The Comment Section with Drew Afualo - HORRIBLE MEN DON'T MAKE THE ROSTER Ft. Kaliii | Drew Afualo | THE COMMENT SECTION EP 74

Episode Date: July 12, 2023

[video available on Spotify] We're eating pasta and lobster this week as Kaliii joins Drew on the show to talk how women and men are perceived differently when it comes to casually dating. The duo get... into the real-life inspiration behind Kali's hit Area Codes, their biggest red flags when getting hit on in public, a guy who has DM'd Kali every day for years, why terrible men blame women for being the reason they cheated, and so much more! Drew: https://linktr.ee/drewafualo Kaliii: IG / TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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Starting point is 00:00:00 If you sing it enough, it's a manifestation song. Period. It'll bring you host. Exactly. I've seen a girl that was like, I literally now have a white boy in my roster that just bought me pasta and lobster and just told me that he wants to take me shopping. I'm like, I told you, if you sing it enough. Manifest. Yes. Yes. Hey, everyone, and welcome back to another episode of the comment section show starring me, your favorite.
Starting point is 00:00:26 Everyone's like, I don't care anymore. Tell me who the guest is. Today, we have the wonderful, iconic, the legendary Callie. Woo. How you doing, girl? I'm good. How are you? I'm great.
Starting point is 00:00:38 Welcome to the show. Happy to have you. Yes, thank you for having me. How has life been crazy? It's been, yes, it's been going up. I'm on a high, like, everything's just been so surreal. It's been going crazy. I know.
Starting point is 00:00:52 So, obviously, if you've been living under a fucking rock, Callie is the masterful rapper behind area codes. Yes. Which is popping off. Yeah. Well, it already popped off and it continues to pop off. So how long between when you posted it to now, like, did you ever see this happening? Did you know it was going to happen?
Starting point is 00:01:12 Well, yeah. When I made the song, I, like, called my team when I left and was like, this is a hit. Like, I know, like, this is going to be the one. Everybody's going to love it. And then, like, soon as I did the snippet, people were like threatening me. They're like, girl, I'll come to your house and find you. You need to drop that song. And then it went viral on TikTok before I even dropped the song.
Starting point is 00:01:30 Love. Yeah. And how has life, how much time has passed between then and now? Like when you called your team to now? It thinks it's been like two months. That's crazy. Yeah, it's going out so fast. So you knew it was going to be a hit, but I'm sure you didn't guess it was going to like go that fat.
Starting point is 00:01:46 Like everything was going to happen so quickly. Well, actually, I have been manifesting. I have been writing stuff down. Like, I'm like, I love to manifest. Yeah, me too. I create my own life, babe. I know what's going to go down. I love that.
Starting point is 00:02:00 Yeah. What's your story? sign? I'm a Leo. Love. What's your sign? A Virgo. I love Virgo. I love Leo. I love Verge. I love Leo. I'm specifically. Not the man. They're all right. They're not the worst. Yeah, men of any sign. I'm like, hmm, you can keep them. Women of all signs, I'm like, yes. And anyone else who doesn't identify as a man? Yes. Yeah. Sounds good to me. Yeah. Well, I'm so happy to have you. You're a legend in the making currently. Thank you. And congrats on the BET Awards. I know you perform their was that? It was so fun. I was like super anxious and excited. Yeah. So like I have been working so hard on my performance. I'm just like I'm happy because it's like more shows to come like since I
Starting point is 00:02:41 killed it. Yeah. Absolutely. Do you think that I know since you're obviously an up and coming artist, you're like skyrocketing right now. And some other artists that have been in the game for the long time for a long time, they're just now getting used to TikTok and like realizing that it can be really helpful tool. Have you noticed that it's like that there's kind of a shit? And, you know, in the industry. Like some people are like, oh, maybe I should start leaning more towards TikTok.
Starting point is 00:03:06 Well, yeah. I mean, people like to throw in there like, oh, she's a TikTok TikTok rapper, but like I literally don't care. Like, TikTok has put me on Billboard. Like, I literally, I would use TikTok anytime
Starting point is 00:03:16 to release a song. That's what I'm saying. I like, it's social media. Like, it's what we have now. I feel like you should use it to your best advantage. Like, I'm put, I'm in people's faces.
Starting point is 00:03:24 I never thought I would be in front of, like, before. Yeah. Thank you, TikTok. Thank you for it. Thank you, Instagram. Like, I don't care. yes probably a six-hug-repper like everybody's creating videos i have like over a million videos made so like definitely use social media because yeah i think i think too like especially when you get your launch
Starting point is 00:03:43 off of social media yeah they can look at you a little differently especially you in music industry i'm sure um there are people who see it through a different lens but it's like such a useful tool i'm like i'll never turn my back on social media it's what gave me everything i have exactly it's like Just outside of that, creating who you are and getting people to know you, like, separate it from social media. I think that's where people, like, try to, like, you know, I don't know what the word is, but, you know, it's okay. They kind of try to look down on social media or people who are in the same rooms as them and they got their start off social media. Yeah. They're like, well, I didn't have social media.
Starting point is 00:04:18 I had to go to the barbershop. You're like, okay. Congratulations. Thank you. Sorry. Yeah. Well, and also, I think, too, it speaks to what a hit it is because not every, there are many people who put songs on TikTok and they don't take off. Yeah, exactly. So it's not like if you upload it's going to be an automatic. Social media is hard. Like, it is. Literally, it's so hard, especially to keep up with. Yeah. To grow and then sustain. Exactly. So, and also, just because it trends doesn't mean it'll translate to like streams or anything like that. Exactly. Or put you in rooms where you get to perform. Exactly. Exactly. Good for you, girl.
Starting point is 00:04:57 Yeah, thank you. I'm happy for you. So obviously the song, I'm a huge fan of your song. And I'm sure I will be of every other song you put out. But your song, Area Codes is very specific. And obviously, I think it, I think of Ludacris's song, area codes too. So it's kind of like the inverse of that song. So what was like the inspiration for you when you were writing it, when you were recording it?
Starting point is 00:05:18 Like, what were you thinking and feeling? Were you pulling from real life experience? Yeah, well, I wanted the song for, I wanted a song for the group. girls for the summertime. Like, I just wanted to be like, you know, something everybody can relate to. And I was kind of going through a little breakup. So I was just like, I would hate to show a man that I still get me in. Like, I still got holes.
Starting point is 00:05:37 Like, and I can still get hose. So it just came out like that, you know. So, yeah, now it's like a song where, like, if you don't have hose, you probably had hose before. Or like, if you sing it enough, it's a manifestation song. Period. It'll bring you host. Exactly.
Starting point is 00:05:52 I've seen a girl that was like, I literally now have a white boy in my roster. that just bought me pasta and lobster and just told me that he wants to take me shopping. I'm like, I told you if you sing it enough. Manifest. Yes. Manifest. Yes. Say it don't got to be a white boy.
Starting point is 00:06:06 It could be somebody else, but just say it. But there's a white one on yours. I mean, there's some people in my dance trying to be. Yeah, it's one of us. We're not going to say too much about my roster. Do you have men being like, let me be the white boy on your roster? Oh, yeah. A lot of them.
Starting point is 00:06:22 Every day. That's like the new thing to say to me. That's like a new pickup line. Yeah, let me be the white boy in your roster. Or I can't feed you pasta and lobster, but I can do-da-da-da-da. Oh, my. Oh, stop right there. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:06:34 Find something new to say. I said that. Yeah. Be unique. Stand out. You sue them for plagiarizing. You're like, end lawsuit. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:06:45 Hope it was worth it. Yeah. Well, do you feel like, how do you, I feel like your song, too, is all about confidence. Like, it's all about, like, like, like if you believe it, you are it kind of thing. Yeah. Do you feel like a lot of the people who love your song have like told you like, this song gives me so much confidence?
Starting point is 00:07:04 I love this song. Makes me feel sometimes what makes me feel like a bad bitch. Yeah. Do you notice people saying that too? Yeah, girls tell me all the time. They like, I was just going through it. Like now I listen to you to like make myself feel like the baddest bitch. Like F him.
Starting point is 00:07:17 Like I'm outside. And honestly, that's what I want. Like when girls listen to my music, like that's what I want. Because sometimes I have my moment where. I need to listen back like girl what did you just say you need to stand on what you just say you know so like I take that too and people like oh why you're how are you so confident it's like I'm getting there you know what I mean I speak it so like I can embody that too yeah yeah we all have our off days yes definitely and then there are days where you're like no one can tell me shit like I look literally I'm that bitch like seriously and when you feel that way and you listen to your song couple it together yeah match made in heaven and then you get air code. How long have you been doing music for? I've been taking a series since like 2018.
Starting point is 00:08:01 Oh, I love that. Yeah. Have you, did you see anything, like, have you learned anything since before your song Globe? Because that means you've been putting in a lot of work since before your song blew up. Yeah. So, like, what's, like, what would you say is the most important thing you learned before? Just to have, like, tunnel vision and just, like, nobody owes me anything.
Starting point is 00:08:19 I have to believe in myself before, you know, I expect anything from anybody else, like, or expect them to believe in me. So, like, definitely television. See my dream. It's my dream. So, like, people are always going to have opinions. Like, don't pay attention to that. Just, like, focus on, like, what my goals are and where I see myself going.
Starting point is 00:08:35 Since you've, like, gotten the platform, gotten the, all the hit and all the streams and everything like that, have you seen people from, like, back in the day coming up? Like, oh, my God. Like, hey, best friend. I remember you in class. You remember? I'm like, what? I always knew you were going to make it. No, you didn't.
Starting point is 00:08:57 Actually. Same. Yeah, like, it's happening more, like, lately I'm starting to notice it now. Oh, I bet. Especially after the BET Awards. I can't even imagine how many people. All my exes are like, yo, I'm so proud of you. I'm like, boy, F you.
Starting point is 00:09:12 Don't be. Don't be proud of me. Please don't. Please don't. Please leave me along. That's one of my biggest, like, ex now as I think about men I dated and I'm like, they tell people they date. That hurts my. my feelings. Please stop embarrassing me. Please don't do that to me. Don't go around telling people
Starting point is 00:09:28 that's not true. Yeah. I don't. As far as you know. Who are you? If you ask, if someone asked me, I'm going to tell them I don't know who you are. Yeah. And you don't have a picture with me, so prove it. Yeah. I bet. I bet it's especially because of your song, I can't even imagine like men that you talk to back in the day. Yeah. Probably coming out of nowhere. I bet that song's about me, huh? No. You're not even worth one lyric. Literally. You're like, I'm really going to hurt your feelings if I tell you who it is about. So we probably shouldn't have that conversation. I feel it. Okay. So speaking of dating, we're going to be talking about dating as a woman. Okay. In this day and age, as a woman, as a femme, someone who is attracted to men. We're going to talk about dating and how it's perceived very differently when single men are dating versus when single women are dating. Yes. Especially given the lyrics of your song. Yeah. Do you have any people being like, oh, this is so irresponsible to talk like this. Do you have haters or anything about your song?
Starting point is 00:10:29 I mean, yeah, it's like, I feel like as a woman, like when you say you're dating, people automatically think like you're being like intimate and like having sex with him, of course. And it's like, dude, like, no, because I say I have holes in different area codes. I'm not literally going to different area codes and having sex with all of these men. Like I'm tricking off. I'm getting their money and I'm having conversation. And even if you were, who cares?
Starting point is 00:10:52 Yeah, it's just like, exactly. Like we don't we get called hoes But to them they're like Yeah they're like She's a daddy Oh my God Like what Yeah as soon as you say
Starting point is 00:11:02 You're dating multiple people at once Yeah Especially as like a woman or a femme It's dating You have to figure out like What you like and you know who you like Yeah You can just happen to
Starting point is 00:11:12 I mean you can to each zone But I'm just saying like Dating is dating when you're single And so somebody says It's a whole bunch of stuff It's not just one Yeah Yeah
Starting point is 00:11:20 Until somebody I feel like You're not in a relationship Until somebody says like, will you be my girlfriend? Like, asked me that. And so then I'm outside. I'm in the streets. Yes.
Starting point is 00:11:31 And no one can say anything to you about it. Yeah. And honestly, men who are not awful, don't care. Yeah, they don't care at all. When they're, like, strong and they're not insecure, they're like, you're going to be mine anyway. So, like, cool. Sounds good.
Starting point is 00:11:45 I'm not to, you know, pressure. I'm about to apply some pressure. It's like, hold on, okay. It'd be the insecure ones that don't think they can compete. Like, made the best. man, when? I saw recently, I did some work stuff, and for some reason, I saw a guy I used to date back in college.
Starting point is 00:12:04 He was working there. And I was like, why? Why? What that happened to me? And one of my friends was like, oh, it was like an ex. I'm like, no. No. No.
Starting point is 00:12:13 It was just someone I dated. It was not an ex. I don't count that person as, nope. No. We were just hanging. That body doesn't exist. It doesn't exist. It doesn't exist.
Starting point is 00:12:22 As far as I know, we were just friends. Brothers in Christ and nothing more. That's all we were together. Best buds. Best buds. Okay, so we're going to be talking about dating as women, how it's perceived differently from when men date, obviously for operating within gender binary.
Starting point is 00:12:38 So for those of you who aren't aware, what we do in the comment section is we bring videos that I was tagged in here that are applicable to our topic, and then we tear them apart or we laugh or we kiki, whatever, everything in between. So this first video is two guys hosting a podcast, and they're asking four different women, whose fault is hookup culture. And one of the women says it's women's fault because if women weren't putting out men, if women weren't putting out, men wouldn't have the ability to, so there wouldn't be hookup culture. And then the male co-host says, listen, the fish market can't be open if there's no fish for sale.
Starting point is 00:13:19 Oh, that screams pick me. Girl. Big time. Big time. Women were like, well, it's actually our fault. Yeah. Why? Why?
Starting point is 00:13:28 Why are you selling out your girls like that? If women weren't putting out, men wouldn't have the ability to, to what? To do it, I'm assuming, is what they're talking about? To continue to, like, be hoes? Yeah. Yeah, it's our fault. Yeah. Yeah, it's our fault that they want to have sex with anything and everyone.
Starting point is 00:13:48 That walks and breathes. No, literally. Sometimes, I'm sure you've realized this now, too, because you've been in the industry. I've gotten, like, back in the day, I used to work in sports, so I've had my fair share of, like, professional athletes, like, reach out to me. And some girls were like, how do I get a professional athlete? Just be in the room. Literally. It's really not that hard. Just be living, breathing, and next to them.
Starting point is 00:14:12 Yeah. They're horse. They're big horse. There's lots of men who are big horse in this industry. Yeah. They don't care. They don't care at all. They're so used to like women like saying yes and like being so available.
Starting point is 00:14:24 Yeah, they ride off. Yeah, they ride off that. Hey, I'm that guy. Yeah. They just kind of stand there and just expect it to happen. Because like there are all the girls that's like, hi. Like, you know? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:14:36 To each is on. I mean, it is what it is. Yeah. But that's why I'm like, they're easy. Athletes are easy. Athletes are the easiest to pick up in this industry. You think so? Oh, yeah.
Starting point is 00:14:45 I'll say it was, it's rappers. I think it's artists. Honestly, they're probably neck and neck. It's men. It's just men in general. As I said, it's all of them. Like, you would be shocked at how easy it is. Yeah. I think that's why maybe you feel this way too because you're a Leo. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:15:00 But I like never really have celebrity crushes like ever. I never have really. I mean, I never, I recognize people who are attractive, but I don't. Yeah, I definitely feel the same. And I think it's because I literally like thought about it. I'm like, why do I feel like something wrong with me? and I think it's because I genuinely believe I could get anyone yes I say that all the time like I love that for us that's why yes that's why it's unacceptable like in relationship for me if you have a
Starting point is 00:15:27 celebrity crush because like it's not me yeah I can literally get anybody yeah like no that's unacceptable no absolutely not and my boyfriend who I've been with for a long time I like told him this once I think we were like a year or two in a dating and I brought this up to him like I think I never have them because I genuinely believe I could get anybody. Like literally anybody. And he was like, same. And I was like, soulmates. Soulmates.
Starting point is 00:15:54 Oh, my God, love that for us. Yeah. I think they're too easy. I feel like, if a guy says me, I'd be like, me you could get anybody. Please. I'm like, sure you can. I'm like, dang, but he got me. So I am somebody.
Starting point is 00:16:08 So his game is talk to him. Yeah. That's why I said, real, recognized, real. Yeah. Game, recognized game. I feel it. I got it. I got you. That's why I was like, same, same here. That's how I feel, and I'm so glad you feel the same. Yeah. It's our, and I'm not kidding. Yeah. Like anybody. I genuinely believe that. And you know what? We're probably both right. Yeah. Men are easy, so it's a win-win, honestly. And I think this video makes no sense because that's putting all the blame on women. Yeah. That men are horrors. Yeah, it's like, it's like, I think I just seen this one thing. It was like basically saying like, I, I forgot who it was, but somebody was blaming the girl for, like, him cheating and, like, being a liar.
Starting point is 00:16:50 And it was just like, oh, you did this, I did this because, I don't know. Because you do this, this, and this to me. So that's why I cheated. So you're a cheating liar because what? It's just the biggest gaslight. Yeah. They're just gaslighting women. They're like, that's not, I don't want to treat you this way.
Starting point is 00:17:07 But you made me because. You made me do this to you. Yeah, because you walked the wrong way in the morning time. And I didn't like that. It would be the simplest. thing. Yeah. It just makes no sense.
Starting point is 00:17:17 It's just a way for them to literally justify their bad behavior. Yeah. They're like, oh, no, that's probably your fault. And this guy comparing women to fish if the fish market can't be open if there's no fish for sale. I don't know what type of, he didn't had. It can't be open if there's no fish for sale. The fish market can't be open if no one's buying fish. Like, it's the same, that's the same mentality when men, slut shame, sex workers.
Starting point is 00:17:45 it's like who do you think's buying that y'all y'all are going to take it up with your peers yeah it's your fellow brethren those other people supply it's like supply and demand yeah there if there's no demand there's no supply yeah so chicken egg you know what i mean we're all i guess we're all hoarse at the end of the day yeah so the comments on this video this one says i think he's like he's putting in quotes he's like being sarcastic i'm wearing 200 a 200k watch and two carot-goules chain around my neck. I hope nobody robs me when I walk in the dark alley in midnight.
Starting point is 00:18:20 I think that's him justifying women getting attacked or anything. Like, women are being harassed, sexually harassed because they're putting it out there by just existing in the world. That's just so nasty. It is so nasty. It's so fucking gross.
Starting point is 00:18:34 But I feel like that's just trolls. Like, if you actually believe in the... Like, I feel like people do stuff for the internet just for attention. They don't actually feel... I hope you don't feel like... You have mothers and... sisters you know you're here for yeah you would think yeah yeah it scares me people like that scare me
Starting point is 00:18:50 if they really do believe shit like in person if you would say that it's like ew but so i think that all the time i'm like have you tried saying that to a real life woman yeah like someone in real life like bringing that up to them like i'm scared for the woman that's dating you or you might go the other way that's why you feel the way you feel like maybe and it's just so it's just so disgusting like you said It's just gross. This next one says, I've been saying this for years. If women didn't open their legs to men, there wouldn't be any cheaters. But women want what other women have.
Starting point is 00:19:25 Men step out anyway. If they want to, whether, like, say we all, like, close our legs. It was like, you know what when I do it. They're still going to try. They're going to find something. Yeah, like, what? They're going to find a way to cheat if they want to cheat. It has nothing to do with biology.
Starting point is 00:19:42 I feel like cheating is anything you don't want me doing. Yeah, absolutely. It don't have nothing to do with sex, baby. If I see you all in that girl's likes, that's cheating. Yeah, it's emotionally cheating. Yeah. It's the same. I actually talked about that once on TikTok, and it was kind of like a discussion
Starting point is 00:20:02 amongst women and femmes, too, because they were basically saying, like, well, I'm not insecure, so I don't care. Okay, that's you. Yeah. I do care. And I feel like that's not being insecure, just knowing, like, your boundaries with me. It may be okay with you. There's certain things that you may be okay with
Starting point is 00:20:17 that I'm not okay with. I'm strict around this pitch. I don't want none of that, you know, I don't want. And I also don't do that. Yeah. I have no desire to. Exactly.
Starting point is 00:20:28 And I don't do it either. So what I, the kind of respect and boundaries I hold for myself. Yeah. I would hope they hold too. Yeah. I think that's fair. It's like whatever your preferences,
Starting point is 00:20:40 like as far as when it comes to your boundaries, they're all specific to the person. I feel the same way because I think to myself, if they're liking a bunch of pictures of other women that aren't you, and let's say they're all, like, sexy, like bikini pictures. Why is he liking those pictures? Yeah, what do you get from that? Was he a big fan of the bikini?
Starting point is 00:20:56 Yeah. He wants to know the brand, or is it maybe something else? And I'm big on, like, putting your, like, foot in other people's shoes. Like, if I don't like that, and then you see me doing it, it's going to be like, you know, guys always, they try to act like they don't care, but then they be like, why are you in his likes? It's like, oh, just my friend.
Starting point is 00:21:12 Like, I liked this outfit. But, like, really? Like, you know, like, come on. Yeah, it's like a double standing like, no, don't do it. You don't want me doing it? Because when I do it, your chest is going to cave in. But when you do it, just play it safe. Yeah, that's what I think.
Starting point is 00:21:27 And I think it's whatever you prefer. Like, if those aren't your boundaries, that's fine. Yeah. That doesn't make women who do care. That doesn't make them insecure. Yeah. Like, they just have different boundaries. And then they tell you, like, hey, I don't like when you do that.
Starting point is 00:21:40 So don't do it. anymore. I think that's fair. I think that's valid. And I don't want you oogling bodies that aren't mine. I don't think that's too much to ask. Exactly. I think you can look at me and me alone. That's why I said,
Starting point is 00:21:54 what do you look in? What do you need to see so bad? Yeah. That's why now I'm like first reflect, you're cut. Like, I don't even want to see. You know what I see? Yeah, I'm outside. Oh yeah. You heard the song? I'm outside. And you're not looking for anybody right now.
Starting point is 00:22:10 No, I'm really just focused on like I'm going up like I just want to keep going up Like I'm just focusing on my music and my career And just I love that Being outside with the girls like it's summertime Like let's have fun I'm really not even dating for real Like I'm just like having good time
Starting point is 00:22:25 Yeah I don't even I know I have a lot of DMs But I don't respond to that I'm more of like an energy person like in person Like you know as we vibe I kind of have to like see you around more than once Like I don't want to just you know I feel you so I'm just I'm literally just chilling around my wave
Starting point is 00:22:40 and going up period make about coins do you get any creepy people any creepy men yeah I mean yes it's this one guy is so funny I was just showing somebody from my team this
Starting point is 00:22:51 he's been like deeming me for years and like 30 years and it's like 30 messages a day and it's like what are they saying not miss the day like sometimes it's just squirting emojis and then sometimes it's like a
Starting point is 00:23:04 it's like a voice memo of him just like yeah and I did this today and then that. He's just updating you on his life? He's like, I went to the store. Yeah. Call me when you're done. I'm so confused.
Starting point is 00:23:15 And like, he's getting mad. Like, when I post certain things, like, oh, stop playing with me. You're making me hot. And then I'm like, what the f-every day for years? Yes. I have to show you out to this. Like, it's so funny. Like, crazy.
Starting point is 00:23:27 And I bet you he's at the top, like, at the top right now. He just sent me a message. I swear to God. There's one of my creator friends had that happen to him. And it was like someone who, uh, my friend is gay. But he had this guy who was like Would send him hate every single day But then he would send him hate
Starting point is 00:23:46 And then some days he would send him like Really sexual messages And then he would go back to hate And like he did it every day for like two years Yeah Sending him mixed signals Yeah And then one day my friend posted in his stories
Starting point is 00:23:57 Like I hope he's okay I haven't heard from him today I hope he's doing good Hope you're doing well Yeah Haven't heard of me today I haven't got a message Who's so hate and love me like
Starting point is 00:24:08 Just checking in Just want to make sure You're good. Yeah. That's crazy. Yeah, it's some crazy people. In my comment section is actually hilarious. Like, people don't know what they're talking about or what they want to say today.
Starting point is 00:24:21 Like, I just be like, bro, figure it out. Yeah, none of my business, honestly, whatever goes on in there. Yeah. That's crazy. Do you get a lot of interest from other men, like famous men? You don't have to tell me who, but. I mean, I mean, yeah. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:24:36 I bet. Yeah. I'm curious. They all just there. We went over at their horse. They're just there. They're just obsessed. I bet.
Starting point is 00:24:45 I don't take Instagram and like I don't take DM serious like I just say I just. I feel you. Yeah like I got to you never know like somebody can seem so cool on the internet and then you meet them like a true cornball. And it's like. Do you have any icks for them? Yeah. I was just talking to my team about this like one. I don't like smoking weed.
Starting point is 00:25:06 So like I don't like when like men like men. smoke weed and it's like lingering on their breath. Oh and all you do smell it. Oh my god. And weed does not smell good. No, it doesn't. And then like I hate when like Amanda doesn't listen like he keeps making you try like repeat yourself like that huh, huh, huh? It's like bro. Never mind. You're like like, you're not like in that like stuck face. It's like, I'm just like you're you can't be that. You're not serious. Yeah. That's be serious for once in your You just write them off. Oh yeah.
Starting point is 00:25:40 Oh yeah, you said first red flag, I'm out. Yeah. And then another thing is like, like I'm dark skin. So like when men approach me, they'll be like, oh, you're the prettiest dark skin I ever seen. I'm just like, you thought I was a compliment? Uh-oh. It's not a compliment. It's not.
Starting point is 00:25:54 Yeah, it's literally an egg. In any way she. Thanks for showing mirrorly. Bye. Yeah. Like, no. That's. Yuck.
Starting point is 00:26:02 Yeah. When I, back in the eons ago, because I've been with my man for a minute now, but when I would get approached, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, forever ago, I've been on the bench, thank God. It's literally pissing the pool, like, it's bad. It's bad out there. When I would get hit on in public, I'm someone, I'm Pacific Islander, so a lot of men can't tell what race I am, so they would just pick a random, especially white dudes.
Starting point is 00:26:33 Yeah. They pick a random, a random one to fetishize. Yeah. So they'd be like, oh, I've never been with like a Latina mommy before. And you won't start today. Is she here in the room? Because it's not me. I'm like, are you talking to me? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:26:47 Wrong race, babe. You're fetishizing the wrong one. It's wrong. They see like pretty hair, like your skin tone and just things, anything. Yeah, they're like, it's like they only know three. It's white, black, and brown. Yeah. But the brown is only Hispanic.
Starting point is 00:27:02 There's no other. Yeah. So they're like, oh, probably Hispanic. Yeah. Wrong. You didn't get it right actually. You were wrong and you grossed me out. So on top of that.
Starting point is 00:27:11 I was like, and you're ugly, you got to pick one or the other. Yeah. You can't be a fetishizer and ugly. You got to pick one or the other. Yeah. Okay, this last comment on here says, men hope to get laid. Women decide to get laid.
Starting point is 00:27:24 Women are fully responsible. What? I hate that argument. When they're like, they consider, like, if we're operating again within a gender binary, they consider women who are sexually liberated. they consider them to be sluts and whores because men have to actually try
Starting point is 00:27:42 and women don't. But the irony of that, it doesn't make sense because... They're just proving they're easy. That's my point, and that makes you a whore, like, by definition. And, you know, since I hear that argument where it's, like, girls can't, like, have sex if they're, like, without being in love with a guy.
Starting point is 00:28:01 Yeah. Like, I have to be in love with you in order, like... They're, like, automatically, like, they're attached to you. Yeah, like, you have to have sex if they're, like, you have to have. like you know emotional interest Sarah. I'm like says who? Not my
Starting point is 00:28:11 My rose doesn't think so well that's my point I'm like yeah you leave out like self pleasure yeah and you also you don't factor in any other women who's not attracted to men obviously but I've only like in my experience I've met more women who are
Starting point is 00:28:32 completely unattached from sex than I have men yeah men like they say they don't care bro, they care. But let them catch you outside with somebody else. Oh, they care the most. Like literally,
Starting point is 00:28:43 my manager to give a guy three months like a don't speak to him. Yeah. And his mind completely lost. Gone. Like, I thought you didn't care. Like, what happened? As soon as you let go,
Starting point is 00:28:57 like, that's the moment. It's like, wait, please, please, please. Like, I want her back. Like, no. Like, they care the most, literally. Like, I feel like women can, like, switch it off, like, dumb bad. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:29:06 Because, you know why? because women are so used to being treated like shit. Yeah. And they are so used to never expecting anything from men that they're like, I'm not going to get attached because who knows where we're going to be tomorrow, let alone three months from now. I mean, even if you do get attached, I feel like we are able to work through it faster. Yeah, we go through our emotions.
Starting point is 00:29:25 Yeah, we go through our emotions just like, okay, like I care. Like, now what? Yeah. And then guys just like try to act like they don't care on to the next girl. Like, you know. It hits them later, but worse. Yeah. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:29:33 And I also, when I like, when I first started dating my boyfriend, like, the first, the minute I posted him. You know how many men unfollowed me? You know how many men got mad at me? Yeah, they were upset with me. They were like, I didn't know you were dating. That's not none of your business. What was I supposed to report to?
Starting point is 00:29:51 What are you? My fucking boss? Hey, team. Just a quick update. You're all cut off. I set up an email blast. Yeah. Blast it to my roster.
Starting point is 00:30:00 Yeah. Just so you know you guys have been benched permanently. Yeah. Thanks, guys. Yeah. Thanks, team. Better luck next year. Next draft season, we'll see how it goes.
Starting point is 00:30:07 that's crazy. That's so funny. Men are so, they are just as, if not more, emotional. Yeah, than women are. I'm learning that now. I'm definitely learning that now. It's crazy. Yeah, and it's like now, like...
Starting point is 00:30:19 To see it in the wild. Yeah, I'm starting to like learn as I'm going up. I was just explaining this to my friends. Like, nobody wants to be on the roster anymore. Like, everybody wants to be a boyfriend. And it's just like, no. Like, what happened to people wanted to be hoes and like in the streets? When I was in a relationship, like, everybody wanted to be a boyfriend.
Starting point is 00:30:37 everybody wanted to be outside. And now I'm outside, like, where the holes at? Where are it? Where is everyone? Everybody wants to be my boyfriend now. Nobody clocked in. Yeah, like, what happened? Everybody wants to be a boyfriend.
Starting point is 00:30:48 What's going on with y'all? Like, you said the brand is in trouble. You guys, men are supposed to be like. The roster is like, everybody don't want to be on the roster. Now they want to be the only one. Yeah. No. No, thanks.
Starting point is 00:31:02 Maybe in the winter. It gets cold. Cuffing season. Yeah. There you go. Okay, this next video is a woman looking at her phone. She's pretending to read text from guys with the caption dating as a big girl. Okay.
Starting point is 00:31:16 The text say, you're pretty for a big girl. You're not even that big, to be honest. Let's just chill and see where things go. And we can be sneaky links. Well, that's kind of like what you just said when they do that weird, backhanded. Yeah. It's like, I never dated a dark skin girl. But like, if I did, it would be you.
Starting point is 00:31:36 because I literally don't care. Like, you're not in my tired. Congrats, I guess. Yeah. Well, it's also like, what am I supposed to do with that information? Yeah. Be like, you mean it?
Starting point is 00:31:47 Me? Oh my God, really? My king. Oh my God, you're going to pick me. Nobody I've never met before. Yeah. Fuck out of me. Fuck out of my face.
Starting point is 00:31:55 Yeah. Who cares? I think it's, they're like, it's like a, what do you call it? Neging. Like when they say something. It's like a tactic that pick up artists use.
Starting point is 00:32:07 That's such a dated term. They tell you to say something that's negative. It's not really a compliment to women. And it's supposed to like force them to like prove themselves to you. So they'll say things like you're pretty for a dark skin girl. Or they'll say you're pretty for a big girl. And then be like, oh my God. So you think I'm pretty.
Starting point is 00:32:28 Yeah. Oh my God. Thank you so much. But I feel like women nowadays are more like self-aware. Like we know like you're full of shit. Yeah. They can smell it on you honestly.
Starting point is 00:32:37 That's just, that's fucking rude. That's a rude thing to say. That is not a compliment. Yeah. Like you're cute for a short guy. Our short king. Like who comes to setbacks? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:32:49 Love that for us. I had a guy went to tell me that I looked, I was actually a lot smarter than he thought I would be. He's like, that's really impressive. Okay. Mind you, that situation, I was like training him. I was teaching him how to do something. We were co-workers.
Starting point is 00:33:07 And he was like, oh, you're a lot. You're like so much smarter than I thought you were going to be. When I first met you, I thought you were going to be stupid. Okay. Oh, my God. You mean it? Oh, my God. Thank you so much.
Starting point is 00:33:18 Oh, my God. Oh, wow. Thank you so much. I'm honored. Not. Yeah. So rude. What do you say to that?
Starting point is 00:33:27 Like, thanks. Oh, my God. Thank you. Yeah. Thank you so much. Side-eye. Yeah. Okay.
Starting point is 00:33:33 Yeah, I had a guy once to tell me, like, he was hitting on me, but he was like, you're not like any of these other bitches. You're not like these bitches out here. And we're like another women like, oh my God, yay. To uplift me. Yeah. So I was like, my tities are pushed up to my neck. What do you mean?
Starting point is 00:33:49 I'm just like every other bitch you know, actually. In fact, bring one up. I bet you we have a lot more in common than you think. What are you talking about? They don't know how to talk to women at all, not even a little bit. What's the worst pickup line you've ever gotten? Let me see I think it's the
Starting point is 00:34:04 Let me be on the On the roster It's like I came up with that Can you come up with something different Like you have no originality Like I don't Let's say you were looking to date Or add someone to the roster
Starting point is 00:34:17 Let's say add to the roster What would you say is ideal To get them on the roster So we can hear the qualifications Spend the bag Like I'm all for spending all your money All the time Like
Starting point is 00:34:29 On you Yeah, I'm so straightforward with men, like, I want this. And you tell me no, it's like a, you're already not on the roster now because, like, why are you telling me no? They disqualified themselves. Immediately got it. Yeah, and then, like, I work really hard. So, like, don't be too, like, clinging. I feel you.
Starting point is 00:34:47 And, like, insecure, you know, I'm always around, like, other guys and, like, working and stuff. Like, don't be insecure. And, like. Like a weirdo. Yeah. And just be, like, trying to make up stories in your head. Like, that's for women to do. not that's not for you yeah i don't know just be just have big d energy like yeah you know yeah i think
Starting point is 00:35:07 so i just want to have fun so like not too serious right now nothing too serious the roster is not serious like please don't be serious like that's how you get cut off like please don't be the minute you start taking it seriously you're off the roster yeah immediately yeah that's like um do you know alia alia's interlude she's on tixote yes love her love her she was when she was on my show she was telling me that she thinks that only men have red flags for women, they're just quirks. Yeah, they're just cute. I absolutely agree with that.
Starting point is 00:35:37 Yeah, I second that. She's so wise for her age. Honestly, like, that's, wow, I never thought of that. Yeah, she's like, they're just quirks. Yeah, girls are just quirky and they're cute and they're fun. Yeah. And they're the best. No red flags. No.
Starting point is 00:35:50 Men have so many red flags. No quirks. Yeah. They're just negatives. Yeah. And so I think that's easy for the roster, right? Can't have any red flags. No red flags.
Starting point is 00:35:58 Those are for the women. Yeah. And they're not red flags. They're quirks. Exactly. They're just silly fun facts about us. Fun facts. I was trying to think of words.
Starting point is 00:36:06 I was like, yes, fun facts. Those are fun facts about us. I think so. Sometimes I have angry issues. That's a fun fact. Fun fact. That's so silly and fun. I might throw at you at you one day.
Starting point is 00:36:15 Like, just dodge. You know. And then it's fun. And then we're having fun. Silly. Yeah. That's so silly. I was just playing.
Starting point is 00:36:23 Just messing around. Okay. We'll get into the comments of this one. one. So this one says, LOL, so you're having to go through what average dudes go through better get a better personality or money. That's the solutions we have to
Starting point is 00:36:37 find. Women can't go through nothing. We can't just have it like nothing. Oh my God. Women have no problems at all according to men like that. Like, misogynistic men, they're like, women have no problems. It's so easy for you. Yeah, they want to BS. That's the problem. They just want to BS.
Starting point is 00:36:54 That was such a It's so oppression Olympics. Yeah. Yeah, it's like, I have it hard. Yeah. Okay. Yeah, like, y'all can wear makeup and y'all can do this, like, sir. You could too. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:37:04 If you really wanted to, you absolutely could. Nobody's stopping you. Yeah, nobody's stopping you, but you. Yeah. I mean, the only limit is up here. Yeah. That's in your mind, but. Hey.
Starting point is 00:37:13 It's like when men say, like, women who are, like, fitness girls and they, like, take lots of fitness pictures or whatever, they're like, if I, like, I post fitness fitness cons all the time, but it doesn't get nearly as many likes because her ass is take your ass out. If you do it, let's see what happens. Maybe you'll get the same amount of lights. Who knows? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:37:34 Don't hate the player, hate the game. Yeah. That's why I'm like, I didn't invent it. Yeah, can we get a back turn around? Yeah, with the arch. A little arch. Yeah. I think so.
Starting point is 00:37:45 Yeah. Let's see how it does. Let's see if it runs up the numbers. Yeah. Okay, this next comment says, y'all do all of this complaining, but have you tried getting fit and changing your results? Oh, because this girl, she's like dating as a big.
Starting point is 00:37:57 girl. Again, men are horse, so women, regardless of how they look, have literally no problems. I feel like everybody just has the whole world just has their own opinions and how they feel about certain things. That comment session is crazy, but another
Starting point is 00:38:13 comic session might be like uplifting. It just depends on what audience you hear. Some people are just weird. Especially on TikTok. I feel like if you hit the wrong side, you'll just get the worst people in the world. It's just like, I wasn't even talking to you guys. Like literally if the shoe doesn't fit
Starting point is 00:38:29 Don't wear it like yeah If you call somebody I'm like Some of like some of like weird And then they're like I'm not weird It's like I said some Not me Yeah They feel so attacked
Starting point is 00:38:41 Yeah That's why I'm like only hit dogs holler Yeah So if that's you maybe that's why it bothers you so much Like I hate cheaters Oh I don't cheat them my girl Oh Okay
Starting point is 00:38:50 Yes you do Because nobody nobody says Nobody says nobody volunteers that information without like having to cover something. Yeah, like, okay, what's you been doing? Yeah. I saw a video of a man recently.
Starting point is 00:39:06 He was basically talking, it wasn't a bad video by any means, but he was saying how he doesn't have any female friends that are not friends of his wives. So he's like, my wife's friends, like I would consider those my friends. But I don't pursue those kinds of relationships
Starting point is 00:39:21 on my own out of respect for my wife. Yeah. And I was like, I mean, that's cool. I mean, that's tea, whatever your boundaries are. Yeah. But a lot of people were like, that's weird. That's weird. I mean, I feel like if you're married, like, our friend group is the same.
Starting point is 00:39:35 It's all the same people. So, yeah, if you're making a bunch of random female friends, I mean, that would be a red flag. Now, are you having conversations outside of me? Yeah. That's where I would be like. Yeah, exactly. Shit. That's not your, like, that's not your friend, friend.
Starting point is 00:39:48 Let's keep it cute. Cocktails and parties. Yeah. And that's it. Yeah. I think so. Yeah. I think too.
Starting point is 00:39:56 It's like, it's one of those things that it's specific to the person, but if you're incapable of being friends with women because you are worried you might do something, that's different. Yeah. Like you're a weirdo.
Starting point is 00:40:09 Like you're like, I can't hang around women because I might cheat. Yeah. You don't have self-control like at all? Yeah. Or guys saying like women can't have guy friends is so funny to me because it's like, y'all are just like putting y'all, projecting y'all.
Starting point is 00:40:24 on us and it's just like we don't want to have sex with every man that's walking or like they're saying they can't be friends with females it's like the weirdest thing to me it's like y'all can have like a platonic relationship we just have regular conversation that's what I'm saying with the opposite sex like that's the kind of shit I'm like
Starting point is 00:40:40 that's weird that's like a red flag a huge red flag because I feel like that means you don't see women as human beings you see them as things like things that you want to have sex with that's like narcissistic vibes like really because
Starting point is 00:40:54 time. And they brag about that. They're like, oh, I can't hang out with a guy. Like, you know what I mean? That's not a brag. That's not an accomplishment you should be proud of. Only the guy, only guys will like big that up, like, pick me home boys. Yeah, men are like, yeah.
Starting point is 00:41:10 Yeah. Yeah. Like, you're a weirdo. Yeah. I'm like, you're a fucking weirdo. You can't speak to women without being fucking gross. Yeah. You're incapable.
Starting point is 00:41:20 Yeah. That's so strange. And I always, I think that like back to. the pick me thing about that girl. Picney women shock me. They confused me. I don't understand them literally at all. Because I think you don't have one bitch in your life that loves you.
Starting point is 00:41:34 That's weird. You don't have one bitch in your life. You need your girls. Yeah, like you need your girls. Yeah. You cannot be surrounded by men all the time. That would be the most infuriating situation. Men are exhausting.
Starting point is 00:41:46 Or like, maybe it was just like an attention thing. Like I just like need attention right now. So I'm going to say actually something I don't agree with. Just like get them in and like be like, oh, yeah, she's cool. She's not like the others. Yeah. Yeah, they'll say things like protect this one. Protect this woman at all cost.
Starting point is 00:42:03 No one's coming for her. Yeah. Are you dating her? I didn't think so. Yeah. I think that's so sad. I'm like, oh, a life without women or femmes is so colorless. It's so boring.
Starting point is 00:42:15 Yeah. Okay, here's another comment on this one. It says, just eat right and go to the gym like every other overweight. I hate guy. Okay. Well, the thing, the irony about that is, like, she wasn't talking about it being hard to get men's attention. It's not. Yeah. Even as a thicker girl, like, it's not hard to get there. That's not what she's talking about. Yeah. She's literally saying, like, men are just gross. Yeah. And then they're like, whoa. If you want someone, yeah. If you want someone, go to the gym, fatty. Well, I wasn't even talking about that. Yeah, like, it's not hard. It's just gross. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:42:54 I think that's insane. Do you like going to the gym? No I want to be a gym baddie so bad But like I feel you I just I can't I know It's awful
Starting point is 00:43:06 Yeah I just like Strawberry lemon drops so much And like going out And having steaks and lobsters And like I just can't get up I already have to get up at like 7 a.m.
Starting point is 00:43:18 Almost every morning for like interviews and stuff But like So getting in the gym before that It's like not happening I'm still like trying to get over my strawberry lemon drops the next morning, so maybe one day. How was it prepping for the BET Awards? Was that a lot of, like, I mean, dancing, obviously.
Starting point is 00:43:34 Yeah, it was, it was fun. It was a lot of dancing, but I was still, like, I was still chilling. Oh, nice. I'm pretty, like, athletic. Like, I got a little. I think so. I got a little, yeah, some did me. Were you an athlete in high school?
Starting point is 00:43:45 Yeah, I played soccer since I was seven. Me too. Yeah. That's crazy. Same. Oh, my gosh. What position did you play? I played a centerback, left back, forward, and striker.
Starting point is 00:43:55 Oh, period. Yeah. I played center and left back, too. Oh, okay. That's so funny. Oh, my gosh, I love that. Wait, how old are you? 22.
Starting point is 00:44:03 Oh, you're young. You're a baby. I'm a million years old compared to you in TikTok years. No, you're not. I'm going to be 28. Girl, please. When I say, like 38 or something, like, what? Whenever I make that joke, oh my God, thank you.
Starting point is 00:44:17 No, no, no. I always saying, like, looks why. I'm just saying, like, you say a million years. I'm like, what? In TikTok years, I'm, like, considered an old. man. Like I'm a grandpa. I mean, you're 22, but like when I go to like anything
Starting point is 00:44:31 media related, entertainment related, whatever, I tell people, especially if there's TikTokers there, they're like, how old are you? I'm like, I'm going to be 28. They're like, oh my God, I just turned 21. Oh, so like, I didn't ask. How did you say it that way? I don't like that tone. I don't even date like men
Starting point is 00:44:49 younger than 28, really. Oh, great. I just like... Ooh, you're like I'm older. Not too old. Not sugar daddy vibe But it's just like older I feel you I mean that's
Starting point is 00:45:02 I feel like even when I was dating I always dated older too Yeah It's just easier that way Because if they say like men don't really Mature into the like 35 I just want to get closer to that The maturity
Starting point is 00:45:14 I want the one that's already done Baked and ready Almost there Ready to go Yeah I just got to take it out the oven Yeah I feel you
Starting point is 00:45:21 And then you can't like expect too much From like younger guys and I do expect a lot. So, like, I know my standards, like... Yeah, too much like a job. Like, stuff like a job. Yeah, it's like, I can't expect a 22-year-old guy to be, like, buying Chanel bags and, like, not live with their mom or, like, have their own car. Like, but I expect that.
Starting point is 00:45:41 Like, that's something I want. Yeah. So, like, I'm going to be with the men that have their stuff together. I feel you. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, I feel that. And I feel like it's just, I don't know.
Starting point is 00:45:52 Do you have a lot in common with older men? I felt like that was my hardest part was like sometimes if they were way older than me. Like, and when I say way older, like eight years. No, I don't think, oh, it's like, 28 to like 33. Like that's like my, I'm not going past that really. Sorry, if you're looking to be at it to the roster, sorry, you can't be old. Sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry. We have like a five, like you have five year age gap right there.
Starting point is 00:46:18 Yeah. I can't imagine. I had one of my girlfriends was on the show and she was telling me how, She would go on dates with dudes that were like way older just for funds, like for funzies for the story because some of them were famous. And she would go just for the bit. She'd be like, ah, fuck it. I don't want to go and see what it is. And mind you, she was probably like, and I think right now she's like 24, 25.
Starting point is 00:46:40 And this was like when she was like 22. And she was like going out with men like on a date where she's just like she's so pretty and cute. She'll just sit there. And they're like in their 50s. And she said, I was like, what do you guys talk about? Yeah. Like, what do you ask them? Are you like, what was the Great Depression?
Starting point is 00:46:57 Like, you know what I mean? Like, what are you talking about? Were you ever married? Were you, like, alive when the cell phone was out or no? Yeah. What'd you do for fun before social media? Yeah, I don't think I can do that because, like, I'm so, like, blunt with how I feel. Like, and you can see it all in my face.
Starting point is 00:47:10 Like, I'd just be like, they're older. Yeah. That's what I'm like, older men like that? I'm like, what do you fucking talk about? Yeah, what is there to talk about? You're like, I don't know. Yeah. Like, what was the 2008 crisis?
Starting point is 00:47:24 Did that hit you hard? Was it like, were you, like, in college at the time? Yeah. I don't know. I can't date too old. I'm the same way. I feel like my emotions are too visible on my face too. Especially if I'm disgusted.
Starting point is 00:47:38 Yeah, I really say how I feel, too. Yeah. Like, no. I feel like your teeth are about to fall out. Literally, you're like, I'm going to have to put you in a home soon. No, not that old. Oh, my God. No, absolutely.
Starting point is 00:47:51 To each is on though Like yeah Women to date that old I'm like I give you mad props I don't know how you do it Like I would probably laugh all the time Like what's really going on right now You wouldn't add an oldie to your roster
Starting point is 00:48:06 No Absolutely not I think my dad would be like What are you doing? No seriously Yeah I think even too like That's like kind of the same guy Who like if they have a lot of money
Starting point is 00:48:20 like a sugar daddy they want to like spoil you or whatever terrible misogynistic men hate that too because they're like oh you're just a gold digger but I always think they just worry about other men's money you have zero dollars that's why you feel that way yeah you're so worried about other men
Starting point is 00:48:36 like you don't have no money to dig in like what am I doing for you're okay don't worry about it I promise like the men with money don't care they really don't it's not tricking if you got it comes from like they literally don't care they want to spend they want to see you happy Like that's when you know they got the funds Like they just want to buy you what you want
Starting point is 00:48:55 And they say there's no problems Like it's just like I want to see her smile And I want that So I want to smile again So if you want to be on Callie's roster Yeah Do you have to want to see me smile With like spending money
Starting point is 00:49:08 Yeah Because I have my days I'm just like Let's go to sacks And I love like steak and mashed potatoes And all of that All of that like every single day People are like oh my gosh
Starting point is 00:49:19 Like you're like the typical like a boozy girl but I'm not I just really I like things like you got it yeah why not because even if you say no like I'm still gonna go get it so it's like I just figured you wanted to be included yeah I feel that I wanted you to include you my day I think that about to like when men like when you get free drinks right like when I used to go out all the time and I would be like oh you go in the club and you're like oh my god I'm so thirsty oh I wish I had a drink I wish I had a drink so bad Oh my God, do you want to buy me a drink? Oh, my God, I literally would be like, oh, I'd love that.
Starting point is 00:49:53 Like, we talk and he's like, I can get you a drink. Yeah. I'm like, oh, my God, great. I do have like four girlfriends with me now. Yes, oh, my God. And I don't want to drink without them. And they're like, oh, he's like, I got all of you. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:50:03 Okay, pretty. I will take five of these and they're on him. Thank you so much. Thank you. Yeah. You just take it and you leave. And there's all they got us looking like. Why?
Starting point is 00:50:13 And then when I would tell those stories on TikTok, like men would get mad. Yeah. And they'd be like, that's so disgusting. drink spot for them. They want us to do that. And if you can't buy them, and I said the same thing, I'm like, I can buy it myself. I'm just, if I don't have to, I will not. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:50:28 Like, it's cool if a guy buys you a drink. But if I'm with my home girls and you buy all of his drinks, like, that gives you cool points. Because I'm probably not even going to accept a drink by myself. Yeah, same. Because it's like, if you're with your girls, you got a bottle. Everyone, like when I eat the whole teammates. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:50:45 That's why I'm like, well, sometimes. I can't be over here like drunk and lit and then I first are like, And sometimes my friends would be like, hey, get over there, go talk to that guy. He looks like he's going to buy all of us stuff. Yeah. So you just walk by like, oh, my God. That'd be so great. I know.
Starting point is 00:50:59 Gosh, I just wish I had to drink so hot in here. Yeah. And then like, thank you. Thank you so much. Even when I first started dating my boyfriend and we would go out, my boyfriend would be like, why don't you take a lap? Get us some drink. I just walk around by myself.
Starting point is 00:51:12 And I'm like, oh, my God, that'd be so great. My friend needs a drink, too. Bye. Thank you. Here you go, babe. Yeah. And then I'm like, we're getting drunk on someone else's dime. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:51:21 I think that's making the patriarchy work for you. Yeah. I'm like you, I always think too. I think so. I also think too, like, they're not buying you a drink because they think you look smart. Yeah. They're not like, she looks like a nice person I'm going to talk to her. That's not why they're talking to you.
Starting point is 00:51:36 No. She looks good. Mm-hmm. She looks good. Like she has a really great taste of music. I'm going to go talk to her. That's not why they're talking to you. That's why I don't feel bad.
Starting point is 00:51:44 Yeah. I encourage all my baddies. I'm like, when you go out there, rack them up. Get that bag. Free shit, rack it up. Yeah, all the time. When I would go out with my friends, we never paid for anything. No, you shouldn't.
Starting point is 00:51:55 I wouldn't even bring my wallet. Yeah, you shouldn't. You shouldn't. I swear, that's why I meant me mad. Like, when you go to the club, it's like, I'm not paying for that section. I'm going to have a black. I don't know how much nothing costs, but I know that hookah's right there. And I know that bottle's right there.
Starting point is 00:52:07 And we're about to have at the time of our lives. Yeah. Yeah. If you bring your girls. I love being a girl. I love it. Yeah. I'm just a teenage girl at the end of the day.
Starting point is 00:52:15 I'm simply a teenage girl. Yeah. Okay, so to wrap it up, what would you say is your best piece of advice for all the girls, all the baddies, everyone who wants to be outside this summer? What would you say is your best piece of advice for them if they're dating, building a roster, whatever it may be? Don't let nobody see you sweat. Don't let that man stress you out, okay? Like literally men put their insecurities on women all the time. As long as you know that, like he don't want to see you having fun. Like, you know you're doing something right.
Starting point is 00:52:47 Like, girl, be outside. Like, literally just be outside. I feel like women never ask themselves what they want from, like, men or, like, you know, try to figure out, especially, like, younger girls. Like, I realized I never was like, oh, I want this in a person. I want this in a person. Like, I was just like, oh, like, he's here. Like, you know, and then I'm, like, all sad.
Starting point is 00:53:08 But it's like, what did I really gain from this? Because I never really asked myself, like, dang, like, Callie, what do you want? So I say, like, date and find out what you like? Like, like, and just, you know, find out the person you want to be around all the time. It's okay to date. Men have their own opinions. People are always going to have their own opinions about you. It's literally your life.
Starting point is 00:53:26 Yeah. I say that too about women, especially, like, with men. I'm like, they're going to talk shit no matter what. So you might as well do whatever you want. Exactly. No, you could be the most like. You could be in the happiest relationship. And they're going to say, oh, he's probably cheating on her because she did, like, people literally don't, they don't care.
Starting point is 00:53:43 They don't care. They don't care. Or I would have broke up with her, bro. like you're not with me we could play imagine games all the day long but at the end of the day you're alone and that sucks for you yeah well I'm alone
Starting point is 00:53:55 by choice though by choice yes very much by choice yeah that is very much so by choice okay last tip what would you say is your number one tip if you want to build a successful roster for the summer successful roster for a summer I would say literally just be outside like and
Starting point is 00:54:12 whoever pays for the tabs like that's who you to the roster. Because wherever you want to go at that point, it's like different area code. I'm in Miami. Like, who's going to pay for the boat? Oh, like, this is the boat guy. This is the dinner guy. Like, you know, just be outside and have fun.
Starting point is 00:54:27 My girlfriends and I used to, like, put parentheses of what they were, like, who they were. Yeah. So we're like, oh, this is the guy who sends nudes all the time. Oh, that's, they don't get saved. My friend. This is the guy that has the boat. We had a couple of those. Okay.
Starting point is 00:54:42 We had a couple of those. Okay. guy with the car, guy with the car, because we didn't have a car at the time. I'd say, so you can keep track of your roster. Yeah. Keep track of them. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:54:51 And then when you want to go on the boat, my friends would be like, hit up that guy with the boat. And I'd be like, hey, you're here. I haven't talked in so long. Yeah. It is always funny because they always are so willing,
Starting point is 00:55:00 like, yeah, okay, I'm gonna bring my guys. I was just like, and you got them. Yeah. Just like that, back again. And I'm back again and again. I say, stay outside, have a blast.
Starting point is 00:55:10 Don't let that man stress you out. And you know call ID, but you know who calling, okay. I love it so much. Thank you so much, Callie, for being here. You're amazing. I'm so happy to see all of your success. I can't wait to see it unfold. Yeah. Even more. Thank you. Thank you. Congrats on everything. So where can everybody find you? I'm on all social media as Callie. That's K-L-I-I. Callie with a K and don't forget the three-ey-s. Period. And what do you have anything you want to promote? Anything you want people to stream? Oh yeah. Tune in for my single that's going to come out is called K-toven. And it's about to be a K-K.
Starting point is 00:55:43 takeover, Cali Summer. I love it. I'm taking over TikTok. I'm taking over the streets. And I'm outside. Love it. Thank you so much for coming. I adore you.
Starting point is 00:55:53 You're the cutest. And thank you all for watching. Make sure you all go follow Callie on literally everything. Make sure you tune in for her new single. And make sure you all stream hers hit single area codes. Of course, on Spotify even. And speaking of Spotify, new episodes of the comment section drop every Wednesday. And they are streamed exclusively on Spotify so you can
Starting point is 00:56:13 stream Cali, then you can stream the comment section, and then it's going to be the best summer for the girls. For the girls. For the baddies all summer long. Thank you all so much for tuning in, and I'll see you next week. Bye.

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