NerdWallet's Smart Money Podcast - Big Purchases, and Overcoming Money Guilt
Episode Date: November 22, 2021On this episode, Liz starts off by talking with credit card Nerd Sara Rathner about how to manage a big expense on a credit card — including how to earn the most points and avoid paying interest. Th...en Sean joins Liz to answer a listener’s question about overcoming money guilt. To send the Nerds your money questions, call or text the NerdHotline at 901-730-6373 or email podcast@nerdwallet.com.
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Hey, nerdy listeners, Sean here, we are taking a week off for the holiday. So we wanted to re up
an episode from our archives. We'll be back next week with a brand new episode. In the meantime,
we hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving and eat so many of your favorite foods.
Alrighty, talk to you all later.
Welcome to the nerd wallet smart money podcast where we answer your personal finance questions Talk to you all later. on the nerd hotline at 901-730-6373. That's 901-730-NERD or email us at podcast at nerdwallet.com.
On this episode, we'll be talking about overcoming money guilt with nerd Patricia Smith. But first in our This Week in Your Money segment, Sarah and I are going to discuss how to pick the right credit
card when you're going to make a big purchase. This has become a very timely topic. Retail sales exploded in March and people are talking about and actually
doing more travels. So what should people keep in mind, Sarah? You want to think about what credit
card you put this purchase on and not just default to the same card you use for everything because
you might be missing out on an opportunity
to either earn more rewards
or get better purchase protections
if you pick the right card to make the purchase.
And if it's a planned major purchase,
meaning you have a little bit of time that you could wait,
that gives you an opportunity to apply for a new credit card
versus an unplanned emergency expense.
You have to replace a major appliance that broke.
You might not have the time.
You might just have to put it on whatever credit card you have available.
So if you have a planned purchase, use this to your advantage.
Because a lot of the cards with the best rewards,
the best sign-up bonuses, have a pretty significant spend at the beginning.
You typically have about three months to spend anywhere.
I've seen between $500 and $5,000. Yeah, so if you're
spending a lot of money at one time, you can get yourself at least most of the way there. And you
don't have to work quite as hard and potentially blow your budget just to earn a bonus. You should
never do that. By the way, you should never get yourself into debt or exceed your budget just to
earn a bonus because interest on credit cards is really high,
it'll wipe out the value of your bonus.
If you've been thinking about
buying new patio furniture anyway,
and you have the money in your budget to do that,
you're going to spend maybe $2,000.
Put it on the right card.
And make sure you put the deadline on your calendar,
which is something I failed to do once.
And I lost a huge bonus that way credit
card companies are not very sympathetic when you do that when you don't make the minimum spend,
even if you do it like the next month. So you have a limited amount of time to take care of this.
And it's kind of a one and done. If you don't take advantage of it, you lose it.
Exactly three months flies by. So you'll want to keep that deadline date in mind.
If you're not going to be getting a new card, what do you need to think about?
You might also currently be carrying a card that has the features you might already be
looking for when it comes to making a major purchase.
If you already carry some rewards cards, just pick the card that would earn the highest
rewards rate at that particular store for that particular purchase.
Maybe you have a store card that earns the most when you are
shopping there, maybe 3% cashback or 5% cashback. That's a great card to use in that instance. Or
you have a card that just earns the same rewards rate everywhere. So you can turn that patio
furniture purchase into a future flight potentially. And rewards rates can change, right?
They can be subject to change. Sometimes
you have a card that has what we call rotating bonus categories, typically 5% cash back. It's
specific types of purchases for a month or for a quarter. And then once that month or quarter ends,
the card changes up what you can earn that high rewards rate on. So you might have a quarter,
for example, where the bonus category is home improvement stores. So if you've been thinking about doing some stuff around the house, buying
some new yard equipment, doing a little bit of redecorating, this could be a good time to use
that card on those types of purchases. Other times, maybe you're planning a road trip and you
might get 5% cash back at gas stations. So those are good examples of cards that you want to pay
attention to their rewards programs because they are changing several times a year. That means that you might want to pick that card in one particular quarter, but then leave the card in your wallet at a different quarter just because it's not really matching up with your spending.
I like purchase protections. I've used travel protections many times when I had to cancel a trip at the last minute. But I know there's lots of other protections that go along with a credit card. Can you talk about a few of those?
Purchase protections are big. In some instances, there are limitations, of course, but you might
get an extended warranty on a purchase that gives you an extra year beyond the manufacturer's
warranty, which is really nice. If you order something online and the item is lost or stolen
or damaged during shipping and the merchant will not reimburse you or send you a new one,
then you can get reimbursement that way from your credit card company. And then there are also
travel protections. So if you are planning a trip, you're going to want to use a card with travel
protections to make all of your bookings because at no additional cost, you get coverage if you
need to cancel or delay your trip because of a covered reason. That's important to know, of course,
with all insurance. Or if your luggage gets lost or damaged or stolen during your trip,
or even delayed and you have to buy some extra clothes and toiletries, you get some money back
to offset those costs as well. It's really nice to have these extra layers of security
without having to pay for them. And the other thing credit cards can offer is free financing,
essentially. Pretty much. Yeah, you see a lot of cards on the market that offer 0% interest for a set period of time on new purchases. So
sometimes you see a year or more to pay back of a large purchase, which can be pretty incredible.
So that's an instance where you might want to sign up for a brand new card. And then you can
have 12, 15, 18, even 20 months to pay back your purchase.
And compared to what you might be able to get in terms of financing from the merchant directly,
this can save you a lot of money. Not every merchant offers 0% interest.
And Sarah, when you wrote about this, you also mentioned the idea of using more than one card,
which I thought was intriguing.
You can split a large purchase on multiple cards. You might want to treat it like,
you know, when you buy a car, you make a down payment and then you finance the rest.
Yeah. Really, when you buy anything big and you finance it like a house.
So you could put the quote unquote down payment on a card that earns a signup bonus
and use that sum of money toward earning the bonus. And then you can also put the remainder
amount due on a card that charges
0% interest. So it's kind of like putting in a down payment, getting rewards on that down payment,
and then financing the rest interest free for a long period of time.
Do you have any big purchases that you are planning this summer?
Well, we are thinking of doing some stuff around our house, mainly redoing our backyard because
our backyard is currently a sad,
totally paved over parking pad
with lots of cracks in it.
And it's like where plants go to die
and we never spend time back there.
We would like to make it a bit more of an oasis,
some more planting areas, a nicer patio.
We're still in the phase
where we're talking to contractors
and getting estimates and getting plans drawn up.
And that's taking a long time.
And once we have an idea of how much this can cost us, then we'll start thinking about
how we want to pay for it.
Well, that was my next question is I don't tend to use the 0% offers just because I'm
forgetful.
And I'm absolutely sure I'm going to forget to get everything paid off by the date when
the 0% rate expires.
So for me, the credit cards are really about using those purchase protections,
using the extended warranties to make sure that everything is covered.
But I know people use the 0% rates all the time.
Do you ever do that?
I have not done that.
I tend to save money up for a big purchase and then make the purchase once I have the
savings and then pay it off.
So as a result of that, I tend to use credit cards more for the rewards and for the signup
bonuses rather than for 0% APR. That being said, there are times where it just makes more sense to
finance something. If you can get a very low interest rate or no interest rate and then make
a set monthly payment and then time your payments and work them out. So maybe pay it off a couple
months early so you know that you have a buffer. If you have an extra three months or so at the end,
that way you know you paid it off on time. Or if you are short on cash because of an unexpected
expense, you can build yourself in a little bit of a buffer. So definitely leave some space for that.
If you can pay something off in a set monthly amount, it really can become easier to budget for these major costs. I know that there are people who are very debt
averse and I similarly afraid of debt. I think everybody is. But there are times where you can
use debt as a tool to get something that you need. And so you just need to be very careful about it
and put in these guardrails.
So you know you're not going to get yourself into trouble.
That's excellent advice, Sarah.
Thanks for joining us this week.
Now we can move on to this week's money question, which comes from Gray in the Bay Area.
Hi, Money Crew.
My name's Gray.
And my question is, how do I talk to my friends about how proud I am with my investing and not feel guilty about investing?
I feel like when I talk to my
friends, they look at me like I'm participating in an evil institution. I personally feel that
because I'm Black, I'm automatically starting a few steps behind in terms of financial education,
privilege, and income. I also don't think it's too crazy to want to retire one day.
I make sure I donate to a local bicycling advocacy group, but I still feel like I'm looked at as if I sold
my soul. Help. My co-host Sean Piles and I really wanted to answer Gray's question, and to do that,
we enlisted the help of fellow nerd Patricia Smith. Thanks for joining us, Patricia. Thank you for
having me, and it's a pleasure to be here. Patricia's led some really important conversations
we've had internally at NerdWallet about allyship, racial justice, and equity. A lot of the conversations I've started and led at NerdWallet
are meant to have our nerds think more critically about how underrepresented minorities view the
world based on our cultural perspectives. So I think this is an important conversation at this
time. Absolutely. And I think a lot of people have learned over the past year that our country
has a lot of work to do. We as individuals and we as people who are part of this broader structure
of our society and country to not only acknowledge but to create equity for the centuries of white
supremacist racial discrimination. And one of the legacies of this history is a significant racial
wealth gap and mistrust of financial institutions among some underrepresented minorities, which I
realize is a lot to think about and digest. So to kick off this conversation, Patricia, can you give
us some context around this? There's definitely historical factors, but I think it mostly comes down to a
lack of conversation about finances within Black families and other underrepresented minority
families. A lot of the conversations are more around what our families didn't have money for,
as opposed to how to manage our money well. That seems pretty similar to my upbringing as well,
in some ways, where we were often talking about, okay, I would like the shirt
from Kohl's or wherever we were shopping, but we just don't have the money for it. So maybe next
school year, we can get something like that. And the idea of a credit score or investing were
things that were just so far from my radar that I didn't even really know about them until after
college. Yeah. And I think in some cases too, I know, because like I said, I'm an African American
woman. I consider myself black. The conversation around money was different for different things.
So it's like, you might have money for say shoes and clothes, but like your parents would discuss
with you, like, do you have McDonald's money? So it's like this mishmash of like, what is important
and what isn't, I think helps skew people's perception of money in a lot of underrepresented
minority families as well. It's interesting thinking about Gray's question because they mentioned that they feel like they're
a few steps behind in terms of financial education. I'm wondering what might be some good ways to
overcome that. Obviously, at NerdWallet, we like to talk about people doing their own research,
but I think that there are some conversations to be had among people's friend groups about
how to manage your money or how to have a good credit
score. What do you think about that, Patricia? I think that you're absolutely right. I know
in conversations that I've had both internally at No Wallet with my own family and friends,
what I have found is that I love to read. So I'm always reading something. So people trust
my opinion on a number of things, even though they might not necessarily agree with my methodology
initially,
over time, because I've been talking about it, they'll come back around. And if I can provide
an example, I had a friend who I told I had gotten a personal loan to help some credit card debt that
I had. And I told her why I got it, how much I had gotten. And she was like, that's just silly.
Why would you take on more debt? Two years later, she came to me to ask me a question about that
same way of managing my
finances. How did it help my credit and all of those kinds of things. So I think it's this idea
of not expecting your initial conversation to bear fruit, maybe planting the seed of an idea of
someone and then that later bearing fruit and you having that conversation again and just being open
to that being the cycle of things as you talk about your money. Right. And there's a balance
between setting an example among your friend group and not trying to convince people to do something with their
money because that will just scare them away in my experience. I'm a huge fan of being the one
who's smart with money and not being obnoxious about it, but also just being the person in your
friend group that people can trust and gently guiding folks. It's like a lot of us got into the 401k at our workplace
initially because somebody said, hey, you should do this. Not because we were experts in investing,
not because we understood how important getting invested is in terms of even small amounts build
up over time, but just because somebody we trusted said, hey, you should think about this.
So I think that's a great thing to point out, Patricia. I also want to dig into the aspect of guilt that Gray mentioned, because they feel
guilty about where they are financially. And it seems like they're getting some flack from their
friend group as well. That's something that I've grappled with a little bit, especially because my
finances are pretty different from those even in my immediate family or in my friend group.
And it's not that, you know, they're so much better, but it's that I treat finances in a
different way. I sometimes get a look from them. Maybe I'm just perceiving a look that,
oh, Sean's different. Sean is, you know, too invested in his money or something like that.
And it might just be me getting in my own head. Do you guys ever grapple with that?
I think I'm on the same page as you are, Sean, in terms of grappling with that. And I can understand why Gray might feel that way too.
I know, I think depending on how you grew up, there's definitely a mixed bag of making too
much money compared to everyone else you know. And then coming off as too good for where you
may have come from. I know that's definitely a story among Black people, definitely some other
underrepresented groups, right? Like, oh, now you're just too good because you make all this money. I don't mentally feel like I'm
better than you. I'm just happy that I'm in a better financial position now to do
some things that I wasn't able to do before. And or there's the flip side too of making people
feel bad or the perception that making people feel bad because they aren't as well off as you
just because of, again, how you talk about your money. There's nuances and things that you grapple with, too, as you talk about money, because
it's not something that people are really comfortable talking about in general.
There are people that I've run into who make statements about people with money like they're
evil or they must have hurt somebody to get that money or they're greedy. It's interesting when I
hear those statements because a lot of times it's just reflexive. It's so built in to how they view the world. I wonder if that's not shooting
yourself in the foot, that if you think rich people are awful, why would you want to join them?
Or you're somehow complicit in the system that seems to be so stacked against the common person.
That's a little bit of what I was getting from Gray's question reading between the lines is that, you know, maybe the entire institution of money is something to be shunned because it is unethical in some way.
But at the same time, we're all attached to this one way or another.
So you might as well open up a 401k, make it so you can hopefully have a comfortable retirement one day.
Oftentimes the stories we hear about for people with money, it just sounds like they're hoarding money while the rest of the world is suffering.
And there's also, I think, a little bit of dissonance with that as well. Depending on
how you got your money, then you're okay, you know, with the money that you got, you worked
hard, you know, we know your stories. It's the difference between hearing the story of Oprah
and hearing the story of Jeff Bezos, right? Because some people are just like, he made money,
especially during the pandemic off of a bunch of people. He was opportunistic as opposed to,
you know, Oprah, she, you know, brought herself up from a lot of trauma and all these
different things to be the woman that she's become. And a lot of people respect that.
Yeah. And I think there is a little bit of misdirected angst around money in general,
because yes, someone who is hoarding billions of dollars is doing something that I think
many would see as unethical. Whereas most common folks who are just looking to retire
and maybe buy a house aren't in cahoots with a Jeff Bezos type person. But I see a lot of
conflation around that. Even in my neighborhood, Portland has a pretty hot real estate market and
home prices are skyrocketing. Someone tagged the for sale signs in my neighborhood with eat the rich.
And I was shaking my head because this person who's selling their like two bedroom home
is not a millionaire.
You know, they're just a person trying to get by.
But yet there's this perception that because you're a homeowner, you know, you must be
of a different class.
And I don't know, it makes me scratch my head a little bit.
I don't know if this is an appropriate place to throw it in. But, you know, even if somebody does have billions, like I think Oprah's a billionaire, right?
Yes.
Yeah.
Yeah. They could be doing a lot of good with that money. I'm just thinking of Bill Gates and Melinda Gates.
Yes. renegades and the issues that they're tackling. So I just can't get on board with all the richer,
awful people because it's just obviously not true. However, there are a lot of people making
really stupid decisions with their money, really selfish decisions with their money.
So I totally get the idea that, and for a lot of people, it's just so difficult to deal with.
They might not want to, and's just so difficult to deal with.
They might not want to.
And they just might want to dismiss anybody with money as being a jerk.
Yeah, especially when it comes to investing. I feel like the idea of you putting money into some sort of fund and then it's being used to create capital or something mysterious elsewhere where you're getting dividends from that.
I can see how some people would have a perception that there's something nefarious going on. But for people who might have that
mindset, I think it's really worth looking into socially responsible investing, which is a
specific investment strategy. Liz, can you talk a little bit about socially responsible investing
or SRI as it's known and why it might be a good idea? Yeah, it used to be this little niche thing.
And what you would hear from
your financial planner if you had one is you're going to lose money or you're not going to make
as much money as if you just did normal investing. And now we realize that's just not true. As a
matter of fact, socially responsible investing can get you more money than just the normal way
of investing. And the reason for that is that companies that are
not ethical or not responsible often wind up paying for that. So there's sort of this liability.
They might have to do environmental cleanups, or if they don't treat their workers well,
they might have lawsuits. So it turns out that the companies that are being responsible
can provide their stockholders a better return. So it's really come 180 degrees
from a few years ago when it was considered not a great idea. Now, a lot of mainstream investors
and hedge fund leaders are incorporating socially responsible investing techniques
in their normal day-to-day investing. And from a fund management perspective,
it used to be that SRIs were tied
to higher fees than traditional counterparts, but that's no longer the case anymore. So it makes it
even more appealing idea financially. And there's all kinds of different funds as well. Some are
focused on climate change. Some are focused on equity. Some are focused on providing opportunities
for developing countries. There's all kinds of ways to do this. And again, these funds are readily
available at brokerages. And hopefully in coming years, you'll see it more often in your 401k as
well. That's a really good development. Is it just limited to mutual funds? Or like,
are there opportunities for people? Because I know increasingly, especially given the pandemic,
and you know, all of this news around how people are using their pandemic cash to invest back in the stock market, are there opportunities for even people
to create their own socially responsible investing portfolio if they feel comfortable doing that?
Oh, yeah. And if you were somebody that wanted to very much pick and choose which
companies that you wanted to deal with, there's absolutely a lot of resources out there.
Morningstar, which is an investment research
company, has a ton of information on socially responsible investing. So you can definitely
pick the companies that you invest in. I would caution though, that it's really easy to get too
concentrated when you're investing in individual stocks, individual companies versus using a mutual
fund. There's something to be said for, especially when
you're starting out, sticking to a mutual fund that gives you a lot more diversification.
Basically, diversification just means having eggs in a bunch of different baskets rather than having
them all in one. So maybe start with a socially responsible mutual fund that's kind of aligned
with your values. And then once you've got some money accumulated, you can start picking
individual companies. At least that's the way I would approach it.
I also wanted to circle back to the idea of how to talk with your friends about investing or
money management without feeling bad. Do you guys have any thoughts about how people can approach
that? I know, like from a, I guess you would say like a black culture perspective, we definitely
say a lot about how we're getting the bag, right? Like, what are you would say like a black culture perspective. We definitely say
a lot about how we're getting the bag, right? Like, what are you doing to get the bag? How
are you hustling? Are you doing side hustles? How are you making your money?
At the risk of sounding extremely Caucasian, can you explain for our listeners what the bag is?
Absolutely. So the bag is just this idea of you getting a bag of money. So if you were to think
about that money bag emoji, right? This is you going out, what are the ways are you pursuing different streams of income so that you
have this bag of money to do as you will, and this idea of being well off, but also working hard to
be well off a lot of times associated with this idea of quote unquote, getting the bag. It's like
there's talk about real estate investing, there's talk about having a side hustle. But I think
there's a slightly limiting belief in the sense that you have to hustle to get the bag. There's also a tangential
thought you could throw in there, this idea of you want to work as little as possible,
but still maximize profit or maximize the money you make. And a lot of famous people that people
admire increase their network through investments. And so the idea that investing is
bad, I think is just more of a mind shift. We talk about like the example of Beyonce
doing a concert for Uber back, I think in the early 2000s, she asked for equity in Uber instead
of cash. Yeah, she could have taken the money and yes, the money would have been useful, but like
her network again, skyrocketed because she put the equity instead.
That is so savvy. I didn't know about that.
And then I think another way, if we're talking about perception, a lot of people think about retirement like saving for a trip with friends.
No one gives a second thought to, I have a trip coming up in August.
Me and my five friends are going to go.
So we're going to put money away every month until August to make sure that we have enough money to go and live it up and have a great vacation in some exotic location. Well, if you just think about that in terms of investing,
yes, the time horizon is longer, but if you're just putting money away so that at the time that
you retire in your 50s or 60s, depending on how aggressively you invest, then that's you,
you know, getting the bag, having a more secure lifestyle to live the comfortable life you prefer.
Yeah. Setting yourself up for the longest vacation anyone could ever want.
Yes, absolutely. Absolutely.
Liz, do you have any thoughts about this? Thinking about your upbringing, you grew up in
rural Washington, right? And I'm wondering how you talked with people about money.
Like, what was that experience like?
Oh, boy. No, I mean, in my family, particularly,
we've been all over the social economic classes. I mean, from one of my grandfathers was very
wealthy. One of my grandfathers was very not. I'm getting kind of tangled up here because
it's really difficult to talk about, right. Yeah. And if you are the one with
money, you know, people are coming to you not just with questions, but with requests for cash. So
I'm sorry, I can't be more coherent. No, I mean, I think that speaks to how challenging this is
for everyone, that there isn't a really clear cut way to have these conversations. But I think that if you're
coming from a place of good intention with your connections with individuals like that,
while also protecting yourself and realizing that you have to focus on your own priorities,
it's kind of the best you can do. It's a continual balancing act.
Talking to my sister once, and one of her friends was there and the friend did not use banks. It was really
interesting to talk to her about her experience because every time she tried to put some money
in a bank, she got hit with another fee. And after a while, it was just like, screw it,
I'm going to deal with Walmart because Walmart was transparent. She knew exactly what she was
going to be paying. She wasn't getting hit with weird fees out of nowhere. That discussion was so helpful to me to understand a whole section of the economy that I hadn't thought much about,
which was the unbanked, the underbanked, how you come about that. So I think starting these
discussions can be super helpful for people who are kind of confused about what's going on,
or they don't really understand the differences with different groups and how they approach the economy and how they see the economy. Just having that insight can help a lot.
On the flip side too, so like more to Gray and their problem, right? In the sense that like they
have this friend group, they want to be able to form community around the things that they're
doing with their money. Wondering like, if my friend group isn't available, are there any other
options for us? Something that I had researched and heard about before is this idea of formal or informal
investment clubs.
And I don't know, Liz, if you have any additional information about this, but it's this idea
that you can join a group of people to have conversations around investments.
You can make it very formal and create an LLC with a group of people that want to invest
together where you all get together and talk freely about how you invest, why you invest,
investments that you're
interested in, just so that you feel more educated. It's one part education, one part community,
one part investing. And that's something that sometimes your friend group might not be there
for you at the moment that you need them, maybe finding community elsewhere.
The great thing about investment clubs is that you can find them anywhere and you can
create them online. It doesn't have to just be the people in your immediate circle. There's a whole world out
there that has investment clubs or that wants to start them. They can be a lot of fun and a
great way to learn. And even from the standpoint of having a circle of friends that Gray is close
with, I don't think that every friend can do everything for you. There are going to be some
people that you can't talk about certain things with because maybe they're just not interested at all. And I think that it might behoove Gray
to find a group of people that they can talk about money with in this way, people who are
passionate about this. And then maybe with their other friends, it's just not something that you
want to broach so much. Or broach it in a different way. Like we started at the beginning of the
conversation, right? As opposed to being like, I have a 401k and this is how I invest. It's more
like, oh, you know, I'm just doing some things with my money. Just more like a casual mention
of what you've done and why it matters to you as opposed to being like, you should do this too.
Just again, planting seeds because I think part of it too is we don't want to feel like we're
leaving anyone we care about behind, but we also can't bring a horse to water and make them drink.
We don't want them to feel left out or that we're succeeding without them.
I think there's a lot to be said for people you care about and wanting to feel like that they're
comfortable and well off too, but striking that balance again of like where they're at in their
journey with their own finances and what they're willing to talk about now versus later. It seems
like with each of us, we're kind of that person in that group where people know that if they do
have a question and they feel comfortable bringing it up, we're there to talk with them. And that's about as
much as you can do sometimes. I wanted to circle back to something. Patricia, you were asking about
socially responsible investing and you were asking if there were alternatives to mutual funds.
I should have asked why you were interested in that. More people than before are becoming more
educated or wanting to learn about how to invest.
As you continue your journey on learning and investing, maybe you might be more interested
in forming your own like set of stocks that you can feel very proud of. And it's like your own
effort, as opposed to just saying, I left my money with this person in a mutual fund. And I know it's
a great idea. But like, I don't really understand what that's about. And all of the companies really.
Oh, okay. That's really super
good insight. When socially responsible funds came around, they were kind of a crude instrument.
Maybe they would not invest in firearms, not invest in certain things, but they might invest
in other things that you might not be comfortable with. So picking the individual companies was
super important. I think today with more options, it's easier to
kind of fine tune what you are and aren't investing in. And I definitely think it's
something that people should be thinking about what to do with their money. It's just a lot
easier if you do the mutual fund route versus picking your own stocks. Okay. Thank you for
that context. That really helped. All right. Well, Patricia, do you have any other thoughts
around Gray's question or things that you think our listeners should keep in mind? I know I said this a lot internally
at NerdWallet as we talk about like racial justice and equity and allyship is this idea
of giving people grace. Advice from my mother from when I was younger is this idea that everyone
isn't you. So I can't expect that people approach topics and conversations the same way that I do.
It's best to meet people where they are. They fear what they might not know. So there's no harm in providing information or education, but leaving it there
for them to decide when it's useful to them is something that I've definitely had to learn.
This idea that like, I want everyone to be successful with me and I don't want you to
suffer. It's definitely a delicate balance. But I think, again, having grace and letting
people be who they are and meeting them where they are around finances is important.
Well, thank you so much for talking with us, Patricia.
My pleasure. Thanks for having me.
This was a great conversation.
And with that, I think we can get on to our takeaway tips.
Liz, can you kick us off?
I would be delighted.
First, meet people where they are.
People fear what they don't know,
so there's no harm in providing information or education.
Next up, don't worry about what others think about your finances.
What matters most is that you are working to achieve your personal goals.
Finally, think about socially responsible investing.
This method of investing can help you grow your money while supporting causes that you care about.
And that is all we have for this episode.
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