SmartLess - "Ethan Hawke"

Episode Date: September 12, 2022

The uber-talented Ethan Hawke joins us this week on the wunderpod. We talk acting, directing, and of course, alternate Elvis realities. Plus Sean considers lawyering-up. It’s an aptitude for insanity... welcome to SmartLess.Please support us by supporting our sponsors!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Oh man, it is finally good to be here solo. You know, this is the way I always envisioned the podcast. And because it initially was called smart. And then when I added Sean and Jason, I had to add the less. And that was a, it was a whole thing. And they can, their whole thing is like, no, less is more. And I'm like, no, man, less is less. Anyway, welcome to smart less smart. Smart. Oh, where'd you go, Sean? Oh, so I went to go visit Will. And then I went on vacation with you. Jason. With me? When? Yes. Oh, no, Jason. My memory is not so good. Oh, Jay. Believe me. Jay, did you switch gummies? Not related, but did you switch gummies recently? Yeah, this one says memory suck on it. I got a deal. By the

way, by the way, speaking of memory suck, Sean, I don't know why it's not related, but I texted Jason last night or the night before I can't remember. Alone on discovery, that show about people being stuck out in the woods. Have you seen it? No, I want to see that. Jason's been trying to get me to watch it or both of us for a year at least. At least. Oh, yes. Jason, you told me about that. Yeah. I remember that. Dude. Is it so good? Yeah. Okay. I mean, it's kind of cinematic too, right? It's like, it gets all dark and creepy and the sounds and the little, what is it like naked and afraid or naked and afraid looks like a kind of like the difference kind of like survivor. It's kind of grab assy and you know, kind

of high jinksy. Yeah. That was me last night. Negative. Naked and afraid playing a lot of the grab house. I locked my keys. I locked my keys in the house and I thought everybody was skinny dipping and then, but anyway, the point is that this is people, Sean, they take 10 people, put them in the woods and whoever can last the longest with literally like a thing to not even a match. All I would think about is Blair Witch and I know, well, and there are people hilariously who are like, man, I'm going to give this bear a run for its money. And then, and then the guy doesn't even make it. They're all professional survivalists too. Wait, but dude, dude, if they're getting chased by a bear, it's like somebody from

the crew stepped in and there's no crew. There's no crew. You got a bunch of go pros. They have to film themselves. You have a bunch of go pros you have to set up. You're joking me. No, I got to watch this. It's pretty great. It's incredible. It's pretty great. I can't wait till you get to the two man teams. You're thinking bears. You're not, I'm not talking about Scottie. I'm not talking about Scottie. No, no, no, no, no. It's not a bunch of dudes. It's not bears chasing me. They don't, they haven't shot it inside raw hide at 21st and eighth. Okay. Listen, speaking of 21st and eighth, which takes me to New York, this is a segue beyond all segues. Guys, can I tell you something? I am really

excited because I don't know this person. We have had a passing hello, I think a few times over the years, but he's one of those people that I've always, I'm going to say it. I've always absolutely adored his career and what he does. Is he a bear? No, he is. No, no, no, no, he's not. He is just talented from the get. He's been doing it a long time and he's about all of our age, but he's been doing it and we've all been admiring him for a really long time. Not only has he been making movies and then directing movies and then writing movies and writing plays and writing books and then going back and doing this and that. He's been doing it a really long time. I can tell you

respect this guy. Like, you know, it's a certain look on his face. There's a certain listen, listen, listen, mystery guest. Before I meet you, just know that we'll, we'll actually is not phoning this one in. He, you've got, you've got something on him. It's true. He does. He does. He's impressed. I've always been like, oh man, that's, oh, that was so good. And everything he's done, he's really good. And he's done stuff that's been so different from, from where he started to where he is today. It's just, he's always mixed it up. And I think that that's the hallmark of somebody who's really curious and really talented that they keep trying to do different stuff. I mentioned the books and

the plays. And, you know, I mean, this guy, this guy, he, he, he versed on cannibalism in one of his movies. He, he stood on top of his desk and another one of his movies. He was trying to get to space, but he didn't have the right DNA. Another one of his movies. He's now got, he's, he's been doing this, he's doing this new series over on, I guess on Disney plus that's that right now. He's doing a film on Netflix. He's got most importantly a new documentary that he directed that is about Paul Newman. Join the word. It's Ethan Hawke. What?

No way. Oh my God. Ethan Hawke. Hey guys. Oh my God. Good morning. Wait, Ethan, I just watched the black phone. Is that what it's called? That's what it's called. You got it right. I just watched it last. It's, I've been telling everybody about it. You're amazing in that

movie. Well, thanks. Yeah. I love that movie. I just want to see it. I'm glad I got a legit intro from Will. I feel honored. You got a legit smile out of Sean Hayes. He's usually faking it. Most of the time. Smiles come easy to him, but that's genuine. Wow. It's such a pleasure and honor to meet you.

It really is. I mean, Ethan, we've never really met. We, I don't know if you remember, we one time read each other on the street in the West Village. You probably don't remember. At Ruhide? Yeah, Ruhide. At Ruhide. You remember? Yeah. No, we were, I was, who are you?

Wake, wake. I think you were with Sherm. I know John Sherman. Yeah. Yeah. I was wearing a shirt. I was wearing a Brian Jonestown massacre T-shirt. This is like 15 years ago and you just went, I said, saying hi to Sherm and then you went, Hey man, nice T-shirt. I was like, thanks. I was so psyched.

And Ethan, Ethan was in a tube top, a tasteful one. A tasteful one. Yeah. Now I was just talking with somebody yesterday about that Paul Newman documentary. I cannot wait to see it. I just started that. Let's talk about how, how did this, how did this happen for you, Ethan, this doc? Well, I was, it was like right before the pandemic started, I was getting out of the

shower in my apartment and the phone rang and I- Sean's got it. Sean's eyes are closed. He's got it. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Open up your eyes. Talk slower. Talk slower. No, I, I picked up the phone. You know how like now when the phone rings and you don't

know the person's name, you should never answer it, you know, because it's, well, I just decided what the hell, I picked it up and it turned out it was Paul Newman and Joanne Woodward's youngest child who got my number from a friend and she's like introduced herself and said, I really want you to direct a documentary about my parents. Nice call. And I based, my first thought was, how the hell do I get out of this? You know, it just sounded like so much work and, and I talked to her for a while about what she had and why she thought it would be good. And I tried to recommend some other people and she was

like, no, well, I'm asking you. I was like, well, I was like, let me think about it for a minute. And I just couldn't figure out a way to say no. When I first arrived in New York, fallen in love with acting, they were, I mean, not to be corny, but they had kind of a God-like status. You would see them sometimes at an opening and the fact that they both had achieved at such a high level in such different ways. You know, she was kind of like the actor's actor. She was teaching acting. She was obsessed with theater and ran her own theater company. And, you know, he was a card-carrying cinema luminary. And they'd been married for 50 years. So whatever

you think it can't be done, the image of Paul and Joanne would be in my brain like, wow, you could live a good life and be a decent person and make great art and have love. So I basically asked the kids if by doing this, was I going to find out anything that was really revolting, you know, like, I liked your image of them. Exactly. I loved my fantasy version. And I thought, is this remotely accurate? And they're like, yeah, it's remotely accurate. And anyway, I couldn't figure out a way to say no. So I said yes. And then almost three years went by. Right.

Wow. You know what's so crazy that you're on here. I always think this kind of stuff is nuts. Somebody just texted me like two days ago that I'm in that. I'm in that documentary. No way. Yeah. There's like a photo of me or something that they cut to at the theater in Connecticut. Isn't that fine? Really? Really? What bizarre. And then here you are on the show. Did you get a bump for that?

Some sort of an appearance. Yeah. Uh-oh. I'm now all of a sudden in legal hell. Wait till Sean gets lawyered up. Nobody likes to litigate more than Sean Hayes. Wait, so Ethan, this is amazing. So now here you are at 2022 and you've just spent the last three years of your life making a documentary about Paul Newman and Joanne Woodward. And let's really rewind to young… Weave on. Weave on.

Nice. By the way, nice. So now you're what? What's your first acting gig? Where are you not from New York? You feel like such a quintessential New Yorker to me. Where are you from? Where did you grow up? Well, I'm born in Austin, Texas. My parents split up and I traveled to my dad's state in Texas. So I'd spend the summers in Texas and my mom… How old were you when they split up? How old were you? Three.

Oh, okay. Yeah. We're not going to touch that then. No, no. You got over it fast. There's no pain. Yeah, no pain at three. No pain, no pain.

No pain. My mother bounced around a lot from Atlanta to Connecticut to Vermont to Brooklyn to New Jersey. So I graduated high school in Jersey. Just a series of bank robberies or what was she running from? Well, we'd have to ask her. Well, the truth is she was 18 when I was born. So she was trying to figure out who she was and kept changing jobs and changing her identity, so to speak. I mean, not as a bank robber, not literally her identity. No, but can you… You can imagine. I'm just saying that like I'm 52 and I'm still trying to figure out who I am. By the way, it's all too excited.

But you don't play a day over 35, though. You can't cast as old an artist, I mean, just looking at it. Maybe, maybe 39. 39, I mean… Yeah, but that's a stretch. But… No, it's funny. In your intro, you were talking about, you were saying nice things about me about curiosity and things like that. But I feel that way too. The whole time I was making

this documentary, I kept saying to the editor, I'm not a documentary filmmaker. I don't know what to do. I mean, I didn't know how to do this. And I do enjoy doing that, putting yourself in a position where you have that beginner's mind sensibility. Yeah. Yeah. Do you feel closer to it now? You know, there's only one thing I feel close to which is acting. That's the only thing I know anything about. The other, you know, writing, doing other things, it's a similar exercise. It's just storytelling, right? But I don't feel closer to it. It feels just as mysterious as it did.

You've done some directing though, haven't you? Yeah, a bunch. Yeah. And that you feel a closer pull to acting than directing, yeah? Well, the great thing about directing is you get to choose your material and you get to hire people. So everybody that you're working with are people that you like to be around. When you're an actor, you often get set on these sets where you're like, why is this guy such an asshole? And why is she, who hired her, you know, I mean, or you get into a situation where you really like the character or something, but the director envisioned it completely different

and your imaginations are like at war with each other. And that doesn't happen when you're directing. Yeah. Well, I was just going to say, but it strikes me. So again, like you get to go and you're directing some and directing a documentary some, all because probably a lot of it because of you've been so good at acting for so long. And again, this has happened a couple of times on the show, but you and Jason are similar in that you guys started young and you've continued and done great stuff. And they always used to sort of the dangers of being a child actor and blah, blah, blah. Both of you guys kind of sidestepped

a lot of that and stayed true to and have continued. And if everything you do keeps getting better and it's, and it's unusual. And that's not even a question that's more of a statement or an observation, but what was that moment? Cause I wanted to go back before, what was, what was the first thing you auditioned for? I mean, do you remember was it, were you saying to your mom, I need to audition for this? Or was she like, there's a part available? Yeah. Did you pursue it? Well, all right. I'll tell you, I'll try to do it fast. Jason, I'm sure you have your

story about, you know, child acting is dangerous. So a lot of the people that we came up with are dead, you know? I mean, And there's not a bunch of them that have, that are, that are still making a living. I mean, I, I don't say that to brag. I'm just, I'm so, I'm so proud of, of us, of, of anyone that can somehow navigate that, that transition from kid to young adult to, because it's so fickle and it's, it's not about who's good. It's just who can kind of stay like kind of semi-cool to hire. I don't mean to sound like a cynic, but you know, oftentimes it doesn't have anything to do with talent, I think.

Well, it has to do with, I don't think it has to do with talent. It does have to do with a little bit of your DNA, who brought you up, your ability to handle failure, your ability to grow from failure. You know, I saw, I talked to Martha Plimpton the other day on the phone and she's just grown up to be such a remarkable human being. But if you don't do the stuff on the inside, your talent dies, you know, or it just gets, it gets beaten up. My first, my mom, I didn't have a winter sport. My mom didn't get home from work till seven, so she needed me to do, you know, I needed to be doing something in the winter.

So she signed me up for an acting class at the Paul Robeson Center for Performing Arts in Princeton, New Jersey. And I went to this class and they had a guest speaker come who did like a little improv thing. And I really, I was a giant ham as a kid. And after class, he came up to me in the parking lot and he said, would you like to be, he was running the MacArthur Theater in Princeton. And he said, would you like to be in a play? I was like, sure. And I was done was pay and I carried a spear and I was, you know, in George Bernard Shaw's St. Joan. But I did this play and I just couldn't believe being around all these adults who are having so much fun. They were sitting there talking about God and love and

sword fighting and, you know, all this, they were having so much more fun than my parents were. I mean, they seem to be, I loved watching these people in rehearsal. And so after the play was over, I heard through a friend of mine about some open casting calls in New York. And I just started riding the train into New York with this other kid and going on to some of the big casting calls. And one of them was Explorers. How old were you when you were just let go to go on your own on a train into New York? 13. Wow.

Yeah. That's pretty crazy. Yeah. A lot of, I should say a lot of my friends, parents wouldn't let them sleep over at my house because they thought my mother was too lenient. Wait, was she? Was she? Oh, yeah. I mean, I went to New York, but I mean, I went to Europe by myself and rode the Uriel when I was 16, you know, in the summer. Yeah.

Yeah. She put a high value on independence. And I think if she'd had a different kid, I would have been in drug rehab or dead by 18. But for some reason it suited me. I really liked my independence. Well, you were lucky enough to find the thing that brought you joy at such a young age, which I think is key to success, you know? Yeah. Again, unusual. Not a lot of people get that. So Explorers is the first, your first film, is that it? First big gig, yeah.

Yeah. And who, that was it? With River Phoenix, directed by Joe Dante. Yeah. Wow. Yeah, it was River Phoenix. Is Dead Poets the thing that kind of broke you like into another category? You mean broke, like, not like killed me, but like, yeah. No, no.

Like broke your, like you broke into the business now. Yeah, definitely. The success of that movie gave me a career. Yeah, that's amazing. It's such a great film. So talk about why you're not, you know, a drug addict, robbing liquor stores and doing all that stuff, even though you were brought up in, you know, kind of a permissive house, it sounds like, in a good way. You were given rope to, like you were trusted till you gave your mom a reason not to, and you just ended up being okay. Now, can you take some credit yourself that you just kind of came out with a, with a, with a good head on your shoulders

and thank God for that? I just think it's a dance, isn't it? You know, I think a lot of us with the wrong parents could be in a really bad situation. Mm-hmm. Yeah. What leaps to my mind when you asked me that is I think about my oldest, Maya, she's acting, she's on Stranger Things right now. Oh, cool.

And wait, your daughter's on Stranger Things? Yeah. Which one is she? She plays Robin. Get on it. You got to be kidding me. No, man. I had no idea that was your daughter. She's fantastic. Sean, he's not kidding you for fuck's sake. Just take it.

Is this an honest interview, Sean? That's so cool. I didn't know that. Yeah. Well, so she's, she's a remarkable young woman and I did some things right and I did some things wrong and who she is is the person who is able to differentiate, right, and make sense out of her own life and. But did you give her that, did you give her that tool? I mean, well, the answer is probably is no. I mean, she's just.

I kind of think she was born with it. Yeah, exactly. Yeah, she's, you weren't going to stop her. I remember her at four years old being pretty sure that she was going to be an artist. I mean, it was just the way she related to water coloring. She showed her a photograph and she would change the composition of it. And if you read her a poem and she liked it, she would memorize it. I mean, she just anything that touched the arts was a part of her. And I didn't, did I give her that? I mean, here's an example for you about why it's a dance is we were having a hard time. I hope she doesn't

mind me saying this and she's in her early adolescence and I just decided, all right, we need to spend some time together. And I said, I had a, I had a week off and it was actually kind of funny. I actually wrote in the calendar that a movie was starting like on the 23rd of March and I was just wrong. It was starting the 30th. So I thought I was supposed to leave town and all of a sudden I was like, geez, I have a whole week with nothing to do. And I went to her and I said, listen, I know you're having a hard time with me and I'm getting on your nerves and everything. But I think the answer is let's go. I want to spend a week with you. Like I've got nothing to do for a week and I talked to your mom

and I'm going to take you out of school and we're just going to go be together for a week. And I said, I'll take you anywhere you want to go. Wow. And I was sure she'd say Paris or something. You know, I didn't know. First of all, what was the reaction to where I'm going to take you out of school? We're going to spend a week together. I don't think she liked spending a week with me, but she liked getting out of school. So it was, but she said, she said she wanted to go see Graceland, which completely shocked

me. I was like, why do you want to go to Graceland? She's like, I don't know, but she'd been watching Elvis videos on YouTube, you know, and she just loved him. And so I took her to Graceland and we walked into Sun Studios and she said, dad, look, and she showed me her arm and all the hair on her arm was standing up, you know, like that thing where you get shivers. Yeah. And she's like, do you feel it? Do you feel this room? And I remember thinking, I don't know if that's this room or her. Like the room is magical, but you have to have an awareness

of why it's magical for your hair. Like she understood what Sun Studios meant and she was and she cared about it and was interested in it. She understood what Sam Phillips is up to. And yeah, she understood a lot of that because I talked about it, but you, I talk about the Dallas Cowboys too and she doesn't care about that. You know, so it's, you know, these kids are who they are and they're influenced by us. Yeah. Yeah. And now a word from her sponsor. And now back to the show. I want to go back to when you were starting out because a question jumped in my head about

dry spells. Like, you know, when you're starting out as an actor and you said you did this play and it goes, that was kind of amazing and thrilling being around all those adults. And then I think in people's minds, people who are as successful as you, other people think, oh, it's just snowballed and it was great and I never stopped working. But there are always dry spells for actors, especially when you're starting out and you're younger. How do you get through those? Did you doubt yourself? How did you get through that doubt? And were you ever like, God, I can't find a job. Maybe this isn't working. Maybe I chose the wrong thing. You know, I say this a lot and people think

I'm kidding when I say it, which I guess is a compliment or something, but I've definitely was certain I was washed up at three different times. You know, there were three different chapters of my life where I was like, oh, wow, it's over. Like, I didn't, I didn't know it was going to end because when you, when you have success young, it hijacks your brain in a kind of negative way, which is that you kind of think, oh, the world's on my side. You know, like, oh, I got this. I was in dead poet society when I was 18. Like, that's my break. Now I'm a made man. And then all of a sudden four years go by and you do six other movies and they're all failures. And then you want to audition for some happening

movie and nobody even wants to let you audition because they've heard of you and they know they don't like you. You know, there's all these other 24 year olds that are just graduating college and now they're finding themselves. They're coming out of the, you know, they're just graduated from this drama program and everybody's really excited about them. Right. And they're like, no, we don't want that kid from dead poet society. I saw that terrible mystery date. He's awful. I remember, I remember overhearing some film exec like, like, like it was, I was in the bathroom and it was like a president, a paramount or something. And he was like, you know, America cast its vote for Ethan Hawke and he's not a movie star.

He'll never make it. And I remember going, oh my, it was that after a premiere of some movie I did, I was like, oh my God. And you come rushing out and go, what, what did they, where's the tallies? No, I hid inside there. Yeah, of course. People talk like that all the time. They love to write people off. You know, they're either building you up or tearing you down. You're either in the process of one of them. And I've had three different times where I really was scared. And because I love it. I love doing it. And I think the joke is that it's how you handle those moments when, because we're all constantly being asked to transition, you know, even, you know, now my beard's going

gray and, you know, I have to transition as an actor. I have to become a different actor. And if you try to stay the same person you were 10 years ago, you try to stick yourself in formaldehyde because people liked you then, you just die. You have to change and you have to be willing to let it all go, I think. Yeah, you end up being wrong for the part if you keep, if you stay in the same spot. If you stay in the same spot and how much, how much Ethan did you, so what year was it that you started Malaparte, your theater company? I was in the early nineties. Early nineties. Ninety-one. And where is that, Ethan? It was the theater company right after, you know, it was a couple

of years after Dead Poets Society and I had dropped out of college and. What city, but what city is it in? New York City. I took some of the money I made and just rented a theater on 42nd Street and I had a lot of brilliant friends, Josh Charles, Robert Sean Leonard, Jonathan Mark Sherman, Steve Zahn, a bunch of different men and women that were young artists and we just decided to dedicate ourselves to producing young people's work, you know, the work of our own generation and we put on these little plays. It was, it was a, it was a real sensation and I can tell you as an actor who had moved to New York in 1990 from Toronto and I didn't know a single person, it was very intimidating

because you guys had that. I knew some of the people in Naked Angels, you guys were kind of the answer to Naked Angels, you were like the next generation and you had all these great guys and doing all this amazing stuff. But I was thinking that must have given you quite a bit of, I was going to say respite, but at least something that you could get to sort of take your mind away from all the politics and the bullshit about being a movie star and actually just focus on doing your thing. Is that, is there any truth to that? You know, Jason, I wonder what you would, when we were talking about surviving being a young actor, what actually popped through my head is my friends. I had really good

friends. Yeah, Josh, Josh is a good choice for that. Is this such a good dude? Hello to Josh. He's such a, but when, when you have good friends who say to you, you sound really stuck up. Yeah. Oh, you've been, you know, you've been hanging out with your agent too long. You sound like you're on an interview and you have friends that you admire the way that they think about art or the way that they, I think that your friends can save your life. And if you don't have the right friends, I know like sometimes I've just feel so lucky that about the friends

that I made that they're the ones who kept me alive and kept me thinking. Amen to that. And also crossing paths with people that are behaving in a way that you recognize as a way that you don't want to be. That's also really important. Yeah. Actually, you know what? I'm glad you said that, Jason, you sound really stuck up. Oh, well, are we still rolling? Let me go again. No, but you know, you know, Ethan, I was thinking one of your friends that I knew, I know a lot of those guys from way back in the day, but one of the guys was Josh Hamilton. I remember what you remember when he did, because I was living with Missy Yeager was my girlfriend

at the time when they did our youth. Yeah, with Kenny Morgan and with Ruffalo and Josh was so brilliant in that man. He was so, so fucking good. It just made me think of 42nd Street. Yeah, exactly. I did Missy did a play with me at Malaparte. Yes, that's right. Ethan, you know, I always, I ask a bunch of people who come on this show who are in the theater, if you have any great like tragic, but funny theater stories that happen to you like one night, I'll share, I have one. I don't think I've shared it with you guys. One night just to display, it's called Good Night Oscar in Chicago. Hopefully it's going

to New York. And we're definitely inserting applause there by the way. And in the middle of the, in the middle of towards the end of the play, I have to play the piano every night. It's part of the story. And in the front row, there's two girls that were bombed, wasted out of their mind drunk. And while I'm playing, it's a really intimate like kind of moment in the play. And these girls, every time I just like, I would play like every 10 seconds, they'd go, right on! Way to go! Whoa, look at that! And it was like the rest of the audience was completely silent and the guys would come down and they tried to get on the stage. It was insanity.

You were doing this play in a theater there in Chicago? Yes, I was. Yes. They were in the front row bombed way. It was so, it was so. I have a, I have a lot of good theater stories, man. I'm trying to, I'll go with the front row. I did a play called Hurley Burley with Josh Hamilton, Bobby Kennavali, Parker Posey. Oh, Bobby Kennavali. A lot of great people. But the director had this idea that my character was kind of a drug addict, a Nerdy Well type, that, that I should be on the stage passed out as the audience enters. Right. So at the 20, when the doors opened, I would have to be, and

I had to be in my underwear. It was supposed to be like hanging off my butt. And I'm just in my underwear, completely collapsed on a living room couch, right? It's just supposed to be bombed. And people would come and sit down and they would see me and it was like they were looking at their television. They would just talk about me. Like I wasn't there. Cause the first couple of rows I could just hear, you know, he's a really terrible person. I read this article in People Magazine where he said this stupid thing. He's really a jerk. He's a real misogynist. And I'm like, and I'm having a listen. And I can't like, I want to lift up my head and say, I'm right here. Okay. That hurts my

feeling. And that's not true. Exactly. And, and it would be so painful. Ethan, Ethan, I want to just hijack for one minute interrupting, which is what I opened up with. I was just in town here getting a coffee with my middle son and my partner, my girl, we're getting coffee and this one comes by with her grandson and her son, whatever. She's standing, I'm going to say six feet from me. And she's looking at me, but talking to her son, she goes, I don't know. I can't really remember his name, but, but that's him. And I'm sitting having, and I'm stuck on a bench and she's six feet. And I just wanted to be like, Hey, you know, I'm alive.

I can hear you. I'm breathing right here. Puppet property. Anyway, so you're on the, by the way, who directed that version of Hurley Burley? Scott Elliott. Of course. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

And that's so funny. I had another time where my friend died on stage with me. How about that? Wait, what do you mean? Like literally? Like literally a great Canadian actor, Richard Easton, we had a scene in Tom Stoppard's coast of utopia where he had to scream at me, you know, I will not lend you any more money. He had this huge thing where his final line was, and that's my last word. No way. And as he, as he said it, his tongue fell out of his mouth the way like a brick would

fall out. Like something was so wrong. Oh my God. What? And then he, then he hit the ground like, you know, I mean. Face first. Face first. And, and I was so frozen. I could, I'm still, and I know, I literally just went through my stomach. Yeah.

The audience thought that that was part of the play, right? Because it kind of seemed, my final word and then he croaks and I'm standing there and I don't know what to, I'm looking at the audience and they're all laughing. And I just, my brain just went to the dark side. I was like, he's dead. He's, I mean, that guy, that guy is dead. My friend Richard is dead. And I don't know what to do. And Martha Plimpton was in the wings and she came out and she was so ballsy. She came out and she was just like, is there a doctor in the house? Is there a doctor in the house? And then some dude in the third row was like, I'm a doctor and

the rest of the audience is still laughing. Pediatrist, but I'm here. No, he was, and then the prop guy came out and they did, what do you call it? CPR. They did CPR on him. And so he was dead for seven minutes and they revived him at center stage, Lincoln Center. No way. Two story. Big applause.

No, the audience had been evacuated. There was no applause for life. That's a waste. Yeah. Wow. I'm glad we were laughing because it has a good outcome. Yeah. He survived and he actually returned to the show about two months later. Wow. What was it?

A heart attack or something? Yeah. He had a full blown heart attack right there at center stage. Wow. Hey, Ethan, I've got a question for you. Something that is, I would assume is unique to young, young actors that become adults. Something that I sort of battle with or struggle with, but I remember it being a challenge. I wonder if you had the same thing. When you start training yourself to be convincing as another person at a time when you're still trying to figure out who you are or who you're going to become, right? As a child, you know, we

don't really figure out who we're going to be like to what, 16, 17, something, whatever the hell it is. So you're trying on all these different roles and really trying to be believable. And so that's causing you to really try to find that place inside of you that's kind of like that character. So it started to develop for me sort of like a manageable form of schizophrenia, right? Like a monetizable version of schizophrenia. But it sort of confused my path to identity and who I really was when I wake up in the morning or go to bed at night. Did you ever

deal with any of that starting as young as I did, training yourself to be somebody other than who you were organically becoming? Absolutely. I mean, you know, I mean, I had that, I mean, for example, when I was doing dead poet society, my character is extremely shy, right? He's extremely, and so you're accessing the part of yourself that is really shy, right? Like, well, what am I like when I'm really shy? And you start, it's almost like, oh, it sounds really corny to say, but you know, you hear those Buddhist guys say, just if you just make yourself smile for half an hour, you

actually are in a good mood. And it does work. You can kind of hardwire your brain. Well, you can hardwire your brain for a lot of different things. And if you're doing a daily meditation on why a human being might hate themselves and not feel like what their words are worth anything, and you're accessing that part of yourself. Yes, you know, you're more than that. But it's kind of like you're wiring your brain to highlight that part of you. And I really struggled with that when that movie was over. And this has been an ongoing theme of my life of trying. I think actors spend a lot of time inviting, you know, how to get into character, right? You hear people say that all the time and see spent all this energy inviting depression,

anger, madness. It's most confusing with the darker emotions, right? You invite them in. But then what are you supposed to do with them once you've invited them into your psyche to play? And I found that I found that extremely difficult. And if you're talented, you have an aptitude for this. And it's actually an aptitude for insanity. You know, for sure. And I think the big lesson for young actors is if you're going to really think about character, you have to start to think about your own character. Well, it's, you know, it's so interesting because I'm really I'm obsessed with the black phone. I thought it was such a great movie. And I'll watch it again, like it's

one of those movies I'll watch again and again, where you you actually I didn't know anything about it. And as I'm watching the movie, you're playing this crazy kidnapping silence of the lambs kind of guy. And I didn't think you I didn't think the character would be as dark as it is. I mean, you actually kill children. Yeah, like you kill them. And I was like, how in the world do you find this person? Like, how in the world did you find out how to play that guy? Because it was scary as shit. Maybe you don't want to know, Sean. Okay, maybe maybe just ask the wrong question guy. Maybe he's fucked with the wrong guy. And she drop your mic and pack your shit, Sean. Start running out. Where do you live?

I want to come over. It was really scary. No, you know, I, I don't really know how to answer that question, except that I feel as I get older, that acting at its best is a kind of shamanistic process. And that might sound pretentious or whatever. But it is you as a dude, like if everybody's sitting around the campfire, you like get up and you tell a story and you do a dance and you it's and you're kind of inviting these other spirits to be a part of the story in some way. It's you, you, you are a shaman that is kind of part of the job. And learning to invite different emotions in and letting them flow in and out makes a good storyteller. It's you have to know who you are. And I'm lucky what I did

on that job, for example, is I just every day I get home from work, I would just go on a walk with my kids because the dad, the dad gene in me is way more powerful than the actor gene in me. Yeah, you know, like, and it, I know who I am in relationship to them very well. I'm their father. That's all that matters. And are we eating? Are we learning to tell the truth? Are we taking care of one another? All those really simple but now things it's kind of like a grounding wire for me. But I don't really know how to answer it. You know, it's funny. It occurs to me you touched on it that, you know, that your character in Dead Poets Society was, you know, very sort of shy. And then you had said earlier when

you were, when you first started taking acting part of this theater, when you were a kid in Princeton, that they, that you were actually quite a ham and whatever. And I've always thought of you, I don't know you again, but I've always thought of you as kind of a shy guy. And I wonder if it's because of that impression. I just went around to all three of you guys. And I was thinking like, Sean, the character that you first like sort of introduced you to the world was your character on Will and Grace, who was very kind of crazy and all over the place. And Jason, you were kind of a wise ass. I knew you from, it's your move before we became friends when you did that. And you were like this wise ass.

And that's maybe how you're introduced to the world is that thing. And a lot of people knew me just from the first thing they knew me for was probably A Rest of the Velma, where I played this insane magician who was over the top and illusionist. Thank you. And you know, like that, that you get kind of, and I was thinking you get typecast, not just for work for life. Yeah. Well, I always say that, you know, the thing about being an actor that nobody tells you is it robs you of the ability to make a first impression anymore. So interesting. You meet people and they have a first impression. And for some people, I don't, there was a whole

group of people when I was younger that hated me because they hated the guy from reality brights. You know, they think Troy's a jerk. I don't like you. You think you're so cool. You know, and you're like, what man? I'm like, dude, I played the character, you guys. When you relax, like, I didn't steal Winona from Ben Stiller. Like, you don't have to be mad at me. Dude, that's funny. But Will Ferrell used to do that. If you go with Will, people would be like, Hank, Hank, and they attack him and you end up being security for Will because people are like, we're going to party and drink and run down the street naked now. Right? He's like, no, man, I've got fucking four kids. What are you doing?

And we will be right back. And now back to the show. Hey, Ethan, talk about your, talk about your relationship with fame and success, I put in quotes, because, you know, in my opinion, you've hit the gold medal with success as far as longevity goes. Like that, to me, that's the tough thing to do. Like, you know, all you need nowadays is just a sex tape to get your head above the titles and to get a lot of money. So that's, you know, to get fame and money, it's, it's sex. So, yeah, anything else. Yeah, just mean, just some shots of me. Sorry, I was just talking to my assistant

real quick. So you strike me as somebody who is completely fulfilled with, with what you do, the level that you do it. You've never seemed to be a person that has had a thirst for fame, fortune, recognition, celebrity. You're, you're, it seems that you've always been on a quest to be an actor that's working and also an actor that's respected. And not that that is, you know, a contrived agenda, but it is just a great result of the choices that you make. Is that something that you give a lot of thought to? Or is it just sort of, well, I just kind of get the roles that I get. And the perception is what it is. It is not something of my making

it's not a, it's not a recipe that I've, I've got my eye on and not something that you're, you're proactive at. Well, our life is how we spend it. And so I think I could easily say, oh yeah, it's no big deal. But no, I put a lot of thought. I'll give you an example when you were saying that I, did you guys see the new Elvis movie? No, yeah. I haven't seen it yet. It's funny because Elvis is interesting to me because you know how when Tarantino makes

biopics, he changes the ending, you know, like, yeah, yeah. Well, I'd like to do an Elvis movie that ends right when the kernel, you know, when, when Sun Studios is exploding and Elvis is breaking, the kernel signs them up. They leave Sun Studios. He signs the biggest contract in music history with RCA. And I would make a strong case to be made that he died that day, you know, that, that, that when the object of your life becomes about succeeding versus what you are succeeding about, because if his goal in life was to make beautiful music, there is no doubt that he should have stayed with Sam Phillips. He, he loved African American music. He loved what Sam Phillips was doing there. All his success came from

singing black music and he should have stayed there and helped other musicians. And I mean, it's easy. I'm not, I'm using him as an example, right? I'm not casting judgment on the dead. What I'm saying is like, I think the path to longevity, like this is what I said to Maya is like, she wants to be an actor. I'm like, okay, how do you feel if you're 63 and you're teaching, acting at a prep school in Seattle? She's like, Oh, that'd be amazing. Right. Okay. The second she says that it's all going to go fine. Yeah, right. It's, it's all going to go fine. And you have to, my point about the Elvis thing is if his goal was making music, yeah, he made the wrong decision. It doesn't matter what the price

tag from RCA was, you know, he would have been the biggest thing in rock and roll, wherever he was. He didn't understand that he had the ball. He had the talent. Sam Phillips had the talent. They were going to change music. Music was going to change, right? That was going to happen. And he could have, he just put the car before the horse, you know, and so what I try to do with decision making about parts and things like that is if your focus is on how it develops you as a person, how it develops your art, how it develops your life, then there's things, I knew, like, for example, I was making a joke about wanting to say no about the Newman Woodward documentary, but I knew that that would be good for me.

Right. I mean, these, these are people that dedicated their whole life to the same thing I've tried to dedicate mine to. They did it at a much higher level for a lot longer. And here I am. I was turning 50 when I got that phone call and it felt like, well, the universe has given me a little challenge. Like, Hey, ready? Can you do this? And I knew, I didn't want to do it. Like, I have no desire to be like a documentarian. That's not my goal in life, but the universe is, I'm not in charge of everything. It's dictating it to me. I knew that meditating on these two people for as long as it took would probably do good things to my life. And it definitely did.

So if I'm hearing you right, it sounds like you've got a very clear idea about what, what the road looks like that fulfills your, sorry for the term, your, your soul creatively, spiritually, and you're letting you just fucking say soul. I apologize. And that's informing your decisions. And that it would also seem like you would probably and have probably lived your life in such a way where you're not creating things in your life that are at odds with your ability to follow that instinct. In other words, you don't have some choking overhead number in your life. Like, Oh my God, you know, my, my six houses and my, you know, my 17 cars mandate that I don't, don't fall for Jason's always trying to get to everybody's

overhead number that you're, that, you know, that, that, that dictates that you have to take that soul crushing starring role in something that just gives you a big paycheck and then consequently probably leads to career suicide. So you haven't set yourself up for any of those trappings, even though I'm sure you live a very comfortable life, you're, you're letting, you're letting your, your, your other stuff dictate your career choices. Yes. Yes. And now we're back to the like nature nurture, you know, as you say that, like my mom is an anti materialist. Like she's, she is suspect of anyone who spends too much money on an automobile or jewelry or anything, any exterior show of an accumulation of wealth

or status, right? She's, she's allergic to it and suspicious of it immediately. That's the house I was growing up in. So if I had met the colonel, you know, if I was Elvin, like I would, I mean, he's a shyster, right? Yeah. You know, and, and Elvis didn't have that in his life. I don't know why I'm talking about Elvis so much, but, but my point is, yes, I think that, you know, we all want to be able to have a decent roof and pay for our kids' health. You know, we all want that. But if you're not comfortable with like a middle class aesthetic and you really want 80 million pairs of shoes and stuff, you're going to get in trouble if you're not a genius.

Yeah, Sean. Yeah. Yeah, Sean. Hey, Sean, for every pair I buy, I could work. Hang on. I do want to, I do want to say, so Ethan, I'm Jason, I'm glad you brought that up because it, you know, if you look at the movies that you've made, you've made over the last 30 years, a lot of different films in, in, in a lot of different genres. Tons of commercial movies, as well as. Yeah. Tons of commercial, yeah. Tons of commercial, but also like, you know, you made, first of

all, I want to talk about Gattica. I love, I think a really underappreciated film. That is a great, and I've seen it probably three or four times. I just love that, man. What was, what drew you to that? But I've always wanted to talk about that movie. Andrew Nickel wrote, that was one of the best scripts I've ever read. I mean, if, if we're, if we weren't talking about great art, like sci-fi really opened up my life too. Like when I read Kurt Vonnegut as a kid, Tolkien, Philip K. Dick, you know, these things make your brain challenge society and what society throws at you as truth. And Gattica was just a staggering script. And I'm so happy that you say that because, you know, when that movie came out,

it was a failure. But over the last 20 years, it's found its audience. And I've always thought Andrew Nickel is one of the, just one of the best writers I've ever come across. So, so good. Yeah. No, I saw it in the theater and I've seen it subsequent in all sorts of. When you, when you are, because you're so immersed in everything that you love to do, the theater, the film, writing, what do you do to escape it if you ever need to? I know you like music, right? You're a big music guy. Sports, you'll follow the sport. What do you like? I think one of the secret blessings of my life, I'm just a huge fan. You know, I mean,

I love music. I love movies. The reason I've been able to work in so many different genres of movies I think is I actually really like them all. You know what I mean? People can always tell if you're, oh, you know, if you're a cash in and they smell, they smell it when you don't like what you're doing. And so music is my secret great passion, listening to records over and over again, finding new music. I'm not, I have no aptitude for that art. Like I'm not good at it. So I can just geek out and be a fan and love what they do. Do you ever play anything? Yeah, I play the guitar badly. Both my oldest two, Maya and Levon, are both actual musicians

and they've lapped me so much that it's now embarrassing to play the guitar in my house because they play so well. But no, I love it. Who would you pay top dollar for a ticket to go see concert? Wow. Besides Elvis? Besides, well, if I could get Elvis back from the dead, that'd be really good. There's so many people, you know, Ethan Hawke says he wants to get Elvis back from the dead to give him advice on how to

deal with the Colonel. No, Hamilton Lighthouse is from the, he was the lead singer of The Walkman and he did the score for the last movie stars that Doc I just did. And he's just brilliant. I highly recommend people buy his music. He's just underrated and incredible. Brilliant. Brilliant, brilliant dude. I feel like we have a lot of similar, Ethan's like a lot more successful slash curious slash like artistically inclined and gifted. Don't forget handsome. Me.

Hands more handsome than me. He's just got all this, I know it's amazing. He's like a way more interesting. And he could play even younger. And I'm like a 10 times more interesting, but no, I'm just saying that it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter. We're not going to get into it. So, so, but, but then you do, here's the other thing I want to talk about. So you do things like Gattica and I don't want to belabor this too much, but I love it. And then you make these link later, these movies with Richard Linklater, you guys have this amazing, seemingly amazing relationship with

him and with Julie Delpy. And how many of those films did you guys, which you also wrote three, three. Yeah. Which you also wrote. Mm hmm. I mean, talk about a complete shift from working with Andrew Nick on doing Gattica to doing these movies. And then you do training day with Denzel and Antoine Foucault. I mean, this is, these are, you know, you're getting whiplash for it with the different genres

here, but seemingly all stuff that you're really into and can do with, with ease. Well, I would, it's certainly not easy, but I, I don't know how to answer, how to speak to that. That writing thing is that the writing, tell me the writing thing is hard. Don't tell me the writing thing is easy. Isn't that like just staring at a wall, trying to fill a blank page and just you're overwhelmed with all the options available to you? And how do you reduce that down and right at the level that you're writing? I think it's really important for young actors to write because it gets some, you know, that

whole thing we're saying about character and about who you are. And if you're constantly interpreting other people's words, it's extremely valuable to know what your words are. It doesn't need to be for publication. It doesn't need to be, but just, just the ability to hear your own voice. And I, I think we'll answer what you were saying. My mom had this quote above the toilet when I was growing up, which is, if you improve in one talent, God will give you more. And the other one was to, to master one craft, you have to apprentice three. I have one over the toilet. It says, please be neat and wipe the seat. But the point I'm trying to make is that for me, all these things fed each other. Like

if you're sitting in a Monte Carlo for four months with Denzel Washington, working with him at a very high level, you don't unsee that, right? And you bring that with you on your next job. So when Linkletter wants me to do this 12 year project, we're going to make a short film about growing up and I'm going to be acting with this young kid over 12 years, I can bring what I've learned from the time on set with Denzel. He creates, he doesn't wait for people to create a creative atmosphere for him to work. He makes it happen, right? And it's, and once you see that that's possible, it opens up doors, you know, getting to be

in a rehearsal room with Tom Stoppard and getting to see like how he obsesses on every consonant and vowel and the way the whole thing works like a poem and seeing writing at that level, Sam Shepard getting to be around these people. If you're paying attention, you bring it with you on the next job, you know? And I was really grateful, you know, Rick invited Julie and I to write those movies with him. And, you know, you guys saw Days of Confused, right? I mean, it was so exciting to be working with somebody of our generation who wasn't imitating other people. He was asking this question like what is our generation, you know? What are we contributing? How can we push the forum

forward? And so, yeah, you're a student of what happened before to understand how they moved their time period, but not to imitate them, but to be present in your own generation. Dude, I fucking love that so much. I'm such a big proponent of the same. There's nothing for me. I always talk about it in comedy, but I hate anything that feels too derivative. I rail against often to these guys about other people who I feel like are kind of, not just I don't even mean stealing somebody's bit. I mean, just kind of doing their thing. Stealing their attitude, yeah. Stealing their attitude and it bums me out on such a profound level. And I often have to be talked off the ledge by these guys for being such a crank about

it. It causes me physical pain when they make money at it. Yeah, same here, man. Same here. Makes me fucking crazy. I'm gonna send you my list. If you see my, if you, one of the things I'm so proud of Maya about as Robin on Stranger Things is it's proof of this idea that you don't have to try to be original. If you are yourself, you will be original. Stop imitating everybody else. She brought herself and what she has to offer to this character. And all of a sudden I haven't seen that character in film before. It's a unique person. And that's, and when, when you see a comedian, a musician, anybody bring themselves, you know, then they are originating. Yeah.

And it's inspiring. It's so exciting. Oh man. I tell you what, Ethan, thank you so much for your, you, we've taken up so much of your time. Thank you. Please keep staying original. Keep staying curious. Yeah. Yeah. Love watching you do what you do, man. It's such an honor to have you here. You're very, very inspiring. Really inspiring. I'm so glad to finally speak to you and meet you. I can't believe we, our paths haven't, haven't crossed more significantly till now. I know. I'm a big fan of you guys and you're why I did the show. And I love the fact that you guys are, you know, the thing about being the surprise guest is you guys don't have prepared questions and when will you do an interview and you can sense

exactly what the interviewer wants you to say. Do you remember in 1998, you told Rolling Stone magazine, remember, remember, say that again. Right. Right. Right. Right. Yeah. No, we're just, we're just three dummies trapped in an elevator with you and we've got, we've got you trapped for an hour. And, and we also, I think all of us understood when you said, you know, it's about the friendships and we're lucky that we get to do this cause we're all friends and I love these guys and we get to spend a lot of time together and that's a blessing, man. Yeah. So, Ethan, thanks for doing this. It's great to hear you talk. Thanks for having me, everybody. Appreciate it. Such a pleasure. Thank you, man. Have

a good rest of the day. All right, you too guys. Take care, buddy. See ya. So I think he might be top on the list of, uh, I, I want to be friends with him at the end of it. Like, yeah, I mean, I want to be friends with a lot of people that we meet on the show, but he might be tip top. He just seems so damn great. Yeah. Yeah. So cool. And he, you know, he's got this new, uh, docu series as he talked about the, what is it, the last movie stars on HBO, uh, yeah, the last movie stars HBO Max. I mean, uh, he's just like, of course, of course they came to him. Of course, uh, uh, Paul Newman joined, his kids came to him because he's just, like you said, he's cool. You want to

hang out with him and he's the kind of guy you'd want telling, you know. Do you want to see that documentary just cause there's a photo of me in it? Hmm. Again, he didn't really react to that. Do you notice that? Cause I mean, I don't think Ethan's seen it. No. Yeah. I don't think he's seen it. But he kind of, he kind of nodded. And I think that he was sort of, I think he thought like, I don't think he's positive who you are. No. By the way, I don't disagree with you. It's the hell in the glasses. Yeah. Um, but seriously, his, his brain, his, his soul spirit, whatever you want to call it seems just. Is this the second time today you brought up soul?

Soul, yeah. What's happening to you right now? I'm just trying to get myself to a place where I can say his heart and everything just seems so bionic. Bionic! Bionic! I don't think we've used that one. Bionic! Bionic! Smart. Lass. Smart. Lass. SmartLass is 100% organic and artisanly handcrafted by Bennett Barbaco, Michael Grant Terry, and Rob Amjarf. SmartLass.