The Comment Section with Drew Afualo - HE ASKED FOR MONEY FOR HIS UBER HOME?? | Drew Afualo ft. Aliyahs Interlude | THE COMMENT SECTION EP 41

Episode Date: November 23, 2022

[video available on Spotify] Drew welcomes Aliyahs Interlude to the show this week to talk about finding your personal style and how to stop dressing for the male gaze, unpack a frat guy's hatred of mom jeans, why biting ice cream is a red flag, and so much more! Drew: https://linktr.ee/drewafualo Aliyahs: IG / TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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starring me, your favorite, and the men hate me the most. We all know that, but today is about my very, very special guest, the one and only, Aaliyah Zinnirlude, aka Aaliyah. Woo! I'm so excited to have you here. Thank you. I'm excited to be here. And honestly, I have to say that I feel like if men hate you,

you're probably doing something right That's what I'm saying That's real I've seen you post about that before Yeah Men hate real shit Like I'm sorry The first video I ever saw of you

That made me follow you Was one where you said Like men have red flags And for women it's just Fun facts Fun facts Quarks They're like they make you a quirky girl

Right That's just us That's what we do Because I feel like a woman She can be obsessed with herself And that's like That's c** like Oh my gosh

We love her But if it's a guy, it's just like, ew. What are you doing? You're so embarrassing. Such a narcissist. Ew. Like, stop. I support that 100%.

And I feel like you and I have very similar veins in which we operate, which is like, we're so completely free from the male gaze. It's not even funny. Yeah. I don't even know what that is. Not even. So far from it, it doesn't register to me whatsoever. I feel like when you cater to the male gaze, like, you don't benefit at all.

Literally. There's no win. Literally. There's why would I ever do that? That's like the longest, darkest tunnel with no light at the end. Right. I don't even think it's like a tunnel because there's like an end to a tunnel. Like that's just like a cave.

A cave? A cavern. Yes. A cavern. Yes. It's just like a never ending abyss. That's why when you run into Pick Me girls lost in the sauce. No.

Can't free them. I just don't understand how anyone could be a pick me because why would you ever want to be picked by like people. And I feel like when people would be picmys, like it's never to be picked by. someone who actually matters. Like it's just like a random guy on Twitter. Like the world's worst do. Literally the worst person on planet Earth.

Yeah. Congratulations, I guess. Like, I don't know. I mean, I always say like pour one out from. She's gone. Right. Kisses to the sky. I-IP bitch.

Literally. I can't save everyone. Right. You can't. We really can't. I don't even try to save people anymore. Same. Just do what you got to do.

But that's like, I think that's why it's so. You. appealed to me so much like really attracted my attention with your videos because you're so yourself and men hate nothing more than a bitch who knows herself, loves herself and is confident outside of their approval.

Exactly. Even like it's mostly men but also just insecure people. In general, yeah. Literally like when people don't know who they are they project those insecurities onto you and they expect you to like feel hurt about it but it's just like I'm like I know what you're doing. Like, I know. I see what you're doing.

Well, you're also like, I see what you look like. Mm-hmm. And that means nothing. Literally. I mean, it means nothing to me. I swear. I feel like the baddest bitches are always the coolest people. Because it's just like, if somebody's hating, like, like, let's just look in a mirror.

For a second. Please. Like, you're doing too much. I hate that. They're the same people who, like, will tell you to humble yourself. Do you get that a lot? I, you know what's crazy? I feel like my audience is mostly women.

so I don't really get the humble. I don't know. When you get the occasional hater? Yeah. No, honestly, I've seen hate on my 4U page the other day. And it was like this guy, and it was a grown man. I was like, you're like 40, like, talking shit. And then it had like 22K likes.

And I was like, so y'all been hating on me on the low? And I didn't know. Like, I will literally. That's a beautiful thing. Yeah. That's how you know you're popping. They will beat my door down to let me know. No.

I feel like you handle. hate so eloquently, though, because when you drag somebody, it's like, like, I, I get, like, I be feeling offended, loki. I'm like, him. She's, going in, and I love that for you, honestly. And I think, like, speaking of the male gays,

right, because I, I've talked about this before on, like, my TikTok as far as, like, freeing yourself from the male gays. Yeah. It's, like, the most liberating feeling in the world. Let's talk about it. You could literally do be whatever you want at that point, and you're someone who, is so free from the male gays

specifically when it comes to your style. So that's our topic is like finding your style. Like how women and femme presenting people in general can find their style, but also be apart from the male gays. Because femininity is not inherently male gaysy. It just depends on, I think, intention more than anything.

Exactly. I feel like I grew up, like, I was a type of person. I grew up like, I got bullied growing up. So I was never really desired by males. So I feel like that had a big part into who I became today because like when I had went to college, that was like the first time of my life where like I was getting hell of attention.

And like I had lost hella weight during quarantine and like you see the whole thing. Like just constantly change. And then I realized that men are never satisfied. Like why would I ever cater to you when you do nothing for me? Like I don't, I feel like when a woman compliments you, it's like, ooh, like that's my sister. Like I will die for you actually. But when it's a guy, it's like, ew, how did you say that? Like, I'm getting harassed.

But, like, yeah, I feel like, why would I just don't cater to the male gays at all. And it's so boring, too. It's just, like, what can you wear exactly? Like skinny jeans, like some, like, slutty outfit. But I could wear a slutty outfit and still cater to the male, like female gage. Yeah, absolutely. At the same time. And it's also, I feel like, it's always so by their terms.

Like, what they like to see on women, what they find attractive, what they think is hot, women wear. Who cares what you think? No for real. I don't care what you want. That's so boring. And I'm I'm the type of person like from the joke because sometimes people will be like, have you always been this way? Like some dudes will say like she was clearly wronged by someone in the past. Yeah. No, y'all have been on a short leash with me my entire life. Like what? Like we were all a pick me at one point. Um, we all just unlearned it unlike a lot of other people. Yeah. But even at my, even in the throes of my pick me stage, like the most deep, like cavernous pygmy phase, I still hated how men acted and treated me.

Yeah. Or treated others. Like I really, like even then I was never the type of bitch that'd be like, well, that's what he, I was never like that. Never. As soon as they said they wanted something for me, I'd do the opposite. Literally. Because it's just like, why? Who are you?

It's like, I'd understand if you were doing something for me, like, or if you were, like, giving me something that I needed or I deeply desired. But it's like, first of all, you're annoying as hell. Like, you're so annoying. Like, I don't really like you at all. And, like, I feel like, even, like, whether you're a, you feel like you're attractive or you're not attractive, men are loki, horrible people. No, like, actually. Like, it's, like, it's almost programmed in there.

Yeah. Because I also think, too, like, they're so, this is, like, a much deeper interpretation of it, but they're so used to taking up space, especially white, cis, heterosexual men. They're so used to being welcome in every space to being listened to. to being prioritized. So then when you factor in people like you and I, who they're at the very bottom of the list of people that I'm trying to prioritize,

they get so offended. They're like, I can't believe that you don't care what I think. Like what? And it's like... Get used to it, man. No, for real. And I feel like that's what they hate the most, especially. Because I feel like for the longest time,

men can be so mediocre and still, like, be desired by society. Yeah. But women have to put in their all, like, all the time. And it's like, no. Like, actually, I want you to do this, this, this, this, and this, just like we have to do. And if you don't, then you can skirt along. Like, yes. Then you can look for somebody else.

Right. I think that it's also, it speaks to, like, just how much faster women mature than men. Let's talk about it. Because women, like, they mature faster. That's, like, a scientific fact. But they also, like, are exposed to, like, adulthood so much sooner. Exactly. I feel like women are, like, grown.

they grow up, they're taught to be like caretakers and mothers to have empathy for other people. While as men, they're just taught to like just be a child, like just to live and do whatever. But at the same time, and no, I feel like in society, that also makes it to where like when you get in relationships with men, you find like they have like no basic like emotions, like human emotions. Yeah, empathy. They lack empathy. They lack just emotional intelligence in general. Yeah. And it's like, how are you a normal person? Like, how have you lived your entire life? But it's just because of has enabled them. Yeah. They live in a completely different world than we do sometimes.

For sure. Some of the shit they say, I'm like, there's no way that you like vote. Like, no. There's no way that you're like an actual human thing. There's no way. Y'all are robots. And especially when I'm like mean to them and they fold like so easily, I literally think to myself, what I said was such a silly goose thing to say.

If that is the worst thing that's ever happened to you, I would give up now. Actually. And I feel like the way like women, when we talk to our friends, we're like, bitch, shut up. Like, girl, what are you talking about? But men, like, their egos are so sensitive. Like, you can't just say that to a guy. Like, they're like, oh, what are you talking about? Like, why are you talking about?

Like, what? This is normal shit. Like, what? Okay, so obviously, since we're talking about, like, finding your style and, like, male gaze, like, removing yourself from it, you have a very specific style. So how did it, like, how did you come about your style? Did you always kind of know how you wanted to dress? Did you grow into it?

Honestly, I feel like, I've, I feel like, I've, been into fashion my entire life, but I never got money until I started working. Like, I made this tweet the other day. I was like, all real bitches started working, like, as soon as, like, they hit that legal age and they got a job so they could pay for the shit they wanted to pay for it. And, like, when I turned 16, I got a job at McDonald's. Like, oh, it was, oh, my managers were beefing with me. Mind you, this girl's, like 30.

Like, you're being with a 15-year-old, like, girl. Service is so hard. What? It's the worst. Yeah. But I had gotten a little bit of pocket change. And I would go thrifting, and then I would, like, cut up tops and, like, make outfits and shit. And then, but, like, my office in high school, like, compared to now, oh, I hope nobody got no pictures in me.

Like, I thought I was eating down. But you were just trying everything. Yes, but people were eating that shit up because I got nominated for best dress in high school. And I was, like, not popular at all. Like, I was, like, to myself. So I was like, okay, y'all, y'all see it a little bit. Like, you're all a game, recognized game. Right.

I was like, okay. Like, look at me. But also, once, like, quarantine hit, I feel like for the first time in, like, most people's lives, they got the time to be, like, individuals, like, without society's gaze on us and, like, our, like, society's projections on us. So during that time, I was just, like, on Pinterest, like, researching Hella. And I'm like, I love this. Like, I'm going to mix this with this with this and see what works.

And I posted on Instagram. And I started getting consistent, started posting on TikTok. And they were eating that up. I was like, oh, so y'all love me? Like, shit, me too. I love me too. I love that. I think, and I love, um, I love when women are so bold and confidently themselves in their style,

regardless of what other people think or say. Yeah. Because I feel like it's, especially now with so much access to social media, it's so easy to fall into trends. Mm-hmm. Just because you see it all the time and you see, like, influencers wear things. You see famous people wear things and you're like, oh, I want to look like that. I want to dress like that.

But I love when people dress solely for themselves and nobody else. It's actually so freeing because I feel like the reason a lot of people don't do that is just because they're so afraid of being perceived. I was just about to say. Yeah, but honestly, like when I go outside, even when I'm perceived, like a lot of people love it. Like, people don't mind at all. Like when you're yourself, I think people also get inspired to, like, even if that's not

the style that they want, like, they're inspired to, like, truly go after the things that they want and like try new things exactly when you're real other people want to be real too okay so we're gonna talk about some videos that relate to style and finding your style i think there's a lot of power in it too especially when it's obviously freed from the male gaze definitely because then you know for a fact that's exactly who you are and what you want to look like and how you want to present to the world and there's like a certain amount of power in that and i feel like terrible men hate when you like know exactly who you are and what you like and what you feel good in. Exactly.

And they can't like, nothing they say matters because you're going to dress however you want to dress regardless. I feel like a lot of times when men get in relationships with women, they try to like make them into a version of themselves that, I mean, they try to make the women into a version that they like or that they want them to be. And it's like, you knew who I was like before all of this and you still trying to do all of this. Like that's so weird. Exactly. And that's why I've talked about like my boyfriend, for example. is someone like because a lot of dudes would be like I feel bad for your boyfriend I'm like don't I promise you he's thriving

he loves it here I promise you he's thriving babe and he's very happy but I talk about how he like because sometimes they try to say things like I'm sure that they may have criticized you about your confidence or whatever they say the same thing about mine but they say like oh you need to be with someone who's going to humble you someone who's going to make you you know kind of like

take a second look like not feel so not feel so confident in yourself. Does she look like the type of bitch to be with somebody like that? Like, let's please be for real. Yeah, they're like, I hope your man doesn't. I'm like, he wouldn't be my man if he did that shit. Like what? And I feel like guys don't realize that us being confident is actually so attractive also.

Like people eat that shit. Especially the right man. Right. I was like, you can't say the wrong thing to the right person. I'll tell you that. But I also think too that like with him, I was like that's why he loves me. because I'm so confident, because I know exactly who I am and what I want, and how I feel about myself, and it doesn't solely come from him. Yeah.

Like, when you derive all your male validation or your validation from your male partner, it's very easy for it to, like, crumble when they leave. Right. If you guys don't last. Exactly. And I also feel like that happens a lot of times with friends also. Like, when you don't know who you are, like, you're kind of like a shapeshifter. Like, whenever you're with somebody else, you're like a different person, this, that, and a third. Or you like mirror them.

Right. And I feel like that gets so exhausting. That has to be exhausting. I don't understand how anyone could do that 24-7. Yeah. It's like a never-ending bit. Right. Okay.

So we're going to talk about videos that have to do with our topic today. Okay. And what we do on the comments section is we bring them here. We like break them down. Kiki, laugh, make jokes, all of that good stuff. So this first one is a woman compares her style from when she used to dress for the male gays to now when she dresses for herself. the first pictures are all dressed as like very feminine presenting and she looks a lot more uncomfortable

and in the current pictures she's wearing pantsuits blazers baggier clothes it's clear she's found her personal style and looks way more confident now and obviously there's the comments are so terrible but first I will say this one of my male gays release things for dressing was baggy clothes because I'm a tall girl and I'm a thick girl like I used to think if I dressed baggy it wouldn't like be like form fitting or like flattering yeah but that's my internalized fat phobia so I was like I'm unpacking that now I love baggy shit I love wearing baggy pants and it eats like every time it's such a look like my if my if I'll ask you this question too if you're if you were a cartoon character like what their outfit would be mine would be like big baggy like high-wasted jeans and tiny little top yes and then like big platform shoes

that small shirt big pants yeah will eat every time Yeah, exactly. It gets like off-duty model vibes. Like, I love that, Bella Hadid. What's your cartoon character outfit? It would definitely be a miniskirt. Love. Miniskirt with some high boots.

Like, I'm located describing my outfit. But mini skirt, some high boots and a short top. Yeah, love that. And I also feel like the thing that's crazy is like a lot of times when women stop dressing for the male gays, they think that, or like a lot of times when we say that we're dressing for the the female gays, we think, like, it has to be, like, baggy clothes and shit, too. But I feel like guys hate when, like, women's, like, whole ass is out in their short skirts and shit, too. Yeah, it's the extremes of either side.

They don't like. They want you to be, like, perfectly in the middle, but whatever that is, according to them. Right. But you're right. Like, when they're showing, when someone dresses with, where they're showing a lot more skin, they hate that shit, too. They hate it bad. And that's why it's, like, that especially is not for anyone but women.

Mm-hmm. Because they're always like, well, you're dressing like that to get attention. Right. Yeah, I get that. I feel like, um, not really, but I get a lot of like, um, like, aren't you cold? Like, aren't you like this, that and the third? And it's just like, why do y'all care so bad? Like, like, you guys love me or what?

Like, what? Y'all know y'all want, y'all are eating this outfit up, like, stop lying. But I actually feel like, for some reason, maybe I do get hate, but I don't just be reading the comments like that for real. That's a good thing. Like, I see the hate comments and I'm like, yeah. You're blocked. God.

Like, you're never going to see me again, actually. I'm a big proponent of blocking. I feel like, you don't have to exist. I don't want you to exist. Absolutely not. If someone comes in your space and they're being, like, hateful, you have no right to be in here anymore. Exactly.

That's the thing about the internet. I feel like the reason that hate comments don't really affect me is just because of the fact that I know when I turn off my phone, you literally, like, aren't even a real person to me. Like, who are you? Like, you live in, like, the middle of, no-where. Like, I don't know you at all. Like I'm literally never going to see you ever in my life

Or think about you that's the most important point You're like 46 Yeah it's like I'm never going to think about you But you're always going to be thinking about me And that's a that's why we're icons And I feel like if you're not getting hate for real Like you're not doing something right At all

Yeah Literally And so the comments on this video This first one says You dress for the male gays Sounds like a you problem to be honest Men don't dress for women Dressed for yourself

Men don't dress for you For women, we know because you are garbage. Literally, y'all suck at, like, fashion. Yeah, we know. We're well aware that you don't dress for women because you look like shit every time you go out. It's very much obvious. What's the worst, like, outfit combo? Oh my gosh.

You could think of for a man. The worst outfit combo? Yeah, like the most, like, red flag, terrible outfit combo. Acid wash jeans is, like, my, like. It triggers your flight or fight. Yes, like, it just, it just sparks this irrational rage. inside of me. It's just like, why are you wearing that?

Like, who told you that was fired? And I feel like I hate when people don't have, like, real-ass friends. Because I feel like, if my friends saw me in some crazy ass shit like that, they would be like, girl, like, please let's me for real. Turn it around. It's like, ugh. Yeah, see, you always got to have someone who's going to keep it real with you. Like, like, be so honest with you out of love.

Exactly. And they're going to tell you if you look like shit. Right. And if not, all. tell you you look like shit. Yeah. I'll do it for you. Like, I feel like sometimes it's like, do you not, can you not tell?

Like, do you have a mirror? Do you think you're eating in that? Right. I think that'll tell like, how do you think you look? Right. You thought you ate that? Because you did not. I think I hate, I hate like a really tight skinny gene.

You would hate Atlanta. You would hate Atlanta. I guess it depends on the body it's on. But like, because sometimes depending on the body it's on, I know if that dude's terrible. Oh, yeah. I hate a boat shoe. A boat, like with chubbies. Yeah, with like the chubbies and like the polo.

Yes, with the khaki shorts. Yeah, like they're dressing like they're going golfing but they're not golfing. I hate that so bad too, actually. And I've just seen the whole those really, those glasses, the ones that are like, they wear it with that outfit. Yeah, they're like Oakley's like. I think so. Yeah. They're kind of like the wraparounds.

They go all the way around. And it's like, I feel like men actually dress for the man gays too, the male gays. Oh, yeah. Because it's like, y'all all dress alike. Y'all have no, like, ugh. I don't know. Yeah, they like, they just like copy each other. They're like clones.

And I feel like it's so much harder for a girl to like be noticed for her fashion. Because I feel like guys can wear anything outside of what they wear on the daily. And it's like, oh yeah, that's hard. Like that's him. That's that guy. They're like, you should be a model. Literally. You should model.

Yeah. Have you ever thought about that? But it's like, excuse me, Anna Winter's call. Like, what? Like, you're literally wearing the most basic shit ever, but whatever. Like, okay. I once made a video where I talked about these two dudes. Like, I said, they said this, like, head-ass shit, but I had commented, like, I'm

like, you know, based off the fits alone, I know you're not smart enough to, like, have a conversation with me about, like, why it's so problematic to say shit like that. Yeah. But I was like, but you guys literally dress, like, dudes that are, like, they harass you at a Vegas pool bar. You know what I mean? Like you're in the lazy river and they like buy you one drink and they like will not leave you alone.

They'll follow you the whole time. Yeah. And they're like it's just too much and they wear too much cologne. And it's. Yeah, that axe body spray. And I was like, and someone was saying, if someone said that about my outfit, I would literally cry. I was like, I mean, those are just the vibes you give me blame yourself.

I'm like, yeah, tell them that, honestly. This next comment says, I mean, you're really trying to blame men for the way you chose to dress yourself. What? But it's like men say that, but you dress, like, you dress in a certain way and then they have an issue with that too. So it's like, what do y'all want to? They're never completely satisfied ever in a million years.

And also, she's not blaming men. She's just saying, like, she was influenced by the male gays. So now she's like, I'm going to dress for myself now. And it's crazy how, like, a simple TikTok like that got those hate comments. Like, that was, like, the most regular video. If y'all see my 4U page sometimes. Like y'all would really hate it like it's like it's like they're just constantly looking for ways to like be oppressed right and I feel like tixote is like a place where hate is so normalized yeah oh yeah you'll be in the comment section and one person hated and then like it'll be like 60 people replying to that one just hating even more yeah I'm like oh my god I know I was to get the same thing literally blah blah blah blah and it's so wild to see like different platforms because I feel like Twitter you can't really say too much at all or like you're done for yeah but TikTok like there's no No, there's really not.

I also think, too, like, when you wear certain things and you really like them, I find it just so stupid to be like, I think this is so ugly. Right. Like, who cares what you think? No, for real. And I feel like I've never been the person to be like, like, if I don't like something, like, I just go out of my way to tell you that I hate it. Like, what does that give me?

Like, I'm confused. Like, people get validation out of it. But I also think it's because for the first time. Like sometimes social media, like for the first time in people's lives, they're getting validation that they never would get in real life. Yeah. So it's like just feeding their ego. Yeah. And it's like in real life though, you're actually a loser. Like let's talk about that. Sometimes I'll get hate comments and I don't see them to like weeks later. Yeah. And I'll go back and I'll look and they have like a hundred likes or something because my video have like eight million views. And so they have like a hundred likes and I know they're feeling themselves. And you know what I do? Delete it.

Period. I just delete it. I don't block you. I just delete it. Right. Because sometimes I'll come, people will come back and they'll be like, she deleted my comment and I had a lot of likes.

That, I bet you were riding that high forever. Like what? You're so miserable. The fact that you came back to the video to say that says so much. The amount of times that's happened. And sometimes I made a video about this so long ago. But like dudes will write me a short story in my comments.

They'll be like, one. This is why I think that blah, blah, blah, blah. Like literally they're numbering it so you can read it in order. and like I'll wait till they get to like three and then I delete it. Right. You just like see it adding up like okay.

Yeah. And I just delete it and then I block them and they'll come back from another account and they'll start it. They're like she deleted my first comment but I just want to finish my thought. Like what? Deleted blocked.

That is insane. The absolute adrenaline rush I get from just ruining their day. Like just me being so irritating to them. That's true. I also feel like if you're like if you have multiple pages dedicated to hating one person like there's actually something wrong with you yeah that's not normal i had one dude once he made

like this is not an exaggeration like 12 accounts you're lying he kept making them and he was like you you think you can't block all of them he kept saying that and bitch you know what i did i work from home my schedule is clear i cleared it i'm catching every comment i'm blocking every single one like you want to play this game with me i'm clocked out i got time today yeah i set up the laptop on tictoe my laptop? Yeah. That's real. That is so real.

Because I feel like if you can take that much time to make 12 accounts, like you know you have to make like a different email, like he's a different number. Like that's insane. That's love. Yeah. That's, yeah. They're in love with you. They're obsessed.

That's literally, that's quite literally a fan account. Right. And I think that whenever women are like, well, you know, I've just like, I realized, you know, the problematic beliefs I had and I unpacked them. And now I've shifted my view and this is what I believe now. Yeah. And I'm like, so you're just blaming us? I mean, I mean, kind of, but like, like, it wasn't about you.

Literally. Like, how is myself, like, journey have anything to do with you at all? Like, I don't get it. Like, I feel like men have this thing to where, like, they have to be the center of attention all the time. And it's crazy because they say, like, you're the attention horror. Like, you're the one who's looking for attention. But it's like, you're literally doing that right now. It's the same sentiment.

as that is the same sentiment as like when they're like oh girls are just so much drama men are the most dramatic people on planet earth like that is not a lie if you don't believe me go google my name on ticot and you tell me who's more dramatic no actually me or all the men who hate me i swear men are messy like messy down like have you ever been friends with a man and just like thought like how do you have time to be doing like why are you in women's business Like, why is this so intriguing? Do you have any other hobbies? Like, what?

And I feel like it just makes me even more mad. Because it's like, if it's a girl, it's like, oh, yeah. Like, I mean, we're going to gossip. Like, that's just something we do. But it's like, why are you, like, in our business? Like, we don't go over there. We're not, like, talking about y'all and doing all this extra shit. Yeah.

But, yeah. Like, especially in, like, grade school or, like, college and stuff. That was such a big thing. Well, and also, they would never know this because, they're never in circles with like primarily women or if I'm presenting people in general. But like women like if you're talking shit like let's first of all everyone talk shit. That's not a gender exclusive thing. Yeah.

But everybody talks shit. But sometimes like especially in my experience with all my girlfriends over all the years of my life when you're talking shit sometimes if you're doing too much like they'll tell you. Yeah. They'll be like, nah, that's on you. No for real. And like my mom literally will tell me that. She's like, nah, I think that's on you.

And like they, they, like, are real with you. That's a good friend, like, someone who tells you when you're doing the most. Definitely. Men don't do that. They don't, like, at all. Honestly, I have no male friends. I can generally say that all of my friends are women. So, like, it's just, I find it hard to be around men all the time just because I feel

like there's always some ulterior motive. Like, do you want to be my friend or do you want to be more than my friend? Because that's never happening. Oh, yeah. That's, like, the same, it's in the same vein as, like, when men try to hit on you and then you go, no, I'm good, like, I'm not interested. And they're like, not interested, you're not interested in friends,

but you don't want to be my friend? Like, what? And then when they say, you don't want to be my friend, you go, no, I have enough friends. Right. I'm maxed out, like, friendless, capped. You're better than me. I don't even say all that.

I just say no. Because it's like, why would I want to be friends with this random ass person? Like, I don't even know you at all. Like, it's so weird. I've said before, like, when they say that, I've said, like, you don't want to be my friend. my friend. Trust me.

You don't want to be my friend. Your intentions are not friendship. That's not your intention. Exactly. And I feel like a man being my friend would just be so annoying too. Just because I talk about hitting men all the time. I'm like, I hate men. Like, oh, like you would get so tired of me.

Like, you don't want to be my friend. And I've talked about that with my man and he goes, I know. I get it. Yeah, exactly. He gets it. He understands. That's real. But you're all like in a romantic relationship to where it's like, that doesn't even

matter. Like, he knew what he was getting into. Yeah, absolutely. I've had men be like, does your boyfriend even know what you do? My boyfriend's the reason I started doing it in the first place. Yeah, he literally encouraged me to start posting on TikTok. We didn't know what it was going to turn into, but he was like, you should do it. I think you would be really good at it. Wait, when did you start posting?

I started consistently posting like last February. Really? March, yeah. Oh my gosh. Congratulations. Thank you. He was done a lot for us. He was like, I think you would be really good at it.

It turns out of it. Yeah, you are very good at it. Turns out there's a lot of money and pissing men off. Right. There is. There always has been. Yeah, and that's the beauty of it. I think that I've talked about this before too, but like it's not about for me,

it's not about like changing them. It's about waking everybody else up. Boom. I'm like to hear this bullshit because like it's, that's just how I've always operated throughout life. And it turns out not not everybody has been exposed to like that kind of way of thinking before. So that's why I'm like,

you have to think about it like this, like this is what he's really trying to say. And the way they wake up so fast is crazy. And it's also the fact that I feel like so many other women feel exactly the same way, but like they just never talked about her, never said that. So you're like the voice for them too. I've talked about that in a video before too where I was like the reason why so many women and other people like me is because we have a shared experience. We've all encountered terrible dudes at one point or another.

And it's crazy because I feel like not every guy can say that about women. I feel like there's so many good women compared to good men. Yeah, the stats are real uneven. They're so bad. Literally. Like sometimes like I feel like if there is like a woman

who does a guy like super dirty, I'm just like, you're just karma. Like for all the things that you guys have done to women. Like reparations actually. I don't blame you. I think the odds are a lot higher on the other side of like men being worse or terrible. or traumatizing women.

It's like far higher on their end. And if it is, and the crazy part is like, when men come out and tell they're terrible, like let's say they had a genuinely terrible experience with someone who just so happened to be a woman or identify as a woman, the comments are filled with love and support. Literally.

From men and women, honestly, primarily women. They're like, I'm so sorry that happened to you. Like they empathize with you. Like you said, like how we learn empathy at such a young age and like to be there for others. Whereas like when women come on and they're like This guy literally sexually harassed me They're like, well maybe you shouldn't dress like that

Literally Yeah they're like well maybe maybe you shouldn't do this Maybe you shouldn't That is so sick to even think about It is Because I feel like guys like they just get a pass with everything And I feel like A lot of guys would be like

Oh like my ex was like a horrible person And then you go like and you see like what he actually did To his ex or like what he did to his past relationship That was something I actually mentioned in one of my videos once, I talked about how, like, if he talks about how crazy his ex is, but he does not ever talk about anything he did.

Because, like, breakups are messy. Sometimes someone's worse than the other, yada, yada, yada. But when there's, like, a decline in a relationship, the odds of it just being one person is very slim when it comes to men describing their ex-girlfriends. Like, you have to look at, like, really look and see. And then you have to peep how he's describing. her too. Yeah. Like the whole like yeah she was crazy like she did exactly. Like what did you do to her

like like what how did you make her like this? Yeah like like you could be like I I genuinely didn't like that she did this to me and it just didn't work. Yeah and like that's neutral and that's like I wasn't perfect person but like it just wasn't working. That's fair. Right but like when they like bang on about it. Yeah it's like this is such a red flag and they don't even realize because I feel like a lot of guys think that you like when like they're like not friendly with like other women or like they're doing this but just like you're actually like a horrible person like ew i think it's like a it's a well yeah it's it's a a brainwashing like manipulative tactic i think because they're like i'm just like i'm just like i just wanted to love her and like i just wanted to like you know be there for her and she

wouldn't let me like that type of shit and then they use that to project their trust issues onto you yeah they're like i'm sorry like i just like my last girl like dimmy right well i'm not what does that do with me like actually like that's between you and her literally i hate when people will get into relationships and they're not healed because it's like why are you putting all of this like trauma and stuff on their new partner like they don't deserve that at all well and they they try to argue about that all the time like misogynistic men they'll be like oh well like we need you know what happened to the era of women where they were like ride or dies like no matter what they did like they were always there what are you talking about literally are you talking about like being

Are you talking about cheating? Yeah. Those are two very different things, bitch. Exactly. And they're both. Are horrible. Like, what? Well, it's like, if someone's with you when you're down financially and then you guys come up together, that's great.

But if you're stepping out on her all the time and she didn't stand by you, right? Go to hell. Like, even with the broke thing, too, I feel like a lot of guys don't understand that it's just like, we want to see you, like, have a plan to get out of this. But, like, if you're just, like, doing nothing for yourself, it's like, why? Like, do you see us? Like you see what we got going on. Like, why would we want to ever mess with somebody like that? Yeah.

But I feel like women also like we give too many chances to men. Like just like being horrible people. Yeah, they're like, well, you know, maybe this, maybe that. But that's the empathy winning because it almost clouds the common sense. Exactly. Because then it's like sometimes I want to tell some women when men are like being manipulative and I can tell. Yeah. Like they are getting really good at being.

sneaky about hiding how misogynistic they are. And like, I made this comparison the other day on the show. I forget which episode, but I was talking about how like, if you're listening to a song and then he goes, but you don't even know who this is. Like that type of shit. I'm surprised you know this artist. Yeah. And they're like, see, that's why I like you because you're not like other girls. That type of shit is sneaky shit, bitch.

It is. It's like, that's veiled misogyny. It's like, it will come up in more aggressive ways later. I'm telling you. And then it'll be like the most basic artist. Like, it's tame. Paula. Like, what do you mean? You're surprised I knew what this is.

Like, what? It's paramour. Like, please be for real. Yeah, like, like, I, just like, you know, some girls, like, they're not like you. Like, if he shit talks women too in front of you, that's a bad one. No, actually. That's a big red flag. No, for real. And I say that, but then I shit talk about it in front of,

like, that's fine. But I'm saying, I'm saying, like, when they're shit-talking women to, like, uplift you. Oh, yes. So they're like, oh, like, I hate when, women dress like this. That's why I like you so much because you don't act like these other hell.

Or like you look way better than her. I'm like that's so disgusting. Because even like when I'm with women and they talk shit about other women too, I hate that. Like I'm just like why do you even care? Yeah, it's like hate or shit. Right.

I've never been the type of person to like see somebody like just being themselves and like be the type of person to just like be mad about it. Yeah. Even like even like even if I like had problems like if I were to ever have problems with with a woman, I'd be like, she's so pretty She's just not nice

Yeah But like lying about it Like you know she's a bad bitch Yeah, yeah Like you know real Recognize real I was like I mean I'm not gonna call you ugly

Because that's a lie But you are not a nice person And that's the truth So there you go Your attitude is not as pretty Yeah your attitude's ugly Your face is not Right

I'm not gonna be a hater I know I don't really Yeah I don't like being a hater either In sense of like A hater in specific ways Yeah I feel like

There's a difference between being a hater and a loser. That's the thing. Like, there's a thin line that a lot of times is crossed. That's true. A lot of people say they're a hater, but really, there's just a loser.

Like, if you hate things unprovoked, like people, especially just being themselves, you're a loser. But if you hate shit, like, raisins, you're like, I hate raisins. Like, this is the worst thing on planet Earth. You're a hater. I love that.

I love that. Yeah. I super, super like that distinction because you're right, the line is razor-thin. Yes. Because some people will be like, oh, this is why I hate. Like me, for example, I've seen a video like this. Like, this is why I hate.

Like, these are all TikTokers I hate for no particular reason. Yeah, though. The whole trend, the blocked. Yeah. I'm like, you guys are weirdos. And also, you're liars. Like, they're all, you have me blocked, but this came on my 4-y-page. Like, what?

Sure, bitch. Yeah. Lie to your mom. Literally. And it's the fact, like, you ever see those TikToks where it's, like, when an influencer I didn't like for any particular reason gets canceled, like, I'd be so happy. I'm like, what? You're a loser.

That's a loser. That's a loser behavior. Very much loser behavior. Like, what? I'm too busy to be worrying about people like that. Okay, so we'll move on to this next video. In this one, this is an on the street, like, interview style video. Bad start.

I know. Some men who do that. I hate those. A guy asked a college frat boy. Oh my God, I think I know this video. I actually saved this one. Oh, my gosh. RIP to this guy.

A guy asked a college frat boy what the worst female fashion trend is and the frat guy says those mom jeans that are massive no showing the ass you can't see shit in those they look disgusting I need some tight jeans yoga pants or those bell bottom pants

Are you serious? I'll give you one guess as to what race all of these men were. Let's be for real. Yeah. And they probably all have a specific look too. Can you picture it in your head? I can picture it. Like you said white frat guy yeah and i think if i know i'm 99% sure i know the video he had like these like literally

skin tight damn near painted on skinny jeans oh my god no like really highlighted how tiny the legs were and then he had like a big like jersey that was like hanging i'm like you like Ariana grande they put your hands in the sleeves like what? Get the ponytail. You go clean. Like it's also just the fact that like if you yourself know you can't dress, you know you can't do all this, who who gave you that right to ever project your insecurities onto women? Like to criticize other people's fashion?

Like what? You don't, you don't get to do that. Actually, you actually your right has been revoked. Right. You have no right. Like why did you even ask this guy this question? They definitely knew what they were doing. I think.

so definitely and like I think the other if I remember there's like three of them and and the one dude was like asking them questions and the other two kind of like bailed out a little bit they were like oh yeah I'm not trying to get canceled for that but I also that's a perfect example of like the male female gays like those like pants that he's describing don't give him the opportunity to objectify women and so he hates them like he want I want to be able to sexualize you against your will and you won't let me because you're wearing big pants you man and then it's the fact that once they sexualize you and you're not going for it they call you like a slut or like you say like you're doing this for like one reason only but it's like didn't you just say the reason that you want right

you wanted me to do it for your attention but now i'd tell you that you're ugly and all of a sudden i'm the bad guy right like what like you ever had a guy like hit on you and then when you like reject their advances they're like the worst person yeah they're like well guess what you're ugly. And also, I'm so glad you said no, because you're a fat bitch. Literally, like, you're ugly anyway. But it's like, I was cute, like, two seconds ago, though. Oh, my gosh, you just put your

glasses on? Right. Like, oh, my gosh. That happened to me, one one time that I can think of, when I was in college, my friends and I were, like, walking down the street. It was like, we just left a bar, so we were walking to our, we're walking home, I think. And this car drove by, a bunch of dudes

in it, and they started, like, cat calling, objectifying us. And they were like, oh, Like, come here, like, come here, blah, blah, like, sing all this bullshit. And then I was like, we're good. Like, because I've been this way forever. So I was honestly crazier when I was younger. Yeah. So I was like, the fuck out of here.

Get out of here. Like, and then we kept walking and they kept following us. Keep doing it. And I couldn't take it anymore. So I was like, all right. Like, we heard you. You're ugly. Leave.

You know what I'm saying? Like, this is the longest cackle of my life. Literally. The answer is no. Immediately they were like, you're a fat bitch. You're a fatty. I wasn't even talking to you, Faddy. I was talking to you, Faddy.

Yeah, but you literally. All of a sudden, huh? Literally, it's so disgusting. Waste my time, 2K17, bitch. Right. Like, Jesus Christ. And it's also the fact, like, I feel like I've been through a similar situation, like, super recently, actually, I was, um, walking down the street and this guy, like, I feel like,

okay, have you ever, like, dealt with a man from New York? Men from New York are a demon spawn. Like, they're the worst people on planet Earth. Really? Because, like, I feel like in the South, like, there's this, like, southern hospital. mentality aspect to it. Yeah. But like once you get further up north, it's like that all that just goes out the window.

So like we're walking in this like this grown ass man. Like he's cat calling me like I'm with my friend. And then I'm like, no, we're good. We're good. He follows us like into the store. Oh my God. And then I'm like, why did you like at this point like I'm the type of person. My temper gets like low when it's like somebody after I've already told them like you're

making me uncomfortable. Same. So I'm like, why are you following us? Like, I say that. And I'm like, he's like, who are you talking to? Da-da-da-da-da. And mind you, we're in this store. Like, there's people in there's employees.

And he's just, like, cursing me out. And then they had to call the cops. Like, I swear to God. And they had to, like, escort me, like, back to my dorm because, like, he was going to fight me, like, in this store. Because I said I didn't want to talk to. The way that masculinity is, like, toxic masculinity is, like, so fragile. I was so sick. like you're like the worst person on planet earth i i know i've never dealt with a man from new york i

don't think please don't well i'll tell you who i'll tell you who is terrible um that i have dealt with australian men australian men babe there's something in the water over there i don't know if they put just like hella like i hate everyone but me like i hate all bitches ever in the water i don't know what the f***er putting in their food over there but like australian men are like another level of misogyny. You're like narcissists too. Oh, times a billion. I've pissed them off on TikTok so often which is so funny because I have

a huge fan base in Australia. Really? Yeah, and that's why. Now I know why because the men are so goddamn terrible. So is a lot of your fan base from men, like especially? Like do they just fall in you just a hate? No, my

ratio is literally like 973 women. Yeah, same. Period. Yeah. That's why we do well. Right. And then I feel like women's support. Absolutely. Men don't do that shit. At all. I've posted my ratio once a while ago and someone said, how do I do that? How do I get this? I'm so sick of having so many men on my page.

And I was like, it's real easy just to make them hate you. Right. It's real easy. They will scatter like roaches. Exactly. The many you start making fun of them, they can't hang. It's actually kind of wild because I feel like more recently I've had like men come up to me and be like, I love your content. And I'm like, oh, like, you like, you like, you like? Thank you, I guess.

I do have male fans. They pale in comparison as far as the numbers go. But I do have male fans. And like sometimes, very few times have like straight men come up to me and said nice things. Yeah. We haven't had people come up to you and say like mean things in person? No. Okay.

No, never. It would never happen. No, never. I've had like some dudes who are creators come up to me and like you can tell there's like tension a little bit. Really? Yeah, because they know exactly who I am. And I've never talked about them, but I think they just, there's friction because they know who I am and they are the exact dude that I make fun of.

But that's the closest it's ever gotten. I've never, I've had straight men come up to me and be like, my girlfriend is such a big fan of yours. Like, can I please take a picture with you so I can show her? Exactly. So like that I've had and it's very sweet every single time. And it's funny because all of them are not ugly and they're not terrible. Let's talk about that.

It's crazy how that works. Right. It's funny how, like, everyone who likes us is fun, sexy, and cool. And everyone who hates us is, like, miserable and loser. I know. My God, and ugly. That's crazy how that works. That's just the odds are just out of this world.

Right. It just makes sense, though. Like, real, like, when you're fun, sexy and cool, you have fun, sexy, and cool people who like you, too. Period. So, like, on, okay, so back to this video where the skinny jeans dude is talking about what she hates big, big pants. one of these comments says why are y'all so pissed that he had an opinion if a girl if it was a girl saying that

you would all agree here's what I'll say about that whenever you ask women those like man on the street interviews if it's like a not a misogynistic question it's like a question like hey what's a fashion trend you hate a lot of times they'll say it and then they'll be like but you know they always follow it up

with something like but like you know I think like if they did it this way maybe it would look better like they always like cushion it with something like oh but that's just me. Yeah, or like, that's just my opinion. I just am not a big fan of that, but like, that's just me. Mm-hmm.

Whereas, like, when you ask whether, like, I hate bitches who do that. And they're single. Like, obviously. Like, it's actually very sick. And I also feel, like, the fact that, like, guys, when they say things like that, they mean, like, when they say they hate it, they hate it. Like, a girl will say they hate something on a guy, but, like, if their boyfriend were to wear it or something, they'd be like, oh, like, okay.

Yeah. just you doing your thing. Yeah. But guy, it's like, that's like the worst thing on planet Earth. Yeah. And then, and sometimes men will write like shit, like, like these shit terrible comments. And then I'll write to them like, uh, this is unrelated to your comment. But do you have a girlfriend?

And then I, though, either it's either crickets or they block me or they'll say, no, I have better, like, once you wrote to me recently, like literally the other day, he's like, I have better ways. to spend my money. And then I said, what money? Literally, you're broke. Like that's, oh my gosh. Okay, Brokey.

Can we talk about how I feel like the main guys who talk about women being gold diggers have no gold. That's what I'm saying. I'd be the worst gold digger on planet Earth if I was trying to dig on you. Like, what? Like, I feel like in order for someone to be a gold digger, you have to have something that is worth digging for. There's nothing. Like, I would not even pick up a shovel for you. Like, there's just nothing to get here.

I wouldn't even go into Home Depot. Literally. Like, first of all, your personal. personality is shit. Yeah. You don't have any money. You don't like do anything that would ever make me attracted to. Like I just don't get it.

Well, and it's like men with money, don't say shit like that. Let's talk about that. They literally don't. Like they never say shit where they're like, women just swimming for money. They don't think like that. Ever. Literally at all. Because I feel like also when men have money, like they don't mind spending it on somebody

that they truly like. Exactly. But it's like if you don't, like of course. But then again, I also feel like there's a difference between a guy who has money. and a guy who's just like generous too. Exactly. Because I feel like a guy won't have any money. But like if he likes you, he'll find a way to like still be cool and like give you things.

Exactly. And make you feel special. Literally. But some guys like it's the worst thing on planet Earth to spoil a girl or to give her like the simplest of things. Yeah, I saw a video from, you know, Head of the Hoogies, Nia. Yes. So she is so great. But she made a video I literally watched this morning.

And she was talking about how like the men are literally losing their minds on this app. and she said she saw a video where a dude was talking about buffer dates, where you go on a date with the woman where it's not expensive and it's not like date-like, but you find out if she's worth paying for a meal for. And she was like, that's the craziest shit I've ever heard in my life. She's like, you're like gatekeeping food. Like what? I'm not buying you a meal, bitch.

No, for real. That sounds sick. It's just because of the fact that if you don't like this person, you actually never. have to see them again. But you're like taking them to a place that you don't even like probably just to that was a test and you passed. Like what? After, no, if you take me somewhere that I know like, I feel like a guy can take you

somewhere you could just tell he doesn't respect you like at all. Like, are you serious right now? Like be so serious. Actually. Have you ever had it to where it's like the first day like a guy made you like split the bill or like made you do something that you hated? Split the bill? No, actually.

I've never had that. I do, I have gone on a date so where I always offer. And I'm being dead serious. So it's not a joke. Mostly because I'm like, I don't trust these hoes. Yeah. And you don't want to guide at everything that he owes you. Like you owe him.

Exactly. No one's ever asked me to split it, but I did go on a date once where he, we went to 7-11, which is like. When, no, no, no. A date? That's not a date. Like, what? 7-11.

I thought at the time, I was like, that's sweet because it's, in my head, I think I was telling myself, well, it's late. It was only like 7 p.m. though, so it wasn't that late. But, like, I didn't care because I had blown him off a million times, not on purpose, but then I was like, it's fine. And then he bought me an ice cream because there's no real food there. And he got two ice creams, and he ate them, like, carrot sticks, which stressed me out. Like, he was like, you know what I mean?

I don't like when people bite cold stuff. their front teeth. I feel like it gives me ominous energy. That's very, very psychotic. Yeah. That's, that's our red flag. Yeah. For sure. He ate them in two bites and like I ate mine so slow. So I was like, all right, whatever. Wait, did he say, like, y'all were going on a date? Yeah. He was like, I'd like to take you out.

And he took to seven and then. Yeah. And we walked. Because he didn't have a car. So where'd y'all eat the ice cream? Walking? Like, where'd y'all walk to it? We walked like to a bench. A bench and just sat there. Oh, my God. That is sick. I feel like once I'd just be like is this like the beginning like are is there something yeah like I thought I thought it was sweet like I was like well you know I don't care I'm not I don't mind like whatever like getting to know each other that's fine the part that really annoyed me and I

talked about this on my podcast with my sister was like he was eating eating the ice cream well he ate them so fast which stressed me out a little bit but I was like it's fine go off king you know he ate them so fast and then he had the the trash and then he just littered but he didn't just litter like he was like mid sentence with me I was like so like you know how many siblings do you have or you know like small talk shit

yeah and he's like oh you know I have two like three sisters and he like threw it hard as shit dude and the way it jarred me so much that I was like the ick the ick it's coursing through me I couldn't stop it and then he did it again with the second rapper what and the crazy part is

we were in Hawaii which is like Malamadina like you're not supposed litter. That's like a big no-no. And he's from there. Really? I was like, and then I... I don't know what it was about that action, but I was like, I will like never see you again. No for real. I feel like after the whole

7-11 thing, I would never even see him. I looked past all that. I was like, whatever. You're real. Like, you're actually real. I was like, let the record show that I am not like... All these better look, she probably makes someone make six figures, blah, blah, blah. No, I went on a date to 7-Eleven and the littering is what got me.

actually. I feel like littering is just the worst thing you could ever do. And we were like, I literally said when he was about to launch the second one into the ether. Yeah. I literally was like, hey, I can, there's a trash right here. Like, he goes, no, it's fine. And he did it anyways. Uh-huh. That's disgusting. The way my butthole went inside my body. Literally. I feel like when people litter is just like, you don't care about shit. That's what I was like, the way I was so like stress out by that. I never forgot that. I was like, That's how you know he'd be doing that shit all the time. He's used to that. Like, every single day. So comfortable. Like, why? And it's like, okay, littering is terrible. I hate that you did that.

But why do you have to launch it? Literally, why do you have to be so, like, intent about it? He's like, I'm going to litter. Like, and I want her to see this, and I want her to fill it in her bone. Literally, that's so weird. I'm literally. Like, it was so, like, MLB fast pitch. Like, the, was it like, did it go far?

Yeah. You know how? how hard you have to throw paper for it to like actually like make a track like go the distance you know what I'm saying like he literally launched it we were walking under a freeway overpass yeah and he literally launched it over a fence and like it made it over the fence oh my god and I was like I remember seeing him I was like oh my god like there's something wrong with you like and I also feel like I that tells a lot about like who like he surrounds himself with too because who allows you to do this all the time to where you thought it was comfortable to do it on a first day.

And like in front of a stranger, like you barely know me. You're trying to like hook up with me and like that's your best foot forward. And I also feel like some people are just so not self aware. How do you do that and just feel comfortable with yourself afterwards? How do you love yourself after that? You're not embarrassed. You're not embarrassed at all. And then I and he also chewed with his mouth open which I really hate it. I can't do that. It made me sick. You know when you like see it like stringing. Yes. Yeah. Wait, okay, so after this date happened, what did you? We hung out a few more times, but you know what? That's my cross to bear. You know what I mean? That's me. I did my time. Exactly.

We all been there. What's the worst date you've been on? The worst date I've been on? Honestly, I haven't really been on that many dates, I will say. Or worse interaction, I guess you have. Oh, with a man. With someone that's like, you were like, oh, maybe I could see myself dating this person. Yeah.

Like, there was mutual interests. The worst. Oh, oh my God. If I say this, okay, ooh, I'm not going to get them a cloud. I'm sorry. No, you're not. I can't do it.

I can't. Let me figure another situation. Okay, yeah, think of another one. Ooh. It was this one time. I was talking to this one guy. And basically, we had, went, like, out somewhere,

and then he was like, I'm not going to lie. Like, I might need money for my Uber back home or something. And I was like, wait, what? Like, are you, like, I thought it was a joke at first. I'm like, you're, like, you're kidding, right? Like, how did you come here? And you didn't think, like, you didn't have no way to get, like, back home.

You're not staying here, first of all. So I was like, um, okay, I guess. And, like, after that, like, I just never talked to him. Because I was like, he's like, damn. Like, you don't respect yourself. Like, I don't. The way he just openly admitted to us to. Like, he asked it, like, he was, like, used to asking, like, girls for me.

And I was like, this is. not the type of relationship. This is a pattern. Yeah. This is a learned. This is a learned behavior. Literally. That you're exhibiting right now.

I was so sick too. Because I was like, so you had Uber money to come here, but like, and you knew you didn't have any to go back. And you just like knew you were going to ask me for money. I was like, yeah, I got something for that ass. Like, never again. Oh my God. That's so embarrassing.

It was so embarrassing. I felt embarrassed for myself. I was like, why am I dealing like with somebody like this? You're like, where did I go wrong? Literally. Oh my God. All right, I'll read a couple more of these comments. This one says, really knows what he wants.

Gotta give him that for sure. No. What he wants is to be single forever, so I guess if that's your goal. Two. You're a great job. Go off, yeah. This last one says, I agree it's one of the worst trends, but not because of his reasons. They just look bad.

Like, if you can't pull it off, that's okay. Just say that. Yeah, just say that. I feel like that's the thing, too. I feel like when people can't pull things off, they think that everybody's like not going to look good in it. And it's just projection. That's what projection is everything.

Every hater is just projecting. Like you hate yourself. And you want me to hate myself too, but she's not going to happen. But you're ugly and I'm not so I'm not going to be doing that. That's the guy. That's your journey to take on your own. Literally. And I hope you heal soon.

Please. Like, you deserve it. Okay. To wrap this up, right? What would you say, what would you say is your best piece of advice to give of people who are really trying to find their, not just their style, which is a huge proponent, I think, of your sense of self, but just, like, how you perceive yourself, how you want to be presented to the world, how you want to express yourself? Like, what's your best piece of advice

for finding that, like, truth? Okay. I feel like the best piece of advice is to really just come out of the fear of being perceived. Because whether you dress basic or whether you dress, like, how you truly want to dress, like, you can dress basic, who cares. But, like, however you truly want to dress, you have to realize that people will judge you either way. People judge anybody. It has nothing to do with what you're wearing. And also the fact that

if you live your entire life, like dressing for the male gays or like dressing for somebody else, you'll realize that like you literally wasted half your life doing things that everyone else wanted you to do rather than what you wanted to do. It was just so freeing, like just being yourself. Yeah. And then you'll be a bad bitch like

Alia. And that's what everybody was. Like us. Like us. Thank you so much to Aaliyah for joining me on this episode of the comment section. I adore you. I'm obsessing you. I love you so much. I love you too.

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I think so, yeah. Wait, they like revamped it. They just revamped it, I think. Really? Yeah. I wasn't on the old Tumblr. I was, I think, for a hot minute, but not really. Yeah.

I tried. But Tumblr, yeah, they can find you on Tumblr. You can find me on Tumblr. All the apps. YouTube. YouTube. Oh, love, love, love. And do you have anything you want to talk to them about?

Like, anything coming up that you're excited about? You want to talk about anything like that? Um, I am releasing a single. No way. I'm making music. Yes. Look at her in her pop star era. Yes, y'all are going to see it.

Like, I'm telling y'all, please be on the lookout. Oh, I love that. Okay. For those of you who haven't, like I said, please make sure you go follow Aaliyah. On all her socials, she's so funny and just the baddest bitch of all time. Thank you. Honor to have had you. Thank you for coming.

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