Motivation Daily by Motiversity - THE ALPHA BEAST MENTALITY - Best Motivational Speeches Compilation

Episode Date: August 22, 2024

ALPHA BEAST MENTALITY! Dig deep push all the negativity aside and become a beast! Speakers:Eric Thomashttps://youtube.com/etthehiphoppreacher https://twitter.com/Ericthomasbtchttp://etinspires.com/Da...vid GogginsInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidgoggins/Twitter: https://twitter.com/davidgogginsWebsite: http://www.davidgoggins.com/Denzel WashingtonDwayne The Rock JohnsonKobe BryantCoach PainYouTube: http://bit.ly/2LmRyeaInstagram: http://bit.ly/2XLcLW5Website: http://bit.ly/2YTgWvqBook Coach Pain to speak at your organization: https://bit.ly/BookCoachPain Marcus “Elevation” TaylorYouTube: https://bit.ly/MarcusATaylorChannelInstagram: http://bit.ly/3aLfu3PFacebook: http://bit.ly/2TB9uoiTwitter: https://bit.ly/3xXlFCPBook Marcus to speak at your organization: https://bit.ly/BookMarcusATaylor Stephen A. SmithInstagram: http://bit.ly/2oiTFWNTwitter: https://twitter.com/firsttakeWilliam "King" HollisYouTube: http://bit.ly/WillHollisYouTubeInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/williamkinghollisFacebook: http://bit.ly/2LNZtgAWebsite: https://williamhollismotivation.com/Tom BilyeuYouTube: https://bit.ly/TomBilyeuChannel Instagram: https://bit.ly/4bz9w5VPodcast: https://bit.ly/TomBilyeuPodcast Music:Really Slow Motion - Sigma, Century, Throne of MastersBuy their music:Amazon : http://amzn.to/1lTltY5iTunes: http://bit.ly/1ee3l8KSpotify: http://bit.ly/1r3lPvNBandcamp: http://bit.ly/1DqtZSoSecession Studios https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCwd8uu2mtJUgHYRffUl2yPQ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Hello listeners. Motivosity is excited to share that we have launched a new podcast called Morning Motivation by Motivore. If you are looking to start your day with positivity and the most uplifting motivational audio, this is the show for you. For today's episode of Motivation Daily by Motivority Podcast, we are sharing a recent episode from the Morning Motivation Podcast. If you like it, go follow the show. New episodes are being released every week.
Starting point is 00:00:36 The link is in the description. Everybody wants to be a beast until it's time to do what bees do. I never looked at things as problems. I look at them as opportunities. Who teaches you to be a man? Greatness is not something that you meet once. It's something that you meet thousands of times in your life. And you don't reach it.
Starting point is 00:01:06 If you're not constantly in constant pursuit of greatness. The most powerful thing that we can be is ourselves. Dreams without goals are just dreams, and ultimately they fuel disappointment. Those times when you don't feel like working, but you do it anyway, that's the dream. It's not the destination, it's the journey. Without commitment, you'll never start, but more importantly, without, without, Without consistency, you'll never finish. You can't just say you want it.
Starting point is 00:01:43 You can't watch the video and say, I want it as bad as I want to breathe. It's cute to say it. But when it's showtime, when the sun comes up, now it's time to hunt. And what separates you from everybody else is that when it's time to hunt, you're ready to hunt. It's a lifestyle.
Starting point is 00:02:03 You don't hit this news button. You don't want to go run. You don't want to go swim. You don't want to go swim. You don't want to go swim. You don't want to make your bed. You make your bed. You don't want to clean your house and clean your house.
Starting point is 00:02:11 You don't want to study you study. That's how you start to callish your mind. That became my life. When you can't control what's happening until you control how you respond to it, that's where your power is. If you stay in your comfort zone, that's why you will fail.
Starting point is 00:02:27 Success is not a comfortable procedure. If you think the price of winning is too high, wait till you get the bill from regret. Only do I want to be a beast, if you follow my choice, 24 hours, I do it be stew. You know the feeling. It's not that fake lion tigers and bears motivation. This that growing up in the slums,
Starting point is 00:02:58 watching your mom nod on the couch as you go to school. We want more. We want more out of his life. And if you're not willing to give that to us, we're going to take it. Like everybody's already counted you out. Like everybody's already told you, you don't have what it takes. You don't measure up. that what you started, you will not finish.
Starting point is 00:03:29 Claw your way into your future. Fight for your goal. Give it everything you have because you have nothing to lose. Life's going to hit you in your mouth and you got to do me a huge favor. Your why has to be greater than that knocked out. And I love it. Buster Douglas got knocked out. Nobody ever got knocked out by Mike Tyson and ever got back up.
Starting point is 00:03:52 It was almost a 10 count. He was stumbling. They were full. three, two, one, ding, ding, ding, saved by the bell. He goes to his corner, the whole world is like, up, that's it. Once he comes back out, that's it. Mike's gonna just hammering, and exactly that. Mike Tyson came out like I got him.
Starting point is 00:04:12 I got this kid up against the rope. Listen to me, many of you right now, life's got you up against the rope. You can't give up, you can't give in. Listen to me, if it was easy, everybody would do it. And if life's got you backed up, I need you to do it with Buster Doug. did, Buster Douglas started fighting back. What an uppercut by Douglas is down. The world was shot.
Starting point is 00:04:34 Goliath has been knocked down, what happened? And they went to Buster Douglas, and they asked Buster Douglas simply like, what happened? And Buster Douglas said, listen to me, it's real simple. Before my mother died, she told the whole world that I was going to be Mike Tyson. And two days before the fight, my mother died. Buster Douglas had, he had a decision to make. When his mother died, he could die with his mother,
Starting point is 00:04:54 or he made a decision, I can wake up, and I can wake up, and I can I can wake up and I can live for mom. And he knocked Mike Tyson out simply because his Y was greater than that punch. His Y was greater than defeat. His Y was greater than his trial and his tribulation. And I'm telling you, if you don't know what your Y is and your Y is in strong, you won't get knocked out every single day. A man is not a man by his age.
Starting point is 00:05:21 A man is a man by his experiences. what he goes through what he fights through that's what makes a warren that's what makes the greatest of all time I won't end my life
Starting point is 00:05:37 in a bottomless pit I'm a rise and I'm so a world that greatness is obtained by a man that never stop pushing I believe and I stand on it to this day as long as the sun is shining on
Starting point is 00:06:01 my face and not on my grave, I got an opportunity of a lifetime. Sometimes I got to look myself in the mirror and ask myself, is that all you got? Come on, you're prepared, your condition, you've been beaten, you've been better, you've been broken, you've been left for dead, but there's more because you're breathing and you feel it. So if you can feel it, you can push you, so push past. The truth of the matter is, that's not all you have. There's more left in you. I know you're tired.
Starting point is 00:06:37 I know you're weary. I know you've been brought to tears. All the blood, all the sweat, all the sacrifice, all of the suffering. I know you want to quit right now, but this is not the time to let go. This is not the time to doubt. This is not the time to quit. Keep going. Use it to your advantage.
Starting point is 00:07:00 See the pain as a stage. See the pain as a plane. See the pain as an opportunity. You gave me an opportunity to reinvent myself. You gave me an opportunity to come out of my grave that you put me in. You left me for dead. I'm coming out alive. I'm coming out kicking.
Starting point is 00:07:21 I'm coming out swinging. You left me and thought I wouldn't overcome. You forgot about me. You let go and thought I couldn't survive it. But I'm here. It's not always about people. Sometimes life, oftentimes, most of the times, Life will blood in your nose.
Starting point is 00:07:40 Life will leave you in a cardiac arrest. Life will leave you in an accident. Life will knock you upside to hair. And there you get back up to you. You'll use the pain because it's more or less. I'm talking to that person in the hospital bed. I'm talking to that person that lost their mother. I'm talking to that person that lost their father.
Starting point is 00:08:04 I'm talking to that person who didn't get picked on the teeth. I'm talking to that stay-at-home mom. I'm talking to the future engineer, I'm talking to that future entrepreneur, that hustler. I'm talking to that person who's been called to do something. Nobody's done in their family. I know you're going through an unprecedented amount of pain, but you can press through it, if you can feel it, you can lift it. The time is now to do what's never been done.
Starting point is 00:08:33 Use the pain! Use the pain! Use the pain! So I hear the crowd's calling. The crowd's calling. And even if they're silent, I will call myself. Why do you that we go through life and we feel like we can live without pain, that we can avoid pain, that we can go under it or go around it? Pain is like pressure. And without pressure, there is no diamond.
Starting point is 00:09:15 And I'm just wondering if there's anybody out there that's listening to me that is sick and tired of complaining about the pain, I don't make enough. They didn't believe in me. They weren't there. They didn't see it. They didn't pick me. I didn't get the raise. I didn't get the promotion. She walked out of me. He abused me. My kids are ignoring me. My teenagers are driving me crazy. I just wonder if there's anybody that want to stop complaining about it and it's going to use it to your advantage. Imagine if you could use pain as a fuel. Imagine if you can use the pain as a passport. Imagine if you can use the pain to, to push you, to condition you, to prepare you for the stages and the rooms you've got to walk into and the tables you've got to sit at and the stages you have to stand on. What if the pain can make you better? What if the pain could build muscle?
Starting point is 00:10:12 What if the pain could cause you to retire to leap farther, to run faster? What if the pain could help you? What if all pain isn't hurt but it's helped? Because you wouldn't have prayed like you pray had you not been hurt. You wouldn't love like you love that you've not been hurt because you know what it's like to hate somebody So you refuse to go down that path Pain a musician plays his instrument play pain play it When pain shows up at your door when people try to inject it inflict it use it to your advantage
Starting point is 00:10:53 Oftentimes it feels like it is impossible and insurmountable thief to get past the beating but as long as I can I'm not in the state of paralysis. If you can feel it, you can move it. I can feel this. I can move this. I'm not paralyzed. I can feel this. It's heavy, but it's got to get out of my way. When life throws you a weight, lifted. I'm not your brain because life got heavier. I'm celebrating because I'm getting stronger. Let's go! Your perspective is everything. You've got to see this thing differently. You got to find a mirror and see this thing. You got to find a mirror and see this thing. differently and I got to speak these affirmations and I have to believe I have to believe even if I'm bleeding even if I'm broken I have to believe that this came to help me not hurt me it made me better I'm not bitter I'm wiser I'm conditioned now I see this thing differently now I'm able to move and navigate and breathe different and talk different and walk different and build
Starting point is 00:12:02 differently I'm not building out of anger and revenge I'm building from a place of abundance is inevitable And it is unavoidable. You cannot live without pain. But how you navigate that pain will determine how you propel into your purpose. Use the pain, use the pain to push you into a place of abundance. Use the pain to push you into a place where your very existence is life-giving. Use the pain, not for revenge, but for fulfillment.
Starting point is 00:12:39 I don't want you to die because you wanted me to die. I don't hate you because you hate me. I don't want you. I don't want you to lose everything even though you took everything from me. I want everybody to win. If you can hear my voice, I want you to win.
Starting point is 00:12:53 I'm talking to people that have lied on me. I'm talking to the people that have given up on me. I'm talking to the people that have walked out on me after I gave you everything. I'm talking to you. I want you to win. I want everybody to win. That's how you know you've used the pain.
Starting point is 00:13:10 Not to inflict pain, but you've converted that pain. in the fuel. So there needs to be a conversation on the inside of you about conversion, convert the pain into fuel, not payback. Payback is for pumps. I don't need you to hurt like you hurt me. I want you to win because I want to be better. I got to be bigger. I got to be the better human being. I got to be the one who's existing that's life-giving. I got to be the one that can do better. I got to be the one that after you knock me off of the mountain, after you push me off of the heel,
Starting point is 00:13:43 after you dragged me off the staircase I was climbing after I wiped the blood out of my eyes and spit up whatever I need to spit up and cough up whatever I need to cough up I'm coming back to help you I need everybody to win it is inevitable and it is unavoidable the question is can you leave where you've been can you close the gap between pain and promise so it's time to come face to face with Look yourself in the mirror and ask yourself how much more can you take? Ask yourself the question, is this all you got? The more you run and the more you lift and the more you train and the more you dance and the more you sing and the more you advance into the beauty, the brilliance of your future, the more that you move forward and you advance and you do it for your mother. You do it for your father. You do it for the one that believed in you.
Starting point is 00:14:48 You do it for God himself who put you on this planet to make an impact and leave a legacy. Ask the pain one question. Is this all you have? Is this all you got? Well, I'm lifting these weights. I know it hurts, but ask that dumbbell. Is that all you got? Ask that trouble.
Starting point is 00:15:06 Is that all you got? When you're in rehearsal, when you're practicing again, when you're beating on your craft, ask yourself, is this all you got? Self, I got more in me. You thought you went empty, but you had a quarter tank. Some of you had half a tape. Some of you have three quarters of a tape. There's more in you.
Starting point is 00:15:23 My content creators, my entrepreneurs, my musicians, come on, my keynote speakers, my captains of industries, my CEOs, from the captain to the cashier, there is more in you. It hurts when we hitting the gym. It hurts. But we're lifting these weights and we're trying to accomplish a goal. It hurts. It's painful. It's painful.
Starting point is 00:15:50 daunting it's cumbersome I don't want to do it I'm sweating I'm I'm bleeding I'm crying I'm suffering but after I've suffered there is a reward stay at home father stay at home mother lawyer doctor hygienist author I don't know who you are where you're from but there's more in you you may be hurting maybe dying on the inside but you still got life left you gave you than everything you had and they left you for dead. I know what that feels like. To be left for dead after you gave everything you had.
Starting point is 00:16:34 I know what it feels like. You give and you poor and you soul and you believe and you give them everything you have and they leave you for dead. And you are either going to lie in a state of paralysis or feel the pain. The truth of the matter is if you can feel it, you still got life.
Starting point is 00:16:54 left in you. Close the gap between pain and promise. The gap is closing. The gap is closing. The gap is closing. The gap is closing. Use the pain. Use the pain. But I would tell you that hard work is what stands out. I pursue number one at all times. You have to be able to look at yourself. I always worked hard. I was never lazy. I was always somebody that believed in hard work. work and when you work hard and you have that sense of pride it goes right out the window if you utilize your efforts in a long fashion but when you do what's right and it's based off of that effort that you put in then you feel good about it because you took care of your responsibilities
Starting point is 00:18:00 can't do the plan before any of that right if i never try if i don't go for this Where's that going to leave? Don't be scared to bet on yourself. You're going to be scared anyway because it is scary. But at the same time, betting on yourself isn't always leaving. Betting on yourself is believing in you. Knowing who you are, one year worth, having an idea about it anyway, and willing to work towards that, to validate that reality. That's betting on yourself.
Starting point is 00:18:39 whatever decision emanates from that is based off of you looking at you and saying, I'm going for it. When you don't do that, what you have done is refrain from challenging yourself to be all you could be. You should be scared if you're clueless. You should be scared if you're ignorant to what you want to do, why you want to do it, and how you intend to go about achieving whatever aspirations you may have. If you're going to overcome that fear at some point, knowledge is a part of the equation. What is winning?
Starting point is 00:19:22 I challenge any human being alive. And if you can't do it, you scratch, claw, and even die trying. It was about striving to do whatever you could to be the best that you can be. That is what I believe makes me to do. It's my commitment to excellence for the collective whole. I believe I'm the best difference. I apologize for it to anybody. You know, Denzel Washington talks about consistency, the importance of consistency.
Starting point is 00:20:05 You got to put into work, you got to go for it. But you have to have consistency. Because without consistency, you're putting into work, the dream is nothing but a dream. And I get all of that. But you have to be able to look at yourself. And you have to be able to be honest with yourself and know when you mess up. Because when you mess up, what I mean when I say is going to catch you is that something, you're going to look at you and you're going to say, but I often tell people this,
Starting point is 00:20:47 particularly when it comes to relationships, relationships come and go. Things don't work out sometimes. But there is nothing on earth worse than when you know you're the reason that messed up. See, if somebody mistreats you, if somebody that you love don't want you no more, but you wanted them and you treated them right and blah, blah, blah, but it didn't work out. It hurts. But you'll be fine. Most people will be fine.
Starting point is 00:21:16 When you're not fine, it's when you know it was you. You messed up. You messed up. You heard that. Everybody you've run across has had apprehension about who they are, where they are, where they're going, etc. But really, the most important thing, it requires like a literal look in the mirror. Asking yourself how you will feel if you never try. A new opportunity.
Starting point is 00:21:56 Going through social media and looking at people on vacations and looking at the people that are projecting the highlights of their life. about that it's about can you do better than you did yesterday if you're walking through or walked out of or survived the worst trauma and pain of your life this is the first day of the best days of your life get up get up there's always another level and it's not about beating the man or woman that's standing in the room with you it's about beating the man and the woman that's in the mirror. Can you do better than you? Can you do better than you did yesterday? That's all I want to ask you. Can you do better? Who may be tired, you may be broken, you may be hurting, people may have betrayed you, lied on you, left you, but you refused to give up.
Starting point is 00:23:11 You know, there'll be days when you are not going to feel like waking up. You are not going to feel like getting out of the bed. You are tired of yourself. You are tired of looking at the face in the mirror that you see. You are tired of maybe the way that your body looks, the money that you have with the people that you are connected to. There are going to be days when you are going to be tired of being you. And you got two options. You can give up or get up. This is the day that everything changes.
Starting point is 00:23:44 Get up! Wads and Guards and Guad! Wake it up at 2 o'clock in the morning, you may have to lose sleep for a week so that you can accomplish what it is that you've been destined to accomplish, what you are born to contribute to humanity. And so I know it hurts, and I know it's expensive. Everything you need to get to this next level is inside of you. But if you don't count up the cost of what it's going to take,
Starting point is 00:24:18 and if you are not willing to pay that price, You cannot have your future. Life and death is in the power of your tongue. Just get in the mirror and start speaking life over yourself. You're making progress. Just needs you to be 1% better than you wore yesterday. Get up. You've got a day to conquer.
Starting point is 00:24:46 Rise and grind, baby. Let's go. Thank you, Lord, for giving me one more day. One more opportunity. One more meal. One more outfit on my back. Thank you for that one opportunity. If you haven't been able to get up, something inside of you has to snap.
Starting point is 00:25:09 You've been insecure long enough. You've been unfit long enough. You've been unqualified long enough. You've been overlooked long enough. You've been undervalued long enough. You've been in this cave. You've been in this deep, dark prison of obscurity and uncertainty and doubt and fear. This is the day you come out of.
Starting point is 00:25:33 your tomb. In this very moment, you have an opportunity. Seize the opportunity. I'm talking to that person that keeps saying, I'm going to lose weight, I'm going to make more money, I'm going to learn a new skill, I'm going to make bigger connections, I'm going to invest in myself. And day after day, you fail. I know you don't feel up to the task. I know you've got some doubt and you've got some fear. and you've got some uncertainty, and you hate the image that you see in the mirror, and you hate the way your money looks and your relationships look, and people that you've given your odds who keep walking out on you, I know you feel stuck in reverse.
Starting point is 00:26:24 I know you feel like you're underpaid and undervalued and overlooked, but listen, get up! This is the day that everything changes. You've got to do what is required in order to manifest. Get up and get after it. So take a deep breath. Inhale, it's a new day. Control all to leave.
Starting point is 00:26:58 Control yourself. Alter your thinking and delete negativity. Period. What are you made of? What is your DNA? What is your mentality? What are the skill sets? Come on, start to write down the vision.
Starting point is 00:27:14 This is the first day of the best days of your life. And get after it. You are here by design. You are listening to this talk by design. Every day, every single day is the beginning. Every decision you make is either bringing you to your destiny or taking you from your destiny. Some of you, you've got to take everything you have on the inside
Starting point is 00:27:54 and claw your way back to right standing. Sometimes you've got to dig deep inside. Look into that person that keeps failing. the mission. Appreciate what has happened. Appreciate the people that walked out on you. Appreciate the people that hurt you. Appreciate the people that overlooked you.
Starting point is 00:28:22 The people that slept on you. Appreciate it. I want you to get this mentality in your head. Every day, you pay. You pay. You pay. two hours asleep in seven days so that you can accomplish what it is that you've been destined to accomplish and you need to get to this next level as inside me there's always another level
Starting point is 00:28:54 the krypton life you have not identified the hurdles what has hindered your forward progress identifying those things this is your day get up and get after it the day could be today that your career is over now what you do I said I'm better get to work. Rest at the end, not in the middle. And that's something I always live by. I'm not going to rest. I'm going to keep on pushing now.
Starting point is 00:30:12 There are a lot of answers that I don't have. There are even questions that I don't have. I'm just going to keep going. I'm just going to keep going. And I'll figure these things out as you go, right? And you just continue to build that way. So I try to live by that all the time. Have a dream, sacrifice for it, and never, ever rest in the middle.
Starting point is 00:30:33 And I came into the NBA, I was that they just do is really don't work that hard. One of the things I would do is everybody would be at the cafeteria work, you know, eating and doing all sorts of stuff. I'd just go back to your job. I just go back to me. How can I show you that no? I have the age. Well, you do it through training, right? So when I get up in the morning, my daughter goes with me.
Starting point is 00:30:54 4 a.m. My 15-year-old goes with me. She goes with me before school, and it becomes a daddy daughter thing. That's cool. Through that process, she understands the value of hard. And so it's through those behaviors is where I find the motivation. I think the definition of greatness is to inspire the people next to you. I think that's what greatness is or should be.
Starting point is 00:31:16 It's not something that lives and dies with one person. It's how can you inspire a person to then in turn inspire another person or then inspires another person? That's how you create something I think lasts forever. It's not sit around and all, it's all, happy, the lucky type of. The leader, your job is to get the best out of me. You gotta deal with it.
Starting point is 00:31:39 Face it, learn from it. It's exciting when you win. It's exciting when you lose, because the process should be exactly the same. But the hardest thing is to face that stuff. But what if today is the day that you, that's it, now what you do? What can I say?
Starting point is 00:32:00 Mom, bow. My parents were great. Growing up, you know, they instilled in me the importance of imagination, of curiosity. understanding that, okay, if you want to accomplish something, I'm not just going to sit here and say, yes, you can do whatever you want. Yes, you can, but you have to also put in the work to get there. So they taught me that at a really early age, man. And when you grow up as a kid thinking that the world is your oyster, all things are possible if you put in the work to do it, you know,
Starting point is 00:32:38 you grew up having that fundamental belief. Who was more influential for you, your father or mother? Both were influential at different points. Right, my mom was there on a daily basis. My father was really influential. I had a really critical time where I had a summer where I played basketball when I was like 10 or 11 years old. And here I come playing and I don't score one point the entire summer. Not one.
Starting point is 00:33:08 You didn't score once, not one. Were you in the game? I was in a game. How did you not score? Because that was terrible. Not a free throw, not a nothing, not a lucky shot, not a breakaway lay up zero points. And I remember crying a ball, about it, being upset about it, my father's getting
Starting point is 00:33:21 a hug and say, listen, whether you score zero or score 60, I'm going to love you no matter, though. Wow. Now, that is the most important thing that you can say to the child. Because from there, I was like, okay, it gives me all the confidence in the world to feel. I have the security
Starting point is 00:33:37 there. But the hell with that, I'm scoring 60. Let's go. Right, right. Right. And from there, I just went to work. I just stayed with it. I kept practicing, kept practicing. I think that's when you were. I think that's the idea of understanding a long-term view became important because I wasn't going to catch these kids in a week. I wasn't going to catch a year, right? So that's when I sat down and said,
Starting point is 00:34:00 okay, this is going to take some thought, right? You would I want to work on first? All right, shooting. All right, let's knock this out. Let's focus on this half a year, six months, do nothing but shooting. After that, all right, creating your own shot. So I started creating a menu of things. When I came back the next summer, I was a little bit better. And then 14 came around, back half of 13, 14 years old, and then I was just killing everyone. And it happened in two years. And I wasn't expected to happen in two years,
Starting point is 00:34:31 but it did because what I had to do was work on the basics and the fundamentals. But they relied on their athleticism and their natural ability. And because I stick to the fundamentals, it just caught up to me. And then my body, you know, my knees stopped hurting. I grew into my frame.
Starting point is 00:34:48 Then your athleticism, once you have the fundamentals, the hard work, The mindset and you tack on the letter. He's got it. It's game. Then it was game. Wow.
Starting point is 00:35:03 The love of the game, the challenge. Like I would watch Magic play. I'd watch Michael play. And I would see them do these unbelievable things. And I'd say, you know, can I get to that level? I don't know, but let's find out. Let's find out. And so that curiosity to see where I could push this thing
Starting point is 00:35:21 let me down that path, I think. With the 13th pick in the 1996 NBA draft, The Charlotte Hornet select Kobe Bryant from Lower Marion High School in Pennsylvania. Greatness lies ahead to this young man. Well, I learned that you have to work hard and you have to approach the game with a serious mindset. There was a stretch in 03 where Shaq was out with an injury. And Phil called me up to his office and said, okay, we need you to really turn on the afterburns and start scoring a ball if you have to win. I did and I wound up scoring, I think it was nine straight games for 40 plus points.
Starting point is 00:36:03 Nine straight? Nine straight games. And then Shaq comes back second to the last game of that. And then Phil called him to his office. So it's cold. Okay, I need you to dial it back. I'm like, why? Like, we're winning.
Starting point is 00:36:17 I don't understand. It's because our goal is to win a championship. But if you continue to do this, we'll lose Shaq. We'll lose him. His motivation, his excitement. What triggers him, right? I need you to pull back so we can pull shack forward for June. Wow.
Starting point is 00:36:33 I mean, that was the big challenge. You move from, you know, being the single dominant player to understand, okay, I have to help these other guys. Oh, I lift everyone else up? It's tough. It's more like you put yourself to the side and you put yourself in their shoes and understand what they're feeling. And then you have to make certain decisions of, okay, what buttons do I need to push for this player to get them to the next level? So it's never, it's not sit around and all, it's all happy to the lucky time. The leader, your job is to get the best out of it,
Starting point is 00:37:07 even if they may not like it at their job. He was very demanding because he expected everyone to put in the same effort as he was. And that was unrealistic. You're not behind me, you're not in front of me, you're right there, you're right there parallel with you. Practice was very competitive right away. You know how Kobe is. We was joined, we had it gone sometimes. going sometimes. He didn't let me slip a lot. Times where I get ejected or I'm about to get a
Starting point is 00:37:35 technical foul or going off the deep end, he would be there to, you know, set me straight a lot, which helped me a lot. So we're getting the timeout. He's like, hey, hey, hey, I'm open. I'm like, okay. So we go out and same thing. Come, hey, hey, I'm open. Okay. Come back in. Hey, dude, you got throwing me the ball. I said, man, fuck that. Get it off the rebound if I'm in. Listen, I don't I don't deal with people that don't commit at that level But then act as if they do the running joke doesn't pass and all so that crap That's okay you know but I'll take those five I'll take five you know I thought if you were a good person and you do right by people That people will take your kindness and give you kindness back
Starting point is 00:38:49 But what I realized is sometimes in this world, the kinder you are, the more they try to play you like a fool. I was delusional. I'm nice to you, you're nice to me. Don't always work like that. Sometimes it's nice to me and I take advantage of you. So some of y'all, you're delusional. I just need you to do me a favor. When you are delusional, you can never get the outcomes you want because the premise in which you're operating from is a lie. So you've got to work from truth. And some of us don't want to with truth because it's so difficult. E.T., you dropped out of school.
Starting point is 00:39:29 E.T., you grew up in a certain community. In order for you to be able to do what you need to do like a Tony Robbins, there's some things that you don't have in your arson that if you can just admit you don't have it in your arson, then you can go get it. But until you admit that you don't have it, you'll never be able to do it. So I need you to be a huge favor.
Starting point is 00:39:47 I just need you to be real. And the reason why a lot of y'all don't want to be real, because some of you would rather be in a lie and at least have a lie than not have anything at all. You already know that job, you ain't about to your boss ain't about to catch you out. You just scared to quit and start your own business because you don't know if you're going to do well or not. You know you shouldn't. Come on, be honest. You know you still shouldn't be at that job right now.
Starting point is 00:40:10 Let me see your hand. Let's just be real. Let me see the hand. You know you should still. Raise it high. Don't play with me. Raise it high. You still shouldn't be at that job. But you're delusional. That one day is going to be your day.
Starting point is 00:40:19 That one day you're going to merge your job and your calling together. It's not going to happen. You're going to have to just leave. permission to say I am brilliant. Yeah, I might be different, but I am brilliant. Yep, I might be live, but I am special. He gave me permission. And so the first thing I want you to do today is I want you to keep saying to yourself, I am, I am, I am. And for those of you who hadn't quite started yet, I am. And for those of you who gotten started, I am. Why? Because I can't believe that I started with a GED and that GED turned into a four-year degree.
Starting point is 00:41:05 One, two, three. One, two, three. One, two, three. I am great. Listen to me, and I don't owe anybody an apology. I am phenomenal, and I don't owe anybody an apology. I am going to do great things, and I don't owe anybody an apology. I am.
Starting point is 00:41:26 I was created to be great. I was created to do great things. I was created to have great things, and I will no longer ask others for their permission. That Eric Thomas that grew up in Detroit, it had like that Detroit mentality. While I love it, it doesn't transfer to every community. Let the dream destroy you.
Starting point is 00:41:50 Let it strip you. Let it remake and mold you. Don't be afraid. Some of you are afraid. Listen to me, wherever you're from, if that's where you're from, if you leave, you can always come back. I promise you.
Starting point is 00:42:02 I promise you when you come back, you can get right back into conversation. Ain't nothing going to change. I promise you, whatever world you're from, if you go to other worlds, you can always go back to that world. The version of you that you are right now is a blessing, but it won't take you to the next level. What got you here won't take you there. So let the dream destroy you, tear you down, redefine you, build you back up, make you stronger. The first version of Eric Thomas, the high school dropout, that guy would have never been able to stand here and help you. I had to destroy that Eric Thomas.
Starting point is 00:42:41 No matter who you are, if you're average or if you're good, when you get around greatness and you stay around greatness, you start listening to great podcasts and reading great books and you start hanging around great people and you start becoming a part of great masterminds, God, you just evolved. And I don't know what happened, but every year I went from a high school dropout and homeless until I started to be coming every single day, more of who I am. And I can't believe it, my next goal is to win the Nobel Prize. Why? I had to come up with something.
Starting point is 00:43:13 I am giving you permission to be great. I'm giving you permission to be everything you were called to be, to do everything that you're capable of doing, to have everything you're supposed to have. Listen to me, you have to be careful when you hang around average people all they're going to do is tell you what they can't do. And that's okay that they can't do it, but that has absolutely nothing to do with us.
Starting point is 00:43:39 We can go from being homeless and high school dropouts to having PhDs, writing books and becoming the voice of a generation. We can do whatever we believe we can do, and we don't need anybody's permission to do it but ours. You are brilliant. You are special. Yes, you're different, and yes, you're not doing it as a traditional route. But greatness is upon you. You got to keep going.
Starting point is 00:44:02 You got to keep going. You got to keep going. In the 12 years to get the four-year degree turned into a master's degree. And the master's degree turned into a PhD. Guys, I can't believe it. I went from being a high school dropout, from being homeless, living in abandoned buildings, to eating out of trash cans, to Dr. Eric Thomas, to writing six books. Guys, are you hearing what I'm saying?
Starting point is 00:44:29 Today? Stop playing. small and start playing big because I am. All right, all right, let's stop. On three, one, two, three. I am. One, two, three. One, two, three.
Starting point is 00:44:46 I am. Listen to me, I was literally homeless. I was coming to church, not really taking showers. I wasn't brushing my teeth. And this guy looked at me and said, you need to get your GED. You need to leave Detroit. I'm going to send you to college because greatness is a part of the I was 16, 17 years old.
Starting point is 00:45:16 I had never spoken a day in my life and this guy saw it. Like he saw something to me that I didn't see and he gave me permission to be where other people said I couldn't be. He gave me permission to believe I was great. He gave me permission to think I could change the world. He gave me permission to start something that had never started in my family before. He gave me permission to say, I am. I am. Listen to me very closely.
Starting point is 00:45:47 When you graduate and you get a job, if you want to get paid, you never say no. You never say it can't get done. Don't you ever say out your mouth it can't get done. Even if you feel in your heart it can't get done, you don't say it out loud. You let the broke folks say that. You let the folks they find first say that. You always say it can get done. Even if you don't think it can get done, just say it and try to make up something.
Starting point is 00:46:09 I'm being real. I'm being real. I don't deal with people who say, or they get paid real low in my company. They like maintenance when you say, I don't know how. Well, I don't think it can be done. I'm like, okay, cool. You won't be like at the end of the year, when bonuses getting passed out, you won't be getting no bonus.
Starting point is 00:46:28 What I need you to do is I need you to kill the noise. I need you to embrace the I am. And however you get it done, I need you to get it done.

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