Silicon Valley Girl: AI, Tech and Career Growth - Gary Vee: The AI Opportunity Is Real — You're Just Looking at It Wrong

Episode Date: March 30, 2026

I spent 8 years waiting to have this conversation. Gary Vaynerchuk on whether this is actually our last chance to build wealth with AI, what he'd do if he woke up broke tomorrow, why the middle of... the market is the most dangerous place to be right now, and the mindset that separates people who thrive from people who freeze. One of the most honest takes on AI, ambition, and identity I've heard.More from the Silicon Valley Girl: Follow my Newsletter: https://siliconvalleygirl.beehiiv.com?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_content=gary-vee-interviewInstagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/siliconvalleygirl/ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@SiliconValleyGirl⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠linkedin.com/in/marinamogilko⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠X: https://x.com/siliconvalleymm

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Starting point is 00:01:14 This is Gary Vaynerchuk, serial entrepreneur, bestselling author and early investor in Facebook, Twitter, and Uber. Keep predicted TikTok, talking to computers and the creator economy before anyone saw it coming. And in our lifetime, most unpredictable moment, I went straight to him for answers. would you do if you have a laptop and AI? I would build an app that's $5 to $50 a month, make unlimited organic content, and try to
Starting point is 00:01:41 for me as a person in Silicon Valley, I can totally see how Anthropic releases new lines of codes tomorrow and this business is done. Why would I start if it's already being automated? Because everything you learn along the way will set up your next thing. What are you going to do? Lay down and cry. I'm asking you. Well, what you're doing in.
Starting point is 00:01:59 Yeah, for Russian. Your first interview on Russian. One once I did it. Seriously? Uh-huh. In Chicago, I was like, I showed up, I didn't know, and they went and I just battled and got the row.
Starting point is 00:02:13 It was pretty cool. Well, you do speak Russia, which is amazing. I'm glad you. Yeah, how are you still? How are you? How are 50 years in America? Crazy. No, 47.
Starting point is 00:02:23 I came to, where I was three. I actually want to talk about AI and what's happening. And, you know, I've been watching you for, eight years now. So I've been preparing for this interview for eight years. And what I noticed about you is that you're right at so many things. I remember you predicted TikTok and you're the reason I started TikTok. I have three million followers there because you were like, you need to start TikTok. When you're looking at this AI era, do you think it's our last chance to build wealth right now? That's a great question. You know, one of the things I try to do is when I talk
Starting point is 00:02:56 about things publicly. I've spent a lot of time thinking it through. And I've seen indicators of actual human action that shows me an insight to the earliest of preview of something I think will be at scale. So that's why a lot of my predictions have worked out. It's like when I talk about our grandkids marrying AI robots, well, it's already happening in Japan. It is. And so like to me, that's not a long putt. That's just something that's happening in a part of the world that clearly to me is a human psychology and so it's going to work. Your question's interesting because my intuition is it has the chance to create hyper micro wealth, the fragmentation of vibe coding and all this stuff and the stuff we're already seeing, right? Kids building out products very quickly and having
Starting point is 00:03:46 success. On the flip side, you're also alluding to clearly the superscalers, right? When you look at what meta and Microsoft and Google and Apple, like the biggest companies in China. You could see a winner takes all scenario where 12 or 13 companies. My gut is that the economy and the consumer behavior is so large that, yes, there'll be 25 companies that take so much, right? You look at, you know, Adobe and Salesforce and ServiceNow SaaS companies. I mean, SaaS companies are clearly. coming out of an incredible 30-year run
Starting point is 00:04:25 and now walking into a potential buzzsaw I saw a headline yesterday, I don't know if it's true, I mean, just, you know, I was busy yesterday, but X, maybe it was Claude, Claude just made, gave everybody a Bloomberg terminal for free. You know, like those kind of headlines seem very real to me.
Starting point is 00:04:42 They seem really natural. But it's almost like meta or anthropic or someone else is going to eat up more Bloomberg and service now. and sales for like it's like the battle of the titans yeah and then over here on the scraps well the scraps actually might be quite big and it might be a social media like era where all of us become literally all of us become vibe coders like just like i thought one of my great predictions in 2008 was everybody would have a social media account when it did not seem like that yeah is everyone
Starting point is 00:05:20 and going to have a mini app that is monetizable because they themselves were able to build it, not need a developer for 500,000. I don't know. I think, so I believe that the middle will be in trouble and the middle might be a Vayner media, you know, but I have a feeling the, the separation of the middle class of entrepreneurship and could be real. the difference is the long tail could be quite at scale, maybe even then creating this middle, you know, this middle class.
Starting point is 00:05:58 I don't know. If you put a gun to my head, I would say, no, it's not our last chance. Okay. So we have a few years, right? I think so. And again, let me take another counter just to build on this conversation. If it is our last chance and 79 companies make all the money, governments will get massively involved.
Starting point is 00:06:14 Yeah. And like it may lead to a nirvana, like, you know, back to where we come from and where we're sitting, could extreme capitalism mean a different version of socialism, right? Coming back to the roots? You know what I mean? Could a world where there's only 100 companies that make 80% of the monies, would they then be forced to subsidize all the displaced workers? Do we live in a three-day work week environment with the other four days subsidized from the companies that we work from? Do we have more leisure?
Starting point is 00:06:48 Do we get more into the arts and family? And do we have side projects that make these micro pennies? I don't know. So what if tomorrow everything crashes for you? Like, VaynerMedia, you lose your followers. What would you do if you have a laptop and AI? If I lost my reputation and my personal brand, but I kept my knowledge of how to make content on social,
Starting point is 00:07:08 I would build an app that's $5 to $50 a month, and I would make unlimited organic content on LinkedIn, Twitter, TikTok, and try to get customers. If you want to stay ahead in the AI era, I bring you the people who see what's coming next every week. Subscribe to this channel so you don't miss it. That's very interesting approach. I just talked to Bill Gurley, who's like a legendary investor,
Starting point is 00:07:33 and he told me you can't even imagine how many websites are there that are just like passport photos. They charge you $6. And yes, AI can do that, but because we're still so used to go into a website and paying and they're making tens of thousands of dollars a month. we just don't realize it. Because for me, as a person in Silicon Valley, right, I'm looking at all the businesses and I'm like, okay, I can totally see how Anthropic releases new lines of codes tomorrow and this business is done. It's not how consumers work. He's right. It's not how it works.
Starting point is 00:07:59 And in fact, I would argue what I do for a living and what I'm obsessed with actually explodes in this next era, it's all going to be about brand because you have to discover it. In 30 years, by default, somebody would be like, oh, let me go to the main AI thing. And I, I don't need to, but there's going to be a long period of time here. Yeah, so there's this long tail. We still need to adjust. Whereas humans, we take some time to adjust a new reality. When you're Silicon Valley Girl and you even know who Bill Gurley is,
Starting point is 00:08:29 you live in a different world than the 99.9% of people on Earth who've never heard of Bill. And that's opportunity for everyone who's listening. Correct. Because transitioning to that era together with small companies, small businesses, other people educating them, I feel like there is a lot of potential there. when you layer what I've been obsessed with about the last 20 years, which is there is a advertising and brand building ecosystem called social media that does not cost you money.
Starting point is 00:08:55 And that's the point about AI apps. It really doesn't cost you money anymore to build something in the way that I grew up. But the fact that you can actually get awareness, that you're one TikTok away from having people know who you are and building a platform, that's intoxicating. Ambition comes in all shapes and size. At First Citizens Bank, we roll with your goals because we're built for what you're building.
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Starting point is 00:09:52 Terms and conditions apply. Need a hiring hero? This is a job for Indeed sponsored jobs. But do you have another worry? Talking about social media, right? I see a lot of AI content and we're getting flooded with so much content. So we're competing more. But also another thing that I'm always thinking about.
Starting point is 00:10:08 What of this social media platform? Like, why would they pay human creators? Why would they not generate AI creators? This is much more personalized content. It's free. And they don't have to pay anyone. Well, platforms don't pay people. Well, some of them do.
Starting point is 00:10:22 No, they really don't. Like, meta doesn't pay people. TikTok doesn't pay people. Like, they don't pay people. They are an open vessel that people go on and create for, and then businesses come and sit in between people that make content and people that consume content, and then businesses advertise on there or go to a creator and do a brand deal.
Starting point is 00:10:43 Now, if you're saying, why would L'Oreal, go to you like they might today versus someone that looks kind of like you that they could even own like a Mickey Mouse. Exactly. And make 100 videos versus one. They're going to do that. That is good. Now, right now there's stigma around that and big companies are scared to go too deep into
Starting point is 00:11:03 AI because there's pushback. But over the next five to 10 years, they will. Now, what they might use you for, though, is you might be one of the 100 faces they use, 99 of which they own the IP, but you're going to be able to do this. I think the rise of analog value is going to be extraordinary. So we're sitting in this world right now where a lot of people behind the scenes doing stuff. I think, you know, for me,
Starting point is 00:11:27 and I think you know this about me, I'm comfortable and good in both environments, both with my thumbs and right here. That person's going to do incredibly well. The person that's very comfortable with analog hosting a conference, having 25 people in this room right now while we do this, right? brands are going to find incredible value in the analog world, real life, restaurants, real
Starting point is 00:11:52 life studio podcasts, like real life is going to explode. We're going to live in this barbell world, extreme technology, but extremely scaled. What we take for advantage us for is like, that's normal, like being outside, like a pop-up shop, you know, going to a sporting event. They're going to continue to increase in value. And so, yeah, you're going to be, like the game's going to change. but I remind influencers, influencers are crying to me quite a bit right now. I'm like, Gary, AI, I'm like, you took money from real celebrities.
Starting point is 00:12:25 20 years ago, none of us existed, and all of that money went to Jennifer Aniston. If you were on Shark Tank, you were the only business people. I, Gary V, do not have a television show. I get comp to speaking fees and appearance fees greater than most of the sharks. Right?
Starting point is 00:12:42 That would have never been possible. So the world turns, shit changes. We just get too comfortable in our space. Well, what's funny is when we're young and we're disrupting something, we like it. But when we're the one that gets disrupted, we don't like it. Yeah. How are you adjusting your social media strategy? Nothing because of what we just talked about.
Starting point is 00:13:02 To me, I stay in, my last book I wrote was called Day Trading Attention. I live in that environment. So if AI wasn't even happening right now, I'd still be focused on what I'm focused on, long-form written content. So much more substack, B-Hive, LinkedIn, X, longer-form content. So I hired two full-time writers on my staff, journalists, who basically will listen to this entire interview. And he's going to come up with 15 to 20 follow-up questions,
Starting point is 00:13:28 which is why I needed someone who had a journalistic background, because if it was just transcribing it can AI that. And then we will create a first-person article about the barbell theory, why analog is on the rise, right? So a lot more written content. Interesting. And I feel like it's becoming so much easier because I remember a couple years ago, I met four years ago. I met someone from LinkedIn. They're like, you should be on LinkedIn. I'm like, I can't write. So I'm so bad at that. And then Chad GPT came around and my LinkedIn's growing like crazy. Yeah. And I've always had ghostwriting infrastructure for my books because I've never been able to write. And but I've always wanted it. You know, it's funny. Every book I've written, everyone with my written content, people come up to me. They're like, man, it sounds so much like you. I'm like, it is fully me because it is truly transcribed for my word. I don't write differently than I talk because it's just the transcription.
Starting point is 00:14:17 So writing content, I'm incredibly focused on being, and I'm pushing my team right now on this, on just being remarkable on every platform, like obsession to how to win Snapchat spotlight, obsession to understand how to be great at YouTube shorts to make sure I'm feeding the LLMs of Gemini with my content. Why short, it's not long form?
Starting point is 00:14:40 Both. But I think, but shorts allows me to pump out a lot of how, to why, right? There's a little bit of a different thing there. So just hyper fixation on the craft of the written word, the images, testing new formats. I call it PAC platforms. So I need to know everything that's happening on Substack X, Pinterest, Instagram, TikTok, shorts, all that. That's algorithms within those what kind of content, what format, what kind of is it a real? Is it a full? Like with, on LinkedIn, is it right now imagery is doing incredibly
Starting point is 00:15:20 well. Video crushed last year. It's declining a little bit this month. Like just so what's the algorithm within the platform's doing and then see culture? Like what is happening in popular culture across everything? Like the, you know, America has long in popular culture fed from black culture. Now we're seeing Hispanic culture. We're seeing Korean culture impacts so much of U.S. pop culture, slang terms, quarter zip, libibu's in then out, the Starbucks bear Tumblr for three weeks, then not, Stanley Cups, then not. I love your fashion when you're talking about this. Like, I see. Well, because pop, you know, baggy pants for guys, like pop culture is relevance, right? I can make one
Starting point is 00:16:04 reference in here of something that's happening in popular culture. And then for somebody who's listening, if they're also into the same thing I'm into, immediately we are connected, right? we are connected by being born in the same place. People look for, we're tribal. We love sports. Religion is because the way it is. Cultures, we have, you and I met immediate, we're just from the same place.
Starting point is 00:16:26 It is what it is. But by the way, when I walk outside right now, if somebody's wearing a Jets hat, they're immediately my brother. So, you know, I think pop culture, especially in B2B environments, is very misunderstood, but even B2C environments, the biggest consumer brands I work with
Starting point is 00:16:42 in my day-to-day, I think they underestimate pop culture. Yeah, even creators. Like I'm talking to so many big brands and they've never advertised with creators. And I'm just surprised. So you're saying you're not running faster because of A.A. You're just doing whatever you're doing. I'm saying that I don't have a different social media strategy right now because of AI per se. If I wake up from a coma right now in seven years and everything's different,
Starting point is 00:17:08 it will not take me long to get back on the bike and be successful. because I'll just spend a hundred days paying attention to where is everyone paying attention to. Oh my God, AI changed everything. We're back to reading newspapers. Okay, I'm going to make newspaper ads. Like, it's not complicated. The thesis is simple. Understanding and how to be good at the thesis is hard.
Starting point is 00:17:28 Has your hiring changed because of AIA? How many people do you have now? You know, it's funny you say that we at vain. So I have many different companies. But the biggest one I run is Vayner X, Vayner Media, and there's Chuck Media and the Tamara group, three very large advertising agencies, all of which do something pretty similar. We're exploding. And I'm having this very, very challenging game. I mean, I was in Seattle yesterday, as you heard before we went on here. I met with the three biggest companies that are HQed there,
Starting point is 00:17:58 all of which are like, we want to do more with you, we want to do a lot with you, two that are already working with us, a third that wants to jam with us. So the demand of customers is exploding, I still need an extraordinary amount of human beings because it's human-based business. Yes, I understand that AI can do the job of, it is not lost on me that 100 people can now do the work of 400 people. I'm just worried about the output wars of the future. What if you're competing with somebody that has 400 and you have 400? You cut 200 and they still have 400. And in our world, you and I, we're like, ah, we're outflanking them. We're going to be better. We're going to make more EBITDA. But what if they weaponize you?
Starting point is 00:18:39 those 400 people with the same tools that we weaponize our 200 people. In my world, advertising, if my 400 people now make 27,000 ads and your 200 people make 16,000 ads for whatever human element is there, and I understand it doesn't work that way. But this concept of, is AI a shield and a sword and a gun versus rocks and a war, right? You would think 200 will beat 400. but what if the 400 also have shields? And so there's something here that I haven't fully figured out. I'm definitely being cautious. We are definitely first and foremost attacking things that do not have value.
Starting point is 00:19:25 For example, if you're a project manager at VaynerMedia and your sole, because every project manager comes in different shapes and sizes. But if you're the kind of project manager who only takes notes, like that is how you, well, that person has already been kind of smoked out and asked to do more. Was there something that you transformed with AI within your team that blew your mind? You're like, oh my God. My mind has not been blown since kind of the, you know, I had a lot of friends in Silicon Valley talking that machine learning was getting better and better. And I was like, maybe I'm impressed on how fast everything is happening.
Starting point is 00:20:04 But I'm in a point where like, yes. It's normal for you now. To me, basically, here's where my head's at. I'm going to take my phone and be like, build this app. I wanted to do this, enter done. So if I'm already there, everything in between is just a step to that. That's where I think we're going. Anything you transformed in your process, or you just started executing by yourself.
Starting point is 00:20:25 I mean, like building apps. Probably the biggest thing that happened to me is I am an anthropologist, pop culture strategist. So having that level of thinking power with me that I used to rely on search and like just digging around the internet, that was profound. I feel the same when I was flying here yesterday. I was playing with Claude Skills, which is like a skill that you can build that executes for itself. It was preparing me for this interview and I was like, this is fascinating. I feel like I'm a superhuman with all these tools because perplexity computer every day sends me stocks to buy Claude Skills. does my research, it's just fascinating.
Starting point is 00:21:04 Yeah, but I also think it feels like a superhero today, the same way I felt with the iPhone, that first year with the iPhone. So I bought the iPhone the day came out. Especially in New York because of Wall Street, and any big city, there was Blackberry obsession. And I felt like a superhero that first year because I could go on the internet for real,
Starting point is 00:21:24 not like the way the Blackberry people could. And that gave me a hyper advantage. Like I would go and do, at that point I was already out a little bit, go and do something and I could look something up before I like went on stage or went into a meeting. And that was like powerful in a way that, you know, I didn't have to do with my laptop, even though that used to have that. It was just so fast. You feel like a superhero with Claude perplexity, GBT, meta's infrastructure starting to get very impressive. To remind everybody who's listening, your grandmother in the office did not have internet, did not have AI, did not
Starting point is 00:22:00 have social media. Didn't have an office. Didn't have an office to your point. Did not have mobile computing. Did not have computer in office. Did not have internet. Like, yeah, I mean, this is just technology. But do you feel that we're in the spirit of time and we are like 1% that are grasping technology? Do we need to run faster to make the most out of it? Or you know, it depends on the human ambition. I mean, I think a lot of people are going to check out of this era. Let's talk about Silicon Valley. I have a lot of Silicon Valley friends. who were psycho all in going so hard during early Web 2, 2005, 6, 70, blogging, podcasting, and then social
Starting point is 00:22:40 who made enough money and are in a different part of their life now who have given a shit about AI and blockchain. But somebody who wants to build wealth. I feel like this is just such an opportunity and it's unique for the next 10 years. I feel like we have this year. Yes. And then it's basic for everyone.
Starting point is 00:22:57 I don't think. I think that makes sense that you think that. and I understand that, I think you and I will see each other in 10 years and be like, man, you were right. As much as it looks like AI creates a winner takes all world, I have a funny feeling it's not going to.
Starting point is 00:23:12 Okay. Because don't forget, there is the human, like, it's going to take too much time. Like, you know what people don't do well? Hang with me for a second. Let's play this game. Let's take that point. Let's say 10 companies won everything.
Starting point is 00:23:27 Do you literally think that 8 billion people are going to be like, yeah, that's awesome? No. Okay. And governments won't, yeah. So that's it. It's just funny to hear this from you, because you're the one like, hustle, do this. People don't like to take my sentence in its totality.
Starting point is 00:23:42 Hustle go hard if you complain and are a cry baby, and you don't realize that accountability can help you. Hustle, if you like it so much that you would do it if it was free. I would build businesses if it was free. meaning like it made me, like it's my joy. I build companies the way people like to go golfing and cooking and watching movies. It's more fun to me. You know, it's so funny.
Starting point is 00:24:08 We put on a pedestal someone who's a philosopher or a great reader. Someone who reads books all day in the rooms, a real thinker and writes. Oh, wow, so noble. That's what I do. I just do something with it on the other side. You know what I mean? So I think hustle, if it makes you happy, one could argue that the extreme opposite of hustle
Starting point is 00:24:31 is what I also do. I mean, the more you know me, the more you would realize I'm incredibly detached from my career or my public persona. I'll make it very blunt. I don't give a f*** about Gary V. or my Vayner Empire.
Starting point is 00:24:48 I do not think it makes me better then. Who cares if I'm good at business? Some people are good at skiing. Some people are good at singing. Some people are good at right, It just happens to be something I'm good at. I have my self-worth wrapped up into who I show up as, as a human, to people in my life. That I'm a nice guy.
Starting point is 00:25:07 Was that a switch ever in your life? Absolutely not. Never. It was ingrained in me by my mother and my circumstances and my DNA. What would you say to someone who thinks their worth is tied to their results? And that makes them very anxious in this era. Correct. I would tell them that, first of all, it depends on what,
Starting point is 00:25:27 results, right? You know, if you're saying financial results. I don't know. I'm in Silicon Valley. Great. Your company's valuation. I would say I understand. It's a very common human trait. I would also say that almost everybody I know on Earth that is wrapped up in that metrics mindset has incredible anxiety. And anxiety sucks. How do you separate yourself from it? But I feel like it's easier to say for you because you have all the millions followers already and millions of dollars. You're saying that because you don't know me. If my friends that have known me, my whole life will tell you that I have the millions of followers and dollars because I've always been this way.
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Starting point is 00:27:18 And let's not try to do that again And like what can we do different? Like I love the challenge You know I was the kid when I was losing in sports Or ping pong or pool Like I loved playing again I loved playing again I loved playing again
Starting point is 00:27:29 I didn't think me losing in front of my sister or mom meant that I was lesser then. I played outside of this short-term validation framework, and I also was incredibly structured to not struggle with peer pressure in high school and in college when so many of my contemporaries did everything for validation amongst their peers. I did not. And that was just tremendous parenting, luck of the draw with DNA, and the circumstances I grew up with. What are you telling your kids? Well, they're not me. I'm trying to leave deposits on that, but they're growing up in a very different environment. Now, luckily, my children share a lot of mine and my ex-wife's DNA and are also a little bit cocooned. Like my 17-year-old daughter does not live her life for her friends or boys' attention. So she's cooking with gas.
Starting point is 00:28:21 My 13-year-old son also, I would have said three years ago, I'm like, hmm, let's, he's, he's, I would have said, three years ago, I'm like, he's already starting to like really develop this. And so, you know, look, DNA is a real thing. And then when you have parents that are conscious and are pushing you on the right things, the only core thing, for sure, they have different is environment. I don't have this ideology for my children to be exactly like me or just like me or they need to be hungry like I was.
Starting point is 00:28:49 I want them to be happy and lack anxiety like I was. And that comes into this, not anything else. This. Any tip, how to teach that. I have a four-year-old and a six-year-old, and I feel like they really rely on what other kids think of them. What do you tell your kids?
Starting point is 00:29:07 I pounded that narrative into my kid verbally. You just tell them like you. I think it's, like, as young as that, I would tell my children like, people making fun of you, people saying you're awesome means nothing. How do you feel? What do you like? Yeah, and learning not to react to. to positive things and negative.
Starting point is 00:29:28 The reason I can deal is I today have 95% validation, 5% skepticism and pushback. It's the goat emojis in my Instagram posts that I have to not pay attention to. Not the you suck, Gary, or you got lucky, or you know, you're a snake oil. To me, it's not hearing the accolades. I'm telling you that that's where the lack of anxiety comes from. I don't need to have a house or a plane or a third home or a Nobel Peace Prize or a 40 million followers or an exit to impress Bill Gurley. I don't need that. It is not what my life is about.
Starting point is 00:30:08 I like it, but I feel like I'm an athlete who wants to be great on the field. But off the field, that is not the man that I think I am. I feel like everybody should learn this type of mindset, especially now. Because also I have this question from my team who read your. peace, AI splits people into architects and masons. Yes. And half of my team thinks they're masons. But they have the ability to become an architect. So how do you deploy that mindset when you know you're losing right now? Because AI is replacing you. But how do you go to the next step of your career utilizing this mindset that I don't need external approval? And this mistake of
Starting point is 00:30:46 failure is in me's. How do you lose 25 pounds when you know you're not feeling great? I'm asking you. well, it's either or you die sooner than if you don't. Yeah, there's that outcome, but how do you do it? I'm not saying what the outcome is, and you're right about that. Like, I don't know, I don't have this problem, so I can't relate. My husband has this problem. He loves sugar. Yeah, me too.
Starting point is 00:31:11 So, yeah, he just feels worse. And for him, it's stopping sugar completely. That will work. Like, completely. But it's hard. It is. Like I go through patches where I also cut it out. So I'm your husband.
Starting point is 00:31:24 I have the same issue. Sugar is the real bane of my existence. To me, let me tell you how I stopped drinking soda for every beverage 13 years ago. I hired a full-time person to literally 12 years ago. There would have been a man in here right now to make sure I didn't take a sip. Really? For one year, I took an extreme measure of babysitting to get me into the discipline. He suffocated me to then get into patterns to get into.
Starting point is 00:31:55 the discipline and then it became my norm. If you are a mason and you want to become an architect, you can cry about it, you can stop and start. We all stop and start in health, in wellness, in work, but you need for it to become your actual pattern. It becomes your norm. To your point, sometimes it's cold, but it starts here first.
Starting point is 00:32:17 Like if I had that whole team right now, I'd be like, listen, you can do it. You have to believe that. If you don't, what are we going to do? Like, it first starts mentally. And then it starts physically. Like you need to start using these tools to help you think better, to put in the work. You need to start reading.
Starting point is 00:32:33 You need to start hanging out with these people. Like you need to start taking from your leisure, which you're using to get escape from your concern, and you need to allocate some of your leisure time into more work. You have to go to the gym and eat better. That starts with your mind, but then it has to happen with your actions. And then you just have to stay into that conversation. Like, this is staying in a conversation. The reason the world is so tight right now is we've stayed in a negative conversation
Starting point is 00:33:02 for 10 years. But, like, my newsfeed is not politics. My newsfeed is not telling me that the world is going to shit. My news feed doesn't tell me that my parents had it better than me. Like, you're in control of your algorithm. You're in control of the people that you spend time with. Look at all the people that are listening to this right now. These people chose to follow you and listen to you.
Starting point is 00:33:26 Some are here because this is the first time they're listening to you because they follow me. Knowing enough of your platform and definitely knowing my platform, these are people that are choosing offense. These are people that are choosing optimism. These are people that are choosing to try to figure it out. That same person could have a twin sibling who right now, this is a Saturday morning that you and I are filming this. Who might be watching Netflix this morning, which is lovely and you should have leisure. But why are they watching it? Are they watching it because they have a little side dish of leisure and enjoyment?
Starting point is 00:33:58 That's beautiful. But if it's their main course and they're doing it because they had an anxious week and they're devastated, they have to go back Monday, now I'm concerned. Does that make sense? Totally. Like to me, leisure and escapism needs to be side dishes and amuse booshes, not the main meal. Yeah. When it's the main meal, you are escaping your actual life that isn't going well.
Starting point is 00:34:21 Yeah. And that's what I think. Gary just told me that AI is splitting people into architects who build things and masons who do things. And most people don't even know which side they're on yet. Futureproof is my weekly newsletter, where I break down exactly what architects are doing right now that masons aren't. The tools, the moves, the mindset shifts. Link is in the description. Please subscribe. It's absolutely free. And I talk about a lot of practical things there. Let's talk about people who are watching who are immigrants because I have a lot of immigrants watching. You came to America at age three. I came when I was 25. For someone who
Starting point is 00:34:56 arrives today, what is the first thing they should be doing? I think it's a framework. It's funny, we used curiosity. I think it's a framework of self-awareness, humility, and curiosity. So self-awareness is, if you come from Guatemala, Poland, you know, South Korea, and you're here in the U.S. or by the way, you're an American who's deciding like, ah, I don't, you know, one of those people, which you're allowed, and you're moving to Sweden, or you're going from India to England or England to Argentina, no matter what shift you're making, a lot of people listening here will move to other countries because of jobs. Their wife's the big executive. They're the entrepreneur, and she just got a big job, and now you're moving to Portugal. When you are new, in an entirely new
Starting point is 00:35:43 country, immigrant, I think there's three things to rely on. Number one is self-awareness. Who are you? right? When I came over, you know, I was a kid, but the older generation, these people were engineers in the Soviet Union and they were literally cleaning toilets. That was the second part, humility. You know, humility is a superpower. You know, I'm aware that my humility does not show up on the internet because that is not the way I communicate. But I will tell you that in my real life behind the scenes, it is one of the beacons of my success. I've never gotten away from the kid that immigrated. Like with all the stuff on paper, I still don't think I'm better then. I don't think I have earned the ability to not put in the work or to be gracious or to be kind or whatever it might be.
Starting point is 00:36:35 So I would say self-awareness, who are you, what are you good at? You have to then see if that's available to you in the country. Sometimes it is, sometimes it's not. Nuclear engineers from the Soviet, and literally had the clean, you know, toilets because America wasn't just giving them jobs. And then they had to build themselves up and they owned a pharmacy later on.
Starting point is 00:36:55 You know how it all worked out, right? Humility. I know that you were the big dog in India, but maybe here in Poland, that doesn't work. Or you were amazing, you were a good creator in America, but now for some reason you live in Indonesia and you don't have that many followers in Indonesia. Humility, right? And then back to curiosity. For me, I would just, again, face got ripped off like that John Travolta.
Starting point is 00:37:18 John Travolta, Nicholas Cage movie, reputation lost, I find myself in Peru. This is where I'm going. Who am I? I have good people skills. I have work ethic. I know how to buy and sell. I know consumer behavior.
Starting point is 00:37:32 Next, humility. I'll go work at a store as a cashier. If I have nothing, if I have nothing. And then curiosity. At night, after I get back from the store, what's going on here in Peru? Like, where's my angle? What can I do?
Starting point is 00:37:48 What can I sell? So that is my advice, that emotional framework. And then you have to act on it. Ego is just pure insecurity. Yeah. Ego is just pure insecurity. Posturing, trying to be the big dog. That just means you're scared.
Starting point is 00:38:02 That means you're a . And that places limits on what you're doing because you're trying to feed your ego versus built something. Yeah, you're just, you are not good internally. Thus, you must render your peacocking to trick everyone around you. Yeah. And by the way, I'm not mad at that. Do you know that I'm not mad at people that are like,
Starting point is 00:38:18 that. I'm sad about it. I wish they could like themselves for all. Do you know many shortcomings I have? Plenty. We all do. Yeah. Okay. If someone's watching right now and they're like, okay, I'm going to work on all of this, but I really want to build in this AI era, what do you think is the biggest opportunity right now? It goes back to the last question. There's a million of them. I just don't know the person that's listening right now. For example, if you're overly charismatic, the biggest opportunity is to go live streaming on the internet and then drive all of that audience to an AI app that you build that's 10 bucks. Before it's automated by AI, because have you seen in China how they're doing this life? They just basically put an item in front of the camera and it's automated and there's
Starting point is 00:39:04 this AI person already wearing it or showing it. It was crazy. That's right, including the influencer is AI. It's me and I put your face on me and I'm a woman. It's crazy. I mean. But like when I think about this, like, why would I start if it's already being automated? Because everything you learn along the way will set up your next thing. What are you going to do? Lay down and cry?
Starting point is 00:39:26 I don't know. Find something else. Because I'm talking a lot of entrepreneurs. They're in the stage. They're like, oh, I really want to do this? But then, yeah, it's just going to be taken away by a big company. You're too young for this. But in 2005, six, seven, eight, nine in Silicon Valley, the same thing was being said.
Starting point is 00:39:42 Why would I start this? Google's going to copy it. You're just talking to fake entrepreneurs. Okay. Real entrepreneurs are willing to lose. Real entrepreneurs know that the two years they work on something that Claude f***ed up was two years of them working on something that sets up their next thing. Real entrepreneurs don't know how to do anything else.
Starting point is 00:40:08 Yeah. Real entrepreneurs don't lay down and cry. Real entrepreneurs don't say, it'll just go get a job. Real entrepreneurs are real entrepreneurs. Yeah, that goes back to knowing who you are. Correct. And by the way, let me say something right now.
Starting point is 00:40:20 This is actually a beautiful segue. I need everybody to hear this. If you're listening right now and you think you're an entrepreneur, but these last three minutes of this talk are triggering some weird feelings, do you know how awesome it was to be the number seven at Facebook? Do you know how incredible it was to be the number nine at Tesla? Do you know how epic it is to be number 34 at LinkedIn? in Microsoft. I mean, like...
Starting point is 00:40:46 How cool it is to be a podcaster? Correct. Like this concept that like, again, I grew up, entrepreneurship wasn't even a word. Being a businessman was not cool. And then I, ironically, was part of the movement that kind of made this thing cool. But I have been talking for 10 years of like, please, it's only cool if you are that. It's not cool to be a teacher if you're not a teacher. It's not cool to be, You know, it's not cool to be anything if you're not actually, you know. Yeah. That is a good ending.
Starting point is 00:41:20 And I have a few questions that have fires. Rapid. What are your top three favorite AI tools that you use daily? GBT, Claude. And honestly, the mangus is really, like, is really, yeah, meta's, like, I'm, like, I'm, like, just a couple weeks going in, but it's. Do you use it for your Instagram? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:41:41 I feel like they have asked to all the data so they can do better analytics than anyone. Correct. Okay. That's a good one to work on. What's your favorite prompt? My favorite prompt is me intuitively feeling something that's happening in culture, right? I'll give you one right now. Does the baggy pants movement for men have another domino to fall?
Starting point is 00:42:06 Like I will... That's a very advanced prompt. So you know exactly what's happening and you're trying to predict what's... next. Correct. That is almost almost everything I'm doing is that for me, for what I like to do professionally and personally. Okay. College degrees in 2026, yes or no? For 50% of the people that are listening right now, yes. They need that degree to do the profession legally in medicine. For the most creative and entrepreneurial people, yes, if mommy and daddy paid for it, Because 18 to 22 as a full pledge vacation to hang out with other 18 to 22 year olds is a lot of fun.
Starting point is 00:42:49 It is. And you will work your whole life. No for 18 to 22 year olds that are taking on substantial debt who are creative and entrepreneurial. Yeah, makes sense. One industry to stay away from. None. Everything's in place. I mean, look, betting your whole life to be an admin who doesn't,
Starting point is 00:43:13 doesn't think. An admin that's a mason, not an admin that's architect, bad. Admin that's architect, huge. I'm going to hire people that have the power of 13 admins for me, and she or he is going to sit at the top of that, and I'm going to pay that person a fortune to make my life effective. Yeah. And the last one. What's the most misunderstood thing about AI right now? The counter to whatever anybody's thinking. So for the people that are delusionally thinking, this the greatest thing ever, the counter of the negatives that are going to happen. And for the people that think everyone's in China and perplexity and anthropic and America and Russia, there's going to be nine countries and nine companies and everybody else's are out of their
Starting point is 00:44:01 minds. The counter to the extremism of what people think. Thank you for your positivity and energy. It's really charging, right? What you're saying gives energy to create versus is like, just lie down. And I think that sits, thank you, and I want to end with this. That doesn't sit in some blind optimism or even the great parenting that I was given. It sits in historics. It is historically true that we were scared of electricity and it wasn't. We were historically true to get off the farms.
Starting point is 00:44:35 We did so much more. Humans are great. I know we're told that we're not, but 99.99% of us are. either neutral or great. And if I am wrong, here's why I'm this way. And if I'm wrong, I promise you you're not going to worry about your job.
Starting point is 00:44:55 If I'm wrong, we're all dead anyway. So either I'm right that you should choose practical optimism and there's going to be a million opportunities for you if you go insular and work on you. Or if unfortunately I'm wrong, then who cares? I'll see you in heaven. Like, you know, like this,
Starting point is 00:45:13 I mean, I don't get it. It's not practical to be pessimistic and cynical. It is not practical. Yeah. You heard Bill Gurley's name enough times today that I think you know what's coming. In our conversation, Bill shared a mindset shift that's worth every minute of your time. I put the video right here on the screen and let me know in the comments if you came from this episode. Enjoy more ways to save at Ralph's like low prices in every aisle.
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