the one who is existing that's life-giving. I gotta be the one
Starting point is 00:13:37 that can do better. I gotta be the one that after you knocked me off of the mountain, after you push me off of the heel, after you dragged me off the staircase I was climbing, after I wiped the blood out of my eyes and spit up whatever I need to spit up and cough up, whatever I need to cough up. I'm coming back to help you. I need everybody to win. The question is, can you leave where you've been? Can you close the gap between pain and promise? So it's time to come face to face with pain. Look yourself in the mirror and ask yourself, how much more can you take?
Starting point is 00:14:28 Ask yourself the question, is this all you got? The more you run, and the more you lift and the more you train, and the more you dance, and the more you sing, and the more you advance into the beauty, the brilliance of your future. the more that you move forward and you advance and you do it for your mother you do it for your father you do it for the one that believed in you you do it for god himself who put you on this planet to make an impact and leave a legacy ask the pain one question is this all you have is this all you got while i'm lifting these weights i know it hurts but ask that dumbbell is that all you got Ask that trouble is that all you got when you're in rehearsal when you're practicing again when you're beating on your craft
Starting point is 00:15:12 Ask yourself is this all you got self. I got more in me You thought you were empty But you had a quarter of take some of you had half a take some of you had three quarters of a take There's more in you my content creators my entrepreneurs my musicians Come on my keynote speakers my captains of industries my CEOs from the captain to the cashier cheer, there is more in you. It hurts when we hit in the gym.
Starting point is 00:15:44 It hurts, but we're lifting these weights and we're trying to accomplish a goal. It hurts. It's painful. It's daunting. It's cumbersome. I don't want to do it. I'm sweating.
Starting point is 00:15:55 I'm bleeding. I'm crying. I'm suffering. But after I've suffered, there is a reward. Stay at home father, stay at home mother, lawyer, doctor, hygienist, author, I don't know who you are, where you're from, but there's more in you. You may be hurting.
Starting point is 00:16:15 Maybe dying on the inside, but you still got life left. You gave them everything you had, and they left you for dead. I know what that feels like. To be left for dead after you gave everything you had. I know what it feels like. You give and you poor and you soul and you believe and you give them everything you had. and they leave you for dead. And you are either going to lie in a state of paralysis or feel the pain.
Starting point is 00:16:49 The truth of the matter is if you can feel it, you still got life left in you. Close the gap between pain and promise. The gap is closing. The gap is closing. The gap is closing. The gap is closing. The gap is closing. Use the pain. Use the pain. But I would tell you that hard work is what stands out. I pursue number one at all times, but you have to be able to look at yourself. I always worked hard. I was never lazy I was always somebody that believed in hard work and when you work hard and you have that sense of pride
Starting point is 00:17:46 It goes right out the window if you utilize your efforts in a long fashion But when you do what's right and it's based off of that effort that you put in Then you feel good about it because you took care of your responsibilities, then you can go play. Can't do the plan before any of that. Right. If I never try, if I don't go for this, where's that going to leave?
Starting point is 00:18:14 Don't be scared to bet on yourself. You're going to be scared anyway, because it is scary. But at the same time, betting on yourself isn't always leaving. Betting on yourself is believing in you. knowing who you are one year worth, having an idea about it anyway, and willing to work towards that, to validate that reality. That's betting on yourself. Whatever decision emanates from that is based off of you, looking at you and saying, I'm going for it. When you don't do that, what you have done is refrain from challenging yourself to be all.
Starting point is 00:18:59 you could be. You should be scared if you're clueless. You should be scared if you're ignorant to what you want to do, why you want to do it, and how you intend to go about achieving whatever aspirations you may have. If you're going to overcome that fear, at some point, knowledge is a part of the equation. What is winning? I challenge any human being a lot. And if you can't do it, you scratch, claw, and even die trying. It was about striving to do whatever you could to be the best that you can be. That is what I believe makes me the best. It's my commitment to excellence for the collective whole. I believe I'm the best difference. I apologize for it to anybody. You know, Denzel Washington talks about consistency, the importance of consistency. You got to put
Starting point is 00:20:06 into work you got to go for it but you have to have consistency because without consistency you put into work the dream is nothing but a dream and i get all of that but you have to be able to look at yourself and you have to be able to be honest with yourself and know when you mess up because when you mess up what i mean when i say it's going to catch you is at some point you're going to look at you And you're gonna say, but I often tell people this, particularly when it comes to relationships, relationships come and go. Things don't work out sometimes. But there is nothing on earth worse than when you know you're the reason in that stuff.
Starting point is 00:21:02 See, if somebody mistreats you, if somebody that you love don't want you no more, but you wanted them and you treated them right and blah, blah, blah, but it didn't work out, it hurts. but you'll be fine. Most people will be fine. When you're not fine, is when you know it was you. You messed up. You messed up. You heard that.
Starting point is 00:21:24 Everybody you've run across has had apprehension about who they are, where they are, where they're going, etc. But really, the most important thing it requires like a literal
Starting point is 00:21:37 look in the mirror. Asking yourself how you will feel. if you never try. A new opportunity. Get up. I'm scrolling through social media and looking at people on vacations
Starting point is 00:22:05 and looking at the people that are projecting the highlights of their life. It's not about that. It's about can you do better than you did yesterday? You're walking through or walked out of or survive the worst trauma and pain of your life. This is the first day of the best days of your life. Get up. Get up.
Starting point is 00:22:37 There's always another level. And it's not about beating the man or woman that's standing in the room with you. It's about beating the man and the woman that's in the mirror. Can you do better than you? Can you do better than you did yesterday? That's all I want to ask you. Can you do better? You may be tired.
Starting point is 00:23:01 You may be broken. You may be hurting. People may have betrayed you, lied on you, left you, but you refuse to give up. There are going to be days when you are not going to feel like waking up. You are not going to feel like getting out of the bed. You are tired of yourself. You are tired of looking at the face in the mirror that you see. You are tired of making the way that your body looks, the money that you have with the people that you are connected to.
Starting point is 00:23:30 There are going to be days when you are going to be tired of being you. of being you. And you got two options. You can give up or get up. This is the day that everything changes. Get up. Why to cry? Wake it up at 2 o'clock in the morning.
Starting point is 00:23:53 You may have to lose sleep for a week so that you can accomplish what it is that you've been destined to accomplish what you were born to contribute to humanity. And so I know. I know it hurts, and I know it's expensive. Everything you need to get to this next level is inside of you. But if you don't count up the cost of what it's going to take,
Starting point is 00:24:18 and if you are not willing to pay that price, you cannot have your future. Life and death is in the power of your tongue. Just get in a mirror and start speaking life over yourself. You're making progress. Just needs you to be 1% better than you wore yesterday. Get up. You got a day to Cocker.
Starting point is 00:24:46 Rise and grind, baby. Let's go. Thank you, Lord, for giving me one more day. One more opportunity. One more meal. One more outfit on my back. Thank you for that one opportunity. If you haven't been able to get up, something inside of you has to snap.
Starting point is 00:25:10 You've been insecure long enough. You've been unfit long enough. You've been unqualified long enough. You've been overlooked long enough. You've been undervalued long enough. You've been in this cave. You've been in this deep, dark prison of obscurity and uncertainty and doubt and fear. This is the day you come out of your tomb.
Starting point is 00:25:38 In this very moment, you have an opportunity. Seize the opportunity. I'm talking to that person that keeps saying, I'm going to lose weight, I'm going to make more money. I'm going to learn a new skill. I'm going to make bigger connections. I'm going to invest in myself. And day after day, you fail. I know you don't feel up to the task. I know you've got some doubt and you've got some fear and you've got some uncertainty and you hate the image that you see in the mirror and you hate the way your money looks and your relationships look and people that You've given your all to keep walking out on you.
Starting point is 00:26:22 I know you feel stuck in reverse. I know you feel like you're underpaid and undervalued and overlooked. But listen, get up! This is the day that everything changes. You've got to do what is required in order to manifest. Get up and get after it. So take a deep breath. Inhale.
Starting point is 00:26:50 Exhale. a new day control all to me control yourself alter your thinking and delete negative period what are you made of what is your DNA what is your mentality what are the skill sets come on start to write down the vision this is the first day of the best days of your life you are here by design you are listening to this talk by design every day every single day is new beginning free decision you make is either bringing you to your destiny or taking you from your destiny. Some of you, you've got to take everything you have on the inside
Starting point is 00:27:54 and claw your way back to right standing. Sometimes you've got to dig deep inside. That person that keeps failing the mission, appreciate what has happened. Appreciate the people that have walked out on you. appreciate the people that hurt you, appreciate the people that overlooked you, the people that slept on you, appreciate it. I want you to get this mentality in your head.
Starting point is 00:28:32 Every day, you pay, you pay. You may get two hours of sleep in seven days so that you can accomplish what it is that you've been destined to accomplish. Everything you need to get to this next level is inside of you. There's always another level. Start tracking your partner. The kryptonite. If you have not identified, the hurdles, what has hindered your forward progress,
Starting point is 00:29:35 identify those things. This is your day. Get up and get after it. The day could be today that your career is over. Now what you do? I said, I better get to work. Rest at the end, not in the middle. And that's something I always live by.
Starting point is 00:30:08 I'm not gonna rest and I'm gonna keep on pushing now. There are a lot of answers that I don't have. There are even questions that I don't have. I'm just gonna keep going. I'm just gonna keep going and I'll figure these things out as you go, right? And you just continue to build that way. So I try to live by that all the time. Have a dream, sacrifice for it, and never ever rest in the middle.
Starting point is 00:30:33 I came into the NBA. I was like, baby's news really don't work that hard. One of the things I would do is why everybody would be at the cafeteria work, you know, eating and doing all sort of stuff, I just go back to your job. I just go back to me. How can I show you that no, I have the age? Well, you do it through training, right? So when I get up in the morning, my daughter goes with me. 4 a.m.?
Starting point is 00:30:55 4 a.m. My 15-year-old goes with me. She goes with me before school, and it becomes a daddy-daughter thing. That's cool. Through that process, she understands the value of hard work. And so it's through those behaviors is where I find the motivation. I think the definition of greatness is to inspire the people next to you. I think that's what greatness is or should be. It's not something that lives and dies with one person.
Starting point is 00:31:22 It's how can you inspire a person to then in turn inspire another person that then inspires another person? That's how you create something I think lasts for it. It's not sit around and all it's all happy or lucky type of thing. If you leader, your job is to get the best out of it. You gotta deal with it. Face it, learn from it. It's exciting when you win.
Starting point is 00:31:41 It's exciting when you lose because the process should be exactly the same. But the hardest thing is to face that stuff. But what if today is the day that you... That's it. Now what are you do? What can I say? Mom by hour. My parents were great.
Starting point is 00:32:11 You know, growing up, you know, they instilled in me the importance of imagination, of curiosity. Understanding that, okay, if you want to accomplish something, I'm not just going to sit here and say, yes, you can do whatever you want. Yes, you can, but you have to also put in the work to get there. So they taught me that at a really early age, man. And when you grow up as a kid thinking that the world is your oyster, all things are possible if you put in the work to do it. You grow up having that fundamental belief. Who was more influential for you, your father or mother?
Starting point is 00:32:47 Both were influential at different points. Yeah. My mom was there on a daily basis. My father was really influential at a really critical time where I had a summer where I played basketball when I was like 10 or 11 years old. And here I come playing and I don't score one point the entire summer, not one. You didn't score once, not one. Were you in the game? I was in the game. How did you not score?
Starting point is 00:33:13 Because I was terrible. Not a free throw, not a nothing, not a lucky shot, not a breakaway lay up zero points. I remember crying about it and being upset about it. My father was getting me a hug and said, listen. Whether you score zero or score 60, I'm going to love you no matter, though. Wow. Now, that is the most important thing
Starting point is 00:33:30 as you can say to the child. Because from there, I was like, okay, it gives me all the confidence in the world to fail. I have the security way. But the hell with that, I'm scoring 60. Let's go. Right, right. And from there, I just went to one.
Starting point is 00:33:44 I just stayed with it. I kept practicing, kept practicing. I think that's when the idea of understanding a long-term view became important. because i wasn't going to catch these kids in a week i wasn't going to catch them a year right so that's when i sat down and said okay this is going to take some thought all right would i want to work on first all right shooting all right let's knock this out let's focus on this half a year six months do nothing but shoot right after that all right creating your own shot you focus so you start
Starting point is 00:34:13 i started creating a menu of things when i came back the next summer i was a little bit better and then 14 came around back half of 13 14 years old and then i was just killing everyone And it happened in two years, and I wasn't expected to happen in two years, but it did because what I had to do was work on the basics and the fundamentals. But they relied on their athleticism and their natural ability. And because I stick to the fundamentals, it just caught up to me. And then my body, you know, my knees stopped hurting. I grew into my frame. Then your athleticism, once you have the fundamentals, the hard work, the mindset, and you tack on the athleticism.
Starting point is 00:34:54 Exactly. Then it was game. Wow. Love of the game, the challenge. Like, I would watch Magic play, I'd watch Michael play, and I would see them do these unbelievable things. And I'd say, you know, can I get to that level? I don't know, but let's find out.
Starting point is 00:35:16 Let's find out. And so that curiosity to see where I could push this thing led me down that path, I think. With the 13th pick in the 1996 NBA draft, the Charlotte Hornet select Kobe Bryant from Lower Marion High School in Pennsylvania. Greatness lies ahead to this young man. Well, I learned that you have to work hard
Starting point is 00:35:41 and you have to approach the game with a serious mindset. There was a stretch in 03 where Shaq was out with an injury. And Phil called me up to his office and said, okay, we need you to really turn on the afterburn and start scoring a lot if you have to play. So I did, and I wound up scoring, I think it was nine straight games with 40 plus points.
Starting point is 00:36:03 Nine straight. Nine straight games. And then Shaq comes back second to the last game with that. And then Phil called into his office. So, Cole, okay, I need you to dial it back. I'm like, why? Like, we're winning.
Starting point is 00:36:17 I don't understand. It's because our goal is to win a championship. But if you continue to do this, we'll lose Shaq. We'll lose him. His motivation, his excitement. What triggers him, right? So I need you to pull back so we can pull Shaq forward for
Starting point is 00:36:33 June. That was the big challenge is you move from being the single dominant player to understanding, okay, I have to help these other guys. Oh, I lift everyone else up. It's tough. It's more like you put yourself to the side and you put yourself in their shoes and understand what they're feeling. And then you have to make certain decisions of, okay, what buttons do I need to push for this player to get them to the next level? So it's never, it's not sit around and all, it's all happy or lucky time. The leader, your job is to get the best out of it, even if they may not like it at their job.
Starting point is 00:37:11 He was very demanding because he expected everyone to put in the same effort as he was. And that was unrealistic. You're not behind me, you're not in front of me. You're right there, parallel with me. Practice was very competitive right away. You know how Colbius. He was joined.
Starting point is 00:37:28 We had it gone sometimes. He didn't let me slip a lot at times where get ejected or I'm about to get a technical foul or going off the deep end, he would be there to, you know, set me straight a lot, which helped me a lot. So we're getting the timeout, he's like, hey, hey, hey, I'm open. Like, okay. So we go out and same thing. Come, hey, hey, hey, I'm open.
Starting point is 00:37:53 Okay. Come back in. Hey, dude, you got to throw me the ball. I said, man, fuck that. Get it off the rebound if I miss, bro. Listen, I don't deal with people that don't commit at that level, but then act as if they do. The running joke, or he doesn't pass and all, so that crap. That's okay, you know, but I'll take those five.
Starting point is 00:38:21 I'll take five. You know, I thought if you were a good person and you do right by people, that people will take your kindness and give you kindness back. But what I realize is sometimes in this world the kinder you are the more they try to play you like a fool I was delusional I'm nice to you you nice to me don't always work like that Sometimes it's nice to me and I take advantage of you So some of y'all you delusional I just need you to do me a favor when you are delusional you can never get the outcomes you want
Starting point is 00:39:17 because you the premise in which you're operating from is a lie So you got to work from truth and some of us don't want to deal with truth because it's It's so difficult. E.T. you dropped out of school. E.T. you grew up in a certain community. In order for you to be able to do what you need to do like a Tony Robbins, there's some things that you don't have in your arson that if you can just admit you don't have it in
Starting point is 00:39:39 your arson, then you can go get it. But until you admit that you don't have it, you'll never be able to do it. So I need you to be a huge favor. I just need you to be real. And a reason why a lot of y'all don't want to be real? Because some of you would rather be in a lie and at least have a lie than not have anything at all. You already know that job, you ain't about to, your boss ain't about to catch you out.
Starting point is 00:40:02 You just scared to quit and start your own business because you don't know if you're going to do well or not. You know you shouldn't. Come on. Be honest. You know you still shouldn't be at that job right now. Let me see your hand. Let's just be real. Let me see the hand. You know you shouldn't.
Starting point is 00:40:13 Raise it high. Don't play with me. Raise it high. You still shouldn't be at that job. But you're delusional. That one day is going to be your day. That one day you're going to merge your job and your calling together. It's not going to happen.
Starting point is 00:40:25 You're going to have to just leave. He gave me permission to say, I am brilliant. Yeah, I might be different, but I am brilliant. Yep, I might be live, but I am special. He gave me permission. And so the first thing I want you to do today is I want you to keep saying to yourself, I am, I am, I am.
Starting point is 00:40:50 And for those of you who hadn't quite starting yet, I am, and for those of you who got started, I am. Why? Because I can't believe that I started with a GED, and that GED turned into a GED. for your degree one two three one two three one two three one two three i am great listen to me and i don't owe anybody in a policy i am phenomenal and i don't owe anybody in apology i am going to do great things and i don't owe anybody an apology i am i was created to be great i was created to do
Starting point is 00:41:30 great things. I was created to have great things and I will no longer ask others for their permission. That Eric Thomas that grew up in Detroit and had like that Detroit mentality while I love it, it doesn't transfer to every community. Let the dream destroy you. Let it strip you. Let it remake and mold you. Don't be afraid. Some of you are afraid. Listen to me, wherever you from, if that's where you from, if you leave, you can always come back. I promise you. I promise you when come back you can get right back in the conversation ain't nothing gonna change I promise you whatever world you're from if you go to other worlds you can always go back to that world the diversion of you that you are right now is a blessing but
Starting point is 00:42:21 it won't take you to the next level what got you here won't take you there so let the dream destroy you tear you down redefine you build you back up make you stronger the first version of Eric Thomas the high school drop out that guy would have never been able to stand here and help you. I had to destroy that Eric Thomas. No matter who you are, if you're average or if you're good, when you get around greatness and you stay around greatness, you start listening to great podcasts and reading great books
Starting point is 00:42:52 and you start hanging around great people and you start becoming a part of great masterminds. God, you just evolved. And I don't know what happened, but every year I went from a high school dropout and homeless to I started to becoming every single day, more of who I am and I can't believe it my next goal is to win the Nobel Prize why I had to come up with something I am giving you permission to be great I'm giving you permission to be everything
Starting point is 00:43:20 you were called to be to do everything that you're capable of doing to have everything you're supposed to have listen to me you have to be careful when you hang around average people all they're going to do is tell you what they can't do and that's okay that they can't do it but that has absolutely nothing to do with us we can go from being homeless and high school dropouts to having PhDs writing books and becoming the voice of a generation we can do whatever we believe we can do and we don't need anybody's permission to do it but ours you are brilliant you are special yes you're different and yes you're not doing it's a traditional route but greatness is upon you You gotta keep going.
Starting point is 00:44:03 You got to keep going. You got to keep going. In the 12 years to get the four-year degree turned into a master's degree. And the master's degree turned into a PhD. Guys, I can't believe it. I went from being a high school dropout, from being homeless, living in abandoned buildings,
Starting point is 00:44:23 to eating out of trash cans, to Dr. Eric Thomas, to writing six books. Guys, are you hearing what I'm saying? Today, stop playing. small and start playing big because I am. All right, all right, let's stop on three. One, two, three. I am.
Starting point is 00:44:43 One, two, three. One, two, three. I am. Listen to me, I was literally homeless. I was coming to church, not really taking showers. I wasn't brushing my teeth. And this guy looked at me and said, you need to get your GED. You need to leave Detroit.
Starting point is 00:45:11 I'm going to send you to college because greatness is a part of I was 16, 17 years old. I had never spoken a day in my life and this guy saw it. Like he saw something to me that I didn't see and he gave me permission to be where other people said I couldn't be. He gave me permission to believe I was great. He gave me permission to think I could change the world. He gave me permission to start something that had never started in my family before. He gave me permission to say, I am.
Starting point is 00:45:43 Listen to me very closely. When you graduate and you get a job, if you want to get paid, you never say no. You never say it can't get done. Don't you ever say out your mouth, it can't get done. Even if you feel in your heart, it can't get done. You don't say it out loud. You let the broke folks say that. You let the folks they find first say that.
Starting point is 00:46:03 You always say it can get done. Even if you don't think it can get done, just say it and try to make up something. I'm being real. I'm being real. I don't deal with people who say, or they get paid real low in my company. They like maintenance when you say, I don't know how, or I don't think it can be done.
Starting point is 00:46:22 I'm like, okay, cool. You won't be like at the end of the year when bonus is getting passed out, you won't be getting no bonus. I need you to do is I need you to kill the noise. I need you to embrace the I am. And however you get it done, I need you to get it done.

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