The Daily Stoic - It’s Time To Change (And You Know It) | Keep The Rhythm

Episode Date: December 9, 2024

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do a deeper dive setting a kind of stoic intention for the week, something to meditate on something to think on something to leave you with to journal about whatever it is you happen to be doing. So let's get into it. It's time to change and you know it. We've been this way for a while. We're set in our ways.

We continue to be someone with a short fuse, someone who eats poorly, someone who can't stick to an exercise routine, who has a mean streak, who is too timid. Maybe you don't like to try very hard or you don't think you're good enough. And how is that working out for you? Why do you keep going down a road that leads to nowhere?

Marcus Relius talks about how crazy it is that we just go on staying the same person we've always been, how we just keep being mauled and degraded by the life we're living. And for what? It's not even pleasurable. It's not getting us what we want. People who can't change, people who refuse to change, he says, are like those animal fighters at the games torn half to pieces covered in blood and gore still begging to be held over tomorrow to be bitten and clawed again. This is the definition of insanity, they say. It's doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. There's nothing sadder than a person who can't grow,

can't turn over a new leaf, who cannot take a leap of faith forward into the dark. You've got to be willing to change. You must change. You must get better. Not later, not eventually, but now. And what if this year, what if 2025 could be the year you lived up to your potential?

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Starts on January 1st, but you gotta sign up now. The Daily Stoic New Year, New You Challenge begins on January 1st, 2025. And sign up at dailystoic.com slash challenge. Keep the rhythm. This is from this week's entry in the Daily Stoic Journal, 366 days of writing and reflection on the art of living. Marcus Aurelius must have known that as emperor

he was part of a grand and great history. As a philosopher he knew that all people are part of the rhythm pulsing through both history and their own lives. He liked to remind himself not to lose that beat. Return to your philosophy, he would tell himself when he drifted. Don't give in to distractions.

In fact, he tried constantly to return to it. That kind of awareness, that paying special attention is something he learned reading from Epictetus. He told his students that while none of us can be perfect, we can catch ourselves when we begin to slide, when we drift from where we should be. So can you feel that rhythm this week? Can you point to examples when you really feel

locked into it? And we have two quotes from Marcus and one from Epictetus. Walk the long gallery of the past, of empires, of kingdoms, succeeding each other without number. You can also see the future, for surely it will be exactly the same, unable to deviate

from the present rhythm. It's all one, whether we've experienced 40 years or an aeon. What more is there to see? That's Meditation 749. And then Meditation 611, he says, when forced as it seems by circumstances into utter confusion, get a hold of yourself quickly. Don't be locked out of the rhythm any longer than necessary. You'll be able to keep the beat

if you are constantly returning to it. And then Epictetus' Discourses 412, he says, when you let your attention slide for a bit, don't think you will get back a grip on it whenever you wish. Instead, bear in mind that perhaps because of today's mistake, everything that follows will be necessarily worse. Is it possible to be free of error? No, not by any means, but it is possible for a person to always be stretching to avoid error. And we must be content to at least escape a few mistakes

by never letting our attention slide. There was something I was just thinking about as I read this to you. Wrote a blog post, I'm looking at this. This is March 4th, 2012. Trust me, I'm lying, it's mostly written, but it's not out. I've moved to New Orleans, transitioning towards a sort of a different life. And anyways, I wrote a blog post on my site

called Return to Philosophy, and I'll read it to you. I have written this post before, but it remains a common theme. The busier we get, the more we work and learn and read, the further we drift. We get in a rhythm, we're making money, being creative, we're stimulated and busy. It seems like everything is going well,

but we drift further and further from philosophy. So we must catch ourselves and return to it. Pick up meditations, Seneca, Plutarch, Hideo, our note cards of quotes and reminders, anything from that shelf of great books. Stop and evaluate. Read something that challenges, then informs. No matter how much learning or work or thinking we do, none of it matters unless it happens against the backdrop of exhortative analysis. The kind rooted in the deep study of the mind and emotion

and demands that we hold ourselves to certain standards. We must turn to the practical, to the spiritual exercises of great men and actively use them. It's the only way we'll get anything out of the rest of our efforts. It's simple. Stop learning or working for a second and refine.

Put aside all the momentum and the moment, tap the brakes, return to philosophy. And then I found the other post, which is, wow, dated December 22, 2009. So, wow, I guess I'm 22. And I wrote, lately I have felt off. As I felt down, it occurred to me how long it had been since I sat down and read philosophy. I knew I should fix this, but I didn't.

A new book would come and I'd immediately pick it up. I'd think I've spent so little time reading now, it would be a shame to sit down with something I've read before. But this was a sham. What I was doing was distracting myself. It's what Steven Pressfield calls the resistance. I made myself busy so that I would have no chance to feel better. I knew that philosophy requires work

and self-criticism and one inevitable conclusion that my problems were almost entirely my own fault. Their resolution requires an active process that only I can initiate. Philosophy is the tool with which to do so. As one would say, and I think this is Marcus Aurelius, I'm quoting, doctors carry their tools on their person, or more ideally a boxer's tools are their person. We should seek to do the same. There is no excuse for being too busy or too distracted, nor is there any alternative. So anyways, if you feel like you're slipping a little bit, know that I do that too, and I have now for well over a decade and a half.

And you just pick yourself back up, you go back to the rhythm as Marcus Aurelius says, you pick up your philosophy, you return to it, you keep going. So I'll leave you there, and I hope you pick up the rhythm this week and I'll talk to you soon. Hey it's Ryan, thank you for listening to the Daily Stoic podcast. I just wanted to

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