On Purpose with Jay Shetty - 8 Strategies for Deeper Sleep & Boosting Your Energy All Day

Episode Date: December 1, 2023

Do you want to sleep deeper?  Do you want energy that will last you all day? If you're grappling with consistent difficulty in achieving restful nights, then this episode can help you. Today, we're diving deep into one of the most widespread challenges of our modern lives — the elusive, quality sleep that seems to escape many of us. We dive into the secrets to transform your bedroom into a sanctuary that promotes healthy sleep. You will learn to discover the power of location, the influence of time, and how to create an environment that embraces the soothing energy and memories of a restful night.  We introduce the first key to having good sleep: maintaining a sanctuary-like atmosphere in your bedroom. From adjusting the thermostat to match your body temperature to embracing cave-like darkness, these steps are game-changers for a good night's sleep. In this episode, you’ll learn: The best practices for a restful sleep How to improve your sleeping habits How to change your body clock In this transformative episode, we walk through the essential keys to unlock the door to a better night's sleep. Your journey to restful nights and vibrant days starts right here. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:35 Who Doesn’t Need a Better, Deeper, Quality Sleep? 03:13 #1: Location Has Energy, Time Has Memory 04:34 How to Make Your Bedroom a Sanctuary for a Healthy Sleep? 06:18 #2: Include Drinking Warm Water in Your Morning Routine 07:55 #3: Lower the Thermostat at Bedtime to Match Your Body Temperature  11:22 #4: Create a Cave-Like Darkness 14:22 #5: Recognize Your Body’s Circadian Rhythm  Clock 16:38 #6: Get a Comfortable Mattress 17:45 #7: Learn More About Yoga Nidra 19:39 #8: Know the Best Sleep Positions Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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We're sleeping on the couch where you're meant to be watching TV. You're eating in your bed too. So the energy of our spaces get so muddled and mixed up. Then when we get into our beds to sleep, our mind and body don't know how to react because they're used to eating there. They're used to watching TV there. They're used to working there. There's so many different energies and mindsets that you're experiencing.

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And today's episode is all about eight strategies for deeper sleep and boosting your energy all day. How many of you be honest, know that you want to get better, deeper quality sleep. I have spent months of my life in certain parts getting really poor sleep and I found that it completely drains me of energy throughout the day. You could be eating right, you could be working out, you could be doing everything, but when you're not getting good sleep, it can feel like you're pulling your body, pushing your body all day long.

And I know some of you can resonate and relate to that. And how can we boost our energy through that healthy sleep? How does that healthy sleep transfer into having more energy for the things we love, the people we love, and what we want to do throughout our days? So I'm going to share with you these eight strategies. I've done a lot of research online. So I'll be sharing with you articles that I'm referencing. A lot of this will be reading from really great sources that I've learned

from for this topic because I wanted to give you the headline or the billboard of the point that I want you to practice. But I wanted to give you the headline or the billboard of the point that I want you to practice, but I wanted to give you the science behind it as well. So I'll be quoting a lot of sources and a lot of articles, which I hope you can check out as well if you wanna really do a deep dive. And I've always found that the science is important because it's important for you to understand

why you do what you do. When you recognize what the benefits are by doing something so specifically emotivates you specifically, it motivates you further, it inspires you further to actually activate and practice and apply to that degree. The first one I want to share is one of the themes that I learned during my time in the monastery, and it's location has energy, time has memory. Location has energy, time has memory. Location has energy, time has memory.

When you do something in the same place every day, it becomes easier. When you do something at the same time every day, it becomes easier because time has memory. Your body is used to that experience and so it gets conditioned to know what to expect and to be ready for it. When you do something in the same space every day, that space starts to embody that energy. Now the challenge today is we work where we're meant to sleep, we eat where we're meant to work and we sleep where we're meant to eat. It's almost like everything's muddled.

We're working from our beds with our laptops. We're sleeping on the couch where you're meant to be watching TV. You're eating in your bed too. So the energy of our spaces get so muddled and mixed up that then when we get into our beds to sleep, our mind and body don't know how to react because they're used to eating there, they're used to watching TV, they're used to working there. There's so many different energies and mindsets that you're experiencing. Let's talk a little bit about this. How can we make our bedroom a sacred place, a sanctuary for

healthy sleep? How do we control the use of technology in there? How do we make sure that we're not using it for other things? First of all, and I really mean this, and I know this might be hard, but I mean it. Try and take your TV out of your bedroom. And you may say,

Jay, I love watching TV before I got a bed. If you really wanna do that, use your laptop, but take your TV out of your bedroom so that you are not using your bedroom as a space of just being wired into something. And I know it's a lot to ask. I know you're like, hey, come on, start with something easier. But if you want to get deeper sleep, you want to be in a place where it's not easy to consume

content that A could be giving you anxiety. A lot of people say to me, yeah, I feel anxiety. And one of the first questions I asked and is, what did you watch last night? Chances are you watch something that was keeping you on edge. It's giving you what I call cliffhanger chemicals. That anxiety of what's gonna happen next, what about that character?

They're gonna, where are they gonna make it? What's gonna happen like that? Energy before you go to sleep, doesn't really help you. Another thing that's really, really important about location is if you're eating in bed too, when you're eating too close to bedtime, you're then having to digest that instead of using that energy to be restorative. So the same energy that would be refueling, renewing, restoring is now being used to digest food. And that's why using your bed as just a place to sleep and rest and relax and maintaining it that way

creates a sort of sanctuary. That's the word for your body and mind. So I want you to give that a go. Now, number two, as part of your morning routine, I'm not diving into morning routine, but I want to give you something because your sleep is impacted by how you live when you're awake.

I think we think of sleep as like, I need to improve my sleep. I need to be better when I sleep and wait a minute, you can't even control that, but maybe you can control how you start your day. Now, one of the things that's really important, and I'm taking this from some research that talks about the need to drink warm water

first thing in the morning. Of course, it helps you hydrate. And when we lose fluids during our night time and while we're asleep, drinking a cup of warm water when you wake up starts replenishing those fluids. This is the big one that I came across from Ayurveda about how drinking warm water can help you start breaking

down certain foods and it kicks off your digestive process in the morning. So if you've woken up bloated, if you've woken up feeling like you haven't digested your night meal well, or if you're just feeling some discomfort, a slowly drunk glass of warm water, right? Slowly, can clear out the waste, clear out the toxins. And that's one of the biggest ones.

Drinking warm water naturally raises your internal body temperature, which then helps you sweat, and which is one of your body's ways to reduce those toxins. So warm, not hot, just warm water, allowing that to be part of your morning routine will help you full-flusched out, which means when you get into bed, you're again not carrying that throughout the day. You're letting that go. The third thing I want to talk to you about,

which is often an overlooked part of a good sleep routine, is temperature. And this is research from the sleep foundation online. They have an amazing website with great resources. Highly recommend you check them out. And so your core body temperature, the National Library of Medicine, biotech information says that it generally hovers around 98.6 degrees Fahrenheit,

which is 37 degrees Celsius, but fluctuates by about 2 degrees Fahrenheit. Now, the drop-in temperature starts about two hours before you go to sleep, coinciding with the release of the sleep hormone melatonin. During sleep, body temperature continues to fall, reaching a low point in the early morning and then gradually warming up as the morning progresses. morning and then gradually warming up as the morning progresses. Lowering the thermostat at night can work in tandem with these natural temperature fluctuations, signaling to the body that bedtime is approaching, right? So two hours before you go to bed, if you lower the thermostat to in-between, whatever

you feel comfortable, but I'd say between 60 to 70 Fahrenheit, right? Like that's where you want to aim between. Some people between 60 to 70 Fahrenheit, right? Like, that's where you wanna aim between. Some people say 63, is optimal, some people say 65. I think 60 is quite cold for me. I personally like 67. And so you're finding that sweet spot for you by testing it out, don't start by going too cold, right?

I don't want you to go to 60 immediately, you are free. But you're trying to match your body's journey with what's around you. And especially if you started two hours before, it to match your body's journey with what's around you. And especially if you started two hours before it starts preparing your body. A lot of us feel we have to be cozy, we have to be warm. And hey, you can still have an amazing duvet, you can still tuck yourself in, whatever you want to do. You can wear pajamas, not yourself out.

But the goal is you want to make sure that the room is in that space, right? You don't have to feel cold. You can tuck yourself in, but you want the room is in that space, right? You don't have to feel cold. You can tuck yourself in, but you want the room to have that environment to prepare you for sleep. Now, what I loved about what sleep foundation went on to talk about is what happens when your bedroom's too hot. So this is for all of you, listening to me going, Jay, I am never making my room 65 degrees, right?

I know some of you listening to me right now going, Jay, you're crazy. this is never gonna happen. So, sleep foundations as warmer temperatures can cause discomfort and restlessness, and anyone who has slept in a stuffy bedroom knows what that feels like, right? Now, a bedroom that is too warm can interfere with the body's thermoregulation abilities

and cause fatigue. I realized this when I lived in New York, often it would get really cold, and I would put the heat up so much that I would wake up feeling dehydrated and I would wake up feeling more tired. And often a person who's tired will feel physically and mentally tired, but unable to fall asleep,

and I'm sure you can relate to that. Now, sleep foundation goes on to say, body temperature is also a fact sleep quality and the time spent in different sleep stages. A higher core body temperature has been associated with a decrease in restorative slow wave sleep. So I really want you to be mindful of the temperature in your room. I really want you to be thoughtful about the temperature in your room because it can have so many big impacts through something that seems so small.

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I know a lot of us sleep with flickering lights. We sleep with, like I said, TVs. We sleep with some sort of light from our phones. Maybe you have an alarm system. Maybe you don't have blinds or blackout blinds. This is so important. There's an amazing site called My Eyes Sense. I highly recommend it, My Eyes Sense.

And it says that according to SleepExpets, darkness helps to stimulate the production of melatonin, a hormone that helps you fall asleep quickly. It also helps to keep you asleep until you complete all sleeping cycles. I remember when I used to sleep with our blinds, although I loved waking up to the bright sun pouring in, obviously I didn't get the deep sleep and the length of sleep that I actually wanted. What I also found was that when I had other light sources that were flickering or coming on or whatever it may have been,

what that did is that it disturbed my sleep. And on top of that, to go a step further, when you're in your home, this is something that annoyed me for a long time with Rathi. Rathi really doesn't like sitting in bright places. I, as in with the lights on, she loves natural light. But then when it gets darker at night, she'll always want all these dim lights. And I really didn't like dim lights. So I went and got us some really nice lamps that I put on and of course candles. And I've realized that she's so right that you can actually start preparing your body and your mind for sleep, the darker it gets.

Now what we often do is we turn off all the lights and we turn on the TV, right? And that blue light, of course, we've heard about that before, that's not helping us prepare for sleep. But if you're having a conversation, if you're hanging out and you just have dim lights on or a couple of lamps, it actually starts preparing your body and mind for sleep. The study from I sense goes on to say, additionally, darkness also

promotes relaxation, which helps you fall asleep quickly. The brain is very sensitive and can detect even the slightest amount of light and stop the production of melatonin which plays a huge role in helping you get quality sleep. Therefore next time you go to bed, ensure that you switch off all the lights to make it easier to fall asleep. It goes on to say that sleeping in darkness can help to enhance your overall health and well-being. Several studies have shown that sleeping in light can increase your body weight up to 50%. And according to experts, light could alter your metabolic process by slowing it down. This means that your body will not be able to convert fat into energy. This could lead to weight gain.

On the other hand, sleeping in a dark room promotes fast metabolism, meaning your body will burn more calories, thus allowing you to maintain a healthy weight. Again, this is all about living a healthy life, and I think it's so important to understand how so many of these things are not only making you feel like you're sleeping better, they're converting that fat into energy and therefore having more energy throughout the day. Now, point number five is all about circadian rhythms. And I think we've been hearing a lot about this. Circadian rhythms, for anyone who doesn't know,

are physical, mental, and behavioral changes that follow a 24 hour cycle. These natural processes respond primarily to light and dark and affect most living things, including animals, plants, microbes. And circadian rhythms, the study says, can influence important functions in our bodies, such as hormone release, eating habits, digestion, and body temperature. So the way this works and the fastest way it works is to recognize that your circadian clock

is most sensitive to light at the following times. About one hour after waking up in the morning, this is one of the reasons why I like to get out on a hike in that time zone, because I'm getting outdoors, I'm getting sunlight, and even though sometimes I have to wear sunglasses in the morning, I'll make sure to spend a couple of minutes exposing myself to the sunlight. Obviously, not directly, but the light that's coming.

The second thing is about two hours before your bedtime and the third is throughout the night. So when you get bright light in the morning, this is from very well health. It can help you feel more alert during the day and has a later effect that helps you to feel sleepy in the evening and fall asleep faster. However, if you're exposed to bright light within two hours of your bedtime, it can make you less sleepy and fall asleep later. So you want to focus on getting that exposure to sunlight one hour from when you wake up, but not two hours before you go to bed.

Now, these are some of the ways that sunlight affects your body. First thing in the morning, your body makes a stress hormone called cortisol. Having too much of this hormone at night can keep you awake. Sunlight helps your body make a brain chemical called serotonin that plays an important role in your well-being. So please do not underestimate the power of sunlight and you may be saying, I don't live in a sunny place, but just being out there in the light is so important, right? So needed. And please, please, please don't underestimate it. And hopefully you'll be able to find some sunlight on any given day.

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or wherever you get your podcasts. Now, I also wanna talk about comfort being such an important part of getting better sleep. And one of the biggest ways is genuinely getting a good mattress and a few questions to think about. How long have you had it? When was the last time you changed it? Now five to seven years is the average life of a mattress and having a good mattress for your needs and preferences will not only help with everything else I've said before, whether it's the temperature, whether it's the comfort,

whether it makes you feel like you're relaxing. And investing in a supportive mattress and pillow helps ensure that your spine gets proper support to avoid aches and pains. And you want to make sure that your sheets and blankets play a major role. And therefore, you want to make sure that it's a material that you like. I remember Rade is always testing out different materials, and there were some materials that I didn't enjoy getting into bed at night. And even changing the material made such a difference to my mindset. And so I would highly recommend that. I know that I've been using a dream cloud mattress for a long time, and I've found it to be really premium materials, really good quality, and I'm really glad that we invested in that.

Now point number seven, this is one of my favorite ones, and I used this a lot when I had my hernia surgery. So when I had my hernia surgery, I really struggled to sleep because I couldn't sleep on either on my sides and I slept on my back and I felt a lot of pain on my back because my back was taking so much of the responsibility of carrying me. And I really used yoga needra more than ever. And yoga needra works with the autonomic nervous system. And the autonomic nervous system regulates processes of the body that take place without a conscious effort. For example, heartbeat, breathing, digestion and blood flow. And this system also includes

the sympathetic and parasympathetic nervous system. Now, if you just want to know more about it, I honestly recommend just typing in yoga needra on calm. There's a beautiful yoga needra there, or typing in yoga needra on YouTube. And as soon as you find it, just try it out. That's the best way to explain it. It can get really heady to figure it out. And you may want to proceed this with a deep breathing exercise

to help you fall asleep. Breathing from your belly, rather than your chest, can activate the relaxation response You may want to proceed this with a deep breathing exercise to help you fall asleep. Breathing from your belly, rather than your chest, can activate the relaxation response and lower your heart rate, blood pressure and stress levels to help you drift off to sleep. You could also try your body scan exercise to help you fall asleep. Paying attention to different parts of your body, even expressing them gratitude and letting them switch off, removing any tension and breathing through them. So that's been a really, really powerful way.

What's really interesting is that the military sleep method has been popularized on social median recent years, with many people claiming it can help you fall asleep within two minutes. First appearing in Budwinter's 1981 book Relax and Win, Championship Performance, the military method combined several proven relaxation techniques, like the deep breathing and body scan exercise in case you want to check out more. And the final thing I want to share with you was a brilliant article I read on Healthline, which was all about sleep positions. Now they had this brilliant table that I'm going to walk you through in this article

and he was saying, let's say your concern is lower back pain. The positions to try are side fetal or back and it says when sleeping on your side try placing a pillow between your knees to help with spine alignment. I again used this a lot when I had my hernia surgery putting them below my knees while I was on my back allowed me to take some of that strain off my back. Now let's say your concern, Healthline says, is neck pain, positions to try our back and side. And it says, use a thicker pillow if sleeping on your side and a thinner pillow when sleeping on your back.

Again, this is something I personally practiced, I sleep on a much thinner pillow now as I usually sleep on my back. Now let's say your concern is sleep apnea or snoring. It recommends side, fetal or stomach position and it says if sleeping on your stomach, try putting a pillow under your pelvis and consider using a thinner pillow under your head. Now let's say you've experienced acid reflux. This is something I've had in the past. It recommends sleeping on your side and I would add your left side.

When you are struggling with digestion or bloating or acid reflux, sleep on your left side. Now let's say your pregnant health line says fetal or side. Experiment with using a body pillow or wedge pillow for added comfort. Now let's see if sign is congestion. I love this table from Healthline. It says sleep on your back.

Prop your head up with an extra pillow to help with drainage. And if you have hip or knee pain, sleep on your back, try placing a pillow under your knees to take pressure off your spine. These are the eight strategies for deeper sleep and boosting your energy all day. I can't wait for you to try them out. Thank you so much for tuning in.

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