Sunday Sitdown with Willie Geist - Jim Gaffigan on the Craft of Comedy and His Bourbon Born Out of Chaos
Episode Date: November 23, 2025Jim Gaffigan is a stand-up comedian, bestselling author, writer and acclaimed actor whose 11 specials and countless viral bits have made him one of the most beloved voices in comedy. Jim sits down wit...h Willie Geist in front of a live audience to look back on his unlikely journey from a small town in Indiana to selling out arenas and starring in films and television. Plus, he opens up about the moment David Letterman helped launch his career, the inception story of his Fathertime Bourbon, and why the creative process still drives him after more than two decades on stage. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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Hey guys, Willie Geist here with another episode of the Sunday Sit Down podcast.
My thanks, as always, for clicking and listening along.
Got an extra special one for you this week.
A Sunday Sit Down live conversation with the hilarious Jim Gaffigan.
You might remember we had a Sunday sit down live with Nate Bargettze earlier this year
and then one with Ina Garten all in front of a live audience of you, the viewers,
at City Winery in New York City.
City Winery is our gracious host and sponsor for these events.
We love having a good comedian in there.
Nate was hilarious.
We thought Jim would be the same, and man, does he deliver as you're about to see?
Jim's got his own line of bourbon out.
That's the level of his success right now.
He loves bourbon, discovered it over the pandemic, as you're about to hear.
And so decided, hey, what does it take to get into the business?
It's called Father Time Bourbon.
So we thought we'd sit down, have a long conversation about his business.
his life, career, about his family and food, which tend to be the two most prominent subjects of
his own comedy, and do all that over a glass of Father Time Bourbon. He also had a little surprise
for the audience of you, the Sunday Today viewers who came once again, we were so moved from
far and wide. People coming from Texas and California and Atlanta and Chicago and Canada and
Florida all over the country to come see us and to see Jim Gaffigan. You know who Jim is. I don't
have to tell you. He's one of the most popular stand-up comedians in the world, one of that rare
collection that includes Nate Bargatsy of guys who can just sell out not only theaters, but arenas
as they go on these tours. So just one of the all-time great guys, famously has a large family
of five. Those kids are the source of much of his comedy. And is the youngest of six,
himself so he knows from big families. So a great conversation at City Winery in New York City
right now in front of a live studio audience, a Sunday sit-down live with Jim Gaffingen right now
on the Sunday Sitdown podcast. I feel I feel kind of bad that we're up here drinking the
finest bourbon that's ever been made. So I have a surprise. Every audience member here
is going to receive a new car.
Wow. What a moment.
Well, instead of a car, we're going to give you a sample of Father Time Bourbon.
Wow.
Now, if you have a drinking problem, understand that I'll give you a couple more.
This is the real stuff, guys.
This is the Real Stuff.
You can drink it now or not.
Whatever you want to do to save it for later.
Oh, I see some people are diving right in.
It's good.
The important thing is to keep it smooth.
Yes.
It's smooth.
And this is an American whiskey.
Oh, you're getting a lot of thumbs up on the front row here.
It's good stuff, good stuff.
How is it, guys?
We like it.
It's all your face.
Good, yeah.
Delicious, right?
Yeah.
There you go.
She doesn't drink bourbon, but she loves it.
Fantastic.
I'm bringing people together.
Yes, you are.
Yes, you are.
So guys, as you enjoy your bourbon, I want to hear the story of this bourbon,
which is called Father Time. It's Jim's Bourbon.
It's not Father Time, like, the guy who controls time and the guy who never loses all that stuff.
It's different.
Or even that special time that a father will spend with their child.
This is the father time that someone enjoys when they're away from their kids.
Oh, it's father time.
It's father time.
Oh.
It's that time.
And the slogan is a father's joy is earned.
Because how I ended up here is during the pandemic, my wife and I had, we were in a house with all these kids.
We have five kids.
They're now 13 to 21.
I'm living in a psych ward.
And we started this ritual of having a bourbon every night.
And so I was so inspired by that
that I wanted to share that ability
to enjoy a bourbon with the world.
And so how does one begin to create his own bourbon?
Because we've all had that thought.
It'd be fun to create my own bourbon.
Step one is what?
The most important step is acknowledge that you need help.
And the reality is there are a lot of celebrity spirits,
But I was lucky enough, my college buddy, Stu Pollard, he is from Kentucky,
and he had some contacts in the bourbon world.
And so I went down and sampled multiple bourbons, which is a sacrifice.
I was trying, I tried like a hundred.
And so then we selected a couple.
We got, again, we got a lot of help.
And we developed a precious batch.
our fourth batch. There's
different, and I feel like it's getting better
and better, which is super exciting,
because obviously there are celebrity
spirits, and some of them are garbage.
Yeah. And you were going to list
some of them that are garbage. I know you want to say...
No, I mean, it's like some people go into
things for different motives. I
truly love the American whiskey
world. I love every
aspect of it. You know, my
bourbon obsession is less about
having a drinking problem.
It's more of, I find it fascinating.
Yes.
And as I look out in the audience, I see there's some guys who either drink a lot of bourbon
or have stopped caring what they look like.
Or both.
Yes.
Those are not mutually exclusive.
So you go down there, you do the tasting, you get this thing up and running.
And were you ever worried about the critics who were going to say,
you're just another handsome Hollywood actor trying to create a buck on the back of his fans?
Clooney with Casamigos.
Ryan Reynolds with aviation.
Did you ever worry about that stereo?
I was very mindful of that,
but I also did not approach this as a money-making exercise,
meaning I certainly don't want to lose money,
but it's not like I'm working with some big investors.
It's really just me and a college buddy
that are focusing way too much time and energy on this project
to the annoyance of our wives.
Well, and you know Jim's committed to this
because he's got a comedy special
that's going to stream on YouTube
on the 23rd of November
the same day that this interview airs
on Sunday today, live at Old Forrester.
This is the bourbon set.
Yes.
And I watched it today,
and it's an entire set 30, 40 minutes
of all bourbon jokes.
And only he could pull that off.
It's, yeah, it's one of those,
stand-up is all self-assignment.
but there was no one that was like,
hey, when is a comedian going to do a show about bourbon?
I just have, you know, I focus, I've always obsessed on certain topics,
whether it be bacon or hot pockets or bacon.
And so then I had like 10 minutes of bourbon jokes,
and I was like, you know what, I'm just going to do, see how long I can go.
And so it's around 43 minutes.
But it's also, it's so niche that I didn't even approach the Netflix or the, you know, the Hulu or the Amazon.
I was like, I'm just going to, you know, put this on YouTube for people that might be interested.
Because, again, I want people to know it is just about bourbon.
So if you're not interested or you're looking for brandy or tequila jokes, there aren't any.
But if you like whiskey,
I think you'll get a kick out of it.
It's very funny, and you pull it off,
and you're at home with these barrels behind us, too,
because that's kind of the energy of this special as well.
I love it.
There's a story in there, if you don't mind,
retelling it.
I want to blow the host special about your love of bourbon,
and now your appreciation for fine bourbon.
You're out on the road on this arena tour,
you and Jerry Seinfeld.
You walk into a hotel bar and what happened.
And Jerry, you know,
doesn't really drink.
I don't know if you're aware,
but Jerry Seinfeld is very poor.
He kind of is, you know, check to check, really.
It's an industry secret.
No, Jerry did very well.
Jerry doesn't really drink,
but he knows that I enjoy bourbon.
And when we were checking into our hotel,
I think after the Charlotte show,
there was a bar in the lobby,
and Jerry said, hey, why don't we get a drink?
You can get a bourbon.
And Jerry actually sounds like that, right?
And so as we walked over to the bar, we've seen it.
Here we are at, you know, at City Winery.
They have beautiful walls of all these bottles.
And this bar had probably 100 bottles.
And at the top, I saw a bottle of King of Kentucky, which is a very rare.
Initially, it was only released in Kentucky.
And I thought maybe I should get that, you know.
But I knew it would be expensive, maybe 75, 100%.
bucks, but then I realized, you know, Jerry Seinfeld can handle that.
So as we sat down, Jerry said, get whatever you want. And I thought, oh, I'm gonna.
And Jerry got a cabasier, and I ordered the king of Kentucky, and I watched this bartender,
climb this ladder up, and she grabbed the bottle, she brought it down, she poured it,
and she handed it to me, and I tasted it, and it was pure euphoria. You know, I felt like I was
the King of Kentucky, which is kind of ridiculous because we all know that's Colonel Sanders,
right? And so I had an epiphany in that moment. I was like, I should have Jerry Seinfeld
try King of Kentucky. Jerry will become a bourbon drinker because of me, and then Jerry and I
can go out drinking expensive bourbon, and Jerry can pay for it. So I said, Jerry, you got to try
this. And he tastes it and he goes, I don't like it. It's not good. But get another one if you want.
and I thought, oh, I'm going to.
And I got another one.
And then the check came, and I noticed Jerry was looking at it kind of strange.
And I was like, is there an issue?
And he goes, you're king of Kentucky's cost $500 a pop.
Wow.
Now, there are a couple of things you can do in that situation.
And I should also point out that Jerry is a friend, but someone I respect.
So I could have said, Jerry, that's ridiculous, let me pay.
But all I said was, sorry, Jerry.
You know?
And that's a true story.
That's a true story.
The only thing I made up is I've never met Jerry Seinfeld.
You know?
By the way, after watching that today,
I looked up King of Kentucky.
And if you can find a bottle,
wow, it's three grand or something like that.
Yeah, it's a really, it's a real special one.
Yeah.
That I feel about King of Kentucky
how most parents feel about their children.
Your mom before this was like, stop being so mean to your kids.
Where's my mom?
Mom, are you up there somewhere?
Jody, where I said, Mom, look, it's Jim.
She said, stop being so mean to your kids.
Yeah.
The good news is that my children, all the things I say,
I don't have to feel guilty because they have no interest in my comedy.
Hey, they're not going to see it.
They're never, they're, I'm more concerned about accidentally posting a photo
where they appear in it on Instagram
than me saying something in my stand-up.
Right, the millions will see on Hulu or wherever it is.
I want to talk about your kids in a minute
and how they fit into your act.
And Gina, your wonderful wife.
But I'm interested in the genesis of your comedy,
which is youngest of six kids,
Chesterton, Indiana.
Yes.
Previously known best for the Wizard of Oz Festival, I believe.
Yes, there is.
And now they have Gaffing in,
so they got rid of the Wizard of Oz Festival.
I did they get rid of it. That's actually true.
So was it being the youngest of six that made you funny in a call?
It's an old story, right?
Like, you needed attention in the house and you had to act out a little bit?
You know, I don't know.
I mean, there is a lot of youngest kid comedians.
Yeah.
But then again, I think Chris Rock is the oldest, right, of a large family.
So I don't know.
I mean, I feel like it's, you know, and I grew up in a small town, so there was not anyone in the entertainment industry.
There was not even a newscaster or, you know, someone from a local affiliate thing.
It was Chicago was a good hour and 15 minutes away. So it was the closest thing to the entertainment industry was the high school marching band, which is, was very prestigious.
Yeah. Yeah. But, yeah. So I don't know how I ended up.
up here. I think that
I did
always love comedy.
I grew up loving
Letterman. I remember laughing at
Phyllis Diller on
the Mike Douglas show.
So I've always
had an affinity for it, but I didn't think
it was a realistic pursuit. And you come
from a family where your dad works at a
bank and you wear a tie and you go to work
and that's how life is.
You're certainly not going to be a comedian.
No, no. Like on the, on the, on
father time, on the bottle of father time, is my grandfather, Joseph Patrick Gaffigan. And he was,
he made dentures. And I remember growing up thinking, okay, he made dentures. That's great. But in a way,
it's the, the reason he's a hero is because he had stopped this cycle of Gaffigan's kind of
working in coal mines. Not that there's anything wrong with working in a coal mine, but Joseph's father said
you can do anything, but you can't work in the coal mine.
So because of my grandfather, Joseph, my father was able to go to college.
And so then my father, going to college, allowed me to be a comedian that tells diarrhea jokes.
It's a real American story.
This is the dream.
This was the dream.
Out of the coal mines and here telling these jokes.
But you did kind of stay on the path of a, you know, you majored in front of, you know,
finance at Georgetown of like, okay, comedy's fun, but I got to get serious about life.
I was definitely raised to seek security and, you know, success was wearing a coat and tie.
But, you know, the great irony is all my siblings that went into finance.
I make a lot more than them.
So.
And I was, I was the weird sibling like, oh, Jimmy and his house.
for a long, for a good 20 years.
Because, of course, there was a lot, you know,
and my brother Joe was nice enough to fly me home for Thanksgiving many times.
And I've never paid them back.
No, but it's, it's, yeah, it's, I feel very fortunate, you know.
But, you know, it really comes down to the creative fulfillment,
which is so rewarding, which is why I did this bourbon set is,
Hopefully people will enjoy it, but in the end, it was the process that was so rewarding to me.
Hey, guys, thanks for listening to the Sunday Sit Down podcast.
Stick around to hear more from Jim Gaffigan right after the break.
Welcome back now more of my conversation with Jim Gaffigan.
So you go, you start in state, you go to Purdue.
You play football for a couple of days or weeks.
Was it weeks?
I think it was 10 days.
10 days.
Yeah.
10 days.
All time leading Russia and school history.
All time.
I mean, Drew Brees went there, but, like, who's a better football player?
I don't know.
Yeah, so it was...
But then you go to Georgetown.
You transfer to Georgetown, major in finance, and you come here, and you're out in the world.
You're working in advertising, doing the job with the suit and tie.
So when does the idea of getting up on a stage become real for you?
When do you start doing that?
I had a very romantic notion of being.
a comedian, but I didn't know anyone in the entertainment industry. I remember the night before I
graduated from college, I was talking to a friend of mine, and I was saying, you know, secretly,
I want to be a comedian and an actor. And she was like, well, you should do that. And I'm like,
but everyone wants to do that. And she was like, I don't want to do that. And I was like,
you're lying. And so it was this kind of process of really kind of embracing it. And I also
I am very risk-averse, so I did keep my day job for a long time.
But then I became comfortable with the notion that I was just going to be the weird uncle,
because it did not look like I was going to be able to make a living.
I thought, all right, well, at least I enjoy doing stand-up.
I enjoy, you know, auditioning for things.
You were, like you said, you kept your job and you're doing stand-up sets at night,
sometimes late at night.
Hamburger Harry's, I think.
Oh, yes, yeah.
Yes, Amber Harris.
Gladys Simon, if she's watching, thank you, Gladys.
There you go.
Yes, you helped you on your way.
But there's a story that you can either tell me is true or false,
which is you were a little tired when you go to work.
Sometimes you might take a nap at your desk.
Yes.
And you actually had to be woken up to be fired.
Is that true?
That is definitely true.
That's amazing.
That is definitely true.
I'm so glad it's true.
And I'm so glad it's true.
I was, you know, I was definitely, you know, thankfully advertising is, you know, the type of,
where, you know, kind of eccentric or creative behavior is kind of embraced.
So it's like, oh my gosh, Jim showed up two hours late to work today.
And it was kind of considered interesting if you produce.
Like, I don't think you could do that on Wall Street, like, just show up.
And, but yeah, no, I was.
You know, it was, you know, the great irony of that story is that a friend of mine, Dave Attell, had that as a joke.
And then it happened to me.
So whenever that comes up, I have to say, you know what, that's also a Dave Attell joke.
Because, you know, he's like nostridamus or something.
But it was, yeah, it actually happened.
And my boss who fired me at the time, shoot.
It was one of those things where I couldn't quit because I needed to get the unemployment
and the health insurance and stuff like that.
And so you'd lose an account in advertising.
You're like, all right, here we go.
They're going to get rid of me.
I'm the guy who's sleeping in his office at lunch.
And it's just like finally came to the point where she was like, all right, now you're free.
Right.
So fly away.
Fly away.
So you decided to pursue comments.
somebody full-time, especially given your background and your family saying, that's not really
a serious job.
Right.
And I think this is applicable to a lot of people and a lot of different businesses who have a dream
or something.
What kept you going when, like you said, you probably couldn't always pay your rent or eat the way
you wanted to eat or all of those things?
Why did you stay with it as long as you did before you hit it?
I think that I had, I never was, because I had a, uh, because I had a, uh, uh, a, uh,
a career or the normal path prior, I knew that I wasn't interested in that or a corporate position
wasn't, even though I look like a Republican, it wasn't right for me.
And so the alternative was, I would rather scrap by than, you know, there came a point.
I went through therapy and all this stuff, and I was like, okay, I'm going to be comfortable with the fact that I'm not going to be on TV or successful.
And that was kind of this really breakthrough moment for me emotionally where I could process that.
But, yeah, so, like, I didn't foresee giving it up because I do find it so creatively fulfilling, you know, stand up and being rejected for acting roles.
That ended at some point, too, though.
There's this, you say you grew up idolizing Letterman.
Yeah.
There's this breakthrough moment when you're actually on Letterman in 1999.
Yes.
What did that mean to you to be on his show and to be embraced by him afterward?
I mean, it was so huge because being from Indiana, and obviously Letterman is from Indiana
and this icon, and you don't know, I mean, his influence on my sensibility or my approach to comedy,
was very obvious.
And so it was a goal to get on the show.
It was when I first heard him laugh at one of my jokes, that was amazing.
And then afterwards, when his executive producer, Rob Burnett, was like, we want to do a show.
It was just like, it was amazing.
And then, like anything in the entertainment industry, it's a little bit like, come here, come here, come here, slap.
Yeah.
So it was.
But I've also, I think I have a healthy perspective on it in that it's, you know, it's always two steps forward, one step back, and you have to kind of keep a healthy perspective on it.
And you kept grinding, you kept grinding, you get this Comedy Central special in 2005, I think, which maybe actually was the breakthrough.
Yeah.
Because people really started to know you after that.
Yes.
I mean, it is, you know, the hour special on Comedy Central, trans.
transformed my career and also my, you know, like I could, I have five children that, you know, I've been able to raise because of stand-up.
And from what I've observed, they're not going to make any money.
They need this.
And it makes me realize, and I don't know if there's any other parents out there, it makes me realize that my final task of parenting is to leave them with nothing.
You know?
Maybe it's a romantic notion,
but I want them to pay for my casket.
Jesus.
Your mom's not going to like that one.
So that does get us back to the question
of how your family feels
about being the center of your comedy
since you really broke through and found your voice.
They were, you got married to Jeannie
and, you know, 207 years ago.
and the kids were little when you really broke out.
How do they feel about being the story?
I don't care.
No, I mean, no, here's what I would say,
is that my, you know,
the benefit of having five children
is I can talk about a story
that occurred with one of my children,
and you can't be sure which one I'm talking about.
Oh, right.
But most importantly, they're not interested.
So they're not kind of like,
Dad, I watched your special.
Do you know what I mean?
Like, I have this book, Dad Is Fat,
where my son came up with the title.
He still hasn't read it.
You know, like, it came out 15 years ago.
He doesn't.
And he's, and in some ways, I understand.
Do I mean?
And I also think that it's healthy
that they're not interested in my material
and stuff like that.
And so it's, yeah, it's all good.
And, you know, obviously, I try to be respectful, and I think anyone who's a parent is, like, aware that we've all made mistakes.
Like, you know, there's, you know, I, not only do I wish I never gave my children a phone, I wish that, you know, like, there's sometimes, maybe I should never have posted a photo of them, you know, like the whole thing.
But, you know, parenting is, you know, you try your best, and then you, as a parent, you become the receptical for all the blame.
Right?
I like it in one of your acts you say they kind of approach you like you're a bank teller.
Yes.
You have this sort of like unemotional, like detached conversations with them.
Yeah, I think like Apple Cash, like that obviously was the idea of some child, right?
How am I going to get Starbucks money from my parents?
they came up with Apple Cash.
Without talking to them.
No.
Just a direct transfer.
A simple request.
A text message.
The parent has an opportunity to show love, and the child receives a limited amount of money.
Right.
And they'll be back soon for more, this we know.
So when, Jim, did you find this voice, this comedic voice that you have?
When did you kind of, you know, the inner voice thing you've become famous for,
which is your inner monologue?
Oh, yeah.
Like, when did the act that we all know or the delivery that we all know, when did you kind of land on that?
When did it start working for you?
I mean, there are so many experiments along the way when you start stand up.
And some of it, everyone knows that, like, the point of view or your authentic self is the answer.
But you're often trying to, you're learning lessons on what is approachable and what is,
you know, palatable to the audience.
So, like, you know, I'm kind of this doy white guy.
And so, like, me being angry is not that appealing to an audience.
Do you know what I mean?
Whereas me being, I've always been self-deprecating,
or me being edgy, or it's like you find you really end up
with your most authentic self, if that makes sense.
Yeah, no, and it comes.
across that way.
When you talk about your family,
we know it's all real.
It's coming to that place.
You know, I think some of the premise is that, you know,
I complain about my family,
but I believe that if you are a parent and you're involved,
that there's, you know,
that means you, you are annoyed.
Like if you...
Yeah.
Of course.
If you aren't, if you aren't...
Sometimes.
Right?
If you're...
Like, if you're, if you're, if you're, if you're, if you're, if you're, if you're,
identity isn't somehow tied up as a father or a mother if you have children, I think you're doing
something wrong. Do you know what I mean? I don't know. That's my opinion. That's why I'm running for
president. Oh, this is the wrong. By the way, maybe, right? Never. Never. We've talked about this
before, but I think it's interesting for others to hear, which is the, you can be funny. There are a lot of
people are funny, and then there's sort of the navigation of the career, which is like, one time
we talked, you said, there are a bunch of guys who aren't selling out aren't selling out arenas
the way you are, or stadiums, or whatever it is, who you guys consider they're like the funniest
guy that we know. Yeah. So how do you explain what you've been able to do over the last 20 years
to navigate and get to the place you've gotten to, if that makes sense? Yeah, I mean, I think some of it is
is editing.
You know, it's...
If that makes sense,
it's like, some of it is just like the...
You know, my son, Jack is so funny.
He's 19.
He's one of the funniest people.
But some of, you know,
him saying some of these things in front of his mother
is funny because of the situation.
But should he edit more?
Yes, he should edit more.
But, and so I think that also comes to, to managing career, right?
It's, it's maybe editing, you know, some of, you know, how much bourbon you consume.
You know, it's editing your self-assignments, you know, like even doing the bourbon set, which is, there's no financial incentive.
even though Old Forrester and Brown Foreman are going to give me a case of King of Kentucky,
which was part of the...
A case?
Yeah, so...
But, you know...
Wow.
But some of it is, you know, also doing things for the right reason.
So, like, the bourbon set, I did it out of this passion, and I didn't really, you know,
I'm not making money on it, but I also think that that's a strategic move for.
for just keeping their creativity going.
Yeah.
That makes sense.
What about this moment in comedy
where, I don't know, growing up,
I don't remember, maybe Eddie Murphy,
but there's a group of you guys
that can do arenas.
And you and Jerry just came off an arena tour.
Yeah.
And Nate Bargetti and all those guys,
they're doing that.
Is this an especially exciting moment for comedy
because of all the outlets,
because of Hulu,
where you did the skinny or Netflix or all of it.
It seems explosive right now.
It is so incredible because, I mean, you talk about Nate.
I think that we, I don't think Nate has even gotten close to his ceiling.
And so there is something about the awareness of stand-up, the education of people identifying the type of comedy they like
and then having accessibility to see that,
you know, like there was no YouTube.
There was no Comedy Central.
There was no serious XM.
And so now all those things exist.
So people discovering stand-up
and making an informed decision
on what they want to do on a Saturday night
or a Saturday afternoon by seeing a stand-up show
is just, I mean,
something I didn't even contemplate
or even when Nate was starting, it wasn't a hypothetical.
So, like, there is something where comedy is booming so much,
but I think in this age of AI, in the end,
live performance is the safest thing.
It's oddly strange.
You know, that I think that live experience is pretty important, right?
Yeah.
And for people to get,
exposure that maybe otherwise wouldn't.
I know you're, she's top of mind,
something of Leanne Morgan,
who I know you're a big fan of.
She's actually on our show,
just to plug it this Sunday.
But again, like, she's about to go out
on an arena tour.
Yeah.
And like that is amazing, right?
It is amazing.
Many people can pull that off.
It is amazing.
And it's also, I think, you know,
and this is, Jerry actually brought this up.
It's like, if, when people go out
to a comedy show, you know, yeah, there is the cost,
but it's really more important it's the value of their time.
And it's a better gamble to buy a ticket to Chris Rock or Jerry Seinfeld
than to see a movie that maybe the Times gave a vague, positive review of.
It's not about the money.
it's about the quality of time.
Like, if you are going to see, you know,
Nate or Leanne or whatever,
you know it's going to be a quality show
and you're going to enjoy it.
So it's really a great time for comedy.
Stick around for more of my conversation
with Jim Gaffigan right after a quick break.
Welcome back now to the rest of my conversation with Jim Gaffigan.
We're going to get to some of your questions that I have up here in just a minute.
I want to make sure we get those in.
You mentioned acting growing up wanting to be an actor.
Your friend the night before school was say, go do it, right?
And you've had this now amazing acting career,
going back 15 years at least to being on Broadway.
You're coming back to Broadway here in a little bit.
And you're in serious roles
and thinking about like Chappaquitic and Linolium.
What do you love about that separate from being a stand-up star?
Oh, I mean, I really do love
acting because you can
you know there is something
about really exploring a character and adding
value to
this overall
portrait
that's being painted
you know so if you can add more
nuance and character
development to even
what the writer was presenting
that's really compelling and you also
want to be a good soldier and pitch ideas
and if they don't want them you you know
you kind of want to be there as a supporting tool.
But it's also getting lost in it, which is really fun.
But, you know, I would say that acting, the audition process,
I describe auditioning as kind of like stripping,
but you don't get a dollar, right?
There is a vulnerability that is in that process that, you know,
I'm so grateful that with stand-up,
you know, at many different levels of stand-up,
you can find the stage time and the feedback,
which is from the audience,
which I think it's really hard for actors
because it's just the process is,
understandably, you're dealing with a lot of moving parts.
Yeah, and I would think it's so maybe challenging for you
because here, you get the laugh right away.
Yeah.
There, you audition, you shoot something,
and like 18 months later,
the audience goes, oh, that wasn't any good.
And they walk away.
Not, you know what I mean.
They judge it like that and it's over.
And also even, you know, when you write something, I enjoy writing.
But it's the feedback, I mean, comedians are so spoiled by the feedback of the stand-up performance.
Like sometimes comedians aren't considered great actors.
And some of it is, it's just, it's hard for that to compete for the immediate feedback and the editorial control they have.
If that makes sense.
Yeah.
All right.
I want to get to a few of the questions before we, you guys, these are amazing questions.
We're going to get to as many of them as we can.
This is a good one from Sharon, Audubon, New Jersey.
Sharon, you in here?
Where's Sharon?
Hi, Sharon.
Where's Audubon?
What county are you in?
Oh, Camden.
Okay.
I'm from Bergen.
Good to see you.
Okay.
Have you ever, Jim, thought of being something else other than a comedian?
What would it be if you were not a comedian?
I'm probably a model.
Why is that so funny?
No.
I mean, there's things.
I wish that wasn't that.
You know, like this.
Look how svelte Jim is these days.
I'm very big.
And I take zero credit.
I mean, I, I mean, there's things that I find interesting.
I mean, I would love to, I mean, I discovered it late, but I love,
I find bourbon and American whiskey fascinating.
You know, when I was a kid, I wanted to be a farmer.
I love gardening.
I, you know, I think I have a lot of respect for farmers.
And I like that whole solitary process or maybe kind of,
but, you know, some of it is like, you know, getting up early.
I don't know if I want to do that.
It's the hours for you that are going to keep you away.
But then there's, you know, and then I find, you know,
I find politics interesting, but I also, you know.
He's running, guys.
He keeps bringing it up.
I would be like a positive Lee Atwater, you know?
Oh.
I don't know.
Behind the scenes guy, making the ads and stuff.
You know, that would be, you know, I do find, I did like advertising.
I think it's interesting.
Okay.
I love storytelling.
So, but at the end of the day, model.
Model.
I would say.
Come back to where it begin.
Long model.
No.
No, no.
Okay.
Good morning, everyone.
Where's Carrie from Apopka, Florida?
Carrie?
Hi, guys.
Okay, here's a good one.
Since I am originally from the great
state of Indiana, it writes Carrie.
It's widely known you were the greatest
athlete in the history of Purdue
Boilermaker Athletics.
Can you please share
with us a funny story during your stellar
career with the Purdue football team?
Well, you know, there are so many
where to begin so many yeah really it's you know they i think they have a whole room at the hall of fame
for this i would say the funniest thing is i was there for about 10 days um on the team for 10 days
and there was i was a offensive lineman and there i walked on which i think i think it's a great
tradition that they allow people to walk on yeah and um and there was a time when the
you know, the coach of the lineman was like,
you know, this is the big 10, you know.
You're never going to play.
You know what I mean?
Like, there are defensive backs that weigh twice as much as you.
Like, we're playing Ohio State on Saturday.
Yeah, like, there was, he was kind of,
it was a very diplomatic way of saying,
can you get out of my way?
But that was,
That was also a very kind thing to do.
And that being said, I wasn't like Rudy.
I wasn't like, I'm going to do it.
You know, I was kind of like, I don't know.
And you're like, okay.
I was like, all right, fine.
I'll just head to Hardee's and eat, you know.
But then did you play at Georgetown?
I did play at Georgetown.
And then I quit.
Because I'm a quitter.
And I quit.
And I went and I worked for.
a senator named Dan Quayle.
Yes.
Indiana senator.
And I said, one day you will be...
I never met him.
I opened mail.
Karen, also from Florida, St. Petersburg.
Karen? Where's Karen?
Karen from St. Peter's.
Karen's over there.
Oh, she's over there.
Hi, Karen.
Okay, here's the question.
Oh, Jim and Willie.
You are both parents.
What is one bit of advice you would give
to a new parent,
a parent of a teenager?
Oh, this is a three-part question.
And a parent of a college-age student.
Okay.
You're the expert.
I would say a new parent, I would say it's going to get much worse.
Because, you know, like, there is, like, oh, I'm so tired.
I'm like, it's going to get so much worse.
And I have all these older siblings, and I was like, I'm so tired.
And they were, they were nice.
They were like, oh, yeah, I'm sorry to hear that.
But, like, they had teenagers, and they should have said it gets much worse.
You got a bunch of teenagers.
Parents of teenagers, I would say my advice is father time berber.
And then parent of, is it college student?
College age student.
College age student, I would say it's going to get much worse.
So again.
Yes.
It's all ties back to father time.
Yeah, this was a long way to plug the father time bourbon.
What would you say?
Well, I'm a new parent of a college student.
just this year.
I would say
the anxiety
of that moment
when she or he leaves
is worse than the reality.
I mean, this is good news,
which is
it's just gut-wrenching.
How do you get yourself off the floor?
And then it happens
that if she's ready to go
and she's happy, you're happy.
So if you can work through the moment
until you say goodbye,
it actually is better after that.
I found anyway.
I don't know if you found that too.
But that requires preparation
and being comfortable with her going off doing her thing.
I felt nothing.
But, no, here's what I would say.
Here's what I would say.
When I was dropped off at Purdue,
my parents didn't bring me.
My brother dropped me off.
And I would also say,
I have two children in college,
and, you know, I understandably,
normal reaction is that you're missing this, this person, this child. And obviously I miss my
children. Sure. But there is, the thing that I find so odd is that they're at college.
You know what I mean? They're, you know, like, I feel like generationally now we're like,
are they okay? Right. Are they okay at college? And I understand that mental health crisis is real,
but I'm like they're at college.
They're not in Afghanistan.
Do you know what I mean?
So like there is something of,
and I want to be sensitive to the fact that it is an adjustment,
particularly these pandemic kids that had it tough.
Anyway, there's more talk about her.
Yeah.
Well, on your point of the drop-off,
I don't know if you're aware, I bet genius,
there's this whole industry now of like how to like build out your dorm.
and like you can hire a consultant to do your dorm.
Yeah.
And the parents go back and visit two weeks later
and they're all checking in.
Yeah, it was just a clean drop for us freshman year
and saw him at graduation.
That was the next time.
Oh, that's right.
It was the next time I think, Mom, I saw you at school.
Yeah.
Like, by the way, I'm convinced,
if you want to hear a conspiracy theory.
Oh. I'm convinced that parents' weekend,
that's a scam.
Say more, Jim.
Parents weekend?
And by the way,
we're paying for this, right?
And then they want you to go back
where you just dropped them off.
A month earlier,
they want you to get all the parents
to get a hotel room.
Those hotels, I think it's the
hotels.
That are like, can you do a parents weekend where we can charge $8 million for a super
eight hotel?
And then you go back and you know what?
Guess what?
The kids, they're like, all right, nice to see you.
And then the parrots just kind of go, what are we doing now?
It's just awkward.
And that leads me to father-comberman.
Yeah.
Yeah. There's definitely some collusion. I think you're on to something.
Michael from Chesterfield, Missouri. Where's Michael from Chesterfield, Missouri? Somewhere?
Maybe a mail-in question. Who knows?
What is your favorite movie you've been in? All the projects you've done? Do you have a favorite?
I mean, I loved Lenoleum. I mean, you know, some of it is I can't be objective because I love the character.
But, like, there was a movie American Dreamer where I played a guy who murdered.
someone, so I like that.
A lot of you guys are like, I don't know
if I like Jim Gaffigan anymore.
But
some of it, it's just the more
complex and weird the character,
but Linolium's a pretty special movie.
That's a good movie. Yeah, it's really good.
And it seems like you go,
you're airing toward dramatic roles
when you take movies, which is completely different
from your day job.
It's, you know, it's typically
it's more of a
complex character, right?
I mean, it's selfishly, you want to,
you want the character to evolve
over the course of the movie or the show.
And, again, you know, comedy,
I love comedy, but it's, you want to do something
with a little meat on it, right?
When you get you to get some of that Marvel cash
for your next movie, I think, right,
it'd be good for the...
But, you know, I don't want to be the eye candy.
You know what I mean?
That's true.
Again!
Again!
Took his shirt off again.
Okay, here is Renee from Scarsdale,
just outside the city.
Hi, Renee.
Okay, this is a good question.
If a civilian, a non-comedian,
is trying to tell you a funny story,
is your brain subconsciously workshopping it as they go,
prompting you for ways you would make it funnier?
And do you think of funnier payoffs when they're done?
Like, you could have punched up their story.
I think this question,
says more about Renee.
And I think it makes me like her or him.
I don't know if it's, because it could be a, you know.
But the, because I can't see that far.
But yes, I think that there is the editing thing
that's always kind of going on.
But I think everyone does that, right?
Yeah.
Someone starts with the story, you're like,
all right, you can cut that.
Yeah.
Yes.
Right.
You can cut that not important to the story.
Right. Too much backstory.
Oh, we're going off on this tangent.
Right.
All right.
Right.
But I think everyone does that, right?
Yes.
But I always greet people with love.
There it is.
And do you have the thing that comedians have when they sit around and talk and somebody said something funny instead of laughing?
You just go, oh, that's funny.
Yeah.
Right?
Like you're sort of, in other words, you're analytical about comedy.
Yes.
And some of it is you want, you know, I think that's a respectful thing.
to acknowledge it.
You know what I mean?
And also because there is
a level of insincerity
that exists in our society
where some laughs can be fake.
So saying
that's funny is
has more integrity.
I don't know.
Yeah. Sure.
I don't know. Maybe I drank too much of this.
Jim has been so generous with his time.
He's actually going to another gig,
a veteran's event, which
is an amazing thing for Jim today.
So before we release you into the wild,
what else is out there for you?
You've done all these great dramatic movies.
You've done 11 stand-up specials, wildly, wildly popular.
You've got like all eight Grammy nominations.
He won three Emmy Awards.
I think your last special, The Skinny,
I was reading, was viewed the clips of it like 100 million times
or some, like, obscene amount.
So when you...
think about the arc of your career and all the things that are possible for you because of the
success you had. Like what else is out there beyond the bourbon, unless you want to bring it
back to the bourbon, but what else is out there? I think the great irony is
if and when I die, which could be tomorrow. No, no. I will be known as the hot pocket guy.
But that's, there's worse things, you know, but I don't know. For me, it's, it sounds
It sounds corny, but I love the process so much.
So as long as I can, you know, continue to tour and come up with material, that's the reward.
I know that sounds corny and, but that's, you know, I'm grateful that I can do that.
And the creative fulfillment of coming up with a new joke, there's not much that beats that, you know.
Do you ever feel like, oh, the well is dry and then you go out and observe something, oh, there's a whole bit right there again?
Oh, yeah. No, there's a lot of moments where you're like, that might be it. But then, you know, because I think it was the great poet Ralph Mouth on Happy Days who said, I still got it, you know?
Still got it. And you still got it. Ladies and gentlemen, Jim Gaffigan. And we're going to do a little, yeah. Before we say goodbye to Jim, because if you've seen Sunday today, you know, we do a little mugshot at the end of the time.
show. So we want to take a mug shot with all of you. So our photographer Heidi is going to come up.
If you have a mug or maybe just a little thimble of Father Time, raise it with us. All right. Cheers.
Thank you, Jim Gaffigan. Thank you for giving you. Thanks to everybody. Thank you guys. Thank you.
Good night. Thank you so much. My big thanks again to Jim for a great conversation. His Father
Time Bourbon available to buy wherever you get your stuff, stores, online, or
on their website. Also, Jim getting ready now to hit the road again. His Everything is Wonderful
tour picks back up in January. Check online to see if it's coming to your town. In the meantime,
you can watch his latest special live from Old Forrester, the bourbon set on Jib's YouTube channel
right now. Big thanks again to our host and sponsor City Winery in New York City for hosting
our conversation. They are such a generous sponsor. We love working with them. And most of all,
Thank you, the Sunday Today viewers who came, as I said, from all over the country to be in that room with us that night.
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