The Comment Section with Drew Afualo - FIGHTING DEMONS Ft. Peach PRC

Episode Date: June 26, 2024

This week, Drew and singer/songwriter Peach PRC join forces to verbally destroy terrible men on the Internet who over-sexualize pop stars. They talk about Peach's rise to fame and how she fell in love with music, choosing a man or a bear in the woods, having sex with gloves on, why people hate on Pride month, and so much more! Drew: linktr.ee/drewafualo Peach PRC: IG / TikTok For sponsorships/partnerships, email [e-mail]. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

I don't know. I don't know how I feel about this piece of heart. I know, like, imagine someone painting something, be like, well, the artist was kind of fat. Like, too fat for me personally. I don't date fatties. And it's like, it's not about you dating the artists. But they are fat.

Yeah, and I personally wouldn't date them. Not really my type. It's like, where did that come into it? Hey, everyone and welcome back to another episode of the comments section show. Sorry, we, your fave. Everybody knows me who cares about me. On to the guest. Today we have the iconic, the legendary, the hilarious, the talented,

Peach, PRC. Hello, welcome to the show. Thank you for having me. Oh my gosh, of course. Anytime. I feel honored to have you. I feel like we've been mutuals for a while. We have been.

Yeah, we go way back, you and I. We did. First time ever meeting. Yeah, that's crazy. Love at first sight. I know. And matching as well. Yeah, I literally told Peach, I wore pink for you.

I love when people do that. That actually makes me so happy. Period. You guys heard to hear first. I am nothing, if not professional. I'm not. Not even a little bit. but I'm really happy that you're here and I'm happy that you're doing music full time.

How has that been for you? As someone who's gone from like blowing up on TikTok as a content creator and then kind of shifting into music, how has that been for you? It's been like music's been what I've always wanted to do but then I just wanted somewhere to shit post as well. Like I didn't really like think about TikTok being a place to like do music. So I was just like talking shit on there and then I got a following from that and I was like, well, I also make music if you got to check that out.

And it happened to just go hand in hand. So now it's crazy that I get to do, I still get to shippost. You get to do both at the same time. And I get to go on tour and stuff. Yeah. I'm curious, like, I know of your lore like the internet does, but I'm curious like how you got into music initially and like what kind of made you want to transition once you kind of garnered the following on TikTok.

I'm curious. How did that come about? Yeah. I don't know. I guess like I, to me it doesn't feel like. too much of a transition I feel like because I've always done music and always wanted to do music and that was I mean I guess it's like now I've been put in a box of like a tick to talker who does music when like music was kind of what I've always done yeah I always wanted to do and I also just talk as well like as well as sing so yeah and now I just get to to do both what was the question that how did I like what made you like how did you get into music in the first place I got into music when I was little like I've always wanted to sing and song write and I've always done that and I auditioned to a all those shows like Australia's got talent and X Factor and The Voice. O-T.

Yeah, I got through on the voice to like the producers. Like they have all these pre-rounds that you do. Yeah, before you make it to like live auditions. Where they like, oh, we don't know who's on the stage when we turn around. Yeah. So I didn't make it to the actual stage where they turn around. But I got through the like pre ones. I was really proud of that.

No, that's way more than a lot of people get through. Yeah. And I think it's probably for the best. I think it was good that I didn't end up on the voice because I think I would probably have not gone anywhere with it. Yeah, it would have been a different arc for sure. Yeah. I think it's cool that you got known for being a personality first, like who you are.

Yeah. And then you were like, I also do music. Yeah. And I think that's easier. Yeah, I think really lucky that that happened. I think a lot of my fans who found my music wouldn't have done that if I, if they didn't get to know me first. Totally. It was just me peddling songs.

They probably would have been like. Yeah. Well, they feel more of a connection to you. Yeah. Which I think could be a good thing and a bad thing. Yeah. Very much so. It giveth and it taketh away.

Yeah. That's for sure. When they think they need. know you really well. I know. Yeah, I have a weird relationship with that. I feel like it's not as bad now, but in the beginning, people really, like, I think felt like they needed to look after me in a way where they were very much like, she's just

a little baby. Like, she doesn't know what she's doing. I was like, okay. Like, I'm still an adult. Yeah. And people would really stress about it. They would like, you know, message my like friends and family and stuff. I'm like, I think she needs to like do that.

I think she needs to help. And I'm like, I'm just being a little silly. You're, oh, girl can't be silly on the internet anymore. Yeah, I can't be a little fucking silly. Jesus. It does get to, I think that's that parisocial dynamic. It starts to get a little, especially if you were super, super normal before this. Because I was, I had the same thing.

Like, I was aggressively normal before the platform happened. Yeah. So that, like, especially when you, like, are living on your own, you're working, you're, like, making, like, you're an adult, like, a fully functioning adult. And then you do this. Yeah. And it just happens. Yeah. That's a very tough, like, assimilation to, like, blend both.

Yeah, for sure. And I was very, like, I was going through it at the time when I started TikTok. Like, I was still stripping and I was like, you know, I was all over the place. But, like, that was kind of just a place where I could vent and just talk shit and just be like, my life is absolute hell right now. This is crazy. And then people, I think, resonated with that. But then people then felt like they needed to step in and be like, okay, like, she's really going through this.

And, you know, I could help her. I'm like, please don't do that. You're making it worse. Don't hurry all. Don't hurry all. Yeah, I know the, the exposure and the millions of eyes can be daunting at that point. Like, because you're kind of like, okay. Then I had to really dial it back and like, let me not say all that.

Like, let me not say that I'm in recycled. Yeah, that is, that is honestly very tricky. I feel like for me, I've been very, because I'm older, how old are? 27. I'm 28. So like, it's, I feel like because we're older too, like we realize like, okay, like maybe some things I don't share with you. Yeah.

After sharing it. Exactly. Maybe you don't get that anymore. That's okay. Yeah, let me take that away from you. Let's bring back privacy. Yeah. And I think I was, I think it was like 24 or something when I started TikTok.

So I was still like working it out. I don't think my frontal level had developed yet. And I was like going through crazy. Can I feel like 24 is just like hell? Like that's just like the worst time. Yeah, your early 20s are a real shit storm for a while. I can actually believe half of the stuff that I would do back then or like the way that I was living. I'm like, oh my God.

I was actually, maybe I did need help. Like maybe they were onto something. Yeah. especially when you're young in your early 20s too i feel like you think like your fear getting older like you're like oh my gosh i'm going to be so old and then like things are going to be worse when i'm older and i'm like actually things are way so much more relaxed now yeah like they're way more steady and stable in a lot of ways because your early 20s like you don't have any fucking money you don't know like who you are still trying to figure out what you want to do like all those kinds of things are swirling around

you yeah and you're an adult on top of them yeah and you can like go out like reckless yeah it's like Like going off the rails, like drinking, partying and stripping and just be like, woohoo, I'm young and free. And then I'm like, oh my God, like I'm tweaking out. Like, I'm just like completely fuzzled as well. So, yeah, I think when you get older, you're like, oh, it's way more calm. Like, I don't need to be. Yeah, it's like, it's a lot less stressful. Yeah.

Like, in a lot of ways. Your personal life, like, levels out a lot. Yeah, and things don't feel as dramatic. It's not like the end of the world when, like, something happens. Like, my little sister is turning 20. And, yeah, she's going through it. Like, I was. And I'm just like, it's, I don't know how to tell you.

which just sucks right now. Yeah, everything feels so permanent when you're younger. Like when you're early 20s especially because you're like, I'm an adult now so I should be able like I should be in a good place now. Yeah, whereas like you have so many more years. Like you're so young still at 20. You're like still doing things for the first time at that age. Exactly.

It's so intense. That's like the only consistent part is it being wildly unpredictable. That's the only thing that is consistent in your early 20s. And I even as someone like, I'm a fucking Virgo so I stay planning. Right. And even my shit got rocked too when I was 23. So I was like, damn, okay, maybe I'm not supposed to be doing that. Yeah, you can't plan for it.

And I wasn't either. Like, I don't know if it's my star sign or my brain in general, but I just can't plan for anything. So I was going rogue. When you were finally garnering the platform and then, you know, how did music get introduced as far as like getting signed or getting a team and starting to actually produce and put out music? Like, how did that happen once you got the platform?

Yeah, that was crazy. I was putting content out and then I met this guy like through Twitter, which was like he had a viral video and then we met up. He was here in the US and I flew out here with the money that I was still stripping at the time and I like saved up my money from stripping and flew over just like, I don't know, I was in like some sort of mania. I don't know what I was doing. But I like flew over here.

I recorded this song. I came back and then just like put it on TikTok and was like, hey, I did this for fun. Like this is a song. And then it didn't really do much. until I think like a year later because I just kept pushing it I just liked the song that

it's like being like what song was it Blonde's love yeah and that was about a girl from the strip club and that was cool to be able to like have that moment from two worlds I guess and then it was it was weird it was from there that like the label discovered me and like I

at the time because I just started taking off on TikTok I had all these people that were like oh we can manage you and we'll give you this and we'll like we'll take you to be a star and all this stuff and like a lot of it was just bullshit so I was kind of ignoring all the emails and it was like from Republic Records which I didn't really know that was at the time I didn't know that was like a major label yeah and they were emailing me and I was like ignoring it until they reached out to like the guy that I produced a song with and he was

like dude what the fuck they've been like trying to hit you up it's like the people that manage like Taylor Swift like that's like I was like oh my god really that's crazy and then yeah and then I got signed through that and I was still stripping at the time that I got signed I remember having the meeting with the label on like I was an old school laptop that I'd stolen from like years ago and I was meant to return. I never did. And then I was like, I had a mattress on the floor. And I was like garbage bags in my room in the background.

And I'm just like on this meeting. Like almost for a. I'm like, yes, I would love to be a pop star. What are the next steps? Are you going to take me there? Yeah. Make me a step. Thank you.

And clearly it worked out. They were really into it. Yeah, they were. I think they were actually at the time more into the TikToks than they were of my music. But it gave me something. Whatever works. A win is a win. You're going to do it.

I'll take it. Yeah. However you get it. get in the door, it doesn't matter you got in the door. Well, I think that's, that's incredible. And how have they been as far as in your, like, just your whole songmaking process? Like, how has that been for you now that you, now that you're doing it full time and now that you are also kind of like doing both, but more so just doing music? How has that journey been for you so far? With all your new songs you put out too. Yeah. It's been so nice because I feel like I have

all these, like, big creative ideas and like I couldn't really do anything with it because I, at the time, didn't play any instruments. I couldn't produce anything. And so I needed people to help me do that, but it costs money and it costs money to go to the studio. And then to get the songs out and have them be put on playlists and be promoted and stuff, like a lot of that. Like some people do it and they're independent artists and I think they're geniuses. And I just, I think I can handle it all that on my own. So it was nice to have like the creative freedom to like, okay, cool, I have all these really sick ideas. I can now do them because I have people that can like facilitate it for me.

Yeah. And how has the fan reaction been to your music now that you're putting out, you put out your EP, you put out like new singles. How has it been? It's been so nice. Like from the beginning, I feel like, I've had a really beautiful, like core fan base. Like I remember with Blonde's that first song, it was like about to, like, it'd been out for like two years or something and it was almost out a million streams,

which for me at the time was like huge and I... It's still huge even now. Yeah, it is. And it was so sweet that like I said something about it on TikTok and all my fans were like, okay, we're all going to like stream it on like a loop and they all say like a day where they all just had it on a loop all day and it got to a million streams. And I was like falling my eyes out. I'm like, that is so nice.

Like you don't even know me. I'm just a stranger and you're like spending your time like trying to get my song to a million streams just because. Because like, because they love you. Yeah, I want to support you. That is super sweet. I think it's, and it's the beautiful thing about art is that it can manifest in many different ways.

And you built your community first and then you just so happen to be a very talented artist too. And they're like, okay, period. I think she's hilarious and now she's also a really great singer-songwriter. Yeah. Period. I'm going to support that too. Yeah.

And I love that. I think it's so beautiful that there's people out there that like, we'll do that for someone just because they enjoy their art. Like I, it's really nice. Yeah. And so obviously this is actually a good transition into our topic for today, but you came out to relatively recently. But you've been very open about your sexuality and a lot of your different pieces of art.

So how has that been as far as like, I feel like your band base is pretty established. So I don't imagine they would have given you any grief about it. It wasn't like a Joe Gillespieua situation where she came out. And they were like, whoa, okay. My first song was about a girl from the strip club. Yeah. There's a much of a shock.

And because I'd been out as by since I was 15. and then came out as a lesbian when I was 24 or something. And no, that's way too young. I was 26. I don't know. That seems like last year. I don't remember when I came out. But I, it was been really nice, except I kind of freaked out a bit in the beginning

because I came out and then I was like, because I thought that I was a lesbian for years and then it was too scared to like actually take the label and say it. And then when I finally did, I was like, oh my God, like, I'm so scared. Like I spent like 10 years trying to avoid that. then I it was like the day of coming out someone had I'd made a TikTok about men on having podcasts and yeah and this was like way back before I do remember that one I think this is before everyone was kind of talking about it and being like a thing and I'd done like this skit about men having podcasts and Billy Eilish commented on it and just said I hate men or something like that and then which said to you like

it makes a lot of sense yeah join join the club yeah yeah but then I guess you got a back a lot of backlash for it and deleted it but but then this article came out that was like Billy Elish defends lesbian singer and it was like a photo of me crying from like a year ago or something that they'd gone yeah and I was like lesbian singer like not even like petriassie you don't even want to put my name I don't know I'm just lesbian singer now and so now that's like in my bio I've just got lesbian singer but I think people now think I just call myself that like they're like self-proclaimed lesbian singer I'm like actually no it was actually that was given to me that was a title bestowed but yeah that's fucking nice and this lesbursed

lesbian singer by the way. Yeah, Billy Elish and lesbian singer. And I'm like, and the photo was hilarious because it was like a photo of me crying from like an old TikTok on my spam account that they dug up. And then Billy Elish like in the mirror like a photo like this. Why did you make me look like that? Oh, what the hell? Billy Elish like defending me as I'm like bowling.

And I'm like, all she did was coming on like a funny video of me saying. And you know, that wasn't even defending me. I know. What was she defending me again? She said, I hate me. She said, I hate me. She said, Billy Elish agrees with lesbians. Yeah.

I have a couple notes on the verbiage. First things first me, throw a name in there. Editorial notes. Yeah. You're all, go ahead and look up a recent picture of me. Like, why'd you pick such an old fucking picture of me?

And then it was like a whole like Snapchat thing where you know, they do like the clickbait thing. Oh, the little like daily mail type shit, yeah. And it's still my profile on my spam account, like my profile pictures. The circle of me crying. That's the picture they use.

Yeah. I made it my profile picture after that. I know, but that's the one they use in the article. Which is so crazy. I was like, I was not crying, actually. The few times that people have reported on me, like, commenting on things, like, publicly, they've always referred to me as a man-hating TikToker.

Which, like, I guess, but also, like, I also have a name. Yeah. Like, what happened to hi? How are you? Yeah, and I feel like your name is, like, recognizable. I feel like if you say your name, people would be like, yeah. I'm like, you put my fucking face in there, and they always pick a picture that's, like, three years old. Yeah, why do they do that? I don't know. Like, I had something the other day and it was like,

like, it was a nice post, like a nice article. It was like artists to watch or something. Like up and coming artists. And it was a photo of me from like four years ago, like a press shot. And I was like, hey, I take press shots every a couple of months. I know. There's some new ones you can choose from. This one's from like four years ago. I know. I literally told my, my team sent me one once. I don't even fucking remember what it was about. But they used a picture that was, I'm not kidding, like three years old. And then I was like, why the fuck? And this is like the third article this, this person had written about me involved in like commenting on shit.

Why are you always using that picture? Like, girl, you have to hate me. It's like, they go on Google and look at the most popular user the first one and just private. And then my agent was like, I think it's because that's the one they bought like off Getty until they just are reusing it. I'm like, okay, well, buy another one. Buy a new one.

In fact, I'll buy it. I'll buy it. I'll air drop it to you. Like, stop using that hideous fucking picture of. That makes so much sense. Okay. One time they quoted me because I was talking shit about Moana the movie. Like, not talking shit, but I was talking shit about the fact that they didn't even ask me to audition.

And I was like, I don't want to put you on the spot. But like, there's only two of us and one of them's the rock and he's already there. So like, just send me an email, bitch. Like, let me know. And so I like joked about it. And then deadline wrote an article. And then the headline said, TikToker Drew Alfalo says, I'll play Moana's dad if that's what it takes. I thought when they do that.

When, when, like, vying for a role in the live action, oh, that's the part you clipped? Like, if all the shit. She wants to play the dad in Moana. Yeah, I was like, of all the shit you clipped, like, that's the part you clip. It's so funny when they do that, when they take a quote that you've said with,

because there's no, like, tone context. It's like, you don't get that I was saying that as a joke. It seems so serious when you start out like that. That's what I was like. Like, I had one that was, like, an article when I was talking about, Enrique Iglesies, because I kept covering his song on my tour. And, like, it was like an inside joke.

and then they'd taken, like, I don't know, it was an insane quote that I'd, I made a joke about, like, waking up in the middle of the night, like hearing escape by Enrique A Glacius. And they'd made it seem so sinister and serious. But it was like, Peach is haunted by Enrique Glacius in the middle of the night. And she's quoted, like, I wake up screaming, like, escape. I was like, oh my God. So I'm like, I'm a psycho. Like, it was only here nor there. That's unrelated to the art. But like, that's not why. I do scream things at home, but it's not that. It's not escape by Enrique. Just a joke. Leave this man alone. He doesn't know you. And I've written an article with both of us in it. He's going to like, who is this woman?

It's even funnier too because I feel like, I'm like, y'all know I make jokes for living. Like, you know I'm kidding around. Don't quote me so seriously. I'm being silly all the time. And then I was like, and that's the shit you clip and you put it on a fucking deadline article. And I even put, I like literally screenshot it and put in one of my photo dumps because

I was like, what's so funny sometimes. I mean, yeah. Yes, the headline made me click on it. Of course it did. But that's besides. You got me. You can't, but that's besides the point. I'm like, people are like, oh, she's trying to, like, gender bend the death.

That is so crazy. Girl, what are you talking about? I was kidding. I was kidding. Like, I was fucking around. Shit. Anyways, can't be a girl and be silly. No.

You just can't. It's like that girl on TikTok, she does those skits where it's like, she tries to, like, continue the bit. And the guy's like, I was joking. And she's like, oh, like, yeah, I know. You seen it? I think so funny. I just saw one the other day of hers. Yeah, but she's like, corporate just snipes you.

And then he's like, what? They would never do that. And she's like, oh, I know, like, I was doing it. I feel like that's like, like, every time you're a woman and try to joke back, they're like, hey. Especially in media, when you do any sort of, like, press or serious press or anything like that. I feel like that too. I feel like that too, anytime I do interviews, I'm too scared to joke because I feel like, oh, okay.

And I'm like, oh, my God. Like, I was being stupid. Now it's going to seem like. I was kidding. Like, I know the video when you post it will, like, people will get it. But right now in front of you as a human being, I feel like you have not getting it. And I feel like, I'm not getting it. And I feel like, I'm so.

I hope that translates in writing because it doesn't seem to be translating physically. I'm like doing bits to the camera. I know. There was even like some when I went on the Drew Barrymore show. Oh my God. After, yeah, it was fucking weird. But it was she was the sweetest person alive and the team was awesome. But when I, after I talked for my segment was like five minutes.

After I finished talking, I like looked in the camera and I was like, period. And I didn't think they were going to keep it. And they fucking put it at the end. I was like, nice. Love that for me. I can't even be. can't be fucking silly. Yeah.

I'm like, and someone's like, I like how you did that shit at the end. And I was like, I didn't think they were going to keep it in the edit. Yeah, I mean. That was a little joke between me and the camera guy. Yeah. I've never met him. I was like, what was that to me? He's so funny.

He's being harassed by me, apparently. The cat calling him from his same. Yeah, I'm objectifying him. They're like, wolf whistling at him. And he's like, they're like, okay, do you remember why you were invited? Me not being mindful while I was invited. Are you on the true back? Yeah, literally.

Okay, so we'll transition into our topic. So we're talking about obviously Miss lovely PGRC rising as a pop star without only appealing to the male gays, which, because obviously you came out as a lesbian, men are like, yeah. What? Oh, okay, bye. Do you get any hate from men? Yeah, so much. Really? Yeah.

About what? Just like being awful, just standard awful? Yeah, you know. Just in general. Like, I get a lot about, like, I don't know, just obviously the content of my songs are very, like, exclusionary of men and like god yeah it's so hard men are never included in anything yeah believe it or not sometimes like a girl does doesn't actually mean it's for you yeah isn't that fucking crazy it's funny i just saw ticot literally a few days ago and i like made me laugh so hard i saved it and it was just an audio

but someone was like men suffer in silence and then the audio is why am i always fucking hearing about yeah the audio is literally like i don't give a fuck and then the top comment says then why am i always hearing about it. And I was like, literally, that is so true. I couldn't stop laughing because, and I was honestly angry,

I didn't think of that joke myself. I wish I did. But the fact that I was like, it's fucking true. The way they're like, and what about us? What about you? You need to be included in another thing?

Yeah. Jesus Christ. And it's like, the mental health awareness like during Pride Mom. And it's like, I saw something that's like, they're always like fighting demons.

And it's like the demons is like homosexuality all the time. That's the difference. That they're fighting. Like yourself. Yeah. It's like, Pride month's fever as well, babe.

This is your mental health awareness. No shit. And also like the fact that they're like two on the same with blah blah blah. I'm like, who gives a fuck? Like what the fuck, dude? I'm like, my month I share with it's AAPI. And like, do you know how many people fall into the umbrella of Asian? Girl, they don't even talk about us.

I was like, you're fighting for attention. Okay. I'm like, yeah, you need more attention. I know. It's like, yeah, everything's mental health awareness for men constantly. They're always talking about it. It's like, everyone. Everyone, this is a month for men.

Shush. It's like, every month is for you. Yeah, a month. I even said once too, I was like, the internet would be a lot easier for some people to navigate, especially men if they like truly accepted that not everything that's created is for them. I know. That really upsets them.

It's like they're like children. It's like they actually start tweaking out when it's like something using specifically for them. It's like the Barbie movie even. Like they got so angry. Oh God. I actually thought that it like made me. It's like, yeah, that's the joke.

Yeah, go watch die hard. I don't fucking know. Yeah. It wasn't like Oppenheimer out at the same time. Yeah. Segregation. Go sit in your little like man cave and watch the, watch the man movie and we'll watch the movie. Yeah, watch a man make something that is truly the genesis of all evil. What was Oppenheimer about? I actually don't know what it was about.

Oppenheimer? Yeah. The A bomb. What's the A bomb? The atomic bomb. Oh. So like nuclear. Oh. Nuclear weapon. I don't know anything about history. Well, you're also Australian too. So I'll give you that pass. I'll give you the foreign pass. I know nothing.

I'm like, the evil. He created the atomic bomb, which they dropped on, like, Hiroshima, which, like, decimated a whole fucking fucking... I actually do know. And now we all have nuclear weapons because he fucking created them. That's why I said. The genesis of all evil is that the root is a man. Every time when I was like, men are fucking evil, they're like, how could you say that? I'm like, because it's true.

Everything you hate in the world, like literally anything at all. Traffic. Capitalism, racism, all created by man. Yeah. Just so you know. They're the ones that, like, what is it? where they're like, oh, like, we can't cry about our feelings or whatever. And it's like, what was that interview? She's like, and who set that up?

Yeah. That was your sister. And whose fault is that? Yeah. And whose fault is that that you can't fucking cry? Yeah. And it's like they come to us for like the emotional labor. It's like, they don't go to their guy friends to be like, oh, I'm upset about this.

They come to women and be like, thanks and I'm on. Oh my God, I know. When they're like never cry in front of your girl, you have to cry in front of your friends. I'm all, friends don't fucking want to hear you cry. I've hung out with more than one man at a time. that's not what they talk about. Yeah, believe it or not.

Not at all. And I also, even like for me, because recently, like sometimes I obviously, like I've been on fucking TikTok forever. Everybody knows my schick at this point. If you don't,

you're either new or you're a hundred. Like there's really no other, like way. And so the men who have recently found me are starting this whole like, well, actually, like they always create these think pieces as if no one's ever said it.

It actually shocks me when I see men try to like, they all try to like, like, be like, well, I actually think Drew is problematic because it's like, you, when has that ever been successful every single time you get absolutely flame? Yeah, you would fucking think. And like everyone. That's the most male thing in the world. I know, they just didn't do it right.

All the confidence in the world. I could do it. This has never gone down well for any man that was trying to do this. And what's the take? She's mean. Yeah, we fucking know. Like what the, I've even told people I was like, I am very mean. I've said that.

Like, I've had people ask me, do you think you're too mean? No. I had one girl, I went on a podcast this lady asked me, do you think you're too mean sometimes? I go, no. Yeah. In fact, I told her, if there, in fact, if there were no community guidelines, I'd be a lot worse. Like, I'm fighting with one hand time on my back, bitch. Like, that's really, I'm fighting truly, like, tied to something. Like, if they... I'm fighting demons and it's that I have to be. I'm actually fighting demons. If you really think about it. Yeah. I'm physically and

verbally fighting them every single day. Like, my girlfriend's the sweetest in the world. And, like, she is very sort of, like, I don't, it just has been kind of unaware of, like, how, and I think I've just, because I've come from, like, strip clubs and I have this, like, visceral hatred for them. Yeah. She's just a sweetheart. So sometimes I am just awful. And she's like, are you sure like that?

And I'm like, no, I promise you he's like being evil. Like I saw a TikTok the other day. And I'm like, maybe I do have like a skewed perception of reality, but I really just think that they're the worst. And I saw this one where I was like,

had this sad music over it and these teenage girls were like making flower crowns. And she was like, oh, this dad came up and asked if like we could show him how to make flower crowns like for his daughter. And like he's now, they're filming him like making him by himself. And everyone was like, oh my God,

please tell me you helped him. That's so sad. And I was like, I feel like that's so creepy and weird. Why did he, by himself, go up to a group of teenage girls and be like, can you help me make a flower crown for my daughter? Where's your daughter? Like, you're by yourself.

Where are you in the park alone? Oh, man. He was being a creep. He wasn't being a sweetheart. Like, all the comments were like, oh my God, please don't me help him. That's so sad. I would have actually passed him out. He's also a fucking adult.

Like, I showed you how to do it. Can go over there and do it. Like, they didn't even need to teach him. They really didn't. Why didn't you approach these teenage girls? You're a weirdo. It's the same shit as like the man in the baby. the bear in the woods type shit it's like oh you that bear would kill you yeah so what a man so like

at least if I didn't bother like I literally said I was like if I didn't bother the bear it wouldn't bother me like if I didn't see it or he didn't see me like he wouldn't come and look for me exactly you know what I mean I was like if it kills you it's because you're fucking with it or you're in its way or whatever it kills me and it's done a man will kill me and worse like yeah dude that's shocking to me that you're more mad at women than you are at men from making women feel that way. And I've even told, like, it's not women giving you that rep. It's because that's what your fellow men are doing. And I've told people before, too, I'm like, when women say they hate all men, like, I don't give a fuck. Like, I don't care. You should. You absolutely. I'll never say,

like, not all men. Like, I do think it's all. I've said before, they're all guilty and so proven innocent in my eyes. I think they should start in prison and work their way out. It's a reward-based system. You know what I mean? You have like a really. reading log and you color it in every time we do something nice you move up yeah or you just have no access to internet and no phone and you have to earn it yeah like a like an eagle scouts like you know be able to tie like seven different knots yes exactly you have to be able to build a fire from scratch and then also you have to hike get a little sash with some badge on yeah exactly and i want to see them walking around in it so i know that they've done you have to wear it as identification

Cat calling badge. And I think too, even so, like, really genuine men who are not awful, they don't give a fuck. Like, when people say, I hate them, they're like, period. Yeah. Like, they're like, well, actually, Drew has a boyfriend. So?

Like, what the fuck? What does that mean? That makes me so angry too. And then they're like, they act like I'm Spider-Man. Like, I'm fighting crime and he doesn't know. Like, he's like my MJ. You know what I'm saying? He has no idea.

He's super in the dark. It's like, if he found out, like, what you were really doing. sees me and my backpack is like my little suits hanging out of the top of it you know what I mean like they act like he's just like where why were you so late to our date oh I had nothing did oh I had something to do and they're like oh I just saw spider man was fighting cram oh you like that's crazy that's crazy watching I'm all sweaty in my suits in my back you know what I breath you're like it's crazy I'm like yeah believe it or not he fucking knows he knows that I

hate you all oh my god so sometimes and they're like oh so does this mean you don't hate man when I post something about my boyfriend, I go, nope, means I hate you. I don't hate all men, I hate you. And if that makes you feel some type of way, you're probably, yeah, I hate you. Yeah. And I do hate them all. There's no exception to me. Well, that's like, I've told me, my sister's a lesbian.

So I've even like, I feel like some of the understanding of like, oh, this is what women want or this is what men want from women. I'm like, every time y'all talk about that, you never factor in lesbians ever. Yeah. Lesbians don't give a fuck about men. all like they want nothing to do with them they want them nowhere near them like it's it's crazy like sometimes that they just fully forget that we exist sometimes i'll make a video with their whole chest being like women only want this and they hate i'm like hey also there's some of us that don't they're not even counted in that like not even a little bit i even when i made a video about my

audience they're like oh her audience she's scamming them because they're all single women i'm like okay first of all that's not true and second of all i was like if you ever heard of gay people you're gonna freak out when you're about gay people i'm about to blow your mind yeah you're gonna freak out when you hear about gay people and what they like and don't like. Have you seen that that alpha dumb guy? Like I feel like that video it's truly like like comedy to me. Like it's so funny. The one we too.

The one way he had the nails and he oh my God. I actually like freak out when I think about it where he was talking. Disgusting. Like truly gross. He's like at the end of that I show this to everyone because I'm like I'm so like dumb fan of that this is something somebody actually said in real life where he was like talking about because someone's like dude those nails like how are you getting bitches with those nails. Yeah.

Oh my God. He said like you put a glove on and then. Like a winter glove? Oh my God. Because he was talking about like having sex with girls with having long nails and he was like you put like a rubber glove on. What are you a doctor? What are you checking? What are you checking? I used to put a glove on and rake is what he said I'm horrified I have I have disgusting horrible feelings coursing through me you're gonna staph infection with nails no for real that's what are you checking

like you're just like snap it like you know what I mean like you're gonna work you have a fucking like an elbow length fucking rubber I imagine pulling out the like actual gloves out like in full plate like one moment please with the like talons and pulling out the rubber gloves. He, like, cracks open his side drawer. It's like dishwashing gloves.

That's like it's like gardening gloves. It's just a pair that are tacky on the, on the fingers so you can grab. They're like woven with grip. Yeah, so you can touch your phone still. That is horrifying. I've never seen that one where he said he wears a fucking glove. Why don't you cut your nails? That's sick of.

Actually, a really simple solution is a bit of hygiene and cut your nails. Yeah. Speaking of horrible, man, this is a, a great segue. So we're going to talk about these two videos that apply to our topic of men being awful, especially towards peach,

which I will not stand for, first of all. Okay, so this one is, in this video, pop star, Tate McCray, is performing on stage with her background dancers. They're all wearing matching bra, tops, and shorts. As part of the show, men in the comments were very upset about the outfits.

Shocker. Why? Because, too, whore. That's what they're thinking. just don't understand why music means you have to wear booty shorts or hardly anything. If the music was good, wouldn't have to bait with looks. Bate? Bate you to do what?

I just want to understand why they get so mad when women wear skimpy outfits. It's like, are you not attracted to women? Like, didn't you want to see hot women? Girl, I think that all the time. I'm like, maybe shut the fuck up then so the rest of us can look. Yeah, it's like, if I see a hot girl in like a skimpy outfit, I'm not like, oh, my fucking God, why is she wearing that? I'm like, yay. You have any other, like, videos?

Where else can I see this? I do not understand either. Well, I also think, too, if she dressed like a fucking nun, you guys would hate that, too. Like, yeah. They'd be like, oh, show a little skin. Not that much skin. What are we Protestant Catholic? Like, who gives a fuck?

Who cares? I truly actually don't understand it. The way they talk about it is so, like, biblical to me. Is that what it is? What is it that actually makes them mad? Is it like a modesty thing? Yeah, I'm sure it's just, it's puritanical. It's just like, oh, she's showing off for other men.

What if she hasn't? She's not yours. Like, other men? No shit. That's what I'm saying. Like, the fact that y'all feel so entitled to every woman you see. They see it as like, that's mine. And you're now making other men see what I want.

It actually is like so many mental gymnastics to get mad about something. Yeah, the reach is just insane. I also think, too, it's the same thing when they're like, oh, well, I mean, if we were dating, stop right there. Yeah, I had that. could never. It's so funny. When I was a stripper, like, I was dating men at the time. And men would always be like, oh my God, I'm so fine with it.

Like, it's your job. I get it. And, like, they were so chill with it. And then it always happened, like, every single time after a while. They're like, okay, but when are you going to stop? Like, that's really disrespectful to our relationship. And I hate this and can't stand it. And then we'd see baby strippers come in.

And they'd be like, I have a boyfriend. Like, he's so chill with it. And I'm like, oh, wait. Like, he's going to hate it. And like, no, he's not like that. like he and then every time they would end up getting to a point with like okay quit now like I'm over it like no more he's like okay I played the game I pretended yeah I got you and now you're gonna quit and you're supposed to quit and you're supposed to quit you're supposed to quit and then we're supposed to

yeah and now you're my little wafy he stays indoors exactly yeah it just so bizarre it's like yeah it happened every time like clockwork and it's also very it's it's extremely telling for obvious reasons but it's also like telling in a way that makes them look violently and secure I'm like, that's weird of you. Yeah, like, don't go after strippers then, if that's a moral that you have. Oh, my God, for real. Like, why are you dating dancers? Why are you dating any woman at all who likes to dress a certain way?

If you don't have the security to, like, deal with that. It was the same thing with the same thing. Right, exactly, yeah. He was trying to change her after. Yeah, like, he bagged her because of who she was and she was confident. And, like, that's her job. And then he's like, okay, now you need to be less confident and reel it in. It's like, what you need to stop.

Isn't that what you liked about her? Like, and men would come into the strip club and be, like, regular as day and pay all this. money to try and find girlfriends they'd be in their like scouting girlfriends and like and sometimes they would get them but then they try and pull them out of the club and it's like you spend all your time in there you're one of these men like yeah geez like tea kettle you know what i mean like we're both here so it's also very it's so confusing because it's like that's why i've always told people before like it takes a bad bitch to date a bad bitch like if you're not a bad bitch don't go after

one exactly because you can't handle it girl yeah and that's why i think a lot of times when they when The media drags pop stars, like women specifically, if they are not in a relationship or if they jump from one to the next, like, or they have one and then they have another. There was like, oh, she can't keep a man, whatever the fuck. I'm like, you have no idea how men operate. Like, you could, you could say you're super cool dating someone like Ariana Grande or someone like you. You could say that.

But then when she goes out in the world and she is a fucking superstar. That's what happened with all these like Taylor Swift and Ariana Grande when they came out of COVID and they were like now doing their job again. It's like all of their partners were like, everything fell apart because it's like, it turns out you really aren't nearly as confident as you thought you were. Exactly.

Because it's like women succeeding to that level, especially in being beautiful and talented. It's like, I'm supposed to be the smart one and the talented one. Yeah. Well, now nobody talks about me.

Yeah. Of course they fucking don't. Like, what have you? Yeah, what songs have you got? Who cares about you? Nobody cares about you. Is that what you want me to say? It's like a humbling reality for them.

That's what I would say if I was, if I was, you're just mad because nobody cares about she. this next one says girls who respect their bodies greater than sign girls who throw their bodies out for the world to see like men are the ones known for respecting women's bodies like men have their tits out all the time i don't want to fucking hear it they're constantly walking with their nipples out i know and they're known for disrespecting women's bodies and they're being like women don't respect us you don't respect us you can't even work in a morgue because you don't respect bodies no shit literally i i told someone that the other day I'm like there are many, many morgues across the country and many countries who don't ever hire men.

Yeah, and that's been around like historically. Like from like way back they'd like, okay, we've got to stop hiring them because they can't make. Yeah, like, yeah, respecting bodies. Probably when you can work in a morgue. And then do you think men are like, oh, and what about us? That's so exclusionary to me. Yeah. He's all first, Peach's music.

Now the morgue. Where does it stop? What am I supposed to do? There's nothing left for me. Where does the discrimination? I can't work some music. I can't work in them all. Sometimes I tell people when men are like,

this makes me feel bad. This makes me feel bad as a man. I just, right, I don't care. It's because we're supposed to be the ones that like give all of our empathy and we're like, oh my God, sorry. Are you okay? And it's like, go tell your boys about that. They feel entitled to every aspect of women, physically, emotionally, mentally, like.

And that's what I feel like men don't have a concept of is like, when I see a TikTok that, like, bothers me, I'm never in the comments being like, this piss me off. I'll send it to my friend and be like, I hate this. Like, this annoys me. I'm like,

go tell your friends that you're annoyed by this. Like, why are you my comments? Yeah, I know, I don't ever see something I hate and be like, I'm going to write something

about how she's the fattest, ugliest bitch I've ever seen my life. I actually cannot even fathom like thinking of doing that. Like just being like, because that's so embarrassing first of what we're like, actually I think like insane. Like of being a troll. I can't imagine.

Yeah. I'm like, I got too, I guess like happiness in my life. I can't relate to that. feeling of being like, you know what I'm going to do? I need to put this person down for the sake of it. Just because I'm not a fan of their content.

Like, it's fucking stupid. And there's plenty of people I'm not a fan of and like I have stuff to say about, but I'm not saying it in their comment. And that makes it sound like I'm talking shit about everyone. But like, you see stuff sometimes on your point that you don't like. Like a hot take and I'm like, I don't agree. But I'm not in the comments being like, I don't agree. And by the way you're ugly.

Like I'm not writing that in people's fucking comments unless it's a man who's talking about me. Exactly. This one says, I can't think of a less attractive artist than one who doesn't wear their clothes. Sometimes art isn't about. being attractive. Hot take. Whoa. Like, so much artists are just being artists. Like, imagine, like, someone who painted, like, one of those, like, historical paintings, like, and being like, oh, they weren't very hot, actually.

That's kind of not. And they're like, but what did he look like, though? Yeah, he was actually kind of ugly and not really attractive to me, personally. It's like, that's truly not the point. Like, all of his pictures, like, you can't even really see his face. Like, I don't know. I don't know how I feel about this piece of art. I know. Like, imagine someone painting something, but like, well, the artist was kind of fat.

Like, too fat for me personally. I don't date fatties. And it's like, it's not about you dating the others. But they are fat. Yeah. And I personally wouldn't date them, not really my type. It's like, where did that come into it? They're actually not on the table for you.

I know. I feel the same way when they talk about pop stars or women in general in the entertainment industry and they're like, oh, she's so like mid looking. Yeah, like I would never go for her. It's like, you would never go for you. That's crazy. She probably feels the same. Believe it or not.

Like, I know it's going to blow your. fucking mind but she probably would think you're really ugly it's like this mentality that men have was kind of like just by being a man they are a 10 out of 10 regardless of how old they are what they look like because like like I keep bringing back to the strip club but this is just like the most experience I have with men but that's honestly probably the purest most feral like exposure to them yeah version of like what happens in the comments and it's like I would have men that would be like pushing 80 I'm not even exaggerating and they would be like you know like just unattractive old creeps and then they would be in there and I was like 19 and I

I would be in a lap dance that they paid for. And they would fully, in their heads, fully believe that, like, they could pull me out of here and be like, you know, like, I'd love. Because I'd offer to be like, do you want to go for a lap dance? Because I'm hustling them. That's my job. They're in my place of work. They understand the dynamic, I thought. And they'd be like, oh, I'd actually rather take you out to dinner.

And I'm like, I wouldn't. Like, I'm here at work. He's taking your glasses off. He's like, you're so beautiful. And do they would do stuff like that. They'd fully be like, don't let anyone tell you that you're not beautiful. The ick that courses through me when I hear shit like that. Yeah.

I'm like, I'll be like, oh, you're actually really smart or like, you know, you're too beautiful for this. And I'm like, is this a job for ugly people? Like, you come. No shit. I'm fucking a beautiful dancer. No shipp it. You come here to see hot women. What do you mean I'm too beautiful to be a hot woman?

Like, what are you talking about? This is what the job is for. Men gross me out. It's insane. And they fully just would believe like just by being a man that I would be into them. And because I'm like, I'm pretending. You paid me to pretend. That's what I'm doing?

And they're like, I'd rather take you out. They're like, what are we? Really? I'm gonna be like, I would love you to take me out to dinner instead of paying me. Like, I'm here at work. You're insane. Like, you're a geriatric old freak. Like, for real.

Like, hey, you have liver spots. No. You're like, drooling and shaking. No, and that'll be $500. No. Like, what the fuck? Like, oh, I'll like, yeah, I'll buy you a drink or take you out. And like, that is nothing to me.

Like, imagine going to any other service in doing that. Like getting like McDonald's or something and be like, I'd actually rather take you on a date. It's like, no, it's actually $10. Like, okay, congratulations. it'll be $10. Yeah, anyone would like to take me on a day. Yeah, get in line.

It's not about it. Pay me. One time when I was in college, this guy was like, you know when you're hustling for free shit, like free drinks or whatever? You're like, oh, I'm so thirsty. So he was like buying, buying, buying, I'm like, oh, it's so hot in here. And then he was buying me and my friend drinks all night. And then he was like, I'm really trying to get to know you.

And I was like, oh, I'm not. Ugh. Ugh. And I was like, a word, like what? And he's like, you know, I just think you're so different. you're so different from every other girl in you like on some movie shit they love doing that they love sing that shit they're like i'm sitting here and i'm like my tits are pushed up to my neck like i'm just like every other bitch i would say that too when i'd be in the club they'd be like i would try to be like you know

i'm trying to get them to pay me like because you do have to go up to them approach them and try and get them to take you and i'd be like do you want to come for a dance you'd like what makes you different from the other girls and I'm like nothing you can go and get one like literally nothing else like i'll go get it like who you want like there's other men in here that are you're wasting my time it was so annoying the difference is I'm the only one that walked up to you. Yeah. That's the difference. Yeah, and I'll walk away and someone else will do it if that's what you are.

Yeah, everybody else finds you gross. That's the only difference. Yeah, and they'd fully sit there and be like, prove to me, why should I take you? And I'm like, there's so many other dudes in here that I'll just talk to that. We'll be like, yeah, let's go. You're like, never mind. We can move on to the next one. Wait, wait, wait, wait, come out.

Exactly. They take your hair out of the pony and they're like, look at how beautiful you are. They really would do shit. Like, I had one guy that was like, he was like trying to psychoanalyze me. And like they love it. They would love to have this narrative of me that I was this like troubled. Like I'm doing this to get through like med school or something. And I'd be like, so like, why are you doing this?

I'm like, cause it's my job. And like, I don't know. I have fun here. There's hot girls and I get paid. Like, I don't know what you want me to tell you? And they're like, what do your family think of this? Like, are you close with them? Like, how's your dad with this?

I'm like, you're such a freak. Are you therapy? Yeah, he would. And then if they look in my eyes and be like, I see a lot of like sadness in there. And I'm like, you're so annoying. You want to dance or not. Like, oh my God. Do you not have any money?

Is that why you're doing this? Yeah, I'm like, I see a little brokeness in there. I'm seeing broke. Putting the broken broken broken. Yeah. What's your sign? Broke? Yeah, that's what it looks like to.

Is it a sign negative in the accounts? I even, even wanted like that same guy. He was like, like, what's your favorite color? Girl. Free drink. That's my fucking favorite color. Yeah. I even told him, he was like, I just really want to get to know me.

And I at one point, I was like, you don't want to get to know me. Yeah. They would love that. They're like, I do. You're like, you're like, travel. Yeah, I was like, you don't want to get to know me. You're trying to fuck me. And the answer is no.

Yeah. So are you going to keep buying me drinks or no? No? Okay, I'm out. And he's like, wait, wait, wait, wait. Enough of this fucking, this hallmark movie bullshit. Pissing me all. Really in their Netflix or original.

They're really trying. Even the other day I was at the gym. Like literally last week I was at the gym. And I go to the same gym. I've been going to the same gym for a while. But like the gym that I go to is like my boyfriend used to work there. And so like he knows the manager. and like we know all the people who work there.

So like generally speaking, no one ever really bothers me because they all know that who my boyfriend is. And so nobody ever talks to me. So if someone does talk to me like that I haven't seen before, I'm like, okay, you must be new here. Like if a men are being weird. Yeah. And the other day, this has not happened to me there and I don't even know how long.

And I was walking and he tried to like bump into me. Like he changed course so we could walk past me. Yeah, exactly. A meet cute. Like we drop our books at the same time, touch each other's fingers. know and then I was he was talking to me and I was like what because I had headphones on so I like I like took him off I'm like what and he goes oh I didn't want to you know get in the way like get in the way he's like he's like yeah and I was like you're not and I put my thing back on and he was like

trying to linger and I was like anyways I like turned my back to him and then I I told my mom because my mom happened to be there and I was like the way I'm immediately angry hey don't talk to me yeah don't talk to me it like pisses me off and then I and I get like I feel like such an intense rage when like someone even just looks at me sometimes because I'm like, I'm annoyed this isn't for you. And I feel pissed off because I'm like, I have no say in the matter that you just get to look at like, I put on a cute little skimpy outfit and they look and I'm like, oh, fuck off.

And I can't like say anything because they're not really like approaching me or saying anything. But I see their eyes. I'm like, oh my God. But you sense it. Yeah. And I'm like, I don't know what you're thinking in your head, you little freak and it's putting something about.

Like annoys me so bad because I'm like, I didn't put this on for you. And I get to look at it and I'm pissed off. I feel like one of my, one of my like superpowers other than guessing men's height just by looking at a picture and I'm to the inch always right. That's a fact. Besides that, I also feel like I have a skill where I can always tell if a man wants to fuck a woman, whether it's me or somebody else. So I always know. And it's easy to tell, but some people can't tell, but I always can. So if I feel like someone's viving with you, trying to vibe with me or trying to vibe with someone else around me who doesn't want it, I'm immediately angry. The way I'm like, hey, hey, hey, she doesn't want to talk to you. Yeah, I feel like that too.

And I think like my friends, I think, haven't had as much of an experience with shitty men as I have. So like, and I think I used to be like that when I started dripping too. I was really like, oh, I don't want to like hurt their feelings or embarrass them and like shut them down and reject them. And then I got to a point and was like, I need to do that to survive. They're actually animals. You like literally have to. Yeah. And now like I still have this like I think I have a lot of years to make up for or I didn't stand up for myself.

So now when I see men doing it to my friends, I'm immediately like in their face like, get the fuck out of it. And they're like trying to be nice. Like, no, like it's okay. I'm like, it's not though he's being a weirdo. Like, and they just, it's like they really have a hard time being rejected too. It's like they flat out refuse to be rejected. And I'm like, you're humiliating yourself. Like, walk away.

Yeah, and no is a complete sentence. So like, I don't need to give you a fucking reason. And it's like, I would be so mortified if I like tried to approach a girl and she was like, no, thanks. I'm not interested. Oh my God. Sorry. Okay.

Bye. Yeah, the way I'd like, I actually, something just came up and I have to, and I just run outside, run away. Like, I'm so sorry. But men would literally be like, well, no. And it's like, you're now arguing with me because I rejected you, but you won't leave now. Like, what are we doing? Insame.

Have you no shame. That's what I always think. Like, have some fucking pride. You're dragging out the embarrassment for you. Like, when I was working in, I was in Nashville like a year or two years ago. And I was doing work stuff, but we finished and we went out for the night in Nashville. It was like, ooh. Oh, real conservative.

And so we were like in a random bar. And my boyfriend was there, but he was at the bar. So I was like kind of standing with my friends. We were off to the side. a guy came up to me and like asked was trying to hit on me and asked for my number and I was like no and then he was like you got a boyfriend or something and I was like that's unrelated the answer's no and then he was like okay and then he started walking away and I saw him trying to turn back but at that point my boyfriend had come back and then he apologized to my boyfriend and not to me oh my god and that really made him fuck off which makes me even more mad because once I started dating my boyfriend would walk around like obviously men fuck off a lot faster with in there yeah but that made me even more mad because I'm like you don't even fucking respect me as a person and you you respect him as a man. And you don't even get that like being a lesbian, like dating another woman. They're not like, oh, okay, her girlfriend's here or back off.

It's like, it almost like exacerbates things. Yeah, they're like, oh, we should make this. Yeah. And it's like, yeah, it's so frustrating. I know. I can't even imagine, especially you being gay too, but being a femme lesbian, it's like, it's fucking annoying. Yeah.

Especially when you have men who say things like, well, maybe you just haven't had the right man. Yeah. And men think like femme lesbians are for them. That's like a pornographic thing. It's not like a real life thing that exists. Yeah, it's like, oh, like they either see lesbians. as like not fuckable, like, butch lesbians that are for them. And that's, like, written off and they're like almost like a joke.

Or it's like fan lesbians that are for them to watch. And it's like, there's no like, hey, neither one are for you. Like, don't worry about it. Don't worry about who's fuckable or not. They all hate you the same. Believe it or not. They all hate you the same. Exactly.

Okay. This last video, this is in this man's video, he starts off looking disgusted with text on screen saying when she dresses revealingly. I don't even know if that's a word. Then the caption changes to when she dresses classy, but you can see her curves without showing her skin. And then the guy acts super into it and makes faces of approval.

What do you mean showing curves? Yeah, when she reveals her curves though. But when those curves show up, what are you talking about? Classy curves. So you want them, you want to see them, but you don't? Exactly. Like, she's revealing her figure,

but in a classy outfit first. Like, what are you going to see it or not? Yeah, like, it's very... I just, it's like, sometimes things just aren't for them to view. Like, I, I had an old. man wants that like out loud is in a shopping center like like a mall like I'm walking had like like mini shorts on this was years ago I think I might have been a teenager but this old man with his wife yeah out loud goes like oh doesn't leave much the imagination so I'm like I consider it I'm

not dressing for you to imagine me naked like like maybe I'm not for you to imagine things yeah when I put him on I'm going oh I hope a man imagines me naked I hope this old man really is picturing what I look like under these shorts I fuck I gave too much away oh my god I hope I hope I hope I hope I hope I And, like, said it to me as if I was going to be like, oh, like, yes. I was like, you're a freak. And your wife next to you? Yeah, she's just tunnel vision just walking, like, walk down. Yeah, well, she's in the trenches, clearly.

What the fuck? When creepy old men, oh, my God, make me even more mad. Like, I was on a brand trip, a literal fucking plan trip, and they paid for, like, this section and this little rooftop thing. And, like, this old dude and, like, I'm not getting, like, his 50s. Mind you, all the women were with, like, our young, like, 20s, like, all of them makeup girls. and then fucking me.

Like every single one of them is a beauty girl and then there's me. Until we were like all hanging out having fun and this guy comes over and he's like which one of you's the leader? Oh, they love doing that. They love like making it seem like we're all adults, are we not? What do you think we ride in like hair? Me? Like four seasons all in like me.

It's like a murder like crows. Like there's like an alpha. There's like a, you know what I'm saying? Like second in command. I'm like. I'm going to do that to next group of guys. I see like which one's the leader? Which one's the leader?

Send your best warrior forward. We're going to fight one on one. Oh my God, is that what he thought? And the winner gets territory. Like, the way I was like, what the fuck? And he was literally being a creepy weirdo, and I told him, don't go up to them. They don't want to talk to you. The answer is no.

And he was like, okay. Yeah, he's like, you don't know what you're talking about. Yeah, I know women. Walks over there, gets fucking embarrassed, comes back. He gets fucking humiliated. Like, literally one of the girls there, she was like, can you like go away? Yeah. And then he got humiliated.

humiliated me. I think they even feel embarrassment truly. The way that they act makes it seem like they don't feel it. Considering their like patient zero of humiliation, you would think that they would know. I think they don't register humiliation. Or they like rework it. You know how like in therapy they give you like frameworks. They're like oh look through it. Look at it with a different frame. Look at it. That's so true. They're just constantly reworking frameworks. Yeah. I remember she's a fucking cut. Obviously. Or like yeah, this is a challenge and like this is a little back and forth that Yeah, and he's like, well, obviously she's a bitch and she's, like, fat and ugly anyways, so obviously I don't even like her. Like, the way they're already telling themselves that when they get rejected is insane.

Yeah. And he came back with the rejection if you want, a weirdo. For real. And he came back and he was like, I didn't know you guys were all fucking bitches or some shit like that. And then I was like, what did you say? And he was like, oh, just like, you know, no need to be rude. I'm all, did I or did I not tell you to not go over there? Yeah, you were rude for going over there.

Yeah, I was like, I told, I warned you, didn't I? And I said, and now look at you. embarrassed and was it worth it? And then we were just looking at each other. It wasn't worth. It wasn't the fuck out of here. Oh my God. And then he turned around and walked away. And I also make this joke. I've made this joke on the pod before he had a puffer vest on. Get out of here. Get out of my fucking face. Like look at you. Like sometimes when they say like I would never, yeah, when they say like, I would never fuck you. They say that shit to me all the time. And I'm like, have you looked at yourself? Because the answer is saying. They say that as if you're going to be

like devastated by that. I'm like, I was actually really hoping you would and now that's really embarrassed me. Wait, are you. Are you serious? Are you serious? Are you It's because they go around with the mentality of like they want to fuck everything. So they think we're the same. So they think, actually, I wouldn't fuck you. As if we're going to be like, wait, I want to fuck all of you. So that's so upset. They're trying to reverse psychology me.

Yeah. And it's like, just because you want to fuck everything doesn't mean I do. Like, okay, same. You're all so ugly. Yeah. I think because that cuts them up. So they think we're going to be cut it. Yeah.

And I've told them, I'm like, well, yeah. I mean, look at you. Of course, of course you would never fuck me. I would never let you do that. Yeah. Like, what the fuck. Yeah. I would hope not.

even want to share a bus bench with you. So like, you're good. Don't worry. Yeah, insane majority. I was like, if you pulled up driving my Uber, I'd be like, uh, I'll call and I don't. I don't know. I'll call the police instead. I'll just pretend I'm not me.

Oh, my God. We'll read one of these comments. Okay, this one says, if she's dressing like a hooker, she isn't yours. Well, depends. Is she an actual hooker? Because they can't tell the difference. You know what I mean? Like, they confuse love.

Like, they're like, oh, well, clearly she's into me. as if you're not paying her for a service. Yeah, that's the thing. It's like, you treat hookers like they are yours. So, like, you've got it twisted. You've got it so backwards. I'm like, it's ironic you say that because y'all feel entitled to every woman ever alive.

I feel like that's almost like a motto. Like, if she dresses like a hooker, she's not yours. Like, leave her alone. You're right. Leave her alone. Yeah, that's a good mentality to have it. Wait, I'll read one more of these. This one says, a lot of these girls feel like they're so entitled

than us men can't have any sort of preference, but it's okay for them too. Why do they always use that argument? Like, oh, we can't have a preference. It's like, your preference is like really, it's like nasty. It's not even like being a preference or is an order. Yeah, sometimes it's like phobic of some kind. It's like racist.

It's like it's not really like preference. Is that what we're calling bigotry now? I didn't know there was another word for it. Yeah. Well, also you absolutely can. You can have a preference. Yeah, and you don't need to like verbalize it to the person who's not your preference. And be like, by the way, not my preference.

Don't like any of this. Don't even think about it. If you were ever thinking about it, don't. That's like you can have all the preferences in the world. That doesn't mean you're going to get anybody. Just don't go for those people. You're going to die alone. Like, yeah, go ahead.

Do it. Your preference is like anyone but Margo Robbie. Like, that's, you're like, well, Marco Robbie just, I once saw a true discourse of men being like. I remember that where they were all like, she's mad. And it's like, are you saying that to cope? Like, yeah. You know what?

Sometimes when I don't feel good about myself, I lie. Sometimes I lie. Yeah. Sometimes I talk shit when I don't feel good about me. I think they're also like, they're poor. porn rot it. They're like porn sick. Yeah. It's like, would you, like, I see a regular person and they're like, wouldn't fuck her. It's like, have you fucked anybody? That's what I always say. Yeah. When's the last time you saw boobs in real life? Like, like, let's talk about that.

Like, why don't we, we're focusing on the wrong numbers. Like, let's, let's, let's, let's refocus. You don't talk about frameworks. Let's, let's lay out a framework where you focus on not being the worst. And I bet, and just watch the pussy fly to you. Like, that's the other thing as well, and it's like, I with like the whole insult culture, I don't understand why instead of being like, okay, so I'm involuntarily celibate. No one wants to fuck me. I'm going to be mad at them. It's like, I would work on myself. I'm like, how do I make that not the case?

Like, how do I? Like you want to have sex, right? Yeah. It's like they just continue being a freak instead of being like, let me work on what my issue is and why no one wants me. Like, oh my God, you guys don't want me. I fuck you and fuck you. It's crazy how the list is a lot shorter when you like cross everything off. So like even men who like

are conventionally attractive, whatever that means, like above a certain height, make a certain amount of money. Like all these in these invisible things that they put on themselves and say women, all women want. Let's just say you have all those things. You're still fucking single. Why? Like, the list is really short.

It's you. Like, it's your personality. Like, the essence of you is so intolerable. Not one bitch on this planet wants to fuck with you. Exactly. And they don't ever do any introspection to be like, let me figure out why that is.

And it's like they have this standard of the guy that women want, like the Chad, where they're like, and it's just like, nothing about what's his personality. They don't even have one for this Chad character. It's just his appearance. He's tall and he's a Jimbo. Yeah.

And it's like, that's it. And it's like, is he a normal guy? Like, because you're not. Is that all men in the world, too, that are in relationships? Like, do you know how many short men, fat men, bald men are? I'm a lesbian and I've dated some little freaks like that. You know what's funny is like when you're a good person and funny? Exactly.

The amount of puss that flies your way is crazy. I have a lesbian and I've dated guys purely because they were funny. Yeah. Literally, I referenced one of my friends, even my friend Caleb once when he was on the show, he said like, just like get an interest. Like, get a hobby. Listen when women talk to you. Literally listen when women talk and respond.

And you'd be shocked. Exactly. How quickly women are like, I'm kind of fucking with him. I know how many women might. Like I don't have many straight friends ironically. But the few that I do have and even some of my gay friends, like my sister's a lesbian, like when they send me crushes and shit, you know how many medium ugly people they send me? And I'm like, what's going on here? And they're like, but he's really funny.

And he's like super nice. And I'm like, is he? and then I need to, because I need to assess the personality first. But that's what I'm like, looks are not a factor. I know. But it's because it's such a factor for them. They kind of see the world through their lens. I'm like, you guys want Margo, you have a Margo Robbie like goal, but you have like.

And she, and they hate when women have a personality. They look like her and she's also funny and smart. And they're like, ugh. They want her to be like a little pet. Yeah, my friend, E. E.R. said, like, I think men see women like Alexis, like how I see my Alexa. Yes. I think I saw it was.

Yeah. Yeah, they were like, just like as soon as they start, like, oh, shut up. As soon as she starts to have thoughts and feelings, I'm like, okay, no, that's not what you're meant for. That's not what you're meant for, play music. I want to speak, I play a song. And it's like, play music and tell me the weather. And that's it. I don't need anything else from you.

That's so true. I said that to my friend the other day, I think, because I saw that clip and I was like, that is so funny. That's so true. That's exactly what I see. It's like they, as soon as you step outside of the fantasy. Yeah. They're like, oh. Yeah.

And they like to be the one to instill that belief in you too. like they would like they liked with them to be like you're actually really smart like and like you're really like funny like they want to be the one and really they want us to be like wait really no one's ever said that to me that's crazy like I really thought I was a stupid dumb idiot with my thoughts I've actually heard that verbatim to this this guy I was training at at the job he had just gone and I had been there for a year and I was training him teaching him how to do the job and he told me you're a lot smarter than you look and I was like he's like dumb what does that even I was like, oh, word, do you think?

I've never looked at a person who looks stupid, like, unless it's a man. Fucking dumb ass. Yeah, you've got, like, a dumb look about you. He's like, no, just like the way you look. Like, he just doubled down like he thought I was really flattered by it. No, no, no, like the way you look is dumb. Like, the way you look is like, you look stupid. But you're not.

And he goes, that's really cool. That's really cool. And I was like, like, you'd be flattered. Mm-hmm. I was like, oh, okay. I was like, is that supposed to be a compliment? And then he was, it was so awkward I was all, because that's not a compliment. It's actually really rude.

yeah and then he was like just looking at me he goes i didn't mean it that way i was like no it's fine i'll just keep training you at the job that we both have let's get back to the task yeah let's get back to me teaching you how to fucking do this same let's focus on that i love when you get to call them out and stuff like that i feel like i've let so many things slide when i was younger because i don't want to embarrass them or like shut them down but now that i'm old which is typical like for most women and men have never done that ever but like i learned how to shut the book yeah and like or like oh i don't want to say that to offend someone just like they just say whatever they're thinking at any time i think that's i think that's

all the time too. I'm like, have you ever thought about feelings? Like, yeah, people have them, believe it or not. Just think about something before it comes out of your mouth. Yeah, and like, but now I'll, yeah, I'll call them out. I'm like, that was fucked up. Like, that was crazy. You said that. Yeah. What do you mean by that? Explain that quickly. I've told people before, too, like when you want to test people and like maybe you're not like super out, out like the gate fucking competition like me. Yeah. I'm like, even when they say like something that's offensive and offensive joke or something, you could ask them like, what does that mean? Yeah, I don't get it. Yeah. And then just to act.

stupid like they think you are and then when they explain it go oh okay then i did get it yeah interesting and that's it no reaction and they'll get so they're like she's fucking boring yeah or like say it in front of you again yeah or like i used to do this thing when i i used to the club that i worked out was on like a strip in the city and it'd be like i'd know everyone was like drunk and there's people everywhere and men would always cat call me like going to and from the club so i just started stopping and being like what like they'd like whist my er ah i'm like hello and like what do you want to say and they're like, oh, what? I'm like, yeah, now what? Like, you whistled at me and you, like, said some shit. It's crazy. It's crazy how the bravado disappears, like as soon as you.

It's like, they just wanted to make sound. Like, just like, they're just vocal stimming at me. Yeah, they're like, sorry, I was just getting it out. Yeah, and you're like, okay. Yeah, and I stop and and I'm like, what are you want to say? Like, what is it? I had a, I made a video talking about how I, I do the same thing. Like, I've taught people how I dealt with cackholing in a way that wasn't putting us in danger kind of thing. So I was just like pretending you don't hear them and just going what, like, and making them repeat it. Because the, because the, the third or fourth time they do it, they're not going to have nearly as much confidence at the beginning. And it's funny. And then after that, you just go, oh, they just try and leave.

Like, so you're like, what? Oh. Yeah, exactly. Exactly. And then one girl commented and she said that she says, when they do that to her, she'll look at them and be like, you've had a lot of women die in your family, huh? And that's all she says. I think you're going to say, I don't have any change. Sorry. Yeah, I've heard that one too. But she says, you've had a lot of women die in your family, huh? Hilarious. I'm taking that. I'm borrowing that. I did that once. Not that, but the whole, like, I don't have any change when I was with Jory once in West Hollywood. And he was like driving past and he said something. And I went like, oh, I don't have any change.

He was in a Tesla. Sorry. And everyone kind of looked at me like, no, I'm going to. That one didn't land. I'll get them the next time. I'm standing on the street waiting for another car to go past me. TikTok would have eaten that up.

They would totally got that joke. If this is online, they would have been done. You guys would be sorry. In the comment section, I would have eaten you on. If you weren't driving a Tesla right now. Okay. So, we talked to. about a lot of things. Mostly how much men discussed us, which is, they discussed us. Yeah,

why did that sound strange when I said it? They gross us out. Yeah. Pretty obvious. But we also talked a lot about you and your amazing, wonderful music. I would love if you could give us your best piece of advice for any up-and-coming artists, whether they're gay, queer, whatever it may be, and maybe they want to be a pop star and maybe they're a femme and they maybe feel a little bit nervous. Like, what would you say is your best piece of advice for them coming up in the industry? I don't know, it sounds so like cliche and corny, but I think like really just, not only just like, like be yourself, but like really lean into it and like be that, like be that, but like extra, I guess.

Like, instead of, yeah, and like, and not trying to like fit what's already been done and like what people are doing and it might be successful for them because that's them and that's their nature and they're really just amping it up and making it extra. Like obviously with me, like, I love the color pink and I love fairies and like instead of just having that be something that, like, it is true and it. it's about me. I've like really leaned into it. Like this is like I've fully embodied this thing that I love and and I think that helped me so much to be more creative and more expressive and I think and it's just fun and I think it really makes the job fun and it makes people see that you're having

fun and they gravitate towards you and I think. Yeah and I think they love that about you because they can tell it's authentic to you. Yeah. I feel like audiences are a lot smarter than people give them credit for. Yeah. So when you're you're not dressing or acting the way that feels authentic to you like people can see through it. Exactly. And I think you don't go. gravitate towards it as much. Yeah, I think that's a really good point is that I think people are smarter than we give them credit for sometimes. And I think in like even lyrics and stuff sometimes I worry that like it might be too specific or too like, but then look at, you know, Taylor Swift and she's got these really elaborate, you know, lyrics and people obviously love that. And I think, yeah,

being, yeah, giving people more credit, I guess and thinking that they will get it if you. Yeah, if it's true to you. Stand true in it. Yeah. Yeah. And I, I will say too, I love that you love pink so much and you make everything pink. I feel like that's beautiful. And I feel like it's also a testament to women who love, like, whatever's girly, feminine, whatever, and, like, really lean into it because men love to demonize shit like that or make it to be corny or lame or whatever, which is internalized misogyny for most women. Like, I used to, I swore up and down I hated the color pink when I was, like, younger.

And it turned out I just thought it made me different, which is fucking lameo of me. I think it's because also, like, it's because we see women sometimes portrayed as like a caricature. And it's like, oh, I love shopping and pink. And it's like, wait, I have other interests. I like cool things. So I must not be like that. Exactly. And I don't like pink and shopping.

And it's like. And neither of those things are bad. Yeah. Shopping bing are not bad. Yeah. You can like those things, but also be a multifaceted person with other interests and hobbies. And I think when we're little, we just see that. It's like, oh, well, I'm not that.

And like, I have more thoughts and feeling that I must be different. I must be one of the guys because I'm smart and I'm funny. And I like cars or I like this. Yeah. But you can also be both. You could be all of it in one. Like one doesn't have to exist without the other. Yeah.

But I think you're amazing and wonderful and so talented. I can't wait to see you keep rising. I think the same about you, and I can't wait to see you keep rising. Thank you. And I also forgot to mention this. I literally downloaded your EP to listen to when it came out on my flight to New York. Oh my God, really? Yeah, because I love your music, girl.

That is not a joke. That is so sweet. Imagine if I was just lying. Imagine I was just making that up. You end up with me when I lie. And I was like, and that was a lie. Got you. But I love you.

and I adore you. I'm so happy you came on the show. Thank you for coming. I'm so happy you had me. Thank you so much. And thank you all for joining us on this episode of the comment section show. Where can everybody find you? You can find me everywhere on TikTok, any social media at Peach PRC. Period. And make sure you all go and stream Peach's music on all streaming platforms. It's available everywhere, I assume. Period. Love that. You can stream this episode and then you can go stream Peach's music. It's like a two and one. That's a homework assignment. Get to it. Thank you so much for joining us on this. episode of the comment section show. Thank you so much to my wonderful guest, Peach, PRC. Don't forget new episodes of the comment section drop every Wednesday. You can stream the audio on all streaming platforms or you can watch the video exclusively and for free on our favorite platform, Spotify. Don't forget replay Fridays also for all of you that were bitching and moaning about wanting to watch the videos. Old faves will be uploaded to the past your bedtime

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