NerdWallet's Smart Money Podcast - Give Yourself a Mid-Year Money Check-in for a Smarter Summer, with Shannah Game
Episode Date: June 24, 2024Beat the financial heat with fun summer savings tips and get mid-year financial check-up strategies for a stress-free season. Summer Activity Guide: What free things can you do to have a fun summer? H...osts Sean Pyles and Sara Rathner discuss summer money-saving tips to help you understand how to balance fun and finances during the warm months. They begin with a discussion of budget-friendly summer activities, offering tips and tricks on utilizing public facilities like pools and tennis courts, attending free outdoor events, and organizing potlucks with friends. Mid-Year Money Check-in: How can a mid-year money check-in help your finances? Shannah Game, host of the podcast Everyone’s Talkin’ Money, joins Sean to discuss the importance and practicality of reviewing your finances this summer. They discuss overcoming emotional and mental blocks about money, practical exercises like "Rose, Bud, and Thorn" and the "Why, Where, What, and How" framework, and recognizing how emotions influence financial decisions. They also discuss tactics for setting small, manageable financial goals, the significance of community support, and how you can scrutinize every expense to ensure it aligns with your values and propels you toward your financial aspirations. Learn more about Everyone’s Talkin’ Money: https://everyonestalkinmoney.com/ In their conversation, the Nerds discuss: summer savings, financial check-up, money-saving tips, affordable summer fun, mid-year financial tune-up, money management tips, summer budget, financial health, emotional money management, small financial goals, community support, transparency in finances, public pools, free outdoor events, budget-friendly potlucks, hiking, public libraries, free museum admission, second-run theaters, car insurance shopping, checking beneficiaries, cell phone savings, internet savings, down payment savings, emergency savings, financial milestones, financial aspirations, financial progress, self-care, financial empowerment, money goals, summer activities, and affordable entertainment. To send the Nerds your money questions, call or text the Nerd hotline at 901-730-6373 or email podcast@nerdwallet.com. Like what you hear? Please leave us a review and tell a friend.
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Hey, Sarah, do you find that money just slips out of your fingers a bit more quickly during
the summer?
Oh, totally.
There's something about this super relaxed time of year that makes me care a little bit
less about my spending.
I blame the heat because I don't make good decisions when I sweat.
And I also don't make good decisions when I have another cold, which I do.
So sorry, listeners.
My voice is going to be extra delicious today.
Fair enough.
Okay.
Welcome to NerdWallet's Smart Money Podcast, where we help you make smarter financial decisions,
one money question at a time. I'm Sarah Rathner.
And I'm Sean Piles. This episode, I'll show you how to do a mid-year financial check-in with Shauna Game, host of the podcast, Everyone's Talking Money. But first, Sarah and I are sharing ways that you can be a cheapskate and still have fun
this summer. So Sarah, what is your first tip for folks who want to beat the heat without breaking
the bank? First thing, look for all the public facilities in the area where you live. You
probably have access to public pools, even splash parks and tennis courts. And of
course, those double as pickleball courts. So if you're trendy in that way, pickleball is like the
new kickball. Like when I was in my 20s, everybody played kickball. Now everybody plays pickleball,
but whatever. I actually just joined a kickball league. So maybe I'm behind the time or maybe
I'm actually way ahead of the curve because that's like so 2009 of you.
Here I graduated high school. So I'm living it up retro.
You're like, I'm going to pretend I was a 20 something when I was a teenager.
Yeah.
Yes.
Well, by then I was an early 20 something and kickball was the thing, but now it's
pickleball.
So anyway, if you haven't looked into this stuff, you might actually be surprised by
how much is available to you for free.
Totally.
Summer is full of free and low cost events.
I mean, there are probably outdoor
movie screenings, there are art festivals, there's live music. I find myself turning to TikTok a lot
because there are a number of accounts in my area that will just highlight whatever's going on
weekly in my area. So if you aren't sure what to do or what's going on in your area,
check that out. Also, free weekly publications. There's one in Portland called Willamette Weekly that tends to have great events. So anything like that,
where you can just get ideas is a great resource too. Also, if you find that meeting friends for
dinner is starting to get expensive, maybe try meeting up at different events. Instead,
you could pack a cooler with some drinks and snacks, and it would be a fraction of the cost
of going to a bar or a
restaurant. And speaking of meeting up with friends for food, this is something I did this weekend.
The classic potluck. Yes, it's always good for every generation. You get a full meal
for the cost of making two quarts of coleslaw, which is really cheap to make, by the way.
And I would not be a resident of the Pacific Northwest if I didn't suggest that people just
find somewhere and go on a hike. I do realize that I'm pretty spoiled out here. We have incredible natural
beauty, but even if you aren't surrounded by mountains and forests and waterfalls,
just pull up Google Maps, find a park in your area that you've never been to,
and make an adventure of exploring it. Your only cost might be transportation to your destination,
but make sure that you bring a snack and some sunscreen and plenty of water. You know, even if you don't live in the majestic
Pacific Northwest, because I don't, you still might have some hiking or biking trails near you.
And state parks are also great places to go hiking. It usually costs a couple bucks to park
in their parking lots. And where I live in Richmond, for example, hanging out by the river
and going tubing or kayaking are also really popular summertime activities that are relatively low cost. Okay, now everything we've
mentioned so far takes place outdoors. But we know there are a lot of people that are more
indoor type people. And also depending on where you live, you might be able to fry an egg on the
sidewalk right now. I mean, Sarah and I were just in Las Vegas for a work event, and it was 110
degrees outside. So Sarah, what do you
think are some good ideas for people who want to save money and stay indoors where it is not so hot?
Well, I'm glad you asked because hiding indoors is my love language. Especially this week,
a heat dome is hitting much of the country, including where I live. So it's going to go
up to 100 degrees. Great time of year to seek out some air conditioning. Obviously,
major shout out to public libraries. If you have not spent time in a public library in your area, they have so many
incredible resources. They also have things like eBooks that you can enjoy at home without even
setting foot outside of your house. So you can find them without leaving, which is nice too.
But you can also look at museums in your area. Sometimes they have free admission days. That's
a nice big air conditioned space to hang out. If you take your kids or your grandkids to local children's museums, and you do that very
often, you can look into a membership because if that museum is part of the Association of
Children's Museums Reciprocal Network, you can actually get 50% off admission at 200 participating
museums in the US and Canada. So if you've got summer trips to other cities and you need to find
something fun to do, that can help you save money on those trips and also at home.
And when you find that you are totally exhausted from the heat and don't feel like taking on the
intellectual pursuit of museum going, nothing for me is better than catching a matinee or a cheap
movie at a second run theater just to get some AC, turn off that noggin for a little while,
eat some popcorn and enjoy a soda. So Sarah, I would love to hear how you are planning to save
money on your summer activities this year. For me, honestly, just like grabbing a picnic
blanket and some drinks and snacks and meeting some friends outdoors has been a really easy way
to get out of the house for very little money. And my kid gets to roll around on the picnic blanket
and we all get to hang out in the shade. I actually happen to live near a beautiful art museum that not only has a free permanent
exhibit, but it also has gorgeous outdoor grounds that are open to the public. So it's kind of like
my second backyard. That sounds lovely. I also, I feel like watching a kid roll around in the
grass or on a blanket is its own form of free entertainment. It kind of is. I can watch him
for a while. And he's happy to roll around for a long time. You just hand him like several small toys and he just stares at them and rolls around.
It's really fun. Yeah. How about you? Well, my CFP coursework, shockingly,
is very time consuming. So that will be limiting my ability to do a lot of things that would be
taking up my time elsewhere or perhaps money. So I guess that's an unexpected perk of my schooling.
But beyond that, my friends
and I love a good grill and chill afternoon, which is kind of like a lazier version of a potluck.
We'll have some friends over, turn on the grill, heat it up and just throw some stuff on it and
hang out in our garden. And if we feel up for it, we might pretend like we're five years old and run
through the sprinkler. It's always a good time. Yeah, especially if it's 100 out.
Yes.
Well, those are a few ways you can save money and still enjoy the summer,
just in case flying to the Paris Olympics in first class isn't in your budget, certainly not in mine.
So, listener, let us know how you are spending these long, hot midsummer days.
Are you sitting in front of a fan wondering whether or not to buy a rental property for extra income?
Maybe you're sipping on some iced tea with a friend talking about the cost of enrolling your kids in travel sports. Whatever money decisions you're mulling over, we want to hear about them. And we may even invite you onto the podcast to
join us for the conversation. So send your money questions our way by texting or leaving a voicemail
on the nerd hotline at 901-730-6373. That's 901-730-NERD or email us at podcast at nerdwallet.com. And finally, before
we get into my conversation with Shauna Game, let's quickly check in on our nerdy question of
the month, which is what are you most looking forward to the summer financially speaking?
And we have a submission from a listener named Nicole who sent us an email. Hi, nerds. Sadly,
I don't have any exciting trips
planned, but I'll be hitting some mini financial milestones soon that I'm excited about. This
summer, I'm going to reach my first milestone for my down payment savings account, my first 10K,
and I'll hit two months of emergency savings as well. Not the most glamorous, but the nerd in me
is proud and looking forward to hitting more milestones. Thanks for a great podcast, Nicole.
Oh, Nicole, thanks for sharing that. And I'll say while you might not think that having $10,000
for a down payment and two months of emergency savings built up as living a glamorous life,
I disagree with that. Putting in the time and dedication and focus to build up your savings
for various goals and then enjoying the fruits of your efforts is a very luxurious thing. So
please appreciate that
and take some time to pat yourself on the back.
Yes, and know that the foundation of a real luxurious life
is having your savings built up and funding your goals.
It's not getting into debt to buy stuff you can't afford
so you look good on social media.
It's being quietly wealthy.
Yes, because with that comes a lot of
freedom of choice. Yes, you can move through life with ease when you know that your financial goals
are being met. So I love this. I think this is a great use of the summer. And I'm sorry you're
not traveling this year, but hopefully in the future, you'll get to do that too. All right.
Well, now let's hear from Shauna Game. We'll be back in just a moment. Stay with us.
This episode, I'm joined by Shauna Game, host of the podcast Everyone's Talking Money,
to talk about how to do a mid-year money check-in. Shauna, welcome to Smart Money.
Ah, thanks so much for having me. I absolutely love this topic.
I think we're going to have a lot of fun this episode. And listener, I want to let you know that we are doing something totally new for Smart Money this episode. Shauna and I are doing a collaborative episode where we will each share
our own versions of this conversation. So to hear my thoughts and tips about how to do a mid-year
money check-in, check out Shauna's podcast, Everyone's Talking Money, wherever you get your
podcast. And in the Smart Money version of this episode, we'll hear Shauna's ideas for how to
leverage the emotional side of money to do your mid-year money check-in. So Shauna, to start, let's talk about why a mid-year
money check-in is important. What would you say to people who don't think this exercise is
worthwhile or simply don't feel like doing it? That is such a great question because I think
anytime there's a to-do item around money, we feel like it is an absolute chore
and it usually falls somewhere to the bottom of the list.
And I think this has to do a lot with the emotions and beliefs and thoughts that we
have around money.
But I think really when we're talking about mid-year check-in, it's really just about
we've got stuff we want to do.
We've got things we want to experience, places we want to go, things we want to buy, wealth we want to do. We've got things we want to experience, places we want to go, things we
want to buy, wealth we want to build. And so the mid-year is just such a great time to
really take a pause moment and kind of evaluate, where are we? How are we feeling about money?
What's kind of getting in the way? And maybe what changes do we need to make to
finish out the year strong?
Yeah, absolutely. And I think it can also be helpful to remember that money is simply a tool
to get what you want out of life, to do all those things that you were just describing, Shauna.
And this mid-year check-in is a chance for people to see if they are progressing on the right track
from what they want to get from their money in 2024. So if they find that they're making good
progress, for the most part, they might be able if they find that they're making good progress, you know,
for the most part, they might be able to keep doing what they're doing and maybe do some little
tune ups here and there. But if you find that you're off track from your money goals, take this
moment to make some bigger adjustments potentially. You know, some people like have the one eye open
or barely one eye open on their money. And I find this regardless of whether you are making a lot of
money, you're happy with your situation or you're not. Wherever you fall on that spectrum, there's
always this tension and a little bit of a nervous feeling when it comes to money and particularly
looking at how we're spending our money and where we're spending it. And I think sometimes we feel
like there is this bad kind of devil that's going to be on our shoulder and that is going to start reprimanding
us for progress that we haven't made or the decisions that we made with our money.
And I really would love to get to a place where we could eradicate that idea that there is a
judgment piece around money and that we need to somehow analyze our money from
that perspective and look at it more aspirational and think about just what you're saying. Money is
a tool. What do we really want to use our money to achieve? And I think that that kind of shift
maybe moves us a little bit out of the overwhelmed place and a little bit more in the empowered frame of thinking? I think in the world of money and in life in general, the words
should and shame go together a lot. People feel like they should be doing certain things with
their money. We have these life milestones that we should be hitting, right? And if you're not
doing them, you can feel ashamed. But I think reframing it to be more aspirational, to be
more self-reflective and
positive can really help people set the stage for the rest of the year. And one way that I
like to approach this is through a little game that my friends play every so often. It's called
Rose, Bud, and Thorn. And it's where you take a moment to appreciate what you've done so far,
what you're proud of. That's the rose. You look at something that is in development and that you want to work on more that you're happy with so far, that's the bud.
And then something that isn't so great that you maybe want to prune back, that could be the thorn.
So I would encourage people to really take a moment to appreciate the good things they've
done already. Think of one thing that you want to keep honing and developing, and then really one
thing that you might want to change. And that can be a helpful way to frame this exercise as well.
I love that exercise. And I love that you make the correlation between should and shame. One of my
very good friends who is just this brilliant therapist, she's always telling me to stop
shooting on myself. Yes, I can get messy when that happens.
Yeah, because I do messy when that happens. because we can use that as, like you're saying, this reframe moment. And just like your rosebud
exercise, I have an exercise as well that I call the why, where, what, and how. And it's just
thinking about one to maybe two or three at the most, because our brain cannot handle more than
three at a time. Goals are things that we want to reach this year and think about why is this important?
Where are we at?
What do we need to do?
Like what is getting in the way and how do we get there?
So I think with both of these exercises,
what's great is they're aspirational
and they're tangible as well.
Something that we could do
that hopefully won't stress us out in this process.
What we're both describing gets to
the fact that there are so many different ways to do a mid-year money check-in. And a lot of what
we've been describing so far has been around specific money goals that people might set at
the beginning of the year. I also want to briefly speak to people who maybe didn't set any money
goals for 2024 because some people just aren't like that. They're not these big aspirational annual goal
setters. So in that case, it might be fine to do something simpler, more of a mid-year money tune
up than a full deep dive check in. So maybe we can talk about a few simple tasks that people could do
for this tune up. And if you come to mind for me, one that's really important right now, especially
is shopping around for insurance.
We know that car insurance in particular has gotten really expensive over the past year,
two years.
And at NerdWallet, we recommend that people shop around and get quotes once a year because it does not pay to be loyal to an insurance company.
In fact, they may charge you more over time than a newer customer because you've just
stayed with them and they know you're not going to be shopping around potentially. So that's one thing that I would recommend everyone do.
I am a big fan of shopping around. Actually, my biggest money, I don't even know if it's a secret
really, is I call my cell phone carrier and my internet carrier at least twice a year.
And I always ask them, hey, am I on the best plan for the amount of usage
that I'm using? And I would say probably eight out of 10 times there is a new revamped plan that
probably has some new feature that is less expensive. And so on a given year, we probably
save between like $20 and $30 a month and kind of a continual basis, just utilizing that one tip.
But I would say another thing I want to add to the list, and this is one of the things
that is not so sexy about money, but I think it's really important, is checking in on your
beneficiaries.
So if you set a life insurance beneficiary or a beneficiary for your investment account
or even your checking or savings account, I want to make sure that that is the person that you would want that money left to. Not to be the bearer of bad news, but
I've had quite a few friends who have had their partners pass away, unfortunately, and have not
had those beneficiaries updated and not received money that would have been very helpful. So I
think some of those non-sexy things are also important to think
about when we're looking at this mid-year time. Yeah. And setting beneficiaries on an account,
whether it's your high-yield savings account or an investing account, it's shockingly easy to do.
Yeah. I've been a certified financial planner for over 15 years now. And there have been so
many horror stories of people who have been separated
from their partner or they're no longer with the person they were with. And things in the
beneficiary department went a little hairy where maybe they wanted something to go to somebody and
it went to somebody else instead. And then families are fighting over this. So do your family a favor.
Right. Well, I want to also touch on something that you mentioned at the beginning, which is
how to do this mid-year money check-in without it feeling like just another chore. So one way to get
over this hump of it feeling like just another thing to have to do when it's sunny outside and
you want to go swimming or something is to actually reframe it as an opportunity for self-care in a way,
which sounds kind of hokey, but also doing this and spending the time to really evaluate your
money and set yourself up for success for the latter half of the year is truly an act of
generosity for yourself and for your finances. And it will not take all that long to do, I promise.
And what piece, Sean, do you think we should incorporate like some sort of, I don't
know, almost like a gamification element or a reward or something that keeps us motivated on
our progress, even maybe if we haven't made any progress? Do you think that's an important element
to bring into this aspect of doing these mid-year check-ins, specifically when it's summer? And like
you said, we've got so many other things that we really want to do. Yeah, absolutely. I think timeboxing this,
setting aside a single hour to do this, and then making plans for something more fun after. Maybe
you're going to have some friends over and you're going to barbecue, or you're going to go for a
nice walk in a park nearby. Making it so that you have a built-in reward is going to make it more
likely that you will actually follow through on doing this because you know that you'll have
something to enjoy afterward. And that's just how our brains work
with positive reinforcement. So work with the tools that we already have at our disposal,
know how your brain functions and what's going to make it more likely for you to accomplish a task,
and then go and do it. And once you're done with it, you know that you'll be on the right track.
You don't even have to worry about your money for at least a little while and just go and enjoy the
summer. I would encourage people listening to go talk to your friends about doing a mid-year check-in.
Maybe you arrange like a group dinner or something and you're all there just kind of doing these
little tasks around money, or you're just talking about the idea of this. And I think
that starts to break down these walls around money feeling like a chore or feeling like something that has to be
overwhelming and complicated. All right. Well, listener, this is where things are going to get
really interesting. I'm about to get into Shauna's take on how to do a mid-year money check-in.
But to hear my thoughts about this, when I go really deep into the mid-year money check-in,
and I even talk about how it has a lot to do with one of my favorite hobbies, gardening, check out Shauna's podcast, Everyone's Talking Money, wherever you
get your podcasts. Let's get into it. So Shauna, we already talked about the end goals of a mid-year
money check-in, but let's go back to the very beginning. What do you think is a good first
step for a mid-year check-in? Where do you start? So this is where I'm going to really go kind of
headfirst deep into the emotional behavioral side of money. Because I think before we start getting
into all of the grand plans and all of our action steps, I think we really need to do a check-in with
how are we feeling about money? And this is a question that I ask everybody to ask themselves
very often.
And sometimes people look at me with kind of a side eye, like, what do you mean?
How do I feel about money?
But I think sitting with that question and thinking about what is coming up for you,
are you feeling overwhelmed this year?
Are you feeling good?
And then digging a little bit deeper.
Okay, why am I feeling that way?
If I'm feeling stressed about money, because maybe I haven't been able to reach my goals. Okay, why am I feeling that way? If I'm feeling stressed about money, because
maybe I haven't been able to reach my goals, okay, then let's look at that. Why haven't you been able
to reach your goals? Is there something going on? Have there been changes in your career or in your
household? What is the core emotion or belief around money that we're kind of struggling with? And can we work on that
a little bit so that when we get back to the place of layering back in our goals and our action steps
and all of those things, it feels like something tangible, like we can actually make progress with
those because we worked on that emotional piece of money. Yeah. Oh, I like that a lot
because it's not just I'm feeling stressed about money this month, which I think is such a common
feeling with money, right? When you dig into the why behind it, you realize, oh, well, maybe it's
because I just had this vacation and it was really expensive and I really haven't been able to save
as much. And then you can get to a place where you can almost have a more tactical approach to it.
It's like you're marrying the emotional and the tactical. And I'm one of those people where whenever there's a
problem, I try to find the solution immediately. And I maybe should sit with the emotional stuff
just for a little bit longer to really ruminate and understand motivations behind things. But
that can be a great way to understand what you're really working with. And then it gives you a clear
path forward, no matter if you're feeling wonderful about your money, which is awesome, think about what you want to continue
in that vein. But if there's something that's kind of nagging at you, you can begin to really
understand why that is and what changes you might want to make. And I think that question really
takes kind of a somatic approach to money, which somatic is just a really fancy word for
saying what's going on in your brain and your body. And so when you start to look at the emotional side, when we're doing this mid-year
check-in, and I want you to start noticing whatever's going on in your body. So if, you know,
let's say you're in a certain environment and that makes you just makes you start feeling a little
bit stressed out about money. Maybe your shoulders are getting tight or your stomach's getting in a knot or even your knees might start buckling up.
I want you to use that as a clue to dig a little bit deeper. What is it about this situation? What
is it about this person? What is it about this environment? Maybe it's even a TV show you're
watching and somehow that brings out these emotions and feelings around money. Those are really good places to dig in and understand how your body operates around money.
I think so many of us get off track with our goals because we overspend.
And overspending is an emotional response that we have.
It's a very human thing that happens.
And I think there's a good level of overspending that is healthy,
that is almost important to the human experience. But when it starts sacrificing our goals and then
making us feel certain ways about our money, that's the place where we want to really kind
of dig in and take a look at that. There's even science that shows that
when you're feeling an emotion, like maybe you're feeling angry about a decision that your partner made financially, if you just say, I'm feeling angry about this, it actually helps you have a level of remove so you can analyze it and not be so caught up in what you're feeling. And then again, with the idea of moving forward and finding a solution, it just makes all of that so much easier. One of the things I teach a lot about, it's kind of my signature system, is what I call
heal, plan, and build. Traditionally, when we talk about money, we want to dive straight into
the plan slash build phase, leaving out those other components. And healing is really around
doing what we're doing here, talking about
money, figuring out what's going on in our bodies and in our brains. And once we can work through
that piece, then we can move on to plan, which is really just about looking at our spending,
looking at our goals, looking at where are we currently to get us to that build phase,
which is about building wealth. How do we take where we're at right now and how do we amplify that and grow it? Even if there's a very small amount of money available,
it's almost like we're starting a car up that hasn't been started up in a while. So it's like,
how do we get it out of one gear and into another gear? So I think those three pieces of a puzzle,
they work really well overall when we're thinking about money, but certainly when we're thinking
about this mid-year point. Now let's talk about how people can take maybe this more introspective
approach to a nuts and bolts sort of tactical level as they look to better their finances this
year. How can they really begin to marry these different aspects of their lives and their
finances and their mental state and begin to move forward?
I think that oftentimes when we think about goals, we think about really big, huge goals.
People want to save to buy a house or they want to retire early or these things that
feel really important but very large and our brains can't quite get behind them. And so I think tactically,
thinking about how do we break things down on a real kind of micro level, something that is small,
maybe you focus on one tiny little goal this month or this week, or even this summer,
something that feels like it's doable for you that isn't, you know, I'm trying to save $20,000.
Maybe I'm just focusing this week on paying attention to how I'm spending my money. Or
maybe I'm at the place where it's just about, I'm going to log into my bank account and I'm
just going to see where things are at. Or maybe you take a wider scope. Maybe it is you're going
to go in and increase your retirement percentage. But I think really chunking down and focusing on some small little micro steps that you can
do and achieve this year are going to be really important. And you talked about something
really important on my show, which was this idea of purpose and really connecting with this why behind all of your
goals. And I think both of us cannot reiterate that enough because that is your body and your
brain connecting to that goal in a really powerful way that's going to help you inch closer,
even when you feel like everything around you is maybe not going the way you want it to be.
I like that because just doing these smaller things can allow you to make not going the way you want it to be. I like that because just doing these smaller
things can allow you to make progress over the long run, whether it's the back half of 2024,
or even looking into 2025. So you can get what you want from your money and really make sure
that you're utilizing this tool called money to get what you want out of life.
And there's this movement around transparency. We've obviously seen around salary transparency, but I think
we can also borrow some of those elements when we're talking about mid-year and we're talking
about our goals and shouting out to people what we're doing and where we're at and the progress
we're making. I know it might feel awkward and a bit bizarre at first, but bringing our voice behind what we're trying to do with our money,
not only does it help other people be accountable to us and maybe keep us on the path towards that
goal, but I think it does a lot to help us work through the emotions around money and not feel
like things are so scary. The important piece is being able to vocalize where you're at and how you're in
there with your sleeves rolled up trying to progress towards these goals. And I think people
will find that once they share what they're working with financially, or they log into their
checking account, whatever they're afraid to do, once they actually take that action, they'll find
that the fear will dissipate. And it'll become so much easier to do that the next time. I recently spoke with a woman who
chronicled paying off $36,000 in credit card debt on her TikTok and Instagram accounts.
And she found that to be a really helpful way to build a community of people. And I talked with
her about how it was in a way an act of class solidarity, building this connection with people
who are also struggling financially and trying to figure out their lives financially. And that was so empowering
for her and for everyone involved. Even if they were just sort of flies on the wall watching her
journey, they found that they were able to be more candid with their finances too, which I just love
to see. I love that. One of the things I do on my show, Everyone's Talking Money, is I have a
little segment that I put in each episode called Your Relationship With Money Is, and I ask people these kind of
four off-the-wall questions. And one of the most popular questions that people always tell me,
like, wow, this made me really think, was to share a money secret that maybe you haven't
shared with anyone before. And I think the power around vocalizing, A, hey, I'm in $36,000 of debt,
and B, I'm progressing towards that, or whatever your version of that might be,
is such a healthy perspective to focus on money because there's too much focus on
the success of reaching that pinnacle, of reaching that goal. And I think not enough
focus on the journey and the progress. Shauna, we know that this can be a really busy time of year for people.
So I want to hear if listeners do only one thing for a mid-year money check-in,
what would you suggest that be? I mean, Sean, that's like picking your favorite plant for you.
But I would say if there's one thing, I want you to
focus on how you're spending your money. Am I spending my money towards my goals? Am I spending
the money on things that I value? Sure, you've got to pay your bills. There's always stuff that
you have to spend money on that you really don't want to, but I want you to look at every penny that's going out of your
bank account and think, okay, is this the most efficient way possible? Or is there a better way
I could be spending this money? And then I can reroute some of the excess towards these goals.
It's like mining your bank account. I think it's one of the most powerful things you could do at
this mid-year point. I read the book, Your Money or Your Life last year by Vicki Robin, and she recommends doing
this exercise where you track every penny that comes into or goes out of your life.
And I did that for a full month, and I found it to be really eye-opening and refreshing
in a way because, yeah, sure, I know where my money is going.
I track it pretty thoroughly on a regular basis.
However, there's
something about the act, the action that you're taking when you're chronicling it that really
makes you evaluate at a deeper level if it's where you want your money to be going.
And I think when you do this exercise, there's three questions you ask yourself.
One, am I okay with this expense? And sometimes the answer is, yes, absolutely I am. And that is perfectly
acceptable. Sometimes it's maybe, I don't know, so maybe that means you might wait a little bit
of time or maybe you might even cut that expense out. And then the third is, no, actually,
this is not how I want to spend my money. And so I would say, try this experiment,
try it for a month and just see what you notice. I guarantee there's going to be some shocking moments.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Well, Shauna, thank you so much for joining us on Smart Money.
Thanks so much for having me.
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