NerdWallet's Smart Money Podcast - Managing the Job Market and Your Parents’ Finances: Tips for the Sandwich Generation
Episode Date: March 20, 2025Learn how to juggle finances for aging parents and kids, plus what the latest labor market data means for your wallet. How do you navigate the financial challenges of caring for aging parents while r...aising kids? How should the job market impact your financial decisions? Hosts Sean Pyles and Elizabeth Ayoola break down the realities of the sandwich generation and the latest labor market trends shaping Americans’ financial outlook. They begin with a discussion of how economic sentiment differs from reality, exploring new data on job security, wage growth, and job seekers' frustrations. Senior news writer Anna Helhoski and NerdWallet economist Elizabeth Renter join to discuss how people’s perceptions of the labor market compare to actual employment data and why younger workers feel the impact of job market shifts more acutely. Then, NerdWallet Medicare authority and certified senior advisor (CSA)® Kate Ashford joins to tackle the financial challenges of managing aging parents’ finances while also raising children. They discuss essential conversations to have with loved ones, strategies for handling medical and long-term care costs, and the importance of estate planning and power of attorney. Read NerdWallet’s new report looking at our perception of how things are relative to what they really are: https://www.nerdwallet.com/article/finance/labor-market-sentiment In their conversation, the Nerds discuss: managing parents’ finances, sandwich generation financial planning, how to care for aging parents financially, power of attorney for parents, how to talk to parents about money, estate planning for parents, best way to pay for long-term care, Medicare vs Medicaid long-term care, financial help for caregivers, how to manage caregiving costs, labor market trends 2025, job market outlook 2025, job market for Gen Z, wage growth vs inflation, worker sentiment survey, hiring trends 2025, job security in 2025, financial stress of caregiving, balancing kids and elderly parents, generational wealth planning, how to talk to family about money, financial stress and mental health, caregiving while working full-time, and budgeting for multi-generational households. To send the Nerds your money questions, call or text the Nerd hotline at 901-730-6373 or email podcast@nerdwallet.com. Like what you hear? Please leave us a review and tell a friend.
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Elizabeth, do you enjoy sandwiches? I do enjoy sandwiches, Sean. And actually, I had
a fire chicken sandwich two days ago and I had an egg sandwich yesterday. And of
course, no cheese because we are lactose intolerant over here. Mmm. You know, for me,
I'm all about a classic PB&J, preferably with chunky peanut butter. But today,
we're gonna talk about a different kind of sandwich, the financial one that you
can find yourself in when you are of a certain age. Welcome to NerdWallet's Smart Money Podcast,
where you send us your money questions and we answer them with the help of our genius nerds.
I'm Sean Piles. And I'm Elizabeth Ayola.
This episode, we're looking at how to help manage the finances of aging parents
while also caring for children.
Mm, the sandwich generation.
I am entering my way closer to that cohort.
Exactly, but first our weekly Money News Roundup,
where we break down the latest in the world of finance
to help you be smarter with your money.
Today, we're talking about the labor market
and how we, the public, are feeling about the economy.
NerdWallet actually has a new report looking at our perception of how things are relative
to what they really are.
Our news colleague, Anna Helhawsky, is here with more.
Hey, Anna.
Hey, Elizabeth.
Anna, this was a big topic of conversation last fall, right?
During election season in particular, economists were saying,
hey, the US economy is doing pretty darn well,
while voters were saying, no, no, it's not,
at least not where we live.
Yeah, that's right.
And the disconnect continues.
So I'm joined by NerdWallet economist, Elizabeth Renter.
Welcome back, Elizabeth.
Hey, Anna, thanks for having me.
It's always a great discussion.
So something we've talked about frequently
is the disconnect between how people feel and what data says,
especially when it comes to the economy.
Can you give us an overview about how personal experience
tends to shape perception about the economy,
and in this case, our relationship with work?
Well, we know that people base much of what they think
about the economy at large on their own personal experiences.
And the labor market is a massive part of the overall economy. You know, when you think about
our personal experiences within the labor market, you might think about how long we've been at our
job, or how we feel about our pay and benefits, and how these things change with time, or our
experiences when we're searching for a new job. And interestingly, all of these things are also
important on a macro level
when interpreting the health of the labor market. But our personal experiences go beyond the data.
We might gauge satisfaction with our pay increases on whether it feels like we're able to increasingly
buy more stuff or better afford the stuff we have. But it can also be influenced by what we hear and
see on social media or in our social circles. Now, specifically about data, can you give an overview
of how the labor market has behaved
over the last few years in terms of the data
that we've seen?
Yeah, so we've come through a really interesting transition
over the last, say, four years,
which makes this a great time to talk about the labor market.
Towards the end of the initial months of the pandemic,
workers had the upper hand
and could find a new, perhaps better-paying job relatively easily. That's because the demand for
labor or workers outweighed the supply or the number of workers. So companies had to compete
for them. This showed up in the data as high quits rates and high hiring rates as people
turned over in jobs. Now, however, things have shifted.
In part because of the Federal Reserve's campaign
to slow inflation, the labor market has cooled
and labor supply and labor demand are in better balance.
So in the data that appears as lower hiring rates,
lower quits rates, and also fewer job openings.
Now let's talk about labor sentiment.
How optimistic are people about the labor market?
That's a great follow-up question to what I was just talking about because that cooler
labor market means people are feeling kind of stuck.
It feels worse now than it did then.
It's more difficult to find work now than it was just a few years ago, so more workers
are pessimistic, which is showing up in popular measures of consumer sentiment, like the survey
from the conference board, for example.
People believe it's less likely they'll
be able to find a replacement job if they lose theirs,
and they're putting a greater likelihood on the chance
of losing their jobs.
Both insights from the New York Fed.
Got it.
So here's a hypothetical scenario.
Say a worker loses their job, and they
haven't been able to come back from that easily,
maybe in terms of part-time versus full-time work
or their income.
It's safe to say that their perception is probably the labor market is bad.
So if they hear that unemployment has been stable, that doesn't really mesh with their
personal experience.
Is that right?
Yeah, that's absolutely right.
And one stat that I always go back to is a 4% unemployment rate is about 7 million workers
that are out of work.
So even though 4% is quote unquote relatively low, try telling that to about 7 million workers that are out of work. So even though 4% is quote-unquote relatively low, try to telling that to the 7
million people looking for jobs. And I think making that connection is human
nature. You know, we fielded a survey last summer that found people consider
their personal experiences and that of the people around them when they're
judging the health of the economy. And that likely extends to their perceptions
of the health of the labor market. So even if I'm personally happy in my job, I might have people in my friend circle or
my LinkedIn network that are experiencing the labor market firsthand and having a hard
time.
So even their perceptions are going to shape my opinion.
All right.
Here's another one.
Of these three factors, data, vibes, or personal experiences, what tends to weigh more heavily
when it comes to sentiment?
That's a tough one. When it comes to individual perception or sentiment,
I'm not sure we can ever truly know this. I think it's a highly individualized
set of circumstances, and I think it likely varies from person to person.
Fair enough. Let's get to the latest NerdWallet survey conducted by Harris Poll. Now, just to
note, it was conducted January 2nd through January 6th. Elizabeth what did the results say about pay satisfaction?
So I found this part really interesting. About half of employed Americans said
their pay increases have kept up with inflation over the past five years. I
assumed it would be less despite knowing that pay on average has kept pace with
inflation by many measures.
And younger people were surprisingly more likely to say their pay has kept up.
One possible explanation for this is that younger workers are earlier in their careers
and therefore more likely to experience faster wage growth.
Also, they're more likely to be employed in industries that saw particularly high wage
growth over the past five years, industries such as leisure and hospitality, for example.
Got it. How about job seekers? How has that changed over time?
Well, we found that 47% of Americans have interacted with the job market, either actively
seeking a new job or passively exploring opportunities within the past 12 months. And this rate is
highest among Gen Z, the youngest generation that we surveyed, which makes sense as they're
more likely to be just
entering the professional world.
And this means the younger workers
are more likely to be having firsthand experiences
with the job market.
While older people might be informed about the labor market,
younger folks are going to have more boots on the ground
information shaping their perspectives.
Speaking of job seeking, what did the survey results
show about how actively people are
looking for work right now?
About one third of Americans have actively sought a job in the past 12 months.
And by and large, most were looking because they were just ready for a new opportunity.
A smaller share were looking because they were actually unemployed.
And this is interesting because we hear a lot about how young people have been having
a particularly difficult time in the current job market. and it could be because they're new entrants. What I mean
is if I look for a job, personally if I look for a job, there's a good chance I'm
doing so while employed, right? And even if I lose my job, my resume still lists
plenty of experience at this age. Whereas younger folks are more likely to be new
to the job market, so they have less experience and they're not beginning from
a place of job
or financial security.
So when we see low hiring rates as we do now,
this is going to impact new entrance
to the labor force more dramatically.
Now, I know you and I haven't been on the job hunt
in quite some time, but I don't remember it
as a particularly enjoyable activity.
What are some of the negative experiences
that those surveyed talked about? Yes, I recall it being no fun, but unlike older professionals like myself, younger folks
aren't going to know the experience of heading to the mall to fill out applications at the
food court or dropping off their resume physically at local businesses.
It's a totally different world, but there are different challenges.
And I think most of us have anecdotally heard of job seekers being ghosted. Well, we found that 27% of active
job seekers have been ghosted in the past 12 months. That is, they were in
contact with a hiring manager or recruiter at some point and that person
stopped responding. Furthermore, we found 41% of active job seekers applied for a
job and never received any response, so their application wasn't even acknowledged.
Now you mentioned something about how things have changed. We've seen a huge shift in how technology has played a role in hiring, like automation and artificial intelligence.
But how do workers actually feel about those changes?
While 78% of Americans think that technology has made looking for a job easier, just 64% think it's made getting
hired easier. And you know, that tracks. You don't have to leave your home to apply for a job now,
right? So all else being equal, you can identify and apply to more. There's just a lower barrier
to entry. But this also means you might be more likely to apply to jobs when you're a little
uncertain about whether it's actually a good fit for you. The issue is, it's made applying that much easier for everyone.
So employers are handling way more applicants than ever,
and you're likely in competition with more candidates than you would have been 10 or 20 years ago.
The effects of this could be as far-reaching as employers trying to manage the flow of applicants by filtering them,
not responding to all of them, or completely dropping the ball on some of them.
They may also make the application and interview process more difficult.
All right.
Are there any other big takeaways from the survey that were notable in terms of people's
perceptions about the current labor market?
One thing that I think is worth mentioning in hopes some recruiters or employers might
be listening is that job seekers pointed out some inconsistencies
in job listings that could be preventing these employers
from finding the right person.
I mean, a better job match is good for all parties involved.
But 14% of job seekers found discrepancies
in posted salary ranges in the past 12 months.
13% found out during the interview process
that the actual job duties were different
from what was advertised. And 12% found out the the interview process that the actual job duties were different from what was advertised.
And 12% found out the job was a contract
rather than full-time employment gig.
So I think correcting on these things
would smooth the process both for job seekers
and the people hoping to hire them.
Now, last week we had the most recent jobs report come out.
I'm hoping you can sum up some of the big takeaways from it.
Where are we headed?
Well, the data tells us where we've been rather than where we're going. And where we've been is
definitely clearer right now. The most recent labor market data, the jobs report on the 7th
and the jolts on the 11th, both indicate that the labor market was most recently on pretty solid
footing. The economy is adding jobs at a healthy rate, and unemployment remains relatively low.
The hiring and quits rates have stabilized,
so they're no longer falling,
and layoffs remain low and steady.
So that was the January and February picture.
These data sources haven't yet captured
what we've been seeing in the federal workforce.
You know, a slight decline that we saw
in government employment in the February data
was more likely a matter of a hiring freeze and natural attrition. But I can say with pretty decent certainty
that the data we get in the next month will show some real effects of federal layoffs.
And beyond that, there are additional potential risks on the horizon. Federal layoffs will
impact certain industries, but tariffs and general economic uncertainty could stand to
impact the labor market on a broader scale.
Elizabeth Renter, thanks so much for joining us today.
Hey, thanks, Ana.
Always a pleasure.
And thank you, Ana.
Thanks, Sean.
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This episode's question comes from Kay, who sent us an email.
Here it is.
Could you please do a podcast with a deeper dive into financial decision making as a power
of attorney for older loved ones while raising kids?
I have several questions about talking to older loved ones and managing their finances
in order to support their goals and navigating the systems and care that they need.
When it comes to being a power of attorney
and navigating the financial decisions,
where can I go for information
and how do I prioritize which funds to pull from?
I'm thinking about pensions, 401ks, social security,
estate slash trust, et cetera.
Is there a recommended amount to pull out
in order to make sure there's funds
for when they are older and need more care?
When navigating the medical care and service needs,
how much of that is covered by Medicare
versus how much is from their funds slash Social Security?
To help us answer Kay's question,
on this episode of the podcast,
we are joined by NerdWallet Medicare Authority
and certified senior advisor, Kate Ashford.
Kate, welcome back to Smart Money.
Hi, Sean.
I'm always happy to be here.
So our listener has a lot of pretty specific questions
about managing care for their older loved ones
while taking care of little ones too,
something that's known as being in the sandwich generation
because you're sandwiched between caring
for typically your parents and your own children.
This is a pretty common experience.
About a quarter of US adults fit this description according to the Pew Research Center.
Before we get into the nitty gritty of Kay's questions, I want to hear from you, Kate,
about what it's like to be in this situation because it's something that you have personal
experience with, right? Can you tell us about that?
Yes, actually I do have experience with this, fortunately or unfortunately. I landed in a
long-distance caregiving role a couple of years ago when my stepfather, who was my mom's primary
caregiver, got sick and he wasn't able to care for her anymore and she wasn't able to care for herself.
It was really sudden and I had to step in and put some complicated systems in place to manage things
at home and then manage things in assisted living when she moved out of the home and then in the
Hospital when she got sicker and finally in hospice care
I live in New York and she lived in very rural, Virginia
So none of this was easy getting services for her who wasn't easy and by the way
I also have two teenagers and a full-time job. So I understand the stress. It was very stressful
Yeah, I can imagine. I'm sorry that you had to go through that and sorry to hear
about your mom too. Oh, thank you. You described putting complicated systems in
place. What did that actually entail? Well, if for a time we had to put
caregivers in place, she couldn't be home by herself. She wasn't mobile. So we had
to put caregivers into the home, but that's complicated finding people in a very rural part of the state who could be there at the times when we
needed. And then sometimes people didn't show up and family had to step in. So it
was the whole thing.
It also sounds really expensive.
Yeah, in-home care is not the cheapest of options, but we were trying to keep her
in the home for as long as we could. So it was a good in-between option and she
didn't want to leave.
So for the time being,
it was helpful to be able to bring in care.
And because your stepfather was sick,
did he also need your support at that time?
So thankfully, my stepfather has an enormous family,
and they circled the wagons,
and he was kind of taken care of.
So he was not on my plate,
but my mother very much was my responsibility at the time.
Yeah, from however many hundred miles away when you're in New York and she's in Virginia.
Exactly.
Well, we'll come back to your story, but I want to dive into Kay's questions as well.
Let's start by talking about talking, I guess.
I can imagine that having conversations about potentially managing your parents' or another
loved one's money could be kind of uncomfortable.
There's this sort of role reversal going on.
So how do you recommend people approach
what could be a tough conversation
or a series of conversations?
I think you're exactly right to call it
a series of conversations because sitting down
and saying something like, mom, it's
time for me to take over your finances
probably isn't going to create the back and forth
you're looking for.
Yeah.
So ideally, this should happen over time in little moments,
starting years before you might actually need to do anything,
before anyone is worried or sick.
It can be one big conversation if it needs to be.
One approach is to bring up your own planning, estate planning, financial planning,
and ask your parents how they've prioritized.
So what sorts of things have they put in place and how did they make those decisions? It puts
them in the position of being the advisor, which helps.
Did you have conversations with your mom before she needed your care?
I actually didn't. I was really lucky in that my mom and stepfather had done all their estate
planning without me having to prompt them. So when I had to step in to manage
things, it was really just a matter of going back to their attorney to alter the names on the
paperwork. If we had had to start from scratch, it would have been a big
process in the middle of something that was already really stressful.
That really makes me think about how much a gift estate planning is to your loved
ones, because you basically had the playbook of what your mom wanted and you
could just execute it.
Yeah, I mean, it would have been a big sticky thing to try to broach that in the middle of the
situation.
So any other thoughts around how people can begin this conversation with their family?
Yeah.
So sometimes people can bring up something that's happened to a friend of theirs or something
they've seen in the news.
Make something up if you have to, where something happened to a parent and their adult children
didn't know where to find all
of their accounts, say, or their estate planning wasn't done at all.
It's a good way to find out how organized they are and to kind of subtly poke them on
the things that they should be doing, because ideally they've got something like a will,
a living will, and powers of attorney in place, but this is a good chance to talk about that
if they don't.
Yeah.
And I would say the sooner you can do that, the better in a lot of cases.
You want to have this conversation when people are pretty clear-headed and not responding
to a big stressful medical event.
Absolutely, and again, the more you can do this in little doses, the less anxious everybody
gets I think.
And it can also be a time-consuming process, and it can be a little expensive too depending
on how complicated your estate is. So the more you can dole that out over time, the easier it will be to manage.
Oh, for sure.
So our listener asked about managing finances for older loved ones as a power of attorney,
which in technical terms is called being an agent. I realized that a lot of people might
not be familiar with what it means to be given power of attorney and act as an agent. Can
you talk with us about what that entails?
There are two kinds of powers of attorney, generally.
Financial power of attorney and health care power of attorney,
which is sometimes called a medical power of attorney
or health care proxy.
Having financial power of attorney
means you can handle your loved one's finances.
So you can sign checks, you can make payments,
you can talk to the bank on their behalf,
and this can be super helpful if you're in the position of having to move money around or pay bills or pay caregivers.
That said, even though I had power of attorney from my mom, sometimes I had to have her on the phone
while I made calls to people so that she could verify that I had her permission to discuss things or to take actions.
So it depends on the company.
But what if your loved one is incapacitated and can't actually be on the phone, but you're getting pushed back from a company.
In that case, and I did have to do this in a couple of cases,
you can fax over a copy of the power of attorney paperwork and then they will
talk to you,
but it's kind of a thing to get the right person on the phone and fax it to the
right place.
Yeah. Who has a fax machine nowadays?
Who has a fax machine now? Right.
Okay, well, let's talk about healthcare power of attorney.
What's the deal with that?
So, having healthcare power of attorney means, as you might expect,
you can make health decisions on your parents' behalf.
So, if they are incapacitated, you can make decisions about their care.
And even if they're not incapacitated,
being a parent's healthcare proxy means you can speak
to medical professionals
about what's going on with them.
When my mom was in the hospital in her state
and I was here in New York,
I could call and get an update
on what was going on with her care.
I also had access to her healthcare portal
so I could see test results as they rolled in.
That was super helpful.
That's a password that's nice to have
if your parent is willing to share it,
particularly if they're sick or getting a lot of medical care. One of the more granular questions that Kay asks
is about funding and which sources to prioritize. If an older loved one has a variety of accounts,
like a pension, a 401k, maybe an annuity, are there rules of thumb about which might be better to
prioritize drawing from first?
Honestly, this is really going to depend on your parents' financial situation and where they're sitting tax-wise. And this can vary from year to year, because there may be years
when they have more income. Like, they've sold a home and they may not need to or want to withdraw
as much taxable income. And there will be other years when they've got more wiggle room or they
need to pull more out.
So to the extent that it's possible,
a financial advisor or tax professional
can really help you here.
And advisors are really accessible these days.
You can see them in person or online.
Some of them charge a percentage of assets or charged by the hour
or charge a fee for a one-time consultation.
So you can generally find someone whose services and fee structure kind of match up with what you need.
You mentioned sort of a pension and annuity setup,
that would usually show up
in steady income payments over time.
So that's just something to factor into the budget
along with whatever they're getting for social security.
Let's go a little more into managing
and paying for medical care,
which can be one of the toughest areas
to talk about with a loved one.
How can you ensure that they're getting the care that they want and not getting
the care they don't want while managing expenses? And how does Medicare fit in too?
I think the biggest thing to know here is that Medicare does not cover long-term care,
which can be a huge expense. If your parents have a long-term care policy or life insurance with a
chronic care rider, first of all, that's good to know, but take a look at it and understand its limitations
and what it covers.
Unfortunately, most people don't have long-term care coverage, so paying for things like in-home
care, assisted living, or a nursing home will be out of pocket.
There are lots of organizations that can answer questions about this.
Your local agency on aging is a great place to start.
They can generally point you towards some resources if your parents need help, but if you have questions, I'm
a big believer in asking questions. And then to the extent that they need to see a doctor
or be in the hospital, Medicare does cover that kind of care, although the way Medicare
covers it depends on whether they've chosen Original Medicare or Medicare Advantage. And
about half of people 65 and over are on each.
Original Medicare is provided by the federal government and you can see any provider in the
U.S. that accepts Medicare. On the other hand, Medicare Advantage is provided by private
insurance companies and works more like health insurance you might have had with a job. So there
is a network and you have to use doctors in that network who accept your insurance. At NerdWallet,
we generally recommend that if you can afford Original Medicare with a Medigap plan,
which is a supplement that helps cover costs, that's the most flexible way to
make sure you're covered if something serious happens. So far we've been
talking about how to talk with your parents, care for your parents. We
haven't talked as much about your kids. Kate, when you were going through your
experience with your mom, how did you make sure that your kids were also getting to school on time and
hanging out with friends and going to their extracurriculars and had their lunch made,
all of those things that you have to do when you're a parent?
You know, it's really hard to be managing both things at the same time. And I definitely
put some things on the back burner because I didn't have the time or energy for them.
But to the extent that you can be present in your life when you're in your life, you know,
help your kids with their homework, take them to school, ask for help when you
need it so they need rides from people or their parents are there to help you.
Remember that you do have a life and needs of your own. So take walks and get
exercise and play with your dog and spend time with your kids. I got really
good at appreciating the small joys during this time in my life.
And if you have work benefits that offer access to a therapist or online therapy services,
don't be shy about using them.
It really helps to talk to someone who isn't your spouse or your friends because you will
repeat yourself a lot.
And the situation can be frustrating and overwhelming and heartbreaking and sometimes it's
just nice to lean on a professional. Yeah, of course. I imagine this might also be a good
opportunity to start this dialogue with your kids depending on how old they are. You don't want to
scare them if they're really young, but having a conversation about what you're experiencing with
your mom, with your kids might help them begin to understand that, hey, you might have to care for me one day too.
I think it was really helpful for them to see this play out because they were able to
see that you at some point may have to take responsibility for an older loved one and
that's a lot of work and it's really helpful if they put some things in place and certainly
it does help me think about what would I want to have in place, what do I need to do to
make their lives easier.
So it is a situation that kind of made all of us think about things.
And how old were your kids at this time?
At the time, so they were probably 11 and 13, so right in the middle of middle school.
So they had a lot going on in their own lives too.
They did.
Well, I'm glad that you could begin to have that dialogue with them and also care for your mom in this really difficult time.
Yeah. Do you have any final thoughts for our listeners or others who might find
themselves sandwiched between caring for older loved ones while raising kids? Yes
I do. One thing that doesn't get mentioned a lot is making sure you have
at some point all the usernames and passwords for your parents' accounts.
So even if you don't need to use them now, they are really good to have for the future.
And I would say, depending on whether your parents are tech savvy, my mother was not,
this may be something to put together with them physically next to you.
Because if they've forgotten a password, so many sites now have two-factor authentication
and require you to provide a code that's sent to your email or phone
and that could be a nightmare to work through with a parent long distance.
And I say this because it's helpful to have this for lots of reasons.
It's a huge help to be able to get into their bank or credit card statements
so you can check on things or you can manage things if you're in that role.
But if they have an issue with the website and they can't access something, you can go in and fix it
even if you aren't on site and that's helpful. Although it's incredibly sad to think about
when a parent dies, you will need to shut down their accounts. And that's the last thing
you want to be struggling to figure out. Like I needed to cancel my mom's subscription to
Netflix and her Amazon Prime account. And I was super grateful that I had all information
before she wasn't able to give it to me anymore.
Yeah, that's just one of those things that you would never consider as you're planning
the bigger things like healthcare.
It's like, oh yeah, my mom also has a Netflix account I have to manage at some point.
Yeah, and I really didn't want to get on the phone with Netflix.
It seemed so complicated.
I was happy I had all the information.
What a relief.
Well, Kate, thank you so much for coming on and sharing your story and your insights.
Absolutely.
Thanks, Sean.
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