The Comment Section with Drew Afualo - I'M ACTUALLY THE PERFECT PARTNER Ft. Erika Priscilla and Scott Corizzi

Episode Date: November 1, 2023

Video available on Spotify. This week, Drew is joined in New York by one of the Internet's favorite couples, Erika Priscilla and Scott Corizzi, to talk about the pros and cons of having a relationship in the public eye. They unpack getting in airport fights with your significant other, their Halloween couples costumes gone wrong, talking about exes with your partner, what to do and NOT do during your wedding, if getting DMs counts as cheating, and so much more! Drew: https://linktr.ee/drewafualo Erika: IG / TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Never expect people to be like knowing you when they know you. I still will be like, did I go to school with you or something? Like, no. Saw a video of you. She's like, I'm 19. You're like, okay. Like bowling league? You know, my girl.

You can be my dad. I'm talking about. Hey, everyone, and welcome back to another episode of the comment section show starring me, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, who cares about me. On to the guest. To guests, which means we have multiple. Today we have the iconic, the legendary, the amazing, Erica Priscilla and Scott Carrizzi. Welcome. Thank you.

Welcome. Welcome, family to the show. So happy to have you. Thank you so much. I feel like we're old friends. Yes. We've never met ever. Never, but it's so weird when you follow people, you just feel like you know that.

Yeah, exactly. I'm so excited to have you both here. One of my favorite couples. My second couple to come on the show. Yeah, I think second couple. Who's the first? They're a lot longer together So

Is that bad love? I love them so much though I love them I don't want to scare you But that's what happened We love them Love y'all Love y'all though

I believe in y'all though Just like I believe in them How have y'all been? How's life? Everything's good Yeah We just celebrated our one year Married

Yes Well it's not the official date yet But we took a pre like anniversary trip to Greece recently. It was fun. How fun. How was it? Married life. It was nice. Yeah. Grace is beautiful. I know you guys. Okay, well, I know you both became content creators before you got married.

And then everyone loved watching the whole follow-up to your actual wedding. Yeah. How was that like documenting your wedding process or parts of it anyway? Yeah, parts of it. I did it. Yeah, the wedding process was interesting. I will say the aftermath of the wedding, though, is what I liked talking about because I like fucked so many things up with the wedding and I'm like let me tell you what not to do so yeah so that was fun but yeah

it's been a long journey it just like it's weird to think back of like we started as like not we weren't even engaged yeah you know and now you have a whole fully married the whole group of people who love watching you be married yeah it's weird it's a little different it's like people coming up

congratulations I'm like what I forget I'm like oh You're talking about the wedding. Oh, okay, thank you so much. I appreciate it. Are you someone who talks to people like, or they talk to you like they know you and you're just kind of vibe? Yeah, oh, of course.

Yeah. That's kind of how my man is too. People are like, yeah, they just go up, they start talking and then I'm like, who was that? He goes, I don't know. Yeah. He just came up to me. Scott does it's so embarrassing.

Anytime someone like will recognize me, Scott will be the first one. He'll make eye contact with him and be like, make sure to connect us every time. Eric, I had to tell me to stop. I'm like, can you please? Not in a bad way, but I'm like. And in a way, so you're prepared. Yeah, exactly. Unless they come up.

But I used to be like, are you looking at her? No, I could get her. I could get her. I could get her. I could get her. And the person would be like, I'm not even looking at her. I'm so sorry. I apologize.

Have you ever had someone like, you're like, oh, do you want a picture? And then they're like, no. Oh, my God. I've had so many others. One time, actually this happened recently. I was downstairs waiting for like a pizza delivery or something. And I was talking to the front desk. And she was like,

like, I know that it was just me and her too, and she's like, I know this is a really random question. Why am I so embarrassing? I was like, it's me. It is. And she goes, no, I need two cute tips. Like, I'm so random, like, you run upstairs and get me

keytips. I'm like, that's exactly what, yeah. I figure it, I figured. That is me, the girl with the cut tips. That's what I meant. You didn't let me finish. You don't let me finish my sentence. That was me. I got them. I got them. It was so awkward. I do, in fact, have those. I'm so excited to ask. me. I'm so glad. That's so funny.

That happened to me one time where someone was like like, because sometimes when they come up, I know that they get nervous and then they like they don't want to ask what they just want to talk to kind of thing. And I never used to offer because I just was like, I don't want to assume

that that's what you want. Yeah, mad embarrassing. You're like, I'm good. Just the interaction thing. One time. Because my mom was like, you know, maybe they get nervous and maybe you should ask and I'm like, yeah, but also that's a big risk. So I was like, okay, fine. And one girl came up to me, she was young.

Like, she had to have been like 16, 17. And she was like, oh, I'm such a big fan, blah, blah, blah, blah. I'm like, so sweet. Thank you so much. And then she was like, yeah. And then she was just kind of standing there. And then I was like, do you want a picture or something? She goes, no.

Like, the way that she was so like, no. I was like, okay, well, neither do I. I turn into a man. I'm like, well, guess what? You're fat anyways. The way that men, like, flip on you immediately. You're ugly. Yeah, yeah.

What? What? What? bitch like you I don't I'd start I'd start being mean like I start You can't have one anyway Good I'm glad because I don't allow though

Immediately angry It was so embarrassing It was so bad I was like Okay yeah no for sure I've never asked just because That was the one and that's what I get for listening to my mom That's what I get for listening to my mom

But she had all the best intention Of course The few times that she's asked Like when she's been with me and she's like Do you guys want a picture? I could take a picture of you guys they're really nice about it. Yeah. So, like, I'm like, you do that.

I'm not asking ever again. I learned my lesson. I'm never asking ever again. Even strangers, though, like, sometimes we'll watch them struggle and I'm like, I can take in there like, no, we're good. I'm like, you're fucking bitch. Okay.

Let me take one picture of you. We get offended, like, we're taking a picture. Give me your phone. Oh, my God. Good. Don't ask me. I'm not doing it, so. Yeah, go ahead.

Take your shitty ass selfie. What the hell? Like, your picture's grain. see if I care. Like a group of three older women at a Broadway show. They did end up asking. They did end up asking.

They were like, actually, do you mind? I was like, actually, I do. I'll do it. Oh, I'm busy now. You're serving me back. You took so much offense to them. It's so, it's literally so bad. Even with my boyfriend too,

like I'm sure you get recognized too, like whether your way or to, but when you're together, it's worse. That's how I am too with Philly. Like, because my boyfriend is like a big dude. So like they see him from a mile away. And they're like, I saw your boyfriend, and then I knew you had to be here, too. Sometimes people hear Scott's laugh and be like, yeah, that's crazy.

Wait, Erica must be here. That's the funniest part is when they see me and they immediately just start looking for you. She's not hero. I'm like at a car watch. I'm so sorry. I feel bad. I'll FaceTime her. I feel terrible.

You're like, yeah. Get in the car. You can come to our house. She's like, ruin the excitement. She's got to. Nope, not hero. I know. sometimes my man would do that too.

He'd be like, I think they're trying to call you. And I'm like, it's so exciting for me. Yeah. I know. It is exciting. It's still. Well, I feel like I know a lot about your guys' lore, just because I'm a big fan.

But just for those of you, those who don't know the lore, how'd you guys meet? We met at a bar through a mutual friend. Oh, that's cool. Yeah, because we grew up, I was a public school girlie and he was a private school dude. and yeah, we went to schools like towns over from each other so we kind of always knew of each other Scott would poke me on Facebook

back in the day. The real ones remember the poke. I remember the poke. I'm just to be honest with it. The real ones remember the poke. And it works. It works. You get that poke back and it would be all right. Actually, I would even worry you on. I'm going to send the message.

No. You had your ex-girlfriend on your profile. You always bring that up. First of all, you poked other people. Yeah. No, it's not going to work. But then then we organically met and purses. person at a bar. Okay. Yeah.

So you guys know each other for a long time then? Or known of each other? Yeah. We never met. Not until you were at the bar. Until the first time we met at the bar. Yeah, 21. 21.

21. I was like 23. Look at y'all. Yeah, now we're old parts. So. And you guys were together for how long before you got married? Six years. Yeah, we were engaged.

We got engaged six years. And then by the time we got married, it was eight years. Oh, nice. Did COVID slow down your wedding? Um, I don't know. I think I just wasn't in a rush to plan the wedding because of COVID. And then once I got the date set in stone and it was a destination wedding and stuff, it was just I got lucky with all the restrictions, like, requirements and all that stuff.

Yeah. How was the wedding planning process? Was it exhausting? Was it fun? I mean, you're very mixed reviews. Yeah. I think because it was a destination wedding, I kind of was like, there's got, you know? Yeah.

It's only so much you can see from here without going back a million times. But my cousin is a wedding planner there. It was in Dominican Republic. So thank God for her because I would have killed Scott probably for no reason. You're close. Yeah. But I was a pretty like chill bride. It was okay.

And it was honestly so, so much fun. Like I wish that we were guests at her own wedding. That's sick though. I wish we could do at least a little party every year. Yeah. Just keep making it about us. They're like, hey guys. Time to celebrate us again.

Who's ready? Fly out again. Oh my God. Travel not included. Travel not included. Travel not included. So you guys there. There's a time share when you get there as well.

Sit there for two hours. At the seminar. Did you guys have very differing opinions on the wedding or were you pretty, pretty, worked pretty well together? Her vision was really what put it all together because I didn't want to throw a wrench in nothing. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

Yeah. I was like just the best sport. Yeah. I want her to just like, walk in and see everything she's ever imagined, you know? Yeah. I'm so content with her, you know, her opinion and her decisions. I'm like, she's going to kill it no matter what. Yeah.

I don't want to like, really. I'm like, yeah, I want all blue flowers. She's like, well, it's not going to be that. No, I'm just joking. But like. You're all, well, no, but love you though. I wish I could have did more, to be honest. It's like hard, you know.

But you had certain days a little bit, you know. What's your, what's your, what's your guys of signs? I knew you were going to ask this. Yeah, I'm a Leo. A Leo. I love that. I'm a Capricorn. Oh, look at that.

Were you not expecting me to be a Leo? No. Well, it makes sense. It makes sense that you're like, you're an attention horn and that you want to, listen, having to be in this, you got to, you got to love attention to some extent. Yeah. And you and I are those girls. Yeah. And my man.

You're a Leo too? No, I'm actually Virgo. Oh, you're a Virgo. So I'm close. Yeah. But I'm. like I do have Leo in my chart, but it's funny because my man is the same as you, where he's kind of like, revs up.

Vives. Vives only. Yeah, support and love only. Love that. And I'm like, I really want your opinion. And then he'll tell me his opinion. I'm like, that's not the right answer. That's not the right opinion, but I do love that you're contributing.

And then he's cool with it. Like, he's like, okay, great. Because he doesn't care either way. As long as I'm there and we get married, that's all he cares about. 100%. And I feel like that's where I'm doing it for. I'm doing it for you to marry me. be happy.

You just have to show up. That's it. Yeah, exactly. That's, I think that's really sweet, though. Especially, like, when your partner contributes, but they're also, like, they just want you to be happy. A hundred percent. And as long as you had fun and you felt relaxed.

Yeah. That's all that matters. I did. I was, like, chilling the whole time. So I really wasn't stressed. What were things that you learned not to do? Well, um, you said you had some. Um, okay.

There's a couple of things. It's very personalized to me, though, because I had, well, for example, I wanted like a glass, like, walkway thing. Oh, yeah, yeah. Over, like, a bridge, like, to go down the aisle. And I had a really, like, bedazzled dress. And I accidentally stepped on one of the v. Why did I slip?

Amidressing in front of everyone. I didn't fully fall, but I went, like, I did one of those. You caught yourself. Of course, yeah. And then also, we tried to have. Justin case. He's she making it, you know. It was good.

Who knows he was going to? Nothing about Erica, she's going to do a bit. Yeah. No, you should have been. Physical comedy. A hundred percent. Everyone was dying. I was like walking down the rest of the aisle.

I'm like, only me. Right? Only, fucking me. Only me. Only me. Like the three stooges? For real. Well, that was, yeah, that was one example.

And then we tried to do like. It was beautiful. Yeah, yeah. Yeah. We tried to do like a light lantern, like a send-off kind of eye. Oh, cute. Because we had like a lot of space. And I was like, that would be a moment.

Yeah. And I had to bring a lot of stuff from the U.S., like to do. in a care of public. So I ordered on Amazon. I was like, you know what? Let me get like biodegradable ones because I don't want to get canceled.

Yeah. Because we love the environment. Yeah, we love the environment. And so my mom, sometimes you do have to listen to your mom, going back to your mom. I agree with you. Always.

Why don't you just test one out here? And I'm like, I'm good. Like, I don't have time. Bro, we had everyone doing it. We got like. With like barely any instructions. We got like, yeah, just put it in, light it up.

And then they should. You guys don't even know. People were stomping it out at one point. It was, I'm like waiting for it to light. It's like the backside of it's on fire. People are like, drop it. I had to grab the mic. I was like, stop it out, guys.

Stop it up. Those in the trash. But we got like two up. And let me tell you the excitement when the two hit the sky. It was like, it was almost like the sky was full of them. So those two were like. It was such a task to get them up that those two were a huge win. That was held it down for it.

They were huge win. So. Yeah, so don't do that, God. Or at least try them out before you just give them to like 100 people. Listen to your mom. You're like, everyone, I gave you a pack of instructions. Please unfold it. Carefully read steps one through 20.

It's like four hours into drinking at this wedding. No, it was the worst time to do it too. So it was just a mess. Yeah, so don't do that, guys. But then it's not your wedding, huh? It's just not your wedding if everything goes perfect. Exactly. I feel that every time.

It was a funny memory. Anything that happens, I'm like, well, that would happen to me. Yep. Yeah. Yeah. That would happen to me. Yeah. Yeah.

That's okay. God finds a way to keep me humble at all times. 100%. Mm-hmm. Reminded every day. I literally told that story on my show when I had ER Five Master on the show. I was talking about how, like, I have beef with like a creator, like a dude that doesn't like me for obvious reasons.

And he and I beefed weirdly. It was like kind of like, I'm sure you've met enough influencers both of you at this point. Like sometimes they get really mad if you don't know who they are. Yeah. Which I find weird because I'm like. I'm like, corny, corny, corny. Well, look how old I am.

Like, clearly I'm not the bitch following you. You know what I'm saying? Like, know your demo. I'm too old. I'm too brown. Like, there's just no way. Yeah. Right.

Like, we have never crossed paths ever, virtually or literally. I'll tell you after. Anyways, I made a mean-ass joke to him because he was very rude to me. A year later, I literally ate shit in front of him at the Barbie premiere. And he did not help me on purpose. And then I thought to myself, you kind of got me. Yes.

Yeah, you got to respect it. And I said, maybe next to me. time we meet, we'll be friends. That's what it works. Maybe the lesson was the friends we earned along the way. Yeah, yeah, 100%. I'm willing to wave a white flag if he is. Yeah, I like that.

Equal. I like that. I like that. That's mature. That was like a real, like, progressive thing. I love that. I'm just funny. And I respect a funny bit. And when someone ignores me on purpose because I was mean to them,

that's funny. Yeah. I got to remember. Even if you're a bitch out. dude. I respected. That's kind of funny. You got me. I'll see you next time. You got me. You got me. You got me. Okay, so back to you guys. As a couple online, like, have you guys ran into any problems or issues as far as like what you've noticed when it comes to having an audience and they're fans of both of you? Obviously, I'm a public

couple of two. So I know that there's a couple of things. I mean, obviously the expectation is always there, which I just don't get it. It's like, obviously, we're just posting funny shit online, like in general, so it's not always like that. Yeah. You know, so it's a lot of pressure sometimes when people are like,

we look up to you, like, you guys are the best. Yeah, yeah. If you guys break up, I don't believe in love anymore. Yeah, I got those old. Like, hell of pressure, but. Yeah.

And I'm like, me neither. So like, leave me to fuck alone, right? But you think you wouldn't. I'll lose my whole life. Same. We'll be in there together. Yeah, like, come.

Okay. We're in the same boat at that point. That's so funny. I know you and I, Erica and I were messaging because I saw you guys posted when you came back from Greece. You're like, if you guys saw us fighting in the airport, please send me a picture. Yeah. Yeah, it's so real. It really is.

It really is. My sister sends it to me and she goes, dude, this is literally you guys. And I was like, no, for real. It is. You fight with your partner. It happens. It's normal. It happens.

It's like such stupid stuff. And then obviously you don't realize until you really take a step back. because obviously this is so, like, still new to us. Yeah, yeah. Like, you never expect people to be, like, knowing you when they don't know you. I still will be like, did I go at school with you or something? Like, no. Saw a video of you.

She's like, I'm 19. And you're like, okay. Like, bowling league? I know. You can be my dad. What are talking about? First of all, you're way old than me. Just humbling.

Real quick. But it's true, you have to, you know, you have to just be a little aware. Be mindful of that stuff. Because I am the bitch at the restaurant having dinner with Scott and just my ear is just I'm listening. She's most up. Yeah. She's mostly.

I feel that. I know. I have to be very conscious of that too. Like when I talk. Because obviously my voice is very distinct and so are your guys. So I feel like they hear it and they're like immediately. They kind of perk up to it a little bit. You're like, shut up.

Put your hands down. I know you like to talk with your hands. Let him down and relax. I know the only fights that Billy and I ever have are very, they're very stupid. They're silly. They're so small and they turn into silly arguments, especially in public, though. Especially when you travel. Oh, traveling.

Oh, my God, it's so much. It's like, it's just a lot, especially when you travel as much as we do for work and everything. When I hosted Black Adam last year in New York, I remember, I got these outfits made for us, obviously, like, they're cultural. And so I got a whole one. made for my boyfriend too. And he's very like, I'm a Virgo, so I'm very like order, order planning, all that shit. And so I

set all of that up for us. I had the outfits brought to us. I was like, okay, we're good. And he was like, I'm packed. And I'm like, are you? Like, everything's packed, including the outfit. Like, if you forgot all your underwear and not that outfit, I wouldn't be mad because, like, you need that outfit. He goes, yeah, yeah, yeah.

And then we get to the airport and he's, like, thinking about it. And he left the bottoms, like, hanging in my I was in the way that I was like, I'm gonna freak out. So I'm like literally left. I'm getting arrested right now. You won't need him anymore because you're gonna be dead.

I'm about to make a no-fly list because I'm gonna be very upset publicly. I was so angry. Like I was so stressed out and upset. I like got up and left so I didn't have to be next to. Bro, I would do the same thing. Because I can't like rage at you because there's people who know me

and they're gonna watch me. Oh my God. And I was so and he was like, I'm really sorry. I'm like, I bet. Typical. I bet. He's not a little. That helps.

The story helps right now. It really is helping. Big Ben. Well, thank God you're sorry. Yeah. Otherwise, I'm going to make that. Yeah. That brings the bottoms right here.

You would do that. And I ended up, my mom ended up FedExing them to me. Like, she like overnighted them to me. Your mom just sounds like a real. My mom's that girl. She is like, dude, recently before I went to Paris, uh, night before, like leading up to it, I'm like, okay. Paris is a big deal, right?

And so I'm thinking, nothing's going wrong. feels wrong. Someone's going to go wrong. Then that literal night before my boyfriend realized he lost our passports. Good, good, good. And then I was like,

a car gets here at 3 a.m. and it's 11 and we can't find. The passports. I was freaking out. I was freaking out. And my boyfriend's like, I'm really sorry. I'm like, are you? Oh, my God.

That's why he's helping again. You're like, oh, I'm sorry. You're just savior. My mom fixed that problem too. Shit. My mom got me like a last day appointment. I had to push my flight a day. It is stressful.

I've been there. She's horrible. And it's just like, I've been there too. I've been there too for sure. It's just silly shit like that I'm like, love you. Love you so much.

It's not the big shit. It's silly stuff. It's always something so stupid. And purely an accident. And that's probably the part of it makes me the most upset because I'm like, I can't get upset because it was an accident. Yeah.

It's like, if it was me, I'd be like, don't be mean. I already feel bad enough. I guess. I'm like, I think you work. You think you feel. It rolls your reverse. No, literally fucking same.

100%. And then sometimes he's like, sometimes he'll be like, well, like, if you had done that, like, I would forgive you. Yeah, exactly. I'm like, I'm going to forgive you just like, I can't do it right now. We're not right now. I can't give you that right now. Give me 10. And I was like, also, me being a Virgo, I'm like, well, that would never happen to me because I would never lost it.

Me being a burgo. I'm organized. Yeah. That's just me being in all. Like, it's easy for me to say that now because it's your fault. Yeah. So I'm allowed to be mad at you. Did you guys get any.

footage of you arguing in the airport? No, I wish. Once I got on the plane, I was like, I really wish I could see myself from the third person point of view. Actually, our friend Vaughd was there. I know, he was like, he was like, probably like, yeah, he did. I was like, post it. He's like, okay. I was like, don't post it. Don't post it. Don't post nothing. You won't pose nothing. He was just like, didn't know what to do. Eventually, I was like, just go through Clear. Just go. Get out of here. That was the stress. We just got there too close. And we were in the TSA line, and it was really long for some reason. And Clear was there. and it was just, it was a mess.

And then the line is moving. Don't make that. Be honest. Scott, it was. Be honest. Are we doing this now? Girl, can I have the room, please? Let's wrap this up early, guys.

Were you late? Is that what it was? No. No. No. He's saying, is that what it was? It was like, all right, so when we walked in the airfield. You don't have to do this, Scott.

No, I'm joking. Erica, just, you know when that thought in your head's like, I might miss this flight? Even if it's like, like, we had more than enough time. I think it was just like, we, and we had a connecting plate that was very tight. Yeah.

So it was like, you're like, I can't miss this far. I need to get home. Yeah. And I think she was just like, like, we're never making this line. Yeah, I already had it. Ten minutes later, we're like sitting at the gate for the next 45 minutes. And we're not talking to each other now. I know.

And then he's going, we're fine. And you're like, we're not fine. She's like, I'm signing up for clear. We're like in clear. We're outlines that we missed our place. I think it was just like a high stress. And that was it. Me core.

Those TSA agents are probably like, what are these people doing? Sometimes I think the logical, like, because my boyfriend's the logical one. I'm very emotional. So like, and he's the very like, it's going to be fine. And I don't have that. Personally, I don't have that skill.

To be like, but it's very like, I'm very like, what if it all goes wrong? And he's like, it won't. Yeah. I'm like, how do you know that for sure? Because it never does. Okay. Okay. And? Like it doesn't eliminate possibility in my head, but to him, it's like, it's not even an option.

Yeah. So it's going to be fine, which sometimes you don't want to hear when you're stressed, which I feel. But you also need to hear that when you're stressed. It's such a weird balance. I know. I know. Even like, even literally last night, like when I arrived in New York, I was carrying my suitcase into the room and we were looking at the room.

To my defense, I was looking at something that I was going to make a silly joke about. And I was like, I was like, this joke is going to kill. It's just me and my boyfriend. no one else is there. I'm like literally playing. I'm like, that joke is funny. I'm going to say that out loud, not paying attention.

And my suitcase hit something and it fell and it ripped my nail off. And I just got new nails. So it was like painful. And I had like a nervous breakdown. Like I was literally like, I'm so upset. Like I was like crying. And my boyfriend's like, it's fine. I'll go get you some glue.

I'm like, glue's not going to fix it. She's still trying to tell the joke. You're like, well, well, I have you. Let me tell you this joke. He's like, that's like, It's not even funny. It would end up out. I'm like, cancel everything.

Forget it. We're going home. It's like one of those moments. I have like a freak out. Fast forward hours later. I was like trying to make my boyfriend laugh. So I was like spinning in a circle. Don't ask me why.

And then he was like, I wish that I could stitch what you were doing when we first got here. That's me with food though. I'm like, turn into the hawk. I'm like, la la, la. After that, you're like eating and eating. You're like, are you, you're so quiet. As soon as she's like, open the door, the door dad's here.

Everything before that was forgotten, like, completely. She's like, once that doors open it, the bag's there, she's just like, what happened? I'm crying still. Well, I thought we were done. I feel better. Do you feel better? And she's like, you're not going to eat with me?

This is crazy. there's really no winning there's no winning with well that's what I think is like that's probably I think what people love the most about the two of you other than both of you being

very very funny and good content creators I think it's like your relationship is very real like it's very normal like to fight with your spouse or to like make them laugh it's like just as much

yeah it's like silly what's the silliest argument you guys have that's consistent silliest ooh I feel maybe like any time time I clean the sink.

He has to shave. Like something. Yeah. It's like the... It's stuff like that. Like, if she'll like clean like the stove, we can't cook for two weeks. No. I'm like... I'm like...

I'm like, the stove is never going to get dirty again. There's no point of even having it. Like, we should have not even... Rip it out. Sell it, honestly. Or like Scott has a seltzer addiction. Like just regular seltzer. I don't know what happened.

And there's so many cans everywhere. Like half drank full. I'm like, it drives me insane. Insane. I forget them. I'll leave like that. It's just silly shit like that. Which is you'll fight with anyone

cohabiting like that. Oh yeah. Even with my boyfriend, like when I first moved in with him, like, well, he still does this to this day. This drives me nuts. But he'll like, he'll walk into the room and he'll just take the shoes off in the middle of the room. No.

And he'll take pants off. He'll take, it looks like he was like evaporated out of it. Like, I'm like, why are these here? Like, and he'll leave them in the most random place. And my boyfriend's a size 13 shoe. So they're not like, it's an inconvenience. Yeah. literally a bear trap.

Like, I'm literally falling over it. I'll trip over it or hurt myself. I'm like, why do you leave? In the middle of the room, like in the middle. I don't understand. It's like a new coffee table. Like, it's not like a small zoo. Like you put an autumn in the middle of it.

It's just stripping immediately. Stripping and then leaving it on the ground. I'll come back for it. I'm going to clean it up. I'm like, when? Literally when. No. And then sometimes you just leave it there to see.

And then they don't. And you're like, are you looking? Like, he's like, well, today's not over. I still have time to go pick it up. Yeah. Okay. That's like the silliest, I think. For me, I think I'm perfect, so he's not here.

So I doubt he would have any problems with me. Oh, yeah. He told me. You are. I doubt, yeah, see, I doubt it. I'm such a perfect partner. He has no complaints about me. Same.

I'm just, take my word for it. He's not here, but take my word for it. Okay. We're going to talk about navigating a public relationship online as a creator, right? So obviously we talked about things we have to be more mindful of now. now that we're like public people. Yeah. And even so, I don't know if you've ever gotten this,

but like sometimes when I use certain audios, like on TikTok or whatever, it'll have like references to like being, like a breakup or being better off or whatever. And if I post even one, all the comments are like, oh no, like they broke up. I don't believe. I'm like, girl, what are you talking about?

This is an Olivia Rodriguez song. Yeah. She's 19. I'm just like, I'm vibing. And sometimes I have to take them down. I don't know if that's ever happened to you. I said they ever thought you guys broke up or something. I think there was.

Or been like Scott hasn't been in a lot of videos lately. Maybe he's not there. Like I share a couple of those have come down like that. There's some comments sometimes. I forgot what I did recently that people and maybe it was an audio too. And people are like, what do you mean? Are you guys divorced? Are you?

And I'm like, wait, what? And I don't even pay attention to what I'm posting sometimes. It's so bad. And yeah, so it's just comments, but I've never had to, like, take it down. Yeah. Ever. Yeah, I had to pose a follow-up once. I'm like, you guys, everything's fine.

Too, he's right here. Everything's fine. And also, I was like, I'm also going to be 30. So if I do ever break up, if I do ever break up with the love of my life, I'm not making a tech talk about it. Yeah. Yeah, like, it's like, there's nothing. I'm burning the world down. That's right.

I'm burning this building down. You will never see me again. You'll know, because I'll be on the news. Yeah, yeah, you know what I mean? I'm never supposed to get. Yeah, I'm going to grow to the size of a Godzilla and I'm terrorizing it. You know what I'm saying?

Like, that's what I'm going to do if that ever happens to me. Same. You'll make history in a bad way. Same. Chee Hulk, bro. Yeah. I'm going to lose my mind. Wait, weren't you guys that for Halloween ones?

Yeah, Lester. I remember that. That was a great costume. That was so bad. Because I always joke. I'm like, yo, I am Cheaholk. Like, for real. You should do it.

But we, didn't we want to do, like, you're the Hulk and I was the doctor or something. No. You know how it's like Bruce Bitt, Dr. Banner or whatever thing? I was going to just be like just a guy in like a button up shirt and she was going to be the whole. Oh, like turning into it. Full green. That's funny.

That's a great one. Okay. But she doesn't, like I just imagined it. She's like, if I do the pose, you'll get. Yeah, exactly. Yeah, when we did the Hulk's, like that was a crazy costume. But I remember when I posted that, they were like, aren't the Hulk's cousins? And so I was like, well, they're also not.

They're also third cousins, so it's like... Not real, so we can't go based off that. Not real. Yeah, I can't believe. It's like on their mom's like, it's like a stepbrother. Say they're not real. Yeah, I was like, they're also not real, so we could go based off that. But if you want to split hairs... I guess they are in some of the comics...

People are insane. I guess they are cousins. It's going to be okay, though. But I'm Pacific Islander, so that happens a lot. Sometimes you just don't know. Sometimes. I don't want, I don't know. You don't be knowing.

What do you want for me? We lived on an island, you know what I mean? So I was like, what do you want for me? But even, like, some people were like, oh, you should have been, he should have been daredevil or something. I'm like, I don't know nearly enough about the Lord. Like, you're giving me way too much credit, girl. You're like, give me too much credit, girl. Too late on the suggestion.

I painted my body green, like, just let's just watch. Too late. Let's just look. Let's just look. Let's laugh. I am stained green for the rest of the week. That was a nightmare. That was really bad, washing the green off as well.

Yeah, that was supposed to say. come off easier, but do you guys like Halloween? Yeah, we love Halloween. I love Halloween, too. We do. Do you guys love a good couple's costume, or do you guys kind of brave it on your own? I think, well, we actually have a funny, a really funny story about that. Of a couple costume. Usually, typically, it is like a couple's costume. So two years ago, we were celebrating one of my best friends' birthdays in Miami, and it was around Halloween. Yeah. So she was like, yeah, we're going to go to a club, like, whatever. So we plan our

outfit and I'm like, okay, you should be, months ahead. Month ahead. We're like ready. This is like set in stone. What I thought was so we we go and we have our costumes and he was going to be Dr. Evil but like in the in the prison scene

in jail. Gotcha. And I was going to be I think her name was Faye. Fay. And I was going to be like, you know that scene where they passed the key like she missed out with him? So I was going to dress like her but my costume I looked like Dali Parton. Like it looks crazy. So we get to Miami and I'm chatting with like, it's like a huge group of girls and guys and everyone's like, I'm going to be sexy Cleopatra. I'm going to be a lizard.

I'm like, wait a second. I thought we were doing silly ones, guys. I'm like, there's no way I'm doing this. And we're going to like a crazy club in Miami 11. So it's like there's a lot of people here. Yeah. It's like we're going to like we're just staying in the house. So I was like I fuck this.

I am going to the Halloween store. Like I'm going to fucking spirit Halloween and getting something immediately. in the morning. And he was like, well, I don't have anything else. He's like, not me. I'm going to Dr. Evil. He was alone with no context at all. And I was like, I was like a witch or something. I was like, I would have been the gray suit, Dr. Evil. I don't need to be jailed Dr. Evil. Like the whole reason is because now I'm just a bald person. Now I look, now I'm in Miami. Now I'm in Miami at a club and I just look like a Cuban dude. Everyone's like, I've seen you before. I'm like, no you haven't.

He's actually. And an orange jumps soon. Like a bandana on. They're like, oh, you look like, okay. You're like, are you? Are you my cousin? Yeah. No, I'm Dr. Evil, man. And she's like real cute.

What were you? It was like, whatever was like. You didn't want to get a costume too? No, it was she got up at like 6 a.m. After a long, she's like, I'm Ubering to Party City. I was like, man. She's like, I'm going. She was already ready.

I was, all right, no way. I guess I'll be Dr. That's hilarious. That was one of the funniest time. That is so funny. That is so funny. One year, my boyfriend. Friend and I were, like, one of the few years, because I plan Halloween,

cost them so far in advance, because I love Halloween. But this year I didn't, I don't remember why. And so we were, like, driving around, and this is, like, the day before Halloween. So, you know, like, there's nothing left. It's picked clean. Can't return anything. And the last place we went was, like, I think we got them from Walmart or Target. I forget.

But it was, like, those jumpsuits, you know, it's like the full costume, but it's just, like, a body suit. And it was Buzz and Woody, but it's just like their outfits are printed poorly on the costume. And so we were like, yeah, let's do this. I don't know why the fuck. We were like, what a great idea. We got them. They were dirty and they were like broken.

And the lady gave it to us for like half off. So it was like a steal. A ways away. Yeah, I got a bargain. And we went and we tried them on. And my boyfriends was too small. Like he couldn't get it all the way up the lake. So he literally just cut it in half.

and just wore the top Just as a romper Like just legs out Just wore the top Couldn't Couldn't do up the back Because it's too small Because my boyfriend's wingspan

Is just too big for it His traps were like hanging out of it The commitment Yeah and then he put that foam hat on And they just wore black jeans And then I wore a dirty Buzz Lighter onesie Meanwhile Woody is like

A hundred pounds soaking wet It's just a little Huge Literally hulking out of the costume And then when everyone saw us, I think they kind of felt bad. Like, they were like, oh, I get it. I'm all, I don't need the tone. I don't need.

We don't need this. It's not bad, seriously. I don't need the tone. Thank you, though. I appreciate it, though. My boyfriend never really used to care about Halloween, but then once we started dating, he, like, loves it. So now I feel like whenever I'm like, I want to be this, he's like, well, what am I supposed to be? That's what, that's what happened last year.

I looked like a substitute teacher. Oh, my God. I was miscongeniality. Oh, I love that. of like her the talent show or something but he's just the detective so I'm in khakis in a button up shirt and everyone's like I don't even know what you're here for

are you the manager or the bar they're like no I don't even know what I am to be honest I've wanted to be Selena for a few years and I want to do obviously her purple of it and like the bang and the red lip legendary I wanted to do that

and then he's like well whom am I supposed to be I'm like her husband he goes what do you wear? What do I wear? I'm like just all black. And he goes, so I look like security. I'm all, okay. I was like, you could be Selena security. Yeah, exactly. And he's like, no, I want to be something cool too. And I'm like, I want to be Selena. He wears the purple.

One of us has to change. One of my stats to change. Oh, well, now I'm embarrassed. That's somebody showing up in a full, like, costume. You're like, same person. You're like listening, you know. Your eyes are getting wider Every time they're like talking about what they're going to be Yeah, I think it's because my thing I love being, I think sexy costumes are cool I think they're awesome

But I also want to be something like cool Yeah Something like different or cool I always want to like yeah Think of something unique A hundred percent I feel that The basics are all you know

And those are easy like I could do those I did those all in college You know like throughout college Even some of my costumes in college though I like would convince my friends So like my freshman year of college I convinced everyone to be spring breakers because that movie had just come out.

So we just wore bathing suits and the mask which is like trendy, cute, unique, right? One of my friends got too fucked up before we left and forgot to cut holes in her beanie because we couldn't find ski masks. So we cut holes in a pink beanie. Then she just looked like a dickhead in a beanie. She doesn't match us at all.

Which is so funny because she's still in a bikini like she's still with us. But they're like, well, who's this girl? She's facing the other way. Babe, turn around. Who's the swimmer? Who's the swimmer? Well, yeah, Airfield's like, well, who's she supposed to be?

I'm all. She's one of us. Just forget it. Forget it. Forget it. And when you have to explain a costume to someone, it's not fun anymore. The worst. The worst.

The magic's gone. Disney in the back. It's like, ah, it's terrible. My brother one year, because my brother is significantly younger than me, but like one year he wanted to be a Kingsman, right? Like, the movie. And I'm like, that's cool, but, like, you're just in a suit. Yeah, right. Like, they don't wear anything cool.

Like, it's like the gadgets are hidden inside. He's like, it would be fine. And my mom gets him a whole suit, like a cane, everything, glasses, all this shit. The whole night, everyone's like, are you just like... A broker or... A financier. So I'm an entrepreneur. He starts giving a seminar.

Home insurance. He's Grant Ardone, like, who the fuck are you supposed to be? He's like, do you know what I am? Like, he starts asking people. It's rough. It is right. There's a fine line between, like, I have no idea. Oh, that's perfect

But once you get it, you're like, oh, I see. Or you tell them and they just still don't know, they're like, cool. They're like, oh, I hate that. Yeah, I think the first one I did when I had like a platform, I was John Wick. And then I made my boyfriend the dog that dies.

Oh, my God. Holy shit. And that was his idea. Because I was like, I kind of want to be John Wick, but like, I don't know who you would be. He's like, I'll be the dead dog. He's like, I'll be the dog. Yeah.

what about the dog? And he was like, all right. Like, he didn't care. So he got, like, a sloth costume because, like, he couldn't find a dog one big enough. Close enough. And then he just put his hair in two things and then drew dog stuff on his face. Even then, everyone was like, I don't get it.

Like, they thought he was, I don't know, like a bear or something. And I think they just thought I was, like, a fancy person. But then I don't know, most of the pictures, they were like, oh, like, that's cool. Yeah, you have to do the side-by-side. Yeah, you got to put it in the carousel. Yeah, we had to make a little video to explain the substantive. teacher guy. Everyone's like, oh, all right. Eric. You're like, ah,

that's it. Before, in the bar, it was like, no one knew. Everyone's like, I don't get it. Did they just think you were a Dutch girl? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Exactly. Like, oh, Octoberfest, cool. Like, I guess. Close enough. I mean, kind of. You're like, it looks like the bar manager. Yeah, I just looked like I had a rough day at work.

I'm just like, yeah, let me get a double. You're all right. Hey, Halloween. So, I'll go, we'll do one of these videos. and we're talking again about being like a public couple. So this first video is the man is hosting this podcast and he says a lot of women are cheating right now. You don't want to hear it. It has nothing to do with sex if a man is in your inbox and your DMs saying good morning, beautiful or hey, what are you doing today? If you're giving a man conversation, you're cheating.

Okay. Okay. Well, even if you talk to your dad or something. Is that any man? I'll just ignore my father. Christ. Can't. Sorry, married.

to my dad. Sorry, dad. I'm married. I did that two once and that was so embarrassing. Like, I was working, I was like running on treadmill, which I don't know why a trainer would approach you when you're on the fucking mad out of breath, like running. And he came and approached me and I thought he was trying to flirt. And I was like, I'm married.

And he was like, I'm a trainer here. I was like, I'm actually trying to get your money. She pointed them to me and then I'm more out of shape than her. So I can't breathe. Now he's up in me talking. I'm like, you should have talked to her. Well, now I feel targeted. Yeah.

I came up to the two of us. my boyfriend is a trainer is a licensed trainer and it is pretty trainers are very specific kind of breed male trainers so crazy is that we just posted like yesterday i was like i'm looking for a trainer in our area so you guys need interesting he does online training if you guys want to do that me just me just selling no i love a supportive girlfriend do you guys think it's cheating um if a man is in your dance Scott? I guess it just depends on the context.

Yeah, it's all about the context. I think it would be the same as if, like, a girl was, like, trying to, you know, like, it depends on what they're saying. What the conversation is. If it's a normal conversation, yeah. Yeah, absolutely. But every day, if someone's, like, throwing hard eyes, like, good morning, beautiful. It's like, I'm fully married, you know? Like, if a girl was doing that to me, I'd be like.

That's weird. Intentions are ill-will. That's fucking weird. If someone is just messaging you about normal stuff, something you're posting or something like that, you can always tell the vibe, you know? Yeah. Yeah, well, I also think, too, it's so easy to, like, catch people doing things like that. You know what I'm saying? Yeah.

When people cheat, they're not very secretive about that. Or they get secretive eventually and then you just get fishy. But I feel like if you're confident enough in your relationship, like you're secure enough in your relationship, you don't worry about stuff like no. Like, I don't worry about stuff like that. Like, I know Billy's handsome. I'm never thinking, like, oh, my God, how many people are saying good morning, beautiful? Ever. Yeah.

My man knows I don't get that. I get quite the opposite. From a front man, if I'm being honest. I have all the girlies and the gays in my... Me too. Nothing to worry about. Yeah. Men send me a very different kind of message, personally.

I even had, like, when I had Dylan on the show, like, Dillan. She was like, oh, do you ever have people being creepy? And I was like, no. Actually, like, confidently no. Never. Yeah. I think I've had only recently have I had like some men like kind to say stuff that's a little, but they know I have a boyfriend so they're never going to disrespect him.

Even if they want to disrespect me. Yeah, they care more about his reaction than they do mine. A hundred percent. I mean, I get like the, you know, the usual sugar daddy's DMs. You know, do you ever get through that? Hello, baby. I would love to send you five million dollars. I'm like, please, be my guess.

Is it a wire or is it like? I'll take over from here, babe. I got it. Do you need a routing number? What is this thing you need? Here, I'll deposit first, then we'll talk. We'll continue the conversation. Even when I first started dating my boyfriend, like, if we would go out and stuff,

sometimes he's like, why don't you take a lap, see if you can get us some drinks? Oh, my God. Yeah, walk around. 100%. And you just go, oh, but my friend, like, they don't have a drink either. And then they're like, I'll get both of you. I'm like, okay, thanks. Perfect. Bye.

Bye. Bye. Thank you so much. I have to go to the bathroom with my drinks. I have to go to the bathroom. bathroom, just go to my man. Immediately. Yeah, and one time I made a video about that, and I had quite a few, well, obviously, man,

but I had some picnies be like, oh, that's cheating. And I'm like, he was there. Yeah, he's like down, he's like rooting for you. He doesn't care. He's scouting the dudes for you. Like, this guy looks like an idiot. He's like, go take a lap and see. I'm like, all right, cool.

Let's walk around. But I always feel like, that's not cheating. No. making the patriarchy work for you. It's haggling is what it is. It's a swap meat at the end of the day. It is what it is. It's like best bargain.

If someone's willing to buy me something, I'm taking it. What am I supposed to say? Yeah. Supposed to say no? I was like, I got one for me and him. What are you talking about? If the guy mixed the drink, maybe I'm not taking it. But the bartender just passed it over.

I'm good. Yeah, dude. For real. I don't think, I mean, have you guys ever had people say things like that about you guys online or try to like I don't know like infer like oh he's probably cheating I get those but that's because I antagonize men for a living yeah yeah yeah um I I don't think so

honestly it's so bad like I really it's so bad I try not to really look at like comments that's not a bad thing you know it is so it's just like once I catch like one thing that I'm stuck on it but I rather just protect myself I feel you and I'm like so Maybe they're thrown in there sometimes in videos, or DMs or something. Yeah.

I don't think I get those pretty, like, I doubt you do too. I will. We'll have, like, a mutual friend, and I'll, like, comment on their video, laughing, L.O.L. And they'll be like, don't you have a wife? Like, yeah. Of course you also saw me, right? Sometimes I'll comment on things, yeah. I mean, like, you're married.

I'm like, okay, like, people are still attractive. You're like, I'm not doing anything. He was with me when I did by. I'm like, she could see this the same you can. Like, what are you think? I'm not hiding. It's public, bro. Like, I'm going to send this to her.

That's like the only thing I'll see. And I'm like, yeah, that seemed very weird. We met her together. They're like friends. We're literally. Yeah, I'm a fan. I'm a fan of someone. She was with me when I wrote that.

It's okay. Literally. Don't worry, guys. All good intentions. But it's like someone who's watching very closely to shit like that. Which is, you know, I think. I think it's just natural. It's probably because they're like,

they love you so much. They want to protect you. One thousand percent. But people can be weird sometimes. Yes, the can. Okay, the comments on this, this just says they'll just blame others to avoid being caught.

I'm assuming talking about women who talk to men. Okay. In their comments. Okay. And then this says accountability is foreign to a lot of women. Oh. Sure.

Okay. I just feel like it's such a bold statement. Sure, sure. I feel like everything... Well, men are known for taking responsibility. for all the wrong things they do. They're known for that. That's like their thing.

That is their thing. And this is a thousand percent facts and there's always a side dude. And there's always a side dude. Like you're such a loser. Yeah, you're such a loser. You're such a funny. Always. There's always.

My grandma, after 68 years of marriage, she had a man on the side for sure. They have so much. People are wild. People are wild. The irony is, that they know that men are whores and so that's why they believe that. Because men are

down. That's why they're always down. That's why they have that mentality. Yeah, it's because they're down. We're doing it. They got to be. I would be so people gotta be like, I'm doing it now. He doesn't even have a girlfriend. Yeah, yeah, it's those. They're concerned about everyone else. Did you guys see

that trend that was going around on first, I think it was on Twitter, but then it got moved to TikTok, but it was like this thread that this guy started and he was saying men no one talks about how hard it is when you start to slowly hate your girlfriend or your wife. Oh, holy shit.

I just saw someone talking about that. Yeah, and it was like a whole threat and it's a whole bunch of dudes in there being like, oh yeah, it's the worst, like I try to ignore her and she knows something's wrong and then I, you know what I mean? Just quiet quitting the relationship. Yeah, quite. No, for real. Literally quiet quitting. I was going to put a 95 in and I'll just, if I get fired, I get fired.

He's like, what? It's love. No, it's literally quite quitting. Like, they, they are genuinely trying to make their girlfriends break up with them because they don't want to do it. That is, isn't that insane? Actually insane.

Sometimes when I tell you, just speak. It sounds like torture to me. Sometimes, like, it's literally about death by 1,000 cuts. Like, just pull it. Like, I don't need to, I would have done it at that point. Such a dork. Like, just fucking say it with your chest. Such a loser.

But I, and I, of course, sometimes when I ring up stuff like that, people are like, I didn't see anything like that. And it's because I'm always exposed to the worst sides of the internet. People are just tagging like, well, what do you think about this? Terrible thing? Literally, I get a front row seat to all things that are awful on the internet. Your mentions are probably crazy. And I saw that a bunch, like, so many people were like, this is crazy.

Like, you know, do you have anything to say about this? And when I made a video about it, I kind of was just like, I mean, am I shocked to hear that some men treat their wives and girlfriends like shit? No. What shocks me is whether or not any of you believe them, because I don't. Like, I don't believe a single dude in that threat. And I said, did you go and look at what they look like? It's very telling.

You don't have a girlfriend at home. Like, no, you're like. You're like, hey, you're a liar. I lie. You know, anything's possible when you lie. I lie all the time. All the time, I lie. So that's not true.

And then when... Do you imagine how sad you got to be to really, like, not have a girlfriend, but you're like, when I do... Yeah. Eventually not like her. No. And when I get to a point where I hate her. I cannot. And I even said, even if that is true, which it has, I'm sure, I know that's happened

in real life. I just don't believe any man on the internet who says, like brags and laughs about it. Like, I don't believe you. You're a fucking liar. I can't. Like, I lie about stuff all the time. It's, I get it.

For reaction. Yeah. Like, girls love to lie about stupid shit. You like to lie about abusing a girlfriend. Yeah, that's cool. It's a little different. It's a little different. It's just.

And when I was talking. about it, even in my video, I was kind of explaining how, like, real relationships, like, true foundational relationships, like, don't end that way, obviously. I know that it has happened, I'm sure, at many different points where men, like, kind of mentally check out of relationships. And I was like, but honestly, like, nothing brings mediocre men together faster than talking shit on a bitch they don't deserve. Oh, my God. Every time.

They love to Kiki about that. They love to gather around and be like, oh, I had a crazy. X wants. Fucking wild. She was such a dumb bit. Like, they love to do that. It unites them so quickly. Talking about imaginary friends, they don't fucking have.

That's why I'm like, good men don't sit around talking about ex-girlfriends. Like, really? Grow up. Good men in other relationships don't sit around talking about that. Ever. Ever in my life. Literally ever, like, ever. Every time where Erica, I, before Erica, like, two months before, I, like, kind of, like, dated

saw a girl for maybe a month. Like nothing serious at all. Like, Little Fling. Erica will still say her name sometimes. And I'll be like, who are you even talking? And I'll realize and I'll be like, I can't even remember this girl. It was like three weeks. No, you're literally stuck just like my boyfriend.

I'm never thinking about them. Exactly the same. Because I want to know. Because I am a cheese most hot. So I just, I just like, I'm nosy. That's just like what I want to hear. So he's been like, I waited to like two, three months in and then I was like, so let's talk about some stuff. Like I'm like, I want to talk.

Do you want to hear about mine? I'll tell you about mine. He's probably like, no, really. You know, he literally told me I don't want to hear about it. Yeah, like, I don't want to. I'm like, are you sure? Let's exchange. I'm good.

Just keep yours. I'm going to keep mine. That's good. We're all. We moved out from all that. That's why my man is literally like, I don't need to hear. I don't care at all. Because it's not who starts the race is who finishes.

Exactly. Exactly. So, and that's how he's, but I'm just nosy, so I want to, like. I want to know everything. Yeah, I get offended or anything. Me either. I just want to know. Because that's what we talk about with our, with girlfriends.

I know. Which, like, when I first started doing my boyfriend, too, I'm like, you guys don't ever talk about that stuff? Like, with your friends? And he's like, no. They don't, I wonder all the, what do you guys do? I feel like they sit in silence. Tell me something.

And I'm like, I'll have a follow-up question that's totally normal. And he'll be like, I don't know. I didn't ask. I'm like, how don't you ask these questions? What you guys? You guys just say sentences and just stop there and never just don't come in here.

No follow up. No follow up. It was recent too. I was like, oh yeah, my friend broke up with his girl and she's like, oh my god, why? And I'm like, oh, I don't know. Me, literally me. I'm like, oh, now I got to call him and ask him. Like that's not fair.

Gave me half a story. Go find out. I'm like, now it's awkward. Like he told me, oh, by the way, me and blah, blah, blah, broke up. Oh, okay, are you good? And he's like, yeah, I'm like, all right. And I was, how boring.

I was, like, so upset. You still don't know why. I still don't know. I talk to him almost every day. I cannot relate. Like, I'm just like, it's so funny. Even like with my boyfriend's brother, like, when he dated a new girl or whatever, I'd be like, well, what's the tea on her? Like, tell me about her.

And he goes, I don't know anything about her. I don't even know. He goes, I only, I think her name is this. And then I go, okay, but like, you know, like, you know, like. like what does she do for living? Like where does she live? He goes, I don't know. And I go, you didn't ask.

He goes, no, she told me, I'm seeing this new girl. And then I said, cool. And that's it. What the fuck? It's just like, it's so fun. Yeah. That's what I was like, what? I literally, because I say like with my sister, like, we talk like 20,000 times a day.

So like every single time I'm like, oh, you're never going to believe it. And I'll tell her the silliest thing, but it takes me 20 minutes to explain it. Because I have the most colorful story. Right? my boyfriend has life-shattering news. And I'm like, oh, my God, sit down. I need to hear it. I need to hear it.

And he goes, well, that's it. That's all I know. Exactly. It's not, I'm just telling you what I know. He's the same way. It's actually insane. You're like, he'll tell me to you about, like, the gym he used to work at. He'll be like, oh, like, yeah, I heard so-and-so got in trouble because they did this.

I'm like, with who? He goes, mm, I don't know. Like, don't tell me, then. Don't tell me. Keep it from me until you have the whole story. Otherwise, I have to go to the gym And I have to ask around And that's not fair

I have to apply I have to be a personal trainer I have to be certified I build a clientele I start selling online And then I hear the story That's so much work for me One of my boyfriend's like best friends

He works at the gym too And he like Had text my boyfriend Something vague Like he was like Oh yeah so and so Got in trouble today Because of this

I'm like Why? And he goes I don't know I'm like ask him I want to know And he goes He just literally sent why. And then he goes, oh, I don't know. I'll have to

like, ask. And I'm like, I'm on the edge of my seat. I'm like, please tell me, please tell me. I need to know. Who cares? The information doesn't change my life at all. Then I finally, like, he called him. He told, I was like, put it on speaker, put it on speaker. Because you know I was there. I'm like, I want to hear, I want to hear. So he tells me the whole story. I'm like, and then I literally, I'm not kidding. I grew face on my whole family. I'm like, guys, gather around. I have a whole story for you. Gather around.

They don't know nothing about anything. Who are these people? No, I'm literally like, I'm the only one talking at that point. I'm talking to my boyfriend's best friend because we know each other really well, too. So I'm asking him all these questions. My boyfriend's not even paying attention anymore. Yeah, he doesn't even care. It's not listening. Fully checked out.

Yeah, and then I grew face on my whole family. Guys, oh, I got something crazy. It's just the most random news. Nobody cares. My dad's on there. He doesn't give a fuck. My dad doesn't care at all. My dad doesn't give a damn.

He's super like, oh, nice. All of the dudes are like that. But my mom and my sister locked in listening to me. Of course. Every word. follow up. Yeah. And they're like, how's it going out?

Yeah. Any news? Any updates? My mom will do the same thing to me. So what did they say after you said that? I love his mom. She's always, but what about that?

But is this still happening? I'm like, I really have no idea. Well, how? How could you not know? And I'm like, just call Erica. Please. She'll call Erica.

Let's call her right to chase. I have all the information. No, she calls me too. That's so funny. My boyfriend's mom calls me too because she only has boys. So, like, she's never. gotten to like really talk shit. And so that she's like, and when I tell, I love telling my boyfriend's mom T.

Because when I tell her T, she goes, no way. Like her reaction. She's white. So like, her reactions are very like, you're lying. She literally goes, you're kidding. You're literally lying to me. She says that to me all the time. I'm like, I'm not Lisa.

Take a seat. Let's talk about it. They love it. Can you believe? I know mom. I love it doesn't age. Yeah, you're just like any age. You're down.

Your grandma too. Ninety-eight. What's good? My grandma. What's good? You can't assist in a living home now. She's talk gossip about everybody. They're right next to her.

I'm like, where am I? That's me and Eric and an old phone cell. I'm like, you're never going to believe it. She's like, she's married to her son. Her daughter's married to her son. They've been here for five years. Both of their husbands passed away. I'm like, grandma, they're right here.

Right next to you. You could just have them in the conversation. I could ask them. Literally, sometimes my boyfriend would tell me T and I'm like, we have to tell your mom. Call her. I know. We do. Call your mom. We have to tell her.

I know, because it's so lackluster from him. I'm like, I need an audience. It's not the same. I need a captive audience, just like me. Okay, to wrap up, obviously you guys are incredible and so funny and amazing. So what would you guys say is your best piece of advice for couples that may be like looking into being like a public figure, social media person? Like, would you say your guys' best tips are? Um, don't be a prank couple. That's valid to be honest. Don't be a prank couple.

Yeah, you know what? That breaks up couples, not my show. It's becoming a prank couple. It's a bright couple. That's it. That's the advice. I mean, I was going to say basically the same thing. Like, be authentic because you'll get, if you're faking it, it's like, there's going to be ad.

Like, when you guys break up, there's going to be ad deals that you have and then you're going to have to fake it three weeks after the breakup. And then once everyone finds out, they're going to be like, man, that was rough. I know. They're going to be able to tell. Just be authentic. If you guys really love each other, show it. If you're mad at each other, show it. Yeah.

He has more words now. Not when he has tea. Like, you know, free advice, but can't tell me why they broke out. Crazy. Get on that. You have homework today. I will say, too, something I really admire about the two of you that I feel very strongly in my own relationship, too, is, like, you guys show what you want to show and you keep

what you want to keep private. 100% I feel that. That is great advice. Yeah. Really keep your relationship for yourself as well. Because once it's too public, then it's just like... You're not doing it for each other.

Then it's just like filtering into your own real reality. Yeah, exactly. And it's not between just the two of you anymore. It's you and millions of other people. Exactly. Like they're all in on your relationship at that point. And I really admire that about the two of you. Because I know you guys set boundaries like that too.

And so do I? Yeah. Which I think is beautiful. Because you know you want to show your partner And you want to show how talented and funny they are and everything Which is a wonderful thing But then sometimes you got to keep some stuff Yeah, I feel that

You gotta know it's like if the internet never existed ever again If there was no power in the world It's like you're good Yeah, you're fine Yeah and like if it were to all disappear tomorrow You'll still be okay Either way I love that about you. You guys are amazing

You're amazing thank you so funny I adore y'all Where can everybody find you? On TikTok and Instagram at Erica Priscilla. I am Scotty's Days Off on all platforms. Love. Make sure y'all follow both of them on everything. They're both so funny and talented.

I adore you guys. Thank you. Thank you for coming today. Thank you for having us. And thank you all for joining us on this episode of the comments section. Don't forget new episodes drop every Wednesday. The video is exclusively on Spotify, but you can stream the audio anywhere you get your podcast.

So thank you so much to Erica. and Scotty for being on the show today. And thank you all for joining us. I'll see you next week. Bye. Bye you guys.