On Purpose with Jay Shetty - Jay’s Must-Listens: The Step-by-Step Guide to Meditation ANYONE Can Do (Eliminate Anxiety & Rewire Your Nervous System)
Episode Date: August 27, 2025How do you normally calm yourself when you’re overwhelmed? Have you ever tried meditation before? Today, Jay brings you a diverse exploration of meditation with some of today’s most insigh...tful minds: Dr. Joe Dispenza, Big Sean, Michael Acton Smith, Vishen Lakhiani, and Sam Harris. From science to music, entrepreneurship to spirituality, each guest reveals how meditation has shaped their lives, and how you can use it as a powerful tool for focus, healing, and inner transformation. Together, they show us that meditation is far more than sitting in silence, it’s a pathway to healing, clarity, and growth. Whether it’s rewiring the nervous system, reprogramming the mind, or unlocking creativity and resilience, this conversation demonstrates the many ways meditation can ground you in the present and while also opening you to what’s possible. Whether you’re just beginning or returning with new intention, this episode is an invitation to reconnect with yourself. These insights remind us the practice isn’t about getting it “right,” but about consistency, curiosity, and compassion for yourself. In this episode, you'll learn: How to Reprogram Your Mind Through Meditation How to Turn Elevated Emotions Into Healing How to Build a Daily Meditation Routine That Sticks How to Heal Your Body by Training Your Mind Meditation isn’t about where you begin, it’s about the choice to begin at all. Each breath is a chance to return, reset, and remember the calm already within you. Wherever you are, restless, curious, or seeking clarity, meditation offers a doorway inward. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty. Join over 750,000 people to receive my most transformative wisdom directly in your inbox every single week with my free newsletter. Subscribe here. What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 04:10 How Meditation Transforms Your Brain and Body 08:33 How Much Practice Do You Really Need? 14:39 There Is No Wrong Way to Meditate 18:30 How to Connect Deeply with Nature Through Meditation 22:17 Debunking the Biggest Myths About Meditation 24:21 What Is Active Meditation and How Does It Work? 28:45 Using Meditation to Elevate Your Everyday LifeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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make sure you do so that you never miss a video. Mindfulness meditation can reduce cortisol
levels by up to 25%, decreasing stress and inflammation. Long-term meditators have brains
that are on average 7.5 years younger than non-meditators.
Meditation can reduce the experience of pain by 40%,
which is greater than morphine,
which reduces pain by 25%.
Now, I've been fortunate enough to practice meditation
for nearly two decades.
It's a deep part of my practice.
It's a part of my daily commitment.
It's something I turn to for greater self-awareness, alignment,
and to really tap into my intuition.
But at the same time as knowing the benefits of meditation, I also recognize it's something
that a lot of people struggle with. Most people today have heard of it, but a lot of us don't
know if we're doing it right. We're judging ourselves, questioning ourselves, and maybe you've
been wanting to try meditation, but you don't know where to start. Well, then this video is for you.
Or maybe you want to start, but you're worried you're not going to be able to shut off your mind.
Well, this video is for you too.
Or maybe you're someone who's completely skeptical about meditation all together.
Research shows that meditation can actually reduce stress and anxiety.
It can improve sleep, enhance brain function, and help with emotional regulation.
In my own time as a monk, I've seen firsthand the power that meditation has over your reality.
And in this episode, we'll hear from top X.
about how anyone can harness that power for themselves to improve the quality of their
lives. I think for so many of us today, we're always on. We're always on the go. We're always on
the move. We're always on top of everything. Meditation can be that reset, that break, that moment
of the day that is just for you. It's that scheduled time to give yourself a little bit of a break,
to give yourself a little bit of a reset and to give yourself a moment of peace and calm.
It's something I know I turn to all throughout the day just to get ready before a meeting,
just before I walk on stage, or just before I go to bed,
to make sure that I maximize and improve that moment of my day.
So let's get into it.
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In this first clip, Dr. Joe Dispenza shares data-backed insights about how meditation
affects the brain and body and the incredible healing power it can have.
He explains that lasting transformation happens when you consistently train to shift your
internal state with focus and intention. Dr. Joe Dispenza shares how meditation
help shift the body out of stress and survival mode and into a state of healing,
acting like your body's own medicine by calming the mind, balancing emotions, and supporting
physical recovery. He shares powerful stories of people reversing chronic health conditions
through consistent practice, proving that when you change your inner state, you can actually
influence your biology and immune system. Whether you're feeling stuck in stress,
burnt out or emotionally overwhelmed, Dr. Joe Dispenza explains how even small, repeated moments
of mindfulness can rewire the way you think, feel, and show up each day. Change might not happen
overnight, but that doesn't mean it's not happening. Meditation helps you stay in motion,
create new patterns, and build a new reality from the inside out. Let's take a listen to what
Dr. Joe Dispenza has to say,
we've done the largest studies on
meditation than have ever been done just because
we have a community of
1,800 people that come to an event
that are going to be getting up at the same time,
doing the same thing,
pretty much eating, making the same food choices,
and pretty much
a big laboratory, right?
And so our discoveries
in working with 1,800
people in measuring brain waves,
their brain function before an
after the event, measuring their gene expression before and after the event. We're measuring
2,882 metabolites in their blood. We're measuring DNA expression. We're measuring urine. We're
measuring saliva. We're measuring the energy of the room. We're measuring everything.
And meditation, in a sense that it's not in the traditional way. What we do is we look at
what really works. We're actually looking to say, well, that's something that we can actually
see it change in. So we teach meditation three ways. To become familiar with your old self and to
become familiar with your new self, that's what the word meditation means, familiarization, to
become familiar with. So we use that model for change. So slow your brain waves down and get beyond
your analytical mind is meditation. And you teach your body how to do that. And we've discovered
a formula that simply makes it very easy for people to do it. You practice it, you'll get good at
it just like anything else you practice. So to get beyond the analytical mind, there's another way to
reprogram ourselves. And then meditation is really about getting beyond your body or disconnecting
from your body, disconnecting from your environment and forgetting about time. And that is that
eye of the needle where we begin to make the most significant changes. So we're data driven.
You know, we're really looking to see what it is. And when we see brains respond in the same way,
it helps me enormously to teach the material better. And so the more people understand what
they're doing and the more they understand why they're doing it the more naturally the how becomes
easier and nothing is left to conjecture if nothing is left to superstition or dogma or even in
spiritual you know traditional words you science says the contemporary language to demystify
that process and you give new people numerous times to overcome themselves and numerous times
to connect sooner or later you'll start watching transformation
right before your eyes.
And so one of the cool things that we've discovered
is that we have so much compelling data
to suggest that you're greater than you think,
more powerful than you,
no more unlimited than you could ever dream.
We have compelling data to suggest
that your nervous system is the greatest pharmacist in the world,
that it makes drugs that work better
than any drug in a drug store.
Drug study is about 18 to 25% cause-in-effect causality.
Our data is between 75% and 85% cause and effect.
This is a person creating their own pharmacy of anti-inflammatories, their own pharmacy
of anti-carcinogenic chemicals, their own pharmacy of pain relievers who are seeing this
over and over again.
So we have this incredible data that says that this is no longer pseudoscience.
This is really science.
The side effect of a person's transformation is, it has changed.
my belief in what's possible. I have seen people stand on the stage with stage four cancers
that were in every single organ in their body that metastasized. And they have no sign of cancer
in their body. And we have data that suggests that you put the blood of an advanced meditator
in a uterine cancer cell, a pancreatic cancer cell, 70% of the mitochondrial function in the
cancer cell is diminished. The mitochondria is the energy packets of the cell. It's taking energy
out of the cancer cell. It works perfect with what we're seeing with the testimonials that
people are telling around the world. We've seen blind people see. We've seen deaf people here.
We've seen people with spinal cord injuries walk again. We've seen ALS change. We've seen
all kinds of unbelievable health conditions changed by a person simply changing the way they think,
the way they act, and the way they feel. How long have you seen certain things last?
much does the practice have to continue daily to sustain impact? Because I feel that,
you know, this isn't, as you know, isn't a one-off thing. And that isn't what you're
encouraging. Like, this is the experience of when someone's coming to a retreat or an event.
They're having this incredible experience. But then do you measure how people continue to
practice and take away? Yeah, it's super important for us. And of course, we have mounds of
data, but let's see if I can say this as clear as I possibly can. When a person has that arousal,
where they're feeling that elevated emotion, and their eyes are closed, they're in a room with
1,800 people, there's music playing in the background, they're not eating, they're not smelling,
they're not tasting, they're moving about and feeling. On some level, they're having an
inner experience, right? And the body is so objective that it's literally
believing it's living in a new environment. And so that elevated emotion somehow tends to drag the
body right out of the past into the present moment. So many people with everything from eczema to
muscular dystrophy, when they have those events, there's a biological change that takes place in
their body where they feel completely differently. Now, some people heal all the way. Some people are
out of their wheelchair and they're walking again, but they're limping. And that doesn't mean it's over.
It just means they made contact where they hit gold. And so there's varying degrees that we see.
We've seen people for seven years work on a terminal health condition, to them seven years to
heal that health condition. Some people, it takes two years, three years. Some people, they do it in three
months. There's no predictable menu that we can say it's this way. Now, when people have those
more profoundly aroused states, it seems like their change is much more immediate and much more
permanent. But for the most part, we see people's response pretty dramatic. Now, it's also
important to say that we have seen people heal from terminal cancers, stop.
feeling those elevated emotions and returned to responding to the circumstances and conditions in
their life and return back to the same personality. The same personality is the same personal reality
and their bodies believing it's living in that same environment and they're feeling the same way
and they're in the habit of acting the same way and thinking the same way. And lo and behold,
the condition returns. We've seen people heal themselves of Parkinson's disease more than once
have one response
to some very serious event in their life
that produced a very strong emotion
and in one hour their condition returned
because they literally went back to the world itself
and we've seen that person
turned around and reverse the condition again.
Again, people do the best with what they think is available.
The person standing on the stage
who's, we've had numerous physicians
and researchers stand on the stage,
they're the four-minute mile.
they're telling the community
I'm the example of truth
this is no longer philosophy
this is no longer theory
here's my scans
we had someone with bilateral breast cancer
just recently
no evidence of cancer
in our breasts or any lymph nodes
no longer in our liver
I'm looking out at the audience
and everybody's leaning in
there's the four minute mile
and that person's telling the truth
and they're telling a story
and it's not pretty
It's not always rosy.
They went through a lot of dark nights.
They went through a lot of their condition getting worse.
But every day, they had to show up for themselves.
If they stopped showing up and doing the work,
they would really not believe it was possible.
But if they showed up and did the work,
it means they believe it's possible.
And I think when you believe in possibility,
you've got to believe in yourself.
When you believe in yourself, you've got to believe in possibility.
So it used to be a few examples of,
of that. Now we have so many great testimonials, so many great stories, that now people,
it's becoming infectious, just like a virus or any bacteria becomes infectious. Now,
health and wellness becomes as infectious as disease. And you get a community of people
starting to break through and you start seeing these changes where people stand on the stage,
invariably, you're going to see a very strong shift in consciousness. And consciousness is
awareness. And if you're unaware that you could actually heal yourself, you'll make the same
choice. Once you see it, I think it starts creating a brush fire. And that's really the exciting part.
So we've seen so many great testimonials that are undeniably great stories of transformation.
And many, many of those people still no longer have their eczema, still no longer have their
Parkinson's, still no longer have their cancer. Life is an experiment. So if your personality creates
your personal reality. And your personality is made up of how you think, how you act, and how
you feel. If you keep thinking the same way, you keep acting the same way, you keep feeling the
same way, your life is going to stay the same because you're the same. So the experiment is,
okay, let me begin to think differently. So I got to remind myself how I do want to think
and have to remind myself of how I no longer want to think. So I don't default and go unconscious.
Let me remind myself how I'm going to behave so that I could actually get my behaviors to match
my intentions and let me remind myself of how I'm going to feel. If I'm able to succeed in that
day, then there should be some change in my life. It's the experiment. And if it doesn't change,
that doesn't mean the law doesn't work for you. It's just, you're not that good yet. It's just,
you just got to keep practicing, right? So the act of disconnecting from your life long enough
to remind yourself of who you do want to be and who you no longer want to be, that experiment
then is the experiment called life. Our next clip is from the rapper Big Sean. Now, if you
answered my question earlier that you want to start meditating but you're worried you won't do it right
this next clip is for you big shorn challenges the idea that there's a right way to meditate whether
it's sound healing a walk or even a quiet moment what matters most is finding what works for you
and showing up consistently there's no wrong way to meditate the intention matters more than the method
Over time, consistent meditation deepens the connection to self and increases impact.
Big Sean describes his meditation practice as a deeply spiritual experience
using visualization, energy work, and body awareness to realign himself.
For him, it's not just about stillness.
It's how he sets the tone for productivity, creativity, and emotional balance.
I practice I am. It's so much power.
So I am grateful.
I am this. I am happy. I am confident. I am happy that I get to sit down and talk to my friend Jay today. I'm happy I get to whatever the case is, right? So that's what I do. And then at the end of it, of the journal, when I do the gratitude stuff. And there are times where I write how I feel, not as much. I also speak out loud by myself. You know, there are a lot of processes I do. But when I do that journal, I sign it at the, at the, at the, at the,
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because it's a declaration when I do that and I sign it because it's that important to me
I have to sign my contracts I have to sign things that will be upheld as an important thing
and that's how the level of importance even more that I hold that too so I sign it every time
that is so good man I've never heard that before I'm going to start doing that
It's powerful.
Yeah, I've never signed it.
That's dope.
It's powerful.
And Jay, does everything I write down come to fruition?
No.
Sometimes it does.
A lot of them do.
And then I realized that I'm also on God's time.
So the things that I've always wanted and things that I've desired, it may not just be the right moment in my journey for that.
But that's the beauty of it, man.
I'm like, I'm still here.
I'm still able.
I'm still inspired.
I'm still passionate.
you know beautiful yeah so that's how i that's how i do my journaling i also have like a there's a book i
have of like poetry too that i like write poems and stuff i've only i only write a few a year honestly
but like i'll like fully write and draw around the poem and like it's really like a beautiful
art it's just some something i do for fun i haven't actually i've only written one this year
and last year i wrote a few so maybe i'll maybe inspire me to write one
today. But that's kind of all it is, but I don't spend too much time on it. It takes me about
five to 12 minutes. That's great. Max. And then I meditate after that because it's kind of like
it's kind of like a good transition to like the energy is set for me to like to meditate. Because
when I meditate, I feel like I'm attracting these things more and giving myself the best shot
of being the most productive, the most impactful that I can be.
You know, so that's kind of the first thing I do when I wake up, if I can.
Being a dad, though, there are times where I get, I get woken up, and I have to go immediately, you know.
And so I come back to it later on.
It's not preferred that way, but it's a good trade-off.
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some of our incredible partners. Let's jump back in. What about your meditation? What does your
practice look like? It depends. I love doing guided meditation sometimes. I love doing, I kind of have
my own process where I, like, and visualize the light of creation, like the light of the sun,
and it like really filling my whole body up and literally everything that doesn't align with
that, anything that isn't, that light and bright, you know what I'm saying, immediately leaves my body
and goes back into the earth.
And like, so, you know, there are times where I, if I'm not in nature, I imagine myself
in nature and, like, things going back into the earth.
And I, like, surround myself, you know, from my, I forgot the word, the esoteric body.
I think it's, like, one inch off you, then your emotional body, then your mental body.
And, like, I just do the same thing.
Like, it's like a shower of light.
It's, like, hopping in a shower after you work out, like, a bit of light.
And whatever it is, I kind of.
of like cater to how I'm feeling. So from there, I'll like, if I have like something wrong
on my stomach, I'll like, for some reason I associate green with healing energy, right? And this
comes from years of like practice or I associate royal blue with power, you know, the power
of the universe. I associate like red with the love of the universe, the love and support of the
universe. And like, I represent like the violet flame of St. Germain like to cleanse things
that are holding me back. Right? So I do, I have like quite a process.
and I break it down in the book.
And afterwards, I feel just, it really makes a big difference.
And, you know, I read this book, The Hidden Messages in Water, I believe it's called.
And it talked about, you know, there's like itty-bitty microscopic crystals in water.
And they, one of the part of the book, they experiment of, like, how positively when you speak to water, like, hey, you're amazing.
I love you.
going, like, you're beautiful. And then they had another water, a glass or container of water
where they said, like, you suck. It's never, you know, real negative. And you look at the
crystals and one is like a beautiful snowflake looking crystal. And then the other one is
like distorted and all damaged. And we are 70, 80% water. So these things, when you write
these affirmations down or when you say them out loud or when you journal, these things,
have a real effect on you tremendously like scientifically it's not even like a
woo-woo type of thing it's not even like it's not even up for debate you know
what I'm saying it's literally scientific for the people who are more you
know need the proof as opposed to it you know more analytical than like
opinion-based so I just want to stress the importance of it it really is and by
the way the most the most honorable people that I've met and like what I can
consider to be successful.
And I don't mean richest.
I just mean successful in like the impact what they're doing,
how they are.
They meditate, they all, you know, from my favorite rappers
down to my favorite, down to you, you know,
down to anyone who I just really admire.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
And you can meditate in your own ways.
They're like, I know like, Janae does different meditations,
you know, through sound healing or mirror meditations.
I know people who do shower meditations,
walking. There's no wrong way to meditate either. That's another misconception. There's no wrong
way to do it. The fact that you take the intention out or if you focus on your breathing, the fact that
you take the time out to be that conscious of yourself over time, you will get more and more into
it. It's like anything you do, and you will see the effects of it. Next up, Michael Acton-Smith,
the founder of calm, reflects on how much the perception of meditation has shifted. And I remember these
days. It used to be met with a lot of doubt, a lot of scrutiny, but now it's widely seen as a
practical, effective way to support your mental well-being. Early on, people thought
meditation required robes or lengthy silence. Now it's understood you can start with just one
conscious breath. In a world designed to distract you, focus is power. Meditation can help
you improve your attention and reclaim the power within you. When you're not a lot of
aware of where your attention goes, it's easy to slip into autopilot. Meditation can help you
stay present, avoid distractions, and make more intentional choices with your time.
In the early days when we'd go to parties and tell people we were building a meditation at,
we'd get one of two reactions. One is that they'd back away from us and make any excuse to go and
talk to someone else. The second was that they'd be like, oh, I've heard of that. I've tried it,
but I can't do it. My mind is far too busy.
It has been extraordinary how that has shifted over the last decade.
Again, this is connected to mental health.
Do you remember how stigmatized it was?
No one talked about it.
Could you imagine telling your boss you were struggling with your mental health years ago?
It wouldn't have been a good move.
And for most organizations now, that has changed dramatically.
I think it was because people did have so many misconceptions about meditation.
There were so many myths associated with it.
I think they thought it was either religious or connected to the counterculture.
They thought they might have to dress up in robes or go to a different country or sit for hours and hours in an uncomfortable position.
And we just wanted to let people know that that is not true.
You can literally start with one mindful breath.
If you don't have time to meditate for a minute or 10 or longer, literally start with one conscious mindful breath and then build your practice from there.
In this next clip, Vishin Lakiani, the founder of Mind Valley, shares how meditation has helped.
him heal physically and stay grounded through life's ups and downs. His story is a powerful reminder
that meditation isn't just about calmness. It's about growth, resilient and finding your center
when life feels chaotic. Vision shares how he used meditation to heal severe acne as a teenager
and how that experience sparked a lifelong fascination with the mind-body connection. Through the silver
method, he discovered active meditation, a structured form of inner work that turns life's challenges
into step-by-step problem-solving opportunities. He explains the difference between daily
meditations that keep you grounded, like his six-phase method, and more tactical techniques
used to solve specific issues. For vision, meditation isn't about escaping problems. It's about
engaging with them directly and using your mind to heal, grow, and create real world results.
I think everyone can remember or has a distinct memory of their first meditation experience.
What was your first meditation experience ever? Do you remember it? Like the first time you were
ever introduced to any form of meditation? So the first time it happened to me, I was 14 years old.
I was a young kid in Malaysia. And I decided to try a form of meditation.
that I learned from a book called The Silver Method,
a really old 1960s, 1970s book.
Back then, I was 14, so it must have been like 1990.
There was no internet in Malaysia.
We had four television channels.
So really, to pass the time by,
all I did was I would browse all of the books
in my father's bookshelf.
And I discovered this book called The Silver Method.
Now, the book captivated me because it spoke about
how the mind can heal the body.
What was happening with me back then is
I was having a really horrible skin problem.
my face was covered in acne I had very little confidence I considered myself ugly I had difficulty
making friends at school you know even if I liked a girl I had no confidence to even talk to her
and so when I read in this book that the mind can heal the skin I was game on I want to figure this
out so I tried practicing nothing happened I continued practicing nothing happened and there was
very little results but I read and reread and reread that book over and over and over and over again
Then I started picking other books from Bob Proctor, from Wayne Dyer.
I started reading this books.
It became a passion.
And slowly, things began to click.
And one day, applying the silver method, at this point, I was 17 years old, things had
finally started clicking.
I began to understand it's not just about hoping and wanting your skin to heal.
There was a process.
There was a method.
There was a psychology.
When it clicked, in five weeks, I completely healed my skin.
Five years of skin disease healed in five weeks.
Today, science talk about this as a thing.
It's called psychodermatology, how your mind influences your skin.
But that was my first evidence that we can use our minds to influence our bodies.
Now, the next thing I did was I decided to see, can I use my mind to accomplish a really big goal?
For me, that was qualifying for the U.S. Open tequando championships.
Tequando is Korean karate.
I was really into it.
And I managed to qualify.
My first ever trip to the United States, which was my dreamland, since I was like a
kid, I wanted to go to America. My first ever trip was to the U.S. Open to represent my country.
It was in Colorado Springs in 1993. My first time I fell in love with America, but it became
because I visualized that in my mind. And that was my beginning, the beginning of my
fascination with the human mind that would later lead to me starting mind value and writing this
book. That's amazing. I love that story for so many reasons. A, because, well, let me just break
this down for everyone. You had an intention that was very clear. Even if it was to save your
skin or to impress a girl or whatever it was, you were clear of why you wanted to meditate.
The second thing was you were happy to read the book again and again and again and again. And I think
that takes a lot of resilience because most of us, when we try something once and it doesn't work,
we give up. And the third thing is you didn't just test on something small. Once you saw a small
result, you were like, well, does this apply to something bigger? And I think those three lessons in and of
themselves are so powerful. What has changed in the benefits to you of meditation today? At that time,
it was solving your skin, it was getting focused around the taekwondo championships. How do you view
meditation? What is its use in your life today? Because I feel like so many people keep telling
us to meditate and there's so many benefits. But for you personally, what's the reason? So I grew up in a
Hindu family in Malaysia. Meditation was never what I was thought. The style of Hinduism I was thought was
very dogmatic. You had prayers, you had chants, you had mantras, and I found it, oh God, so
boring and irritating. I hated being dragged to temple, to listen to a pre-speak in Sanskrit,
a language I didn't even understand. So when I was 19, I gave up Hinduism. I decided the religion
was not for me. I read a quote by Gandhi that said, I'm a Hindu and I'm a Muslim and I'm a
Christian and I'm a Jew and I'm a Buddhist. And I thought, that's it. I want to study and unite
ideas from all of these different spiritual practices. And so that was my beginning. I got obsessed with
spirituality. I started reading books by Esther Hicks by Neil Donald Walsh. And I became particularly
captivated by the spirituality that was emerging from the United States, from everyone, from
Paramahansa Yogananda, who was an Indian who crossed over over here to Neil Donald Walsh to especially
Jose Silva. Now, a lot of them spoke about spirituality. What made Jose Silva's work different was that
he broke it down into actionable steps. And that's what fascinated me most. So a lot of people
spoke about meditation, about sitting still, about going within. Jose Silva would teach the method.
You're going to do this method to reduce your brainwave frequency to the alpha level,
this method to gather down to the theta level, this method of positioning your eyes to
activate alpha frequency in your brain, this method to reprogram your subconscious, this method
to manifest a goal, this method to do healing. And that structured approach captivated me. Now,
we call that active meditation. That's the word Jose Silva use. Osho used the same word,
active meditation. This means it's different from passive meditation, which was more than meditation
from Hinduism, from Eastern cultures, where you focus on your breath or you go within. And there's
a usefulness in that. But what I loved about active meditation is, in the words of Jose Silva,
you use it to solve problems. You do not push your problems away. You turn your problems into a project.
You have skin disease, you're going to heal it. You need to achieve a business goal. You're going to make it happen. And you would apply different tools to solve these problems. Now, when I was in Silicon Valley, I applied the silver method and it completely transformed my career. I was able to hold down two jobs. I got promotion after promotion after promotion. At the age of 26, I was vice president of a booming.com. And I was meditating using the silver method and other practices I would combine with it. And one day, I certainly
had a calling. I realized that meditation was the most powerful thing I'd learned in life. It was the
reason why I was successful at my career. Yet, my university degree, for which I paid almost a quarter
million dollars for, thought me, Jack. It wasn't really helping me. So I decided I wanted to do
something that could help the world. I decided to quit and become a meditation teacher.
Now, as I started becoming a meditation teacher, as I started compiling all of these methods,
I needed something for myself
and I look at meditation as a tool
okay so a lot of people say
all right meditation is a form of self-awareness
of prayer yes yes yes
but meditation is also a tool
the point of meditation
in the words of the great teacher Emily Fletcher
is not to get good at meditation
it is to get good at life
and so I use two different types of tools
now let's think about our home
we have coffee makers and we have electric drills
we use a coffee maker every single day
or a tea kettle every single day
to put ourselves in a good state to start our morning.
An electric drill is a power tool.
You don't use it every day.
You use it when you have a problem,
when you have to drill a hole in a wall
or threaten someone, I guess.
So in meditation, the style that I teach,
there are two types.
You would use a power tool like the Silva method,
which now sits on Mind Valley,
for a really tactical problem.
For example, healing.
The silver method has been proven
by Dr. O'Call-Simonton
as a very effective form of imagery therapy
for accelerating healing. You're sick, you want to do it. If you are suddenly feeling like you have
a migraine, you want to use it to help reduce your migraine. The sixth phase is what I developed
as not the electric drill, but the coffee maker. Something you use every single day. Even if your
life is amazing, you use it every single day because it helps put you in a peak state for work,
for happiness, for human connection. And it puts you in this beautiful state where it all
It almost feels as if the universe has your back,
like you have the Tinkabelle Ferry following you around,
blessing everything you do and making your life magical.
This is how I view meditation.
It's an active approach to tackle the most complex problems in life,
but also as a daily approach to put you in peak states of humanness.
This is why I love talking to you because I love that explanation.
And I think that that breakdown of how meditation can be used differently
for different challenges is fantastic
and I love the analogy with the tea kettle
we'll go with and the drill
because I do think you're right
that we've made meditation
what you just said
is about becoming good at meditation
which is absolutely irrelevant to life
I hope this episode serves as a reminder
that there's no single way to meditate
and no perfect practice
what matters is that you start
whether it's to heal
focus align or simply
breathe, meditation is a tool that can meet you wherever you are in life. Remember, the goal
isn't to get good at meditation. The goal is to improve your life. So whatever form works for you,
a guided practice, a moment of stillness, or a walk in nature, I hope this episode inspires you
to make it your own. And if you've ever told yourself, I'm not the meditation type,
I hope this conversation helps you realize you already are.
You just have to begin.
If you love this episode, you will also love my interview with Charles Duhigg
on how to hack your brain, change any habit effortlessly,
and the secret to making better decisions.
Look, am I hesitating on this because I'm scared of making the choice
because I'm scared of doing the work?
Or am I sitting with this because it just doesn't feel right yet?
On the latest episode of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, I sat down with Jasmine Crockett, Democratic Representative of Texas.
She's holding out the fork for her party in one of the most conservative states in the union.
I think that ultimately, who will become the Democratic nominee for president will be someone that has been out there and has shown that they won't allow themselves to be punched and just say thank you.
Like, they will punch back.
Listen to next question with me, Katie Couric on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
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