No Broke Months For Salespeople - How Can Linguistic Techniques Help in Sales
Episode Date: August 6, 2023How Can Linguistic Techniques Help in SalesReal Estate Coach Dan Rochon of No Broke Months for Real Estate Agents talks about Linguistic Techniques for Real Estate Agents.In this episode, Dan gives ti...ps and techniques you should make a habit of in order to increase your conversational skills and get listings.Learn more about these Linguistic Techniques in this new No Broke Months for Real Estate Agents episode.--To find out more about Dan Rochon and the CPI Community, you can check this link:www.NoBrokeMonths.com --Stop 🛑 wasting your time ⏳ or spending too much money 💸not getting the results you want in sales; I would love you to join me for the upcoming 5-Day Listing Challenge.You will learn how to find YOUR Way to having closings every month.www.get3morelistings.com--Get your free copy of the Real Estate Evolution here:bit.ly/RealEstateEvolution_GetYourBookThis book shows you the step by step on how to:Step 1: Believe in your unknown potentialStep 2: Deconstruct persuasion techniquesStep 3: Find a business and get hired consistentlyStep 4: Be proactive in the relationship with your clients.Step 5: Learn and implement the exact steps to hire, train, lead, and train virtual assistants so that they can build, support, and guide a winning team to scale.And if you’d like to have a consistent and predictable income, like this page, and don’t forget to join the Facebook group to network with the top agents:https://www.facebook.com/groups/thecpicommunity/ To find out more about Dan Rochon and the CPI Community, you can check these links:Website: No Broke MonthsPodcast: No Broke Months for Salespeople PodcastInstagram: @donrochonxFacebook: Dan RochonLinkedIn: Dan Rochon
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You don't want to use weak language, right? Instead of using words like if, replace that with when.
So instead of like, if you hire me, you'd be like, when you hire me. Instead of saying,
I'm going to try to do that for you, say, I'm going to do that for you.
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How can linguistic techniques help in sales?
Real estate coach Dan Roshan of No Broke Months for Real Estate Agents talks about linguistic techniques for real estate agents. In this episode, Dan gives tips and techniques you should make a habit of in
order to increase your conversational skills and get listings. Learn more about these linguistic
techniques in this new No Broke Months for Real Estate Agents episode.
Now, if they're a fast talker, then you want to meet their rate of speech and then scale it back just a little bit.
If they're a slow talker, you're going to want to meet their rate of speech and then scale it up somewhat.
If you're a fast talker, you're going to want to slow down just a little bit.
There are some from time to time I'll be coaching somebody who has really, really high energy and coming out of the gate like, hey, how you doing?
Hey, listen, are you interested to sell a home, buy a home, invest in real estate? I'd love to
be able to help you, right? You sound like a used car salesperson. And if you talk too slow,
too deliberate, you know, are you thinking to buy a home, sell a home? It's excruciating. All right. So again,
if you talk too fast, they're going to think you're a used car salesperson. If you talk too
slow, they're going to think you're stupid. Okay. So you're still going to want to be in that neutral
zone, but you would be at the bottom end of the speed of the neutral zone. Okay. But you don't
want to match them exactly where they are because then that would just be crazy. And then, um, you know, you don't want
to be monotone either. So one of the things that like when I'm teaching, I will, a lot of times
I will use even my body. Like if it's a long presentation, there's times when I'm teaching,
you guys may not realize this where I'll even like step back and forth to the camera.
You know, as a normal linguistic technique is where you lean into the person
or if you're on video, you lean into it
and then you lower your voice
because that forces them to pay attention.
Okay, so that again,
it's about understanding how to use our voices,
understanding.
And when you move back,
you can then, you can talk powerfully.
You can really make a point where it's like,
hey, listen,
are you looking to be able to achieve this right now? Because if you're a point where it's like, hey, listen, are you looking to be
able to achieve this right now? Because if you're looking to achieve it right now,
I've got a secret for you. And you may not know that. Okay, so I'm not really saying anything
right now. I'm just demonstrating how to be able to use your voice so that you're not monotone.
Is that is everyone following me on that? So can practice now oh by the way uh i don't
say doug's not here today uh by the way those of you that are standing when you're doing your lead
generation will allow for you to much much more effectively be able to communicate in a way that
you can not be monotone and that you can practice your voice never argue don't use the word but
what is it the re what is the reason why we're not Don't use the word, but what is it? The re what is the reason why we're
not going to use the word, but you're, you're a pretty woman, Marge, but, um, and now it's like,
oh crap, but what? Right. Okay. Yeah. And it gates everything ahead of it. It's like, wow,
my goodness, I want to be a pretty woman, but what the heck the hammer's about to fall down.
Right. And then it's like oh my goodness right it's
like it negates everything in front of that right so the word but instead you can replace it with
and or you can replace it with yet okay so um john you're a pretty man and you smell sexy right like
right and so now it's like the entire thing there.
So you never want to argue. You always want to agree. You never want to make them wrong.
You don't want to use weak language. Right. So instead of using words like if replace that with when.
So instead of like if you hire me, you'd be like, when you hire me.
OK, instead of saying I'm going to try to do that for you, say I'm going to do that for you.
Instead of saying words like, well, possibly I could get that much money, say words like I will get that much money.
Now, let's say you're talking to a listing. You're not sure if you can get that much money.
You can still frame it instead of saying, they said, well, can you get 500,000 for this?
And you don't believe you can. You can still frame it in a way to say, well, what I can tell you
is that if anybody can get $500,000 for this property, for this sale, I will. OK, so you see how you frame it so that
you're still giving yourself an out, even with the way you're languaging it, where a less skilled
person would say, well, possibly right now you have no confidence in me. But if I sit there and
I communicate to you, so you know what, if it's possible, I will do it. Now, if the market reflects back that it's not possible,
then we're going to have to listen to what the buyers are saying. Do you agree with me? Yes,
yes. Okay. You see the difference in the languaging, the way that I'm, you know,
a weak salesperson going, yeah, maybe. And a strong salesperson would still give you the
confidence. But guess what I ended up saying? I ended up saying, hey, listen, if it's not possible, nobody can do it.
But if it is possible, I will.
Don't upswing your voice.
When you upswing your voice, it creates uncertainty.
Instead, you want to be commanding.
That's why with the embedded commands is buy now.
List with me.
It's not list with me. I said the same words, but I said a
completely different thing there, right? It's like, you're going to list with me completely
different thing. I know I'm emphasizing it, right? But the small little nuances are speaking to the
subconscious. Okay. You want to be, you want to be, you want to take charge. You want to be
confident. You want to be comfortable. You want to be confident. You want to be comfortable.
You want to be a leader in your persuasion skills.
Does everyone follow me on this?
Okay.
And then you want to be an active listener, right? You want to hear everything that they say, either if it's with the words or if it's with their action, their body languaging, their pacing, their certainty or their uncertainty.
You don't want to be quick to accept a no.
You know, you don't want to take a no when a yes is still possible.
You just want to simply ask another question.
You want to keep going to take them as far as they can.
I would say the number one thing that I see even within my own sales organization, whether it be ISAs or agents, is that we accept no too often when simply another question could get them to a yes.
It's something that I cannot tell you how often I get a no and it ends up being a yes.
Are you in the market to buy a home?
Oh, no.
Well, if you could buy a home, would you?
And then we have a 15-minute conversation. Do not accept the no's. A no is oftentimes just a smokescreen. Understand
the difference between a smokescreen and an objection or a smokescreen and a definitive
no. Oftentimes, a no is just that. It's just a smokescreen.
Thanks so much for listening to the No Broke podcast today until the next show i invite for you to be grateful make good choices help
someone have the best day of your life and go find a listing