The Comment Section with Drew Afualo - THIS ONE'S FOR THE GIRLIES Ft. Becca Moore | Drew Afualo | THE COMMENT SECTION EP 52

Episode Date: February 8, 2023

[video available on Spotify] This week, Drew is joined by the iconic Becca Moore to talk about things that are for the girls only, getting flown out by a minor league baseball player, why not all men get better with age, and so much more!   Drew: https://linktr.ee/drewafualo Becca: https://instagram.com/becccamooore              https://www.tiktok.com/@becccamooore Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

You're talking about, like, a climate crisis, and he's like, I don't understand this. And you have fake boobs. Okay, so I don't want to hear it, okay? What about your fake tits? What about them? We were talking about Syria. Yeah, Syria. You know, what about him?

We were talking about the economy. Hey, everyone, and welcome back to another very special episode of the comment section show, starring me, your favorite. Everybody knows me. Nobody cares about me anymore. We're 50-plus episodes in, bitch. But now on to the very special guest. Today I have the wonderful, amazing Becca Moore.

Thank you for having me. Oh my God, thanks for coming, bitch. I appreciate you. Every time I put, I know a video that I made is good when everyone's like tagging you. Oh, love. They're like, you guys need to pair up. Yeah. Because if you were a man, that'd be a bad sign.

That's an omen. But with a woman, it's a blessing. Exactly. It's a highly favored thing. I love that too. when I first started making content, I would get tagged in yours too sometimes. Yeah, because we're on the same vibes. When did you start making videos, by the way?

I would say consistently probably like early 2021. Okay, because you like, you blew up so fast. Yeah, I was like very like whatevs for a while. Like as far as like I'd post one and then not post for like a week or so. And then I think like March, February March of 2021, I was like maybe I'll just post. once every day and see how it does. Thank God you did. You changed the game.

Now I can people get my sense of humor more. Oh, I love that. They like understand that like, you know, like anti-men is more acceptable now. Yeah. Because of you. Oh, thank you. I don't want to take full credit, but I will. You should have to take full credit.

I think, too, it's your content I loved from the beginning too because that's my kind of humor, like very dry. Yeah. and not real. And shockers, stupid men, don't get it. They never get it. They never get it. The jokes don't land with them.

They're like, then be single for the rest of your life. They say things like that to me. And I'm like, okay. What's so bad about that? Deal. I don't even care. You're all well on my way. You guys are getting in the way of that, actually.

You are. You're stopping me from achieving my dreams. So. But honestly, I think that when a girl is, like, being funny, people don't calculate it. Like, people think everything I say is dead serious, like everything. I think it's also Yeah, absolutely I've talked about that before

with one of my other guests It's like when you can tell that someone doesn't like that you're funny Or they can sense that you're funnier than them Especially men Yeah They really don't like that No it makes them so uncomfortable

They're like, okay well Can you lift? And you're like, no No actually I can't Why would I? I really can't It's not for girls

Yeah, well, my lifting videos get them in a tizzy in a much different way. I feel like they don't like when you can do anything at all. So you do a thing where you're like, you're like, I'm the girl that you're a girl once or whatever. And I'm like, that is so good for your ego. Like that's good for my ego too. Whenever a man, oh my God, when I get a hate comment and then I, if I do a deep dive, if I'm really bored that night, I go through like the girl that he like posts and his girlfriend always follows me. Me too.

So when you gave me that idea, I was like, you know what? nothing any man can say to me ever again really bothers me that much. It never matters. They're not that smart. No, they aren't. They aren't and they know it. And that's why they, it's the biggest gaslight. They're angry about it.

It's the gaslight of the millennium that they've made women believe that they're superior. Yeah. That's just not true. I believe them in the beginning. They had me in the first half. You know what? It's not how you start the race. It's how you finish it.

You know what I mean? I figured it up. I think that's very true. And it's also like, it applies to literally everything. That's why I'm like, they will hate you no matter what the fuck you like or want to do or exist or act or however. They just outwardly hate me because I'm like so antagonistic towards them. Right. Because they're horrible.

So that's like, I believe now my purpose. It's a hundred. God gave me the strength to attack them all the time. I firmly believe that now. So that's why I'm like, you could just never pay attention to what they think. They're going to give you their two cents no matter what. You could like everything that they like. You could like everything they hate.

Anything in between they're going to hate you no matter what. I can't even like. Well, okay, sometimes it comes in handy, though, like looking hot and then saying something like, you know, feminist is it helps them grasp the concept better. Yeah, it's a privilege, yeah. Yeah, it's a pretty privilege. Yeah, it's a pretty privilege, yeah. But anyway, this is a complete sign of it.

When I was like a little girl I hated my mom's boyfriend so much And I would like fight, argue with them And like I remember thinking I was smarter than them When I was like 10 years old There you go And you were right I was right but I don't even know it yet

When you were 10 but I didn't I didn't know anyway I'm just saying like I honestly think that like Girls have wisdom that guys don't have Well and it's also I think too Part because they're forced to mature a lot faster than men are Yeah actually maybe that is They're given so much more responsibility at a young age.

If you look at the way you treat women, like when they're young and they're starting to go out or spend time with friends, you warn them of all these terrible things that could happen to them. You don't do that with men when you use them. It's like, protect your little sister. Yeah.

That's it. But what do I need protected for? I shouldn't need protected from anything. Exactly. Don't do this. Don't do that. Don't do this. Don't talk to these people.

Don't look at these people. Don't dress that way. Don't do this. Don't act this way. It's like you're given this handbook at the very beginning of life that it's like men are awful. I'm going to try to kill you.

So this is the best way I know how to stop that from happening. Right. But what about the men? I'm so mad. I'm mad. It's like, instead of like telling them maybe don't kill women so frivolously, they're like, Don't get killed. Yeah, they're like, here's a guy.

And then when you get killed, you're in trouble. It's like, why'd you do that? Why'd you go out late at night? Well, what did she expect to happen when she went to the store? I'm like, I don't know, not die. I'm pretty sure that was on the list. I don't know. She was in a parking garage late at night.

Like, she was trying to drive home. She was trying to go home. No shit. She got killed. She's doing normal things like driving her car. I think that's a big reason too why I like never feel bad for like what it is I do or how I got my platform. I never care. I don't feel bad at all.

I sleep very soundly on a Casper mattress that was gifted to me. Thanks to the platform. Thank you so much. So this is almost this episode. Give me one. What the fuck? I don't know. So I'm like I sleep very soundly at night because I feel like men for so long have gotten away with so much.

And it's like, what I'm doing now is like is the very tip of the iceberg of what women have done to like fight for autonomy in any way. I think you're humbling yourself because you opened up a conversation and now people are listening. Like they're like, I was a huge feminist in college and I would say the word. And people would be like and I would make jokes. I would make fun of men who didn't understand what I was talking about. And I was also in a sorority. So that was like crazy. What an oxymoron.

I know. I was like dating frat guys but yeah I don't know that's another thing but um no one would listen to me I remember being like I felt so alone so I kind of like watered down my opinions and then your videos made it more socially people understand it better they're like okay this is why it's important to like stand up for when guys are saying things it's not into a void it's people are listening to them well and it's also it's you I mean like sometimes men will say things like, well, why don't you try talking to them? You think I haven't? You know what I mean? As old as I am, bitch, you think I haven't tried that? It doesn't work.

And I found that out very, very early on. Like, men who hate women, shocker, don't listen to women. They don't. They don't want to hear you out. So, like, also, I'm in my anger phase right now. I'm like, very angry. That's part of it. It's part of it. Let it happen. Let it happen. And I'm mad, first of all. And my ex-boyfriend who dated. me when he was 27 and I was 18 and he's my boss at a pizza place. I'm mad at you Alex. I remember you. And I'm mad at like all the men that like I would date. I dated three of my bosses like that's so weird. It is very weird when you're like young. It's very weird but it's not an experience that's exclusive to you and that's the scary part. I know what I mean. It's like when I've I've posted

videos in a video once where I was like kind of serious for once. I wasn't making a lot of ton of jokes because there's nothing really funny about what I was talking about. But I was essentially illustrating that, like, you know, why, if you, if you, like, hate me, if you hate my content, if you hate my jokes, whatever, right? You're a terrible person. You're probably a bigot. That's honestly what it is. But if you remove yourself even further, ask yourself why.

Like, why do all of these people who follow me who come from so many different walks of life? They identify as so many different gender identities, gender expressions, sexuality, what have you. Everyone is so different. None of my fans look the same. So why do they all unite under this one person and it's me? Because you're awful. That's the one bond we all share, is that we've all been wronged by men at some point or another

because y'all have been feral for the last thousand plus years. You know what I mean? But some girls, yeah, they do go on the side of like, oh, men aren't that bad. Like, come on, like, you need to treat them nicely sometime. Like, you're king, you know what I mean? I think that it's like southern girls. do that because it's a way to survive.

It's like easier to get through life. And it's like an internalized misogyny thing. It's a fight or flight thing sometimes. And it's also like just something you're so, it's like a, the most intense form of hypnosis. You're like, you're stuck in it. You have to like, you have to wake yourself up. I can only do so much for you.

That's why I'm like, I'm not going to attack you the same way I attack men because women do that enough for them. Like I'm not doing their bidding for them. That's what they want. It's just to turn on each other. You know, sometimes you can have a, like, I've been learning a lot. Like, you can learn. You can learn things, you know?

Girls can learn. Love to learn. I have faith that girls can figure it out one day. I think so, too. I think there are, and I actually have had some success stories where a lot of women, but even men have, like, been like, you know, I used to think a certain way and I started watching your content and now I understand why. That's, like, a problem or anything to feel.

Same thing with women. Like, you could be the most. Like, I love women, I believe in equality, that kind of thing. And then there are certain things that you hold misogynistic beliefs about, but you don't realize it. I think there's a couple in there. Yeah, and you unpack. We all have them.

Like, that's why I said. I was a raging picnic when I was younger too. In, like, high school. Oh, my God, I was too. I'm 24. Oh, okay. I'm 27. Oh, okay.

Yeah, so we're around the same age, which is nice because I feel like a grandpa to most people I talk to. Really? Oh, yeah, girl, everyone's so young. But you're young, too. But, I mean, I'm not that old one. Anyways, my point being that younger, when I was younger, I was like in high school, probably like 17, 18, that was probably my strongest pick-me phase. Like, where I was like kind of like coming into my own. I was like becoming an adult.

And I really started thinking about things so differently when I went to school. Like I went to college away from home and I went to school in Hawaii. And some of my friends, they challenged me a little bit and some of the things that I believed and felt. And which I firmly believe is a great thing. I think it's a wonderful thing. That's why I highly encourage you to go to college if you can and want to. I highly suggest I think it makes you a better person. You learn and like really become who you're meant to be in real life.

Whether or not it makes you terrible, it's kind of on you. But I think a lot of times you go to college, you become more educated and more empathetic towards other people. And they really challenged my ideals. My sister was a big part of that too because she went to the University of Oregon, which is the most like liberal open loving school and so she taught me a lot about that too so I feel like that's what really ripped me out of my pick me phase was going to school like how are you being a pick me I think part of it was I mean I was a big sports girl I played sports my whole life I wanted to work in sports as like a profession although now as an adult and in therapy sometimes

I unpack I'm like did I even really like sports or was I just doing that shit because it made me different you know what I mean sometimes I think that you wanted to be like different yeah I think I sometimes I do think that I really, I really did like sports, but sometimes I think if I loved it or if part of what I liked was being the only woman there. You know what I mean? And so, I mean, I didn't, there were many little things I didn't like. I didn't like the color pink. I didn't like nails. I didn't like. I always loved makeup, which made no sense because I was such a glam bitch. Like from the beginning, I wanted to do a full face. Like I loved painting my nails. But you wanted to be like different about it. Yeah. But then when I got. older, I was like, I'm just not a girly girl, like that type of shit. You know, the kind of girl that's like, well, all my friends are boys, like that type of shit. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay, so you're kind of like that, though. Yeah, I was.

I was, yeah. I will say the one thing I can and hold very true in my pygmy face is men have always pissed me off. Always. Even when I was in the throes, bitch, when I was like being held down, shackled to male validation, if they told me something I didn't like, I would get angry immediately. I would too, even when I was 10, like with my mom's boyfriend. But yeah, I've always been a girly girl. But sometimes I wonder, no, that I'm in therapy.

Like, am I doing this just so that they'll listen to me, like I said earlier. Yeah. And that's fair. That's fair to, I think what part of your growth is challenging the things that you love and feel now. Because, like, I think part of my pygmy phase, too, was the way I used to dress. I used to never wear things that were too baggy, too boxy. I didn't like to wear things that would hide my figure because I felt like it made me look a certain way, which is also tied to fat phobia, but that's tied to misogyny too. They're very intertwined.

So I would feel that way about certain things that would make me look masculine. Yeah. I didn't like, which is also homophobic. So it's like, it's all tied together. So I would like unpack it slowly but surely over time. And I remember I literally yesterday, I was doing a Q&A and people always ask me about nails. They're always like, how do you do anything with nails? How do you do this with nails?

Blah, blah, blah. I've answered this question so many times. You just do it. Like over time, you get longer and longer and longer if you want them. And then you don't pick things up with your nail beds. Right. You pick them up, how you pick up anything with your hands. Like it's not with your nails.

So I've said that before. But when I was younger, I think I convinced myself I didn't like long nails because I, I couldn't wear them when I was an athlete, but then I was like, well, those are just so impractical. Like, how do you do things? And that's internalized misogyny. Yeah, impracticality. Literally. They're like, oh, it's, well, what if I have to, what am I doing? I could do anything. I have, I have fake boobs. Like, I got my boobs done. Yeah. And I'm, I think I did it for me. I'm still going back. I did. I still out. But like, like, I do get comments that are like, they're like, you're, you have, you have, Like you're just a, I don't even, oh my God, my ex-boyfriend, not to get into that.

But he would, any time he was, like, really mad at me, he'd be like, oh, yeah, then why do you have fake tits? Can I say tits? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Why do you have fake tits? And, like, you've gotten Botox before, you've your lips done and all of that. And I was like, I don't know. I don't know why I do that. We're talking about you not having a job.

Why did my aesthetic stuff come into play? Because he thinks that, like, I did it for male validation. Like, he really believes that. But I don't think so. No, I love the way. I love my boobs. Yeah. Like, every time I take my shirt off, I get excited.

I like that. They're, like, awesome. They do. I'm sure they do. I know, but he, oh my God, he, like, threw me back a little bit. Now I'm like, and then in our relationship, he was, like, super controlling. Mm-hmm. And I think, okay, now that I'm in my awakening, like, anger phase, I'm like, why did I let him?

Like, I couldn't post anything, like, that was too revealing, really. Really? Or else it would be a huge, huge fight. Really? And that was like a big problem in our relationship because I love posting boo-pick. I bought my boobs. I want to post my boobs. I got to make that money back somehow.

Yeah, exactly. But like, yeah, he, anyway, we broke up in June, thank God. But yeah, I'm like unlearning everything that he, because I was like so careful about like being too hot. Yeah. Yeah. I don't know. Well, it's also, you know, other than it's tied to his direct, like, misogyny and insecurity, those two things are like two sides of the same coin.

Like the misogyny flares up when the insecurity flares up. It's like it's one feeds the other. But then also it's like a sense of control. It may not even really matter whether or not other people see your fake cities online. It's more so that he wants to be able to tell you when you can show your fake cities online. Maybe you're right. That's why it's what's driving more of it is the control. He liked it when I was around like with him in the picture or like if we were together.

He was like, oh, we're a smaller top because he wanted to show people, I got this. I got this girl. Yeah, because he wants to show you off like, well, and that just proves men like that, they don't see women as people with thoughts and feelings and ambitions and goals and drive. They see women as objects. Literally, that was an object. Yeah, to covet. It's not to love and uphold.

It's someone to control and, like, put in a little cage. And then they're like, you can come out when I say you can come out. Yeah. I was like a little cat, like a little dog for him. Yeah, but otherwise, get back in there and close the door. Yeah. Yeah. And then anytime I had like thoughts, he would be like.

When you're thinking things and he doesn't like it. I started realizing that, yeah, when you're thinking things and he doesn't like it. I realize that I'm smart, like, no offense, if you're listening. I have a bigger grasp on like, I would try to explain concepts to him and he couldn't. Intellectually, we weren't on the same level. I can't. And he would freak out every time, like, I don't know. I had to.

to end. He freaked out because he's seeing that you're smarter than him. That I'm a person. He was like, oh, I just want to have sex with you. Like, this is weird. Like, why are you? Yeah, like a doll. Yeah. Like, I was like a doll. You're like, well, you're talking about like the climate crisis and he's like, I don't understand this. And you have fake boobs.

Okay, so I don't want to hear it. Okay? What about your fake tits? What about them? We were talking about Syria. Yeah, Syria. No, what about them? We were talking about the economy. What is that he was a hockey player so I feel like they know well there you go I don't know much about white people's sports but I do know that hockey players are real hit and miss I knew I it's same thing with baseball players when people were like oh my god he was a baseball player I'm like well there you go there you go one two and my god this baseball player flew me to Iowa by the way oh period it was the weirdest I made a video about this but it was a weirdest oh my god and then listen to this okay so I get there and I was in the middle of a cornfield like go to his game for any particular for any particular particular reason? No, I mean, I found yourself there. I found myself there.

Okay. And then I was at a T-ball game. It wasn't even like, okay. It was like below the minor. Not to be like leagueist or whatever. I don't know if that's the thing. Classes in the world of MLB? MLB, I don't know.

But it was like a T-ball game. Like they were like, oh my God. They had the T and everything. No, no, no, I don't know. Okay, but you said same level. Yeah. But it was like below minor league. Below minor league.

Like below. I didn't even know that was the thing. You said so. You said, is this even a team where do you, You and your buddies just link up. He's a softball, literally. Like weekly. Did you and your buddies just kind of link up for the weekend?

But the reason, oh my God. Okay. And I get there and like, he was cool or whatever, but I left. Did he lie about being a... No. Okay, I left and then I went out in Nashville. And I met this girl and I went to follow her and I loved her. She was awesome.

Yeah. And I went to follow her on Instagram a couple weeks later. And he followed her. So I met her out again. And then I brought it up. I was like, why does Tanner, that's not his name, but why does Tanner follow you? And she was like, oh, he flew me out to Iowa. And I was like, when?

And I was like, me too. What does he do for a living? Why's girls out? That's what I'm saying. No, I don't know. Maybe his parents have money. I don't know because he's minor, minor, minor league. Like, how are you affording these playing?

He's playing for the Y and he's like, you're trying to get flued out or what, bitch? Yeah. So I found out that he. flew me in the day, the day, calendar day, that she left. So he was flying girls in and out. Not him having a schedule. And he's not even a real baseball player.

Can you imagine? And you went to FI. In Iowa. Yeah, I went to Iowa. Not even Miami or something. No, no, good. I was in court. I cried in the hotel room. When I got there, I was like, I hate it here. I've never coming back to Iowa. Ever again. I've had like my own. I've

told stories about famous NFL players that have hit me up. Oh my God, do they? You have a boyfriend though. I have a boyfriend. Me are calling you out. They don't do it now. I will say though, one really, really famous,

he recently got drafted to the NFL. Shut up. He followed me, but then he literally unfollowed me as soon as he saw that I had a boyfriend. Like the way the notification kept coming up and I would go and he didn't follow me. Because, you know, they're verified, so they're left to the top or whatever. Yeah, girl. He, like, he dipped immediately.

No, I told a story before I blew up on TikTok. I told a really famous NFL player that had tried to hit my line. I met him in college. I met him in person because I was working, like, something that he was at. Huge football player. To this day, he's still in the league and he's very, very talented. He was single. He wasn't married or anything like that.

Because believe it or not, most of them cheat. Yeah, they all cheat. All that money and power doesn't make them better people. I can't believe it. So I told that story on TikTok as like a silly ha ha, like funny Because a lady had did a prompt like she was like oh like who's the most famous person that's hit on you This is mine like hers was like an MLB player like a famous baseball player So I told my story girl you would not believe the amount of men that were like that's not true

He would never he would never like you yeah he would I'm like you would trust are you mad at that you aren't him or that you aren't me I can't tell He's mad that he's not him. That's one of those things that's like the line is so thin because they can't tell if they want to be, be him or be on him. Like they can't tell the difference. Yeah, they want to hook up with him. Yeah, it's like, or they just want the story. And I'm like, what are the odds you know and I don't what he's sexually attracted to?

What are the odds? You know what are the odds? Like, you live in Kansas. What are the odds? I don't know. I don't know. If you were single, what do you think it was harder with your content? Right now?

No. I feel like for me personally, I feel like I have a real great litmus test. You know what I mean? If they like me, they're obviously a good person. Actually, you're right. To some extent. If they outwardly hate me and some do, some really, really popular influencers do actually not like me at all. Really?

Yeah, they won't ever say it to me because they're afraid of me, but like, which I also count as a dub for me. Yeah. I'll take it. Fear is better than anything, I think. A healthy dose of fear doesn't hurt. I always like that. Yeah, they should be scared of you. I think.

You are a good litmus text. I think so. Absolutely. There are many, many, many women who put me in, like, their Tinder bios, their bumble bios, hinge, all that stuff. They put me in there and they're like, if you don't like her, just go out and swipe left on me. Yeah. And it works.

I'm telling you it works. Okay, well, maybe I have bad taste because I still like over. I'm like, I like try to make them like me. I don't even know. Not really. Not really. Not really. I'm not a picnic.

But I mean, like, when I meet people, I kind of like, watered down, like, my opinion. opinions sometimes. Yeah, and you shouldn't have to. You're right. That's the ultimate litmus, because then you won't have to find out. It's almost like Dr. Juggle and Mr. Hyde, they turn into a different person. Actually, they get you. They're like good in the beginning and then as soon as you're...

Sounds like my ex. Hockeyman. Then they turn into a psycho. But that's one of those things. I think, too, like someone had asked me, what's the best way to bag a professional athlete? Easy. Just exists. That's what I said.

I said, be in the room. Oh, my God, you have to be in the room. They'll DM you after. You have to be breathing and be next to them. That's it. Not to expose all the athletes. Also, if you follow me and you're an athlete, I'm so sorry, I'm not just to say this, but like, you guys are so easy.

They're so easy. They're so horny. They are. They're so horny. And they're like walking around being like, what can I put my dick inside right now? No, truly. They don't care who it is. They don't care who it is.

That's why I said, like, they're honestly famous men, like men with lots of wealth and power are so much easier to get than like the average big. bitch who works at best by like i promise like the dude who works at best by him if you want to date someone of power and wealth you absolutely can it doesn't matter what you look like i promise it doesn't matter i was getting flown out when i was like a two you know what i me too when i was when i was getting offered to get flown out and shit i was 20 and i was in deep in my anastasio diprow phase bitch and they still wanted me so there you go yeah i'm dead at like i'm not even kidding i used to the easy

The craziest ones are, yeah, at baseball, hockey, for me. I mean, I don't know. And then I would DM, like, reality stars. This one that is on a very popular franchise, blew me to Denver. And I spent a week with him, and he was on the show at the time. There you go. But I was, like, in college. I was, like, 18 or 19.

Yeah, me too. When it happened to me, too, I was 19, 20. Yeah, I was too young. Mine was, like, 30 or something. I'm mad at all these men right now. I'm like, I want to punch you in the fit. Why do you, like, go through? There was one guy that tried to fly me to the Super Bowl and stuff that year,

and he was in his 40s. I was 20. And I found out later had a wife and kids. What? They're trifling. You know what I used to do? A lot of them are trifling. Okay, wait.

Why am I telling all of a sudden, I'm like getting attention to. I used to get, men would pay me to talk to them. And they were all married. They all had kids and a family. But I would pretend not to look too deep into it. I needed money. I was like 18 or 90. But I was so young, it was little.

It was 19. Yeah, disgusting. Oh, my God. And they would pay me to insult them. Girl. That's probably why they like you. That's why I stopped doing cameo. That is not a joke.

Wait, really? I stopped doing cameo because I started getting, I started getting requests to, like, berate them and degrade them. And I said, for $35? No, babe. That price is much higher if I'm doing it. And I literally shut it off because I was like, I can't do this anymore. I'm getting too busy.

And also, y'all are getting weird. Oh, my God, I did that. You know what? You lost the privilege. I did a video, too, of degrading a man. Oh my God, you just, that was back in a way. I was 19. Like, I'm a victim.

Victim, victim, victim. Yeah, I'm the victim. But, yeah, he was like 50 and he had like a happy home too. I found out after I sent the video. I was like, your life is worthless. Yeah, they're truly vile. They are. They're the root of all evil.

How did they like that? No, like, he wanted me to say that. Oh, he wanted you to say that. To degrade him. I was like, you're worthless. Like, you're really worthless. And I was like. Why do they want me?

Who's hard, too, by the way? I don't know. And he's rich. Why do you want that? Why do they like that? I don't know. I mean, therapists clock in. I don't know.

I genuinely don't. Psychologists. I have a lot of questions. I would say my theory is that they just, toxic masculinity, patriarchy affects men in many different ways, too. Even though they hate feminism, some of them, it would release them as well from the shackles that are holding them to, like, manhood or what it means to be a man. I think that sense of, like, relinquishing.

crawl into a corner. You know what I mean? Like they get to release it and then be someone who's worthless or whatever makes, I don't know. I don't want to kinkshame you, but like that's my theory. I don't know. I mean, you feel so weird and I feel so good. Someone has like videos of me doing that. That guy has the videos probably.

You owe me money. How long does it? That was his real name too. How long? That was like when I was 19. It was five years. Maybe he's dead. That's right.

He probably wanted someone to kill him. There you go. Maybe he's dead. Just. And I didn't have to do, by the way, I did not have to do anything. All I had to do was insult him. Well, he's also, that's weird and pervy, but like, like for him to show my boobs or anything. For him to want someone younger to do that is weird.

It's strange. It's strange. The experiences I've had with older men, like I can't, I can't even. Big cringe. Like, it's disgusting. It really is. How long have you been dating her, wait, keep going. For, this is six years, this year.

Oh my God, you need, if, okay, if you were single right now, you would have so many more. are like, oh my God, cringy. I know. Honestly, I'm kind of glad to be on the bench.

I've been on the bench for a while. Thank God. I'm out the game. But I think, too, men are the root of all evil in a lot of ways, but they are discussing

and they always have been. When I graduated from college, I was playing Moana for a while as a Disney character. Oh, you were? Yeah, like, not for Disney because I was too tall. They said I was too tall

because she's a child and I'm a full-grown man. So they were like, bitch you're too big. It's going to scare kids. So I was like it off like for birthday parties. That's what I did. And so sweet.

I get along with kids. I'm like, yeah, I can do that shit. Easy. Can't sing. But you know what? It'll be fine. And I did it and you would not believe how disgusting dads are. Wait, in the Moana costume?

Yeah. Like as the character and she's a child, mind you. So if you talk to women who were characters at actual Disneyland, Disneyland, Disney World, like all of that. A lot of them have stories about that. How disgusting they are. They're perverted. They make these crazy jokes with their children present.

Like, it's the most bizarre thing ever. I've ever, that was like the job I got the most hit on, which is disgusting to think about. But it's true. Yeah, when I would, I mean, like, everyone says this when I was a server, though, when I would, like look young with the pigtails and everything. We'll get more tips. Yeah. No, no. That's really bad.

And they comment on it too. They're like, I love the pigtails. Yep. Like they'll make those weird. Don't you have a kid at home? Go home to your child. Kind of like your daughter. Also, yeah, I look like her, don't I?

Also, my pizza boss, the guy dated at the pizza place I worked at, he when I, so I broke up with him because, well, we broke up with each other because I was too young. And he was 27. I was 18. And I was going off to college. And he immediately, I got my friend a job there. and he immediately started dating my 18-year-old friend. And she just, they just got married last year, and she just had his baby. And I'm like, oh, my God.

Are she so glad that's not you, though? Yes, but like, holy shit. Do you know the guilt I feel, though? Like, I made him seem, like, I think I advertised him a little bit. Like, I was like, he's so hot and cool. Like, look at him. Like, and I convinced her that he was, like, a cooler guy than he is. And I was mad at her at first, but now I'm like, oh, my God, I just wasted that girl's life.

Like she... You know, you can lead a horse to water is what I always think. Even then, like, you could tell her every which way from Sunday why he's bad, why that's bad, why it's harmful, why it's predatory. But like, unless they choose to unpack that and confront it, then it's just going to, you know... Well, she's out of your hands. That's what I'm saying. At that point, it's out of your hands. Like, there's really nothing you can do.

Dating older men is not cool, girls. It's not cool. It's really not. And by older, I mean, like, 10 plus years older. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And they do not get better with age. The people who say that's not true. You don't see the guys of my DMs.

There's 60s. The guys in Hollywood? I can leave that in or not. I literally don't know if I can leave that in. Okay, I can tell this story. Yeah. Oh, I wish to God you could hear who it was. He's literally 60 years old.

You can Google it. Well, you can't Google it because I'm not going to me. Well, good luck. Narrowing it down. A creepy six year old in Hollywood, good luck, bitch. She'll be looking forever. So we went on a date. Oh, my God.

Like, okay. For the story? I'd do that for the story. I did it for the anecdote. Yeah, for the story. Okay, so context. I moved here from Ohio. Like, we don't have access to celebrities like this in Ohio.

So he DM me. And I was like, what? The DM was the initial DM? Was it just a hey? No, he liked one of my old pictures and then I liked one of his old pictures. I don't know why. What old guy shit. I'm the victim.

That's such an old guy thing to do. I'm like to scroll back. That's such an old guy thing to do. Yes. It is. Yeah, I think he probably learned that trick from like a weird like dating column that he brought or something online. Like Googling how to talk to young girls. Well, he's been on this earth long enough. I'm sure he's read all the columns. To be honest about dating.

You know who he's, he's dated a lot of hot girls. He has, but that's purely because of who he is. You right. Okay. So he liked one of my old pictures and then my friends were like, Becca, please. Like, will you go, please? And I was like, okay. So I told him I was like, okay, I refused like the first date that he.

he asked me on oh my god i'm like getting nervous about this stuff anyway what did he say i want to he was like watching football tonight want to join me to with me and a few buddies and i was like i hate football and anyway i ended up going to watch football yeah he okay his game when i got there by the way was like he's definitely going to see this like he watches all my whatever you're giving me too much credit i hope he does no he does he does he's like he's like he's like A young guy. Pretty well, like, plugged in to... Well, he pretends to be.

Also, he, like, totally... He's like, you're special. You're different from all the other. He's, like, grooming me, you know what I mean? But, anyway, I show up... Especially different. Did you go in what way? Tell me, like, my last name.

I don't even know if he was there. Literally. He texted me today, by the way. Can't wait, so you're at the house. No, I wasn't at his house. Oh, no, you went to the game. I went to the... Was it, like a restaurant or something?

It was a restaurant. Okay. And he... entire time. Okay, he brought me in to meet, his friends were there too. It wasn't just the two of us. Like, I don't even know. That's even weirder. It was so weird. And it was like me with like a bunch of like old men, like 60 year old men. Were they famous too or you didn't recognize? I think. I'm, I couldn't recognize, but like I could tell they were like important people kind of. Yeah. I was like shaking. I was so nervous and I was like, because I just moved here from Ohio.

Oh my God. Oh, my God. Okay. So you go in the room. Oh yeah. His game was like turning his back to me. He was like being casual about the fact that he brought a little blonde girl to like eat dinner with his friends and like he was like playing it so cool he was like nagging me kind of you know yeah he was like so you're the TikTok girl huh like how are you and I was like yeah are you the old man

trying to date the TikTok girl he's like are you on TikTok dot com because he's so old oh my god oh my god that's so tea bitch and so I tell I start telling my friends in LA I'm like oh my god I went on a date with and they're like me too I did last night

and I was oh my god What a slut He's literally a poor I'm not you He's a big man I mean oh my God The actual I cannot believe that happened And like the waitress was around my age

And we were looking at each other like what What are you doing? I was like I want to be like you I want to be a waitress watching it I don't want to do that That was like the weirdest thing I've ever done That is so bizarre Anyway he has a daughter

And I'm closer to her age than his age, you know? It's just disgusting. The ick, the ick, the ick coursing through my veins. I think it's so, yeah. See what I mean? They don't get better with age. Like, they just get worse.

No, our conversations were exactly, exactly the same as mine with, like, any... Any 24-year-old. Yeah. Did you talk about anything deep? No, he doesn't, he's not capable. He's not capable of that. Did he talk, did he ask you a lot of questions? No, but was it more talking about himself?

Nope, not a single question. There you go. They loved it. He wanted me as like an audience member for his comedy routine. And any time I interrupted with like my own anecdote. The laugh factory is so expensive. I'd much rather just invite a bitch to come sit and watch me talk at Nobu. If that's cool. Yeah. It wasn't Nobu by the way. It was worse.

No, it was way worse. Way way. So you're not nobu worthy bitch. There was a rat. It was a rat. What? It ran outside. Yeah. Outside of the restaurant? Like we were sitting on the patio.

Holy shit. Holy shit. That's crazy. That is so... And when I pointed it out, he was like embarrassed. He was like, that's it. He starts gas-inning you immediately? Yeah.

I don't see anything. I do see that. You don't know anything. That's a thing about you bitches. You guys think you see things and you don't. Yeah, why does he... Also, he's trying to date, like, every girl that is 23, 24. Like, everyone has a story about him.

It's not Leonardo DiCaprio. It's not. It's not. Younger than that. Younger. His demographic is younger. 25 is too old For him too

25 is too old I don't know God damn That's crazy I'm making that ab I don't know It's too old for a lot of them Honestly there are some men that

Like genuinely that's too old Which is just crazy Yeah because I'm in my anger phase I'm like Why are you dating a little girl You freak I always say too like What are we gonna talk about

Nothing He got making references? Like when you were in college I was in first grade So like what, like, what are we going to talk about? No, I wasn't born yet. He was 35 when I was born, actually, to be specific. 35.

My dad was 35. I remember my dad being 35 when, and I was conscious. I should not be dating a guy. Like, what are we going to talk about the housing crisis? Like, I wouldn't understand. I don't know. What was 2008? Like, I don't remember.

I wasn't conscious. I was in second grade. Yeah. I don't remember much. And he would make references. And anyway, he kept being like, you're smart. for you're a girl your age and I'm like then why are you dating a girl my age like that's you're smart for a girl your age and what's the grooming me what's the gauge you laughing at a joke

you didn't understand me always laughing at jokes I did not understand you're so smart because I understood none of them even though you didn't get the reference at all and you're like he's like you're so smart that's why I like you're like yeah yeah yeah yeah hey I was lying and that's called acting and then you and then you do a self-tape for him and then you tell him connect me to all the people in Hollywood. No, he has no connections anymore. Like, he's too old. You can believe this too, but yeah, unless he's not either, so.

But he calls me like the text and run girl. Like, I'll reply like one time. If he's offering me something cool, then I reply and then I disappear until the next, like. And he's like, God, I can't figure her out. Yeah, she's so hard to read. Such a, oh man, what a decode situation. I wish I. The hieroglyphics, I just can't seem to

this girl only responds to me when I offer her opportunities to hang out with other famous people that aren't. Right. That's crazy. That's crazy. But she's, like, different, you know? Like, she, like, likes me for me. Oh, yeah, she's so smart. See, that's the crazy part is that you've tricked him.

He's clearly not very smart. Right. That's all I was like, y'all don't give women nearly enough credit of how they, like, manipulate the fuck at you. Like, they, men, men like that don't give women enough credit. He thinks he's got you. No, no. I don't think he thinks that. He knows.

I think he, I have him, like, wrapped up on my own. No offense. Sorry. I didn't say I'm wrapped around my finger, but I'm like, Girl. I don't want it wrapped around my finger. I don't want him wrapped around anything. Girl, can I get a better one for my finger?

I mean, like, higher status working. Okay, so speaking of things for only women, right? That's going to be our topic. Our topic for today is it's for the girls or fabs only. Right. So obviously Becca knows all about that. And we have many, many stories, I'm sure. So for those of you who don't know, what we do here in the comment section is we bring videos that I was tagged in that are applicable to our topic today.

We pull them apart, key, key, laugh, all that fun stuff. So we're going to do one video today and then we'll tell more stories, hopefully. So in this video, a woman is using that audio that was like, remind me of your gender again. Remember that one? Right, you're a boy. And the caption says when a guy wants to call a woman a bitch, right? And so many of the men in this comment section were not happy with that. Shocker.

Okay, so this first comment says, y'all are acting like these words are slurs. Get well soon. Touch grass. Maybe do a digital detox. I'm not offended by the word bitch, to be honest. Like, it doesn't hurt me when men try to call me a bitch. But it, I mean, it doesn't offend me, but, like, I think that they... It's always derogatory.

It is derogatory. They view, like, nice girl that is, like, submissive and then bitch. Yeah, there's no in between. There's two levels. Yeah, you're a nice girl. I'm bitch. Yeah, this one says, but let a man just identify as a woman and the misogyny and oppression just disappears, right? No.

Not even a little bit. Men don't even do that. Let a man identify as a woman. He's talking about trans women. Right. So why would a man identify as a woman? He said the misogyny and oppression just disappears. No, actually, it doubles.

Pass it to the next person and don't. it. That's literally what happens. Like, what are you dumb? What a stupid thing to write? They're like, oh, if I just called myself? No. They really hit send on that comment. Yeah, really. And this last comment says, she broke a girl's nose and cussed out a random teacher. I'm pretty sure I'm valid. I think he means, like, the time he called someone a bitch. She could do it again. Honestly, she should. Yeah, I want to know, first I want to know why. Yeah. Why did she do that? The teacher probably deserved it. No, truly. And second, I feel like that's kind of tame. Right. Like you broke someone's nose and they go, what a bitch.

Like that's like the most you do. Like that's not okay. Yeah. Also like they think that like if a girl, if a girl does like X, Y, Z, then she's a bitch. You know what I mean? Like it's that that's not real. Right. Like people, there is no parameter. Like the word bitch should be used by like girls only. I don't think that men should say that word ever. I agree. I agree too. I think also. if they use it in terms, anytime they're using it, it's never, like, in a way that's like, I love you, bitch. Like, it's never like that.

Men like that. It's always like, oh, she's a bitch. You're a bitch. Yeah. Or like quit being a bitch, which is promoting toxic masculinity. Yeah. It's all toxic masculinity. Yeah.

It's just, that word's not for you. It's not for you. That's for us. And also, I'm not offended by that word literally at all. I've had men be like, oh, she's. she's so for women but she calls people bitch yeah yeah you're a bitch in fact you are and so is your mom uh i think bitch is a genderless term yeah i i don't use it as like only for women mostly for men men should not be calling girls bitches ever you have no reason to and even then like you're gonna say

in a mean way that i'm gonna be mean back and then you're gonna cry like a bitch would so there you go It's PEMDOS. It all cancels out at the end of the day. I'm going to start using that. Pemdos. You know what I mean? I think it's one of those things, too, that, like, they just start consistently looking for ways to, like, undercut things that women do.

Like, whether it's taking agency and, like, calling each other bitches and being funny about it, like, taking the power away from that word, they're just constantly like, well, what about, what about this? What about that? I'm like, all of a sudden, you care about how words oppress people, all of them? Right, all of a sudden, yeah. Sure. Yeah, and like they call, like, they're like, so you're saying Amber Hurd isn't a bitch?

Like, they say things like that too. Yeah, and it's like, no. No, she's done bad things, but that doesn't mean like. Yeah, well, it's also. She's only a bitch, you know? Yeah, well, I think, that's why I said, like, the way that they use that word is incorrect most times and always derogatory. Yeah, always.

It's never in a loving way. It's never in a, like, she's so cool way. like that's my bitch or you're that bitch it's never like no they're not capable of like humor like that no not at all they're not even remotely funny so i was i was just talking about this with my boyfriend the other day but i forget why but i was talking about like defending yourself standing up for yourself whatever and how some people are like well i just think that it's so bad to like stoop to their level by making fun of what they look like if they make fun of what you look like

and I'm like okay well then don't do it I'm going to you don't have to but I always think if you remove every sense of prejudice every bigotry race gender expression sexuality if you take all of that off the table if someone calls you ugly

for no reason why are you not allowed to say the same to them that makes no sense like it's just like when you see someone being racist out in public and they get knocked the out? Are you like,

I feel so bad for them. No? You're like, you took too long. I wish you did it sooner. Like, you laugh and you giggle because you're like,

that's what you get. I'm starting to think, okay. Last night I was falling asleep and I was like, what is so wrong with the death penalty when it comes to

like narcissistic men? Yeah. You know what I mean? Or something. That's like Julia Fox. I saw Julia Fox on Z-Way show. What? She was like,

do you think that men should be allowed to kill women? No, or no, Do you think women should be allowed to kill men? And Julia Fox was like, yeah. She goes, men kill women for no reason all the time. So like, I mean.

Our turn. I'm not going to kill any. We're not going to do that. But I'm just, she's just like, they're so okay with doing it. But then when it happens, like women standing up for themselves in any way, they're like, well, that was too far. Why do we have to have a better reaction? Like, why do we have to be above? Like, take the high ground or like take the high road or whatever.

Why? I don't want to. I want to punch my ex-whiff on the face. When they say, like, you should take the high road. I always go, no, thanks. I don't like that road. I don't want to. I don't want to anymore. Suddenly, suddenly I can't drive, so, no. I honestly mad. I'm mad at, like, every guy I've ever dated right now, and I'm like, oh, like, I want something bad to happen to them. Feminine rage, it's a great thing. It's a tool. Use it to fuel you. I do in the gym every day, but, like, I want to actually punch someone. You should.

You should. You should. Like, next person who's disrespectful or objectifies you or anything. I described an ick once where I said, like, when I'm watching men like, like, terrible men, like, enjoy themselves at a concert, it, like, makes me sick to my stomach. Like, watching them vibe. Ugh. Yeah.

Kill me. Shoot me in the fucking head. That's why I'm done with the high ground. I'm done. I'm done. And I told that joke on TikTok and, like, oh my God. The way people were like, Sometimes people like to enjoy themselves alone.

I'm not talking about you, bitch. You know what I mean? I was talking about you. I'm talking about the dude with a red neck and he's drunk already before the concert starts. He's topless even though it's nighttime. And then he's dancing and he's just like feeling the music. Oh my. The way I just want to rip my eyeballs out.

My body right now. Take away the power to see. I just don't want to see it. I don't want to see it. Maybe I should be single for the rest of my life. I think for real. Oh my God, I have the ick for everyone. I have the ick for everyone.

I can't. I know. I was thinking, oh my gosh. Just like when I saw this one of this girl and it was her boyfriend and they love each other and they have a longstanding relationship, whatever, she was recording him. And they were in one of those like jungle gym places. Like where, like obstacle courses. And he was on a rope and he was trying to swing and like stop on like a little marker.

and he couldn't get the footing. And she was like, I've just unlocked the biggest ick about my boyfriend. And the way some men were like, he's just enjoying himself. I'm like, you guys can't take a joke to save your life. Like, also, it is so funny. Like, look at him. He's struggling. She's like, I thought my man was athletic.

I got the ick when I was, oh my God, when we were walking somewhere and he got like the stop sign and we had to go back. Like, you know, when you're at a crossroads and he got the stop sign and we had to go back, walk back. like we were a little bit and also like he was the guy that people would like like he had to walk around people like people weren't like moving over for him I got the ick I got the egg oh my god no no like he should like why are you so like you shouldn't be able to move that easily no oh my god also like red light it's like something about being out of red light like I don't know In the front seat of a man's car

I'm like No no no no no When he's like singing a song and stuff Yeah or like no no like when he has a red light Like when he doesn't have the right of way Something about that Yeah when he has to follow traffic laws I'm like are you kidding

When he tries to get over but like that person gets in the purse Yeah the person doesn't let him over Like no No Ew I don't know I've seen ones of like men jumping in Like when they jump in a pool but plug their nose

Oh my god Why would they do that? Why would you do that? I don't know. Let it go up there is what I think. I'd rather do that than be filmed doing that. Oh my God. Watching them go like, you know what I mean?

Ew, no, no. Watching them shiver. When it's cold outside, like they get a little chill. Or being cold at all. Like, why are you cold? Don't. Yeah. Simply don't.

I don't know. Yeah. But also no blankets for you. I've always said that. No blankets. But that's just, I mean, those are only for the girls. Yeah. For the girls, not the guys.

You guys don't need those. For what? For what? You're so manly. You should be warm. You have all of, you're the patriarchy. You should have some warmth in you. I don't know.

When men like run forward in socks, like if they're in like a tiled house or something and they like run forward and they slide a little bit. What? You know what I mean? Like to be cute. Like they're like. Oh, like trying to be like a little kid. Tom Cruise in risky business, you know what I'm saying?

Like they do a little, like, slide. No, no, no, no. You're too excited. In an ankle sock. You're too happy. Men in black ankle socks. When has that been a thing? I've never even seen that. Is your boyfriend with that?

No, hell no. Why do you think it's? Do you ever get icked out by your boyfriend? Let me think. Not often. Not for a while. Like, when we first started dating, I was icked out, but that's because I was icked up by everybody.

Yeah. So I feel like I was holding him to a, standard of everybody. An impossible standard, yeah. Yeah, yeah, like where I was like, I hate that. I've told this before. He's literally told me, he's like, please stop talking about that. What?

It's like, he's laughing. He's laughing. But, like, he used to tell these jokes that I, like, just hated. Like, oh, my God. They were, yeah, they weren't funny, not even a little, but, like, they bring the house down with, like, old white dudes. Oh, okay. So he was like using them all the time around my family.

And I said, the old white men aren't here, put those away. You know what I mean? No, no, no. The ick that would course in my veins because I would see my sister cringe and she'd be like, that wasn't funny. That was so awful. And she would tell me, I don't think he's funny. And I'm like, that's the most offensive thing you could ever say to me, ever. I would rather my family think he's ugly than tell him that he's not funny.

I agree. Because that means that's your intelligence, you know? It's your intelligence. Your personality. Yeah. And I literally had to tell him, please stop telling those jokes around my family. Oh my God.

You're embarrassing. You're embarrassing. Like, he would, he would do, like, I've told the doctor one, like on here before where, like, someone would say, why can't you do this thing?

Like, like, if you'd say, I'm not going to be there on Saturday. Why? He'd be like, because my doctor said. My doctor said, I don't get it. No shit, bitch.

Why do you think my family would be like, my doctor said, oh, my doctor said I couldn't come. Yeah. Yeah. Like, it's like, I don't, I don't get it. See how no one laughed because it's not funny?

And he would say that or they would say like, when's the last time you did this? And he would say like back in, what would he say? It was like back in the summer of 72. The way I want to kill myself talking about it. My dad says that too, I think. I don't even know.

You look in your dad's my point. Yeah. My dad says that and a million, like can I get you anything else? And he says a million dollars. See, they just laughed at this joke. They go beyond. I'm laughing because they go beyond dad jokes.

They're like not even dad jokes. They're just like weird things to say. And I would tell him no more. I never want to hear that joke ever again. Did he receive it well though? Like did he stop using the joke? Yeah, he did. Well, he told me why.

And I said, you want me to be honest with you? Do you want me to lie? And he said, I want you to be honest. And I said, it's not funny. And I know you're funny, but you're not being funny. And I need you to be funny. Yeah, figure it out. If you want to say with me, my family needs to find you just a

hilarious you know what I'm saying and he was like okay like he didn't care because he was just so like conditioned to say shit like I don't know if it's like past relationship I have no idea I think it's just because how he moves through life like especially white people they like love to talk to him and like they see him as almost like a zoo animal so he had all these he had all these canned responses of things to say like they would say something anything to him and he'd be like well that's what my doctor said and they'd be like you know what I mean so it's almost like he He was Pavloved to do that. Yeah.

I had to like, I had to like lobotomize him. I was like, get it out there. Get it out of there, bitch. Rip it out root and stem. So, no, he doesn't do that anymore. But that did ick me out really bad. I get the egg very easily. Like, very easily.

Yeah. When they get hot and they fan themselves like that. Yeah. I don't know. Like if. When they get sick, why are you sick? Oh my God, yeah. Why would you get sick?

And then they act so dramatic. They're like, oh. I don't know. I'm single. Probably what. I was wondering. No, yeah. I don't think I can date for a while.

I think that's fair. But I also want to like, get revenge on everyone and, like, date like, 20,000 people at the same time. I don't know. I would say only date for the stories now. I've got on five dates in the past two weeks.

Oh, look at you. Yeah. Putting in the work. Yeah. None of them were, like, great. I mean, on one of them, I wasn't doing my best work, though. Like, I was just acting weird.

Like, why did I do that? But the other, like, I know. The way you're, like, acting weird and you can't stop it for some reason? I wanted him to, I wanted to talk about ghost stories for some reason. And he didn't believe in ghosts, but I was like, I really want to talk about ghosts. I don't know why. I don't know why. I'm embarrassed.

I don't know. But the other ones, it was then. It was not one of those where you just start lying and you don't realize why you're doing it. Yeah. Why was I lying so much? I kept, like, my back story. I was, like, so yeah, I came from a really impoverished lifestyle. I mean, my family was poor, but like I was making it seem like, I was like a bigger story.

Yeah, like tomorrow. Yeah. I don't know. I was doing that. I don't know. This is fun to lie sometimes. I like to lie. Yeah.

One thing about me. One thing about me. I love to lie. I love to lie. I like you, man. You lie a lot. I think that's fun to do to men because they don't believe anything. When you realize that you don't like them, like when you're like.

Yeah. When you say every, yeah, like, and I mean lie about silly things. Like, you're like, I used to be a national. diver and they'd be like really and be like yeah yeah look don't believe anything you say because they want to have sex with you they're not listening to what you know not at all yeah because i could say oh i'm an astronaut and they'd be like that's sick i'm in finance that's cool then they want to talk about the finance they're like anyways i've been to the moon what do your thoughts on showering together yeah uh last story i'll tell when i was in college i uh me and my girlfriend

We went out. We snuck into this club. I don't recommend. Do as I say, not as I do. But we were in this club. You should sneak into clubs. And these two guys came up to us. Tall dudes.

Tall white dudes. They were probably each of, like, they were each like over six, six easily, like big, big, big dudes. And they were talking to us, Australian. Australian dudes are the worst. And they know this. Australian dudes are the worst? They're very misogynistic in Australia. I don't know why.

I have a huge fan. over there and now I know why. And I've I've like fucked up Australian dudes a million times online because they're just that rancid but anyways so I was talking to that. This is probably the birth of my beef with Australian dudes. But like we're talking to them and they basically tell us

they're on vacation and we're like for what? Because I'm pretending to care because they're giving drinks to us all night and then they're like oh we're on vacation because they're Olympians. Like they said they were Olympians I was like same. Right when they're talking about it. And they're like no no like we all

We're both like swimmers. One of them was from New Zealand. The other one was from Australia. And then I was like, sure. Same. Like I was like making jokes like that because I was like, okay, you can got to lie to kick it. You know what I mean? We're already here.

You got me. Yeah. And my girlfriend was laughing with me because we were both being kind of mean. But like I thought it was a joke. And this guy was like, I'm being dead serious. Like I've literally won like a gold medal on a bronze. I'm all, how old are you? Because those are only every four years.

So. He was like 38. I was 19. Oh my God. Yeah. So I was like, oh, too old. But anyways, he was ugly, so it didn't matter. I was there for a check.

So then we were like, vibing. And then he got so frustrated with my jokes about him being an Olympian that he, like, took off his shirt to show me that he had the tattoo, like the Olympic tattoo. And then I go, I could go into any tattoo shopping. That was my shit to me. Like, I was literally trying to make him prove it to me, but like I didn't care that much. But, you know, they take everything so seriously. me. So then he was like, I'll prove it to you. He Googled himself and showed me his Wikipedia page.

And then he went to the section that says like awards or like wins or whatever and like showed it to me. And then he was showing me the pictures and he photographs terribly just as terribly as he looks in person. And that's all I really saw. But I was like, wow. Congrats. That's a thing. Okay. That's crazy. He wanted you to be like, no way. You're an Olympian. Instead you were like, same.

He probably is obsessed with you now. I was like, wow. Yeah, that's sick. Okay. What you told me that I was like, same? They need you. They need your validation. So that's what I'm saying.

Male validation's worthless, but female validation pays in spades, bitch. It really does. My ex-boyfriend had a, I know. My ex-boyfriend had like a boat, and I was so excited to go get on his boat for the one night. We were long distance. So it was going to be my first time meeting him. And he was like, we can go on the boat. I'm so excited.

And I was like, oh my God, I want to go so fast. Turns out, it's a pontoon boat. It's not a boat boat. It doesn't have like a motor thing or whatever. And he was like, why would you say that? Like, I don't even know. His masculinity got so. You're like, no, I love pontoon.

I had to Google what it was. I didn't know. That's cute. That's cute. That's so cute. I'll buy you a boat, babe. I'll get one and then we kept matching one. Yeah.

Oh, he did buy me a jet ski on my birthday, but I never got to. to use it. What a strange gift. He cheated on me. He cheated on it. Anyway, that's for another day. A strange gift. It was a used jet ski. It wasn't even a new one. Didn't you say you're from Ohio? Yeah. It was for him. It was for him. He bought it for himself. I've fun with her little pontoon. Your boat sucks, by the way. Yeah, it does suck. Okay. Okay, that's going to do it for this episode of the comment section show. I want to thank the hilarious Becamo for being here. Thank you so much for Thank you for having me. Thank you for being so vulnerable with us.

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