No Broke Months For Salespeople - Why Most People Quit Right Before Their Breakthrough And How to Push Through

Episode Date: March 2, 2025

Most people quit right before their breakthrough—but what if you could push past self-doubt and create unstoppable momentum? In this episode, Dan Rochon shares the exact strategies he used to borrow faith, shift his mindset, and take massive action to build a thriving real estate business. Whether you're struggling with limiting beliefs, rejection, or just feeling stuck, this episode will help you take control of your success and eliminate excuses.What you’ll learn on this episodeThe unusual method Dan used to build unshakable confidence in salesWhy most people quit right before they succeed and how to make sure you don’tThe “Borrowed Faith” strategy that allows you to gain confidence instantlyHow focusing on activity, not results, is the key to consistent successWhy success is a direct reflection of your daily habitsResources mentioned in this episodeCPI Community Membership – Surround yourself with high performers who hold you accountable.The Millionaire Real Estate Agent by Gary Keller – The book that changed Dan’s career trajectory. To find out more about Dan Rochon and the CPI Community, you can check these links:Website: No Broke MonthsPodcast: No Broke Months for Salespeople PodcastInstagram: @donrochonxFacebook: Dan RochonLinkedIn: Dan Rochon

I encourage for you to measure your success not on what you get, but on what you do and who you are. Because life starts with who you're going to be before you do whatever you do, which will then create for you to have whatever you're going to have. And far too often, we measure our lives based off that I have the success. And that's actually backwards. You're listening to No Broke Months for Salespeople Podcast. In this episode of the No Broke Months for Salespeople podcast, Dan Rochon reveals why most people quit right before their breakthrough and how you can push through self-doubt to build unstoppable momentum. Dan shares the exact mindset shift that helped him create confidence, take massive action, and build a successful real estate business, even when results weren't showing up yet.

If you've ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure, this episode. will help you take bold steps toward your next level. When I started in real estate sales in 2007, I read a book written by Gary Keller called The Millionaire Real Estate Agent, and I remember going up to my broker at the time, and I told my broker, I said, I'm going to go away for six weeks. You won't see me at all.

I'm going to come back at the end of those six weeks, and you're going to see a lot of me. I read that book in six weeks 12 times, twice a week, for six weeks. I reached out to probably 20 people who were featured in that book to interview them, to ask for their advice. So I prepared myself. At the end of those six weeks, I came back to my broker. I said, all right, now I'm ready. Six days later, I had my first listing appointment.

18 months later, I bought the brokerage, and that broker then worked for me. I took the time to repair myself because I knew I did not have the experience. I knew I didn't have the faith, and it was really more the faith than the experience that I cared about. So if I said, if I don't have the faith, how can I find other people who've already done this, then I can borrow their faith, their experiences. So whatever you're trying to do in life, if you've not done it yet, you don't have that absolute faith, you could borrow somebody's experiences so that you can then say, well, if they could do it, I can do it.

What do they do? And when you do that, you end up having different thoughts. And when you have different thoughts, you have different feelings. When you have different feelings, you take different actions, and when you take different actions, you get different results, which then change your circumstance. And so the reason why I asked you to write those in a loop is because it is a closed loop. And I'm giving you specific hacks to be able to understand how to be able to change that closed loop so that your self-doubt can turn into empowerment. I told you I was going to share a vulnerable story with you.

So two and a half years ago I got divorced after a 17-year marriage and I had a lot of challenges with that. A lot. And most of the challenges were just from being lonely. And there was other challenges as well. And I knew that I wanted to be in a relationship with somebody. But I also knew that I will never be in a relationship with somebody that, you know, there's not the right relationship. And so I also knew that I'd have to find the right partner. I'm going to have to go on a lot of dates just like if I want to get hired, I got to go on 65, you know, I have to apply 65 times.

So my dating experience has been responsible and I've gone on a lot of dates. And it's been two and a half years and I'm not ready to clear it yet, but I think I found the right person for me, right? And so we'll see where it goes. And time is what takes everything, right? But the point being is I knew that I have to take all those fears that I had. I'm going to tell you, I had a shitload of fears. I have to take all that doubt. I have to take all that and put that aside and understand what's important to me, what's important to my daughter, what's important to understanding that if I'm coaching my daughter and I am, the best piece of advice I can ever give my daughter is say, before you get married, I want you to date 100 guys.

Be responsible, but I want you to meet 100 people. Because the number one thing that's going to determine your success in life is the partner you have. So that's easy for me to give that advice to somebody else. But yet following it, man, that's a bit tough. Ah, excuse me, let me change that. In the past, that has been tough. Somebody smacked me in the head on my affirmations. That wasn't great there.

Thank you. Thank you, Terry. So I told you I'd be a bit vulnerable to you, right? But the thing is, I had faith. So I have faith other people are in good relationships. I have faith that other people have become paid speakers. I knew that whatever it was that I thought was going to take for me to be able to get from where I was to where I want to be, it's going to be more. So my suggestion to you is for your self-doubt, for the things that are limiting you, is to find models of success that either you've done it.

So it was easier for me on the applications for the via paid speaker because I've created businesses before. I've done that a few times, like many times actually. I know what it takes to be able to have the failures to be able to get the success that you want. I know that. In dating, it was a little bit different. I had the experience that I had in business that I could relate to. But in both cases, I had my own experience, but there's plenty of other people's experiences. Hey, hey, salesperson.

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Ready to take control, visit www.no-gropmonths.com. That's nobrook months.com. Click logging and get started today. When I told you I read that book 12 times and six weeks, I interviewed 20 people, I really was looking for the one thing that I would ask those people, say, if you were me, what would you do at the time, 20 years ago? And I want to be able to leave a legacy for my family. I want to be able to create a success. I want to be able to have consistent and predictable income. I want to be able to enter into this business without being afraid that how am I going to pay my bills? And those are the questions that I ask those people. And mostly, what did you? do. And then I found out what they did. And of the 20 conversations, I picked three or four that I've really resonated with and say, you know what, I can do this. And then several others where I was like, yeah, that's a great idea, but I have a limited capacity. I only do so much. I'm just going to pick

a few tactics. And the tactics that I picked, the third year in business, I did 109 transactions. That's not including the transactions from the brokerage that I own. That was my transactions. And I only did that because I found people in front of me and I sat there and said, you know, I'm afraid, but I'm not going to worry about the fear. I don't know what this is going to be like. But I'm going to figure out people that have done this before me. I'm going to figure out what I resonate with, and I'm going to emulate it. And I'm going to take massive action, and I'm going to focus on the action, not the results. Because I know when I apply for another 65 speaking gigs, I'll get another three or four or ten opportunities.

And I know once I get more on stage and I'm able to make a difference in people's life to be able to help them to transform from where they are to where they're meant to be and to understand how to teach to sell, that I'll make an impact in this world. So I know why I'm doing what I'm doing, because I want to be able to help people. I know what I need to do, which is to take the action. And I know that I'm going to celebrate my success based off of, did you take the action or didn't you? Which is a very, very different metric that most people take a measurement of success, which is what was the outcome. So I encourage for you to measure your success not on what you get, but on what you do and who you are. Because life starts with who you're going to be before you do whatever you do, which will then create for you to have.

have whatever you're going to have. And far too often, we measure our lives based off that I have the success. And that's actually backwards. I'd love to hear your thoughts, your feelings about what I just shared with you today. I'd love to hear your feedback. Who has something to share? I'll go. Go, Ms. Terry. What you have to say makes so much sense. It's something that I do on a regular basis in my real estate career. I ask for advice when I'm doing something new. I say when I've had a bad experience, I say, what happened here? What could I have done better to make this go through? Right now I'm going through the process of getting seminar together. And I have lots of people that have reached out

across the country, by the way. And I'm not worried about if this first one is a success or not, because the people that I invited, if they don't come, I'll invite them for next month's seminar and the seminar after that. And eventually, they're going to want to come. So, and I've built a really great circle of excellence, but it's only because I've taken the time to ask, is this a good idea? Am I crazy to be doing this? No, no. And this is what I would do. Great. Give me any advice you've got. Has anybody ever done? And I'm not suggesting this is going to happen for Terry, right? But has anybody ever done an event and had a few people show up to the, I taught last week, two people

showed up, right? Now, it's not a regular event that I teach. So I don't care. It's practice for me, right? So what happens is we do the action and then let's say two people. people do show up, and that's not going to happen to Terry. But if it did, then the next week, or the next month, three people show up, and then the next month, four people, and then there's momentum. This takes far greater effort and energy than what we could ever imagine. But because she's got a plan and because she's asked advice, the only thing between here and there where she wants to go is doing the activity and not giving up by number 64. Who else? We got one minute. Who else would like to share? What are your aha's thoughts,

feelings. Well, really summed it up for me was the chapter you shared on the Napoleon Hill's book. You never know how close you are to succeeding. So just keep moving forward. That's what I took from it. I did read that chapter too, but that's something I keep reminding myself in life. Yeah, so thank you for sharing your experience as well. You're welcome, Kat. Who else? Who's next? I just say your whole thing today really resonated and just so much good from that that we can all take from it and just move word especially in a new year and it was just really great hit home thank you you're welcome my pleasure everybody have the best day of your life today be grateful make good choices go help somebody god bless you i'll see you guys i love you guys this is dan rocheon host of no broke months do you want consistent

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