The Daily Stoic - It's Not About Manifesting, It's About Taking Action | Spendthrifts Of Time

Episode Date: December 9, 2021

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Hey, prime members, you can listen to the Daily Stoic Podcast early and add free on Amazon music. Download the app today. Welcome to another episode of the Daily Stoic Podcast. On Thursdays, we do double duty, not just reading our daily meditation, but also reading a passage from the book, the Daily Stoic, but also reading a passage from the book, The Daily Stoic, 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance in the Art of Living, which I wrote with my wonderful co-author and collaborator, Stephen Hanselman. And so today, we'll give you a quick meditation from one of the Stoics, from Epititus Markis, really, as Seneca, then some analysis for me, and then we send you out into the world to do your best to turn these words into works. Is this thing all?

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Download the Amazon Music app today! It's not about manifesting. It's about taking action. The things you think about determine the quality of your mind, Mark's really is wrote. Your soul takes on the color of your thoughts. Does that mean that Marcus and the Stokes believed in the law of attraction, the belief that the universe creates whatever it is you focus your thoughts on, as popularized by the authors of the secret? We get asked this question a lot at Daily Stoke. People read about the Stoke discipline of perception,

the idea that we are defined by our thoughts, and draw a parallel to the practice of manifesting. While the Stoics did believe that our thoughts were extremely powerful, that our worldview does influence what we see, it's important to note that in Stoicism, the discipline of perception is inseparable from the discipline of action,

which itself is followed by a discipline all about acceptance. For the Stoics, action is the critical variable to making happen what you want to happen. As obvious as this sounds, we get the opposite advice from the law of attraction. As they put it, what we do is we attract into our lives the things we want, and that is based on what we are thinking. And one disciple writes, you did not come into this environment to take action they warned, is to insult the universe's power of manifestation. Nowhere in the Stoics where you find the advice to sit around, to think positive thoughts

and wait for the universe to magically solve your problems. A life is assembled, Marcus said, action by action. No where does Sennaka write to Lissilius write yourself a check for a million dollars, and then wait. No, rouse yourself to action, he tells him. Shake off your habit of overthinking with hard work. So yes, the discipline of perception is important,

but mainly because it sets you up to take the action necessary to bring into reality that which you perceive. Stoicism has nothing to do with manifesting. It is a philosophy of action. It's a philosophy of action we might add design for an unpredictable world that is largely outside of our control. Historic things, acts, and then accepts. They do not dream, expect, and wait, because they are not naive, entitled children.

Spend Thrifts of Time. This is the entry from December 9th. We're all the geniuses of history to focus on this single theme that could never fully express their bafflement at the darkness of the human mind. No person would give up even an inch of their estate, and the slightest dispute with a neighbor can mean hell to pay, yet we easily let others encroach on our lives. Worse, we often pave the way for those who will take it over No person hands out money to a passerby But how often do each of us hand out our lives? We're tight-fisted with property and money and yet think too little of wasting time the one thing for which we all should be

the toughest Miser's the one thing for which we all should be the toughest meisers. Seneca on the shortness of life, three, one. And I'm reading to you today from the Daily Stoic, 366 meditations on wisdom, perseverance, and the art of living by yours truly. And my co-author and translator, Steve Enhancelman, you can get signed copies, by the way,

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Today, there will be endless interruptions, phone calls, emails, visitors, unexpected events. Booker T. Washington observed that the number of people who stand ready to consume one's time to no purpose is almost countless. A philosopher on the other hand knows that their default state should be one of reflection and inner awareness. This is why they so diligently protect their personal space and their thoughts from the intrusions of the world. They know that a few minutes of contemplation are worth more than any meeting or report. They also know how little time we're actually given in life. Now quickly our stores can be depleted. Seneca reminds us that while we might be good at protecting our physical property, we are far too lax at enforcing our mental boundaries.

Property can be regained. Property can be regained. There's quite a bit out there. Some of it still remaining untouched by man, but time, time is our most irreplaceable asset. We cannot buy more of it. It can only strive to waste as little of it as possible. I say this in some of my talks, right? If your neighbor came over and stole your car or started building on your property, you'd be like, what the hell is this? And you'd call the police or the homeowners association

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Follow Spellcaster wherever you get your podcasts. Hey, prime members, you can listen to episodes Add Free on Amazon Music. Download the Amazon Music app today. But if your neighbor sucks you in with gossip, if your neighbor sucks you in with drama, if your neighbor comes over and talks about God knows what, you're afraid to say something you don't want to be rude, right? Well, everyone else is going, I guess I have to go. I mean, you are spending something you can never get back your time.

This is something I struggle with. Obviously, as a somewhat public figure, people come up, they want to talk, they want to say things, they want to take pictures, they want me to do things. I get an unending amount of requests into my inbox. And I do try to respond, I try to be kind and I get something out of it too. But I have to remember that I'm taking this time from somewhere. It is depleting an account. That account, not just me, that I'll never get back, but also time that I promise to my children, to my family, to my work, right? We only have so much time. It is an asset. It is the most precious asset in the world. That's why

billion dollar companies are built around this so-called attention economy, attention time from people is the most valuable resource there is. Look, Facebook is one of the world's most valuable companies and it's free. Nobody pays for it. Why is that? Because Facebook has managed to capture people's time, you're a time, so they then sell the other people, right? Because you're not paying for it. It's a sign, you are the product that's being sold. We have to protect our time. I've told this story many times, but I'm looking here over my right shoulder. I've got this little picture hanging on my wall that Dr. Jonathan Fader gave me. It says, no, it's a picture of all of her sex saying no, have to say no,

you have to say no to lots of things. You have to say no to the phone, no to the request, no to the, can you come in on Sunday, no to the, we're all going to get together and do X, Y, or Z. That is, if you don't want to do those things, if it is not a good use of your time. Senaqa says, of course, we have to spend time that there should be a return on this time, right? Because you're investing the thing that you can't get back. It's your most precious capital. So when I reminder today, as we wrap up this year, I'm sure all of us can look back and think of the ways that we inefficiently spend our time. And I hope we can do better not starting next year, but starting right now. As we talk about this new year, new you, we're going to talk about that in the new,

new challenge coming up soon. Stay tuned. But I hope that in the new year, this new you starting actually right now, that you are not a spend, thrift with time. Do what you want with your money. You can get more of that. Treat your property however you want. You can get more of that. You cannot get more time. No one can. Jeff Bezos can't buy more time. Mark Zuckerberg can't buy more time. Oprah Winfrey can't buy more time. That's why they spend their money on things that free them up. They use their power. They have staff to protect them from imposition, to protect them from those neighbors, from those people, from those

interruptions that would steal that time. Protect your time, you can't get more of it. That's what Memento Mori is a constant reminder of. I hope you'll take that point today. Thanks so much for listening to the Daily Stoke Podcast. Again, if you don't know this, you can get these delivered to you via email every day. You just go to dailystoke.com slash email. So check it out at dailystoke.com slash email. Hey, prime members, you can listen to the Daily Stoic Early and Add Free on Amazon Music, download the Amazon

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