The Comment Section with Drew Afualo - DO YOU KNOW LIGMA? Ft. Avery Woods

Episode Date: April 10, 2024

This week Drew welcomes Avery Woods to talk transitioning from full-time nurse to full-time content creator. They talk the gender-double standard hypocrisy of stay at home dads vs. working moms, men upset about an all-female nightclub, Drew’s isms, getting mom-shaming for wearing bikinis, and so much more! Drew: https://linktr.ee/drewafualo Avery: IG / TikTok For sponsorships/partnerships, email [e-mail]. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ligma, Ligma balls is a big one. Ligma. I get them every time. When Dylan Mulvaney was on my show, I was telling her about those little, like, isms. Yeah. So, do you know what Ligma is? And she was like, no, what is it? Wait, yeah, you do a good impression.

Yeah, she was so like, no. And I was like, oh, I feel bad getting you. Yeah, you're like, lig my balls. Gotcha. Fucking got you, bitch. Hey, everyone, and welcome back to another episode of the comment section show, starring me, your fave, who cares about me? on to the guest.

Today we have the iconic, the legendary, the amazing, the beautiful, everyone. Wow. That was a great intro. Thank you. Thank you. I've done it 113 times. Exactly, actually.

Welcome to the show. Thanks for having me. I'm so happy to be here. I'm happy to have you. We go way back. We really do. Since yesterday. Yeah, you know I'm obsessed with you.

Same. Likewise. I actually want to tell you, the first time I ever saw yourself, it was actually the Stevie blogs. Okay. The original, the OGs. Which are all gone now.

Yeah. Fuck the haters. They're gone now. Relax. Yeah, everyone calm down. Chill. The kids are safe. That was the first time I ever saw you on my 40 page.

Yeah. But then I started watching your day in the life like blogs. Yeah. I'm eating them up. Really? I love your content. You are so supportive because every time I see like your comments kind of like, oh my God, Drew likes my shit.

It's crazy. I love the little your vlogs and how they like, they're very like clean and organize and love that I'm a virgo so oh my god thanks well I try to show more realistic stuff when I can but behind the scenes it's it's literally chaos all the time like Scotty can attest my house is just full of kids and but it's all happy like yeah there'll be a time where it'll be quiet and clean but right now it's not and so I'm soaking it in my kids are fucking whack jobs but I love them I'm so curious like for well I know your lore but just for those that don't know your lore I'm sure they would want to know how you got into content creation I know it's been a journey for

Yeah, so I would say I really started probably about eight years ago. I was in college. I knew I wanted to go to nursing school. And I, content creation was kind of for me. It was more so on YouTube. Yeah. But Instagram was obviously a thing. This was like Tumblr days and I loved certain content creators. But how I first started gaining traction was sharing my nursing school journey, which was really random because I didn't really expect it to go that way. And also medical influencing was not what it is now. Like it wasn't, it wasn't really, figs wasn't really big back then. Yeah. It wasn't really common for people in the medical field to share their life on social media because there is a certain barrier that has to be respected because of patient privacy and certain things. Totally. So I kind of just shared my journey and then my nursing uniforms were Cherokee and they had noticed me and sent me a DM.

And they were like, hey, can we send you free scrubs in exchange for photos? and I was like so poor. And I said, fuck yeah. So I would get scrubs post photos. And then I kind of started getting traction. And then they told me, I think I had like 300 Instagram followers, but a private account. Like, hey, you have to make your profile public. And I was like, oh, I don't know about that.

Yeah. Because I went to a private nursing school. And so they were super strict. And then I did it. And it kind of just slowly grew from there. And I honestly, I, for years, I only shared nursing stuff. Yeah. A little bit of motherhood, but not really.

And I feel like I thought that's only why people followed me and liked my stuff. Totally. So I was mostly focusing on nursing and then I kind of started dabbling into things that brought me joy, which is fashion, skin care, beauty. And that stuff started doing better. And I was like, okay, maybe people will like me just for me. Yeah. And so I kind of struggled with balancing both.

But I mean, for years, probably like a solid six years. It was mostly just nursing. and then on my days off I would start to share things. I would share things like my pumping schedule when I was working long hours and still breastfeeding, stuff like that. And then I got to a point where I gained so much traction that the big corporation I worked for did not like the fact that I had such a large social media following.

They didn't like that it brought me attention and therefore them attention. But it pissed me off because it didn't bleed into the work that I did in the hospital. And I felt judged off of my online presence rather than the hard work I was doing during the pandemic as a nurse in the ICU. Yeah. And so that really bothered me. And then I got to a point where I was like, why am I here? You know?

Yeah. But that was a big leap of faith for me because I didn't know if people would respect my online presence or continue to follow me if I wasn't a working nurse. Yeah. But then I got to a point where I was like, okay, they're following me because I'm Avery, not just because I'm a nurse. Yeah. I did not know you were doing it for that long.

Yeah. As far as posting, I knew you were, obviously I knew you were a nurse for a long time. I mean, it was very micro. Yeah. Like for a long time, I was between like 30 and 50K on Instagram. I was getting like, people would be like, oh, can you post a photo with this product for 50 bucks? And I was like, I'm so poor. Yes.

Please give me gas money. We've all been there. Yeah. Oh my God. The things I did for like, there's one. I can't even remember the name of it, but there's one brand that didn't even pay me. And they were supposed to pay me $200. Sent bird.

That's what it was. Not mom remembered. She's like, oh, I remember a bit. By the way. Yeah. Yeah. You owe me $200. Send bird.

price has gone up you're going to have to add a few more zeros which if you want to hit my line again but yeah that's i i totally relate to that especially in the beginning too because you're like when you have like normal jobs especially a job like yours is fucking so hard um you're like you want to pay me to do this oh yeah that's crazy that's what was crazy was i i mean i speak very morbidly about what i did for a living because i feel like i just cope with humor and my husband was the same in his career but I worked in the pediatric ICU so it was newborn to age 17 the level on trauma so I was putting like babies and body bags multiple times a week like I saw some crazy shit yeah stuff that's not even on the news and then when I signed with my management team I was like wait what the fuck that's like

my yearly salary in a month yeah it's crazy yeah it is and you and you think to like I mean the way that you said that you started branching into other forms of content to kind of like you're like well I kind of want to do other things that aren't all like based around being a nurse but also I feel like it's like somewhat of an escape yeah because you're like what you deal with is so heavy and traumatic and so it's like getting to do something lighthearted and fun that just brings you joy and it also kind of focused on the positives for people that wanted to be nurse or were in nursing school or were miserable in their job as a nurse yeah because I never talked down about their career because I really did love it but then after the pandemic a lot changed. And then I started getting, I would be praised so much for focusing on the good

nursing students were so appreciative because they're like every time I shadow a nurse, they're like, pick a different career, it fucking sucks, don't do it. And I was there to say, I do love it. I just don't think we're treated the best. But then it kind of flipped where people were like, why are you only talking about the good stuff? Like, don't lie. It's hard. And I'm like, of course it's hard, but it's not a bad thing to be a positive person. No, or to see the the joy or the beauty and saving lives. Totally. Because there is a lot of joy and beauty in that.

But there's also a lot of trauma and sadness. It's just duality. It exists in all things, including content creation. Yeah, absolutely. Like, there's a really, really awesome side.

And there's a really awful side. It's just the reality of the business that you're in. Yeah, absolutely. But when it comes to your content, like, and obviously, like, I think a lot of people know you from the TV blogs,

but like what made you want to start kind of posting a little bit more about your personal life? Like, whether it's just you and what you do every day or your kids or your husband. I think people would ask. And I think I just got tired of seeing, like, the perfect cookie cutter beige mom content. Yeah. I'm not saying that's a bad thing. Like, I look at their stuff and I'm like, honestly, I praise you for having such a clean house and such and what seems like the perfect life.

That's just not me. Yeah. And I also think I saw just a lot of mom shaming for people. that were speaking honestly about the struggles of being a mom and how hard it is. And I was like, I have a playroom full of the ugliest fucking rainbow toys you could ever see. But my kids are so happy. You know, and like I would show clips of my house or morning blogs. And I'm like, thank you for not picking up the mess before you showed it.

Yeah. Because I tried to be as real as I can. And even though there's hate that comes with that when I admit to things like, yeah, I do have a nanny twice a week. Or I do have house cleaners that help me every other week. You know what I mean? Yeah. But that's what works for our family and that's how we survive and we're privileged enough to be able to afford that stuff. Yeah.

But I feel like that honesty has gotten me really far. Totally. And again, like we talked about, even though it come, hate comes with that and that triggers a lot of people. Yeah. At least I know I'm being authentic to what's happening behind the scenes. Yeah. Well, and also you're brave enough to share it. Like, a lot of people can relate but don't want to admit that they can relate because it makes them feel better to sit on like a invisible.

like moral superiority horse like it's like you feel better about yourself because you aren't brave enough to show things like this yeah whereas some of us are and that's okay like you don't want to show your life that's fine but if i show mine where are you to judge totally that's not really your place yeah and also you have the privilege of having the option of who you watch yeah like you can fucking block me please like i can block you for you yeah you don't want to watch my stuff but we have as not just as content courage, but just as consumers of social media, you have the beauty of choosing who you want to follow and who you want to have inspire you. Yeah, crazy how that works.

Yeah, it's crazy how you have that option. Look, the option of free will. Yeah. You don't have to watch me, girl. Yeah. Like, sometimes I'll get some mean-ass fucking comments. It's rare. I get mean comments from women, but it is, it does happen.

And when I do, I'll go and look and, like, they follow me. I'm like, it's so, what is it always a follow back. It's so bad. Why do you follow me? Yeah. If it's so awful, why are you fucking here? Yeah. And out.

See me, I'm opposite. All my hates from women because I'm a mom. Mm-hmm. And it's funny because I have so many friends that have the same job and their husbands also do content creation where they do like dad blogs. Yeah. And they always say like my comment section is full of mom shamers. My husband does the same thing and it's all praise. Yeah.

You're such an involved dad. You're such a good dad. And my friends are like, what the fuck? I made the same video and you're shitting on me but my husband does it and it's oh good job you're such an involved dad it's like why do we have this gender standard and we talked about that on my episode where you were talking about where you came from and how your household was which I loved hearing it was so refreshing because I I just don't think it just doesn't our sex doesn't fucking matter when it comes to parenthood yeah like literally at all yeah it's also so um ironic because it always goes

back to the same like it's it's women who say that are like they're they're standing up for women or they're standing up for kids or whatever um but you end up being misogynistic and that's the irony isn't it like you end up you're you're you're pushing down other women because it makes you feel good for whatever fucking reason but like men the bars in hell so like it's real easy to clear yeah like they could just pick up a child and they're like what a great dad 100% oh god he's so good to her and they purposely want the attention like oh my god I see so so many dads and there are some incredible dads on TikTok that I feel like do inspire other men to kind of step it up for their wives totally yeah but there are some men that I'm like oh my god

you want to be praised so hard for being a dad and I'm like I it's just too much but then women post the same thing it's like you fucking use your kids for content you want attention you're such a bad parent whatever the case may be but it also just it's a double standard to me because almost every single time I get a comment that shit on me because I show my kids' faces on the internet, I click on their profile, and it's a public profile, and they're posting mom blogs with their kids in it, but they have a smaller following. I'm sorry, I don't care if you have 500 followers or 10 million followers who are still doing the same thing I'm doing and shitting on me for it. And you would be doing it anyways. Yes. And that's my thing about that is like,

I understand where people are coming from when they're like, oh, you're exploiting children. I get that. Yes. But you're talking about a very specific kind of content creator. Your content revolves around you. Your kids just so happen to be in it sometimes. And I know that. Yeah. And that's why sometimes when people are like, did you know that so and so, like if I have someone on my show or something like, did you know that they, yeah, I did. And I have the ability of cognitive thought so like I can make my own decisions based off how I feel they are as people once I meet them. Everything's cool. Yep. It's crazy how that works. Right. So I don't, I don't form opinions based off random people on the internet.

Like I see it and they're like, well, clearly that's true. Because it's on TikTok. Yeah. Like that doesn't, that's not how it works. Also, I feel like, you know, there are also other sources, evil websites on the internet that then trickle into social media that they feel like everything's true. I'm like, anyone in their mom can go log on those websites and say whatever the fuck they want.

Yeah. And people that hate you will believe it. Totally. It's just the way it is. Yeah, totally. And I have, I have attempted to do like a normal morning vlog like I would normally do, right? And my kids aren't in it immediately. How is this realistic motherhood?

I know your kids are with their nanny. Not everyone can afford a nanny. Where are the kids? You know? It's like, can't say I didn't try. Yeah. It's a real, it's a real slippery slope. And it's, and it's a like a lose, lose battle because these people have already made up their mind.

Yep. Which is what I've told people before. I'm like, you've clearly already made up your mind. so I don't know what you're doing here. Like, are you trying to convince other people? Are you trying to rally the troops? Like, I don't understand. Like, just leave.

Like, leaving is free. It's not an airport. I don't need you to announce your departure. Go ahead and take off, girl. Like, it's okay. Like, the other, literally the other day, I got a comment from a lady, a girl, a lady, a woman. A lady. Because she was a lot older than me, but she, and that's not me being mean, like, she literally

is a lot older than me, but she wrote, I think, you know, I think she's, she's saying she, so she's not talking to me. she's like talking to other people. And she's like, I think she's so like beautiful. I genuinely do, but like, why don't you get your teeth fixed?

Like I just don't understand. Like, you have all this money. Like, why wouldn't you do that? Like she, she wrote this whole fucking thing. And then her literal username is mommy of four.

Oh, see. And then I go and look, I look at her profile. She has a mom. She has multiple daughters. Right. And so I think I'm like,

what the fuck? So I put it in my story because I was like, fuck you first of all. But second of all, I literally was like, I really hope that no one talks about your daughters the way you're talking about me on the internet. Like, because her excuse, because someone else was like, why do you need to write this?

And her excuse was like, that's the beauty of freedom of speech. Okay. Freedom of speech, these nuts on your forehead, bitch. I'm putting in my story. And I said, and I literally said, I don't blur you to certain names. I never do. I don't do it for men. And I sure as fuck don't do it for women.

So if you're going to talk crazy, you can do it publicly. When they get mad, you want to fucking publicly comment and then I can't blast you. Don't dish what you can't take, bitch. Exactly. So I had this nasty, nasty TikTok. It was all about me. Literally, they made their entire page just three to five videos a day. They would clip my, like, they were such a fan.

They would watch my entire podcast, clip shit, post it, whatever. So she accidentally messaged me from a personal account. She's a mama four in South Dakota. I know who you are. You're in nurse practitioner school. I know what your husband does. Oh, God. Yeah.

Legal things have happened. Yeah. And I'm like, her bio is mama four, Psalm 3, whatever. the fuck and she had all four of her kids in her Facebook banner. I said, you make me scared for my kids to grow up in the world. Yeah. Because if you're that nasty, how are you raising your kids? Yeah. It's just sick. Well, and it's like you're doing it, but you, you have all these, like, qualms about how you're raising your kids or how you post content, whatever the fuck. And then you are publicly posting your children, like, I don't understand. Like, the correlation makes no sense.

Like, how are you any different? Like, from the monster you're making. me out to me like how are you any different from yeah it's exhausting it really is and I I also want to be like bitch how do you have the time you have four fucking kids bro like I don't have time to make five fake accounts all day just to leave nasty comments because I keep blocking you yeah get a hobby yeah I've had I've had that before from men especially like when I was like really pissing them off and they were making videos about me like oh my god every fucking two weeks I had a new dude be like, has anyone ever thought about the fact that she might just be mean? Yeah, they have.

Believe it or not. Yeah, we've gone over that many fucking times. I am mean. You're right. And so, like, they would make new shit, new shit, new shit. And, like, there was one I saw once that was, like, truly one of the worst videos I've ever fucking seen. And it was, like, it was this dude who made up this entire story. Like, he literally crafted this whole, like, wow, there was characters and plots and twists and turns.

Like he was like made up this whole thing about what my boyfriend probably used to do in high school, what he did in college, what I did when we got together. Why? Money. Like all this. It was like. It's giving obsessed. It was so gross too because it was very graphic too. Like it was like objectifying both myself and my boyfriend, which okay. Yeah. And it was so gross and disgusting. And then the fact that other people in the comments were like, I knew it. It's all. You know what? They jump so quick into any made-up story. They're like, I could have predicted that. Yeah, I knew it. You know what? I always knew there was bad vibes. Actually, I knew there was a reason why I never wanted to follow her.

Girl, go to hell. It's always, I always got a weird feeling about her. It's always like, shut the fuck up. I knew it. Yeah. Knew what? From one minute of my day, you knew that, that I cut down and edit for you. You knew that about me?

This man that's never met me in his entire life. Yeah. Yeah. he knows he knows for sure the inner workings of my relationship one time i had a dude um he went live but he you know they can sometimes green screen behind them and they write words on there uh he blocked me so i couldn't see it but like the live um had the background on it and it said um i dated drew off wallow all throughout high school um who has questions and so he literally was not him using you for attention oh yeah girl clickbaiting the fuck out of me and then he there was

getting a lot of viewers and the only reason I knew about it was because one of my mutuals saw it on their for you page and recorded it like screen recorded it and then he DM'd me and was like hey I don't know if you've seen this but like this dude is going live and it had a lot of viewers a lot of people asking questions and he was saying the he was saying the craziest shit about me like he was saying I was insane he said I tried to burn his house down he said I stole his dad's cart like he made up all this fucking bullshit mind you he was He's like 23. I'm like, we weren't even in high school at the same time. Yeah. Hey, I'm 28. So like, what the fuck? You're six years younger than me and somehow we went to high school? You were in junior high when I graduated.

Yeah. Not only that, he's Canadian. I've never even been to Canada. So the fuck are you talking about. It's so, and it's crazy that they, I feel like they're so obsessed that they actually start believing it themselves because they're not well in the head. Yeah. They have to start like really like buying into the bit.

Yeah. Like that's why I think the delusion of it all is like, that's honestly the scary. part is how delusional it gets. But also it's exhausting because I've even told my other creator friends this too, like when we've talked about stuff like this, I've told them like you care because you know who you are. And if you didn't care, you wouldn't be a good person. Like when people try to spread lies and shit about you on the internet, unfortunately you cannot control that. And honestly, it's a big reason why I went to therapy. Because like when I first got started, like I was like, this is going to make me go insane. Yeah. I'm already kind of doing that. So like,

should probably clock in mentally. And thank God I did. It's been a huge, huge help, especially with this job. But like it starts to make you feel like my friend Tephy, she's described it before as like, this is a job where you're like behind a one-way glass. Yep. So everybody can see in, but you can't see out. No.

And you can hear everything they're saying, but they can't hear you. Yeah. And so it's like it starts to make you feel like you're going insane. And you have no control. Yeah, you have no control at all. And then it's like, if you know who you are and like, obviously like I'm I'm so convicted in who I am. I know you are too and you like you know who you are and you know the people who love you and matter the most care about you and that's all that

matters but after a while you start to hear things and people telling you who you are and what kind of person you are it starts to really weigh on you because you're like I'm not I'm not that person but like why do you keep trying to make me believe I am yeah it's exhausting also why don't you just focus on yourself yeah girl like go go do what makes you happy go be a better person but you're you're not going to change our success. And as you try to keep shitting on us, like we're only going to keep growing and just pissing you off more. Like, block me and end your own misery. Yeah, for real, dude. I'm like, none of this is serving you. No, not at all. And I was like, I was curious if you had any hate from men, if you ever get hate from men. Honestly, I have only gotten hate if I, like,

post a photo of me in a bikini or something. And it's from like a Christian man that says, I would never allow the mother of my children to wear such a provocative outfit. A bikini? Yeah. Okay. Well, you're going to freak out when you find out what happens during sex. Yeah. Also, I'm like, how do you have kids?

You're going to freak out if you find out. I know you last two pumps. You're going to freak out when you find out that people are nude. Also, it's the way I'm like, did you save it too? Are you going to look at it later? I bet you they did. Why are you even on it? It's just weird.

When I would post, because obviously, like, when I post my shit talking videos, sometimes like literally I'm in my bathroom a lot yeah and some people are like when they're like are you in the bathroom or I always say I'm in my office which like is not true but like it's a running bit now for the last like three years I'm always like this is my office yeah they're like your office has a cupboard above the toilet and I'm like yep I don't know but when I've made those videos like obviously I don't give a shit what I look like in them and then when I really started growing a platform like for real for real and then I started growing on Instagram the first time I ever posted any sort of glam pick at all oh man the men were so mad at me and oh by the way you eat those the fuck up every time we posted like you see me in your comments i'm like oh bitch all caps you eat it oh the transition videos the tittyes the glam the hair they're so good well thankfully i have adam he's a godson but he i i remember the very first time i ever posted glam pics oh the man were so mad at me they were like like fuck she's hot yeah this is fucking face tune like blah blah blah I'm like it's a video.

I don't know how you can you face new video? I don't even know. But then when they said that I'm like, you're mad because I made that pee-p wiggle. Yeah. And you're pissed off at me about it. And that's not my- You felt the tingle in your pants and they were pissed about it. Take it up with God.

Like you're mad. Be mad at him. Okay. I don't know what to tell you like you're mad because you're attracted to me. Uh-oh. 100%. 100%. You're like, what?

Yeah. And on top of that, now I'm horny. Yeah. Like they're all up stuff. I want a fuck or two. Damn it. Jesus Christ. Now it's funny too because even now like that you know like I still fuck up men all the time

But like now sometimes if I do like transition Videos or makeup stuff or whatever Sometimes I'll get the occasional comment where men are like I mean yeah I do it but yeah She need to keep the makeup on Okay um am I allowed to chime in on whether or not that happens Yeah do I get to decide if I would fuck you too Yeah it's like it's like um I think that I'm stop right there yeah

Like even some dudes like literally have been like I don't know the laugh might bother me but I'd still do it Would you? You should be like have you seen my boyfriend? I was like because way water than you know Okay I know you would I wouldn't yeah but like I'm sure you would I'm not that's why I feel like that's what you get oh yeah well also like the second you become a mom it's like you're not considered a human being anymore You're like a slave to children which I like okay yes they are my number one priority but I'm like that doesn't make me any loss of a woman like i want to wear a fucking bikini i don't really care they're like i would never yeah let my wife well you're not dating or married so don't worry about that yeah or like god her tits are so big yeah you're right because they were like saggy tube socks touching my toes after i breastfed you'd fix them too bitch the fuck like literally like tube socks with like rocks

and um like this far apart like my nipples are grazing the thighs like it was of course i fixed them Like, I'm, you're real open about that. And I respect you. I admire you for that. I reported the whole process. I'm like, I breastfed my daughter for 14 months and my son for 10. Like, sorry you're mad. I had some loose skin and I cinched it up.

Well, don't worry. You're never going to get to look at him. So relax. Yeah, like, chill. Chill. Chill out, girl. You don't need. That's a problem you don't need to worry about.

That's a problem you don't have, personally. That's what that's shit about to be. I would never let my, well, worried about getting married first. Yeah. Have you touched a. before? Probably not. Like, you've never I've touched more tits than you.

I've been straight my whole life. That's what I'm saying as a nurse. Yeah. Even when Hunter was here and we were talking about, he was like, I'm so desensitized. Oh, yeah. Fluids, like nudity. Like, I just.

It's anatomical to me. Yeah. Like, I don't look at a, like, obviously besides my husband love you, but like, I don't look at body sexually anymore. But that's a normal thing. Like, if you did, that'd be fucking weird if you were like touching. be in the medical field now. Yeah.

So yeah. When he was, when he was here, he was telling me he's like, yeah, I'm so like desensitized to fluids especially. Like he was telling me a crazy story about how like, uh,

someone pulled out. Yeah, he pulled that out and it was like shooting to the, oh yeah. I was like the roof. Oh yeah. I've done chest compressions on a newborn's actual heart like open chest. That's crazy.

Yeah. That's insane. Yeah. And then and then you're like, yeah, time to go home. Yep. Or,

or the patient passes away and like, I carry down the morgue and they hang me. Kay, there's your next patient. Yeah, you just, no time for processing at all. Yeah. And then they're like, can't believe she wants to do content creation and not be a nurse. I know. Or it's like, someone was like, weren't you a nurse for one second?

Why don't you just call? I'm like, you'd like that though, right? Yeah. Just calm the fucked out. They're like, you're not an actual art. You can look at my license. It's public record. Yeah.

Yeah. Well, and it's like, what do you? Okay. Like, why does it fucking matter too? What do you get out of that? Yeah. Like, you're trying to catch me and something? Yeah.

oh you caught me that's why it's like even when i've talked about the NFL like getting fired or whatever i've told people they were like well you were probably really bad at your job blah blah blah and i'm like i i don't know ask them maybe maybe that's what they fucking fired me i don't fucking know better off now you know what's funny is they didn't give me a reason uh they just told me leave and never come back so i listened that's kind of how that went for me personally so i'm like yeah i told people i got fired because it matters like i'm like and you're honest about it yeah yeah And thank God they did fire me. Yeah.

Because now look at me. Oh, yeah. The second I quit, it was automatically turned. Oh, you're fired. Or like, I know she's far from the hospital. Actually, never even had like a sustained complaint. It was never late. Yeah.

Nothing ever happened. You just don't like that I was able to quit. That bothers you. It's like it, it's again, a such a no win situation. No, no. But like speaking of, that's our topic for today. We're talking about transitioning from like having a full-time job to being a full-time content creator.

and why men especially hate women, like they hate, well, hate women, period. And then they hate seeing women, like, find success in any medium, but especially being a content creator. Like, they hate that. Oh, anything, we were just talking about this earlier today, but like anything that you're able to elevate your life away from a normal nine to five job is just absolutely shit on. Yeah. But especially when it comes to these masculine men that,

think like are you really providing for your family and full like to the point where you guys are as comfortable as my family is because you're I'm gung-ho I'm such a provider yeah my wife cooks and cleans and shits out all these kids like you you're just mad that women have this opportunity to have such a stable career in life by doing what we do literally and that pisses so many men all yeah I got a I got a comment once I was like see this is what happens when you make women famous for being hot on my video i said oh babe you're in the wrong neighborhood yeah like that hey hey that's not why i got famous that is not at all actually it's so far from yeah why i go to platform bitch you're the wrong neighborhood girl

yeah um i'm like you're gonna get jumped in these parts but also i'm like so you're attracted to me yeah well see i'm hot awesome okay sometimes when men write shit stuff like that i'm like this is a weird way to say you find me attractive. It's a very strange way to say that. Like your response, you're like, thank you. Yeah, thanks. Appreciate it. No, thank you. I'm taken, actually. But I appreciate. I appreciate the

thought. I appreciate that. Okay, so I'm going to read one of these videos to, or two of them actually. Please do. This one, okay, so in this video, man is commenting on a news article about a woman who created a female only nightclub to prevent men from ruining nights out. He goes

on a rant about how this is the dumbest idea. ever heard that this wouldn't be fun unless you were in LGBTQ female what a fucking asshole whatever the fuck that means and that woman would have to pay for their own food and drinks um yeah that's kind of the point i would go out i don't go out i would go out if that existed same i live that's so i don't want fucking creepy men around me oh no i'll i'll ruin the night for everyone yeah even when i was single i didn't want that i wanted to go out with my girlfriend and i never did because people were so fucking creepy also respectfully like you think I'm hot now you should have seen me before I had kids and no man has ever come up to me bought me a drink because they're all

pussies not one time I'm more likely for a woman at that nightclub to buy me a drink rather than men like because we're vibe in because we're friends with besties yeah yeah I feel like well also like there's women don't go out and they're like oh I hope there's lots of men there like never never like literally ever I've never known any hot woman to ever literally ever no they're like going out and they see a bunch of men they're like like like that's like the reaction is like yeah that man right there I know for a fact is salty as fuck because he knows all the hawk girls are going to be at that club yeah and he's like and now I can't get in I can't fucking get in it's like and why is that like why do women feel

the need to create women-only spaces, maybe because you ruin everything. And you ruin it. Because of men like you. Yeah, you terrorize us. So it's like, let me have this one thing. Yeah. Just let me have this one thing. That has nothing to do with you.

I feel like even, and you know what's funny too is even like lesbian bars or like Safik bars like bars that are exclusively for gay women. There are still men there. Yeah. Acting a fucking fool. Yeah. Why? You're still there.

Like what the fuck are you here? And they're like, where's the pool table? I'm like, get out of here. Get me an IPA. Yeah. They're like the darker, the better. There comes black. Whiskey neat.

Thanks. Ew, gross. I feel like even with, when I used to go out like back in the day, when I was a major fucking city girl back in the day, I, my friends and I would go out very tactical. It's like, all right, we go. Well, first of all, let's get drunk before we go because we're broke. That's the key. You get absolutely shit face before you go.

Then when you get there, you get someone about you, one drink and then you nurse it and then you nurse the drunk the whole time you share one drink between your six friends but we would like designate we're like okay you the two of us you're gonna prowl for men uh to buy drinks and nothing more yeah and then everyone else is going to find a spot we're going to settle in that kind of thing it's so like it's so we have to be so strategic when we go out for safety reasons and also so we have fun yeah but like every time a man overstepped I ruined the night for everyone. I just turned into the Wolverine like,

and then I started killing people. It's like there's a reason women have fucking pepper spray and rape whistles and all of these things. And give each other tips. That they have to carry with them or they have to stick together even when they go to the bathroom. Like this person is creating a safe environment for a club like that,

for women to enjoy themselves. Yeah. And there's also like, I don't know, hundreds of others you could go to that are not women only. That you probably can't get into anyway. Because your fit is trash and they care about that. a lot. Okay, the comments on this

that says, isn't this a crime? Discrimination by gender? It goes both ways. Are you serious? That's not how discrimination works, but that's not really how that works. Also, aren't there like men's only clubs? Yeah. They have like country club

type of? Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Go join one of those. Yeah. You probably can't get in either. Yeah, I was like, well that you have to give a certain tax bracket. And a naked old man, apparently. I think that's a requirement to the creator of this comment or this video he wrote why are women trying so hard to get rid of men ask other men that question why don't you ask them ask your peers of you the person that asked ask your peers ask your fellow man like hey why do women fucking hate us yeah and i like how they

it's be i think the beauty of social media has given people access to like be able to platform how they feel so they're like you know men piss me off for this reason or i don't like when men do this but like women have felt this way about men for like hundreds of years so it's like it's not new like they're like this new wave of women they hate i also think social media has opened a lot of women's eyes to what a man should be doing period because there are a lot of kings out there that do respect women and those are the type of men that aren't single and are happily married and have families and men like that hate that those people are spotlighted because Because no one wants to fucking date you because women's standards are getting higher as they realize that there are actually good men in the world.

Yeah, I've even said too, like, I'm like when you ask women, like, especially like in their 20s who are single and they unfortunately are attracted to men, like if you ask them like what their type is, a lot of times they're like, oh, you know, like someone nice. Yeah. How sad that they're like funny. Yeah. Just doesn't hate me. And then like you ask a man in that same exact situation who's awful. and he's like well she can't be fucking fat first of all and second of all I know she has to like yeah it's like it's all she has to put out five times a week yeah at least you're put this dick in your

mouth at least twice a day and like has to swallow yeah they have the fuck up right they have these like insane no this is what gets me disgusting yeah you're totally fun so nasty but I'm like it's always the guys are like she has to swallow but I'm never fucking going down on her okay okay sure okay sure sure And you said you're single? Yeah. Okay, that's what I thought. Yeah.

I wonder why. God, I'm so, what a head scratcher. I wonder why. Oh my God. This last comment says, that's okay. Women hang out like that sometimes. They even take all girls trips, but it's different for men. We can't do it.

No, you probably just don't have a fucking job to go on the trip. Yeah, you don't have the PTO logged up, babe. That's kind of probably why. Who said men can't go on trip? Who said that? That's all I was like, you guys are creating, you're making shit up. Yeah, literally making shit about. Go.

Yeah. My husband literally, he's every year, goes on a golf trip. I'm like, bye, bye, bye. Like, aren't you, no, I'm not fucking worried. Like, go do your own shit. It's just, yeah. Yeah, when I, uh, I had, like, some of my girlfriends over the other day at my house, and we were just watching movies and stuff.

And my boyfriend was obviously there because we live together. And he was like, I think I'm going to go, like, get lunch with my parents. And I was like, really? And he was like, yeah, you know, I just want you to have girl time. So I'm just going to go hang out with my family. A respectful thing. And I was like, thank you so much. Bye.

Make sure you lock the door. Thank you so much. Bye. Yeah. Anytime David's gone, I'm like in our bed, like just like sleep like Patrick Star. Just like spreading free. Oh yeah. Oh yeah.

And also like men don't give a fuck men who are confident in themselves and in their relationship. They don't give a shit. Yeah. If their woman goes out without them. Oh, the insecurity that comes behind that. Dude. Oh, I used to have this friend that was like,

yeah I I had this dress and mind you was like her mid thigh and she's like and I like turned in the mirror and he said it was too short so I had to change oh break up with you oh no they're married with multiple kids oh no I'm like see that to me is so just insecure to project to project that and I'm like if she feels good and pretty in that yeah what the fuck yeah it's just I don't know it's like it is it's controlling and it's misogynic. It's so controlling. And it's, it's honestly abusive. Yeah.

So like it's, it's one of those things where when, because men are like, whoa, those are my fucking, those are my boundaries. That's another thing. I was like, the gift of therapyizing language being gifted to awful men was a mistake. Yep. Like the way they use and abuse shit that they do not understand and they've never been to therapy so you don't even know, like you're not even using it properly. Yeah. And I talked about that when I was talking shit on Jonah Hill.

Because all that shit about him and his ex-girlfriend came out. And, like, I made a video- Oh, that was fucking crazy. It was insane. And it was the same shit. Like, that makes me uncomfortable. Yeah. Like, I don't like when you wear that to work. I'm like, she's a surf, like a surfer.

And you don't want her to wear a bikini to her job? Oh, yeah. What are she supposed to wear? Scrubs? It's the comments when I'm in a bikini and people are like, how does your husband feel about this? Bitch, he fucking took the picture. And he's like, get it, queen. You look so fucking hot.

Like, you're such a milk. fuck what he thinks. Yes. I'm like, are you kidding me? I'll fucking care what he thinks. Yes. I know all my, I get that shit too about like with my boyfriend. They're like, that's such a like the fact that he lets you, let's let me. Let's stop right there. Let's not his decision. Let's stop right fucking there, bitch. He doesn't let me do anything because I'm not a dog. So he doesn't have to let me out the crate for anything. Not his pet. No, not at all. And I've said that too. I'm like, my man literally takes these pictures of me. like he yeah and he hits it the fuck up

and it's his background on his phone bitch yeah sometimes he takes it and he goes the lighting's not good we gotta go to a better spot you don't think he has a special folder the fuck come on get out of here you know uh do you know desi Perkins oh yeah love her down yeah

when I I've obviously I've met her so many don't love the fuck out of her yeah she's the best and she she and I were we ran into each other at the Barbie premiere okay and I was like hey like casual you know to each at the Barbie premiere influencer yeah

uh It's not a real job. I was like, influence our things. The two of us ran into each other and we were like just catching up. And then she was like, oh, let's take a picture together. I was like, okay. So her husband comes up and he puts the phone like on the selfie camera. Yeah.

And he had a big fucking light. And he was like, she was, let's take a picture. And I'm thinking she's going to like hold up her phone like this and take a picture with me. She goes, Stephen, come. And he like came and he was like, oh, I have it. Don't worry. And he's like holding it like this so we can see ourselves. And he's holding the light.

And he's just going. Yeah, no, keep going. I'm just, I'm taking a bunch. Oh, yeah. Taking a bunch. Oh, yeah. And then when he left, I was like, that's what the fuck I'm talking about, bitch. Oh, fuck yeah.

And she started laughing. She goes, we've been doing this a long time. Yeah. Because she's been in the game forever. Listen, also, like, you, which we talked about this. When my husband and I decided that he needed to leave his job, like, you are full-time working for me and supporting my career. Yeah.

Like, take that photo. Like, we're in the angle. Take multiple. Like, he fucking knows. the drill. Yeah. And they don't care. No. They're actually thrilled in fact. Yes. And they're such hype men. Like that is a man. Yeah, for real. That's a real man. That's a real man. That's a real man. And I've, I've said that too about my man too because they're like, well, you know, like, how does he feel about? He don't give a fuck. And even then I've told people,

I'm like, if you hate me being on TikTok, like, you can take it up with him because he encouraged me to join. So it's honestly his fault that I'm here, unleashing on all of you. And they've said the same thing to me about like my dad like they're like fatherless behavior oh my fucking oh it's probably because you don't have a dad i was like that's honestly incorrect my parents are high school sweethearts but also like my dad is such a good man that that's why i turned out this way yeah and i was like and honestly when i was first getting started my dad was like i think you should be meaner i think you should say more shit i was like i'm trying do but these these guidelines they got me tied yeah they got my hands time on my back yeah when you're raised by a man that sets a high

standard you you know what it takes totally to be a man and then you know what you're not willing to accept yeah on top of that yeah uh okay i'm gonna read this next one let's see oh yeah this next video here we go in this video a man on a podcast says quote attention is currency and quote if i am getting messages that are paragraphs and paragraphs long from a woman that's mad at me i know that she loves me he later adds do not listen to what women say listen to what they do Okay, fucking spin me a fucking yarn. What the fuck? Was that a haiku?

I don't understand. Fucking Socrates. Wait, didn't I say something too about that they don't have like the capacity to write something so long or like they're illiterate or something? About men or women? I swear on that one. Right? Oh, probably. Oh, one of these comments says, my wife knows I won't read a long text.

If I want to read, I open Apple Books. Is that even a thing? Apple Books doesn't even exist. No. No, your joke didn't even make sense on top of that. You're thinking maybe of the Kindle. Yeah, babe, wrong thing. Well, also I, I, okay, so do you remember that trend when they were playing that song and it was like, girls were like, have the little mustache on?

And then they were basically on the video, they would write texts when they act like how men treat women. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. So, like, when I did that trend, I literally wrote, like, when I send him multiple texts saying why he hurt me and how that made me feel and he responds with, I don't even know what you want me to. say like the way that that triggers me oh like my my pray drive gets enacted immediately I'm ripping the throat out of oh I'd be fucking terrified the way that it's like I don't even know what you want me to say yeah let's try words yeah let's start there let's open a fucking dictionary let's say anything how about that like literally fucking anything yeah and so that video did well because a lot of women were like uh they were just writing what men say they're like you're crazy

or they'll say like it's not even like that like they were just running what they're not even like well how the fuck is it why am i interpreting it then how is it tell me yeah let me know explain it i don't even know what to say i don't even know what you want me to say yeah we're just going back and forth but that's how i feel when when they say like they when you send me message like paragraphs i know that she loves me or she fucking hates her or she fucking hates her guts and she's unleashing on you There's a real fine line. Or you do so much fucked up shit that she's just writing a list for you to let you know.

Don't listen to what women say. Listen to what they do. What? Okay. So if I break up with you, you know, listen to that? So what are you doing then as a man? Because obviously you're not doing anything, right? Oh, nothing at all.

She's not leaching on you. And then when you, even when they say providing, right? And then you're like, okay, well, then I don't want to get a job. You just make all the money. And they're like, gold digger. Gold digger fucking whore. Right? The goalposts move every time.

Oh, my God. That's why I'm always like, don't listen to anything they say. Like they're fucking liars. Like they'll say that. And then when they talk about gold diggers, like I've defended women who like date for money many times. Because I'm like, gold diggers is is so funny because that term is used by men with no money. Absolutely. At all.

Like, and I made this joke on Zach saying, but I'm like, show me a W-2. Like, I want to see how much money you made last year and I'll tell you if you need to worry about gold digers. Unless you're paying quarterly taxes. Yeah. Girl, if you're still getting a tax return, don't worry about it. If you're getting money back. Yeah, don't fucking worry about a bitch. Like, you're no gold diggers looking for you, girl, I promise.

And I've been friends with women who date for money, and they date men with, like, crazy amounts of money. Oh, yeah. They're not like, oh, I mean, he looks like he works at State Farm. I'm going to date him and not work. Like, that's just, that's not, no, like women who date for money. And then the men who, men who date them know they want to date them for money. So it's like mutual, consensual.

And they have the super hot. chick that is like treating this guy like a king and vice versa it's like good for that it's a win win yeah win win like i i honestly never uh i never forgot this because we were talking about how much we we love jena marbles yeah i love her i don't blame me for leaving but like come back yeah my virgo queen fucking love you my fellow virgo queen uh but she made a video years ago where she was talking about like how much she hates the the phrase nice guys finished last and she was like oh i guess She just doesn't want a nice guy. And she was like, every time men say that, I'm like, you're probably not even that fucking nice.

Like, she's like, like, there's probably a myriad of other reasons why she doesn't like you. And you being nice is definitely not one of them. Like you're oversimplifying why she's not attracted to you. And she's like, and every time it's like men who are like swinging for the fucking fences, like they're trying to date like just an unattainable bitch. Like just like someone who's just so far out of their league, which is not necessarily a bad thing. then like you're an awful person on top of that. She doesn't vibe with you. And then they're like, well, it's clearly because I'm too nice.

Oh, I can't. Oh, it's because I'm too nice. God, guys. Yeah. See, my thing is like when those men that know that they could never obtain the type of women they're obsessed with her in my comments like, oh, well, she's fake. My response every time is, but you'd fuck me, right? And they always delete their comments. I'm like, tell me you wouldn't want you, right?

And you'd still hit off. Yeah. Get the fuck out of your, bro. Okay. So if you saw me walking down the show. street you'd be like ugh you're fake i would not have sex with you i've said that before about fake boobs yeah i'm like you're telling me right now if if a beautiful bitch with fake tithies took them out in front of you because she wants to like have sex with you you're going to be like are those first of all are those

fucking fake put your fucking shirt back on and get out i don't fuck fake bitches you fucking liar you're like you're a liar like first of all you've never seen boobs in real life but second of all you're telling me if you saw him you'd be like hold hold on yeah the only nipple you've touched your own yeah hold on are these are these real oh my dude come on you're gonna fucking you're gonna fact check some a pair of titty's yeah liar yeah i don't fucking believe absolutely oh i don't believe hey you're a liar uh this next comment says i didn't know women oh well this is kind of ironic but he says i didn't know women could type more than three words but then he used the wrong form of women oh no woman Didn't know women could tie one.

Yeah, let's go back to elementary school. I was like, and man needs better grammar. Oh, yeah. People hate the fact that we're educated bitches up here too. I'm like, okay. I can tell you more than a fucking paragraph message to you. And honestly, even sometimes, like, I tell, like, the few times I've, like, not been like, eh, stuck my wiener.

They're, like, men are like, like, you think you're fucking smart. And I was like, I know I'm smart. I just, like, don't have to prove it to you. because my worth and value doesn't come from how big my dick is. So, like, I don't have that problem like you do. So I'm going to tell you to put my nuts on your forehead, and I'm going to laugh because it's going to make you mad every time. Like, even when men were, like, really so far up my ass,

like, I think, like, two summers ago, they would write this shit, like, I don't know if you've ever, I doubt you've ever seen this comic because I feel like it's so specific to me, but they would say, like, oh, the cut's going to go crazy, which is basically them calling me fat because they're saying like I'm bulking right now and then when I cut it's going to look it's going to go crazy also your body's so fucking hot I don't hear shit from anyone like yesterday wearing those low-rise jeans with your tummy like you look so good people they're just mad because they know they'd fuck you but even though they were like the cuts

gonna go crazy whatever or they would say do you have any bulking tips which is again a fat joke and then I go yeah you should have you ever heard of ligma you should totally look into It really helped me a lot. And then they're like, what's Ligma? And I said, Ligma, balls. I laugh every time. I've said it hundreds of thousands of times and I laugh every time. It hits every time.

It's so funny. And it's the way that they interact back then. Wait, what is that? Maybe I will look into what you're suggesting. You fall into it every time. Don't you talk about. Segundies, that's another one. Yeah.

Segundi's nuts. Right? Ligma. I got a whole bunch of them. I got a whole bunch. Dude, one time, this is so unrelated to what we're talking about. But one time my. boyfriend it was me my boyfriend my sister the three of us were I forget where the fuck we were

but we were all talking and then we were talking about something because my parents were there too and then my boyfriend goes do you think that they think I'm like your parents son or something which is like gross and weird but I was like no they think you're Joe's son and then he goes who's Joe and then I was like Joe mom I was dying because I was a crazy laugh last it's so funny because as soon as he said who's Joe the way that I was like so excited you're like oh bitch it's coming got your ass bitch it's the way they still like wait hold on who's joke and you're like it's my time bitch buckle yeah the fucking euphoria that coarse through my veins i was like i'm gonna live off that for the next year

holy shit i was like the adrenaline pumping through my veins because i was fucking like oh my god no and the suck on these nuts yeah so god do you dude ligma Ligma balls is a big one. I get them every time. When Dylan Mulvaney was on my show, I was telling her about those little like isms. Yeah. I said, do you've heard of, do you know what Ligma is? And she was like, no, what is it?

Wait, yeah, you do a good impression. Yeah, she was so like, no. And I was like, oh, I feel bad getting you. Yeah, you're like, lig my balls. Gotcha. Fucking got you, bitch. I got your fucking ass. Those jokes make me laugh every time.

And I feel like because they're so juvenile, like men get even more mad. Like they're like fuck you yeah they're like but you think you're funny huh and I just right back got them yep and they probably got your ass joke themselves and like fuck you got your ass didn't I oh okay I'm gonna use that yeah you should comments because please do it's coming ligmas to gundies I got a whole bunch I'm like ligma bit yeah my fucking mom shame you should google ligma I bet it would help with all this this uh concern you have for me oh you say what's ligma uh oh oh I'm like, oh, they fell for it. This last comment says,

nah, they can text you like that and still be lying to and talking to other dudes. Trust me. Oh, the insecurity. Yeah, well, that's a personal. That's like a, that's one of those things you put in a diary. Yeah. You know, you don't tell other people.

Dear diary. She's talking to other girl, talking to other men, blah, blah, blah. Well, yeah, probably because look at how you act. Oh, yeah, no, the way that people will still call, like men will still comment the fact that Scotty is my producer and we go on podcast. cast trip together. Scotty is the gayest man I've ever met. He has never once had interest with having sex with a woman. Do you think my husband is like, you can't travel? We're fucking

sharing a bed. Like we sp-no, I was going to say we spood a night, which we don't, but we basically cuddle at night. People, like, get the fuck over yourself. And men will be like, your husband's really okay with you traveling with a man. This man, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. And also, we're secure enough in our marriage where if I was traveling with a straight man he wouldn't fucking worry about it I'm like take your insecurities elsewhere it's like such it's such projection oh yeah it's like those are that's a you problem yeah that you're trying to make an us thing yeah yeah it's not oh yeah that's crazy they'd say that about scott oh yeah david just laughs david's like your gusband okay he's like literally my gay husband yeah yeah spend more time with him than than david no 100% especially on work trips

yeah absolutely they're like dude what do you think is all right relax yeah like again you don't even have a wife to worry about so let's focus on that like i've i've joked about that before because they're like what about because even when i've made like gym content or whatever and that is so loose i never fucking do that shit because who cares no i love it when you're like i know you turn around your ass i'm like yeah get it queen and even those those stupid little fucking shits that i post like men will get so angry because like how dare i be in the gym or they'll be like you don't work out or whatever the fuck and sometimes men i'll be like i work out all the time more than you probably like i that's not probably not true i just lie yeah i'm just lying

yeah i'll lie to men all the time and so they're like oh yeah well i i bench like again you're trying to prove this shit to me and that's insane like oh yeah yeah he's like well i bench press this much how much do you bench and i'm like literally the same i did this morning that's not true that's not true at all i'm lying uh but they get so fucking angry like so angry you mean me Then he hit him with a ligma and then you bounce and Joe mama and that's how you get Seven million followers on TikTok. Yeah, absolutely. And that is the recipe.

And that's how you get this chair right here. Yeah. That's how you get your own show. That's pretty much it. But anyways, just to wrap. I know we talked about all kinds of silly shit and also very serious stuff, but I'm so curious what your best piece of advice would be for anyone who's like currently nine to five or maybe in the same situation you were where they're kind of like balancing both.

Yeah. And they're thinking about, you know, maybe doing the jump and like maybe trying to transition full time to content creation. Like what would you say is your best piece of advice for them? Well, I would say I think it's doable for everyone. I think the people that in their head make it unrealistic, there is room on every social media platform for everyone. There's no capacity. Yeah. I also think don't have such tunnel vision where you think when you post content has to be one subject, one alleyway.

You know, I started with nursing. and I still sometimes will share my journey of what I experience as a nurse. But I also do makeup, beauty, fashion, travel, motherhood, nursing. Like, there's so many different things. You don't have to stick to one thing. I think consistency is key, but I also think you can balance it with a regular job because sometimes full-time content creation isn't for everyone. And once they make that leap, they do miss their old job and they go back.

Yeah. So I would say make sure that it's what you want to do. but also there are people that are able to balance both so if you're able to like kudos to those people yeah but i would say focus on what makes you happy like make the content that makes you happy and for me when i was transitioning out of nursing i realized that content wasn't filling my cup anymore because i wasn't enjoying nursing the same anymore after the pandemic and the things that brought me joy were my content creation yeah and the content creation that was aside from my nursing career. Yeah. And that filled my cup and brought me joy when I was postpartum or, you know,

breastfeeding all night and I was scrolling and watching these moms and that filled my cup and I wanted to do that for other people. So I feel like finding content that fills your cup and makes you happy because and also being authentic. I feel like it's it's an impossible thing to post content not being your true authentic self. You're going to burn out. Yeah. You're going to be fucking exhausted. Yeah. And you're going to get caught really quick. Yeah, totally. Like it's just not feasible anymore. So I think if you're going to dive in, dive in head first and be who you want to be as a person online. Yeah, totally. Because especially with I meet people all the time that are content creators and I'm disappointed sometimes in the different person that they are. Yeah, it's not like what

you thought. Totally. Based off their presence online. Yeah. Or even sometimes I'll meet people and I'm like, dude, you're so much cooler in person. Yeah. Like you should be more your authentic self online. I think you'll actually be more successful. Yeah, totally. You are, you know? But I think with that, it's obviously insecurities because it sometimes hurts when you get hate and you are your authentic self because you're like, people just don't like me. I've actually gotten that before from other creators. Like they've asked me about that because they're like, they have like a very specific stick and niche. Yeah. But it's not based off who they really are. And they were like, I don't know how you do that because like I just like don't want to,

I don't want people to see who I really am. And then just. that like I'd rather get hate on like characters I play and stuff totally totally and I get that I it's hard to open that can of worms I also think you know be cautious with mental health because I do think people that are on the more sensitive side have a really hard time with even like I've had people messaged me all the time that are like I had one viral video and I never did social media again yeah same because the content or the comments are so fucking horrible people are awful and they're awful and it doesn't matter what you do or if you improve or take it as like corrective criticism those people are just fucking miserable yeah you can't take anything they say

at all to heart yeah i use emily mariko as an example all the time i'm like she doesn't even i was like she doesn't even talk in her video bro she she doesn't say in comments she doesn't say words not a word and literally everyone's like fucking bad vibes yeah where from where you get that you're the worst fucking person oh thank god the wedding contents over but you fucking watched it right i know i did yeah i watched every fucking video i watched the fuck out of that shit i ate that to that bitch when i saw part three i said part one and two and where are they the way i was out the store getting that salmon and that fucking mayo and i made my own bowl i actually made that shit too yeah with the with the fucking seaweed shit like i it was just it was fucking fire too it's it's really just sad because

those people are just so miserable but look at her she just doesn't read a single fucking comment doesn't respond and she's thriving in life pregnant and starting a family and I'm like bravo yeah that's and I've told people that's such a good point what you said about like being authentic to because I honestly feel like even though your nursing condo was doing so well I feel like as soon as you kind of stepped into it for real and like started really showing me where you were that's when it really took off yeah oh yeah because people crave that now and I feel like you know we're the same age so like back in the YouTube days like they really loved curated perfection Yeah.

Perfectly lit, perfectly glammed, like a perfect set, perfect camera. Yeah. Whereas now they prefer the opposite. So they're like, I want to see more authentic stuff, more stuff that's real and more real to me. Yeah. And I feel like that's when yours really took off, which is, it's true. Yeah. And I, I sometimes I wish I could have another kid, which I'm not, don't fucking talk to me about it.

Okay. Tubes are tied. But because I see a lot of, it makes me really sad because I do see a lot of women. comments of these just very unrealistic mommy content creators which I'm not I'm not nagging on them at all or talking negatively but I do think that there's certain things that should be talked about in more of a light like I wish I was bigger at that time where I could walk around my diaper after I had a C-section I can't bend over and I'm like holding two kids pumping up all night my baby is colic like those are

real life things that people and women need to see I'm like I wasn't wearing jeans six days postpartum with full hair and makeup on yeah I look like shit for munch bitch like I literally looked haggard okay but your baby was thriving oh yeah oh she was cute as fuck and she was chunky as hell if I made that milk okay which my tits were touching my toes she was feasting oh yeah I'll show you photos that bitch was 42 pounds at like nine months old I mean she that's on period girl and that's on period and she how big was she was born she was a week early eight and a half pounds but her head circumference was 42 weeks. So I had, I'd have C-Science. Me, core. My husband was born 13 pounds,

eight ounces. Period. So my boyfriend was born, I think, 12, 12, something. My, I was nine, 13. Wait, do you want kids? No. No? No. No. Sly. Honestly, though, I love that. Like, I'm never the type of person like, when are you getting married, when you have kids. Yeah. Fucking don't ask. It's on my time. Yeah. But you know that? Period. And that, and that vagina is going to stay per scene for life. Yeah. I was, I was, I was, I was, I was, was 9.13. My sister was eight. Eight. Damn, mom. My brother was 10.

Oh, my God. 10.1. And my mom had all of us naturally. So like, I was like, yeah. Hey. That's what's up. That's what's up. My goals. Love it. I know you got, I know you got a, your husband's tall too. Oh, yeah, six five. Yeah. My, my dad's six six. So like, that's why my mom had big ass fucking babies. And my, my, my, my boyfriend was like, I think 12 pounds, sish. Damn. And I was like 9.13. It was a big.

I had a big ass head too when I was watching too. So I got it. Me and Stevie core. I tried. Dude, I tried 43 hours with my son naturally unmedicated. Yeah. Now that bitch is way too fucking big.

They cut me all the way to my hip bone emergency C-section. I felt pretty much the whole thing. It was horrible. 43 hours labor? Yeah. Yeah. And natural no epidural? No.

You're crazy. Yeah. Well, I didn't actually have the baby vaginally. But then when Stevie came along, they were like, you can try. you back i said the fuck no roll me into the o war i am not no i'm good nah i'm good yeah and she was even bigger than he was it's like that's my fucking girl right there by the way for anyone that's going to say i body shame my child by saying she's chunky no i'm actually bragging because she was a thick queen yeah there's also nothing wrong with uh being chunky oh yeah also literally nothing wrong with

like you put you put negative value on words like fat yeah or chubby or whatever yeah like you do that like that's a man-made thing there's nothing wrong with also anyone that knows me knows how obsessed I am when like my babies they're so thick and chuckly they're just juicy like they got the little legs oh yeah little no no no she was maxed out size six diapers at three months old and the the pediatrician was like there's only pull-ups from here I said well we got it by him oh yeah she's a he's like damn when you're coming with your baby oh yeah she's the best yeah period I love a big baby I was a big baby that's why I said me and Stevie core I had I huge fucking head.

I love it. I need to see baby photos. I want to make your mom show. My brother was big as fuck too, though. Like my brother was heavy too. Like he was dense. Yeah. See, that's the thing.

Like I picked both my kids up and they, people ask me all the time if they're twins because they're about the same size like three years apart. Because Stevie's just going to be so tall. Period. Yeah. Well, you're tall and your husband's tall. I'm tall.

My husband's tall. But my, uh, my husband's biological father is six foot eight. Damn. And his grandmother was six one. Okay. Period. So my kids are going to. going to be really tall. That's so cool. I love that though. Oh I'm so I can't wait for my son to be taller

than me. Yeah, you're well also I feel like your son's already really tall. He is super tall. I, I, I, I can't, only five. Yeah, I'll pick him up and his toes are out like my niece. So yeah. I'm like, dude, he's going to be so big. Yeah, my, my sister is five four and she's been five four since the sixth grade, but like she was taller than me for a minute, but then not since the sixth grade. She's like, we're just going to cap it right there. Yeah, they're like and you're done. Uh, you're done growing by the way. But like, when I was in sixth grade, I got like five three. Then seventh to eighth grade, I grew four inches in like one year. So I went from five four to five eight. Like, and I was in, when I was in eighth grade, I was five eight. Oh my God. Everyone was like, you're the tall school. They were like, sir,

this is for kids. Sir, sir. And I'm like, I'm also in the eighth grade. So my God, my fucking bad. But I passed my mom like way early. Like I grew taller than her way early. And my brother, for a while we thought my brother was going to be short. We were like, uh-oh. Yeah. He got Dacin's gene. Like, he got my mom's gene. Uh-oh. But then he grew, he passed me eventually.

But like I was the tallest for the longest time and I'm the middle child. David was six feet tall when he was a senior in high school. So he grew five inches when he was 18. That's so funny. He said his bones like ached every day. That's so similar to my dad. My dad was like 6-1-ish, 6-2 in senior in high school. And then when my dad was in his early 20s, he grew like four or five more inches.

Yeah. So my dad's 6-6 now. Yeah. And my boyfriend was like 6-1-ish, 6-2 when he graduated from high school, and now he's 6-4. And one time I made so many men mad on Twitter, which is like the worst app ever. But like, like, a year ago. Also, Scotty just told me today there's like fucking full nudity on there. Oh, yeah, girl.

And I literally saw us at. They have Dick and Cock and balls. No, that's what he showed me. Scotty loves it. But I was like, oh, my God. Boles on Twitter. That is a godless app. It was.

I literally saw it and I was like, holy shit. They have like full porns on there. It's crazy. I don't know how that. Okay. Yeah, but I got fucking banned for a while because I showed myself breastfeed. My nipples even showing. Okay.

Oh, all of a sudden. All of a sudden we care about nudity. God. But even then I talked about how it's all my boyfriend is like casually and then we're like, that's not fucking true. I was like, well, what are the odds you know and I don't. And they're five eight. Yeah.

That's not true. Yeah. And then one guy looked up my boyfriend's. college like football player profile yeah and he was like according to this and this is from like 2015 and he was like it said six two and I go yeah my boyfriend grew two inches in like six years ago like also it's the way you went that far to look yeah you're a fucking freak first of all and I was like but also like you're just mad because you stopped growing in the fifth grade and my boyfriend kept growing into his 20s that's again take it up with God yeah they're also like they're the same people

that have like the inserts in their shoes like gain an inch. Yeah, it's like, turns out your genetics hate you just as much as your barber does. Okay, so just to wrap now. Like, I, first of all, thank you so much for coming on the show. No, thank you for having me. I love you. I love you. Yeah, I think you're going to be stuck with me and you're going to get annoyed with me.

Period. Let's hang out. Let's make our tall matching sambas. Yeah, I literally wore these for Avery because I know she's a somba girl. And I have my initials on the back. yamanitos yeah period look at us uh but i love you forever you're amazing i'm glad you came on the show i appreciate you so much we're twins now we're bessies no we are and you open my perspective to so many things like hey and i remember you were the first person to be like yeah

congrats you made it and i was like a period that's just what happens girl unfortunately like as heavy as the head you know yeah but i'm happy you're here i'm happier on the internet and i'm Happy to know you personally. Did it. Love that. And thank you all so much for joining us on this episode of the comment section. Thank you to my amazing guest, Avery Woods. Where can everybody find you?

TikTok and Instagram is Avery Woods. And then my podcast is The Cheers Podcast. Period. Make sure you guys go tune in to Avery's podcast. I was on there. She killed it. So, I don't know if the episode will be live by the time you see this. But if it is, go watch it or watch all the other episodes.

Yep. Tons of amazing guests. You're the best. Thank you. Thank you so much for coming on the show. Thank you so much for joining us. Don't forget new episodes of the comic section drop every Wednesday. You can stream the audio on all streaming platforms,

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