The Daily Stoic - Joy Even So (Part 2) | Pretend Today Is The End

Episode Date: December 1, 2023

On his way to work each day in Boston, John Adams would hear a man singing. As his great biographer David McCollough writes in John Adams, it was a beautiful, almost joyful song that inspired him as he headed to his law office in the mornings. One day, Adams decided to track the source of the music down. Inside a single room house, packed to the brim with a large family, he found a poor shoemaker. Sensing that the man was struggling, Adams ordered a pair of shoes as a gesture of charity. As they settled the transaction, Adams asked if the man had trouble getting by.✉️ Sign up for the Daily Stoic email: https://dailystoic.com/dailyemail🏛 Check out the Daily Stoic Store for Stoic inspired products, signed books, and more.📱 Follow us: Instagram, Twitter, YouTube, TikTok, FacebookSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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turn these words into works. Joy, even so, part two. On his way to work, each day in Boston, John Adams would hear a man singing. As his great biographer, David McCullough writes in John Adams, it was a beautiful, almost joyful song that inspired him as he headed into his law office in the mornings. One day Adams decided to track down this source of music. Inside a single room house packed to the brim with a large family, he found a poor shoemaker sensing that the man was struggling Adams ordered a pair of shoes as a gesture of charity, as they settled the transaction,

Adam's asked if the man had trouble getting by. Sometimes the man said, Yet as soon as Adam's left, the singing resumed, just as beautifully, Adam's noted as a night and go. The contrast of it all struck him deeply. Here was a man who was by his own admission struggling. Here was a man who lived in obvious poverty in stifling conditions, but filled the world with happy music, not for the show of it,

but out of his own abundance of joy. Who is the greatest philosopher? Adams would say as he reflected on the man's example, Epic Titus, or this shoemaker. We don't tend to think of the stoics as joyful, happy people, but they were. They had to be. Epictetus didn't get through those years of slavery without a sense of humor.

Indeed, his lectures make that clear. Marcus Aurelius could not have endured all that tragedy and struggle without an eye for beauty and art. John Adams tried to follow this example also, having read not only the Stoics, but was inspired by the shoemaker on his way to work, griefs upon griefs, disappointment upon disappointment. What then? This is a gay and merry world, not a standing.

That was his epitaph, as we said. We don't know if the Stoics like to sing, but we must imagine them happy, infectiously happy because they were, which is a wonderful thing for you to aspire to be also. Pretend today is the end. This is Sena's moral letters. This is the first entry December 1st from the daily stoic. Senka says, let us prepare our minds as if we'd come to the very end of life. Let us postpone nothing. Let us balance life's books each day. The one who puts the finishing touches on their life each day is never short of time. Live each day as if it's your last as a cliche, plenty of people say it, but you actually

do it. How reasonable would that be? Surely, Senaqa isn't saying that we forsake laws and considerations to find some orgy to join, because the world is ending. A better analogy would be a soldier about to leave on deployment, not knowing whether they'll return or not. What do they do? They get their affairs in order.

They handle their business. They tell their children and their family that they love them. They don't have time for quarreling or petty matters. And then in the morning, they are ready to go, hoping to come back in one piece but prepared for the possibility that they might not. Let us live today the same way.

This is something that I wrestled with, because I don't think the Stokes are saying live as if you will die tomorrow. In the sense that live as if it is certain that an asteroid is coming, that a nuclear missile has already been launched, that you're being euthanized in 24 hours. I think it's that that could happen is the way to think about it. You could leave life right now. Let that determine what you do and say and think, Mark is the saying, you could leave life, not that you will. The fact that you will, that you know for certain, it does make so many, many, many things not worth doing and pointless, right? It makes needing to plan for the future or even thinking about the future to be totally

pointless and unnecessary. Obviously, Marcus as a leader, as a ruler, as a parent, may decisions about the future all the time. He had to be, it would have been terrible had he not done that. It's thinking about the possibility accepting the reality that tomorrow is not certain that gives us, I think, the perspective that we need to make better decisions today. If I knew for certain that I wasn't going to live tomorrow, I would stop, or even that I knew I wasn't going to be alive 10 years from now,

I'd stop saving for retirement. I'd make a bunch of different decisions. But I could live into my 70s or 80s, and so I plan and save accordingly. I just also knowing that that might not happen. I don't leave things that are important to me, that I want to do, how I want to or interesting or exciting to me now before it's too late. And that is just a really important caveat to this whole memento mori thing.

It's not memento mori will nothing matters. It's on the contrary. It's that memento mori you could leave life right now. So you have to make decisions accordingly. It's a helpful perspective that highlights the beating of what's important, that highlights what's unimportant as opposed to rendering everything meaningless or insignificant. I'm not dancing because the world is coming to an end. That's to miss the point.

And also to put you in a bad spot if it doesn't happen. Right? So I just thought, this is an important day. There's a reason this opens the month, the month's meditation on mortality that is December of the Daily Stoic. It's really making this point, because I think it's easy to forget. It's not nihilism.

It's not little nothing matters. It's perspective. It's perspective. And the momentum-mory reminders that I have, whether it's the coin or the ring I've been wearing, the momentum-mory poster that we've done where you fill in how much... You could have lots and lots and lots of bubbles left, but you could also not. And it's the tension between these two things that give us the perspective that we're talking about here.

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