On Purpose with Jay Shetty - Wim Hof: Do THIS 10-Minute Breathing Exercise And ACTUALLY Lower Your Risk of Disease And Calm Your Anxiety

Episode Date: June 11, 2025

How do you usually calm down? Have you heard about breathing for anxiety relief? Today, Jay welcomes back world-renowned breathwork pioneer and “Iceman” Wim Hof to explore how the human bo...dy and mind are capable of far more than we believe. Together, they dive into the origins of the Wim Hof Method and how it harnesses the transformative power of breath, cold exposure, and commitment to unlock profound healing, emotional resilience, and spiritual clarity. Wim shares the emotional story of how his mother’s invocation at his birth and the tragic loss of his wife became catalysts for his life’s mission: to help others reconnect with their inner strength and soul purpose. He explains how breathwork and cold immersion can help regulate the nervous system, reduce inflammation, conquer anxiety, and even break through grief and trauma. Jay and Wim also discuss the simplicity of the method, its scientific validation, and how surrender and intention unlock states of consciousness once thought to be out of reach. In this interview, you'll learn: How to Reduce Inflammation Naturally with Breathing Techniques How to Strengthen Your Immune System in Just 30 Minutes How to Calm Anxiety Through Simple Daily Breathwork How to Access Inner Peace by Controlling Your Breath How to Unlock Your True Potential in Just One Week You are far more powerful than you realize. Whether you're battling anxiety, feeling stuck, or simply looking to reconnect with yourself, the tools you need are already within you—your breath, your body, and your willingness to try.  With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty ⁠Safety Disclaimer: Don't do the Wim Hof breathing in a swimming pool, before going underwater, beneath the shower, or piloting any vehicle. Always practice sitting or lying down in a safe environment. Tinnitus symptoms may appear as a result of pushing too forcefully during the breathing exercise. If this happens, take a step back in your future practice – it's important to increase gradually, not forcefully! Join over 750,000 people to receive my most transformative wisdom directly in your inbox every single week with my free newsletter. Subscribe here.  What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 00:41 Dedicating a Life to Wellness 05:04 The Benefits of the Wim Hof Method Explained  11:31 Unlocking the Untapped Power of Breath 13:45 Gaining Full Control Over Your Mind and Body 17:59 Cleansing the Body Through Proper Breathing 22:24 The Science-Backed Truth About Anxiety 24:11 Can Breathing Right Strengthen Immunity? 25:54 How Discomfort Training Builds Stress Resilience 28:22 Training the Body to Embrace Cold Plunges 31:37 The Origin Story of the Wim Hof Method 33:43 Finding Mental Clarity Through Cold Exposure 40:01 Simple Steps to Take Charge of Your Life 44:23 Exploring the Practice of Mantra Meditation 45:22 Defining and Strengthening Willpower 49:26 Overcoming Life’s Most Difficult Challenges 51:20 How to Self Soothe on Emotionally Tough Days 52:35 Revealing the Hidden Strength of the Body 54:21 How Ice Baths Can Benefit Society 55:49 The Role of Surrender in Facing Fear 58:22 Healing Grief Through Cold Plunge Practices Episode Resources: Wim Hof | Website Wim Hof | Instagram  Wim Hof | X Wim Hof | Facebook Wim Hof | TikTok Wim Hof | YouTube The Wim Hof Method: Activate Your Full Human PotentialSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:01:46 What if we could control the deep autonomic nervous system, the immune system? Inflammation is the cause and effect of actually every disease. I'm into healing, into bringing down inflammation. That is what I give to people within an hour. So better control over the immune system, better control over the central nervous system. And you learn to clean the biochemical residue, which is the result of our daily life. Actic Modern Life. The number one health and wellness podcast.
Starting point is 00:02:22 Jay Shetty. Jay Shetty. The one, the. Jay Shetty. Jay Shetty. The one, the only Jay Shetty. Hey everyone, welcome back to On Purpose, the place you come to become happier, healthier and more healed. I am so grateful that you decided to tune in today. Today's guest is truly an icon in this world. Someone that has been able to share prolific lessons,
Starting point is 00:02:46 life-changing habits, and practices that have transformed millions of people's lives. His personal journey is also remarkable. I'm really excited to reintroduce, because we've had him on the podcast once, please welcome Wim Hof. Wim, it is such a joy. The last time I interviewed you, it was on Zoom during the pandemic.
Starting point is 00:03:09 Today we're finally meeting for the first time and as a fan of your work and as a deep believer in your work, I'm so excited to have you here. So thank you so much. It's great to meet you in physical presence. I can feel your energy. It's great.
Starting point is 00:03:24 You're really a good man with very important work. Being here, I'm able to transmit something, yeah, new, organic, alive from the heart. Yeah. Thank you, Wim. Thank you so much. And the feeling is mutual. And I want to start by asking you, because what I find amazing is people like yourself who've dedicated their lives to certain work.
Starting point is 00:03:46 And I wanted to ask you, what do you believe in so deeply? Why do you believe so deeply in your work and the impact that it's making that's allowed you to dedicate your whole life to it? I think it was my mother at my birth who invocated is a naive, God-fearing mother. And yet in fear that this baby was going to die. There was this second baby, and nobody knew there was a second one. I was too deep in, so I was too long in,
Starting point is 00:04:15 and almost suffocated, I came through her fear and pushing and invocating, oh God, let this child live, I will make him a missionary. So I don't think it is my drive, but it is invocated by my mother. A naive mother, yet God fearing, is a formula, is a powerful formula that is impregnated, it's tattooed on my soul while I was nothing more than a purple little nothing
Starting point is 00:04:49 coming out there, defenseless, and yet there, her invocation came right into me. And how that all works, it works. Because I've been talking to her, and when I was 12, I told my friends if the world thinks That's the way it begins to reveal itself at 12 years. You start thinking About what is life if the world think that is a hunger abuse pollution a disease
Starting point is 00:05:20 darkness depression is normal then I think it is sick and darkness, depression is normal, then I think it is sick. And I'm going to do something about it. And what I do not know, I just do it. That is where it came from. And since then, it starts and every moment is a drop. After 40, 50 years, all those drops have become a tsunami, a way through the thick wall of ignorance. Because I think it is all sickness, disease,
Starting point is 00:05:52 darkness, depression, wars, pollution, et cetera, is just based in ignorance. So I have come up with a way, looking in nature, not in books, something that works, that overrides my mind of all that has been filled up with. And then the cold water came in. And from the cold water, you learn to breathe different. And with that deep breathing,
Starting point is 00:06:22 you go past the conditioning. And then you see all what has been written For real here now and then because it is so close It's so direct. I had no need for looking in esoteric books anymore traditions languages religions Anything like that. No God God was suddenly here and now. This is it, was the first time my feeling when I went into the cold water.
Starting point is 00:06:53 And I've been doing it since ever. And you know what? It was my mother's invocation. She was God fearing, Catholic and all. And right now, the priests of the Catholic Church itself, the doctors, the theologists, they are coming and they are integrating the Wim Hof Method in the deep religious esoteric disciplines of the church,
Starting point is 00:07:18 which is equal to mysticism of Islam, Hinduism, Taoism, Buddhism, it's all the same layer and that layer now is been hit and recognized by the best in the Catholic Church, the most learned of men. And if they are able to recognize that, then I say, I am not into abstracting knowledge on philosophies and esoteric disciplines, making it all so difficult. May God, where is he? Where is he? If we go and it is recognized by the best of them to be a highly esoteric discipline, then now the discipline is there for everybody,
Starting point is 00:08:07 accessible in a half hour. That means God is back. For someone who has no idea what the Wim Hof Method is, how would you break it down for them and introduce them to it? It is simple. It is scientifically endorsed, and I'm inviting all the time.
Starting point is 00:08:25 I got big studies done recently, they are into publishing and it all shows the effectivity to go past our normal control, willful control within our bodies. What if we could control emotion? What if we could control the deep autonomic nervous system, the immune system? Those matters are now present and shown in science that we are able to control that.
Starting point is 00:08:57 So that is based through very simple techniques. And what would change if we could control those before we know the techniques? If we could control those systems, what does that mean for humans? What are the benefits? There are multiple benefits from inflammation. Inflammation is the cause and effect
Starting point is 00:09:16 of actually every disease. And we showed that people injected with a bacteria could withstand the influence of the bacteria on the immune system. Thus the inflammation which normally happens within that controlled experiment, this time it doesn't happen. So people bring down the cause and effect of disease,
Starting point is 00:09:42 which is inflammation. And we showed that in science. Now we see where we are in the world with the COVID. When there was COVID, we had to talk and medicines and pills. It's all money, money, money, money, money. So I'm into healing, into bringing down inflammation. That is what I give to people within an hour. The techniques come within an hour before they thought,
Starting point is 00:10:12 Wim, how much time does it take for people to learn what you can do bringing down the inflammation after an injection of a bacteria? Does it take a year, one and a half year? I said 10 days. And then it became four days. And now it's half hour. So better control over the immune system.
Starting point is 00:10:33 Better control over the central nervous system, which includes our emotions. So our emotions become much more pacified by doing this. And you learn to clean the biochemical residue, which is the result of our daily life, hectic daily life, modern life. So we bring our emotion, learn to regulate our emotions. We get a lot more energy
Starting point is 00:11:04 because of the cardiovascular fitness workout, a cold shower. It's so easy also, right? It's remarkable. There was, just last week I was in Poland with 500 people in the mountains, and there was one guy saying, oh, I'm doing the cold and I'm doing this,
Starting point is 00:11:21 but my results get lower. I said, come forward, come here on stage. So how many pushups can you do? And he said 15. Now, breathe this way for 30 times, fully in. Let it go. Fully in, be with your mind in one thing. You give the best you got.
Starting point is 00:11:46 That's, that's all. Follow your breath fully and fully and 30 times. Last time he fully in, let it go. On empty lungs, he did 40 pushups. You see the breath is power. If you know how to manipulate the nervous system, then you are able to generate a much greater power. And you're breathing in through your nose and out.
Starting point is 00:12:15 Yeah, that does not matter so much. It doesn't matter whether you breathe out through your mouth or out through your nose. Yeah, it matters a little. They say the nitrogen and through the nose. And, but if you do it such a short period of time, you go just into the depth of the whole body. You cleanse the body of its biochemical residue, which is caused by stress of daily life. And therefore just breathe.
Starting point is 00:12:44 Don't think about nasal breathing, you know, Surya Bheda, Tatva and Chandra Bheda, Tatva and Kumbhakas and all that. No, don't be... no difficulties. If we go back to Patanjali, Patanjali says in the beginning, Ata yoga anusvasana, yoga citta vritti naruda, Ata dadrasthava svarpe vasana. Or yoga is the silencing of the modifications of the thinking brain. Then the seer appears. That unconditional power, that is where I am aiming at. I just want to go through the conditioned mind and body.
Starting point is 00:13:26 And we are doing the studies with psychiatrists, neuroscientists, immunologists. And it shows that we go where in science was stated, this is not possible for humans, etc. And now it is. And that's my aim. Within a half hour, I want people to feel their real power. So the first step is 30 breaths, full breaths in and out. Yes. And do you recommend this doing this first thing in the morning or is there a... An empty stomach is of course the best.
Starting point is 00:14:02 Or where you take shower, take also a cold shower. And try it out once. That your push, how many push-ups can you do? If you look to this podcast, and you do only this biohacking great trick, 30 times fully in, relax on a chair, or you sit on the ground, and you know how many push-ups you can do. You want to see how you can influence the neuromuscular mechanisms in the body for power.
Starting point is 00:14:36 Just use your breath. It's so simple. It's really interesting because if you look at boxes, they all know the value of breath. If you look at athletes, they all know the value of breath. Yeah. If you look at athletes, they all know the value of the breath. If you look at musicians who play wind instruments, they know the value of the breath. If you look at singers, they know the value of the breath. So this is something that we've known, but for some reason, we haven't applied it to normal life. Because we all are athletes in our own way in an everyday life.
Starting point is 00:15:06 And I think we've lost connection with that. I remember when the first day I went to join the monastery in India, I saw a young monk teaching younger monks and I went up to that young monk. He was like 10 or 11 years old. And I said, what did you teach them? And he said, it's their first day of school. And I said, oh, well, what did you teach them? And he said, it's their first day of school. And I said, oh, well, what did you teach them? And he said, what did you learn on your first day of school?
Starting point is 00:15:28 And I said, maybe ABC, one, two, three, I can't remember. And he said, well, I just taught them how to breathe. And I said, what do you mean you taught them how to breathe? Oh, but this is important, Jay. Here in America, with the shootings in the school, to simplify, a monkey has difficulties learning how to swim and a fish has difficulties learning how to climb. Our minds and every person is different. Some fit into the system and some don't. They get conflict with their identity.
Starting point is 00:16:02 And so much when the stress comes in and they still have to perform and give results and cognitively keep on and they feel not good compared to others and all, that might jeopardize the identity. And that goes in many cases to where they lose it. Then they shoot their father, their mother, their siblings, and then the people, because they are completely lost. We should bring regulation of emotions done by breathing. As you say, he was totally right, this man.
Starting point is 00:16:45 That was probably the best lesson you got. The inquisitive nature always brings about answers. Yeah, absolutely. And he was saying the same thing as you're saying. He said that your breath is the only thing that stays with you from the moment you're born to the moment you die. He said, you'll change your country, you'll change your family, you'll change your friends, like things change.
Starting point is 00:17:07 But your breath is always with you. And he said, what changes when you're happy? Your breath. What changes when you're sad? Your breath. What changes when you're angry? Your breath. And so he said to me, if you learn to manage your breath,
Starting point is 00:17:20 you'll be able to manage any emotion in life, exactly like what you're saying. So you have these three pillars, breathing exercises, commitment, manage your breath, you'll be able to manage any emotion in life. Exactly like what you're saying. Yes. So you have these three pillars, breathing exercises, commitment, and then you have the cold. What is commitment? What do you mean by that? With commitment, just do it. Just do it regardless.
Starting point is 00:17:37 And stay in that discipline. In the end, if you go into an ice bath, you learn to control your thoughts. Because you learn to shut up. If you want it, yes or no. You learn to surrender. Let the body do what the body is capable of. Once you get that, you get a control. Like in the beginning you said intention.
Starting point is 00:18:00 Intention is interoception. And now we found in Detroit top down regulated interoception. And now we found in Detroit, top down regulated interoception, which is interoceptive focus. And that is the will able to enter into the body and to readjust what needs to be, what is out of balance, to reconnect with the body. That is what the cult learns, to shut up and to connect with the body, let the body do what the body. That is what the cult learns, to shut up and to connect with the body,
Starting point is 00:18:26 let the body do what the body is capable of and then you become aware that you suddenly willfully are able to control, to make stronger your body without moving. And that is top yoga, like Dharana, Dhyana, Samadhi, those things are now here. And we have seen that it activates the corona radiata and the corona radiata, the nerve endings in the human brain, which is the crown chakra. The crown endings, the corona radiata, the radiant crown, it now is able to be activated by us because we learn to surrender.
Starting point is 00:19:08 That means we learn to let go. And then we are able to full bloom activate our brain capacity, like 100% willfully. That's where we are. In India, in Bangalore, I am going to receive this prize, award for excellence in yoga. What is excellence in yoga? Yoga means connecting. That's what I bring about. And make it simple. Breathing is so much more important than we can cover within this hour, within this podcast. Just try it out once. Embrace the full power, partial conditioned mind and body through breathing. And we have simplified these techniques now and made it so accessible that the esoteric disciplines of all the religions, they come knocking at our door.
Starting point is 00:20:08 They say, this is highly esoteric. This is mystical. And this is here, awaiting for any person, because God, or what is mystical, should be there for everybody. Absolutely. Every time. Absolutely. All the time. Absolutely. All the time.
Starting point is 00:20:25 So you recommend that if ideally people do this on an empty stomach, first thing in the morning, it's going to allow them to have more clarity. It's going to allow them to have more energy. It's going to allow them to focus better. Yes. It cleanses completely the lymphatic system. All our daily habits or activities result in stress, biochemical residue. It accumulates in our bodies and if we don't clean it, then it obstructs our quality of life.
Starting point is 00:20:56 How does breathing clean it? If we do these breathing sessions within four rounds, you will be able to get into the deepest of all systems, to the bone marrow, to the deepest of your brain and learn to connect willfully. How does it work? If we do this breathing, we blow off the carbon dioxide and then the alkalinity in the blood goes way up. When it goes way up you can exhale and be without the need to breathe because breathing is because you become acidic. Now the acid is out of the body and you are very alkaline So you are able to stay one and a half minute, two minutes without breathing after exhalation.
Starting point is 00:21:49 Now what happens in the brain stem, the reptilian, the crocodile brain, it says you are not breathing. This is dangerous. It doesn't look to pH levels in the blood. Is it alkaline or no? It looks to oxygen and oxygen is completely depleted. And when that happens then the brain stem which is connected to the adrenal axis, that is the third eye, pituitary gland, hypothalamus and the adrenal glands. Then it activates the adrenal axis just to spike once in the body with twice as much
Starting point is 00:22:30 adrenaline than a person who goes for the first time into a bungee jump in fear. They have measured the blood of the people going into a bungee jump with fear for vertical, they took their blood and they took the blood of the people doing this breathing technique. And then they saw twice as much adrenal spike in the blood for people doing this breathing technique. Now, what happens with that double dose of adrenaline? It goes like hormones into the spinal fluid.
Starting point is 00:23:09 And this is where we manipulate this breathing techniques, manipulation of the chi, the chi, the pluma, the prana. There's 10 kinds, but hey, prana, we call it prana. So we get it sublime, but we make it simple. We say, fully in, 30 times breathing, and then exhale and stop. And you don't feel the need to breathe. Now after one and a half minute, what happens,
Starting point is 00:23:39 if you don't breathe, five times more blood flows into the brain. Five times more blood flows into the brain. Five times more blood flows into the heart. Nobody knew until they did cardio films on this and they say this is the future. This diagnostic cardiology, this is for the future. Breathing techniques. Because it flushes like a battery.
Starting point is 00:24:03 The heart, if it functions too less. And that's terrible. If you got a heart that is not strong enough, you can make it stronger just through doing this. And five times more fluid into the brain is flushing it. And now because there's twice as much adrenaline and hormonally in it, it cleanses everything. Anything that should not be there that is inflammatory markers, but also PFAS, also microplastics, also mRNA techniques, technology, whatever the shit is and the radio waves, biochemical residue they are from. All that has influence and we don't know how to clean it.
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Starting point is 00:28:06 Now back to the discussion. It's such an interesting prospect that we've been given the technology in how we've been created in order to cleanse, to survive, to live, to heal. But obviously, you know, today, so many people are struggling with anxiety and a lot of people listening today, people may have anxiety about meeting new people. People have anxiety about their work. People have anxiety about relationships. There's so much anxiety in the world. How can this help someone who's struggling with anxiety?
Starting point is 00:28:37 Is there a different breathing practice or is it the same one? Exactly the same one. The simplicity is the power. So just try it out. You will be able to cleanse that what obstructs you, the quality of your life under performance. When you need to perform, it really could be a relationship, could be having a new job interview, could be a presentation on stage or whatever is important to you there you want to feel more than normal in a functional power. That one needs cleaning and this one does it. This takes it away because your body knows exactly what you are up against but it is hey, you are anxious because you cannot function the way you actually want because there's shit inside and we need to get it out.
Starting point is 00:29:32 That's what it is saying. So anxiety actually is a neurosignal telling, hey, clean up before you go up. And you will see that these simple breathing techniques will lead to, suddenly, oh, it's easy on stage. All these, the aha, alabeness comes by itself. Is it true that this can also help us get less sick less often? Absolutely. It has been shown in a scientific comparative study.
Starting point is 00:30:03 People inject it with the bacteria causing inflammation, that means fever, headaches, vomiting, nausea, muscle aches, back aches, but really three to six hours is a controlled experiment. 16,000 became very sick, and the 12 I trained, not sick. very sick and the 12 I trained, not sick. And we already showed this in 2014, bacteria, E. coli, virus, it's all the same. We have, like you said, we got the mechanisms,
Starting point is 00:30:38 but we don't make use of our inner nature anymore to take down what should not be in there. Like sickness, like anxiety, depression, inflammation of any kind. And it is preventative as well. The thing is, if you do this in the morning, preemptively, then your day, you are able to accumulate a lot of stress without feeling that you cannot deal with it. Yeah, yeah. Because you're clean. Yeah, right.
Starting point is 00:31:12 It's almost like we could actually deal with more stress than we believe if we were able to be in a state. And then you come into this emotional, spiritual state to take on challenges. Because you feel suddenly, ah, you don't feel that awkward anxiety, fear. You don't feel it anymore. And that makes you able to go into the challenges of life. You're saying something really important here, but I think the challenge that people have is we've become seekers of an even more comfortable life. If you look at everything we're creating around us, it's so we can be more comfortable,
Starting point is 00:31:50 be more safe, and I mean even physically comfortable, and we don't want to do something too challenging. We don't want to do something that's uncomfortable. We don't seek discomfort. So how do we encourage people to transform our mind to realize that discomfort is what creates goodness in life and comfort is what creates more problems later down the line? Exactly that. So comfort is a false feeling. It is in the long term, it's really getting to you and it will cause psychosomatic disturbances in the body. It will heap up, accumulate.
Starting point is 00:32:32 The body needs cleaning. And for that, we need to connect with the stress mechanisms in the brain and body. And with that, the stress in daily life, because if you're escaping into comfort behavior, will not make you strong for the shit that is going to happen anyway. So better be ready before it. And we provide with these simple techniques, not only the ability to tackle stress in life effectively, but also directly when you did it, when you take a cold shower, you feel good. Yeah, for sure.
Starting point is 00:33:24 You give a little, you get good. Yeah, for sure. When you give a little, you get so much more back. Yeah. And for people who are not motivated to do this, don't wait until the shit comes to you. You go to the shit. I say always, if you don't go to the cold, the cold will come to you. And then you don't like it. So too much disease, too much anxiety, too much depression,
Starting point is 00:33:48 too much darkness, all is happening. Too much stress, it's all happening. We know this and we found a way to deal with it. We found the key and we just want to hand over, out of love and respect to the person, this key. When I first started, I think, I mean, I took cold showers when I was in the monastery. It was very normal. But the first time I did a cold plunge was probably around four or five years ago as well.
Starting point is 00:34:17 And I can honestly say that as someone who has tried to get massages, to like feel relaxed and de-stressed, and they probably get me to like a 70, 80%. But sitting in the cold and doing the contrast therapy of maybe 10 or 15 minutes in a sauna and maybe 3 to 5 minutes in the cold and then doing it three times over, I have never felt that level of relaxation or slept better than when I've done the cold, whether it's in the morning or the evening that day. The whole body just feels loose in a way that I've never felt.
Starting point is 00:34:52 You'd assume it feels tight. Like you think when you get in the cold that your body's just going to like hold on, but it doesn't, it does the opposite. And when you get out, you almost feel so much looser, calmer, less stressed. But that's not what the mind thinks. The mind thinks it's probably going to be really hard.
Starting point is 00:35:07 It is challenging in the beginning, for sure. The first time I did it, I was in there for four minutes because I was doing it with a friend and we were trying to encourage each other. But for someone who gets in there and just wants to get out in the first 10 seconds, how did they get more comfortable with that discomfort? What should they do if they're in there for 10 seconds and they're like, more comfortable with that discomfort?
Starting point is 00:35:25 What should they do if they're in there for 10 seconds and they're like, I need to get out. Like, how do you get over that hunch? I just know that this really will bring about a much greater control over stress in your daily life. You only have to go through this, say a minute. Once you are a minute in, and anybody can do it. Last weekend, I had people of 80 years who never had been in an iceberg. They went in for 10 minutes, 10 minutes,
Starting point is 00:35:57 and they loved it! I mean, young people should not be in the mind thinking, learn to be in the mind thinking, learn to be in the body, and then know that you are able to enter into the body, into the depth, and that will be yours. For 10 seconds, yes, that is your reaction of a body that never has been in the cold, but you are very able.
Starting point is 00:36:24 Let me be very clear about it. You as a young person, I'm talking to the person who's watching this, you are very capable of staying one minute. And what happens then, your body is adapted. What that means is that your inner power is on and it's connecting to your will. And with that you learn to take on stress of daily life which you don't need to escape of anymore.
Starting point is 00:36:54 You are able to confront yourself with difficult situations in all the other areas. So that little bit of a cold you're gonna endure is going to give you so much more back. It's funny how the mind when you're in it and you finish it, you have a great experience. And then the mind's like, I don't want to do it again. It's really hard. Like whatever. And then you have to keep reminding yourself. And I've learned over time that things that are good for you feel good after and things that are bad for you feel good before. Anything that's bad for you feels good before. You want to eat badly, you want to drink badly, you want to do anything.
Starting point is 00:37:34 It feels amazing before and then afterwards it's like poison. It's like pain. But anything that's good for you before you do it, you're stressed, you're nervous, but then after you do it you feel the stressed, you're nervous, but then after you do it, you feel the benefits and you have to keep reminding yourself of that value because it's so easy to lose. Wim, how did you even discover the power of breath work and the power of cold?
Starting point is 00:37:55 How did you even come to this for yourself? Yes, I was a young kid and very much in the head. What were you worried about as a young kid? Because I feel like now... About life! What were you worried about? I'm intrigued because I think... My career, my this, my that, what I'm gonna do... Same stuff. Yeah, the same stuff as anybody. So I read a lot and I was philosophizing a lot, debate, running in my head, crazy. And then one day I found this irrational attraction, intuitively, to go into cold water. And when I did that, this circling, this ruminating, yes, stopped right there.
Starting point is 00:38:47 This is it. I was looking in philosophies and religions. What is it? What is Lovaton? It's in you. It's there, it's alive. It's past thinking. And it's here now. And the cold has opened that up to me, past my conditioning.
Starting point is 00:39:06 Whatever I had learned, those are patterns. They keep you running in the same conditioning and can be very stubborn. But the cold was there and it went just straight through by which I started. I never stopped there when I was 17. So for you, it was almost the cold became the pathway to enlightenment to yourself. Yes. That that was the pathway because it just stopped the chatter. You can't hear the noise because the noise becomes well, initially the noise becomes,
Starting point is 00:39:39 oh God, it's so cold. Then what happens? Walk us through what that journey was. I think I was ready to take on that challenge within me to get rid of the chatter. What is that? What makes me connect instead of chattering? I can say, oh, I meditate and I do this and I do yoga postures and I'm very good at it all and philosophy. That one I was looking for.
Starting point is 00:40:10 I found it. And right now, right now, it shows in a big study we did, it's submitted at Nature, there's a big scientific paper, with 500 people and it says they compared it to meditation and mindfulness. So that the stress result as stress tools, mindfulness and meditation stress tools in the corporate world. So we took people out of the corporate world, from the corporate world with a lot of stress and we took them and we went through and doing this cold practice and the breathing.
Starting point is 00:40:46 And it shows that it is able to make this ruminating through the stress of daily life and having to perform and compete constantly. Very high up, the Price House Water Coopers people, they are not into yoga or into Whatever exercise they they need to perform with numbers accountancy and it's very strenuous and arduous and and all that they did this and they compared Thus the meditation and the mindfulness with this and it showed that this is generating much more stress resilience, much higher cognitive awareness, and less stress experience. And beyond all, much more trust in each other.
Starting point is 00:41:37 Interoception, interoceptive being. They just had these feelings, and they expressed it. 500 people. What I want to say with that, this running, which I had, a lot of people have, and it is not just thinking, it is related to the central nervous system.
Starting point is 00:41:57 And the stress accumulates in biochemistry that is wrong, by which we have no control over it, and that is anxiety. And now we have the ability to make it go away. The cold did it for me. Then I started to do the breathing because I found out in the cold, if I do a slower breathing deeply, I'm able to stay longer in icy water. And those were the findings. This is almost 50 years ago.
Starting point is 00:42:30 And then I started to cultivate, hey, if that happens in the water, what happens when I do it out of the water at home? And I did it. And then I saw all the chakras, all what I have been reading for the first time, I saw it all. But that's not the goal.
Starting point is 00:42:50 The goal is the soul. Goal is God's providence to be direct here, past the chatterbox, and how to surrender, how to let go, how to not think, but be. And automatically, naturally from there, you come into your purpose. And this podcast is on purpose. The purpose of life itself, everybody is different, but everybody has a purpose from the heart, not thinking. From the mind, the heart is able to give confidence and trust and that power that
Starting point is 00:43:33 goes and takes on the challenges of life because the soul is indestructible and there is no fear, not even for death, because you are doing exactly why you are here for and you feel it. Because God is at your side, He's here. And that made me first break through with the cold, then the breathing, and then I learned to control, which I showed in Sydney lately, in a brain scan. Nine and a half thousand brain scans showed more or less the bandwidth of what the brain activity is in humans.
Starting point is 00:44:11 I did nothing in the brain scan, and I was within the bandwidth of the brain activity of these people. And then I did what you did in the beginning, in tension. I went out for half hour, did some breathing exercises, but very strong intention and let it be. Your body knows when you talk to it. That's a pure interoception and you know how to move it.
Starting point is 00:44:40 If you just have that faith, that power, that interoception, that's what I did. And then I went back in to the same brain scan. And then the professor saw what he never had seen before. Such an activity of the subcortical, higher functioning of the brain. That is confidence, fantasy, creativity, trust, empathy, all those areas now willfully completely activated. He saw this and this people say, I made you the Iceman, you can do this. No, no, no, no, no, no, no excuse. I only show what we all can do. And then places like here, a podcast, a platform, which you make available,
Starting point is 00:45:29 which is great work. Thank you. Thank you. For the whole wide world. They say, make America healthy. I say, let's make the whole wide world healthy. And it happens through these things. Absolutely.
Starting point is 00:45:43 Faith. Something you said just really stood out to me in a way that it hasn't before. And you just said that when we talk to our body, it hears us. Yes. And I was just thinking in a really simple way. When I think to myself, I'm going to take a glass of water. That is me talking to my body. Yes.
Starting point is 00:46:01 And my body just did that. Yeah. And then I'm like, oh yeah, I'm going to drink some water. And then I'm like, oh yeah, I'm going to drink some water and then I drink. And it's like, I am talking to my body, even in the simplest of tasks that I do every day, because when we hear, oh, you can talk to your body and it hears, you think it's some mystical thing, but the truth is we're all doing it right now, like even me lifting my hand, I'm first thinking it and I'm talking to
Starting point is 00:46:24 myself, I'm about to lift my hand. I'm going to shake Wim's hand, I'm going to meet him, I'm going to greet him. It's, I'm already doing that, but then we forget that we can also code our mind and our body with emotion, with intention, with feelings, with states. With the purpose of life. And getting there and make the impossible happening. Past our conditioned mind and body. That now is on the threshold. I'm working with these universities and showing.
Starting point is 00:46:57 For example, 26 people, emotional distress. They cannot get out of it. They got PTSD, people dying within their family, divorces, and they are really victims in that. I mean, they cannot get out of these loops. It keeps an anxiety, pure anxiety. It's very tiring. They are exhausted. They went into this study. It took only one afternoon to break those patterns. Wow. And that's the way. And you know what happens?
Starting point is 00:47:32 The next thing is that they got the feeling that they got the steering wheel. Their confidence suddenly is there. And suddenly they feel their purpose of life that they can take on the challenges. 26 people, we just did the study, scientifically and all. That shows that we're not only here to drink a glass of water, we are here to drink the full cup of life and to pass it on to our kids. Fully in confidence and trust and in love and beauty and power and energy and flow. Make a paradise.
Starting point is 00:48:22 I'm here to show scientifically that autonomy is ours. That we have a control far deeper than in science was a thought possible, but now it's here. And through the pharmaceutical industry and the whole industry and the governments, they are quite ignorant. Let me tell you that. So we need to stand up like podcasts like this. We need to become autonomous, not believe in governments, but govern ourselves. Because we are good people all. All the soil where we got our soil is goodness deriving from. And we should be able to have faith in the goodness of ourselves. And we bring through these tools autonomy to the people. So they feel confident that they have control
Starting point is 00:49:11 over these subcortical areas of the brain, the sub-conscious and all. They told us that is only 16% that we can control. It's 100, sorry, it's 100. And I'm showing that in brain scans. And now we are shown with cannabinoid receptors how we are able to create flow in the body, which is a natural state of ours. We only got conditioned. And if we look at society, too many wars, too many depression, too many inflammation, too many anxiety and all.
Starting point is 00:49:49 We can shoot people to the moon. Let's become happy, strong and healthy. I made a song on that, by the way. It's called Sachit Ananda. Oh wow. Sachit Ananda Vigraha Jayarada Radha Om. My roots are in India. Do you practice mantra meditation as well?
Starting point is 00:50:08 Like as you were just singing and chanting? I did a lot of that. Now mantras, the repetitive, sighting words, sounds, I'm singing. All day should be meditation. Yes, yes, yes, yes. Yeah, it's the culture of India. Yeah. Yeah, it's not even just repetition of word, it's singing, it's dancing, it's chanting, it's really beautiful. Meditation should be your natural state. Joyful, yeah.
Starting point is 00:50:36 Yes. Yeah, yeah, absolutely. Yeah, it's almost like a soundtrack to your life. That's how I think about it when I think about mantra meditation. It's almost like you're listening to a soundtrack to your life. That's how I think about it when I think about mantra meditation. It's almost like you're listening to a soundtrack, but the soundtrack is within your own heart and consciousness. And that repeated is kind of creating the rhythm of your life. Yeah, if you sing, you love it.
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Starting point is 00:52:43 These days, I'm interested in expanding what it means to be voiceover, to make it customizable for anyone who feels the need to explore their relationship to relationships. I'm talking to a lot of people who will help us think about how we love each other. It's a very, very normal experience to have times where a relationship is prioritizing
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Starting point is 00:53:28 Hi, Keith. Shout out to my thick thighs. We'll save lives, clearly. Save lives. I'm a strong believer that there has to be at least one thick thigh in every relationship. It's personally why I don't really go for guys who have the same body type as me cuz it's like playing a xylophone When you're cuddling, you know bone on bone hurts. Wait a second. Evie. That was the hottest thing you've ever said Can we please it's the realest. That was not the hottest thing you've ever said trust for me as the thickums one
Starting point is 00:53:58 Yes, it was. Okay. Okay to show thank you very much You know queers love to date people who look exactly like them. You know, everybody's looking for that twindrome. But I need somebody to balance me out, you know. I'll be there like weird massage chair in the back with all my knuckles and elbows. And they'll be like my memory foam bed, you know. We balance. Honestly, the bigger the build, the better. I want to feel petite.
Starting point is 00:54:23 Please. I love a man with thighs. I love a man with thighs. I love a man with arms. A little belly. I've been super into the little like, bitty boys right now with a little belly. You put that little belly out. Hey! That's what you're supposed to have.
Starting point is 00:54:34 Hi-key! Listen to Hi-key on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. And back to our episode. I wanted to talk to you about willpower because you talk a lot about willpower and you talk about how people with low willpower make poorer choices in life. Can you define for us what willpower is in your opinion? Willpower is the ability to have control within. It's the six cents, seven sense, and eight sense.
Starting point is 00:55:07 Willpower, dharana, concentration. If I stay one hour in icy water, I need dharana, I need concentration, I need to control my core body temperature, to control the nervous system while I'm in this very stressful environment. And stay there. This is willfully connecting and that makes my body strong. So anytime I need to concentrate using that connection with my central nervous system,
Starting point is 00:55:40 which I exercised in cold water, and it doesn't need an hour. It only needs you adapting. Adapting is two, three minutes. Then you are naturally connected with your central nervous system, which is the instrument of the willpower. You just need to learn to connect. Don't make it too complicated in yourself because it hasn't got to do anything with your thinking. It's taking on the challenge and your body adapts.
Starting point is 00:56:15 Doesn't matter what it is, heat, cold, stress on the stage, it doesn't matter. You learn to take on instead of ruminating about it. You, you go into it because you have control over the central nervous system, which is a connection of the prefrontal cortex and the central nervous system is everywhere and it adapts. How far do you want to go? I tell people, if I get people motivated. Last time I went on the Kilimanjaro in shorts, was with a man who was 76 years old. 76.
Starting point is 00:56:57 He had no experience in climbing. He was suffering from Lyme's disease. It's a debilitating condition. And he had to go in shorts and he wanted to do this in record time. He was suffering from Lyme's disease, is a debilitating condition. And he had to go in shorts, and he wanted to do this in record time, what young people cannot do. So, and I looked in his eyes and I saw connection.
Starting point is 00:57:16 I saw motivation. Motivation is the right connection with your central nervous system. You really want it because you really are there. And I went with him and this is a mountain you can do between five and nine days fully dressed because it's very cold up there and it's half the oxygen and less
Starting point is 00:57:39 and you need oxygen to combust for energy. And it's not there. So five to nine days and then 40% only summit. Fully dressed. This man did it in 31 hours in his shorts. What? You know what happened? His Lyme's disease was also gone at the same time. What is willpower? It's there. Do you got it? Do you really want it? It's there and it's not complicated. Wow. And you can test it that it is able to go way past what you think you can do. And it takes a half hour. Just try this out. We simplify these techniques.
Starting point is 00:58:35 So to make it a usable tool, then it's only a matter of choice. What do you want with it? Because you will be able, as you shoot, owning your own mind and body in its full splendor. Wim, you've done so many difficult, challenging things. You encourage people to do them with you as well. What's the hardest thing you believe you've ever overcome? Well, at a certain moment, I could do a world record every day. You know, you get your body ready, huh?
Starting point is 00:59:03 And the connection is in the flow. Every day you can run a marathon barefoot outside in the snow or stay two hours in icy water. Do crazy stuff. And at a certain moment I was thinking to myself, actually, I don't want some ridiculous new challenge doing, showing I showed enough. And what I want right now, and that is might be the most difficult, is to settle down and to let hundreds and millions of people are doing what I'm doing now. This is real, with or without my name, doesn't matter. I started this.
Starting point is 00:59:49 This is my mission. My mother told me to do this and to be the missionary. I did it. I got to the Catholic Church itself, to the esoteric departments of the Catholic Church, the best of them, they came to me. My mother is in peace. So right now I want to go on.
Starting point is 01:00:08 I want to go on, on my own. And the challenge is I want to reach billions of people, which is happening. That is the power of faith that keeps on going when actually I thought I did my mission. I will be keeping on going because I actually, it's a normal life is a bit boring. I want to chase the world and that it can be difficult. I don't care. I love. Well, Wim, I think it's very clear that you have no doubt been the modern greatest proponent of breathwork,
Starting point is 01:00:47 of spending time in the cold and cold exposure. I don't think there's anyone else who has not only popularized but taught those principles and made them as big and as famous and popular as they are now. And honestly, all that credit goes to you for sure. I don't think those conversations were being had in the modern world. And so I thank you for doing that because it's such a, it's such a great unlock for the world to recognize the power that can be there for free. Right.
Starting point is 01:01:16 It's like you don't have to pay for breath work. You don't have to pay to have a cold shower every day. Freedom is for free. Yeah, exactly. Autonomy is there. And we want to bring, that is love. We want to bring love to the people. We want them to be able to feel good whenever they feel bad.
Starting point is 01:01:37 You do that. I do that. That's why we are here talking to each other. Five years ago, we talked and it's the same right there. That's the war we're going to win. Absolutely. General. Your energy is infectious. I love it.
Starting point is 01:01:53 It's such a like, and my team was telling me just, just to let everyone know, my team was telling me you walked here today to my house. How long was that journey? An hour and a quarter. Oh, is that all? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's pretty impressive. I think it might have taken people a bit longer than that. Yeah, it was a nice walk.
Starting point is 01:02:12 I was way too early here. But I enjoyed it. You live everything. It was hot today. It was a hotter day in LA. You walked here from your hotel or wherever you're staying. Like it's amazing because you live and breathe this.
Starting point is 01:02:28 Like this is who you are. And some of my friends, Louis House is a good friend of mine, and he brought a lot of friends to you a few years ago in Poland. They had the best time. And everyone came out of that just saying they couldn't believe how much time they spent in the cold. And I think that's my favorite thing about what you unlock for people, beyond the breath, beyond the cold, is we don't know what we're capable of.
Starting point is 01:02:53 We have no idea what this body and this mind is capable of doing. And if everyone listening and watching can remember that you are so much more capable than you believe you are, you're able to do so much more than you think you can. Your mind and body are so much stronger than you believe they are. If you walk away with that message from today, that will change your life. Because in your head, you think you're a lot more limited than you actually are.
Starting point is 01:03:18 If people take one message, love is where you are able to make that what is going bad within good. And that love we want to share and it's not complicated. Just try it out once and then you will see for yourself feeling is understanding. Wim, a couple of last questions. We've talked about the like mental and physical health benefits. What benefits do you see for society at large
Starting point is 01:03:50 if they practice your method? I think it is the soul itself. We are now being approached, I was in the Middle East with the Catholic Church, with the highest esoteric departments about providence or God's providence and mortification about deep religious practices. They are taking this all on and see that God's presence itself comes much better toward the moment again. And that is unconditional love to me. And that is now accessible also for anybody else. So we made God accessible, the
Starting point is 01:04:36 unconditional love accessible just by learning how to surrender and to show scientifically that we are capable of controlling this deep, autonomic nervous system, central nervous system, much better than we have learned in our schools to battle inflammation, depression and energy itself. It's all there and it's not complicated. If you take something away, just do it once. How can people understand that breathing
Starting point is 01:05:12 and being in the cold and surrendering ultimately leads you to God? Because I think a lot of people are doing it. They do it for the health benefits. They do it for the physical benefits. They may not even understand the concept of surrender, which is what's actually happening when you're in the water, you have to. How do you connect that dot for people or is it just something people have to do and they'll get there?
Starting point is 01:05:33 During this conversation, we already actually talked about it. It's your purpose. Yes. Yes. Yeah. You're, once you are driven by your purpose, it's like, if you love somebody, you just, there's nothing that can stop you.
Starting point is 01:05:48 If you get your purpose by learning to control fear, to have a deeper control over the central nervous system inside, which we showed within a half hour, then suddenly fear doesn't block you anymore. The quality of life doesn't. You take on the challenges. Suddenly, our nature is to take on challenges, to take away blockages, to live up to our purpose, and our purpose is rooted in goodness.
Starting point is 01:06:19 And once we are in that power, we are stronger than what we think. Because love is stronger than what you think. That is happening. I'm not going to go into philosophies because this is not about philosophies, but the best philosophers, they come now saying they are recognizing that the real core principle they are recognizing that the real core principle of the best of philosophy is being done by doing this. So I take that but this is not my starting point yet I take it as hey these people they are experts in those fields of what is God, how to behave there, how to do, how to practice and all. They are coming and they say that this and it makes sense to me. But I say feeling is understanding. If you do this, then God will be there. Have no doubt God's presence is a goodness that is rooted
Starting point is 01:07:27 within every person in the world and this makes all the blockages go away. You connect and your purpose is like a flower, it's like a strong power that goes past your thinking. Wim, last question. You've talked before about this, but you talked about losing your wife and how that was such a transformative moment in your life, even though it was tragic. And you've talked today about the definition of love is being able to transform something that felt like pain into something good or purposeful. What helped you grieve and what helped you walk through that grief? Yeah, grief.
Starting point is 01:08:09 And we did a lately a grief study and that shows in within one afternoon, people are able to get out of these patterns. Through breathwork. Yes. Because neurologically you are connected with the love of your life. She was the mother of my four children and she still is. And we got completely honored. She is here.
Starting point is 01:08:35 The afterlife, but that is another discussion. She is here. She's with us and I'm with her children and we have a very successful enterprise in the whole world on breathing. A mission to bring love and how to de-block. So when I went grieving about losing her in a suicide, the mother of my children, the love of my life, nothing could help me except for going into cold water. Cold water makes your mind shut up. Different areas of the brain suddenly start to be activated. The sense of life, the brain stem is about survival, just to live. What is the purpose of life? To be alive, fully.
Starting point is 01:09:28 So it started over there. It opened a little bit my grief, it stopped my grief in those moments by which I opened up to myself. And there the healing started. I became a person missing my wife, missing the mother, but I made my family, for my family, my kids with very little money, a warm nest and a lot of energy.
Starting point is 01:10:00 And that's because I could heal within. And we still have in all our honor, and we can still think about all the emotions. But here we are. From there, from that negative story, this movement now is evolving. So I've learned of the grief. I've learned of my negativity inside,
Starting point is 01:10:30 my darkness inside and come out. And so can anybody else. This is what we are showing now in scientific studies. People who also have loss of family members or divorces can be very strong inside. Or PTSD, the gruesome situations of war inside and you can't change your behavior anymore. You're in despair. This breaks it. So it broke me back then and I had to find it. It's science.
Starting point is 01:11:08 And it works for millions of people. Wim, I thank you for your work. I'm grateful to have spoken to you twice. I'm hoping that everyone who's listening and watching downloads the Wim Hof Method to actually practice it, to breathe every morning. What I really wish for you is that for the next seven days, just seven days, if you can start your day with the Wim Hof Method on an empty stomach, just watch how your life changes. Just seven days of either the breath work or the cold shower, whichever one you can. If you can do both, amazing.
Starting point is 01:11:44 But just either one of them. And just watch how your life changes because this is all about testing. It's all about practicing. It's all about building it. And I don't want you to think that you've got to learn a new technique or whatever it may be. This is really, really simple. Women's made it absolutely accessible for each and every one of us. And I think one of the things that I'm going to do based off of this is just
Starting point is 01:12:10 constantly remind myself that whenever you think you've reached a limit to realize that that's actually not the limit. Your mind and body can do so much more. Yes. So thank you so much Wim. Please read the Wim Hof Method, download the Wim Hof Method, follow Wim on social media across platforms and Wim I'm sure we're going to meet again and continue this mission together. I love your work. I love yours. I respect it and thank you so much. I came yesterday all the way out of Europe and tonight I fly on. Maybe not so good for the ecological footprint, but I had to see you, I had to be with you, and it's worthwhile all.
Starting point is 01:12:50 Thank you. Thank you very much. Thank you. Thank you so much for listening to this conversation. If you enjoyed it, you'll love my chat with Adam Grant on why discomfort is the key to growth and the strategies for unlocking your hidden potential. If you know you want to be more and achieve more this year,
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Starting point is 01:14:25 You came out of a marriage, you came out of quote unquote country music, and you had a huge growth spurt, from what I can tell. I was expanding and growing at a really fast pace. And yes, you could throw motherhood and the postpartum thing, learning about myself. There were a lot of identity crises going on, but I realized like I can't look back and slow down for people.
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