Motivation Daily by Motiversity - NO ONE IS COMING TO SAVE YOU - Powerful Motivational Speech Compilation
Episode Date: May 13, 2025No one is coming to save you. It's up to YOU to create the life you want. Best Motivational Speeches Compilation featuring Mel Robbins, Ed Mylett, David Goggins, and more.Special thanks to our partner...s:DOAC: https://www.youtube.com/@TheDiaryOfACEOTom Bilyeu: https://www.youtube.com/c/TomBilyeuChris Williamson: https://www.youtube.com/@ChrisWillxSpeakersMel Robbinshttps://www.melrobbins.com/Jocko Willinkhttps://www.instagram.com/jockowillink/?hl=enCasey Neistathttps://www.youtube.com/user/caseyneistatEd Myletthttps://www.edmylett.com/Gary Veehttps://www.instagram.com/garyvee/?hl=enDavid Gogginshttps://www.instagram.com/davidgoggins/Coach PainYouTube: http://bit.ly/2LmRyeaInstagram: http://bit.ly/2XLcLW5Facebook: http://bit.ly/32tZdNiWebsite: http://bit.ly/2YTgWvqCoach Pain Academy: http://bit.ly/2XNmUfTBook Coach Pain today: http://bit.ly/2JMefFuTom Bilyeuhttps://www.youtube.com/c/TomBilyeu/videosAlex Hormozihttps://www.instagram.com/hormozi/Jada Pinkett Smithhttps://www.instagram.com/jadapinkettsmith/?hl=enChris Williamsonhttps://www.youtube.com/@ChrisWillxGreg Plitthttps://www.instagram.com/gregplitt/?hl=enJay Shettyhttps://www.instagram.com/jayshetty/?hl=enDry Creek Wranglerhttps://www.youtube.com/@DryCreekWranglerSchoolMusic: Epidemic SoundSecession Studioshttps://www.youtube.com/@SecessionStudios Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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No one's coming.
No one.
No one's coming to push you.
No one's coming to tell you to turn the TV off.
No one's coming to tell you to get out the door and exercise.
Nobody's coming to tell you to apply for that job that you've always dreamt about.
Nobody's coming to write the business plan for you.
It's up to you.
Just get up.
Move towards that challenge, whatever that challenge is.
move towards that challenge and go attack it.
And you may be successful and you may not be successful, but you will be better.
When every boy realizes no one's coming to save him, and that's when he becomes a man,
and some boys never get there and stay children forever.
Nobody cares about you, and I mean that in the most positive, optimistic, inspiring, motivating way.
You think that everybody's paying attention, and because of that, it kind of controls how you think.
And the reality is nobody gives a shit.
Everybody is so focused on themselves in this world.
Nobody has time for you.
Look around you.
There was no fucking team.
It was you.
There was no weight loss program or mom and dad waking you up saying you can do it.
You can be better trying to build belief.
You built belief when you had nothing.
I found myself in a place that I just never envisioned I would be.
I would wake up every morning, just pin to the bed with anxiety.
And I became somebody that I barely recognized.
And, you know, the thing that's, that's interesting about being stuck in life is that the fact is, you know what you need to do.
That's the easy part.
It's the how.
How the fuck do you make yourself do what you need to do when you are scared or overwhelmed or anxious or hopeless or depressed or any of the stuff that happens to you is a huge.
human. That's the $100 million question. And because you're only ever going to do the things that
you feel like doing right now or that feel good right now, unless you understand that you've got
to parent yourself, you've got to push yourself, you're not going to make your dreams come true.
You're just not. We're not wired that way. You weren't born that way. You weren't that way
when you were growing up, and you're certainly not that way as an adult. And there's a tremendous
amount of liberation that comes when you accept the fact that you're always going
to need to give yourself a push. We don't want to be left alone by herself with
ourselves. So we come in and we sit down and we get on our phone or we turn on
the TV or we go wherever we do whatever because we don't want to face the reality
of being by herself with ourselves. Start making yourself a companion that you're
comfortable with and become comfortable in your own skin. I've trained 99% of my life alone. No one
pat me on the back. I did all of the work alone. And while I'm still hard on myself, I know what I did.
You know, if you're going to create anything of value in this life, you're going to, even if it's
with other people, you're going to have to be willing to be on your own for a bit, to forge on
your own, to take walks alone. I just have bad news for everybody.
Nobody cares that you don't have time to practice.
Nobody cares that you can grow up with money.
Nobody cares that you came from a bad neighborhood.
Nobody cares about your problems.
Stop with the pity party.
Stop feeling sorry for yourself.
And remember, no one is going to save you but you.
Save yourself!
It seems like my version of personal development
requires me to fall into a hole or dig one.
And then I realize nobody's coming to rescue me.
And if I want to get out of the hole, I'm going to need to build a fricking ladder.
It doesn't sound like to sound like to be a hole.
good to say that you're in control, that nobody's coming to save you, but that's what works.
And so if you take Kobe Bryant's advice, which is that booze don't block dunks, and the idea that
you can get so good at something that people can't stop you from succeeding.
And I promise you, every single person who wants to do something with their life and has done
something with their life has gone through the exact chapter that you're going through.
And it's the lonely chapter.
It's the chapter where you don't fit in with your own friends, but you don't have the
outcomes yet to fit into a new group of friends.
And you're going through this and you're like, is this even worth it?
Because you have no signs of success.
But if there's anything that you can take away from what we're saying right now is that
the sign of success is the hate that you get along the way.
First of all, nobody is coming.
I mean, if you've been sitting around waiting for somebody to discover you, to pick you,
to save you, to rescue you, to give you your shot, it's not happening.
Like, at some point you got to wake up and realize when you're 18 and you're out of that
house, you have to parent yourself. Your life is your responsibility. No one is going to save you.
We can't do this for you. This journey predominantly must come from you. It's not what other people
think. It's your life. But if it's your life, you've got to be willing to pay the price.
There are going to be seasons in your life where nobody is coming. Nobody's coming to support you.
Nobody's coming to help you. Nobody's coming to save. Nobody's coming to save.
you, no one is coming to rescue you.
You're gonna pull yourself out of the pit of misery
and put the work in.
Everything about it is accountability.
Everything about it is self-discipline.
Everything about it is no one's gonna save you.
No one's gonna come out the woods and say,
hey, I got your back, man.
I wanna take you from all this shit.
I gotta do it all on my own now, you know?
But that's the truth.
I had to do it on my own, you know?
Just like he did.
You gotta do it on your own.
Sometimes you just have to have the ability to save yourself.
I'm not gonna say it was easy because it wasn't,
but I had to learn it.
You have to take your own responsibility.
No one's going to save you.
You have to do it.
You got to learn to pick yourself up on your own.
A lot of times these fights and these battles,
you got to be your own coach.
You got to be your own motivator.
You got a long journey ahead of you
because you're gonna find out
that while your dad did a lot of shit to you,
you're going to have to make it on your own.
You have to look at your own life
and you have to realize, okay,
you either have to change yourself
or you got to make everybody else wrong.
You've got to look at your own life
and go, what do I need to change
so I can be successful?
And people don't want to do that.
It's easier to try to make the other person wrong.
I mean, really, because I don't care about being solitary.
I don't care about being on my own.
I don't care about taking risks
because for a very long time I was in any case on my own
and everything was a risk.
Going to school was a risk
or going out for lunch was a risk or whatever.
People struggle to do things alone.
And the path of the exceptional person
is one of an exception,
which means that you are not with other people.
And rather than fighting that or bemoaning it,
see it as an indicator that you're on the right path
because if everyone else were cheering you on,
then it means you're not in the right place
because it means you're just like everyone else
and that's not where you want to be.
You have to be alone
in a very dark place in your mind
to think about what is important to you.
So you're going to feel the pain
of being ostracized from the group of friends
that you used to have,
but you're stuck in this messy middle
where you haven't yet worked out
who you are on the other side of this.
And that lonely chapter
that's in the middle is something that
I would say almost nobody
that I've ever met
who has gone from a place where they are
to a place where they want to be
hasn't gone through.
You have to make that start.
You have to separate
yourself from the pack. You have to be willing to spend time with yourself. You have to sacrifice.
I knew that no one was coming back to help me. No one was a miracle me to be somebody special.
All my situations were on me now and solely on me. It's close to three in the morning right now.
The thing is, man, it's always going to be a party. It's always going to be a time to celebrate and
at a time to join friends. I mean, the bars are always open. Always open.
no matter how old you are, they're always open, you know?
What's not always open is the opportunity to
to check the box in life, you know, to achieve your dreams.
That's not always open.
I'm talking about right now, the small steps
in between the big successes that everyone sees,
no one sees this.
Right now, I'm saying, like,
there's a confidence to it, man.
There's a bad motherfucker that's right here, you know,
that it's getting ahead of the competition.
There's an overwhelming sense of fulfillment and pride and satisfaction with that.
Successful people have mastered the art of spending time alone.
When I get time with myself and I get in my head and I get in my heart and I understand my behaviors
and my belief systems and my parameters and what I need to do and how I need to soul
and where I need to send my energy and how.
how I need to execute in the day.
It's a superpower when you spend that time alone
and you can think and you can pray and you can meditate
and everybody's not in your mix.
You're able to grow something.
Spending time alone is the only place
where you get to have these conversations.
And most of us are spending time away from being alone
because we're scared of having these conversations.
The challenge today is that we think
that there's only one word
for being alone, and we call it loneliness.
We've forgotten about a second word.
It's called solitude.
Solitude and loneliness externally look the same.
Solitude is the strength of being alone,
and loneliness is the weakness.
I don't respect a whole bunch of people,
but the few that I did respect are the people
who were uncommon amongst uncommon people.
And what that means is those people
who weren't afraid to stand alone.
I'm very comfortable in my own head.
I'm very comfortable alone for hours at a time for days at a time the one companion that's always
going to be with you is yourself no one's coming no one
