The Comment Section with Drew Afualo - I CAN'T HELP THAT I'M TALENTED! | Drew Afualo ft. Isaiah Xavier | THE COMMENT SECTION EP 19

Episode Date: June 22, 2022

[video available on Spotify] Drew welcomes Isaiah Xavier this week as they talk about and analyze how men are perceived online versus how women are perceived.  Drew: https://linktr.ee/drewafualo Isaiah: https://www.tiktok.com/@isaiahxavier10 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

I'm just thinking in general with men when it comes to, like, being emotional and everything like that. Oh, yeah. Their idea of emotional is just, like, crying and being like, oh, my God, I'm so sad, X, Y, and Z. But, like, men are very emotional people. Like, you're punching a hole in the wall over Scrabble. This game of Mario Kart because... Over Scattercategories? Over sorry?

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I'm so excited. Sorry to the sound present. I'm so excited. I am so fired up to have you here. No, when I tell you, like this morning, I really felt like I was getting ready for like a first day. So nervous. Like when I tell you, I was like making sure I smell. good got the pearls together you know what I mean yeah I got a haircut for you I hope you understand that like I didn't make sure it was clean I'm absolutely I'm I literally woke up at 3 a.m. to get this beat so that's all for you oh no you ate that's all for you came in I was our first date together please it's gonna be cute I mean I'm looking forward to it I was telling Isaiah earlier that you you were literally one of the first people I followed on TikTok

that's crazy you you broke up the algorithm for me because it was all little white girls at the beginning yeah and I'm I felt geriatric compared to that happens. Yeah. Yeah. So I saw you and I loved your, you're so funny. I adore you. You're so funny.

Thank you. I make it a point to tell all my guests. I jerk every single one of them off. Please. But it's because it's necessary. Right. It's my duty and I wear that badge proudly. Right.

I will bring everybody on here and jerk it off constantly. In reciprocity. It's only right that I jerk you off back. Because I felt the exact same way. You know what I mean? Yeah. And even, again, like I said, like even just like coming on here, I was like, me? You know what I mean?

I'm saying? Because I feel like there's like rarely anybody that I fan girl over. You know what I mean? But I had a moment. I had to pull it back in because it's me. But for a second, I had it like slip. I was like, you know what I'm saying? But honestly like watching your content, because you not like 2 a.m.

Feed up in the air. You know what I mean? Just like going through your page. You know what I'm saying? I had a viewing party for your videos at the time. I'm not going to lie to you. So I was just like, I'm going to be here. You know what I'm saying?

I'm feeling is mutual. I'm so excited to have you. Like literally you're so. funny and you're such a good dancer. Girl, we got to talk about the dancing. I'm a little coordinated. Something's right. Nothing too crazy.

Just a little, but we're humble. We are very humble. One thing about me, I'm going to bring myself down a couple of meetings. Yeah, one thing about me is I'm talented, intelligent, good looking, arguably the best looking, you and I. Arguably, yeah. And humble. And humble, down to earth.

And that's enough for me. And that's enough. Because at the end of the day, like, I am sorry. someone who does not like to, you know, put myself above anybody else. There you go. I'm a regular person like the rest of y'all. You know what I mean? So I would never want to try to put myself on that kind of school.

I just want to be treated like everybody else. I want to be treated. I'm not different. You know what I mean? I'm just a small town girl from Boise, Idaho. And I want to be treated like such. Are you from Idaho? I didn't know that.

No, no. No. Sorry. If you're from Idaho, I love y'all. I believe you for a second. But, no, I'm from all over the place. My mom was in the Air Force. So we had that, like,

moving. Yeah, we island hopped a lot. Yeah. Yeah. I would say the most interesting spot was Japan though. I love like plugging that in. Cool. Because everyone was like, you live in Japan.

Don't know Japanese. So culture. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. One overseas. He's got a couple, two, three stamps on my passport. Yeah.

So when people ask me where I'm from, it's never a straightforward. Yeah. So and so and so and so. Yeah. Absolutely. I mean, I'm boring. I'm from California. So nothing special about me in that sense.

Boring? Let's not do that. My version of boring and humble. And humble. And humble. And down to earth. And good looking. And attractive.

Like top 10. Top five. Top three. But that's honestly a great transition into our topic for today. Because today we're going to be talking about thirst traps, right? Men and women and everyone in between, everyone's familiar with a thirst trap. When I bring up a thirst trap, what's the first thing that comes to mind for you? I'm thinking gray sweats.

Mm-hmm. Topless. No shirt. Titties out. And I want the tities to be. listening. A little sign outside by the pool maybe on the beach. That's my immediate thought.

That's what I think too. Every time I think Thursday, I think men immediately. I don't know why. Maybe it's because I'm always thinking about ways to tear them down. Specifically, specifically the stop looking at my dick sweatpants. Yeah. That is the immediate thought. The gray ones.

The gray ones. That's my immediate thought every single time. One time I was like ripping a dude a new one. What else was new? And he was wearing gray sweatpants. And I was like, no print and no calves. Now that's tragic, babe. That's hit and blow the belt.

No pun intended. That, you're crossing the line. Listen, listen. If you dish it, you got to be able to take it. That's called, I think, valid criticism. You know what is hilarious to me? I always find it interesting whenever you, like, tear into these men. And then they double back and they're like, oh, my God, why would you do that?

You're a bully. You're all of these things. Yeah. Love Bug, what were you doing? In this Stitz video, what were you saying for her to tell you a new one? You know what I'm saying? He's like, that was dark humor, but what you did was just mean. All of a sudden, oh my God, you're this evil person.

Like, how could you? All of a sudden. All of a sudden. They're sitting on the highest moral horse all of a sudden. Fold in like a lawn chair. And you can't take? I always say, I always say, at least I'm honest. I said I was going to be mean.

You pretending like you care or you give a shit about others or that you're funny, you're a stand-up comic all of a sudden. No, you stand-by-by-you-by-old. say and that's what I appreciate about you. And I said, I just, I don't, I just hate you. So I feel like, that's, that's fair to say, at least I'm honest. Right. I mean, I'm not about to hear Kiki in your face and, yeah, exactly. It's fine. No, you're a terrible person. It's really not. And your headlines are seating. And you got to pick one. Just state it. One struggle only. A struggle. Pick one. Please commit. Well, and that's why like, sometimes speaking, going back on thirst traps,

sometimes I'll get tagged in thirst traps. But I had to make a video telling people, don't tag me in these because they're not offensive. They're just cringe, but like, they're not offensive. It depends on the thirst drive because some of these men. I'm not going to lie to you. I don't know. I think, what if when you went to the pearly gates, God pulled this up on his phone and showed this to you?

What would you say? At the end of the day, I am a man with hormones. And I feel like everybody has those moments where they slip a little bit. You know what I'm saying? I've never. Horny on Maine. Horny on, you know what I'm saying? I mean, I have a second account for that.

But I will never admit to doing anything with these men, but just like a casual little scroll through, you know what I'm saying? And then I move on with my day. There you go. So it's like nothing that you can incriminate me for. It is not that he knows. It's a safe space, I would say. No, this is a very safe space.

And I think, too, when it comes to thirst traps for women, a lot of times it's received a lot differently than thirst traps for men, obviously, because we, you know, Women are judged for literally everything. So men are always like fatherless behavior. They'll say stupid shit like that. And they're the ones wearing these like three inch in seam shorts with a shirt. Like, oh, okay. Right.

Right. Right. But then when you have creators like, it's Nita baby, Finita. You have her reacting to them the same way that men react to women's thirst traps. And all of a sudden they're like, this is too far. I'm uncomfortable. Yeah, I'm uncomfortable. Just think about it.

You did this five minutes ago. So another going on your 40 page. He's like, but it's only okay when I do it. It's like the double, like the double standards is disgusting. Right. Insufferable. No, truly. Like I said, like we were talking about earlier, like just doubling back.

Yeah. And not like the lack of self-awareness is what kills me every single time. Truly. And I have, I have those moments where I like, I don't even want to engage. I don't even want to put two brain cells together to even say anything to you about it. But every single time, like you said, and Anita's comments. It's always like, oh my God, like this is weird. Why are you doing that?

Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Okay. Yeah. Yeah. We're on the same page. Got it.

And that's why I always say too when they're, when they say, sometimes they'll say things like, oh, women do this and then get mad when you like get objectified or harassed outside, like by men out in the real world. They're like, what do you expect when you post things like this? And I was like, have you ever heard of consent, babe? No. No, probably not. Not in a vocabulary.

That's why it's like posting your own thirst traps or whatever is there's consent involved. You've consented to posting this because you know what you're doing and you know what's going to be involved. And then you're not surprised when you receive stuff. So that's when they're like, how do you expect? Like, have you ever seen videos of men? I see them all the time, unfortunately for me. When they stitch. Full time job.

They'll stitch, yeah, they'll stitch videos of girls like talking about something completely random. Like they could be talking about a hard boiled egg. And they'll literally be like, your titties are out and that upsets me. How do you expect me to listen to the words coming out of your face when your tits are right there? Like they're there and you wanted me to say something about it. I'm talking about eggs.

I'm talking about eggs. What are you're talking about? Exactly. That's how I'm like, see, that's not the same thing as posting a thirst trap. Because a thirst drive is like you know what you're doing, right? You know what's involved. But like when you're just existing and then they're like, those are some nice tits.

I'm trying to figure out, do you not possess the like, ability to like restrain yourself. Do you not know how to like keep words? No semblance of self-control. Not an ounce. I'm like sometimes I'll have a passing thought. You know what I do?

I don't say it. You have to put in work to get on the keyboard. Finish a complete thought and then hit send. And then wait for a response. Wait for a response. To respond again. And then we'll keep going through the series of dialogue

when you could have just shut up. From the beginning, isn't that crazy? It's kind of similar to, like, obviously, like, the way I film my TikToks. Like, this is me in a full beat, like full beat hair, makeup, everything. Right? When I post TikToks, I rolled right out of bed. Half the time I'm sitting on my toilet doing my thing. We love the toilet.

I call my toilet, like, my office, because some people are like, girl, are you on the toilet? Still to this day. Girl, are you on the toilet? And I say, no, I'm in my office. So now, like, when I go on vacation and stuff, I'll film in the bathroom again because it's my brand. and people like my fans are like in on it now so they'll be like Bessie loving the new office

and I called thanks babe thanks bitch I love what you did with the space really the wall decor immaculate it's looking great vacation office it's killing I know it's a beach house I know what to beech house I know what to be so when I post pictures of like when I do glam and I post my pictures obviously those are a form of a thirst trap for real obviously I know I look good oh yeah right period so I post them and men get even more mad and I'm all you got mad because you're you're pee-p-wiggled a little. And you hate me. And now you're like, fuck.

It ruffles their feathers. Ruffles their feathers. It really does. They don't know what to do. They're like malfunctioning. They're like, I must insert insults. Like they don't know how to control themselves.

No, they don't. They short circuit immediately because I'm like, see, because you thought you hated me, but now it turns out you're attracted to me. I'm going to go ahead. That's on you, babe. I'm going to go ahead and insert myself really quickly. Like anytime I see you come over my feed,

like I drool a little bit, just a little bit. Like a tad. And I'm here for it every. Same to you. Let me tell you something about Isaiah. Isaiah knows how to post a thirst trap, babe. I'll tell you that much. Every now and again.

Every now and then. You know what I'm saying? Every now and then. I have to remind y'all. I have to put y'all bitches back in your place. I'm with the jokes, but I'm also fine as hell. Like I have to make sure y'all do that. I feel like sometimes the comedy is like a mask.

Same. And they forget. They're like, yeah, I look like this at the end of the day. Exactly. That's like my exact point. That's why I always, it makes me laugh so hard when they like get so mad when I post like pictures of me looking good because then what they do then is they're like oh like you got work done like this is face tune this is edited yeah exactly and I was like no

no no but do y'all watch her videos I know you do because you comment on every single one she looks like this 258 like there is no if answer butts about it and you're seeing me in real life yeah and I'd be looking like walked in almost passed out almost fainted I wish I was joking I was like no really like if I wasn't so dark I'd be blushing right now Stop. You'd see it. Cheeks, rosy, red. Yeah.

Oh my gosh. Getting me all hot and bothered. Anyways, feelings mutual, babe. Honestly, Isaiah is so hot. You all already knew that, though. He'd be reminded you. He keeps to that foot on that neck. That's for damn sure.

Oh, yeah. Y'all don't get a break. So for those of you who don't know here on the comment section, what we like to do is bring videos that I was tagged in. We bring them here and we rip them apart, make jokes. Remind everybody how hot we are always. Oh, yeah. How hot we are, how humble we are. How humble down.

The earth. So down to earth. Don't forget that one. I'm so laid back. I'm so low-key. I love being a regular commenter. There's nothing that I want to remind you all more than me being a regular Joe. I'm just like, your average Joe, that's me.

Your average Joe, okay? I put my pants on one leg at a time just like y'all. So this first video that we have, I always like to give a little summaries of the videos. So it's basically a woman replying to a comment that says, listen to you whining about societal expectations because heaven forbid society expects anything from women at all. So she basically is talking about how society expects us to age gracefully, like not let ourselves go, work like we have no children, parent like we have no job.

And everything is essentially a contradiction and entirely different from what they expect of men. Because especially when it comes to looks, like the way that they view women's beauty versus men's and how it ages over time. And they always, it's just, there's no winning, I feel like they'll tell you, like you need to stay in shape, you need to do this, you need to do that. Then women will do things like get BVLs, get filler, get Botox, and they're like too much plastic in the face. No, you can never win.

Men are expected to do the bare minimum. You see a man cooking eggs in the kitchen? Oh my God, Daddy Material. I want him in my house now. But everything like you just said, like pregnancy. I will never fathom how people expect women to just bounce back after dropping a whole atomic bomb out of your vagina. Just pushing it straight out your cooter.

And then expecting you to look like a Barbie the next day. Like you have so much stuff that you have to go through. And then if you aren't back in shape, like I think the problem is a lot of people expect that like this one person, this one celebrity did it. It's because you're upholding them to these like unrealistic expectations. Yeah. Well, and also that celebrity has access. They have finances.

They have tools and all these resources that other people don't have. So they can afford to hire a personal trainer, a private chef, a nanny, like all of these things that help them get in shape faster. And if you think about it, too, it all leads back to the same point because they have to do that, especially women, because they have to stay in shape because they have to stay aesthetically pleasing for the eye. So it's all the same, but either way, like famous people do it. So why not you? Yeah. Like Love Buck, I'm a nurse. I have 12 hours shifts and then I have three kids to the house.

I do not have time to be talking to Dr. Miami and going to the gym eight times a day. Like that's not, I'm sorry, it's not on my schedule. I can't. Like, it's really absurd what people expect women to do day in and day out. Also being unfazed by all the comments. Literally. That's another thing too.

Like, y'all are expected to have like the, you know, toughest backbone made of vibranium. Not give a heck, but still taking all this critique and criticism and opinions. And you have to handle it. With grace. With grace. With grace. With grace and poised. Yeah.

You're so mad. You're so aggressive. So I'm still with the problem. With grace and with poise. And you take the high road. I don't take that. Hyra doesn't exist. I'm sorry.

She's been shut down for years in my world. No. You will not see my cheeks. That's what I said. If you go low, I'm going to hell. I'm going down to Earth. Even deeper. I'm going to the core, the center of the earth.

That's where I'm going. Magma. I literally, I'm like sub-zero. I'm going down there. I'll meet you in the trenches. The Mariana's trench. I'll meet you down there, babe. That's why it's like, if you can't, if you can't take it, then don't dish it out.

Yeah, you know what I'm saying? You, you, you, you, you folding like a lawn chair. The moment I come for your uneven-ass hair line. Sticking, but you said everything else on the sign. I just said one thing. And suddenly that's all me. And suddenly I'm the problem. Yeah.

Oh, okay. Like, um, right. Right. Right. Right. They, uh, it also says on here too that they call the stay at home mom unfulfilled and a working mom selfish, but childless women. are incomplete, right?

So chase your career, but never at the expense of your family. Think like a man if you want to be successful, but don't act like one if you want to be liked, and so on and so forth. There's literally just hundreds of contradictions that go back and forth. And it all applies, it applies to everything, thirst traps and real life, like working, being a parent, right? Dating, like literally everything.

You have to be everything and nothing all at once. There was this one video I saw like a year ago. Yeah. And it was this, like, debate between feminists and men's rights activists. And they were, first of all, what even is that? Let's start there. What even is that? But they were debating about, like, a bunch of different topics.

And a lot of the statements that a lot of the men's rights activists were making were things like, oh, you know, like, we are just so overlooked and neglected. Like, when it comes to, you know, custody battles, the women always wins and X, 1Z. Why is that? Let's talk about that. As if you've never thought about the patriarchy for longer than three seconds before. we have this expectation that women are supposed to be more nurturing and take care of kids and also maintain a six-figure job. Yeah.

And you have no responsibility to the kids whatsoever. You're wondering why you don't get to win the custody belt. And also too, a lot of times statistically, they don't ask for custody. They don't. They don't fight for it. Women always are like, I'll take the kids in the minute. Like, wait, I was going to, uh, give me to it. You got me?

I really wanted to. I was just about to. You took it. That's crazy. At a restaurant when you don't want to pay. And the other person is like, really? It's right here.

I promise. Are you sure? Oh my God. I'm sorry. Are you kidding? Okay, next time. Next time. Next time.

Next time. There's no next time. There's no next time. We're not hanging out again. Speaking of, that's like, oh, women just expect to be paid for and blah, blah. I was like, first of all,

that's patriarchy, right? Because they tell women they shouldn't work or earn their own money. So that's on you. You're complaining about your own problems. Right. So I always say to you, I've said this in like really, really old

videos that I never feel bad for getting things like free drinks or letting men pay for things. If they're like, oh, it's on me. I'm like, are you sure? Oh, my God. Okay. Great. Thanks. Sounds good.

Yeah. Because that's like, that's not the pay. It's make sure that the patriarchy doesn't work against you. It works for you. Oh, yeah. You got to play the game. That's playing the game. Exactly.

This is chess. This is chess, my checkers. All right. I'm going to get this drink. And you, you offered? Okay. Thank you so much. And then go about my merry way.

I never asked for it. I never asked for it. I know. Same. Well, and I just think, too, it's one of those things that's like, that's on you. Like, tell your homies, bro. Like, look to your left and right at. Tell your peers that they shouldn't be doing that. Like, your homeboy did the exact same thing last week. You know what I mean? And it's this sense of entitlement. It's like, I do something for you. Therefore, I need to be offered something in return. Yeah. I need to get something. It's like contractual. Exactly.

I never said that I was going to do anything in return for this drink. We never had a discussion. We didn't have a team meeting. We didn't regroup about. anything. And I also always say too, when they offered for drinks, for example, I always say, like, what did you think he was buying me that drink for? Do you think it's because he looked in me and he goes, she looks smart. I'm going to go ask her what her favorite book is. Babe, that's not why he came up to me. No. No. And that's why I said, I look at it like Vegas, right? When you go to Vegas and you gamble, you know you're not going to win. But let's spend some money and have some fun. Let's try it. Let's have fun. Who knows?

Maybe you won't, but who knows? Heavy on you won't. Making sure you remember that you won't. Yeah, let's see. Like you gamble knowing you're not going to win you just be spending your money. That's the same thing. Right.

That's how I see it. You are for the good times. You are actively spending your money, throwing it away. Yeah. In hopes that something happened like a one million chance. Consensually. There you go. They don't know that word either.

But in hopes that something's going to happen, but it doesn't. So you're mad at yourself. Again, these are your own problems. These are things that you set in place. I'm just a bystander. I'm just here taking this. drink. I'm sorry. And I feel like another thing too, I feel like that also does lean into a little bit of the Alphabet Mafia too, just because happy pride is. I was literally going to ask

too. Yeah, yeah, yeah, no. I was going to ask like if it's the same dynamic, if it's a little different. It's kind of like 50, 50 or it's a toss up just depends on the person. It's not as grimy, I would say. Yeah, I'm sure. But there's still this expectation that like, we're going back to the bathroom. I'm sorry in a public restroom. I want better for you. Did you say I'm humble, but not that humble? Right. I'm not on the grounds. I promise you. Okay. I'm like seat level at least. Give me a bench. A little bit different. No, there's definitely, again, that same expectation. Because we're still dealing with men at the end of the day, at least on my part. And I'm very disappointed in myself. I really want it better for me. But it's still this expectation of, okay, I got you something. Therefore, you know, you know what's up. I don't. I'm oblivious. I don't know what's going on.

You said, who's up? I am just enjoying this, you know, vodka cram and having a great conversation. That's so funny. That was my drink, too. That's my drink always. When I was in college, Bauducra Kran was like, initially my drink was, have you ever had an AMF? No. It's an audios smother ever.

I think it's maybe a West Coast thing. That's what it's called. I think there's another word for it, I want to say. But it's basic, it's gasoline. It's truly like a four loco with like blue carousel in it. It's like all the liquors in one. Asking to get,

like jungle juice. Yeah, yes. Yes, it's literally like a fancy jungle juice, essentially. Jungle juice is taste better in my opinion. And that was your. That was my first drink when I was like drinking and I didn't know drinks. You don't know what I'm saying? I didn't know enough of them.

You just took whatever. Like, oh my God, yes. Alcohol. That sounds good. Right. No, literally. No, I had no standards when I first started drinking. I'm not going to lie to you.

I just like anything. Like, this is a drink? This is a drink. I'm going to get tipsy off of this. Okay, cool. Me too. Had no standards. Same.

But we're better now. Oh my gosh. Yeah. Thank God. What's your sign? I'm a Gemini Sun, Scorpio Rising Gemini Moon. Oh, two Gemini's and a Scorpio. Well, like, there's like six Geminiers in my chart.

I'm not going to lie to you. Ooh, ooh, you're a Gemini through and through. Through and through. Top to bottom, head to toe. Yeah, what about you? I'm at Virgo. Virgo, cancer, moon, Sagittarius Rising. Okay.

Interesting. Are you an emotional person? Like a really emotional person? Yeah. Because, yeah, that cancer, I'm sorry. They're like, always sticks out to me. You know what I mean? I'm something about it.

I'm like, interesting. Yeah, and that's my moon's obviously like my emotion. So, yeah, I feel very deeply. That's why I, like, do this shit I do because I feel so deeply for others. But there's an asterisk next to it because I only care about people that like I care about. I only care what they think if I care about them.

Otherwise, you're dead to me. Anybody else is extra. No, truly. I'm sorry. Tree number three, what did you say? Oh, okay. Everything else is white noise to me, honestly. Yeah, it goes right over.

In one ear and out the other. I love Gemini's. And that's a... I get along really well with Gemini's. Yeah, I feel like that's why we like having a great time right now. We're enjoying each of company. We vibe. And I have like a lot of friends who are really into zoology.

I'm not that big into zoology. like that. I'm not going to lie to you. But I do know what I'm about. I do know my sign. I'm one of those people who just knows their own. That's good. And then I know who I get along with. You know what I'm saying? So I get along with cancer surprisingly because I have a lot of cancers in my life. Cancers are great. Cancer men? Yeah. Sorry, I had to clarify. I mean, men in general are very interesting to navigate. But yeah, cancer men, which is so funny because my roommates are cancer. But anyway. That's funny though, because I'm a burglar.

woman, obviously, but I, Virgo men crawled out straight from hell. They came that Penny wise, that was a Virgo man. I'm convinced. Oh, yeah. Oh, no, they were made in his image. Oh, yeah, most definitely. And it's funny because I feel like y'all have definitely, isn't Beyonce a Virgo? Yes, she is.

I'm about to say, like, I'll, y'all neck and neck, you know what I'm saying? So, I mean, you definitely radiate Beyonce energy, you know what I mean? You give me, you give me that destiny's child type of energy, you know what I'm saying? I'm like, it's, it's a lot of, like, I don't know, there's a lot of overlap with Virgo men. Mm-hmm. But they're terrible. They're absolutely terrible. Being, like, absolute garbo garbage.

Having, having a Virgo personality as a woman is different than having a Virgo personality as a man. Absolutely. And I will never, I will never rock with it. Yeah, I literally, I literally once said that Virgo men, I've, I've said multiple times are garbage. But I've said to, like, Virgo men are like, the dude at the, at, like, a children's birthday party. like a full ground man who like is is in line to hit the pinata and then like ruins it for everybody

takes it too seriously beats the shit out of it and like rips it off the rope and then everyone's like he's like eight-year-old who like yeah i wanted my turn and he's like i got the candy out i got it out for you guys this is not what you want it girl this is not about you that that man's a burgo every time i love that description i love that analogy like that i got so much fulfillment from that you know what i mean that was the perfect analogy i'm telling you and a burgo man are like overly competitive every time too. Really? Oh yeah, like about from like an actual sport to like playing Scrabble.

Like they'll get so mad they break the board. You know what I mean? Or they leave. They're like, I just like don't, I don't want to deal with the negativity. I can't do it anymore. You know what kills me about that? I'm just thinking in general with men when it comes to like being emotional and everything like that.

Oh yeah. Their idea of emotional is just like crying and being like, oh my God, I'm so sad X, Y, and Z. But like men are very emotional people. Like you're punching a hole in the wall over Scrabble. this game of Mario Kart Over scatigories? Over sorry? Please.

You didn't get, you got 11th place in Mario Kart and you're punching a hole in there. Let's unpack that, but you're not emotional. Right. That's so funny. Right. My brother has a really chaotic big three. Like my brother's a cancer son.

Gemini Moon. Aries rising. Chaotic. That cancer saves him from being truly hell on our own. Okay. No, that was like the saving grace. Yeah, truly. But we played Mario Kart.

once and he was losing and he had to go sit in his room for a while. Take a break. Take a beat. Take a beat. We all need a little bit of time. No, yeah. Let's be a group.

You know what I'm saying? Collect ourselves. You know what I'm saying? The tension was really high. Yeah. And honestly, you know that tortilla challenge that's been going around? So like my boyfriend was watching me watch one

and he's like, we could never do that. And I go, I agree with you. And he goes, because one of us would get mad at the other. And I go, we'll see, it's not an Olympic sport because he takes that shit way too serious. And I was also, so you would hurt me with a tortilla and then I would get mad at you. I see it so

clearly in my head. If I did that with my boyfriend, he would take it way too serious and hurt me with a tortilla. Getting slapped in the face with the tortilla alone. It's already like, okay, you know what I mean? I look you would have a problem with that. I was like, if you don't like take it too seriously, I think we could do it

and have a good time. Because it's not a gentle caress of a tortilla. No, it really isn't. It's a really big rough tortilla. You try me cute and like ease your way into it. Like, oh my God. But by that second or third slap, it was personal. And I will never, I might have to walk into a separate room and collect myself because I will, I will take that personally. I promise you go in my brother's room with him?

I'm like, listen, let's just talk. You know what I mean? I, yeah, it's funny. I literally did that with my friend Shalin yesterday. Oh my God. I love Shalind. And we, it was a mess because you could see we were getting riled up because you know, you have the water in your mouth, right?

You know what I mean? I'm like, okay. Okay, you know what I'm just saying? Giving a two-piece combo. You know what I'm saying? Like, it got serious. Because like I said, I was trying to be cute. I was trying to ease my way into it.

Trying to be cute and playful. Try to be, oh my God. You know what I'm saying? Like a little like, you know, gentle. But she ended up like literally going to be like a bitch slap. I'm not going to lie to you. And I said, oh, I caught your tea. Yeah.

I caught her tea. And when I tell you, I gave her a roundhouse. She took something out on you. You know what I'm saying? I did like a Superman jump off the bed. Like I was serious about it. You look superplexer. That's very mysterious at her ass.

I'm not going to lie to you. So yeah, so yeah, y'all probably don't need to do it. I love, I love her. She's the best shout out to Shalyn. If you're back home watching, hey. Okay, so we'll get back to this video. We'll go into some of these comments. So this first one says,

meanwhile they want gold stars for not hitting us, being nice, and bringing back a paycheck, nothing else. Which is so funny because I just made a video the other day talking about, I've talked about this like before a few times, but sometimes women will tag me in videos and they'll be like, this is one of the good ones you should do at this one. Why don't you stitch men like this, blah, blah, blah. And I'm always like, first of all, that's not what they come here to see, babe.

Right. This is not a comedy, it's a comedy show, but it's more so an execution. Oh, yeah. That's what I'd be doing. We're off of blood. Public execution. Yeah. So I'm like, that's not what I build my platform on, so I'm not doing that.

Second off, I'll watch the videos. And it's like, hey, girls, stretch marks, they're okay. They're okay with me. They're okay with me. Love yourself, babe. Thank you for the seal of approval. That's the bar? That's what we're starting?

Yeah, they're like, this one, he's a good one. He's a good one. The bare minimum. Bare minimum. Allowing me to exist in my body? Oh my God. You're doing the Lord's work. Wife me immediately.

Immediately. And it's so sad because, again, it's like rare to find anybody who like goes above and beyond. You know what I'm saying? Well, and that's just how low the bar is like, I would say like it's in hell. The bar's in hell. So like any just like little sliver of human decency. Hope.

they're like maybe maybe you know what I think it's getting serious we have limited options okay no and that's not your fault it's not but wake up babe please that's why I'm here to I'm here to break you out that spell we want better for ourselves truly okay I think I was in the sunken place at 1.2 you know what I mean he texted back within three hours and I was like we're getting married next week this is the one it's like no love buck okay he looked saw your message walked away went to work, took a nap, came back, and then texted you back, oh my bad, I was in the bathroom. Like, come on.

So, yeah, we want better for ourselves. And you know what? Like, I've been there to an extent, but I think I've just always had a real itch that could never be scratched when it came to men. Like, I was just like, every time. I always had one foot out the door. But I did have my moments where I was like down bad. You know what I mean? As we all do, that's the patriarchy's fault.

And it's really, honestly, men, we have really have it made. You know what I mean? Like, we knew what we were doing. We knew what we were doing. I feel like someone at some point sat down was like, what can I do to make sure that women will always want me, even doing nothing? And that's why we have the patriarchy. You know what I mean?

No, truly. And that's why I'm like, the bar is just so low. Like, I always think like they want to be, I was, I said in my video, like, you want me to congratulate a fish for swimming? so he's nice to you so I should give him a gold star for that like I love that but that's what we should be starting we run that in kindergarten it's kind of like

well yeah like they'll say things like you shouldn't hit women yeah so that was even on the table before that's what we were talking about before okay check right got it great you nailed it honestly

pass with flying colors you know what I mean here's a gold star that's why I'm like come on y'all like hold yourself higher I promise you you deserve so much better than than that. So much more. As we both do,

because we're, again, humble. Humble. Humble. Down to earth. And I, as a talented individual, like, I don't like to put it into people's faces.

I agree. I couldn't agree more. But I still want better than my own. Listen, it's not, it's not their fault that I'm inherently more, I guess, talented is the word.

I guess. I guess. You know what I mean? It's kind of something that you're born with. Like, if you have, I mean, we all, we all have our strengths.

We have, yeah. Mine, I just, mine are just in like, spades. Yeah. But yours, you have to work for it. And that's okay. And that's okay.

Everyone starts somewhere. I kind of started out right here, but you know, you can work towards things. You know what? We're not all as lucky as you and I. Right. And I understand that I can step outside of myself and acknowledge that other people aren't as amazing as I am. You know what I'm saying?

And that's where the Humble comes in. And that's how you stay grounded and rooted. To stay on the grounds. You know what I mean? Exactly. But enough of that. So this next one says, my mom used to say you have to do everything a man can do, but backwards in high heels and it's exhausting,

which is very true, very fair. It's just like lots of hoops to jump through. And it's still not seen as even equivalent to what men do. Like you do it backwards? Okay, well, you should have been doing it on a unicycle. Just constantly moving the goalposts. Do you even know how to ride a bike? I doubt it, to be honest.

So for this next video, let's see, we have a breakdown of this video. Essentially, it's a father and son, and they're talking about how fake women are like nowadays. Modern women. Let's go back to the 50s, right. Okay. Where life was better.

Where life was better. For all of us for black people, for people of color, for gay people. It was so much better. I could not imagine a better time, actually. We had to drink from separate water fountains. Take me there. That's where I need to be. Boy in the long time.

A more accepting time. Things were more traditional. Yeah, right? Let's bring back tradition. So in this video, I think I remember this video, I think I might have stitched this one actually, but they basically say that all of this leads up to fake personalities and nothing is real about who they are. And it's just pathetic to them that women are so fake. So like plastic, I guess is the word.

Right. When I talk about men who say things like this, say bullshit like this, and they're talking about whether it's makeup, plastic surgery, hair, whatever it may be. I always think to myself, like, you give yourselves way too much credit because if I took this red lip off, you would think I looked like this naturally. Oh, yeah. Even with the red lip,

you might be like, do you look, you look a little different to that? I wouldn't have a clue. I can't put my finger on it. There's something. You look a little... You look a little... Did you use a different moisture or something? I don't know. I can't tell. Did you brush your hair? No, it's literally... I'm sorry. I spent two hours, beat in this face.

And you wouldn't even know the difference. And it's so, like, far removed. Like, it's, I genuinely think, even, like, when it comes to plastic surgery, I'm like, you haven't seen enough tiddies to know fake ones from real ones. I'll tell you that much. I can tell you that confidently, babe. No, it's B-Hub. Right?

That's right. You haven't seen enough to know for sure. Especially not a person. And in real life, you see even, you're telling, and let's say in this, I'll raise you even a step further. Let's say you got so lucky. Like these two dudes got so lucky as to go home with a girl with fake boobs. And she took off her shirt.

And then you look at them and be like, those are fake. I'm out of here. Like, I'm leaving. I don't do fake things. Sicko. What are you talking about? At the end of the day, you got tities in your face and you worried about whether or not they're real or not?

You aren't even lucky to be in close proximity to them. That's what I'm saying. That's what I'm like, you're telling me you're going to be like, hold on. Are those real? Like, pause. Stop the record. Hold on. Those.

Are those plastic? Let's talk about it. Again, you are lucky to be here. I value honesty, so let's talk about it. Let's really unpack that for a second. Yeah, let's impact that. Do you love yourself? Why would you want these?

Because this is pathetic. That's what they're thinking. And the moment there's even a little bit of droop, a little bit of sag. Yeah. Not for me. That's disgusting. Go to the gym. I don't know what you need to do at the gym, but do something at the gym.

They're like, go to the gym. What's going to change? Right. I don't know what you need to do. They do say shit like that. Oh yeah. They have no clue. No clue.

Just word vomiting. Saying anything that comes to the brain. They're like, uh, titties, do better. I don't know something. And go to the gym. Can't put two thoughts together. And honestly, eat less. Eat less.

I want you to look glammed up, like, have no makeup on. Yeah. I want your hair to be done at any given moment. When you wake up, just in case. I need the aerial flow. I need the wind blowing. I need windows to be open all the time. No makeup makeup.

No makeup makeup? Mm-hmm. They don't even know what that is. They, I say that all the time. You ask a man like that to look up a picture of like a no makeup makeup look. Like, what's your idea of natural makeup? They'll show you a picture of Kim Kardashian. Lashes on, eyebrows done.

Someone who like in her sleep sleeping beauty, like her eyes are closed and Mario's in there, like, painting. You know what I'm saying? Like, so she wakes up, opens her eyes to the world and she's already beat. It's like, what do you, how do you think people wake up in the morning? Like, you know, you know how you look like. You look how you look. I don't expect women to do that every minute of every single day. day, like maintain that and have no moment where they're like, I'm chilling with no makeup

on, genuine no makeup on like, these lashes are not mine. You say that all the time. And I don't think you understand that. Okay, you think I was naturally born with these? I literally tell people I'm like, I paid someone to glue these to my eyeball. You think you think that they're going to look natural? You think I'm paying to look natural? I always say like, no, no, no, no.

I want you to see me blink from space. If you were on the top of the Empire Stapelding, you could see my lashes from there. That's what I want. And you're going for that. Look, you're going for that. But men, they can look like Smeagle. You know what I'm saying? Shragly hair. Teeth not brushed. Oh my God. Gangly fingernails. And then expect to pull. They're like, but see, this is my type.

These are my standards. This is like a laundry list of things that I need you to meet. Don't have that same expectation for me. Yeah. No, no, no. But it only applies to you. That only applies to you. But if you don't meet one of these things, sorry, but you're terrible. Sorry, babe. Sorry, I don't know what to tell you.

You're a fucking bitch, and you will never find love. And I think, too, like, that's, it's the same thing. Like, even when you talk about, like, thirst traps, too, because women, women, when they consume male thirst traps, I mean, I'm sure you have women. You were telling me earlier that sometimes women will comment on yours. Yeah. And they'll say some head-ass shit, like, oh, it's giving hetero. It's giving hetero. And I'm like, think about it.

If you think I'm sexy, just say that. Yeah. You attracted it to me, and that's okay. And that's okay. And that's okay. Yeah. I mean, at the end of the day, like, I know for a fact that whatever thirst traps I put on, you know what I'm saying, whether I'm dancing or, you know what I'm saying, tithes is out. Yeah. Sun glistening on my chest. You know what I mean? Like, skin on 100. I know that I will never be held to the exact same standard as women. You know what I'm saying? Yeah. So it's like I'll deal with people thinking I'm like, you know, straight just because I haven't like, you know, did a Z snap in five seconds or something. But when it comes to, when it comes to like reading other people's comments and just like the sheer like attention to detail. with things that have nothing to do with the video at all.

It's like, why don't you apply yourself in other areas the way that you like to critique other people's stuff? You know what I'm saying? And sometimes I think when men consume thirst traps from women and they're like so angered by it for whatever reason, I think you get to watch her be hot. Quit ruining it for the rest of us. I want to watch it too.

Where are you complaining for it? She's going to stop, idiot. As a straight man, why are you insulting a woman who was being attractive in front of you. And why are you upset by that? Why are you so moved to anger that again, you're going out of your way, jumping over the river and through the woods

to say something to bring this woman down? And it's like it's going to do nothing but ruin it for the rest of us. The rest of us won't be able to consume it. That's why I said, just appreciate them being hot. It's okay. Double tap it. Go on with your life.

Go on with your day. Go on with your day and just thank God that he made someone that looks like her. What does that say about you? You're not having a job. You're not having a hobby. Having ample time to comment on multiple women's videos within the span of like five minutes.

Like, please touch some grass. Go for a while. Drink some juice. Internally online, babe. Go outside. Go see the sun. This is your side hustle. This is your job.

This is your hobby. You can't possibly do anything outside of scroll through social media and talk shit about women. You can't. I jet. Oh my God. I literally had a dude right on one of my, I think Instagram pictures. I can't even remember. but he wrote like you're literally like a six you're solid six no offense and then I I had

I saw what he looked like right and I said checks out right so then I put it's never going to not be funny when ugly men want to tell me that they think I'm ugly like that means anything to me like they're not attracted to me just so you know I would never day you cool feelings mutual I can tell you that confidently. Like, you do not have the certification. The credentials. You do not possess any credential to tell me about myself. When you wash your ass finally, call me.

Yeah, brush that tongue and then come back. And then we'll talk. We'll chat. You some mouth wash, come back. And it has that same energy of, of, I can say anything I want to you all day long, but I can never turn a mirror on myself. You know what I'm saying? And that is, that's forcing you.

to acknowledge that you're a shitty person. And you're not going to sit down and do that. You're not going to sit down and take the time to acknowledge, I've made these women feel this way. No, never. They're never going to do that. He was convinced that he was doing a service by trying to humble me. Offering unsolicited-ass opinions.

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You could have just kept the person. I'll tell you what. Nothing hurts men like that more than you being like, I don't care. Goodbye. Oh, yeah. They want the reaction out of you. Yeah. You don't care?

Well, I'm going to find something else. you have hair on your legs. Yep. And he's like, thoughts? Thoughts? No, really? Like, you got, you with me, guys? Guys?

He's rallying the troops. But trying to like, you, you, like, just go home. Please, pack it up. I know. It takes the wind out there, sales immediately. That's why sometimes people ask me, like, how do you not let it bother you or hurt you when men say all this terrible shit about you all the time? And I was like, because I'm convinced they've never looked in a mirror. and that's a sad life to live.

Can't possibly. You've never seen your reflection ever? Can't possibly. Because if you do, I wouldn't be... Listen, if we're going to seek counsel from the authority on good looks, I'm not going to ask you. They would go into a depression.

They would go into a depression. Understand if they took two seconds to really look at themselves. They would be miserable. That's what I'm saying. Hot people don't spend their free time telling other hot people how ugly they are. That's just not true, Ben.

And think about what you're doing versus what they're doing. You know what I mean? You're getting paid for this. You're feeding me to the algorithm. You understand that I'm growing. I'm elevating. They'll never.

With each comment that you give me. Same thing with yours. They'll never understand it. Like any sort of hate comment or like bigotry, they will never put that puzzle together. Oh no. Shocking. Thankfully for us,

they'll never do that. Oh yeah. Listen, I am well fed. Do you understand me? I am sleeping comfortably at night. While you're 2 a.m. worried about why I,

you know what I'm saying? Slurr my S's or something. Like, look, look where you're at and where I'm at, okay? I'm humble, I'm humble. I'm humble, though. But I'm going to let you know that I'm in a much better situation than you want. Okay? You're sleeping on a mattress on the ground, okay?

Priorities. And I'm living comfortably on the 15th floor. You know what I'm saying? And you know what? That's enough for me. And that's perfectly fine with me. And that's enough for me. For someone who's as humble as us, that's enough for me.

Yeah, I sleep great at night. I promise what I do. I sleep fantastic. Me too. Drueling and everything. What time I did a mattress sponsor, right? And I made the caption. Sometimes misogynist asked me how I sleep at night.

And they said, then that's easy on a casper mattress. Period. Period. Right. And y'all got me here. Y'all allowed me to be in the situation. So thank you. And so thank you.

My biggest fans. My biggest supporters. Right. That's what I'm saying. Our haters, like, haters is such a lame term. Yeah. It's true. But it's true.

It's true. Like, just people who senselessly write hate on your things. Yeah. They like don't understand that they're like, they're, like, they're perpetuating your career. Like, babe, you like me. They're keeping, you like me. You're back for more.

Are we about to kiss? Are we? Stop. No, really like, cut the cameras. Like, I'm like, fuck, you know what I mean? Wait, do you like me? Check yes or no. Check yes or no.

You know what I'm saying? Like, I don't want to see. Don't tell me, but like, tell me. Yeah, it's fan behavior. It's fan behavior at its finest. And no one will ever understand that. And I kind of think about that when it comes to cancel culture too. Yeah, same.

Just to jump outside of it for a second. When we cancel people, I've always been very strongly about this. Even if I don't mess with that person anymore or if I am not wanting to consume their media anymore, I'm just not going to interact with it. But you're going out of your way to spread all this hate and be like, you should die. Your family's X, Y, and Z, who do, too, boo. Yeah. You do as you're giving them more of a platform. Yeah, yeah. You keep, you keep them in the spotlight. You know what I'm saying? You're just feeding, you're feeding into giving them more attention than they can stay longer and they can have that longevity. You know what I mean?

Oh, yeah. I genuinely, I think that too about like, just, in general if you just don't like somebody. Like, and it's, you know what, it's fair. Like, if you just don't like someone for whatever reason, because clearly you don't know them as a person, you're just consuming their content parisocially. So just don't look at it. Like sometimes people are right,

I hate when this girl comes on my for you page. And then I'll write back, well, guess what? I'm definitely going to see you again because you commented. You commented. So I'll see you in a little bit, Ben. I will be back. I'll see you tomorrow. I promise you.

Three days from now, you're going to have the exact same thought. So some of the comments. on these on this video right this first one says so date men then listen if we took those two seconds to really unpack why we're so upset and a hostile about these things we might find that that's the answer and it's the same it's the same I think energy as like people who are any sort of homophobic on your stuff as well it's like why is that why is it getting you riled up love why does my thirst trap upset you so much I said nothing to you I think you were just standing at my absente the entire time.

And you got distracted, then you got upset by it. They were looking at your tities. I'm telling you, it's a spectrum. I feel like a lot more people would be somewhere on the spectrum if they were honest with themselves, like, took a step back. You know what I mean? Why are you getting so worked up, right? Tea, honestly.

I'm not getting mad. I'm not getting mad at a straight man for doing a thirst trap. You know what I mean? Yeah. I don't care. I don't care. I'm going on about my day. You know what I'm saying?

So when there's the opposite of that, when you're commenting on people just existing as themselves, why is that so threatening to you? Hot and bothered. Hot and bothered. You are warm. I know you are. You are moist. I told you.

Pee, 's wiggling. Wiggling. Wiggling all over the place. It's funny too because there was this guy that I used to go to school with. I'm not going to say his name. But he used to be on my case. Really?

Down my throat. Is this like high school? It was high school. Okay. And he used to be on my neck. Like always saying something about me, you know, being gay, X, Y, and Z. This was after I came out. Because I came out, because I was 15.

And I was like, I've never interacted with you outside of like a classroom, like, you know, space or whatever. Just like being in the same class. Just existing in the same area. Yeah. And he would just be on my, like, always like, you know, I remember this is around the time when I first started social media. And he was like one of the first people that I saw. Yeah.

And he would like comment and like say things about it, right? Later on down the line, I saw like a couple years ago, like this is when I was in college, that he came out. And I was like, huh. And we get to the ruin of the problem. I didn't know at the time. I didn't know at the time. I didn't know at the time.

I'm not going to lie to you. You just thought it was like, I'm noticing a trend. I'm noticing a common theme with people who are that worked up. Yeah. Or people that have nothing to do with them. There's just genuinely no way that you get that upset unless it stir some shit up inside you that you haven't confronted yet. There's no way. There's no way at all.

Like it doesn't affect you. It doesn't hurt you. It doesn't hinder your life in any way should perform. Therapy. Therapy. We are really, I'm a strong advocate for therapy. Same. It's five months.

I want that for you. You know what I'm saying? I feel like no better time to start your journey. Than now. Then now. Then now. Your time is now. And once we take a second to really, like maybe, okay, I have a little sugar in my tank.

You know what I mean? And once we get to that point, you're going to be happy. You're going to live great. I know at night. I know at night you're like fighting back, like imploding. I know you are. No, really. But once we like release some of that stress, some of that pressure, I feel like you'll be a

happier person. And that's like, see, that's the sad. The sad part is a lot of times creators like yourself with a platform as well. you have empathy for people like that. Because you're like, at the end of the day, you're like, that sucks, that you feel like you can't be yourself. And that's why you are so hateful towards me, someone who's accepted who I am and I'm living in my truth. So that's why you're so angry. But also, you're ugly.

So go somewhere else. But yeah. Like, do that somewhere else, not here. Yeah. So do it somewhere else. No, the empathy part is really sad because I do be feeling bad. I mean, I won't say that. I won't show that.

No, exactly. But it's like, oof. But you have it, which is why you're a good person. And that's why you have the platform you do. Yeah. And it's because you're a good person at the end of the day and you're not going to like rake someone over the coals for something that they're like struggling with.

Yeah. But at the same time, they're not entitled to your space either. Oh yeah. No, if you come to me at the side of your neck, I'm going to come at you at the crack of my ass. Like I'm trying to. And I live by that.

And I stand by that. I rarely ever have people who like go that hard in the pain and like try to say stuff to me. Because at the end of the day like I'm me. Like again, again, staying humble. Sorry. We keep saying it, but staying humble. Like I am, I am that guy, you know what I'm saying?

Like, I have a great personality. I'm attracted to all these things. You know what I'm saying? Amen. And I'm not a good person. Like, I'm not about to sit here and like, pretend like I'm not. You know what I'm saying? Yeah, exactly.

So I will say it's rare that I find those people that go that hard in the paint for me. Yeah. But when it happens and you think I'm this like fun, lighthearted, key, key, jokey, jokey, jokey, type, I will be on your neck if you come at me sideways. You know what I'm saying? And yeah, that's exactly right. It's the same exact thing. But for me, it's the opposite in the sense.

But that just. elusive it's the same person every time like they genuinely like me i will say to your face i'm gonna hurt your feelings like you're gonna regret ever making this video i can promise you that like you want to do this okay but you're gonna hate what comes like we all know how the story ends is what i say i tell them that verbatim and they still do it and they're still surprised so it doesn't surprise me that you're like really nice and they just kind of assume that you're not a mean person yeah you can't make fun of people you can't make them feel bad about themselves. Oh, yeah.

Like I said, they just assume. I was like, I, again, like with the concert that I make, like there's no need for that. You know what I mean? I just make dumb jokes all the time.

And then keep it pushing. You know what I'm saying? But, and I, my favorite thing, like I feel like it's, it never fails to follow this exact sequence. Yeah.

They make a video, you stitch it. Their accounts private it. Where'd you go? Do you know what I mean? And that's what I love about you? Because again, like,

you're very upfront and honest from the get go. Yeah. And they're like, no, like, she would never, or X, Y, and Z. And then you do. You deliver, and then some. But see, I would. And I tell people, like, when you write, hey, I'm all the, see, that's the difference

between you and me. Because my platform's built off this shit. Oh, yeah. Someone like Isaiah doesn't need to focus on those things because Isaiah's all laughs and being hot. To me, it's the complete, I'm a menace. I feed off of it and it fuels my platform. So that's why I'm like, that's the difference. I can say something.

Yeah. It's never been anything else, nothing different. Yeah, and I've talked to other creators before who are like very like brand friendly kind of creators, which not to say that I'm not, but I'm a little, I'm not. But like it depends. But for some creators, they can't respond to stuff like that because it goes against the branding. Right. Not me. People reach out.

People reach out again, like I remember there was one time I did this brand deal and people comments are like, oh my God, like this is so da-da-da-da. And I remember I had comment something back. And I was like, I was like, oh, like, but you're watching it. I'm getting paid for it. You know what I mean? It's like something small like that. And I was like, I should probably take that down. That was a thought.

I was like, it's literally a brand deal and I don't want to look like X, Y, Z. Exactly. But I love, again, the authenticity. You know what I mean? You are very blunt about it. And I feel like that works. And I feel like I wish a lot more people were like that. Yeah, I do too.

Doing the Lord's work. You know what I mean? Like really like exterminating these bitches. And we need more exterminators. Yeah. I said that too. I'm like stomping on them like roaches, bro. And they just keep respawning.

every two to three business days. I even said once too. Like I kind of compare it to like the five stages of grief after I stitch someone. So the first stage is denial. And that's what happens first. Like they'll get real brave and be like, this is what I wanted to happen. Like, oh yeah, well, you guess what? You're fat.

Cool. Anything else? No? That's all you got? That's it, right? Okay. Like that's why I said the other, yesterday I made a video and I told someone he looked like his feet when he wears slides, his toes hang over the front.

And someone told me that's the most pointed mean shit I've ever heard of my life. You want to comfort somebody? That's how you do it. I'm sorry? If someone said that to me, I'd be like, uh-oh. I would not recover. I'm not going to lie to you. So literally, I was like you look like Mountain Dew Code Reds your favorite drink.

If you had a drink your choice, that's what you'd get. You get that and a beef jerky stick at the AMPM. You have that look. You have that look. That's why sometimes I'll tell people like, like when I had Leo Gonzalez on the show, We talked about like making fun of people by saying where they look like they would work. Right. And we did it back and forth to each other and we were making jokes about it.

And sometimes people are like, oh, you're making fun of minimum wage. That's not what I said. Never said that. I said you look like you would work there. I don't know how much they get paid. There's a very specific demographic that I'm talking about. It's an energy. You know what I mean?

Like the energy you have gives me Circle K. And that's on you. Right. I'd like to think that that's on you, not on me. So it's like I'm not coming for the axiw or. itself. No, not at all. But when you radiate that energy listen. Almost leave it there. And yeah, well

and one time, like I said, one time I said someone looks like he drives a sion. And then this girl said, I drive a sion and I'm feeling a little attacked. And I said the jokes only apply to the person I'm talking to and she was like, that's fair. See, so I'm saying people who understand it's not towards them. And can keep it pushing. Yeah, exactly.

That's always, yeah, when, if something doesn't apply to me, one thing I won't do is common on it. You know what I mean? Yeah, exactly. I drive a Nissan Ultima, okay? The slander that Nissan Ultima, first of all, my girl, Erica, she's cute. But the slander that, it's like, that like baby daddy, baby mama energy or whatever, like, that's what people say about it, whatever.

Oh, that's cute. I love my car. You know what I mean? And I'm gonna keep it pushing, you know what I'm saying? If it doesn't apply to you, then it doesn't matter. Exactly. I literally, I literally drove a Toyota Prius, a 2015 Toyota Prius for years, babe. Oh, baby dog and Toyota Priuses. That's where I started my TikTok journey as filming in that Prius. Amen. Oh my God, started from the bottom.

And now we're here. And now we're here. No, look, I'm actually proud of you. And still humble. And still humble. And still so humble. No, it's honestly those men who, again, we're not talking directly to you. We're making a comment about something. And if it happens to like be like another feature that you possess.

Again, if you want that person, then keep a potion. If it don't apply, let it fly. It's very telling who it does apply to whenever they speak up. No, truly. You were literally three miles away. No one says your name. And you sprinted. You jumped at the chance.

To insert yourself. What does I say about you? The shoe fits is what it says to me. Answer that question. Right? That's why I say I make jokes like that because those make me laugh. Like very specific jokes. Yeah.

Like I said, you look like you refuse to wear a sunblock because it's only for girls. That's very specific, I would argue. Very specific. And I'm like, and that's you and that's on you, I would say. Saying what needs to be said, but no one else has like the courage to say. You know what I mean? It'll be a thought that crosses my mind, but I'm like, oh, that's like too mean. No, it's needed.

It's necessary. Sometimes it's necessary. Not our heroes wear capes. And I really want to commend you for being our Superman. You know what I'm saying? Thank you. It's just, yeah. Drew here, oh my God, is really doing what, but we, what needs to be done.

I'm trying. Trying, girl. Not even trying, succeeding, exceeding expectations. That's why I said, it's really Gotham City and I'm out here in the trenches, babe. And honestly, I will put you in the same category as Batman because he swears he's not killing these men, but are like snapping their neck. You know what I mean? He's like, I will never kill them.

She's just beating the absolute shit of them. They are a vegetable for the rest of their lives. That's true. I'm sorry. That's true. And again, we love you for it. We really do. I'm trying.

The men don't, but I love you. Not. All right, everyone. That's going to do it for today's episode of the comment section show. I want to thank my very, very, very special guest, Isaiah, Xavier for joining me. I love you. I'm in love with you. Come on, because we might have to cut the cameras.

I am really grateful, honored to be here. And again, all jokes aside, like, really, like, I was like fan-growing for, like, have a second. Like, my heart was racing a little bit. I was like, okay, can I make sure I'm like cute? Stop bad. But no, thank you for having me. And I really love and appreciate you so much. Like, as a human being, outside of just, like, content, because I feel like it's, like, very

easy to, like, step into, like, the superficial, like, oh, my God, I love your content. I love, you know, you're, like, doing great things and numbers-wise. But just as a human being, outside of videos, because, again, like, you dip into that person on it for the men on TikTok. You know what I mean? Yeah. It's like you came to deliver and that's great. But outside of it, like you are really a sweetheart.

Like talking to you like literally warm my heart. I'm like, oh, okay. You know what I mean? Like outside of it. You heard it here first. Oh yeah. I'm a nice person. Come on now.

I mean, well, not too much. We don't what you know what's funny is I saw someone once say you're not nice, but you're kind. And that's different because nice is superficial. Oh yeah. Nice is very fake. Exactly. Because again like fake being nice.

Nice. Nice like to anybody. I mean? Exactly. Like everyone gets the same treatment. No, no, no, no, no. I'm going to give you what you deserve. You know what I mean?

And in that, if you're a nice person, if you're a good person, then I will be kind to you. So, yeah, no. I love that you aren't on that superficial. Stop. Oh, my God. Like, yes. Like, oh, yeah, yes.

And then I turn around, like, fuck this bitch. You know what I mean? So, yeah, no, I really, I'm really, like, happy that I'm here and, like, able to be in your presence. I love having you. Where can everybody find you? You can find me. Oh, my God.

I'm plugging myself in. So you can find me on Instagram at Isaiah Xavier on TikTok at Isaiah Xavier 10 and Isaiah Xavier 10 on like every other platform. Love that. And make sure you go follow Isaiah because not only is Isaiah so handsome, so hot, genuinely. He is so smart and so funny and so talented. So make sure you guys go follow Isaiah. We're literally going to just make out the end. Come on now.

Can we wrap this up? Yeah. Are we done? Sorry, that's all. Thank you so much for joining. I love you. And everyone, make sure you go follow Isaiah. And for those of you who want to catch full episodes of the comment section show,

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