The Daily Stoic - 5 Life Changing Journaling Habits from the Stoics

Episode Date: February 20, 2022

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Hey, prime members, you can listen to the Daily Stoke podcast early and add free on Amazon music. Download the app today. Welcome to the weekend edition of the Daily Stoke. Each weekday we bring you a meditation inspired by the ancient Stokes. Something to help you live up to those four Stoke virtues of courage, justice, temperance, and wisdom. And then here on the weekend, we take a deeper dive into those same topics. We interview stoic philosophers. We explore at length how these stoic ideas can be applied to our actual lives and the challenging issues of our time. Here on the weekend, when you have a little bit more space when things have slowed down, be sure to take some time to think, to go

for a walk, to sit with your journal, and most importantly to prepare for what the week ahead may bring. Hey, it's Ryan. Welcome to another weekend episode of the Daily Stoic podcast. I wish you could see my journals. They are, I'm almost finished with one of them. I've had this journal now for five years. And it's duct taped many times over. It's coming, it's limp in across the finish line.

But I'm not, I'm doing great in part because the journal took the beatings and the frustrations out or was the recipient of the beatings and the frustrations that otherwise may have landed on me. And journaling has just been this, you know, now multi-year habit of mind, certainly a transformative level up habit. And that's what we're going to talk about in today's episode. Like, stoicism is journaling, journaling is stoicism. It's almost impossible to have one and the other. And so in today's episode,

I wanted to give you some journaling ideas that come from my, what is it now? Seven-year practice. Certainly my blog, which has been 15 years, was a form of public journaling. So you might even say a 15-year habit. But here are some tried and true lessons from my experiences from the Stoics.

I think you'll see why journaling was such a core practice of epictetus of Santa Cue, Mark's Relace, and so many other people that you've admired and learned from throughout history. So in today's episode, bringing you five life-changing journaling habits from the Stoics. You don't have to use all of them. You don't have to follow my advice at all. But I do hope you start journaling, and I hope this episode puts you on the path to doing

that. Enjoy it. The first lesson I would give anyone about journaling is like, just start. Don't stress about. Tools don't stress about. Time don't stress about how much, how little should you read it? Like, just do it, right? Actually, one of the journals that I love, I love this one line of day journal, it was

helpful for me when I was getting started because it's just, you write, you just write one thing every day. I've done one line a day now for five years. I'm almost finished with this. But the idea is everyone has time and the willpower to write one sentence a day. So don't start by saying, oh, I want to write 10 pages. I want to spend 30 minutes, generally, just like with meditation. Don't start with an hour long solo meditation.

Start with one minute or five minutes, right? Start really small. So the idea is to build the habit, build the momentum, get into it, make it a habit, and then you can build. So I started with something like the one line of day journal or the daily stoke journal, is an easy one too, because it's prompt, the five minute journal is great. You've got five minutes, you know? So do something that helps build the practice. Maybe just start a workout journal, just log your workouts or a reading journal or a food journal.

Like start something that's more of a practice and then it's building the skill, the willpower for you to do it on an ongoing basis. Walter Isaacson, when he was writing his epic biography of Steve Jobs, talked about how they went and they tried to find a bunch of old documents and journals that Steve Jobs had done on one of the early Macintoshes.

And even Steve Jobs, with all his computing genius and access to the best programmers and designers and engineers to the best programmers and designers and engineers in the world, couldn't manage to get these files off this old Mac. Walter Isaacson was joking about how absurd that was. You couldn't access these files that were just a decade, a couple decades old, at most. And yet, he could spend hours pouring over the journals of Leonardo da Vinci. Don't think of journaling as this epic thing, but it also is important.

And there's something important about doing it on physical paper. I think it's good to be free of devices anyway to have something that's not digital, but I just love the idea that, you know, six, 700 years later or whatever, Da Vinci's journals are still legible and usable, but things that you did two iPhones ago

are lost a whole time. Epic Titus says, every night keep thoughts like these at hand, write them, read them, allow, talk to yourself and others about them. I think this is an important part. Stoicism isn't this thing you just absorb one time, that's just in your brain and you have it forever.

It's actually an ongoing process and engage with the ideas over and over again. One of the criticisms of Marx's releases meditations by academics, you don't get this, is that it's kind of repetitive. It's repetitive, sure, but he was doing it over a long period of time. You might have wrote one entry

and then another one seven years later, it could have been seven days apart, but this is is what he needed this is what he was struggling with. He wasn't writing the journal for you. He was writing them for himself and actually in Caridian that's what we what survives to us from Epictetus it's this idea of at hand it's but it's there for you it's almost like a weapon so when you think of journaling don't think of it as putting down your thoughts necessarily for history, performing for history, although that could be cool,

depending on what you're experiencing. But think about it also as a process that you are engaging in. Even though I know about and write about stosism, I also explore it privately in my journal every day because I need reminders of the ideas and spending time with them, writing them down, reminding myself of them, keeping them at hand,

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No long-term commitments or contracts just go to stamps.com. Click the microphone at the top of the page and enter code Stoic. I'm sure many of you read Anne Frank's diary when you were in school. You've heard of it. You think about how insanely stressful and scary that would be. It'd be insanely stressful and scary to be a 13 year old girl, let alone locked in an attic with your parents and another family worried about what's happening in the world. But she has this great line in her diary that I think about. She says, paper is more patient than people.

Instead of vomiting your thoughts on your employees, on your friends, on your coworkers, on the driver in front of you who's taking forever, put it on the page. The page is forgiving and patient, it keeps secrets, doesn't care, doesn't care if you're contradicting yourself, it doesn't care if you're contradicting yourself, it doesn't care if you're being a baby, it doesn't care if you're whining, just put it down on the page, the page will help. And I love the idea of having distance between you and your thoughts.

Part of the reasons we're worked up and anxious and stressed is that we're trapped in our heads with all this stuff, right? And you get it out and you see it from a distance and you go, I don't even agree with my own thoughts here, right? I don't even like this. I'm not going to choose to carry this around. So putting it down on the page is just really important. What's really interesting about philosophy is that that's what Marcus Aurelius' Meditations was. It's one of the few philosophical books that we have that wasn't published as a book.

He wasn't the most powerful man in the world wasn't writing what he thought. He was writing what he felt he needed to know for himself and it's only a complete accident that this work survives to us. He'd probably be mortified that we're reading his diary or journal, but he's dead, so it doesn't matter. The point is philosophy is not just this thing thing you read about one time and understand.

It's an active practice. It's something you're doing with yourself. It's a dialogue with oneself. I talked about the missile crisis a little bit. What I think is so fascinating about the missile crisis is that we have Kennedy's doodles and notes from the missile crisis. On legal pads, he would write these things to himself, sort of reminders, he would write missile, missile, missile,

he would write consensus, consensus, consensus. He was journaling out, working out what he was thinking as he was thinking it. Journaling's not the only way to do this. I know people that doodle in the morning or sketch. But the point is to have kind of a creative practice where there are very low stakes. And it's just sort of a getting the juices flowing.

Julia Cameron calls morning pages a sort of a form of spiritual windshield wipers that I really like that analogy. Kennedy really liked boating. And so he drew these pictures of sailboats. You can imagine the entire world is about to blow itself up. and if he's not careful, he's gonna contribute to that. The idea of just getting out of that, zooming out, sort of calming his mind, you can see

how valuable and important that would be. Think about the stresses of the missile crisis. It makes sense why he's writing on it. He wants to dump out his anger and his frustration and his fears and the ideas that he's writing on, he wants to dump out his anger and his frustration and his fears and the ideas that he's workshopping where there are low stakes so he can perform better where there's really high stakes. So I think journaling's a really important part of it.

I actually do this journal every single day that daily still journal 366 days of writing and reflection on the art of living by yours truly and my co-writer and translator, Stephen Hanselman. There's a question in the morning, a question in the afternoon, and then there's these sort of weekly meditations. As Epictetus says, every day and night we keep thoughts like this at hand, write them, read them aloud, and talk to yourself and others about them.

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