The Comment Section with Drew Afualo - I POST FOR THE GIRLS Ft. Choyce Brown | Drew Afualo | THE COMMENT SECTION EP 53

Episode Date: February 15, 2023

[video available on Spotify] This week, Choyce Brown joins Drew on the show to talk about the art of the perfect thirst trap, getting dick pics on Gameboys, why women really make the world go round, and so much more! Drew: https://linktr.ee/drewafualo Choyce: IG / TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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My very special guest, today we have the one and only choice round. Hello. Hello. I'm so happy to have you. I'm so happy to be here. I am such a big fan. No, me. Of you and your legacy, your family.

No, you and yours. I literally adore you. You're the best. Thank you so much. I'm so happy that we finally get to meet. I know. A lot of people think, what's so funny is, every time I have new guests,

a lot of people think that we've met in, like, previously, like, wherever it was like, I was almost saying in a past life, but like we met prior to filming the show. Yeah. And every single time I'm like, no, 99% of the time, that's my first time meeting them.

Our first day. We're just vibes. We've just vibes. We just so much vibes. I've known you for 20 minutes. And I love you. And now look at us. Now look at us.

Best friends. Like this. Now Tabitha has three daughters. Right. Now I'm going to call her and be like, Mom. There you go. Here she is. Easy, pizzy.

Lemon Squeezy. How have you been? How's life? Great. You've been traveling girly lately, right? I have, yeah. Where have you been up? Where have you been traveling to?

I've been to Texas. I went to Texas recently. I was in Houston. Ooh, cool. It was a turn. I was like, hey. I heard it's fun down there. Yeah, I didn't know they get down like that in Texas.

Yeah. They be lit. And then I've been, where else have I been? That's most recently where I've been at, but I've been everywhere in the country. All over the states. I feel that. Nowhere out the country, though. But you said you're originally from, well, you were born in North Carolina, but you're

a SoCal girl. Yeah. Born and raised. Yeah. How do you feel about the East Coast? Do you like New York? No, no, I do. But I wouldn't live.

there. Same. That's how I feel too. Yeah. I'm very, with New York, I'm always like, it's growing on me the more I go because I feel, like last year I was in New York five times for like work stuff. And I was like, I think I'm going to have to grow a fondness for it. Because when I first went, I was like, this place is ass.

No, it was like kind of scary. Like, I went for Fashion Week. Yeah. And that part was cool because like, yeah, it's like fashion week. Yeah, fun, cool. Yeah. But then like, in the streets, like. In the streets?

In the streets? In the streets. too, girl. They're wilding over there. It's honestly, when I first, my first time ever going was, I think,

2021. And I did go for Fashion Week stuff, but that was when I was like a baby, baby person on the internet. So I like went to like a couple shows, but I flew out there myself and all that. Like my sister was living there at the time. So I went to stay with her.

And I was like, why does everybody love this place? This place is garbage. Yeah, it wasn't doing it. But then I went out, like I went out with friends. And I was like, okay, this is cute. Yeah, once I went there the fourth time, I was like, okay, yeah, like better, better experiences.

But when I was first there, I was like, why does it smell like poop on the street? No, yeah, it stinks. Why does it smell like human poop outside everywhere I go? Because there is human poop outside everywhere. I know, and it's awful. I'm like, and the fact that, like, you can never get rid of the rats there because they're just like, they're huge. They uphold the economy there at this point. And they're big.

They are huge. They're huge. They're huge. and common No they like have apartments and everything Yeah they're landlords They're they're gentrifying It's sick they really are

It's really gross I and I think to like more than anything I was like everybody In New York Like most of them They hold up the like stereotype that people are rude there Yeah Because okay like in California are they the nicest people in the world

No No but they're better than New York Yeah but it's a different kind of mean Like in California they'll like ignore you. Yeah. In New York they'll like fabricate problems with you. And here it is, it gives ignore.

And then in New York it's like the exact opposite. Yeah, it's confrontational. They will target you. Yeah. No you. And they know when you're not from New York. Like it's very obvious. And I remember I told one of my friends who's like from the East Coast because he loves

New York. And I was telling him like, yeah, I just like, I don't really vibe with New York. Like that was when I was trying to get used to it. And he was like, what do you mean? and I was like, well, first of all, why does nobody believe in escalators there? Right. Every time they're on an escalator, they're running on it. Why?

What's the point? Let it take you. Take the stairs. Like, if you want to get the steps, why are you on the escalator? The amount of times I got like shoulder checked because people were like pissed off that I was like standing on the escalator. That you were using it correctly. No shit. I'm like, so you are fighting technology over there.

And I don't know why. They hate it. Even those, I always like fly into JFK. And they have all those little like things on the ground. Oh yeah. They're like Sators on the ground. That you walk on. Yeah.

Girl, one time I was standing on, I was walking on it. I wasn't, those I don't stand on. Those you have to walk on those. I will walk. I was walking at a reasonable pace, I'd like to say. Somebody was running. One a.m. in the morning and I land. This girl was so mad that I was like not running.

So I told my sister because she was in front of me, I was like, hey, scoot to the right a little bit. Because like this girl clearly has somewhere to go. I don't know where she's going, but it's clearly important. She's clearly a track star. She has to. She's sprinting. She started that fippin, and she's clocking those 10K steps. She has to get the 10K.

No matter what. And she sprinted past me, and she called me a bitch. Oh, my God. For standing. Or not standing, walking. And I was like, girl, oh, my God. So you all are out of your mind here. No, that's so sick.

Like, fresh. And in the airport, like, I just got here. It is 1 a.m. Where are you going, girl? I'm a bitch and I just got here. Where are you going? To the baggage claim? Me too.

I'm going to go stand there too. Our backs are going to come out at the same time. You erase me to go and wait at the same spot. I'm going to be winning up. You beat me there. Whoopty do. And that's how I know I'm like these people are very much so from New York. I've grown a love for it.

Well, I won't say love. I like you. We're cordial right now. We're okay. We're cute. You guys keep it cute. well, if you want to stay on my good sign. No, C's.

I even, like, I did some work stuff while I was there last in December, and, like, I had to go someplace for a meeting. So I mapped it, and I was like, okay, it's like 30-minute drive, so I need a car. So I called an Uber, like, the next morning. And it mapped. I mapped to what I thought was the same place, but it turns out they had two offices, and I ended up going to the right one. But it was literally around the block, and then he'd drive.

drop me off. Like he just drove, he drove up a street, down a street, and then drop me off. Yeah. And then he's like, we're here. And I go, we all are? And he's like, yeah, it's right there. And I was like, oh. And then I knew, I was like, he's probably like, these California can't walk anywhere. Well, but driving in New York is terrifying. Like, I hate how they drive. Like, I drive insane. No, crazy. Like, anytime I took an Uber or anything over there, like, I was scared for my life. Like, I thought I was going to die. Like, and they don't, and the people like the pedestrians like don't care either

they just jump out in front of the cars though what's the point of walking signs what's the point like like don't walk walk like they don't care like they don't care like they don't care like we literally almost hit people so many times but we didn't though you know like it's like a race I'm scared but everyone else is calm yeah they're like oh this is just

this is how we do it you don't get anywhere if you don't drive like that no yeah or they'll be like it's just a 40 minute walk I'm like right 40 minutes 4D. But then it'll be like a two mile drive and it takes like 20 minutes. Yeah. 40 minutes, like 4.0? Right.

I'm a call an Uber. I'll see you guys there. Yeah. Walking that far is insane. But they're so used to it. I'm like, I mean, I guess it's just different strokes. But I was like, yeah, I'm a California girl. Yeah, I'm not really.

I don't really love New York, but it's cute. Speaking of cute, right, we're going to talk today about our topic. We're going to be talking about posting a quality thirst trap, being cute on mine. Choice knows all about that. Choice loves a Thirstrap and you're very good at them. I do. Yes, you do. They're very cute because you're very glam, which I love Sam. Thank you. I love a good glam. And when you're feeling yourself, you're feeling yourself. So you post a Thirstrap. But what would you say is the key to a quality thirst trap? I mean, should. I don't even know if you posted Thirst Trap's like when I post... When you're feeling cute.

Yeah. We'll say that. I just, I don't know. I feel like it's just whatever you like. like get your good side. I like to flip the camera. I think I'm like notorious for a good like camera flip with the flash on in the back. I love a back camera with the flash. And just vibe. I like to be in the mirror and like getting to it. It's really like whatever you feel like doing.

Yeah, I talked about that with Isaiah Xavier. Mm-hmm. I love him. Like the last time we talked about Thursday, I talked about it with him. So I love the flip side of the perspective. because his is so funny too because he's like, well, he's gay and he's very handsome.

So he loves a good thirst trap too. But he was like, it's always attracting the wrong people. I just got girls in my DMs. I'm like, girl, come on. Quit playing with me. Girl by. Do you ever get creepies? Oh, yes.

All the time, I'm sure. Every day. Anytime I post something, it's like, okay, well, let's get ready. Let's buckle up. Let's buckle up. But, yeah, I'm pretty. I'm pretty used to it by now, which is sad. I know, that's the terrible part.

You have to, like, make peace with it. You're like, that wasn't that bad, which is horrible. No, yeah. It's like, I kind of have figured out, like, who's going to be weird and, like, who's not. I can tell by, like, the name and, like, the profile picture, like, mm. Down to a science, no. I'm not going to open this one. It might be a penis in there.

I don't know. Oh, my God. It might be nakedness, and there might be genitals, you know. Oh, my God, horror. Shoot me in the head, honestly. The unsolicited, like, naked photos. Yeah, dickpick. It's crazy.

The first time it ever happened to me, like, I wanted to cry. I was like, what? Like online or, like, before you had a platform and stuff? Oh, both. No, like, both. Just re-experiencing the trauma all over again. Before I was, like, you know, like, big on the internet, before I had, like, a platform, I didn't really, like, get anything like that.

Yeah. Like, boys from high school, like, I wasn't, like, into it like that. Yeah. But when I started to, like, post and, like, post. stuff and I started like getting bigger and bigger. The first time it happened I was like, like, and I was just so used to, because I enjoy like looking at my DMs and like responding to my supporters and stuff like, hey y'all, love y'all.

Like, so I'm going through. I'm like, yes, like, okay, this is so cute. Aw, yay, love you. Horror. I was like, horror. Like, literally like, no. Like, why would you do this to me? Why?

I don't know what the goal is when they do that. I genuinely don't. I don't know either. Like, I didn't know what to do. I felt so lively. Like because because it is it's a violation. It is. And if you don't laugh, you'll cry.

No. Which is the horrible part about it. It's, it's the most, like, it's the riskiest dice roll to me. I'm like, what's the goal? No, like, what did you think? I'm like, you, my house now. Right. Like, what do you think to happen?

Like, did you think I was going to be like, mm? Let me see what face is attached to this. Come over now. Like, hello? Like, what is that? You need help. You need help. You need help.

You need help. Go. I always think, too, like, the way they take the pictures is just... It's just terrible. Last picture of them alive, honestly. Like, if they went, like, if you look at, like, CSI, like, when they're like, have you seen this man? That's how they take the picks. Like, it's, like, at the morgue, bitch.

Like, they don't look good. They don't look good. Poor lighting. It's like, are you drunk? Like, no, and that's the sad part. I wish they were, like, under the influence. Most of the time, they're 100% sober, which is the horrifying part. part but like the way that they take like and then when they're naked too is just like there's no

dignity in it like you know like you had no pride like you just no just fucking naked women it's just like wow naked man it's like put it away yeah like why would you do this it's like it's like when you're doing like a jack in the box and you're like yeah scared waiting for it to come out and then once it does you're like ah and then you're like all right well now it's over now I saw it there's that It is. It's like when they take the picks too. Oh my gosh. When I was in college, I had a friend and she had a dude and we literally, well, she was like, this is when she was like dating around. So she had like a roster. And like she had two dudes on the roster with the same name. But one of them, we would call him dick pick blank because like that's how we distinguished him because he was constant. Like when I say constant, every day. Like he would send her new ones. Like, and I don't, and sometimes he wouldn't be in the same outfit. So I'm like, are you just like banking this?

Like, he's just like, let me get my album right. He's got a favorite folder. Yeah. He's like, this is my dig portfolio. He's like a little holiday set. That's ridiculous. New Year's set. A calendar.

Yeah, Valentine's Day theme. Like the way, and they were like the grainiest pictures. And like, it's like the quality goes down on the camera too. Like, when you get ready to do this, you smear the back of the phone with like oil? Did you downgrade your phone just to take this? What was that? Did you take it with your DS?

Like what's going? You're a dendos. You're like, what the hell? Right, the way it's little, these game boy dickpicks. Like, girl. It's so funny to because sometimes they'll hold up like something to scale. Yeah. And you're like, I just.

It didn't. It didn't get it. If I had to guess, right? I don't know. And one time he held up something to scale. but it was like a pillow, which bad, bad judgment. It's round, it's not a, but it was like an emoji pillow. But it was the devil emoji.

Girl, why? He was like, like, literally like, like, dick. Girl, fuck if I know. But like the dick right here, emoji pillow right here, he's like holding it like this. And I'm like, what am I supposed to do with that information? Like I see it and I'm like, ooh, he thinks it's like supposed to trigger like the little devil inside of you. Bring that over here. I'll be the devil.

Bring that in the pillow. Bring it here. Immediately. That's why I was like, why that, why do you have that pillow? Why do you have that? Did you buy that with your own money? You purchased that? From where?

Did you steal that from your younger siblings? He gets it from like the Sanrio store. Right. He gets it from like the dollar tree. I'm like, where did you get that pillow? He's like, yeah, this is going to do it. Like, yes. And I was just, oh, there's no dignity in it.

I'm always like thinking like, and it's always it's so backwards because how they view naked women is not how not always how women view intimacy like intimacy is far beyond being nude

so like they're like this will this will work because it works for me yeah like if they like you know it's like they can't think of anything besides themselves yeah like have ever seen those videos

this was a trend on TikTok for a while but these girls were like showing or explaining what they took a picture of and they thought it was a private part but it wasn't like it was like this part of me yeah yeah yeah yeah i feel like i've done that before and then i like zoomed out and i was like got you like or like it's like their knee yeah and they're like but you thought that was something huh idiot you thought that was my booty wrong it's my knee pit right and that's the funniest part about it because they're so dumb

they'll fall for it so they're like oh yeah and then they're like don't send me a picture back though they're so dumb like you're foaming at the mouth at my arm pick. Get help. Good help. As I said, get help. You need help. This is literally the crease between my toes.

Love you though. You like that? You like that. Sicko. Like you're disgusting. I think too, that all ties back to like a thirst trap too because a lot of times like when women especially women and femme presenting people when they post thirst traps or they're feeling themselves, they feel pretty, feel cute.

You like know what you're getting into when you post it because you're like, I think I look pretty and I want to be able to see it. Yeah. But then when you were posting like, happy birthday, mom, and then people are like, nice tits. You're like, well? Yeah, like, really? That's different. You could have put that on any, like, sure, but you put it on this one.

Why? Why? Weirdo. Why me and my mom? My mom didn't deserve this. Yeah, yeah. It's my mom's birthday. I have some respect.

Right. Ms. Tab does not deserve this. No, she does not. I would not. I don't, I don't, I don't fight anyone who tries to disrespect her. We're going to have to hurt you down. Yeah. I think, too, that there's a certain sense of agency when women post their straps.

They're like, I love my body. I love my face. I look pretty. And then a lot of times when you post those, even though men can be creepy, sometimes they'll literally get pissed. Like, they're like, oh, you think, like, you think this is what men want to see. Like, I didn't ask. I don't care. I don't really care what you want to do.

I post for the girls, honestly. That's what I'm saying, too. That's what I do. I mean, and I like, I like. I mean, unfortunately, I still like men a little bit. It's giving like 20, 80. 20 men and then 80 girls. Like, we love the girls.

Yeah. I post for the girls always. Like, I'm looking for, I'm looking for female validation. Thank you, y'all. It's priceless. Yes, I'm looking for girls to be in the comments, commenting how cute I am. Because that's how, it's more true. Like, when girls say, it's real.

Yeah. It's real. Like, if a guy says, like, oh, like, you're so beautiful. It's like, okay. You're like, but if a girl says it, I'm like, oh, I'm eating today. Like, today's the day. Like, yeah. When a men posted, you're like, I know.

Right. Like, when women tell you, you're like, oh, my God. Like, seriously? I'm killing it today. Like, I'm cute today. Oh, girl. I knew it. Thanks.

Yeah. Like, what's your Instagram? I'm going to follow you back. Right. When men do, you're like, ew. No, literally. Like, a man just was trying to talk to me and my friend last night. And we were like, oh, we're dating.

Like, we're a couple because he was not letting up. Like, he was like, I just really feel like, I, you know, I don't want to come off weird or anything. Too late. As he comes off weird. To like, can I please just get your name and number? And we're like, oh, no, we're dating, actually. We're together. Did it stop him?

No, no, no, no. It didn't. It did it. But we walked off. We went ahead and proceeded. Sometimes that makes them even more excited. No, yeah. Because they get even harder.

Like the whole fetish thing. Oh, yeah, girl. The way you're like, no, no thank you. you and they're like, well, you don't want to be my, we can't just be friends. Right. You don't want to be my friend. Can't all be together? No, we cannot.

Oh, um, no. Wait, let me think. No. Yeah. Love you. No. Actually, no. Actually, now that I think about it.

Yeah. No. Oh, now that you said that, no. Right. The way, um, I've said the craziest shit when I was in my single days, thank God I'm not anymore. But when I was in my single days, I would say, the craziest shit to get men to stop talking to me. Yeah.

Never worked. Not even a little. It never works. The only thing that ever worked for me was either leaving, like just literally turning my back to them. Like, they'll say something and I just go. And I just turn around. Don't say anything.

I just pretend like I can't hear. Yeah. What are they going to do? I didn't hear you. And then when they're like, oh, I'm talking to you. You're like, I know. I heard you. Right.

And that makes me scared too because then I'm like, I try to be as nice as I can. Like when I'm like out like at night. Because you have to. Yeah, because it's just like, I don't know, like, they be killing girls. Like, I don't want to. You just never know what they're going to do. You know, like, you never know what they're going to do. So I just try to be as nice as I can.

Like, if they ask for Instagram or whatever, I'm like, sure, like, you know, because just add to the half a million followers I already have here. Like, just go ahead. Here's my Instagram. Like, whatever. But once they get to the number and all that, I'm like. I know. Then it's just, it's even more questions.

It's more like, what do you do? Who do you with? Yeah, like, I don't want to have a conversation. I just. You're all, you're just being nice so you get out of the face. Yeah, you're like, you literally have been here 10 minutes too long. Like, I literally hate you. We should have said by 10 minutes ago.

Right. You're still standing here. We should have never spoken. That's why, like, when I was younger, when I was in college, I would, like, it got to a point where I was like, nothing works. So I'm just going to be insane. Like, I just like, as soon as they lost it with me, like, like, the veil was broken even a little bit. I was like, all right, I'm going to be insane now. Yep.

I'm not. To be Put grass in my mouth And just take my shoes off And just start whooping You know what I mean Doing anything at all To make you leave me alone

I don't care I'm just gonna start barking Like yeah truly Like you have to be like nuts In order for them And even then like Sometimes it works Sometimes it doesn't

Yeah But every time I was angry Or I was mean They would get really like Whatever fat bitch Yeah like what is that? I'm like oh bummer You call me fat?

Oh my god Oh, that really hurt. Yeah, that hurts my feeling. Okay, bye. Yeah. Thank you. I don't know what they think that that's going to do. I don't know.

It means nothing to me. Social currency with men is just worthless. It does nothing for me. It gives me nothing at all. In fact, all it does. It gave nothing. No, not at all. It doesn't serve me in any way, shape, or form.

It's just so. It honestly holds me back. That's what it does. And that's like that I saw a tweet once when they're like, if you ever post like a TikTok video and it starts doing well but the only people agreeing with you are men maybe re-evaluate yeah maybe delete your whole TikTok account i don't know it's not giving what you thought it was if you don't have the girls on your side what do you have what are you doing you have nothing nothing nothing i'd rather have all the girls on my side than anybody else same i told my friend chrissey when

she was here i was like the thing about her too especially with her platform chrisie shlepeka she's like such a smart, talented person but like all men ever want to do is say horrible things to her about how she dresses and shit and I was like male validation is so worthless and I think they know that about like me you, Chrissy, it's like so obvious

that we don't give a shit. And so they get mad about that because you don't care what they think but like I was like a man could never talk to me again and I would be like super okay with that. Yeah, no literally. It would be too soon. I just feel like women make the world go around.

Truly. And our opinions are like literally like the highest. Because the thing about it is like men don't even realize it. Like when we say that something is cool, then like everyone like slowly adapts. Like even the men. Like if we were to say like right now like I don't know, like it's just something about a man like with a mullet and like cowboy boots. And like I just love that. If women as a whole like majority, if we all just said that, every man would start doing it.

Because that's what we said. And, like, you value it because you value us. Because you're submissive and we're alpha. I think that's one of the ones. And it's like, and it's true, like, statistically, like, women deem what's popular. So, like, if women are your fans, if women follow you, like, you will have much more of a longevity. Exactly. And entertainment, if you have a whole female fan base, like, look at, like, Harry Styles, like, driven solely by female adoration and validation.

Yeah. And look how he's doing. thriving bitch. That's why I'm like if you don't if you hate women but you want to be an entertainer keep it to yourself. Yeah keep it to you. They will withhold that from you. Because we will take it away from you. Yeah. As soon as they gave it to you, they will take it away from you. We will take it away all your power that you thought you had. Yeah. It's out of here. Exactly. It's out of you. Okay. So, so we're talking about quality throws jobs, how terrible men react to them when women are femme presenting people post them versus the opposite. So that's our topic. So what we do here on the

comment section is we bring videos that I was tagged in that are applicable to our topic and we key key talk about them laugh all that fun stuff so this first video um this is a woman who's using a filter where she's pretending oh the one with the getting chased by police you know they're like it was that filter that everybody's using in their heads like in the police car or whatever yeah yeah yeah yeah i know you're talking about uh and the caption says when you start posting Thursdays with the ones your man is always liking and he accuses you of attention seeking Oh. Well, first of all.

Okay, so once your man is always liking. Yeah, so like... Okay, so he likes the pictures, but when you post them publicly. Yeah, like, so you know, like, no, no, like, you know how girls, like, they be dating guys and, like, all that they follow is, like, naked girls on Instagram, but as soon as you post something, like, in a cute bikini, then they're, like... I got you, gotcha, gotcha. All of a sudden they have a problem with it. It's cool when they do it. It's a problem when I do it.

Yeah, yeah. Yeah. Oh shit. Okay, that makes more sense. Yeah. Okay. So this first comment says so stooping down to someone's low level empowers y'all. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Next question. Yeah, thank you. Yeah. Thank you for your question. I appreciate it. Yeah, no. Thanks. Thanks. Thanks so much for stopping by. Yeah, that's true. You know what's funny is I remember that trend on TikTok years ago where women were like texting their male partners and they were like, like, texting their male partners. And they were like, like, hey, do you like this? And it was like a bikini or something like that. And they were like, no. And then she sent a picture of like a hot Instagram girl wearing it. And they were like, well, you seem to

like it on that. Yeah, because he's in the likes. Yeah. And they are not private. So the way that people can see that on Twitter especially, that Twitter is the craziest. Twitter likes, you can just go right over there and see what they're going to see. Oh yeah. If you're being a big perv on Twitter, I guarantee you someone

saw it. Yeah. But you want to be a pervin private? I would check your Twitter likes. With the Instagram thing though, I remember I made a video about it because I was I was like, okay, I'm assuming this is a joke for some of them. Some of them were real, but some of them were a joke. And I was like telling people in my video, I'm like, if you don't like that your man does that and you express this to him and you're like, hey, this makes me uncomfortable.

please don't do that anymore and he still does it red flag run and when i posted that i'm like i mean my my boyfriend personally he didn't he never does that he didn't even do that to begin before i started dating him but he doesn't do it now because he's just uninterested in naked women that aren't me so i right as he should yeah exactly which i thought was pretty like standard yeah some people i mean and obviously I'm not talking about polyamorous people or people who have multiple partners that's not who I'm talking about. I'm talking about people who are monogamous, right? And they want to be with one person. If it makes you uncomfortable and you want to tell your partner that, that's not a bad thing. That's not a bad. That's like how like the relationship's supposed to be.

Yeah, exactly. That's communication, basic communication. Exactly. Yeah. And I think that men have gaslit women into believing that they're in this constant competition with each other. So if you feel uncomfortable with that for whatever reason, you're insecure. Yeah, they link it to you being insecure or jealous of what she looks like. But like you have to be like for real. Because some women, some pick me. Women like got really mad when I made that video.

They were like, you just sound insecure or whatever like about me. And I said, I don't want my man looking at ass and cities in our mind. How does that make me insecure? That's just my personal preference. Like I don't like that. He doesn't like that. So it works, you know. Me personally, I just me, me, me, me.

Like, if you're my, if you're my boyfriend, if you're my girlfriend, me, me, me, me. Yeah, that's great. And all that works. I want you to be obsessed with me and only me. Right. Like, are you, are we dating or no? Yeah. And they're like, well, do you the same for him?

Yeah. Yeah. And I, again, I'm not interested in looking at naked men that aren't my boyfriend. Right. It goes both ways. Yeah. But then I was like, but if you do care, that's okay if you care. And you want to tell them.

And if they don't respect it, then that's on them, you shouldn't be with them. Because clearly they don't respect boundaries. Right. But then I think these men who are like, it's just a picture. I'm like, what did you like about the picture? Right. What do you like about it?

What do you like? You don't know shit about makeup, so what do you like about that picture? What do you like about it? You wear the same outfit every day. What do you like about that picture? You're the same crusty ass gray sweats and white tea every day. I'm like, you wear vans and socks to the beach. What do you like about that picture?

I'm tired. Exactly. Lie to your mom is what I think. And then I think also to take a step further, if you look how you look and your boyfriend's liking naked pictures of like Kylie Jenner, like, she's like being really sexy and she looks really good. And he's liking those picks. Be honest with yourself. If he came to, if she was like, she opened that creepy DM or saw that like and was like, I'm going to hit this guy up. Right.

When he did you? Right. That's what I'm saying. Right. Because there's, I think intention is what matters. Why are they liking it? Yeah. Why are you liking it?

What's the point? What are you gaining from this? Because at the end of the day. Exactly. A like is just a like. And a like is pretty much to like kind of show that you're giving their attention. Because like you can look at it without liking it. Exactly. You can look at it privately and nobody ever has to know.

Exactly. If you don't like it. Bring back secrets. You don't have to put right. Bring back. Private thoughts. Private thoughts. Yeah.

Keep it in your mind. Like nobody ever had to know that you saw this if you just don't like it. And you don't need to follow them. Why are you leaving traces behind? You just want to cheat And you're not even good at it Yeah, like just Look at it and move

And I also think cheating goes both It goes multiple ways It's not just physically It's emotional cheating is also a thing Yeah And also if you're being honest with yourself If she saw a really hot guy Like who does everybody like

Like Michael B Jordan for example If he was posting naked pictures And she was liking him And she was commenting and she was doing all this shit Would you be cool with it too? Right Liar Then she's attention seeking

then she's a whore Yeah, exactly But they can do it because it's different It's not It's the same thing It's just a pick It's just a pick Yeah

I like what he looks like If he asked me to leave with him And ditch you I would So right Exactly You said it was cool So I'm cool with it too Right yeah

It's such a double standard It is a double standard It's really exhausting This next one says No such thing as a girlfriend She's just under review that sounds like someone with no girlfriend to be honest with you

that sounds like somebody that's miserable single bitch behavior is what it sounds like it's someone who's single but not by choice right he wants a girlfriend so bad he's like crying type he's like she's just under reveal it's okay I didn't want to date any of them anyways I was about to cut them from the roster regardless

he wants a girlfriend so bad what I love to recently I've been seeing is a lot of women especially young or women like in their early 20s like you being so open about dating multiple men at once, like when they're non-exclusive and they're just living their lives and having fun. I think that's so awesome. I think it's so great to be like, it's okay to like date around. It's okay to like sample and see what you like and what you don't like.

I think that's like true dating. Yeah, there's nothing wrong with that. And men do it all the time. In fact, men will be in whole ass relationships. They'll be married and have kids. still do that. And then when women are like, oh yeah, I saw this guy on Tuesday and now I'm going out with a different guy, they're like, whore.

Right. Put, smear her with a red A, whore. They're so pissed. You slut. Yeah, get out of here. What's wrong with women these days? That's what I'm like, you guys have been doing that since the beginning of time. Like literally. You literally tried to talk to my best friend and me. Yeah.

In the same night. Right. I'm not getting you. Go to hell. Right. Straight there. Straight to hell. This last comment says, I literally cheated on her and made her stop believing in love because of this. Men always cheat. Me when I lie.

Wait. Me. Read it again. Read it again. I literally cheated on her and made her stop believing love because of this. Men always cheat. What? What?

Did he, wait. What, girl. He thought that that ate down. Like, he thought like, the. that he cracked the code. These bitches aren't ready for this one. Yeah, like, bitches name you shit. Guess what?

About to drop a truth bomb on you. Men always cheat. Me included. Like, oh my God. You never been with a woman, and let's be real. That's so sick. What? He thought he was, like, giving, like, the tea.

Like, ladies. He's on, why is nobody talking about this? Like, girl. He's like, they don't know that I know this. We always cheat. Like, I'm like, yeah. Right. Yeah. I mean, most of you, I would say, I wouldn't say always. Yeah, like, what? Me when I'm fake shocked.

Me pretending to be shocked. That's like that I saw, I actually got tagged in a video those Godforsaken street interviews. Oh my God. Burn all those men in hell immediately. Oh, the one that the girl does, which she's like interviewing all the guys. No, not her. I love her. Only when men do it. Only when men do it. unless it's Chris Clemens, I love him too. Oh, you're talking about like the guys that be like, body count, does it matter? You know what I mean? Gay son's thought daughter.

Yeah. Like, what's the fuck? In the mall? Right. With their iPhone? No, because I feel like one time, like, I seen some guys like walking around like with the camera and like their little phone thing. I booked it.

I was like, yeah, no. Not today. No. Like Omen. You see that. You're going to die in seven days. That's what I think. No for real.

So curse. This is just bad. It's so. cursed. Why do they do that? Because they want attention and views. The illness to go viral is so sick in the head of these guys. But I saw this one and this guy was like, who gets hurt more when people cheat? Men are women. And then this girl was like men easily. And he was like, why do you think that? Like he gets offended immediately even though he's the one who asks the question. Right. And then she goes, because women expect men to cheat. It's so normal. And she goes, men never, ever think that they're going to get cheated. on ever. And she was like, but women are so used to being cheated on or disappointed by men that when it happens, they're like, well, there's that. Just another day, I guess. She knew this was coming. Yeah, she was like, it's almost like they're so used to disappointment and being let down by men especially that when it happens, it's so like, yeah, well, he cheated.

So I broke up with him. But when women cheat on men, which is a lot more, they're like, I I can't believe this. Burn the witch. They're like, string her up by her ankles. Yeah. It's so like they literally will like, Hollywood's a great example. Like men are cheating all the time on their wives. But then when you occasionally see a woman who's caught like in an undesirable position with a married man or something, they like everywhere.

She's a whore. What a horror. What a terrible person home wrecker. Blah, blah, blah, blah. But they never ever treat them that way. So I was like, that's T, bitch. When I saw her see it, I was like, that's so true. So she's like, women are ready.

Women are constantly prepared for disappointment. So nothing ever shocks them. Because you guys just aren't doing enough. You aren't enough. He has her ass, so. Get the let out, bitch. Pick up the pace a little bit, William. So it's, I was like, that's a word, bitch.

That's crazy. Right. That is a word. Okay, well, we'll move on to this next video. Okay, so this one says, This woman is looking into the camera sarcastically with the caption. Men used to go to war and now y'all are standing in front of a ringlight doing thirst trap dances. That's funny.

Making fun of the guys that constantly post their straps, right? Yeah. And the comments on here, this first one says, women love to talk about men's gender roles. But the second, a man asks his wife to clean the house, he's as sexist. That's so irritating. What a botched way of, like, talking. about that comparison.

Yeah. The way that y'all short-changed shit like that is just infuriating. And the way that women were like literally, we still are but like oppressed like in the worst way like for so long.

Like we used to, y'all used to do it real bad. No shit. Like and now it's like they're like, what else do you guys want? Like we've got a right to vote. What else you selfish bitches want? Like we used to cook and clean all day

and that's it. That's all that we could do. That's why. It's not by choice. This is not. It wasn't like, oh, I just love my husband. I love being home. That's all that we could. And then, like, most of the time men would come back and, like, abuse their wives.

Like, after we just did all this for you all day. Like, so it's just like the fact that you. It's the same thing when they talk about my grandma stayed with mine. Your grandma had no choice. Yeah. Your grandma was born in the 1915. Your grandma was scared for her life. No shit.

Your grandma, it was either that or die. Like, she had no choice. Like, what are you talking about? And then also, like, it's a joke first of all. Right. Whenever you make that war joke, they go off the rails.

I know. I talked about that. I don't know why that triggers them so bad. I'm not the one who made you go to war. Take it up with your peers, bitch. Men are the ones who said women weren't fit to be in the draft. Exactly.

So, and real feminism, intersectional feminism, does not believe in the draft because no one should be forced to go to war if they don't want to. Like literally nobody, like no matter how you identify, Nobody should be forced to do that.

Right. But they always want to bring up shit that's just not real. Like it's not, it's such a straw man argument. Like you bring up one thing, they bring up something completely different to try and like undercut what you just said. And then they go so hard to like, um, like, we don't have to take it there. Like, why did this just get so bad? Oh, girl. I'm like, you guys can't take a joke and it's so clear.

They get their feelings hurt so. I know. And then they try to say that we're like, like, we were so sensitive. I was like, I said one thing to you. and you folded. How does that make me sensitive? Literally and you went in. You went in.

You cast me out. When my friend Finita was on the show, she made that, yeah, I love her. She's so funny. But she was on the show and she made a joke about that, like the war thing. Like she was like, you guys, why aren't you guys going to war?

And the way that like, the worst men in the world were like clipping that one bit and being like, they don't care of men die. more like who said that I didn't that's what I was like even in the clip even when you watch the football nobody said that like and they were saying that we they were saying all kinds of shit

I was like you guys are so goddamn boring like their feelings were so hurt so hurt their feathers were so ruffled it was like unbelievable I told Finna and I was like ignore it bitch they are just they're just jobless like they're just bored

They're bored. They have nothing going for them. Nothing going for them. Nothing going on. Lots of white space in the calendar. Just not busy. Literally. Just bored.

Put that energy towards a job. Right. Towards school. Put that energy towards the application. Yeah. Put that energy towards getting a bitch. Like, I don't know. Get a girlfriend.

Put that energy towards something else. Maybe if you had the loving embrace of someone who loved you back for real, you wouldn't be so goddamn bitter. I don't know. What do I know? Maybe if somebody loved you. What's the last time you talked to your mom? Yeah.

No shit. Literally. Actually, though. How's your mommy issue? Yeah. This next one says, at this point, I wouldn't even sacrifice myself to save a woman nowadays. They're all independent and everything. Let them survive on their own. We're trying. You're slowing us down. Jesus Christ. The fact that he thinks that we're relying on him, like, save us, please. Save me. I'm good. Thanks. The girls got me. I can't get you to leave me alone. Right. Who needs saving? I need you.

You don't have to sacrifice anything. You can go. You can leave. The door's been open. Like, you don't have to be here. I opened it for you, honestly. I didn't ask for this. You're like trying to save me against my will.

Right. It says I wouldn't even sacrifice myself to save a woman nowadays. Sacrifice yourself to save a woman from who? Right. From yourself? From another man. Right. You wouldn't be saving me.

I would be pissed, actually. You wouldn't save. What a. And every time you want to talk about that too, like terrible dudes will always bring up protection like this. Imagine like needing help and you're like, somebody help me please. And then a man walks and you're like, fuck. You're like, oh my God, here you go. Never mind.

Never mind. I'm fine. Yeah, I'm fine. I'm bleeding out. Yeah, I'm fine. I was kidding. So, never mind. This is great.

Well, it's also like they bring up this protection thing. And like if you were to compare it to like my presence on the internet, They get their feelings hurt so easily. So easily. Protect who from what? Like, you can't protect shit. You can't even protect your own feelings from me when I make a silly little joke. Like, I tell you, you look like the boss baby.

All of a sudden, on devil incarnate. You can't protect shit. You're five feet. Yeah, like, I'd be protecting you for being real. Like, stop. You need protection. Like, if anyone needs it, it's you. You're just going to cause more problems coming over here.

Well, and also to, like, imply that, like, Like, if violence or danger was threatening the lives of someone that you care about and they identify as a woman, you wouldn't protect them to prove a point. Right. You're insane. Because they're a woman? You hate women. You hate us. Women are like, I want to be able to go to the gym and walk back to my car at night and not fear for my life.

And men are like, let these bitches do it on their own then. If you're so independent, do it yourself. You guys are insane. It's the same thing of like, if you want to, if you want rights, if you want to be a feminist, I should be able to punch you in the face.

Like what? You're insane. Like the abuser's jumping out of you. Yeah. He's coming. He's coming. Your brain jumps towards violence. You just showed your whole ass.

You want to punch a woman so bad. No, like actually. You've been waiting on this moment. You're a psycho. That's why I'm like, you need clinical help. No, like you have been waiting. Medical assistance because.

Waiting to. a bunch of women. Like, you want the opportunity so bad. Actually, though. You secretly hate us and you just told it on yourself. So thank you. And it's just, and then they're like, well, that's not what I'm, girl. And then I'm like, okay, then. And that's also operating under the assumption that like, no women can fight. Like, no women can protect themselves. No women. Like, again, it's just like the biggest double standard ever. The assumption that we're just like so helpless and we can't do anything for ourselves. It's so weird because it's just like, who said that? Like, other men. Who said, crazy part.

Like, why do you all? I'm like, where are you getting your info from? Which woman said this to y'all? Like, I want to speak with her. And even then, like, you ask them where they got it from. It's from another man. If you go all the way up, the ladder, it's all from men.

So then it's like, well, that's not true because I'm a woman and I've identified as a woman for a long time. So this is actually the case. And then they listen, they don't listen to you, but they hear you and then they go, no. No. I just don't think that you would know best about what it is that you want.

Right. I feel like men would know more. Like, naturally. I thought I was, I don't know, maybe, I thought I was a woman.

Yeah, you're like, I don't know, I've just lived my whole life like that. So, I guess. Like telling the doctor, he's like,

yeah, so you have a cold? No, I don't. Oh, okay. No. I just thought maybe like, like,

my, like, like, my buddy who works at Autozone with me said I didn't have one. Right. So, I just like,

I feel like I trust him more than I trust him. Yeah. Okay. I'm not going to take the notes. Love you. Okay. You all, thanks.

Like. Okay. Okay. This last, they are. No shit. This last comment says, women, and it says like,

gets rights, world almost ending. And this says, I see a pattern here. Lots to unpack there. So women. Wait. Women got their rights,

and then coincidentally, the world is starting to end. Every single major problem that we have as a country Is due to men Is because of men I literally was I always think about this I feel like anything that like Anything that's an issue usually if you trace it down

Like if you look it up it always leads back to The white man Yeah a white man Like that's usually what it always leads back to like Anything though like literally cisgendered heterosexual white man Anything yes straight white man It always leads back to him like it could be anything

It could be like why is my foot hurting Like, and if you really look it up, like if you go deep, it'll, it'll lead back to a white man. A white man. Always. Literally a white man. Like. Any major crises that's happening in the world right now that is contributing to the end of it is because of a man and most likely a white man. Yes.

So it's like climate crisis, war. Yes. Reproductive rights. Who did this? Yeah. You know, homelessness. Literally anything. What else?

LGBTQ rights. like and we're supposed and we're ending the world. Yeah. We're ruining. It's us. Because women are now gaining power, positions of power and women and fems and everybody else that doesn't identify as a man. They're getting in these positions of power and they're like, this place is a mess.

Like what have you guys been doing for the last thousands of years? And they're like, see what happens when women? See what happens when women come and get their rights. Exactly. It's like we're telling everyone we turn the lights on and the house is a mess. Right. And we're like, what the hell? and they're like, why'd you turn the lights on?

Right. See what I mean? Everything was fine before you turn the lights on. Yeah, before you turned the lights on, everybody was chill. Everybody was having a good time, living in ignorance. You couldn't see anything. You couldn't see anything before the lights on. Nobody told you to come in here and turn the lights on.

That's like literally what the, that's how they see women experiencing any sense of agency at all or autonomy. They're like, see what happens when women get rights. And if anything, if stuff starts to get worse, I feel like it's because men are like upset that women are in power. So then they sabotage even more. And like, they just create even big. bigger problems like we didn't have to do that we could work together we're on the same side we could work together you know it's it's like it's such a it's such a like it's a problem that like eats itself it will ever solve because they cannot come to terms with or grip the fact that they're

not the most powerful anymore they just can't grasp like the concept that like women are like the shit like we can do it for anything like they don't even need you to make baby anymore and that was the thing they had on us forever and not anymore. How are you going to make babies? What are you going to do without us? So where's the sperm going to come from? Yeah. Like, please shut the fuck up.

Yeah. The likelihood of them creating something that could inseminate women and impregnate them is a lot higher than them creating a fake womb for you to grow life in and for them to sustain for you to procure life. Like, do you think that we can't make it happen because we could? I think so. Tell me, I won't and I will. Right.

I'll literally quit this right now and go to school and make a medical doctor. Right. Just to prove men wrong. Just to prove y'all wrong. I would do that in a heartbeat. Yeah, I would do that in a heartbeat. Yeah. I would do an artificial baby just to prove them wrong.

Literally. Here's me. Here's me and my artificial baby. Now what? And she said, fuck you. Yeah. And on her chart, it says you're a bitch. Right. So what it says in writing.

I don't know. I don't know. That's just what it says here. I do 10 years of medical school just so I could do that. just so I could be petty. Just so I can make an artificial child that you said I couldn't. It's like, it's also like, it's such a irony too because when women are vocal about and femmes are vocal about their oppression, when they're trying to like unravel it, when they're trying

to like rip it out of society as a whole or just people educate people on why it's harmful, blah, blah, blah, blah. men who fight against it actively, like, don't realize that it will free them too. Like, patriarchy hurts everybody. It's not just you. And that's even before you factor in different forms of intersectionality. So, like, gender – gender is obviously an obvious one, gender expression, but sexuality, right? Like, anything else that is, like, constricting men and holding them in a place where they don't like to be, they don't realize that nine times out of ten, you can trace that back, too.

misogyny, patriarchy, or overall white supremacy. Yeah. So let's get into it. Yeah. Like all of our, you know, societal structures that oppress you or hold you back can all be traced back to that. Literally. And straight white man.

Yeah. When I talk about that sometimes, they're like, what do you always have to bring up race? I'm like, because it matters. Because it matters. It plays a factor. It plays a role every single time. It matters any other time. Yeah.

Why is it not mattering now? And then when you unpack it for them, they're like, Wow. That's okay. I like to be oppressed. I just want to be less oppressed than you. Right. It's like it makes no sense.

I can be oppressed, but I'm still on top of you. At least I got one bitch being it too. I'm still on top of you because I'm a man. Yeah. It's exactly. It's so exhausting. So honest to God, if you want to post your thirst traps, if you want to be fire flames fuego on the internet,

do it, bitch. For no one but you and the girls. Literally for the girls. For the girls. Always. They are always there and they are always supporting. That's all that matters. Exactly.

The girls will never fail me. No, never. They've never failed me. I say that all the time. I'm like everyone but like cisgendered heterosexual men, come on over. Right. Literally. Those of those men, they have to submit to licensing before they get in here.

Right. They have a test. I need a background check. Yeah, I need to run a couple tests on them. I need your social security. Yeah. They have a covered check. The rest of you are in for free.

Right. The rest of you guys come on in. Yeah. Come on in. Yeah. The rest of y'all, we do do background checks. Yes. You must submit to testing prior. Right.

And approval process. And we need to draw blood in everything. Yeah. It's serious. Yeah, I'm going to cut a piece of your hair. I'm going to tape it to your board. Need the DNA. I need to trace back.

All of that. Sorry. You will submit to testing prior. But everybody else, free before 11. Everybody else love y'all. Love y'all today. Okay. Is there anything that you want people to know about?

just overall confidence in like whether it's in posting yourself or just loving yourself in general or anything you want to tell people want them to know or remember i mean shit i would just say do you like anything that you like get into it and f*** what a man think truly yeah you don't need them girl we don't need them we don't do you you don't you don't you don't need them. If you want them, that's fine, but that's how it should be. Right. That's where it stops. If you want them, like, that's all right. Yeah. Like, girl, I'm like, literally. Well, thank you so much to Choice Brown for being on this episode of the comment section show. I adore you. I adore you. I love you. I love you too. Thank you for coming.

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