The Daily Stoic - Nothing Is As Encouraging As This | The Freedom of Contempt

Episode Date: April 27, 2026

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Welcome to the Daily Stoic podcast, designed to help bring those four key Stoic virtues, courage, discipline, justice, and wisdom into the real world. Why did Marcus Aurelius write his meditations? It wasn't for an audience or to practice his Greek. After all, he was already pretty accomplished in those areas. Instead, we should think about what was going on around Marcus while he was writing it. Conflicts threatened just beyond the border. Economic troubles shook Rome's foundations. A plague had ravaged the nation's populist. And that's not even mentioning all the political corruption and the backstabbing and the chaos within palace walls. And yet, Marcus doesn't seem to mention any of these events or his reactions to them.

Instead, Marcus Aurelius explores himself in the pages of meditations. He spends all of book one reflecting on what he's learned from various influential individuals in his life. Dets and Lessons, as it's titled, is 17 entries spanning nine pages in more than 2,000 words, nearly 10% of the book. And there's the fact that almost every page after contains a quote, a story, or a reference to some bit of ancient philosophy. This seems a little odd, doesn't it, that the Emperor of Rome, the most powerful man on the planet, was staying up at night exploring the idea of virtue and wisdom. Primarily, when and how he saw it embodied in others. But then when we come across a passage in book six,

it begins to make more sense. When you need encouragement, he writes, think of all the qualities of the people around you. This one's energy, this one's modesty, and others' generosity, and so on. Nothing is as encouraging as when the virtues are visibly embodied in the people around us when we're practically showered with them. It is good, he says, to keep this in mind. Mark Aeneas was writing to encourage himself during trying times. He was doing so by thinking about the people he admired and who had inspired him. He was showering himself in their virtue so that he might be improved by their association. And as far as we can tell, it worked because he was a good man, despite facing incredible temptations and pressures. And this example is, of course, rather timely.

We should not just be reading meditations, but engaging in it, reflecting on it, journaling on it, using it to become a better person. We've been doing Meditations Month here, and we've been doing a deep dive on how to read meditations. We built out this sort of annotated guide, book club exploration, explanation of meditations. It's a bunch of modules, videos, podcasts, discussions with me on how to get the most out of this book, how to use it in this moment. And we're going to be doing a Q&A.

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wear, eat, or drinks seem much better than they really are. As Emperor Marcus Aurelius could have the finest filerrhenian wine at his table at any meal, but he preferred to remind himself that this was only grapechuse. As emperor, he was the only Roman allowed to wear a purple cloak, but he took pains to point out that this cloak was like any other, just dyed with shellfish blood, so as to produce a purple hue. This week, try to practice cutting your own luxuries and the things you yearn for down to size with a little contempt. Describe them with the bluntish language you can and see how much their power over you diminishes. Just as when meat or other foods are set before us, we think this is a dead fish or a dead bird or a pig. Also, this fine wine is only the juice of a

grapes. This purple-edged robe is just sheep's wool dyed in a bit of blood from a shellfish, or of sex that is only the rubbing of private parts together followed by a spasmic discharge. In the same way our impressions grab actual events and permeate them, so we see things as they really are. Marcus Aurelius' Meditation, 613. Keep a list before your mind of all those who burn with anger and resentment about something, or even the most renowned for success, misfortune, evil deeds, or any special distinction, then ask yourself, how did it work out? Smoke and dust, the stuff of simple myth trying to be legend. That's Marcus Aurelius' Meditations, 1227. You know what wine and liquor tastes like. It makes

no difference whether 100 or 1,000 bottles pass through your bladder, you are nothing more than a filter. This is from the Daily Stoak Journal. The week's entry is titled The Freedom of Contempt. I don't know, this is long been one of my favorite exercises in all of stoicism. It's just brilliant. It's cynical. It's funny. It's really practical, too. You know, Marcus really didn't have to live in a time of Madison Avenue, advertising. It didn't live in a time of social media influencers. He didn't live in a time of propaganda and misinformation. There wasn't spinning and selling the way that there is now. And yet even then, he had to practice, you know, just seeing through all the bullshit, seeing through to what things actually were, stripping them, as he says,

of the legend that encrussed them. So when Epictetus talks about putting things to the test, this is what Marcus is doing. He says, I'm not going to get distracted by my urges, by my immediate positive reaction to this, to the way my mouth is watering when I see X or the way that my eyes get big when I see Y. It says I'm going to really break down what I see here. I'm going to describe it in the most unflinching, unvarnished, least sympathetic language possible. And I'm going to see what that reflection back to me does, how it changes my opinion of it. Right. Sometimes, you know, there's that expression about seeing how the sausage gets made. When you go and see the sausage, gets made, or you see, you know, underneath things, they lose their power over you. And that's what

this Stoic practice is really about. And it's so important. It's not that you'll never enjoy this or that ever again. It's just you want to enjoy it with the deceit turned down a little bit, the legend, a little more thread there. And this is an active practice we have to go through. So as you, as you walk out in a parking lot and you, you know, you see a Lexus. Remind yourself, this is just a Toyota. with fancier branding, right? When you see a $300 pair of nikes, remind yourself of the sweatshop that this was likely made in.

When you hear someone talking about how they are a billionaire, remind yourself just how dumb a lot of billionaires have turned out to be, right? When you're intimidated by someone's fancy degree, again, remind yourself who else has graduated from that institution. Think of the corruption.

Think of the evil ideas that have come out of that institution over the years. Again, this isn't to dismiss or demean the things entirely. It's just to counteract that impulse of jealousy, of envy, of lust, of fear. There's that expression about if you see a beautiful woman that somewhere someone is sick of that person's shit. And that's true for everything, every person, it'll take it down a peg and then help you see it a tad more rationally.