Motivation Daily by Motiversity - RESILIENCY

Episode Date: October 19, 2021

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The link is in the description. Life is fragile. You're only mortal. You only have so much time to get it done. Your future awaits. The future is hinged on your resiliency. Your family is depending on you to put in the work, your friends, your circles of influence,

your mentors, there are people all over the world who are depending on you. So our wounds become wisdom because our perspective we have a new program. It's called resiliency. What can I accomplish in the rain? Who can I become in the rain? What can I build? Under these conditions, resilience is based on compassion for ourselves as well as compassion for others. tackle obstacles when we face adversity and conflict. It is only then that we find hidden reserves of courage and resilience.

We didn't even know we had. So I need you to put in a thousand percent every single. I'm talking to that football team. I'm talking to that baseball team, that basketball team. I'm talking to that fighter. I'm talking to that track star. I'm talking to that athlete. I'm talking to that student.

I'm talking to the person who failed the exact team. who failed the exam over and over and over again. I'm talking to that individual who feels as though all hope is lost, who feels as though they gave it their all. If you are still alive, you've got something left. You still think failure is final.

You're going to learn to change the movie that is playing in your head. In the moment that you stop thinking that failure is final, and you shift your perspective. And you understand that failure is a lesson learned. It is at that very moment that you can break out of the prison of fear. Because this is what happens. When we fail, when we fall, fear creeps in.

Fear sedates us. Fear immobilizes us. Fear tells us that we're inflexible. We're incapable. Fear tells us that we're irrespective. Fear tells us that we don't want it bad enough. Fear imprises us. Out of this place.

And you try it again, you'll fail again. So stay here with me. Fear is moody and resentful and lazy and self-condeming. And your future hinges on these two words. If you will listen, these two words can be your passport out of the prison of fear. If nobody has told you this, let me tell you now. I know you failed, but you failed. failed but get up. I know it hurts but get up. One of the things you are going to have to do

is get the image of failure out of your head. Stop meditating on the mess up and see yourself walking in the mastery of this thing. If you want your future, get up now. Get up, get up, get up, get up, get up. I know you're bleeding, but get up. I know it hurt, but get up. I know you disappointed people that Believe in you, but get up and try again, try again, try again. Right where you are, I want you to see it differently. And this time you understand where your weaknesses are. This time you understand your vulnerabilities. I need you to see this thing.

You've got to see this thing. Failure is not final. If you can see failure differently, then the whole game changes. Now the world is your classroom because now you're seeing failure differently. If you're going to get up and try this thing again, four things you've got to know right now. Hear me loud or clear. Snap out of it.

Snap out of it, snap out of it, snap out of it, snap out of it. Stop telling yourself you're not good enough. Stop telling yourself you don't have what it takes. Snap out of it, snap out of it. Stop telling yourself you will fail if you try again. Step out of it. Get up and give it everything you have. A lot of us don't get up and try again

because we keep playing the failure. you're over again and again and again. And this is why you continue to fail because that's all you see. In the moment that you change the emotion picture in your head and you see something different, now you no longer see the mess, you no longer see the madness,

you no longer see the trauma, you see the triumph, you see what is possible, you see that you have what it takes because you saw where you failed and now you can see, okay, now failure, You're positioned us to be instructors for the future.

You become a better thinker and a better problem solver. Failure spawns creativity, motivation, and tenacity. Show me somebody who has achieved greatness. And if you pull up their past, I promise you, you'll see some failures and some lessons learned. But what happened? Failure became their instructor. All of these lessons eventually build a level of confidence in self-esteem

that you would have never had you not failed. Failure teaches us how to value and cherish wisdom and understanding. Failure teaches us how to reprioritize. Failure creates opportunity to come back. I don't want you to see failure as a disease. I want you to see it as a currency. I want you to know that there are lessons that you learn and you gain wisdom in the lesson.

You gain a deeper understanding of the power of your future. There are things you will be able to buy in your future with the currency of failure, with the lesson that you learn. We look in this mirror and we see what's possible. We see possibility. And oftentimes we date possibility. We date destiny. We don't marry destiny. We date destiny.

We date the idea, the theory of success, what I could be, what's possible. We conversate about things. we want to accomplish, but then we get trapped back in the prison of fear. Fear of failure. A lot of you, you have fear of greatness. You are afraid of promotion. You are afraid of elevation. You are afraid to hit the stage.

You are afraid of opportunity because you're thinking to yourself, if I get on this stage, if I get on this field, if I get on this court, if I get on this track, if I get in this room and you give me an opportunity and I drop the ball. I won't be able to ever live it down. But listen to me, it is a lesson learned. And it is a lesson that you would have never learned had you not given it a try. Give yourself a chance to win. Give yourself a chance to win. Be the person that said, I tried. I tried. I gave it all I had. I tried. And now I can reevaluate. And now I can deliberately investigate my emotional. and mental state and I can figure out what's wrong with me, what happened, why did I miss the ball,

why did I miss the punch, why didn't I see this thing the way I could have, what can I do better? If we can change our perspective on failure, our lives, we never be the same. You're going to learn to change the movie that is playing in your head. A lot of us don't get up and try again because we keep playing the failure over again and again And again, and this is why you continue to fail, because that's all you see. In the moment that you change the motion picture in your head and you see something different, now you no longer see the mess, you no longer see the madness, you no longer see the trauma, you see the triumph, you see what is possible, you see that you have what it takes

because you saw where you failed and now you can see, okay, now failure, position just to be instructors. for the future. And see, when we get into the prison of fear, because we have fallen in an area, fear has friends. One of the chief friends of fear is doubt. And doubt cures more dreams than failure ever will. There are people who have failed in their head before they even reach the field. So I want to invite you to renounce the spirit of fear. Failure is the only opportunity to begin again.

And if I'm talking to anybody that's hungry for the future, all you need is an opportunity to try again. Failing doesn't make you a failure. It's something you did. It's not who you are. There's a light inside of every one of us, an ember that burns and begs us to become more. than what we have ever been. It's our aspirations that must become our allies. I noticed that everything that I have accomplished over the course of my life,

I accomplished with a new set of beliefs and a new set of habits. I noticed I was able to make things happen when I destroyed the door in the room. See, I don't care what your goal is. It could be relationships. It could be to lose weight. It could be to make more money. It could be to become something nobody in your family has ever been. The moment that you destroy the door, the way out, in the room of your dream, that's when you make it happen.

What you do while you are in pain will echo through the ages. scrape the grill of your past and get all that junk out of there of every memory of every failure. You need to unplug from everybody and everything that is telling you that you cannot have your future, that you cannot have this goal, that you can't do what's on your heart to do. You've got to unplug, unplug, unplug, unplug, unplug, unplug, unplug, unplug. There are too many people in your life that keep telling you that you are not qualified, that you don't have what it takes, that you will never be able to accomplish because your resume they hate long enough because you don't have the experience because you are unfit.

And so you've got to unplug from all the negative voices. You've got to unplug from everything and everybody that's telling you you cannot have that dream, that you are not qualified to have that dream. You got to unplug. You got to unplug. It may hurt because there are some people that you're going to have to let go of. There's some people that can't come with you to the next level. They're not qualified to fly at the frequency that you're flying at.

They cannot come. And you got to get in touch with you. So you can't have the dream unless you know you. Everybody wants this dream. Everybody wants this lifestyle, but they don't know themselves. And so you need to take some physical evaluation, some emotional and psychological evaluation, spiritual evaluation. And you've got to figure out, okay, what works and what does it? And what are my boundaries and what are my limitations and what are my capable of?

And what do I need to work on? And then you need to connect with the people that believe in your dream. Life moves at the speed of your relationships, connections, and circles. You need to ask for forgiveness. You need to forgive yourself. You need to re-prioritize your activities. Everybody wants the dream to come true, but nobody wants to re-prioritize their activities. Nobody wants to hack into their habitual nature and build new habits that are going to give you the future that you see.

that you seek after. If not now, then when? Dream big, start small. We've got to dream big, start small, act now. Dream big, start small, act now. Stop waiting for the temperature to change. Stop waiting for your feelings to be in check. Stop waiting for everything to line up. It's never going to line up. It's never going to be perfect. You just got to jump. You just have to jump. There are no roses without rain. If you can remember that, then you will always see adversity as advantage and obstacle as opportunity. Know this, that your process may be messy, but your mess will become your message. So what is your why? Because if your why is powerful enough, then you can persevere through the process.

What is it? Find it, define it, be reminded that you can. You will, you must never give up. The actions that you take, the moves that you make were echoed throughout the ages as there is a generation of people who are attached to your why. And if you don't succeed, they'll never believe. So make it happen. Persistence, consistency, resilience, courage. establishing your priorities,

mastering self-awareness, maintaining, focus, believing that your help is coming because if your dream only requires you, it's not big enough. And I know it's hard right now, and I know you feel like quitting, but you've got to understand there is no tomorrow.

There is no tomorrow. Stop lying to yourself. telling yourself that you have time. See, the greatest lie that you have believed far too long is that you have time. You have time

that there is a tomorrow that you can drag your feet and you can crawl. Sometimes you got to run. That kid, you can't crawl towards some dreams. You can't walk towards some dreams. Some dreams you got to run toward.

You got to run, baby. Run, run, run, run. Run after it. Run like this note tomorrow. Run like you know you deserve it. Run like you know that there is nobody else that could attain it. Run after it. For many of you, defeat has traumatized you,

and it has left an image in your hair. And this is why you won't go after it. I want you to erase the face of defeat and embrace the process. Now I know for many of you, that's like a bad word. You hate process. But see, the process is a series of actions or steps taken in order to achieve a particular end. And in order for you to reach your end, that end is going to have to be extremely valuable in your eyes.

The process is muddy. The process is murky. The process is dark. The process is cold. The process is going to leave you in places where you're going to feel like you have been abandoned, like nobody believes in you, nobody supports you. When you don't see a light at the end of your tunnel, you've got to remember the light that is burning inside of you that nobody is able to put out.

There is not a person on this planet that can stop you. There is not a person on this planet that can, puncture your potential if you could just get through the process. Just get through the process. It's muddy, it's bloody, but it's worth it. At the end of the day, it's worth it. No sunrise without a sunset. There is no one like you in all of the earth. There is no one that can do what you can do. You are the only option. You are the only play. Nobody else is going to be able to do this. Know this, that your process may be messy, but your mess will become your message.

So what is your why? Because if your why is powerful enough, then you can persevere through the process. What is it? Find it. Define it. Be reminded that you can, you will, you must never give up. I don't care what the adversity has been. You have two choices.

You can be unforgiving, bitter, angry, upset, and be a carrier of grief, or you can choose resilience with what happened. You can upload the program of resilience and recover all and get back to the place where you were before the fall. Stop waiting for the storm to pass. and ask yourself the question, what can I accomplish in the rain? What can I accomplish in the rain? Who can I become in the rain? There are people, all of the world,

who are depending on you. So our wounds become wisdom. We have a new program. It's called resiliency. The race is not given to the strong, no the swift, but it is given to he that endureth until the end. Life doesn't get any easier. It doesn't get more forgiving. We just get stronger and we get more resilient. One thing we know is that adversity, conflict, trauma does not discriminate.

We are all acquainted with pain. I don't care how many times life knocks you down, get back up and tell life I'm supposed to be here. I'm be here. I've been like, Here, give me what's mine. When we tackle obstacles, when we face adversity and conflict, it is only then that we find hidden reserves of courage and resilience we didn't even know we had. It's literally only when we face failure that we realize these resources are always there within us. We only need to find them. to fulfill our destinies. After life has beaten you and broken you into pieces.

Resiliency is that gift and ability. It's the discipline to turn those pieces into a work of art. Many of you listening to me know what it's like to lose everything. You know what it's like to hit rock bottom. You know what it's like not to be supported. You know what it's like to be lied on. You know what it's like to experience emotional, relational, and psychological trauma. And it changes you because you don't know what you are made of until you have gone through something.

You already know what failure feels like. You already know what it feels like to quit, to stop, to throw in the towel, to sit on the couch, to move to a substance, to put your confidence in some man. or some woman to lay idle, but do you know what it's like to give everything that you have and push and persevere? If you're going to understand the program of resiliency, we are going to have to stop running from difficult times. Stop praying that the storm will pass over you and pray to grow through the storm. Stop going around it, go through it. What you go through,

you will grow through. Some fights are not won in the first round. Flat out, in the moment that you get that and you get crystal clear and you accept the fact that there are some giants that you will not defeat in the first round. You need endurance. You need stamina to reach some goals. You're not going to hit the million with the first investment.

You're not going to hit the home run always at first week. But resilience. He says, I belong here and I deserve another shop. I want my opportunity. Give me my opportunity. It's your reaction to adversity, not adversity itself, that determines how your life story will develop. Rock bottom is the solid foundation to build the future.

And you've lost everything. You have everything you need. Resiliency says, I tried and I failed. Resiliency has its own mentality. The program of resiliency says, I tried and I failed. I tried and I failed. I tried and I failed. I tried and I failed again.

I'm going to start again. And I'm not waiting until Monday. I'm going to start right now. I try it again and again. And I succeeded. See, what a lot of people don't know is that the movie, the Matrix, is more of a documentary than it is a movie. See, anytime Neo needed to accomplish something,

they would just simply upload the program. If he needed to know Taekwondo, if he needed to know karate, if he needed to speak a different language, he would literally just upload the program to Nio's consciousness. Well, life works the same. There is a program. We all run programs. And it doesn't matter if you're at the county fair.

It doesn't matter if you're at the family cookout. It doesn't matter if you're at home watching a movie in the basement or on vacation with your wife or your husband. we're all running a program. And you have default settings within your subconscious. And we have many of us deal with laziness. Many of us deal with anger. Many of us deal with frustration.

And these are different programs that we run. And so now you need to deliberately investigate and examine your internal man and ask yourself, what are the programs I'm running? Because for many of us, laziness is a program. Procrastination is a program.

Anger and anguish and bitterness and unforgiveness is a program. And if you're going to hang on to grief and anger and unforgiveness because of the lawsuit or because of the jail time or because of the record that you think somebody messed up or the messy divorce you are going through or the job you lost or the business that tanked, I don't care what the adversity has been. have two choices. You can be unforgiving, bitter, angry, upset, and be a carrier of grief, or you can choose resilience. You can cope with what happened. You can upload the program of resilience and recover all and get back to the place where you were before the fall.

Get up! Stop waiting for the storm to pass and ask yourself the question, what can I accomplish in the rain? What can I accomplish in the rain? Who can I become in the rain? What can I build under these conditions? Resilience is based on compassion for ourselves as well as compassion for others. The future is hinged on your resiliency.

Your family is depending on your. you to put in the work, your friends, your circles of influence, your mentors. There are people, all of the world, who are depending on you. So our wounds become wisdom because our perspective, we have a new program. It's called resiliency. Are you willing to lose sleep? Are you willing to put the work in? Are you fully persuaded?

Are you determined? I don't care how many times life knocks you down, get back up and tell life I'm supposed to be here I belong here give me what's mine When we tackle obstacles when we face adversity and conflict It is only then that we find hidden reserves of courage and resilience We didn't even know we had It's literally only when we face failure that we realize that we realize that we find these resources are always there within us.

We only need to find them to fulfill our destinies. After life to pieces, resiliency is that gift and ability. It's the discipline to turn those pieces into a work of art.