Nightcap - Nightcap - Hour 1: Super Bowl is EXPENSIVE, Unc's 1 that got away, Patrick Mahomes distractions
Episode Date: February 5, 2024Shannon Sharpe & Chad "Ochocinco" Johnson react to the Chiefs being underdogs 3 playoff games in a row, Unc goes deep about his past breakups and discussed Patrick Mahomes Sr. being arrested for D...WI. 00:00 - Introduction05:30 - Are the Chief being disrespected?25:00 - Shannon Sharpe talks breakups44:00 - Patrick Mahomes Sr. arrested for DWI #Volume #ClubSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Hello, ladies and gentlemen. Welcome to another episode of Nightcap.
I'm your favorite unk, Shannon Sharp. He's your favorite number 85 route runner extraordinaire bingos legend ringer famer
three-time three-time all-pro six-time pro bowler chad ocho cinco johnson mr liberty city himself
y'all know what it is please please make sure y'all like make sure you hit that subscribe button
ocho we're 965 000 subs we 35,000 away from that magic number.
We got to get on the ball, Ocho.
Ocho, we got to get on the ball because the goal is to have it by Thursday before we go live.
Right.
So I've been thinking to myself, I said, I tweeted earlier today, or it might have been yesterday, who can I hit or who can I call?
I had people in mind to give us a surge, to give us a push, the push we need
to be at one million before the live show.
Everybody told me, listen, at the
rate y'all going, you don't need to call nobody.
You will get there by
Thursday's live show.
So I kind of held off on it.
We at, what we at?
965.
If we at 965
right now, with the way we're going,
I'm not going to make a call.
I'm going to wait and see what happens
and see if we get there at some point.
But we hit Wednesday.
When we hit Wednesday,
I'm going to make that call.
I'm going to make that call.
Man, listen, bro.
I need you to do me a solid.
I'd never ask you for nothing.
But just get us to a million sub
because I need to understand
what the fuss is about Unc's Cognac.
So I want to be able to taste alcohol for the first time ever in my life.
Yes, people in the chat, I've never had alcohol before.
So that will be my first time.
So I'm hoping we hit a million so I can give my own honest take in Keith Lee fashion.
In Keith Lee fashion on what that Cognac tastes like, or alcohol in general.
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Hey, Super Bowl party is a week away.
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or someone special. Ladies,
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make sure you go out and get a bottle of Chez Balaportier.
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make sure you go out and cast your vote for Nightcap
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much. Thank you, NAACP
for nominating us. It's greatly appreciated.
We know the voting on the
website is a little bit difficult and
has a bunch of extra steps. So
Jordan will be dropping a step
by step tutorial video tomorrow.
Lord have mercy. I don't know.
Man, I don't know how this is going to turn out.
But tomorrow,
Jordan will be dropping a step-by-step
tutorial
video. Lord help us.
Ain't no telling.
He might be voting for the
presidency.
Ain't no telling what Jordan will have you to do. he might be voting for the presidency. And that is still myself eight months away.
Ain't no telling what you're going to do.
Ocho, the Chiefs are the underdog
for the third straight game.
They are now a two-point underdogs
according to DraftKings Sportsbook.
Ocho, are Mahomes and Andy Reid being disrespected?
Why do they continue to do this?
Why do they continuously poke the bear?
Why do they continuously poke the bear? Why do they continuously poke the bear?
I'm not really sure how they come up with the scenarios
on why they're the underdogs.
Is it the fact that there are so many pro bowlers,
so many great players offensively,
I mean, and defensively for the 49ers,
based on what the Chiefs have been able to do
in the postseason.
Why?
I think this is what, maybe the second or third game they've been underdogs?
They've been underdogs the entire play, with the exception of the first game.
They weren't underdogs against Miami, but they were underdogs against Buffalo.
Buffalo.
Buffalo, Baltimore.
Baltimore.
And now the 49ers.
I'm not sure if someone has something against Andy Reid.
I'm not sure if somebody has something against Patrick Mahomes and just the Chiefs in general.
I understand they played bad during the middle of the season, you know, from an offensive standpoint, a statistical standpoint, as far as the receivers go.
They led the NFL in drops as a core themselves.
Offensive line leading penalties.
Yeah, that that as well.
But to say that they are underdogs in betting against Patrick Mahomes is asinine. And I think it's an angle that might have something to do with gambling and having people put more money on the 49ers to win, as opposed to people really believing, whoever came with this scenario, that they're the underdogs. I think that might be the angle they're going to get people to lose money betting with the 49ers. Well, what happens is, Ojo, you notice is that they set the line.
If I'm not mistaken, the original line was minus one.
Right.
And so in order for it to move to minus two, that means a lot of bets came in on the Chiefs because we got to open the line up.
And because we want people to bet on the 49ers also.
So that's seemingly why they opened the line up.
Okay.
All right.
That gives me a better understanding because logically, a two-time Super Bowl champ, there's no way I'm betting against that.
As good as Brock Purdy played last week, as good as that offense looked, you know, coming back from
the deficit they were able to come back from.
But I still just...
So, what you were explaining to me like that, I knew
it had to do something with numbers and money.
You know, because I don't
understand that. I don't understand that part.
Go back.
What was the original line? Because I see someone
say one and a half, two and a half.
It's one and a half. The original line was one and a half.
So it's moved to half a point.
So that means a lot of people
have been laying money
on the Chiefs.
Okay, that makes sense.
And that's one thing.
A lot of people's betting money on the 49ers
they just dropped it.
Because they don't really
want to get too heavy one-sided either way.
Right, right, right.
So basically what they're doing
is they're lying to the people
like some damn politicians.
Well, what happened?
They started...
Just to sway where the money needs to go.
Yeah, because what happened,
it started at one and a half.
Now it's at two.
That means a lot of money for it to move.
A lot of money has been
coming in on Kansas City.
So we'll see
how it plays out because at the end of the day,
Ocho, this is a neutral site game.
It's not like they're playing
in the 49ers
building. It's not like they're playing in Arrowhead
obviously. This is
as legit a neutral site
game as you're going to get.
I think both
fan bases will be in full effect.
It's going to be hard to tell who comes
both teams wear red.
I have a problem. I got a question. I got to
stop you right there. When you say both
teams fans will be in full effect, have
you seen the ticket prices
for the Super Bowl?
When I think about it, I think the hard-earned blue-collar fans of these teams,
the people that show up to every home game, the eight games that they do have throughout the season.
It's not for them.
It's not for them.
They are priced out.
They are priced out.
I think it's unfair.
Obviously, we understand what the end goal is and the bottom line goal is for the NFL,
especially an event of this magnitude.
It's about money.
That's always been the end goal. Oh, sure. And this is for the wealthy. This is for the NFL, especially an event of this magnitude. It's about money. That's always been the end goal.
This is for the wealthy.
This is for the rich to come together
and have some fun and enjoy
the last game of the season.
It's not for the true, authentic
fans that work hard in this
goddamn economy to support
their team eight weeks out of the season
at home. They're priced out.
They're priced out based on
the prices I saw. I got it
and ain't no damn way in hell
I'm paying $7,000, $8,000
for a goddamn ticket. What average ticket price
now is $12,000. Because
here's the thing, what the NFL saw,
I remember when we went to the
Pro Bowl, if I'm not the Pro Bowl, the Super
Bowl, I think the highest ticket
was $1,000. But if you think the highest ticket was $1,000.
But if you turn around,
yes, $1,000. But if you
scalp the tickets, people was willing
to pay you $7,000 to $8,000.
So the NFL said, hold on, y'all
willing to pay $7,000 to $8,000?
We'll just go ahead and put the ticket at $7,000 to $8,000
since you want to pay that.
But what has happened is that
you take all the advertisers
and sponsors.
That's where the tickets go.
Ocho, you mean to tell me
for a billion dollars,
for two billion dollars,
I can't get no tickets?
Right, right, right, right.
Come on now, Ocho.
That's crazy.
Listen, Super Bowl is a corporate event.
Yes.
Super Bowl is a corporate event
and there needs to be
some type of structure
or something done
for the hardcore fans.
The fans that put on the costumes,
the fans that paint their faces,
the fans that have been at Arrowhead
week in and week out
when they played home
and the fans that have been
at goddamn Levi's Stadium
week in and week out.
They are priced out
because in this goddamn economy,
nobody can afford
a goddamn ticket
for $12,000.
And then you got some people
that are going to get scammed.
They're going to be sold
fake tickets.
No, they have to find
some happy medium
for the people
that are part of
the median households
that have been going to games
year in and year out.
And all of a sudden,
their team makes it to the
biggest game of them all, now you're going to have people
digging in their life savings.
You're going to have people digging in their goddamn life savings.
Watch it on TV.
I mean, come on.
The one thing that we're going to be
on this podcast is
honest.
When you got tickets
starting out at six thousand what average
fan is going to be able to pay
six thousand dollars okay
that's for the ticket where the hotels
you got a three night minimum
three nights right
so that so even if you come
in say oh well I just want I'm just gonna come in
for the game what you gonna sleep in your car
that's that that's that's
something that's something that that would be a choice of mine, you going to sleep in your car? That's something that would be a choice of
mine. Are you going to eat?
Are you going to eat? They have fast
food. They have fast food in
Vegas. What do you think the price of this is?
You think you can get a normal price
as a normal price that you would normally be if you was in
Vegas? Listen, Vegas
got Bahama Breeze if you want to go
fancy. Now, that's dinner.
You want to bring it down a notch?
Vegas has In-N-Out. Vegas has Burger King. Vegas has McDonald's. They have El Pollo Loco. You don't
have to go fancy. We talk about based on if you're on a structured income-
On a budget.
Because you paid, yeah, on a budget, and you paid a lot. Let's say you took some of your
life savings. You want to go to Super Bowl. Sleep in your car. Eat at what I consider
some of the lower tier restaurants.
I consider them high tier.
Other people consider them low tier.
I mean, that's what I would do.
I don't have no problem sleeping in my car.
I got to use the bathroom.
I go to a 24-hour 7-Eleven,
24-hour IHOP.
I ain't let you drop no sticky notes in my bathroom if you ain't buying no
potato chips or no gas or no soda
no
they don't have a choice
that's a private entity you just can't go
use the bathroom where you at
you think you have a park or recreation center
buy a stick of gum
you got to buy something
when have you ever known people at home
win an event Grammys, Emmys, Oscars,
some type of event that's coming over,
you see what happened when the gas prices,
what they do with the gas prices.
They jacked it up.
Okay, then.
So they got an event coming to Vegas.
Tell me what you think they're going to do with food prices.
They're going to hack it up a little bit.
A little bit.
They can only do it so much.
What you mean so much?
Listen, you still want to attract
not only business,
but you still want to be able to make money.
If you price yourself out,
listen, nobody will go to your establishment.
They're already coming, though, Joe.
Nobody will go to your establishment.
They're already coming.
They're already coming.
We already know
we're going to get an influx
of a million, two million people.
Right.
So, listen,
there's an influx of one million,
two million people.
You think those people
won't find somewhere else to eat if your prices are outrageous and ridiculous?
What's the likelihood of the people that's coming and they got hotel rooms with a three night minimum? What you say the thing is they're going to stop by your establishment anyway?
That's a good one. Hey, that's a good one.
I mean, they got cabanas going for 100,000 to see 12 people.
100,000.
A cabana where?
At the clubs.
At the clubs.
100,000.
Quarter of a meal.
And you wonder why I've never partied in life.
Because it makes no sense.
What are you getting for 100,000 that you can't get at home?
Turning your radio real goddamn loud.
Invite all your friends over.
Boom.
Same concept.
Same energy. Same concept, same energy,
same vibe, but you paying $100,000
or $250,000 or whatever it may
be to go to do what?
Just to show, look, I got money.
Okay, that's cool. That's fine.
It ain't how much you make, it's how much you keep.
Now you talking like me. I like
where you're going. Now we have something else
to address based on that comment right there.
Wait, wait, wait.
I'm not talking about Ochoa.
I'm just saying.
I'm just saying, look, when you and Ochoa, like I said,
I believe that what the NFL saw is that, and what you see anytime,
if somebody's willing to pay for it, if they're willing to pay,
y'all scalping the NFL.
Hold on.
We sold all these tickets. And the players
can only get 15 tickets.
You get 13 tickets, you get two
free. Now, it used to be
it was at the team discretion.
Teams could give you
20, 30 tickets, whatever
the case may be. But there was
a discrepancy many years ago.
One team gave a team
30 tickets and the other team gave, so the
NFL said, you know what we're going to do? We're
going to take it over. You're going to be able to give them
two free comp tickets just like you get at home
and they can buy 13.
And guess what?
Guess what sometimes players did with
them 13 tickets?
Oh, you sold them.
Well, I don't know. You probably have your mom,
your close, close mom,
you know, dad.
If you got a significant other
or wife, obviously you got kids.
But listen,
you got to play because they eating.
You know how players think now.
We ain't worried.
We ain't caring.
My family don't care.
If I ain't playing no goddamn Super Bowl,
I don't care nothing about going.
Shit, we finna make this money.
Ocho, you got it.
The families came in
on Thursday.
So Thursday night,
Friday night,
Saturday night,
Sunday night.
That's four nights.
Now,
I got a mom.
I got a sister.
I got a girlfriend.
I got kids.
Right.
That's four rooms.
And bare minimum,
that's bare minimum four rooms.
Possibly a fifth.
And who you think feeding them who you think
entertaining them
who you think flew now
I could have flew I could have
flew now my family
this was pre 9-11
so this was pre the tickets
was high as giraffe
but
so Ocho I gotta bring my mom from Chicago.
I got to bring my sister.
And at that time, my cousin, Mud, she flew with her.
I got to bring them from Georgia to San Diego.
My kids, okay, the kids, my sister picked up the kids, brought them from Georgia.
And now my girlfriend was on the charter.
And so, okay, cool, charter. I was like,
I could have got my, but what sense
does it make to fly my family from
Georgia, Chicago
to Denver to get on the charter
and then now get on the charter.
Now they got to fly back from San Diego
to Denver or from Miami
because, you know, we flew, we played
in Miami or when I was in Baltimore,
we flew to Tampa.
So I just like, okay.
I mean, I think I spent like 15 grand
just in flights.
Well, you're better than me
because my family would have understood.
No, no, no, no.
Super Bowl, mom, my sister.
Oh, they got to go to kids.
They got to go to that.
The Super Bowl?
Right, okay.
Now, there are a lot of people
that had never seen Shannon Sharp play a football game. Not a Bowl? Right, okay. Now, there are a lot of people that have never seen
Shannon Shaw play a football game.
Not a preseason game,
not a regular season game,
not a playoff game.
You mean in person, you mean?
In person.
Okay, okay.
But they want to go to the Super Bowl.
Right.
Shaw, please.
That's what I said.
That's all you had to tell us.
Shaw, please.
Now, my homeboy,
I had one homeboy,
Bucket,
that it was in town.
Bucket.
I done heard Bucket's name
so goddamn much.
I feel like I know him.
That's my dog,
him and Burns.
But Burns was on the team.
They gonna be in Vegas?
Nah, hell nah.
Hell nah.
Nah.
And so, you know,
I had a ticket.
I had a ticket
for one of my homeboys,
but something came up.
That's something we'll discuss at a later date and time.
He wasn't able to attend.
And so I had two tickets.
I said, Bucket, I got a ticket for you and my other homeboy.
Now, I ain't got nothing for your wife.
You had to let him know.
You had to let him know.
No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
You ain't getting phone tickets.
You get, you, hey, you and my other homeboy.
Well, my other homeboy wasn't
able to come. Something came up. He
hit me up. He said, man, such and such not going to be able to
come. Can I use the other ticket for
my wife? I said, hell yeah.
Okay, okay.
Long as it was free. Long as it was free.
Anytime it was close.
Right. Jacksonville,
he would come to Jacksonville. He would drive
close by. He ain't got a whole lot. At the time, he was a police officer. Then he later worked for would drive close by he ain't got a whole lot of that, at the time he was a police officer
then he later worked for ATF
so he ain't like he making a whole ton of money
to be able to put himself up and come
so I always took care of it
but in a situation like that Ocho
you know, like I said, the Super Bowl
that's a special occasion, my mom
come to everyone, and at the time
my step pops
pops came with my mom.
So I got to fly him.
But I'm feeding everybody every day.
I'm playing for entertainment every day.
And the hotel room and the flight.
So like I said, I probably spent like 30 grand for the entirety of the trip.
And we won all of them.
So everybody had a really good time.
And you know what's funny? I'm sitting here talking,
I'm not even realizing, when I was with the
Patriots, we made the Super Bowl.
I'm not even realizing. And obviously,
you know what? Lil CJ was there. My daughter
was there. Your mom? Grandma?
No, grandma.
She wasn't able to travel.
Yeah, she wasn't able to travel at that point.
But your mom?
No, mom. Me and mom, we weren wasn't able to travel at that point But your mom? Nope mom you know me and mom
We weren't seeing eye to eye during that time
You know her and I have a
Whoa listen there's a reason we call it
Hurricane Paula you know
That's the reason we call it that
So we weren't seeing eye to eye during that time
And you know
It wasn't much
How many of your kids was there?
Two, three?
Maybe three.
No, two.
I think it was CJ and G.
But you had to have somebody take care of them
because, hell, you couldn't.
Yeah, because I had who I was seeing.
You got to practice.
You got to practice.
Yeah, during that time.
Your girlfriend at the time.
Yeah, so I didn't spend nothing close to what you did
nothing nothing close
and obviously
you have to think also
so you probably had
one hotel room
probably
probably that was it
and then you have to also think
like why is everybody flying
and you understand
I wasn't the same
Chad that we used to see
in St. Louis
right
but it ain't like
I'm for to come out here
and be
maybe have an opportunity
to win goddamn MVP at this damn Super Bowl like so let's slow down a little bit we're talking about oh I'm for the come out here and be got there. Maybe have an opportunity to win goddamn MVP at his damn super.
Like,
so let,
let's slow down a little bit.
We'll talk about,
Oh,
I'm coming to watch you play.
Well,
shit,
I ain't do nothing doing the regular season.
I'm not sure what you're expecting this one goddamn game.
So it kind of didn't make sense.
You know,
when you're in full effect and I look at it in hindsight.
So,
yeah,
I mean,
it was cool,
but I ain't spent nothing like that.
Yeah.
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In the fall of 1986,
Ronald Reagan found himself at the center of a massive scandal
that looked like it might bring down his presidency.
Did you make a mistake in sending arms to Tehran, sir?
No.
It became known as the Iran-Contra affair.
And I'm not taking any more questions in just a second.
I'm going to ask a journey.
I'm Leon Nafok, co-creator of Slow Burn. In my podcast, Fiasco, Iran Contra, you'll hear all the
unbelievable details of a scandal that captivated the nation nearly 40 years ago, but which
few of us still remember today.
The things that happened were so bizarre and insane, I can't begin to tell you.
Please do.
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And so the thing was, Ocho, I ended up
like, for the flight, because I didn't have
like, I only used one seat on the plane.
So I had a friend.
Her name was Sharon, and she did everything for me.
She cleaned the house.
She did all the shopping.
She did all the washing, and rest her soul.
That was my dog.
Sharon, I could call.
She was like my aunt.
And she had, her face was her credentials.
She could go anywhere in the stadium, and they had to show no ID.
They let her in the stadium. They knew she was good. She, she,
she good her and her daughter. I got them on the plane. I got them.
I got them tickets. So, but other than that, and then, um,
for the most part, I ended up giving my seats away.
Cause I, Hey hey bro you need
hey i got you know you got x amount of seats hey go ahead bro i ain't i ain't got nobody i ain't
flying my family my family flying straight to the game i ain't flying my family out here to put them
on some plane because when they leave san diego i already know my sister and my mom gonna want to
go straight home they're not gonna want to go to denver and they're not gonna have to no so i flew
them straight home but it was a great experience We won all three games that made it even sweeter. Um, you
know, uh, the kids had to go, you know, they, their mom, the kids was down for a little while.
Cause you know, we had a party, obviously you win the game, you have a party afterwards, right?
You know, you have a little party. Then obviously, obviously, you know, my mom took the kids
upstairs, me and my sister stayed down a little while. Then me and, uh, you know, Hey, you know, you have a little party. Then obviously, you know, my mom took the kids upstairs.
Me and my sister stayed down a little while.
Then me and, you know, I had to shake.
Hey, it's Super Bowl.
I won.
We got to shake the covers.
Vote dog.
Wait, wait.
Wait, who wait?
Wait, wait, wait, wait, nah.
Let's rewind a little bit.
I need better context on who you shaking the covers with during this time.
Is there somebody special in your life? I had a girlfriend at the time.
Yeah.
You had a girl?
Yeah.
Yeah.
Because she would ask me. Now, wait a minute. Wait, wait, wait, wait. Stay with me now girlfriend one time. You had a girl? Yeah. Yeah. Because she would ask me.
Wait a minute.
Wait, wait, wait.
Stay with me now.
You won.
You got three Super Bowl rings.
I got three Super Bowl rings.
So did you have a different girlfriend for each Super Bowl?
Well, the second Super Bowl, I didn't have a girl.
I didn't have anybody.
But you had somebody come in, though.
No, no, no.
I didn't.
No, no, I didn't.
No.
Okay.
Okay.
No, I didn't. So the first Super no okay okay no i didn't so the first
and the last football i had a girlfriend and in the first super bowl my girlfriend at the time
and she was amazing uh okay and and i got high respect we're still cool today because she was
up front with me and say shannon i want to move on i want to go see somebody else
oh hell no she ain't tried my dog like that.
Yeah. She had the audacity.
What you mean?
Man, what you mean? What I mean? How many times
have you told a girl you want to
move on? Never.
Everybody left me.
Everybody left me.
That's beside the point.
Women need to understand.
Shannon Shaw.
I'm not a woman,
but even I can see the vision of where you're going.
Even I can see the vision of where you're going.
I can see the vision of where you was heading.
You don't want to leave that because look what you got now.
I'm hell to deal with.
I'm not going to sit here and tell somebody,
yeah, I mean, everything that looks good
and you see how diligent I am and how hardworking I am, but'm not easy to get along with i'm not easy to live with um i
wouldn't tell nobody that lie listen even even if you're not easy to deal with right everybody come
with baggage you know it's all about finding that one person based on the life you want to live
the willingness to unpack that baggage.
At the time I had... You my dog.
I'm just saying,
if I was a woman, there's some shit
that I don't like about you, but I'm going to have to
just deal with it.
No, no, no.
You still got baggage, Ocho.
I came with more baggage than a Delta airline.
You couldn't be with all that baggage I had.
That's all right, because there's a woman out there
that is willing to unpack because you a good nigga. You couldn't be able to hold that baggage. That's all right. That's all right. That's all right because there's a woman out there that is willing to unpack
because you a good nigga.
Oh, shit.
My bad.
My bad.
But you're a good dude.
I am?
You're a good dude.
Listen, you mean well.
I am.
You mean well
because when somebody needs you,
based on the stories,
you're going to always be there.
Oh, for sure.
If you get first of all,
nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah.
Hold on.
That's not everybody.
You need to be cool. You need to be cool with me. That's what I'm talking sure. If you get first of all, no, no, no, no, no, no. That's not everybody. You need to be cool.
You need to be cool with me.
That's what I'm talking about. But you got to, we talk about people you are intimate with. Yeah.
If you cool with me, we
gonna always be cool. Cause my
number one thing is protect the brain.
I said, because if the brain goes away,
Shannon's going to go away and I can't do
what you asked me to do for you.
So that's number one.
You've got to protect the brand.
And so if you cool with me, and like I said, when them kids came,
my mom and them came, they came on a Thursday.
My mom, my sister came over.
She brought the kids.
They brought the kids.
Oh, we want to,
because that was the last time I was going to see the kids until after the
game.
They weren't going to be running.
They weren't going to be,
I wasn't going to be coming over to the hotel
and hanging out and doing all that stuff
and splashing in the pool.
The festivities and all that other stuff,
that's for families.
I came down,
my event was going to happen at 6.30 on Sunday night.
And everybody understood that.
And her job,
my girlfriend's job,
was to make it as easy as possible
on my mom and my sister. So when the kids wanted to go to SeaWorld, my girlfriend's job, was to make it as easy as possible on my mom and my sister.
So when the kids wanted to go to SeaWorld, to see Shamu, gone.
San Diego do, gone.
The zoo, she got them and gone.
No hesitation.
My mom and them doing whatever they want to do.
Hey, you got the kids.
Right.
And so when it came time for us to go our separate ways, she came to me like a woman. I'm good with that or better if I move on. And I think they don't understand.
It's very difficult to find someone like yourself that you can always count on. Now,
there might be some things that you don't like that we can work through and get by,
but always having someone you can count on 24-7 come hell or high water is very difficult to find.
Someone that's loyal, a good person. There's going to be some issues. We all have our
issues. I'm telling you, man,
it's dangerous out
there and it's real thin.
It's real thin. I just think the mindset of women
at times is like, you know what? I can find
this again because look, I'm pretty.
Look at me, I got a shape. Look at me, I got ass.
I've done that, Ocho.
It's quantity,
but quality of what you're looking for
Is very difficult to find
Ocho
Sometimes women have to learn the hard way
Because they're hard headed
Because they think based on aesthetics
And the visual
I'll be able to find it again
But what comes with that is the games
That women have to deal with
Women
Ocho
You're a straight shooter
Yeah Ocho
It's good to have a straight shooter, boy. You're like a
Magnum 357.
Do you know how many
women I've looked over
because I saw something more aesthetically
pleasing and I left the best
woman that I had just because
I saw something more aesthetically pleasing.
You can't do that, Unc.
So that's why I don't get upset
when a woman comes to me
And tell me she wants to go on
I like the way you put that
Not that gift
Okay, I feel a little better now
Because you done made the same mistake too
You know what?
I feel a little better
Ocho, I feel a little better
I'm just honestly speaking
You've made that mistake
Leaving a good woman
For something that looks
Better aesthetically
and pleading to the eye?
Yes.
Okay.
Yes.
Okay.
Okay.
Okay.
And so I told my girlfriend.
I said, I'm not happy.
I said, I'm miserable
in my own home.
I said, I have a headache
all the time.
Always do argue.
I said, I want to be
with somebody else
and I'm going to go find them.
It ain't out there.
I'm telling you, man.
Well, you know,
through experience,
I ain't got to tell you nothing.
Yeah.
I wasn't going to,
I was going to sit here
and preach to you.
Just, you know,
I know it's Sunday,
but I don't already know.
Oh boy.
Come on now.
Come on now.
And so,
like I said,
I,
I, I've made the mistake, Ocho.
And I'm not perfect.
And I don't sit here and proclaim to be perfect.
And I don't say, you know, oh, no, no, no, no.
Shannon didn't leave everybody.
Women have left Shannon Sharpen.
That's okay.
That is perfectly okay.
Right.
Because they made me better and they made me look internal at some of the blow.
And I fixed some of them. Right. Well, we got some more to work on.
I fixed some of them. But like the most dilapidated of buildings, I'm still under repair.
And I'm OK with that. Hey, that was nice. That was a bar right there.
Hey, that was nasty. Hey, I i've been watching listen i've been watching battle
rap man i've gotten into battle rap real real real heavy and that was a bar that was a bar
that was filthy i like that you know back in my day when i used to write when i used to write
love letters on show you know your boy back in the day without the high school you know high
school early in college yeah yeah, yeah. Junior high,
used to write love letters.
Like college,
college,
and like late,
like late high school,
early college.
This how I know you're a good dude.
You know what it takes
for a man to be able to sit down
and to put thought
and a sum on paper
and use the pen?
Mm-hmm.
That is that,
that's that genuine,
that's that notebook type of,
I'm really, I'm really feeling you
and I'm going to express my feelings
and my thoughts through paper
instead of communicating it.
Oh, that's nice.
Because sometimes I could write down
what I couldn't say to the young lady in person.
It makes it that much easier because everybody's not equipped to be able to say or communicate some of the things they're feeling and being able to express it verbally.
It's very difficult at times, especially if it's someone you just met.
You know, you kind of don't want to open up like that and be a little bit too vulnerable too soon until you understand that the reciprocation is
there. Yeah, you know, but you know,
I start that thing off, you know, time
and opportunity presents
itself that I take this time that I tell you just
how special you are to me.
You know the first time I opened that, Ocho?
You know that?
Ocho, you boy, I told you.
I was here when I was away, Ocho.
Come on, man. Hey, bro, I like that.
I like that.
You know what?
I'm going to put that shit in my vows.
I'm going to put that in my vows.
That's how I'm going to start my vows.
That's my win.
Yes, sir.
I like that.
Bad Ocho, you boy.
Back in the day, Ocho, man, you know.
Hey, you and that boy.
That's why I still came.
I can't figure out why they left, man.
I still came.
I guarantee.
Huh? Listen, I guarantee this. What? I guarantee this. It's a no still can't figure out why they left now. I guarantee this.
I guarantee this. But it's not really disrespect. Those in your past,
I say, I bet if they look in the rearview mirror, they'll put that motherfucking reverse. I bet that.
I bet if those that left you, if they look in the rearview mirror, I guarantee you they'd put that motherfucking car in reverse right now.
Well, you know what, Ocho? I have an ex today.
And we hadn't been together in 25, 30 years.
Yeah.
And I was just straight up with her.
And, you know, from time to time, she would hit me up.
And time to time, I hit her up to check on us, make sure everything's okay.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
And I said, how did I start it up?
I think i said something
about i've known you 35 1987 37 years yes sir you you've been different places i've been different
places i have different different situations you've been married. I said, this is what I know
for 100% certainty.
For categorically certainty.
I said, other men might have had
your body,
but I've always had your heart.
Come on, give me them bars.
You sent me a text back saying,
as much as I wanted to hate you
and I've tried for so long
you'll always have my heart.
Well, I got to stand up
on this. But she wasn't
telling me anything that I didn't already know.
I know why so much vitriol
I knew why she put so much
vitriol towards me and
did the things that she did
because she loved me yeah now see remember
i said this in the show not too long ago remember i said this in the show not too long ago fellas
you're always dealing with somebody you're always dealing with a woman she you might have her
physically but there's a guy from her past there's a guy from her past that will always have access i
have have her mentally up here no matter, no matter how happy she is.
Remember I told you that?
Yeah.
Remember I told you that?
Yes.
And you just explained the situation right there.
Oh, yeah.
Rail.
Yeah, I'm going to wake her ass up because I didn't know who it is.
Everybody got one.
Everybody got one.
Especially if you're in the chat, women, if you're listening and you just heard the explanation
that Unc just told,
tell me you're not lying.
There's always somebody.
Even if they don't reach out to you,
there's always somebody.
I mean, look,
I remember the first time
a woman actually took me on vacation.
It was her.
I said,
I said,
I said,
she took you?
Yes.
Unc, you let that go?
St. The Virgin Islands, St. Thomas. I said, baby, I ain't got, I said, baby, I ain't got no money.
She said, I got this.
Hotel, food, I ain't pay for nothing.
That's the one, man.
All I was was a plumber for the whole weekend.
Hey.
Yeah, you... You're a young clog,
young clog, dog.
That's all I was that week.
You playing $45 an hour.
Yeah.
That's all you playing for plumbing service.
On the phone.
That's the one.
You know what I'm saying?
I hadn't been...
I hadn't been out of the country.
I mean, I don't get to say
Thomas is theoretically
inside of the continental.
But anyway,
I hadn't been nowhere Ocho.
Yeah.
She put it on me, Ocho.
Hey, it ain't too many like that now.
Hold on.
Let me tip
so you can see my head now.
Yeah.
Ain't too many like that
that's going to pay for you.
Yeah, man.
That really got you
because, you know,
women, they looking for provider. We know what that means. We know what that's going to pay for you that really got you because you know women they looking for
provider
we know what that means
we know what that's called for
huh
yeah
but like I said
look
I've been in situations
and
and
seemingly what I had
wasn't enough
and
and I think the thing is
now
is being able to accept
enough right right so at least appreciating what you got what I have And I think the thing is now is being able to accept enough.
Right. Right. So at least appreciating what you got.
I have. But back. But, you know, Ocho, you back then. I'm 19, 20, 22.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Man, please.
Listen, when you're young, this is one of the things that that that is going to get the younger generation as well.
It's always thinking that I can always get better and I could always attain better.
And you know what? All that gold or all that glitters ain't gold.
You're absolutely right, Joe.
Because the higher up you go, and women love to say this as well. Women love to say,
oh, I'm going to get a man with a bigger bag. Oh, I'm going to get a man that's richer than you.
I'm going to get somebody that looks better than you. But always understand what comes with that.
There's always pros and cons to everything as you continue to want to climb the ladder and whatever it is that you do or whatever it is you're trying to
attain there's always a con in the bad side to it yes outside of the pleasing aesthetics that we're
used to seeing yeah and the question is we don't we we we stuck in the now we don't think long term
with nothing yeah we don't think long term yeah i. I mean, like I said, Ochoa, I look back and
I say, man,
what was I? I mean, I have my moments
because I spent a lot of time alone, just me
and the dogs, and I'm loading my thoughts
and I go back and I pan over the course
of 35, 40 years of my
life and saying
that was,
there have been like, honestly,
I can honestly say there have been three
three that i should that that no question should have been mr mr sharp no question
we all got the okay well you so if you were someone that asked you the question yeah do you
have somebody in your life you know what, she was the one that got away.
So you got three adults.
Yeah.
You got three of them.
Okay.
Okay.
And then, you know, that's dope that you could be honest about that too.
Oh, for sure.
That's real dope.
Because a lot of people will be like, ah, nah, I don't need nobody from my past.
They are ex for a reason.
But there are some good people that we have lost.
That we've left behind.
Yeah. Due to circumstance, whether it be pride, whether it be are some good people that we have lost. That we've left behind. Yeah, due to
circumstance, whether it be pride,
whether it be ego, or feeling that we could find
better than that. And most of the time,
we're not successful
in doing so. Yeah.
And actually,
one of them was the one
that played that Michelle Indigo cello song.
Oh, okay, okay, okay.
But I remember she told me this early in our relationship.
And she said, Shannon,
and I remember her and I was having a conversation.
She said, Shannon,
you're the worst thing that's ever happened to me.
And I'm looking, I'm like, what the hell?
She said, Shannon, I'm never going to meet a man like you.
I'm not going to meet somebody as disciplined,
as hardworking, as funny,
as driven, as
motivated. She said, I'm not
going to meet that.
She said, I know that.
She says, I know
you're a once in a lifetime
man. But she says,
I also know you're not
ready for what I'm ready for.
She says, I'm going to take ready for what I'm ready for. She says,
I'm going to take it
for what it's worth.
I'm going to have
as much fun.
But she says, I know it's
going to stop. She said,
because you're not ready for what I'm ready for.
Now see, you know what? When you talk like that
and based on what you're saying,
I know this is the older woman.
This is a seasoned woman.
No.
Because if this was someone young thinking like that,
was that type of maturity?
Yes.
Yes.
Ocho.
Now, you talk about, look here.
Talking like that?
Ocho.
She was, I mean.
Everything you just said sounds like a seasoned vet
that don't want to play no more games that's done with the games understanding you know
i'm not sticking around for him to change where i was in my life yeah and what i had going on
yeah it was just i wasn't ready for what she could offer. And she was, when I say she, look, I'm talking about,
there's only been a half, I've had women
that I can have conversation with and we laugh and we talk.
And there's one right now that's really special.
And I've really never had the chemistry with her,
with someone else like I've had with her.
But she's in a different situation.
She's in her situation and I'm happy for,
and I wish them the best of luck.
But this situation that I'm talking about,
Ocho.
Right,
right,
right.
I'm talking about laughing and talking and just carrying on.
I mean,
get on the phone and we could talk hours and all we do is talk about,
and it's nothing,
you know,
we cracking jokes.
We making fun. We go to talk about and it's nothing, you know, we cracking jokes, we making fun.
We go to a restaurant
and I asked her, we go in and it's like
okay, and I was like
excuse me, will you guys
let me bring my horse in? And I point to her
and she just
busts out laughing.
And so we start
to order and she was like
I noticed you don't have any oats and apples on the menu.
And she pointed
and they look at her like, yeah, you know,
I got my horse sitting over here
and he likes oats and apples.
That kind of dynamic is fun.
Yes.
That kind of dynamic is fun.
She sent me a text
and said, Kentucky Derby
said that your entry was denied and you're not
going to be able to run this year. You know, stuff like that,
Ocho, so you can do stuff like that.
Ocho, I wasn't
ready, Ocho. I wasn't.
Based on what you're telling
me, listen, it sounds like
the perfect story, but I
guarantee you during this time, you were still playing.
Oh, yeah. And I had
just started
yeah to get into my own now all of a sudden no joe i'm a this was i'm a two-time three-time
first team all pro i've gone to like three consecutive pro bowls thousand yard seasons
now i'm john lw's go-to guy i'm uh, now I'm really feeling good about myself. Right. I know what you, I know
what you mean. I know what you mean. So, you know, Hey, if she think I look good, I'm sure somebody
else think that too. And that was the mistake I made. That was the mistake I made. Yeah.
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god that's great you know i can see the chat somebody just somebody just said i'm dressed
like beetlejuice and this this is this is this is the somebody said i'm dressed like beetlejuice
and really not understanding of who I'm wearing.
Tell me, tell me, do me a favor.
What's the name on the back of this?
Just for the people in the chat get a better understanding.
Uncultured swines.
That's Neymar.
That's Neymar Jr.
The great Brazilian.
Yeah.
Yeah.
This is the club Santos where he played at in brazil before he made it to
i like to call the big leagues this guy here it's about just like beetlejuice uh ocho we got some
news and that's gonna probably take over and i'm sure patrick mahomes gonna be asked about it
patrick mahomes senior was arrested and charged with his third DWI, third or more DWI. Mahomes Sr. was arrested on DWI charges multiple times over the last 12 years,
2012, 2018, 2019, and a recent arrest over the weekend.
Mahomes was arrested for his second driving while intoxicated charge in 2018,
served 40 days sentence, and he served those over the weekend.
The news come a week before his son takes the field in Superbowl 58.
How do you expect young Patrick to handle this distraction?
I mean, this, this is, this is, this is, this is not a distraction.
It's not a distraction. It's something that he's, he dealt with before.
His father has had two other issues and it hasn't affected his play on
the field. And when it comes to...
Next to this right before the Super Bowl. Now they're
going to ask him. You know
media day. Oh yeah, but he ain't
paying that no mind. You know he ain't paying that no mind.
Even if they do ask him, we talk
about a two-time Super Bowl champ.
One that will never be rattled. That's been in
the highest of situations.
He'll be fine. he'll be fine.
He'll be fine.
Again, it's unfortunate, especially for your father to not learn from the past two times.
Yeah, that's what's going to make.
And as a father, I would think you would, at this point, you want to get an Uber.
You want to get an Uber.
If you're inebriated, if you're drinking, if you're consuming alcohol, if you're out somewhere, don't even drive yourself.
Have a driver.
Obviously, you have a son that we already know that is completely well off. Talk to your son. Pat, have a talk with dad. Listen, pops,
if you want to go out, if you want to have fun, let me get a car service for you. Let me get a
driver for you. That's really nothing. To make sure issues of this extent don't happen again.
I think that's something that they should do going forward so they don't have to deal with this again, because obviously it's sustained on the family.
And it's not going to affect Pat on the field, but off the field, having to deal with the media,
having to deal with the scrutiny, having to deal with everyone in their personal family business
is a bad look. Anytime someone in the family becomes more prominent,
high profile, everybody has to move differently.
Patrick Mahomes Sr., your son is Patrick Mahomes Jr.
You can't move the same way you once could.
You just can't.
I understood that my brother now was Sterling Sharpe
and he's the seventh pick in the NFL draft
of the Green Bay Packers.
All that trifling stuff that I wanted to do or that
I was doing before, I couldn't do it
anymore.
Because they're going to say
the younger brother of all
Packer receivers, Sterling Sharp,
Shannon Sharp, was arrested.
Or, come on, Patrick Mahomes Sr.?
Yeah, yeah.
I mean, clearly he has an issue.
I mean, there's no other way around it.
And hopefully he gets that resolved and not put himself because he lucky.
Because remember, Andy Reid's son had a DWI three days before the Super Bowl 55,
crashing into a broken down car on the roadside.
And the crash left a five-year-old girl
in a coma for 10 days
and she was permanently disabled.
Oh, my goodness.
And so, like I said,
a lot of times people think,
well, oh, it was just a D, nobody was hurt.
Right.
But how many times have we heard situations
where people was hurt?
Henry Ruggs, alcohol, driving at a high rate of speed, slams into a car doing over 120 miles an hour.
She's dead. His NFL career. He's in jail.
Yeah. Leonard Little, Leonard Little, involuntary manslaughter. Rams. Rams. Leonard Little.
Yes. From Florida. From Florida? Yes.
The Hick of a Homicide.
The Dante Stallworth.
I forgot. I don't even remember these situations.
That's crazy.
I just hate that he put himself in that situation.
He put himself
in that situation. Like you said, O situation. And like you said, Ocho,
here's the thing, Ocho.
And his dad was a professional athlete.
The one thing about athletes
is that we don't think it's going to happen to us.
We're invincible.
Well, it's already happened twice.
So you can't be thinking like that.
It's already happened twice.
Yes.
You think you're invincible
based on the situation
and the circumstance that you're in now.
Right.
My sons, Pat, my homes, wherever I am. If someone does stop me, you know what? Yes. You think you're invincible based on the situation and the circumstance that you're in now. Right.
My son's Pat Mahomes.
Wherever I am,
if someone does stop me,
you know what?
It'll be a slap on the wrist.
Listen here, Mr. Mahomes,
senior, you can't be out here driving like that.
Okay, they let you go.
You can get away
with a lot of things
based on who your son is right now.
But you run into that one officer.
Right.
You run into that one officer
who wants that credit,
who wants to be,
you know,
the talk of the town
in the department.
But you're the one that,
they looking for that.
Right.
But again,
there's a problem
that he might have,
but there's a solution to it.
Yeah.
All Pat has to do is
get sloppy drunk.
Hey,
hey,
yo son,
look here,
if my dad,
my dad was a,
was an alcoholic.
But had he been alive,
to see me and my brother play,
he could, I'd have tried to get him help.
But if he couldn't, hey, hey dad,
there's a car, you don't drive.
You got a car, but don't you drive.
Because I'm a spitting image of my dad.
I look just, I look just like my dad. but and i'm gonna have somebody with him now i'm gonna fire your ass if you let
my daddy get behind the wheel real yeah yeah your responsibility is to make sure he gets to and from
you driving but listen the funny thing is i have a little experience when it comes to having a
parent that that that love that likes to drink, that loves a drink.
Obviously, on my end, you know, it wasn't she didn't like to drink and drive at the same time, but she would drink and it would affect our relationship.
So, you know, you asked me earlier, you know, was your mom at the Super Bowl?
Well, hell, it was hard to deal with her and be around her more than goddamn two or three goddamn hours because of her consumption of
alcohol. And for those that don't know, we did, matter of fact, just to give a small glimpse of,
you never met my mama. I think the world got a chance to see who she was and see what I had to
deal with. My mama and I, she was an alcoholic. She drunk a lot, drunk a lot, to the point where
my grandma raised me for that specific reason.
Obviously, I can tell y'all because we all family, the drug use, the alcohol and abuse in it.
So my grandma was like, listen, you're leaving this little boy here with me and you can go ahead.
And my mom moved off to L.A. That's how I ended up at Santa Monica.
Right. OK, back to the story. So.
Dealing with her is she would always consume alcohol. And this might be one
of the reasons why I've never drank. She would always consume alcohol and then she would become
someone I didn't even know. She would become someone I didn't even know. And I couldn't quite
understand why are you always angry? You can't be angry at me because I didn't do anything wrong.
But then my grandma always happened to explain to me, baby, this is what happens when she drinks,
boom, along with other things.
So I kind of empathize in a sense with Pat because I was still able to play regardless of what was going on in my personal life and dealing with her.
Right.
It's like it's crazy.
And one of the reasons she got the name Hurricane Paula, because when she does consume alcohol, she becomes just that.
It's a hurricane. Right. It's a hurricane.
Right.
It's a hurricane.
And we had a funny thing with friends of mine throughout the years.
You're really not a friend of mine
or you ain't been around long enough
if you haven't been cursed out by my mama.
If you ain't been cursed out by mama,
you aren't really a friend of mine
because you ain't been around long enough.
My kids got it.
I got it.
Anybody I dated got it. My coaches got it anybody i dated got it my coaches got it my friends got it everybody my teachers got it everybody and it
was hard to even have her around important events because i didn't know she was gonna show up
inebriated or not well hey boy listen um my mom and i wanted to help my mama the same way i'm sure
pat wants to help his dad.
So I say, you know what? The opportunity presented itself where not only we can make a little money,
I can get you some change, but we're going to go on a show with some doctors. We did marriage
bootcamp. And Chad, if you haven't seen marriage bootcamp family edition between me and my mom,
watch that when you get some time and you'll understand who she really was. Because most of
the time you have family members go on camera and they put on and be someone that they're not.
They put on their representative because the world is watching.
Me and my mom went on that show.
The whole point was to try to mend our relationship and find a way to make things work and figure out what's wrong with her past.
They offered places she can go.
They offered rehab. Every morning she woke up, what's the first thing past. They offered places she can go. They offered rehab.
Every morning she woke up, what's the first thing you think she went and got?
Something to drink.
Something to drink. And they purposely allowed her to drink and drink and drink. And man,
that woman stole the show. That woman stole the show. And obviously, I let people that want to
go back and watch it and see who Hurricane Paula was, cussed everybody out on the show.
Cussed out the producers.
Cussed out the castmates.
And we didn't end up finishing the show because she cussed everybody out.
She cussed everybody out and left the show before it ended.
And from that point on with me trying to help, there was really nothing I could do because she wasn't even trying to help herself.
And my mama passed.
She just passed in 2021.
What'd you think she died from, mom?
Probably scoliosis.
Cirrhosis, not scoliosis.
Cirrhosis.
Alcohol poisoning.
Yep.
Alcohol poisoning.
And so that's just,
there's a story with Pat
and it kind of resonates with me in a sense, not to the sense of her getting in trouble and arrested, but dealing with someone who likes to consume alcohol.
And there's really no way to control it.
Even when you try to get him help, they just they just won't listen.
Yeah, I don't understand why people like giving up control like that.
I mean, I think I think for us, especially like me, I got to be in control.
I don't like, you know, I can only say there's been one time that I kind of lost control,
but I was able to regain it.
And that was the Lakers situation at that game.
But I don't like being out of control, Locho.
Right.
You think you was?
I was like, yeah, I'm glad.
You were drinking?
No, I wasn't drinking.
Hell no.
Oh, so you were good.
Yeah, I was good. Yeah. Okay. No, I wasn't. No, no, wouldn't drink hell no oh so you were good yeah i was good yeah okay no i wouldn't no no no no that's that's one of the reasons you know i i think because my father
was an alcoholic also and he ended up he ended up having both jawbones removed ended up having a um
he ended up dying at when i was 13 years of age and uh i saw him once to actually know who i was
looking at i saw him when i was in i I think, the kindergarten. First grade. That's how I've been. First grade.
And the next time I saw him, he didn't know I was looking at him.
His face was like a looking glass. I was just looking down and staring at him.
And he didn't look nothing like the man that I remember seeing all those years ago.
But that's what the drinking had done to him.
That's what the surgery of having both of to him that's what the the surgery was
having both of his jawbones removed and why he didn't want to come because he said told my
grandma grandma charlie that he didn't want his kids to see him in this kind of condition like
that okay okay but what he didn't realize i just wanted to see my father it wasn't the conditions
it was the man that i wanted to see and what I would give to have
if I could just have him
and my grandfather
Barney Porter the one that raised me
and him just to see
see what me and my brother
became just for one day
yeah I would love to see
years and years but just for one
day to see
what me and my brother became
that would probably be that would top any day uh any day pro bowl hall of fame this
for them to see that because i remember my grandfather and my grandmother was happy because
remember i told you oh my grandfather and grandmother didn't sleep in the same bed right my grandfather and my brother slept over here and me and my grandmother was happy. Because remember I told you, Ocho, my grandfather and grandmother didn't sleep in the same bed.
Right, right.
My grandfather and my brother slept over here and me and my grandmother slept over there.
And they was having a conversation.
And they thought I was asleep.
I wasn't.
This had to be about 2 o'clock in the morning.
We didn't have a clock in the room, so I couldn't tell you.
But I'm assuming it's probably around 2 o'clock in the morning.
And I remember him saying so vividly.
He said, Mary, he said, I might be dead and gone.
But them boys gonna make something.
He said, it's so smart.
They so attentive.
They don't give us no back talk.
They don't talk back.
I'm thinking to myself, man, do you understand the punishment and the wrath that would rain down?
And we were afraid to talk back.
But he said, he said, he said, that young one, he said,
Mary, that boy
remember everything.
Because
we was our dad's,
we was our grandfather's notepad.
Because you know back then, ain't nobody had no
cell phone. So somebody told you their
number, you just had to remember it.
My grandfather, somebody would tell
my grandfather, oh, hey, Barney, you know, I got
a new number or I got a phone because
everybody at the time didn't have a phone. Hey, Barney,
I got a number. I got a new phone. I got a phone.
Hey, tell it to them boys.
So it was me and my brother's job
to remember the phone number. And I just
remember that and that stuck with me.
Here I am, five, six
years of age, and he could project into
the future 30 years 25 years later that them two boys gonna make something man that made me so that
made me so proud to hear him say that as i'm going as i'm playing in high school as i'm playing in
college and i'm playing in the nfl and'm thinking back, my grandfather saw this.
And so to have my dad, my actual dad, and my grandfather,
if only for one day to see what I became,
even if they don't see me play football,
but just see the man that I became because I named my son after my dad.
But man, Ocho, thato that was i mean my grandparents and my grandparents
didn't i remember my grandfather got stopped by the state trooper my grandfather probably driving
120 so uh got said license registration um insurance my grandfather reached in the glove box, handed it to him.
He said, Mr. Porter.
He said, yeah. He said, you been drinking?
My grandfather said, yeah. About 40 years ago. Boy, that's before your time, right? He said, yeah,
it was, Mr. Porter. He said, okay, now I'm going to need you to slow it down. He said,
okay. But I think my grandmother He said, yeah, it was, Mr. Porter. He said, OK, now I'm going to need you to slow it down. He said, OK.
But I think my grandmother said that's why, you know, they started having kids and they stopped drinking.
And I never obviously they drank communion, but we never had alcohol in the house.
But just to just to I just would want my grandfather, my dad to see what me and my brother became.
Yeah, that's it. You what that that does that's dope
and i always i've never thought about it like that because my mom my mom was around to see to see
all of my success uh i would love for her to see how far i've come after falling you know uh
off that mountaintop and the climb that i'm making to get back to where i fell from
but i would love to see would have been like what our relationship would have been like if she hadn't
yeah alcohol yeah i would love this i would love you to be at every event i had i would love to be
at games i would love you to be at red carpet stuff i would love you to travel i would love you to be at red carpet stuff. I would love for you to travel. I would love for you to go to Pro Bowl. Listen, the game she did go to, she got into it with people and embarrassed me.
Oh, man.
You know, the red carpet stuff that I did take her to, you know, I got to get this drink before I put my clothes on.
She embarrassed me.
You know, so every time I would try to bring her around those events where your mother's supposed to be present as a reason on why you're here, as an example of, you know, listen, I done made you proud.
I need you front and center.
In all those instances, what does she do?
Cuss somebody out?
Yeah.
Put her hands on somebody.
And these are times where these were suable offenses that she's done.
And people kind of understood based on, okay, you know what?
I don't think that's really her.
I think the fact that she has consumed alcohol because we can spell it.
Right.
Along with other things, but I'm not going to go there.
There's no point for that.
But, you know, I got off a lot.
And I think that's probably why I've never had alcohol before.
And a lot of people don't believe me.
A lot of people, perception, when you see,
when you see me face.
A person's reception
is their reality, Ocho.
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
But that doesn't mean it's true.
Yeah, no, no.
People think I'm wild.
They think I club
because they let that on-field persona
that I put on
put that one number to character.
I don't feel I'm nothing like that.
Nothing like that.
But that's enough of that
before I start crying
like a little girl.
Yeah. Nothing like that. But that's enough of that before I start crying like a little girl.
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