Sunday Sitdown with Willie Geist - Nate Bargatze On His Comedy Journey

Episode Date: February 2, 2025

Willie Geist sat down with Nate Bargatze at City Winery in front of a live audience for the first ever Sunday Sitdown Live. Bargatze talks all about his rise in comedy - from performing for one person... in a small club, to selling out arenas around the world. They also discuss new family-friendly plans for the "Nateland" empire and answer some questions from the audience. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

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Starting point is 00:00:05 Hey guys, Willie Geist here with a very special episode of the Sunday Sit Down podcast. My thanks as always for clicking and listening along. Boy, do I have a treat for you today. Not only is my guest, the hottest stand-up working in the world right now. He and I also had our conversation in front of a live audience. His name is Nate Bargettze, and he was the guest on our very first Sunday Sitdown Live. So what is Sunday Sit Down Live? Well, we invited you, the audience, to come sit in the room while I did one of these interviews.
Starting point is 00:00:39 We held the interview at the amazing city winery in New York City, right on the Hudson River, one of the most beautiful venues in all of New York. They were incredible hosts to me and to Nate. And you could buy a ticket and sit in the room. And I was stunned as I met all the people who came through the door how far they traveled. Genuinely, I thought, be some of my friends and family from New Jersey, maybe some folks from the Upper West Side, if we're lucky, we get a little Brooklyn. No. People said they came from
Starting point is 00:01:06 San Diego. They came from Idaho and Houston and Miami and Knoxville and Pick Your City. I think it was 32 different states. People came from Canada and they bought tickets to the show. They bought a plane ticket and a hotel room. So honored and humbled that people would do that. So hopefully we gave them what they paid for and then some because Nate just one of the most naturally funny people that I've ever met. So we share something in common, which is that we are fans of Vanderbilt University Sports. I went to Vanderbilt.
Starting point is 00:01:38 He grew up just outside of Nashville. His mom worked in the ticket office. His uncle was an announcer and a coach at Vanderbilt. So he has deep ties. So we've been Vanderbilt fans since before it was cool. Now we're having a great basketball season. Our football team was good last year, beat Alabama. It's become a little fashionable. But we go back. We've suffered. We've suffered for this success. So Nate was so generous to agree to do this in front of an audience. And boy, Can you think of a better guest, a guy who stands in front of massive crowds for living and entertains them? If you don't know, Nate is a guy who sells out arenas. He has sold out Madison Square Garden, Bridgestone Arena in Nashville.
Starting point is 00:02:16 Literally, arenas across the world. He's got a book coming out called Big Dumb Eyes with a tour to follow. He has an entertainment company that you'll hear him talk about called Nate Land, which he views as something he's going to set up in Nashville and family-friendly entertainment. that he doesn't think is out there right now, that there's a huge audience out in the country that's not being served. He's got an incredibly successful stand-up special on Netflix right now, more than 8 million views.
Starting point is 00:02:45 He's hosted Saturday Night Live twice within the space of a year. October of 2023 did that famous George Washington sketch, then came back the next October and hosted again. He was that good. So if you don't know Nate yet, you're about to get to know him. Just a great guy and a hilarious guy. comedian. So sit back, relax, and join us inside the room with the live audience at City Winery in New York City for a very special Sunday sit-down with Nate Bargettze.
Starting point is 00:03:21 Come on in, man. Wow. I think they like you, Nate. I think they might. I think they might like it. One bit that I left out of the introduction, Nate, I'm so grateful to you for doing this, our first Sunday sit-down live. He has been so gracious and generous with his. time last night i'll let you tell the rest of the story there was some trouble with his flight getting here so what did he do he and the boys rented a van and drove from some little town in pennsylvania to make sure they could get here tonight we're we're the real heroes it was in potstown my buddy pottsown pennsylvania our buddy's soul joel he did he has a room there he's so when we started comedy he was a big he was a big he was
Starting point is 00:04:23 kind of starting out making shows and booking shows for us as comics. And so he kind of kept going doing that. And we were, at the beginning, we're starting. It's like we'd do shows for one guy. No one would be there. And so he's got his own club now in Pots Town. And so he was going
Starting point is 00:04:39 back to see him and go do that show last night, which was very fun. And then we drove all the way up in the van. We had made a pretty good time. We had a big stop in Sheets. Sheets. How'd you make out of Sheets? Are you all right?
Starting point is 00:04:53 So I did okay until I realized that they will make milkshakes at midnight. Oh. And then it was like, well, that's going to be kind of a problem. And you can just go make the whole thing. So we were in there. I mean, a gas station on the road is there's not much better than just the best candy options. There's nothing in there that's not going to give you diabetes. I mean, I think even the bananas are something's a little.
Starting point is 00:05:23 Like, they got something on them that you're like, I bet that banana's not healthy. What'd you go with on the milkshake? So I would not know what I'd do this. So my buddy, I wasn't going to get a milkshake. I was trying to do the right thing. He gets a peanut butter Hershey cups milkshake. And then I'm looking at it pretty hard. And it's for him.
Starting point is 00:05:43 But then he also got donuts, like the six donuts. Oh, yeah. And powdered? Yeah. And so then he sees that I'm like, I mean, I'm eyeing it pretty hard. And he goes, you know what, you can just take it. I'm going to do the donuts. And I was like, are you sure, dude?
Starting point is 00:05:58 I was like, I don't. And then I had that. So. Do you finish it off, big boy? Yeah, yeah. It's big. Yeah, it's, they get, you get large. I mean, stuff's a bucket size. I mean, every place I go, McDonald's, anywhere I go, large.
Starting point is 00:06:12 It's just the absurdness. They're getting larger, too, aren't they? They're getting bigger. But otherwise, you've got to fill it up, then drink half of it, then fill it back up before you leave. That's right. I'm a big dude. I'll do that all day long.
Starting point is 00:06:25 Absolutely. I just did it in and out. I was like, yeah, I sit there and people are waiting. And you just sit, I'm like, let me just taste it. Let me make sure it's okay. Right. And it just pound half of it. And I'm like, I'm just trying it out.
Starting point is 00:06:39 So we should clear the decks of our shared love of Vanderbilt sports. Yes. I just want to get it out there front and center. I remember hearing like 10 years. So I went to Vanderbilt. My wife did too. I remember hearing, like, at least 10 years ago, maybe more, like, there's this comedian, Nate, who's like a really big Vanderbilt fan.
Starting point is 00:07:04 And I'm like, oh, cool, what year was he? And I'm like, so cool. And I'm like, which, as you know, from the old days of Vanderbilt, not so much anymore, was like, why? Yeah. Why is he, why did he choose to root for Vanderbilt Sports in the SEC? Now it's, of course, the golden age of sports at Vanderbilt. Now we're awesome.
Starting point is 00:07:23 We've been Tennessee twice last week, Manzan, really. So how did you come to your Vanderbilt sports fandom? You are from right outside Nashville, the old hickory. Yeah. How did you become a Van Gogh? Well, the Titans were not there. Most of my friends were a Tennessee fan, Tennessee of all fans. And then my, I had a cousin, Ronnie Bargettze.
Starting point is 00:07:45 He actually coached there in the 70s. So we were, and then he was the color commentator forever. And then my mom. My mom worked in the ticket office at Vanderbilt. And so we just grew up with Vanderbilt and just being big Vandy fans. And it was, yeah, and I love it. I mean, you know, being a Vandy fan, when you're going through the times where you're losing, you know, we'd win zero games or one game, two games a season.
Starting point is 00:08:11 It was like, it's brutal. And you'd be watching the guy, I'd be at the games, and we would lose by, we once got two delay game penalties called back-to-back. and then we got the extra point blocked and lost and you're just sitting, you're just in there. I'm like in high school, like, I can't believe this. So now to be where we're at, the night Vandy beat Alabama in football.
Starting point is 00:08:37 Best night. This was a huge night because our guy was hosting SNL at the same night. Yeah. Yeah. It was at a buddy. He goes, God gave you this day. Vandy being Alabama
Starting point is 00:08:53 hosting S&L I mean I got more text about Vandy than I did S&L And it was I It was funny because too They were like hey are you at the game And so then I you know
Starting point is 00:09:07 You don't want to be You want some humility But I had to be like I am not I am hosting Saturday Night Live So By the way I was at the game I was
Starting point is 00:09:24 I was there with my family, and as you know, being a long-time Vanderbilt fan, I swear we'll stop talking about Vanderbilt Sports after this, you're waiting for the other shoe to drop. Oh, great first half, now they'll wake up. And it kept going, and he kept going. I remember just looking down the line at these other fans, and we're looking, is this
Starting point is 00:09:43 happening? Are we going to beat number one Alabama? And we did, and the goalpost came down, and they threw them in the Cumberland River. It was incredible. It's incredible. Yeah, it's incredible. Our New York audience is like, what are you talking about now? Yeah. Yeah. Anyway. It's like, I mean, but it would be like being a Mets fan.
Starting point is 00:10:01 Like, it's like, you know, you're just, there's like something that's, you're not, you know. Yes. Y'all have won more than we have. We would dream to be the Mets. I'll be honestly, because I hope we get to that level of Mets. But it's, you know, it's like that's the fun part of like rooting for that team that's like they're not always going to win. And then when they get on these runs, you're like, well, it's the greatest times of my life. Got a good coach now.
Starting point is 00:10:26 Everything's going well. So I gave you that big introduction. And I was sort of laughing. I introduced Jerry Seinfeld one time at an event, and we were backstage like that. And he goes, hey, and he hits me on him. Don't do the whole thing with, it's the greatest show of all time. Just say Jerry Seinfeld, ladies and gentlemen.
Starting point is 00:10:43 I don't need a belt up. I did the opposite there. I gave him the whole show. I gave him all of it. And you deserve it. But when you hear all those things laid out in one place and all the things you've done in the last couple of years, and knowing where you started
Starting point is 00:10:59 and how long a road it has been to get here. What does this moment feel like in your life? I mean, it's hard to take it. Honestly, it doesn't feel like it's happening to you. So you just kind of, like, I mean, I was even back there, I was like, I don't know what anybody would want to hear me say. It's hard to imagine. You know, you go through, you know, you starting out
Starting point is 00:11:25 comedy and you're doing a shows for one person to eight people. It's just this long, long build up. So it all takes very long, but then it happens very quick. So like then it's it took, you know, 20 years to then the last two years
Starting point is 00:11:41 or whatever have been just like, you know, shot out of a cannon. Which it's been good because I was able to be way more prepared for what I was doing. Right. Where if I would have been, you know, shut out of canon too early, it's like, then you're not going to really know what to do. You get thrown into stuff.
Starting point is 00:11:59 So it's a blessing. Not that I wanted to be shot up Canada early. I was trying for early. But for it happening later, yeah, it just kind of feels like it's like that imposter feeling where you just go, when you're at an arena and I'm like, I can't imagine they're here to see me. Like, I don't know who they're here to, you know, you think, well, I could just walk around because I, you know, I feel like I'm just them.
Starting point is 00:12:25 So it's, yeah, it's a lot to take in. I think maybe you take it in later at another time or maybe we can sit back and really be like, oh, yeah, I can't believe. Right now you're just kind of like in it and you're just trying to stay as good as you can possibly be. You did SNL twice in a year, which doesn't happen. You hosted October of 23 and then again October of 24.
Starting point is 00:12:53 That just doesn't happen. Because the first one went so well, and we've got to talk about Washington's dream, which I think you would agree just like, yeah, took you to another place. Took it to a whole other level. And I didn't realize until I was reading more about you because it has already become this iconic SNL sketch
Starting point is 00:13:10 that it didn't play that well. Like in the table read on Wednesdays at SNL, they read through it. Yeah. Wasn't really hitting, but you kind of fought for it because you thought it was funny. Yeah. I thought it was, it was, I knew it'd be funny
Starting point is 00:13:24 because, I mean, I'm so used to, I only performed for live audiences. So I could tell, like, when you're reading it and, like, just a table read, it's like, it's not getting a ton of laughs. I'm also not bringing, you know, the most because it's kind of awkward. And so I was like, well, once I get in front of people, like, it's going to be fine. And not everybody, you know, they're like, not everybody has my confidence.
Starting point is 00:13:51 They're like, this guy's out of his mind. He basically probably shouldn't even be hosting this show. And, but it was like on this, when you go up to the Lauren's office and you're looking at seeing, you have all the sketches lined up, you have a lot more say than you think, which is the crazy part. Because he really is, he's really unbelievable. And he's like, you tell me what you want to do. And you're like, Lauren, you have been doing this for 50 years. I don't want to blow the whole system up because you're asking me to be like, let me tell you what I think. But that one was like on the fence of maybe.
Starting point is 00:14:29 And I was like, I would like to try that one. And he was like, all right. And then we put it last in dress rehearsal. And I mean, I honestly really was like, oh, once I get in front of a crowd, like, it's going to be great. And then, because it was the most like my stand-up kind of. Like, it's kind of just doing stand-up. I'm just telling jokes. And then so we did dress rehearsal and it destroyed.
Starting point is 00:14:47 And then they moved it up. And so then it became what it all became. But Streeter Seidel and Mikey Day wrote that. I had nothing to do with the writing. A lot of people think I did. They wrote it. The writing was perfect, but the execution was too, which is your...
Starting point is 00:15:08 Thank you. That's what I tell them. I go, the writing was great, but it actually was better. That's good. I say that to Street or Mike Hill. I go, that was the best part of the whole thing. But it's because George Washington is supposed to be this guy standing on the front of a boat crossing the Delaware,
Starting point is 00:15:27 and you were just kind of like, you know, like you just... You know, we're going to do, we're going to try the metric system. It's not going to work. Like, you get all the, and so after you, that blew up and it's got all these views online, could you feel something happening in your life? That was the first, like, kind of mainstreamy thing. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:15:46 So where I was at my career, we were already, we were kind of at the point where I was doing arenas, where you would have the stage at the end. But it was, it was all, my career has been very word of mouth. It's been very just people like you that. have just said come watch this guy next time he's in town and so it's been this kind of very organic kind of thing so there hasn't been just like a there hasn't been the sudden like just large leap and so for that when i did s-and-l so i knew when i was going on s-no i knew i'm going to a audience a mainstream audience that's probably not going to really know who i am even though i could be selling arenas out
Starting point is 00:16:22 you know it's like when you hear some young musician that's like they sell arenas you're like i don't even know that person's name and so it was like a so it was like a somewhat version of that. So I knew like, all right, well, I have to go do the best I can do. And so we went and I did it and then, you know, ended up becoming, we had to reschedule shows because of it. And like for Indianapolis, we had, we were doing the arena there and we had to reschedule it for July or, yeah, for like the next year. And we added a whole other show. So that's how much you could tell is like the schedule, the show that we had to reschedule. we added a show, that's how much it took off.
Starting point is 00:17:04 And that's all right after S&L. That was just right after S&L. And we went to adding second arenas, and the stage is in the middle of the arena now, which fits more people. And so it just really, like, took it to this level where we were adding the shows. And, I mean, you're still filling this next tour,
Starting point is 00:17:21 we're already adding shows. And, I mean, it's still, it's not going to be until the fall. I was telling you, I was looking at your tour schedule for the new tour. You start early April, and you have a couple days off somewhere in there, but you basically go through till Christmas. And you start in Norway and you end in Nashville. Oh, yeah. Which sort of speaks to your appeal.
Starting point is 00:17:49 Yeah. What is a show in Norway like for you? I went, we went there two years ago, Oslo. You know, you find the people that speak to English. You're not playing. I'm not at an arena there. Yeah. This would be like a dream venue for me.
Starting point is 00:18:05 And I was like, Oslo, I'm going to be like, I'm killing it right now. You go. But it's going over there and just like having your presence be there. It's kind of what you do in America. You go to every city and you just kind of keep coming back and keep coming back. So when you go over to international, it's kind of the same thing. You've got to go over there. And then, you know, you'd be in front of 300 people.
Starting point is 00:18:29 You could be in front of 1,000 people. Like London would be like 2,000 people. Then it's, you know, Belgium is, you know, 100. 50 people, like, and it's just slowly, it's just like a mix. It really takes you back to the old days where you just, you know, you go from like this all this crazy arena to just like a regular room. I want to go back to Old Hickory growing up in Tennessee, which is 30 minutes outside Nashville?
Starting point is 00:18:51 Is that about right? And where the genesis of this comedy thing for you, where your dad is famously a magician, has opened for you on tour, a performer, a live performer. Yeah, he does. I love you, guys. He's done over 100 shows with me, and look, that's every little boy's dream. Travel with your dad when you're 45 years old.
Starting point is 00:19:13 So, who doesn't love that, you know? I had to get a CPAP machine hooked up in the tour bus, but... Not exactly Motley crew on the tour bus. No. If people knew, if people knew the amount of CPAPs were on that bus, they... You would see the bus and be like, I bet they're having fun. You're like, there's nothing happening. Everybody's already alone in their beds.
Starting point is 00:19:40 Tucking in early. Tucking in early. Hey guys, thanks for listening to the Sunday Sit Down podcast. Stick around to hear more from Nate Bargettze right after the break. Welcome back now more of my conversation with Nate Bargetze. So when did you start to get turned on to comedy or when did you sort of think, oh, I like a crowd or I like comedy, I like to be funny. When was that? I would, I mean, at the very beginning, I remember being young and I, I, I, I remember being young.
Starting point is 00:20:07 My dad always said, I told a joke, like in a joke book when I was five. And it was the joke was the waiter, a guy goes, hey, there's a fly in my soup. And the waiter says, well, the spider on your toast will eat it. It was something along those lines. But I was like explaining, my dad always tells us, I don't, but I was explaining the joke to him, like, why that was funny. And my dad always did magic. He did comedy in his magic. And that's where it kind of set him apart.
Starting point is 00:20:37 from a lot of magicians, because they're not comedic, really, with it. And so I was around that and being around him, and I think my timing obviously comes from my dad. And so being around all that stuff was just, it just slowly was like, I wanted to do this. I didn't think I really wanted to do magic, but we would see some stand-up, and I would always just have them back in my mind, like, you want to do, you know, I think I want to just be a stand-up comedian. and it's solely just, you know, I mean, fortunately, no, there wasn't an education route that was heading in a direction. There was, I wasn't like going, you know, it wasn't like I was up for law school. I was, anything that I was doing, college, any of it was like basically, yeah, dude, go try something.
Starting point is 00:21:22 Like, all my jobs I can go back to. Every job I've had, I could show up tomorrow. And they'd be like, there's nothing new I have to learn. Like it's the same. As long as we're still lifting with her legs, I'm good. So I was able to take a chance. And my parents were fortunately very, very, like, so I got, I never had them being like, what are you doing or why would you do this?
Starting point is 00:21:47 And so they were just very supportive and was like, yeah, and go for it. And then when I was lived here in New York, my dad would have, he would have magician friends come by because I would stand on a corner and hand out flyers. That's how you got on stage. to try to get the audience. So I would hand out flyers, and then at the end of the night, we would get to go up for like five minutes. But my dad would have magician friends without me knowing,
Starting point is 00:22:11 like check watching me to make sure I wasn't just, like, doing nothing. Like, you know, at least, like, he's just like, you know, that he's out there. Do you see him on the corner? And it's like, yeah, he's on the corner. You know, make sure. That's sweet in a way, isn't it? Keep an eye on you.
Starting point is 00:22:29 Yeah. Well, I mean, I blew, you know, probably eight. $800 from community college money. I can't imagine my loan was, I don't know if I had it. It was like 50 bucks gave cash. And so it was, yeah, it was like just, hey, he's doing it. And then he's like, yeah, yeah, he's doing it. So it was, yeah, and then they were just the more supportive with it.
Starting point is 00:22:48 As you said in your stand-up, you did go to college for a minute and decided it wasn't for you. And then you start going. There's an unbelievable story you tell in the new special in your friend Nate Bargetti about being a water meter reader. Yeah. Have you all seen that? It seemed like a simple job until you were called upon to defend the nation. Yeah. They just asked us, and it was, we went out, it was all real.
Starting point is 00:23:20 We stood out in our water tanks of Wilson County. This is after 9-11. Right after 9-11. What did your boss tell you after? We got to defend our water. And if, I don't, like, it's fun to tell it, because if everybody that's older remembers, the whole country was, very scared. And so it's like, oh, they're going to poison our water.
Starting point is 00:23:42 And so they just had us go out there, just a bunch of 20-year-old idiots, just sitting out there. And they were real big on, you can't drink. There's all the, you can't, don't bring weapons. They did tell us. I think they don't. Because we were in the
Starting point is 00:23:58 South with like, you know, people were like, I'll bring all the weapons. And we just would sit out, you just would spend the night out there. and wait for Al-Qaeda. Like in a field. Yeah. You'd be in a field.
Starting point is 00:24:12 Just in a field, no light. And they had a little trailer thing, and we would just sit out there and just like, prepare to get into a war with terrorism. We were going to stop it because they were going to poison our water. I love that you were the last line of defense. If Al-Qaeda showed up, it was up to you. Let me just say in front of this crowd, thank you for your service. Thank you.
Starting point is 00:24:51 I appreciate it. I appreciate it. Your journey is amazing. The road you've traveled. You've traveled so much of it with your wonderful wife. Yes. Who's been together for a long time. You met, I believe, correct me if I'm wrong, working together at Applebee's, right?
Starting point is 00:25:20 Yes. She was a server. You were the host. Is that right? That is right. And she has said since she didn't think you had the stuff to be a server. Yeah. You were better served just standing at the podium.
Starting point is 00:25:33 I was like a host. Like, I just need a little interaction. Yeah. I didn't need to be super involved in their eating journey. Like, I just needed to get them to a seat and then be like, I need to probably back out of here. And y'all take it from here. It was better for everybody. It was better for everybody.
Starting point is 00:25:53 Yeah. Yeah. So when did, so you're at that point, you've tried the water meter, you've worked at Applebee's, you've met the woman who's going to be your wife, when do you really get serious about comedy? Like, I'm going to pursue this as a career. It was, uh, with the water meter, I mean, I still was thinking about it. I wrote my teen, where I'll be in 10 years in high school. When he wrote that, I did write, I would, I want to perform at Zanis, which is Nashville's local club. So it was, it was very much seemed in my mind to do this. Uh, uh, I was. Uh, I didn't really know how to start. Like, I didn't really know what to go do. And so I was reading water meters, and I had another buddy, Michael Clay, and he worked,
Starting point is 00:26:32 and he wanted to go to Second City in Chicago. And so I was like, I think I needed that. Like, just someone that's like, I'll do this. Do you want to go try this? And we had another buddy, Trey, that kind of was like,
Starting point is 00:26:46 he knew Michael wanted to do that, and he knew I kind of wanted to do stand-up. So he was like, y'all should go do this. And which was very just encouraging to be like, y'all go out there do it. So then it was like, all right, well, let's go try it. And then we kind of, the water, I started thinking about it a lot. I started, you know, I delivered pizzas at night.
Starting point is 00:27:04 I was just trying to save up some money to be able to get to Chicago and, you know, and kind of get started. And there I took a comedy class and then just was kind of in that whole scene. Started to improv, decided that wasn't for you exactly. It was, I did like eight weeks of it. The thing, I knew pretty quickly, I knew even from the beginning that I was. was going to work clean. So with improv, it's, thank you. So with improv, you got to go with wherever they're going to go because everybody's kind of doing it. And when everybody's new,
Starting point is 00:27:38 it's like, people are going to be dirty because that's just, they don't, you're starting out. And so I, I was like, I didn't, I knew I was going to be put in positions that I didn't want to be put in. And I didn't, like, so I was like, I just need to do it on my own. So then I'm more, You know, then I'm in full control of where it's going to go. And so then that's when I was, I kind of, like, he stayed and did like a whole year class or whatever. And then I went and started doing stand-up. It's, I love hearing you say that you made a decision early to work clean, which is obviously worked out for you. What was behind that?
Starting point is 00:28:15 Was that your upbringing? Was that you thought it was funnier if you had to work within some parameters or what was the? It's about upbringing. I mean, you know, we're a Southern Christian, like, family. Like, my parents would, I have jokes about it, but my parents were the most Christian when I was born. So I never wanted to embarrass them. I didn't want them to come to a show
Starting point is 00:28:36 and them to say, go watch my son and be embarrassed. And so I wrote, everything I wrote, I write for them. And, like, I just want, yeah. It kind of, it helps, too, because you're kind of writing for two people instead of writing for thousands of people. So it's all very specific. Like, you're writing to be, you know what I mean?
Starting point is 00:29:03 We grew up Baptist, and that's the strictest on the world. You can't do. And my parents are raised Catholic. So, and then they went to Baptist. So I have Catholic guilt without any of the fun. And then the strictness of Baptist. So, I mean, I got a line that I make myself walk is pretty tight. It's pretty tight.
Starting point is 00:29:26 So how did you develop your style then? Okay, you know what? I'm going to work clean. Yeah. Is if I saw you doing those early gigs in Chicago or when you moved to New York, is it similar to what I'm seeing now in sold-out arenas? I mean, now it's got, that's what I love about stand-up. And is if you go listen to my old stuff, it's some stories,
Starting point is 00:29:47 but it's more joke form. And then the longer you get, the more longer the stories get. And so it's just really changed. And I hope, like, when I've done, it's like, you go look, at the beginning. You kind of watch it like a show. Like, you can just go to the, here's the beginning. Here's me before I'm married.
Starting point is 00:30:03 Here's having a kid. Here's all these steps that you go through. But if you went to the beginning, I mean, I was always clean at the beginning. I never, you never wanted to be about that. Like, it's, that's the one thing when Clean Comics, you're just kind of like, you know, you would get sometimes put in a category.
Starting point is 00:30:19 And so you just kind of, like, I would do shows at midnight and they're uncensored shows and all this. And I just would, you know, you just kind of just do your thing and not really hope no one notices. But the joke, yeah, like I was going to get, they were going to be, this guy's not cursing. That's what I think they're going to say.
Starting point is 00:30:38 They never were. And I'm like, this guy was too clean. It's 1230. He should be living it up. But you had people to look up to it had success. Seinfeld, works clean. Giant Seinfeld. Yeah, who were your other combative?
Starting point is 00:30:53 Seinfeld, Brian Regan. Brian Regan was, yeah, he was the first, my dad got me his CD, Brian Regan Live. And so he was the first one that I heard when I heard his CD. It was the funniest thing I've ever heard. And so it's your opening to go in like, because all you really know is Seinfeld. Like you only know kind of the famous ones. And then so then you hear his and I was like, my dad had to pull, he was driving. and he had to pull the car over
Starting point is 00:31:25 because he was laughing so hard. And so it was like, that was when you're like, well, that's what I want to make people do. I want, you want them to be laughing that hard where they're like, can't, they have to stop for a second. And so first time I heard Brian Regan, I mean, I was like, I don't,
Starting point is 00:31:40 this guy should be the most famous guy on the planet. Like, it's unbelievable. And so once you get into that, then he obviously come to New York, you see Gaffigan. And then you see other comics. Gaffigant is another big one. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:31:54 Gaffigan, no. He writes more than anybody. I mean, he just did his like maybe 11th hour special, and it's unbelievable the amount that he just keeps able to turn it out material. It's very, very hard to write an hour material. And so the fact where he's done it, and now getting to know him and, you know, gotten close with him, it's, you know, it's, I mean, it's awesome. It's awesome to get advice and talk to him about things.
Starting point is 00:32:20 And so my right, because we have the same management, same team. So my writer was always his writer. It's like you just get hand-me-downs. Like, I would be at these shows, and there's just sandwich meat. I'm like, I've never, I've never asked for this. And they're like, we just gave what Gaffigan asked for. And then his was, like, from John Panette or something. So we just kept getting everybody's writer that goes down.
Starting point is 00:32:45 And my dad would always eat the sandwiches because he felt bad. He's like, I think we have to eat all these sandwiches. He's making five sandwiches. I love Gaffin. Sidebar on Gaffin, he's been on Sunday today. It was during COVID, and we were doing all our interviews on Zoom. Yeah. When it was kind of frustrating, you missed this kind of interaction.
Starting point is 00:33:05 And so Gaffigan called up and said, hey, let's go do an interview. We'll just do it outside. And I said, okay, what are we going to do? So let's go cross-country skiing. And I said, I don't know how to cross-country ski. Do you? He goes, a little bit. So we went to a park in Westchester.
Starting point is 00:33:23 The two of us, these two goons on cross-country skis, and he wasn't good at all. But he was like selling, like, this is my new discovery in COVID. And I finally said, I said, you have no idea what you're doing. He goes, okay, he goes, I can tell you the truth now. I've just been coming to do this to get away from my children. So he just go out in the park by himself during COVID. And he still didn't know how to do it.
Starting point is 00:33:50 Still didn't know. No, he was terrible. I like that he brought you and was like, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. And it was all alive. Because cross-country skiing does look like you're like, well, how hard could that be?
Starting point is 00:33:58 And I bet it's pretty hard. Unlike downhill skiing, it's not fun either. Yeah, yeah. It's just work. It's the hassle? It's just the hassle. It's just the hassle of skiing. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:34:09 There's no hill. It's just you doing the work. So when you were talking about making your parents proud, I think one of the things you also stick with is not being mean on stage. And that can sound like polyanish, but it's not, it's you making yourself the joke. I don't even know what that word means. So, it's a pretty good, pretty good word. Is that, I feel like that's one of the, isn't that a hotel at Disney?
Starting point is 00:34:35 Like, don't they have, like, uh, it's a bandy word. It's a bandy word. They taught us in Mandy, yeah. They don't teach us that at community college. They were like, yeah, you ain't going to worry about this word, all right? It'll never come up. It'll never come up. It'll never come up.
Starting point is 00:34:50 They go, only if you talk. Willie guys. If you meet Willie, they said your name specifically. And this, here it are. And here it is. And I should have been prepared. We'll talk offline. We'll walk you through. But you always make yourself a joke. Even when you're talking about your wife or your daughter,
Starting point is 00:35:05 the joke is always on you. Yeah. Well, I did learn very early because when I would do stuff about my wife, if you only did it one-sided, it would come, people would just be like, well, it sounds like you shouldn't be married. Yeah. And so you kind of go like, all right, well, I
Starting point is 00:35:21 have to like, because that's not the point. And then so you're like, you have to find a balance where you're kind of able to go back and forth where you need to be the other joke. And I, you know, like I would sit in front rows of comedy shows when I first started. I never wanted to be picked on or I never liked, you know, and I just don't want to be, I don't want anybody, honestly, I don't want anybody to think I'm ever better than them or better than me. I'm nobody.
Starting point is 00:35:46 And so it's like, I just was like, I'll make, I'll make fun of me. you can laugh with me or laugh at me and it doesn't matter and you keep it like kind of contained here I think you can say a lot more stuff too because it's you I just can talk about myself I'm not really making fun of someone else to where it could be mean
Starting point is 00:36:07 it's like I think people you know just relate to it and self-deprecating is very fun to do the great thing about great comedy which you do so well is you tell us something about ourselves like I like to read but when you talk about reading, it's so true. No, it's so true that it is the most words.
Starting point is 00:36:29 They just... It doesn't get into it. You go, I don't even know what we're doing, dude. They should have a book that when you start the book, could go, if you want, go ahead and go to page 40. Because I think some people want the whole journey. But then some of us are like, if you want to get in the thick of it, that's the first thing.
Starting point is 00:36:53 It should be like, go ahead to, you know. We don't need all those character developments. Yeah, yeah, yeah. When it's like, well, when you start talking about your childhood, you're like, oh, God. You're like, just where's the, you know, it's just, how do I get off sugar? That's all I'm trying to read. All of us have turned and hoped for that blank page from time to time, just for a breather. Yeah. As you say, to get your head above water.
Starting point is 00:37:19 Give your head above water. You got to. Which I would like the, you mentioned the book. The book will have some blank page. pages. You will? Thank you. It's all Blake pages.
Starting point is 00:37:38 You're really leading a movement of non-readers. Yeah. You need a break. You need a break. So, Nate, when to you feels like the breakthrough moment? I know you've talked about
Starting point is 00:37:48 being on Conan or being on different comedy shows on TV. When did you start to feel like, all right, man, I've been at this for a long time. Here comes to the first. Yeah, yeah. The first, fun of all NBC
Starting point is 00:38:01 it was Conan Conan was the first time like getting to do late night with Conan Another big was Fallon Fowland was like where you had this big leap Comedy Central was a big deal for us too Comcentral that's what is roughed out for like comics starting now
Starting point is 00:38:18 Comedy Central had a really good system where it was like you would do live at Gotham 8 minute kind of set and then you would do a half hour set then you do an hour set and so they really developed developed comedians. And there's not a ton of that anymore now. But it's, it was Conan and Fallon saw me. There's a comedy club here called The Stand. And Fallon came in one day randomly and just happened
Starting point is 00:38:42 to see me. And then I, he asked me to do late night with Fallon. And then our relationship, uh, built from there. So Fallon was a big, he was a big person to get my name in the circles of, uh, show, the industry, I guess. Like we, we, we developed. to show together. None of this, it didn't go, but it was, I was still, my name was very associated with his name, and which played into the S&L, which the S&L and, like, Lauren given me that chance at that moment. That was the, it was those two moments were kind of the big, big, like, leaps where we,
Starting point is 00:39:19 you went to another level. And now what's cool is you and Lauren are kind of producing buddies. You did the great Christmas special in Nashville, which is a lot of time. And as we talk about the climb and the journey and full circle moments, you're doing this huge network special with all these stars that has your name on the door at a place where I think you worked for a little while. Grand Ole Opry. You worked at the Opera.
Starting point is 00:39:44 Yeah, we used to have a theme park. So they had Opera Land Theme Park, and I worked there. My dad worked there too as a magician. And so we did that. And so we had to perform there at the Grand Opera. They knocked it down for a mall. but I'm going to get it back I'm going to figure out
Starting point is 00:40:03 because I'm still I didn't love that but it was yeah I worked there I was a sweeper like you know it was my first job I was 15
Starting point is 00:40:13 and I swept up the park and I worked in the dog kennel where a dog got out so they fire you for that or no I mean they don't you know it was I left the door open
Starting point is 00:40:27 they had to call them over the speaker and they were pretty upset. They called the dog over the speaker? No, the dog went and got under a car. So then we couldn't get it. We're trying to get it without calling the people. Best case scenario was these people should never know their German Shepherd got out.
Starting point is 00:40:47 But it got under a car and then you got to announce it over the speaker. And, you know, you're like, hey, hey, this family. Could you come back to the dog kennel? Which can't be good news. No. You're not going to come back and be like, your dog's killing it. Something's up.
Starting point is 00:41:07 And we're like, your dog's in Parkin Lot C over there. If y'all can help us get it out. Like, how do you get out? You're like, you know, the door was open for some reason. I don't, you know, I'm 15. That's how he got out. I don't know what I'm doing. Did we get the dog back?
Starting point is 00:41:25 We got the dog. Dog's fun. Okay, great. Dog's fun. Dogger. Dog's good. Dog's good. Thank God. Thank God. But that's, what a cool, you know, journey then to do the show at the opera. Another one of those, which I love is you recently opened a new gym and athletic center at your high school that they put his name on.
Starting point is 00:41:49 Right? Yeah. And you tried to play ball there. Yeah, I did. Did we ever make it? No. No. I got cut all four years.
Starting point is 00:42:00 By the way, in first year, my dad was assistant coach, and I still got cut. He got the ball over. Your dad cut you? Yeah. And then from that, we had a different coach, and then I got cut all four years. I, look, I don't know if I took it the most serious. I think I should have made the team. I played for my church.
Starting point is 00:42:19 After that, I did pretty good in church basketball. So I think I could have made the team one year. What was your game like? Scrappy? Point guard. Like, yeah, just, you know. Distributor. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Starting point is 00:42:30 Giving it out. But, you know, it was, you know, it was really good from the elbow. The free throw line. I was like, that was my, I was like, don't, that's what I would tell them. Don't let me get to the elbow. You don't want me at the elbow is what. Played on carpet, too, so your traction was great. Carpet?
Starting point is 00:42:47 Yeah. At the church? Yeah, you could play in any kind of shoes because you had the most traction. You would break ankles. It's literally your ankle would break. your feet would get stuck and they don't move. And then... So, yeah, so then when my high school,
Starting point is 00:43:06 I loved my high school, Donaldson Christian Academy, and I graduated with 56 people, which I get made for them, too. They're like, you still didn't make the team with that, like... And half of them were girls? Yeah, I mean, half the school's girls. So you're like, it was, yeah. Wow.
Starting point is 00:43:21 It was a tough one. But, you know, my high school is my only alumni. And so it's, yeah. Yeah. It was, they got, I got a jersey. So actually, I did finally get a jersey. I got a jersey just last week. And now your name's on the gym.
Starting point is 00:43:43 So I let things go clearly. And, yeah, so now, yeah, I think I'm on the team. Very cool. Stick around for more of my conversation with Nate Bargetzi right after a quick break. Welcome back now to the rest of my conversation with Nate Bargetzi. Another cool thing you're doing is this Nateland. Nate Land. Can I throw out the word empire or we're starting an empire?
Starting point is 00:44:07 Yeah, start out of time. You've got the podcast. You're doing a bunch of stuff under the Nate Land Company. But I think it sounds to me like you're trying to really make Nashville like a comedy town, right? Well, a comedy town, but I also, Nate Land, I envision, I don't know. It sounds crazy, but it's like, you know, you could be another Disney. Like, it's another, it seems, it's stupid. But it's, I think, I can just tell, I travel on the road a lot.
Starting point is 00:44:39 I think entertainment, you see with Hollywood, like, they're, they're, it's very much detached from what people want to see. And I think that's become more and more. And I, and when you go on the road, you can, you can feel that and see that. People are not making stuff for families to even go to. Like, you can't watch commercials or, you. brutal now. Like, I mean, you'll be sitting with your daughter watching a football game. There's commercials that you're like, I don't want to have to explain. We're just seeing this. There's just a lot of that. And so there's not much you, I don't think there's stuff for people to
Starting point is 00:45:13 watch even as a family. Like, you have me, you have this show. You have like, that's what people are watching if they're going to watch anything together. Or you don't have to be worried if your kids are in the room or something. So the idea with Nate Land was to, we're hopefully going to be making some movies. But I want you to be able to see. If you see Nate's, you see Nate's, Nate Land, you can know, you might not like it, you might not, you know, but you can at least trust that I'm not going to try, I'm trying to do my best to not make you, I want you all to watch it as a family. I want you to be able to go and, yeah, they, they're, because like, people still, they think they want to go, you know, they're like, well, no one goes to the movie theaters.
Starting point is 00:45:57 We do want to go to them. There's nothing, you're not making it where we can bring our whole fan, like, there's nothing funner than we saw Moana was my daughter's first movie. Well, I want to go watch her watch a movie for the first time. Like, that's the best. And then you want to go, like, the, you know, Home Alone's are not getting made anymore. Like, these movies that you go, we all go back to and watch. That's when you go see, you see Netflix and you see any of the stuff, and the best show, the shows that are the most are friends and these sitcoms, Ray, Ram, Rob, everybody loves Raymond, Seinfeld. You're, I honestly think your system's of broken if you haven't created another one of those you shouldn't i mean you can't even
Starting point is 00:46:38 compete i just don't think they have you know they're everybody that's right you know it's interesting i have a whole i'm going to i love it yeah so but that's why we're here man yeah it's sorry sorry but it's interesting show business the show business is very still pretty new like Elvis's birthday was just here he would be 90 Ideally, you think Elvis should be 180. That was yesterday was Elvis. So this is all very kind of new and rapid. Stand-up comedy as an art form is still very new
Starting point is 00:47:15 and still like, you know, as where you kind of see it as today, not that comedy's not been around. But all this stuff is still very new. And so then the people that were making decisions with, you know, I mean, like Charlie Chaplin died in 74. Like there's people that are in Hollywood, that new Charlie Chaplin. And you don't think that that should be happening.
Starting point is 00:47:34 But those people sometimes people don't get out of the way. And so they kind of stay. And then you don't really, we've got a problem with you're not developing any younger talent. So you're not, the new people coming up, you're not letting them, you've got to get out of the way. There's a point where people get to a certain level. You kind of got to get out of the way because there needs to be more people kind of coming. That's where you're seeing, like, even like a Timothy Shalame, where you're having a guy come up that's kind of like, yeah, he needs to be. a younger movie star. You need that kind of thing for your business to thrive. It can't just be the
Starting point is 00:48:08 kind of same thing. And so when everybody's creating new stuff, it's like, that's why there's a lot of making the twos and threes and fours. And you're just because you're like, there should be another Star Wars. It shouldn't be not that Star Wars. There should be another, what is Star Wars? It should, you should have someone that comes in and goes, here's a different idea, and make another Star Wars. You shouldn't rely on Star Wars for the next hundred years. Like, you should have other stuff. And I love Star Wars. It's not anything against Star Wars. But it's, there, you just need to, uh, I don't know, I think it gets lazy where people, you, you don't want to go really look for new people. And you need to go do that. And I mean, hopefully, I need to, I know what I need to do as Nate Land.
Starting point is 00:48:57 Honestly, I got to get it. I got to get some movies going. I got to get all this stuff to build up. But my plan is to step away. I have. I'm not going to do stand-up the way we're doing it. I see this tour, maybe one more tour, maybe. Really? But I, well, that's, I know. Oh, you just got booed.
Starting point is 00:49:15 I know. It goes, I know that sounds like crazy. But you've got to get out. I got to get out of the way. It's, you, it's, it can't, I can't sit here and just go do this stuff and not let, there's someone else. There needs to be someone else. And so, and I won't, and I'm not planning on like being gone, but I,
Starting point is 00:49:33 I just need to like then do some movies. Then I need to get out of the way. And I don't need to be in these movies. I need to find other, I want to be a part of them. I want the idea with Nate Land is like, I'll make sure that everything has what I think should be on it. But we need to have other younger people that are starting and starring in this that people can grow up with.
Starting point is 00:49:51 So when they're 50, you know, it's like they have their own Tom Hanks. And they have their own, you know, whoever, Eddie Murphy and whatever you need. But it's like it can't be, you know, it's like that's why I just see a hole. Yeah. And that's the idea when Nate Land is you just kind of see in Nashville is perfectly kind of becoming a city that's really kind of blowing up. And we do have a great local comedy scene there and a lot of comics doing it. But I think it's like you can, you know, I don't know, you can, there's a, there's just such a, I see it from stand-up. I mean, you're seeing how many people are coming out just from talking. So imagine if you made movies for them.
Starting point is 00:50:35 Like how many people would come watch that stuff? And so it's, you know, I think there's just a big gap. And so that's the, hopefully you'd be to fill that. I cannot wait to see what you turn out. I know. This is going to be fun. Thank you. By the way, the good news on Nate saying he's been stopped touring is
Starting point is 00:50:59 Rolling Stone said that in 1978. Go, yeah. And then they toured for 40 more years. Like, I'll still be jamming out. Yeah. All right, our time is short, and I want to make sure we get to some of your audience questions. I know, right? No.
Starting point is 00:51:15 No, we got some time. We're going to read your questions. Thank you very much. You guys are very nice. Thank you. I'm going to put on my turning 50 next year. I'm going to put on my readers. Oh, no, this year.
Starting point is 00:51:26 This year. This year. This year. This year. Thanks. All right. Again, where you all have traveled from, I'm blown away by this. This is from Julie of Milton George.
Starting point is 00:51:36 Are you in here, Julie? No. Now, okay. She left. They go here. She, yeah. Oh, right there. I honestly wish you left.
Starting point is 00:51:45 Like, that would be very, but she goes, I got to get out. Like, she goes. We sort of touched on this, but when did you realize you were funny? Was it that joke when you were five? Yeah, yeah. And then also in high school, I was, like, at a party, and I told it was just ranting about some story, and it was getting a lot of laughs. And so that was, like, the first kind of stand-up said I felt like I did.
Starting point is 00:52:05 So that I could tell that it was. It was like I was funny and, you know, and then that's when I started pursuing it. Those laughs are addictive, aren't they? You go, oh, I want that again. There's nothing. It's the best thing ever. Yeah. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:52:17 Okay, this is from Alexander, from New York City. Alexander asks, tell us about the first time you bombed on stage. Yeah. I mean, you bomb a lot. At the beginning, you're doing shows. I mean, once we did a show for one guy once. He was sitting. So there is a comedy club here in New York, but it was called Boston Comedy Club.
Starting point is 00:52:38 And so I was there, and this guy, he was a wonderful person. He did have a great laugh. But he's the only one there. And we're like, and basically it's my turn to go up. And I was like, what if we just don't do this? And he goes, no, no, that'll be fine. Just go do it. You're like, okay.
Starting point is 00:52:57 And then so he was pleasant. But then another time, I remember I had a shirt on, everybody was doing good. This crowd was sold out. Everybody's doing great. I go up and I bomb so hard. Like they no last, the full, like seven minutes, just complete silence. I had a butt-down shirt. I had it tucked in, and I blamed it all on that.
Starting point is 00:53:22 And I never wore that shirt after that. I had to go walk around the block alone. I untucked my shirt. And I love a tucked-in shirt. I love a tucked-in shirt. It could be nice. It could be nice, yeah. So with those kind of shows, because like I said, you, fair to say, you became big when you were 35 or something?
Starting point is 00:53:46 I theory with that, no one makes it, you either make it at 20 or 40, no one makes it in the middle. I've heard you say it. Yeah. It's right away or you got to wait. It's right away or you got to grind it out. So what gets you from age 21 to that weight to 40? In other words, when you're going to play for nobody. Is there ever a moment where you're like, maybe this isn't going to be it for me?
Starting point is 00:54:05 I never had that moment. I kind of felt I was supposed to be doing this. And so I never did. But you're slowly just going and then you're just seeing, as long as every year gets a little bit better. So you start, you know, I remember making like 30 grand a year. And you're like, well, I mean, that's what I'm going to be making at Applebee's. So I was like, I'm good.
Starting point is 00:54:28 I'm doing this. Yeah. And so then you just slowly just kind of keep going. All right. Let's go to Carmen of Fort Worth, Texas. Thank you for being here in Carmen. Oh, this is a good one. How did you meet your wives?
Starting point is 00:54:41 We talked about it for a minute. And do you think... You're asking both of us. Sorry. How do we? You just have the one wife, right? I have one, yeah. You've got one.
Starting point is 00:54:55 I got one that I talk about, the other one I have not brought out yet. Yeah. It goes too much. It's opposite to what I believe. in. It'd be bad for your brand if you came out with two wives. It would be a tough blow to Nate Land to go,
Starting point is 00:55:09 he goes, he's got eight wives. And you're like, uh, you go, we try to keep it under wraps. This isn't being aired right. Yeah, okay. That whole speech you just gave about culture. The opposite. Out the window.
Starting point is 00:55:23 Yeah. And do you think you would have been as successful if you had never met them, if you never met your wife? Again, it's for both of them. They're asking both of them. All right. So Applebee's you met, and how important has she been to your success?
Starting point is 00:55:37 I mean, I talk about her the most. She's been much more important than I probably have given her credit for and realized even in the moment. But the fact that she's just gone on with everything that I want to go do, I have a lot of ideas. I'm like, I know I'm very kind of low energy on stage, but I'm a lot at home. And, you know, I mean, it'll be 11 o'clock at night. My wife wants to go to bed. I'm like, we're going to do this. And I'm blah, blah, blah.
Starting point is 00:56:01 And so it's a ton to take in. So to have a partner that we'll let you do that is that's the only way I would even have this. I also just have the one wife. She's here tonight. Christina, say hello. I met my wife in Ridgewood, New Jersey, across the river. We met in Mr. Kaplan's sixth grade homeroom class. That's crazy. That's awesome.
Starting point is 00:56:38 in George Washington Middle School in Ridgewood, New Jersey. That's awesome. She also went to Bandy. And there's no way in hell I'd be anywhere I am now without Christina, for support, encouragement,
Starting point is 00:56:57 laughter, general coolness, known when I can be a lot too. I think it's fair to say. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And she'll say, why don't you just go out in the woods with the dog? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. And I go out and walk for 45 minutes
Starting point is 00:57:09 with the dog and it's all better. And just the, and the dog's got to take it all in. Exactly. This dog's like, I need a break from your husband. He doesn't stop. It's my. He's like, I got a pee over here alone. All the way over here.
Starting point is 00:57:31 Yeah. I love you. And the dog. Okay, this one is from India of Tulsa, Oklahoma, who I met earlier tonight. India. Oh, yeah. All right.
Starting point is 00:57:44 Oh, wow. Okay, this is for both of us again. Who is your man crush and you cannot say each other? Because you were going to say, yeah. I was going to say you. I could see it coming off. Yeah. You got one?
Starting point is 00:58:00 I have one just because I had a fun interaction with him. Kiefer Sutherland. So it's just because I was at, like, an event and he was there. I don't know Kiefer Sutherland. And he came up to me and was like, dude, he goes, buddy, I love you, buddy. I don't think he knows really who I am. So, but he was just so, he's like, I'm so glad, man, it's so great. Just, you look at us, buddy.
Starting point is 00:58:28 He goes, I love you, pal. And he told me he loved before he left. I've never talked to him before or after. I don't know if he knows I'm a comedian or if he thinks I'm somewhere else. But it was so nice that you're like, even if it's not me, that's a lucky guy who he thought I was. And so he's the man. That's a good one. I like comedy.
Starting point is 00:58:54 I like a funny guy. I'm going Paul Rudd. Can I go Rudd? Yeah. Is that right? Paul Rudd. Yeah. He's great.
Starting point is 00:59:01 He's great. Funny, self-deprecating, like yourself. Paul, I'm going Rudd. Rudd's the main guy. And I have met him a couple times, too. Yeah, he's the best. And again, I'm clear if he had any idea who I was, but it was nice to chat anyway. I'm sure he knew.
Starting point is 00:59:14 He did. There you got it. That's good. Kiefer and Rudd. Scott from South Orange, New Jersey, a great town across the river. What do you do when you realize the moment you're living through, this is for you, has the potential to make its way into your act? Do you realize it immediately?
Starting point is 00:59:31 Do you put in your phone? Like, what do you do? Sometimes you realize it. Sometimes you have like a little, you have it, and I'll write the little funny thing idea down, and then I got to just find out where it's going to end up going. And you sit on one that happened on. that I knew. I have a joke where I take my shirt off at a golf course
Starting point is 00:59:50 and this old man walks up. And he missed, yeah, Olivia, he mistakes me for his elderly wife. That's the type of shape my body's in. He's like, look at, what, she got? And she's got her shirt off. And he's like, he goes, oh, Olivia again, taking her shirt off in the parking lot. And so when he came,
Starting point is 01:00:16 up, he goes, he goes, Olivia, and everything happened. I covered up. I was like, I was like, I go, what's that? And he goes, and yeah, and it was, there was a valet kid there, and the guy walked away, and I went up to him, I go, did that guy call me Olivia? And he was like, yeah, yeah, he did. And I mean, the kid's like, I'm sorry, and I'm like, that's the best thing's ever happened to me in my life. And I went and told him. that story, that story is the opening joke on the Tennessee kid. And that happened
Starting point is 01:00:55 I mean weeks before that. That's how, so you get lucky sometimes where you're like, I don't really got to add anything to this. I'm going to just tell you exactly what happened. So some become very easy. And then around the house, do you have to
Starting point is 01:01:11 do you clear stuff with your family at all? Like I think I might use this. Yes. I will always tell them I will never do anything to make because I don't, I would never, I've really backed off talking about my daughter a lot, because I talked about her when she was younger. And then now I just don't want her going to school and like any kind of things. I even have some stories that I'm going to tell about I need her.
Starting point is 01:01:31 I just want to get old enough so she can understand, like, why I would be saying them and that it's not anything. So for her, I back off of, my wife definitely been in some fights. Where I'm like, that's not bad right there. She My wife just bought some game, card games,
Starting point is 01:01:57 where you're supposed to ask each other questions, you know? It's like, I imagine it's going to be the worst. But it's, but I was like, yeah,
Starting point is 01:02:06 I'll do it. And I'm definitely doing it to see what I'm going to get out. Like, it's, so I don't do that all the time, but when she was like, we play this game with me, I was like,
Starting point is 01:02:15 I need material right now. So I was like, yeah, let's go at it. Let's have some fun. So we're, see if anything comes out of that. Your daughter's so sweet when she introduces you in the special, so it's really cute.
Starting point is 01:02:27 She's, it's very special. Not named after Harper Lee, which you've made very clear. Not, yeah, yeah. Yeah, no. Okay, this is from Allison in New York. I'm amazed by the volume of material comedians are able to memorize, particularly since the wording is so specific. You've got every word right for the joke to work.
Starting point is 01:02:49 Have you ever drawn a blank mid-set? And if you do, what do you do? Yeah, it happens a lot. The way you think about it, it's like a song. So it's like everything kind of has got to go into. So I try to make everything where it's like, I'm talking about my wife, and then it goes into my parents. It's like, well, that makes sense.
Starting point is 01:03:07 And so you make it where it goes. But it's exactly like a song. And so it's just an hour long kind of song. And it's very hard to remember old jokes because you got to, when you do the next one, you're just kind of in a new, different kind of group. But yeah, I've started jokes and then just like was like, I don't even know why. I don't even know how this could be funny.
Starting point is 01:03:29 I've had it even trying to tell some old jokes, like ice coffee with cream, Starbucks joke. It's been so long that even if I started it, I'm like, I could tell you the idea of why it would be funny, but I don't remember any of the pieces. So sometimes you do, and you just got a bell on it. You just, in the moment, just go, I don't remember how that's going to go.
Starting point is 01:03:50 It's not fun. It's a moment. Because in your head, there's like a guy looking through papers going like, I think I know where this is going. And you're like, you're like, well, we're almost there, buddy. So I need you to figure it out. And then he goes, I got nothing. He's going to go, I don't know how that goes.
Starting point is 01:04:07 He's going to say that to 15,000 people. I don't know what I'm doing. The other thing I think people maybe don't realize is when you go on stage at Madison Square Garden in front of 20,000 people, you've done that set so many times. So many. Yeah. But it's almost second nature to you. Yeah, yeah, you're, and that's what live performance is so wonderful, because it's every night's different, because the crowds are different and why they laugh and how their rhythm of when they laugh.
Starting point is 01:04:33 And so it makes it where you can, yeah, stand up, you're not coming up with stuff. I mean, there's crowd work where people are interacting with the crowd, but with stand up, like, what I like, it's an act. And so it's this prepared act that you have taken all over the country. And so we do that, and then we record a special. specials at the end. Unlike music, they do an album and then they tour off that album. With stand-up, you tour, go get it kind of as good as you can get it, and then you tape it, and you put it out. And so right now, I'm going to the DC Improv. I'll be there, but I'll go to some comedy clubs because I've got to start small and start building this new
Starting point is 01:05:16 hour, then you slowly build it up to be, so then when it's where it's hit the arenas and all this, it's all kind of ready to go. And it'll change over those times. But yeah, you have, about the time you get to tape it as special, you're usually kind of probably ready. You're like, I'm kind of done with these jokes. And then you want to, like, get them taped and then start coming up snooke.
Starting point is 01:05:37 And now we've got a new one coming. Okay, last one. This is from Jerry and Westbury, New York. What is your favorite place in Nashville? Oh, that's hard. There's so many good ones. There is so many amazing places. A restaurant that I love.
Starting point is 01:05:51 There's a San Antonio Taco. Satco. Satco. On 21st. Yes. That's a big Vandy. Big time. Big Vandy hanged.
Starting point is 01:06:02 So I went there last week. Did you really? Sit outside? On the deck? No, it was like a little cold. I mean, it was like 50-50. But it was like a little chilly. What did you go with?
Starting point is 01:06:12 I go with two steak tacos, two beans tacos. And then, uh, queso. They have a mark where you get queso or queso and chips. I do the chips. Splurge for the chips. Yep. And they have the little pencils and you fill it out.
Starting point is 01:06:26 You write your order out and do it. And so it's, yeah, it's like the best. That's such a good call. Yeah. Yeah. And it's funny to be, it's just me and everybody that went to Vandy. That's in there.
Starting point is 01:06:40 It's like, when I'm in there, it's just, I did not go there. But it looks like I did. Yes. It looks like I did. We need to get you an honorary degree at this point. You represent us very well.
Starting point is 01:06:58 Yeah. Well, I'm proud to do it. I'll go, boy, SACO is a great one because your freshman year when you get there, like that's the right of passage. You go to SACCO. I'm going station in. Downtown in the gulch, if you know Nashville at all,
Starting point is 01:07:13 which is this incredible divey music venue that used to be in the middle of nowhere by itself. And now they've built an entire little city around it, but it's still there. It's like that. Yeah, exit is also... Exiton's another one. Is that still there?
Starting point is 01:07:27 I think it is. That's still there. I was there. My dad saw Steve Martin there. Really? Back in, like, 79 or something. They had something called Drink or Drown on Thursday. It's five bucks.
Starting point is 01:07:37 All you can drink out of a little plastic cup. Yeah. There was no rules back then. No. But Station Inn's the kind of place you go in, you drink Bud Heavy, and then, like, you know, Chris Stapleton walks in. Got one Bud Heavy over here. Chris Stapleton.
Starting point is 01:07:53 and walked on the stage. It's one of those places. So I'm going station in, but SACCO's a good one. Pains me to say good night because it's been so much fun. I know, right? And you'll see this interview with Nate on Sunday today next Sunday, not this Sunday, but a week on Sunday. Guys, thank you for coming. Give it up for Nate Fardecta. Thank you. Thank you.
Starting point is 01:08:27 My big thanks to Nate for a great conversation for being our very first Sunday sit-down live guest and most of all to the audience. Gosh, the energy in that room was amazing. And to City Winery for hosting our event. If you're ever in New York, go to Citywiner. It's beautiful right on the river. By the way, you can pre-order Nate's book, Big Dumb Eyes, stories from a Simpler Mind right now.
Starting point is 01:08:52 And my thanks to all of you for listening again this week. If you want to hear more of our conversations with guests every week, be sure to click follow so you never miss an episode. And don't forget to tune in to Sunday today every weekend on NBC to see these interviews with your own two eyes. I'm Willie Geist. We'll see you right back here next week on the Sunday Sitdown podcast.

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