The Comment Section with Drew Afualo - DO WE HAVE THE SAME DAD? | Drew Afualo ft. Sarah Baska | THE COMMENT SECTION EP 18

Episode Date: June 15, 2022

[video available on Spotify] Drew welcomes Sarah Baska this week as they talk about fan girls and how men treat being a fan girl.  Drew: https://linktr.ee/drewafualo Sarah: https://www.tiktok.com/@sarahbaska Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

My dad's a big dude. My dad's 6-6. Same. My dad's huge. This guy's 14, 15. Same. Custom made. Yeah, same.

My dad, too. We have the same dad. We're sisters. Someone put a picture of both our dads. I've actually never met my dad. I have a question. Hey, everyone, and welcome back to another episode of the comment section show. And today, I'm here with the one, the only Sarah Basko.

Hey. There's a bunch of people here, but they can't. guys. It's like, all right. All right. We can make our own. Yeah. Just the two of us. All right. I'm so happy to have you here, dude.

So happy to be here. I'm honored. I didn't even know that you knew who I was. Oh my God, are you kidding? I literally was telling Sarah right before this. I've been a fan of you from the jump. Day one. No.

Yeah, since you were working at the trampoline park. No way. Yeah. No. Yeah, I'm fine. That was like high school. vibes. Oh, I know, girl. No way. You remember the red shirt? Yeah. You were to wear your glasses and you're in your car. Yeah. Oh my God. You were a day one. I'm a day one. Sarah Baskos'

Stan. So you just like saw my whole journey. Yeah. Well, like I saw yours too, but you just kind of popped out of nowhere for me on my for you page. I think I'm watching this like crazy man Gringy, saying the worst shit, and then Ha ha ha! You're laugh. That's me. I was like, who is this bitch? That's my brand in a nutshell, to be honest.

Loved it. Immediately just like scroll through all your stuff, was giggling with you, followed you. I'm like, I feel like I know her already. Right? I'm glad I love that for us. I felt like that with you. I was going to keep it cool and be like, yeah,

I just recently found you. But that would make me a liar. I would have been like, oh, yeah, okay. That makes sense. No, I've known you forever. Oh my God. I'm such a fan. You're so funny, dude.

So you were a One Direction fan then? Because I only made Vines about one D. That's why I thought you were so funny because I relate. I could relate to me a fan. Who was my bias? Yeah. I was a hairy girl. Period.

From day one. I knew. I could pick them out of a lineup, which one's going to break away from the pack. Do you know who my favorite was at first? Louis? Yeah. Only because he just like had the end. I feel you.

Funny guy. Front man energy. It's like fire sign energy. Like he's a sad. And I'm so like drawing. What's Harry and Aquarius? Yeah. I think so, right?

Yeah. I'm cool with Aquarius people. He's like a weirdo. Yeah. No one gets him. Yeah, it was, I think more so for me, it was strictly based off looks. I was like, I picked this one. Even with the floppy, like mom?

The long hair, like long hair, hairy? No, I'm talking like X factor like a mop on the head. Oh, no. That no. that I'm not I'm not featuring that yeah I simply did not see it I chose to not see it didn't see that's why I was like Louis immediately which is so messed up like Harry's adorable but like no I know yeah but in those yeah I simply do not see you know what I mean I see that if I close my eyes it just doesn't exist doesn't exist and I in my the first video I ever saw of them was I think it was on YouTube but I

think it was like a acoustic version of them singing one thing. And I remember actively not looking them up because I was like, I can't handle this kind of session right now. Like I just knew myself, the hyperfixation was going to kick in and I wasn't going to be able to let it go. Like, I'm still not over my Justin Bieber phase. I still haven't graduated high school yet. The only one I missed was Justin Bieber.

I liked him, but I wasn't like feral about him. Like I was about like the Jonas Brothers. When the Jonas Brothers was out, I was like truly. like pussy in the wind. I was fair roll. I was letting my freak flag fly with them. You know what I mean? Same.

Yeah. But my transition over to Justin Pever was so intense. It was like, it just came over me. Yeah. And I actually have kind of a funny story about that. Oh, please tell it. So my best friend, Katie, when we were like in fifth grade. Yeah.

She had this really hot older cousin. And I was so jealous because I wanted a hot older cousin. Because I don't like have any cousins To be related to? Or to like kiss on the lips I just wanted like a cool cousin I got you got you Like he was just like a cool hot cousin

And I'm like I never had that I'd like to partake I would like to just like Have one of my own Okay I'm from Oregon Like I'm not like Weird I'm not kissing my cousins

I don't think No but like She had this cool cousin And I lied to her one day and I was like, I have a cool cousin. And she was like, oh, yeah. And I was like, yeah. And you remember Bebo? I think so.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. The knockoff Myspace. Yeah, I think so, yeah. So I'm scrowing on Bebo because I'm not allowed to have a Myspace. Like, what? Nine. What am I going to do on MySpace? Yeah.

Just add my friend, or my sister and all of her friends. Me. Literally me. I did that when I had in Myspace. So you're not wrong. Yeah, and I just wasn't allowed, so I went on Bebo. And there was a videos tab, and I saw this video, and it said, Justin B sings with you by Chris Brown.

And I'm like, what's that? With the guitar and everything? No, he was in front of, y'all know what I'm talking about. Wait, was he in front of the steps? He was in front of a Bart Simpson's poster, and he was just in his room. He's like 10. Yeah. It's just an inageable.

It was like so, and I was watching it and I was like, that's my cousin. Because it's Justin B. So I could be like Justin Basker. And it only had like 2,000 views. And I sent it to my friend Katie. I was like, this is my cousin. And she was like, no way. And then what if you pulled off your face and you were Scooter Brown underneath?

And you're the one who discovered him? Dude, I wish. At nine. Yeah, your L.A. Reed underneath. Yeah. Oh, and Katie, by the way. I'm L.A. Reed. In your fourth grade class.

You're no longer nine anymore? No, I'm fully L.A. Reed in this fourth grade class. That's how you found him? Yeah, and I, like, would message Katie on AIM pretending to be Justin Baska. And then she went on, she was watching MTV one day. And one time by Justin Bieber just got aired. And she's like, you're coming. is like on TV and I was like I like fully catfished her for so long she like fell in love with him

you start you start gaslighting her and said I never said that to you what would make you think that that man's related to me because I told you that that seems like actually like not even that seems like that's on you yeah a little bit like I feel like that's not my fault you're kind of stupid yeah that you are so easily gullible you know what I mean like you were easily convinced I think this friendship needs to add You're so wet. And you guys are so friends. Yeah, she's like my best friend.

She's like married with a kid. Love her. Love that. The arc from Bebo to know. We both just became so obsessed with Justin Bieber together now that he's not my cousin. You just casually forgot. Just let it go. Now that I don't have to have a crush on my cousin.

You're like, I was just having a silly goofy time. Just being silly. Yeah. That's so funny. My transition from to the Jonas Brothers, because that's where I was. was my most feral, I would argue. Before that, I was obsessed with my chemical romance. So big jump.

Oh. Big jump. Like, they were my very first concert when I was 10. That's kind of dope. Yeah, my mom took me with my sister and my other friend. And my friend didn't like that music literally at all. Like, she hated it. And she said she wanted to come.

And I was like, all right, cool. You're like head banging on the rail. She was just like. Yeah, she literally was like, I guess. She was like, you like this kind of stuff. I was like, yeah. I'm like acting like I understand the nuance of the lyrics at all. You're like sorry I have anger.

I'm mad at the world sometimes. I'm sorry that I'm so different from you. I'm not like other girls. The start of my pick me face. It's me pretending to be different liking them. I literally went from them to immediately the Jonas Brothers. I remember seeing year three. I don't know.

That's a very closing that gap. I don't know how that happens. You would seem like it would be the reverse. Nope. I literally went from there one extreme to the other. Because like in my co-ro romance, when I was 10 years old, I was convinced I was going to marry the guitarist. Ray Toro, if you ever see this. Ray Toro.

Hit my line. Let's go. Let's go. I'm just kidding. I'm taken. Anyway. Yeah. I was going to say.

I'm just kidding. Unless. Unless. Do you like have a wife, husband? I don't know. Let me know. Hit me up. But he was like 35 and I was 10.

And I was like, I'm going to marry this dude. Like I was so convinced. I don't know what it was about that. Because even when I liked Nick Jonas, it wasn't nearly as convincing to me that I was going to marry him that if I married Ray Toro from Michael Girlman. You have your standards? That's why I was like, listen, I know a man when I see it. I call it like I see it. Maybe it's because I knew Nick was a Virgo and I just can't feature.

He would be a Virgo. Yeah, I can't feature Virgo Man. I hate them. He would be a Virgo. So I bet you anything in like 12 year old me's body, she was like, can't do a Virgo Man. Who was the My Chemical Roan? Like what was his sign? I don't know what his son was actually.

I should look it up. You should. I do not know that. I don't know. Because at the time, I don't know, I was 10. I didn't know anything about astrology. Literally at all I was like, yeah, that's going to be my wife. My wife's, my husband.

But then he just knew when he was a Virgo. And you're like, no. You read it in Tiger Bee? Yeah. You're like, no. Immediately. Right. I was J-14.

I was literally like Virgo. I might have to rethink some things. Dude. but Joe is a Leo man. Yeah. You could tell too. I am so attracted to Leo men and it's like disgusting and disturbing. That's so funny.

So my sister attracts Leo's of all kinds. Really? Everyone in between. It's like almost exclusively Leo's. And she's like, what is it about me that attracts Leo's? I go, I don't know, man. She's a Saj. Well, that's it.

They're like the most compatible. Yeah. Yeah, that's what I said. I was sadgerizing. So I'm like, me too. Yeah. I'm a Virgo Virgo sun,

cancer moon Sagittarius rising. Okay, I'm a tourist sun, so we got the earth and the fire and then I'm a Gemini moon. I love tourists.

Really? Yeah, I love tourists. Brittany's a tourist too. Oh, yeah, she is. But my Gemini moon makes me crazy. Yeah, I feel that. My cancer moon makes me emotional,

so that's, like, the only thing that keeps me, I think. I'm jealous of that, though. Like, where Gemini Moon is just such like an intellectual feeling-based. Yeah, yeah. I'm like, I don't know. Overthinker. How to think or feel ever.

Yeah, I attract Tauruses and Libras. Best friends of Libra. Yeah. So my boyfriend's a Libra. Really? Yeah. So that's how I was like, I attract Libras and Taurusus all the time. But I love them.

I love everyone. Every single man that I've had a crush on has been a fire sign. And they've ruined my life. Every single time. I know. It's real hot and cold. Joe being a little bit makes a lot of sense to me. I wonder what Sophie Turner is.

Just out of curiosity. How they balance that. But that was like my biggest like, I'd say like feral energy was towards them. Like I bought everything that they had. I would celebrate their birthdays like my cats or some shit. Like literally like the most fan girl shit ever. With the Jonas brothers. Yeah.

And then I had like once they started kind of dying out a little bit. bit. I was like, bummer. But I'm also like 17, so maybe it's time. Let's move on to one direction now. And then one direction came on the scene and I was like, damn. I'm like, now. Can you all? Now I need another thing to be like, to preoccupy

my every waking thought. It has to be like multiple men. It just literally like one pop star. I'm like, can you give me a break? Yeah. It's too much energy. Let me breathe for just a second. Wait, so you went from my, let me just get this straight. My chemical romance. Were you like an emo kid? Yeah, kind of. Okay. A little. I mean, I would

say I shot that hot topic a lot. I don't know if that says a lot about me. Spencer. Spencer, never really Spencer's. I wasn't allowed to go into Spencer's. Same. My mom was like, you're not allowed to go in there until you're married. And I'm like, what? Which made me want to go in there more. She's like, it's only only for spouses. That's on the sign. You didn't see it, but it's there. Once I turned 16 and I went to the mall with my friends, I'm like, we have to go to Spencers. We went in there. I'm feeling crazy. I'm Crazy. Yeah. We saw like all of the dildos.

Girl, this is why my mom said to never come here. Run out crying. Call your mom. Yeah. I'm sorry. I'm going to hell. Yeah, I went from one. My comagromas to the Jonas Brothers to one direction.

Okay. Quite a weird jump, I would say. Have you always been a fan girl? Yeah. Yes. Yeah. my first actual like I was a fan girl for like Spongebob that was like my first like I love Spongebob like oh love that like I genuinely had every video game yeah

went to every premiere of like a new episode or like one of those specials that they would yeah yeah yeah and I was of a good portion of my humor SpongeBob easily if you're not a SpongeBob girl like I don't mess with the energy like I can like just I don't like this negative energy I'm sensing. I did a SpongeBob reference in front of this guy that I liked and he was like, what? And I'm like, I can't even entertain it. Check please.

Yeah, no, seriously. It's not you, it's me. I can't stand to be around you. And he like, left being like, what did I do? Like, what did I say? We were getting along so great. It's what you didn't say. Yeah, exactly.

I literally, like, did the tiny violin. Yeah. Because he said something like, oh, and I was like, oh, let me just play my tiny violin and he was like, what? Damn. Nothing hurts quite like a missed joke like that. Come on, dude. That's a different type of hurt.

Like, we're the same age. How did you not watch SpongeBob? I think that too. Or they're like, I just didn't find it funny. I don't think it's going to work out. It's like the most hysterical kids show ever. Yeah. With adult humor.

Yeah, every April Fool's, I say, happy April Fool's, you little sausage. Yeah. The joke hits every time. We needy hot juniors. Yeah. We literally make that joke all the time. Like no we needy had like I have a sign in my room.

Like don't even. Don't even think about it. Don't even, yeah. No weanies allowed. Yeah. So it started from there and just gradually grew. Started SpongeBob. And then my sister loved the Jonas Brothers.

So I kind of was like. Love that. But she also was like an emo older sister. Oh, okay. And like loved my chemical. romance. Then I got really into Fall Out Boy in fourth grade. Oh, we loved Fallout Boy. My sister and I. I had a Pete Wentz pillowcase. Like, genuinely obsessed with Pete Wentz. Short Kings. Short Kings. That means like five, too. I'm convinced. What is he doing? Is he still like? Oh no. I hope you're

doing well. Is Fallout Boy still a thing? I don't think so. Damn. Panic at the disco. Oh my God. Yes. Brendan Uri, dude. So hi. Like, yeah, it was like that. Never shout, never. Christopher Drew. Oh, yeah. The amount of, the amount of like, oh my God, I hope I never, I hope no one ever finds them. But like, the amount of Facebook posts or, like, tweets I would put that were like Christopher Drew lyrics.

And I'd write it as if I wrote it, as if that came from my own frontal lobe. Yeah, literally. So you got it off of it. Like literally. I genuinely thought I'm like this person is ahead of their time. Like lyricist, like a lyrical genius is what I would say. I'm in trouble. I'm in trouble.

Me too. I'm addicted to this girl. Me. Me. Oh my God, that's me. He's talking about me. So we both, yeah, we both established that we're big fan girls. Which is perfect, perfect segue into our topic today.

We're going to talk about fan girls. And specifically, how. we are tried and true, right? I would say we're vets in the area. Yeah. I know all too well. Taylor Swift. About being a fan girl.

And also we're going to talk about how men treat fan girls. Like the term fan girl, how they stigmatize women, all that fun, fun, fun stuff. So for those of you that are new and don't know, what we like to do here on the comment section is we bring videos that I was tagged in that are applicable to our topic today. and then we share all the laughs, the goofs, the giggles. We rip them apart and then we read comments from the comment section, obviously. So for this first video, I'm just going to give you a little breakdown of it. But basically it's a girl explaining how being a fan girl could benefit artists.

Like, I'm assuming we're just talking musicians because they can provide knowledge of the fan base. And eventually this knowledge could land you a job in the music industry. So she basically, Uno reversed being a fan girl and turned it into a career, which is a girl boss thing to do. boss. Easily. Using her passion to her advantage. Yeah, literally. And I feel like a lot of times, I mean, you know this too because you've been in the game

for a while as far as like being an influencer. But like brands love all female demographics because women move units. Women buy shit. Like women follow you to the ends of the earth and they buy things. Right. So they love an all female demographic. So the fact that men talk shit on it makes no sense to me. Women move capitalism a lot of times.

Yes. We're an integral cog into what's popular. I'll tell you that. If you get the girls on your side, you could do anything. Their rider dies forever. No, truly. Oh my God, yeah. Look at all the boy bands in the world.

Yeah. And like I, since I started out as a fan girl making content. Yeah. And like I gathered a fan base of my own. They were all females loving the same thing for me. It like helped me so much in my growth. Finding community too. Yes.

And that's exactly why people become fan girls. Yeah. Because they probably feel really out of place in their home life or like in school. A lot of people think it's cringy. Yeah, exactly. And then they just want to find other people that understand. And are like-minded. Yeah.

And there's nothing wrong with it. I always say like it's harmless. It doesn't hurt anybody to like love One Direction, for example. Unless it gets, you know, stalkerish. Unless you're doing that. Unless you're stalking. like normal thing, girl shit, like where you buy all their stuff and go to all their shows. And there's nothing wrong with that.

There's nothing wrong. Like stalker Sarah, as though I remember her? Yeah, dude. Oh, she's doing well. Dude. I think about her often. Me too. Is she good?

She crosses my mind from now. No, time and time again. I think, I wonder what she's up to. Yeah, what's like her new fixation now? I would love to know. Talk about a hyperfixation. Like, BTS? Like, is she in the K-pop world now?

I think that's the only thing I've never branched into is K-pop. But maybe it's just because I'm older now. But like, that is exactly where my head was at too. Because once one D, sorry here. Once one D ended, I was like, okay, well, this is the end of my grand girl. I'm going to go be a contributing member of society now. Exactly. I mean, just like, try to be a person.

Be normal. Yeah. Just kidding. That's, it's normal. It's normal. But it's, you know. That's also a little time consuming. Let me just like find myself without these men.

And then I became roommates with one of my really good friends who I met through One Direction. Like she was a Vine or two. Yeah. And so you know, Christel? Yeah, yeah, yeah. So I met her through Vine and then we became really good friends and then we became roommates. And then she's like, have you heard of BTS? And I'm like, yes, only because all of the 1D fan accounts that I followed all turned into BTS.

And so my entire timeline is like Junkok. Yeah. And I'm like who is Junkok, who is this man? Yeah, yeah. He's a great dancer, but like I didn't follow this page. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Oh, these are all 1D accounts. And she just really sat me down and she was like,

I know you're not going to understand anything that they're saying, but just watch how they move. And I'm like, okay, I'm open to it. And like she put the subtitles on and they were. were actually like really deep and beautiful and meaningful and amazing. And she's over here like crying and I'm like, wait, I get it. I get it. Yeah. But also I'm just, I don't know.

I think I'm just at a phase in my life where I just can't fully commit anymore. Same. You know? Yeah, I've punched my card quite a few times over my lifetime. I'm tired. I'm so tired. I'm busy. I have things to do.

That's literally what I think. I'm like, if I get into this, I'm not going to be able to stop. so like it's best that I just not admire from afar. How does your boyfriend feel about the fan girl shit? Did you know him when you were in the thick of it? No, no, not at all. I mean, well, I mean, we went to high school together, but like we were not obviously dating or anything,

so he didn't know about like my hyper fixation. I don't think. But I was never shy about it. Like it never intimidated me to tell people. Like I didn't give him. Yeah. But I know he finds it fascinating more than anything. because he's like, that's crazy that like women will like cry or like feel this like deep connection to someone they've never met.

But I think that now that I do this for a living, it makes more sense to him because he sees it from the other side. Yes. But I had told them about my fan girl phase and he was like, that's crazy. Because it's just like he's a cis heteroman. So he never had anything like that. He has no like dying devotion to anyone or anything like that's related. to like pop culture literally at all. How?

I don't know how people exist like that. I genuinely don't. But honestly, the only thing he like genuinely is such a big fan of is Guy Fieri. And that is not a joke. Like if you ever want to come on my show, please tell me. He'll be here. He hasn't come to all 20 of my episodes, but he'll be here. There he comes.

Dude. He is such a big fan of him. Next week I go on your YouTube channel. Just see Guy Fieri. He literally told, he dead ass told me like he's the only celebrity. This is way before I did this too, when we were. first day. He's like, he's the only celebrity that I would like need to ask for a picture. And I'd probably get an autograph. Yeah, because other than that, he's unfaced by literally anybody.

Is it like kind of as a joke or does he respect his craft? No, no. He literally respects his craft. He thinks he's the smartest, like, most like charismatic, genuine person. Like he's just obsessed with him. Does he like cook himself and he's like inspired? He likes to cook. Yeah. I mean, he doesn't mind. But he's just fascinated by he finds him so, like, energetic and fun. And he just, like, he literally told me, he's like, have you ever watched diners, drive-ins and dives? Triple D? That's what he kept telling me. Have you ever watched Triple D?

Amma, what the hell are you talking about? He goes, diners, drive-ins and dives. He, like, says it, like, hell, he says it on the show. Like, it's supposed to mean something to me. I'm like, I don't know what that is. And he showed it to, he's like, oh, it's the best show ever. He literally signed up for, like, the Food Network app to show me that show. His notification is on.

Yeah, his follow, it's not for me. It's following like Guy Fierry just posted. It's not even me. On every platform. Yeah, I can't like, since I blew up on TikTok, like, I've had like several famous people follow me or whatever. None of them really faze him. But then Guy Fierry liked my comment once and it became the top comment on one of his videos. And he was like, please take a picture of it.

Oh my God. He's like crying. Fetal position. He's like, I'm so happy for us. Oh, my God. We made it. That's how you know we've made it. Does he like go?

on tours and shit? I've literally, this is not a joke. For the last five years I've been dating this dude every year on his birthday I Google Guy Fieri tour because I want to see if he's going

on tour so I can take him. I've literally, I bought shit from his merch store. I bought his hats. I bought his like t-shirts, stickers, all kinds of shit. He eats it up. Every time I get to him,

he's like, this is the coolest thing I've ever gone. So he gets it. He gets it. Yeah. He gets it. I've asked him, I'm like,

have you ever like fan grilled or anyone? And then that was the only guy he could tell me. He was like, that's probably the only guy I would be like, wow. I mean, I get it. Yeah, I get it to an extent. The frosted tips. Oh, yeah. The man is so aggressively himself and I think that's what he likes about him. Yeah. He's never trying to change for nobody. No one. He's just doing his thing. Yeah. Just passionate about food. Yeah, he's just eaten. Yeah, literally. Just eaten. Big Raider fan. I know that. Like, he's a big Raiders fan. I think he's from

Oakland, if I'm not mistaken. If not, he's just a big Raider fan. But like, okay. Yeah, he's just, I know, I know way too much about Guy Fierry solely because of my boyfriend, like, he's just such a big fan of that dude. I go to your house or just books, books on books. Your whole bookshelf is filled. No, literally. My sister went through a phase where she was making, like, coasters and stuff. Like, I forget what you call that, like, what's, I forget the word for it when you make it, but she, for his. Like pottery.

Not pottery, it's like this, it's not ceramic. What's the term? Does anybody know? Resin. Resin, resin. Resin. Resin. Resin. Yeah, so she went through a resin phase, like, during the pandemic.

You know everyone's teaching themselves how to do shit? I was trying to do something. My sister taught herself how to do a bunch of shit, but she made resin. And for, like, my boyfriend's birthday, she made him, like, once with Guy Fierry inside them. Stop. Like, coasters. Stop it. And he was like, this is the coolest gift I've ever gone.

Did she paint it or just put him in it? No, it was like, I think, like, cutouts, like she cut it out and then put it in there and, like, glassed it over and all shit. That is sick. I know. They came out so sick. Like, I'll send pictures of them. So you guys. kids see them but yeah that's just he's a fan girl at heart too so he's cool yeah he gets it he's

one of the the few guys that get it that understands is that kind of what made you be like yeah i like you like you know you know what this might work out yeah and you knew him since high school yeah we haven't dated since high school i always tell people enemies to lovers arc more so did you just like each other like yeah we were cool okay we were friends okay we just didn't date oh okay and then we dated I think right after our graduate from college then we started dating and I think like three months after that. Cute. Did you guys go to the same college? No.

Oh. He stayed here in California. He went to APU. And then y'all just came out. Yeah, found our way back to each other. That's beautiful. So we could bond over Guy Fieri, Triple D. Yes. Over being fan girls. And I love watching all the men that hate you.

See him. I know, literally. People love that. That is so funny and such a flex. No pun intended, because I know he works out. But, like, that is so awesome. I can't even imagine how great that feels for you. Yeah, it's good either way.

That's how I'm like, either way, it's funny. Yeah, it's just... I win either, no matter what. It's just funny. We're just laughing at your expense. Yeah. Always. Always.

But back to this video. Yes. Oh, God. Some of these comments, yeah. No, we're totally fine. So it says, hold up. Is anyone going to debate rather that this? This is just fan girl or stalkerish.

This kind of freaks me out, but I'm happy for you. I'm happy for you, but this is border one. Like turning your fan girl into a job and a passion? There's nothing stalkerish about that. I think that's men convincing you that it's being a stalker. I absolutely agree. Like, I think that that's perfect because they know how the industry works. Yeah, exactly.

They're passionate. They want the best for these people. And they know what the girls are going to like. They know exactly what. the girls want. So it's going to foster the career and yours as well because you're going to bring good ideas. You're going to bring great ideas and you're going to keep the money flowing in. Well, and I also think too, like diehard fans of someone like Harry Styles, for example, like if they started working for him, it's more so they just want to see him do well more than anything.

Yes. I think a lot of times men equated to like sexual attraction, which I'm not saying isn't there, but it's not the driving force a lot of times. But that's because that's how men see women. Yeah. They're always, they see them as sexual objects. Whereas, like, women a lot of times are like, I just want to see him be happy. Yes. Which is what keeps you famous if we're being real. Oh my God, that is so true.

Like, men cannot get that in their heads. No, yeah, never. That we don't look at men like that. Like, yeah, it's there to, but it's not the driving force behind the dedication. I feel like once you kind of like feel the energy and like know them as a person, then the attraction starts coming in. Exactly. Like there's an initial, like a, there's like a physical attraction initially. But then to get you to buy shit, it's got to be more than that.

You know what I'm saying? Like, if I'm going to buy T-shirts with your face on it, I got to like more than what you look like. You know what I mean? It's like this, like you ever talk to a fan girl? They're like, I just know they're such a good person and they work really hard and they're so talented. Like it has nothing to do with looks. It's just inspiring. Yeah, it's inspiring.

It's inspiring because a lot of the time fan girls can. can look at them and be like, oh, these are normal people. Yeah. These are not like aliens. Like, I could do that too if I wanted. Exactly. And the fact that they're doing it, and also the guys that get so weird about fan girls, especially like with musicians.

Yeah. They're just mad because they can't sing and they can't hit a high seat. It's just jealousy more than anything. You can't hit those falsetto notes? Yeah, I'm like, you're just mad because he's like raking in bitches. like truly like he's just like a vacuum just sucking them all in literally and he doesn't have to do much like have you seen that i don't probably not because i'm the only person who is so lucky as to get this shit-ass content yeah your four you page sounds like a nightmare

thankfully my four you page is not that bad okay but my mentions are dumps for fire like it's a hot garbage in there it's like a big load in there but every time i go in there i'll see ones that are like trends when they're like um in case you ever feel It's gym bros, like, the worst dudes in the world. They're like, but my biggest fans. Right. They're literally like, if you ever feel bad about yourself, just remember that girls, a lot of girls like this dude.

And it's literally that picture of Harry Styles. You remember his Halloween shows when he dressed up as Dorothy? Oh, yeah. It's that one picture they're using. And I'm like, is this supposed to be like a, and then it cuts to them and they're like flexing in a. Oh my God, no. Like literal like stringer, the one that comes. between the titty's so like nipples are out rock hard it just transitions into that yeah it's them flexing

in a mirror like with the saturation all the way down the like brightness all the way down and it's like some terrible dub step song on the end he is so mad that he cannot sing or dance or draw a crowd of thousands of people or just get anyone to talk to him or get his mom or dentist like anyone with a vagina just like nothing doesn't even want to talk to him or just like nothing's just doesn't even want to No, she's like, close your mouth. Yeah. Like literally, I genuinely see that and I'm like, you can't be serious, bro. Oh, that's so sad.

This is hate or shit. I'm like, this is hate or raid, like, in its purest form. Is you being like, all these bitches like this guy? Yeah, because he's fun? This man in dress. Because he has a personality. That's like, don't you think, I literally, I talked about this with Bernie when she was here too, but I saw one also that was like, girls are like losing it over men like Pete Davidson and Jack Harlow

and y'all are still going to the gym at 4 in the morning like we need to re-stratage bro like we need to come up with another plan of action because this isn't working anymore get a hobby yeah experience the world yeah but like fan girls are the problem when you be making shit like that I'm like what's the difference between that and like you jerk in it to Joe Rogan like what's the difference to yourself in the mirror after you're done working out

What's the difference between that and you watching, like, Jordan Peterson? So is someone who watches Joe Rogan, like, a turnoff? A dude? Yeah. Just, like, that's a red flag. It's one thing if they're just like, I'm interested to see what this dude has to say. It's another if they're like, he's the greatest podcast host in the world. Like, he's truly the smartest man alive.

Like that? I'm all the men that was telling you to eat, like, horse tranquilizers to get rid of him. That's the guy, huh? He made me try ayahuasca. It really changed me. That's the guy, huh? Joe Rogan saved my life. Because he told me to do ketamine.

I literally made fun of Joe Rogan one time in one of my videos. Never heard the end of it. They go hard as hell for him. And I said, that's called being a fan girl. Right there. That right or die energy, that's fan girl energy, babe. That is so true. That's you being a fan girl, bitch.

That's how I'm like... That's you being passionate about a human. And wanting to be them. They're like, you don't know them. I'm like, neither do you. You and I are operating from Ground Zero, which, I know just as much as you do about him. That is such a good comparison. Yeah, it's the same thing.

That's why when they're like, oh, it's just creepy. I'm like, what's the difference? Like that man's in his 50s. If you want to talk about what's weird, that's pretty weird. And all he does is sit there and just like talk. And scream. Yeah, and scream. I literally said them just because you're loud doesn't mean you're right.

I mean, I could scream over people, too. It doesn't make me the best podcast host in the world. Number one. Oh, my God, dude. I mean, I think he actually is number one, but more so him being a terrible person is what I'm talking about. Oh, my God, no, but that's so true, that comparison. Because, like, every guy that I've talked to, because I just got out of a three-year relationship, so I'm just, like, trying to feel it out.

Yeah, entering slowly. Yeah. And then there's, there would be, like, a long period of time, like a long car ride we would go on. And then he would turn on Joe and I'm like, Can we just? Did you open the car and roll out into the freeway? Yes, tumbled. We'll need to stop.

Stop drop and roll. Run me over. No, truly. People, sometimes now people literally use me as a litmus. They ask men, like, do you watch, have you ever heard of Drew? No way. Yeah, and then I've literally had girls, like someone last night, commented on one of my TikToks and said,

my soon-to-be ex-husband used to hate watching, when I, watched you and that should have been my first red flag. I literally have girls putting me in their Tinder bios. If you don't like Drew, swipe left on me. No. And that's called being a fan girl. They care about you that much. You're in their Tinder bio? Yeah, like my girls. Like my girls are like if you don't like her, swipe left on me. Oh, the girls say that. Oh, I thought you meant the guys said that. No, some guys do that. They're like, if you like this fat bitch, then don't even bother. Swipe left. You swipe and like you're in one of the pictures.

Like, oh my God. No, right, you scroll down and right below it says five, six. Oh, my God. That tracks, buddy. Yeah. I'm not surprised. Oh, my God. Yeah, my girls, they ride hard for me.

They really do. And I bet they appreciate that so much because you are one of the first people that I've seen that is really trying to make a difference. Oh, thank you. And you're like really out here just trying to wake a lot of these girls. up like your boyfriend suck and they're manipulative. Yeah, it's crazy. And they're gas, like, oh my God, you're dating someone like this? Yeah, sometimes, sometimes girls message me like when I do Q&A's very every now and then. They'll ask me like, my boyfriend, um, likes when I send him pictures of what I wear before I go out. Do you think that's a bad thing? Yeah, I do.

Or when they're like, you can't wear that. Yeah, they're like, what should I do? Break up with him. break up with him i literally tell dump him literally abandon him tonight pack your shit and leave and they're like don't tell him okay queen yeah they're like got it they send you a picture of boxes of them moving out i've had several i've had several women tell me they left active relationships they were in after watching my stuff that is what i'm talking about like and i'm telling you i'm like raise that barb take it out of hell i promise you someone will meet it just gonna take a bit. Because you do it in such like a cutthroat way.

Yeah. And you have such like a beautiful delivery too. It's just so, you make it just so funny and enjoyable. And like there's no way that a guy can watch that. And everything you're saying is fact. Like everything you're saying is very psychologically, like, driven. Yeah. And it's just like smart.

And their only comeback is just like, so you're body shaming me. After I said a litany of other things. I said all kinds of other things And I'm like, that's all you got from that, huh? I said the ear only hears what it wants here. That's called selective hearing. You didn't hear anything else I said because you're upset that you're 5'2

And that's not my fault, babe. Oh, my God. I can't control whether or not you work at Circle K. That's not my fault. Ross. Yeah, you work at Sonic and somehow that's on me. That's on me that you have to wear rollerblades to work. You're literally rollerblades to work.

That's what I said, babe. And you're falling over. It's not my fault. You work at the bowling alley and that's not my fault. Listen, we all make choices in life. Hey. Listen. I'm not judging.

I'm just saying you don't deserve this bitch. That's what I'm saying. Exactly. Yeah. So I think, again, too, back to Harry Stiles. Like, that's a huge jealousy thing too because he has money, power, influence. He's conventionally attractive. And he's talented.

Like, he's earned all his fame and glory. And he balanced and perfected the two energies of masculine and feminine energy. Yeah, exactly. And he blended it beautifully. And a lot of guys do not know how to tap into their feminine side. Oh, yeah. Because they were taught that they could never do that. And that's what women want.

That's what women want. Women are looking for that. They're like searching for it. And they're like, you're telling me that these Mussel Bob buff pants arms are not enough to keep this bitch here. You're telling me I got to be nice. to you too. What else do you want? You wanted, first you wanted to vote. And then you want to own your own debit card.

Now this. Now I have to be nice on top of that. That's literally like, and you want to work and have a career. Like, what is this? Oh, and you don't want to have kids? Yeah, they're like, where? They're like, where does it end? How selfish are you going to be, bitch? Oh my God.

It sounds like it's all about you. That's what I always, and that's why I'm saying like when men like that say shit like that, I'm like, then die alone, bro. I don't know what to tell you. You're going to die alone. Let that lineage die out with you. Don't procreate. Do us all a favor.

Were you like this with like your actual home girls in real life? Like when they had toxic boyfriends? Oh, yeah. Would you go off to? Oh, yeah, all the time. I tell him, I don't like him. Why? Well, he's an asshole.

Like, I would literally tell him he's not good. He's like a bad guy. Why? And I would tell him exactly why. And they're like, well. And sometimes my girls are, would tell me like, I feel like you're too picky. And I'm like, I don't want

to date someone who doesn't know that the word like unfunny is a word. You know what I'm saying? I don't want to date someone that thinks, what's the word conversated as a word? Yeah. I don't want to date someone like that. And someone who actively refers to women

as females or bitches? My thing with females. See, the thing about you females, nope. Cut off, immediately. Cut off. Nope. I don't want to hear. one more thing you have to say. I don't need to hear it, dude. I always say I'm like, I don't have to hear it.

And sometimes people are like, why don't you talk to, what did you have like an open discussion, whatever, a debate? For what? For what? What do I get out of that besides migraines? I get nothing out of that. Literally. And also like a lot of the things with my friends too, because I'm the same way because I'm like,

you can do better, sis. Yeah, literally. They're always like, but his trauma, like this is why he's like this. And I'm like, I get that. So you're doing emotional labor. on top of it? So you're going to be his therapist too? Is he paying you? Because if not, this ain't worth it. Are you getting paid the amount of money that a therapist would make off him? Nope. And they're like, he's going to therapy and it's like, Wayne, let's call them now. What's his insurance?

Allegedly. Yeah. Have you ever seen him, like actually go? Do we have to hold his hand and walk him? Honestly, men like that who are aware of stuff like that are more dangerous to me than like meathead because a meathead just is like emotions never heard of them except anger but that's not an emotion but like men who are emotionally cognizant and still like that infinitely worse oh where they just go to therapy to learn how to be manipulative that's batman villain shit dude and that happens like okay the ridler like get out of here bro like learning the it's like keep your enemies close my sister's a therapist and she refuses to have male clients for that reason for her.

Yeah. Good for her. I would do the same shit. Yeah. Honestly. So for this next video we have, um, again, a breakdown of it. It's a girl calling out that guys make fun of girls for always being a big fan girl, which is typical.

We talked about that over artists, but they go all out for sports. And there's like a bunch of pictures she's putting in there of men like absolutely losing their marbles at like any sports game, which I've also said too is like hilarious. to me. So funny. You want to talk about a fan girl. Like literally men like play fantasy football. Like they pretend to manage a football team and they want to talk about how we're nuts.

They play a game of spreadsheets and they're like, you girls are, you bitches are crazy. And if you like are like, hey big, shut up. Like literally, you cannot bother them. Yeah, they like don't shower and stuff like during season and all that. And if God forbid. you're watching the game with a man. And you like ask him one question. He's like, wait till the commercial.

Like, I can't. Like, they're locked in that. Yeah. For what? I used to watch football with my dad all the time because he's a professional football. He used to be a professional football. I heard you saying that. Mine too.

Yes. Twins. No, but I used to watch it because he's the one he taught me what it was. And even him explaining it to me, now that I know the game, I'm still just like, why do they have to pause every five, seconds and like why is that enjoyable? No literally. It's like oh action for like three seconds and then stops action. It's like ooh tackling each other and then stops for two minutes. And you know what's crazy

about that too is like the men who absolutely like lose their minds like they get so hard for football players like truly they're like unintelligible because that's how much they love the game or the players. We both, our dads are both former professional football players, right? We can, we're experts on this. We can vouch for it. Nine times out of ten, the men who act like that never at any point could have been a football player.

They don't have it. Listen, you don't have it. If no one's told you, I'm going to tell you you don't have it. You never had it. You never can have it. You're never going to be a famous football player ever. And that's okay. And that's okay.

Listen, we all have our strengths. Hey, I'm never going to be Ariana Grande. but I can still like respectfully watch her and like her. Yeah, and I'm not going to shit on people who don't like her. Like, I mean, I'm going to be, I'm still going to like her not out of like hatred or jealousy. Yeah. I think that all the time. I'm like, if I could pick a talent, I would pick singing and I would want to sing like her because I'd be wild.

Yeah. Of course. I can't even imagine. But like I literally laugh because of the dudes who take that shit way too serious. Like I made a video about this once. I've never, never been lit up or attempted to be lit up. so much by dudes when I said like what's crazy is when they recount games to you like think about the worst dude you know who loves football or basketball baseball whatever got it he's an

right aren't they always oh my god oh Jesus Christ but they literally like let's say they lost a game and they're upset when they're recounting it to you they're going this is what we need to do who's we we baby you're not on the team bitch like I literally go you're not on the team. You don't manage. Like he's like, this is our new strategy. Our.

He has a whiteboard. They do. They're like, this is where we messed up. Who's we, bitch? And I always think, what are the odds

you know and Pete Carroll doesn't? Oh, what are the odds that you know? Oh my God. And like Jim Harbaal doesn't.

Like, what are the odds, bitch? What are the odds? Like, imagine if me and you were at a concert and one of the people

performing just didn't hit the note. And we're like, here's what we need to do. This is how we get better. We strategize. This is what we do. In the crowd,

ha, ha, ha, ha, ha. I start hitting scales. I have a little harmonica. This is where we're starting. I'm all, meet me up here. Meet me up here. It's like, where does that God's complex come?

For them. That's what I'm saying. It's literal, it's delusion, is what it is. Like, literal delusion. That's, talk about being like, completely wrapped up in a fantasy, like is believing that your opinion matters.

And just to like hit a man, just to run into a man. And you just think like, it's the same dude who's like, if I didn't tear my ACL in high school, that could have been me. The odds are, listen, if you had the two best needs in the world, it wouldn't have been you. Like, I could promise. I literally, sometimes I'll tell dudes I'm like,

me and this outfit, I would have a higher likelihood of making it to the NFL than you. I could do a sling. am dunk right now. That if you prepared for a year, me in this outfit right now I'd have a higher likelihood. Oh my God. It's just like genetics.

Exactly. Like it's leticism. Dude, me doing flat like powder puff football in high school all of the guys on the football team that were like our coaches were like, oh shit, Basco.

Like, I'm like, oh, huh. Like maybe I do get football. It's got fun. They're like, she's not like the other girls. They invite me on the team. And I'm like, no. You're like, no, I'm good.

I'm busy, sorry. It's so, like, it's the ultimate, I think, version of being a fan girl is, like, being, like, so addicted to sports and, like, watching it and all of that. Yeah. I just can't imagine. And, like, going to, like, the high school football teams. When they're, like, well over the age. No, and they, yeah. When you can legally drink.

They have their letterman jackets on. Like, they're just, like, reliving it. But then also the high school. school football players like, God bless them. They're just kids. This is cute. But like they walk out on that field and they're just like, oh yeah. Like I'm in the freaking NFL. Like, let's go. Sometimes I think they're like, it's just like, I don't know. I just feel like maybe you're not surrounded by people who don't lie to you all the time. Because like, let me tell you something about my family. My family will keep me

humble. I'll tell you that much. If I wanted to sing and I sang and my mom was like, that sounded like shit, but listen, you know what? We could do something else. Like, my mom is so real, bro. Like, my sister would tell me the same shit. You send her a video of you singing and she autotunes it for you. She just gives her a thumbs down. It's a no from me, dog.

She says, you know what, no, but I like your confidence. Like, that's literally, I'm telling you, the realest people. But that's, that's, that's what you need. That's good. That's what you need. That's good. That's okay. Yes, it's going to hurt, but. Sometimes, I always, I always,

think like self-confidence is important but self-awareness is pivotal to like exist in in the world i feel like you do have to be aware like what am i good at what am i not good at like i always i've said this before like i'm okay knowing that there's only one biance like i'm okay with that like it's i don't need to be her i would have a stroke if i did that choreo i'm literally like it's okay i don't need to be her because she's she's one in a million she's biance that's what i'm saying like Like some of these dudes are literally like convinced. Your name is Jack. Like literally if they were in the crowd, right?

Like let's say they're in the crowd and Tom Brady gets hurt. And he's like, you come down here. Come play. They're convinced they could do it. I swear to God, you want to talk about a fan girl delusion? It doesn't know anything worse than that. A coach switch me out. Yeah, they're literally like if he put me in there, you would be dead.

Like I literally think like you're five, six, bro. Like you would never survive. The shortest dude on their team is six four. Like, oh. Literally, dude. They're like, like, they genuinely think, like, if I was in the crowd and he looked at me and he brought me down there, like, I could have, like, I could have made that catch. I could have done that. I could have done that.

I could have ran the route. Like, literally that could, I could have done it. And when a play goes wrong, they're like, oh, what are you doing, man? What was that? Oh, my God. They're like, give me the ball. I'll show you how it should have been done. Throw it to me.

Literally, I'm like this. Like, I don't even Like, it's just, that's why it kills me. It kills me. Watching them obsessed like that, it kills me. And we both had dads play in the league. So, like, I've seen both sides.

I worked in sports for a long time, too. Yes. They're just like a different breed of athleticism. Like, it's on another level. Like, it's something you could never touch, truly. Like, and being, like, the girlfriend of someone like that, I can't even. Can't imagine.

The anxiety. Yeah, it's not the life from. Pay attention to me. Hello? No, literally. Can we talk about something other than of the ball, please? Is that possible?

Hey, so I had a good day today at work. In case you're wondering. Ah, shut up. That's why I think like the feral energy they have towards professional sports is, in me opinion, much worse than like women who love Harry Styles or like women who love BTS.

Because they have an aggression. do it. Yeah, it's a violence. It's not like an adoration. I mean, it is. But then I also think, too, like, I've talked about this before, but like when I worked in sports, I was like, I was hit on by professional athletes. I told one of those stories on my TikTok well before I, like, blew up. And the amount of dudes that were like, he would never, he would never, listen, you're ugly and he would never. In person, they would say that? And then, well, no, I, when I told, that story in person, most men, like, they geek out, like, they literally freak out

like it was them, like, they wish they were me. Okay. But, like, it's literally because they're so obsessed with this person and he's a huge NFL star and they, the lines get so blurred, like, they can't tell if they want to be him or they want to be me. Right. In that situation, you know what I'm saying?

Yeah. So that's the, the fan girl energy. And you get to see it exuding out of them. No, truly. You're like, are you going to make fun of me because I have a hairy star's pillow paste? And a cardboard cutout Like a sweater with him on it Like you're gonna make fun of me But genuinely have a Jonas Brothers Christmas sweater

Yeah but meanwhile you're getting sunburnt Right In like the hot sun at the Rams stadium Because you're shirtless and you painted Rams on you You look like Larry the Lobster With the sunsooned Literally Literally you like love Aaron Donald so much

Who plays for the Rams and you're literally like Painting his name on your chest hoping he'll see you like I just say he's in the nosebleeds he's at the very top of it's like it's the same energy bro don't make fun of us it's the same thing and they get so drunk at those games and like and then after the games if they win they go out on the streets and riot yeah and if they lose they do the same thing it doesn't matter it really doesn't matter either way not matter. That's why like I love, I love when you compare like men who love sports like that to

like women and you call them both fan girls. They hate that shit. Not even fan boys. It's so funny. It's fan men. It's alpha fan men. So the comments on this video it says, the loan clothing blankets, phone cases, car stickers, furniture, etc.

of their fave teams, but a girl has a 1D poster who has a 1D poster is crazy, which is exactly what I said, dude, like, oh my gosh, when men are like that, they literally make it their whole personality. Oh my God. Like, you've ever seen, like, a dad that, like, you could tell that he's a big, like, dolphins fan because his family gets him dolphins shit every year for, like, Father's Day, birthday, anniversary, Christmas. Like, yeah, it's, like, mugs, posters, carpets, like.

That's what I do with my dad sometimes. For the Broncos. I'll give you another Broncos mug. I don't know what you like, Dad. Yeah, they're like, what do you like? Sports? Yeah. And it's so funny, too, because I had a friend tell me one time that she invited this guy over to, like, hook up.

Yeah, yeah. And he saw, like, I don't know if it was a hairy poster. It was some guy on her wall. And he made her take it down because he didn't want him, like, looking at that. Like, he didn't want to see him while they were hooking up. And I'm like, what are you? Are you really? He's not there.

It's all right. He's not there on the wall. That's weird. That's weirdly. He's not actually looking at you unless you're like on something. Yeah, literally. And meanwhile he's like a big Tom Brady fan or something. I said that once and it's take my very first video to like ever like go viral viral

was I made a list of red, very specific red flags in men. That was the prompt. Love. So I, one of them was like, I said like if Wolf of Wall Street is his favorite. movie. You know what I mean? If he's a big Joe Rogan fan. But one of them I said was if he loves

Tom Brady. And I said and I'm not talking a Patriots fan or a Bucs fan. I'm talking like just him. Like to the point where he would kiss him on the lips if he had the chance. And he would. That man has anger issues. Like something's wrong up here.

That's so sure. As I said, re-evaluate. And literally so many women were like the Tom Brady thing is crazy accurate. Because It's true. There's something, that guy attracts the weirdest fans. He attracts the demons. The demon fan girls.

It's like a portal inside of it. No, literally, it's like a homing device. They all come to see him. Yeah, they all come to him. They flock to him. This next comment says, and then they also gatekeep being a fan of sports. It's the exact same thing. They say they want a girl that's like a pygmy girl.

They describe like, girl likes football and beer. Burps. Burbs, farts. doesn't care, but she's also 2% body fat, size 2. But that makes me food. Big tities. She also doesn't like to work, but also works for me and pays for me. Yeah.

Kim K. And I don't think that's asking for much at the end of the day. Literally. And then you tell, you tell them like, oh, I like, I enjoy sports. Really? Do you? And it's like, name three Super Bowl MVP's. Name the last 10 Super Bowl MVP's.

Actually, name the last three Heisman trophy winners. Oh, yeah. But you can't, bitch. What's Pete Carroll's Blood? type. Oh, yeah. They know. Thought you said you like sports.

They know, they know. They grill you like you're on, like you're on death row or something. And then God forbid you, you get a sentence in and you're like, um, I kind of like Nile Horan from, you're cringy. That's so cringy. Yeah. You're like a woman. You're like a grown woman. Yeah, yeah.

Like, why don't you grow up? Are you in high school? Yeah, literally. They're like, sorry I enjoy music? Yeah, why don't you grow up? Meanwhile, they're wearing the last name of another full grown man. on their back. A name that doesn't belong to them.

They're like, wanting to marry him and take his... They're like, check it. Oh, yeah. Peep the jersey. That's what I thought. Oh, man. It just tears me open.

It tears me open watching that happen in front of my eyes. It's so funny too because, like, my dad and my boyfriend don't care about football. Like, my dad played football. My boyfriend played football long-ass time. Neither of them really care. They follow it. They like to watch. But like when you ask, like, that's the first thing, like, bro kind of dudes ask full grown men.

Who's your team? First thing they ask. And my dad always goes, I don't really have one, to be honest. And they're like, what do you mean? What do you mean by that? Oh, same. Whenever I bring a guy over to meet my dad, they're like, oh, my God, you were like, and my dad's like, yeah.

My dad lies. Oh, really? Yeah, when people ask him, like, did you play? Because my dad's a big dude. My dad's six, six. Same. My dad's huge. Size 14, 15 shoes. Custom made.

Yeah, same. My dad, too. We have the same dad. We're sisters. Someone put a picture of both our dads. I've actually never met my dad. I have a question. They asked them explaining to do.

That's so funny. No, literally my dad, sometimes they'll ask my dad, did you play? My dad goes, no. And they're like, never? You should have. You know what you should have done? They do the same thing to my boyfriend. My boyfriend's 6'4.

Okay, that's funny. Hey man, did you play a ball? we're at me no not really I mean I went to the JC for a bit but then you know my hip it got a bad hip so didn't work out for me but like honestly I played with do you know like Jared Gough like I did I did play the same pee we team as him at one point so like technically like at the trajectory he was on like would I have been there I mean maybe that exact conversation I've listened to I can't even tell you how many times with my boyfriend and he's just going Nice

Cool, can I move on now? Can I get my smoothie? He's like, okay, so that was I mean, I can give you I don't need the change. That was five minutes of my day I wasted. He goes, I just need 20 on four

so. Thanks, thanks though. Appreciate it. Pay for my groceries now. Have a nice day, man. Do not care. Leave me alone. That's why, like, I literally can't

handle the disconnect is so funny to me, the cognitive dissonance between the two. they're like they're nowhere new to the same. Oh my God and our dads are just so over it. Yeah. Still loves football because it's like, oh, nostalgic. Same.

Gonna follow whatever. Yeah. Watches all of it. But my dad just watches it. And when it's over, he talks to his family. Asks me about my day. Yeah. When it's over, it's over.

Yeah. That's crazy though. And we'll listen to me when I talk about Harry Styles. Same. Cairs. My dad goes, who's that? And then I explained to me and he goes, oh, does he do something?

Like, he asked me all these questions. Yeah. And I'm like, let me tell you the T on Harry's Siles. And my dad's like, I'm going to tell my dad about the Liam Payne drama, I'll let me tell you something. Oh my God, that's drama. And he'll listen to the whole thing and he'll be like, wow.

And that's it. Because my dad's a psychologist too. He's a therapist also. He like played football and then thought to himself, why do I have so much aggression and why do I need to play football to let this out? Do I have anger issues? And then he went back to school. Look at your dad.

And then became a therapist for anger management. he's an Aquarius Oh my dad's Pisces Oh period I know Pisces men get a bad rap But my dad's a really good Pisces Yeah there's a few good ones They're close though

Pyses and Aquarius is super close Yeah Do we have the same dad Literally Is your dad bald No He has a great head of hair My dad's bald

By choice I would say I love it People are like Okay Dway You make fun of bald people And I'm like My dad's bald I know a bald person

So I can't be mean to them Yeah, it's like I'm actually quite close to a bald guy, so Yeah I'm allowed to make fun of them I have a bald dad, so Yeah, you're allowed to do that He gives you permission

He told me it was okay He said on behalf of all bald people I can make fun of you Exactly, that's all If you want to get mad Get mad, get mad of him Yeah Bring him on the pond

Can you please This is my dad's nightmare Oh okay yeah He would love to come watch But like being on camera Meanwhile my dad wants to start His own YouTube channel Maybe we don't have the same dad

My dad is so flashy. Oh my God. Okay, I think that's going to do it for our episode today. Thank you so much to my guest, Sarah Basca, the one and only, the OG fan girl. If you had to say anything to our fellow fan girls out there, what would it be? Just keep loving and learning and being passionate and just do it because you want to do it and ignore everyone who thinks it's cringy. Us literally ripping footballers. There are some football players that are, I mean football fans that, you know, they're normal.

They'll laugh at our jokes. The ones that don't care, they'll laugh. But just keep doing you. Like what you like. But just don't be crazy. Which is what I think, too. There's a line for everything. But I always think men, think about it, if you really think about it, men that are terrible, like the ones we're making fun of, are going to make fun of you no matter what you like.

whether you liked sports or you like Carrie Styles or anything in between. Or karaoke night. Yeah, it really doesn't matter. If you're like super into Jenga, like they'll make funny you for that. Salsa class. No, truly, like,

if you were super into just collecting mugs, like they would make fun of you for that. Like these are the men we're talking about. Yeah, truly, they're going to make fun of you no matter what. So just like whatever you want to like. Whenever you want to like it, at whatever age, there's no age limit on things you can like. And keep loving.

Loving, living, and laughing. Laughing. Love that for us. Live, laugh, love, fan girl. No, thank you so much for having me. I'm so glad. Such a hoot. Genuinely, I've never met her in my life.

No, now we found out we're sisters. Yeah. Have the same dad. Yeah, we have the same not bald but kind of bald dad. There you go. I just shaved my dad's head. Just hit him with a big. Just one time real quick.

But thank you all for joining us today. Thank you, Sarah, for joining us. And also where can everybody find you? Ooh, Instagram at Sarah Basca, uh, with two A's at the end. And then Twitter, just Sarah Basca. I'm kind of on TikTok sometimes. Love that. But Sarah Basque on TikTok and you just, yeah, my name.

Revs, revs. Everyone go follow Sarah. She is so funny. Unbelievably funny. I adore you. Thank you so much for coming today. I had so much fun. Me too.

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Make sure you stream it and make sure you follow Sarah. Otherwise, I'm going to be mad at you. I'm going to hunt you down. Thank you so much for joining us today. We'll see you next time. Bye.